PVT Private RallyPoint Member 4278920 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I want to be closer to home to take care of my mom who has a ton of medical issues. Not being home is not a option for me I jumped into my contract to quickly and regretting my decision. I’ve been really depressed since week 5 of basic because of it I’m not in week 4 of AITidk where to go for help everywhere I read people just tell them to deal with it and finish their service. Idk who to ask what I’m just scared there going to try to get me to go talk to someone and reset me keeping me here longer then I need Can I switch from active to NG or Reserves while in my first contract? 2019-01-11T19:46:42-05:00 PVT Private RallyPoint Member 4278920 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I want to be closer to home to take care of my mom who has a ton of medical issues. Not being home is not a option for me I jumped into my contract to quickly and regretting my decision. I’ve been really depressed since week 5 of basic because of it I’m not in week 4 of AITidk where to go for help everywhere I read people just tell them to deal with it and finish their service. Idk who to ask what I’m just scared there going to try to get me to go talk to someone and reset me keeping me here longer then I need Can I switch from active to NG or Reserves while in my first contract? 2019-01-11T19:46:42-05:00 2019-01-11T19:46:42-05:00 PVT Mark Zehner 4278925 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>It&#39;s been a long time since I was in but that was always no for many reasons. Response by PVT Mark Zehner made Jan 11 at 2019 7:48 PM 2019-01-11T19:48:37-05:00 2019-01-11T19:48:37-05:00 SPC Private RallyPoint Member 4279012 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Yeah sorry man, you have to finish out your contract first. Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 11 at 2019 8:25 PM 2019-01-11T20:25:42-05:00 2019-01-11T20:25:42-05:00 SPC Private RallyPoint Member 4279045 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>One you&#39;ve signed your contract and have shipped, you&#39;re locked into AD until you&#39;ve finished out your contract, you should have thought about this beforehand. Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 11 at 2019 8:34 PM 2019-01-11T20:34:10-05:00 2019-01-11T20:34:10-05:00 SGM Private RallyPoint Member 4279067 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Not on your first contract. At best you can get an early release 180 days out from your ETS to contract to another component, if approved.<br />Your particular case sounds more like you need an entry level discharge.<br />You would want to get that due to hardship, (your mother&#39;s condition) before they process one on your behalf for Depression.<br /><br />If you get that, you can think about joining the Guard later, after you are back on your feet. Response by SGM Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 11 at 2019 8:44 PM 2019-01-11T20:44:51-05:00 2019-01-11T20:44:51-05:00 LTC Jason Mackay 4279133 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div><a class="dark-link bold-link" role="profile-hover" data-qtip-container="body" data-id="1598770" data-source-page-controller="question_response_contents" href="/profiles/1598770-non-rated">PVT Private RallyPoint Member</a> look for installations close to your mother and request a compassionate reassignment via 4187. Work with your local command. <a target="_blank" href="https://www.hrc.army.mil/content/Enlisted%20Compassionate%20Actions">https://www.hrc.army.mil/content/Enlisted%20Compassionate%20Actions</a><br /><br />If your mother can&#39;t live on her own, consider making her a dependent so she can live with you. <a target="_blank" href="https://www.dfas.mil/militarymembers/SecondaryDependency/secondarydependency_Army.html">https://www.dfas.mil/militarymembers/SecondaryDependency/secondarydependency_Army.html</a><br /><br />Your profile has no info available in it so I can&#39;t see where you are, your MOS, and what you are doing. I&#39;m assuming you&#39;re still in IET. You can&#39;t do anything from there, ideally you want to catch this before you have orders. You need to talk to your chain of command. You can&#39;t sneak around and hope to work a drug deal, <div class="pta-link-card answers-template-image type-default"> <div class="pta-link-card-picture"> </div> <div class="pta-link-card-content"> <p class="pta-link-card-title"> <a target="blank" href="https://www.hrc.army.mil/content/Enlisted%20Compassionate%20Actions">HRC Homepage</a> </p> <p class="pta-link-card-description"> Toll-Free: 1-888-ARMY-HRC (1-888-276-9472) DSN: 983-9500 AskHRC</p> </div> <div class="clearfix"></div> </div> Response by LTC Jason Mackay made Jan 11 at 2019 9:10 PM 2019-01-11T21:10:52-05:00 2019-01-11T21:10:52-05:00 SFC Christopher Taggart 4279226 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Just a suggestion; while on active duty, do not make the same mistake that many young soldiers do, because “they don’t get their way.” Be the best soldier you can be while in training, then onto your first assignment...it’ll make time go by fast. If you do the opposite, and complain, fail PT tests, Weapons qualifications, etc, you’ll develop a reputation of being “one ate-up soldier” and things will be more difficult for you, when you’re putting in your request and as your paperwork travels thru the “slow” system...your reputation will follow you. I do agree with LTC Mackay, regarding a Compassionate Reassignment. It’ll be an active duty assignment closer to where you want to be. Before your contract is over, you’ll probably see a Reenlistment NCO. That’s when you search, with the Reenlistment NCO for a Reserve Unit or National Guard Unit closer to your home; be willing to change your MOS though. Once they find a slot and MOS for you, you’ll reenlist into it. That’s kind of the “nuts &amp; bolts” of it...unless things have drastically changed since leaving 8 ½ years ago. Response by SFC Christopher Taggart made Jan 11 at 2019 9:36 PM 2019-01-11T21:36:38-05:00 2019-01-11T21:36:38-05:00 1SG Private RallyPoint Member 4279229 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div><a class="dark-link bold-link" role="profile-hover" data-qtip-container="body" data-id="136036" data-source-page-controller="question_response_contents" href="/profiles/136036-ltc-jason-mackay">LTC Jason Mackay</a> has provided you the best course of action. Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 11 at 2019 9:38 PM 2019-01-11T21:38:22-05:00 2019-01-11T21:38:22-05:00 CSM Charles Hayden 4279396 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Call the Red Cross for assistance! Response by CSM Charles Hayden made Jan 11 at 2019 10:53 PM 2019-01-11T22:53:44-05:00 2019-01-11T22:53:44-05:00 CW3(P) Private RallyPoint Member 4279399 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>If anything hasn&#39;t changed, you can either go NG, Reserves or IRR after your first contract. For instance on an 8 yr contract, if you sign up for 3 active you can do the rest in any of the other 3. Just do what you need to do to make it a smooth transition. Good luck Response by CW3(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 11 at 2019 10:56 PM 2019-01-11T22:56:00-05:00 2019-01-11T22:56:00-05:00 SSG Brian G. 4279468 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>No. On the first contract you are stuck. You cannot go from AD to NG, RE or IRR. You can upgrade on the first contract but not downgrade. However there are avenues open to you. Go to your base Chaplain and talk to him or her. They will be able to help in ways you might not expect or think of. Also see about a compassionate reassignment or see about making her your dependant. <br /><br />I get that it sucks and that you feel like there is nothing you can do about it, but you have to keep your head on your shoulders and emotionally straight. Finish out your AIT and graduate. The complete your first contract. Response by SSG Brian G. made Jan 11 at 2019 11:37 PM 2019-01-11T23:37:24-05:00 2019-01-11T23:37:24-05:00 2019-01-11T19:46:42-05:00