"Do you know many young veterans who died young AND didn't commit suicide??

2016-05-03T12:39:49-04:00

The topic of veteran suicide is frequently mentioned on RallyPoint. Last week I learned that a young US Navy veteran died while renting part of the house one of my sons lives in. Brent Michael Combs died at age 31 far away from a combat zone. He was a respectful young man who would give the shirt off his back to anyone in need. The last time we met he saluted me in a genuine sign of respect.
He is missed.
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Response by LTC Stephen F. made May 3 at 2016 12:41 PM

2016-05-03T12:41:20-04:00

Brent Michael Combs was born on December 3, 1984 and passed away on Thursday, April 28, 2016. Brent was a resident of Augusta, West Virginia at the time of his passing. He served in the U.S. Navy. A Celebration of Life will be held on Friday evening May 6 2016 at 6:00 P.M. at the McKee Funeral Home Chapel of Augusta WV. The family will receive friends on Friday evening from 5:00 until time of service at 6:00 P.M. at the funeral home.

Response by SGT Ben Keen made May 3 at 2016 12:43 PM

2016-05-03T12:43:25-04:00

While we do focus a lot on the issue of suicide, I do think that we are seeing a growing number of younger Veterans experiencing service connected issues that normally our peers do not have to deal with until years into their life. Things like exterme joint pain, issues breathing, issues sleeping and so much more are accelerated due to different things we experience while serving this country.

I hate to see any Veteran report for their Final Inspection early but I hope that my actions while I am still here brings honor to their memory.

Response by SFC Andrew Miller made May 3 at 2016 12:53 PM

2016-05-03T12:53:39-04:00

Sadly, I have known a few.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made May 3 at 2016 12:56 PM

2016-05-03T12:56:28-04:00

I've had several of friends who I grew up with commit suicide. I can name off at least 5; Nathan Ball, Erika Allen, Seth Caine, Jordan Bush, Jeremiah Smith. It's hard to hear someone pass from suicide or at a young age either if they did serve.

Response by PFC Alexander Oliveira made May 3 at 2016 5:50 PM

2016-05-03T17:50:49-04:00

I had a battle buddy die oh a heroin overdose

Response by Maj Kim Patterson made May 3 at 2016 7:02 PM

2016-05-03T19:02:47-04:00

Unfortunately my family became part of a group that became known as "Compassionate Friends" for families who lose a child. It is a club no one wants to be in. Some were deaths from natural causes, some from accidents and some were suicides. The first to go were 2 cousins, 1 age 21 and 2 months later his sister, age 13. The following year, we lost my brother in an accidental death. That is when you find out how big this problem really is. There were enough families to have meetings for grief support before much was published. Recently, a friend lost her 23 year old daughter who was in nursing school. Overwhelmed with exhaustion, she simply drifted off to sleep and off the road. Compassionate Friends, people I already knew that had lost children, came to help through the initial shock and have stayed as pieces continue to fray. Often overlooked is the impact on siblings. So much attention is given the dead who no longer can do any wrong that survivors feel guilty for wanting attention and inadequate. Fortunately, there are now support systems for them as well.

Response by Ryan Combs made Apr 26 at 2017 1:51 PM

2017-04-26T13:51:59-04:00

Please know that my brother, Brent Combs, did not actively take his own life. We lost Brent to addiction in an accidental drug overdose. He was one of 67 people who died of a drug overdose in Berkeley County, WV in 2016. He fought to live. He didn't see the battlefield while serving his country, but every day was a battle against addiction. He lost that battle, but he never gave up the fight.

Response by SP5 Robert Ruck made Apr 26 at 2017 2:54 PM

2017-04-26T14:54:00-04:00

In explanation of other, I have known several young vets who died either from natural causes ( illness ) or from accidents. It is always very sad and tragic. My brother died at 30 in an accident. It was devastating to our family.