Do you think that veterans should expect special discounts on Veterans Day?

SPC James Seigars — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 15:33:01 -0500

I am on the fence on this topic: on the one hand I think it is a nice gesture by the general public (the business' that do this) that they feel it is the right thing to do for those of us who have "done our time" so to speak, however I do get upset when I see fellow vets complaining because a business doesn't do it. I feel that we were doing our job all the years we served and nothing more in most cases and shouldn't expect any special rewards/treatment for doing it. What do those of you who are vets think?

Response by SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL made Nov 5 at 2015 3:34 PM

SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 15:34:59 -0500

SPC James Seigars I whole heartily agree with your statement. I believe it's for the service of Duty Honor Country, not for fringe benefits.

Response by SCPO David Lockwood made Nov 5 at 2015 3:35 PM

SCPO David Lockwood — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 15:35:02 -0500

I don't expect them but I won't turn them down!

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made Nov 5 at 2015 3:36 PM

MAJ Ken Landgren — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 15:36:05 -0500

One should live with class.

Response by SPC(P) Jay Heenan made Nov 5 at 2015 3:42 PM

SPC(P) Jay Heenan — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 15:42:05 -0500

Welcome to the age of entitlement! I don't expect discounts on Veterans day. Matter of fact, I try to get my "free meals" to go so I can go give them to some homeless Veteran, but restaurants do not allow this practice. I believe we should be less entitled and more gracious to our homeless brothers and sisters. Just my opinion...

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 5 at 2015 3:45 PM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 15:45:15 -0500

You said it well. I definitely appreciate Veterans discounts and freebies. I tend to pick veteran-friendly places to spend my money. But I do not expect nor judge those businesses who don't.

Response by MSG Brad Sand made Nov 5 at 2015 3:50 PM

MSG Brad Sand — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 15:50:57 -0500

Expect, no. I think it is appropriate for those who love everything we have in this Nation to show their appreciation to those who risked life and limb for those freedoms, but I do not expect anything. And, for those who do not love those freedoms or what this Nation stands for, one of the greatest things is that our Nation has stopped anyone from leaving and I would be happy to help pack your bags.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 5 at 2015 3:59 PM

PO1 Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 15:59:40 -0500

We shouldn't expect discounts, but I'm not one to complain.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 5 at 2015 4:39 PM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 16:39:24 -0500

Those discounts, while nice to get, are not expected by me. I don't go out of my way to get one, but if it is offered then yay cakes and pie.

Response by 1stSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 5 at 2015 4:51 PM

1stSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 16:51:21 -0500

I concur with you SPC James Seigars .

Response by SSG Todd Halverson made Nov 5 at 2015 5:25 PM

SSG Todd Halverson — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 17:25:55 -0500

Nope we as Veterans should not expect anything. You would think they would have learned in the Military to never expect something because more often than not you will be disappointed. It is great that some business do offer specials on Veterans Day and others do it year round. Most of the time I forget to ask for the discounts until they notice either the hat or shirt I am wearing and give me the discount.

Response by CWO2 Darryl Craft made Nov 5 at 2015 5:28 PM

CWO2 Darryl Craft — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 17:28:42 -0500

I Like them, but it should not be required for a business to do it. It wilwill draw more Vets to shop there.

Response by PO2 Kayla Modschiedler made Nov 5 at 2015 5:31 PM

PO2 Kayla Modschiedler — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 17:31:25 -0500

I'm extremely frugal, so I use the free meals to save a little extra money during the month. I also get the free haircut from Great Clips (I usually only get my hair cut every 6 months or so) to save money. I don't expect it though, it's a nice gesture towards veterans and it's always nice to bump into fellow veterans at the different restaurants and hear their unique experiences.

Response by LCpl Steven Fiore made Nov 5 at 2015 5:40 PM

LCpl Steven Fiore — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 17:40:07 -0500

didn't realize vets complain for not getting something for free. I could understand if a company charged a vet extra on veteran's day, as that would be just insulting and disrespectful. If the day before and the day after have the same price, what is there to complain about?
If someone is complaining, all I can say is shame.

Response by SGT Patrick Reno made Nov 5 at 2015 5:52 PM

SGT Patrick Reno — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 17:52:11 -0500

The only thing I think we should get is the day off paid while everyone else has to work.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 5 at 2015 5:56 PM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 17:56:18 -0500

Expect them? No way!

Instead, we should appreciate them. I personally like to reciprocate my thanks to those who show service members support. I want those businesses and people to know that their kind gestures are genuinely appreciated.

Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 5 at 2015 6:11 PM

Sgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 18:11:09 -0500

I go to Olive Garden every year for lunch on Veteran's Day. I do not expect it, but do appreciate the free meal. Since Olive Garden is my favorite restaurant, I spend money there throughout the year.

Response by SPC Elijah J. Henry, MBA made Nov 5 at 2015 6:49 PM

SPC Elijah J. Henry, MBA — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 18:49:08 -0500

It doesn't matter if we expect it or not. Enough places do something special that it's hard to take advantage of all of them in one day. If one place doesn't do it, go somewhere else.
I don't exactly expect it, but I sure do enjoy it.

Response by SSG Warren Swan made Nov 5 at 2015 6:51 PM

SSG Warren Swan — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 18:51:16 -0500

Hells No, and we need to stop thinking we're owed anything. Not going after anyone, but this is something I'm seeing a lot of on here, and FB. I've actually stopped asking for a military discount, because of the rampant overuse of it, and have now begun asking for kids under 12, Senior Citizen, and anything else I can to get a discount. Gotta get creative when not using the ID card routine.

Response by CDR Kenneth Kaiser made Nov 5 at 2015 7:12 PM

CDR Kenneth Kaiser — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 19:12:42 -0500

I think I am like you. I don't expect special treatment but I am grateful when it is offered.

Response by CPT Jack Durish made Nov 5 at 2015 7:23 PM

CPT Jack Durish — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 19:23:42 -0500

I don't expect anything, not even the promises made by the government. However, I appreciate that some choose to honor the service of veterans with these tokens of gratitude.

Response by MSgt Peter Castine made Nov 5 at 2015 7:28 PM

MSgt Peter Castine — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 19:28:06 -0500

I agree, I served because I felt like it was my duty to serve. I do not regret one minute of it either. I do not fell that any business or individual owes me for my service. If they want to reward me, that's fine, but they are under no obligation to do so.

Response by Capt Mark Strobl made Nov 5 at 2015 7:31 PM

Capt Mark Strobl — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 19:31:30 -0500

While a free-anything is nice, I try to look past Veterans Day to the business' record on being "Vet Friendly" for the other 364-days a year. To a point, I feel the freebies can be patronizing. Are those businesses appealing to us? --or our pocketbooks? Are they legitimately trying to relay their gratitude? Or, are they simply setting the table for future patronage? Beyond Veterans Day, where are these business really helping vets? Any outfit that "gives back" (e.g. Habitat for Humanity, Wounded Warriors, etc) --that's were I'll be happy to go... and pay for it.

Good question, SPC James Seigars.

Response by PV2 Scott Goodpasture made Nov 5 at 2015 7:45 PM

PV2 Scott Goodpasture — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 19:45:32 -0500

Every day

Response by SPC Mark Beard made Nov 5 at 2015 9:11 PM

SPC Mark Beard — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 21:11:21 -0500

if it is done I would feel honored but I did not serve for gifts however Im very moved by by the gestures of thanks

Response by SrA Edward Vong made Nov 5 at 2015 9:31 PM

SrA Edward Vong — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 21:31:52 -0500

To be honest, I don't really ask for it that often. I usually do it for big traveling purchases, such as theme parks, plane tickets, etc. On a day to day basis for regular shopping I don't ask. I prefer to not have the attention of being in the military.

Response by CSM Charles Hayden made Nov 5 at 2015 9:47 PM

CSM Charles Hayden — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 21:47:35 -0500

SPC James Seigars A nice gesture by corporate 'stores'; small businesses owners have enough survival problems w/o doing Veteran outreach.

Response by MAJ Bryan Zeski made Nov 5 at 2015 10:57 PM

MAJ Bryan Zeski — Thu, 05 Nov 2015 22:57:34 -0500

If a Soldier or Veteran "expects" a discount simply because they are a Soldier or Veteran, then they are 100% wrong. We can feel free to partake when offered, for the most part, but when we start expecting it, we've lost whatever moral high ground that made it available in the first place.

Response by SPC Donald Tribble made Nov 6 at 2015 12:02 AM

SPC Donald Tribble — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 00:02:04 -0500

I don't "expect" anything, but am grateful to those who offer.

Response by SGT Bryan O'Reilly made Nov 6 at 2015 2:47 AM

SGT Bryan O'Reilly — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 02:47:42 -0500

No I do not. I think it's a nice gesture. And I routinely do it. But, it has to be something that is proactive from the business. The grins I get from the kids is all I need.And frankly, a lot of guys I know would rather hear someone just say 'thank you' and then have it end at that.

Response by PO3 David Fries made Nov 6 at 2015 6:44 AM

PO3 David Fries — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 06:44:28 -0500

It's a nice gesture, but I've never taken advantage of one.

Response by SSG Michael Hathaway made Nov 6 at 2015 7:03 AM

SSG Michael Hathaway — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 07:03:49 -0500

I didn't sign on for the various discounts that stores may or may not give. I think it's a great gesture of appreciation that a store or food service may have free stuff or discounts for veterans, but I do not believe it would un-patriotic if they didn't. I don't believe that veterans should expect a discount, nor get upset if a business doesn't have one. That's the whole entitled mentality that is permeating our society that really needs to stop.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 6 at 2015 8:30 AM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 08:30:55 -0500

I don't think anyone should expect discounts or special services. It is a privilage to be apart of the military. I appreciate anyone who offers me anything, however, there is never an expectation. I have had my meal paid for and the person told the waiter/ waitress not to say anything until after they have exited the establishment. I am thankful of having the opportunity to serve, THE END!

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 6 at 2015 9:26 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 09:26:51 -0500

I don't expect them, but I am not afraid to ask. If they do, great.. if not that is ok too! I appreciate any discounts that are offered.

Response by SGT Mark Rhodes made Nov 6 at 2015 9:43 AM

SGT Mark Rhodes — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 09:43:00 -0500

I ask if a business offers but if they say no then it's no. I don't look for hand outs but like most I can use a discount when its offered. Great questions

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 6 at 2015 10:29 AM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 10:29:31 -0500

Ok. Nice topic. They are expressing a form of gratitude. You can go to Applebee's, or some like establishment, and eat a non standard menu meal for free. By yourself it is thoughtful, but they are counting on you bringing others with you. Full price menu for them. How many veterans are going to eat alone on this day? The half sandwich and soup for free brings other full price customers, that probably wouldn't have gone there in the first place. I would be really impressed if the full menu steak dinner was offered. Just my 2 cents.

Response by SPC Holly Reynolds made Nov 6 at 2015 10:34 AM

SPC Holly Reynolds — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 10:34:04 -0500

I appreciate the gesture. I occasionally have participated, but my husband and I both prefer to skip the crowds in town.

Neither of us ever expect or request special treatment for our service. I was proud to do it and my "reward" is knowing that I did my part. Well, that and him. :) I wouldn't have found him if I hadn't joined.

Response by Lt Col Scott Shuttleworth made Nov 6 at 2015 11:16 AM

Lt Col Scott Shuttleworth — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 11:16:49 -0500

I don't expect it and don't think it is wrong to use it. Let me explain. In another post I addressed it like this...there are many companies that are truly grateful for the military and what we have done. They understand that they pay taxes and other stuff to the government which funds us but that is far detached. By giving a discount it enables them to see first hand the veterans and to shake their hand and tell them thank you in a small way to you but in a huge way to them. It is their way of joining along side of you and saying they support what you do and they want to make it personal. To turn one down after offered sometimes is a slap in tier face and they might not ever offer it up again to anyone. If you do turn it down, my advice is to be gracious in the offer but humbly say no thanks. If they continue to offer, then accept.

NOW...is it right to expect a discount? Absolutely not. We are no different than anyone else with the exception we had the privilege to serve. If they offer it then I will probably use it but I am not going hunting for it. But I will use companies and small businesses that are military and veteran friendly, again and again...because most of them that are that way, are doing it for the right reasons and most of them would hire a veteran.

Bottom line: The answer to this question is up to each individual. For me I am not going hunting for a discount but I don't want to insult the one that wants to make a difference in their way of support...however trivial it might be to me...it is important to them.

Response by SMSgt Thor Merich made Nov 6 at 2015 12:15 PM

SMSgt Thor Merich — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 12:15:17 -0500

Absolutely not! While I appreciate the gesture, I have never taken advantage of it. Not because I am against it, its just never worked out for me. But vets should not expect a free lunch because you served.

Response by Col Joseph Lenertz made Nov 6 at 2015 12:24 PM

Col Joseph Lenertz — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 12:24:33 -0500

SPC James Seigars , I'm trying to be nice here, honest, I only read the top of the post and saw your face, and I thought it was free tickets to Blue Man Group, and I got excited. So maybe consider a new photo? It's not your face, it's just the exposure.

Response by SPC Luis Mendez made Nov 6 at 2015 1:24 PM

SPC Luis Mendez — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 13:24:45 -0500

NO, I never did!

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 6 at 2015 1:46 PM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 13:46:43 -0500

Veterans discounts are a courtesy from John Q. Public. Veterans should not expect it. That being said, I would expect that there would be an increase in business to those places that do offer a discount. I, personally, tend to recommend places to others that offer Veteran discounts. If those establishments support veterans, I in turn want to make sure others support them.

Response by SFC Craig Dalen made Nov 6 at 2015 2:39 PM

SFC Craig Dalen — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 14:39:19 -0500

There is nothing wrong with asking but there is also no need to get bent out of shape if the place of business doesn't offer a discount. The people who need it that badly have a website available called id me. Once you sign up and are verified you will receive emails with all companies sponsored and that provide an military discount.

Response by SSgt Michael Cox made Nov 6 at 2015 6:08 PM

SSgt Michael Cox — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 18:08:26 -0500

i usually will go to a few of the places that give the free meals then tip what the meal would usually cost as a thanks to the help.

Response by MSgt Wayne Morris made Nov 6 at 2015 8:14 PM

MSgt Wayne Morris — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 20:14:08 -0500

There was no draft when I entered so it was my choice and I don't feel I deserve any special treatment nor should any vet. While I appreciate the gesture, I would rather have had the government keep the promises they made to us military retirees instead of figuring how to avoid them.

Response by CPT Bruce Rodgers made Nov 6 at 2015 10:03 PM

CPT Bruce Rodgers — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 22:03:19 -0500

I don't expect anything from the public, but would love for the government to honor their promises, I lost the use of my legs and been waiting over two years for the promised grants to make my home wheelchair assessable

Response by PO2 Peter Klein made Nov 6 at 2015 10:13 PM

PO2 Peter Klein — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 22:13:13 -0500

I agree with you. It is nice to be recognized for serving but I don't know that it is an obligation.

Response by PO1 John Miller made Nov 7 at 2015 12:24 AM

PO1 John Miller — Sat, 07 Nov 2015 00:24:17 -0500

Like SCPO David Lockwood, I won't turn them down if offered. Hell, I even ask for military discounts at places I frequent (gotta save $$$ wherever I can) but I don't "expect" them nor will I stop patronizing a business because they won't offer a discount.

Response by 1stSgt Eugene Harless made Nov 7 at 2015 12:57 AM

1stSgt Eugene Harless — Sat, 07 Nov 2015 00:57:33 -0500

I never ask for a Veteran's Discount, If I am asked if I am a Veteran I will acknowlege I am. If it happens to be a resturant I will add the discount back in as a tip to the server. These discounts also double as positive advertising for the business, so it works both ways.
I tend to not go out to eat on Veteran's Day because of all the scammers running around in surplus cammie tops weaseling free meals.

Response by Shawn J. G. made Nov 7 at 2015 11:29 AM

Shawn J. G. — Sat, 07 Nov 2015 11:29:42 -0500

I've seen some veterans upset because businesses do this. They feel like the company is just trying to "advertise" to make more money.

Response by SSG Buddy Kemper made Nov 7 at 2015 11:46 AM

SSG Buddy Kemper — Sat, 07 Nov 2015 11:46:30 -0500

I don't expect anything, but it's nice sometimes.

Response by SFC Bryan Clark made Nov 7 at 2015 12:42 PM

SFC Bryan Clark — Sat, 07 Nov 2015 12:42:03 -0500

We shouldnt expect anything ...its awesome gesture on the people that do that. We didnt serve to get free benefits from people. We served to protect the freedom, to allow them to be able to do that

Response by PO1 Glenn Boucher made Nov 7 at 2015 2:23 PM

PO1 Glenn Boucher — Sat, 07 Nov 2015 14:23:10 -0500

I don't expect them but I will ask and if they give it then great but if not then its okay too.

Response by SPC Loreen Chesnes made Nov 7 at 2015 10:35 PM

SPC Loreen Chesnes — Sat, 07 Nov 2015 22:35:45 -0500

I think it's great to have one day to go out and sit along side my fellow service members and have a bite to eat. Most Vets have family and friends in their lives but I don't. I am a 55 yr old female and destroyed my spine during my 5 yrs in service. I was a 20 year old, 5' 2" 115lb female and had a stress fracture in my hip just from marching in cadance with the men in basic and I ran my superbowl with it as not to recycle, along with a laundry list of broken bones, stretched muscles etc over the next few years. I am all alone now and last year I sheepishly went to Dennys for breakfast and it was exactly like the commercial as they sat us "alone" vets together and we were a table of 6. It was so nice to be out of isolation and even though we were from different branches and years of service it felt so wonderful and we had a great time. I went from shy depression to smiling and talking and laughing. Later that evening I managed to talk my sister into going to Olive Garden with me. The atmosphere was lit up and warm, all the vets and their families had a glow like they were proud or their service member and comfortable around all of us too. And I forgot all about my physical pain and loneliness for just one day.
As for the businesses well, they make out like bandits! That night alone Olive Garden was my sister and her husband dinners and three desserts and drinks up $. As was for Dennys that day, all the people that went told others about how they remodeled and how good the food was. The advertising is worth that one day. There is no shame in any of it because even the civilians that were there for themselves had extra smiles on their faces and joined in on the family feeling the veterans were enjoying. I also noticed the managers, host and servers had an extra energy and warmth about them. In my mind I am planning to hit as many places as humanly possible as a "Stealth Invasion". LOL. In reality I will be lucky if I make it to Dennys this year only because of my pain but I will do my best because, ah hell, I earned it and I earned an hour or two pain free, smiling and the so missed Sense Of Belonging. : )

Response by CW5 Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 7 at 2015 10:45 PM

CW5 Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 07 Nov 2015 22:45:44 -0500

Expect, no. Appreciate, yes.

Response by LTC Donell Kelly made Nov 7 at 2015 11:57 PM

LTC Donell Kelly — Sat, 07 Nov 2015 23:57:56 -0500

Instead of a free anything on Veteran's day, I'd like people to vote for Representatives & Senators that actually supported Veterans, not just gave alleged support lip service.

Response by MSgt Curtis Ellis made Nov 8 at 2015 5:29 AM

MSgt Curtis Ellis — Sun, 08 Nov 2015 05:29:15 -0500

I don't think anything (special discounts, etc) should be expected on Veterans Day, except maybe a nice "Thank you". I've always felt good seeing a business that took the time to put up a "Thank You" display for Veterans Day. As I got older, I began to see more and more sales and discounts and less and less "Thank You's" and this day now more for the businesses than it is for the Veterans... This is not directed at all businesses as there are a few whose true intent is a genuine "Thank You To All Who Served"... They are the ones that still make my heart feel good and appreciated for having served! :)

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 8 at 2015 2:13 PM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 08 Nov 2015 14:13:09 -0500

I never expect it, but do appreciate it. I don't think vets should hit as many freebies on Veteran's Day that they can either. Especially places they don't typically go. Don't go eat a free meal at Bob Evan's for example, only never to return until next Veteran's Day.

Response by LCDR Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 8 at 2015 5:07 PM

LCDR Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 08 Nov 2015 17:07:14 -0500

It's certainly not required, but is appreciated. Vets who complain are entitled jerks.

Response by PO1 Rick Serviss made Nov 8 at 2015 7:20 PM

PO1 Rick Serviss — Sun, 08 Nov 2015 19:20:51 -0500

I feel exactly as you do. We're doing a job we all signed up for. The restaurants and other places that give free meals or discounts on things should be appreciated because they aren't the Government. They make money by making a profit. There is no profit giving something or anything away. Some of the waitresses I know personally have told me they hate working on Veterans Day because we don't even leave them a tip. I think we need to step back, stop acting like the world owes us a living and appreciate what they're doing for us. REMEMBER, WE DID SIGN UP FOR THIS.

Response by MAJ Alvin B. made Nov 8 at 2015 10:03 PM

MAJ Alvin B. — Sun, 08 Nov 2015 22:03:35 -0500

No. If a business wishes to extend a discount or special offer to a veteran, I will certainly be grateful for the offer, and may even attempt to accept said offer. However, I do not expect them, nor do I believe I, or any veteran is entitled to them.

Response by SSG Kevin McCulley made Nov 9 at 2015 2:19 AM

SSG Kevin McCulley — Mon, 09 Nov 2015 02:19:26 -0500

Not expected, but gratefully accepted

Response by SGT Ben Keen made Nov 9 at 2015 7:40 AM

SGT Ben Keen — Mon, 09 Nov 2015 07:40:48 -0500

Veterans shouldn't expect anything but should remain humbled and appreciative of what is offered as most of us are. Sometimes a nice "thank you" throughout the year is better than a free meal once a year.

Response by Maj Chris Nelson made Nov 9 at 2015 9:07 AM

Maj Chris Nelson — Mon, 09 Nov 2015 09:07:21 -0500

Sometimes I remember to ask...sometimes I don't. If it is a product I want/need, I am already willing to pay full price. IF the establishment wants to offer a discount to honor my military service, I will accept it. I never go in EXPECTING it. Who knows...maybe it is a VET that is trying to start their own business and can't afford to discount at that time.

Response by SGM Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 9 at 2015 11:08 AM

SGM Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 09 Nov 2015 11:08:05 -0500

SPC James Seigars, No, veterans should not expect special discounts on Veterans Day, but it sure is nice isn't it?

Response by SSG John Mitchell made Nov 9 at 2015 11:14 AM

SSG John Mitchell — Mon, 09 Nov 2015 11:14:00 -0500

It's a nice gesture and I appreciate it, especially the places that offer free food, but the only place I even use my Military Discount is Advance Auto and Lowes. Trying to live off of VA and SS is hard enough and those 2 carry what I need the most. Most of the time I don't even ask. I didn't serve to get stuff when I got out. I still feel a little sheepish when people thank me for my service. The ones that demand a discount get on my nerves. You always have the assholes in every organization. The Military is no exception.

Response by SFC Stephen King made Nov 9 at 2015 11:59 AM

SFC Stephen King — Mon, 09 Nov 2015 11:59:46 -0500

Expect no. Selfless service

Response by Dennis Aubuchon made Nov 9 at 2015 11:23 PM

Dennis Aubuchon — Mon, 09 Nov 2015 23:23:06 -0500

I believe veterans should be respected throughout the year not just on Veterans Day. Veterans have served their time protecting the freedoms we have and on Veterans Day they should receive some recognition for their sacrifice. Recognition does not need to be discounts but a gesture by an individual to buy a dinner for a vet is another way of recognizing their efforts. We as a country should honor all veterans throughout the year in our own way as individuals and business should do the same. I understand serving is something they volunteered to do but those now serving and those who have served deserved in some way whether it is a simple thank you or having a meal bought by someone who appreciates their efforts.

Response by SPC David Hannaman made Nov 10 at 2015 8:29 AM

SPC David Hannaman — Tue, 10 Nov 2015 08:29:05 -0500

Expect? Absolutely not. Deserve? No way.

Going to Desert Storm was being in the right place at the right time and just doing my job. I was a small part of something incredible, but it wasn't like I courageously rushed into danger for God and country.

I almost wish companies would STOP doing this... for certain companies it's an advertising campaign... and when it shows up on their bottom line they discontinue it. Lowe's is the most recent to do this, but Home Depot has done the same thing in the past.

I went to Applebie's one day and saw the huge sign advertising "X% off for veterans!!!", but when I showed my card I was told it was ONLY for my meal (not the rest of the bill that I was picking up), and ONLY on the 4th Sunday of the full moon or something.

I don't like veterans being used as a pawn in an advertising campaign... it raises my blood pressure when I experience that... so if that is the motivation I wish they just wouldn't.

Response by LCDR Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 10 at 2015 9:12 AM

LCDR Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 10 Nov 2015 09:12:19 -0500

Not expect, but I do appreciate the business that offer and although I do not frequent them on Veteran's day I do throughout the year to honor their support of my brethren.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 10 at 2015 10:42 AM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 10 Nov 2015 10:42:30 -0500

Great question! I personally feel that Veterans should EXPECT it, but should APPPRECIATE it when offered. I hate to say it, but there are quite a few Veterans and those still serving who feel they are ENTITLED to it, and it is actually embarrassing to see them demand discounts, freebies etc. I am not talking of government benefits but those offered by the public and private sector.

Response by PO1 Jeff Williams made Nov 10 at 2015 10:50 AM

PO1 Jeff Williams — Tue, 10 Nov 2015 10:50:36 -0500

Those who live a life of expectancy must expect that everyone owes them. Don't let this crowd take away from the gestures and gratitude of others!

Response by SPC Sheila Lewis made Nov 10 at 2015 1:53 PM

SPC Sheila Lewis — Tue, 10 Nov 2015 13:53:24 -0500

Don't expect special "anything' just continue to pay your way and set an example to civilians there are no free anything in this life.

Response by MSgt Michael Smith made Nov 10 at 2015 2:33 PM

MSgt Michael Smith — Tue, 10 Nov 2015 14:33:51 -0500

No Vet should ever 'expect' a discount or even a Thank You. If you do, then you served for the wrong reasons. You served for you, not for your country.

Response by GySgt Robert Navarro made Nov 10 at 2015 7:16 PM

GySgt Robert Navarro — Tue, 10 Nov 2015 19:16:51 -0500

I would hope that no veteran would expect a business to give a discount. I'm sure we all appreciate it when offered.

Response by SMSgt David A Asbury made Nov 10 at 2015 9:03 PM

SMSgt David A Asbury — Tue, 10 Nov 2015 21:03:41 -0500

If you feel that someone wants to show their thanks, I would say yes. One problem I see is the Public Stores and Car Dealers make it cheap for their sale ads when the purpose of the Holiday is to Honoring those who served or still serving. But the car dealer makes it all about selling cars.

Response by Cpl James Waycasie made Nov 11 at 2015 1:05 AM

Cpl James Waycasie — Wed, 11 Nov 2015 01:05:23 -0500

I never expect or ask for any. I do wear a lot of USMC related Shirts and different cashiers sometimes ask if I am a Vet. I reply yes and they say oh you get a 5% or 10% discount. I always politely thank them. We have several eating establishments that offer free meals on certain days to active, retired and Vets but I haven't made it a point to be there yet. I appreciate all that some people do but I don't expect it or go out of my way to benefit from it.

Response by SGT Anthony Fryxell made Nov 11 at 2015 4:12 PM

SGT Anthony Fryxell — Wed, 11 Nov 2015 16:12:43 -0500

I don't expect them in any way, but it is nice for the public to show support. I we go out to eat and I get a dinner free because I am a veteran. I pay it forward and leave what my meal would have cost in a tip. Yes I am veteran and have earned that title, but they do not have to give me the meal so I make sure I help someone else too.

Response by SGT Chris White made Nov 11 at 2015 4:21 PM

SGT Chris White — Wed, 11 Nov 2015 16:21:21 -0500

Personally, I avoid the free meals offered. I went for lunch a few years back, but it was so crowded and slow, it took 2 hours to get back to work. I think it's a nice gesture, but it's probably just good marketing. Of course, most vets will bring a spouse or friend with them, so many places will be busy with paying customers they might not have had otherwise. Too bad our Viet Nam Veterans didn't get this treatment back when they came home from the war.

Response by MSgt H Douglas made Nov 11 at 2015 4:55 PM

MSgt H Douglas — Wed, 11 Nov 2015 16:55:10 -0500

To EXPECT any gesture from a business sends the wrong message. Most of us were paid every dime you were owed by the government. Most of us received every benefit we were entitled to. OK, some didn't get what they should have received from the VA, granted. But when active duty, I suspect the point remains the same. However, if a business offers some benefit to veterans, other than perhaps offering a job to a qualified veteran, then there is no harm in accepting with grace and a "thank you for your support".

Response by SSG Dominic Delia made Nov 12 at 2015 5:07 AM

SSG Dominic Delia — Thu, 12 Nov 2015 05:07:16 -0500

Expect? No!
Appreciate? YES!

Response by LTJG Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 12 at 2015 4:10 PM

LTJG Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 12 Nov 2015 16:10:53 -0500

This subject seems to be a touchy one. I personally feel that it should not be 'expected' but i do agree that we fight for our country (some of use on the front lines, some on ships, some in schooling, etc) and that the gesture is nice. We signed up to protect our nation. Nothing in our order says that "once in the military you are guaranteed a military discount." We do our job because thats what is expected of us. The amenities of discounts are nice, should not be 'expected.'

Response by PO2 Richard Keeler made Nov 12 at 2015 4:47 PM

PO2 Richard Keeler — Thu, 12 Nov 2015 16:47:57 -0500

Nope. I just want to see a nice parade and an acknowledgement that my brothers and sisters contributed to the freedoms we all enjoy.

Response by LTC Chris Norton made Nov 17 at 2015 2:25 PM

LTC Chris Norton — Tue, 17 Nov 2015 14:25:07 -0500

I'll flip this around a bit...there are some very real GOOD reasons to have military specific offers (year round mind you)...I spent some time penning this last year, and it makes sense to reshare here:

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/ [login to see] 5 [login to see] -why-you-should-market-to-the-military-segment?

Response by Cpl Lawrence Lavictoire made Nov 25 at 2015 1:01 PM

Cpl Lawrence Lavictoire — Wed, 25 Nov 2015 13:01:13 -0500

Expect nothing!

Response by SGT Robert R. made Nov 26 at 2015 9:27 AM

SGT Robert R. — Thu, 26 Nov 2015 09:27:34 -0500

Do I expect any freebies from those who I swore to defend? No. That feels like I was a mercenary instead of a defender of freedom.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 23 at 2016 5:20 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 23 Jan 2016 17:20:52 -0500

Some stores give discounts for veterans on veteran holidays. Maybe this should be a recognized transaction.