An Open Letter to the RallyPoint Community - Why are you here?

2017-02-24T11:39:15-05:00

Over the past few months I, along with several other User Admins, have been hit with complaints about people's behavior. Most of these reports come out of people acting disrespectfully towards another normally centered around a political post. Every day, countless posts from both sides of the political line are posted. I was hoping that after the election was over and people settled back into their routines these posts would start to dwindle in number but sadly, that isn't the case. In fact, I think people's reactions only made people want to share more. Other social media sites are covered as well but here I think it's different.

I understand that for many of you, this is your one stop shop for social media actives. And I understand that you have the right to voice your thoughts and concerns but what I don't get and what I will not tolerate is the name calling and personal attacks. I think for some of you, you are so wrapped up on what others have said or done that you yourself are losing touch with reality. Rather than finding a healthy way to express your feelings you are just so hyper-focus that it's causing damage to yourself. Some of the actions I've seen here are simply not healthy.

When RallyPoint first started. it was started to a place where service members and veterans can come to get connected with others and get answers to their questions. Now, with over 1.1 million members we are still that place but have this dirty shadow following us.

So the question I have for you, as one of the original members and as one of the Senior User Admins of this site; why are you here? Are you here to connect with your brothers and sisters-in-arms and to help provide meaningful answers to questions or are you here in some effort to spread your ideals onto others? Why do some of you feel the need to attack others just based on the fact that they voted for someone different? When will you pause and step away to realize that no one person can make American great again, to do that takes all of us. It takes all of us to come together, support the powers to be and hold them accountable as a collective body.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2017 11:45 AM

2017-02-24T11:45:08-05:00

What a thoughtful post. Thank you for addressing this issue publicly. I don't really read too much about politics (I'm mostly her to ask questions about service and catch up on memes) so I don't see too much of this. What can we do as a community to help? Someone once argued that what they've been posting was just them excersizing they're freedom of speech, but it seems to be more harmful than helpful.

I joined to avoid the black hole of Facebook and all the politics, and I agree that it's gotten out of hand here. My reverse ask is this: what can those who don't engage (feed the trolls) do to help stop this?

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2017 11:46 AM

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I'm here for pretty much the same reasons SMSgt Minister Gerald A. "Doc" Thomas said.........and to throw in humor because we all need to laugh.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2017 11:47 AM

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Politics has torn this country apart people are so deep in their political beliefs they won't accept no other answer but what they want to hear. Now it's affected our military I have friends on my Facebook who are military who say they won't protect Democrat and or Republican citizens. Washington warned us about political parties and the damage they can do now look at the consequences.

Response by TSgt Dawn Premock made Feb 24 at 2017 11:48 AM

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I just pass by the posts that are political. There has been too much. We need to be here for our veterans.

Response by CPT Gary Jugenheimer made Feb 24 at 2017 11:48 AM

2017-02-24T11:48:51-05:00

Thanks for asking....I am here to share in the knowledge and experiences of the members of this site....I am not here to criticize, condemn, embarrass, or make posts that offend my brothers in the military.....I do hope that what we all do here is constructive and contributes to the greater good of all the members.....those that have motives other than what I have stated do not belong in my part of the world and they are not welcome!

Response by SPC Anthony Ingersoll made Feb 24 at 2017 11:49 AM

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Real soldiers should act in a respectable manner when communicating with other soldiers or public. Unfortunately there are those bad apples in every batch.

Response by SSG(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2017 11:49 AM

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I originally came here in 2011 timeframe (I think) to connect and network with other military personnel. Yes, I post on politically-themed threads here, because, well it seems that's all that is around mostly. But I do still look for threads where I can share my experiences and knowledge, as well as learn something new as well.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2017 11:49 AM

2017-02-24T11:49:49-05:00

Well said SGT Ben Keen and you're absolutely right. I may have also been guilty of some name-calling due to some political posts NF started touching myself to not continue to engage in those types of conversations because politics is not an easy subject between fellow soldiers.

I came to Rally Point to find fellow soldiers I served with and to meet new ones to learn from others and hopefully help others as well. I do think a lot of us want to see the greater sign but again politics and religion are hard subject to not put your personal opinion in hopefully other members can stop themselves before engaging in negative conversation and just walk away. Thank you for sharing

Response by SSgt Robert Marx made Feb 24 at 2017 11:58 AM

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I view RallyPoint as my favorite social media site and I find it very encouraging to be able to connect with veterans, many who are retired, are still serving, or are veterans embarked on the rest of their respective lifetimes. Service to others, whether to individuals or communities, is a privilege which can be lost due to indiscretion, crimes committed, or ostracism. We veterans are often a group with strong convictions and we tend to take affiliation with our group think to be paramount. As social people, especially while interacting with like-minded people in this platform, we should place priority upon keeping this venue secure, safe, and friendly. Becoming focused on trees within the forest of RallyPoint can lead to bad behavior because we tend to personalize our respective opinions and group affiliations. Let us all strive to respect each other's right to identification and while discussing topics be mindful that opinion is what it is and not implicitly a threat to others [eliminating those holding hate group affiliations].

Response by SGT Dave Tracy made Feb 24 at 2017 12:13 PM

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I'm here because I want to be.

I realize that doesn't actually MEAN anything, but I assure you the reasons behind my use of the word "want" are many.

For other's benefit, I would correct one thing you wrote above SGT Ben Keen. You stated we have a "[right] to voice [our] thoughts and concerns..."; however, as this is NOT the public square, that "right" rests solely with those who own and run the site. RallyPoint really is free to do with this site what they wish, and can proctor it accordingly without violating freedom of speech. That is their right.

Response by Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen made Feb 24 at 2017 12:18 PM

2017-02-24T12:18:57-05:00

Great question. For me I'm on RP to connect and interact with like minded individuals. As most of us know being in the military instills a different perspective towards just about everything. RP provides a way to filter out all the "noise" found on other social media sites. I do think that there has been a significant increase in political related questions/discussions but I pretty much just choose to ignore them and write most off as signs of the crazy election cycle we just went through. Frankly I look at discussing politics on RP the same as discussing politics at family holiday gatherings... don't do it. Perhaps some of the berating being seen is in fact due to our military backgrounds. So often we have to hold back on things for one reason or another while in the military. RP gives us a way to sort of anonymously vent and when that strikes a button on someone else they react without really realizing they're responding to a person, not an anonymous computer.

Response by CPT Jack Durish made Feb 24 at 2017 12:26 PM

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I belong to RP to share comradery with those who serve/served. To discuss those things which are important to us and to share stories, maybe even seek help and advice or provide it. We all were hoping that the political firestorm would die down once the election was past, but that was not to be. The community unhappy with the results insists on belaboring the issue. However, they have every right to complain as we have every right to respond. Sadly, there has been disrespect in some quarters fueled by the rancor accompanying America's political divide. It certainly is nothing unique to RP. Indeed, it is far better contained here than elsewhere. But remember that "disrespect" is often in the eye of the beholder. So, everyone needs to take a deep breath, a shot of demon rum, and learn to laugh. Hey we all laughed our way through the worst that DI's and enemies could throw at us, didn't we?

Response by SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth made Feb 24 at 2017 12:41 PM

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I'm on here to talk to other members, and try not to get to caught up in politics. Occasionally I know someone takes offense and lets me know about it. You learn from mistakes.

Response by CSM William DeWolf made Feb 24 at 2017 1:25 PM

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I'm here to mentor and/or assist my fellow service members and veterans!

Response by SFC Stephen King made Feb 24 at 2017 1:27 PM

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Great question

I am here to provide any additional assistance to others with their questions. Also to connect with all people. Lastly, share a quote or positive note to help people get through their day w/a positive outlook.

Response by MCPO Roger Collins made Feb 24 at 2017 1:28 PM

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Communication with other Vets and Military Retirees, on a wide variety of topics. RPs success as opposed to military dot com should be evidence your policies are far better. There are mant ways to avoid individual/s if one doesn't like the tenor or tone, that's what I do. Leave things as is and communicate with anyone that crosses the line.

Response by SFC William H. made Feb 24 at 2017 1:49 PM

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I joined this site (group) a couple months ago. I missed the military comraderie. There is some here, but you have to look for it. I was going to delete last week but decided to learn how to use the site to find what I was looking for. I find if I use the site the way it was designed, I like it. I am figuring out that if I stay out of politics and religion its a great social site. I will stay. On another point, I do read the profiles now to see where some vets are coming from. It helps.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2017 1:51 PM

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I am tired of FB, twitter, et al. I wanted some place to connect with the military (former and current) mindset. Yea, some of the political posts have got out of hand. I ignore them. Anytime you let people loiter it will happen! ;)

The other reason I am here is to help individuals where I can.

Response by CPO Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2017 1:54 PM

2017-02-24T13:54:11-05:00

I don't know about everyone else But I have several reasons for being here. First is to learn from those who have come before me. Just today another RP member gave me a great tip that will help improve the lives of my Sailors and Airmen. The second is to pass on the knowledge and wisdom I have inherited form the leaders I have served with. Third is to hear and share all those entertaining 'Well see what happened was" Stories because lets face it we all get a kick and a laugh out of them.

The Political posts / commentaries, the threads that end up with long discussions I for the most part enjoy. I have not really seen anyone be overly aggressive or rude, I hope no one has thought me to be, The wonderful thing about the internet is if your offended you can turn it off and go do something else. The reason I enjoy the debates and conversations on RP is because we ALL have one unifying point, we all Serve or have Served. It doesn't matter our political faction / religion / gender/ identity / color / creed/ or ect. We have all signed on that line, so when I hear an opposing view I read / listen to it I try and see where they are coming from and then I offer my own. There are moments when others have offered facts and evidence that has swayed me to their side of the conversation (I admit grudgingly at times lol) But I think most of us have learned from the Military to evaluate the world and what we see not by perception but by facts in evidence. I digress, I will end this with saying I enjoy the conversations on RP Political or other wise, How can I grow as a person if I only surround myself with like minded people.

If I am the sum of my parts and knowledge how can I be more with out adding more?

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2017 2:24 PM

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This is a great question to ask the community and it will be interesting reading the responses.

Personally I am here for me! I need Rally Point and what it has to offer. I need the camaraderie, the spirit of friendship and fellowship this group brings to the table. How we can keep each other upbeat and sane despite what challenges or circumstances we face. We all have demons or skeletons lurking in our minds and thoughts and it's a good feeling knowing that others understand. That others are their if you need them. We can be the best healers of ourselves. We are the only ones who get the brother and sisterhood we share. We are all patriots and love this country regardless of our philosophies and political leanings. My hope is that we don't lose that kinship we share because of the hostilities that develop in some of these threads that have been populating the forum. Remember who we are and what we mean to this country because we are a select few. If we start forgetting their will be no one to remember. We who are still around are the best preservers of those who have passed. We have vast knowledge past and present to share not only with our fellow veterans but our communities. And remember the worst thing to happen is to be forgotten! God Bless everyone!

Best Regards and Much Respect
Curt

Response by SFC J Fullerton made Feb 24 at 2017 2:29 PM

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I am here because I still love the Army and proud to have called the military my career. Occasionally, someone asks a question that I have a great deal of experience in. I try to assist and share that knowledge, just has I would have when I was wearing the hard stripes. I am just as guilty for jumping into the "political" topics, usually out of curiosity, but sometimes can't resist throwing in my two cents even though it may go against the majority of the posters. In which case I am then a troll, leftie, progressive, liberal, or whatever. Even though I don't consider myself any of those. I just call it like I see it, and some of the BS that gets posted here is just so over the top that I can't help but to call it BS. But yes, RP has turned into a Right Wing platform for political commentary and I am losing interest in it. Sadly, I think we are losing a good portion of our currently serving members and new members who get the impression that this not much more than a political chat room for the old timers.

Response by MSG Wade Huffman made Feb 24 at 2017 2:37 PM

2017-02-24T14:37:18-05:00

Thanks for bringing this up. I used to be a very active member of RP, but a couple years ago, I noticed this issue beginning to build. That is when I became a much less active member. I get plenty of politics outside of FB.

Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2017 2:51 PM

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I am here to connect with fellow brothers and sisters, mentor, and share information. I would like it if political posts were not allowed on RallyPoint.

Response by Lt Col Scott Shuttleworth made Feb 24 at 2017 3:04 PM

2017-02-24T15:04:24-05:00

Awesome question so let me pontificate (dang...used my ten dollar word too early). I have never Facebooked, tweeted, snapchatted etc. Just never had the desire because I just didn't want to get wrapped up in all of that. I stumbled upon RallyPoint when I was looking up an old friend. I looked up what it was designed for and got a user id and logon and began reading some posts. It drew me in because I have a lot in common with the folks on here and there are some good discussions. I have laughed and learned a lot and hopefully parted some of my wisdom (that bank drains quickly). However, there are some that are way out of line. Some have stated they want an honest debate but when you question those people, they go on the attack and then when you question them about the personal attacks, they reattack calling people thin skinned and too sensitive etc and telling them they need to get over the issue or make fun of the way they answered (spelling/language etc). I am all for a good spirited discussion...that is what makes us great. However, we have lost the art to be able to agree to disagree, drink a beer so to speak, and move on. We will never agree on most topics. We shouldn't...that is dangerous. However, we should be able to see, not necessary fully understand, another's point of view and then move on. It doesn't have to be personal. When we attack someone about the way they write, speak, type, or pontificate (there it is again) and make it personal, there is nothing professional about that on a Professional social media site. Some people are better authors and writers than others...some are more "educated"...HOWEVER, the great equalizer is that we have prayed, bled, trained, fought, and deployed together. Our uniqueness brings us together and we shouldn't be breaking each other down. I have to admit, I got drawn into a heated discussion one time and felt horrible that I perpetuated it...since then I just read the posts and if they are obscene or personally attack another member, I just move on. As a matter of fact, I set out of RP for a couple of weeks because the posts were getting out of hand. I enjoy humor and good stories as well. However, IMHO there are posts that really just don't belong on RP because they have nothing to do with the military, veterans issues, active duty questions, or anything like that. To me that is what FB et al is for. Thanks to the Admins for policing as best you can...with over 1 million members, I know it is difficult so wherever we can help like notifying you where I believe there is an inappropriate post, I will.

Response by Maj Marty Hogan made Feb 24 at 2017 3:10 PM

2017-02-24T15:10:03-05:00

I originally was invited in by a colleague. Better than Linked In and not as charged as Facebook with the best qualities of each. Networking is important in my job and the things I do outside my job. I enjoy the humor, history, and motivation. I always partake in some of the political rhetoric in so far as how the media portrays news, getting people to think about sources, etc. The past few weeks have encountered several vehement posters and choose to ignore them. I purposely will veer from the political and focus on the historical. I reserve the right to drop a funny meme now and again and share good music as those I share with reciprocate with the same. I am here to serve others and learn myself.

Response by LTC Stephen F. made Feb 24 at 2017 3:35 PM

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Since I joined the RallyPoint community, a little less than 2 years ago, I have had several friends die and many more leave for various and sundry reasons.
I do my best to be respectful to all others in person and in my posts and responses, comments on RallyPoint. Many RallyPoint members are respectful.
I try to reason with the disrespectful people which works some time to improve interaction.
Thanks for seeking our responses to an intriguing discussion SGT Ben Keen
Thanks for mentioning me SMSgt Minister Gerald A. "Doc" Thomas
FYA SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL SP5 Mark Kuzinski TSgt Joe C. LTC Stephen C. Capt Seid Waddell CW5 Private RallyPoint Member SFC William Farrell SSgt Private RallyPoint Member SPC Private RallyPoint Member SrA Christopher Wright Maj William W. 'Bill' Price Capt Tom Brown SSG James J. Palmer IV aka "JP4" SSgt Robert Marx SGT Robert George PO2 Ed C. COL Mikel J. Burroughs

Response by SGT Philip Roncari made Feb 24 at 2017 3:54 PM

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I joined Rallypoint for the express reason to connect with people who have been in the Military,because I feel only those who have taken the Oath and worn our Country's uniform would understand my memories and values of service to our Nation,narrow minded that may be,but us old folks are like that.

Response by MSgt Neil Greenfield made Feb 24 at 2017 4:12 PM

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I'm here because the military has been so much a part of my life, when I was a Civil Air Patrol Cadet in my teen years, entering the Army right out of high school, and retiring from the Air Guard. Even as a scout before all of that. RP is a community that I can be a part of where you can associate with others that have served. In other words, the military runs through me veins. I have a need to serve. A lot of my family has served. I do still volunteer for various things as I see it as my civic duty to do so. I probably will always be a volunteer for something. Sometimes, the way the military operates seems to make more sense than every civilian job I've had, even defense contracting.
I do get tired of the name calling I've seen, and a lot more of the political posts seem to be of the far right, which I will admit tend to get under my skin. Sometimes I respond and call out people. Especially, when the name calling starts. I see it as conduct unbecoming. There's no room for it. Sometimes I overreact when I should just leave it alone. If I post something, I try to post authentic information. But just because it doesn't match what you agree with doesn't mean it isn't factual and authentic.
It's all about perspective. Just because you disagree with a news site doesn't make it fake news. I try to look at all news sites, whichever way they lean.
Except for all of the political posts (which I should ignore really) and the name calling I see at times, RP is a good site to belong to.

Response by SPC David Weddig made Feb 24 at 2017 4:18 PM

2017-02-24T16:18:04-05:00

I came to RP to reconnect to my military past and to see if the gripe sheet has changed at all in the last 20 years. I enjoy the stories of the past and present soldiers, airmen, and sailors.
If I want political rants I'll go online to a media website.

Response by CMSgt Mark Schubert made Feb 24 at 2017 4:21 PM

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It's simple for me - I can't get enough of the brotherhood and this site brings me a piece of that. I know I've gotten a few down votes (if you play the game long enough, you will too) and I apologize to anyone I may have offended.
Furthermore, any recovery starts with a fearless moral inventory of yourself and once you get rid of the junk, you are in a much better place to help others.
I'm here to be part of a team to help others.

Response by SPC Saundra Teater made Feb 24 at 2017 4:22 PM

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I am here because my Army experience was the really first place I had to define who I became now. The good, the bad, the stupid, and the hilarious. I think like you. I don't get why everyone has gone as far as they have on politics today. Honestly, I am concerned about where our government is taking us. I don't think we want to go where they are heading. But for me, I blame everyone in our government for where we are now, so usually that takes the wind out of their sails when they start getting upset on a post or opinion for either side. But I do have some that take it too far because, to them, I HAVE to believe as they do. But I keep those things to my other groups. Here, I will argue for probably only two reasons. Disrespecting the flag, because I believe that the flag is not political but more as a representation of every American. It has noting to do with government. And someone who who tries to cheapen a soldiers military experience. Like if someone tries to say that being a pow is not anything to be proud of. Those set me off.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2017 4:30 PM

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Connect with others? Yes
Help others? Yes
Spreading ideals? Yes, mythbusting health & fitness and technology
Why bash others? Because they bash what they do not understand about fitness and open, erm, politics. . . . nevermind.
"We the People" starts with the initiative of a few. . .

Oh, and learn from others' experiences and knowledge.

Out

Response by Capt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2017 4:32 PM

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I am here to just enjoy military people expressing their opinions and views and to offer help if asked.

Response by Cpl Mark A. Morris made Feb 24 at 2017 4:44 PM

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I'm confident, myself and my company belong here among fellow veterans and active duty persons.
It has been a bit of a learning curve and there appears to be a few with a harsh agenda. But, for the most part, I enjoy being part of the solution posting in an informed way and respectful manner.
M. Morris RVT

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2017 4:52 PM

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Why am I here? ...I am a recently Retired Army Major (2015) that had a career that spanned over 31 yrs....I would hope that my shared experiences would be of some value to other Service men and women that are here...I guess its the leader in me that wants to share with others...Teach-Coach-Mentor and Lead by example...If I can help or lead someone to a solution to a problem that I may have had some experience with...thats a very good thing...Good Mentors are hard to find even with all the tools we have, and briefings we have had that say it is an essential part of the Leader-Subordinate and Peer to Peer relationship. I enjoy spending time here, more than any other social network.

I have always had a policy of staying away from political and religious topics especially in a public forum for the very reason it can come to personal verbal attacks and possibly worse...In nearly all environments I have worked in (except exclusively military environments)...any discussion that results in elevated, loud, profane dialogue, that may or can escalate to physical blows...by regulation or Code of Conduct the discussion must end some punitive action may take place.

I have seen plenty of politically or religiously charged posts...I basically ignore them and move on. Some people are very outward with their political view points...I caution everyone that once your post is put out on the internet, it is there forever...You may say something out of anger for example and now everyone knows it...Friends, Family, Colleagues...future employers?...Be careful what you post...

Keep this in mind..."I swear or affirm to support and defend the Constitution of the United States against all enemies foreign and domestic"

Response by CSM Thomas McGarry made Feb 24 at 2017 4:57 PM

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I for one actually like the political discussions, however I will agree sometimes personal attacks etc happen after which I generally discontinue my replies. I also joined to offer and receive TA from other service members both Active and Retired who are in the know!!

Response by PO1 Brian Austin made Feb 24 at 2017 4:57 PM

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I'm here for the camaraderie, shared experiences, hear different viewpoints, interact with mostly like minded individuals and maybe seek help or learn a thing a two.
I overdosed on all the political stuff, even before the election.

Response by SGT Steve Hines-Saich B.S. M.S. Cybersecurity made Feb 24 at 2017 5:09 PM

2017-02-24T17:09:07-05:00

I am here in support of my fellow veterans.

Response by SP5 Robert Ruck made Feb 24 at 2017 5:24 PM

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Thank you so much for this post. I came here hoping to connect with fellow Veterans and share experiences, both military and civilian. FB got so hateful with political posts I began to just ignore all the political junk and post and read animal and human interest type stories. Lately here on RP I have begun to see more political posts with attached animosity. Also on a military oriented site I have seen some very disrespectful comments regarding our President. To me this is unacceptable. Disagree as you will with policy but name calling and innuendos do not contribute positively to any discussion. Just my two cents.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2017 5:53 PM

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As a National Guardsman, I'm here to get my fix of military life between drills! I enjoy discussion of military life, history, and current events as they pertain to military service. Also anything firearms related.

Response by SSgt Autum Pylant, NCC made Feb 24 at 2017 5:59 PM

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I'm here to reconnect with old friends...nothing more, nothing less. I enjoy the time I spend on RP; it takes me back in a sense, to a great time in my life...my military career. I miss being "in" desperately.

Response by SSgt Gary Andrews made Feb 24 at 2017 6:37 PM

2017-02-24T18:37:11-05:00

I joined recently because engaging in various discussions with others who have served, appeals to me. Those who have served our country, and have seen other cultures up close, tend to have a different perspective than many people on other sites. Plus....I just eat up anything military! Oooooh Rah!

Response by COL Charles Williams made Feb 24 at 2017 6:38 PM

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SGT Ben Keen I am here as this site, like no others, is for us... the "damn few." I like to give back by answering questions and providing insight when I can. I owe the Army an amount I can never repay. I also like to post things and ask questions to see what others have to say, and have experienced. I do post political articles I find, as I read a lot on line, but try not to be too slanted. I am actually generally cynical. Hopefully, I am not part of the problem. I may disagree, so I either comment or say nothing. I never get personal, or insult anyone, nor do I try to pull rank. Heck I started as an E1, an many regards, I can't believe I was a luckily to achieve what I achieved. I hate personal attacks, which are prevalent in the world of social media and online. But, you would think, since we are the "damn few," it would not happen here. But, it does. I would recommend a revision of a time honored book. Think before you speak and act.

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Response by CW2 Rob Janke made Feb 24 at 2017 6:42 PM

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I'm here to renew memories, find out what has changed since I retired, expand my views, and hopefully pass on some of my experiences. And, of course, we are all brothers/sisters with the same ideals!

Response by PO1 William "Chip" Nagel made Feb 24 at 2017 8:19 PM

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One Comment and One Comment Only, I would Like to Commend the "Admins" of the Rallypoint Community for their Devotion to Duty and finding a Middle Ground! Better Folks Than I and I commend Your Efforts!

Response by MSgt George Cater made Feb 24 at 2017 8:51 PM

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I'm here because it's as close to sitting around the Staff NCO Club shooting the bull on whatever as most of us will ever see again (being retired and in my 60's). Conversing with fellow servicemen & women of multiple generations on many subjects. My wife doesn't like to talk politics at all and this gives me and outlet for that, too.
Only been around since mid-NOV, so I don't know how it was pre-election. If I ever get (or have been) disrespectful to another RP member I hope someone slaps me down ASAP. I'm at times passionate in opinion, but don't want to be disrespectful.

Response by 1LT Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 25 at 2017 1:02 AM

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SGT Ben Keen - I joined at the suggestion of a PTSD therapist who felt it might help to find and reconnect with a few old colleagues from my evacuation hospital work who shared the very same experiences from 1970 to 1973. I stayed because it was an interesting community that shared many of my values. I left a couple of times because some harsh people take it upon themselves to impose their personal values, coerce, and threaten anyone who does not share their personal values. I do some education, health counseling, job placement, and recruiting here. I occasionally get involved in the political discussions because it sometimes seems far too many members are entrapped by the political bubble maintained by relatively rigid older veterans that insulates their opinions from any challenges. My opinion, for what it is worth, is in an environment where the administration chooses to dictate their own version of the truth as the only true catechism and dismisses any other reporting of the truth as heresy - perhaps there is some value in lifting the blinders they seek to impose to let in a little light. I personally have no stake in what happens on this site beyond hoping we broaden our perspectives. So, I come and go from time to time with the ebb and flow of my work and interest in recent content. Warmest Regards & Best Wishes, Sandy :)

Response by CPT Jacob Swartout made Feb 25 at 2017 1:17 AM

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I would rather be here than on FB. At least on RP, there is a common bond among all veterans.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 25 at 2017 1:29 AM

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I'm here to get advice and learn from others experience. I've also found that me being a new Soldier I have a view point or information that my older counterparts do not.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 25 at 2017 1:36 AM

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honestly, these reasons in pretty much this order:
1) Boredom.
2) I enjoy conversing with other veterans. I relate to y'all better than most others I know.
3) Hopefully I can do somebody some good and help others avoid the mistakes I've made when I transitioned out.

Response by SPC Brian Mason made Feb 25 at 2017 2:56 AM

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First issue: Regardless of rank, these people can respond/retaliate easier online and from behind a computer. It would take time to find the offender and punish themf or their conduct.
I'm a veteran and I still respect the rank of my fellow brothers and sisters; REGARDLESS of branch. In my opinion, the Army (only branch I have extensive experience with) has gone soft. People complain when others can't get in and the military has higher standards for very good reasons. As a Medic/EMT for my time, now working towards a Nursing degree, I'm here for all. It's not easy or simple to explain.
Too many, online or not, respond without the knowledge and without thinking. A 'witty insult or retort' is better than an intelligent discussion and/or argument. For one, I think everyone should get at least 2 years in effective Communication with people. I'm here for many reasons: mainly to help my fellow brothers and sisters in arms (again regardless of branch) in any way I can. I may be one person, but hopefully with enough 'straight talk' I can help get the military back to what it once was.
I voted for Donald Trump. I voted for his ideas and plans for the betterment of this country and ALL of it's citizens. I didn't vote for the man so much as I voted for helping us all. Without getting into lengthy detail which WILL be misconstrued by many, the Democrats (Left) have been whining and bitching for months now. What they've done to this level, didn't happen when Obama won and got reelected. If you or anyone else defines yourself as a Party over being an American, you have a serious problem.
Humans are greedy creatures. Even with nature and nurture affecting how we end up, our instinct is Me, Myself, and I. I have been guilty of acting before thinking, but I have been doing that so much less and less. Some advice, to those people: You may find yourself disliking/hating another soldier, but you MUST respect the rank. If you don't, then what good does that make our military? I've dealt with and still do, with people who get on my last nerves for various reasons, but we get along b/c it's not enough to break being civil toward each other.
I can guarantee that should one take a more informed, mature, experienced, thoughtful process to one's life, people will take notice. LDHRSHIP remember? Or has that been forgotten?

Response by CW5 Sam R. Baker made Feb 25 at 2017 5:25 AM

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I have previously answered this question or one very similar, but this one is after the election and my opinion is still the EXACT same. I do not waste my time looking at the slanderous banter of the folks and look only to assist others in solving problems or answering questions, sometimes I get mildly entertained by some of the ignorance and/or issues that folks bring up and the most important, I grow learning about the other services/branches and rank structure.

As a 30 year Army guy/dude/Soldier/NCO/Warrant Officer, I am still ignorant to the other services at times with identifying their rank, understanding the "why" of some of the things they do different from us in the Army. Frankly we are ALL supposed to be in the same team and work for the same goal, preserve our Nation and the freedoms we are allowed from it by protecting it as a TEAM.

I like the team and wish the negative attacking stuff could and would just stop, treat others as you wish to be treated is still a pretty simple rule, regardless if in person, cyber or context, and from the request, it looks like a lot of people wish to be treated pretty badly. Not this guy!

Response by SMSgt Roger Horton made Feb 25 at 2017 8:04 AM

2017-02-25T08:04:23-05:00

I came upon RP by chance. Didn't RP existed. I joined to connect with other Veterans and those still serving. Most of my life (39 years, 11 months, and 22 days) is Military. Its what I did. Its what I do. Its what I love. When the Marines Corps Reserve did away with all the MABS (Marine Air Base Squadrons) as an E-8 There was no billets open. Fortunately I was able to join 202nd RED HORSE Squadron (Florida Air National Guard). So that is why am I here. I have connected with a lot of wonderful, inspiring, positive individuals that post topics to keep the brain active. Thanks RP.

Response by MSG Jay Jackson made Feb 25 at 2017 10:30 AM

2017-02-25T10:30:41-05:00

Well Mr. Admin, RP is a great place to come and share experience, answer some tech question for young soldiers or see the current attitude of those serving in the military. We also have folks who post questions about social issues that will impact the military. These are relevant issues so we try to give the service member the benefit of our experience, for better or worse. If the admins want to stop all the hate or vile posts then ban the folks causing it or let someone else be an admin. I my experience these discussion site or blogs grow from the original intent to become something that is totally different from what they were created for. But I believe RP is just fine. We all have opinions and they tell others more about us that that expensive resume.

Response by SPC Johnney Abbott made Feb 25 at 2017 11:18 AM

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I'm here because it's not the filth that's on Facebook.

Response by Lt Col Jim Coe made Feb 25 at 2017 12:30 PM

2017-02-25T12:30:05-05:00

I joined RP hoping to keep up with goings on in the military. I hoped I could use my experience to possibly help current service members and especially those looking for jobs as they transitioned out of the military. I started out sharing my experiences as a manager in both the private and public sector on subjects such as resumes, cover letters, and applying for Government Jobs.

I saw a growth of questions regarding the 2016 election. At first I thought I would stay out of the political stuff, but the quantity of questions on the election drew me in. I enjoyed reading the posts from RP members on both side of the aisle. Most were respectful. As a political science major in college and a long-time conservative republican, I couldn't resist giving my opinion. I tried to always be respectful and never use only emotional appeals to reinforce my point of view. I take a similar approach with religious questions.

I am an unapologetic traditional Christian. I am respectful of RP members who are anti-religious or non-believers because I respect First Amendment free speech. I will argue against their point of view with logic, facts, and love as best I can. I doubt I will change anybody's world view because of my words on RP, but I think its important for Christians to hold their ground.

My chief concern is anonymous RP members. I don't understand why RP allows this type of member. I have many years experience with the military, some at the highest levels, and in Special Operations. I never met a military member for whom it was simultaneously a good idea to have a presence on social media and to shield their identity form the general public. If a service members is concerned his or her chain of command will take action against them for what they post on social media, then they need to rethink their postings. Possibly they should pursue appropriate complaints through their EO/EEO or IG. I just don't see the virtue in a Special Forces military member or an investigative service military member being on RP or FB, if they cannot expose their personal identity to the public. My limited experience with investigative services tends to indicate that they would use a fictional persona if they were using RP to further an investigation rather than being anonymous. I think RP should eliminate the anonymous membership.

Response by CPL Scott Haas made Feb 25 at 2017 2:20 PM

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For me this is a place, a forum in helping my fellow brothers and sisters in arms in finding work after their service to our beloved country. I see RallyPoint as a place where we have shared experiences and commonality with each other. Involving the political commentary keeps it divisive and not relevant for me and my goal in putting veterans to work. I am here to pay it forward through mentoring, making introductions, or recruiting. There are other channels to echo ones political rhetoric.

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 25 at 2017 3:11 PM

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Preach!

Response by CMC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 25 at 2017 6:47 PM

2017-02-25T18:47:13-05:00

Very well said.

Response by Maj Kim Patterson made Feb 26 at 2017 3:36 AM

2017-02-26T03:36:05-05:00

I came out of curiosity. I stayed because of the diversity of topics, the camaraderie. And because I believed I could contribute, mentor, speak from a female perspective and make some new connections because most of my non RP friends are non military. We here at RP spoke similar languages. I could reminisce about my youth, share what I had learned and see what our military has become with the cuts to budget and numbers but still in theaters without clear borders.

Then my health took a sharp turn for the worse and I was unable to read or see RP for months, the months leading up to the election. My Facebook friends range the entire spectrum of opinions. There were more than enough exchanged opinions that I didn't care to engage in. Sadly, on my return to RP, I found many of my favorite contributors checked out. I see the same group tagged in post after post. How does that welcome junior enlisted or new RP members? I respect many on that group, but what happened to the other 400,000+ members? Perhaps one solution is a hiatus on tagging.

I am dismayed at the infighting and loss of compassion and community. We don't know what burdens others carry and read the wrong inflections in posts. And we won't know about those burdens nor will we be able to share the load until the members of RP remember to welcome everyone. We have lost our vision and objectivity.

With that said, I must break from RP for a while. I personally need positives in my life. I need to engage with people in real life, face to face. I need to step away from electronics. In my non RP life, there are children laughing, people dancing, wide open fields, the expanse of blue skies above, flowers, anonymous kindnesses, births, deaths, friends. I am excited because I get to be the Easter Bunny at the local zoo for vanishing animals, a blue fairy who makes little ones delight in the botanical gardens, watch live stage musicals of Broadway caliber. My account will stay active and I am available to anyone who wants to message me. I will answer, if someone is in trouble, please send them to me so I can communicate one on one and find a light in the darkness. I'll leave the green light on for you.

Response by MSgt John McGowan made Feb 26 at 2017 1:56 PM

2017-02-26T13:56:36-05:00

Agree, I didn't join to call names. It sometimes people want to make fun of you opinions and you take issue, then it on. I have backed away more than I have gone in. I plan on keeping it that way. There are people on RP that also all post is a smart ass answer.

Response by MSgt John McGowan made Feb 26 at 2017 2:03 PM

2017-02-26T14:03:54-05:00

I recently had something I needed answering. A RP member answered in no time at all. That is why I am here. We may not admit it but we are a band of brothers. Our numbers or few but we should be able to call on anyone.

Response by SFC Anthony Franke made Feb 26 at 2017 10:48 PM

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I am here to share my experiences, interact with fellow Veterans, and perhaps have positive interactions with said group.

Everyone isn't going to have the same opinions. As we all know, everyone has them and they all stink. We all dealt with it in our time in uniform.

Grow up and wear your big-boy/girl pants here.

Response by SSG Stephan Pendarvis made Feb 27 at 2017 7:37 AM

2017-02-27T07:37:42-05:00

Brother....many of us share the same feelings and thoughts. I myself have decreased the amount of time that I spend on here because I felt tat RP for the most part no longer feels like a place to come and reminisce. I know I too have shared and made comments that I am not proud of. We as people feel a need to convert or belittle others. We no longer see each other as brothers when we follow our base prejudices. That is the think about movies and books about Nam that I love. No matter the color of a persons skin or their religious background, or whatever.....those guys had each others back because they all wanted to make it home. Do we have each others back here? No Matter what? You are right...no one person can save America...it is going to take us...each of us....caring about each other and coming together as one. It is going to be tough because we each are programmed from our childhood to think and act and see a certain way...that is what makes up each of our own personalities. And that is beautiful. But we have to remember that ....it is sort of an illusion because each of our realities comes from a certain point of view that is based upon and focused through a lens of our own belief system which again is based on our conditioned past. When we become so attached to what we believe instead of believing the truth about life then suffering and chaos is all we will get. Let's make RP great again...

Response by MSgt Wayne Morris made Feb 27 at 2017 7:55 AM

2017-02-27T07:55:07-05:00

I am here to enjoy, communicate and see the pulse of those with similar backgrounds to myself. I enjoy the diversity of opinion except one personally attacks another and find some of the humor and stories downright hilarious and easy to relate too. For the most part, this is one of the few forums that we can agree to disagree at times without the childish and insulting name calling found on other forums.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 27 at 2017 10:19 AM

2017-02-27T10:19:03-05:00

Out of curiosity I came, I stayed because I found familiarity, advice, information. I find it interesting to see where my Army has gone since I quit going to formations. I found reassurance that I'm not the only one, although I should have known, its quite different when you read someone else is going through the same thing. I found a couple of old friends. and a lot of information being shared that only time in an org can give. Then you started having Q&A sessions, and thought wow that's cool. I found a respect for one another because we shared a lifestyle.

Lately I have been asking why am I staying. The political rhetoric and blatant disrespect for one another in them I can get elsewhere if I want it. I don't. I too have hope that it will go away.

Response by GySgt Kenneth Pepper made Feb 27 at 2017 12:00 PM

2017-02-27T12:00:35-05:00

I do not participate in any other type of social media. I started joining conversations on RP because I saw areas where I could share my experience with active SMs to help them work through problems and also share memories with the veteran/retiree community. Like some of you have already posted, opening RP is one of my daily treats.
Open discussion regarding political issues is certainly healthy, but it gets blurry real fast when people forget that this group is made up of people who have EARNED their right to their opinion. Assuming that someone whose opinion differs from yours is based on lack of intelligence or enlightenment is ridiculous.
Last..if you can't agree, that is okay. Agree to disagree and move on. We are supposed to be Ladies and Gentlemen. Name-calling and trollish behavior is unacceptable.

Response by COL Mikel J. Burroughs made Feb 27 at 2017 12:37 PM

2017-02-27T12:37:30-05:00

SGT Ben Keen Great question! I actually brought up some of your question here once before in a post:

https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/do-you-think-it-is-right-to-insight-anger-in-other-rp-members-with-your-comments

The points are secondary to me, believe it or not.
Getting the word out on jobs, employment, transitioning, motivational quotes, Leadership, PTSD, TBI, and other disabililties, Suicide Awareness, honoring fallen veterans, motorcycles/Veterans Organizations that do great things in the public, meeting veterans in my local area from RP, and connecting with individuals that can use my help to reduce suicides is my mission.

Just wanted you to know where my heart is. I'm a leader for Sponsor a Vet Life, and Board Member for the National Veterans Transition Service and Victory for Veterans. I'm also a Volunteer Admin here on RallyPoint and get a lot of messages and questions that I help other members with.

I'm a Life time Member of the VFW, Member of the American Legion, and American Legion Riders, and the Patriot Guard Riders in Colorado. There is still time for more.

The only way I'm going to find these individuals that need help, want to help, or need someone to talk to is through connecting.

I hope to do more in the future, if I can.
Thank you,

Mikel

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Response by SPC Don Wynn made Feb 27 at 2017 7:17 PM

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I was directed here from another social media site and was curious since I am a vet. And was quite pleased there was a site for SMs, Vets, and Retired career to come together and share 'war' stories, help with issues someone is having, be a source for vets having problems and in general be around folks who have put on the uniform and taken the oath. Had some chuckles, a few 'hmmm, well' moments. I have noticed the rhetoric started to get heavy around election time, but was ok with it. Lately however, it seems rhetoric has turned to triggering events and people are being disrespectful simply for having a different opinion. Yes, debates can get heated and harsh words can get exchanged, but always there should be respect.

Response by MSgt Raymond Stettner made Feb 27 at 2017 7:19 PM

2017-02-27T19:19:03-05:00

I wholeheartedly agree with Sgt. Keen. I am a retired AF member and Rally Point shows me the problems I experienced 15 years ago are still relevant today. I.E. discipline, morale etc. Anyone who uses this site for immature antics should stick with Twitter.

Response by MSgt Ken "Airsoldier" Collins-Hardy made Feb 28 at 2017 7:33 AM

2017-02-28T07:33:09-05:00

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Response by Kevin Jeffers made Mar 1 at 2017 7:40 AM

2017-03-01T07:40:23-05:00

I am here, as a civilian, to listen to concerns of the community and to support the welcoming home and reintegration of those who have served.

Response by SFC Jim Ruether made Mar 1 at 2017 10:58 AM

2017-03-01T10:58:09-05:00

I am here because all of you have had similar experiences in your branch of the military as I have, whether it was at basic training or on a deployment. l originally got on here to find a few guys I went through basic training but they either don't exist anymore or aren't on this site. I like to hear your stories, your opinions, have frank discussions. I am guilty of some of those maybe mean spirited exchanges when I felt it was necessary and I apologize if I hurt anyone on here or made others uncomfortable. Maybe its my age that makes me cranky I don't know. But policy and politics are woven inextricably through all of us in the military affecting the budgets we had to work with to orders for deployment to countries you had never heard of for reasons no one in Washington felt you needed to know. So we can't get away from politics. We do need to be vigilant and make sure some of the misguided decision making mistakes our previous politicians made don't happen again. You are all my brothers and sisters on here and I wouldn't intentionally do anything to hurt you but I do have my opinions and they are a result of my upbringing, my life experiences and its who I am.

Response by Cpl Ryan Berry made Mar 4 at 2017 1:13 PM

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WOW, that was outstanding! I couldn't throw that again if I tried, hands down! Couldn't agree more and I myself is sick and tired of all the punches thrown by both parties, and I will have some integrity and say that I'm sure I have been guilty of it a time or two. It's gotten to be like that scene from the Pee Wee Herman movie where they keep going "I KNOW YOU ARE BUT WHAT AM I". So yes, people have a right to voice their opinion, but to attack a fellow veteran personally over his political views?!?! That's more screwed up than a Ray Charles coloring book in this Marine's opinion. I came here in the hope of reconnecting with my brothers from my days in the Marine Corps. Most have been found or what has become of them via FB. I still have two brothers that I was very close to that are MIA. Once getting on here and reading some of the blogs and how the different branches or different MOS, opinions vary I became very interested. And some of the replies from these veterans or service members can be just down right hilarious!!! And that's what I need these days is to smile and laugh at some of these subjects. Hopefully others will also. Thank you again for sharing this message, and again it was a good little "ass chewing" to those who need to put on their big boy/girl pants. Semper FI
BEARKAT

Response by CMSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 5 at 2017 3:09 AM

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SGT Keen,

I'm fairly new to this community and excited to be here. I suppose most in the community feel or at some point felt that way. To converse with my military brothers and sister is truly a gift. We have a unique bond that should be revered. Thank you for what you do.

I look forward to connecting with my fellow RP'ers and hope I can help provide meaningful answers to members questions when I can. I view the military as my family and RP is no different. So, if you treat people on this site as family (because we are) how can you go wrong?

Response by SGT Stanley Bass made Mar 7 at 2017 8:24 PM

2017-03-07T20:24:19-05:00

Me personally. I remember them telling us, the two things we don't discuss on active duty is religion and politics. I stil stick to that. I have also taken on what I considered a personal attack. I stepped away and let it go. Because I figured the guy read my response wrong. but all in all. I do not discuss Religion or politics nor get into the discussions.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 8 at 2017 2:57 AM

2017-03-08T02:57:56-05:00

Duh, because we are veterans, retirees, or still active! That's why.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 22 at 2017 1:51 AM

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I'm here because the community that used to be the military.com discussion boards is gone. This seemed like the potential replacement but I have been rather turned off by the trolls. I enjoy sharing my knowledge with others but my current position does not have me supervising young Airmen anytime soon.

Response by Ben Stansberry made Apr 23 at 2017 3:17 PM

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I'm here to learn, not to argue or force my opinion on others. My father fought WWII MTO so everyone could have an opinion and I vocalize it both Left and Right. However this is not the venue for that type premise.

Response by SFC Dennis A. made Apr 25 at 2017 9:04 AM

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I am here to hopefully meet up with some old friends, meet new ones and keep up with changes in the military system over all and the Army in particular. The Army has changed a lot since I got out, we were using computers and made the switch from 5 1/4 floppy's to the 3 1/2 in disk. There was no internet so it's kind of fun to see how things are moving along. As for me and politics, I don't care how old you are, what gender you are, what color, race or religion you are. I want someone that will look out for the American people, protect and defend the United States and their primary goal for getting into politics is for "We the People" and not how full can I get my pockets. As for the posts that I disagree with or might find offensive I don't read or follow them and go on about my day and enjoy it. Thank you RP I enjoy the site.

Response by MSgt Dwyane Watson made Apr 25 at 2017 10:46 PM

2017-04-25T22:46:08-04:00

I am here to help anyone who has a question I may be able to answer. I am here for the camaraderie of other military people, working with civilians is not like working with GI's.

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 30 at 2017 9:45 PM

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I really came here to connect with active and retired members of the military. I try to avoid the political situations here because of all the drama it brings. However on my Facebook page it's a different story. I finally got sick of the drama there too. I told everyone Trump is our president now, if you don't like it, make a change in 4 years, blah, blah, blah, so on and so forth. If they didn't like it remove themselves from my page. It worked.

I want to keep up with what is going on with my active duty brother and sisters. To make sure that they stay safe and to let them know that I am here if they need someone to talk to.

I have found a few good guys here and a few bullies, but they were taken care of by the good guys. I hope to continue to be apart of this great community.

Response by MCPO Roger Collins made Apr 30 at 2017 10:03 PM

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There are a few that do not come to RP to do more than incite. Others, are making some of the worst comments that I have ever seen regarding a Constitutionally elected president, which is against the UCMJ. Some that unverified and be of the resistance movement. I have a thick skin, but need to respond when this happens. Hope that is understandable.

Response by CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2017 12:56 AM

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Sgt Ben Keen,
Good point. I used to be that grumpy old war dog , but I got some flak from a very young member and I did apologize and retracted my comments. I have learn a great deal from this one incident and I now contribute to our RP community if I think it will help someone on RP. After spending over 45 years of my adult life working for my brothers and sisters who served in the military I am just honored to be here and it's for a very good cause. I will assist anyone who asks me. What say You?

Response by LCDR Private RallyPoint Member made May 1 at 2017 6:52 PM

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I use Rally Point mostly to keep in touch with others whose background is similar to my own and to hear experiences other service men & women care to relate. As for political discussions, I do not believe this is a proper venue. Everyone will have his/her own opinions, but I prefer NOT to read them here.

Response by PO2 Robert W. made May 3 at 2017 7:18 PM

2017-05-03T19:18:07-04:00

I love reading the reasons many are here. I'll take my jab at it.
I am here simply to make amends and give back.
I made some very desperate choices during my service and now I am in a position to be available to those who are where I have been. I make no secret about my drug use and I am proud of my recovery. So when I am able to connect with someone, I share what I have until they are able to create their own. It's just my little corner of the world, but I do what I can.
Thank you at RP for the opportunity to give back.

Response by GySgt James Marchinke made May 5 at 2017 7:26 AM

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I was invited to join by a friend, Thanks Edwin!! Once in I found myself relaxing reading what others where writing. Yes relaxing to know others out here had experiences to share that I too have gone through. That we are not alone to deal with our ghosts of the past. We all here have a bond Marines, Army, Navy, Air Force, Coast Guard that is very unique. I have linked up with past Marines and Soldiers that I had been station with, knowing them at the time did not seem like much but really does now. Dealing with civilians causes my blood to boil and when it does I turn and read what you all are saying here and it calms the nerves. Reality is that we do things to accomplish the mission and civilians worry about their bottom line, money, profits and do not care about the human aspect of life. I guess we had to care our backs were against it and relied on others to carry us through the tough times, the mission always got completed no matter what. When I start to read negativity here I just go to thoughts and comments of another comrade. Or respond with kindness ignoring the negativity. I will never classify myself as a civilian, I am better than that, we all are!!!

Response by Sgt William Straub Jr. made May 5 at 2017 3:56 PM

2017-05-05T15:56:05-04:00

An excellent point Sgt Ben Keen. I come here to see other points of view, maybe give a little advice if I know the subject. Or sometimes to just read the history and stories of other members. It is a valuable and interesting site. I thank you.

Response by Maj Dennis Turriff made May 6 at 2017 9:24 AM

2017-05-06T09:24:47-04:00

I'm here to get my "military fix" from brothers and sisters that have the same sand in their boots as me. I enjoy a hearty debate as well as anyone, but believe there's no place for the childish behavior that's in every social media outlet. I suggest a warning be provided, then boot them if they continue.

Response by PFC Pamala (Hall) Foster made May 7 at 2017 3:23 AM

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Network and camaraderie

Response by LtCol Robert Quinter made May 7 at 2017 10:44 PM

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I have successfully worked in manufacturing, distribution, medical and now sales in addition to my military service. Of them all, I consider my time as a Marine to be the most important and satisfying period of my life. A small portion of my service was enlisted, then I had the opportunity to earn a commission. We used to talk about the 10%; those few people that were misplaced in the service. I'm sure that they still exist today. The key indicator when you referred to the 10% was that 90% of those you worked with, both enlisted and officers were there to do their duty to the best of their ability. Like any profession, there were rules that were sometimes hard to explain, much less understand, but you lived with them and generally had the opportunity to accomplish more, gain more responsibility sooner, and recognize what you were doing had meaning. Despite the rules and regulations, the fact is that military service is working with people. There were still WWII and Korean veterans on active duty when I started and some of my best and valuable learning experience was conversing with those older servicemen and my contemporaries, discussing the best way to get the most out of yourself and the people you served with. Soon you learned that value and contribution to the mission has little to do with pay grade or specialty. Each individual makes a contribution toward accomplishing the mission, and it is a leader's responsibility to create an atmosphere where every member of the unit, or, using a trivialized term, team can excel. When everyone from the newest E-1 to General Officers understands their responsibility, understands that the NCOs, SNCOs and Officers are the people who are there to allow their people the freedom to perform without interference from outsiders and with the best equipment and direction available, you have an organization that will not fail.
While the equipment, regulations and specifics have changed tremendously, the path to success depends on being exposed to the widest variety of techniques possible and applying that technique to the task at hand. Above all, RP should be a venue for sharing ideas on how to be successful, in the military or civilian areas. I offer what I can so that those who read my words will file my advice in the back of their head in case they are faced with a situation where how it was done, or the attitude held in the past might direct them toward a modern path to success.
Yes, there is always that 10% who choose a different path or motivation than most, but the 90% are worth putting up with the others.

Response by SCPO Jason McLaughlin made May 8 at 2017 5:49 AM

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I joined after I retired so I would have a connection to the world I had just left. And to have the opportunity to pass on some of my experience to those looking for assistance.

Unfortunately, I have found a place where it is ok to question someone's loyalty to their Oath of Enlistment because they have a differing view on the 2nd Amendment, and not just question but blatantly call them a traitor to that oath. The moderators allowed numerous threads like that, so while I appreciate your question, ultimately, if you are unhappy with the tenor of this site, set the ground rules and moderate.

Hold people accountable for the way they act. Right under this thread in the "Trending Discussions" is SSGT Mays crappy "John Hopkins psychiatrist drops TRUTH BOMB about transgenders - Liberals furious" thread. How is that not a veiled attack thread on the transgender members of this site?

But what do I know, I'm just a "Snowflake"!

Response by SPC Mark Longo made May 8 at 2017 11:43 AM

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I am here to network and connect with my fellow "7%"-ers to primarily look for employment opportunities, to better myself, and to help others and they help me with words and advice. To make this a better place.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 8 at 2017 5:43 PM

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SGT Ben Keen I'm right there with you, sir. Have been here for a long time. It seems to have gotten far worse this last cycle. To the point that I just skip over & refuse to comment on the political posts anymore. Not worth my time.
I remember, back in the day, the biggest complaint that we, as admins, took, was that posts were deleted because they were duplications.
I joined to get back some sense of the camaraderie that I missed from my service days. It was enjoyable taking part in discussions ranging from the F-35 inception, to when a 2Lt should salute ( CPT Private RallyPoint Member ). Hell, my most popular comment was on a post discussing a dress worn to a military ball.
I took a hiatus during the election because it was getting bad - among other reasons, but it does not appear to be getting any better.

Response by SPC Steven Peery made May 11 at 2017 2:42 PM

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Bravo Sgt Keen, I have become a member to stay connected with the military way of life. My son has now joined the Army Reserves and is about to start college and ROTC. I have used this site to asked a few questions about the reserves and the ROTC to help my son. I do not believe this is the place to push your political ideas. I do not think it is right to attack another person because they voted different than what you think is right. Is that not one of the things that we in the military fight to protect? I think a lot of people are loosing track of the main point, it is "United we stand against all enemies foreign and domestic". The key word is "UNITED", we can disagree on how things should be done but we must always stand together and back each up.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made May 13 at 2017 1:40 PM

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I joined to connect to old friends and new in the military community. VERY quickly I got involved in "pushing back" against the very strong (to me) right-wing bias and never ending attacks on President Obama.

As the election heated up, I got more involved, not out of love for Hillary Clinton or to push liberal over conservative policies, but to fight against the obnoxious and disgusting campaign of Donald Trump. As a 33-year (and counting) soldier, an immigration attorney and a former ICE agent the level of nativist rhetoric was and remains shocking and intolerable, and I continue to do everything in my power to fight back and try to uphold what I consider to be American values and our status as a nation of immigrants.

Along the way, I also found that as the Trump campaign moved forward, so too to very aggressive "religious liberty" movements that I consider in my educated opinion to be code for protecting a Christian's right to discriminate against people he/she doesn't like.

So today I guess I'm still here for my original reason, which is the connect with friend old and new in the military community, to seek mentorship from senior officers and NCOs who've been there and to offer mentorship to those coming up behind me. BUT, and its a very big but, my primary purpose here has become to keeping the dialog balanced, pushing back against the extreme right-wing (borderline fascist) trends in our society and to let those who spent the last eight years attacking those of us left of their extreme position (which includes moderate Republicans whom they call RINOs, not just Democrats) and pushing back at those who want to change the status of our secular republic to their desired "Christian Country", which is something I strongly feel we must never become.

While the word "Patriot" has been hijacked by the right and co-opted by the Tea Party types, it is because I am a patriot in the old definition that I feel obligated to do so.

Response by Sgt Albert Castro made May 17 at 2017 4:24 AM

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SGT Ben Keen I just stumbled on this post. I'm about 2months into my membership. A friend and former Wart Hog pilot turned me on to the RP (thanks Charlie). I joined to connect with fellow veterans and AD warriors, because sometimes I miss the life style and attitudes. I've been voting for about 43 years and I can tell you political discourse was never as contentious as now days. I rarely discuss politics outside of my group anymore because one side has become to ugly to talk too. If I get antagonized or baited in to a shit storm, I just ignore it and move to the next post. I have connected with some great men and women on the RP and I plan to stick around. This is way better than the crap I see on FB. LOL
Ooha!

Response by Sgt Heriberto Salinas made May 21 at 2017 7:35 PM

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Really, save the name calling for Facebook. We are professionals. This is a site for people who know what the hell we're talking about!

Response by SPC Douglas Bolton made May 22 at 2017 1:28 PM

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SGT Ben Keen My main reason from day one was to find ways to reach out and help other brothers and sisters who may be hurting.

I know what you are talking about as far as political rants. I think the people writing those posts should write what they think, but read it again after taking a few breaths. Is it worthy? Does it make sense? Do you slam someone just because they have a different view? If we do the famous "Count to ten," procedure I can bet many of the attacks will stop.

Response by SSgt Boyd Welch made May 22 at 2017 2:41 PM

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I see posts that are designed to be provocative and they always seem to stir up disagreements. I think some of the posters like to start a good fight and then back away smirking. I have found myself drawn into some of these "cesspools". I am trying to be a better person and I was drawn to RallyPoint to once again experience that feeling of camaraderie and team work I miss from my military days. As active duty or veteran, we have a common heritage and that is service to our nation. Regardless of how we feel we were treated in the past, our military brothers and sisters are not the enemy....

Response by MGySgt James Forward made May 22 at 2017 3:51 PM

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I do not like political posts at all. Just about 100% are negative towards Trump. I try to offer support and information to assist others. I also dislike humor posts (duffleblog) or what ever the hell its called. While I do jump in on political posts as I fell I do in fact have to counter BS information being pushed as fact. Semper Fi to all. Keep up the good work Admins we all owe you big time!

Response by MAJ Keira Brennan made May 23 at 2017 9:32 AM

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My intention was to join to reminiscence and offer support. RP turned into a political / religious cauldron which sucks. I pop in here and there for laughs. Occasionally, I find some top-not secular/apolitical contributors. That's a treat. Otherwise IMO RP is dominated by right-wing, homophobic religious gun nuts.

Response by SSG Eric M Hersh made May 26 at 2017 3:36 AM

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hello col I am eric Hersh I got out in feb 1970. u can talk to them face to face but till they face the truth it will and or hurt every body near them because they don t believe in va help . U have to admit u have a problem b4 it can be fixed fully eric

Response by SPC Jerry Crain made May 26 at 2017 3:40 AM

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I also found the site by accident. Since then I have helped other service members find it. I am here to help others when I can and network with other vet's. Maybe even find some old friends.

Response by SP5 Dave (Shotgun) Shockley made May 26 at 2017 10:20 AM

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Sgt. Keen. I join for the same reasons you mentioned. Connect with other VETS. get information, learn about veteran causes etc. I have joined in on a few discussions on religion and politics. These have been high spirited, but never intentionally disrespectful. I have admired those not afraid to stand up for what they believe. As I stated none of these discussion have been reduced to name calling or snide remarks. I Appreciate the contacts I have established and look forward to further discussions with my fellow veterans.

Should I happen to stumble into one of these situation I would leave. many of these individuals are looking for an audience. If we don't give them a stage to preach from perhaps they will go back to facebook.

Response by SSgt Boyd Herrst made May 26 at 2017 12:32 PM

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To interact via this forum with Veterans and Service personnel and read their input

Response by CPL Dennis Keith made May 27 at 2017 12:33 AM

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I haven't been here often enough to see the political bickering. We are, or were The Uniformed Services and politics must be absent from our public statements. Our loyalty to the Office Holders Must be unquestionable, unless, and until an action against them is Constitionaly Demanded, at which time the Joint Chiefs will give us an order to act in preservation of the Republic.

We take that oath of office upon enlistment. I have never, NEVER, been relieved of that oath. Until I am, to my last breath I will honor that Oath.

Response by SGT Leigh Barton made May 27 at 2017 11:01 AM

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It would seem that the greatest common bond developed by military service is an attitude, one that in my humble opinion we all share. It's covered by the words "initiative" or "industry". the lowering of ones bullshit threshold to the the point that we don't want to simply wait for answers, we go get them. In hunting for answers, we will also find ourselves called upon to provide answers or useful direction to obtain same where we can in return. Even in the bible, Karma is clearly explained, "we reap what we sow". As such each of us becomes part of an immense brain trust that can provide useful information for everything from common questions to information that can cause the best educated civilians to stumble. In short, "we're here to help wherever we can".

Response by COL John Hudson made May 28 at 2017 11:48 AM

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SGT Keen: I understand and fully appreciate your frustration. As an Admin, there's a "Delete" key on your Master Board to remedy any such behavior...but: I do understand that's a difficult last resort for only the most egregious 'problem children.' For example, I abhor gutter profanity used in these conversations. I'm an educated man and prefer proper language to get my message across with whatever strength of emotion I'm attempting to convey. Hard-core profanity doesn't bring more of my attention to someone's thoughts...it drives me away. Regardless, it's here and I simply move on. The type of mentalities you describe are known as "Trolls" in social media circles and can be seen in every social media program out there. Don't be to overly concerned about them. You wouldn't be in the position you're in without the experience and professionalism to deal with their rants; all frustrations aside. There are people born into this great society of ours who are unhappy and their only goal in life is to make everyone around them as miserable as they are. I've know individuals during my lifetime that if addressed with a simple upbeat, "Good morning!" would accuse one of harassment. We, all of us, have to deal with such personalities throughout our lifetimes. John

Response by MAJ Glenn Lasater made May 30 at 2017 5:54 PM

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I was invited to join by a friend who was a member. I really didn't know what it was except another site for veterans to "connect." After exploring the site and getting involved in a few discussion, I continue to participate for two reasons; to help anyone I can reach out to with advice, a different perspective, or a sympathetic "ear" and to observe and keep up with current trends in the active, veteran, and retired communities. I hope that my military experiences as enlisted, NCO, and officer in the Air Force, Army, and then in private industry spanning over 50 years would be of value to some members.

I don't discuss or address political issues on RP for several reasons. As a Cold War veteran, I consider Communism and its little brother Socialism to be evil and an enemy of freedom and our way of life. I consider any individual or group that advocates those ideals to be a clear and present danger to our country. My observations and studies have proven that the leftists, Progressives, and Democrats are the advocates of that evil in our country. Their agenda of overwhelming and suppressive government, suppression of the right of those that don't agree with their agenda, and organized violence against their opposition prove the point.

I have friends and family who support the Socialist agenda and I love them all and hold them dearly. After many discussions and much serious thought and deliberation, I believe that most Americans who support the Socialist Progressives and Democrats are well meaning but fail to understand the regressive and destructive nature of centralized control of our lives.

I'm not interested in starting a political discussion here; that is for some other forum. I make this post to answer the question and explain why discussions of politics and religion are so devisive.

Response by SPC Byron Skinner made Jun 3 at 2017 5:05 PM

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Sp4 Byron Skinner. A good question but I think the base issue is different. Starting at the top the US military is in transition from a labor centric organization to a technology centric organization. With the current and emerging stable of weapons the Army is finally getting what the wet wishing for in 2000 the 100 mile deep battle field. Indirect fire will do most of the fighting and the major causality group will not be the Infantry and Maneuver troops but the Support and Service troops. A real problem is the Army's vision of itself. The Army refers to themselves as a professional Army, this is not so. Three year enlistments are the norm and in many specialities that isn't even enough time to get proper ally trained in an MOS. Initial enlistments need to be longer six years for the combat MOS's and eight years for the Support and Service. College graduate have to be actively recruited for the enlisted ranks, which means higher pay. Right now the military is serving as a community college with a year experience. The tax payer is getting shafted. The biggest thing the Military has to do to impress the Joe's and Jill's paying the bill is win some wars. Since 1991 the military has bull shitted the public to death but comes up a loser. The citizens are getting a bit tire of not getting the protection they are paying for. Of course the defense industry loves this, their selling pitch is we can't win because of this, the offer a new generation of something that didn't work with some higher Tech that doesn't work, the DoD just keep buying failure.

Response by SFC William Stephens A. Jr., 3 MSM, JSCM made Jun 5 at 2017 3:32 PM

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I think as a service member and a civilian I need to answer this question because I post a lot and do a lot of QA on RALLY POINT. At first I could of care or less about social media but I was in the job market and I was building my resume and I needed help and no one was helping me with my resume. I did not know that social media websites could help me. I did not know that there were veterans who had knowledge on RP who could help me redesign my resume with in a few weeks of joining and as well getting a solid Cover letter as well. It's not like I created an account an BOOM my resume was made, This did not happen over night but I must say help from the administrators pointing me in the right direction and meeting with SGM and retired Service members who I did not know existed really helped me in the DOD/ DON. On top of this I never read a book in my life and I didn't care about world news or social events what was going on in the world or around me. Because of RP, I blog every morning and talk to a lot of professional people I am here to share my resume with any homeless veteran or any transitioning veterans like I was who needs help, because it don't mater what grade you are I've found out from my reading that most of us are Senior Enlisted who can not completed a resume for a successful job interview. If also been following and trying to link up with veterans with PTSD because I am not afraid to say I have PTSD and will share my experience with anyone who wants to know my demons and what I am doing to fix or control them. I don't think they just go away. This process takes a lot of time. Thanks to RP I'm here to stay and hope in the end I can help at least one person homeless or veteran get a job or come out of the black hole.

Response by LCpl James Lockwood made Jun 6 at 2017 9:11 AM

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Well said sarge !

Response by GySgt Craig Jordan made Jun 8 at 2017 7:38 PM

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This is why, I don't talk about political views, of any kind .

Response by MAJ Montgomery Granger made Jun 9 at 2017 9:14 PM

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Excellent post, SGT! Live and let live! Treat others as you want to be treated. An opinion is just that, an opinion. We all have 'em, and we all need to respect 'em. But we don't have to agree with 'em. For me, Rally Point should be a watering hole, where lion and lamb can come to drink, socialize and share wisdom without fear of attack or consumption. The creators of Rally Point had a vision, a spectacular vision. We are all ONE FAMILY, the AMERICAN FAMILY, and within that family we are blessed to have brothers and sisters of all walks of life, interests and beliefs. This makes us STRONGER than our opponents, but only if we RESPECT each other. If at the very least we RESPECT the fact that we have all paid some dues and have contributed in some way to the most fearsome, intelligent, capable and powerful military on earth, then we should be able to play nice in the sand box. We owe it to each other and owe it to ourselves to get along and LEARN from each other. Do you realize what powerful potential for excellence there is in this idea marketplace? Do you realize how this makes us better and stronger than any other world power? Take advantage of the experience and knowledge if you are junior, and if you are senior, LISTEN and THINK about what the juniors have to say, for THEY are OUR future. We need to understand them as much as they need to appreciate us. Remember, together we are UNBEATABLE, but apart we are weak and vulnerable.

Response by PO2 Gerry Tandberg made Jun 15 at 2017 10:21 PM

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I've read some responses, and/or posts over the past year and find more and more posts are a bit disturbing. So, I've decided to just read the posts and not participate in the discussions. I've learned to bite my tongue and be a better listener. Not easy for someone who is opinionated.

Response by Cpl Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 17 at 2017 3:33 AM

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I think the blame rest squarely on you. As soon as civilians were allowed in here, shit went straight to hell.

Response by SGM Bill Frazer made Jun 18 at 2017 11:06 AM

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I am here to learn, keep up with events which after us and those still serving, and to help those I can, and be helped. I prefer to try to remember the same constraints we operated under when I was active and post that way. I don't talk politics, that is for the balloting box. Yes you have a right to your own political opinion just as I do, but I don't have to stuff it in your face. Talking Politics, especially with the current "my way or the highway" attitude, will destroy the effectiveness of this site or any site. We are here as Veterans/Service members/families NOT POLITICANS, lets try to keep it that way. Respect, admire, honor, learn- that should be our path. Thanks SGT Bell- great job!

Response by GySgt Melissa Gravila made Jun 18 at 2017 10:21 PM

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I am here to "join forces" with fellow service members/Veterans and discuss topics that affect our future. Although I feel debate is healthy, I also feel the debate should be done by both parties with courtesy, decorum, and respect. We can all have differences of opinion, prime example is I'm a Republican/conservative, but I respect JP's views even though we may not agree. Bottom line follow the advice of Thumpers Mom "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all"
S/F

Response by PO2 Richard C. made Jun 26 at 2017 11:26 AM

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There are two topics that can foment arguments and drive wedges between friends - religion and politics. It is not the topics themselves; it is the the fact that people feel their opinion counts more and/or is better than someone else's opinion. That justifies in their mind the right to try to convince others that their opinion is wrong and should be changed. Nothing creates conflict quicker than attacks on a belief system. This perceived justification has been a primary contributor in every geopolitical conflict in modern times. It's the "we're/I'm better" syndrome, so you need to agree with me. Unfortunately, like religious wars it will never stop because there are fanatics on both sides of any disagreement. I'm just waiting for the time I get the ability to Vote Down those who are overtly abusive on RP, regardless of which side they support. As for why I'm here - the vast majority of the RP community is made up of people I would be proud to call friends in any setting.

Response by 2LT Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 26 at 2017 11:34 AM

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I'm fairly new here, but it has been a good learning point for me. Reading the experiences of others and learning from that is something I felt would be beneficial to me.

Response by CDR James Terrell made Jun 26 at 2017 6:59 PM

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I'm here to share our stories, challenges and achievements.

Response by SP5 Dave (Shotgun) Shockley made Jun 26 at 2017 7:35 PM

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I am here to reconnect a little with my past, as well as make new friends that have been through or are familiar with military life. I am proud to be a part of this brotherhood of veterans that love America as much as I do. Sure there are problems and there always will be. That being said I know this group will be ready if all hell breaks loose.

Response by SGT James Colwell made Jul 1 at 2017 5:28 PM

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Well said. I hope it bears fruit.

Response by Capt Dwayne Conyers made Jul 1 at 2017 7:23 PM

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Amen!

Response by SSG Steven Mangus made Jul 1 at 2017 10:01 PM

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We all came here for pretty much the same reason, we are a team regardless of what branch have we served in. We feel comfortable with our brothers and sisters even though we have different views to express. This can be solved by using tact when stating a point or belief. BLUF we are all adults here act accordingly, provide constructive answers to the hard questions and help those that require it..one team, one fight..

Response by SCPO Ysmael Ramos made Jul 2 at 2017 11:31 PM

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I joined just about less than two weeks and I am here because we have something in common which is less than I have read before from 1 to 5 percent of population of this great great country experience.

Response by CW3 Susan Burkholder made Jul 3 at 2017 11:40 AM

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Well, it happens more than just the political posts. I have seen very mundane topics veer off into incredibly personal attacks. I have stayed away for a while because it is so stereotypical - the participants.

Perhaps RP could reevaluate labeling "Top Percent" contributors. It really is meaningless and counterintuitive. I have found that it actually encourages outrageous comments in order to provoke more posts, and thereby the offensive person is rewarded with being a "top percenter" "congratulations, people really like what you have to say...." and "10 points for people commenting on something you said, you are influencing..." or some such nonsense message you guys send. Points for just posting? So, I'll start a controversial political thread and get many influence points.....

Response by SPC Thomas Mitchell made Jul 5 at 2017 12:52 PM

2017-07-05T12:52:09-04:00

I try to ignore the political BS here and on other social media I belong to. I am here to connect with people I have served with and to make connections with others. There is also a lot of learning opportunities if you allow yourself not to get distracted.

Response by SPC Ernest Conner made Jul 6 at 2017 2:19 PM

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I like to see if my point view is same as others in and out of the service. And to read others point of view on any given subject.

Response by Donna Brickey made Jul 7 at 2017 9:55 AM

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It is very nice to see that I am not the only one who believes politics is important, but not the point of a social networking site. I am here to learn more about those of you who have served or are serving our country and to honor you. I am also here as an employment resource. I too believe we can and should come together and focus on supporting our political leaders the same way those of us who have not served in the military support our veterans and our troops. I am hoping we can do this without name calling, judgement or trying to lay blame on others. Thank you SGT Keen!

Response by Capt Sabrena Goldman made Jul 7 at 2017 3:23 PM

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As far as why I'm here, it would be to connect, reconnect, and continue to be surrounded by the awesome community of brothers and sisters in arms past present and future! This connection goes beyond this moment but touches back to the ones who fought to allow us to live in this country. As the preamble explains "We the people of the United States, in order to form a more perfect union, establish justice, insure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general welfare, and secure the blessings of liberty to ourselves and our posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America.

Response by CPO Michael Hatten made Jul 8 at 2017 10:37 AM

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I retired from the Navy in 1986. I live in a community that has almost no military presence. I joined RP to get a view into what's happening in the trenches and to compare my life in the military with life in the 21st Century military.

One of the big differences is politics and flaming. We had a huge generational divide and race relations problems that sometimes broke out into physical confrontations but we didn't talk politics all the time and we didn't have social media where we could say outrageous things anonymously.

I'm used to seeing that kind of thing on Facebook. I have joined Facebook groups of fellow veterans, seen them turn into crazy talk, and then left them. I'm pretty much the same with RP. If it turns into a site full of name-calling and insult, I'll just move on.

Response by SPC Curt Dennis made Jul 9 at 2017 2:52 AM

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As much as we may or may not be liked: Of the Troops and For the Troops! M-I-L-I-T-A-R-Y P-O-L-I--CE!!

Response by Capt Seid Waddell made Jul 9 at 2017 4:18 AM

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I am here to reconnect with fellow servicemen and women; I have found that I share more in common with them than with my civilian friends - even after being out for 45 years.

And there is no excuse in my view for treating fellow vets and AD servicemen with less than professional respect regardless of one's political POV. This was require of us while serving and should apply now just as well.

I just ran across this article that seems to apply here especially:

http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2017/07/08/cal-thomas-place-where-civility-once-ruled.html

Cal Thomas: A place where civility once ruled

When was the last time you heard a member of one political party praise a member of the other party?

Response by SGT Richard Lovell made Jul 12 at 2017 1:26 PM

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Although I have not personally experienced this, It is truly sad to see this happening on this site. To those that attack another I say this; disagree all you want, but make your points to why you disagree, or have a difference of opinion, but don't make it personal. Just because someone doesn't think like you and believe me, I use to think everyone thought like me, doesn't make them a bad person. It just makes them different. Ultimately, the vast majority just want to see the United States and its military succeed...and the vast majority being current and former military personnel which are the constituents of this forum. Disagree, but don't attack the person...

Response by CPL Michael Moholland made Jul 13 at 2017 9:04 PM

2017-07-13T21:04:27-04:00

I joined RP simply because it was there. To be truthful, I have a love hate relationship with the service. I was only in 4 years and it was the most miserable 4 years of my life, with the sole exception of the christian camaraderie at Herzo base Germany. There are very few people I wish to catch up with. That said even though it was miserable at the time I am proud that I have served and would do so again, if I wasn't old and broken down.
In regards to political arguments, I tend to compartmentalize things. I have my own political view points and really don't understand how some people can think the way they do. But I do not believe in judging others and just accept that they have a difference of opinion , but often find that I am not afforded the same courtesy. But when it comes to the day to day functioning of government and the defense of this country, I don't care about the political views of anyone in government. I stop being concerned with that after the final election results and won't worry about it again till next election. until then I will support and defend our elected leaders and trust in God that our leaders make the right decisions.

Response by SP5 Rod Bernsen made Jul 14 at 2017 11:44 AM

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Good rant. The days of socratic discussion absent name calling has long since left society.

Response by GySgt Melissa Gravila made Jul 16 at 2017 8:32 PM

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I am here to actually have a conversation with people where I dont have to stop every 2 seconds and translate what I said into civilian lingo. Im here to have a healthy debate, a good laugh, cry a few tears and develop some close online friendships. Im here to lend an ear, a shoulder, or whatever is needed by a fellow veteran.
I hope that explains my presence here...
S/F

Response by Cpl David Klassen made Jul 18 at 2017 12:08 AM

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I am personally here because I like to mentor others in anyway shape or form to be the informed, not the misinformed or the uninformed. The facts are what matter regardless of what you feel about them. RP gives me the opportunity to bridge the gap between those 3 types of people myself included. I appreciate the forums and the ideas that are put forth in them.

-Semper Fi!

Response by SGT Eric Knutson made Jul 18 at 2017 12:33 AM

2017-07-18T00:33:04-04:00

For myself, I joined in the hope of reconnecting with some of my old friends that I have unfortunatly lost contact with after I left the service, Thankfully I have been able to find a few at least, and some of the more important people to me, for that I am thankful. I started reading some of the posts where people have asked questions that I have had to deal with, and thought I would offer my advice at first. From there I have just been having fun with the feeling that reminded me of some of the BS sessions when I was in, where we would discuss a wide variety of subjects, and of course picking on each other. I myself have only encountered 2 hateful small minded individuals in here (and I understand 1 has been removed). I try not to get into heated debates myself, so I usually pass by the political most of the time. And look more to try and help others as best I can. (I must be doing a pretty decent job, I keep getting up votes on most of my thoughts)

Response by Brian Hope made Jul 18 at 2017 1:29 AM

2017-07-18T01:29:28-04:00

The reason I am here is because 1. I have many friends who have served, and continue to serve. 2. I wanted to serve. The closest I got was cadet captain in USMCJROTC, lol and when I got to the great lakes meps station I was determined to be 4f so sad they got me in the duck walk. I was joining to become a master at arms in 93 which they just opened up to everyone in the navy. So yeah I have always have had an affinity for the military so now I study military history and I am into living history a.k.a. re-enacting

Response by MAJ Don Bigger made Aug 5 at 2017 12:15 AM

2017-08-05T00:15:21-04:00

My therapist said it would be good for me

Ok, more seriously--To keep in touch with a brotherhood that I spent a major part of my life went. To continue to learn from, share ideas with, and associate with.

Response by AA Joseph Moody made Aug 5 at 2017 9:17 AM

2017-08-05T09:17:08-04:00

I did a hitch in the navy because it was the first ride I got out of a very bad situation (yes, I was that kid) and later I ended up being a federal employee when I had a chance to get back into electronics after college, and I was in federal service until some health issues made that a...problem ( more for others then for me ).

So I took up art, 3d art actually, and I ended up spending much time working with indie game devs, and artists and programmers. But I discovered something about a year or so into doing that. I was a craptastic personalty fit for that type of culture. And don't get me wrong I still do 3d art, but...I needed a community that understood the value of self accountability, personal integrity, and quite frankly not BSing yourselves every time life puts you in a position where you have to pick an option that is a shade of gray.

This is where I go when I need to interact with people who understand that they are not the center of the universe. and that the road to success is paved with hard work and dedication and often goes through the sewers.

Response by SPC Brett Curry made Aug 17 at 2017 2:47 PM

2017-08-17T14:47:05-04:00

I can't lie, I can to RP for help. I have multiple issues I need help with. And within 24 hrs I had to Wonderful officer's reach out to me and say hi, and let me know if there is anything he can do just ask. That imediatly made me feel comfortable enough to say what is going on in my life and am already being pointed in the right direction by fellow brothers who I don't know but feel a connection with that only we can understand.

Response by PO3 Brad Phillips made Aug 22 at 2017 6:41 PM

2017-08-22T18:41:05-04:00

The connection. I don't mind political talk, but your right! The name calling and personal attacks are wrong. I feel we as veterans. Brothers and sisters from all walks of life. Should be showing are civilian counterparts what we learned in our service. What I left the service with was knowing we all don't see things the same. But we can all still get along as a unit. (Unity, united) we all need to watch eachothers six. We all will have at least one thing in common with one another. We don't have to hang out and be friends. But we can still get along.

I don't think it's that hard.

Response by Sgt Wayne Wood made Aug 22 at 2017 8:00 PM

2017-08-22T20:00:32-04:00

Kinda stumbled in here following a post from FB or something... Stayed because i miss the camaraderie. I'm a news junkie, so i post interesting news tidbits. I'm also an avid reader so i post about interesting books i read.

Response by CPL Craig Warnshuis made Aug 24 at 2017 11:00 PM

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I unfortunately had to get out after 6 years due to a divorce and getting custody of my 4 yr. old son. Single Dad soldiers are not so much welcome so I chose my kid over the Army. Loved my job and the whole experience. It molded me into the person I am. It was also the correct choice as that kid is now grown up and provides for his wife and kids and is a fine young man. I am on here to listen to the stories and stay in touch with something I miss. Everybody has an opinion and if I don't like one, I go to the next post.

Response by SP5 Ken Harrower made Aug 28 at 2017 9:23 AM

2017-08-28T09:23:45-04:00

A unit is not one person, just like a country is not one person. We need each other for help and strength. The militarily taught me that my actions do affect others even when it may not look like it. Think before acting, or typeing.

Response by SPC Todd Rhoades made Aug 31 at 2017 8:27 AM

2017-08-31T08:27:45-04:00

HOOAH!
Some seem to either not understand or are not aware of the words on the document we swore to defend.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 31 at 2017 11:24 AM

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Simply put, there are those that value and respect differing opinions and there are those that do not. As a reflection on society, the squeaky wheel gets the oil regardless of how small. I respect others opinions even if I disagree, unfortunately others do not treat differing opinions the same.

Response by SGM Paul Shenep (R) made Sep 1 at 2017 9:46 AM

2017-09-01T09:46:04-04:00

First here to network, then I realized I wanted to follow my passion and start an LLC..., but when you hired Ivy League employees to your staff not veterans and want let me post my brand as my profile picture, I have stepped down almost completely with this site. Ty for letting me share, your rules and hiring practices need attention, your making money off our uniform Services.

Response by SCPO Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 4 at 2017 1:23 PM

2017-09-04T13:23:10-04:00

Dana Perino told me about this site on The Five one night three years ago. Since then, reading the psychotic, grammatically ignorant, racist, and/or heads-up-their-asses comments and posts of too many people, officers and enlisted, who have served or are serving in our Armed Forces have led me to question why I have stayed. Maybe it's the truly great people that I have met on here, maybe it is. However, shitcanning the points system and 99.999% of the Admins would make this site just about perfect.

Response by Penny Tucker made Sep 4 at 2017 4:15 PM

2017-09-04T16:15:44-04:00

I was curious what thoughts were out there with the military community. have some family members who have either been in the military or still are active members. Great learning place when check in

Response by SrA Alvin Cook made Sep 5 at 2017 2:23 PM

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I am here to connect/reconnect with my brothers and sisters who have honorably served our country. Also to advocate on behalf of us all legislation that benefits service/prior service members. We all fought for the right of free speech but it should be tempered withcommon courtesy toward those with opposing views

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 12 at 2017 6:48 AM

2017-09-12T06:48:12-04:00

I loved RallyPoint when I first joined, because of the reason you mentioned above. The ability to get insight from seniors, peers and subordinates, alike. Then it became a popularity contest. Then it became just another social media page. And then all decorum and respect went out the window.

AD guys would still offer courtesies due to the fact that, yes, if it came down to it and you disrespected the wrong person, it could find you and bite you in the ass.

And then there were others. Lost my taste for Rallypoint for quite a while because of it.

Response by Maj Robert Dudley made Sep 12 at 2017 2:20 PM

2017-09-12T14:20:06-04:00

This is my first day here. Where have you guys been? I joined because I wanted to bond with some men and women who have been through the military. I work from home, mainly on my computer. This site gives me a change to reach out.

Response by Sgt Martin Querin made Sep 12 at 2017 6:22 PM

2017-09-12T18:22:07-04:00

Thanks for making a great point and asking a great question. I am here to connect and to share ideas and opportunities with those that have served. I don't really mind political posts. I don't usually read the Hillary bashing, or Trump accolades. I did just recently get pretty excited about a post that proposed deleting the words "under God" from the pledge and sitting during the pledge or the national anthem, and that burning the flag should be an acceptable practice in protest because "after all, it's just a piece of cloth". But even in these dialogues, although I was definitely confrontational, I tried to remain civil...well civil to the SM poster, in truth I wanted to beat the little punk that made the video's butt.

I don't appreciate posts, or replies that are simply demeaning, or personal attacks. I hope that we are better than that. But I do hope that we have lively and intelligent exchanges and debate important topics that are relevant to the services, service members and also that cause the former SM community to think and take a leadership role as former service members in guiding policy and in shaping our form of government.

Response by SGT David Petree made Sep 12 at 2017 10:13 PM

2017-09-12T22:13:39-04:00

In 03 I lost the person, & the NCO. It took me a year just to find the person again. Since coming to RP the NOC started coming back. Not completely back from hiding yet. but he is poking he`s head out.

Response by PO1 Aaron Baltosser made Sep 12 at 2017 11:37 PM

2017-09-12T23:37:01-04:00

Fellowship. After I retired, there was a void in my life that had been filled by fellowship. I still talk with many that are or were Active Duty, but it was not the same as a retiree for me. I like talking to people that have a common bond as I do. I don't actually have any friends that aren't affiliated in some way with military service. I don't talk to that many people otherwise.

Response by SGM Bill Frazer made Sep 26 at 2017 8:54 AM

2017-09-26T08:54:08-04:00

Amen Ben- the rest of the world and our Nation seems to have forgotten that we all have the right to respectfully agree to disagree. It is much nicer to just state your OPINION and then let it go before things getting heated. If you are so busy arguing then you are no rationally discussing. We should be trained and responsible enough to DISCUSS issues not scream or name call. Thank Admin!

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 26 at 2017 3:42 PM

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People watching

Response by SGM Gerald Fife made Oct 5 at 2017 1:40 PM

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First, I didn't realize that RP had been here as long as it has. Mainly I am here to see and hear what is going on in our military community. My personal community begins with my father serving in WWI. His brother joined the AAC in 1933 and retired from the AF in 1953. Then WWII came along and my brothers and other relatives joined up. Then I enlisted in 1954.and retired with 36 years. My family is still serving as my great great nephew enlisted last August. So, since 1933 my personal community has had almost a total of 250 years of service to this great country of ours. There have been 6 retirees from this group. I have commented on a few things but mostly not even though I guess a SGM is suppose to have a comment on everything. Can't do it. Just takes too much time to read everything then have a comment. I'll let the ladies have the last word on things, at least my wife does. This will start another round of comments. Good luck to all of you in your endeavors.

Response by PFC John SP4 Spurrell made Oct 11 at 2017 8:05 AM

2017-10-11T08:05:59-04:00

Well I am proud that I received the president's unit citation award an a personal citation as well, but it was removed for reporting Fraud, waste an abuse. But still they could not remove my Honorable! ❤️

Response by SFC James William Bolt [ 40 Yards ] made Oct 11 at 2017 9:11 AM

2017-10-11T09:11:35-04:00

Why are you here ? In your mind set pro or con for the mission you are assigned ? Are you going to put 100 % of your effort into the mission from the grunt in the fox hole to the rear end of the supply chain Your mind set will effect that mission. All have to be as one mind for the mission to be accomplish I remember the old saying for the lost of a horse shoe a horse was lost for the lost of a horse a rider was lost for the lost of a rider a battle was lost for the lost of a battle a war was lost Sign 40 yards

Response by MAJ Scott Meehan made Oct 12 at 2017 3:55 PM

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Hopefully to provide insightful lessons learned to current and future men and women of the Armed Forces.

Response by SGT William Brown made Oct 12 at 2017 9:15 PM

2017-10-12T21:15:49-04:00

Thanks and well said

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 16 at 2017 12:15 AM

2017-10-16T00:15:42-04:00

I joined the Rally Point family to engage in discussions and help my brothers and sisters with any problems they may come across. I also saw it as a great learning opportunity to see both sides in many different scenarios and different problem solving methods.

Response by CW2 Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 17 at 2017 8:57 PM

2017-10-17T20:57:19-04:00

I am here for no reason really. I wanted to read some views from my brothers and sisters, maybe give a bit of advise or find some humor. I won't say much politically because my views are too extreme for most. George Carlin was pretty close towards the end. You said there is a dirty shadow following us; brother that is humanity. We will probably never all get along. With 1.1 million you mentioned, that is a lot of different viewpoints. We would have no needs for armies or weapons if we got along and thought the same way. I think for many people it would help their blood pressure if they took more breaks, but if it is something they are passionate about, there is a very stubborn habit people have to keep doing it, myself included.

Response by SP5 Jeannie Carle made Oct 31 at 2017 2:17 AM

2017-10-31T02:17:09-04:00

I am here to once-again feel "connected" to my brothers and sisters. It's been a very long time since I was active, but let me say - this is the most "comfortable" site I've ever found. Memories are brought back. I hope to see someone eventually with whom I served, but I still feel like all these unfamiliar names are people I know. I'm more grateful than I can express for this site. It helps soooo much on those long nights when you don't feel like you belong ANY where. I DO belong here.

Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 3 at 2017 7:34 PM

2017-11-03T19:34:06-04:00

I may be just a boot in the Marine Corps, both I'm here to help out the military community to the best of my abilities and to learn from those above me (which is pretty much everyone on here)

Response by Cpl Raymond Hottinger made Nov 3 at 2017 8:25 PM

2017-11-03T20:25:13-04:00

I came here looking for Marine's I served with. That is the short answer. :)

Response by SSG Edward Tilton made Nov 3 at 2017 9:58 PM

2017-11-03T21:58:14-04:00

Where am I?

Response by PFC Robert Rice made Nov 4 at 2017 1:09 AM

2017-11-04T01:09:54-04:00

I agree with you 100%. That is the reason I am here. I want to connect with my brother's and sister's. I don't have time for name calling or drama. That stuff is better left to Facebook or Google.

Response by Cpl Jeff Ruffing made Nov 5 at 2017 4:55 PM

2017-11-05T16:55:55-05:00

I’m here to reconnect with my brothers and sisters. To be informed and to inform. To establish friendships and rekindle old ones. It’s a community that I sacrificed a lot to be in, and I’m not leaving. To death do us part, but, I will be waiting in heaven for you

Response by SGT George Smith made Nov 8 at 2017 6:06 PM

2017-11-08T18:06:31-05:00

I look for the military connection and don’t care for political comments. I much prefer respectful give a d take.

Response by SFC Gary Guyer made Nov 9 at 2017 8:04 AM

2017-11-09T08:04:06-05:00

I am here to reconnect with my past and learn from the New read of soldiers and what they are currently experiencing in todays Military.

Response by SSgt Harvey "Skip" Porter made Nov 18 at 2017 2:55 PM

2017-11-18T14:55:16-05:00

I would rather be a healthy peasant than a rich king

Our Health is the greatest of all our possessions. That's why it's imperative that the VA assures that Veterans care is improved and get rid of the Manager's that are falsifying records on appointments and their facilities are providing sub par care so they can receive bonuses how selfish is that. These unscrupulous Manager's put their bonuses above the life's of Veterans. That's very cold blooded. We know that in battle serving some of us will never return home alive. However that shouldn't be case losing lives of Veterans because they couldn't get an appointment. We must contact our elected politicians and let them hear it from us that we will not stand for Veterans to continually be mistreated and receive sub par care.

Just because I receive good care from the VA facility in Martinez California. It doesn't make me feel any better knowing that somewhere out there a Veteran died because he or she couldn't get an appointment or they committed suicide because they were so frustrated with the system.

Keep in mind how long did our government deny agent orange? I wasn't there but I talked to so many guys that explained how the herbicide was all over the foliage and everything around them. Now let's fast forward almost 700,000 of us were sent to the Persian Gulf in 1991. Many returned with illnesses that couldn't be determined what they were. Headaches, nausea and rashes etc. Later to know as the Gulf War Illness. Most of the Veterans are having a heck of a time with the VA Benefits system again because the government is in denial.

This is not right it's unacceptable and should not be happening at all! Although the system has improved there is still a lot of work to be done. Again I say we as brothers and sisters we must hold these so called Veteran friendly Politicians accountable to deliver not on promises but on what's right. Let's not let them continue to play Russian roulette with our health care. Because our health is the main source off our wealth!

Peace!

Response by SGT George Duncan made Nov 19 at 2017 2:30 PM

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to help if i can

Response by SSG Buddy Kemper made Nov 21 at 2017 8:23 AM

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I'm here really because I miss by buddy's and that good old military camaraderie. Plus I love the discussions and being able to keep up with folks who still serve (I retired April '15). Anywho, I try to stay positive and be an encourage to all. Honestly, there have been a few times I let some left-wing type get me a little riled up and I've said some things i wish i could have a do-over on. That's been quiet a while back, tho, and I'mm steering clear of those kinds of discussions. Thanks to all admins and the others behind the scenes who make it work. I always look forward to the discussions, comments and info. Cheers and Happy Thanksgiving!!!

Response by Sheryl Foland made Nov 29 at 2017 1:35 AM

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I'm a Navy Mom (oldest son went to boot camp the week after we declared war, '02 to '07), USMC Mom (youngest son enlisted after high school graduation '02 to '06), Navy Sister ('00 to present - 3 tours Iraq x2, Afghanistan), Great Niece of a WWII vet (guest of the Germans '44-'45), USMC Daughter ('60-'64), hubby attend West Point, brother-in-law went to The Citadel...and related to and friends with many other veterans. Yes, ARMY/NAVY games prove interesting around our house. Due to a medical issue, I was not able to serve.

I joined RP as a way to learn more so I can better assist any veteran in need. I'm an LCSW in Wyoming. I specialize in trauma therapies (EMDR, CBT, etc.). I have 2 trained therapy dogs (Marley and Lucy) who work with me. For Vets without insurance, I provide mental health services at low or no cost to them. I provide services to Vets' family members at reduced costs. My phone is always on (text, email, or call) and there's a pot of coffee or hot tea at the ready.

Response by Capt Karlos Nordinsifeller made Dec 2 at 2017 12:09 PM

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I’m here because it’s an electronic rally point for veterans. I like open communications, and prefer that bigots identify themselves with key statements like “black people” or “white people” or “liberals” or “conservatives “. But mostly I just enjoy hearing the guidance of (and just as telling) the questions of, military members.

Response by A1C John Weiss made Dec 3 at 2017 8:07 PM

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My fellow veterans, I am here on R-P to connect with other veterans and learn of others circumstance and their way of dealing with those circumstances. I do Not want to get involved in political discussions on this site. As a matter of fact I avoid politics on this site unless it involves our military. Then I will voice my opinion in a concise and polite way, just as if I was standing alongside or in front of you discussing the subject. It also would be the least I would expect from you. So I say to you my brothers and sisters remember the manners that you were taught and treat each other as just that. Brothers and I sisters. Be well and Merry Christmas and or Happy Hanukkah.

Response by CPL Darlene Foley made Dec 18 at 2017 5:24 PM

2017-12-18T17:24:05-05:00

I am new to RallyPoint and have not really gotten involved in any of the stuff on here. I came because a fellow vet suggested it. I am sorry that the political hatred has spread to this site, but I tend to ignore it for the most part no matter where I am when I see it.

Response by LCDR Robert S. made Dec 18 at 2017 9:22 PM

2017-12-18T21:22:29-05:00

I'm here to pick on the Air Force guys.

Response by SSgt Harvey "Skip" Porter made Dec 19 at 2017 11:42 PM

2017-12-19T23:42:17-05:00

I think this is a great forum to connect and discuss with other Veterans subject's of mutual interest to all of us. Anytime you pick up on a discussion about religion or politics there is bound to be a lot off heated disagreement. As for me sharing and connecting with other Veterans is my reason for being here. As for the politics it doesn't matter to me from which party they are from. What I do sincerely care about is that the politicians put up or shut up and do what's right for us Veterans.

Peace!

Response by SGT Brianna MacKinnon made Dec 23 at 2017 5:08 PM

2017-12-23T17:08:13-05:00

While I have been out of the military for over 15 years I have seen questions by new service members that I have been able to respond to and provide advice about.

Also, when I WAS in the Service I served as a Male Soldier in two combat-arms MOS's, Field Artillery Surveyor (active duty) and Infantry (active Reserves) as well as a Drill Sgt (in the Reserves) I came out several years ago as being Transgender after I left the service. This is another reason I am here because quite a few people do not realize exactly how many Transgender Service Members that they may have served with and that we also want to have the chance to serve openly to protect our Constitution.
The Military did not fall apart with the integration of Black Soldiers with the rest of the Military. Same with allowing Females to serve in the Military. Then allowing Gay and Lesbian SM's to serve openly did not lead to the loss of morale in the Barracks and elsewhere. Allowing those of us who are Transgender to OPENLY serve will ALSO not detract from the mission we all swear to uphold.

Response by SrA Alan Dirk Scott made Dec 24 at 2017 10:17 PM

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I am here to learn how to live as a civilian. How to heal. How to not be in the war daily. I am also hear to support my brothers and sisters in arms and help where I can help. Have meaningful discussions with people who understand and want to be understood. In the fox hole so to speak there are no political parties, no race, no one is better than the other. There should only be mutual respect and compassion. We all had and have a job to do. No one heals or makes it out alive unless we all do. The world will beat us up. Let’s not beat each other up. That is why I am here.

Response by SSG Brian MacBain made Dec 25 at 2017 8:37 AM

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I am here to meet others in all services present/past, and future. I can never stop learning from others experiences. I know in the past, I was one that been attacked and dished out personal attacks and that was wrong. I learned to "grow thick skin" and I do not take anything personal (unless deals with family, there is a line that everyone knows not to cross). RP has been doing pretty good job from what I had seen. Can't remember all the rules, but I would like to suggest (if not already done) to those who violates the rules pertaining to personnel attacks (especially from a political stand point) is this 1st time-warning letter (aka counseling letter from admins). 2nd time, 30 day suspension of posting anything on RP. 3rd time - account suspended for 30-60 days. There would be a timeframe of within 6 months of each event. Example, 1st offense -1 Jan, 2nd offense - 4 April, and 3rd Offense - 1 August. Even though from the first offense to the third is 8 months, but it is within 6 months of each offense. Just my suggestion. Also, the offender would have the right to appeal the decision with the admins (that was not involve of the punishment).

Response by SFC Greg Bruorton made Dec 25 at 2017 7:41 PM

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As Sergeant Premock and others have shared, I prefer to pass on the political rants and complaints because that form is heavy elsewhere. Instead, I'm here to re-connect after many years of isolation from the military professional of all ranks and to learn what has changed since my retirement in 1980. My heart races when I encounter a fellow paratrooper from the 82nd offer comments and I wish to learn about the newer developments and language. (Are you still jumping with the MC-1 or newer models?)
Yes, I miss the Army and had wanted to go beyond my 20 years plus, but family circumstances dictated a different venue for me. I realize that I couldn't get back on jump status because of a fractured back and would end up either in another Special Security detachment or a Signal outfit as its first sergeant, which was my desire.

While on this forum, I have learned more than reckoned and I appreciate all who have offered insights of the modern-day Army. Thanks to all of you for putting aside rank for a while and communicate with others sharing the same interests. I've enjoyed the stories and events of others.

Response by SPC Margaret Higgins made Dec 25 at 2017 8:22 PM

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SGT Ben Keen: I have been attacked by others; and I have gone ahead and blocked said attackers. I think that it is very unfortunate that I have had to block some members of Rally Point; as I since have wanted to vote up said Rally Point members.
My reason for being here? Well, I am here, mainly, because Rally Point is my main connection with the military. I feel that us Rally Pointers: Get it....have the same sense of humor....are exceedingly intelligent. I also Love the sense of camaraderie here on Rally Point.
Rally Point is one of the best things that has ever happened to me, SGT Ben Keen
Most Sincerely, Margaret C. Higgins U.S. Army Retired: Photographer

Response by SGT Chris Stephens made Dec 25 at 2017 8:27 PM

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I'm here to answer questions of those younger than me, and who don't have the experience I do in the military. I like to also talk to those about how I used my GI Bill, and ways I've gotten through the red tape at the VA.

As far as people's negative posts, Rally Point has taken on the same look as every other social media platform. Politics has divided our nation, and it's no different on social media. Our country has gotten to a point where we want others to believe the same way politically that we do. And if they don't, we do whatever we say things to prop ourselves above others. Democrats think Republicans are evil, and Republicans think the same about Democrats. There is no middle ground in our country anymore, as evidenced by how little gets done in Congress. It's the either you're with us or against us mentality.

Response by SCPO Morris Ramsey made Dec 26 at 2017 12:37 AM

2017-12-26T00:37:04-05:00

SGT Ben Keen So you did not vote for Mr. Trump

Response by LTC Jason Mackay made Dec 26 at 2017 12:44 AM

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I purposely avoid the political click bait. I come here to participate in professional discussions, help where I can, and learn a thing or two from others. Strategy/ Policy discussions can go high and right as they live in the gray area between contemporary mudslinging politics and the strategic involvement of the armed forces at the highest levels.

Policy discussions have completely become unhinged. Anything to do with LBGTQ and any combination of,letters and numbers after it will attract that hardcore "for" and the ardent "against" players. All the usual suspects. I honestly believe RP is not going to solve this because there is no exchange of evidence based views and the conversation devolves down to typed yelling and "Jane you ignorant slut" comebacks. It is divisive and counter productive.

I avoid religious posts as a rule. Many look at their faith as an integral part of serving. I have prayed for God to protect me and mine in combat. I will tell anyone who asks me, if they ask me. But My faith is between me and the God I pray to when I am cold, scared, tired and hungry. I doubt most RP users are unhappy with their current salvation provider and arent in this forum seeking an alternative when they are looking for help on how to do a 4187 to get an early separation for college.

I think that the random "family member" RP members are generally not value added. There are several that are clearly teenagers that treat RP as a vanilla social media outlet and act(-up) accordingly. I either ignore them or bail on the discussion all together. Some of the "family members" have only the loosest and tangential connections to military service. Some come to discussions trying to decipher what is happening with their service member. Many times they are getting filtered and selected information from their SM. That discussion is really between them and their SM. Many times they need to be talking to ACS, Sailor and Family Center, AER, etc. but will blindly follow random stranger advice on a website. We are not even considering the mess we may be making for some poor Company Command team that will ultimately have to fix the real problem, what ever it is.

One of the other things I was hoping to accomplish was to close the perceived gap between junior and senior soldiers. Maybe the Navy and Air Force can limp along with the hard stop between Officers, NCOs, and enlisted. The services that engage in decisive ground combat absolutely can't. We have to be on the same page and understand we are concerned with different parts of that same page depending on our assigned duty responsibilities. To many junior soldiers, the big Army is some random, amorphous cloud that dispenses good and bad fortune capriciously. Most issues are decided in whole or in large part at the Brigade and below. Subordinate commanders have large latitude. Company Command teams have wide latitude to set policy and SOP to enforce good order, discipline, and ensure readiness as they see fit given regulations and their environment. I try and demystify that where I can, but what your chain of command decides, goes. The restriction us Rally Pointers don't have is being nose to nose with that BDE, BN, or CO Command team who,is elbow deep in all the problems without the luxury of looking at that one In isolation.

Response by SCPO Morris Ramsey made Dec 26 at 2017 1:09 AM

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SGT Ben Keen A lot of comments. So I guess there is interest. I am actually an RP novice. I am a member of a very small group and I enjoy their postings. Most are not too political. I do wonder about the large number of members who are disrespectful to the President and First Lady. I suspect these same people use graffiti in the head and washroom to bash the Skipper and other members of the management time.
Why am I here. Mostly for the fun of it and the fellowship of people with shared interest.

Response by SN Greg Wright made Dec 26 at 2017 1:32 AM

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Rallypoint shares some of the blame. They've dovetailed interactions among members into only 3 categories: questions, comments, links. There is no method to just...bullshit. Like every service member I've ever met wants to do. War stories, bullshit stories, helpful stories. Anecdotal conversations that can teach others. Nope. Now, you can post a link. A FB-style update, or a highly regimented question. RP is partially suffering at it's own behest.

Response by CPT Lawrence Cable made Dec 26 at 2017 9:48 AM

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I come here to keep in contact with the military community and help when I can. I'll express a political opinion, but that's about it. I'm not here to debate Trump, Democrats, Republicans, or others and I try to remain civil at all times. I am more likely to be opinionated about military subjects on here than argue politics, although sometimes that is a very thin line.

Response by SGT Frank Pritchett made Dec 26 at 2017 10:01 AM

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My situation is unique that I have a wealth of knowledge and I am willing to share it, I have always put the soldier first in remembrance of me. As a young NCO I had nothing but bad information and even worse in training. The good ole boy system is the worst system in the world and it plagues our military in the worst way. If I can help just one Soldier to take a step up without becoming a toxic NCO, then it's worth it. If we can help those on active duty then those that have retired and still care then this is the place to be.

Response by SFC Dave Beran made Dec 26 at 2017 10:29 AM

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I am here to support all of my brothers and sisters in arms. I have felt that this forum was long needed. The comraderie as well as the interesting articles. I have come to know different people with differing viewpoints. My only problems with anyone on either side has been the use of fake news information. After correcting several members they found reliable sources. Some still try to throw up anything negative on either side. I myself am a centrist. Many would call me a libertarian. Maybe. I believe we need to be respectful. I know sometimes it is hard. But in the end we have all been there done that. So brothers and sisters please enjoy the information. Please help one another. If you know of a friend who is having a difficult time please stay in touch with them.

Response by LT Brad McInnis made Dec 26 at 2017 10:58 AM

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I came for military fellowship. We have to remember that regardless of faults, this forum does a great service. Just last week a member would have left us, but got the help they needed through here, and they are still here!

Response by SFC Jim Ruether made Dec 26 at 2017 1:00 PM

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I was surprised when I first got on here and was shot out of the saddle my first or second post. I thought boy this crowd is pretty rough but I was encouraged by others to stick around and it got better. I figure if I can help someone with the knowledge I have gathered or my experience I am more than happy to oblige. As far as political commentary or opinions go, I am guilty as charged for running my opinion up the flag pole and being less accepting of others and their views. I am working on that but it still bothers me when people are less accepting of my opinion or views too. So I usually just take things with a grain of salt and move on rather than confront someone unless it has something to do with God, America, Guns, Constitution, Liberty, family, any branch of the service, my friends on RP or........well you get the picture I am sure.

Response by PO3 David Mondello made Dec 28 at 2017 9:55 AM

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I'm here to connect with fellow Veterans and Service Members.

Response by HN Kathleen M Peck made Jan 6 at 2018 7:55 PM

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I am here to join in and learn from meaningful discussions with the Military Community. I would, however, like to comment and thank SGT Ben Keen for his post. Whether I agree or disagree with the outcome of an election I will not have a discussion with anyone outside my family (sometimes not even them) because in this day and age with all the social media, people feel it's okay to speak up and say whatever is on their mind nice or not and sometimes not even accurate. Your post hit the nail on the head. Thank you!

Response by SGT Sunny Lalingua made Jan 13 at 2018 10:33 AM

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I'm here because when I saw this webpage float across my computer screen I thought I might have a chance to find a familiar name with whom I shared some of my Army time. I haven't yet found anyone I knew but I will still peruse.

Response by SPC Joseph Durham made Jan 13 at 2018 7:07 PM

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I am here to add my perspective. I don't know if anyone has ever from actions in this blog walked into a VA center and solved someones problems for them. If you are a problem solver, let me be the first to thank you. We need more people like you.
I am also blessed to be here as I have had several extreme chances to give my life for my country. I would gladly have done just that. But God had seen it grateful enough to save my life. I now live everyday in his name.
I do not know anybody that deliberately became verbally abusive to me on these posts. But this is like a large family. People will have differing views. Some of at opposite ends of the spectrum. The only thing I can say is that you will never change anybody views of politics and religion here in this forum. And to down grade somebody's view of their politics and religion is just the opposite of what you want to do to effect change.
Pacifist: This is something Jesus was not. When Jesus went on a rampage through his Father's house tipping over money changer's tables and over stuff. Now is a good time to look in the Bible and see exactly what Jesus did in his Father's house. The person that believed in the Pacifism of Jesus Christ now will have to resolve a conflict. The methods Jesus used was not very Pacifistic.
But then again, talking about a 2,000 year old man and pinning all the problems on Earth on him isn't very sporting either.

Response by TSgt Christopher Millikin made Jan 18 at 2018 5:53 PM

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Make connections. Should be zero conflict between members, we are all "proud" of our particular branches, but should band together as brothers & sisters in arms always. We are our best when we have one goal as I witnessed in Desert Shield/Storm, and as one who went through Mt. Pinatubo evacuation.

Response by SPC David Willis made Jan 25 at 2018 1:16 PM

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Im guilty of this as well, I try to be respectful as often as I can and hopefully the people Ive disagreed with can attest to that. Unfortunately sometimes Im not so great at it and can clap back at folks with the justification that Im simply returning fire even though it doesn't really make it better.

Response by Terry M made Jan 29 at 2018 3:18 PM

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First off, I'm a civilian. I'm the father of a Marine infantry NCO. I joined because I wanted to gain a little bit of insight of what our son is going through in case he asks for my advice. I rarely comment on these threads because I don't feel it's my place but I thought I could contribute something to this one. My father always said " don't talk about religion or politics because it always end in an argument " and he was a WW2 veteran. He was correct! Those are personal issues that everyone decides for themselves. As a older civilian i remember what respect is and I think it gets lost sometimes on some of these inflammatory posts... Remember where you came from... We're all in this together. Just my two cents.

Response by PO3 Pat Hagan made Jan 30 at 2018 12:58 AM

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I joined this group initially to benefit my step-son who has just entered the Navy. I have offered him as much advice as I can, based on my experiences many years ago, to make his tour as rewarding and enjoyable as possible. As I learn more about what he is doing I realize there have been many changes in how the navy does things that I am not aware of. The core principles and basic expectations are still there but much of the technical and logistical systems have advanced quite a bit since I served. So I'm hear to Listen (read) and learn from those of you who may be more up to date on current issues and requirements so that I might help him be successful.

Response by SSG Edward Tilton made Jan 30 at 2018 10:02 PM

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To paraphrase President Clinton THAT WOULD DEPEND ON WHAT YOUR DEFINITION OF HERE IS

Response by Col Robert Wallace made Feb 4 at 2018 11:09 PM

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The first time I came upon Rally Point, I saw a few questions about military service/procedures/ranks etc. After reading a few of the comments, I felt and hope I could add some additional insight that I did not see in any comments. Since that time, Col. Mikel Burroughs' "Quote Of The Day" and other questions have inspired me to submit my own opinions. In doing so, not only have I learned to really think about what is said, but have actually changed some of my thinking due to opinion of others. Finally, the majority of members are military, therefore can relate to many subjects which a civilian cannot. The feeling of Brotherhood has grown to tremendous heights.

Response by 1SG Ken Rossi made Mar 3 at 2018 2:01 AM

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I stumbled on RP purely by accident but stayed because of many of the same reasons as others have - being able to talk with fellow veterans and to sometimes be able to pass on some of the wisdom I have gained in 60 plus years of life - additionally, I teach leadership and related courses as a university professor and maybe I can help guide or mentor some of our younger members and help those nearing the end of their service make the transition (if needed). I enjoy the topics and discussions and can overlook some of the more negative things, it seems that is a product of the times we live in and the ability to do such things in a basically anonymous and hidden manner, its not right, its not pretty but its what it is. I just pass by the more viral things in any social media and sometimes I use it for discussion material in classes I teach. I see everything as a teachable moment, a place we can learn from. I got involved in Facebook as a way to keep up with my kids when they were away at school and stayed to keep up with old friends (those who were never in the military) and it became a way to keep up with students after they graduated and moved on. RP, LinkedIn and Facebook all serve a purpose and sometimes we have to deal with the garbage along with the good stuff. I will continue to look at RP, occasionally chime in, and start things when I can when time permits. I just hope that we all can learn from these kinds of things and understand that even when we are anonymous, hidden behind a screen those on the other side of the comments do feel them. So, hang tough guys (that's a generic thing) and try not to let it get to you. there is far more positive being part of this site than there is negative.

Response by CW3 Jere Hodges made Mar 9 at 2018 8:45 PM

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RallyPoint should be one place gentlemen can agree to disagree. Supposedly we are all brothers and sisters in arms who share a common yet different experience. Respect the right of others to express an opinion which might differ from yours, and enjoy Rally Point as a site where we can find common ground as well as seek answers to our questions.

Response by SGT Jack Stevens made Mar 23 at 2018 3:14 PM

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I'm here to stay connected, with other Vets, those still serving, and those who have ETSd and want to serve once again. As for Politics. It's sad on what is happening in the U.S. today. Epically with our armed forces. It seems every 10 to 20 years a cycle happens. This time around, those that have served, serving, or want to do not realize this is why the Politics is left to Washington DC. There is no room for it in the military. Now don't get me wrong. The military has it's own brand of politics, and I've seen go as far down as the platoon or section level. And this should never happen. It should never get below Battalion/Squadron Level to begun with.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 23 at 2018 5:41 PM

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I like to provide guidance and use my experience to help others.

Response by SPC Tom DeSmet made Mar 23 at 2018 8:48 PM

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I know I have misunderstood a question once and wished I hadnt answered it as it looks bad after I saw my answer. I am vehemently anti-politically correct. Yet I found myself reacting to someone for saying a certain polical figure had a certain mental condition that a family member of mine has. It is a serious day to day struggle in our household, but I found myself wishing I had the ability to delete my post.
I must say that this site reminds me that once upon a time I worked with honorable patriots and those were by far the best years of my life. I enjoy reading the posts on this site, and often I find them thought provoking. The daily motivational quotes have helped me focus my energy in a positive light. I hope that I am a little better at being positive as a result and hope I have not offended anyone. If so, it is due to being a human with flaws and not because I was being vindictive. This site is oh so much more positive than Facebook, and I appreciate being in your company.

Response by SFC Ralph E Kelley made Mar 29 at 2018 1:14 PM

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Here to connect with your brothers and sisters-in-arms and to help provide meaningful answers to questions.
Plus try to pass on some lessons learned - some easily and some the hard way - I will do this with directness and forethought.

Response by CPT Jack Durish made Mar 30 at 2018 12:14 PM

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Asked and answered before. Why don't we address the real issue: Disrespect? Yes, the election has come and gone. And yes, the vitriol remains. Why? Because the losers not only lost (Congress and the White House as well as countless governor's mansions and state legislatures) but also the inertia of their agenda. Yes, they will once again have a chance to regain those lost seats in government, but will they ever regain the momentum that was propelling their agenda to fundamentally change America? That is the question that drives their acrimony, acrimony that manifests itself in disrespect. Well, I for one don't mind. They can be as disrespectful to me as they like. If it becomes too much, I can always block them. However, I rarely do. I must confess to a guilty pleasure: Their pain is a constant reminder that they lost. If they really want to disturb me, they would simply shut up. But they won't, no more than Hillary who is now complaining that she is being singled out with demands that she shut up. Not by me. Not by most who contributed to her loss. No, we are relishing in her pain. It is a constant reminder that America will not be fundamentally changed, not by her. And for all of us who swore to defend the Constitution against all enemies, foreign and domestic, her pain and the pain of all those Progressives, is music to our ears. We don't need to disrespect anyone. They disrespect themselves.

Response by SPC Margaret Higgins made Mar 30 at 2018 12:22 PM

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I am here to save lives, to assist others, to cheer others up, to respect others more than myself, to love others, and to have compassion on others.

Response by Capt Dwayne Conyers made Mar 30 at 2018 12:39 PM

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On active duty, we would often chat about any and every thing going on in the world. We all had diverse opinions but it never got ugly.

Response by Cpl Mark A. Morris made Mar 30 at 2018 12:48 PM

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SGT,
Only veterans and active duty persons can understand and interact on sharded experience/s. RP is like an online military Garrison post IMO. Except, where all military branches are together. So, it is goint to be a learning curve for some and eye rolling for others while that learning curve happens.
I suppose, I had a bit of a learning curve here. My background was a bit rough and not realizing all military branches were like what I was once an active part of.
Anyway, I joined RP not just beacuse I earned the right to be here. I feel better being among my own kind as I make war in the civilian business world. It is not war in the classic sense as we here understand it.
As a 55 year old veteran small business owner, I joined RP when it was time for me to cross the line of departure/leave my field pack at rally point to move forward against the enemy/competition. In a way, I gather my power/rest in Garrison while I plan my patrol and ambush. It is scary to fight/take productivity knowing there is no second place. Only winning. I refresh myself here. Even if we do not know each other. If reminds me of who I will always be and where I get my strength.
As Honorably Discharged Cpl. Morris M. A., I learn from others here. I learn about thinking more deeply. To watch what I write, even if I made mistakes in the past here. It is an Honor to be among those that have helped make America's military the greatest military that has ever stepped foot on this planet.
We are the 1% that joined America's military. We set the example for the rest of America on how we are to interact. It will not be perfect. Because, there are some real hard chargers here that could care less about compassion and sensitivity. (Thank G-d)
We should remember, we are all green and judge each other on actions. This is the order I was given. But, it was kind of loud and moist. I never stopped being Cpl. Morris as I drove out the Marine Corp School of Infantry gate in early 1992.
Regards,

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmrie19vVwg

255lbs at 55yrs

Response by SFC Quinn Chastant made Apr 10 at 2018 11:46 AM

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More often than not, I'm reading the questions and responses. When I do respond to an inquiry or statement I try to answer within my knowledge base. Occasionally some questions are phrased that a little snark and humor is the only response I can come up with.

Response by SSG (ret) William Martin made Apr 10 at 2018 12:48 PM

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I'm hear for interesting conversations.

Response by Debbie Gray made Jul 21 at 2019 2:36 PM

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I’m here because I am a Military Surviving Spouse of a deceased USAF Vet! He committed Suicide at age 42, within 6 months of retirement!!! We got nothing except a Military Funeral! All doors were closed as I grieved for help! Extramarital
Affairs was the big issue...No one wanted to address this!!! It happens & every one knows it does ! It destroys many marriages...The outcome for many is SUICIDE..for a host of reasons! There was no help in 1998! Our lives just fell apart! I’m here to stand for common -sense issues ! I stand for those forgotten or lost in the system. We are family & these horrible feelings of loneliness, Darkness & no help should never happen again to anyone trying to carry on! Doors should be open for
Help..assistance..grief...investigations...
support to all! Suicide is real... the pain passed is forever life changing...
Respectfully,
SURVIVING SPOUSE OF
USAF DECEASED VET/SUICIDE

Response by SSG Donald H "Don" Bates made Nov 27 at 2019 10:56 AM

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I found the site by accident, best thing that ever happened to me.

Response by CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 27 at 2019 8:55 PM

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SGT Ben Keen, You’re right on identifying the causes and sharing your professional opinion and services. Here on RallyPoint which I joined was because of service. Never Stop Serving Others. Here I found liked minded people who are willing to share their thoughts, knowledge, and especially their time. We can all get along without criticizing each other by being a positive and informative leader. We are All leaders and have a great deal in common with serving our Country faithfully and continue to be a better individual. I’m very honored and thankful for you and your staff on the fantastic job you all do and provide for us all here on RallyPoint. I Salute you and Your Staff for a Job Well Done. James

Response by Sgt Albert Castro made Nov 28 at 2019 2:45 AM

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I was invited to join RP by a coworker and former A-10 pilot shortly after retiring. I joined for "the brother in arms" thing, because I believe we (vets, retired and active duty) have a connection only those that have served can share. I was fed up with the BS in FB, especially the politics and hateful language and meanness that came with it. RP was really cool and I liked and still like all the topics and discussions here. That said, like you said Ben Keene it seems that crap has now found its way to the RP. Even I get sucked into it some times but I wish people would really lighten up with the politics. I get enough politics from my online news magazines. Some folks are turning the RP into FB with there disrespect. I was in Law enforcement for 20 and can be plenty mean. Not with my friends and family y' all. I wish people would stop already with the politics and save it for the voting booth in 2020. That's my 2 cents. Happy Thanksgiving RP Nation!

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made Nov 28 at 2019 3:54 PM

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I come here for the camaraderie and varied discussions about the military. I have a keen interest about military history and the lessons learned and how it applies today. However some people would rather attack a poster instead of the message. Case in point is a SSG and LTC being oblivious to a caustic response that my opinion is stupid. I did not appreciate that discourse and found it acrimonious as they repeatedly posted how their responses were acceptable. When we peel back the onion, I believe most all of us are proponents of dignity and respect.

Response by SGT David Petree made Nov 30 at 2019 2:03 PM

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I was looking for two friends. Now I am helping to answer questions, as best I can. Still looking for my friends in the mean time

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 1 at 2019 2:17 PM

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I'm here to ask and answer military specific questions that troops don't feel comfortable asking people in their rating chain.

Unfortunately I've seen less value on the forum lately. In fact what i consider the best question I've asked on here got 2 great answers from O6 officers but was removed by a moderator. I'm not sure if this is happening to other posts but i don't see any daily emoji posts being removed.

Response by SSG Freddie B Graddy made Dec 1 at 2019 9:16 PM

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Amen brother, amen.

Response by SGT Doug Blanchard made Dec 2 at 2019 11:06 PM

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I am here to connect with fellow Veterans who understand what it means to have served in one branch or another of our nation's military. As only another Vet can truly understand what it means to have done so.
Also to reconnect with others that I served with, as even though I have a number of civilian friends, many who are not Veterans, they just do not understand where I am coming from, what I have done or what I would still do when it comes to standing up and if need be in the gap for this country we call the United States.
You as my brothers and sisters in arms, you know what I mean.
We are all part of an elite group that at one time or another wrote a blank check to the people and this country in the amount up to and including our life, if need be. We each have our reason for doing so.

Response by SPC Margaret Higgins made Dec 4 at 2019 4:31 PM

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SGT Ben Keen: Hi, Sergeant Ben Keen! I am on Rally Point: for the camaraderie; the fellowship; the honor; and, for the love! I salute you; Sergeant Ben Keen!

Response by SP5 Dennis Loberger made Dec 4 at 2019 5:37 PM

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I ran across a question connected to Rally Point on Facebook. I enjoy communicating with all. I am not bothered by the name calling when it is directed at me. If I respond to it, I will be respectful and devoid of returning name calling. I have been bothered by someone calling someone else names and will defend the subject of the name calling when I see it. While I have been blocked by one person, I cannot envision myself blocking anyone.

Response by SGT Stanley Bass made Dec 5 at 2019 11:35 AM

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I had an individual vote up my original response. Which brought me back here and re -read the original post from the admin. I have shared in the past on other platforms. Jokes pertaining to political individuals. I have seen it get out of hand. I therefore, no longer share what is funny or humorous to me. On social media. I have un-followed a couple of people that have taken it all way out of hand. I guess I caught myself before I started doing things that are not right. We are told to support out leaders while in the military. I continue to do that outside of the military now. Per the other question, while I am not here much anymore. I come here to give advice when questions that I may be of service to, are asked. But as I said, not much lately. I also originally came to this site to find fellow service members I had been stationed with. As well as finding new "prior service" or currently active members to engage with.

Response by CDR James Terrell made Dec 5 at 2019 3:02 PM

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I'm here to share my experience with my brothers and sisters in the service of our nation. I like to keep up with the issues of the day.

Response by PO3 Brad Phillips made Dec 22 at 2019 7:17 AM

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I like the veteran community here. But I agree, name calling and such needs too quit. We are all brothers and sisters in the big American family.
I've had a guy on another social site (FB ) that I served with made the comment I should just die.. I ripped into him and destroyed his honor of serving because of his actions. It took him a few to respond back. But when he did, it was all apologies. He realized he was acting wrongfully and with hate.

Response by SSG Shawn Mcfadden made Jan 12 at 2020 5:54 AM

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I'm here because I like the fact that I'm part of a community of prior service personnel, and talk about subjects that I can't talk to co-workers or family about because they are not familiar with the military.

Response by AB Patrick Raynor made Jan 12 at 2020 7:54 AM

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Straight up I love this post. I bleed camouflage, the same colors my brothers and sisters of all branches had some type of. I am here to be a part of that same community now just understand the VA. When we talk about different things we have different opinions and sometimes we get into some nasty debates over those opinions. But we are professionals and people come first! You do the right thing first and for most and that is to let the matter go. Because in the majority of the opinions/debates. There is no correct answer or right way. We may now longer be on a battlefield but some of the information that certain people have could be the difference between life and death. Don't ask the VA to explain the system but some Brother or Sister could have the answer to a question. Who is going to be sitting in a toxic chat room waiting for that one question. Not me! Or any other normal person. I am not saying don't debate or get into it. Just keep it above the belt line. When its over, have drink and shake hands. Just like we use to do with Service to Service Bar fights. The good old days lol. That's my two cents.

Response by SFC Nancy Hawk made Jan 13 at 2020 12:45 PM

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I am here to listen to the boots that are currently maintaining. To enjoy the exchanges. I also feel some of the questions or presentations lead discussions that might offer answer
to questions never asked.