Posted on Jun 28, 2015
LTC Special Operations Response Team (Sort)
5.68K
20
18
5
5
0
The problem we wrestle with whether the topic is women in combat, racial or gender quotas is not a gender or racial one. The problem is that people get hung up on the fact that we were lied to as children. We all cannot grow up to be Arnold Swartzenager, Michael Jordan, Elton John, Margaret Thatcher, Florence Nightingale, Mahatma Gandhi or name your famous successful person. We can not all do what we desire and want. I cannot will myself tall or heavy enough to be a Pro basketball or football player. I cannot will myself to be a genius of the likes of Stephen Hawkins. It's not about will or desire and my inability to reach those goals do not reveal societal prejudice but simply genetic realities. We need to accept that we ARE all inequality different and amazing: we are not the same so it is ignorant to assume we can achieve anything. Equality once again is the opportunity to have the chance to both succeed at something and fail. No matter how badly I want to be a Mother my biological and genetic makeup does not permit it. We must accept and embrace our inherent differences and maintain common sense. Standards of excellence and professional performance should be race, gender, age, religion and sexual orientation blind.
Edited >1 y ago
Avatar feed
Responses: 10
Capt Retired
5
5
0
Edited 7 y ago
Heck yeah I was deceived. Santa hasn't brought me anything for years and The Easter Bunny ran out of candy a long long time ago.

But, I never thought I would have an engineering degree or be a retired officer, so I guess it didn't affect me too much.
(5)
Comment
(0)
Avatar small
SGT Joseph Gunderson
2
2
0
I do think that this has played a part in later generations, namely those that are in their late teens and early twenties now and after. What I think is important to understand is that those of us coming up on thirty and older generations were told that we could be anything and could do anything within logical reasoning. There were limitations that could be overcome through hard work and perseverance but we also knew that you could wish in one hand and shit in the other and watch which one would fill up faster. I think that what the kids of these new years haven't realized is that you can hope for a unicorn all you want, but you could work as hard as humanly possible and still have to contend with a pony.
(2)
Comment
(0)
Avatar small
SCPO David Lockwood
2
2
0
All we can be is ourselves. Don't try to be like anyone else. As for being deceived when we were children, my dad was pretty straight forward to us kids especially since I was the only boy. He would tell me that I can be anything I wanted and right behind that I was not good enough. Talk about contradictory! Oh well I turned out fine doing far better than my sisters and yet it still isn't good enough. That's ok it's good enough for me and my family.
(2)
Comment
(0)
Avatar small

Join nearly 2 million former and current members of the US military, just like you.

close