CPT Private RallyPoint Member 196564 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Ma'am is a contraction of Madam, ergo is it alright to remove the contraction when speaking to a female superior? Can we refer to female officers as Madam? 2014-08-07T06:36:48-04:00 CPT Private RallyPoint Member 196564 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Ma'am is a contraction of Madam, ergo is it alright to remove the contraction when speaking to a female superior? Can we refer to female officers as Madam? 2014-08-07T06:36:48-04:00 2014-08-07T06:36:48-04:00 LTC Private RallyPoint Member 196606 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Proceed with that one at your own risk. Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 7 at 2014 8:04 AM 2014-08-07T08:04:30-04:00 2014-08-07T08:04:30-04:00 CPT Private RallyPoint Member 196958 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I wouldn&#39;t, just stick with &quot;Ma&#39;am&quot;. My bet is that saying &quot;Madam&quot; would make a U.S. female officer feel as if she were a fragile English woman serving hot tea or something along those lines and she wouldn&#39;t feel respected. This isn&#39;t the U.K. Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 7 at 2014 3:47 PM 2014-08-07T15:47:45-04:00 2014-08-07T15:47:45-04:00 CPT Private RallyPoint Member 197188 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I'm interested to know where the term came from and how it evolved from there Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 7 at 2014 9:05 PM 2014-08-07T21:05:02-04:00 2014-08-07T21:05:02-04:00 SMSgt Lawrence McCarter 7402531 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I think I&#39;d stick with Mam and not branch out beyond that and if male keep only Sir both of which are polite and respectful. . Response by SMSgt Lawrence McCarter made Dec 3 at 2021 9:59 AM 2021-12-03T09:59:29-05:00 2021-12-03T09:59:29-05:00 SFC Casey O'Mally 7402580 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Why not go whole hog? Madame is simply a shortening of Mademoiselle. Response by SFC Casey O'Mally made Dec 3 at 2021 10:54 AM 2021-12-03T10:54:10-05:00 2021-12-03T10:54:10-05:00 MAJ Ken Landgren 7402703 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Some madams run brothels. Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made Dec 3 at 2021 12:20 PM 2021-12-03T12:20:41-05:00 2021-12-03T12:20:41-05:00 Cpl Mark Oresko 7523797 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Are you wanting a simple yes or no answer? Is your question going to help you win a bet that you have with another person? You will receive all kinds of answers to this question but never acquire any form of self reliance if you have been unsuccessful with finding the answer you seek, despite all other resources that this world has to offer you. If the answer you seek is that important, then simply ask one of your superiors. <br /> I hold my Drill Instructors on a high pedestal for good reason. Drill Instructors are the (googled word)epitome of the United States Marine Corps. If they taught me something, then that is how it shall be done. This is exactly how communication evolves and produces confusion over time. This is why the next generation will question if we salute with the left or the right. Is a left handed salute disrespectful? Are we supposed to take a knee during the pledge of allegiance, or is it the Star Spangled Banner, or both, or neither?<br /><br />Let us know what you decide to do and then get back to us on how things played out for you. Response by Cpl Mark Oresko made Feb 11 at 2022 6:36 PM 2022-02-11T18:36:01-05:00 2022-02-11T18:36:01-05:00 2014-08-07T06:36:48-04:00