For veterans who served from 1960-80s, do you feel guilty when someone says "Thank you for you service"?

SPC Richard Zacke — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 08:39:50 -0500

I served from 1978 to 81 and when someone says thank you for your service I feel like I'm stealing the thunder of the troops that are seving in these two wars. Mainley because I don't remember anyone saying it before. I remember being called baby killer or being spit at.

Response by LTC John Griscom made Feb 20 at 2020 8:44 AM

LTC John Griscom — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 08:44:59 -0500

You served; you earned it.

Response by SGT Ed Matyjasik made Feb 20 at 2020 9:18 AM

SGT Ed Matyjasik — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 09:18:19 -0500

Yes it is a strange feeling. I know people mean well but in the back of my mind I am thinking where were you 50 years ago.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 20 at 2020 9:20 AM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 09:20:29 -0500

We all became rock stars after Desert Storm, and certainly post-9/11. But, until then, Vietnam Vets never got the respect or gratitude they deserved, despite fighting an unwinnable war with honor. Until the very last member of that old military, from WWII to Korea to Vietnam, gets called home, we should all trip over ourselves thanking them for their service and make every effort to afford them the respect they earned.

You're stealing nothing, SPC Zacke. You deserve it. Thank you for your service.

Response by SFC Michael Hasbun made Feb 20 at 2020 10:07 AM

SFC Michael Hasbun — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 10:07:08 -0500

If you served in the 60's thru the 80's, the only reason anyone would be thanking you for your service is if you're running around wearing shirts and hats declaring yourselves veterans.
If you're going to feel guily about anything, it should be about the horrible fashion choices.

Response by SPC James Neidig made Feb 20 at 2020 10:51 AM

SPC James Neidig — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 10:51:41 -0500

We may not have been in a “real” war but we had troops dying all over the world. I served during that same time period and lost some brother Marines in Beirut !! Also what about the troops we lost trying to rescue the hostages in Iran . I could go on and on Remember ONE thing WE ALL SERVED !! And thank you for your service

Response by MAJ Jim Woods made Feb 20 at 2020 11:10 AM

MAJ Jim Woods — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 11:10:45 -0500

Yes. But I’m thankful for the comments.

Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 20 at 2020 11:12 AM

Sgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 11:12:12 -0500

I served from 1968 to 1972 and was never thanked for my service until much later. I would rather have someone thank me for my service than the way I was treated long ago. It is sometimes awkward but I do not feel guilty, and no else should that has served with honor.

Response by MSG Stan Hutchison made Feb 20 at 2020 11:28 AM

MSG Stan Hutchison — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 11:28:31 -0500

I served proudly from 1964-1986 with a 2 year break. I feel guilty about nothing!

Response by PO3 Donald Murphy made Feb 20 at 2020 12:28 PM

PO3 Donald Murphy — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 12:28:22 -0500

You couldn't serve today if we didn't make it possible yesterday. Period. You're standing watch with weapons that are perfected from crazy designs that we broke years ago. You're doing things that work today cuz we illuminated that it was broken for you. So yeah - veterans worked. They worked to make it better today.

For what its worth, I got treated better in the 80's than people do today. I flew for free everywhere. Especially Pan Am. I'd be in JFK or LAX in my dress blues and someone would say "where ya headed Sailor?" No matter what my answer, they had a seat for me and a handshake. Eastern too. You couldn't get on a plane without bumping into someone in uniform. They'd lose your luggage, but hey... In fact, I flew standby to get to my wedding. My wife and I still laugh about that.

Howard Johnsons would also cruise the airports and if they saw you waiting for a flight that was the next day, they'd take you in. Never paid for breakfast at a Stuckeys either. Now while that may seem like nothing, keep in mind that my base pay in the 80's was probably $2.50 an hour...

Response by Lt Col Robert Canfield made Feb 20 at 2020 12:55 PM

Lt Col Robert Canfield — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 12:55:48 -0500

As I remember it, the 60s-80s were peak decades of the cold war. One of the key missions was nuclear deterrence...i.e. convincing the Soviets that engaging in ANY type of nuclear exchange would be a very bad idea. Its a scenario where both parties lose (although one may lose more than the other), or... both parties win. It involved keeping a strong, active force that could respond rapidly under a variety of scenarios. Fortunately a nuclear WWIII never occurred and many would say that, in the end, the US won more than the Soviets. But, again deterrence worked and the unthinkable did not occur. Sun Tzu said that it is best to win without conflict. I think that applies to the cold war. Whenever folks say that the US was not engaged in any major conflict during the 70s and 80s (after Vietnam), I remind them of what could have occurred if the US and NATO had not put forth a credible deterrent. A deterrent that required effective weapon systems, well trained personnel, and a commitment to win....and that's not chopped liver. If you served during those years then you deserve a handshake & a word of thanks. The world would be so much worse had the cold war deterrence mission failed.

Response by GySgt Thomas Vick made Feb 20 at 2020 1:12 PM

GySgt Thomas Vick — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 13:12:16 -0500

I get a lot of that were I am, I tell them that there welcome and move on, my personal feelings is that you served you deserve the thanks.

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made Feb 20 at 2020 1:16 PM

MAJ Ken Landgren — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 13:16:05 -0500

One should never be ashamed for serving. It's that simple. Civilians don't understand what it means to fight for your buddies on the 9 and 3 o'clock. They don't understand hold at all cost orders because another unit is counting on yours. They don't understand the bond and love we have for each others as we train hard, fight hard, and share pictures of our families. They don't know what we are willing to sacrifice on behalf of our buddies and the country. We understand it, they do not. We should keep our heads up high regardless of where you served.

Nobody should be punished when the deity favors and smiles upon some military members in this random universe of chance. When someone exhibits guilt in regards to not going to war while I converse with the person, I tell the person that I am glad you did not go to Vietnam. Don't sweat it. It was not your time to go. I am glad you did not go.

I can sort of empathize with guilt. Sometimes it bothers me and humbles me when I think that I never experienced a war like WWII, Korean War, and Vietnam War.

Response by PO2 Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 20 at 2020 1:17 PM

PO2 Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 13:17:42 -0500

When I served there was no "Thank you" or Military discounts. It took a long time before America was OK with the military.

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 20 at 2020 1:51 PM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 13:51:25 -0500

There's been times where I've felt like I haven't done my part either. I have 19 months of combat service between Iraq, Kuwait, and East Africa. Yet I have never fired a shot in anger. Meanwhile some of my peers have been through multiple hard tours directly engaging the enemy.

With that said, perspective is always important. There will always be someone who has done more, sacrificed more, or achieved more. Someone else receiving the MoH doesn't make your own service less honorable. You have every right to be proud. There's enough thunder for all of us.

Response by Sgt Mark F Jindrick made Feb 20 at 2020 3:40 PM

Sgt Mark F Jindrick — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 15:40:32 -0500

USAF..70-74.. Not guilt but a sense of awkwa

Response by Sgt Mark F Jindrick made Feb 20 at 2020 3:41 PM

Sgt Mark F Jindrick — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 15:41:28 -0500

Sorry, finger slip.. not guilt, but a s

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 20 at 2020 6:17 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 18:17:15 -0500

Don't feel guilty, some just feel for us veterans for what we did, and I appreciate it. Why, feel bad for someone taking their time to say something nice to you.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 20 at 2020 7:27 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 19:27:50 -0500

Seriously? Why? I honestly am very uncomfortable when people say "thank you for your service" because it seems very obligatory and forced. This is why I avoid as much as possible going in any store in uniform after work to grab something if I can avoid it.

So you don't recall anyone saying it and you're complaining that they are? Just take it.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 20 at 2020 7:59 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 19:59:33 -0500

It's not about doing more or less than others. Its about doing what is asked of you by our great nation.

Response by MSG Robert Ashton made Feb 20 at 2020 8:11 PM

MSG Robert Ashton — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 20:11:55 -0500

Were where all the great full people in 1972?????

Response by SFC David Dean made Feb 20 at 2020 8:33 PM

SFC David Dean — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 20:33:25 -0500

No. Less than 1% serve even today. I served when Vietnam was still going down. I was on active duty during various times inclusive of Arab Israeli conflicts; Kuwait, etc., and so I could've been deployed at juncture. In addition, I don't recall many volunteer to do my job and put my life up for barter anytime my country needed me. So, in the most emphatic terms I feel reluctance or embarrassment when that comment is given to me. If anyone does, my advice is please accept the sentiment.

Response by SP5 Dennis Loberger made Feb 20 at 2020 11:14 PM

SP5 Dennis Loberger — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 23:14:16 -0500

I served from 72 to 74 in the Army. I remember coming home and being affected by the negative attitude and treatment. I didn't know what I did to justify it. Then later people started thanking me and I was again confused because it took me aback. I didn't know what to say. I don't feel the least bit guilty. I don't believe this is a zero sum world. Thanking someone only takes away from someone else if the world has a finite number of thank yous. I see thanking someone as expansive. It improves their world and in turn they improve the world of others

Response by CPL Cadrew Strickland made Feb 20 at 2020 11:54 PM

CPL Cadrew Strickland — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 23:54:34 -0500

No I don’t feel guilty. Any time you are serving you country you should never real guilty. I’m glad that people finally recognize the veterans who serve during that time.

Response by SP5 Wally Estes made Feb 21 at 2020 12:59 AM

SP5 Wally Estes — Fri, 21 Feb 2020 00:59:13 -0500

No I don't! It has been 51 years since I was in Nam, and it is a long time coming for the recognition for the time served. I was called names when I returned to the States. Was not quite what I expected to say the least!!

Response by LCDR Leonard Zuga made Feb 21 at 2020 7:08 AM

LCDR Leonard Zuga — Fri, 21 Feb 2020 07:08:47 -0500

For years I have pondered this question. Yes I felt uncomfortable for want of a meaningful reply. Finally I hit upon one of about the same length and cadence as “Thank you for your service” and this makes me feel better by making the point that “it was my honor to serve”. Enough said by both parties. I served in the Navy for 13 years and my war zone experience was on an amphibious cargo ship well out of harm’s way. We delivered supplies to the marines using our boats to unload at beaches or river banks. Even our sailors who ran the boats were in more danger than I was standing bridge watches at anchor. And yes I am proud of my service and go out of my way to greet fellow vets, especially navy guys, asking them where they served and when, parting with a brief salute after exchanging notes or anecdotes. Sometimes our paths have crossed and this makes for a longer conversation of shared service.

Response by Sgt E Mark Pogue made Feb 21 at 2020 12:55 PM

Sgt E Mark Pogue — Fri, 21 Feb 2020 12:55:47 -0500

We all have given the Government our names on that blank check.... Some of us were lucky enough that we didn’t have to get shot at, but I did lose a pilot who was a friend in a aircraft crash during training in 1983 before I separated from the service. I always thank other veterans and am very thankful when someone says thank you to me. It is something we all earned...

Response by SP5 Walter Mearkle made Feb 21 at 2020 2:36 PM

SP5 Walter Mearkle — Fri, 21 Feb 2020 14:36:19 -0500

Do I feel bad about people thanking me for my service? HELL NO! I lost three years of my productive life while in the U.S. Army (1962-1965) in Korea. At the same time my contemporaries who were married, or teachers, or in college or Graduate School could continue with their lives, uninterrupted.

Response by SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth made Feb 21 at 2020 3:02 PM

SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth — Fri, 21 Feb 2020 15:02:40 -0500

I served after Vietnam, when someone thanks me, I thank them back.

Response by SSG Dennis R. made Feb 21 at 2020 10:19 PM

SSG Dennis R. — Fri, 21 Feb 2020 22:19:56 -0500

Guilty? Hell no. I heard "baby killer" many times and couldn't respond.
No, what really fries my ass is how today's politicians, and by extension, much of the public cozies up to the Russians. It seems they've not only not studied Russian history, but they've also forgotten the Cold War. My entire time in uniform was a stance against Communism, regardless of where I was assigned. Now we've got Nazis in our streets and a POTUS that doesn't care in the least.
MAGA is a goddamn disgrace.

Response by LTC Gary Earls made Feb 22 at 2020 12:09 PM

LTC Gary Earls — Sat, 22 Feb 2020 12:09:41 -0500

You're not stealing anything. You served honorably. The Cold War could have turned hot at anytime during your time in the military.

Response by GySgt Gary Cordeiro made Feb 22 at 2020 10:45 PM

GySgt Gary Cordeiro — Sat, 22 Feb 2020 22:45:27 -0500

If they have gray hair, I am dubious that the sentiment is heartfelt. All others, I say, “It was worth it because now you are here to carry the torch”

Response by GySgt Gary Cordeiro made Feb 23 at 2020 12:55 AM

GySgt Gary Cordeiro — Sun, 23 Feb 2020 00:55:31 -0500

Remember, this was during the draft era. We all wanted to come home safely, together if possible. The esprit de corps was strong. I was a Shore Police Officer, Fort De Russey, Hawaii, a popular R&R spot. 2 man rooms, wooden buildings WW2, at least vintage. Getting my brothers back to their room safely without busting them gave me the opportunity to talk with them. I didn’t have to go to Vietnam to experience it.

Response by PO2 Gerry Tandberg made Feb 23 at 2020 12:13 PM

PO2 Gerry Tandberg — Sun, 23 Feb 2020 12:13:40 -0500

I'm pleased that so many Americans are aware of the contribution and sacrifice that our military makes. I work with a veterans group for about 4 years; all whom had various degrees of PTS. I attended several seminars on the subject of PTS, and it was a rewarding period for me and also gave me some insight on why my wife suffers from PTS, which is non-combat related. I frequently wear a Naval Aviation cap simply because it's different from my other service related hats and it has often opened a dialog with other Vets on what and how we served. I'm a non-combat Vietnam Era veteran and are frequently thanked for my service. When given the opportunity I indicate I'm a non-combat vet, and flew as a AC in a Patrol Squadron off the coast of CA and Hawaii. No, I don't feel guilty about being thanked for my service, but every time I'm thanked I think of my classmate, an Army 2LT who was killed in Vietnam in 1967 and always wished we could talk again.

Response by A1C David Johnson made Feb 23 at 2020 9:05 PM

A1C David Johnson — Sun, 23 Feb 2020 21:05:56 -0500

I served just 2 years, Sept 67 to August 1969, Air Force, CCK AB; Taiwan, Berlin then England; had medical problems that began to develop at CCK AB Taiwan. I ended up being Air Vac with others after being flighted back to Germany; then hop and skipped the US to Travis AB on the medi vac, think a converted C130; in Travis hospital for a few months. “

I have alway felt guilty about being discharged medically and getting a small medical rating. I was lucky, came back to my parents home in Central Valley CA. I do not remember anyone saying baby killer, but I am a sensitive person, a empath and pick up on others feelings, feeling others feelings as my own. I may of felt the distain; or saw it in their body language. Do not think one has to have someone get in your face an shout it.

I still feel guilty for it all and in 95 was awarded 100% disability by VA; I was in bad shape, could not work; still cannot do much. Knowing of all all of the Viet Nam vets who had boots there and harmed by it in so many ways and often dined any disability rating. I know now I was not just exposed to a lot of vaccinations, and JP 8 jet fuel but most likely AO too.

I have talked to other Nam Vets locally who took decades to get a rating, they too felt like i do, that government waited for WWII Vets to die off, to find money for new incoming Nam and Nam Era vets

Response by Sandy Linden made Feb 23 at 2020 9:35 PM

Sandy Linden — Sun, 23 Feb 2020 21:35:34 -0500

My husband always whispers “why did they thank me”. So sweet

Response by SMSgt Lawrence McCarter made Feb 23 at 2020 10:20 PM

SMSgt Lawrence McCarter — Sun, 23 Feb 2020 22:20:50 -0500

Whats to feel Guilty about ? Whenever someone says thank You for Your service I thank them for thanking Me. I spent over 22 years in an Air Force Uniform including my service in Vietnam in 1968-69 I'm proud of that service !

Response by SMSgt Jeff Kyle made Feb 23 at 2020 10:34 PM

SMSgt Jeff Kyle — Sun, 23 Feb 2020 22:34:55 -0500

I served from 1981 to 2007. I first enlisted in the Marine Corps and after training was sent to NAS Alameda in April ‘82. The sent me to San Francisco international where the plan was to catch a cab to base. As I was wandering around in my Class A’s, some shithead comes up and calls me a baby killer. I said something witty like “go fuck yerself” and went on about my business. Jump forward to April ‘84 and I was at Memphis international getting a trip back to Alameda after successfully completing Naval Air Crew Candidate School. I and a couple other grads were waiting in line when a gentleman walked up and asked if we were Marines. Yes was our answer and he thanked us for our service. We were flabbergasted to say the least. We thanked him, it was really appreciated. I joined the Air Force after my time in the Marines and I can’t say if I was ever told thank you. I don’t remember hearing that until after 9-11. After 9-11, I’ve heard it frequently. It doesn’t bother me much. I appreciate what they’re saying but I don’t think I rate their thanks. Just doing what I volunteered to do. I figure they need the thank you from me, which I usually reply with.

Response by CPO Ed Williamson made Feb 23 at 2020 10:44 PM

CPO Ed Williamson — Sun, 23 Feb 2020 22:44:15 -0500

From 1965 until December 67 I was aboard a Navy tanker and made two Westpac deployments in support of the war in Vietnam, operating from Yankee in the gulf to Dixie in the south. Arrived at TSN two days before TET 68 and spent the next twelve months in RVN. I am proud of my 20 year in the USN.

I never was spit on and treated disrespectfully despite traveling in uniform. Not embarrassed by hearing “thank you for your service”, just mildly irritated as it has become a catch phrase like “ have a good day” rendered automatically without any real meaning. Besides, I haven’t done anything that hundreds of thousands others haven’t done.

The best advice I can give vets, both combat and non-combat, is get over yourself.

Response by LCpl Cody Collins made Feb 23 at 2020 10:55 PM

LCpl Cody Collins — Sun, 23 Feb 2020 22:55:15 -0500

Nope ! I enlisted in 79, the beginning of the cold war. A lot happened to us, but technology wasn't real time back then. Communication with stars and stripes newspaper and whatever you seen on the evening news. I remember the 1st official terrace act with the IED, Back in early days we did not call them i.e. D's. Anyway it was a 1980 and American generals limousine was ambushed because it was part of the Anti-terrorism course but Marines. They use so much explosive the limousine weighed over A ton and it blew the limousine over a wall and it fell upside down on the other side the army general survive will was tortured. By taping a walkman headphones to his ears and blasting rock music . The point is America was introduced to terrorism Dan then you have to marine barracks and 83 When elements of 2nd Marines which I was a part of 2nd Marine regiment as a field radio operator and a lot of us got TAD to the grunt units. Well we all know what happened shortly after we got their 212 Marines lost their lives in that Terrorist attack. That's when president Reagan took the gloves off. So no I do not feel badd when somebody says thank me for my service especially after the 3 tours I did in a Middle East before was even popular to be there. We lost a lot of planes attacking Assad senior in Syria. Lieutenant Goodman was shot down and Capture. So a lot has happened both good and bad. On the good side we have some very excellent TV shows And movies that are still Cult favorites today, like " Platoon, Full Metal Jacket, When we were Soldiers, Top Gun, J.A.G. , A Few Good Men, and a host of others.

Response by MAJ Victor Alarcon made Feb 24 at 2020 1:21 AM

MAJ Victor Alarcon — Mon, 24 Feb 2020 01:21:26 -0500

During the 1960’s to 1990 the Cold War was a daily threat to the world. Many lives were lost and there were many casualties of this war. Many events threatened our nation and by the fact that there were men and women that took that priceless Oath to defend our Constitution we became the deterrent against an attack on Democracy. During this period in time many that had family resources to buy an excuse to liberate them from serving our nation chose to do so,, we are the few that stood up and raised our right hand, we are the true Patriots and Defenders of our Constitution and Nation,,we stood on the shoulders of Giants and in time our service made us the Giants of all those serving at the present time; therefore I thank you for your service.

Response by 1SG Eddie Denney made Feb 24 at 2020 7:55 AM

1SG Eddie Denney — Mon, 24 Feb 2020 07:55:40 -0500

65-87, And I fell honored when they do

Response by PFC Bruce Cook made Feb 24 at 2020 11:56 AM

PFC Bruce Cook — Mon, 24 Feb 2020 11:56:08 -0500

No I don't feel guilty. I just wonder how serious the person is & why was it not said in 1968 when I was ridiculed for serving & was spit on, kicked, called a cry baby, & other things I can not relate in this message.

Response by SPC Edward Abney made Feb 24 at 2020 6:32 PM

SPC Edward Abney — Mon, 24 Feb 2020 18:32:21 -0500

I enlisted in 1962, along with many of my High School classmates, that was what was expected of young men back then. We swore an oath to defend the country, during war or peace and we did. Those of us who didn't serve in a combat role hold our brothers and sisters who did in high regard, but we all swore to put our life on the line. When someone thanks me for my service, I smile and tell them that it was my privilege to serve.

Response by Col Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2020 11:06 PM

Col Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 24 Feb 2020 23:06:50 -0500

You signed the same blank check as those of us who did Afghanistan and Iraq. No shame in when you served as long as you did it honorably.

Response by SGT Wayne Smith made Feb 25 at 2020 12:39 AM

SGT Wayne Smith — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 00:39:05 -0500

I served in Vietnam, 1967-68. When I came back I was spit at, called a murderer, baby killer, etc. I was hurt, bitter, and angry. I didn't wear anything to show I had served for 20+ years. The first time I was given a "welcome home" was at a Veterans Day parade, and another Vet knew by the look in my eyes and went out of his way to say that to me!
Around the year 2000 I started wearing my Vet cap. The 1st time I was thanked for my service I didn't know what to reply, it was a shock to hear someone say that to me!! Since then I have heard it many times, and now I appreciate hearing it. I thank them and say I was just doing my duty to my Country. I appreciate hearing it from people, and even the ones that weren't born at the time I served seem sincere.
Never feel guilty, you served just like all of us. Thank you for your service!

Response by PFC Russell W made Feb 25 at 2020 10:51 AM

PFC Russell W — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 10:51:05 -0500

I enlisted into the Army Reserves and got out in 04. I only did 17mos due to being an idiot and never saw a day of combat. My uncle and father are that era of Army Veterans, my uncle saw combat but my father didn't. No one in our family has a dick measuring contest with each other though but I respect my uncle a little more. I respect anyone that puts on a uniform and no one should feel bad about being thanked, it's people just being nice the same as I thank people bagging my groceries.

Response by SGT Kenneth Fairben made Feb 25 at 2020 10:57 AM

SGT Kenneth Fairben — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 10:57:23 -0500

I served from 1968-1970. Although I did not serve in Viet Nam, I Did serve my country and have been and always will be proud to say I SERVED MY COUNTRY!

Response by PO3 Betty Lusinger made Feb 25 at 2020 1:30 PM

PO3 Betty Lusinger — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 13:30:25 -0500

I respond by saying "Thank you. It was an honor".

Response by SGT Ken Price made Feb 25 at 2020 4:39 PM

SGT Ken Price — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 16:39:52 -0500

You wrote the same check I did. Thankfully it didnt get cashed for either of us. SGT E-5, Served 77-81, inactive reserve till 84.

Response by SP5 Geoffrey Vannerson made Feb 25 at 2020 4:58 PM

SP5 Geoffrey Vannerson — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 16:58:21 -0500

I did what I did for my country, my family, and my fellow Americans. No thanks was ever expected or required. When I receive a thank you I simply respond "your are very welcome." We all suffered through a variety of things starting with basic training and ending with coming home to people who didn't or don't understand what it takes to lay your life on the line for your fellow man. Courage, honor, bravery, patriotism are just a few of the words I would have expressed to those who went before me and to those who now serve. As a veteran I still and always will thank a veteran. Somebody has to do the job and a simple thanks may NOT be necessary but it lets a soldier know he is appreciated. Thank you to all the vets here, for if it were not for those who proceeded me I may not be me at all.

Response by HN Kathleen M Peck made Feb 25 at 2020 5:14 PM

HN Kathleen M Peck — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 17:14:10 -0500

There is no reason to feel guilty....service is service (as long as it is honorable). I was stationed in Florida (at a Naval Hospital) during the Viet Nam conflict. It was my decision to enlist and I was honored to serve our country.

Response by MAJ Russ Hanson made Feb 25 at 2020 5:55 PM

MAJ Russ Hanson — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 17:55:08 -0500

As an enlisted during that time 69-79 I never really thought about. Then in 79 got a direct commission in MSC. Never really got a thank you until one day in 1989 a lady stopped me in front of the post office in Ayer MA,(Ft Devens) and said she wanted to thank me for my service and defending this country. I didn't really know what to say except thank you. Never felt I needed a thank you, but that felt good. Since then have had a lot people say the same thing and I appreciate now. Still little bitter the way we were ignored after Vietnam but time will heal!

Response by CW3 Walter Goerner made Feb 25 at 2020 6:38 PM

CW3 Walter Goerner — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 18:38:38 -0500

I don't think you had such an experience by the time you served because of the rush to leave Vietnam and declare victory in 1973. Yes, I did experience what you "remember" at Chicago O'Hare and I always thank the airport USO's where a lot of us "sheltered". I don't feel guilty when someone says "Thank you for your service" but it's like being caught off guard being thanked after all these years. I actually made up my mind to stay in and re-enlisted in 1973 because the military became my family and those people that I grew up with, played in sports with, went to school with, I didn't know anymore.

Response by 1LT Ken Hartman made Feb 25 at 2020 8:55 PM

1LT Ken Hartman — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 20:55:40 -0500

I’m one of those Cold War veterans. Join me in honoring today’s high school enlistees by participating in Our Community Salutes at: http://OCSusa.org

Response by TSgt Douglas Greenwood made Feb 25 at 2020 9:13 PM

TSgt Douglas Greenwood — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 21:13:41 -0500

Guilty, no, appreciative, yes. I served too many years without as much as a thank you. I’m happy that those serving today are praised and thanked for their service. If people choose to thank me, then let them, I’ll accept it with honor and gratitude

Response by SSG Jeff Forker made Feb 25 at 2020 9:37 PM

SSG Jeff Forker — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 21:37:20 -0500

Fock you and the horse you ride in on. I raised my hand, as did everyone I served with, and we stood ready to do the bidding of the US military and government. Some of us wanted that. Some of us knew better. Some of the older guys understood that no two wars are the same. No one, any any time, is given the option to choose "Guaranteed Combat Zone Deployment" as part of their enlistment contract, or the guaranteed avoidance of combat. So, no. My generation does not feel guilty. We were ready to go. And did I mention "Fock you"? And your horse.

Response by COL David Turk made Feb 25 at 2020 11:25 PM

COL David Turk — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 23:25:06 -0500

No.

Response by MSG Leamon Ratterree made Feb 26 at 2020 11:35 AM

MSG Leamon Ratterree — Wed, 26 Feb 2020 11:35:00 -0500

Hell no. That's a stupid question. I don't feel guilty about a damned thing and my cohorts shouldn't either. US Army 70-95. I DO feel that a lot of people who say it are disingenuous.

Response by PO3 Marykatherine Moran made Feb 26 at 2020 1:00 PM

PO3 Marykatherine Moran — Wed, 26 Feb 2020 13:00:44 -0500

I served from ‘79 to ‘83. In boot camp we were taught we were part of a team. We learned the basics of fire control, coms, signaling, laundering, chow. We learned the very basics of several ‘jobs’ and were taught that each job had its own importance. While repairing the hull after a hit below the waterline was of major importance, I say, of major importance, providing the hull repairing folk warm food and clean cloths as they rotated out was pretty needed, too. Which is all to say while I served as a CT on US soil during the Cold War I know I played my part in holding the world together in a rather tense time in US history. Did many people know about this tough time? Maybe not. But I knew people in my community, counterintelligence, were being kidnapped, interrogated, released, or killed. We all played our part in keeping the ‘balance of power’. Was someone likely to come down the swamp to my base and take over the station? Not likely. But I had high clearance. And so did my co-workers. And I was not only prepared to destroy equipment with phosphorus devices, I was ready to defend my people. This CTM had a gun. Many people served in far more dangerous places than mine. I am grateful to them all. They deserve combat medals and many of them the Medals of Honor. In comparison I was just a cook. But I was a darn good cook! Thank you for your service!

Response by Cpl Henry Busby made Feb 26 at 2020 1:15 PM

Cpl Henry Busby — Wed, 26 Feb 2020 13:15:22 -0500

No I have never felt guilty because I did nothing to have guilt for. I served, did my duty Honorably and I now feel proud of that. I say now because when I first got back to the world I didn't acknowledge my own service for almost 10 years.

Response by Cpl Frank Doyle made Feb 26 at 2020 3:09 PM

Cpl Frank Doyle — Wed, 26 Feb 2020 15:09:35 -0500

Our service was a bold and honorable service none the less. We served honorably knowing that any day, conflict could occur and the ultimate sacrifice may be required. I don't discount the war time veterans for their service. We just happened to pull the long straw.

Response by Col Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 26 at 2020 5:08 PM

Col Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 26 Feb 2020 17:08:45 -0500

When people my age or older thank me, I always wonder if they were the ones spitting on my friends or calling me a baby killer. I could have used an affirmation of my chosen profession when I entered at 18 during Vietnam. I don't need it now.

Response by Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 26 at 2020 10:23 PM

Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 26 Feb 2020 22:23:11 -0500

Everyone who has honorably served our nation signed a blank check to this nation up to and including their life.

Response by 1st Lt James Lipski made Feb 27 at 2020 1:50 AM

1st Lt James Lipski — Thu, 27 Feb 2020 01:50:59 -0500

No I do not feel guilty. I smile and say, "Your're welcome". I remember being called baby killer when I was in the ROTC program (1981-1985). So having a person who is in his 20s shake my hand and thank me makes up for the rude comments when I was a cadet.

Response by 1st Lt James Lipski made Feb 27 at 2020 1:57 AM

1st Lt James Lipski — Thu, 27 Feb 2020 01:57:22 -0500

No I do not feel guilty. I use to hear baby killer when I was in the ROTC program (1981-1985). So having a person in his 20s shake my hand and thank me makes up for the rude comments of years ago. I respond by smiling and saying, " You're welcome"

Response by SPC Robert Bobo made Feb 27 at 2020 8:23 AM

SPC Robert Bobo — Thu, 27 Feb 2020 08:23:12 -0500

I served from 73 to 77 and appreciate it when real people acknowledge my service, when I got out a lot of people hated military veterans and until a few years ago I never wore any veteran head gear

Response by PO2 Bob Marion made Feb 27 at 2020 9:36 AM

PO2 Bob Marion — Thu, 27 Feb 2020 09:36:39 -0500

No Veteran should ever feel guilty about being thanked, especially after the way they Veterans were treated in the past. Those that pose and steal valor, they should feel the shame of being thanked if they never served a day outside of boot camp. To all Veterans.. THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE!!!"

Response by CPO Todd Boyd made Feb 27 at 2020 6:36 PM

CPO Todd Boyd — Thu, 27 Feb 2020 18:36:19 -0500

SPC Zacke,

It often feels strange to me when people thank me for serving. I suppose it was in my DNA, as most every generation of my family has served in the military. To be honest though, I feel like I have received much more from this country during my 22 years of service than I ever have had to give. It’s always been an honor for me to serve, so it feels kind of strange to be thanked for that! I thank the Lord for the many blessings I have received, and thank you Viet Nam era vets for your service. You guys were treated shabbily at that time, and I think the following generations have benefited due to society realizing how terrible you guys were treated during Viet Nam and afterward. Thank you and your generation for the trails you blazed, you made many things better for me and those who came after you!

Response by CMSgt George Barrett made Feb 27 at 2020 9:06 PM

CMSgt George Barrett — Thu, 27 Feb 2020 21:06:04 -0500

I always tell them, "You're welcome.t was an honor and privilege for me to serve with America's finest men and women."
I did 31 years active duty and 24 years in AFJROTC. My heroes were the WWII vets such as my four brothers and one sister who all served in WWII. My turn were the Korean war era and Vietnam for two tours.

Response by CMSgt George Barrett made Feb 27 at 2020 9:10 PM

CMSgt George Barrett — Thu, 27 Feb 2020 21:10:52 -0500

I always tell them, " You're welcome. It was an honor and privilege to serve with America's finest men and women!"
I served from 1954 till 1985 active duty, then taught aerospace science for AFJROTC for 24 more years finally taking off the blue suit in 2009. I was, truly, blessed.

Response by SFC Louis Willhauck, MSM, JSCM, and ARCOM made Feb 28 at 2020 8:48 AM

SFC Louis Willhauck, MSM, JSCM, and ARCOM — Fri, 28 Feb 2020 08:48:19 -0500

Service is service. SunTsu I believe said, "the biggest victory is the one that is won by not fighting" (or something like that). Only maybe 7% have ever worn the uniform, and that other 93% can be grateful or not. To me it matters not, though I am happy in myself, whether I get a thank you or not. I remember my Dad saying this about thank you's ... "That and a dime will get you a cup of coffee." (He was a Marine in WWII)... regardless it does beat getting spat on!

Response by Lt Col Jim Coe made Feb 28 at 2020 9:55 AM

Lt Col Jim Coe — Fri, 28 Feb 2020 09:55:27 -0500

I served 1969 - 1991. I think of myself as a cold warrior. My DD-214 is honorable. I am proud of my service and in no way feel anything but grateful when someone thanks me for my service.

Response by SrA George Gomez made Feb 28 at 2020 5:03 PM

SrA George Gomez — Fri, 28 Feb 2020 17:03:00 -0500

I served 1976 to 1980 and it is interesting since I feel that type of emphasis should before those who served in conflicts

Response by CPO LeRoy Hornack made Feb 29 at 2020 8:30 AM

CPO LeRoy Hornack — Sat, 29 Feb 2020 08:30:07 -0500

My reply; I appreciate your thoughts, however, I served for God and Country!

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 29 at 2020 11:16 AM

1SG Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 29 Feb 2020 11:16:32 -0500

No shame as you were one who willingly volunteered to serve in our military forces, just that there were no major conflicts during this time does no lesson your service, Be proud I served from 1976 to 2010 and am proud that i was allowed to serve so long

Response by PFC Kenneth Anderson made Mar 1 at 2020 8:23 PM

PFC Kenneth Anderson — Sun, 01 Mar 2020 20:23:22 -0500

No! Even though In My Time, It Wasn't Popular To Be In The Military, I'm A Proud Vet.

Response by SPC Patricia K. (Williams) Elliott made Mar 5 at 2020 7:56 PM

SPC Patricia K. (Williams) Elliott — Thu, 05 Mar 2020 19:56:55 -0500

I'm proud of my military service and while I was never in combat or served in a war zone, I considered my jobs to be just as important! I supported those who did serve on the "front lines" and their families!

Response by LTJG Sandra Smith made Mar 6 at 2020 6:19 AM

LTJG Sandra Smith — Fri, 06 Mar 2020 06:19:12 -0500

Just because our generation of military were treated abominably in the past by the ungrateful does NOT mean WE should be ashamed of our service! I was a volunteer, but most of the men I served among and around were draftees still, yet when America called, they too went ( others ran to Europe, Canada, or other escapes to avoid serving), anddeserve the gratitude just as much as the younger brothers and sisters serving now do.

Response by SGT Doug Blanchard made Mar 7 at 2020 6:21 PM

SGT Doug Blanchard — Sat, 07 Mar 2020 18:21:06 -0500

I am still getting used to it. But my usual reply is, "happy to oblige and thank you."

Response by SP6 Greg Jetter made Mar 8 at 2020 11:52 PM

SP6 Greg Jetter — Sun, 08 Mar 2020 23:52:28 -0400

I served from 1972 till 1984 , when a youngster thanks me for my service I remember walking guard around the TOC in the middle of the night at -80 degrees F . At Donly Dome in Alaska a few miles south of Fairbanks Alaska in 73 , training to repel the USSR . No I don't feel guilty we all served in our own ways be it dogging bullets or frostbite .

Response by SSG Michael Doolittle made Mar 9 at 2020 1:13 AM

SSG Michael Doolittle — Mon, 09 Mar 2020 01:13:52 -0400

Guilty, Hell no just seriously disappointed that it took over 3 decades for anyone to care what happened to the Vietnam Veteran, especially those of us who saw our close buddies die, be maimed and remember the killing that we were responsible for.... Not one ounce of guilt, just a huge helping of disappointment

Response by PO1 Ronald Parker made Mar 9 at 2020 4:01 PM

PO1 Ronald Parker — Mon, 09 Mar 2020 16:01:50 -0400

At first it took me by surprise and did not know how to reply. It was a simple fix...my wife told me to say "Your welcome".

Response by PO2 David Allender made Mar 10 at 2020 12:27 PM

PO2 David Allender — Tue, 10 Mar 2020 12:27:56 -0400

I found an interesting item on piniterest:
"A Veteran is someone, who at one point in their life, wrote a blank check made payable to the UNITED STATES of AMERICA for the amount of up to and including their life." How true that statement is for all of us. Welcome home to all vets of America.

Response by CPT Barry Kaufman made Mar 10 at 2020 11:41 PM

CPT Barry Kaufman — Tue, 10 Mar 2020 23:41:42 -0400

I don't bother telling people that I'm a veteran. It's not a secret, I just don't mention it. Besides the military today is not the military I served in (78-89). I was out before today's brigade commanders were commissioned. The Army of 1948 was as foreign to me in 1978 as the Army of 1989 is to soldiers today. The only thing I will rely upon for my service is a plot at the national cemetery in 30 years..

Response by SFC Brian Chambers made Mar 11 at 2020 8:50 AM

SFC Brian Chambers — Wed, 11 Mar 2020 08:50:25 -0400

I say, your welcome, and thank yo u for your support!

Response by SFC Brian Chambers made Mar 11 at 2020 2:13 PM

SFC Brian Chambers — Wed, 11 Mar 2020 14:13:49 -0400

29 years ago, may 18th I flew back from the Gulf, and when some one says,"thank you for your service, I say thank you for your support".

Response by CPO Don Campbell made Mar 11 at 2020 8:21 PM

CPO Don Campbell — Wed, 11 Mar 2020 20:21:58 -0400

I thank them back for being a good citizen and tax...i let them know i am sincere and how important their role is in supporting us/military...i let

Response by CPO Don Campbell made Mar 11 at 2020 8:28 PM

CPO Don Campbell — Wed, 11 Mar 2020 20:28:19 -0400

Sorry my hand jumps and always seems to find the post, send, or delete button except when i intend to hit the button.. but i let the people who thank me know that without them as good citizens/ taxpayers we would not be able to do our jobs in the military...i always

Response by CPO Don Campbell made Mar 11 at 2020 8:48 PM

CPO Don Campbell — Wed, 11 Mar 2020 20:48:42 -0400

That jumping hand again...sorry i am embarrassed...i always thank them a second time for supporting us before we part...i dont think a lot of people make the connection between their tax dollars and the military...a couple people thought i was being a smart ass but i think it makes most people feel good to be thanked in return...especially if its an area that doesn't have a military community...someone mentioned the guys coming back from Vietnam and what they faced...we are very lucky to have people thanking us...the military is the best thing i ever had in life...well got through that without the jumping hand hitting the post button...of course now it will hit everything but the post button...aloha

Response by LCpl Sam Epaloose jr made Mar 18 at 2020 11:31 AM

LCpl Sam Epaloose jr — Wed, 18 Mar 2020 11:31:25 -0400

Served 78-81 USMC, in some ways i do! Where i'm from it's a small indian pueblo. There's quite a few peace time vets here. And whenever there's a veterans event going on here. I look around and don't see many of them , i feel and hear that we didn't do anything! But we served ..... SEMPER FI

Response by MSgt Earl Hinchey made Mar 19 at 2020 12:18 PM

MSgt Earl Hinchey — Thu, 19 Mar 2020 12:18:23 -0400

I was in the UK from 11 to 82 and due to the size of the area, we were also concerned about a biological attack.

Response by MSgt Earl Hinchey made Mar 19 at 2020 12:40 PM

MSgt Earl Hinchey — Thu, 19 Mar 2020 12:40:36 -0400

I served from 1970-1993. To me when someone says thank you for your service it seems fake. Perhaps that is because our National Command Authority (NCA) and the civilian leadership, or lack thereof was so poor that they continued to push us into one confused conflict after another.

Response by PV2 Elliot Paone made Mar 19 at 2020 9:20 PM

PV2 Elliot Paone — Thu, 19 Mar 2020 21:20:06 -0400

I have always felt proud to have served, (1977-1980) ready to fight if need be for the United States of America, it’s what we trained 2.5 years for so we were ready for the challenge ....we were on high alert just 6 months prior to my (ETS) and was told by my commanding officer that they may have to extend my time, we were told we would be going to the Middle East from Fort Stewart Georgia because of the American hostage situation there, then in January just prior to our possible deployment, Ronald Regan was elected and threatened to send troops in which at that point they released all the hostages, and so it was a close call...but we were ready to go, I always wonder how my life would have changed being in a real combat situation, so I don’t feel guilty because I was ready for it, and I would have honored my oath to serve and defend this country.
At the same time I do especially honor all those that have served in combat and are serving, God bless them, and God bless the USA.

Response by Col Ed Gunter made Mar 20 at 2020 4:44 PM

Col Ed Gunter — Fri, 20 Mar 2020 16:44:47 -0400

I have talked to several of my fellow VietNam & Laos vets & we have similar but slightly different takes to this. Like you, Richard, I recall the name calling & slurs all too well. Really sucked to return to LAX & be told to go to the men's room & change out of my uniform before proceeding into the terminal area. Frankly, I think the nations collective guilt over how they treated VN vets is a major reason the country is now so good to returning vets. Can you even imagine programs like "Homes for our Troops" back in the day?? Personally, I fault the American press far more than the citizens for our treatment. I keep reminding myself that the name callers have faded into the background. Along with trash like the press, Hanoi Jane & the other peace-niks.
We also agree that those who weren't there can't really understand.
When I'm thanked for my service, my reply is "It was my honor and privilege to serve. I enjoyed it and miss my friends who can't be here today." or similar.

Response by PO3 David Fahey made Mar 22 at 2020 8:48 AM

PO3 David Fahey — Sun, 22 Mar 2020 08:48:27 -0400

I hear this all the time Veterans not wanting us to say thank you for your service. I work at Lowe's and there are plenty of veterans wandering the aisles. I always shake there hand (not now though) and thank them for their service. I had a Vietnam vet say just say welcome home. So I do. I make it a point to greet everyone who display a hat or something something. I'm a Vietnam era vet who wears a camo vest, and I feel proud when someone says "thanks for your service. We all should it's a brother hood

Response by SPC(P) Brandon Jenkins made Mar 22 at 2020 2:16 PM

SPC(P) Brandon Jenkins — Sun, 22 Mar 2020 14:16:34 -0400

I would never expect you to feel that way.

Response by GySgt Herman Poe made Mar 22 at 2020 4:57 PM

GySgt Herman Poe — Sun, 22 Mar 2020 16:57:19 -0400

You represent all services and a statement to you encompasses all veterans and active duty. Be proud of the fact that you served and just say thank you.

Response by SSG George Duncan made Mar 22 at 2020 5:41 PM

SSG George Duncan — Sun, 22 Mar 2020 17:41:31 -0400

67-70 makes me sad

Response by SGT David Petree made Mar 22 at 2020 6:49 PM

SGT David Petree — Sun, 22 Mar 2020 18:49:35 -0400

the short answer is NO. i served 2 long tours in Germany [ 1972 - 75, 1976 - 79 ].. we watch them watch us. did you know that the border fiance was not to keep us out of East Germany ?? it was there to keep there people in !! we were there to keep the piece . we were a force pep-aired to do battle at any moment !!

Response by PV2 James Johnson made Mar 22 at 2020 8:21 PM

PV2 James Johnson — Sun, 22 Mar 2020 20:21:24 -0400

As a Vietnam Veteran ( who served in Vietnam), I don't fell guilty. A little embarrassed but sure as hell not guilty. I came home in 1971, to hekkeling and spitters. So this question to me is a little strange.

Response by CPO Nate S. made Mar 22 at 2020 8:27 PM

CPO Nate S. — Sun, 22 Mar 2020 20:27:03 -0400

I served from 75/76-96.

As Lt Col Robert Canfield said Sun Tzu said "... that it is best to win without conflict..." Gotta love Chinese Warrior who knew his stuff.

As spc-nicholas-murtha "No veteran who 'served honorably,' (operative words) should ever feel guilt or shame for serving in time of war or peace."

As LTC John Griscom said in simple direct language "...You served; you earned it...."

As MAJ Ken Landgren said "...One should never be ashamed for serving. It's that simple...."

etc. As others have said in their own humble ways - they collectively have no guilt.

Now I say "Guilty, BS! Any person (aka human being) in any time in history (past, present or future) of any creed or persuasion who enters the service of their nation with the determination to do their best, to follow the Code of Conduct, to keep their honor high no matter how low others may stoop to tarnish it, and whose better angles know they may have to pay the ultimate price and still choose of their 'own free will an accord' to do it anyway - has nothing to feel guilty for."

We are the < 10% that have served and are the < 1% that are currently serving. We, collectively, have fought and paid in various ways the price in our respective service periods and service branches to assure the 90% that will never serve and the 99% who are currently protected by the 1% willing to go into harms way today those "...blessing of liberty..." that allows us to seek the opportunity to be "...a more perfect union..."

How can or should any of us ever feel or be made to feel guilty about that?

COL Mikel J. Burroughs; LCdr (Rabbah) Rona Matlow; Maj Marty Hogan; SMSGT Gerald "Doc" Thomas; SCPO Morris Ramsey; Lt Col Charlie Brown; LTC Private RallyPoint Member; Maj William W. 'Bill' Price; LTC Stephen C.; LTC Stephen F.; COL Lee Flemming; CMSgt Private RallyPoint Member; SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth; LTC Jason Mackay; MSgt Robert "Rock" Aldi; SFC James J Palmer IV (JP4)

Response by Sgt Kelli Mays made Mar 22 at 2020 8:45 PM

Sgt Kelli Mays — Sun, 22 Mar 2020 20:45:37 -0400

SPC Richard Zacke I actually do...somewhat feel weird or guilty....but only because I do not feel I did anything...I didn't' do much...being under the dept of EDUCATION and stationed at a Hospital...I feel not worthy....so I don't really tell people I'm a veteran.

Don't get me wrong. I am proud to have served and glad I did.

Response by CWO4 Terrence Clark made Mar 22 at 2020 11:05 PM

CWO4 Terrence Clark — Sun, 22 Mar 2020 23:05:01 -0400

When asked about my service, my usual bumper sticker response is that "I served from Tet to Mogadishu ". I am proud of every second, but remember the pre-Gulf War attitude on the right and left coast. I am uncomfortable with "Thank you for your service". I teach my nieces, nephews and grandkids to say "Welcome home".

Response by LTC Jason Mackay made Mar 22 at 2020 11:21 PM

LTC Jason Mackay — Sun, 22 Mar 2020 23:21:33 -0400

SPC Richard Zacke you can only look back on your service that way because you know how it turns out. When your were a bright eyed young man you put it all on the line by raising your right hand and writing that metaphorical check. You had no way to know that the Cold War would not Go hot, nor the Iran hostage crisis would be a Special Ops show, or that 1980 Soviet leadership would change hands multiple times and change foreign policy...or any number of things. You were holding the line while the Armed Forces rose from the all volunteer ashes and headed into the Reagan Renaissance. As long as you are not claiming something falsely, you should be proud of your service in a time when few wanted to.

Response by SGT Lenise Hamilton made Mar 22 at 2020 11:27 PM

SGT Lenise Hamilton — Sun, 22 Mar 2020 23:27:47 -0400

Nope! I sure don't, glad to know that appreciation has not died as yet for us.

Response by Cpl Bernard Bates made Mar 23 at 2020 12:48 AM

Cpl Bernard Bates — Mon, 23 Mar 2020 00:48:50 -0400

I served in the Marine corp from 59-63 we had the Cuban Missile crises, the Berlin wall, assassination of
president kennedy. I joined the Army 63-66. Went to Viet Nam from 65-66 Our Ammo Dump was blown up by the VC. in march of 66. I came home and became a civilian. When Someone says thank you for your service I take it with a grain of salt. Some People mean it, others say it to be politically correct. I will never forget how the Vietnam veterans were treated when they came home. Semper Fi.

Response by MAJ Matthew Arnold made Mar 23 at 2020 2:13 PM

MAJ Matthew Arnold — Mon, 23 Mar 2020 14:13:42 -0400

I served from 1978 to 2002. I remember duck and cover drills in school before I was old enough to serve. I remember the Berlin Wall going up. I remember the Cuban Missile Crisis. I remember the the domino theory (the idea that countries would fall one by one to communism) was real and that we were afraid of a communist world take-over. After Vietnam many or my brothers and sisters who served in that time were engaged in proxy wars where there were real shooting matches and some people gave all. Thousands served in Foreign Internal Defense and USAID missions in friendly countries to help keep them from going over to the reds. Tens of thousands more stood watch at the fences and walls and borders. My point is that the Cold War war real, a real strategic campaign to combat and contain communism. (And, we won, as we always have since 1863, by overwhelming force.)

Response by SSG James Reist - RETIRED made Mar 24 at 2020 11:50 PM

SSG James Reist - RETIRED — Tue, 24 Mar 2020 23:50:13 -0400

Let's not forget all of the little Police Actions, Conflicts, and Military Operations that our Armed Forces are involved in at any given time (THAT ARE NOT PUBLICIZED), and then there are these:
1. IRANIAN HOSTAGE RESCUE MISSION (Attempt to Rescue 66 Hostages FAILED): Operation Eagle Claw - Apr 24, 1980 – Apr 25, 1980 - 8 U.S. Service Members Died, 4 injured; 1 Iranian civilian killed.
Loss of Equipment: 1 helicopter and 1 transport aircraft destroyed, 5 helicopters abandoned/captured
2. Conflicts in Lebanon 1982-1983
3. Grenada 1983
4. Panama 1989-1990

Response by MSgt Henry Smith made Mar 25 at 2020 11:14 PM

MSgt Henry Smith — Wed, 25 Mar 2020 23:14:40 -0400

No I do not feel guilty for serving (3 yrs Army 67-70) Korea Sp5 Radar Tech and (31 Yrs full time Weapons system Tech Air National Guard) retired AF MSgt., just not sure how to respond. Usually I just say it kept me out of trouble with a job for 34 Years. I am proud of serving my country and would do it again.

Response by A1C Lloyd Box made Mar 27 at 2020 5:28 PM

A1C Lloyd Box — Fri, 27 Mar 2020 17:28:13 -0400

Well, it reminds me of what my daddy used to say, "I do not have to back-up to get my check." I am proud of my service. I did not get a thank you until 2005, 35 years after I got home. My best friend called me a fool when I volunteered in 1970 with a Draft number of mid 20's. Nope. I am not ashamed when someone says, "Thank You."

Response by 1SG James Kelly made Mar 28 at 2020 6:39 AM

1SG James Kelly — Sat, 28 Mar 2020 06:39:02 -0400

No; 65 - 88.

Response by AN Charles Culbertson made Mar 28 at 2020 6:08 PM

AN Charles Culbertson — Sat, 28 Mar 2020 18:08:56 -0400

I served in the Navy 1951 to 1955 during the Korean War, But never went to Korea and served 2 years in Hawaii, now that looked good to the guys that went, But as a mechanic on our air craft that returned wounded from there, They tell me I was doing my part during war

Response by SPC Richard Zacke made Mar 29 at 2020 12:35 PM

SPC Richard Zacke — Sun, 29 Mar 2020 12:35:24 -0400

SGT Robert Pryor hey brother, have you read the answer by LTC Charles Lauderdale to the post "Should Rally Point delete account of individuals who provide no support or answers to members seeking questions?".........I'm going out to the commissary to see if they have any TP so if you respond it make be awhile before I hit you back.

Response by Maj Scott Kiger, M.A.S. made Mar 29 at 2020 3:21 PM

Maj Scott Kiger, M.A.S. — Sun, 29 Mar 2020 15:21:34 -0400

Hell no I was old enough to serve during the end of that era that you are speaking about and volunteered but because of a lack of Billet space in the Marine Corps during that period and a college scholarship I ended up not going in until much later in life. If you served during the Cold War you deserve respect and admiration just as if you serve during an active period of War.

Response by 1SG Brian Adams made Mar 29 at 2020 3:27 PM

1SG Brian Adams — Sun, 29 Mar 2020 15:27:25 -0400

Response by SSG Ray Elliott made Mar 29 at 2020 6:15 PM

SSG Ray Elliott — Sun, 29 Mar 2020 18:15:11 -0400

I served in the Navy between 1978 to 1984 we served a much needed purpose, and most of us performed our duties with professionalism and pride. During this time on active duty we spent a lot of time keeping track of the Russian's activities, as well as supporting our forces in Beirut Lebanon, and also Grenada. We were on our way back from Beirut when we got the news the library the Marines had been using as a Barracks in Beirut had been blown up and many of the marines we were supporting lost their lives. I didn't have it as bad as many other veterans, and wasn't in a lot of danger, but I volunteered to serve, did what I was assigned to do, and I would like to think I did it with professionalism. We performed a needed function and have nothing to feel guilty about. When someone thanks me for my service I sometimes feel a little embarrassed by the attention, but guilty never.

Response by SSG Terry Cummings made Mar 31 at 2020 3:38 PM

SSG Terry Cummings — Tue, 31 Mar 2020 15:38:04 -0400

I personally respect the person for saying that. And I allways reply back ; Thank You and it was my Honer to serve.

Response by CW3 Harvey K. made Mar 31 at 2020 3:40 PM

CW3 Harvey K. — Tue, 31 Mar 2020 15:40:49 -0400

"They also serve who only stand and wait." ----- John Milton

Response by LTC Lee Bouchard made Apr 1 at 2020 2:01 AM

LTC Lee Bouchard — Wed, 01 Apr 2020 02:01:26 -0400

Feel guilty? For what I ask? I heard "Thank you for your service" 35 years later. Those words mean nothing to me anymore. Unless I hear it from another Vet. I have never heard Jane Fonda say those words to any V.N. generation Veterans who were there in country. Rifle in hand with a full mag.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 1 at 2020 8:13 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 01 Apr 2020 08:13:40 -0400

I retired from a defense contractor in Dec 18 and prior to that I spent 9 years On the Warfighter FOCUS contract traveling internationally to Iraq, Saudi, Kuwait, UAE, and Afghanistan as part of my job. I was in the Army from 69-72. I can say that despite the long time between my active service and then working with the current soldiers those 9 years, it was like no time existed at all and we were all brothers/teammates throughout our time together. So, when I came back to the US and people would say “thank you for your service”, I replied “your more than welcome” because I don’t see any distinction between then and now. We were and continue to all be linked by that brotherhood. Yes, when I came home in 72 we were not looked upon favorably and were disrespected. Thank God todays military is recognized, but I certainly don’t hold that against them and I believe they wouldn’t hold it against us. As I said, what I experienced is a mutual respect between soldiers of all time periods. Hope this helps !

Response by TSgt James Potter made Apr 1 at 2020 9:43 AM

TSgt James Potter — Wed, 01 Apr 2020 09:43:43 -0400

Why would they? It's not about what you did. It's about that you said you would do.

Response by SFC Richard Williamson made Apr 3 at 2020 9:58 AM

SFC Richard Williamson — Fri, 03 Apr 2020 09:58:48 -0400

At times, I do feel guilty, not only for accepting their thanks, but also for not knowing exactly how to respond. In the 70s, I was spit on while walking through an airport and had no idea why, because I didn't know what Viet Nam was all about nor had I ever been there. Now, when someone thanks me for my service, I say" It's my pleasure to serve."

Response by SFC Jerry McLellen made Apr 4 at 2020 9:09 AM

SFC Jerry McLellen — Sat, 04 Apr 2020 09:09:04 -0400

I served from 1969 to 1989, and retired. Personally I find it embarrassing to be told "Thank you for your service". I didn't enlist in the military and stay that long to get what has become a hollow gesture from people I don't even know. If that's your reason for joining the military, do yourself a favor and don't.

Response by Sgt Jude Eschete made Apr 7 at 2020 12:57 PM

Sgt Jude Eschete — Tue, 07 Apr 2020 12:57:35 -0400

My question. Did you do your job? If you did your job, got an Honorable/General under Honorable Conditions Discharge, then you served and earned all rights of respect in my eyes. Heck, even the BCD and OTH guys who did their job but had attitude problems get a pass in my eyes.

Dishonorables and ELS don't rate to me, but that could be different from what the VA considers a Veteran.

Response by PO2 Milton Brown made Apr 8 at 2020 4:38 PM

PO2 Milton Brown — Wed, 08 Apr 2020 16:38:07 -0400

Since I did not see combat, I think they deserve much more thanks but I only feel pride to be thanked.

Response by GySgt John Hudson made Apr 8 at 2020 6:02 PM

GySgt John Hudson — Wed, 08 Apr 2020 18:02:59 -0400

You served and put your life on the line as part of your contract with the USA... Anyone who called you baby killer does not truly understand military service. Our enemies always hid behind women and children when facing us because they knew of our humanity and kindness towards the defenseless. Baby Killer was a term coined by the Communists as a propaganda tool and it was taken up by the communist supported peace movement in the US. Those who used that term for the most part didn't serve, but hid from any patriotic duty. More ran for Canada like the cowards they were. I am not naive in any way. The innocents do get killed in war no matter what war you choose to look at. That is what war is, 'Literally Hell on Earth'. Every time a bomb goes off, shell explodes, or building is flattened and burned, the innocents can possibly suffer or die. Our job is to stand guard, prevent war, but to take the war to our enemies if we must. We sure do try very hard to minimize the impact upon the innocents when we fight a war. That is something our enemies have never done nor will they ever do it. Enough said. Thank you and all our brothers and sisters for your service and to all who are yet to serve. John

Response by SP5 Stephen Sossaman made Apr 8 at 2020 9:28 PM

SP5 Stephen Sossaman — Wed, 08 Apr 2020 21:28:16 -0400

@SPC Richard Zacke. In my opinion, you are not stealing the thunder of troops who served in Viet Nam, and it seems to me that you did serve during the cold war. By virtue of being part of a powerful U.S. military, you served as a deterrent supporting American foreign policy, and thus you helped keep the uneasy peace. Even if you were a stateside base librarian. That is a positive contribution. My service in Viet Nam was probably a negative. I say that because in my opinion (I know, not everybody's!) my war was absolutely not necessary to keep America free, and it damaged our nation's good reputation, ended or wrecked the lives of a lot of Americans, and certainly damaged the fighting ability of our army and navy with morale problems, waste of assets, hasty promotion of poor leaders to handle the expansion, reputational damage, demoralization of career NCOs and officers, etc.

Response by SSG Derrick Iozzio made Apr 8 at 2020 9:37 PM

SSG Derrick Iozzio — Wed, 08 Apr 2020 21:37:56 -0400

I served from 74-82. When someone says thank you for your service, I reply "My privilege".

Response by CW4 Craig Urban made Apr 8 at 2020 11:17 PM

CW4 Craig Urban — Wed, 08 Apr 2020 23:17:12 -0400

they do not give a shit

Response by CW4 Craig Urban made Apr 8 at 2020 11:17 PM

CW4 Craig Urban — Wed, 08 Apr 2020 23:17:26 -0400

Vietman

Response by SP5 Peter Hawkins made Apr 9 at 2020 10:22 AM

SP5 Peter Hawkins — Thu, 09 Apr 2020 10:22:22 -0400

It wasn't until 12 years after my discharge that anybody said Thanks for your service. Frankly, it was a shock. I was used to keeping quiet about my service, remembering the reception we got, coming home in the late 1960s. Now when I visit the Southland wearing my Army baseball cap, people want to shake my hand and thank me. Mostly it makes me think about how few of us serve any more.
I stood up, I raised my hand, I took my chances, I was lucky. Guilty? No.

Response by Sgt Cullen Smith made Apr 9 at 2020 10:49 AM

Sgt Cullen Smith — Thu, 09 Apr 2020 10:49:32 -0400

I did for a little while until I realized how screwed up I was. Doesn't matter if your a "Cold War Veteran", you served your country. ...and yes, even Cold War Veterans can get MDD, PTSD, and many other service connected disabilities. I served for two enlistments (8 years) from 1980 until 1988.

Response by PO2 Lewis Brockman made Apr 9 at 2020 12:43 PM

PO2 Lewis Brockman — Thu, 09 Apr 2020 12:43:17 -0400

AMEN brother you can forgive but not forget

Response by MAJ Byron Oyler made Apr 9 at 2020 1:21 PM

MAJ Byron Oyler — Thu, 09 Apr 2020 13:21:31 -0400

I feel uncomfortable when they say to me today. I volunteered, have great benefits for myself and my family, and understand the downsides. The people in my opinion who deserve thanks are those that did not want to serve and were forced to serve for pennies. My Father never had an interest in being a soldier, no interest in going to Vietnam, and won both prizes. My family got lucky as the Army directly influenced his decision to become a nurse and thirty years later the second nurse from the family graduated from the same nursing school and then commissioned into the Army Nurse Corps. Not many families were that lucky and those are the people that deserve a thank-you.

Response by SGT Herbert Bollum made Apr 9 at 2020 3:36 PM

SGT Herbert Bollum — Thu, 09 Apr 2020 15:36:58 -0400

You did what you were asked to do. You stood a good chance of being sent some place dangerous. What more can you ask than to be appreciated a little?

Response by PV2 Bob Ondown made Apr 9 at 2020 3:38 PM

PV2 Bob Ondown — Thu, 09 Apr 2020 15:38:01 -0400

No I don't feel guilty. I just reply back "Oh no...thank YOU, for my service".
That gets them thinking.

Response by SPC Nicklos Wiersema made Apr 9 at 2020 4:19 PM

SPC Nicklos Wiersema — Thu, 09 Apr 2020 16:19:25 -0400

When we are thanked for our service,I always reply, Thanks, but I represent the 58mplus names on the Vietnam Wall that made the ultimate sacrifice....Nick Wiersema, 25th Inf.Div, 66-67 VN

Response by PO1 William Poulin made Apr 10 at 2020 11:47 AM

PO1 William Poulin — Fri, 10 Apr 2020 11:47:06 -0400

I enlisted June 9. 1970 in the U.S. Navy. I served until 1992. No, I do not take offense to being acknowledged as Veteran.

Those who served the Vietnam War were disparaged when they returned home.

I treat all Veterans equally.

Response by SFC Terry Wilcox made Apr 10 at 2020 9:52 PM

SFC Terry Wilcox — Fri, 10 Apr 2020 21:52:40 -0400

I served 1964-1985 -- did two tours in Vietnam -- med evcac'd from the first tour in Nam to a hospital in Yokohama, Japan for Reconstructive Surgery - All I got when I came home was negativity - so when I get thanks today - NO IT DOES NOT BOTHER ME!

Response by PO1 Leo Scott made Apr 11 at 2020 6:19 PM

PO1 Leo Scott — Sat, 11 Apr 2020 18:19:51 -0400

I served from 1956 to 1972. The treatment my family got during Nam was horrible. At first it did bother me when they started with the thanks but now I just say "You are quite welcome" and go my way. I know a lot of them are saying it because 'it is the thing to do'. How well do I remember the names and treatment.

Response by TSgt George Rodriguez made Apr 11 at 2020 6:20 PM

TSgt George Rodriguez — Sat, 11 Apr 2020 18:20:33 -0400

My response is "1st it was my duty as well as my honor to serve our christian God, my family and my country. I will and do stand and salute the flag every time it passes but I will kneel before the cross." My service was from 1962 to 1967 and again from 1971 to 1986 when I retired. My wife (USAF), my stepdaughter (USN), my oldest son (USMC), our middle son and youngest son (USAF) we have 50 years active service to this great nation. Do we feel guilty? Not even, Everyone of us volunteered when many skipped the country to prevent being drafted.

Response by TSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 12 at 2020 4:08 AM

TSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 12 Apr 2020 04:08:37 -0400

After 4 years and two tours I got out in "73. Being disrespected was SOP. In 89 I went back in the ANG. We marched in Veterans day parade. I got misty eyed when everybody applauded as we marched past. I am not a hero but yea, gratitude beats the S outta disrespect.

Response by SSgt Jackie Mowery made Apr 12 at 2020 6:52 AM

SSgt Jackie Mowery — Sun, 12 Apr 2020 06:52:16 -0400

I am of two minds. I have been known to say, "I never felt my service that onerous or my sacrifice that great, but on behalf of those whose service was harder and whose sacrifice was greater, I thank you."
On the other hand, every year, at work, I posted a copy of Kipling's "Tommy". Thank a vet by voting to increase their pay. There are far too many lower grade enlisted families on food stamps and in HUD housing. Seems Congress can appropriate money for their favorite program, but come time to trim the fat it comes out of the military, and most often out of pay and allowances.

Response by Sgt Donald Hensley made Apr 12 at 2020 9:16 AM

Sgt Donald Hensley — Sun, 12 Apr 2020 09:16:20 -0400

I served USAF 1975-1980. No I do not feel guilty. I joined right as the Vietnam war had wound down. I would have joined anyway. I am thankful it was relatively peace times; however Carter was president and it was scary times as well. It was during the Iran hostage crisis. I lived down the street in Wiesbaden from the hospital the hostages went to after their release. During that time; we were prepared to go to war if we had to.

Response by Dave Jones made Apr 12 at 2020 12:18 PM

Dave Jones — Sun, 12 Apr 2020 12:18:58 -0400

No reason to feel guilty. I didn’t serve because they wouldn’t give a wavier for bad eyes and flat feet. I remember how they treated you guys coming home like shit. You should be thanked

I wear a booney cap all the time and I get thanked for my service because of the cap. I am always correcting people and letting them know I was a contractor in the sandbox for a number of years. Had some interesting conversations from that point.

Response by PFC John Roscoe made Apr 13 at 2020 10:55 AM

PFC John Roscoe — Mon, 13 Apr 2020 10:55:20 -0400

Yeah, a bit. In 1977 I was 19 and really was a pretty terrible soldier in garrison, but really perked up and did well when we occasionally went to the field. I was assigned to division HQ company where we had more officers than enlisted men, and each enlisted man had his own Sgt. Major or officer to get him out of PT or details. Heck, I was an E-3 and I was scoring BAQ. We went to the field once or twice a year, usually for less than a week, with no night exercises. The women in our unit used to carry their weapons in plastic bags so they didn`t get dirty, and that was only if they actually went, since just prior to deploying the sickcall roster got overloaded with "Female problems. Drugs were rampant and our barracks were a pigsty. I was tdy to Division Recon school, and did well enough that I was offered a chance to become cadre medic, but by then I was too far gone, being a dude assigned to permanent duty in Hawaii where I was from, with a paycheck and pad paid for by the Federal Government. Our section NCOIC showed-up one night with his jaw fractured by a coke dealer, and asked us e-nothings to take him to the hospital, we all declined. The next day we discovered he went AWOL and when we went to inventory our TOE we found that he had stolen and sold most of it on the black market. A few months prior to this, he had been promoted to e-6 and given an ARCOM. I was always scared to get in a deuce and half with some stone-out driver negotiating cliff-side dirt roads. When I finished my AIT/OJT at Tripler Medical Army Center, I was originally assigned to 1/62nd Air Defense artillery- an actual line unit. I was just getting settled in and actually liking a soldiers life, when I got a transfer to Div HQ, since I had a specialty MOS and high GT score, they just pulled me out like that. Everyone patted me on the back, said how lucky I was to be going to the country club and not have to go to the field for a month or more at a time. Worst thing that ever happened to me. When the CO gave me a expeditious discharge a year and half later he told me that I performed well in the field and could be a good soldier, but we did n`t have any wars at the time, and garrison duty was bad in general, especially for young guys like me. He said that there would be no bar to my reenlistment if after a few years I had matured some and decided I wanted back in.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 13 at 2020 4:26 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 13 Apr 2020 16:26:20 -0400

I think I answered this question already. Usually they don't know I'm a veteran because I don't advertise it do I don't have to hear their phony PC crap. I also don't care much for it because some people feel obligated to say it because everybody else does it. When I rarely say it to other veterans (most I know hate it), I am more original and say it with feeling not the generic "Thank you for your service" which is about as useless as hen's teeth.

No I don't feel guilty. We were combat ready and I hoped we would be deployed. Most did not have the choice to deploy like they have in recent years. I was in from 1978 to 1982 and it was the Cold War. There were some things going on, and we almost got deployed a few times, but it didn't happen.

I have also seen stupid questions from civilians on other websites asking if we weren't in combat should we still be considered veterans. It's like they are trying to steal something we should be entitled to. We were there; they were not. We were ready; they weren't born. They cannot judge the past if they don't know it or lived it. If you were honorably discharged you would know if you're a veteran or not. I had dealings with recently discharged veterans and one was upset because civilians and others were not giving him the respect he thought he deserved.

The Vietnam Veterans are the ones who deserve a lot more than the bad treatment they received.

Response by Sgt Dan Catlin made Apr 15 at 2020 1:30 PM

Sgt Dan Catlin — Wed, 15 Apr 2020 13:30:07 -0400

I never feel ashamed, more like grateful the nation turned a corner concerning those who served. I caught the end of Nam, and deployed to Nam Phong, Thailand. I never went in-country. But we lived in hooches where our floors were regularly sprayed with diesel to keep down rot and bugs. Lived basically in field conditions. Did 2 other OS deployments under slightly better conditions. I watched young guys whose marriages didn't survive their deployment. Then we all went home and faced the extremist liberal filth who excoriated us for our service to them. So when someone today comes and thanks me for my service, I am both proud and grateful. They don't have to serve- it isn't for everyone. But they should be grateful to those who do, and I for one am happy to see this.

Response by SPC Bill Skowronski made Apr 15 at 2020 6:01 PM

SPC Bill Skowronski — Wed, 15 Apr 2020 18:01:29 -0400

Yes , I feel Guilty For One it's fifty yrs. too late & two can they say " Thank You " to those who never Returned ? ? ?
For last , How come they never talk how the " GOVERNMENT " lie to us & How Many People
Made Millions Of Dollars .

Response by SFC Michael D. made Apr 15 at 2020 6:28 PM

SFC Michael D. — Wed, 15 Apr 2020 18:28:23 -0400

You should not feel that way. Even if you were in the rear, you supported the ones on the front. Sometimes without even knowing it.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 16 at 2020 9:26 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 16 Apr 2020 09:26:22 -0400

SP4 Zacke I served active duty from Oct 1977 to Nov 1985. Then National Guard from Nov 2004 until Dec 2017. With the Guard I deployed 4 times. When someone tells you thank you for your service. Say thank you. You served. If you want to say more and you know this person is a good hard working man or woman that takes care of themselves and their family. Tell them thank you for being a great Citizen.

Response by MAJ Bruce Davie made Apr 16 at 2020 12:50 PM

MAJ Bruce Davie — Thu, 16 Apr 2020 12:50:32 -0400

Why do you belittle yourself? We all served our country in one fashion or another. That is recognized by “Thank you for your service!” Be proud that you served when others did not. Our society NOW appreciates our Armed Forces. “Let your heart not be troubled”...

Response by SrA Ronald Moore made Apr 16 at 2020 1:30 PM

SrA Ronald Moore — Thu, 16 Apr 2020 13:30:33 -0400

No, I tell them what I did and where I was stationed at,And let it go at that.I do it think it steals anyones’ thunder, Becsuse I Did serve. Some say was you in the military and I say yes.

Response by CPT Stephen Smith made Apr 18 at 2020 6:42 AM

CPT Stephen Smith — Sat, 18 Apr 2020 06:42:40 -0400

I served on active duty from 1966 thru 1973 as an Army Infantry officer. My service included tours in Vietnam, West Germany and CONUS. As to the question at hand. On the occasion when someone today offers their thanks for my service, I must admit that my response is quite mixed. First, I am appreciative of the individual having had enough motivation to approach me, a stranger, and offer what seems to be a genuine offer of appreciation. However, my warm feeling of thankfulness is quickly challenged by a darker reaction. That reaction is a feeling of resentment, which hopefully does not show itself to the person offering today's generous greeting. Under the surface I feel a sense of anger. Anger that I've kept hidden, until recently, for my fellow citizens who shared the streets and other public places with me during the years after my rotation back to "The World" from the Vietnam War. Those persons that treated all of my brothers-in-arms with emotions that ranged from deliberate ambivalence, to open, often loud and vulgar insults directed toward almost anyone wearing a military uniform. The anger I felt at the time was nothing to that which I harbor, even today. Rage that is saved for those vulgar and ignorant people who totally besmirched and disrespected my comrades and friends, many of whom left their blood and, in too many cases, their lives, in the rice paddies of the Mekong Delta. Lives that were expended for their country. Damn those ungrateful and unfeeling SOB's that sat back on this side of the world safe and untouched by the violence of that war.

Response by MSG Felipe De Leon Brown made Apr 19 at 2020 10:47 AM

MSG Felipe De Leon Brown — Sun, 19 Apr 2020 10:47:44 -0400

No. I do not feel guilty. On one hand, it's appreciated. On the other, it's "too little, too late." I had two tours in Vietnam. Lost friends, former classmates from common training and even a former roomy. Came home to a society who had turned its back on us, the Vietnam veterans.

Response by SFC Donald Shilo made Apr 20 at 2020 9:01 PM

SFC Donald Shilo — Mon, 20 Apr 2020 21:01:22 -0400

When someone tells me thank you for your service, I say never forget those that gave all.

Response by SFC Stephen Scott made Apr 21 at 2020 7:21 PM

SFC Stephen Scott — Tue, 21 Apr 2020 19:21:01 -0400

I served in Vietnam and state side during that time you called all kinds names and sometimes spit, at least I was spit at once. I have no reason to feel guilty about it. And neither should any other soldier or Veteran. I tell military that I see and veterans when I know they have served, Thank You For Your Service.

Response by SSG Ruben Alerti made Apr 22 at 2020 9:42 PM

SSG Ruben Alerti — Wed, 22 Apr 2020 21:42:03 -0400

I cant comprehend why someone new to military service within the last 10 to 15 years would ask if vets of a different era would feel shame or guilt because they served in a different era. I understand that a Specialist wrote the question. I deployed to Desert Storm, Somalia and Bosnia, earning campaign ribbons for these deployments. But that's cloth and ribbon racks. Once upon a time, there was a required reading list from either your CO or CSM in order to advance in your career as a military leader. Reading through the pages of someone's journey through Omaha Beach or the Chozin Reservoir or Ia Drang Vietnam or the Marine Barracks in Lebanon or battling in Wadi Al Batir against the Iraqi Republican Guard or supporting our Ranger units in Mogadishu or taking fire from all sides in the streets of Boznia Herzegovina brings you to a humbling place where you have the esteemed honor to walk and venture where some have not returned and yet others have returned with unimaginable experiences. So you ask about guilt or shame. We are the brothers and sisters of a lineage the goes back to the original colonies. Should they feel guilt? May it never be. Esprit de Corps!

Response by PO2 Jim Branigan made Apr 28 at 2020 10:02 PM

PO2 Jim Branigan — Tue, 28 Apr 2020 22:02:47 -0400

67-71 spat at or baby killer until recently. Now when they thank me I respond it my duty to my country and was an honor, then thank you!

Response by LCDR Michael Pumilia made Apr 29 at 2020 10:07 PM

LCDR Michael Pumilia — Wed, 29 Apr 2020 22:07:18 -0400

First, not every service member went to Vietnam. Second, there were thousands of us doing our duty to this country. Finally, I served from 72 to 80. Went thru airedale school and became a Naval Aviator. At VT-1, we lost 7 instructors and students during training flights in one year. Then 3 years in the Air Dept on a carrier. Last duty was at a naval weapons station working with bombs and missiles. My career ended short of my goal of at least 20 years. I received a disability which wound up years later being 100%, quite a shitty deal. But I'd do it all over because my country needed my service and I'm proud of that service. And I did get to see the world, from Hawaii to the Med, and within 6 miles of the beach of Havana, Cuba. It was nine years of thrills punctuated by a few moments of terror, just as advertised.

Response by Sgt Peter McDonald made May 1 at 2020 5:08 PM

Sgt Peter McDonald — Fri, 01 May 2020 17:08:13 -0400

I am just glad that the men and women who serve today are being treated with the respect that they deserve and the recognition of their sacrifices to serve our great country.
I don't feel embarrassed when someone thanks me for my service, I feel awkward. I was not seeking recognition when I joined. I just wanted to be treated with respect and courtesy, unlike the Vietnam era when service members were demonized.

Response by SMSgt Bob Wilson made May 2 at 2020 12:55 AM

SMSgt Bob Wilson — Sat, 02 May 2020 00:55:48 -0400

I think it is hypocritical. We are living in the "thank you for participating" era and the trophy we receive is "Thank you for your service". Most of the members of the military in the 1960s were people who could not go to college [usually because of money]. Those days are behind me and I must move on with my life. Twenty-six years was long enough.

Response by 1SG John Highfill made May 2 at 2020 6:54 AM

1SG John Highfill — Sat, 02 May 2020 06:54:12 -0400

No I’m thankful

Response by 1LT Peter Duston made May 2 at 2020 10:52 AM

1LT Peter Duston — Sat, 02 May 2020 10:52:35 -0400

No! Actually regarding the "Thank you for your service", it gives me great pleasure to tell a young trooper in uniform: "Thanks for the wearing the uniform that we used to wear"! Always gets a big smile!

Response by SFC Stephen Scott made May 2 at 2020 2:02 PM

SFC Stephen Scott — Sat, 02 May 2020 14:02:08 -0400

I served from 1965 to 1984 and don't feel guilty at all. At first if was a little shocked the first time it happened. It's better than being spit at, like I was one time in my own hometown.

Response by CPO Richard Palmer made May 2 at 2020 6:14 PM

CPO Richard Palmer — Sat, 02 May 2020 18:14:37 -0400

I am a retired Navy Chief Hospital Corpsman who is 100% disabled due to exposure to Agent Orange while serving aboard a communications relay ship in the Gulf of Tonkin 12/66 - 12/67. As a corpsman I felt guilty when thanked for my service due to survivor guilt knowing many of my fellow corpsman died "in-country". Now I am fighting the VA for benefits as a "Blue Water Navy" veteran. I can now accept people thanking me for my service knowing my fellow corpsman died quickly and I am dying slowly.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 2 at 2020 9:17 PM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 02 May 2020 21:17:53 -0400

that is why i don't were a ball cap with usaf on it

Response by SSgt Glen Derickson made May 2 at 2020 10:14 PM

SSgt Glen Derickson — Sat, 02 May 2020 22:14:58 -0400

I was a computer repairman at Barksdale A.F.B. at one of three sites tied to our CONUS nuclear missle and bomber wings. I worked in a basement, in air conditioning, out of the weather. I attended revelie once and picked up butts once, in three years. Did I back up to the pay window? No. I left a job making four times as much money. My freedom was subject to the UCMJ and other norms of the service. I spent four years of my life making sure a computer ran for seventeen minutes, the time estimated for Russian nuclear impact from launch detection. Every single one of us counts. It is the sum of us that overcomes.

Response by MSgt Jerry Waters made May 2 at 2020 11:04 PM

MSgt Jerry Waters — Sat, 02 May 2020 23:04:18 -0400

Hell no, I served

Response by Sgt Peter Schlesiona made May 3 at 2020 9:44 AM

Sgt Peter Schlesiona — Sun, 03 May 2020 09:44:51 -0400

The “Thank you” comments are fine with me. All troops deserve at least that just for giving up some years serving their country. As a Vietnam vet, however, I detest the “Welcome Home” comments some people feel obliged to make.
We weren’t welcomed then and I really don’t want to hear that today.

Response by SN William Golden made May 3 at 2020 9:52 AM

SN William Golden — Sun, 03 May 2020 09:52:47 -0400

I had to read this question a few times to be sure I REALLY understood what was being asked. No I don't feel guilty if someone thanks for my service. It's something that I do not expect but if a person offers their appreciation than it tells me that the time I served was worth it.
If a person drafted into service of this country than that man deserves a thank you. If a person enlisted to serve than he or she should also deserve the recognition. People gave a period of their life to serve and protect this country. Some of us served a short time while others gave a lifetime of service. For those who proudly served this country they do deserve a THANK YOU...
Army, Air Force, Marines, NAVY, Coast Guard, National Guards, and Reservists .... Thank You

Response by CPT Larry Hudson made May 3 at 2020 11:20 AM

CPT Larry Hudson — Sun, 03 May 2020 11:20:51 -0400

Absolutely not.

Response by Sgt Steven Baldwin made May 3 at 2020 11:25 AM

Sgt Steven Baldwin — Sun, 03 May 2020 11:25:12 -0400

I am proud of the young men and women serving today. America has supported the Warriors like all of us wish we could have been. Unfortunately, will always feel guilty. Wounds heal, scars remain.

Response by CDR Rabbi Reuben Israel Abraham made May 3 at 2020 4:35 PM

CDR Rabbi Reuben Israel Abraham — Sun, 03 May 2020 16:35:55 -0400

I am proud to have worn the uniform and served during the periods of 1976-1987 & 1997-2012. SPC Murtha echoes my sentiments.

Response by CDR Rabbi Reuben Israel Abraham made May 3 at 2020 4:42 PM

CDR Rabbi Reuben Israel Abraham — Sun, 03 May 2020 16:42:14 -0400

I served from 1976-1987 as a Navy Supply Corps Officer both at sea and overseas in the Cold War era. I also served from 1997-2012 as a Chaplain Corps Officer (10 Years with the USMC) in the Global War on Terrorism. While I was never forward deployed to a "hot" combat zone, my service was based on my willingness to put myself in harm's way to defend this nation. Be proud you wore the uniform.

Response by 2LT John Foltz made May 3 at 2020 6:00 PM

2LT John Foltz — Sun, 03 May 2020 18:00:30 -0400

I was injured during that cold war. Army.

Response by SGT Tiik Taaka made May 3 at 2020 6:44 PM

SGT Tiik Taaka — Sun, 03 May 2020 18:44:14 -0400

Hearing "Thank you for your service" reminds me that I served, I am here, and I am thankful for hearing kind words. For those who have never received a "Thank you for your service" don't worry, I will bring it to you when I get there.

Response by SFC Carlos Cruz made May 3 at 2020 6:48 PM

SFC Carlos Cruz — Sun, 03 May 2020 18:48:11 -0400

No, why feel guilty for serving your country

Response by SGT Timothy Posemato made May 3 at 2020 9:35 PM

SGT Timothy Posemato — Sun, 03 May 2020 21:35:55 -0400

If I remember correctly, I never had anyone say thankyou for your service until Kuwait and the gulf War, in my opinion the public never looked at the military positively until then. The only one's I ever heard thank you for your service was from a fellow veteran..

Response by SGT Robert Andrews made May 3 at 2020 9:50 PM

SGT Robert Andrews — Sun, 03 May 2020 21:50:44 -0400

My parents are not proud that I served in the Army I joined in 1987 I stayed in and served on some aspect either active duty and/or reserves or mobilized reserves. My last active duty station was 10th mountain in 2009 where I fought my med board and lost. I did not want out. To his day My Parents call me baby killer.. AND you think for one second I even acknowledge them.. Hell No If I was allowed to re-up I would in 2 seconds.

Response by Sgt Dennis Stevens made May 3 at 2020 11:54 PM

Sgt Dennis Stevens — Sun, 03 May 2020 23:54:21 -0400

I feel sometimes to little to late. When I was medevaced from Vietnam and being in the hospital for 90 days they gave me 30 day leave from being in the Naval Hospital Memphis TN. Had to borrow a uniform and borrow a few dollars as my pay records were lost and left with only the hospital robes given to me from one of the many hospitals I visited on the way to the States. Back to my point, I was given a ride to the interstate hwy from a corpsman. I stuck my thumb out to hitch a ride home, 300 miles away, and the trouble began while standing in braces on my legs back and neck leaning on crutches. I got hit with bottles, eggs tomatoes and other savory things. I was cursed at and spit on only to be able to take it all. So, forgive me when I have a hard time with, "Thank You for your service" bit to make someone feel like they are appreciated or ease their own conscious. They shamed us and tried to lay gilt at our feet when we came home. How do you make that right....?

Response by CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member made May 4 at 2020 12:33 AM

CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 04 May 2020 00:33:25 -0400

No, and you don’t have to feel this way. Anyone who served his/her Country during peacetime and war is an honor to have. So don’t take this away just because you served during a particular time. I served from 1972-1994. I’m old now but not forgotten by my family. That’s all it matters to me.
Semper Fi Soldier

Response by CPO Leonard Orth made May 4 at 2020 3:49 AM

CPO Leonard Orth — Mon, 04 May 2020 03:49:50 -0400

No, I served my country honorably. My service didn't entail the horrors that so many others has seen. But it was still service to my country.

Response by CPL Michael Moore made May 4 at 2020 4:54 AM

CPL Michael Moore — Mon, 04 May 2020 04:54:35 -0400

I would like to remind you that from 1953 to 1991 the ROK and the US suffered over 6000 casualties according to the DOD while patrolling the DMZ. For most of that period those on the DMZ were required to be participants in FIVE fire fights not one to be eligible for a CIB or CFMB.
Hundreds became casualties while patrolling the Inter German Border , especially those who were members of the allied control missions in east Germany. There were counter Drug interdiction missions in Columbia, missions in at least 3 other South American countries , Grenada, Panama and others. So yes if you served honorably during that time you deserve a great full nations thanks.

Response by COL Carl Jensen made May 4 at 2020 9:51 AM

COL Carl Jensen — Mon, 04 May 2020 09:51:26 -0400

As a former Sp4 then career officer, I tell them jokingly, thank you, you are paying me now for it. (While, the former U.S. E-4 in me says, you sent me, I didn't ask to go. But I did turn it into an advantage.)

Response by SMSgt John Lemon made May 4 at 2020 11:47 AM

SMSgt John Lemon — Mon, 04 May 2020 11:47:49 -0400

I used to be embarrassed when people thanked me for my service. I didn't know how to answer. Then I realized that for most of them, they put no more thought into saying thanks than they did saying hello.So I put no more thought in saying you're welcome than they do saying thanks.

Response by SPC John Tacetta made May 4 at 2020 12:28 PM

SPC John Tacetta — Mon, 04 May 2020 12:28:03 -0400

I really don't like it when people say "Thank you for your service", but it's not because I feel guilty about stealing anybody's thunder. Rather, it's because I feel my service was a duty to this great country and I don't need thanks for doing something that's expected of me. Might as well say: "Wow, thanks for not getting into an accident while driving me to the airport." In my mind at least. Join up if you want to thank or honor me.

Service between 1960 and 1980 includes the Vietnam War and the end of the Cold War and some pretty hairy things happened during that time. I served from 1976 to 1980 and stood beside Pershing Missile batteries in Germany and drew a combat load in Kentucky when Operation Eagle Claw aborted in the Iranian desert. I never "saw the elephant" and those who did assured that I didn't really want to. With the projected casualty rates in Europe, I believed them. But we all stood on the firing line nonetheless, ready to jump off at a moments notice.

When I got out nobody really cared about what I had seen or done. I was more of a curiosity than anything else. Now I can get 10% off and a "thank you" at local merchants, but I'd gladly give that up to bring back a single life lost in what is now clearly a misdirected adventure.

Response by SrA John Monette made May 4 at 2020 12:34 PM

SrA John Monette — Mon, 04 May 2020 12:34:50 -0400

HELL NO!!!!! We were in the longest war in modern history!!! No, we didn't actually put rounds downrange, but we were there just in case we had to

Response by SP5 Derick Johnsohne made May 4 at 2020 3:30 PM

SP5 Derick Johnsohne — Mon, 04 May 2020 15:30:54 -0400

i answer that i only did peacetime service .

Response by Lt Col Stewart Stoddart made May 4 at 2020 4:02 PM

Lt Col Stewart Stoddart — Mon, 04 May 2020 16:02:32 -0400

Absolutely not. USAF 1971-1991

Response by CPL John C. Lynch made May 4 at 2020 4:28 PM

CPL John C. Lynch — Mon, 04 May 2020 16:28:26 -0400

Actually, I never feel guilty or embarrassed. What I do feel is sad. Sad that it has become a totally forced and artificial "Thank You". I was in 79-84. Most of my NCOs when I came in were Vietnam Era. Those Vets were abused and ridiculed. As part of the 1st "Volunteers" (post draft) we were looked on as, "What--can't cut it in the real world?". We were neither hated ('Nam) not loved (Since Gulf). Honestly, we were basically ignored.
As far as it being the "Cold War" era, we manned the Berlin Wall, died in Beruit, seperated the Israelies and Egyptians in the Sinai, patrolled the Jungles in Central & South America (unofficially) securing the Panama Canal. Our readiness and willingness led to the demise of the Soviet Union and eventually brought the idea of Capitalism to most of the world.
So no--I don't feel guilty. And my heart goes out to any Veteran who might. I don't thank you Brothers and Sisters--I Appreciate You.

Response by MAJ Fred Sherman made May 4 at 2020 7:43 PM

MAJ Fred Sherman — Mon, 04 May 2020 19:43:35 -0400

No - I don't feel guilty at all. I served in 1962-4, 13 months in Korea and 9 in San Francisco. Regardless of the fact that there was no active war going on at the time, it was still 2 years out of my life at a time that I would otherwise be starting a career. I don't regret the experience in any way, but it was still 2 years of my life.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 4 at 2020 8:29 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 04 May 2020 20:29:06 -0400

We have literally accomplished nothing in Afghanistan or Iraq. We send people to die for no reason. I wish people could keep their feelings about soldiers, and about the military separate. Back in the day they hated the military and soldiers. Now they blindly supports wars because they love soldiers.

Response by SPC Roberto Prieto made May 4 at 2020 9:38 PM

SPC Roberto Prieto — Mon, 04 May 2020 21:38:18 -0400

You said from 1960 to 1980. The Cold War! Did we miss all of Vietnam?

Response by TSgt David Olson made May 4 at 2020 9:42 PM

TSgt David Olson — Mon, 04 May 2020 21:42:27 -0400

No. Why should I? After 13 months in Korea I volunteered for 12 months in Vietnam. The time frame was 1963-1965. The majority of people who say to me “thank you for your service”, have never served in the military. A great many are women of varying age and the men are usually middle aged. Once in a while a veteran will approach me. I did Vietnam because I felt it was my generation’s war and I wanted to be a part of it. I thank people all the time for any service they render to me. Most of the time I feel embarrassed when someone says that to me.

Response by TSgt Dan Decker made May 5 at 2020 1:48 AM

TSgt Dan Decker — Tue, 05 May 2020 01:48:07 -0400

I served from 66-86. When I returned from SEA, no one welcomed me home until 1997 or 98. Now they see me wearing my Vietnam Service Ribbon on my t-shirt and/or hat and they say welcome home or thank you for your service. Inside I think, "Too little, too late." I remember being spit on and told not to wear my uniform when flying on civilian air lines. Outwardly, I say, "It was my Honor to serve; you're welcome."

Response by TSgt Dan Decker made May 5 at 2020 1:51 AM

TSgt Dan Decker — Tue, 05 May 2020 01:51:58 -0400

After the way we were "welcomed home," Vietnam Vets swore that our children would not come home to that kind of treatment. Today, we go to the airports and welcome our children back home, and all of the other "children," too. We applaud as they enter the receiving area on their way back home.

Response by SSgt Christopher Capehart made May 5 at 2020 6:53 AM

SSgt Christopher Capehart — Tue, 05 May 2020 06:53:03 -0400

I get this quite often. I served from 1981 to 1992 and it took some time to finally start accepting people’s thanks. Now my standard reply is to say thank you, it was both an honor and privilege.

Thank you to all my brothers and sisters who have served and are serving now.

Response by SPC Juan Fonseca made May 5 at 2020 4:14 PM

SPC Juan Fonseca — Tue, 05 May 2020 16:14:20 -0400

SP4 Juan B. Fonseca served 1967 in Vietnam. It's not that I fill guilty but we over reacted in many occasions during interventions in villeges and in that scen yes. A saluted to all veterans Blessings

Response by Cpl Geoff Smith made May 5 at 2020 4:39 PM

Cpl Geoff Smith — Tue, 05 May 2020 16:39:12 -0400

No. Some of us went to Vietnam, others didn't, We all put the uniform on, and took our chances. The shit could've hit the fan at any time or place, sending others into harm's way! We should ALL be proud of our service.

Response by LTC Gary Earls made May 5 at 2020 4:46 PM

LTC Gary Earls — Tue, 05 May 2020 16:46:57 -0400

I simply reply, "It was my honor". :-)

Response by 1SG George Kincannon made May 5 at 2020 7:02 PM

1SG George Kincannon — Tue, 05 May 2020 19:02:59 -0400

I served From 1967-1990, 98Z5M. I can remember being called a baby killer coming through the San Francisco airport in 1973 returning from a year stent in Thailand. I also lost my brother KIA in Vietnam 1968. I've been stationed in Turkey, Thailand, Okinawa and Germany. I don't mind it when people say thank you for your service. I just say it was an honor to serve and I thank them for the opportunity to serve them and our nation.

Response by SSG George Holtje made May 5 at 2020 7:30 PM

SSG George Holtje — Tue, 05 May 2020 19:30:40 -0400

You served during a time when we thought WWIII was around the corner, not to mention Iran, Libya, El Salvador and a host of other small nation problems that could’ve set off the powder keg.(small nation problems kicked off the First World War) It was also not a popular time to be a soldier, I think soldiers of that era deserved a thank you as much as the rest of us

Response by SSG George Holtje made May 5 at 2020 7:32 PM

SSG George Holtje — Tue, 05 May 2020 19:32:29 -0400

PS my uncle was in Times Square rolling up the spitters. He would thanked you back then and now

Response by SGT Dan Theman made May 5 at 2020 7:41 PM

SGT Dan Theman — Tue, 05 May 2020 19:41:32 -0400

Ya know what, I hear what your saying. I served my country from 79-85 and did it honorably. When I joined I didn’t realize I would be taking on the reigns of past service members who forged a way of life I was obliviously living as a civilian. I know I left it in good hands as I trained those who came after me in the same manner as I was taught.
I did feel awkward when I was thanked but then realized, they know more about what out community of military personnel sacrifice in the name of freedoms than I think I did when I enlisted.
We earned that and so I’m humbled when I say it and proud when i hear it...
“Thank you for your service”
Thank you for your sacrifice”

Response by SGM Kenneth Stanton made May 5 at 2020 7:54 PM

SGM Kenneth Stanton — Tue, 05 May 2020 19:54:10 -0400

I served from April 1957 to 30 November 1987 and no why should you or I ever feel guilty (why should you), you have earned that right to feel any way you like. YOU Served.

Response by SPC Charles Sewell made May 6 at 2020 9:34 AM

SPC Charles Sewell — Wed, 06 May 2020 09:34:28 -0400

That was a different time. Your service is just as important as the troop serving right now or any other time. Remember, we are a very small percent of the population. Thanks for defending my freedoms.

Response by SGM Leon Peck made May 6 at 2020 10:03 AM

SGM Leon Peck — Wed, 06 May 2020 10:03:31 -0400

I’ve said it before, “They also serve, who stand and wait.” You never know when they are going to call your number and you will get thrown into the breach. I served from 1970 to 2000. I worked with other nations in their Operations Centers and feel that I made significant contributions to the defense of Europe. No, I was never sent to VietNam. I could have been. But the United States Army, in their infinite wisdom sent me other places. I served where I was needed. I do feel that my brothers and sisters who were sent to SE Asia and paid the ultimate price deserve much higher praise and honor. I used to feel guilty about that. But I have come to realize that I went where I was sent and did what I was asked in the best way that I knew how. I served with pride. And when someone today says “thanks for your service”, I usually tell them don’t thank me. It was the best job I ever had. It was my pleasure to do it.

I served.

Response by SFC Michael Clevenger made May 6 at 2020 10:22 AM

SFC Michael Clevenger — Wed, 06 May 2020 10:22:17 -0400

Because of Medical reasons I was turned down when I reported for my draft, I was 18. There was a ten year wait period, my medical reason was when I was 11, at 21 I went back and tried once more and was accepted. Aug of 1972. Nam was over, all the troops were returning, my BT was at Fort Ord. Mine first duty assignment Ft Hood, 1st Cav. I remember getting cussed and spit at as well at the LA airport. I did three tours overseas during the 20 years I served. My MOS 11B, 11H and 54E(2nd)

Response by Sgt Sandra Gunn made May 6 at 2020 12:04 PM

Sgt Sandra Gunn — Wed, 06 May 2020 12:04:21 -0400

I am a Vietnam Era veteran, serving in the USAF from Oct. 74 to Feb. 79. I still don't know how to respond when thanked for my service, in fact I feel a little embarrassed, I can't explain why, though I feel that people's intentions are good, it makes me a bit uncomfortable. Serving my country was an honor, so when thanked for doing that, I'm taken aback.

Response by CPL Kenneth Kahn made May 6 at 2020 1:01 PM

CPL Kenneth Kahn — Wed, 06 May 2020 13:01:36 -0400

To me (I served in the mid-70's) it's not about "stealing the thunder." It's just so strange in that at that time, and for decades after, service was almost frowned upon and certainly the military was not thought of very highly by the general public. First, we were "baby killers" and then it was just something that most people didn't think of doing (we are, after all, just 3% of the population). Now, to be thanked for service when I used to be anything from a "baby killer" to a low-life that didn't have any prospects other than the military (not that any of that was true, but it's how I perceive others as thinking) is just, I don't know, "weird." It's like being called a "hero" when that's the last way I think of myself.

Response by PO2 Louis Fattrusso made May 6 at 2020 1:41 PM

PO2 Louis Fattrusso — Wed, 06 May 2020 13:41:41 -0400

No. It’s about time they recognized us Vietnam Era Veterans for our sacrifice

Response by SGT Kenneth Partyka made May 6 at 2020 4:00 PM

SGT Kenneth Partyka — Wed, 06 May 2020 16:00:59 -0400

No. Not at all. I volunteered for the future. I didnt know what was going to happen going forward. It was my job to be part of the gorce that PREVENTED some other country from starting something. My presence was a deterrent. Even though we werent in a war, my service was no more or less important than those who served in a combat zone. We all signed that blank check. 97% of the population cant say that.

Response by PO2 John Driskill made May 6 at 2020 4:26 PM

PO2 John Driskill — Wed, 06 May 2020 16:26:23 -0400

I served from 1968 to 1978 during the Vietnam War period. I got yelled at by anti-war freaks for being a baby killer in the Boston Commons Park. One guy got into my face with his foul breath and I gave him a knee in the nuts. There I was in my white GOB outfit with my little old National D AKA the Gedunk ribbon showing I hadn't been anywhere except in the Gulf of Mexico. Four years later I got to go to the Tokin Gulf aka Yankee Station on the USS Saratoga. I don't mind if someone says thanks for your service these days. Beats being spit upon and yelled at. The country has changed since then and people appreciate the service members.

Response by SGT Ron Harper made May 6 at 2020 5:32 PM

SGT Ron Harper — Wed, 06 May 2020 17:32:00 -0400

Just because you never had to face combat or served in a hostile area doesn't mean your service was for nothing. You made a commitment to the U.S. in case you were needed and was willing to go at a moments notice. Any "thank you" you received should be welcomed and you should feel honored that you served and was ready to go to battle.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 6 at 2020 9:09 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 06 May 2020 21:09:46 -0400

We served in what I call the forgotten time: between Vietnam and Desert Storm, maybe 9/11. During this time period it wasn’t considered really cool to be in the military, USO Areas at airports were boarded up. I remember walking through airports wondering what it would be like if they were open for us. My point is we just arn’t used to people saying thanks, it makes us feel uncomfortable. We come from a different generation also.

Response by SGT James Whitfield made May 7 at 2020 2:40 AM

SGT James Whitfield — Thu, 07 May 2020 02:40:19 -0400

No, I don’t feel any guilt or shame. When someone says thanks, I smile and say thank you. But it isn’t that often, frankly. I don’t wear anything that would mark me as a veteran except for a veteran designation on my truck’s license plates (Kind of an in-your-face to certain types).

Response by SFC Stephen Atchley made May 7 at 2020 8:18 AM

SFC Stephen Atchley — Thu, 07 May 2020 08:18:07 -0400

Absolutely not! I served on active duty from 1979 until retirement. Most of my service was during the Cold War which historical revelations reveal was often very close to becoming quite hot on a global level. I cannot recall all of the zero dark thirty alerts that only the higher ups knew whether they were drills or were in response to actual events. It was always fun sitting on a compound in England that we all knew was a high priority nuclear target knowing there wasn't anything you could do if things went south. There were some delightful times in Korea when the situation got tense and could have gone hot and you're sitting within range of North Korean artillery. Everyone of us serving during those times knew what could happen when we volunteered to serve. That it didn't is something we can appreciate. That it didn't doesn't change the reality that many times we were living on the edge with unimaginable chaos possible at any time. The peacetime military can be incredibly dull and monotonously repetitious. It can also go FUBAR with no warning and become extremely dangerous. I saw soldiers injured, maimed and killed during training. I live with the physical deterioration caused by a career in the Army and consider myself fortunate in comparison to some others I know. My time serving was different from that of those Viet Nam era folks that preceded me; and of the GWOT people serving now. I appreciate those that served before and after my time in the Army, but no more than I appreciate those that served beside me. I am proud of my service and if someone thanks me for my service I thank them in return and go on about my day. I ask for no thanks but at no time will I ever feel guilty if someone says, "Thank you for your service."

Response by SFC Louis Mitchell made May 7 at 2020 9:58 AM

SFC Louis Mitchell — Thu, 07 May 2020 09:58:16 -0400

SFC Lou Mitchell
When I came home from Vietnam 1969 and I walk through the Airport, I was looked at like I did something wrong. When I saw my Wife and 3 children, my youngest 3 yo didn't recognize me and was scared and crying. Hell no I don't feel guilty, every THANK YOU I get makes me stronger with no regrets. I was proud to serve also in the Korea War.

Response by SGT James (Mike) White made May 7 at 2020 10:21 AM

SGT James (Mike) White — Thu, 07 May 2020 10:21:04 -0400

I feel very proud when some says thank you for my service and when a young child says it I get chocked up. Most my life I considered my obligation and my loyalty to my Country to have serve in it's defense. I am very glad that some folks appreciate the fact that we vets have served and that they may understand that freedom is not without cost and the fallen should be honored and remembered.

Response by Capt Kathryn J Hammond made May 7 at 2020 3:04 PM

Capt Kathryn J Hammond — Thu, 07 May 2020 15:04:12 -0400

You should not feel guilty. You did your job at a difficult time. Be proud even if you disagreed with the war then or now.

Response by PO2 Ricky L. Isreal made May 7 at 2020 5:26 PM

PO2 Ricky L. Isreal — Thu, 07 May 2020 17:26:21 -0400

Why? I served from 1/79 till 8/84 when I got medically discharged after I fought to stay in. Where ever I served I had multiple assignments besides my main job which was as a Machinist Mate, such as supply clerk, Base Policeman, Base Defence, RadCon, Repair 5 and others. In any of those positions, my needs and my life were secondary or negligible. Others mattered more tha I did, I was their protector.
Any of us veterans fall into the same category. And we took it voluntarily.

Response by GySgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 7 at 2020 6:20 PM

GySgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 07 May 2020 18:20:21 -0400

No guilt here. No arrogance either. Sometimes they thank us for a variety of reasons that also make them feel good.

We thank people who do things for us too, right? Same thing. Sometimes it’s just polite when they realized that a thanks was missing.

I guess now I’m seeing a lot of vets who expect it and get annoyed if it doesn’t happen. I’m not crazy about that.

Long story short, I did 20 not looking for thanks. I loved what I did, and did it a lot for myself and my brothers. Didn’t care much what civilians thought because .... well, just because.

Response by SGM Omer Dalton made May 7 at 2020 9:51 PM

SGM Omer Dalton — Thu, 07 May 2020 21:51:46 -0400

Hey you served. It doesn’t matter what period. I served 1960 - 1982. I also deployed to Vietnam and remember the reception. However, be thankful that some folks care and accept the complement.

Response by SSgt James Porter made May 8 at 2020 10:28 AM

SSgt James Porter — Fri, 08 May 2020 10:28:12 -0400

I think those of us who served in Vietnam were so ostracized when we returned and for many years afterward that hearing " thank you for your service" is at best bittersweet. Part of which is the conflicts post Vietnam actually had a real purpose a beginning, middle and end unlike Vietnam which was simply an old mans pissing match.

Are we thankful for the acknowledgment of course, but for me a little uncomfortable

Response by Cpl Vic Burk made May 8 at 2020 11:09 AM

Cpl Vic Burk — Fri, 08 May 2020 11:09:10 -0400

NO! If you were in the military, be it war or peacetime you were ready if called to defend our country and someone thanks you for your service you earned that recognition. A simple "Thank you for your service" is a compliment.

Response by CPT Endre Barath made May 9 at 2020 1:15 AM

CPT Endre Barath — Sat, 09 May 2020 01:15:24 -0400

I was in the US Military from 1973 to 1983 school and active duty... when people mostly liberals that "thank me for my service" I look at it as lip service, trying to be hip cool and trendy but do not really mean it... Those who mean it do not give me Lip service, just sayin

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 9 at 2020 1:54 AM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 09 May 2020 01:54:11 -0400

“A veteran is someone who, at one point in their life wrote a blank check made payable to “The United States of America,” for an amount up to and including their life.” ~Unknown

Just because the check wasn't cashed, or even submitted for processing, doesn't degrade the fact that you wrote the check, brother.

I served during the Cold War, peacetime and hot war, from 1980-2018. (enlisted, NCO, Commissioned). Richard Zacke, we could have gone bye-bye in a blinding, mushroom cloud flash while blocking the Soviets from screaming through the Fulda Gap in West Germany. We could have been shot on the DMZ between North and South Korea. We could have fallen overboard a ship. We could have been crushed in our tent under tank treads during an FTX. We could have fallen out of the sky when the KC-130 we were crewing over the Pacific splashed in after a mechanical malfunction during Team Spirit. We could have gotten killed in any of the unique and wonderful ways the military provides. Terror, sacrifice, risk, injury and death don't come just during wartime. Wartime is just the most visible.

We signed the papers and raised out hands to take the oath. We rolled the dice. We didn't get snake eyes. Yet we still rolled the dice. Most all of the men and women we see walking the streets (the same ones for whom we protected their families and homes) never even got into the game. I find a quiet satisfaction in that. A quiet dignity. You should too.

"Some people spend an entire lifetime wondering if they made a difference in the world. But, the Marines don't have that problem." ~ Ronald Reagan

Ronnie could have been talking about anyone who 'wrote the check.'

"Thank you for your service."

"Thank you for allowing me to serve."

Response by PFC Richard Burns made May 9 at 2020 5:31 AM

PFC Richard Burns — Sat, 09 May 2020 05:31:58 -0400

The only thing I want to say is “ALL gave some, but SOME gave ALL

Response by LTC Michael Garrison made May 9 at 2020 9:04 AM

LTC Michael Garrison — Sat, 09 May 2020 09:04:40 -0400

There is no reason for any service member who served honorably to feel guilty about being thanked.

Response by Sgt Carlos Baker made May 9 at 2020 7:32 PM

Sgt Carlos Baker — Sat, 09 May 2020 19:32:17 -0400

When ever someone thanks me I always answer I gotten much more from serving than I put into it.Experience,pride and respect among other things

Response by SrA Gina Hotard made May 10 at 2020 2:43 AM

SrA Gina Hotard — Sun, 10 May 2020 02:43:17 -0400

When someone says it to me my reply is "It was a privilege I would gladly do again."-

Response by PO1 Mike Wallace made May 10 at 2020 9:53 AM

PO1 Mike Wallace — Sun, 10 May 2020 09:53:09 -0400

Any thoughts of stealing 'the thunder' of our brothers and sisters currently serving is on you. I proudly wear a Vietnam Veteran hat and would much prefer a 'welcome home' and when I get it I always make a point of looking the person in the eye and saying thank you. The 'thank you for your service' has become a kind of perfunctory action by people. Where I live we have a very high percentage of veterans and lots of us wear hats.
One note though. My wife did 6 years and when she wears her Navy hat they look past her and tell me thanks. I then tell them that she served also and they kind of fall all over themselves.
I do believe that some people say thanks out of a sense of guilt but that's just me. I currently have a grandson and granddaughter on active duty and a family filled with veterans to include retired.

Response by SSG James Stodola made May 10 at 2020 11:25 AM

SSG James Stodola — Sun, 10 May 2020 11:25:40 -0400

You should not feel uncomfortable or bad in any way for your service. I don't know why you would, but for whatever reason it is yours to sort out. As far as the rest of us here on this forum, you willing stood up and took the oath to defend this nation against all enemies foreign and domestic. The fact that you were not deployed during your time was not up to you, if you feel that you are not worthy of being thanked because you didn't serve in war or combat, lose that feeling. There is an old saying; "Be careful what you wish for", combat may seem glorious and fun but trust me it is not, and frankly nothing to be wished for. Maybe you feel that you didn't do anything. But you would be wrong. You chose to stand tall come what may for your nation and your brothers and sisters in arms and for that you served honorably on all counts, and from us here, Thank you. Whomever it was that called you a baby killer was obviously historically challenged and woefully uniformed as to your time periods of service, and was most likely one of them draft dodgers from the past. Ultimately only you and the government know if you served honorably for sure. Don't question yourself as it is not good for you. I served 34 years Air Force / Army, I occasionally have someone thank me for my service and I simply say your welcome and move on. I feel bad that it bothers you and I understand why you may not need that to be said, but look at it this way. The person thanking you may have a special reason for doing so, maybe they have a child in the military, or maybe they are from a military family and have historically had many family members who served, or maybe they wanted to serve and could not. But whatever the reason, I think it is their way to thank you for something they could not do or they are proud of those step up to the challenge as you and all of us did. Bottom line, we respect your service and thank you for it.

Response by 1LT Robert Sharkey made May 10 at 2020 6:15 PM

1LT Robert Sharkey — Sun, 10 May 2020 18:15:51 -0400

I just say, "thanks but that was 50 years ago. I haven't done much lately..."

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made May 10 at 2020 7:08 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 10 May 2020 19:08:30 -0400

My Uncles served during the Vietnam War, and my family has served throughout our nations history; and I feel honored to have served and enjoy the recognition from the public for that service.

Response by Capt Dennis Tague made May 10 at 2020 10:08 PM

Capt Dennis Tague — Sun, 10 May 2020 22:08:06 -0400

I'm not sure what your getting at, but your question pisses me off.

Response by Lt Col Warren Domke made May 11 at 2020 2:22 AM

Lt Col Warren Domke — Mon, 11 May 2020 02:22:35 -0400

No. I appreciate it when people recognize our service, and it's not just for me--it's for everyone who served--regardless of when or where. My service included a year in Vietnam and I think all Vietnam veterans deserve recognition for that time served. But many others supported us and other missions in other places. Recognizing me is part of recognizing all of us. I thank veterans from all eras when I am able to do so. (A few years ago I was especially honored and blessed to be thanked for my service by a gentleman from Sydney, Nova Scotia.)

Response by SFC Stephen Hill made May 11 at 2020 3:25 AM

SFC Stephen Hill — Mon, 11 May 2020 03:25:35 -0400

I'll be honest and say that I burst into tears the first time that someone thanked me after 50 years. Probably all of us that served in RVN had never heard it before, and it took me by surprise. Guilt ... not a bit.
The only thing that I feel badly about, is the use of "hero" for just about everyone. Hell most of us just did our jobs, and that was for supporting our buddies.

Response by CAPT Thomas Vaughn made May 11 at 2020 7:39 AM

CAPT Thomas Vaughn — Mon, 11 May 2020 07:39:09 -0400

I don’t but I always say “don’t thank me - thank those who did not come back or who came back injured in some way”

Response by 1SG Dave Carello made May 11 at 2020 8:30 AM

1SG Dave Carello — Mon, 11 May 2020 08:30:11 -0400

NO service member should ever feel "guilty" or "shame". Anyone who raised their right hand and took the oath did so with honor. You were the ones who kept the RED Russians and Chinese at bay. Well done!

Response by PO3 Bob(Robert) Vozey made May 11 at 2020 11:57 AM

PO3 Bob(Robert) Vozey — Mon, 11 May 2020 11:57:02 -0400

YOU ASK DO I FEEL ASHAMED FOR MY SERVICE??? NOT ONLY NO BUT HELL NO. I WAS IN A FIGHTER FOR 2 1/2 YEARS AND SPENT 2 YEARS ON THE FLIGHT DECK. THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS, BOB VOZEY

Response by Lt Col Warren Domke made May 11 at 2020 4:04 PM

Lt Col Warren Domke — Mon, 11 May 2020 16:04:13 -0400

I am impressed that you are taking the time to respond to those who responded to your original question. Disabled or enabled you are still a soldier in your heart. Keep on keeping the faith!

Response by MAJ John McGee made May 11 at 2020 5:50 PM

MAJ John McGee — Mon, 11 May 2020 17:50:50 -0400

Our involvement in Vietnam War started in the mid 1950s and lasted until 1975. There were active combat patrols on the DMZ in Korea in the early 90s . Urgent Fury was in 1983, Just C
ause was in early 80s . The Soviet Union did not fall until 1989 . Why would anyone who served feel guilty . The question is without merit.

Response by LCpl M. Fiore made May 11 at 2020 8:33 PM

LCpl M. Fiore — Mon, 11 May 2020 20:33:47 -0400

Service is service. You joined being fully aware you could be sent to combat at any time. I don’t see any difference between someone who served during peacetime vs wartime. Wartime vets get ribbons and medals to distinguish that service.

Response by Maj Wayne Crist made May 11 at 2020 11:43 PM

Maj Wayne Crist — Mon, 11 May 2020 23:43:23 -0400

Never. I always respond "It is my honor" We who served did what others wouldn't or couldn't do. I recently got to meet a man who earned two silver stars and bronze star with V and He thanked me for my service. As I shook his hand told him I was honored to thank Him for his service. The hand shake turned into hug as he said "Thank you Brother". When you served makes no difference, that you served is the difference.

Response by SPC Ron Salsbury made May 12 at 2020 6:54 AM

SPC Ron Salsbury — Tue, 12 May 2020 06:54:05 -0400

All Veterans serve with Honor, and Distinction unless otherwise noted on a Dishonorable Discharge should never feel ashamed of "Thank You for your Service!" We one per-centers should have pride for or sacrifices we have chosen to make, including all Draftee's; I am ashamed, and embarrassed by the Civilian population for the treatment they gave our Brothers and Sisters of the Vietnam War, they deserve better!! So to you of the Vietnam era or other, I pledge to stand with you against any individual that degrades or spits upon you in public, this will not be tolerated by me, and I hope others take up the same stance. To all, regardless of branch, I am proud to call you my family; God bless, and take care of yourselves, you are America's finest I have ever had the pleasure to know and associate with.

Response by SP5 Lyle Willock made May 12 at 2020 8:04 AM

SP5 Lyle Willock — Tue, 12 May 2020 08:04:38 -0400

Medic, HHC, Cp Howze, Korea, 69-71. We were advised that we were just a speed bump if NK came down the valley. I answer “Proud to have served you”.

Response by CPO C.A."Ben" Benson made May 12 at 2020 11:30 AM

CPO C.A."Ben" Benson — Tue, 12 May 2020 11:30:56 -0400

Served from ‘68 to ‘79. Politics ruined our military. I do not ever remember anyone thanking me for my service in that time period. In fact, our command advised not to wear our uniforms on liberty. Loved every minute of my service time though. One war in uniform, two wars in civies. Wasn’t till Gulf War II did I hear ‘thanks for your service’. It now resonates from only true patriotic citizens to all veterans active and retired.

Response by PO1 Richard Dennis made May 12 at 2020 11:51 AM

PO1 Richard Dennis — Tue, 12 May 2020 11:51:59 -0400

Heck, no. I served from June 1972 until March 1982. It was the tail end of Vietnam, and the middle of the Cold War. I seved honorably. My only problem is wearing anything that has Vietnam on it. I sevred DURING Vietnam, not IN Vietnam. I am forever grateful for those that went there, and especially those who gave the ultimate sacrifice. As someone else said on here, you served, you deserve the respect. Embrace it.

Response by SPC Ray D. made May 12 at 2020 1:32 PM

SPC Ray D. — Tue, 12 May 2020 13:32:21 -0400

I have to admit it felt a little strange, at least at first. As time went by the novelty sort of wore off and I also realized that my service was valuable in its own way. At the time I was a bit unusual in that I’d volunteered, I wasn’t drafted. I’m not sure how I would feel if the opposite were the case.

Response by SSG Dale London made May 12 at 2020 2:52 PM

SSG Dale London — Tue, 12 May 2020 14:52:09 -0400

I don't feel guilty, I feel humbled. I served for 16 years and I feel I got more out of the experience than the Army did. While I did my job to the best of my ability, the army only had my services for 16 years and the work I did was the work of a moment. The benefits I enjoyed in education, the development of personal skills, discipline, and knowledge of people and the world remain with me even now, 24 years after leaving.
Did I put my life on the line? Yes. Did I lose anything in the process? Again, yes. Was that loss greater than my gain? Hell no!
Often times when I am thanked for my service, I respond with "Thank you for the opportunity to serve." And I mean it.

Response by MSgt Rodney Mayberry made May 12 at 2020 8:03 PM

MSgt Rodney Mayberry — Tue, 12 May 2020 20:03:32 -0400

You have no reason to feel like stolen valor or anything like that. You can’t help what time you served anymore than when you were born. Some may disagree, but truth be known few of us regardless of when we served should ever go around comparing the when, where or how long. All who served took the same oaths and unless you have a MOH hanging hanging on your chest someone has always served harder or longer. Those who have the MOH, at least the ones I have talked to don’t brag about either. Hold your head up.

Response by PO1 Dennis Robison made May 13 at 2020 12:28 AM

PO1 Dennis Robison — Wed, 13 May 2020 00:28:25 -0400

don't know how anybody else feels about the "thank you" but to tell you the truth it sorta pisses me off.... Having been shouted at and called a 'baby killer' then and someone says 'thank you' now has a certain sense of insincerity to all of it.... better to just say nothing... haven't said anything yet to anybody and most likely won't but it sticks like a fish bone in my craw...

Response by Sgt Anthony Leverington made May 13 at 2020 11:03 AM

Sgt Anthony Leverington — Wed, 13 May 2020 11:03:11 -0400

I served from 85 to 89 when absolutely nothing happened except for a brief run-in with some angry Panamanians armed with machete's. I'm proud to have served and would do so again if I was able. I don't feel guilty because I voluntarily enlisted knowing full well, that there was a chance I might end up in combat at some point. I never did but, that's beside the point.
When someone does thank me for my service..........I simply smile, shake their hand (if it's offered) and reply by saying, "it was my honor to serve".

Response by PV2 Rickey Huss made May 14 at 2020 6:48 PM

PV2 Rickey Huss — Thu, 14 May 2020 18:48:55 -0400

I feel guilty because I didn't have to go to Vietnam where my friends were either wounded, crippled or killed.

Response by LTC Charles Patchin made May 14 at 2020 6:57 PM

LTC Charles Patchin — Thu, 14 May 2020 18:57:51 -0400

Response by 1SG Billye Jackson made May 15 at 2020 7:59 AM

1SG Billye Jackson — Fri, 15 May 2020 07:59:25 -0400

Why would I? I do find it awkward as I was doing what I chose to do from 65>89, with 18 months in Nam and then 4 tours to Germany and one to Korea. No One who spent Honorable time in the Uniform should feel Guilt. I'm Dame PROUD of my 23 Years in the US Army.

Response by CPO Charles Helms made May 15 at 2020 8:29 AM

CPO Charles Helms — Fri, 15 May 2020 08:29:09 -0400

No I don't feel guilty when someone thanks me for my service! For 22 years from 1969 to 1991 no one ever thanked me for my service! Even in my own hometown after boot camp in 69 I was looked down on by people!! So no I don't feel guilty and no one should ever feel guilty!!

Response by TSgt Steven Nelsen made May 15 at 2020 6:58 PM

TSgt Steven Nelsen — Fri, 15 May 2020 18:58:05 -0400

No. Although I did go to the MidEast one of the negative results of the "All volunteer force" is American's also don't understand the sacrifice of wartime. i.e. rationing, war taxes, everyone being at-risk to be called up for duty. I have been also told, you signed on the line you have to do what we tell you. As though I'm a Mercenary soldier. It is easy for the American public to get behind a war that they don't have any "skin in the game." And our politicians are taking advantage of this too.

Response by MSgt Allen Chandler made May 16 at 2020 10:23 PM

MSgt Allen Chandler — Sat, 16 May 2020 22:23:21 -0400

I must be out of touch with what’s going on in the world because I don’t understand why the question is even asked. I said from 1963 to 1983. I’m proud of my service and I’m proud that the American people have found the word to pay respect to all the veterans who deserve the respect that they’re now finally getting I’m proud of my service and I’m proud that the American people have found the word to pay respect to all the veterans who deserve the respect that they’re now finally getting.

Response by MSG Don Burt made May 17 at 2020 2:32 PM

MSG Don Burt — Sun, 17 May 2020 14:32:43 -0400

O HELL NO!
I served from 1960-1963 and it was the good years of my Military career. Eventually went
into the Army Reserve and served for over 20 years and was Activated under OEF and had orders for two years, but when I reached my 60th birthday at the end of the first year I had to get out per stupid Army Regulations, which I fought, but had to get out. I was fit and ready to serve the extra year and was looking forward to it. That's one regulation I terribly dislike because by an act of congress an Officer doesn't have to get out at 60.

Response by SGT Doug Blanchard made May 17 at 2020 9:00 PM

SGT Doug Blanchard — Sun, 17 May 2020 21:00:31 -0400

It took me awhile to get used to people that I do not know come up to me and telling me "thank you for your service". I am a Cold War Veteran and we trained everyday as if the balloon was going to go up at any time.
Yes at first it felt weird being told thank you, but as a young friend of mine that is an OIF/OEF combat Vet told me, "...if it was not for you serving when you did, there is a chance that I would not have been able to serve in this nation's military". When he told me that about how he felt about us Cold War Veterans, it literally opened my eyes. As I had told him about what I experienced early on in the Army. Which was shortly after the Vietnam War.
So feel good about yourself and serving in the military of this great country. You are not stealing any one's thunder. You are part of a larger group known as a U.S. Military Veteran.

Response by SFC Kenneth Kreps made May 18 at 2020 2:50 PM

SFC Kenneth Kreps — Mon, 18 May 2020 14:50:57 -0400

Absolutely not! Every service member signs that blank check. No matter your MOS, or duty function, you are a vital part of this machine called the United States Military. Without you this machine doesn't work right. Be proud, be very proud to have served. It doesn't matter if you were in conflict or not. Vietnam was in the sixties and part of the seventies, and I've personally been called baby killer and was told not to return to my Church wearing a uniform of war. Well, I never returned to my hometown, and I proudly served the remainder of my 22 years. My family became the military.

Response by COL Vincent Contreras made May 20 at 2020 4:57 PM

COL Vincent Contreras — Wed, 20 May 2020 16:57:55 -0400

I don't know why anyone who served during the Vietnam War would feel guilty; maybe disappointed because it took so long to get a thank you. When I returned from Vietnam, I wasn't even allowed to wear my uniform during travel so as not to invite incidents. To say that I was surprised and dismayed by the public reaction to returning service personnel would be an understatement. I am proud of my service and will never feel guilty. If I had only served during the cold war I still wouldn't feel guilty because we were serving to prevent potential enemies from starting a war.

Response by Capt Raymond Parks made May 20 at 2020 11:10 PM

Capt Raymond Parks — Wed, 20 May 2020 23:10:33 -0400

We won. There were a lot of hot times in the Cold War but only those who fought in the proxy wars got campaign ribbons and can join the VFW. There was personal danger - it was more subtle but present. When my dad had command of a missile detachment in the '60s (read that as guardian of the nuclear warheads for the German Honest John missiles), we took our annual vacations all over Europe but never near the Iron Curtain for fear of kidnapping. My father-in-law served at Kirtland Base in the late '40s and attended nearly all the Pacific nuclear shots. Later, when he was assigned to Germany in the early '50s, my mother-in-law expressed the wish to visit Berlin. They traveled by train, only the two of them in the passenger car with an MP at each end of the car armed with SMGs. The MPs were under orders to kill them if the Soviets or East Germans stopped the train. We were at war but not as obviously as now. You served near the end of that period and I preceded you by four years, but we served during a war.

Response by AN Greg Hill made May 21 at 2020 12:07 PM

AN Greg Hill — Thu, 21 May 2020 12:07:42 -0400

I served from 1968-1974 3 years I n Vietnam , all active duty. When someone says ,thanks for your service , I would respond by saying , where were u 45-50.years ago . That was 10 years ago, now I just say thank you . Greg hill

Response by Col James Cooke made May 24 at 2020 5:23 PM

Col James Cooke — Sun, 24 May 2020 17:23:29 -0400

I served from 1963 to 2001 (obviously with some breaks in there!). The first time I was thanked I was really taken aback. It always left me flustered and not knowing how to respond. I know now and try to respond graciously to my fellow citizens who are trying to be gracious. It is their kindness to us. Smile and be thankful, troops, 'cause it wasn't always this way!

Response by Capt Raymond Parks made May 24 at 2020 8:55 PM

Capt Raymond Parks — Sun, 24 May 2020 20:55:41 -0400

I don't feel odd about "Thank you for your service" from civilian, even when the say it more like "TankUFerYerServus" in one mantra. After all, I can remember answering the adjutant on parade when he gave the order to Pass in Review with "Piss In Your Shoes".

I do feel awkward when a current military members or veteran says it, no matter how sincerely. I figure we're even - we don't have to thank each other for doing what we did.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made May 26 at 2020 8:34 AM

COL Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 26 May 2020 08:34:34 -0400

No one should ever feel guilty or embarrassed for having served his/her country! The obvious answer to "Thank you for your service" is "You're welcome," but it does seem awkward. I respond to this sincere expression of thanks with "Thank you for your support." It complements the sentiment and compliments the person expressing it.

Response by Shannan Fraser made May 26 at 2020 12:53 PM

Shannan Fraser — Tue, 26 May 2020 12:53:25 -0400

I am sorry you have been treated in such a manner. Thanking Veterans has been a way of life since I was little. Watching my Dad (WWII) with tears in his eyes, viewing the words and actions of 'peace loving americans' attacking and assulting Soldiers coming home from Vietnam and other unpopular 'actions'. Gratitude and Appreciation goes a long way.

Response by MAJ John Vertido made May 26 at 2020 7:37 PM

MAJ John Vertido — Tue, 26 May 2020 19:37:48 -0400

If I recall correctly the majority of the population of military age did not serve out country in any capacity. It was we few who stood up and maintained a watch, froze or sweated at our posts. We served when it was not fashionable or in vogue. We earned the respect and the “Thank you” of our fellows, because if called to war we were ready to answer. Just as our brothers and sisters are answering now. So the answer is “No” I do not feel guilty for accepting the gratitude from our fellows for out past service. I served a total of AD and Reserve a total of 20 years (1980 to 2000). I am proud of each of them and the people who were there with me

Response by SGT Brian Post made May 30 at 2020 2:30 AM

SGT Brian Post — Sat, 30 May 2020 02:30:18 -0400

Of course not- I give a ton of respect to those who served in combat, but this doesn’t mean I’m not proud of my service as an infantryman from 1984 to 1989. If you served honorably, be proud but humble, thank those who thank you.

Response by SSG Diane R. made May 31 at 2020 11:59 AM

SSG Diane R. — Sun, 31 May 2020 11:59:42 -0400

I never liked that turn of phrase, but some will surely disagree. The cold war nearly turned hot a couple of times from 1960-1990. Some of us were deployed to remote, and even hellish places, away from our families for extended periods doing dangerous jobs. A lot of marriages didn't survive these deployments. The fall of the Berlin wall, dissolution of the Warsaw Pact and collapse of the Soviet Union were the culmination of our sacrifices. We helped do that and it was worth every long moment.

Response by LTC John Griscom made May 31 at 2020 12:30 PM

LTC John Griscom — Sun, 31 May 2020 12:30:14 -0400

I always had ill feelings about the receptions I got going through San Francisco (eight times between 1966 and 1972). Definitely not my favorite city.
Feelings changed when I returned with the troops from Desert Storm (I had deployed as a Department of Army Civilian) and we had landed in Philadelphia. While we were at a bar, people would come by and drop 10 or 20 dollars on the bar for us.

Response by SSG(P) Danielle Birtha made May 31 at 2020 2:51 PM

SSG(P) Danielle Birtha — Sun, 31 May 2020 14:51:36 -0400

'73 to '89.... I don't feel guilty... I feel ANGRY.
My response: You can best thank me for my service, by NOT re-electing all those lifetime Treasonous Dictators who are giving our Nation to our ENEMY... CHINA!!!!
--> and every enemy in the HISTORY of this Nation.
I DID NOT SERVE ALL THOSE YEARS TO COME HOME AND FIND THE CHINESE FLAG, BRITISH FLAG, JAPANESE FLAG, RUSSIAN FLAG, AND THE KINGS OF SAUDI ARABIA, WHO SENT THEIR TERRORISTS TO ATTACK U.S. ON SEPTEMBER 11, 2001 (WHOM OUR U.S. SOLDIERS ARE NOW PROTECTING FROM THEIR ENEMIES >( ... PLANTED IN THE SOIL OF THE U.S. >(
--> Thank me for MY Service, by reading that Document I swore to protect and defend for OUR Freedom... while you allow TRAITORS to give it all away to our ENEMIES!!!!
DACA... We The People of the United States of America COMMAND our Public Servants to PROTECT U.S. FROM INVASION... NOT LEAD THEM INTO OUR NATION AND GIFT THEM OUR JOBS, HOMES, TAXES, AND EVEN THE RIGHT TO VOTE FOR THE TRAITORS SO THEY CAN NEVER BE REMOVED BY OUR VOTE >(
The Trade Deals: We the People are NOW DEPENDENT ON EVERY ONE OF OUR ENEMIES... BY TREASONOUS LAW THAT OUR FOUNDING FATHERS WOULD HANG THE PERPETRATORS FOR DARING TO LEGISLATE >(
ACA... King George's Stamp Act re-enacted... only now, it's not the East India Trading Company that profits BY LAW... it's the Insurance Agents and CHURCHES who own the Hospitals in the U.S. ... when "NO Law may be made that respects and establishment of Religion, or denies the Free Exercise thereof...", as they dictate that religions may use their "Final Conscience" TO MURDER U.S. CITIZENS WHO DO NOT BELIEVE WHAT THEY BELIEVE.
--> AND IT IS A LEGISLATED PONZI SCHEME!!!
Remember that, when you read the Bill of Rights, with the full understanding that the President of the United States of America, and ANYONE who would DARE to testify in his DEFENSE, was a criminal, and was stripped of all their rights... PERIOD... by order of the Chancellor of the Fourth Reich, Nancy Pelosi.
Remember that on July 4th... as you celebrate you DEPENDENCE ON EVERY ENEMY OF THE U.S... AT THE COMMAND OF NANCY PELOSI... >(
STOP VOTING FOR OUR ENEMIES WHO ARE USING OUR LEGISLATIVE PROCESS TO GIVE AID AND COMFORT, AND OUR NATION, TO OUR ENEMIES!!!!!!
--> VOTE FOR WE THE PEOPLE... or accept your enslavement to your Public Servants, and Our Enemies.. BY LAW>(
YOU CAN THANK ME FOR MY SERVICE WHEN YOU HAVE PULLED YOUR HEADS OUT OF YOUR .... >(

Response by LCDR William Johnston made May 31 at 2020 5:01 PM

LCDR William Johnston — Sun, 31 May 2020 17:01:57 -0400

That earlier part of that time frame falls within the time that I served in Viet Nam. I started going in-country in January 1966 and the last time I came home was in March of 1971. Of the 17 Naval Campaigns that were conducted during the Viet Name War, I served in 11 of them, having spent much of the time in-country, on the ground, on the rivers, and in the air. I lost my closest friend and mentor, Commander Benjamin U. White, USN, Naval Intelligence Specialist, on a mission into Laos. I lucked out; I flew home the passenger cabin, he flew home in a body bag.

So, no I don't feel guilty when somebody says that. But, I do feel guilty that I came home and Ben didn't. Don't ask me why.

Response by SGT Joseph Yost made May 31 at 2020 11:41 PM

SGT Joseph Yost — Sun, 31 May 2020 23:41:17 -0400

I do not feel guilty, I get angry inside and wonder where were you when I came back? The name calling and even fights I did not start but I certainly finished. Thank you for your service has become a cliche something like have a nice day. Some who say it definitely mean it and others just something they say. I usually just bite the bullet and say thank you and walk away as I cringe inside.

Response by SGT John Anderson made Jun 3 at 2020 11:14 PM

SGT John Anderson — Wed, 03 Jun 2020 23:14:07 -0400

I served from '75 to '86, and no, I don't feel guilty. Even though that period is generally thought of as "between wars", there was plenty going on that didn't make headlines, or was just a blip on the news. Ask the folks that drove the SMLM missions in Europe, or the ones that propped up governments around the world, or those in Grenada, or the troops that stood on the Fulda Gap in Germany. I gave up some pretty useful body parts during my enlistments, and it's nice that ALL of us, regardless of when we served, are appreciated for the willingness to defend our Nation.

Response by GySgt Richard Morrison made Jun 4 at 2020 1:35 AM

GySgt Richard Morrison — Thu, 04 Jun 2020 01:35:23 -0400

The '60's-'80's weren't necessarily the Cold War years. What the hell do you call Vietnam? It didn't end until 1975. I joined the Marine Corps in 1965 with every intention of going to South Vietnam and fighting for my country there. But every time that I got orders over there somehow they got changed and the closest that I got was Okinawa. And that was the jumping off point for Marines going to the Nam. Then I got assigned to HQMC in Arlington, VA and had so many Top Secret Clearances that when I left there after 4 years and a week of debriefings they said that I couldn't go to a combat zone for at least 5 years. That was in 1973 and I was assigned to III MAF, Camp Courtney, Okinawa. I was the C/S, CG III MAF, Admin Chief and again couldn't go south. So yes when someone says "Thanks for your service", it kinda hurts because I personally feel that I didn't do anything to deserve it, although I did end up putting in 20 Years of service for my Country.

Response by CW5 Mark Smith made Jun 4 at 2020 9:28 AM

CW5 Mark Smith — Thu, 04 Jun 2020 09:28:17 -0400

I went from Vietnam and "all dogs, cats, and Marines keep off the grass" to the Army and Iraq. 'Thanks for your service's is cathartic for me.

Response by Capt Joe Paolilli made Jun 4 at 2020 4:48 PM

Capt Joe Paolilli — Thu, 04 Jun 2020 16:48:22 -0400

I don’t know why anyone would feel guilty. I went where they told me and did what I was supposed to. My wife was an instructor pilot during that time and several of our friends were killed in accidents, so it’s not like there was no risk. My hat is off to the people who served in wartime, especially in the combat arms, but anyone who served honorably should not feel as if they didn’t do their part.

Response by PO3 Don Tatum made Jun 4 at 2020 4:58 PM

PO3 Don Tatum — Thu, 04 Jun 2020 16:58:43 -0400

82-86, I dont get ashamed, I accept their greeting but I also know in my mind that I didn't put nothing on the line like the ones who are actually in a combat situation. So, I think of them when someone says that to me.

Response by SrA Melanie Omer made Jun 4 at 2020 5:58 PM

SrA Melanie Omer — Thu, 04 Jun 2020 17:58:00 -0400

I’ve always felt that way, even though I was mission critical at first strike bases. In the era of SAC there was a LOT of pressure. But because I never actually was in harm’s way, I feel pretty defensive and find myself explaining my status as a Cold Warrior. I was in from 80-85 and those were some seriously stressful times.

Response by HN Mec Crandall made Jun 5 at 2020 12:51 AM

HN Mec Crandall — Fri, 05 Jun 2020 00:51:40 -0400

Those were dark days of the military. We were made to feel ashamed to be in the military. You just didn't belong anywhere. It didn't help that during the 70's we were the only ones with short hair, so we stood out like sore thumbs. We couldn't wait to shed our uniforms and try and seek some sort of normalcy. To make things worse during this time the military decided to divide us into 2 categories, combat vet and non combat vet, or era vet, now known as wartime vet. Funny how world war one veterans and world war two veterans, are known just as that, there is no separation. But those who fault in Nam seem to feel like this is appropriate, we who did not serve in combat are less than worthy our previous war veterans whether they served in combat or not, were all lumped together no separation. In every war someone has to not be in combat in order for them to get there bullets, mail, food, clothes, hospitals, etc. without all these support operations no military can carry on an effective war. So you get a double whammy, and when someone says think yoiu for your service u really feel unworthy, also it was just a little to late.
Navy Mike

Response by SPC Stephen Wright made Jun 5 at 2020 3:53 AM

SPC Stephen Wright — Fri, 05 Jun 2020 03:53:00 -0400

I enlisted in 1973, as an only child I had to sign a waiver to enlist. I spent my entire enlistment stateside.My cousin who is about 8 yrs older was drafted and served in Vietnam. Until a few years ago I felt uncormfortable when people would thank me for my service as I felt I didn't deserve it, because of the fact I was stateside, safe. I respect and honor all who served, I just feel that those who were on the frontlines deserve it more...

Response by CPT Bob Mason made Jun 5 at 2020 6:58 AM

CPT Bob Mason — Fri, 05 Jun 2020 06:58:38 -0400

I do not. But most of the time it is coming from someone, or their family member, who are currently serving after I have thanked them. But it does not lessen the irony of the reception I, and others, received when I left active service in 1970.

Response by Maj Doral McGee made Jun 5 at 2020 11:24 AM

Maj Doral McGee — Fri, 05 Jun 2020 11:24:24 -0400

No I do not feel guilty when someone says "Thank You for your service" ! Many that served didn't return alive. I remember many bus loads of injured boarding acft in DaNang headed to bigger hospitals for treatment. I remember some aircrew members that did not return from their combat sortie. I was lucky to have 8 years in West Germany. My one year in Vietnam was enough.

Response by PO1 Daniel Barber made Jun 5 at 2020 1:52 PM

PO1 Daniel Barber — Fri, 05 Jun 2020 13:52:23 -0400

I served from 1969 to 1989. When people thank me for my service, I respond with "You're welcome, I can assure you that it was an honor and privilege to wear the uniform. I never set foot on a battlefield but I had several dangerous assignments. My only Vietnam era scars is a small scar near my right eye. While on liberty as a young 18-year old Sailor in my dress whites in 1970 (at the time uniform was required off base for students) I was set upon and beat unconscious. I woke up in a hospital with no memory of what happened with a badly swollen face and ruined uniform I had to replace. Other than that experience I had a wonderful career.

Response by PFC Joan Stringfellow made Jun 5 at 2020 2:24 PM

PFC Joan Stringfellow — Fri, 05 Jun 2020 14:24:05 -0400

I served from 1983-85 and feel the same. However, I continued to served as an army wife for several more years and worked on post as a civilian. #hooyah

Response by SPC Joseph Kenny made Jun 5 at 2020 2:59 PM

SPC Joseph Kenny — Fri, 05 Jun 2020 14:59:07 -0400

I don't walk around with a hat. As a result, very few people (only spouse, kids, and close friends) know I served, so I don't have to deal with the issue except on Veteran's day. Occasionally also on Memorial Day which gives me the opportunity to educate others on the difference. As a Cold War vet who never got to put my skills and guts to the test, I guess I don't put myself in the same class as those who had a real opportunity not to come home.

Response by SSG Thomas Barry made Jun 5 at 2020 7:45 PM

SSG Thomas Barry — Fri, 05 Jun 2020 19:45:17 -0400

why should anybody who served with Honor at any time be a shamed of their service? This is one of the biggest problems we have in the military right NOW. Combat vets , not all, do not associate with non combat vets and if they do the non combat vet always feels uneasy.

Response by SGT James Meagher made Jun 5 at 2020 7:59 PM

SGT James Meagher — Fri, 05 Jun 2020 19:59:08 -0400

I observed that the country went on a PC hysteria and guilt trip after we kicked Sadam out of Kuait. Then the troops got a welcome home. Many of the older folks that say it wete yhe same ones insulting returning vets during the Vietnam War. To them I ask why are you thanking me. To thr service age kids. I point to the closest recruiting office. Almost to a person they come up with an excuse as; "Well. I almost joined...but." well. other than draftees none of us vets "almost joined" We put our asses where our patriotism was and gave up our constitutional rights and went where assigned in whatever capacity the service saw fit. Parents and family of those who served, or are serving I accept their Thank You with humility. We vets almost never say it to each other, as we are family. A family of the 1%

Response by SSG Thomas Barry made Jun 5 at 2020 9:09 PM

SSG Thomas Barry — Fri, 05 Jun 2020 21:09:15 -0400

how could a person feel guilty about something without being ashamed about what ever they feel guilty about

Response by WO1 Dave Middleton made Jun 5 at 2020 9:27 PM

WO1 Dave Middleton — Fri, 05 Jun 2020 21:27:50 -0400

No one should ever feel undeserving for their service regardless of whether combat was encountered or not. The “ThankYou” is better than what we received in the early 70s. To some degree I find it a little empty from people my age (elderly) because it’s many years late in coming. I also wish most would do more than make themselves feel good. Perhaps helping vets in need, sending packages from home to those serving, providing a job, buying a lunch for a person in uniform, etc. would give them a more warm fuzzy feeling and actually be supportive.

Response by PO1 Richard Borowski made Jun 6 at 2020 2:50 AM

PO1 Richard Borowski — Sat, 06 Jun 2020 02:50:19 -0400

No, I don't. I do wonder how many of those who say "thank you for your service" feel guilty for treating us so despicably when we did come back. I have forgiven, but I will never forget.

Response by PO2 Alfonso Maury made Jun 6 at 2020 11:28 AM

PO2 Alfonso Maury — Sat, 06 Jun 2020 11:28:44 -0400

I don't. I swore the same oath and I was ready to do my duty as required of me as the brothers and sisters who have been in harms way. When we lifted our hands and signed those papers we had no idea what was going to happen during our enlistments. Just because I was not in combat doesn't take away from my service. I was USN from 84-89. Served on the USS EL PASO LKA_117 and the USS NITRO AE-23. Got out as an EM2. Stay safe brothers and sisters.

Response by CW4 Robert Mixon made Jun 6 at 2020 1:16 PM

CW4 Robert Mixon — Sat, 06 Jun 2020 13:16:20 -0400

1957 to 1973 13k the year 1973 67 k a year talking about a favor

Response by LTC Ronald Stephens made Jun 6 at 2020 1:18 PM

LTC Ronald Stephens — Sat, 06 Jun 2020 13:18:42 -0400

I simply respond "It was a privilege" and let it go.

Response by Cpl Jeffrey Braswell made Jun 6 at 2020 1:28 PM

Cpl Jeffrey Braswell — Sat, 06 Jun 2020 13:28:39 -0400

Served from 1985 to 1989. Can't say I feel guilty, if I happen to be wearing one of my Marine Corps hats for instance and someone says it I just say it was my privilege. If I happen to be in conversation I let people know basically that I was just a peacetime grunt because I consider all veterans brothers and sisters but combat vets are my big brothers and sisters.

Response by CPT Jay Ward made Jun 6 at 2020 1:37 PM

CPT Jay Ward — Sat, 06 Jun 2020 13:37:29 -0400

No, I spent my time in RVN. I've started saying "you're welcome". I feel fortunate to have survived Agent Orange's attacks so far,

Response by SGT Richard Cook made Jun 6 at 2020 2:33 PM

SGT Richard Cook — Sat, 06 Jun 2020 14:33:40 -0400

From 70> 73 whenever I hear the phrase "Thank you for your service" I bite my lip to keep from saying "Thank you. But what have you done for your country?"

Response by SPC Rob Hunker made Jun 6 at 2020 3:12 PM

SPC Rob Hunker — Sat, 06 Jun 2020 15:12:29 -0400

I served on active duty from 1983-1987 of which I spent 2 years stationed in Schweinfurt West Germany at Ledward Barracks. It was Hell in the winter time and the Chernobyl nuclear accident was no picnic either. I am proud of my service to my country as all veterans should be.

Response by SSgt Carroll Straus made Jun 7 at 2020 4:37 PM

SSgt Carroll Straus — Sun, 07 Jun 2020 16:37:33 -0400

No. I don’t feel guilty. I think “how the pendulum has swung.”

Response by CPL Larry Bezemer made Jun 7 at 2020 9:35 PM

CPL Larry Bezemer — Sun, 07 Jun 2020 21:35:52 -0400

No, I say you are welcome! Remember MOST DON'T SERVE! You did something that the majority don't give a second thought to but enjoy!

Response by CPL Larry Bezemer made Jun 7 at 2020 9:38 PM

CPL Larry Bezemer — Sun, 07 Jun 2020 21:38:14 -0400

I remember going through SFO and dealing with the little POS's when I came home, it still does not bother me that I hurt them!

Response by PVT Mark Zehner made Jun 7 at 2020 10:43 PM

PVT Mark Zehner — Sun, 07 Jun 2020 22:43:44 -0400

I had a couple of guys at the VA give me crap about when I served. A Korean War Veteran walked up and asked them if they speak Russian?! When they both said no he said " Thank the man"! I laughed hard! Everyone does something when they served! I was lucky and others were not, only to be wounded as a police officer! Life deals many hands!

Response by SSG Steven Gotz made Jun 7 at 2020 10:51 PM

SSG Steven Gotz — Sun, 07 Jun 2020 22:51:40 -0400

Guilty? No. It felt pretty strange at first, but eventually I learned to say "You're welcome" The fact is, I was in for probably one of the most peaceful six years of our history. Probably because Reagan was president for most of it. So I was never in the heat of battle
But it seems silly to object to it, even when I know it is just words that people have been taught to say.

Response by MAJ Victor Alarcon made Jun 8 at 2020 1:35 AM

MAJ Victor Alarcon — Mon, 08 Jun 2020 01:35:07 -0400

Who ever wrote this statement regarding feeling guilty about serving in the military must have had an extremely poor attitude and pride in his service to the Republic, he obviously took the Oath to protect the Constitution very lightly. Anyone that serves in the Armed Forces of the United States during any period in time and performs his or her duty to the best of their ability and is willing to defend our Constitution should be proud as together as a team we have kept our democracy viable. If you feel guilty of your military service, you definitely had an adjustment disorder.
I thank all my Brothers and Sisters in Arms for their service

Response by SSgt Patricia Terris made Jun 8 at 2020 2:18 AM

SSgt Patricia Terris — Mon, 08 Jun 2020 02:18:31 -0400

To feel guilt, I would have had to do something wrong. I didn’t. I served my time honorably. Maybe there weren’t any wars because those of us who were on duty in the 70s and 80s were there... just in case.

Response by PO2 Anthony Leone made Jun 8 at 2020 12:19 PM

PO2 Anthony Leone — Mon, 08 Jun 2020 12:19:48 -0400

I agree spc Richard Zacke. I served in Okinawa during the time they were being returned to Japan. I also served on the USS Blue ridge as corpsman. I was with the 3rd Marine div. When I got home I was told not to wear my uniform for my safety. we were spit at and much name calling. I was still proud of all the men I served with. Now they thank me for my service as its what everyone says. In my head I think, You were not there, you do not know the pain an anguish that was suffered by the troops. It holds no meaning for me or you beyond a simple hello.

Response by CPT David Fero made Jun 8 at 2020 12:50 PM

CPT David Fero — Mon, 08 Jun 2020 12:50:00 -0400

I feel guilty because I never was sent to the war and actually had things pretty good.

Response by CPT David Fero made Jun 8 at 2020 12:52 PM

CPT David Fero — Mon, 08 Jun 2020 12:52:28 -0400

I feel guilty because I was never sent to war although I served during the Vietnam War. I actually had it pretty good.

Response by Paula Minger made Jun 8 at 2020 3:58 PM

Paula Minger — Mon, 08 Jun 2020 15:58:58 -0400

My Husband is a VIETNAM Vet. Most never made they’re time in service a lifestyle or their identity as we see today,

When someone thanks him for his service he just smiles. Then we walk on and he whispers to me “why are they thanking me?” That’s why iI’ve loved him forever!

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 8 at 2020 9:48 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 08 Jun 2020 21:48:33 -0400

No, because when I served there were no over seas trip. 1974 - 1989.

Response by PO2 Mike Keyes made Jun 8 at 2020 10:53 PM

PO2 Mike Keyes — Mon, 08 Jun 2020 22:53:52 -0400

Why? Did we not serve? Should someone that served in other than combat positions in recent years feel guilty for it?

Response by PO2 Timothy LaChapelle made Jun 9 at 2020 2:56 AM

PO2 Timothy LaChapelle — Tue, 09 Jun 2020 02:56:42 -0400

I was in from the end of 1975 through 1981. I missed the Vietnam War so it was mainly the cold war issues i dealt with during my enlistment. I have grow to appreciate it more, but for years i thought it was a slap in the face, but the cold war was real even if there were no Boots on the Ground. I think people have realized just how important serving in the military is to keep our country strong. The politicians did their job and we had peace during my enlistment. So i guess they should be given credit for doing their job too.

Response by SCPO Robert F. made Jun 9 at 2020 10:28 AM

SCPO Robert F. — Tue, 09 Jun 2020 10:28:52 -0400

I served on active from 25 January 1978 to 30 June 2004 - I don't feel guilty when anyone says "Thank you for your service" I feel humble because as a Hospital Corpsman all I ever did was try to keep other service member safe and healthy - threat their wounds and save life's. My most common reply is that it was an honor to serve my country, save life's and train my replacements

Response by SPC Douglas Thompson made Jun 9 at 2020 10:40 AM

SPC Douglas Thompson — Tue, 09 Jun 2020 10:40:37 -0400

None of us is responsible for our dates of birth, not to mention the currents of human history. We volunteered and served honorably without knowing when or if the balloon would go up.

Response by SPC William Szkromiuk made Jun 9 at 2020 1:14 PM

SPC William Szkromiuk — Tue, 09 Jun 2020 13:14:08 -0400

At a Memorial Day parade a few years ago, I got a big surprise. As customary, I stood and saluted whenever the American flag went by.
At the end of the parade my wife and I were gathering up our chairs. This woman walked up to me and said she had been watching me during the parade and wanted to thank me and give me a hug! I was flabbergasted and mumbled something like Thank You, but not necessary. UGHHH

She was very good looking and the wife was not happy :-)

Response by SrA W Ellis made Jun 9 at 2020 4:31 PM

SrA W Ellis — Tue, 09 Jun 2020 16:31:39 -0400

what kind of question is that/duh no/why should i/not a regular you can leave when you want

Response by MSG Loren Tomblin made Jun 9 at 2020 5:01 PM

MSG Loren Tomblin — Tue, 09 Jun 2020 17:01:08 -0400

I think it is a trite statement. I don't need it. I once had a little old lady hit me with her umbrella in NYC and asked me how many babies I had killed. I told her "No more than I could eat." She ran to the next subway car. lol

Response by SP5 William Sells made Jun 9 at 2020 8:35 PM

SP5 William Sells — Tue, 09 Jun 2020 20:35:25 -0400

I just am grateful that someone recognized my sacrifices!

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 9 at 2020 8:58 PM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 09 Jun 2020 20:58:55 -0400

SPC Richard Zacke Thank you for your service!

Response by CW3 Bill Wynne made Jun 9 at 2020 10:21 PM

CW3 Bill Wynne — Tue, 09 Jun 2020 22:21:11 -0400

15 MAY 1966 - 30 APR 1993, 12 SEP 2000-12 SEP 2007 NO I DO NOT FEEL GUILTY, I TAKE IT AS A COMPLIMENT

Response by TSgt Gwen Walcott made Jun 10 at 2020 9:27 AM

TSgt Gwen Walcott — Wed, 10 Jun 2020 09:27:33 -0400

I feel pissed at their hypocrisy. I too was the subject of being spit on and called a baby killer (now more appropriate to modern politicians).

Response by SGT Paul Harman made Jun 10 at 2020 3:39 PM

SGT Paul Harman — Wed, 10 Jun 2020 15:39:19 -0400

No I appreciate that people today say thank you. For too many years we were derided and spit on. A lot of my friends died in Vietnam. We know today it was for naught and a tragedy led by politicians who interfered rather than supported our efforts.

Response by Sgt Steve Williams made Jun 10 at 2020 8:10 PM

Sgt Steve Williams — Wed, 10 Jun 2020 20:10:33 -0400

Stealing thunder? No. You did what we all did. We went where they sent us and did the job we were sent do do. You know how it works...we don't tell them where we want to go and what we want to do. Serve honorably and be proud of what you did.

Response by William Davis made Jun 10 at 2020 10:48 PM

William Davis — Wed, 10 Jun 2020 22:48:04 -0400

Well I did not want to respond based on what I observed over a dozen years on Maxwell AFB as a youth being raised by an O-6 forced into retirement, but I never remember back in the 1970s anyone ever saying that to my grandfather. I do remember very often he never wanted to discuss anything, but during Vietnam he had plenty of opinions to share..... He would be 120+ years old now, but those guys did not want to be treated in a special way....The military has changed a lot though in fifty years. Society back then also did not have all the "social media influencing" and need for self recognition.

Response by PVT Rocky Susshine made Jun 12 at 2020 5:31 AM

PVT Rocky Susshine — Fri, 12 Jun 2020 05:31:13 -0400

Nam 67-68 Tet. Im hearing those words. Thank you for your service more and more. I feel uncomfortable . When asked to stand if I was in service. I do not. I carry my scars of Nam daily.

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 12 at 2020 8:35 AM

PFC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 12 Jun 2020 08:35:30 -0400

I was enlisted from 85 - 89 and I feel the same way when I receive invitation packages from the VFW. I never deployed for any combat tours but I was activated for Desert Storm during my inactive reserve period. I didn't deploy for Desert Storm because it was 3 days after i received my port call. I got orders to stand down just days after I received my orders.

Response by Lisa Fiedler made Jun 13 at 2020 3:51 PM

Lisa Fiedler — Sat, 13 Jun 2020 15:51:43 -0400

I've said "Thank you for your service" for as long as I can remember. In the mid- to late-70s, I was saying it. I don't think anyone should feel "guilty" if they didn't go to a war zone regardless of the timeframe served. Everyone who enlists and serves in some capacity serves our country. To that, I am thankful! Thank you for serving!

Response by SGM Thomas Adderley made Jun 13 at 2020 9:05 PM

SGM Thomas Adderley — Sat, 13 Jun 2020 21:05:59 -0400

Served from 1962 through 1988 and recently , because I hear it so often,I have begun to wonder if they are truly thanking me or making a statement because they feel they must or because they feel guilty. In any case I still appreciate it.

Response by PFC Kimberly LaVoie made Jun 14 at 2020 3:54 PM

PFC Kimberly LaVoie — Sun, 14 Jun 2020 15:54:27 -0400

As a Vietnam veteran I don't feel guilty when someone says a thank you for my service. I feel nothing, which is commensurate with the thanks (none) I received when I came home. I've had one person actually confess to bring a Vietnam war protestor....guess I can appreciate her honesty......

Response by CPO William Slifko made Jun 15 at 2020 1:49 AM

CPO William Slifko — Mon, 15 Jun 2020 01:49:14 -0400

Personally I don't care for non-veterans thanking me for serving. Most of them don't give the impression that they really mean it so their thanks ring hollow and it feels condescending. From other veterans though? Absolutely appreciated.
You're probably aware but the percentage of people who serve is pretty low. Here's an article you might enjoy reading: https://www.ncsl.org/blog/2017/11/10/veterans-by-the-numbers.aspx
What I'm getting at is that you're among the group of people who took the time out of their lives to serve. There are others who were honestly unable to and then there are those who just don't care. I'm reluctant to include the former group in the same sentence as the latter but those are the 3 possibilities as I see them.
You should never feel guilty. You had our backs and we're proud of you. Thank you for your service, brother.

veterans-by-the-numbers.aspx

Response by SSG John Justin made Jun 15 at 2020 5:39 PM

SSG John Justin — Mon, 15 Jun 2020 17:39:53 -0400

I joined in 1969 and I do not feel quilty when someone says thank you for your service. While I never served in combat i put in long hours and and low pay. I did the math after about two and a half years and it came to about 40 cents per hour while I was awake and working (about every third day I was also duty on call when sleeping.) This was about 1/3 minimum wage in 1969. The squad bay barracks were substandard, heat in winter about 1/3 rd of the time while in Great lakes, barracks with holes in the floor and flies breading in the urinals except when someone sprayed with insecticide. I had it better than some duty stations and worse than others. I couldn't afford long distance phone calls. The officers had it much better. As a Navy Corpsman with the Marines I do feel quilty that I did not do more, but I'm proud of what I did. and I'm still serving by my membership and activities with the American Legion. I retired from the National Guard and was activated for staet duty while in the guards.

Response by LTC David Howard made Jun 15 at 2020 6:05 PM

LTC David Howard — Mon, 15 Jun 2020 18:05:34 -0400

I don't feel guilty in the least and I appreciate the expressed sentiment. I served from '66 to '90. I was in Vietnam, and later in Europe where all of us thought that war with the USSR was inevitable. It was not if, just when. More than once we prepared for Soviet armor to come pouring through the Fulda Gap in what was then West Germany. Even those that did not serve in Vietnam were in a position to put their lives on the line at any moment. No one who served, at any time and in any capacity, needs to feel guilty when thanked for their service to our nation.

Response by GySgt Lawrence D. Pool made Jun 18 at 2020 10:47 AM

GySgt Lawrence D. Pool — Thu, 18 Jun 2020 10:47:34 -0400

GUILTY???, GUILTY???, GUILTY???

HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

PROUD !!!!!, PROUD!!!!!, PROUD!!!!!

Response by SGT Ted Hooban made Jun 18 at 2020 2:54 PM

SGT Ted Hooban — Thu, 18 Jun 2020 14:54:37 -0400

If you served from 1978 to 1981 there were several times where basically little moves could have escalated. The Soviets had just invaded afghanistan, and found that it was not a nice place to fight. They still held east Germany, and a lot of eastern Europe. While you may not have seen much combat, Through exercises and your very willingness to be involved with a well manned VOLUNTEER miltary you allowed President Reagan to tell Mikhail Gorbachev to "Tear down this wall." You made it look less embarassing to have left Vietnam unclosed, and provided leverage to get hostages out of Iran, Even though the first military attempt failed on an equipment malfunction.
Thank you for your service, and for defending and maintaining the frontiers of freedom.
I will admit that I am another cold warrior, and for the bad or the good, I also volunteered to serve in that window. My brothers who served in time of war have assured me that serving the country is a good thing, and putting yourself out there to make it unnecessary to continue or reinstate the draft is a blessing of it's own.
On the other hand, my short response is "Thank YOU for my college degree." my wife often pokes me when I say that.

Response by COL Jim Lincoln made Jun 18 at 2020 3:30 PM

COL Jim Lincoln — Thu, 18 Jun 2020 15:30:18 -0400

I served from 1960-88-exactly covered the Cold War-even arrived in Germany right when the Berlin Wall went up and I was on the Czech border. Also did 32 months in "our" war-Vietnam. Right when I retired the Wall came down, and less than 2 years later, USSR went down!
Thank me for my service> I'll take it Col Jim Lincoln USA Retired

Response by COL Jim Lincoln made Jun 18 at 2020 3:36 PM

COL Jim Lincoln — Thu, 18 Jun 2020 15:36:24 -0400

I served from 1960-88 all most exactly the Cold War! I arrived in Germany for my first assignment right when the Berlin Wall went up, and I was on the Czech border .Did 32 mo0nths in "our" war-Vietnam. Then right when I retired, the Wall came down and less than 2 years later. the USSR fell!
Thank me for my service? I'll take it!--we won the cold war!

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 19 at 2020 10:29 AM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 19 Jun 2020 10:29:46 -0400

Plain and simply. NO

Response by CPO Bc Barnard made Jun 19 at 2020 3:10 PM

CPO Bc Barnard — Fri, 19 Jun 2020 15:10:49 -0400

Why would you feel guilty? You did what few in the country have done, you actually chose to serve. None of us know what to expect, we never know if and when a conflict would arise, hell even those that join during war time have no idea if it will end before we even graduate boot camp. How many of our brothers and sisters are killed or injured in training exercises every year. Hell I watched someone walk through a spinning prop during a simple flight ops. Anyone that has been deployed on a ship knows that the most injuries happen on the transit home when we become complacent after being on guard for 6 to 9 months. The risks we face/faced on a daily basis were still there whether at war or not. DO NOT feel guilt, you answered the call when most will unplug the phone. Thank each and every one of you for your service to this country.

Response by SSG Kenneth Snell made Jun 19 at 2020 8:06 PM

SSG Kenneth Snell — Fri, 19 Jun 2020 20:06:10 -0400

Spent 3 yrs in Viet Nam it’s the same ones that threw rocks and spitted on us. I hair it

Response by PV2 Steven Stockwell made Jun 19 at 2020 9:42 PM

PV2 Steven Stockwell — Fri, 19 Jun 2020 21:42:43 -0400

I Served From 1982-1988 And I Would Still Be Serving If I Didn't Fall 60 Feet Repelling From A Chopper And Ended Up Level C-6 Quad Incomplete For My Willing To Train To Deploy For This Country So No I Don't Feel Quilty At All And No One Else Shoul Either That Is A Cold War Vet It It Is Not Our Fault They Didn't Have To Deploy Us We Still Were More Than Willing To Go If Needed

Response by SFC Ernest Thurston made Jun 20 at 2020 9:03 PM

SFC Ernest Thurston — Sat, 20 Jun 2020 21:03:43 -0400

I probably answered this question at least 10 times on this site and I don't know how many times in conversations with others. Here's my story. I turned 18 in 1969 and for whatever reason, my draft number never got called. By 1974 I was married and had two kids. Then in May of 1974, I enlisted in the Army. I won't get into the reasons here except one of them was to serve my country. Vietnam was still a real possibility for me, but I joined anyway. I served from May of '74 till Oct 95. During that time if you know your history we still had Vietnam, the Mayaguez ship was captured. We went into Panama twice. We went into Grenada, Iraq, Somalia, Rwanda, and Bosnia, and a few other minor hot spots around the globe like Beirut, and a little fly-by of Libya. For my part, I was always either on the other side of the world or my position was mission-critical somewhere else. Did I serve and serve willingly? Hell yes. I would have gone anywhere the Army sent me, but it wasn't in the cards for me. My country and my Army had different plans for me and I believe God did too. So when someone says," Thank you for your service". I just say, 'You are welcome." I'm not only answering for myself but for all that did serve and maybe were wounded or lost their lives. When a civilian sees me with my veteran's hat on they don't necessarily see me. They see an old soldier. That's what I proudly represent. I'm definitely not going to say something like, "Don't thank me go thank some real hero". I served but if God and Country decided that I shouldn't die or get wounded in that service, I consider it a blessing and in my mind, I thank the people that went in my place or took the bullet for me, I'm proud to represent them.
PS. My first duty assignment was the Presidio of San Francisco. Imagine all the times I was called baby killer or was spat on in that town.

Response by CWO3 Warren Gaudreau made Jun 23 at 2020 12:52 PM

CWO3 Warren Gaudreau — Tue, 23 Jun 2020 12:52:02 -0400

I just say "you are welcome, anytime".

Response by SN DrNicholas Losito made Jun 26 at 2020 1:16 PM

SN DrNicholas Losito — Fri, 26 Jun 2020 13:16:52 -0400

No I do feel anything less I Did Serve as Loyal American. I Served from 1981 until 1987; although, the Navy Never gave me what I wanted in a Rate of RP, they decided to make me a SK instead. I Never elevated to Petty Officer for the Supply Department was not very kind to people of Faith. Overall, I am grateful being a Veteran.

Response by SP5 James Johnson made Jun 27 at 2020 5:32 PM

SP5 James Johnson — Sat, 27 Jun 2020 17:32:02 -0400

I served from 68 to 70. I NEVER heard "thank you for your service" until very recently. Now, to hear that, pleases me and I always say thank you.

Response by SSgt Alan Hay made Jun 27 at 2020 6:05 PM

SSgt Alan Hay — Sat, 27 Jun 2020 18:05:20 -0400

I did from time to time, but now I tell them your welcome and I will stand with my brothers/sisters any time again.

Response by SN Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 27 at 2020 6:37 PM

SN Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 27 Jun 2020 18:37:51 -0400

I also served from '78 - '82 and its not that I feel guilty but I do feel my brothers/sisters-in-arms who served in actual combat including the ones who never came home deserve it more than I do....so I just say "Thank you" and keep going....unless they engage in conversation and they happen to be a fellow vet....

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 1 at 2020 10:52 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 01 Jul 2020 22:52:19 -0400

Sir that is why we say it I retired after 2 tours in Iraq and then almost 3 years as a civilian in Afghanistan, we respect you and you deserve the thank you as much as anyone. So let me say Thank You for your service

Response by PO3 Daniel Goergen made Jul 4 at 2020 7:02 PM

PO3 Daniel Goergen — Sat, 04 Jul 2020 19:02:14 -0400

Thank You for your service comes to little too late. After being spit on and called all kinds of names when i got off that Freedom Bird in San Fran. I was refused 2 different jobs when i got home because i made the mistake of saying i served in Nam. It took several years before i would even admit i was in Nam.

Response by PO2 Alberto Ortiz made Jul 4 at 2020 11:37 PM

PO2 Alberto Ortiz — Sat, 04 Jul 2020 23:37:32 -0400

As I know well this period of time did in fact was the initiation of terror attacks and those that served even giving the ultimate sacrifice. Please remember those that died in the service of our country, Beirut for one example. So to say you do not desire the thanks; you made that commitment during that time too.

Response by SSG Nicholas Wetherington made Jul 9 at 2020 10:27 AM

SSG Nicholas Wetherington — Thu, 09 Jul 2020 10:27:17 -0400

During the period from the closing period of WW2 through the Vietnam war, the United States foreign policy was to contain the threat of communism. As a VietNam vet, the phrase "Thank you for your service" is unsettling. It is an awkward moment at the least. We were serving under the authority and command of our Government. Our service was a commitment to freedom and duty to country. No thanks needed. The phrase seems to be a result of the "political correctness" attitude that permeates our current society.

Response by SSG Rick Jarvis made Jul 10 at 2020 1:41 PM

SSG Rick Jarvis — Fri, 10 Jul 2020 13:41:29 -0400

As a Vet '71-'78, I never felt thanked at all during those times for serving my country. As I grew older I started to thank the active duty young guys being deployed two and three times instead of us just having to serve a 13 month tour with 30 days leave. I would buy these guys their meals at airports, I would stand up and clap whenever I saw a group of uniformed soldiers and I feel that the Viet Nam Vets (us) are the ones who recognizes them because that's what we wanted back then. I can't imagine going on tour two or three times during active duty. They have my respect and one day I cried because I saw how young these men and women are, but then I looked at my Basic Trng picture and realized that I was that young also. For anyone who wears a uniform for this nation, it doesn't matter if you served during or at a conflict, the thing is that you should feel proud of being on call for all Americans. God Bless Y'all HooAah! SSG Jarvis '71-'78.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 13 at 2020 1:26 AM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 13 Jul 2020 01:26:30 -0400

I thank everyone who especially served during the draft because they were thrown into a hellish situation that armchair warrior politicians, and rich boys with connections managed to dodge with no repercussions at all. Those veterans coming back often with missing limbs, mental disorders and syndromes should never feel guilty about being thanked.

Response by SPC Tommy Dean made Jul 13 at 2020 2:50 PM

SPC Tommy Dean — Mon, 13 Jul 2020 14:50:20 -0400

Nope, Don't feel guilty. I just say "it was my honor" and go on about my day. After all, how many civilians have had to thaw our their chick ala king MRE pouch under their armpit so their Thanksgiving dinner wouldn't break a tooth? Just gagged a little thinking about that cold snot in bag.

Response by PO2 Mike Greenwood made Jul 17 at 2020 4:04 PM

PO2 Mike Greenwood — Fri, 17 Jul 2020 16:04:53 -0400

Guilty? HELL NO! I served on Navy River Craft in 'Nam Aug 69 - Aug 70. Mines in the water, bad guys in the jungle brush on each side of the river or creek, no where to run or hide, just made for a lovely experience. A few scars both mental and physical, but the boat crews I served with did our part. Those of us that survived miss our buddies but we walk with pride in what we did.
Brown Water Boat Crews have nothing or nobody to bow our heads to.

Response by SP5 Roy Williams made Jul 19 at 2020 7:27 AM

SP5 Roy Williams — Sun, 19 Jul 2020 07:27:07 -0400

I served from 1965-68, with a one year tour in Vietnam. No I kind of love it! Wasn't that way with anti Vietnam rally's and physical encounters calling us "Baby Killer's" and other names I can't say here. I proudly wear military support shirts, support for our flag and etc. No I like it! Sgt Roy Williams

Response by SGT Layrd Cunningham made Jul 19 at 2020 10:50 AM

SGT Layrd Cunningham — Sun, 19 Jul 2020 10:50:24 -0400

I wrote the check just like everyone else. Uncle Sam chose not to cash it. Ashamed of my service? No way in hell is that going to happen!!!!

Response by SFC James Himes made Jul 19 at 2020 12:16 PM

SFC James Himes — Sun, 19 Jul 2020 12:16:05 -0400

As a part of only the 7% who have EVER served, be proud and gracious for the acknowledgement from civilians. We all had are part to do. The military decided your job and where you were going to do that job. Only a small percentage saw actual combat and a smaller percentage were involved in covert combat operations. Often overlooked were that massive operations that supported all of these. Never feel guilty for what you did not do during your military service. In most cases you had no choice in those decisions.

Response by SPC Chris Ison made Jul 19 at 2020 3:04 PM

SPC Chris Ison — Sun, 19 Jul 2020 15:04:42 -0400

That is so funny to me.

I was born in 1971, I would turn 7 in 1978. We moved to San Bernardino in 3rd grade rout around age 9 which would be 1980-80 ish. Norton Air Force base was a huge Military Airlift Command base here that operated until about 1993. Never heard or seen anyone harass anyone in uniform.

I am pretty sure the "American sentiment" over Vietnam ended in 1975, when all of the troops came home.

In 1979 and the Iran hostage situation changed everyone's opinion about what the military was for. All of the global terrorist attacks, Grenada, and the Lebanon barracks bombings, and peoples attitude towards the military changed dramatically.

Then you have the movies It started with the boys in company C and then Dear Hunter, then Apocalypse now.

Then you have the various "veteran court statutes" that were created for the maladjusted Vietnam Veteran.

I am sick of everyone saying that the Vietnam Veteran was/is mistreated. The reason the VA is good at handling PTSD today, is because of the work done with the Vietnam Veteran.

I do believe their were massive protests to the war (hell they protested the first gulf war, and there were protests over Iraq); I have had people tell me that Iraq was an illegal war, and we were only there for oil, and yes I have been called "baby killer" too. I do believe that soldiers were harassed DURING the war when coming through San Francisco (maybe other airports), and while they were on post coming to and from, there may have been some.

But now you want to say it happened to you three-six years AFTER the fucking war?

I am sick of the woe is me bullshit. It is the same with the "Hanoi Jane" bullshit too. Jane Fonda did none of what everyone says she did, and since you can't seem to not lie about her, why should i believe your woe is me bullshit stories today?

I am also sick of all the "hero worship". The founding fathers did NOT want a large military, they were anti military and anti chivalric order, and the Army, Navy, etc should never be treated like they are treated today.

I am not saying they should be treated badly, but the highest honor in America is NOT SUPPOSED TO BE TO SERVE IN THE FUCKING MILITARY.

There is a reason why there were no medals before the medal of honor.

Thanking servicemen for their service is fucking wrong period. It is an all volunteer service now, and you can leave almost whenever you want, even in these times of global conflict.

Response by Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen made Jul 19 at 2020 7:28 PM

Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen — Sun, 19 Jul 2020 19:28:16 -0400

I wouldn't say guilty, it is more like shocked. The military wasn't exactly viewed as a great organization during that period. Don't get me wrong, I think it's great that we get the 'thank you for your service' response these days but I somehow still don't think it's aimed at my generation.

Response by SFC Charles Woods made Jul 19 at 2020 8:32 PM

SFC Charles Woods — Sun, 19 Jul 2020 20:32:02 -0400

I served during part of those times.1957/1959. Then 1961/1979. No,I do not feel guilty. Every time someone says that,I look to see how old they are. If they are my age I always wonder if they are the ones that spat on us as we came home.I served two tours in RVN,when I got back WE were told not to talk about it because no one understood.Young people weren't around to remember how w were treated when we came back and there are members of my family that find it hard to believe what happened to us that served in RVN.So, no I do not feel guilty Iearned my status as a VET,and the folks that are serving now are earning their status.

Response by LCpl Arthur Granville made Jul 19 at 2020 9:22 PM

LCpl Arthur Granville — Sun, 19 Jul 2020 21:22:58 -0400

Why would I feel guilty. I was drafted into the US Marines during a very difficult war(1968). I am proud to have served my country during this time. I thank people who thank me for serving.

Response by CPT Christopher Fish made Jul 19 at 2020 9:41 PM

CPT Christopher Fish — Sun, 19 Jul 2020 21:41:03 -0400

Neither guilty nor ashamed. I served 84-96. Did my jobs to the best of my ability and rather enjoyed my time in service.

Response by TSgt Denise Moody made Jul 19 at 2020 10:51 PM

TSgt Denise Moody — Sun, 19 Jul 2020 22:51:11 -0400

I served in the AF from 1976-1980, then joined the ANG. No I don't feel guilty when someone says thank you for your service. Sometimes I say thanks back, but sometimes I tell them they don't need to thank me. Thanking someone doesn't mean much. Doing something does. How about telling your reps to stop taking the benefits we were guaranteed when we enlisted?

Yeah, those are days when I don't feel like accepting platitudes.

Response by PO2 Tony Divito made Jul 20 at 2020 2:04 AM

PO2 Tony Divito — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 02:04:44 -0400

USN 1985-90. Being in the military at that time was just another vocation. No different than becoming a nurse, teacher or firefighter. Our expectations was to learn a trade, travel overseas, get out in four years, and use the GI Bill. We didn’t expect being treated any different than any other civilian. When someone thanks me for my service, I feel very uncomfortable being placed on a pedestal. That being said, as a Cold War Vet, my only reward is that nobody is suffering from a nuclear holocaust. And that I had a small part in that effort.

Response by Lt Col Leslie Bryant made Jul 20 at 2020 3:22 AM

Lt Col Leslie Bryant — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 03:22:00 -0400

While I think it’s nice and civilians mean well, I wish they truly understood and appreciated the sacrifices military made in the past and in the present. I also wish more Presidents, Vice Presidents, Senators, Congressmen and women Generals, and Admirals put their own kids forward for military service versus the platidues we hear so often. They could live up to funding those benefits Retirees earned like healthcare and drugs without those ever increasing co pays!

Response by Capt Steve Glover made Jul 20 at 2020 5:31 AM

Capt Steve Glover — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 05:31:50 -0400

The Cold War has not ended … we are seeing it on the streets of cities like Portland and Seattle everyday in the form of the 5th column. It has infiltrated the Democratic party rotten to the core. If you served from 78' to 81' ... stand proud. Because in Feb 1981 is my basic entry date... and I RELEIVED YOU OF YOUR POST and was proud to do it. I continued to serve on until my retirement in 2007 ... after 26 years.

Response by SrA Richard Parenti made Jul 20 at 2020 2:47 PM

SrA Richard Parenti — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 14:47:35 -0400

Exactly how I feel. Thanks for putting it into perspective.

Response by PO1 BrendaLee Lennick made Jul 20 at 2020 2:48 PM

PO1 BrendaLee Lennick — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 14:48:46 -0400

I served from 1978 to 1999 and definitely feel uncomfortable being thanked for my service.

Response by CPT Richard Kosinski made Jul 20 at 2020 4:08 PM

CPT Richard Kosinski — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 16:08:08 -0400

No way.

Response by SSG Doug H made Jul 20 at 2020 4:34 PM

SSG Doug H — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 16:34:09 -0400

I served from 1980 to 2000. I spent the majority of that time in the rapid deployment force or special operations, so the Op Tempo, while nothing like what the last generation endured, was no walk on the beach either. We had Grenada, Panama, Iraq, Supporting the Contra's in Central America, as well as various UN missions in the Middle East and Eastern Europe and Africa. While I obviously didn't deploy to all of those, I listed them to illustrate that we were not just sitting around in Garrison waiting on the Cold War to end. We were serving all over the world in various hot spots, and I lost friends over the years. I don't feel I am entitled to anyone's gratitude or anything else, but when it is offered, I don't feel embarrassed either. I am working near a motel where several young Marines seem to be staying on TDY, and when our paths cross, I thank them for their service. Many of them probably haven't earned that gratitude yet, but many of them will.

Response by SP5 Leo Fitz made Jul 20 at 2020 5:00 PM

SP5 Leo Fitz — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 17:00:11 -0400

If you raised your hand and took the oath, and did your job, don't lay down for anyone.

Response by SSgt Chris Locke made Jul 20 at 2020 5:48 PM

SSgt Chris Locke — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 17:48:25 -0400

No, I don't feel guilty, but I tell them there's no need to thank me, I joined for my own reasons that had little to do with them. If there's time, I tell them it's how I got out of a small town with limited potential and got my college education partially paid for, and it helped me get to California . . . the state I really wanted to live in.

Response by SGT Richard McArthur made Jul 20 at 2020 5:57 PM

SGT Richard McArthur — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 17:57:50 -0400

Never bothers me (1967-mid'69; S. Vietnam 5/68-6/69, combat-5/68-9 or 10/68).

Response by SCPO Larry Poffenbarger made Jul 20 at 2020 6:31 PM

SCPO Larry Poffenbarger — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 18:31:06 -0400

I have told a few people that I should thank the people of the United States for the opportunity to serve. How else is an Iowa farm boy going to see about half the world, visit 20 some countries, see many different cultures, ride out North Atlantic storms and southern hurricanes on an old Gearing class destroyer. Most of all, learn just how great it is to be living in this country, even with all our shortcomings, nothing was ever so good as coming back from deployment. I have to than the people of the US for sending me on trips i could never dream of. (Except when people shot at us.) God Bless the USA

Response by Sgt Thomas Ivanoff made Jul 20 at 2020 6:41 PM

Sgt Thomas Ivanoff — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 18:41:16 -0400

I served as a Missile Systems Analyt Specialist at F.E.Warren AFB. from 1972to 1976. We felt the constant pressure of keeping the missile on alert. We felt the constant pressure of serving our Country in a Hostile Environment. We changed out of uniforms immediately to avoid the stares from citizens unhappy with the Veitnam conflict. I threw away my uniforms when I got out. I do not have a single picture of myself in uniform. I was Proud to serve but my pride was kept inside for fear of upsetting others. I never travelled anywhere in uniform.
I appreciate that All Servicemen and Women are being recognized for their service. My only hope is that it is a sincere Thank you and not just lip service. How quickly those thanks can be forgot when haters announce that blanket statements that all soldiers are criminals because they were offended by some blown up trouble. I am proud I served and have served my Country in many volunteer ways all my life. I wish the public could j.g now what sacrifices I made while serving in the Air Force and the disabilities I now suffer from as a result of the radiation exposure I took while working on those nuclear missiles so long ago. Yes I served and I am proud of it. I am glad others did not suffer the life my time in uniformed working to maintain the cold war. And I Thank those soldiers that fought the battles that protected his fellow man and his Country.

Response by Cpl Bill Johnson made Jul 20 at 2020 8:45 PM

Cpl Bill Johnson — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 20:45:28 -0400

Guilty? No. Before the new generation was fighting in the middle east (for murky reasons without much result) my generation won the cold war. I am proud of that.

Response by SPC Nancy Clark made Jul 20 at 2020 9:27 PM

SPC Nancy Clark — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 21:27:26 -0400

I say you're welcome. My oldest daughter doesn't claim me as a veteran because I didn't serve in Vietnam but I know I am a veteran.

Response by SMSgt Billy Cesarano made Jul 20 at 2020 9:55 PM

SMSgt Billy Cesarano — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 21:55:23 -0400

1976-2018...Feels weird, but I respond with "thank you for your support"

Response by PO3 Ron Morton made Jul 20 at 2020 11:40 PM

PO3 Ron Morton — Mon, 20 Jul 2020 23:40:53 -0400

Yes sometimes, other times I am angry

Response by SGM Gerald Fife made Jul 21 at 2020 3:55 AM

SGM Gerald Fife — Tue, 21 Jul 2020 03:55:05 -0400

I served from 1954-1963, a break, 1968-1995. The compliment, "Thank you for your service," is answered by me with, "My pleasure." You served, we all served. A lot of us did not see combat, but we served. That is what the compliment is, 'Thank you for your service." I don't believe you are stealing anyone's "thunder." I don't believe the Compliment came about until after 911. Thank you for your service, SPC Richard Zacke.

Response by SSG Manville Parks made Jul 21 at 2020 10:53 AM

SSG Manville Parks — Tue, 21 Jul 2020 10:53:30 -0400

I have struggled with it too. However, I think the biggest reason is because I felt guilty for the assumptions of the person thanking me. I realized that since I am not making any false claims, I'm not responsible for their false assumptions.
I think LTC Canfield's response also applies. We served. If the Soviets would have tried to force the Fulda Gap, we would have went. It's all honest and above board.

Response by Sgt Richard Warco made Jul 21 at 2020 11:12 AM

Sgt Richard Warco — Tue, 21 Jul 2020 11:12:48 -0400

I served from 1970 to 1974 first time and was cursed at by even high school classmates ( I was the only one in my class to serve ) . it is really weird to hear some one say that now , 50 years later. I also was in the guard and reserves from 1992 to 1998.

Response by CPL Theodore Moore made Jul 21 at 2020 11:55 AM

CPL Theodore Moore — Tue, 21 Jul 2020 11:55:08 -0400

I had a really easy time of it from 1990 to 1994...nothing much happened, and from 1997 - 2000 ditto. (I did two contracts...unconnected), But I would have gone had they asked me...so I guess its cool.

Response by CPL Danny Ingraham made Jul 21 at 2020 12:19 PM

CPL Danny Ingraham — Tue, 21 Jul 2020 12:19:59 -0400

Yes I fill guilty. When I came home there where nothing but military haters and protesters.

Response by Sgt Phil Villa made Jul 21 at 2020 12:35 PM

Sgt Phil Villa — Tue, 21 Jul 2020 12:35:58 -0400

No Not at all because the Vietnam War was fought by many of us veterans who are experiencing many disabilities just like any other war and we were fighting for our Country.

Response by SP5 Allan Eddy made Jul 21 at 2020 1:05 PM

SP5 Allan Eddy — Tue, 21 Jul 2020 13:05:30 -0400

I served from 1966 to 1968 including in Vietnam and never felt guilty or will ever feel guilty about anything. If someone says "thanks for your service" I like to use the millennial response; "no problem"

Response by 1SG Mickey Black made Jul 21 at 2020 1:15 PM

1SG Mickey Black — Tue, 21 Jul 2020 13:15:44 -0400

NO. NEVER! I served 20 years and always felt I was doing this to defend my country. One should never feel quilt about that. Maybe you didn’t get into a war zone as some of us did, you were still defending our constitution and country. HOLD YOU HEAD HIGH, be humble, and say thanks.

Response by SSgt Jeff Kummerow made Jul 21 at 2020 1:39 PM

SSgt Jeff Kummerow — Tue, 21 Jul 2020 13:39:30 -0400

Yes I feel guilty sometimes but just say Your Welcome, things have changed a lot since When you served. Be proud of your service.

Response by LCpl James Schleich made Jul 21 at 2020 2:27 PM

LCpl James Schleich — Tue, 21 Jul 2020 14:27:45 -0400

I served 87-91 and honestly It does not much matter to me one way or the other. I joined because I wanted to. No one owes me a "thank you" like so many dumb asses on Facebook think everyone does.

Response by SGT David Burns made Jul 21 at 2020 4:38 PM

SGT David Burns — Tue, 21 Jul 2020 16:38:51 -0400

Absolutely not. I was not drafted like some who did not have a choice to serve, they deserve it as much and anyone. I joined. A conflict could have started any day and I knew it and just about did during my last few months. Just because it was called the Cold War does not mean it was not a war. It was a war of strategies and power, not conflicts.

Response by SN Craig Ralston made Jul 21 at 2020 10:55 PM

SN Craig Ralston — Tue, 21 Jul 2020 22:55:31 -0400

I was going to respond almost verbatim.

Response by WO1 Mike Dwyer made Jul 22 at 2020 9:11 AM

WO1 Mike Dwyer — Wed, 22 Jul 2020 09:11:51 -0400

I don't feel guilty at all. I volunteered, quit a great civilian job to do so, because I felt like it was my duty as a citizen. I didn't create the Cold War, Vietnam was already over so it was what it was. When people thank me, I say "You're welcome." Sometimes I'll add, "I'd do it again, but they won't let me.....too old and too fat!"

Response by CPT Peter A Berardo made Jul 22 at 2020 5:25 PM

CPT Peter A Berardo — Wed, 22 Jul 2020 17:25:59 -0400

CPT Peter A. Berardo
I well understand the issue. I was commissioned in the US Army Chemical Corps in Jan 1964, deferred from active duty to attend graduate school until I received the Ph.D. in physics and entered active duty in May 1970.

With full respect for others that felt differently, the reasons for our commitment to Vietnam were not convincing to me. I did march in peace marches in San Francisco prior to 1970 and in Washington D.C. when John Kerry spoke against the war from our Capitol steps.

However, I've always believed in our military and, although reluctant and fearful of being killed, was always willing to serve as needed. Because of that fear I studied physics and chose the Chemical Corps to help ensure I'd get a safe job in the Army. And I did. I served for six years in two tri-service (Army, Navy, Air Force) units, the Armed Forces Radiobiology Research Institute (DNA) and the Joint Strategic Target Planning Staff (JCS) to help deter nuclear war and received the Army Commendation and Joint Service Commendation medals.

And I felt guilty. Capable and cleaver, but guilty about surviving the war when men in my basic unit went to Vietnam and were killed. It always bothered me and, finally, I sought and received help from the Albuquerque VA mental health services.

What I finally realized is that whether or not I planned it, the Army placed me where I could do the most good for the U.S. military and the country. I was a useful, contributing member of a dedicated team. My role was different, but it was successful and helped the team in its many assigned roles. I am proud of that and definitely feel a kinship with anyone who served anywhere, anytime.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 22 at 2020 6:40 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 22 Jul 2020 18:40:23 -0400

Our nation has learned a lot since the Vietnam War, mainly to protest the government, not the soldiers that are in harms ways. So take the compliment because you have earned it.

Response by SFC Carlos Torres Jr. made Jul 22 at 2020 11:29 PM

SFC Carlos Torres Jr. — Wed, 22 Jul 2020 23:29:52 -0400

I remember being part of the Cold War Nuclear deterrence during the early 80s and a few of us were PRP Qualified. You had to be dedicated to the mission America has forgotten how much we sacrifice for our mission to protect our great country. It’s interstellar how the U.S. Air Force had Medal for Nuclear deterrence awarded from 1991-present and for us Cold War veteran who were involved in the Nuclear program during Cold War have nothing to show. All were got was Cold War Certificate. Some one show push for Cold War medal or at least extend the Air Force Nuclear deterrence Medal to the Cold War veteran to those who carry out the nuclear cold missions.

Response by SSgt Kathy Prest made Jul 23 at 2020 12:11 AM

SSgt Kathy Prest — Thu, 23 Jul 2020 00:11:52 -0400

I served at Andersen AFB, Guam, a SAC base that had nukes and alert B-52’s. I was honored to serve, proud to be SAC and damn proud of what I did.

Response by Maj A. Clark made Jul 23 at 2020 2:25 AM

Maj A. Clark — Thu, 23 Jul 2020 02:25:19 -0400

Your dates in question had all sorts of things going on. From 55-64 there were lots of " Military advisors" in Vietnam. In 1960 the Marines were involved in various deployments in the Caribbean following the communist take-over of Cuba. 1962 Marines into Thailand. 1964 Us Air-crews involved in operations in the Congo. 1965: US Invasion of Dominican Republic: 1967 More air-crew action in the Congo. 1962-1975 Military operations in Laos. 1964-1975 the official Vietnam war. 1973 US Air Crews supplying Israel during Yom Kippur war. 1975: Evacuation from Cambodia. 1975: Cambodia: Mayaguez incident. 1976: Lebanon: On July 22 and 23, 1976, helicopters from five U.S. naval vessels evacuated approximately 250 Americans and Europeans from Lebanon during fighting . 1978 More Air Craw action in the Congo. 1980 Iran Hostage rescue attempt and disaster. , 1981 Military advisors in El Salvador. ( and Egypt) ...1981, Libyan line of death incidents, Naval and air action against Kadaffi. 1982 Marine sin the Sinai, 1982 Marines into Lebanon. 1983 Grenada Invasion. Anyway you get the picture.

Response by SGT Quentin Moore made Jul 23 at 2020 11:14 AM

SGT Quentin Moore — Thu, 23 Jul 2020 11:14:55 -0400

Nope

Response by PO1 Gary Lange made Jul 23 at 2020 5:04 PM

PO1 Gary Lange — Thu, 23 Jul 2020 17:04:44 -0400

I served 1978 to 2000. when I was in no one cared. Not until Desert Storm anyway. Then people bent over backward saying thank you. I too remember seeing TV images of stupid non serving hippies spitting on American soldiers. Oh yeah, the ones who DO NOT make policy. Then, as a college professor said in class 20 years later these same idiots are running around in suits in charge of the country

Response by PO3 Steven Taylor made Jul 23 at 2020 9:21 PM

PO3 Steven Taylor — Thu, 23 Jul 2020 21:21:34 -0400

I just take it for what it's worth and say you're welcome. They mean well, USN '75~'79

Response by SP5 Ann Parris made Jul 23 at 2020 10:00 PM

SP5 Ann Parris — Thu, 23 Jul 2020 22:00:59 -0400

No. Say thank you, and leave it at that. You served, just be glad your service didn't include combat.

Response by Capt Scott Lauer made Jul 25 at 2020 11:17 AM

Capt Scott Lauer — Sat, 25 Jul 2020 11:17:10 -0400

Must be an army dog, definitely not a Marine with my Company in Beirut 1980!

Response by BG Gary G Harber made Jul 25 at 2020 1:10 PM

BG Gary G Harber — Sat, 25 Jul 2020 13:10:16 -0400

I served from June 1955 to May 1997; 42 years from E-1 to 07 Brigadier

Response by PFC Kenneth Anderson made Jul 25 at 2020 2:36 PM

PFC Kenneth Anderson — Sat, 25 Jul 2020 14:36:35 -0400

I Served from 1972-1978! I was a Vietnam Era non combat Veteran and Cold War Veteran and I am proud to be a Veteran! If you actually fought or not, You are still in the Brotherhood!

Response by Saralyn Shone made Jul 25 at 2020 4:42 PM

Saralyn Shone — Sat, 25 Jul 2020 16:42:44 -0400

My dad was career Army in the 50s through 70s. My son is now serving as well. I would say Thank You to anyone, any time, any where, who made the decision to serve their country.

Response by Cpl Robert Hicks made Jul 25 at 2020 7:33 PM

Cpl Robert Hicks — Sat, 25 Jul 2020 19:33:12 -0400

Is this a real fucking question? For one thing Vietnam covered the vast majority of the 60’s into the early 70’s with right about 58,000 KIA...I guess maybe I’m missing the point of the question.

Response by SP5 Charles Gould made Jul 25 at 2020 9:32 PM

SP5 Charles Gould — Sat, 25 Jul 2020 21:32:01 -0400

I served in Vietnam '66-'67. Went there with 36 men, six of us came home. Recon. I can't easily deal with anyone commenting on my service. Did what I had to do, only killed those who needed killing. Spend a lot of time in the woods thinking about it all. All those brave, young kids. But would do it again if asked.

Response by 1SG Ken Jones made Jul 25 at 2020 11:09 PM

1SG Ken Jones — Sat, 25 Jul 2020 23:09:41 -0400

No, and why should I. Like everyone else whoever served, I too signed that blank check. I trained and kept myself physically fit my entire career for when that call came.

Response by CPL Dale Bailey made Jul 26 at 2020 1:37 PM

CPL Dale Bailey — Sun, 26 Jul 2020 13:37:05 -0400

The proper response when asked if you killed babies is "
never more than we could eat"

Response by SPC Albert Schafer made Jul 26 at 2020 4:58 PM

SPC Albert Schafer — Sun, 26 Jul 2020 16:58:26 -0400

As I've said before... I'm not the least bit comfortable acknowledging that I served to strangers...
It has become rote behavior for them to say, "thanks for your service" and mostly not heartfelt..

Response by SGT Lance LeBerte made Jul 26 at 2020 8:24 PM

SGT Lance LeBerte — Sun, 26 Jul 2020 20:24:33 -0400

I have never felt “guilt”, but how do you respond to it? So I guess “uncomfortable “ is the best way to put it

Response by PO2 Roger Douglas made Jul 26 at 2020 11:02 PM

PO2 Roger Douglas — Sun, 26 Jul 2020 23:02:55 -0400

I spent 6 years years and multiple deployments on an aircraft carrier.. I saw the weapons in the alfa locker..
We were capable of devastating half of Europe..
It isn't about when you served.. it's about the fact that you raised your hand and gave your oath to protect this country..

Response by SPC Albert Schafer made Jul 26 at 2020 11:33 PM

SPC Albert Schafer — Sun, 26 Jul 2020 23:33:49 -0400

If I feel guilty about anything it would be that I had a great time for three years... Got to go to Hawaii, Okinawa, Japan and Korea... Saw Alaska and the Southern States ... Got to go to the Dominican Republic, after the first couple of weeks it was like being on vacation.... Missed Vietnam...
I was the only one who shipped to Korea and the rest of my AIT class went to Nam... Didn't even know where it was..
I was winding down in Korea and the count of fatalities in Nam was around 635.... Who knew it would go the way it did...
I got to work my MOS and I think I did a pretty damn good job... and I'm sure I only remember the good times....

Response by SN Terry Poynter made Jul 27 at 2020 12:44 AM

SN Terry Poynter — Mon, 27 Jul 2020 00:44:40 -0400

Why should anyone feel guilty? We signed on the line and as I recall, the cold war wasn't that damned cold.

Response by SFC Mark Klaers made Jul 27 at 2020 6:37 AM

SFC Mark Klaers — Mon, 27 Jul 2020 06:37:04 -0400

I served during the Cold War and the current one and I never liked it. It's why I rarely wear anything that points to my service. I just don't care for a bunch of fake ass people virtue signalling other fake ass people by thanking me for my service. You really want to thank me? Then quit voting for un-American candidates who cut the benefits I signed up for or the budgets of the current brothers and sisters now serving.

Response by MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan made Jul 27 at 2020 1:00 PM

MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan — Mon, 27 Jul 2020 13:00:59 -0400

I never feel guilty.

Response by SGT George Smith made Jul 27 at 2020 4:08 PM

SGT George Smith — Mon, 27 Jul 2020 16:08:29 -0400

I served from 61-66. Vietnam 65-66. I don't feel embarrassed.I just say Thank you, I appreciate that. Such a small percent of the U S has served I think all veterans earned a response from civilians. We served to protect them who didn't serve. Its not a big thing.

Response by SGT Michael Hearn made Jul 27 at 2020 11:58 PM

SGT Michael Hearn — Mon, 27 Jul 2020 23:58:06 -0400

In the early 70's I could not walk down the street in my uniform without being called a baby killer
at Ft. Benning Ga, I would ask the stoners what have you done for your country lately, I had no problems with being assaulted I would knock out the hippie first,

Response by SP5 Dennis Dorsey made Jul 28 at 2020 11:29 AM

SP5 Dennis Dorsey — Tue, 28 Jul 2020 11:29:28 -0400

while I appreciate it, I felt it was my duty to serve. I agree with SPC Zacke though. Sometimes I do feel like I am stealing the thunder from the troops who served both, before and after me.

Response by SP5 Gary Perkins made Jul 28 at 2020 12:31 PM

SP5 Gary Perkins — Tue, 28 Jul 2020 12:31:52 -0400

I volunteered during Vietnam War but the ceasefire occurred and was over! I never left the states and proud of my NDSM and Army GC medal! I just say thank you!

Response by TSgt Ken Vandevoort made Jul 28 at 2020 2:19 PM

TSgt Ken Vandevoort — Tue, 28 Jul 2020 14:19:53 -0400

I am uncomfortable hearing "Thank you for your service" because nobody said it when I did my service. When I needed a job, I went to a Vet Center and asked if I was allowed to be there because I served on the other side of Asia. It took me awhile to start using veterans' parking spots at stores. I carried this internal guilt when I left active duty and some of our guys were still sitting in the Hanoi Hilton. The Vietnam War ended when I was in college. Classmates went a bar to celebrate. I went to my room and cried. They had never gone to school with or worked with someone who had been killed or wounded. I did.

Response by CPL Susan P Johnson made Jul 28 at 2020 3:09 PM

CPL Susan P Johnson — Tue, 28 Jul 2020 15:09:33 -0400

NO! No one who has served at anytime should ever feel guilty. The ones that followed us stand upon our shoulders....

Response by MAJ Tom Deaver made Jul 28 at 2020 4:04 PM

MAJ Tom Deaver — Tue, 28 Jul 2020 16:04:07 -0400

I continue to feel as a foreigner in my homeland following return to the States in 1971. People in uniform were not wanted in society. Current government policies enforce that understanding. And, yes, I feel uncomfortable hearing that phrase while willing to personally thank those in service today.

Response by LCpl Laurence Puco made Jul 28 at 2020 4:37 PM

LCpl Laurence Puco — Tue, 28 Jul 2020 16:37:08 -0400

I served from 1964-1968 active and than 1968-1970 Reserves, and no it doesn't bother me, and yes I remember all the freaking name calling, but you have to realize that the ones that are calling the names don't know there ass from a hole in the ground. Go figure!

Response by CPL Susan P Johnson made Jul 28 at 2020 5:54 PM

CPL Susan P Johnson — Tue, 28 Jul 2020 17:54:53 -0400

If you think it was bad for you think about what it was like for us Women. Know that everyone of us have served willingly...nope I forgot, some of the guys were drafted during the early years.....but our service is what has allowed us to live "The American Dream". It has not been a "piece of cake", but America, with all of it's ills is better than any other country in this world then and now.

Response by SGT William Nixson made Aug 1 at 2020 3:34 PM

SGT William Nixson — Sat, 01 Aug 2020 15:34:57 -0400

I served in the Army from 1976 to 1983 - between Vietnam ans Grenada, so I never saw any actual combat, but that doesn't mean I "don't feel worthy". I was stationed in Germany for 3 years, on a different kind of battle that no one over here thinks about anymore, or never heard of - the ones with the Red Brigade. They set off a car bomb in Mannheim early '80s in a US kaserne and targeted the
child care facility~!!! My kids went to this place when we shopped at the Commissary next door!!
So, don't think just because you are not called for a combat assignment that your service is not worthy of appreciation!!! We still took the oath!!!

Response by CPT Edmund Chang made Aug 6 at 2020 4:41 PM

CPT Edmund Chang — Thu, 06 Aug 2020 16:41:55 -0400

I served 1961 to 1963. No one actually shot at us but being sent to Germany when the Berlin Wall went up and the alert status we experienced during Cuban Missle Crisis were not laughing matters at the time. Like everyone else who served, we did what we had to do.

Response by SPC Brian Stephens made Aug 7 at 2020 11:48 AM

SPC Brian Stephens — Fri, 07 Aug 2020 11:48:38 -0400

Not at all. So few of us as a nation make the choice to enlist. Why would I feel guilty? Although I was never deployed from Germany I took a spot on the wall and trained to go to war regardless.

Response by SGT Michael Hearn made Aug 9 at 2020 1:16 AM

SGT Michael Hearn — Sun, 09 Aug 2020 01:16:55 -0400

You left your home to serve your country you may have not been at war but the military is always ready for war. You served during the cold war, You served

Response by PFC David Gettman made Aug 10 at 2020 10:01 AM

PFC David Gettman — Mon, 10 Aug 2020 10:01:34 -0400

Hell no I don't feel guilty. Maybe a little humbled for being thanked, but not guilty.
A lot of military personnel were killed or seriously injured during the Cold War years protecting America's interests around the globe. I spent a year on the Czechoslovakian border with 2d Armored Cavalry Regiment, and it was not all beer and frauleins. We trained hard and when we had accidents, they could be catastrophic.

Response by SPC Elizabeth Gehm-Bishop made Aug 11 at 2020 11:28 PM

SPC Elizabeth Gehm-Bishop — Tue, 11 Aug 2020 23:28:32 -0400

I am so glad I'm not the only one feeling that way. It's nice they are thankful and all but I've always felt different when someone says it.

Response by SP5 Jeffrey Ludwig made Aug 15 at 2020 9:54 AM

SP5 Jeffrey Ludwig — Sat, 15 Aug 2020 09:54:28 -0400

No, I'm not embarrassed, I simply say you're welcome. I served at Walter Reed taking care of our wounded warriors from Vietnam. While I, like many didn't experience combat up close, we did witnessed the horrors of war. I don't need praise for serving my country, I am grateful that our Vietnam Vets are finally getting the support or respect they deserve.

We all took the same oath, wrote a blank check, and did our best to serve with honor.

Response by SFC Larry Triplett made Aug 16 at 2020 8:42 AM

SFC Larry Triplett — Sun, 16 Aug 2020 08:42:31 -0400

I served from 1978-2014, I feel bad when someone says thank you for your service. I was the one that picked my profession not them, thank the ones that are serving on Active Duty.

Response by SFC Larry Triplett made Aug 16 at 2020 8:42 AM

SFC Larry Triplett — Sun, 16 Aug 2020 08:42:46 -0400

I served from 1978-2014, I feel bad when someone says thank you for your service. I was the one that picked my profession not them, thank the ones that are serving on Active Duty.

Response by SPC Wade Cassal made Aug 16 at 2020 2:38 PM

SPC Wade Cassal — Sun, 16 Aug 2020 14:38:31 -0400

The only time I don’t like people saying ‘Thank you for your Service’ is when I went to the VA Clinic and the Vet Center. (2013-2016) The Doctors called me Delusional and Psychotic when I tried to explain my problem to them. And at the end of each appointment after treating me like crap they say ‘Thank you for your Service’ but I can tell they don’t really mean it. At least civilian Doctors treat me with respect and never say ‘Thank you for your Service.’

Response by SSG Russell Busicchia made Aug 17 at 2020 2:38 PM

SSG Russell Busicchia — Mon, 17 Aug 2020 14:38:56 -0400

I do feel a bit odd when people say thank you for your service. Not because there weren't major wars to fight, 1974 - 1994. I never went to Vietnam, I went to Berlin instead. When I enlisted people still considered, and called, us scum. My first pass in AIT I got in late and my cousin picked me up. Back then you had to travel in uniform. We stopped at a bar we had gone to many times before. The owner asked me not to show my stripes, E2. When my brother was in the hosal my mom asked me to get him some pizza. I just arrived from Berlin so I was still in uniform. There was a woman who pulled her child away from me and said never go near a soldier. There are many stories how we were treated badly throughout the '70s After Desert Storm the public got it right and started to treat us with the respect we are due. It took a while, but I learned how to appreciate their thanks, you will too.

Response by 1LT Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 18 at 2020 7:53 AM

1LT Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 18 Aug 2020 07:53:46 -0400

I feel awkward when someone thanks me. I don’t even like to be in public in uniform. I just remind myself how I used to look at soldiers as hero’s when I was younger.

When someone thanks you, it’s out of gratitude. Just humbly accept it.

Response by TSgt Harry Huston made Aug 20 at 2020 2:00 PM

TSgt Harry Huston — Thu, 20 Aug 2020 14:00:09 -0400

I just disregard that statement, because if they really meant it, why wasn't it said back in the 70's and 80's. I feel people now saying that feel guilty, or it is meant for todays military.

Response by LCpl Sidney Green made Aug 21 at 2020 7:41 AM

LCpl Sidney Green — Fri, 21 Aug 2020 07:41:31 -0400

Absolutely not. As a service member you're not responsible for the social or political climate of the times, or the ramification of an unpopular war, that's not within your control. In fact, you should be proud that the environment has changed and that people now recognize that. The service you provide or have provided was and is fulfilled whether its from the present or during WWII.

Response by LCpl Laurence Puco made Aug 21 at 2020 9:49 AM

LCpl Laurence Puco — Fri, 21 Aug 2020 09:49:55 -0400

One should never, ever feel guilty.................................

Response by PO2 David Robinson made Aug 21 at 2020 4:39 PM

PO2 David Robinson — Fri, 21 Aug 2020 16:39:00 -0400

I served from '77-'83 and that was all "piece time". I too had a hard time trying to get over my self-loathing for not have served during some sort of armed conflict. I felt like I had just threw 6 years out the window. I was a Navy Parachute Rigger (PR2), and out of the 6+ years I was in the Navy I only spent a grand total of 3 days on an aircraft carrier, and that was just for carrier quals for the squadron I was in. In my way of thinking, I didn't get the experience of all that was the Navy. Even to this day, I sometimes feel like I was cheated out of that experience. However, I did have an experience that very few 'sailors' have... I deployed to the best duty. I spent the first 3 years going to Antarctica. My counselor, I see pointed out that my service was just as mind-bending as if I had gone to the middle east or any other "exotic" duty station, she also made me see that and accept that. Now I can be thanked for my service I just smile politely and say thank you.

Response by SrA Marc Haynes made Aug 22 at 2020 3:10 AM

SrA Marc Haynes — Sat, 22 Aug 2020 03:10:49 -0400

We rendered our service!

Response by SGM Ronald Cheatom made Aug 22 at 2020 6:19 AM

SGM Ronald Cheatom — Sat, 22 Aug 2020 06:19:12 -0400

I'm always mildly surprised, at first, then I thank the person for their support.

Response by Capt Doug Pillsbury made Aug 22 at 2020 7:57 PM

Capt Doug Pillsbury — Sat, 22 Aug 2020 19:57:18 -0400

No. In fact, even as a non-combatant during my service in the Cold War (1967-1971), I appreciate these comments & usually reply, "Thank you for the kind words. You were worth it" (learned from this website, as I recall). Re: "civilian confrontations:" during that time, the "worst" thing that ever happened to me was on a flight home, on leave from my DEW Line station in Canada. Per MIL travel regulations at the time, I was wearing my USAF "blues." I was carrying a camera bag over my left shoulder. As I was transiting the isle, looking for my seat, one of the other PAX said, in a loud voice, "Looks like the Air Force is issuing purses, these days." Everybody around, including myself, got lotsa snicks & grins over that one! THANK YOU, to all the combat vets who actually "went there, & did that," in service to our great country!

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 23 at 2020 4:22 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 23 Aug 2020 16:22:14 -0400

"The nation that forgets its defenders will itself be forgotten" - Calvin Coolidge. No defender should be spit on for raising their right hand. I'm just sorry it took the tragedies of Sept. 11th and beyond to get you the recognition you always deserved.

Response by MSgt Shawn Sones made Aug 26 at 2020 11:25 AM

MSgt Shawn Sones — Wed, 26 Aug 2020 11:25:24 -0400

Why should I, or anyone else for that matter, feel guilty? First, it wasn't my choice to be born when I was. Second, while I may have only been "Chair Force," I still served my country honorably, serving two overseas long tours. When I joined, the Cold War was the only 'conflict' going on.

Response by Rebecca Morley made Aug 28 at 2020 9:32 AM

Rebecca Morley — Fri, 28 Aug 2020 09:32:24 -0400

Civilian here. Maybe my opinion doesn't bare enough weight to be valid but just because you served during a time of no conflict doesn't mean you weren't prepared to. That is what you are being thanked for. Your willingness if/when called upon. Its still a sacrifice of which you are deserving of thanks. I have thanked every military person I have come across and their reply has always been the same "it was my honor to serve". An exchange of mutual respect between solider & the civilian they serve.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 28 at 2020 12:57 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 28 Aug 2020 12:57:25 -0400

To SPC Zacke why I served active duty from Oct 1977 to Nov. 1985. then reserve until Nov. 2004 when I joined the National Guard and did four Combat deployments before retiring in Dec 2017. You served if we had had a President with Balls we would have went into Iran when our embassy was over ran. I haven't yet forgot how that felt watching service member being paraded by those so called students. You served take the thanks and then thank them for serving the country as a good citizen working each day at a job to try and make this country better. They will like that and most likely the deserve it.

Response by SP5 Dick Otto made Aug 28 at 2020 1:06 PM

SP5 Dick Otto — Fri, 28 Aug 2020 13:06:38 -0400

I agree as I served 60’ to 64. We had our work and every one did their job. Location was fun.
But I’m still asked about my duties and feel basful when ask.

Response by Sgt Dane Jones made Aug 28 at 2020 2:09 PM

Sgt Dane Jones — Fri, 28 Aug 2020 14:09:10 -0400

I served as Marine infantry in 68-69 in VN. Nobody said thank you for your service when I came home. Quite the contrary except family and friends who said, “ glad you made it back.”
Now I hear thank you for your service every time I deal with the VA, and they don’t mean it. In fact they typically proceed to not give you the service your asking for. I really hate it when you call and get a recording that starts with thank you for your service. It is meaningless. It just delays further getting someone on the phone to actually try to get something accomplished.
Generally I think it reflects guilt, not genuine gratitude.

Response by SGM Kenneth Stanton made Aug 28 at 2020 5:26 PM

SGM Kenneth Stanton — Fri, 28 Aug 2020 17:26:57 -0400

I served from Feb 1957 to Nov 1987 & no never in fact I am damn proud

Response by SFC Tracy Scott made Aug 29 at 2020 7:55 AM

SFC Tracy Scott — Sat, 29 Aug 2020 07:55:42 -0400

No one should be or have been made to feel guilty for their service, the times and conditions might not have been favorable within our society, but you didn't run for your service, you took it is stride and accomplished the given task!

Response by SSG Gary Flinchum made Aug 29 at 2020 12:07 PM

SSG Gary Flinchum — Sat, 29 Aug 2020 12:07:54 -0400

I served from 1966 to 1970, the incidents were minor compared to many. My father was in Vietnam during my service time. How I answer to the "thank you for your service" I was proud to be of service, thank you.
Stay safe and know you did your duty.

Response by Sgt Jeff Peterson made Aug 29 at 2020 3:25 PM

Sgt Jeff Peterson — Sat, 29 Aug 2020 15:25:47 -0400

I always say "Hey, my pleasure! My service was actually enjoyable." There's nothing wrong with it. If shit went south, we were all in, but I actually did have a good time. I know guys who had it easier than me. Swim instructor and a golf instructor on protocol.

Response by SGT Michael Hearn made Aug 30 at 2020 1:09 AM

SGT Michael Hearn — Sun, 30 Aug 2020 01:09:37 -0400

HELL NO Be proud to serve your country not everybody can do it.

Response by MSG Roger Mannon made Aug 30 at 2020 10:21 AM

MSG Roger Mannon — Sun, 30 Aug 2020 10:21:46 -0400

Not at all. I served from '67 to '91 in countries around the world (including Vietnam). I don't care if you were a cook, or infantry, or military intelligence (like me), you stood tall for your country. You did the job that many cannot or will not do. I salute you and I proudly say, "Thank you for your service."

Response by Col Robert Wallace made Aug 30 at 2020 2:31 PM

Col Robert Wallace — Sun, 30 Aug 2020 14:31:34 -0400

Do I feel guilty when someone thanks me for my service? Hell NO!! I was proud, and still am, that I was able to serve my country; help protect it, my loved ones, the freedoms that all enjoy - even those who called me "baby killer', "civilian killer" & those who supported LB Johnson's War (Viet Nam). The ultra-Left media brainwashes the populace with false thinking & poor logic, if there is any at all. I remember being taught that you cannot debate anything with an illiterate or a liar & that is what the US media had made a vast majority of the public become.

Response by Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 30 at 2020 2:39 PM

Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 30 Aug 2020 14:39:23 -0400

Certainly not guilty, but uncomfortable. I’d rather it not be said to me.

Response by SFC Philip Bernier made Aug 30 at 2020 4:25 PM

SFC Philip Bernier — Sun, 30 Aug 2020 16:25:08 -0400

I served till 2005 and well I went on peace keeping missions but not combat missions so I feel like shit.

Response by Sgt John Mizell made Aug 30 at 2020 6:51 PM

Sgt John Mizell — Sun, 30 Aug 2020 18:51:18 -0400

No I don't, i feel bad that all my brothers ,are laying in graveyards, across America, will never receive, that thanks in person

Response by Sgt Ed Hamell made Aug 30 at 2020 9:06 PM

Sgt Ed Hamell — Sun, 30 Aug 2020 21:06:51 -0400

I served from 1969 to 1973. Spent a year in VIetnam, We never heard those words from anyone back then. Actually heard a lot worse. I in no way feel guilty for my service. I don't feel we are taking away from the current batch of soldiers.

Response by CPL Eddie Schronce made Aug 30 at 2020 10:16 PM

CPL Eddie Schronce — Sun, 30 Aug 2020 22:16:20 -0400

I served from 78 til 84. I was never called a baby killer nor spit on. But when someone thanks me for my service I feel uneasy. They should thank my brothers and sisters that never made it back.

Response by MAJ Terrence Gardner made Aug 30 at 2020 11:02 PM

MAJ Terrence Gardner — Sun, 30 Aug 2020 23:02:03 -0400

I served from 1973 to 1987 during the Cold War, when someone says thank you for your service, I say you are welcome. I spent 3 years in an armored cavalry squadron along the Czech-West German border, on what was then "Freedom's Frontier". As soldiers, we serve when we serve, we do not get to pick wars or conflicts, those situations tend to fall upon us. None of our young soldiers who are fighting now were even born and their parents were playing in sandboxes when I served before them, waiting for the Soviets hordes to push across the border. Thank God that did not happen. Tens of thousands of young Americans in all branches of the armed forces served during the Cold War and because we served there was no war. The young people who are fighting for us now, in Afghanistan and Iraq, we made life safe for them and their parents as they grew up. Richard Zacke you served well my friend, and thank you for your service.

Response by MAJ Ouida W Harding made Aug 30 at 2020 11:39 PM

MAJ Ouida W Harding — Sun, 30 Aug 2020 23:39:27 -0400

No. I find it canned..... aggravating...depending on how my ptsd birds are flying, ...I often say wait until they all come home... or I ask why did you say that, or I just say nothing at all.

Response by Maj Wayne Crist made Aug 31 at 2020 10:42 AM

Maj Wayne Crist — Mon, 31 Aug 2020 10:42:55 -0400

Response by PO2 Michael Coon made Aug 31 at 2020 11:30 AM

PO2 Michael Coon — Mon, 31 Aug 2020 11:30:45 -0400

I served from 1966 to 1970. Having someone thank me for my service is a little disconcerting to me. I was of the generation that thought serving was an expectation, the duty of citizenship, and a point of self satisfaction. In other words it was something I didn't have to be thanked for because it came bundled up as a responsibility with my bundle of Rights.

Perhaps the simple Act of making all service voluntary now entitles us to a thank you.

I'm still not comfortable with it because I don't need to be thanked for things that were expected of me. But that's just me.

Response by Pvt Jeff Oehlsen made Aug 31 at 2020 6:09 PM

Pvt Jeff Oehlsen — Mon, 31 Aug 2020 18:09:04 -0400

Nope, just weird. if they really gave a flying fuck, they would have done something about the 20 years they allowed the military industrial complex to jag off in the middle east. Instead, we get TYFYS. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA DUMB.

Response by SPC Randy Stucki made Aug 31 at 2020 7:28 PM

SPC Randy Stucki — Mon, 31 Aug 2020 19:28:38 -0400

You voluntarily served,you took the risk.not all troops are combat,not all troops are called upstairs,but all troops are necessary. I served from the cold war into the middle east.and I am just as proud of my early time as my later.

Response by SPC Dennis Kregel made Aug 31 at 2020 9:08 PM

SPC Dennis Kregel — Mon, 31 Aug 2020 21:08:35 -0400

I served from '85-'93 and loved every minute of it. Traveled all the way to West Germany to meet and marry a girl from Indiana. Yes it was the end of the cold war but I was as willing to do whatever my country needed of me. So I am proud of my service as we all should be.

Response by PO1 Rick Duff made Aug 31 at 2020 10:15 PM

PO1 Rick Duff — Mon, 31 Aug 2020 22:15:13 -0400

Not at all! Conducting operations at sea is STILL very dangerous! Whether on the flight deck, Main Machinery, Boiler Rooms, or working on radar transmitters with -56,000 volt pulses, at a thousand a second. Working around the reefer decks, with slippery, thus dangerous floors, NOT TO MENTION going up and down ladders all day. I lost several friends, and many shipmates, and their deaths had NOTHING to do with combat.

Response by LTC John Murray made Sep 1 at 2020 8:57 AM

LTC John Murray — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 08:57:53 -0400

No I do not feel guilty. Having served in the 2nd ACR in Germany from 1977-1980 and helping to patrol the East-West German Border, I feel that it gave me an understanding of the cold war that most Americans never experienced. Visiting German towns literally cut in two be the border and seeing the armed guards across the border showed me that there was a "war" on. The guards on the East german side of the border were there to keep people in and not keep the enemy out.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 1 at 2020 10:10 AM

PO1 Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 10:10:16 -0400

Anyone that did 3 years without deployment, or being stationed overseas is NOT in the same category as someone that has served half their life, giving up what a 'normal' american life is with family and friends; being moved constantly, deployed fighting and watching those we are close too suffer and perish; realizing and dealing with all the political BS. Having your children estranged from you because you are not there for whats important to them and unable to be there or guide them until you come home to no family and no friends, because you have become different people due to the ravage of time and of course a government that is forgetful of what you have sacrificed prior to their 4 year term. You served 15, 20+ years of your life and if lucky remain alive to endure nothing to show for it except empty promises of medical assistance that never comes due to bureaucratic processes placed to prolong or ensure non-receipt. Once a year the possibility of a free burger on veterans day if you can beat all the other people eligible with some form of ID card and a person that may say THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE. Do I think it matters how long or when/where someone served to truly appreciate or deserve that thank you? YES, yes I do, because thats all some of us have, and need to make it possibly worthwhile. Someone signing up for one enlistment to get benefits, stationed in their home state doesn't deserve it, the 23 yr old visiting the VA for an appt to receive 80-100% disability due to his PTSD claim from the shock of treatment received at tech school doesn't deserve it. Am I a little OTT? Maybe, but I have witnessed it all. This is how much a Thank You from a civilian means to me.

Response by PO1 William Price made Sep 1 at 2020 10:40 AM

PO1 William Price — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 10:40:01 -0400

I served from 74 - 96. And I always feel uncomfortable when someone thanks me for my service. Can’t really identify the reason why, but I do.

Response by PFC Leroy Savoir-Faire made Sep 1 at 2020 12:26 PM

PFC Leroy Savoir-Faire — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 12:26:25 -0400

No, I don't

Response by SGT David Ohmart made Sep 1 at 2020 12:39 PM

SGT David Ohmart — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 12:39:49 -0400

HELL NO AND I WAS IN SOUTH KOREA

Response by LCDR Mike Morrissey made Sep 1 at 2020 2:13 PM

LCDR Mike Morrissey — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 14:13:18 -0400

A definition of guilt often used in psychological and faith counseling is “it’s what you think somebody wants you to feel.” Of course we want others and ourselves to feel guilt for wrongful acts. Perversely, some want others to feel guilty just for being. There are more than enough “vibes “ around us that carry the message that military equals killers and bad deeds. The problem is that the military stands out much more than other professions, however educators, medical personnel, journalists and others also have bad actors. But, those professions don’t have “kill” in their lexicon. So there are more than enough messages inferring “bad actor” regarding service members. Following VN, the public was a long time coming back to the sense of honorable service. There is a sense that “thank you for your service “ tries to overcome or confirm the honor of serving. That said, we who’ve serve(ed) should pay it forward to other professions that put their lives on the line.

As for service during peacetime or whatever we call it, the armed forces are, obviously, always on call with unexpected opportunities to die or coming home in a wheelchair. Years ago, I was stationed and a ship homeported in sleepy Key West, about as far away as you can get from our coastal patrols off VN. Suddenly everybody was recalled and we set sail to intercept and shadow a Soviet task force with more firepower than existed in the Gulf of Mexico. Frankly we weren’t too worried.

So we patrol off Cienfuegos Cuba while Soviet force was visiting Castro. Suddenly at 0200 a Cuban gunboat is at flank speed barreling towards us. We went to GQ. We weaps type .officers had been shown an eyes only hand written Admiral’s note that stated there would never be another Pueblo in the USN.

In short order, we were ready to fire, the Cubans were also. Then two F-9 Crusader in full burner passed by at 75 ft above the water. Cubans stood down. So did we. The question that morning was whether the F-8s were there for the Cubans or us or both. The public never heard, VN was at fullbore.

Our current forces are serving in ways the public has not a clue, Anyone who serves or has served has stood the line one way or the other. Some never had that 15 seconds of terror or more than desk duty. But, all are sworn.

In many ways, I think spouses deserve the same respect...in many respects it’s far harder to kee

Response by SPC Brian Pritchard/Hall made Sep 1 at 2020 2:58 PM

SPC Brian Pritchard/Hall — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 14:58:27 -0400

Response by CDR Michael Barrett made Sep 1 at 2020 6:45 PM

CDR Michael Barrett — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 18:45:29 -0400

Feel guilty for serving our country?? 60’s-80’s? Goofy/stupid question.

Response by MAJ Fred Zacher made Sep 1 at 2020 9:37 PM

MAJ Fred Zacher — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 21:37:46 -0400

When you are sworn in to the American Military you come under the Code of Coduct. "I serve in the forces that guard our freedom and protect our way of life. I am prepared to give my life in their behalf"
When you join you write a blank check to your fellow citizens. It's payable up to your life if required. So even though you served in peacetime you could have been sent to war at any time. Be proud, smile and say "It was a privilege to serve."

Response by SSgt Scott Ezra made Sep 1 at 2020 10:07 PM

SSgt Scott Ezra — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 22:07:17 -0400

That's a pretty ridiculous question. To start I guess you're forgetting about Vietnam which was in the 60's and 70's.
Next, just because you don't remember something happening doesn't mean it never happened. Not every person has had the exact same experience in life as hard as that might be for you.
Further, just because there weren't active wars happening doesn't mean people weren't sacrificing for the country. You have to have your head pretty far up your butt to even think that.
Try to find some decency and grace and just thank them or say you're welcome..
This isn't the first generation to serve or sacrifice and pretending it is is a huge slap in the face for everyone that came before.

Response by SPC Arthur Lowder made Sep 1 at 2020 11:32 PM

SPC Arthur Lowder — Tue, 01 Sep 2020 23:32:11 -0400

seem to me it mean thanks for serving in the military and for our country.
i,am i wrong ???

Response by CW3 Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 2 at 2020 6:23 AM

CW3 Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 02 Sep 2020 06:23:41 -0400

I look at it this way: Troops that are fresh out of basic get thanked for their service at the airport on their way to technical training. Does it make it any less true that they are serving because they just started and "haven't done anything?" Absolutely NOT. The moment you sign up to POTENTIALLY put your life on the line for your country and those serving with you, you have done more than the general population. Loud and proud, for a day or a long career, you served and should be proud.

Response by SGT Kenneth Fairben made Sep 2 at 2020 7:03 AM

SGT Kenneth Fairben — Wed, 02 Sep 2020 07:03:19 -0400

Regarding the question of the day, No I do not feel guilty. I was drafted, and responded by serving my country where they needed me. I do remember while traveling home, still in uniform, was greeted with some nastiness. I am proud of my service and maybe the draft should be brought back. God Bless all those that served OUR Country!

Response by 1LT Dave Jenkins made Sep 2 at 2020 10:13 AM

1LT Dave Jenkins — Wed, 02 Sep 2020 10:13:47 -0400

Unfortunately we were not awarded the National Defense Medal from 1979-1987.

Response by SPC Randy Torgerson made Sep 2 at 2020 11:52 AM

SPC Randy Torgerson — Wed, 02 Sep 2020 11:52:24 -0400

My experience is very different. As an 11B, I did security for the Pershing II nukes in Germany in the early 1980's. Even while I was serving in Germany, so many Germans thanked me for my service. I never experienced any hate or disrespect. Do I feel guilty today when people thank me for my service? Hell NO... I feel proud....!!!

Response by SGT James Murphy made Sep 2 at 2020 4:00 PM

SGT James Murphy — Wed, 02 Sep 2020 16:00:47 -0400

Thanking someone for THEIR SERVICE is exactly THAT! Good Grief!

Response by SP5 Hal Johnson made Sep 2 at 2020 4:28 PM

SP5 Hal Johnson — Wed, 02 Sep 2020 16:28:35 -0400

i volunteered i did my 20 plus yrs i was anytime something went down was on the wrong side of the world i don't mind someone says thanks for my service my usual response is don't thank me go to a military cemetery and thank them

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 3 at 2020 6:26 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 03 Sep 2020 06:26:10 -0400

Absolutely not, whether there was a war going on during your term or not, you still served. You still volunteered to join, endured the training and were prepared to fight if needed. We don’t choose when wars start, we don’t choose whether our unit is called up. There are people who served during wars and purposely did what they could to avoid deployment, that’s on them. I do recall discussion on a senior promotion board whether a person should be selected if they had no combat deployments. While it did look favorably on them to have held a leadership position in combat it was not a golden ticket, we still had a rear echelon to run and leaders were needed there too. I know a lot of “Vietnam era “ vets that just never got in country, it’s not their fault, but they still served.

Response by SSgt James Harlan made Sep 3 at 2020 10:16 AM

SSgt James Harlan — Thu, 03 Sep 2020 10:16:47 -0400

Thank YOU, sir. What was done to you; to your generation, was a travesty. Thank you for leading the way for us younger kids.

Response by SPC Clayton Ellzey made Sep 3 at 2020 12:13 PM

SPC Clayton Ellzey — Thu, 03 Sep 2020 12:13:50 -0400

Hell No why should I ?
I had the honor of serving my country I had honor of serving in one the oldest continues active unit in the Army 2nd Cav Regiment. We patrolled the Czech border trained hard for a fight that never materialized.

Response by MSG Arthur Ross made Sep 3 at 2020 6:09 PM

MSG Arthur Ross — Thu, 03 Sep 2020 18:09:05 -0400

I served from 1964 65-66 at PhuBai the 8 th RRU and went on to retire after 26 years in 1990
I am glad to thank some one for their service Nd say thank you when they thank me
Art Ross USA MSG Retired and active VVA member

Response by MSG Arthur Ross made Sep 3 at 2020 6:12 PM

MSG Arthur Ross — Thu, 03 Sep 2020 18:12:16 -0400

I served from1964-1990 with a VN tour 65-66, I say thank you to those I recognize as veterans of military service. And I accept their thank you to me

Response by SGT Michael Bair made Sep 3 at 2020 9:11 PM

SGT Michael Bair — Thu, 03 Sep 2020 21:11:34 -0400

As Cold War Soldiers, we trained long and hard, 24/7/365, to keep the USSR in check. We (The U.S.) won. We had many deployments to NTC, for desert training and that paid off during Desert Storm. So no, I don't feel guilty. I feel pride when I'm thanked my service and I return a heartfelt you're welcome and thank you.

Response by SFC Dennis A. made Sep 4 at 2020 7:39 AM

SFC Dennis A. — Fri, 04 Sep 2020 07:39:08 -0400

I served from 1976 to 1996, although through most of the time there was no active war the cold war was still on going and we were training and preparing to deal with it if something happened. The draft had ended, you volunteered to serve. Be proud, you earned it.

Response by LCDR Michael Pumilia made Sep 4 at 2020 10:36 AM

LCDR Michael Pumilia — Fri, 04 Sep 2020 10:36:25 -0400

Hell, No! Service in the military is still service. Many who served during the 60's to 80's did not go to Vietnam. The Cold War lasted longer also. I served from 72 to 80 and came away with a lifetime disability. While at VT-1, we lost 7 instructors and students during training flights. So that's just in one person's viewpoint. Every service personnel should be thanked for the dedication and effort it takes to safe guard this great country. But I don't expect it. If a person takes the time to say Thank You, I accept it as meaning everyone who has served or is serving.

Response by SGT Nelson Stahl made Sep 5 at 2020 6:14 AM

SGT Nelson Stahl — Sat, 05 Sep 2020 06:14:52 -0400

I served during the same time period. While we were not at war we still lost many solders during that time. Worse yet many died in the following years from service related illness, long forgotten by our government. Those men never saw the glory of combat,they had no chance to fight back at their killers.They were the heroes of our time. The service is a team anyone that serves is at risk at any time. Combat troops might get the glory but they wouldn't be there if it wasn't for all that serve.

Response by PFC Bobby Smith made Sep 5 at 2020 9:41 AM

PFC Bobby Smith — Sat, 05 Sep 2020 09:41:04 -0400

I don't feel like I have done that much to get these compliments

Response by COL Ralph Bryan Hanes made Sep 5 at 2020 3:52 PM

COL Ralph Bryan Hanes — Sat, 05 Sep 2020 15:52:56 -0400

Served mostly reserve from 1973-2006. I am not comfortable with all the “thank you for your service” I receive. I did my time in unhappy places and did it gladly. I would feel a lot better if folks just kept pressure on Congress to better serve the disabled Vets who were profoundly damaged from any aspect of their service. I have to restrain my sarcasm most of the time, when I hear the common line: “I wanted to serve and would have, but...”

Response by SPC Donald King made Sep 5 at 2020 5:38 PM

SPC Donald King — Sat, 05 Sep 2020 17:38:41 -0400

I served in cold war and oif oef 1978 off and on to 2012. If whomever raised their right hand and put on the uniform. And at any time received Thank you for your Service? The key word is "service." At any time our enemies could had engaged our country. Now if a person wear a uniform and assumes identity of stolen valor, then feeling guilty APPLIES.

Response by SPC Donald King made Sep 5 at 2020 5:50 PM

SPC Donald King — Sat, 05 Sep 2020 17:50:10 -0400

I served in cold war and oif/oef. 1978 off and on to 2012. Whomever raised their right hand and put on the uniform, thank you for your service is justified. Cuz at any era our enemies could had engaged our country. Key word is service in thank you for your service. You made a choice to sacriface your dreams, time and family to defend your country. Now if any one was under stolen valor mmm then feeling guilty would apply. So Thank you for your service.
Peace to you seek God be blessed.

Response by SGM Jesse Davis made Sep 5 at 2020 6:55 PM

SGM Jesse Davis — Sat, 05 Sep 2020 18:55:40 -0400

No Veteran should ever feel guilty when someone thanks them for their service. All played a role in protecting our country. I served from 1977 to 2007 and believe that all of those 30 years were important. Keeping the peace is just as important as fighting a war.

Response by A1C Tim Rohrer made Sep 5 at 2020 9:15 PM

A1C Tim Rohrer — Sat, 05 Sep 2020 21:15:08 -0400

Yes tell that to the veitnom vets who gave everything for nothing

Response by SGT Frank Pritchett made Sep 6 at 2020 8:41 AM

SGT Frank Pritchett — Sun, 06 Sep 2020 08:41:17 -0400

I don't but then I re-enlisted in 2007 and retired in 2015. the problem that I have is their is no recognition for Cold War Veterans. Our training was like nothing before with Sleep Depervation Training, 45 Days in the field "In all whether", washing your clothes in a bucket or steel pot, Endless Guard Duty, FTX, STX Training; I could go on but none of this is done today. Soldiers complain at 4 days in the field in a building with beds. They don't set up two man tents and return in the rear for showers. Cold War Veterans know all of this and they have so much to be thankful for, those that served between 1955 and 1982 should stand proud when their thanked, we certainly didn't get in in the 70's. If you feel the same way that I did let everyone know. Our Military needs all the help you can give.

Response by SGM Gerald Fife made Sep 6 at 2020 10:39 AM

SGM Gerald Fife — Sun, 06 Sep 2020 10:39:12 -0400

i served fr Dec 1954 to August 1995, Both active and reserve. My last dutywas in support of Desert Storm. No combat time. People say thank you to me and my answer back is, My pleasure. no need to feel guilty about anything.

Response by CW5 Mark Smith made Sep 6 at 2020 11:42 PM

CW5 Mark Smith — Sun, 06 Sep 2020 23:42:46 -0400

I served from 1966 to 2008 with a break from 1972-79. I experienced the entire gamut from silence to disdain to thanks. While I appreciate the thanks, it bothers me that so many of my fellow Viet Nam vets never heard a thank you.

Response by Cpl Bill Sandlin made Sep 7 at 2020 4:59 PM

Cpl Bill Sandlin — Mon, 07 Sep 2020 16:59:34 -0400

No, I do not feel anything. I say thank you and walk on.

Response by Cpl Bill Sandlin made Sep 7 at 2020 5:02 PM

Cpl Bill Sandlin — Mon, 07 Sep 2020 17:02:41 -0400

I do not feel anything, I just say Thank You and walk on. I will stop and have a conversation if it is another veteran thanking me.

Response by CDR Mark Johnson made Sep 9 at 2020 8:39 PM

CDR Mark Johnson — Wed, 09 Sep 2020 20:39:00 -0400

I was on active duty 1962-66 and was extended for Vietnam service. Went WestPac to Vietnam on the USS Ranger and got out in the late spring of '66. That meant that I was back home and in college when all of the anti-war feces hit the aerating device. I wanted an education and so just kept my veteran status to myself during that time. The only awkward time was when the student organizations called for a strike (logo was a fist painted on garbage bins, etc.) Because I was paying my own way, I went to classes and was often one of a few who showed up. So it was very interesting when it slowly became fashionable to once again honor our military past and present. I was an active Reservist when that was going on and now when someone says, "Thank you for your service," I simply tell them "thank you" and mean it.

Response by Sgt Francis Santa-Teresa made Sep 10 at 2020 5:07 AM

Sgt Francis Santa-Teresa — Thu, 10 Sep 2020 05:07:20 -0400

I served in the Air Force from Jan 1984 through Sep 1988. I had re-upped 10 months prior, but later on my second enlistment, I was diagnosed with severe asthma. I went before an MEB and unfortunately, I had to accept their recommendation for a medical discharge. Every time someone thanks me for my service, I thank them for the recognition and while I feel that my time in the Air Force really wasn’t anything significant, I still am proud to have served...and when my wife and I stay at a military base, I will still render a salute when I hear retreat/reveille and the national anthem played.

Response by CW3 Kevin Storm made Sep 10 at 2020 10:08 AM

CW3 Kevin Storm — Thu, 10 Sep 2020 10:08:56 -0400

I served active duty from 1982-1992, I guarded nukes for a living. For months at a time we worked 24 on 24 off. We were always short due to the requirements of the PRP program. We worked through holidays, sometimes months before we would get a weekend off. We dealt with protestors at weapons sights, commands that thought rewards didn't exist, and our friendly SMLM folks would show up outside the gate on those holidays. I watched my fellow married soldiers go to the Chaplain for their monthly issue of cheese because we were underpaid. So no I never feel guilty, because it was that Cold War force that eventually brought the wall down.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 10 at 2020 1:18 PM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 10 Sep 2020 13:18:24 -0400

H.... No. during that time the big Red army was the enemy. Without Soldiers, the USSR would have taken over world. Read your history.

Response by PO3 Be Callins made Sep 10 at 2020 6:20 PM

PO3 Be Callins — Thu, 10 Sep 2020 18:20:16 -0400

You guys ARE the reason that people say that today!! You all were not shown the appreciation and respect that you should have been shown then. I'm so sorry you guys were treated that way! You deserve every bit of appreciation and respect that you are being shown. I thank you for your service!!

Response by SSG Daniel Brewster made Sep 13 at 2020 6:36 PM

SSG Daniel Brewster — Sun, 13 Sep 2020 18:36:16 -0400

I served during the Cold War and from time to time it will come up in discussion that I was in the army and I’ll occasionally get a thank you for your service. I just smile and say thank you. Having said that, I’m definitely aware that I haven’t served in combat. Being an 11B, there’s always been that question in my mind about how I would have performed in combat. And, truth be told, there’s a little bit of envy when I see a guy with a CIB. I think many men wonder about the test of combat. Of course that’s being said by a guy who hasn’t been there, hasn’t done that. I suppose I’d be saying something else had I been there, done that. Now, sure, I was a good soldier and, like most soldiers, I imagine I would have followed orders and completed the mission. An analogy I sometimes think is to imagine you were trained as a world class chef and never had the opportunity to perform your trade and create that culinary masterpiece.
I ran into a guy serving in the 101st a few weeks ago, he was a lot younger than me, but was an E7 with something like 18 years TIS. He was talking about looking forward to retirement and I commented that I sometimes had wished I had stayed in and that my life sure would have been different. He smiled and said that my life experiences was what had made me in to the man I was today. Sure enough, had I stayed in, I’d have never met my wife of 27 years, nor would I have the two great kids I have today. So, everything for a purpose.

Response by SSG Daniel Brewster made Sep 13 at 2020 6:36 PM

SSG Daniel Brewster — Sun, 13 Sep 2020 18:36:52 -0400

Dupe post

Response by TSgt Joseph Martines made Sep 14 at 2020 2:26 PM

TSgt Joseph Martines — Mon, 14 Sep 2020 14:26:32 -0400

A veteran is a person willing to write a "Carte Blanche" to their country no matter what the time frame. The balloon could've went up at anytime. You were there on the wall, standing watch, OS or CONUS. You done your time.

Response by PO1 Steve Ditto made Sep 20 at 2020 9:51 PM

PO1 Steve Ditto — Sun, 20 Sep 2020 21:51:42 -0400

I understand YOUR question and will get to it in a second. But first I have one for you SPA RICHARD ZACKE. Do you consider yourself a VETERN? If so then you have answered your own question, other wise then I will attempt to answer it for you. If you served over 180 day on Active Duty and was discharged with something other then a BCD. Then when someone thanks you for your service just say " Well thank you, but No thanks need, as I would have done it all over again." Or you could use what ever you desire. This is just what I use, But I served from 71-91 while also spend time in Viet Nam, then the rest of my time on Submarines.

Response by CPO Christian Simonsen made Sep 21 at 2020 7:11 AM

CPO Christian Simonsen — Mon, 21 Sep 2020 07:11:39 -0400

I was in the Navy from 1972-1992 and served as an FTG in submarines. My job was to put ordnance on target and I was good at it. I only feel guilty for being thanked for doing something I genuinely enjoyed. Kind of like coming out of the woods with a fresh killed deer and being thanked by a jogger for hunting.

Response by CPO Jack De Merit made Sep 22 at 2020 2:40 PM

CPO Jack De Merit — Tue, 22 Sep 2020 14:40:01 -0400

Why would anyone who served feel guilty about it unless they were dishonorably discharged? I wear my Chief Petty Officer pin everywhere. I earned it. The few who usually say thank you for your service add "Chief." That is because they also served and recognize the insignia. And in reply, I thank them for their service. Very few people who say "thank you," ever served. Those are usually much older people and I am sure that they may have served as well and I ask them. If they did serve I thank them for their service.

Response by CPO Jack De Merit made Sep 23 at 2020 5:35 AM

CPO Jack De Merit — Wed, 23 Sep 2020 05:35:58 -0400

I remember being called a baby killer and being spit on. it was the thing for the draft dodgers to do to make themselves feel important. After I departed from the plane that brought me back from 6 tours in Vietnam I was stopped by a guy who weighed at least 240 pounds and was 6 foot 4 inches tall. I am only 5 foot 9. He yelled, "you baby killing asshole, are you proud of yourself?" Then he spit on my shoes. I pointed at the spit on my shoes and asked him if he spit on them. He said yes. I said look at it. When he did I gave him an uppercut that broke his jaw and knocked him out. His two buddy's came over and I asked them if they had a problem. They said yes, you are going to jail for assault. By then, the Airport Police came over to see what was going on. The guy's Buddys said I attacked their friend. Before I could say anything, two senior citizens came over and said that the big guy attacked me and I defended myself. The buddy's yelled that it was a lie. The Police asked why I would attack someone I did not know just for the hell of it and with such a size difference? They had the Buddys pick up their friend and carry him to First Aid. The senior citizens came over and said, "Thank you for your service. You gave that clown just what he deserved." They walked away and I went home.

Response by SGT Ronald Peter made Sep 26 at 2020 6:21 PM

SGT Ronald Peter — Sat, 26 Sep 2020 18:21:29 -0400

I usually say "You're Welcome" and that's about it. I just wish people had that attitude when I was in, US Army, 11-66 through 11-74.

Response by LCpl John Whittington made Sep 26 at 2020 9:23 PM

LCpl John Whittington — Sat, 26 Sep 2020 21:23:58 -0400

I Respond with (Thank You For The Recognition.)J.Whittington Vietnam Veteran USMC RETIRED,Thank You JESUS.

Response by SPC George Edwards made Sep 27 at 2020 9:10 PM

SPC George Edwards — Sun, 27 Sep 2020 21:10:06 -0400

I served from 1961-64 and spent two years in Germany. At that time, the Berlin Wall was still standing, East & West Germany were divided and Viet Nam was heating up. In 1963, President Kennedy was killed in Dallas and all American military services around the world went on full alert. Our unit was sent up to a hill top near the Fulda Gap and we dug in there and stayed for several days. We were told that if the Russians and East Germans decided to invade, we might last five days and that was it. So ...........no. I don't feel guilty at all. Nor do I expect any thanks.

Response by MAJ Hugh Blanchard made Sep 27 at 2020 10:11 PM

MAJ Hugh Blanchard — Sun, 27 Sep 2020 22:11:40 -0400

Why would any of us be ashamed? I haven't claimed any achievements I didn't perform. In case you missed it, we in fact did lose people, many of them, during the Cold War. I lost an incredible young SSG to a heart attack during that time. There were small fights and clandestine operations all along the border during the Cold War, and these created casualties on both sides. And, by the way, we were at some points about 30 minutes away from a real conventional war in that period. That included the exercise Able Archer 1983, which the Russians falsely believed to be a run-up to a real NATO attack on the Soviet Union.
The American and Allied service members who served during the Cold War deserve the thanks they receive. Had we not been there and ready, there very well could have been a large war with the Soviet Union and Warsaw Pact nations, and it might well have ended in a global nuclear war.

Response by MAJ William Newton made Sep 28 at 2020 8:49 PM

MAJ William Newton — Mon, 28 Sep 2020 20:49:57 -0400

No, not in the least. It's wonderful to be appreciated for what we did nearly 50 years ago ... at times it seems like last week.

Response by Col Richard Roessler made Sep 28 at 2020 8:50 PM

Col Richard Roessler — Mon, 28 Sep 2020 20:50:02 -0400

I started in 1984; I wanted to do my small part to deter the USSR from attacking my country. I later became an Artillery Officer when the life expectancy of an Arty Officer in the Fulda Gap, should war start with the USSR was less than 3 minutes.
If someone poked fun at my initial service as a member of the Armed Forces if the United States defending my nation from all enemies foreign and domestic, I would tell them where they could shove their contempt.
You VOLUNTEERED to serve our nation and served honorably. To those who think otherwise I would ask, ‘Where did you serve,’ because only a coward who had never served would make such a stupid statement.
Face it, you are a veteran, just like everyone else. Oh, and thanks for your service sir!

Response by LTC Darrell Angleton made Oct 5 at 2020 4:33 PM

LTC Darrell Angleton — Mon, 05 Oct 2020 16:33:53 -0400

The only thing you can control regarding your military service is to serve honorably. The civilians decide where we go and when we pull the trigger. Also, President Reagan's build up (IMHO) made the Soviet Union "throw in the towel". The enemy respected our military and decided not to compete with it any longer. So, take the comment with a modest "thank you" and know that you did your duty honorably. Because you could have been called to "Pull the Trigger" at any time.

Response by PO2 Paul Dempsey made Oct 14 at 2020 6:07 PM

PO2 Paul Dempsey — Wed, 14 Oct 2020 18:07:33 -0400

Not at all. My ship the Blandy DD 943 did radar picket of the coast of Iraq and Iran.. was the first tin can since WWii to do port visits to some of these middleast ports.. had the pleasure of being in heavy seas with the superstructure was cracking port and starboard sides just after of the mess decks so bad she was decommissioned apon return to port. Lost power about 2am one night in 45 foot seas and went dead in the water for a few minutes until the boilers got relit. If you ever gone dead in the water in 45 foot seas at night its something to never forget. So I thank them for recognizing that service

Response by PO2 Paul Dempsey made Oct 14 at 2020 7:04 PM

PO2 Paul Dempsey — Wed, 14 Oct 2020 19:04:53 -0400

Same here. No body thought much of us until 9/1. That said thx for doing service when most wouldnt. I appreciate you brother

Response by LCpl Kenneth Heath made Oct 18 at 2020 3:05 AM

LCpl Kenneth Heath — Sun, 18 Oct 2020 03:05:30 -0400

No, I do not feel guilty. I served 1982-1985. THAT is service, I performed it, and their thanks are justified. Mostly I tell them "Thank You, I served during the cold war" if they seem sincere... If it seems like an obligatory rote statement lacking in sincerity, (like the throw-away statements made by a salesman saying "Good Morning/afternoon/evening"), I'll usually just say "thanks".

I look at it this way; I earned the title of Marine just the same way every other Marine did. In the absence of hot contact, we still had to maintain the same readiness, train just the same, and remain physically and mentally prepared. I liken it to building a race car that never got to go to the track because the track was closed. It's not the car's fault it never got to run!

I have had combat Vets from our recent skirmishes tell me I was lucky I didn't get to go get shot at, blown up and/or killed. After going through it, they'd just as soon not.

What matters is the respect we have for each other.

Response by MSgt Janice Trojan made Oct 23 at 2020 1:30 AM

MSgt Janice Trojan — Fri, 23 Oct 2020 01:30:36 -0400

Well, great question. Vietnam really was a sad point in our lives. Those Veterans deserve honor. Thank you truly for a thankless job done. Yes on cold war but I was not facing, spit, piss and the enemy. The hate today is that same hate! God Bless America. I am still standing on watch.

Response by SPC Steven Depuy made Oct 23 at 2020 1:27 PM

SPC Steven Depuy — Fri, 23 Oct 2020 13:27:16 -0400

My father served in Vietnam, my son did a combat tour in Iraq. I drank beer in West Germany. I usually tell people, thank you for your kindness, but to me, the hero's are those who are serving now and have served in my lifetime since Desert Storm began. I served my country, it was all I could do. But to me, I feel like a AA ball player, and these guys today are Major League baseball players. Do I take my military discount at Lowes, sure. Do I parade around in a tight fitting uniform acting like I am some kind of bad ass because I served 40 years ago, not really. I am glad for the respect most give the vets today. As you said, we were in during a period where we were viewed as baby killers and it was not fun going through airports at times.

Response by Cpl David Klassen made Oct 24 at 2020 2:20 AM

Cpl David Klassen — Sat, 24 Oct 2020 02:20:58 -0400

Not at all. The Marines had several engagements where war was never declared, but were fought regardless. Before the the first Golf war there was Grenada, Panama, and numerous other little skirmishes..... Just saying. First to go, last to know.
Semper Fi!

Response by PO2 James Oss made Oct 24 at 2020 9:37 PM

PO2 James Oss — Sat, 24 Oct 2020 21:37:18 -0400

Chief's grey kidd leather gloves.

Response by PV2 Ross Bryan made Oct 25 at 2020 5:20 PM

PV2 Ross Bryan — Sun, 25 Oct 2020 17:20:38 -0400

I HAVE HAD VERY FEW THANK YOUS FOR MY 1963/67 SERVICE IN THE RESERVES!
ABOUT TO BE DRAFTED AND JOINED A NON COMBAT UNIT , AND GOT OUT BEFORE AN MAY 1968 ACTIVATION!
IN 1966 WAS MARRIED TO A WIFE THAT WENT
GOO-GOO FOR GREEN BERETS AND WANTED ME TO TRANSFER TO A BERETS RESERVE UNIT!! DIDNT HAPPEN, MUCH TO HER CONSTERNATION!
TODAY IF SOMEONE THANKS ME FOR MY SERVICE IN THOSE DAYS I TELL THEM I DONT DESERVE IT, THANK THE GUYS WHO REALLY SERVED!
WHAT I DID 1964 TILL END OF VIETNAM WAS WORK IN THE RAILROAD SHOPS, KEEPING
THE TRAINS ROLLING!
ANOTHER GROUP OF PEOPLE NEEDING A THANK YOU IS THOSE WHO ARE ESSENTIAL WORKERS DURING THIS COVID EPIDEMIC!

Response by CW4 Jim Shelburn made Oct 25 at 2020 11:21 PM

CW4 Jim Shelburn — Sun, 25 Oct 2020 23:21:00 -0400

Why on earth would I feel guilty? I served 2 years in Vietnam as an Army helicopter pilot, a total of 9 years Army active service, 5 years Army Reserve, and 12 years in the Army National Guard. I’m proud that I served during those years. The question makes no sense.

Response by SSG Michael Doolittle made Oct 26 at 2020 12:04 AM

SSG Michael Doolittle — Mon, 26 Oct 2020 00:04:49 -0400

June 1962 to April 1970.... 11B40 & 11C40 first overseas duty was Korea 1963, I was there when JFK was killed and we thought WWIII was about to begin... A Drill Sgt at Fort Ord California 1964 bayonet training then to Germany 1965... Vietnam December 1966 to July 1968, A Company 3/22 inf, 3rd Brigade 4th ID (with the 25th) and the Battle of Soui Tre March 21, 1967 though most of you never heard of it... Single day largest loss for the NVA VC 881 KIA, Fire Support Base Gold, commanded by LTC John Vessey, who went on to be Chairman JCS and it was that battle and a DSC (his second) that saved his career... We lost 55 KIA on that battlefield and over 200 WIA.... There were dozens of smaller battles, many dozen more firefights, and sadly many more KIA's & WIA's... While I was in Vietnam MLK was killed and then RFK.... The worst period in US Military History after WWII & Korea, our Brigade and the 25th ID suffered very high casualties...

Response by SP5 Edwin Overstreet made Oct 26 at 2020 8:06 AM

SP5 Edwin Overstreet — Mon, 26 Oct 2020 08:06:56 -0400

The only guilt I feel is that I lived while so many young men died in the Republic Of Vietnam .

Response by A1C Gus Mimikos made Oct 26 at 2020 1:00 PM

A1C Gus Mimikos — Mon, 26 Oct 2020 13:00:40 -0400

For those of us who served during the draft years and were called upon involuntarily some of us had no choice but to serve so there is and should be no guilt. Anyone who put on a Uniform from any era and served during Peacetime or Wartime should bear no guilt. We owe no guilt to those who lie in Flanders Field to Arlington Cemetery and wherever fallen Soldiers who paid the Ultimate Price. There is no Guilt once we raise our right hand at the recruiting station and receiving a DD-214. Nothing I cherish more and should all Veterans is the Honorable Discharge Certificate. The DD-256.That I have on display next to my pic in my Dress blues. So when someone asks, I always say' " Thank You for thinking of me and all of my buddies."
To All my Fellow Veterans on Here Please join a Veteran Organization, if you haven't Please Uncle Sam needs you again.

Response by MSgt Daniel Day made Oct 26 at 2020 9:44 PM

MSgt Daniel Day — Mon, 26 Oct 2020 21:44:17 -0400

Since I went in the USAF in 1973, I missed almost all of Vietnam. During my 20 yrs not much happened that Civil Engineering Squadrons would get involved in. So when someone say's "Thank you for your service" I do feel a little guilty. Although I did my part as service member, I did not see conflict. I know most of the "guilt" is in my head. (just saying)

Response by SSG Jim Kissane made Oct 27 at 2020 7:51 AM

SSG Jim Kissane — Tue, 27 Oct 2020 07:51:42 -0400

Served. 69-75. We stood up when other civilians stepped back. Never liked the idea of fighting a war against an ideology vs a sovereign nation. Ideologies don't accept defeat & surrender. But defending our national interests is ALWAYS something I'll be proud of. The oath we swore I take more seriously than do many govt officials today.

Response by SSgt John M Jensen made Oct 27 at 2020 9:20 AM

SSgt John M Jensen — Tue, 27 Oct 2020 09:20:53 -0400

I understand that they do not understand; To myself and, I believe, most vets of my era, answering the call to serve (through conscription or as a volunteer) in some branch of the armed forces was expected. (The vast majority of us had fathers and uncles and cousins who had served in WW II and Korea). Quite honestly, being thanked for this is akin to being thanked for breathing.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 27 at 2020 9:46 AM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 27 Oct 2020 09:46:45 -0400

I was in from 74-85 and if anyone thought that it was "Cold" they have no idea of the Powder Keg that was Ramstein AB and let me tell you, the pilots were going more and more tense, even the T-39 and UH-1 types and although I didn't face live fire, I have no reservations about saying thank yous. Why? Well we can help preserve the ones who did. MIGs coming way too close and particularly in the Corridors. Fortunately we weather people worked in the frame room in the Command Post. It was fun at times and also a bit scary! COL Mikel J. Burroughs SPC Richard Zacke

Response by SGT Jim Stark made Oct 27 at 2020 4:56 PM

SGT Jim Stark — Tue, 27 Oct 2020 16:56:34 -0400

I agree with you Richard, I feel the same as you. I served from 1967 to 1971 with two tours in Viet Nam (Pleiku). I remember feeling the hatred from the time I got off the plane from RVN to going to the VA for help. That's right, the VA.....they didn't think too much of us either. Don't think I'll ever get over it. I feel awkward when I'm thanked but truly appreciate the service of the troops that have served since me. Don't like being thanked for something I felt was a duty.

Response by SPC Vince Yarbrough made Oct 27 at 2020 5:59 PM

SPC Vince Yarbrough — Tue, 27 Oct 2020 17:59:11 -0400

I was in from 86 - 90 and remember being looked down at and called a baby killer. When people first started saying thank you for your service I felt embarrassed, I did not join to be thanked. Now I just feel that it is so cliche that people feel they need to say it.

Response by SFC Clifton Brown made Oct 27 at 2020 6:03 PM

SFC Clifton Brown — Tue, 27 Oct 2020 18:03:35 -0400

Take the compliment for what it is and savor it, Richard. Times (like people) have changed since then. Citizens are genuinely giving us the 'thunder' that we didn't receive back then, and it makes me feel good.

Response by PO3 Dennis Bullard made Oct 27 at 2020 6:40 PM

PO3 Dennis Bullard — Tue, 27 Oct 2020 18:40:34 -0400

War is a terrible thing and my heart goes out to our young men and women who have served through these trying times. I am very proud of our war veterans. I just wish that the government would take better care of them. However, we all took an oath that is for life. I try to honor it every day.

Response by CPO Gerald Burns made Oct 27 at 2020 6:56 PM

CPO Gerald Burns — Tue, 27 Oct 2020 18:56:04 -0400

Why would I feel guilty ? I served my time and was mobilized several times in 20 years but was never in combat. As a Corpsman, we did not have to see battle to see terrible wounds and death. It was around us all the time. I just say thank you for them acknowledging me. Some people feel offended if you do not answer, that is their problem not mine. I served my country and was away from my wife and children a lot. I had many sacrifices that I did for my country and I was proud to serve.

Response by CPL Kenneth Kahn made Oct 27 at 2020 7:57 PM

CPL Kenneth Kahn — Tue, 27 Oct 2020 19:57:07 -0400

Guilty? No. Awkward? Yes. I don’t feel I’m “stealing” anything - I served (in CONUS and the FRG) and was more than ready to take on whatever duties were required. Not my fault that Vietnam ended while I was in AIT or that no other conflicts started during my service. But, yes, that was the era of “baby killers” and never wearing a uniform off base to avoid conflict so to now be “thanked” is awkward.

Response by CPT Candice C. made Oct 28 at 2020 12:25 AM

CPT Candice C. — Wed, 28 Oct 2020 00:25:14 -0400

Absolutely not. I served from 1982-1990. I was at Ft Bragg when we went to Grenada and in Panama for the 3 years leading up to Operation Just Cause. Those were small events, but we were always ready for whatever kicked off. I transitioned into Blackhawks right out of flight school, but when I got to Bragg I couldn't fly them as they were only found in the 82nd, and women couldn't fly in those units at that time. I figure my service helped pave the way for the opportunities that women have now. My husband and I raised our sons to believe in serving, and they are career soldiers with 3 combat tours each in Iraq and Afghanistan. I feel as though my service extends beyond the operations in which I participated.

Response by FN Charlie Spivey made Oct 28 at 2020 9:32 AM

FN Charlie Spivey — Wed, 28 Oct 2020 09:32:39 -0400

I have only been thanked maybe 3 people thank me for my service. The last time, I went in for a cardiac stress test and had a Coast Guard Veteran Mask on and got thanked then. Most times they had no idea, as I didn't wear a ball cap all that often. Have a ball cap that says U.S. Coast Guard Vietnam Veteran with the the ribbons, that I will wear from time to to time. Pretty much get ignored. I remember I didn't on New Years Eve in Times Square, 31 Dec. '68 and it wasn't thank you for your service either. I had been back less than a year at that point.

Response by SN William Golden made Oct 28 at 2020 11:34 AM

SN William Golden — Wed, 28 Oct 2020 11:34:09 -0400

Why should we feel guilty? Any person who puts on a military uniform is serving the American people. In the 60's many of us did not have a choice to go. As a veteran I appreciate the acknowledgement. I thank those who are serving now and to those that have returned. And thank the families of the men and women that did not come home

Response by Sgt Joe LoParo made Oct 28 at 2020 12:20 PM

Sgt Joe LoParo — Wed, 28 Oct 2020 12:20:16 -0400

I respond that if they truly want to thank a veteran, than be the kind of American that is worth dying for. Those are the men that truly deserve it.

Response by SMSgt Michael Gleason made Oct 28 at 2020 1:49 PM

SMSgt Michael Gleason — Wed, 28 Oct 2020 13:49:59 -0400

Not at all!! Training at an Infantry training center that was sending 98% of the troops to Vietnam, my class got orders for Germany. I, however, was sent to Korea (the other "short 'hardship' tour"). Even those who remained stationed in CONUS still served! I, too, remember being called "baby killer' and being spat upon! It wasn't until President Reagan was in office that societal attitudes seemed to change to a more positive outlook.

Response by MSG Nathaniel Higginbotham made Oct 28 at 2020 4:45 PM

MSG Nathaniel Higginbotham — Wed, 28 Oct 2020 16:45:51 -0400

I don't feel guilty just uncomfortable. Served from 69 to 99 and always felt I was doing the job I signed up for.

Response by SPC Jon Kelly made Oct 28 at 2020 8:22 PM

SPC Jon Kelly — Wed, 28 Oct 2020 20:22:44 -0400

Absolutely not! John Milton: Those who stand and wait also serve. I enlisted for three years and was willing to do whatever I was asked to do.

Response by SP6 Philip R. Ronco made Oct 28 at 2020 8:43 PM

SP6 Philip R. Ronco — Wed, 28 Oct 2020 20:43:09 -0400

Do not feel guilty! I served proudly!! SP6 Philip R Ronco

Response by TSgt David Whitmore made Oct 28 at 2020 10:23 PM

TSgt David Whitmore — Wed, 28 Oct 2020 22:23:42 -0400

Nope!
When I was a teenager I volunteered at a local ambulance service; and worked with men that served in Vietnam and in Korea. They were terrific men, they inspired me. I learned a lot from them, and when I had the opportunity, I tried to enlist. Unfortunately, this was just about the time the Vietnam War was ending and I was told there would be a lengthy wait.
I finally enlisted in 1978.
I hold these men in high esteem.

Response by MCPON Clifford Bartyzal made Oct 29 at 2020 10:59 AM

MCPON Clifford Bartyzal — Thu, 29 Oct 2020 10:59:56 -0400

1948 till 1972-dont thank me--it was a honor to serve my country and made me a better man

Response by Sgt Michael Clifford made Oct 29 at 2020 11:41 AM

Sgt Michael Clifford — Thu, 29 Oct 2020 11:41:14 -0400

Everyone who raises their right hand and takes the oath to serve is deserving of thanks. During their time of active or reserve service they are available and ready to serve the nation in whatever capacity the country requires. Whether it be combat, fire fighting or humanitarian missions they are serving. Everyone who has served understands that how or where you serve is not in your hands. You go where the civilian command authority directs you to go.

If you have worn the uniform of the United States be proud of what you did and accept the thanks of others who also appreciate what you have done.
Semper Fi.

Response by SFC James Corona made Oct 29 at 2020 4:20 PM

SFC James Corona — Thu, 29 Oct 2020 16:20:02 -0400

Hell No!
I served during, NOT IN Iraq, Persian Gulf and IN THE COLD WAR. Many soldiers died in terrorist attacks in the last one but fate intervened during my 20 year Army Service.
I take a bow to War Veterans but do not feel inferior in any way, shape or form. ALL THE WAY!

Response by PO2 Ken Derickson made Oct 29 at 2020 4:42 PM

PO2 Ken Derickson — Thu, 29 Oct 2020 16:42:09 -0400

I was proud of my service (1960-1965), it was one of the best things that happened to me, so no I do not feel guilty. As for the hating liberals of the 60's and 70's, I treated them like spoiled, ill-informed children that they were. Why feel guilty about serving during the Nam war, when the culprits were the politicians, not the military. However, today so many thank you for your service out of guilt rather than sincerity. Most military personnel deserve our thanks and support, especially in the enlisted ranks.

Response by Maj James Tippins made Oct 29 at 2020 4:58 PM

Maj James Tippins — Thu, 29 Oct 2020 16:58:55 -0400

For veterans who served from 1960-80s, do you feel guilty when someone says "Thank you for you service"?
_____________

Nah. Just say "Thank you!" back to them and let it go. I wear a hat these days that says USAF Retired with a gold oak leaf on it; I get thanked all the time.

The protesters during Nam were stupid; they attacked the troops when they should have been attacking the policymakers and the munitions manufacturers. Those folks made money off the war, ground-pounders, sailors and aviators paid with blood. And the people of Vietnam paid with loosing their freedom to Communism because our leaders didn't fight to win. Enough soapbox.

Some of us also did the Cold War. We were either damn successful or the Rooskies figured they'd just change their tactics. Hard to say which, because the "winning" caused us to scale back and RIFs took place. The Soviet Union just changed their name when the wall came down but kept doing the same stuff.

As to "Thank you..." I'm not sure which engagement caused the public to start saying thanks. I'm guessing Middle East, but they really started saying it a lot during Trumps administration.

I went to early vote yesterday and a stranger in front of me opened the door for me and said the thank you. It's an amazing switch from the 70's. Sometimes when we are out to eat the waitress offers us the discount ( the hat) without asking.

Remember, when they say thank you, they are not saying you were a bad-ass mofo that played Rambo; they are recognizing the sacrifice you made as a civilian to support the United States as a military member. I always think about that.

When I served, the very best years of my life went into the USAF. My friends and other engineers were completely free to do what they wanted to do with their lives. They earned two to three times or more what I did doing similar jobs. Anybody who sacrifices the best part of their lives to serve the Nation deserves a thank you. It seems some Americans actually realize it now.

I'm not bothered at all when a person recognizes the service I provided to the Nation. In fact, I think they actually feel good saying it!

Response by PO2 Ken Derickson made Oct 29 at 2020 4:58 PM

PO2 Ken Derickson — Thu, 29 Oct 2020 16:58:55 -0400

You served your time and deserve recognition, after all many people nowadays do not serve and have disdain for the military. I do not see how you are stealing their thunder. I served from 1960 to 1965 and was proud the time I served, since it taught me skills and helped me get my head screwed on right. As for all the spoiled and uninformed liberals and their radical puppet masters of the 60s and 70s, I just ignored them. It was the politicians that should be blamed for the Nam. It is certainly questionable, whether we should have been in this war, but once the politicians made the decision to go to war, they should have let the military do their job, without political quarterbacking. The war could have been won, instead a lot of military personnel died, were wounded and families forced to suffer grief, because of political mismanagement. Not to take anything away from today's military or to dishonor those that gave their lives in more recent wars and interventions, but they were less severe than Nam, thanks to technological improvements and more decisive actions.

Response by SP6 Peter Kreutzfeldt made Oct 29 at 2020 5:34 PM

SP6 Peter Kreutzfeldt — Thu, 29 Oct 2020 17:34:14 -0400

I just say "thanks, it got me out of the house for a bit"

Response by PFC Craig Karshner made Oct 29 at 2020 5:53 PM

PFC Craig Karshner — Thu, 29 Oct 2020 17:53:35 -0400

Why would we feel guilty? To us who served that seems a lame ass question. No matter when we served we did something that less then 1 percent of Americans did. HELL NO I DON'T FEEL GUILTY. I think the Vietnam Vets deserve a parade. God bless America

Response by CPT Pstrick Stephens made Oct 29 at 2020 6:12 PM

CPT Pstrick Stephens — Thu, 29 Oct 2020 18:12:53 -0400

No embarrassment here. I did my time and went home

Response by SPC Ken Kellar made Oct 29 at 2020 8:52 PM

SPC Ken Kellar — Thu, 29 Oct 2020 20:52:35 -0400

I was drafted and served with the 25th Infantry C 1/27 then was reassigned to the 196th LIB A Co 3/21. Pres.Nixon gave us a 6 month early out. I only served 18 months in the Army with 11 months and 20 days in Vietnam. I tell them thanks you but I don't go into full detail. I do feel for some of the soldiers that serve more than 1 tour in a combat zone. I served in Vietnam Jan 71 to Dec. 71.
SP4 Ken Kellar

a

Response by Cpl George Goodwin made Oct 30 at 2020 8:17 AM

Cpl George Goodwin — Fri, 30 Oct 2020 08:17:13 -0400

We all serve when it is our time to serve. We never know when armed conflict will start and what our part in it will be. Even in time of conflict, a vast majority of service members will not serve in theater. The only person who should feel guilty about it is those who know they were slackers.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 30 at 2020 5:56 PM

COL Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 30 Oct 2020 17:56:28 -0400

Why??? No reason to feel guilty. I did what was asked of me. Many others during that era crossed the border and hid in Canada. They are the ones who should feel guilty.

Response by CPL Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 31 at 2020 5:53 PM

CPL Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 31 Oct 2020 17:53:18 -0400

If you took the oath. And as we said back in the day. You were in boots. Then you gave up your civil liberties and gave your word that you would die if nessery. To defend the constitution of the United States. It’s not your fault ,then agian maybe It’s because you served. The Soviet Union was defeated to break up the union. So yes if you served your dam well entitled to a thank you for your service. Remember the best peace is won without conflict. Thank you fro your service my Brother in arms.

Response by LTC Ronald Stephens made Nov 1 at 2020 8:04 AM

LTC Ronald Stephens — Sun, 01 Nov 2020 08:04:02 -0500

Why should we feel guilty? I did my time on the DMZ in Korea from 1967-68 as an Imjin Scout. We policed our half of the "Z" and damn near as often as not we swapped lead with the NK's. For those of us on the DMZ, that war was nothing like cold. Over the intervening years between the armistice being signed and today we have sustained hundreds of KIAs. I also did my time in VN as a commissioned officer and an artilleryman. I am a bit of a cynic when someone "thanks me for my service." I would have been nice had it been more timely e.g. when I came home from VN. No, not one damn bit guilty.

Response by SPC Matt Ovaska made Nov 1 at 2020 11:50 AM

SPC Matt Ovaska — Sun, 01 Nov 2020 11:50:11 -0500

I lell them that I had nothing to do with it, since I was drafted(selected by my friends and neighbors!)

Response by MAJ John Douglas made Nov 2 at 2020 10:03 PM

MAJ John Douglas — Mon, 02 Nov 2020 22:03:44 -0500

Why would I feel guilty? I was subject to combat and was there if called. You should feel guilty even asking such a question.

Response by PV2 Glen Lewis made Nov 4 at 2020 11:52 AM

PV2 Glen Lewis — Wed, 04 Nov 2020 11:52:32 -0500

I think the only one who ever did that was my best friend. Mostly I was was treated with a :cold shoulder" for having served during Vietnam era. It didn't really make me all that popular. Best thing was that I did what I wanted and didn't care what others thought about it. I just wondered why they hadn't.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 6 at 2020 3:34 PM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 06 Nov 2020 15:34:55 -0500

Bottom line, if you joined and served honorably, and were ready to go wherever needed, then you have every right to take pride in your service.

Response by SFC Chuck Martinez made Nov 7 at 2020 9:58 AM

SFC Chuck Martinez — Sat, 07 Nov 2020 09:58:19 -0500

Not at all, I always wear my Vietnam war purple heart hat, I get thank you for your service quite a bit! While I was never a fan of the Vietnam War, I am still proud of serving my country in different capacities!!

Response by CDR William Kempner made Nov 7 at 2020 11:24 AM

CDR William Kempner — Sat, 07 Nov 2020 11:24:25 -0500

I served on active duty from 1972-1994 with a few breaks. As others have said the "Cold War" was real, and it was a BIG DEAL that we won!! While I was in Desert Storm near the end, without trying to anger anyone, that was a side show. The TWO BIGGEST conflicts of the 20th Century were WW II and The Cold War, and thank God we won both of them!! EVERYBODY who served honorably contributed!! remember that. For those of us who served in or during Viet Nam and were treated poorly (I was), look at it as an effort to make things right, and say "Glad to " or "You're Welcome".

Response by SMSgt Bob Wilson made Nov 10 at 2020 4:33 PM

SMSgt Bob Wilson — Tue, 10 Nov 2020 16:33:58 -0500

Guilty? NO. Pissed off? YES. The US was trying to make the "...world a better place..." [yes some of us believed that]. The truth was Viet Nam had to potential for offshore oil, and precious metals such as gold and copper. We killed a lot of monkeys and gorillas adding them to our daily "body count". Remember the evening news: "...In Viet Nam today the US killed 2300 guerrilla insurgents in the Tay Ninh Province. The Americans lost 5 men with 12 injured in the fire fight..."

Today, we are fighting a "cleaner war" over oil in the "sand box".

Response by Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 10 at 2020 10:25 PM

Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 10 Nov 2020 22:25:41 -0500

Peace, Security, and Safety is the result of every one who serves. Your contribution is the same as everyone who has served in the United States Military. The only people who question your service are the ones who never served. Thank you for your service!

Response by Amn Richard Bourque made Nov 11 at 2020 10:44 PM

Amn Richard Bourque — Wed, 11 Nov 2020 22:44:39 -0500

I wasin USAF 1958 thru1964. Flight line refueling POL SPECIALIST. SAC F86 Sabre jets 133rd Fighter Squadron. Later shanged to 158th MATS Military Air Transport Service C97's

Response by SSG Alexander Drinkwater made Nov 12 at 2020 10:18 AM

SSG Alexander Drinkwater — Thu, 12 Nov 2020 10:18:38 -0500

Feel guilty? Hell no! I spent the last 3 years of the 1960s in the Army including 1 year in Nam. In the '70s and '80s I was an analyst at DIA helping to win the Cold War. Guilty about what?

Response by PO2 Andrew Carpenter made Nov 13 at 2020 4:14 PM

PO2 Andrew Carpenter — Fri, 13 Nov 2020 16:14:24 -0500

Guilty? Not even remotely!! Assuming ammunition wasn't sparked during this time, would be an error. It's the time when covert ops were the norm and by definition, at the time you wouldn't know about them. I was in from 1975 to 1983. Wounded in 1979, scared all the time, but I didn't FEEL scared. Yet I must omit any details. My oath of enlistment was clear... We don't cause the circumstances to appear, but we have to be ready 100% of the time to protect and defend. And We Were... Surviving Boot Camp alone is worthy enough... My family has served since before the Revolutionary War, thanking me for my service is kind but not necessary... Men and Women of my ilk, will serve Honorably anyway...

Response by SSG Rick Miller made Nov 14 at 2020 12:58 PM

SSG Rick Miller — Sat, 14 Nov 2020 12:58:33 -0500

I don't feel guilty at all, not do I feel particularly comfortable with the whole "thank you for your service" thing. I didn't do it for anybody's thanks, I did it because I wanted to.

Response by SGT Steve McFarland made Nov 16 at 2020 7:48 PM

SGT Steve McFarland — Mon, 16 Nov 2020 19:48:17 -0500

Not in the least bit, because, once we raise our hand and take the oath of enlistment, we lose control of what may be required of us during our term of service, which may include going into combat, regardless of whether we ever saw combat.

Response by Cpl Vic Burk made Nov 16 at 2020 8:22 PM

Cpl Vic Burk — Mon, 16 Nov 2020 20:22:21 -0500

Nobody who has served in the military should feel guilty for being thanked for their service. Whether you served in wartime or peacetime we served putting ourselves in harms way knowing that should the calling to war be declared we may very well be going and risking everything up to and including the cost of our life to keep our country or those we protected free. I volunteered for the Marines, went and served my country as directed by the president of the United States and all those above me in charge. Hell no, I don't feel guilty but I am very humble. I always just say, "Your Welcome" or "My pleasure." It is about time the public realizes what the military means to this great country. It is a big change from the 1960's coming back from Vietnam, a welcome change.

Response by Cpl Roger Cortez made Dec 5 at 2020 3:02 PM

Cpl Roger Cortez — Sat, 05 Dec 2020 15:02:09 -0500

When people acknowledge my service in the Marine Corps. Them: "Thank you for your service." Me: "and thank you for acknowledging my service. It is appreciated." This eliminates the standard and toxic positivity response and in a sense views the person making the comment in a positive light. It's satisfying to see and feel the sincerity afterwards.

Response by CPL Gail White made Dec 5 at 2020 3:05 PM

CPL Gail White — Sat, 05 Dec 2020 15:05:00 -0500

No. I wore a uniform for 3 years. If there is no peace time military there is no military to stop potential aggression. I signed the contract and served my country.

Response by PVT John Maloney made Dec 5 at 2020 5:35 PM

PVT John Maloney — Sat, 05 Dec 2020 17:35:06 -0500

Although I was not called upon to serve in combat, the Vietnam War was still going on when I enlisted.
I served in the Second Armored Division which hadn't been in combat since WW2 and has since been deactivated. We were told that war in Europe was likely. That the Soviets would launch a conventional attack on NATO forces in Western Europe and that our troops would be overrun but could hopefully mount enough of a defense to stop the Communists at the Rhine. Then the 2nd Armored and most of the rest of the Army would be sent to push them back.
Oh, and at that time, battlefield nuclear weapons were expected to be used.
No, I don't feel guilty.

Response by Lt Col Demetrio Aguila made Dec 6 at 2020 12:33 AM

Lt Col Demetrio Aguila — Sun, 06 Dec 2020 00:33:54 -0500

I served from 1992-2014, in the Air Force, having deployed 7 times. I came back to NYC in December 2001 after having been rolled over from ONW into the very beginning of OEF. I had to go somewhere in uniform, and I remember being spit on and having stuff thrown at me and rude comments hurled at me in the subway in 2001, a few months after the towers fell, so I sympathize. As a combat veteran, I tell everyone that rather than telling veterans, of any generation, “thank you for your service,” we should instead say “thank you for your sacrifices.” Regardless of whether we were in the field dodging bullets or back at base / in garrison driving a desk, every single one of us made a sacrifice to put on the uniform and uphold what the uniform symbolizes. Some of us postponed or gave up civilian opportunities, others gave up lucrative careers, and some gave up time away from their families, in exercises, drills, “war games,” or other such duties. We all sacrificed in our own way, and so I would encourage you not to downplay your role. Every person who has worn the uniform, wears it today, and will ever wear it is a hero to me, and I was humbled and proud to be able to have stood shoulder to shoulder with those heroes, and I am proud to call you my brother. People asked me all the time why I chose a career in the Air Force when I could be making 5 times as much money in the civilian sector. My answer was simple - I would ask them, “if you could spend your days working side-by-side with Superman and Wonder Woman, how could you turn that down?” I thank you for your sacrifices, and I salute you for standing up for the rights that I have today.

Response by SSG Johnnie Vaughn made Dec 6 at 2020 10:47 AM

SSG Johnnie Vaughn — Sun, 06 Dec 2020 10:47:36 -0500

I just usually nod deferentially , and reply with "Thank YOU for the support."

They may not know you from Adam, but they just thanked you for your military service. You may have been the biggest dirt-bag in the military, but for that moment in time you are representing a time-honored profession.

Accept it for what it is. If you downplay your service, you dishonor it as much as if you overstate it.

The people that make sure the paychecks get deposited so the families are taken care of are just as much heroes as the guys on the front lines. The services function because each person has a job to do and do it to the best of their abilities.

Response by PO2 William Alexander made Dec 6 at 2020 12:32 PM

PO2 William Alexander — Sun, 06 Dec 2020 12:32:51 -0500

The first time someone said it me I got upset. I believed they had no idea what they were talking about.

Response by PO2 Stephen LeBard made Dec 6 at 2020 1:58 PM

PO2 Stephen LeBard — Sun, 06 Dec 2020 13:58:47 -0500

I don't feel one bit guilty. I spent holidays and other special family times apart from them because I was busy defending my country and its allies against the USSR (often while being deployed abroad) and honorably served on active duty, with a lesser (but better than the VEAP that my immediate predecessors in the service received) Montgomery GI Bill awaiting me when I got my DD-214.

Response by WO1 Mike Dwyer made Dec 6 at 2020 3:19 PM

WO1 Mike Dwyer — Sun, 06 Dec 2020 15:19:10 -0500

I used to, but then I remembered I quit a great civilian job to serve. I didn't have to enlist, but I did. If someone thanks me I usually just say, "You're very welcome. "

Response by SPC Christopher Perrien made Dec 6 at 2020 5:02 PM

SPC Christopher Perrien — Sun, 06 Dec 2020 17:02:16 -0500

LOL, we won the Cold War, which was quickly and sadly that was forgoten when that stupid Gulf War/ War on Terror started a year later, that was when the "Thank you for your service" started as some Neocon BS. No, I don't care about "Thank You for your service" , unless it is a hot chick who likes old guys LOL. Nah it is history, as am I. I need no thanks from people of today , none understand the military of the times of that era or what it meant. Might as well be an old TV show, to most, seems that way to me too now.

Response by SPC Corey Reichle made Dec 6 at 2020 8:59 PM

SPC Corey Reichle — Sun, 06 Dec 2020 20:59:55 -0500

I feel guilty, and I served from from 99-04, and in wartime.
Because nothing seems deserving of a thank you, when you're going to fight oil wars to line the pockets of billionaires, on the tax payer's dime.

Response by PO2 Jarrett Griffin made Dec 7 at 2020 4:04 PM

PO2 Jarrett Griffin — Mon, 07 Dec 2020 16:04:04 -0500

Response by SFC Robert Strickland made Dec 7 at 2020 6:33 PM

SFC Robert Strickland — Mon, 07 Dec 2020 18:33:39 -0500

Only because I served in the Vietnam War. Other than that, if one has SERVED, whether in war or peace time, that is SERVICE. Ones that served in peace time also "stood in the breach" and served as a deterrent for any potential aggressors. So to all my fellow Veterans here, whether peace time service or war time service, THANK YOU!

Response by SGT George Duncan made Dec 8 at 2020 2:26 PM

SGT George Duncan — Tue, 08 Dec 2020 14:26:30 -0500

i just think if they only new?

Response by SSG Russell Busicchia made Dec 8 at 2020 2:48 PM

SSG Russell Busicchia — Tue, 08 Dec 2020 14:48:49 -0500

I served from 1974 - 1994. Although the Vietnam war was over I was still called "Baby Killer" and other expletives, no one ever thanked me for my service. After the Gulf War people started to thank me for my service. I didn't serve for people to thank me, I have always been proud of my service. Being on both ends of this issue I do feel funny when I'm thanked (I've never been good about receiving compliments). I'm glad that people in general finally get it, but mad that it took a popular war to do it. When it happens I humbly accept ir and moved on. Hopefully, people won't forget our troops in the future.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 14 at 2020 7:14 AM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 14 Dec 2020 07:14:36 -0500

Why would they feel guilty or should they feel guilty? The Key word is "thank you for your service". with is past tense which they served, also we don't know if the person who doing saying thank you'd is talking about for going to war.

Response by MAJ Louis Giamo made Dec 14 at 2020 12:45 PM

MAJ Louis Giamo — Mon, 14 Dec 2020 12:45:18 -0500

I think you need to read your history better. There were quite few incidents from 1978 to 1981 that required military intervention. Also, the military was not just sitting on their hands. Special Forces units did a lot of international training and other activities. The Air Force was constantly running surveillance missions over hostile territory. Navy Spec Ops were busy tapping Soviet underwater lines in some most creative ops ever done.

Response by Capt Seid Waddell made Dec 17 at 2020 4:59 AM

Capt Seid Waddell — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 04:59:13 -0500

No, serving in Viet Nam is no cause for shame.
Being thanked for my service seems like it means more to the person thanking me than it does to me personally. I look at my service as a duty and a privilege.

Response by SGT Mark Moen made Dec 17 at 2020 5:44 PM

SGT Mark Moen — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 17:44:47 -0500

I served from 1986 to 1997, I take the thank you for all those who served before me, both Grandfathers served in WWII. I am most thankful that some actually fought for our Life, Liberty and Pursuit of Happiness more so than serving in Desert Storm, I do not see the benefit to our country for having using us around the world in the affairs that re distant concerns to the ones we face right here, right now. Communism is a crazy creature that has crept into our societies as well as institutions and sold to us as capitalism. It was socialists after all who coined the term capitalist and capitalism, we are a free economy and our form of Republic is for free association not social distancing.

"If our nation is ever taken over, it will be taken over from within." James Madison
"Crisis is the rallying cry of the tyrant." James Madison
"If Tyranny and Oppression come to this land, it will be in the guise of fighting a foreign enemy." James Madison

If I have guilt it is because we are allowing this pestilence in guise of politics destroy our country. The political leadership is claiming Divine Rite Rule or the tyranny of democracy which amounts to they say. These Republics were formed to limit government and through socialistic license our government rules the people who paid us to defend them. I say we have plenty of armed people who need to be rallied to stand against the corporate government which destroys the very reason we serve, Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness, not new laws, new mandates, new rules, new codes, new administration.......

Response by SFC Peter Krarup made Dec 17 at 2020 6:46 PM

SFC Peter Krarup — Thu, 17 Dec 2020 18:46:29 -0500

I don't feel guilty, having served twice, Active Army 1976-1986 & Army Reserve 2005-2015, with a deployment to Afghanistan 2010-2011, but I'm atypical. I served, regardless. I'd respond, "It was my pleasure, thank you for supporting us.". Regardless of the timeframe you served, you did serve when others didn't, so thank you!

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 18 at 2020 11:17 AM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 18 Dec 2020 11:17:59 -0500

I feel proud. It's about time we are recognized for our service: just count all the wars and conflicts taking place during that time.

Response by PO1 Todd B. made Dec 19 at 2020 9:05 PM

PO1 Todd B. — Sat, 19 Dec 2020 21:05:19 -0500

No. Why would I feel guilty when I am one of the few that stood up, took the oath and served my country, regardless if I was in combat or not? In fact, my first two injuries were not combat related or in combat zones. Subsequently, I have served on the line however and those injuries are why I was retired service connected medically.
But I joined the service the first time in 1980 and my first two injuries occurred during that first period, one due to an explosion inside the installation I and my team were tasked with guarding and securing as it was a classified secure location.
So I am applying the question to that first period of time.. Why would I be embarrassed? I served. I was injured on duty during that service. Even if I had not served more and been injured a few more times at later dates, I would still stand proud and anyone that got in my face about it, well they can kiss my ass if they want to try and make light of it.
I don't care if you served as a front line combat boots on the ground type, a pilot, a cook, a radioman, a photographer or any other job.. If you served honorably, if you received an honorable discharge for that service, you damn well should accept a thank you for your service if rendered because YOU SERVED and we, all of us that have, are the minority when you look at the population as a whole..
WE stepped up when MILLIONS do NOT.

Response by SGT Dan Allison made Dec 22 at 2020 10:25 AM

SGT Dan Allison — Tue, 22 Dec 2020 10:25:50 -0500

Guilty? No.
Often chagrined since, judging by the rest of the interaction, because the person mouthing that phrase is doing nothing more than that. Mouthing a soundbite that, as others such as "have a nice day" has become an expected, politically correct yet empty "something to say".

Response by SSgt Dexter Dearth made Dec 22 at 2020 9:43 PM

SSgt Dexter Dearth — Tue, 22 Dec 2020 21:43:04 -0500

I served 1973 till the end of 1979, and sat many a night on Nuclear alert at the end of the runway waiting to go to war. I don't feel guilty at all, but I also won't wear a Vietnam/ERA hat and claim I'm a Vietnam Vet either.

Response by PO3 Michael Cienfuegos made Dec 24 at 2020 1:52 PM

PO3 Michael Cienfuegos — Thu, 24 Dec 2020 13:52:36 -0500

If someone thanks me for my service, I proudly respond. When I returned from my deployment in 1968 I too received a very unwelcome greeting from the misfits at the university where I returned to finish my education. I was proud of my country then, I'm still proud of her today, in spite of the bozos who are trying their best to destroy our way of life. NEVER be ashamed of your military service. If you served, you gave up a part of your life so that others might enjoy their freedom. God bless you and God bless our wonderful country.

Response by MSG Ray Manzano made Dec 24 at 2020 2:34 PM

MSG Ray Manzano — Thu, 24 Dec 2020 14:34:48 -0500

Well I served from 1972 until 2007. And some was in combat, stabilization forces, Germany and the Fulda Gap and humanitarian missions. But I tell soldiers or other military personnel, that the thank you for your service isn't just for the ones of us that served in combat. Only about 1% of our nation has served in the military, if I understand it right. But everyone of them signed that dotted line to serve in the military. And by signing that, they offered to give up their lives for our great nation and never knew wither it was going to be necessary to do it. Just because they didn't deploy, doesn't mean they didn't serve. So I thank all military personnel for their service or we wouldn't have a military.

Response by SGT Ivan Igitol made Dec 27 at 2020 6:43 PM

SGT Ivan Igitol — Sun, 27 Dec 2020 18:43:04 -0500

What matters is that you served your country. Not everyone can do that.
I got in the Army in 1982 and ETS in 1985. Got in the 442 INF Reserve unit for a year then went IRR. I wasn't satisfied, I felt that I didn't serve my country the way I should have. When the conflict in the Middle East started, I wanted to go back in but my family didn't want me to. My oldest daughter then decided to follow my footstep and join the Guard. While chatting with her recruiters they mentioned there was battalion deployment coming up and they're filling up slots to meet requirements. To make story short, I re-enlisted in 2010 meeting the age qualifications and deployed to Afghanistan in 2013.

Response by SSgt Matthew Adams made Dec 29 at 2020 4:05 PM

SSgt Matthew Adams — Tue, 29 Dec 2020 16:05:13 -0500

I served from 1981-1984 in the regular army and then went into the national guard until 2006 then switched to the Vermont Air National guard from 2006 to 2008 and spent 18 months on active duty in Iraq in 2003 -2004 but I believe anybody that has served in any military out fit should be honored no matter when they served and that goes for the coast guard also we all signed our lives on the line for this great country so we do deserve recognition

Response by LCpl Michael Ingram made Dec 31 at 2020 2:04 PM

LCpl Michael Ingram — Thu, 31 Dec 2020 14:04:00 -0500

Anyone who serves in the military from cook to trooper, has done his duty for our country and if you look at it any other way than that, you are wrong to do so, you don't understand what service is if you don't know what i mean.

Response by CPO Larry Stidd made Jan 1 at 2021 8:38 PM

CPO Larry Stidd — Fri, 01 Jan 2021 20:38:57 -0500

Why?? Why would any VETERAN feel guilty.....every veteran signed a blank check for a sum up to and including their lives.....during “ Cold War” I saw death caused by plane crashes, helicopters failing, sea water flooding, broken bones, limbs ripped off from equipment, guys shot and killed by “friendly” fire training accidents....
“Cold War” service was dangerous, and just as important to the service of the country and world.....ANY VET who served during the 1960-2000 era, should be proud of defeating the Soviet Union.....and anyone who isn’t smart enough to see it....well they can kiss my A$$ !!

Response by SPC Furman Whitaker made Jan 5 at 2021 9:50 AM

SPC Furman Whitaker — Tue, 05 Jan 2021 09:50:39 -0500

I served from 1976-1980, in those days we could not where our uniform off post and at that moment considered second class citizens. The war in Vietnam had just ended and no one was thanking us for our service. So I understand why if no conflicts are going on and you served during that time and now those who go into the shit should deserve it more. That being said if during my time someone had given the order we would have been in the middle of it. Considering only 2 percent of this country serve at all. So if someone thanks you for your service say thank you and know you deserve it

Response by Sgt Craig McGlinn made Jan 5 at 2021 4:05 PM

Sgt Craig McGlinn — Tue, 05 Jan 2021 16:05:12 -0500

I'm a Marine, having served 1969-1973, and am a Vietnam Vet; no, I don't feel guilty when thanked for my service- it was my honor, privilege, and duty. I'm not the type of person that goes "fishing" for compliments, although on any given day you'll see me wearing some sort of Military- USMC/Vietnam/Veteran related t-shirt, jacket, cover, etc. That said, I admit that is does make me feel good that service is being recognized and appreciated- I remember all too well when I and my fellow vets came home from Nam and the "reception" we received... I really began to notice "the pendulum swing the other way" when the Desert Storm vets returned home- and it "did my heart good"! My heartfelt thanks to all vets- past, present, and future- who have served, continue to serve, and will serve honorably! Semper Fidelis!

Response by Sgt Anthony Leverington made Jan 11 at 2021 5:28 AM

Sgt Anthony Leverington — Mon, 11 Jan 2021 05:28:11 -0500

I served from 1985 to 1989 during which time, absolutely nothing happened and still, my answer is no, I do not feel guilty when someone says that to me. It doesn't really matter if you were in combat or not. You voluntarily joined knowing full well, being in combat was a possibility during your term of service.
The closest I ever got to any sort of combat was, while TDY to Panama. There were revolutionaries who were against the military (specifically, the American military presence there). They were stirring up trouble all over the country and a few of them managed to find their way onto the base we were at. Six of us were off duty and away from the barracks. As we were heading back, two idiots armed with machete's decided it was a good idea to attack us. Fortunately for us, we'd all had unarmed combat training so, disarming and subduing them took all of about 30 seconds. We then proceeded to take them back with us and handed them over to the MP's, who had already rounded up the rest of them.

Response by SSG Craig Newton made Jan 13 at 2021 5:02 PM

SSG Craig Newton — Wed, 13 Jan 2021 17:02:56 -0500

Not at all. The Cold War was raging and anyone stationed in Europe in particular was always in possible harms way so just because it never hit the fan doesn’t mean we weren’t ready for it to.

Response by TSgt Gary Garvin made Jan 13 at 2021 6:39 PM

TSgt Gary Garvin — Wed, 13 Jan 2021 18:39:05 -0500

Times have changed brother!

Response by A1C Randall Layton made Jan 21 at 2021 10:35 AM

A1C Randall Layton — Thu, 21 Jan 2021 10:35:26 -0500

I learned in the cold war what a tactical loss was. I am not ashamed at all. If the "VICTOR" planes scrambled I was toast as I was assigned to Germany. Practically on the Warsaw Pacts front porch.

Response by SPC Dejan Smaic made Jan 22 at 2021 8:55 AM

SPC Dejan Smaic — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 08:55:04 -0500

No, I don't. But, I do feel weird when fellow vets great each other and exchange "Thank you for your service".

Response by SPC Dejan Smaic made Jan 22 at 2021 8:55 AM

SPC Dejan Smaic — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 08:55:28 -0500

No, I don't. But, I do feel weird when fellow vets great each other and exchange "Thank you for your service".

Response by 1stSgt Dexter Swanstrom made Jan 22 at 2021 9:06 AM

1stSgt Dexter Swanstrom — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 09:06:08 -0500

Mixed feelings for me. It was not pleasant in the 70's. You did not get a warm welcome coming back from overseas. Most people avoided you like a rabid dog. Today its just the opposite and for that I am happy. Do I feel guilty? A little bit. But it reminds me how different it is today than back then, way, way better.

Response by 1SG Thomas Roman made Jan 22 at 2021 9:09 AM

1SG Thomas Roman — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 09:09:52 -0500

I've never felt guilty. However, when someone my age tells me that , while i don't say anything but " Thank You", I wonder where were you in 1968.

Response by SP5 Jim Blakemore made Jan 22 at 2021 11:42 AM

SP5 Jim Blakemore — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 11:42:29 -0500

I used to feel odd, because I served in Germany, until a friend Vietnam Vet tols me to just say, "It was my honor to serve." He said that there were very few that requested combat.

Response by CPO Deborah Simmons made Jan 22 at 2021 11:51 AM

CPO Deborah Simmons — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 11:51:05 -0500

Why would you feel guilty?

Response by MSgt Harold Harris made Jan 22 at 2021 12:24 PM

MSgt Harold Harris — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 12:24:34 -0500

The way I see it, most people were divided on our service in Vietnam. Over the years, however many have accepted that we served when asked and deserve recognition for our service. I don't feel ashamed, I feel recognized.

Response by PFC Kimberly Staiti made Jan 22 at 2021 1:59 PM

PFC Kimberly Staiti — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 13:59:48 -0500

Try widening the timeframe to include the Cold War. We were "not" at war. I think that should change. We fought silently and without the benefits that are reserved for folks who served during the announced Eras. Never had to see combat as a requirement for service. Signing on the dotted line was what mattered.
Not for the Cold War veterans. I'd like to get my hands on the real number of us KIA or permanently injured. I'm pretty sure it'd be enough people to count as a war. I don't speak specifics of my time in. I'd be breaking the oath I didn't take about not speaking of the things I didn't do or see or know because it would give people the idea that we were involved with the things that didn't happen.

I won't forget the ones, the real heroes, who sacrificed the thanks and even the acknowledgement of their sacrifice.

Actuarially, what was the bottom line cost for keeping wars secret? Clearly, the number of people lost in combat decreased, but apparently they enlisted more clumsy people in history. Lotta accidental deaths and disabilities and nobody spent so much time on training, poor things just kept going through accidents...

Response by SGT Harley Howard made Jan 22 at 2021 2:36 PM

SGT Harley Howard — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 14:36:33 -0500

I served from 1974 to 1980. It feels strange somewhat, but I had to get use to it and always return a courteous response to the statement when I hear it. There were many, many men who are much deserving of this than I every hope to have been.

Response by Sgt Paul Laurents made Jan 22 at 2021 4:05 PM

Sgt Paul Laurents — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 16:05:43 -0500

*sigh*
I HATE knowing Americans did that to our servicemen/women. What an embarrassment.
I'm a bit younger and didn't enlist until 1985 so I can't relate to what you went through...just know, when I find a Vietnam Vet, I go out of my way to indeed thank them for going through all that - and I do so, from the heart. I am truly sorry for those that don't like to hear that but - what can I say, I am glad for your service.

Response by SGT Lindsey Stanton made Jan 22 at 2021 4:54 PM

SGT Lindsey Stanton — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 16:54:45 -0500

If you served honorably for your country don’t feel guilty for anything

Response by Capt Kellogg Patton, PhD made Jan 22 at 2021 5:10 PM

Capt Kellogg Patton, PhD — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 17:10:53 -0500

I never know what to say either. My humorous side quips, “Thanks, I joined on a bet I served 23 years.” The typical response is You Joined ON A BET? Then I get to share my experiences, if they are interested.

Response by GySgt Ray Harris made Jan 22 at 2021 8:38 PM

GySgt Ray Harris — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 20:38:57 -0500

The Marine Corps thanked me every month. That is enough for me. Those thirteen years were not done for gratitude (and to be honest, I got quite a bit in return.). Save the thanks for the kids who are coming home from the SandBox by giving them decent employment and fair VA benefits.

Response by LTC Philip Marlowe made Jan 22 at 2021 10:33 PM

LTC Philip Marlowe — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 22:33:44 -0500

I served in the USAF (Enl) and ARMY (Com), AC/RC (combo) from Feb 1970 to July 2012 when I fully retired and the answer to your question is absolutely NOT. I served when a whole lot of others were running to Canada. I heard the 'baby killer' bs but luckily for the other guy, no one spat at me. At that time in my life, that would have probably been a mistake. However, I digress, in 1970 and again in 1971, I was headed to Vietnam and - not of my doing or asking - was diverted TWICE to alternate assignments. I don't apologize for not going to Vietnam and I don't feel guilty. I served in Desert Storm and early deployed with the VII Corps (Rear) 11/1990 and redeployed in June 91 - 7 months later. I later served in Kosovo / Macedonia on a peace keeping tour. SO, when someone thanks me for my service, I simply tell them they are welcome. I appreciate it when they do, but I absolutely do not ever expect it.

Response by SGT Richard Fehrenbacher made Jan 23 at 2021 12:56 AM

SGT Richard Fehrenbacher — Sat, 23 Jan 2021 00:56:34 -0500

Dude. Civilians.

Response by SGT Richard Fehrenbacher made Jan 23 at 2021 12:56 AM

SGT Richard Fehrenbacher — Sat, 23 Jan 2021 00:56:59 -0500

Dude. Civilians.

Response by SSG Bobby Richardson made Jan 23 at 2021 9:08 AM

SSG Bobby Richardson — Sat, 23 Jan 2021 09:08:34 -0500

I served from '74-'85 and, whenever the subject comes up, make it clear that I never saw the inside of a jungle.

But, having said that I recognize, and so do other people, that with all-volunteer enlistment the fact that one is willing to even risk being sent into harm's way is worth being appreciated.

Response by MSgt J D McKee made Jan 23 at 2021 2:08 PM

MSgt J D McKee — Sat, 23 Jan 2021 14:08:12 -0500

Your feelings about that do you credit, but they are not warranted. It wasn't all that Cold, it wasn't open warfare, but....
You probably lived and for nearly certain worked on a nuclear bullseye for 3 years. If you were married, your wife and kids probably did, too. I have seen both hot and cold, and your service is as valid as anyone's. Had the shit hit the fan, you were ready. That is the job when there isn't actual daily shooting.

Response by 1stSgt Ken Holcomb made Jan 23 at 2021 5:47 PM

1stSgt Ken Holcomb — Sat, 23 Jan 2021 17:47:58 -0500

No, I don't feel guilty. But I usually do respond with, "No need to thank me. I got paid twice a month."

Response by MAJ Alan Montgomery made Jan 23 at 2021 6:22 PM

MAJ Alan Montgomery — Sat, 23 Jan 2021 18:22:16 -0500

Guilty for what, coming when my country called? Serving where my country sent me and serving there to the best of my abilities? Stepping up when others, who could, didn't? Going to Vietnam to do war with an enemy because the elected president and congress declared them to be the enemy? I GOT NOTHING to apologize for or feel guilty about though there are many serving in Congress who scurried like rats from a sinking ship to avoid their obligation or hid behind the skirts they wore who now want to break the glass ceiling. Most can't hold a candle to the women I served with. Guilty? Not one day goes by that I feel guilty for the things I've seen or done. The better question is would I do it over again for the American of 2021...

Response by CDR Bob Lange made Jan 24 at 2021 8:30 AM

CDR Bob Lange — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 08:30:47 -0500

After serving on a Destroyer '67-'69 (18 months in WESTPAC), in the Reserves '69-'77, and back on active duty '77-2000, when someone thanks me for my service I tell them, "Thank you for your tax dollars. You still pay me every month."

Response by 1SG Charles Simpson made Jan 24 at 2021 9:29 AM

1SG Charles Simpson — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 09:29:45 -0500

I served from June 1960 to July 1988, My service took me to 53 different countries and I am proud of every minute of that 28 year career. I served in combat, combat support and combat service support and I never considered any one of those categories to be any more or any less important than the other two. I served because I swore an oath to protect and defend my country from all enemies. I was paid for that service and if anyone wanted to say thank you I acknowledged that. If they did not want to thank me, had no bearing on my oath of enlistment. I served to honor my oath to my country and nothing more. No matter what you do in life, if you do it in an honorable manner, be proud of what you do.

Response by SFC Martin King made Jan 24 at 2021 10:59 AM

SFC Martin King — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 10:59:05 -0500

No shame.
We signed a contract and took an oath. Had the call been made, we'd go. Most of the troops who went to Grenada, Panama and the Gulf War had no clue they'd be going when they enlisted/got their commissions. We go when and where we're ordered.
Also, the Cold War wasn't without action that fit every definition of combat except any public admission due to political sensitivities.

If you took the oath and served honorably, you're my warrior brother/sister.

Response by PO2 William Stanley made Jan 24 at 2021 11:23 AM

PO2 William Stanley — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 11:23:15 -0500

For me, when I hear it from a veteran it means something. When I hear it from a trendy forever civilian, especially from my generation, I receive it with a bit of contempt because I think it not sincere but trendy for them to say it.

Response by Cpl Clyde Wason made Jan 24 at 2021 2:01 PM

Cpl Clyde Wason — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 14:01:55 -0500

Im 70 years old. I dont need anyones thanks. I enlisted to be true to my values and because I love my country. People that did not serve in the military telling me thanks has no value. I dont care what they think or feel.

Response by MSgt J D McKee made Jan 24 at 2021 3:35 PM

MSgt J D McKee — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 15:35:14 -0500

I never got spit at. We were required to travel in dress blues when on official orders, and I was stupid enough to do it, because, orders.

At the Atlanta airport in about 1975 I was sitting close to two hippie types, a man and a woman, who started holding a loud conversation mentioning "baby killer" and the like. I don't remember it very well but they did mention that phrase. I broke in on their "private" conversation and said something like "damn, you can't eat LIVE babies, that would just be mean". Then I stared at them for about 30 minutes until they left. They shut up and got nervous, which is what I wanted when I stared at them.

At the time, I was returning from the UK, not Vietnam, but they didn't know that, and my way of owning the situation was to try to make them think they had talked shit to a real baby killer and he was sitting about 3 feet away leering and staring.

This is my second post this conversation, and that is an indication of how strongly I feel about this general subject. My feelings on the Cold War being credible wartime service is in the other post.

Response by CW2 Donald Loughrey made Jan 24 at 2021 3:41 PM

CW2 Donald Loughrey — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 15:41:21 -0500

They are thanking you for your Service, not your Combat Record or whatever. I served at that time and after. Lots of things have changed with time. Too many to count. If anyone Thanks me for my Service for whatever reason, however it comes up (Since I usually ask for a Veterans Discount where available) I say thanks for your courtesy and that I enjoyed most of my time in the Army, then move on. Usually today there are more insults in society than expressions of gratitude or displays of courtesy so I'm grateful for it.

Response by SGT Tim Tobin made Jan 24 at 2021 4:44 PM

SGT Tim Tobin — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 16:44:16 -0500

Directly out of basic training in 1970 I was called a baby killer. I don’t feel guilty when someone acknowledges my service. But I have become suspicious and untrusting.
I am very proud of my service and I did it to the best of my ability. I just wish people were more “real” instead of coming up with the equivalent of a smiley face

Response by SPC EOTrees Myles made Jan 24 at 2021 5:02 PM

SPC EOTrees Myles — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 17:02:28 -0500

No, I do not feel guilty, I feel honored.

Response by Af Widow made Jan 24 at 2021 5:48 PM

Af Widow — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 17:48:46 -0500

Please never feel that way! As the widowed wife, daughter and sister of Air Force men, I have always felt "Air Force" even though I never served. But I did support my family and sincerely feel that all of our Service people are important!! You were there and ready, whether or not "something" happened. You served! Something that many people have not done. Always be proud that you were there!

Response by Lt Col Leslie Bryant made Jan 24 at 2021 6:26 PM

Lt Col Leslie Bryant — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 18:26:47 -0500

I miss the days of the House Of Representatives and the Senate when 30% had served in World War II, Korea or Vietnam! It was rare to have a politician with no military service on the Armed Services Committee! Now days we see people who sit on the committee for its prestige not fully understanding the purpose of a military or the ramifications of the budgets. A good example was Senator Obama who went onto become President and thought sequestration was leading. Let’s see how many poor decision and damage Biden does despite all his experience on sequestration.

Response by Lt Col Bill Fletcher made Jan 24 at 2021 7:43 PM

Lt Col Bill Fletcher — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 19:43:41 -0500

Nope. I say “it was my honor and a privilege to serve”because it was. We sat provided CAS for the Army and say Nuclear Alert in Fed Rep Ger to make sure the Soviets would not attack the West. Interesting times for sure.

Response by SPC Craig Hara made Jan 24 at 2021 7:46 PM

SPC Craig Hara — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 19:46:10 -0500

I served from 1976 to 1980 in the Army stationed in Germany
Although we served during the peace time the threat was real
When we entered the country we went through something like a head start program
They took us to a town called Hell, where half was in thewest and half was in the East
Armed East German soldiers staring and glassing us as we looked at them from across the border
Yes the threat was real and we all signed up ready to defend our country overseas so the USA would be out of harms way
Thank you for your service

Response by Cpl Robert Russell Payne made Jan 24 at 2021 9:08 PM

Cpl Robert Russell Payne — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 21:08:00 -0500

I served from 89 to 93 and I truly dislike being thanked for my service. It makes me uncomfortable. Say thanks once a year on veterans day. That's enough!

Response by Cpl Robert Russell Payne made Jan 24 at 2021 9:10 PM

Cpl Robert Russell Payne — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 21:10:15 -0500

I wish people would say Thank You only one time every year. On Veterans Day! It makes me uncomfortable. So much so that I traded in my Veteran car tag for a breast cancer tag.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 24 at 2021 11:12 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 23:12:49 -0500

Thank you for your service

Response by Pvt SanJuana Méndez made Jan 25 at 2021 5:34 AM

Pvt SanJuana Méndez — Mon, 25 Jan 2021 05:34:06 -0500

SPC Zacke, if u remember being called baby killer or being spat on, u hv nothing to feel guilty about. Tho u didn't "steal" anyone's thunder, u shared in their humiliation. U were as reviled as those who were at the front.

I'm humbled to tears, being counted among those of u who served as long as y'all did. It wz 28 yrs before I wz told that by having gone to Basic one day (tho I actually served 79 days, circumstances beyond my control prevented me from graduating), I too am a veteran. Whenever I'm thanked for serving, I simply say, "Thank you; I only wish I could have served longer." I cry every time I get acknowledgement for serving, same way I did those 28 yrs I didn't know I could consider myself a veteran.

There's really no difference between u & me, in the long run. If circumstances had been different, I might hv gotten to complete Basic & sent to Vietnam, & then been reviled for having served during Vietnam War (1971). I'm tested by people who wonder if I'm actually a veteran:

When asked my MOS, I simply reply "Recruit"; they wonder hw I'll react to the question. Anyone stealing valor will hedge around the question coz they don't know what at MOS is. When they ask where I served, I say I say PISC--Parris Island, S. Carolina--only place Women Marines are sent for Basic. When asked if I'm a Vietnam veteran, I'm quick to say I'm a Vietnam ERA veteran, & explain that I didn't serve long enough to have gone to Vietnam; I say the same thing when asked where in Vietnam I served. I actually consider it a privilege to considered a veteran.

Response by A1C Randall Layton made Jan 25 at 2021 8:47 AM

A1C Randall Layton — Mon, 25 Jan 2021 08:47:30 -0500

People can actually thank me better by not thinking liberal thoughts and stiffening their backbone and telling all these whiners to shut their face. Don't thank me and then call for socialist policies.

Response by SGT John Shatesky made Jan 25 at 2021 9:42 AM

SGT John Shatesky — Mon, 25 Jan 2021 09:42:04 -0500

Why would I feel guilty m? I served my country and help preserve their freedom. I like it when a younger person says thank you fir your service and even puts out their hand to shake. It took long enough. Welcome home brothers and sisters.,

Response by SPC Travis McGaha made Jan 25 at 2021 10:09 AM

SPC Travis McGaha — Mon, 25 Jan 2021 10:09:36 -0500

I left service after 4 years / Desert Storm. I never heard "thank you for your service" until GWOT news media started showing soldiers mangled from IEDs on television. I had trouble finding work. Their was a vicious hatred of US Soldiers in HR departments, even in the south. I even had a manager tell me he would not "hire soldiers straight out of service" after one of his superiors had hired me. He explained it had nothing to do with service so much as the personality traits of people who had just left. I left that job after 6 months. He said that I changed so much in just 5 months of working together. Businesses saw me as a dollar to be made. No one offered discounts under any circumstances to soldiers. I believe the changeover was 2 years after 9/11. So today... when I hear "thank you for your service", I am so appreciative but never guilty or ashamed.

No, none of us outside of certain theaters of operations faced semi-regular bouts of gunfire or explosives. We simply stared down imminent immediate vaporization and chemical and biological attack. And we were told don't think about it, but be prepared.

Response by SGT John Shatesky made Jan 25 at 2021 10:20 AM

SGT John Shatesky — Mon, 25 Jan 2021 10:20:09 -0500

Let’s not forget the shame we felt when the subject came up on tv or conversations. I wouldn’t admit to bring in Nam. It good the hero’s now are getting welcome homes and pats on the back. Also, the wounded are being taken care of the right way, not ignored as some of our brothers were. Still are, AO still getting us.

Response by SP5 Bill Merritt made Jan 25 at 2021 11:06 AM

SP5 Bill Merritt — Mon, 25 Jan 2021 11:06:08 -0500

In ’68 I got blown up in Vietnam and spent 5 months in army hospitals around the world. A few weeks later, my buddy Mike got shot and spent 6 months in a hospital in Japan. Meanwhile, my buddy Galeno was in Germany hanging out with frauleins. The way I figure it, each of us went where we were sent, did what we were told, came home at the end and, fifty-three years later, it’s all equal.

Response by Capt Frederick Holderman made Jan 25 at 2021 2:38 PM

Capt Frederick Holderman — Mon, 25 Jan 2021 14:38:05 -0500

7/62 to 8/86.
Yes about feeling guilty. I typically respond with "It was an honor and a privilege."

Response by PO2 Louis Fattrusso made Jan 25 at 2021 2:44 PM

PO2 Louis Fattrusso — Mon, 25 Jan 2021 14:44:50 -0500

No. Served 72-76. Giving years to the service of your country is a special sacrifice whether you engage in war time or not.

Response by 1stSgt Ed White made Jan 25 at 2021 2:47 PM

1stSgt Ed White — Mon, 25 Jan 2021 14:47:19 -0500

I do. When I entered the service, it was because I needed a job, and I couldn't afford to go to college.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 25 at 2021 3:00 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 25 Jan 2021 15:00:27 -0500

You served, period.

I was in Germany just after the wall came down and I learned that Soldiers from a year or two earlier would have fought a fight harder than the world had ever experienced. Sure, I was in Iraq in 03-05 and 08-09 in a combat role but just because people shot at me I would never even consider myself more of a Soldier than those before me. You didn't need to serve but you did. If you were drafted, you completed your duty when other chose to avoid it. Draftees should hold their heads high because they had less of a choice than us volunteers.

Don't EVER let anyone take that from you.

Thank you for your service regardless of if you served in a time of war or peace, Active, Reserve or Guard.

Response by A1C Robert Ocasio made Jan 25 at 2021 6:27 PM

A1C Robert Ocasio — Mon, 25 Jan 2021 18:27:20 -0500

No I say thankyou for supporting us with your taxes and I thank them for their service too.

Response by PO2 Nick Burke made Jan 25 at 2021 7:12 PM

PO2 Nick Burke — Mon, 25 Jan 2021 19:12:53 -0500

Not at all. I and many others served in combat zones that were just small and not well publicized. Mine was in the Gulf escorting tankers in Iranian mine fields and small boat attacks. Friends in Panama and other small conflicts.

Response by SPC Charles Daniels made Jan 25 at 2021 9:51 PM

SPC Charles Daniels — Mon, 25 Jan 2021 21:51:53 -0500

For us Cold War veterans we feel that our presence on another continent led to an enormous amount of growth, and we got a chance to see other nations speed up their nation's citizens growth, and contribute their best assets to the world. America needed them. As far as other eras of veterans in other theaters at different times of their service that actually fought, maybe we all should thank them even more.

Response by SSgt Michael Dale made Jan 26 at 2021 2:34 AM

SSgt Michael Dale — Tue, 26 Jan 2021 02:34:04 -0500

Simple answer, No. There were plenty of real life missions going on throughout those decades. I signed the same check as everyone else putting my ass on the line up to and including my life if that became necessary.

Response by SrA Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 26 at 2021 9:52 AM

SrA Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 26 Jan 2021 09:52:21 -0500

I served from 65-69 vietnam &cold wars,I just say it was my pleasure.

Response by CPL Tom Walker made Jan 26 at 2021 1:22 PM

CPL Tom Walker — Tue, 26 Jan 2021 13:22:06 -0500

I was '72 - '75 and no, I don't feel guilty. Any reason I should? Not sure what prompts the question.

Response by SP5 Philip McClure made Jan 26 at 2021 2:06 PM

SP5 Philip McClure — Tue, 26 Jan 2021 14:06:02 -0500

When I was sitting there multiple times in my armed and loaded tank on the east German border in the Fulda Gap in 82 staring at Russian tanks staring back at me waiting for the soviet artillery, air strikes and mass tanks and chemical attacks that luckily never happened how is that any less of service than someone who served in a combat zone but was never physically wounded? The stress and fear was there. We all knew we were dead as soon as it started. Front line troops.

Response by Sgt Karen Schleif made Jan 26 at 2021 10:58 PM

Sgt Karen Schleif — Tue, 26 Jan 2021 22:58:35 -0500

I must be missing something...why would someone call you a baby killer?

Response by Sgt Ed Allen made Jan 27 at 2021 7:54 AM

Sgt Ed Allen — Wed, 27 Jan 2021 07:54:20 -0500

I signed up Dec of 79. When my dad found out he asked if I was crazy. The Iranian hostage crisis was now in full swing. Carter was bungling everything. We had a failed rescue attempt shortly after that. I reported for training in 80 and served until the beginning of 89.

I had every intention of serving 20 - 30 years. But politics came into play and I wouldn't play that game.

Having said that, if you served with honor and received your DD214 with Honorable on it. You deserve recognition. You were there to deter anybody from attacking and to protect America should defense be needed.

Response by PO3 Vernon Carpenter made Jan 27 at 2021 12:53 PM

PO3 Vernon Carpenter — Wed, 27 Jan 2021 12:53:44 -0500

No I don't feel guilty at all, I went in while others looked for reasons why they can't serve. I wasn't welcomed back when I got back to the states. I try to make sure that ALL service men and women are thanked for their service especially now that like Vietnam, the Demoncratic Party controls all three branches of government.

Response by COL Rich McKinney made Jan 27 at 2021 2:21 PM

COL Rich McKinney — Wed, 27 Jan 2021 14:21:23 -0500

Zache, in my opinion that is exactly why you hear that now. The public has a gut reaction that they screwed up badly in the way they treated the Nam vets, and are intent to make amends.

Response by CW3 Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 27 at 2021 3:24 PM

CW3 Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 27 Jan 2021 15:24:02 -0500

I do not think anyone should feel guilty if they didn't deploy due to no fault of their own. The Cold War veterans were of strategic importance as a deterrent to our enemies. They were willing to fight and that is more than most of the population can say.

Response by SPC Paul Clayton made Jan 27 at 2021 6:35 PM

SPC Paul Clayton — Wed, 27 Jan 2021 18:35:37 -0500

Hell no! Why should I feel guilty. My country called and I went. It's what we did. And I served with honor and have nothing to feel guilty about. But when people say, "Thank you for your service," I feel odd. Because that's like people saying, "Thank you for raising your children to be honorable adults." It is what you do, or attempt to do. There is no need of thanks.

Response by SPC Bryan Tucker made Jan 27 at 2021 10:12 PM

SPC Bryan Tucker — Wed, 27 Jan 2021 22:12:45 -0500

You wrote a blank check payable with your life. That check didn’t get cashed. You also put up with bs back home for it. Your service matters to me.

Response by SGT Ted Hooban made Jan 28 at 2021 11:18 AM

SGT Ted Hooban — Thu, 28 Jan 2021 11:18:13 -0500

No. My service, 1979-1983 which benefitted me as much as the rest of the US Had several motivating goals to which I feel I made a pretty good showing. 1. Defend the frontiers of freedom, and contain the expansion of socialist imperialism. (at oresent I feel that I might only have delayed this, but that is another conversation.) As a Russian linguist in a predominantly peaceful time, I felt that I an my compatriots persuaded and convinced the Soviet Union and anyone else that we were tough enough to squash any aggression. 2. I had 3 brothers and friends and acquaintances who had joined to control their MOS against being drafted, but had been threatened by the draft. The government had dropped the draft, but still have registration in place. I wanted to have the draft stay as far off normal as it could be. Again I am not sure that was a perfect choice. Military builds character. Reagan was able to convince Gorbachev to tear down that wall between east and west berlin. I have saved more babies than I killed, I fought for that jackasses right to spit on you (well at least call you names) but i also learned to look tough enough to have a spitter think long and hard before hocking one up.

Response by SP5 Donald Thornton made Jan 29 at 2021 12:10 PM

SP5 Donald Thornton — Fri, 29 Jan 2021 12:10:03 -0500

I served 1969 to 1978 I never got a thank you then so I DON"T want it now... I get madder than hell when someone says it to me You can say it to others but understand at least one vet knows how shallow it and people are. I'm prowd to be a vet would do it again in a heart beat.

Response by CW5 Jeff Moore made Jan 29 at 2021 3:28 PM

CW5 Jeff Moore — Fri, 29 Jan 2021 15:28:14 -0500

I personally don't feel guilty...I say you're welcome and have a blessed day. I served this great Nation from 17 July 1975 to 1 October 2009....two deployments to Iraq, one restrictive tour to Central America, one operational tour to Bosnia, and numerous training exercises around the world. I never had anyone say anything negative or displayed an offensive gesture toward me. My two older brothers was in the Marines and served two combat tours apiece during the Viet Nam years and maybe had one bad experience coming home from a tree hugger.

Response by SP5 Donald Thornton made Jan 30 at 2021 12:30 PM

SP5 Donald Thornton — Sat, 30 Jan 2021 12:30:58 -0500

Guilty no, Anger yes, all because I know that if we are asked to go in harms way and it turns bad we will repeat Nam all over . that is why I get angry. People will never learn.

Response by SSG Bill McCoy made Jan 31 at 2021 3:30 PM

SSG Bill McCoy — Sun, 31 Jan 2021 15:30:46 -0500

I served from 1966 to 1978 -- the early part being the so-called, "baby killers," generation. I've gotten a lot of "thank you for your service" comments and generally find it awkward; especially since we were not exactly welcomed home as troops are today. The part that bothers me though is back then, a lot of service members were not volunteers. Though I enlisted at 17 and never signed up for the draft, I feel it is the NON-volunteers who deserve the real thanks as they had no choice. The vast majority of them served honorably and with distinction ... yet, were too long taken for granted. So, in that sense, yes, I feel awkward but certainly not guilty.

Response by SFC Kathy Pepper made Jan 31 at 2021 6:06 PM

SFC Kathy Pepper — Sun, 31 Jan 2021 18:06:19 -0500

Thanking military members for their service started in 1991, after Desert Shield/Desert Storm. A friend who had been in Vietnam told me that it was Vietnam veterans who made certain that we were not treated as abysmally as they had been. I felt guilty about the “thanks” at first, then I appreciated it, and then it got old. For the past several years, I have been saying that police and fire fighters deserve the thanks; after all the school shootings, I added teachers to that list. Now, it’s medical professionals, bus drivers, store clerks, etc. Recently, someone thanked me, and I replied, “Don’t thank me, I’m not a nurse.”

Response by LTC Jerold Kaplan made Jan 31 at 2021 6:14 PM

LTC Jerold Kaplan — Sun, 31 Jan 2021 18:14:58 -0500

I served during peacetime, but I accept someone's thanks for two reasons. !) Circumstances could have changed at any time, and I had sign on and agreed to be there no matter what. 2) I accept the thanks on behalf of every soldier, sailor, or airman who served in peace or war.

Response by PO3 Dale Olson made Jan 31 at 2021 8:11 PM

PO3 Dale Olson — Sun, 31 Jan 2021 20:11:53 -0500

Hell no... i soet months at sea on radar picket, part of NORAD, steaming in circles. I didn't see daylight for days. Depending on the station you may get to victor a B52 Leighigh refueling flight.

After radar school I was assigned to the USS John S. McCain DL-3. I participated in the Atomic Tests at Johnston Island and made 3 West tours. The last one we were sittinf in Yokosuka harbor when the Gulf of Tonkin went down and I had 30 days left in the Navy. Our relief group left 3dsts and we steamed back to Pearl independently and I got out.

OBTW - I was the only certified FO on the ship.

Response by SGT James Wandler made Feb 1 at 2021 9:44 AM

SGT James Wandler — Mon, 01 Feb 2021 09:44:13 -0500

I served in Vietnam with the 101st Airborne Division for 18 months. It was 20 years after I returned to home that someone said "welcome back". No one was 'thankful for my service' and now when I hear it, it is more like , the right thing to say... but the bitterness continues.

Response by SGT Lorenzo Nieto made Feb 2 at 2021 6:37 AM

SGT Lorenzo Nieto — Tue, 02 Feb 2021 06:37:58 -0500

I served in Vietnam 1968 came home was treated let’s just say not so good was turned down from joining the VFW because they did not recognize the Vietnam war my point I am not sure if they really mean it or just saying it because everyone else is recognizing the soldier of today not saying they do not deserve thanks for there service because they do and yes it makes me a little jealous hope I do not piss anyone off with the comment.

Response by CSM Patrick Durr made Feb 4 at 2021 7:57 PM

CSM Patrick Durr — Thu, 04 Feb 2021 19:57:32 -0500

What a true dousche bag question. I served 32 years, active duty, starting in the 80s. It was the maintaining of readiness and continued willingness to serve that crushed the soviets without a round fired. I'd reconsider your "unverified vetetan" status, Specialist, before you open your mouth again.

Response by SPC Marvin Roach made Feb 8 at 2021 3:21 PM

SPC Marvin Roach — Mon, 08 Feb 2021 15:21:45 -0500

I served from 65 - 67 with a year of that time as an Infantry machine gunner in Vietnam. I am not comfortable with the thank you for your service. It would have meant more back then.

Response by MSgt Allen Chandler made Feb 13 at 2021 6:56 PM

MSgt Allen Chandler — Sat, 13 Feb 2021 18:56:51 -0500

I served from 62 to 83 and I’m very proud of my service when someone thanked me for my service I think them back and I’m very proud of myself for all that I accomplished during those years when someone doesn’t think me I ignore them and think that they just don’t understand. On the few cases where I’ve actually had to confront someone who was truly anti-military I stood my ground and told them where to go.

Response by SPC Nancy Detwiler made Feb 15 at 2021 7:56 AM

SPC Nancy Detwiler — Mon, 15 Feb 2021 07:56:59 -0500

It’s rare that I get thanked. When I DO, I usually respond with “it was my honor”. Both my husband and I are veterans, he usually gets thanked while I stand by and just smile.

Response by SPC Tina Moore made Feb 17 at 2021 8:36 PM

SPC Tina Moore — Wed, 17 Feb 2021 20:36:08 -0500

Cold war was real. We who served during peace time were not serving in total Peace time. There may have not been active warring but nonetheless were were always being prepared to go to war.

Response by PO2 Edward DeVennish made Feb 18 at 2021 7:06 AM

PO2 Edward DeVennish — Thu, 18 Feb 2021 07:06:05 -0500

No. You’re not really being thanked for what you did (or, if you’re still serving, what you are doing) but for what you might have had to do and your willingness to take that risk. I think, deep down, you are also being given the thanks in lieu of it being given to those who will never be there to receive it personally.

Response by MSgt Thomas Benedict made Feb 19 at 2021 1:09 AM

MSgt Thomas Benedict — Fri, 19 Feb 2021 01:09:13 -0500

NO, I proudly served from 1964 to 1991, I did three tours in VN and did the whole PGW. I feel humble when thanked for my service, and I thank that person for their support of Veterans.

Response by MSgt Thomas Benedict made Feb 19 at 2021 1:13 AM

MSgt Thomas Benedict — Fri, 19 Feb 2021 01:13:39 -0500

No, I am humbled by their kindness, having served three tours in VN and did the entire PGW before retiring. I Thank them for their kindness and for their support of Veterans.

Response by PO1 Kevin Dougherty made Feb 21 at 2021 11:45 PM

PO1 Kevin Dougherty — Sun, 21 Feb 2021 23:45:53 -0500

Nope, not at all. Hot war or cold, we all signed the same blank check and we all trained for something we hope we never have to do.

Response by SP5 George Smith made Feb 23 at 2021 3:41 PM

SP5 George Smith — Tue, 23 Feb 2021 15:41:53 -0500

I tend to feel awkward when someone extends their thank you. My guess is that it didn’t exist after coming back from Nam and to hear it now seems strange or uncomfortable. Maybe because it comes from people distant from my period of service and/or it is a mandate for government employees. Maybe it would have been more relevant when I stepped off the plane at Travis AFB upon my return, but I was more focused on getting home than anything else.

Response by MSgt Matt Hancock made Feb 28 at 2021 12:01 PM

MSgt Matt Hancock — Sun, 28 Feb 2021 12:01:32 -0500

An old question (posted Feb 2020) but since I served from 72 through 92 I feel I have the right to respond to this question. In short: I do not feel guilty. Even though Viet Nam was still going strong, then along came other conflicts and battles, I did not serve in a combat role. However my role was in support of those who were in combat situations. I served my country, why would I feel guilty if someone thanked me for my service? In my hard core mind...much better to have served my country in this manner than the untold numbers that preferred to sit on the sidelines and complain about everything that came down the pipe and did nothing to change the situation or make the world a better place. So when someone comes up and thanks you for your service...I tell them it was a privilege and an honor to serve for my country. By the way, there are numbers that served their country in other ways such as first responders, etc. If you come across them, thank them also for their contribution to our society.

Response by MSgt Gary Petersen made Feb 28 at 2021 3:28 PM

MSgt Gary Petersen — Sun, 28 Feb 2021 15:28:22 -0500

No.

Response by PO1 Jill Waters made Mar 4 at 2021 12:31 AM

PO1 Jill Waters — Thu, 04 Mar 2021 00:31:12 -0500

No. What do I have to feel guilty for? Stupid question. Serving in the military is nothing worth guilt. And yes, it’s an empty , overused phase. Recited rather than from the heart.

Response by Cpl Alan Moran made Mar 5 at 2021 7:58 PM

Cpl Alan Moran — Fri, 05 Mar 2021 19:58:25 -0500

yes, they.re gross if they could have served but didn't. bush went to air farce reserves (but missed meetings, his decorated dad must have been so proud), clinton got a fullbright scholarship and stayed in europe, cheney says he was "more valuable" by not going into the service, (his opinion, not mine) trump got an md to say that he had a bone spur and didn't want to fix it. yes, being the military man he is, some of us elected him but he knew troops spend more time in trucks than on their feet. so bandaid surgery was out of the question. after the vietnam vets gave themselves a parade, the (the va figured out that WWll vets were not going to last forever and they would loose their job security) and the populous decided it was time to show their patriotism and forgive themselves (and embarass me for their new found concern). many vets put off applying for disability. there was no outreach. i joined the local vfw. my father was a disabled vet (IWO). the WWll members would not talk to the 10 or so vietnam vets because they could only accept korea as a 'war'. the va says i'm 90% disabled. i waited years to apply for disability. i go to group and most say they don't deserve monetary benefits and have to be convinced they lost education and "LIFE" without a thank you or respect.
[login to see]

'

9

9

9

Response by MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan made Mar 8 at 2021 12:17 AM

MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan — Mon, 08 Mar 2021 00:17:14 -0500

Cold War...maybe no shots directly fired but you were in your position in your specialty doing what needed to be done so that we were prepared just in case the "balloon" went up. If today's society wants to thank us for our service we should accept the thanks gratefully and just move on. Had a discussion recently with a lady whose husband kind of feels like you express and didn't think she should be saying thanks; in our discussion she stated that she felt it in her heart to say "thank you"...my response was to tell her that if her thanks is a heartfelt thing then by all means do it...she was grateful.

Response by SCPO Lonny Randolph made Mar 9 at 2021 3:34 PM

SCPO Lonny Randolph — Tue, 09 Mar 2021 15:34:09 -0500

Frankly I'm perplexed why anyone would feel guilty for having served during the period, especially as the draft had largely ceased to be a relevant issue by the late 70's and if you were serving you were a volunteer. When you raise your hand and take that oath you are signing a blank check that your nation can fill out and cash in any way they see fit. Seems pretty honorable to me...

Response by PO2 Kenneth Barker made Mar 10 at 2021 8:39 PM

PO2 Kenneth Barker — Wed, 10 Mar 2021 20:39:07 -0500

No, I feel not guilty but proud. I appreciate it when ANYONE is grateful for ANY PERIOD of military service. I served for 6 months in Vietnam War, and hardly told a soul, because we were hated or at least despised. 52 years later, when I joined a group for an HONOR FLIGHT, we were overwhelmed at the appreciation and praise of long lines of grateful civilians. Ken Barker IC2

Response by MSgt Mike P. made Mar 10 at 2021 10:42 PM

MSgt Mike P. — Wed, 10 Mar 2021 22:42:15 -0500

One that serves doesn't know if or when they may be called! I was serving from 64-86, was never shot at to my knowledge. I still didn't know when I would be called. I started as Navy Corpsman, then I transferred to the Air Force. Again neither time knowing where I was need on short notice. Yes I am proud of my service and all the friends & acquaintances that we lost!

Response by Cpl Earl Lewis made Mar 10 at 2021 11:01 PM

Cpl Earl Lewis — Wed, 10 Mar 2021 23:01:41 -0500

I served from 1986-1992...of which I went to Saudi Arabia in 1990 to Support Operations Desert Shield/Storm. When someone says this, I reply with "Thank you for your support."

I had NO IDEA that the Cold War would take a turn for a peaceful resolution. (Russia at the time experiencing their 'Vietnam,' and giving rise to a new enemy in Al Qaeda.) I admit that the books of Sun Tzu played a part...yet the teachings are NOT APPLIED in civilian life to resolve a growing divide.

Response by MAJ Jeffrey Johnson made Mar 11 at 2021 8:52 AM

MAJ Jeffrey Johnson — Thu, 11 Mar 2021 08:52:53 -0500

Served from 1970 to 1994. I simply remind them that our current soldiers did more then I did in their first enlistment. I encourage them to do all they can for them once they get home.

Response by CPT James Mills made Mar 11 at 2021 11:41 AM

CPT James Mills — Thu, 11 Mar 2021 11:41:01 -0500

It took years for that TYFYS to come about. When I recognize those who fought in Vietnam more than likely we just nod. Nothing has to be said. But any person who say TYFYS I just reply "Thank you very much" and move on. I have Purple Heart license plates and at time people want to know how I was wounded. I can only tell them "you had to be there to understand that I can't talk about it."

Response by SPC Bernard Palmer made Mar 11 at 2021 1:13 PM

SPC Bernard Palmer — Thu, 11 Mar 2021 13:13:22 -0500

Sitting in the Fulda gap at that time was not for the faint of heart especially given the budget the Carter administration thought we needed. It was hard to keep all our birds flying. Always had a hanger queen or two!
Relief was always available in the basement of the tanker brigade across the street.

Response by SSgt Chris Loomis made Mar 11 at 2021 7:42 PM

SSgt Chris Loomis — Thu, 11 Mar 2021 19:42:47 -0500

No guilt at all. 83-90 Missile security and 90-92 CE Plumber. When you work missile security, you give up a lot of time with your family, being out in the missile field for 3 days.

Response by Sgt Ken "Andy" Anderson made Mar 11 at 2021 7:52 PM

Sgt Ken "Andy" Anderson — Thu, 11 Mar 2021 19:52:03 -0500

VietNam Veteran. Was there from 11/11/67 - 12/06/68 with the 1st Battalion, 9th Marines. Nobody, I repeat, nobody said "Thank You for your service". Saying thank you to our troops didn't become popular until after 09/11/01.

Response by SPC Richard Holcomb made Mar 12 at 2021 2:12 AM

SPC Richard Holcomb — Fri, 12 Mar 2021 02:12:14 -0500

Why would I feel bad about spending endless days practicing war against the Eastern block in the dead of a European winter? Ever been in Coburg in January? Doing this all for the good of our and NATO nation's. I'm proud

Response by CPO Gregory Wemhoff made Mar 12 at 2021 5:02 AM

CPO Gregory Wemhoff — Fri, 12 Mar 2021 05:02:20 -0500

Nope, not a bit.

Response by CPO Gregory Wemhoff made Mar 12 at 2021 5:02 AM

CPO Gregory Wemhoff — Fri, 12 Mar 2021 05:02:28 -0500

Gcb

Response by SGT Michael Bell made Mar 12 at 2021 8:37 AM

SGT Michael Bell — Fri, 12 Mar 2021 08:37:59 -0500

It's been interesting. No one, or hardly anyone said that to Cold War veterans until Post 911. I'm both.

Response by Sgt Brian Onley made Mar 12 at 2021 12:04 PM

Sgt Brian Onley — Fri, 12 Mar 2021 12:04:39 -0500

I agree with Mr. Zacke, above, Though I will take it one step further. We were treated as if we were personally responsible for burning villages, women and children - and would be stared at in a very demeaning manner. Now, when they say "thank you for your service", it comes across as more rote - like - "have a nice day" or "pass the mashed potatoes". I don't feel guilty for mine and others who served during Viet Nam, I feel like I am being reminded that I should accept being a village burner.

Response by TSgt Tommy Amparano made Mar 12 at 2021 12:23 PM

TSgt Tommy Amparano — Fri, 12 Mar 2021 12:23:44 -0500

Anyone who ever served deserves our gratitude, especially those that were mocked and abused for their service, just because they did not have the right PR behind them at the time. Also, one might argue that the abuse you endured paved the way for people to people realize that is not the way to treat someone who served and may have just led to the whole normalization of people saying, Thank you for your service.
So please accept this with a guilt free conscience, THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE.

Response by SPC Amanda Silvestri made Mar 12 at 2021 1:10 PM

SPC Amanda Silvestri — Fri, 12 Mar 2021 13:10:13 -0500

I recall when the Badder-Minhoff Group set off two bombs where i was working. I remember being on alert to go to the middle east. We were issued new weapons, but didn't go. I walked patrol on the East German border. I was over seas for 2 1/2 years. No, I do not feel guilty at all. We would be speaking Russian now if we had not been there.

Response by PO2 Dan McAllister made Mar 12 at 2021 2:45 PM

PO2 Dan McAllister — Fri, 12 Mar 2021 14:45:30 -0500

Thank you for bringing this up.
I feel similar. Actually don't like when people say this.
What I say now is simply "Thank you, it was an honor"
Which is exactly what our service is when we raised our hand.
The rest is chance and circumstance.

Response by MSgt Currie C. made Mar 12 at 2021 6:37 PM

MSgt Currie C. — Fri, 12 Mar 2021 18:37:23 -0500

1965-1985 (1966-67, H&S Co.1st. Bn. 9th Marines 69-70, H&HS Co. 9th Enger Bn. were Vietnam tours)
In side my mind, I get angry. Out side, I just smile and say "thank you".

Response by 1LT Lincoln Davis made Mar 12 at 2021 9:31 PM

1LT Lincoln Davis — Fri, 12 Mar 2021 21:31:31 -0500

A short time in country I figured the war was not going to be won the VC were dedicated the ARVIN and southern government was corrupt and it slowly occured to me that we were there to make politicians look good not to save anyone, when Nixon was elected we were told to turn everything over to the ARVIN so we could leave and that convinced me it was not a war to remember

Response by MAJ Gregory Moon made Mar 12 at 2021 10:01 PM

MAJ Gregory Moon — Fri, 12 Mar 2021 22:01:00 -0500

I commissioned in 82 and timed out in 2018. Heck during the 80's the only guys that had some sort of combat patch were mostly at Bragg. You served in a time that had its own challenges. Just know that you're not just accepting thanks to you but also the others that served along with you.

Response by 1SG William Rodman made Mar 12 at 2021 10:15 PM

1SG William Rodman — Fri, 12 Mar 2021 22:15:15 -0500

I served in Viet Nam. I just say "You're welcome" and move on.

Response by Sgt Ray Massey made Mar 13 at 2021 1:50 AM

Sgt Ray Massey — Sat, 13 Mar 2021 01:50:26 -0500

No, no guilt, no shame, just pride, I SERVED!

Response by PVT Rocky Susshine made Mar 13 at 2021 5:41 AM

PVT Rocky Susshine — Sat, 13 Mar 2021 05:41:58 -0500

Not sure about guilty. But for whatever reason. It just don’t sit well with me. I got no clear explanation. Perhaps the holy hell I experienced there and returning home. 9th division infantry. 67-68 Tet.

Response by GySgt Richard Harig made Mar 13 at 2021 12:58 PM

GySgt Richard Harig — Sat, 13 Mar 2021 12:58:20 -0500

USMC 09. June 1966- 11 November 1976; RVN 17 February 1967 - 18 March 1968. I returned to CONUS on a MAC flight that landed at MCAS El Toro in Anaheim, CA. After processing, we boarded haze gray Navy busses with wire screens welted over windows... Just like the ones carting us around Danang AFB when we started the trip home. "Why the screens>" we wondered.
When we came out the gate we were greeted and welcomed home by a group of 40-50 patriots chanting endearing slogans such as "Baby killers" and "Murderers" and threw us welcoming gifts of rotting fruit and vegetables, eggs, and a few rocks which, unfortunately, we could not accept due to the screens on the windows. So, no, I am not made to feel guilty by someone thanking me 50 years+ after I got home.

Response by SPC Jane Thompson made Mar 13 at 2021 6:18 PM

SPC Jane Thompson — Sat, 13 Mar 2021 18:18:35 -0500

I served between 76-79. I am happy to acknowledge my service, even if it was peacetime. My husband served from 70-87. He did three tours of West Germany, as a combat engineer, checking targets along the wall. He is considered a Vietnam Era vet. He did a lot of Cold War service. He remembers the country's attitude during that time, and is happy attitudes are different now.

Response by COL William Oseles made Mar 13 at 2021 7:31 PM

COL William Oseles — Sat, 13 Mar 2021 19:31:39 -0500

No. Why should I? I served and went where the Army sent me.

Response by SPC Edward Oliver made Mar 13 at 2021 10:20 PM

SPC Edward Oliver — Sat, 13 Mar 2021 22:20:29 -0500

these post are 1 year old

Response by CW4 Alex DeLorey made Mar 14 at 2021 12:28 PM

CW4 Alex DeLorey — Sun, 14 Mar 2021 12:28:27 -0400

You volunteered, others did not. Accept their gratitude. When we volunteer, we don't know what lies ahead, if we'll end up in combat or not. If called, we go and do our job. For those who served in the 70's the prospect of going to war with the Soviets was somewhat daunting. The frequent exercises with CBR/NBC gear was a good reminder of what our future might include. I, for one, was content with being a small part of the U.S. deterrent to war during the 70's. Make no mistake, those who served then, made their mark.

Response by MSgt Horace Smith made Mar 14 at 2021 1:44 PM

MSgt Horace Smith — Sun, 14 Mar 2021 13:44:07 -0400

Data shows that only 7% of the US population in 2019 have ever served in uniform; i.e., veterans. Today, less than 1% of the population are serving in uniform.

IF YOU SERVED AT ANY TIME IN UNIFORM, HOLD YOUR HEAD HIGH AND BE PROUD. YOU'VE ERANED IT IMO.

Response by SPC Arthur Hanley made Mar 14 at 2021 4:18 PM

SPC Arthur Hanley — Sun, 14 Mar 2021 16:18:58 -0400

No!

Response by SGT Jim Arnold made Mar 14 at 2021 5:08 PM

SGT Jim Arnold — Sun, 14 Mar 2021 17:08:58 -0400

I was drafted in June, 1968 and was sent to ROK after AIT. Ended up in Eighth Army Hdqtrs Reenlistment Office. It sometimes upsets me when someone references Afghanistan as our longest war. It is not even close. Our Korean War is still on, operating a Truce or cease-fire. The only problem I have when someone thanks me for my service is how to respond. I was not wounded or even fired upon, but I sacrificed in my own way. I had worked a year after college and had been married a year. My first child was born while I was away and was eight months old when I first saw her. I joined the VFW and was surrounded by fellows who UNDERSTOOD. I said I didn't feel quite about never being in combat and was reminded that (at that time) it took 7 support troops to maintain 1 combat soldier. I was also told that by another member (who had been injured severely and was rolled off an airplane on a gurney in San Francisco while being spit upon) that we all had a role and that I had done my duty and belonged as much as anyone else.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 14 at 2021 5:38 PM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 14 Mar 2021 17:38:54 -0400

74-85 here! Think of it like is, you are honoring what the Vets had done, not necessarily when you served or what you saw live rounds or not.

Response by CWO4 Miles Weaver made Mar 14 at 2021 6:48 PM

CWO4 Miles Weaver — Sun, 14 Mar 2021 18:48:45 -0400

What an idiotic question. Why would ANY service member from ANY time be embarrassed?

Response by SSgt Kenneth Taylor made Mar 14 at 2021 7:56 PM

SSgt Kenneth Taylor — Sun, 14 Mar 2021 19:56:43 -0400

As a Vietnam Veteran I don’t feel guilty, I feel it’s about time!

Response by SSgt Robin Riley made Mar 15 at 2021 10:43 AM

SSgt Robin Riley — Mon, 15 Mar 2021 10:43:51 -0400

Yeah, I served in the 80s and definitely feel, well, not guilty exactly, more like... undeserving. I know everyone says those who didn't serve during wartime should not feel that way but it's hard not to compare my time in the AF with what the troops have been going (or went) through on either side of that time period.

Response by AN Donald Miller made Mar 15 at 2021 11:33 AM

AN Donald Miller — Mon, 15 Mar 2021 11:33:13 -0400

Just because it that period of time is not recognized as a period of war there was still a war, even if it was cold as in cold war. Military personel where still actively participating in events that protected this nation. One good example would be in 84 seals blew up schools and churches. The schools and churches stored nukes. The infant formula manufacturing plants destroeyed contained food stores contaminated with some sort of germ, remember desert shield? Military personel still whete active but what was done was not declaredby politians as a period of war because it was cold.

Response by SP5 Mike Rhodes made Mar 15 at 2021 3:23 PM

SP5 Mike Rhodes — Mon, 15 Mar 2021 15:23:02 -0400

Those years also included VietNam which I served in 1967 & 1968 so I feel I served my country was

Response by CPL Henry Miller made Mar 15 at 2021 4:52 PM

CPL Henry Miller — Mon, 15 Mar 2021 16:52:59 -0400

!956 - 60; is the US Military a service industry?

Response by SFC Sammy Salaiz made Mar 15 at 2021 7:02 PM

SFC Sammy Salaiz — Mon, 15 Mar 2021 19:02:04 -0400

Why would someone feel guilty for serving? There is no reason to feel guilty about someone thanking you for your service. What makes the older generations or younger generations any better. Everyone who has served honorably should be proud in their own right.

Response by Cpl Bernard Bates made Mar 16 at 2021 12:46 AM

Cpl Bernard Bates — Tue, 16 Mar 2021 00:46:55 -0400

I was in the Marine corp (59-63) and in the Army from 63-66, with a tour of Duty in Vietnam. When I am thanked for my service I take it with a grain of salt. Some people are being politically correct others are sincere. I think people born after 1980 could care less about the Vietnam War. Some don't even know how the GI,s were treated when they came home. Semper Fi.

Response by CPT Kurk Harris made Mar 16 at 2021 9:09 AM

CPT Kurk Harris — Tue, 16 Mar 2021 09:09:01 -0400

I came in in 85. This was the Reagan era. We were proud of our service, and revered the Vietnam era vets. I never felt guilty about being thanked for my service, and still don't. Just my 2 cents.

Response by TSgt Lars Eilenfeld made Mar 16 at 2021 2:23 PM

TSgt Lars Eilenfeld — Tue, 16 Mar 2021 14:23:09 -0400

I appreciate it but it has become meaningless these days as people have voted or supposedly voted in according to Fake News Communists and those who would seek to destroy what was once loved and protected. God save Peppy Le Pew

Response by SPC James Drury made Mar 16 at 2021 3:57 PM

SPC James Drury — Tue, 16 Mar 2021 15:57:07 -0400

One early afternoon I stopped by Duncan Donuts as usual on my way to work. I was waiting in line to order, fully dressed in my Police Uniform. When I got to the front and was about to order my usual coffee and donut, a black female behind me stepped up and told the cashier, "I'm paying for whatever the Officer wants."
I turned and said to her, "Thanks Miss, but that's not necessary." She responded, "I insist, a few days ago we had trouble at our house and the Police came and straightened it out. They were gentlemen and very professional and this is my way to thank them for what they did."
I accepted her offer, it was really meant as a "Thank You for your service", not to me personally, but to the uniform and whom and what it represents.
This is what most folks mean when they "Thank you for your service" its a general statement about pride and appreciation to ALL who've served their country.
Completely acceptable to respond with a quiet polite, "Thank You!"

Response by SPC Luis Cedrez made Mar 16 at 2021 7:40 PM

SPC Luis Cedrez — Tue, 16 Mar 2021 19:40:09 -0400

NO! I am proud I served and whether we went to war or not, was out of my control, but I was ready to report whenever and where ever I was called to duty. I am sorry for you guys and what you went through. You were men who served with honor. If someone says Thank You, just say you are welcome and you are happy you made it back to your family. God Bless you and I hope you forgive the idiots who did that, because by now I promise you, they have.

Response by SGM Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 17 at 2021 2:01 AM

SGM Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 17 Mar 2021 02:01:39 -0400

You might mean the 70's (after 73) thru the 80's. The 60's, in almost it's entirety was Vietnam. I was in from the mid 70's thru the mid 80's, break for college in the IRR, then back in until 2012. A big chunk (3 years in West Germany with the Cav) Then back in to various units and training's like Drill Sergeant School, MFT, OEF deployments etc. I received the Vietnam era GI Bill since I enlisted in Oct 75. Then in the mid 80's after college I went back and then I got the Montgomery and Post 9/11. "Thank you for your service" is a fairly new saying. I never had anyone say it until after 9/11.

Response by AN Bill McPhillips made Mar 17 at 2021 1:20 PM

AN Bill McPhillips — Wed, 17 Mar 2021 13:20:37 -0400

I am pissed by empty words. Being in the 8th year of a 100% disability claim that is exceptionally solid but continually screwed up by VA, I am really fed up with bullshit words!!!

Response by Cpl Daniel Woodruff made Mar 17 at 2021 2:25 PM

Cpl Daniel Woodruff — Wed, 17 Mar 2021 14:25:23 -0400

What an ignorant question.

Response by SFC Sfc Darwin Maring, USA Ret made Mar 17 at 2021 7:52 PM

SFC Sfc Darwin Maring, USA Ret — Wed, 17 Mar 2021 19:52:18 -0400

Cold War ma ass - Vietnam WAR and we served.

Response by CW3 Dick McManus made Mar 18 at 2021 6:15 PM

CW3 Dick McManus — Thu, 18 Mar 2021 18:15:25 -0400

Yes. The Vietnam War was a big mistake and many undeclared war since then were UNJUST. We lost one third of our casualties in South Vietnam from land mines and booby traps. That is not a good way to win any war.

Prosecution of George W. Bush et. al. for War Crimes
WHEREAS there is overwhelming evidence that President George W. Bush and et. al. (his direct subordinates) committed war crimes,

WHEREAS international law requires the United States government to prosecute all war crimes committed by US persons; for example, torture, ghost prisoners, secret jails, used depleted uranium weapons that poisoned the battlefield and civilians for many years following the warfare, and making war on Iraq without a UN resolution,

WHEREAS President Bush et al, ordered the kidnapping of an estimated 150 people from foreign nations (aka “extraordinary rendition”) and delivering them for interrogation by nations having a well documented history of torture,

WHEREAS, Regarding Iraq, the last Security Council resolution essentially said, “Look, send the weapons inspectors out to Iraq, have them come back and tell us what they've found -- then we'll figure out what we're going to do.” But without permission/vote of the UN Security Council, the US invaded Iraq and in so doing the US did unprovoked or "aggressive" war, the highest crime against mankind,

WHEREAS President Bush and seven of his administration's top officials, including Vice President Dick Cheney, National Security Adviser Condoleezza Rice, and Defense Secretary Donald Rumsfeld, made at least 935 false statements in the two years following September 11, 2001, about the national security threat posed by Saddam Hussein's Iraq,

WHEREAS If George W. Bush, Vice President Dick Cheney, and others are not prosecuted US government leaders in the future will not fear any personal consequences for going to war without a declaration by Congress,

WHEREAS the claim that the President, as commander-in-chief, can exercise the unlimited powers of a king or dictator strikes at the very heart of our democracy and the rule of law requires a rejection of impunity for the criminal acts of government officials,

WHEREAS 6,900 and approximately 7,800 contractors were killed in Iraq and Afghanistan at the end of 2018, 52,010 wounded in action, and this number does not included are those “non-hostile injuries” and other medical problems such as heat stroke, suicide attempts, respiratory problems, and vehicle crashes,

WHEREAS 970,000 disability claims registered with the VA,

WHEREAS these wars have been paid for almost entirely by borrowing, therefore including the predicted interest payments, the total cost will be over $6 trillion by the 2050s,

WHEREAS more than 480,000 people have been killed by direct war violence in Iraq, Afghanistan, and Pakistan and over 8.4 million Afghans, Pakistanis, and Iraqis are living as war refugees in other countries or are displaced from their homes,

WHEREAS every segment of the US electorate–including majorities of Democrats (82 percent), independents (62 percent), and Republicans (51 percent) — want to hold the Bush administration accountable for its role in the destruction of the CIA’s interrogation tapes and the use of torture by the agency,

THEREFORE BE IT RESOLVED we demand the US Justice Department prosecute of George W. Bush et. al. for war crimes,

President Bush and seven of his administration's top officials, including Vice President Dick Cheney, National Security Adviser Condoleezza Rice, and Defense Secretary Donald Rumsfeld, made at least 935 false statements in the two years following September 11, 2001, about the national security threat posed by Saddam Hussein's Iraq
...[as] part of an orchestrated campaign that effectively galvanized public opinion and, in the process, led the nation to war under decidedly false pretenses.
http://www.truth-out.org/rumsfeld-era-propaganda-program-whitewashed-

Lying the US into Iraq
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P4RZO8y-R9k&feature=youtu.be&fbclid=IwAR3qwOWddjedvIKm3akPygWtF3Q4IjSf-Uy4DWjgKj5QV74yUai_3nzKUYc

Page not found | Truthout

We have just 8 days left in our crucial fundraising campaign, and we still need to raise $48,000. We're counting on you to keep Truthout alive. Will you help right now by making a monthly or one-time donation of $5 or more?We have just 8 days left in our crucial fundraising campaign, and we still need to raise $48,000. We're counting on you to keep Truthout alive. Will you help right now by making a monthly or one-time donation of $5 or more?

Response by CPL Paul Cooper made Mar 19 at 2021 9:57 PM

CPL Paul Cooper — Fri, 19 Mar 2021 21:57:49 -0400

Yes it does make me cringe.
If my service is appreciated, why keep sending our best and brightest to distant wars that have thus far accomplished very little.
In my time it was the domino theory, today it's something different but the point remains the same.
It's less about protecting the US but feeding the very lucrative war machine or as we called it, the very political military industrial complex.

Response by PO2 Jack Steiner made Mar 20 at 2021 11:35 AM

PO2 Jack Steiner — Sat, 20 Mar 2021 11:35:40 -0400

Yes I do, It is hard to know what to say, so I usually say Thank You. I remember the signs in yards, Sailors and Dogs KEEP OFF THE GRASS.
Norfolk VA. a long time ago.
Amen Sir and thank You for your service.

Response by SFC Ritchie Inns made Mar 20 at 2021 10:43 PM

SFC Ritchie Inns — Sat, 20 Mar 2021 22:43:14 -0400

I served from 1982 to 2011. I patrolled the East German border, and spent fours years in Afghanistan, all infantry. Never be ashamed for what you did. Less than 1/2 of 1% of Americans serve in the military. We are all a special breed regardless of when or where we served.

Response by SFC Barbara Layman made Mar 22 at 2021 8:59 AM

SFC Barbara Layman — Mon, 22 Mar 2021 08:59:48 -0400

"Thank you for your service" came to be AFTER September 11. It was a year or so before anyone began using that phrase.
It has become such a blase remark when another learns that you are a veteran. Seems to me it is now trite and rehearsed with little true sincerity - almost like "Hi, how are you?"

Response by CPO Ed Hoover made Mar 22 at 2021 7:51 PM

CPO Ed Hoover — Mon, 22 Mar 2021 19:51:08 -0400

Nope!

Response by CPT Keith Celebrezze made Mar 22 at 2021 11:29 PM

CPT Keith Celebrezze — Mon, 22 Mar 2021 23:29:45 -0400

You shouldn't. You served. It's OK to be proud of it.

This one's in your head bro.

Good luck.

Response by 1SG Patrick Sims made Mar 29 at 2021 6:56 PM

1SG Patrick Sims — Mon, 29 Mar 2021 18:56:14 -0400

As a Vietnam Veteran, I feel a little awkward when someone says THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE. The most important thing it means to me is the respect and care it shows toward the young men and women protecting us as we speak.

Response by Lt Col Steve Bonning made Apr 4 at 2021 2:14 PM

Lt Col Steve Bonning — Sun, 04 Apr 2021 14:14:23 -0400

Why should anyone who has served, which is only 3-7% of Americans, feel guilty for being thanked?

Response by 1SG Dave McWilliams made Apr 6 at 2021 6:45 PM

1SG Dave McWilliams — Tue, 06 Apr 2021 18:45:10 -0400

I served from 87 to 2011 active and did participate in Desert shield desert storm
And OIF and I feel if your part of the less than 1 percent that have the courage to serve then you should feel guilty about anything . Plus civilians don’t know why you feel that way . Don’t get too much in your head about how your perceived just be happy and drive on .

Response by PO1 David M Burns made Apr 8 at 2021 9:33 PM

PO1 David M Burns — Thu, 08 Apr 2021 21:33:45 -0400

why would I feel guilty? I served because I wanted to serve, their parents are probably the ones who bad mouthed the Viet Vets, I neither ask or want their comments forty to fifty years late!

Response by PO3 William Rubel made Apr 17 at 2021 10:25 PM

PO3 William Rubel — Sat, 17 Apr 2021 22:25:18 -0400

I feel that sometimes Thank you for your service is just something people throw out because they can't really think of anything else or sometimes feel obliged to say. I always tell people thank you but it's not necessary. I tell them if you would like to honor veterans who served, you can show your appreciation by donating to Wounded Warrior, Home For Heroes, or the Intrepid Fallen Heroes Fund if you really appreciate our service. I served from 81-91 and I feel the thank you shouldn't been burned on me anyway.

Response by SN Richard Spain made Apr 17 at 2021 11:14 PM

SN Richard Spain — Sat, 17 Apr 2021 23:14:17 -0400

Served in 1978.and mighty proud of it!

Response by SGT Wayne Grindstaff made Apr 19 at 2021 3:57 PM

SGT Wayne Grindstaff — Mon, 19 Apr 2021 15:57:34 -0400

No one should feel guilty for getting a thank you, no matter when or how you served. I was spit on upon returning from Vietnam in Oakland Ca. Those low life's were spitting on those with a CIB, what was worse was they spit on a fellow wearing a CMB. They were lucky an MP was watching or there would have been a beat down for sure. I never went back to Ca. and never will. Ever since 9-11 and the first gulf war I started getting the thank you's. I need to know what is a good general response to the thank you's? I do acknowledge them but wish I had a better reply as I'm always slightly embarrassed.

Response by SSgt William Blanshan made Apr 20 at 2021 2:21 AM

SSgt William Blanshan — Tue, 20 Apr 2021 02:21:53 -0400

It irritates the hell out of me, to be honest. I'm no hero. If they want to thank someone for their service, they can thank men like my father. HE served in WWII, Korea and Vietnam. I mostly get the old "thank you for your service" from libtards who want to cut military funding and call our active troops "baby killer". I'd just as soon those people shut their pieholes and take a giant step back and rethink their lives.

Response by SGT Gary Tob made Apr 20 at 2021 4:04 PM

SGT Gary Tob — Tue, 20 Apr 2021 16:04:33 -0400

I ignore that comment; LBJ LIED about the Gulf of Tonkin, and Congress would NOT declare War. All this "police action" crap

Response by Cpl Lawrence Lavictoire made Apr 20 at 2021 5:00 PM

Cpl Lawrence Lavictoire — Tue, 20 Apr 2021 17:00:14 -0400

It was in another time/another world/another season....when I do hear, "Thank you for your service," it sounds like its faked, not honest, most of the people saying it were not even born than.
I want to hear it from the wonderful people who called me names, and did spit on me, an hit me
with beer cans an pop cans; that's who I want to hear, to say it to me. Since that will never happen, I need to get off my soap box and continue trying to forget to forget the past.
Sorry for whining ya all.
God bless.

Response by Cpl David Halbisen made Apr 21 at 2021 5:20 AM

Cpl David Halbisen — Wed, 21 Apr 2021 05:20:51 -0400

None what so ever, met and served with some of the finest Marines whom I otherwise would not have had the opportunity to know if i hadn't served. Now I have to ask the question SPC Zacke, are you trolling or just F*ckin ignorant?

Response by SSgt Ronald Krogel made Apr 21 at 2021 11:36 AM

SSgt Ronald Krogel — Wed, 21 Apr 2021 11:36:49 -0400

What is it with people who think you have to be in conflict before you can feel pride in service? The mission is ongoing at all times. If I cannot get a meal, fuel for my vehicle to check alarms in a missile field, etc. I could become ineffective. All service is important and all positions are important. At all times.

Response by SP5 James Jacques made Apr 21 at 2021 2:53 PM

SP5 James Jacques — Wed, 21 Apr 2021 14:53:13 -0400

It was a shock the first time I heard it ... .. A nice change ... .. . but .. Is this the beginnings of a societal change toward more active militarism? ... .. .

Response by PO2 Frank Ushler made Apr 21 at 2021 4:18 PM

PO2 Frank Ushler — Wed, 21 Apr 2021 16:18:27 -0400

I served from 1964 to 1968 and did two tours in Viet Nam. Its nice to hear but a little late.

Response by SGT Rod Shaughnessy made Apr 21 at 2021 7:47 PM

SGT Rod Shaughnessy — Wed, 21 Apr 2021 19:47:42 -0400

I posted this message about this issue in a Facebook Group a while back:
"Yesterday there was a post in the Facebook group about Viet Nam photos regarding the welcome we did or did not receive when we returned from Viet Nam.
Here was my response:
Many of us are still welcoming ourselves, and each other, home. When we returned decades ago from RVN we received just about what we expected, which was nothing.
Of course some of us were subjected to scorn from many of those who sent us there, while hiding in their safe little lives.
I've always felt that their reception of our returning veterans was more of a reflection on them than anything they may have said about me or my fellow veterans.
They have to live with themselves, some of whom took cowardly actions to avoid military service during those years.
We don't have that problem. We know just who we are, why we served, and what we did on behalf of what used to be called, "a grateful nation"."

Response by TSgt Ollie Woods made Apr 21 at 2021 10:48 PM

TSgt Ollie Woods — Wed, 21 Apr 2021 22:48:26 -0400

I think that a person deserves the compliment thank you for your service without feeling guilty whether they actually served in a war or not. They performed a service just by wearing the uniform. They were ready should they be called. I feel that thank you for your service should encompass all of that.

Response by PO3 Claude j Hilliard made Apr 22 at 2021 9:42 AM

PO3 Claude j Hilliard — Thu, 22 Apr 2021 09:42:10 -0400

No, and thank them, but l do say to myself it's about time, Vietnam Vet.

Response by CPL Larry Garrett made Apr 22 at 2021 1:32 PM

CPL Larry Garrett — Thu, 22 Apr 2021 13:32:23 -0400

I was active infantry from '87-'91, participated in operation Just Cause in Panama, we got the first CIB's to be issued since Vietnam. I was proud of my service and contributions, but for years I would feel strange when anyone thanked me. I think it was because our conflict was nothing as serious as Vietnam, Korea or any that came before it. We were luckier than they were. We only lost one man from my unit. HOOAH WOLFHOUNDS 2/27!!!!!

Response by CPL Michael Moore made Apr 22 at 2021 1:42 PM

CPL Michael Moore — Thu, 22 Apr 2021 13:42:56 -0400

Why would we? That period was anything but peaceful. When you ask a question like that it highlights a serious lack of knowledge when it comes to history.
Google the second Korean War,DMZ war, urgent fury, just cause or Grenada to name a few.

Response by 1SG Ken Bedwell made Apr 22 at 2021 7:11 PM

1SG Ken Bedwell — Thu, 22 Apr 2021 19:11:12 -0400

Absolutely not.

Response by Cpl Archie H. made Apr 23 at 2021 7:41 AM

Cpl Archie H. — Fri, 23 Apr 2021 07:41:25 -0400

When someone says thank you for your service, I smile and thank them for caring. I know they are trying to make things right by doing their part. But nothing can take away the pain of being marginalized as a combat veteran of Vietnam. A whole generation of combat veterans who could have given so much in our national political and social dialogue. I can only guess the personal gossipy slander against successful politicians like Jim Webb. I know this is redundant but what else can we expect? Can can we expect more than this? No! Americans are desensitized by our deeply embedded shopping culture to think much. Too busy for the next purchase high. This shopping addiction keeps Wall Street rich. War for the masses of American had been trivialized. The US media embellished the trivialization by many fake misleading so called crazy veterans and their war stories.

Response by CSM (ret.) Tyrhonda Franklin made Apr 23 at 2021 11:44 AM

CSM (ret.) Tyrhonda Franklin — Fri, 23 Apr 2021 11:44:45 -0400

No -- because the reply should be "Thank you for your Support"

Response by MSgt Mason Manner made Apr 23 at 2021 7:12 PM

MSgt Mason Manner — Fri, 23 Apr 2021 19:12:26 -0400

I find it CONDESCENDING since most people saying it consider military service beneath them

Response by PV2 Jon Terhune made Apr 23 at 2021 10:21 PM

PV2 Jon Terhune — Fri, 23 Apr 2021 22:21:14 -0400

I was in the 101st Airborne in 60, 61 and we were expected to fight the Soviets for 24 hours, with a casualty rate in the 90%. We didn't have to, but we were ready to do it.

Response by SPC Paul Davis made Apr 24 at 2021 10:13 AM

SPC Paul Davis — Sat, 24 Apr 2021 10:13:20 -0400

I served from 88-96 . Everyone has a job to do. Without Everyone doing their jobs the chain would be broken and would prevent the mission from being completed . Never under estimate your importance. Stand proud with your brothers and sisters in arms.

Response by PO1 Don Rowan made Apr 24 at 2021 11:04 AM

PO1 Don Rowan — Sat, 24 Apr 2021 11:04:08 -0400

Why would I??? I served 64 to 72 and although I volunteered for Nam I was turned down due to job code. My years of service were before they started policing the world.

Response by SSG Craig Newton made Apr 24 at 2021 11:15 AM

SSG Craig Newton — Sat, 24 Apr 2021 11:15:47 -0400

I was in from 1980 to 1992. I do not feel guilty at all mainly because if the call came I would have answered. We wrote the same check that anyone else did before or since.

Response by 1SG Daniel Bellina made Apr 24 at 2021 5:35 PM

1SG Daniel Bellina — Sat, 24 Apr 2021 17:35:42 -0400

Well said Richard Zacke Served from 1971- 1992 Never guilty but Always Proud and Honored

Response by SGT Dave Gillespie made Apr 24 at 2021 6:25 PM

SGT Dave Gillespie — Sat, 24 Apr 2021 18:25:59 -0400

Who’s asking these absurd questions and why in the hell would someone from any time period feel guilty for such a thing? These questions are enough entertainment for anyone to bask in for some time.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 24 at 2021 7:26 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 24 Apr 2021 19:26:24 -0400

I was active duty Air Force from 1985-1988 I joined the Alabama Army National Guard in 2006 and have a deployment the only time I feel guilty is when I think about how we were welcomed home versus how the Soldiers that served in Vietnam were treated.

Response by SSG Mark Shull made Apr 24 at 2021 8:40 PM

SSG Mark Shull — Sat, 24 Apr 2021 20:40:04 -0400

I joined the Army 1979. Upon completing Basic and AIT was sent to Berlin Germany. No I did not serve in the Vietnam war. I thank all those that did serve. Berlin was a "Cold War, front line duty assignment". We were 110 miles behind the "Iron Curtain". Basically we were told; "If the balloon goes up, you got about 8 hours or less". It was the only place in the World at the time that even though you did not directly enter a Combat zone, you was eligible to join the Veterans of Foreign War. So for all those that served in Berlin, You are a Combat Veteran. I salute everyone of you and Thank You for your service.

Response by SSG Edward Tilton made Apr 24 at 2021 10:21 PM

SSG Edward Tilton — Sat, 24 Apr 2021 22:21:26 -0400

I spent almost two years in Vietnam and another three years in Korea within Artillery range of the DMZ. Why would I feel guilty.

Response by SGT Quentin Moore made Apr 25 at 2021 12:00 AM

SGT Quentin Moore — Sun, 25 Apr 2021 00:00:21 -0400

Nope

Response by SGT Brenden Lee made Apr 25 at 2021 2:03 AM

SGT Brenden Lee — Sun, 25 Apr 2021 02:03:16 -0400

I served from 1981 to 1987, spending 2 1/2 years in Korea, near the DMZ and 6 months in Honduras and 1 1/2 at Ft. Irwin in an OPFOR (Opposing Forces) uniform. As well as Ft. Carson, CO. In Korea we were keeping the peace and there were some crazy things going on in Panmunjom all of the time. Most civilians back in the states never heard about them. Things happened in Honduras that I don't even want to talk about and the U.S. doesn't have a great history when it comes to Honduras, I'm not sure I like to be thanked for that but I did what I was told to do. As far as Ft. Irwin, my unit was the OPFOR unit so we were, basically the Russian army. Our uniforms were Russian right down to the rank. We had war drills, U.S. vs Russia all the time, to keep pace in case of a war with Russia. So, I agree with Lt. Col Robert Canfield, we served as deterrents. I get more humble than anything when someone thanks me for my service. I just say thank you back and I usually ask if someone in their family served so I can ask them to thank them for their service also.

Response by SPC Robert Singleton made Apr 25 at 2021 8:58 AM

SPC Robert Singleton — Sun, 25 Apr 2021 08:58:23 -0400

I served from 1975 right out of high school, to -78 peace time,but ready to go on a seconds notice! I've always been proud to call myself a US Veteran, also met my wife of the last 42 yrs in the military yes she also is a Veteran. We never saw any conflicts but continually trained for such. We are both prior members, 101st MPC and proud to be called Veterans. To answer the question yes I am proud of our service, peacetime or conflict we served with honor. No regrets, Air Assault. And Thank you all Past, Present and Future for your service.

Response by SMSgt Sheila Berg made Apr 25 at 2021 12:33 PM

SMSgt Sheila Berg — Sun, 25 Apr 2021 12:33:11 -0400

Most of the Public it's a good feeling statement. They have no appreciation of our Service. I says thanks and move on.

Response by COL G Wade made Apr 25 at 2021 1:14 PM

COL G Wade — Sun, 25 Apr 2021 13:14:26 -0400

I often respond to similar questions the same way...just because you weren't called to the fight doesn't mean you weren't ready and able to do so. I respect the service of the peacetime Coast Guard member as much as that of the combat veteran with multiple deployments.

Response by SGT Del Mccool made Apr 25 at 2021 3:34 PM

SGT Del Mccool — Sun, 25 Apr 2021 15:34:49 -0400

Yes, I served 76-86 and spent 6 years working the border between East Germany and West Germany. The cold war was very real to me as every day I had a real-world mission. I am sure the guys on the Korean were feeling a very real situation during that time even till today. So I may not have been in a "Hot war" as my oldest son with 2 tours in Iraq was, but I served my country with pride.

Response by Sgt Ivan Boatwright made Apr 25 at 2021 6:31 PM

Sgt Ivan Boatwright — Sun, 25 Apr 2021 18:31:41 -0400

Yes, and I ask them not to because all I did was kill/murder too many people for no reason.

Response by PO1 William Bargar made Apr 25 at 2021 7:53 PM

PO1 William Bargar — Sun, 25 Apr 2021 19:53:37 -0400

I'm always proud of the Military Service 1978-1998. I'm A Cold War, Desert Storm, Desert Shield, & Persian Gulf Veteran! Never need to apologize for your Military Service - EVER! Your Military time should be honored & cherished! Be proud of it!

Response by LTC Charles "Pappy" Patchin made Apr 25 at 2021 11:09 PM

LTC Charles "Pappy" Patchin — Sun, 25 Apr 2021 23:09:30 -0400

I served from 1961 to 1996. 1965 -1968 in Vietnam. I get the "Thank you" all the time. Then I tell them my wife was Army, too. She gets the same parrot. My usual comeback is "did you serve, too?" I thank them back if they served. They are surprised. For the rest, my you're welcome is just as sincere as their thank you.

Response by PO2 Mike Vignapiano made Apr 25 at 2021 11:29 PM

PO2 Mike Vignapiano — Sun, 25 Apr 2021 23:29:29 -0400

I started my service on Active Duty in 82. It was BECAUSE of those who served during the wars before me. Although too many disrespected them, I admired the camaraderie they shared. It was a brotherhood, tighter than anything today.

Response by SP5 James Stockton made Apr 26 at 2021 7:31 AM

SP5 James Stockton — Mon, 26 Apr 2021 07:31:39 -0400

I do feel a little envy. The national shame over our treatment is what caused the "Thank You" today. If no other service member has to go through what we did, then our sacrifice was worth it. It is nice to hear, although in the back .of my mind, I am thinking it sure would have been much nicer to have heard it 50 years ago

Response by Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 26 at 2021 8:30 AM

Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 26 Apr 2021 08:30:05 -0400

No one should feel guilty when someone thanks them for their service. The 60s and early 70s many served in Vietnam, in the 80's there was Beirut, Granada, and certainly the Cold War. But when the Wall came down, it was uncertain times of who was in control of not only conventional weapons such as Tanks, Aircraft, and Ground Missiles; but of the nuclear weapons as well. Throughout all of my 39 years on active duty, Reserve, and Guard; there are those who deployed in theater and those who did not, but all served our nation and signed that check to our nation to defend and support the Constitution of the United States against all enemies foreign and domestic. The mid-90s with the first terrorist attack on the Twin towers, on our embassies and even at Fort Hood showed us that there are no front lines in this war on terrorism and that all who serve is at risk.

Certainly those who served during the Vietnam era were scorned sort of like the police are today. So when someone wants to thank us for our serve, just say thank you and be happy that there are those who appreciate the uniform and the sacrifices made. All of us have missed birthdays, graduations, holidays, and other events to serve our nation.

Thank you to all that have served, that are currently serving, and who will serve.

Response by COL Larry Sage made Apr 26 at 2021 1:20 PM

COL Larry Sage — Mon, 26 Apr 2021 13:20:57 -0400

As I was involuntarily inducted and served, rather than flee, it feels just right. I prefer to say to my vet friends & their families, "...Thank you for your sacrifices!"

Response by SGT Ronald Audas made Apr 26 at 2021 2:10 PM

SGT Ronald Audas — Mon, 26 Apr 2021 14:10:25 -0400

I have no issue with being thanked.To me,it is a term used with sincerity.If not,there would be no sense in saying it.I have often thanked a fellow veteran for his service.I too was spit on and had fecies thrown at me.The 60's was not a good time to serve.I would be very dismayed to find that attitudes hadn't changed in 40 to 50 years.

Response by Sgt Frank Latham made Apr 26 at 2021 8:16 PM

Sgt Frank Latham — Mon, 26 Apr 2021 20:16:52 -0400

From being treated like crap, there is a certain irony.

Response by SFC Ralph E Kelley made Apr 26 at 2021 9:19 PM

SFC Ralph E Kelley — Mon, 26 Apr 2021 21:19:29 -0400

No US Service Members during the Cold War, no matter what years they served, has to feel shame that they served. You obviously do not know how many members of the uniformed military were injuried, wounded or killed in service the during the Cold War. It is estimated there were 291000+ casualties, wounded and killed, during active operations. This number excludes American casualties during the Korean and the Vietnam Wars.
.
Background on the Cold War Casualty Count ~ quoted from QUORA Articles on Historical International Relations, Historical Power (international relations) and The Cold War
Here are are the worldwide numbers for all nation's casualties caused directly by the Cold War since WWII. US Personnel were deployed in all of these against Communist forces as noted below.
- 158,000 Greek Civil War
- 3,000 Executed in East Germany
- 6,222–6,722 Hungarian Revolution
- 2,469,287–3,272,955 Korean War
- 2,500,000–6,000,000 1945–49 Chinese Civil War
- 200–300 Iranian Revolution
- 200,000 Guatemalan Civil War
- 100,000 Congo Crisis
- 5,000 Cuban Revolution
- 4,198 Bay of Pigs Invasion
- 2,825 Dominican Civil War
- 400,000–3,000,000 1965–66 Indonesian Genocide
- 966,000–3,812,000 Vietnam War
- 240,000–300,000 Cambodian Civil War
- 1,700,000–3,000,000 Cambodian genocide
- 20,000–62,000 Laotian Civil War
- 100,000 Hmong genocide
- 200,000 Degar genocide
- 200,000 Boat people
- 95,000 Reeducation Camps
- 65,425 Foreign Intervention In Indochina Wars
- 60,000–80,000 Operation Condor (3,000 Pinochet, 13,000 Vidella, et al.)
- 10,822–21,601 Yom Kippur War+14,119 Ogaden War
- 430,000–1,500,000 Menghistu Haile Mariam Crimes Against Humanity
- 500,000 Angolan Civil War
- 60,000–308,000 East Timor genocide
- 500,000–2,000,000 Soviet Afghan War I
Cold War and War on Terror Casualties and De-escalation
- 225,000 and 317,000 deaths, Mengistu Haile Mariam, Ethiopia: Red Terror and Famine caused by the Cold War (crop burning, food confiscation) as the over 1 million figure.
- 50,000 to 200,000 Somalian Rebellion / Isaaq Genocide
- 70,000 to 87,000 Salvadoran Civil War
- 65,000[441] Communist Czechoslovakia (dubious IMO, but only estimate)
- 60,000 Communist Romania (The 150–300thousand estimates for land reform surpass those killed in Vietnam’s land reform which would be odd as more landlords were targeted in Vietnam (According to the Vietnam Institute for Economics, 172,008 individuals were designated as landlords and rich peasants, of whom 71.66% were mistakenly categorized) than in Romania (expropriated from 143,219 owners) and there is evidence that “only” 13,500[42][43][44] perhaps far more[45] (reaching into the early 32,000–50,000 figures most likely[41][39][40]) were killed in Vietnam’s massacre so death toll in Romania’s land reform is likely even lower than that. The other major killing was the - - - - 100,000 to 200,000 - Danube/Black Sea Canal Slave Labor
- 31,000 Communist Bulgaria
- 13,000 to 34,000 Jiang Kai Shek's White Terror and 2/28 incident
- 27,000 Communist Hungary
- 25,000 Communist Albania
- 22,000 Communist Poland
- 10,000 Communist Albania
- 3,000 East Germany

Response by SSG Michael Langley made Apr 26 at 2021 9:34 PM

SSG Michael Langley — Mon, 26 Apr 2021 21:34:27 -0400

I volunteered and served eight years. I am old enough to remember that veterans were not always thanked. Both my wife, who served six years, and I have discussed that now popular phrase which does not embarrass us as much as confuses us. If those who utter those words really felt that our service was worthy of thanks, there were no hurdles to their own chance to serve. Many chose to take steps that personally furthered their education or career than to do some sort of National Service, military or humanitarian. I must admit that military service was traditional in my family, but so were other vocations for the betterment of the country. We were union organizers, educators, parents, community volunteers, and voters. Better than a "Thanks for your service," would be putting their own shoulders to the task.

Response by PO2 Steven Michaeli made Apr 26 at 2021 9:49 PM

PO2 Steven Michaeli — Mon, 26 Apr 2021 21:49:51 -0400

Guilty, no. Uncomfortable maybe. Undeserving, yes. I served from 1977 until 2004. I had a two year break in the middle and my last three were IRR. I spent nine years overseas. Filled a lot of caskets in Jonestown. Received a medal for saving a Marine. But when I get a thank you I can only think of my not being there to save Andrew Aviles. My failure shines bright as a diamond while the medal sits tarnishing in a drawer.

Response by SFC Paul Whitfield made Apr 27 at 2021 3:07 PM

SFC Paul Whitfield — Tue, 27 Apr 2021 15:07:31 -0400

I enlisted in 1989. I remember people looking down on me when I was in uniform, as if I had no other options in life but to serve my country. After I returned from Desert Shield/Storm the country had done a 180; while some people were negative, the vast majority fell over themselves to thank me for my service. Yellow ribbons were everywhere and parades were held all across the country. Those of us who served during that time will tell you Desert Storm was the best thing that ever happened to the US in decades. It gave the People the excuse they needed to "apologize" for how the Vietnam Veterans had been treated for the past 20+ years. Personally, I made it a point to thank those Vietnam Veterans, my father among them, every opportunity I had.

Over 25 years I had combat tours in Kuwait, Bosnia, Kosova, and Iraq (not upset one bit I managed to miss out on Afghanistan); the ONLY difference between my service and the service of someone who served one enlistment with no combat tours is I have Tricare and they don't.
NEVER feel guilt if thanked for your service. Understand that someone's gratitude for your service is NOT an entitlement. If you volunteered then you were doing your job. If you were drafted then you ARE entitled to our gratitude.

Regardless, if you put on the uniform, Thank You for your service. I appreciate you and my children appreciate you.

Response by CMDCM Gene Treants made Apr 27 at 2021 6:03 PM

CMDCM Gene Treants — Tue, 27 Apr 2021 18:03:29 -0400

As I remember it (I was in from 1969 to 1996) when the Cold War was happening, I was part of the effort to stop the Iron Curtain as well as support the troops in Viet Nam. AT that time the U.S. Navy's motto was "Power for Peace." Our main mission, as well as that of the other services, was projecting a Strong Military presence everywhere to stop the Soviets from thinking the U.S was going to be a pushover anywhere.

During the early part of my service (1966 to 1975) the main thing many civilians were thinking about and talking about was the Viet Nam War, but they were being very short-sighted. Our Armed forces were focused on not only the war in 'Nam but also the Soviet threat. The Navy was projecting power in all parts of the world with Carriers and other ships.

Maybe it is the difference in when we served, but I earned the thanks of every person alive today. The Soviet threat was more real at the time than any threat we faced before. I still feel it was a cheap out by the leaders of the military giving in to Conge=ress and the bean counters to NOT authorize the Cold War Medal. (In the 1998 National Defense Authorization Act, the Secretary of Defense approved awarding Cold War Recognition Certificates to all members of the armed forces and qualified federal government civilian personnel who faithfully and honorably served the United States any time during the Cold War era, Sept. 2, 1945, through Dec. 26, 1991. Applicants must certify that their service was "faithful and honorable", and they must supply a copy of a supporting document that proves that they served during the Cold War era. The certificate may be awarded posthumously to those whose relatives apply on their behalf. There is no charge for a Cold War Recognition Certificate.) But Congress decided it would be too expensive to authorize the Medal/Ribbon.

Response by Louann Thomas made Apr 28 at 2021 1:13 AM

Louann Thomas — Wed, 28 Apr 2021 01:13:14 -0400

SPC Richard Zacke when you enlisted I have no doubt you were prepared for that check written "Up to and including my life" had you been called to do so. My father was an Army Drill Sgt, I have some idea of what you were trained for. During the "Cold War" there was some scary stuff going on and had the winds of war changed one small bit, it could have been a whole lot different. When you signed on that dotted line, you knew the possibilities and you signed anyways. My 2 sons serving now knew the risks all too well, men like you paved the path for them. You are ALL my Heroes!
I no longer say "Thank you for your service" I changed up when I realized what you and all of those who served before actually did for me. I now say "Thank you for my freedom".
SPC Richard Zacke thank YOU for my freedom Sir!

Response by PO2 William McKibbon made Apr 28 at 2021 9:28 AM

PO2 William McKibbon — Wed, 28 Apr 2021 09:28:14 -0400

Pisses me off to the MAX when benefits are not given to 100% service connected Vets because bullets never flew over our heads. But accidents happened often and these poor service men and woman are shoved under the rug because it happened before 9/11. BULL SHIT to the VA for thinking of this STUPID RULE!

Response by MSG J G. Sandy Phillips made Apr 28 at 2021 9:58 AM

MSG J G. Sandy Phillips — Wed, 28 Apr 2021 09:58:15 -0400

Once the draft was suspended for the all volunteer force, it could well have been "Thank you for serving so I (or my son/father/brother/son) didn''t have to. If you had not served, the draft would of come back, folks, make no mistake.
And while we're on the subject, let's not forget the small "incursions" "rescues"" and "humanitarian missions" that occurred (and continue to occur) during that time. Those men and women were always ready to be called upon. And WOMEN, who were always a part of the forces, were growing in number and coming into their own. All volunteers and all answering the highest calll of public service. Yes, thank you all for your service, and thank this great country for allowing us to serve. I don't know about you, but I'd never have been as dedicated to serve any other.

Response by CPO Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 28 at 2021 11:43 AM

CPO Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 28 Apr 2021 11:43:26 -0400

Richard if you weren't the SECDEF deciding when to advise the President to go to war- I don't think you have anything to feel guilty about. Troops don't decide when they go into battle but that doesn't diminish their contribution in peace time. If combat vets were asked if they wanted to go into battle again most would say "No". Likewise support roles if asked the same question would say "yes". Ours is not to reason why. Thank you for your service brother- you did what most American's won't do.

Response by CWO4 Ray Fairman made Apr 28 at 2021 2:37 PM

CWO4 Ray Fairman — Wed, 28 Apr 2021 14:37:12 -0400

If it makes them happy, just let it go. I served from the early '60s through 2000 and did not join so someone would say thank you. I am proud of my service and know why I swore my oath and stayed in uniform... Guess that is why I also spent 40+ years serving as a Law Enforcement Officer as a civilian and again could not care if I ever was thanked by those who never served alongside me.
God only made so many instinctive sheepdogs and I was only thankful for them.

Response by SGT Harald Hendrichsen made Apr 28 at 2021 4:10 PM

SGT Harald Hendrichsen — Wed, 28 Apr 2021 16:10:03 -0400

I had a memorable experience yesterday, 27 APR 21. My property is somewhat rural and my dogs were off leash. Three youngsters, maybe 10-12 years old, were walking by and the dogs ran over to the road barking at them. I went out to the kids and told them not to worry, the dogs wouldn't hurt them, so the kids kept walking. They got to my roadside mailbox, about 20 feet further on, where I have placed a Vietnam Veteran and POW/MIA bumper sticker, and the young boy said something I couldn't hear because I wasn't wearing my hearing aids (service connected loss from Nam). I told him I couldn't hear him, and he came back to me and asked, "You fought in Vietnam?" I said, "Yes, I did, 52 years ago." The young fella said to me, "My Grandpa did, too. Thank-you, sir." That young man about put tears in my eyes.

Response by 1SG Robert Siedenburg made Apr 28 at 2021 7:25 PM

1SG Robert Siedenburg — Wed, 28 Apr 2021 19:25:11 -0400

I served in the late 1960s (and was spat on and ridiculed), and I served again in the 1980s and 1990s. I am not embarrassed by my service. I am proud of it. I miss no opportunity to thank other vets. One year I walked across my state to honor service members and veterans. I thanked a Vietnam War vet for his service. He cried. No one had ever thanked him for his service before. One important thing to keep in mind is that the contributions of all service members are essential to conducting a battle, an action, a mission, or a war. We should appreciate each other rather than playing some kind of silly one-upmanship.

Response by SFC Edward Ermey made Apr 28 at 2021 8:19 PM

SFC Edward Ermey — Wed, 28 Apr 2021 20:19:05 -0400

Guilty no, some what embarrassed that they thank me, yes.
I usually tell them, I chose that life thank you but you do not have to thank me for the life I chose.

Response by PO1 Robert Dooms made Apr 29 at 2021 1:36 AM

PO1 Robert Dooms — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 01:36:09 -0400

I served in the Navy from 1967 to 1973. I flew back to San Francisco from the Philippines. The plane stopped short of the airport and we offloaded our bags to go through customs. We walked in on a sidewalk with a perimeter fence with about 30-40 people spitting through the fence. When someone today says "Thank you for your service.", I feel that there is now a recognition of all branches of service and all areas of service.

Response by SSgt Michele Owings made Apr 29 at 2021 3:17 AM

SSgt Michele Owings — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 03:17:09 -0400

I used to, because it was so new, it was like "What?" Now I don't for 2 reasons. One is I have friends who were in Vietman and were treated miserably afterward, and I want to do everything possible to make that person think they are doing a nice thing, because the next person could be one of the Vietnam vets who would sorely love to hear those words. I don't want to anything to discourage someone from thanking them. Second, as someone once said, we all signed a check for our lives and handed it over.

Response by Cpl John Payne made Apr 29 at 2021 10:14 AM

Cpl John Payne — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 10:14:08 -0400

I SERVED FROM 1967 TO 1970. 18 MONTHS IN VIETNAM AND WOUNDED IN BOTH LEGS
I DIDN'T START HEARING THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE UNTIL ABOUT25 YEARS AGO
AND I JUST SAY YOU ARE WELCOME

Response by SP5 Douglas Murphy made Apr 29 at 2021 11:03 AM

SP5 Douglas Murphy — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 11:03:20 -0400

Not guilty, as such, more like uneasiness or embarrassment.

Response by PO3 Robert Gordon made Apr 29 at 2021 10:02 PM

PO3 Robert Gordon — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 22:02:23 -0400

Served 78-82 and I feel the same...having trouble being rated for my PTSD because there is no way I can sit in a group of "boots on" and discuss myself with people who earned their stripes.

Response by SGT Mark Kotajarvi made Apr 29 at 2021 10:38 PM

SGT Mark Kotajarvi — Thu, 29 Apr 2021 22:38:18 -0400

After two tours in Korea and one in Germany I feel that I have served my Country. Those that question my or anyone's service must first serve. I was in from late 76 until 1987. Served on the DMZ in Korea and at some point a guard tower in Germany. Cold War but for some you had Panama and Grenada. Maybe not Vietnam or WWI or II but war to some point.

Response by Sgt Lyle Summerfield made Apr 30 at 2021 2:40 AM

Sgt Lyle Summerfield — Fri, 30 Apr 2021 02:40:53 -0400

I too, was called a baby killer,even in 1979.I almost beat the dude who said it, but, we were just partying..... now I know what was on his mind.! Oh, by the way, I say Your welcomed when they thank me for my service.!!!

Response by LCpl Richard Lally made Apr 30 at 2021 12:23 PM

LCpl Richard Lally — Fri, 30 Apr 2021 12:23:17 -0400

everyone that served during that period was labled in some way shape or form. I was a proud marine and keep my self respect. remember Those who have not served will never understand what "Thank You for your service" truly means SEMPI FI TO ALL WHO SERVED

Response by PFC Dan Benjamin made Apr 30 at 2021 2:11 PM

PFC Dan Benjamin — Fri, 30 Apr 2021 14:11:24 -0400

I was in 72 - 75 and I agree. When flying back to the states, in the airport you’d get terrible looks, baby killer was used, etc. No, I dont fell guilty at all but I am happy that none of the trash that was used or done back then is being done any longer and it seems people appreciate a vet finally.

Response by PO3 Timothy Moore made Apr 30 at 2021 2:36 PM

PO3 Timothy Moore — Fri, 30 Apr 2021 14:36:46 -0400

I used to feel a little guilty, Because I was on the U.S.S.Constellation in 1973 20 miles off the coast of Vietnam, but after talking to those that served in country they told me " yuo did what you were told , went where you were sent, you were there when it was not a popular place to be. Be proud of your service." I no longer feel guilty and am proud to say I am a U.S. Navy Vietnam Veteran. Tim Moore AT-3 VA-147

Response by SGT Kenneth Duncan made Apr 30 at 2021 9:18 PM

SGT Kenneth Duncan — Fri, 30 Apr 2021 21:18:39 -0400

I was 1982 to 1991. I was stationed in Germany during Desert Storm. I was also on border patrol when the border opened. I would have stayed in longer if it weren't for immediate family problems. I got out and got hired at the post office. I am a 35 year federal retiree. I don't feel guilty about anything. I did it for me and now I get paid every month to do what I want to. I am still proud that I served. Not many people do. We are still a small percentage of the population. Other countries still do the draft. All have to serve. This country needs to be careful, because I see the draft coming back.

Response by MSG Terry Lingle made May 1 at 2021 3:19 PM

MSG Terry Lingle — Sat, 01 May 2021 15:19:49 -0400

I don’t ever feel ashamed of my service from 68 to 89. I didn’t try to avoid the draft, I didn’t run to Canada, I didn’t fake a medical condition to avoid service, I (and many others) served when so many others refused to serve. I went where the US Army sent me, did what they told me to do and served honorably to the best of my ability. What is there to be ashamed of in that? When people thank me for my service, I tell them truthfully that I was honored to serve. I don’t embellish my service when drawn into conversation about it and generally make it clear that I didn’t serve in combat, even though I did serve in a hostile fire zone (Korean DMZ) and received combat pay. I do at times regret that I wasn’t in combat at some point in my career, but many who have had that experience tell me it’s foolish to wish it. In short, if you served when many didn’t and did so honorably, why would a veteran be ashamed?

Response by SP5 David Connolly made May 1 at 2021 3:22 PM

SP5 David Connolly — Sat, 01 May 2021 15:22:24 -0400

I would rather people say welcome home, that’s a one size fits all greeting.

Response by SP5 David Connolly made May 1 at 2021 3:22 PM

SP5 David Connolly — Sat, 01 May 2021 15:22:57 -0400

I would rather people say welcome home.

Response by SPC James Wright made May 1 at 2021 11:09 PM

SPC James Wright — Sat, 01 May 2021 23:09:12 -0400

Absolutely not. But I do think about both wars.. I wish I knew what my father did in Vietnam.

Response by PO1 Michael Withrow made May 2 at 2021 12:05 PM

PO1 Michael Withrow — Sun, 02 May 2021 12:05:15 -0400

60s to 80's.. hmm. vietnam, somalia pirates, Vietnamese refugees being attacked and shooting at our boats when we intervene.... Not everyone was an admin weenie who avoided deployment.

Response by Sgt Dennis Doty made May 3 at 2021 7:23 AM

Sgt Dennis Doty — Mon, 03 May 2021 07:23:52 -0400

I served from '68 to '78 and fail to see the point to the question. I do greet Vietnam vets with, "Welcome home, brother." Simply because they rarely got a welcome home due to the anti-war protests at home. But that's the only significant difference I can see between this era and any other. When someone thanks me for my service, I generally respond, "You're welcome. It was my great honor."

Response by PFC David Cox made May 3 at 2021 11:21 AM

PFC David Cox — Mon, 03 May 2021 11:21:06 -0400

I served in the Army in Italy in 1964 and 1965 after being drafted. I've always been proud of my service although I feel guilty to call myself a Viet Nam veteran (more like a Viet Nam Era veteran). I find it refreshing to be thanked for my service and was shocked the first time it happened in the '90's (30 years after I served). The Viet Nam veterans were severely mistreated when they returned home. I was called a few names by liberal idiots while I was attending the University of California in Berkeley after being discharged. I was held at the rank of PFC during my service in Italy as a result of calling a sergeant an "SOB". I have learned to hold my tongue since then!

Response by 1SG Steven Borts made May 3 at 2021 1:28 PM

1SG Steven Borts — Mon, 03 May 2021 13:28:08 -0400

I don't feel guilty, and I appreciate the sentiment, even though I think it has become rather trite and over-done. I served active duty from 1973-1979 and reserve component from 1979 to 1993. I did what I was ordered to do, and was willing to go if they sent me. We had a number of real world scares in West Germany from 1975-78, but nothing came of it, at least for my mech infantry battalion.

Response by SSgt Ron Lindsey made May 5 at 2021 3:07 PM

SSgt Ron Lindsey — Wed, 05 May 2021 15:07:36 -0400

I served 62-68, with 65-66-67 in Vietnam. I wear cover with indicating a Marine Vietnam vet. When people tell me "Thanks for your Service" I say "Thank You". If it is someone mature enough to understand I say ThNK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT!

Response by SPC Franklin McKown made May 6 at 2021 4:32 PM

SPC Franklin McKown — Thu, 06 May 2021 16:32:21 -0400

After we WON the cold war against the USSR?
Do you think getting blooded is an actual thing?
It isn't,we all did our duty only some were called to fight. I was on;y in Dserrt Sheild /Storm and rode in a vehicle and got all sick from VA, 100% sick,should I hate myself for such malingering?I don't
I gave the cav good service and I can face God himseldf with the news.
Not the best but a good trooper.

Response by MSG Bob S made May 8 at 2021 4:04 PM

MSG Bob S — Sat, 08 May 2021 16:04:19 -0400

You served right? Take the appreciation because much went on during that time what with the Cold War and nuclear deterrence! My Dad was also SF and was a “Tour Guide” with the USMLM and some of the stories he would tell me after I graduated the Q were impressive and made me wish I could have served in the 70’s & 80’s

Response by PO2 Jim Anthony made May 9 at 2021 2:13 PM

PO2 Jim Anthony — Sun, 09 May 2021 14:13:12 -0400

I served (USN) during the exact same period, but did not run into any real nasty public responses. At the time though, we did not wear uniforms off base. We changed to civies before going home. Of course, San Diego was a heavy Navy town, and still is, and is still where I live. I do find it strange when people say "Thank you for your service," but I just say "thanks." A lot of us older guys, around here, even took to wearing our Navy Ship ball caps. It is out of respect for all the past and present service members. Kind of coming out of the closet. A show of strength and unity, that it is cool to be in the military; Something to be proud of. Fact is, us Cold War military were so bad ass that no one dared f..k with us.

Response by SP6 Reynaldo Garcia made May 10 at 2021 11:22 AM

SP6 Reynaldo Garcia — Mon, 10 May 2021 11:22:23 -0400

Not sure how I feel, because I know I served because I thought that it was the right thing you do. But now it all looks like marking to make people feel good about them self not because it the right thing to door say. I think some people mean it but most say it because they were told to say it.

Response by SP6 Reynaldo Garcia made May 10 at 2021 11:24 AM

SP6 Reynaldo Garcia — Mon, 10 May 2021 11:24:40 -0400

Not sure how I feel, because I know I served because I thought that it was the right thing you do. But now it all looks like marking to make people feel good about themselves not because it the right thing to do or say. I think some people mean it but most say it because they were told to say it.

Response by MSgt Nancy Wilson made May 11 at 2021 6:17 PM

MSgt Nancy Wilson — Tue, 11 May 2021 18:17:52 -0400

It feels weird. Really. Thank you for thanking me. Thank you for baking cookies for the Red Cross, so that we would have snacks while away. Thank you for working in the Post Office so we could get our mail. Thank you for caring for my children while I was away. Husband was a tunnel rat in Vietnam -- nobody ever really appreciated his courage the way that I did. All they saw was a loser who couldn't keep a job. If you had said thank you to him -- he would have then tried to bum a cigarette from you. Marlboro's. Red Pack. Better yet -- give him the whole pack...

Response by Maj Major Ted C. Mc Neel Sr. USMC Retired made May 17 at 2021 3:35 PM

Maj Major Ted C. Mc Neel Sr. USMC Retired — Mon, 17 May 2021 15:35:19 -0400

As a Vietnam Veeran, I appreciate words of thanks for my USMC service and thank them for the recongnition.

Response by CW2 Frank Trinkle made May 18 at 2021 12:23 PM

CW2 Frank Trinkle — Tue, 18 May 2021 12:23:24 -0400

Whenever someone thanks me for my service, regardless of when I served, I used to not have an answer to that, but now I always say "Thank you for your Support" in response.

Response by SGT Michael Jordan made May 22 at 2021 2:09 AM

SGT Michael Jordan — Sat, 22 May 2021 02:09:00 -0400

Feel guilty because I and everybody else that served during that time helped keep the Cold War cold? Not hardly.

Response by SGT Nathan Armstrong made May 23 at 2021 9:15 AM

SGT Nathan Armstrong — Sun, 23 May 2021 09:15:19 -0400

I served in the Army from ‘83 - ‘93 as a Signals Intel Analyst (98C) with a language trailer of czech, slovak and spanish. I spent a lot of years feeling like I had never fully contributed because I was never deployed to a ‘combat’ zone, even though I volunteered to go for the first Gulf War.
It wasn’t until a good friend and fellow vet helped me understand that I signed the same blank check as everyone else and was willing for Uncle Sam to cash that check at any time just like everyone else. Today I know I served honorably and would tell anyone who served the same thing.
I do remember vividly rolling our tracked vehicles out along the West Germany / Czech border and all the residents of the local towns / villages would come out and wave at us. They were very glad that we still had a presence there.... show of force if you will.

Response by Maj Maria Avellaneda made May 23 at 2021 9:45 PM

Maj Maria Avellaneda — Sun, 23 May 2021 21:45:00 -0400

Why! I served and my service required many sacrifices for me and my family! Every person serves were they are! You job well done is what you are required to do and should be proud of you doing it!

Response by MSG John Endersbe made May 23 at 2021 11:38 PM

MSG John Endersbe — Sun, 23 May 2021 23:38:11 -0400

I cringe when I sense the thanks are coming from an insincere desire to utter platitudes to makeup for.our being called baby killers and being spit on by the hell no we won’t go crowd. The hippie bunch has a long way to go before I will trust again.

Response by PO1 Steven Ewing made May 24 at 2021 10:48 AM

PO1 Steven Ewing — Mon, 24 May 2021 10:48:58 -0400

"They Also Serve Who Only Stand and Wait."

Response by MSgt Allen Chandler made Jun 6 at 2021 4:03 PM

MSgt Allen Chandler — Sun, 06 Jun 2021 16:03:20 -0400

I serve from 1962 to 1983 I was in the United States Air Force. the vast majority time I was not directly in harms way I don’t apologize for the single day of my service I am very proud of what I did for myself in my country. That other people are appreciative of what I did does not surprise me and I don’t feel guilty about them saying nice things. Now about this concept of war time service versus peacetime service between 1955 and 1995 there was not a single year in which at least one military member was killed in what I would call combat conditions in Korea. There were no official conflicts, no official wars, no official battles but people died. The US population can be divided into two groups those step forward and said I will stand on the line I will do my part to protect us and those that did not. I do not disrespect those that did not if you became a doctor or a bus driver I greatly appreciate your contribution to making my country good. Those witch did a step forward and said I will wear the uniform was in the military , fireman, policeman or guard I have a special gratitude and don’t think they need to apologize to anybody.

Response by SSG Harry Herres made Jun 6 at 2021 7:14 PM

SSG Harry Herres — Sun, 06 Jun 2021 19:14:59 -0400

I don't feel guilty I feel rage! Don't thank me for doing what only about 8% of Americans do. Say thank you for those who gave everything and those that are still paying for their service! No one said thank you when I returned from Vietnam. No thanks then, I am the same person only 50 years old. Don't thank me now! If you are serving or have served you are a member of the 8% club!!!

Response by SGT Thomas Carter made Jun 6 at 2021 11:44 PM

SGT Thomas Carter — Sun, 06 Jun 2021 23:44:11 -0400

My grandfather who served in the Marines told me one day your in the jungle and the next day your stepping of the plain and being spat on and being called baby killer. What does that do to your mind.

The whole problem with the Vietnam War is the US military along with supporting aliens where so hamstrung that they were ineffective. What should have happened was tell the military to attack North Vietnam and wipe it off the face of the earth. The irony of the Vietnam War was that

Response by SGT Thomas Carter made Jun 6 at 2021 11:50 PM

SGT Thomas Carter — Sun, 06 Jun 2021 23:50:09 -0400

Is hochi Minh was an admirer of the US and after the 1st World War was over sought the U s's help to Is no longer being a colony of the French but a free country instead the US supported the French. With no help coming from the US, Ho Chi men went to the Chinese and got help from them Ho Chi Minh went to the Chinese and got help from them.

Response by SGT Frank Hewes made Jun 7 at 2021 12:28 AM

SGT Frank Hewes — Mon, 07 Jun 2021 00:28:50 -0400

As my father, a 3 tour Vietnam vet, put it to my brother and me, "Accept it graciously for all the vets that at best were ignored when they returned home, even if you don't think you deserve it."

Response by SSG Ralph Watkins made Jun 7 at 2021 9:17 AM

SSG Ralph Watkins — Mon, 07 Jun 2021 09:17:53 -0400

I was active from 1979-1992 in intelligence & then Guard artillery from 1992-2005. Being in the intelligence field during the Cold War was like a dream. It was 95% boredom & 5% exhilaration. It was terrifying at times too seeing a possible WW-III start or monitoring accidents to atrocities. I spent 3 years in Berlin when the Berlin Wall was still up & we were told the Soviets were our allies.
It was better than any spy novel ever written. We used to go to the communist side & see that form of govt firsthand. In the Guard, we had lots of fun & even when we went to Iraq, we fell into some really high value missions. So when people thank me for my service, I respond with "I can't believe that they paid me to have so much fun".

Response by SFC James Jones made Jun 7 at 2021 10:18 AM

SFC James Jones — Mon, 07 Jun 2021 10:18:21 -0400

I don't recall that during 78-81 anyone being called baby killer or spit at. They did this in the 60's during Vietnam. I served from Aug 64-Oct 73 in the Marine Corps and Jun 74-30 Apr 85 in the Army retiring 1 May 85. Whether you served during peace time or time of a conflict should have nothing to do with. To me someone say Thank You for Your Service is their way of paying respect to you. So to all that has served: THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE and to all my Vietnam Brothers and Sisters, WELCOME HOME.

Response by MSgt Eric Roseberry made Jun 7 at 2021 11:36 AM

MSgt Eric Roseberry — Mon, 07 Jun 2021 11:36:43 -0400

I served proudly from 79 - 99. A true cold warrior. Panama, Grenada, Somalia, and Iraq I. Terrorism was a real threat in Europe in the 80's as well.

Defending freedom from Communist expansion is very different from expanding Democracy into decentralized tribal societies.

Response by SPC Celerio Rivera made Jun 7 at 2021 11:53 AM

SPC Celerio Rivera — Mon, 07 Jun 2021 11:53:13 -0400

How about saying Your Welcome and move on your way .

Response by SSG Willie Means made Jun 7 at 2021 11:55 AM

SSG Willie Means — Mon, 07 Jun 2021 11:55:27 -0400

I was a Fire Direction Specialist in an Artillery Battery's Fire Direction Center/FDC in Germany from '77 through '80. Our Primary assignment if the 'Ball Went Up' was the Fulda Gap. Even now I look back at how Young we were and normally with a Section Chief who had been to Vietnam. He allowed us our 'Silly Time' but we All would get Commendable after certain training we had to perform to be ready for Fulda. During that time, we were allowed to keep alcohol in the barracks and we even had a beer machine in the barrack. Why, people will ask, since so many of us ranged in age from 17 to 22 and then what we called the "Lifers" those over 22 and up. If You approach many Military People from the Cold War Days they probably could give You a number on their "Life Expectancy!" Me being an FDC Specialist, if I was on Special Assignment with a Gun Chief and one of His Soldiers, Our Life Expectancy was Six (6) Seconds. So, yes, we drank and enjoyed each other and You better believe We All knew what Our Mission was and we made sure we knew Our Job. GOD BLESS and I normally reply "Thank You Very Much and also to You!!!!!!"

Response by MAJ Hugh Blanchard made Jun 7 at 2021 2:02 PM

MAJ Hugh Blanchard — Mon, 07 Jun 2021 14:02:06 -0400

Why? No, I don't feel guilty nor should anyone else. Several friends of mine died or were injured during those decades, from training accidents, from short "real world" operational deployments (Europe, Central and South America, Africa, Asia and the Caribbean) and from the campaigns against Communist terrorism in the late 1970's to mid-80's. No one who served honorably has any reason to feel guilt for their service.

Response by Sgt Christine Magnan made Jun 7 at 2021 2:25 PM

Sgt Christine Magnan — Mon, 07 Jun 2021 14:25:15 -0400

No, I get pissed off. I usually reply with information about a veteran non-profit they can support as a way of saying thank you. I volunteer at a non-profit that serves female veterans and they have the same response that I do, that it is considered the polite thing to do like when someone who is a stranger asks "how are you doing"?

Response by SGT Andrew Anderson made Jun 8 at 2021 1:37 PM

SGT Andrew Anderson — Tue, 08 Jun 2021 13:37:30 -0400

I know I’ll take a lot of grief for saying this however, I feel that it is something that needs to be brought up. Every time I open a veteran's Facebook page, web page, anything that has to do with Vietnam Veterans. There always comment about “being spit on and called a “baby killer” when returning from Vietnam.
There has never been any credible evidence of spitting on anyone by anti-war activists however, there is ample evidence that indicates most protesters were mutually supportive and had empathetic a relationship with returning Veterans. For the most part, it was the leaders of government and the top generals that the protesters were referring to with the “baby killer” title and it was primarily directed toward President LBJ, you know the one "Hey, hey, LBJ, how many kids did you kill today?"
One of the most popular chants during the anti-war marches was, "Stop the war in Vietnam, bring the boys home."
This idea of Veterans being spit on and called names as they were returning from Vietnam was never mentioned anywhere until a number of years after the war had ended. And once again politics enter into the discussion when President H.W. Bush brought up the idea when the Gulf War began, he used it as a way to get the public behind supporting the war effort by supporting the troops.
In the end, the National Institute of Military Justice examined all the evidence, and concluded the following:
"There is no contemporaneous evidence that Americans who opposed the war expressed those beliefs by spitting on or otherwise assaulting returning Vietnam Veterans. The idea, however, that spitting on or mistreating Vietnam veterans was in any way typical or representative of anything in that era is completely false.
I’ll end my rant by saying that if anyone can provide a "documented" case, by that I mean police report, airport video, etc., of a returning Vietnam Veteran getting spit on, please drop a line to [login to see] . They’ve been looking for years to find anyone who will come forward with evidence. Finally, think of this, what would you do if someone walked up to you and spit in your face? and his is where you have to apply some common sense thinking. I'll use a common statement to put things in perspective. Think of a ‘“hippie”’ back in the ‘60s and ‘70s. Would that individual have the nerve to walk up and spit on the soldier? And if the hippie did do that, would the soldier who is just hours ago was facing the VC and enemy troops in Vietnam, just stand there and take it? I don’t think so, yet there are no documented police reports of any returning Vietnam Vets beating the crap out of war protesters at any airport in the US. Seems odd that there wouldn’t be a couple given the fact that there are so many claims of having been spit-on.
By the way, I am a Vietnam Vet, December 1966-Dec 1967, I have an older brother who served two tours with the 173d Airborne as a combat medic. 65-66 and 68-69. Three other brothers 2 Navy and 1 Coast Guard, None of us ever have someone spit on us.

Response by Joe Hunt made Jun 8 at 2021 3:37 PM

Joe Hunt — Tue, 08 Jun 2021 15:37:48 -0400

Guilty for what? I served 1966 to 1969 - 68 to 69 in Vietnam. As Spec Zachke mentioned, we were called "baby killers" and "merchants of death." when we came home. I had no other Veteran friends at home or in college. I kept to myself. I'm proud of my service. And, I am quite proud of and concerned for those who are serving and have served more recently.

For the last 5 years, I've been involved as an advocate for the Veteran community in NYC. My problem with "Thank you for your service" is that it's said so often it's hard to feel it's an honest expression of sentiment. The other comment I get after responding "yes" to "are you a Veteran?" is, "I didn't serve". Weird, I didn't ask. But those are the only two statements I hear. Perhaps these two responses are the safest or most PC for civilians who feel guilty for not having served...Who know?

Response by SSG Bobby Richardson made Jun 8 at 2021 11:42 PM

SSG Bobby Richardson — Tue, 08 Jun 2021 23:42:22 -0400

I served '74-'85 and no, I don't feel guilty when someone thanks me for my service. What get's me though is when people act as though the mere act of thanking me absolves them of any responsibility for maintaining support for veterans and our society.

Response by SGT Thomas Carter made Jun 9 at 2021 1:20 AM

SGT Thomas Carter — Wed, 09 Jun 2021 01:20:20 -0400

What most of America and the world don't know is how close we came to resuming the Korean War in the late 1970's. Part of the reason that the United States Military is stationed around the world is to have ground forces were they might be needed in case something happens verses having enemy forces take advantage of how long it would take to bring forces to a staging point in the United States not to mention gathering the ships to bring said forces with there equipment and an abundance of amonenition to fight in an armed conflict. Throughout the cold war the US had tens of thousands of troops to stop the Soviet forces and the Eastern Bloc countries from taking over Western Europe. In addition to Western Europe we have troops in Japan and South Korea. Haven been stationed with the 102nd Military Intelligence battalion 3rd Brigade 2nd Ifantry Division 8th Army we new the US forces were there for three reason: to stop the North Koreans from going south; to stop the South Koreans from going North; and to ensure that the United States is in the conflict no matter what happens in the Korean peninsula.
In the late 1970s a work party went to cut down a tree that was blocking the view into North Korea. Before they could cut down the tree they were killed by the North Koreans. As in most cases that involve the military thing can happen really quick so much so that situations or events can take on a life. Immediately the small unit that was there went on full alert. This unit then reported it to the next higher level of command that was repeated again and again until you had 2 US fleets of the coast of Korea. All allied forces in both Korea and Japan were placed on full alert and were issued ammonition, being issued ammunition is extremely rare and hardly ever done. I had met a fellow soldier that was in Korea during this incident and when the ammunition was issued, everyone was very nervous and worried. The US had fighter jets flying along the Demilitarised Zone (DMZ). They sent a broadcast message to the North Koreans that said something like were going to cut down that tree just try and stop us from doing that we dare you too. Needless to say that tree is not there any more.

Response by SP5 Robert Kennedy made Jun 9 at 2021 5:42 PM

SP5 Robert Kennedy — Wed, 09 Jun 2021 17:42:02 -0400

You know, for me, I counted down the "short" calendar from 362 (I didn't know why the guys were yelling numbers back and forth with other troops they didn't even know - until my 3rd day in Country) and when my numbers finally fell into single digits, I knew the best day of my life was just around the corner. Our return stateside was to a base in the State of Washington (when you get old some things just slip your mind - can't remember the name of the base right now) where we got a hot shower with shampoo and the works, fresh uniforms, a steak and eggs breakfast and a govt. voucher to fly free to our home town. It was 1968, a week before Christmas. We were told that we would not be admitted onto the plane if we were not in uniform... then we were told that things had changed during our year overseas - hippies became unruly and will try to engage you into a fight. If you cannot control your emotions, and give-in to the opportunity YOU WILL BE Court Marshalled and put in the brig.
Walking through the Seattle airport I couldn't believe the numbers of hippies taunting the returning GI's. They did throw trash and spit at us, they called us things that truly deserved a beating (my personal opinion), but they were not going to ruin the best day of my life, so I walked past the abusive taunts. I just couldn't understand why they were so angry as us - we were serving THEM, and they had no idea what it was like!
So in the past few years, any time somebody says "thank you for your service" I get a warm and fuzzy feeling that I would have truly appreciated all those years ago. Better late than never.

Response by CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 9 at 2021 6:23 PM

CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 09 Jun 2021 18:23:44 -0400

No. You earned a little recognition if you served Honorably. Don't expect it, or flaunt your service for recognition. If someone chooses to acknowledge your work, accept humbly and carry on. It's their right to express beliefs, praise or criticism. Likewise, you have the right to tell them it's not required or any of their business.

Response by LTC Gary Earls made Jun 9 at 2021 8:07 PM

LTC Gary Earls — Wed, 09 Jun 2021 20:07:29 -0400

No!! I say, " It was my honor to serve".

Response by SGT John Overby made Jun 11 at 2021 8:39 PM

SGT John Overby — Fri, 11 Jun 2021 20:39:42 -0400

Service is made regardless of assignments. We who were active duty were always available for non-endangered duty or endangered duty at the whim of DOD and we had no choice to serve as directed,

Response by PO2 Chad Thompson-Smith made Jun 12 at 2021 1:07 PM

PO2 Chad Thompson-Smith — Sat, 12 Jun 2021 13:07:03 -0400

You served the time and wore the uniform, doesn’t matter if you ever, knowingly, where in harms way.

Response by SMSgt William Peirson made Jun 13 at 2021 11:57 AM

SMSgt William Peirson — Sun, 13 Jun 2021 11:57:54 -0400

Serving from 1958 to 1984 I went through ther lack of respect at home but now feel redeemed by "thank you for your service". We did what we were told and thought was right and that will never change.

Response by SPC Earl Semler made Jun 13 at 2021 6:48 PM

SPC Earl Semler — Sun, 13 Jun 2021 18:48:07 -0400

Why should I feel guilty? As a Viet Nam veteran no-one ever said that to me, or welcomed me except my family. I think that the draft had a lot to do with that. People were protesting it afraid of it and the decision they would have to make when and if they got their notice.

Response by SGT Bill Dixon made Jun 14 at 2021 5:09 PM

SGT Bill Dixon — Mon, 14 Jun 2021 17:09:34 -0400

I do not feel guilty, I went, did my job to the best of my ability. I am proud of my service, even with my governments flaws, I did all that was asked and then some

Response by PO2 Ron Staggs made Jun 14 at 2021 11:46 PM

PO2 Ron Staggs — Mon, 14 Jun 2021 23:46:15 -0400

SPC are you suggesting that we should feel guilt? Not clear.
By far the majority (OK, I'm guessing) of those whose served during those years, WERE drafted. They pretty much had no choice. They were called, they served. No reason for guilt. Myself, I volunteered.
Operational readiness. Means what is says. For a Group, Battalion, Ship or Unit to maintain this requires a good amount of training & preparation. Guilt ? Why?
A certain amount of research will reveal that even during the Cold War & times of peace, throughout the WORLD there are almost always several HOT spots - that could explode at any moment. AND yes there were covert missions, some written about many not so - at various places, throughout the world, during those years. Feel guilty? for what.? Success. No. I feel no guilt.
My reply, when thanked for my service - "I am thankful for having had the opportunity to serve".
For the record - IMHO - anybody who has served, whatever RATE or duty stations & who has received an honorable discharge should feel no guilt when thanked for their service either

Response by LTC David Howard made Jun 16 at 2021 2:26 PM

LTC David Howard — Wed, 16 Jun 2021 14:26:01 -0400

Why would I feel guilty? I served in Vietnam as well as in Europe waiting for the Soviets to attack.

Response by 1SG James Matthews made Jun 16 at 2021 4:25 PM

1SG James Matthews — Wed, 16 Jun 2021 16:25:36 -0400

Not at all--two tours in VN--lost a lot of friends but I have NO regrets about my service.

Response by SPC John Veenstra made Jun 16 at 2021 7:02 PM

SPC John Veenstra — Wed, 16 Jun 2021 19:02:02 -0400

The DOD has been issuing a Vietnam Veteran Pin which Says a Grateful Nation Thanks and Honors you. I am a Chairman from my VFW Post for the Partnership with the DOD to commermorate the Vietnam War. I am also a Vietnam Vet. When we perform the presentation ceremony many members are post 911 vets and they all thank us for our service. Yes when we came back in the 60's we were treated like dirt, we served why should we not be thanked. I thought the program from the DOD and the Congress has put that s**T to rest. However I guess there still people out there who think we don't deserve respect. Well we do and if somebody doesn't like it, TOUGH!

Response by SFC David Xanten made Jun 17 at 2021 4:59 PM

SFC David Xanten — Thu, 17 Jun 2021 16:59:13 -0400

While I served in Nam, I was never spat on or called a baby killer, at least not to my face. When I am thanked for my service, I always say thank you. when asked about the reason for the war in Nam I also always say, ask the politicians that could have stopped it any time they wanted to. You don't blame the Service member for the sins of their leaders.

Response by PO3 W. Keith McManus made Jun 17 at 2021 7:30 PM

PO3 W. Keith McManus — Thu, 17 Jun 2021 19:30:24 -0400

There were some tense moments for me, U.S. Navy 1966-70, because of Vietman. So, there still are some mixed feelings about it.

Response by SPC Steve dePinet made Jun 28 at 2021 4:32 PM

SPC Steve dePinet — Mon, 28 Jun 2021 16:32:58 -0400

I can't say that I feel guilty, but it is kind of hard to wrap my head around people thanking me for swerving. My service Army) was '78 - '82, so same time frame. After 25 years of no recognition, then the 2003 War in Iraq, suddenly Veterans were being honored. I do sometimes feel weird for taking the "Military or Veterans" parking space. It has been an adjustment for me, but my son served (Marines) after 2003, and he never had to deal with being called "Baby Killer" or being spit on/stuff thrown at him, so he's just used to it. I just try to take my cue from him...

Response by PO2 W Scott Decker made Jul 2 at 2021 1:36 PM

PO2 W Scott Decker — Fri, 02 Jul 2021 13:36:33 -0400

Not one little bit, yes I recognize the difference between combat troops and those of us who sat ready.
My comeback is always yes you greatly deserve respect for your sacrifices and all you did. Just remember we took down the Soviet Union without having to go there. That's my era Veterans doing their job ❗

Response by SPC John Donovan made Jul 8 at 2021 4:38 AM

SPC John Donovan — Thu, 08 Jul 2021 04:38:01 -0400

I served from July 8, 1960 to June 24, 1963. I am very irritated that you asked if I feel guilty when someone says "Thank you for your service"?. I was sent into Berlin in August, 1961 believing Russia was going to bomb us once we got there because they decided to build a wall around East Berlin. Later, I just knew we would suffer when we thought Russia was going to Bomb us because they were putting so much weaponry into Cuba I just knew we were in for war. Then towards the end of my 3 year tour Vietnam was where they were killing us Americans. Guilty, NO. Proud to be an American in the US Army, YES!

Response by SFC Donald Erway made Jul 8 at 2021 7:58 AM

SFC Donald Erway — Thu, 08 Jul 2021 07:58:29 -0400

I enlisted in 1971, retired in 1999. I proud of my service and the service of all my fellow soldiers as well as those who serve today. I appreciate any American who recognizes that and thanks me for my service.

Response by SFC John Gilmore made Jul 8 at 2021 10:29 AM

SFC John Gilmore — Thu, 08 Jul 2021 10:29:01 -0400

Hershel "Woody" Williams, a 97 year old MOH recipient for actions on Iwo Jima said something quite profound at his great grandson's graduation from Boot Camp.
He said: "When he took the oath he was saying you can take my life, but you can't take my country or my freedom."
Peacetime or wartime we all took the same oath and it still means the same thing.
Thank you for your service.

Response by SGT Richard Cook made Jul 8 at 2021 11:18 PM

SGT Richard Cook — Thu, 08 Jul 2021 23:18:51 -0400

I served from 70 to 73. When I came back to the States I was sadly disappointed in the way that i and others were treated. I had nothing to do with the cold war, it had everything to do with political climate of the time and the news media. So with that being said. Whenever someone thanks me for my service I bite my tongue to keep from saying What have you done for your country.
President Kennedy said "ask not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country"

Response by CSM Tim Bebus made Jul 9 at 2021 11:29 AM

CSM Tim Bebus — Fri, 09 Jul 2021 11:29:13 -0400

It is because of those very veterans that today's veterans benefit from the public outcry of support. Vietnam Nam Veterans came together and said never again would they allow the public to turn on the Military. After Desert Storm they led the way to insure this. So if any Veteran needs to be thanked for there service it is them! So I say THANK YOU! Because of you I got to enjoy the benefit of your sacrifice.

Response by PO1 Mark Novatnack made Jul 9 at 2021 11:35 AM

PO1 Mark Novatnack — Fri, 09 Jul 2021 11:35:27 -0400

Nope, I don’t feel guilty at all. We all served and willing to defend and comply to the orders given. During my time, especially during the Cold War had encounters with North Koreans, Russians, and Chinese. Also protected ships from pirates around the Malacca straits. I feel proud to have had the opportunity to serve!

Response by SFC Brian Westmoreland made Jul 9 at 2021 11:42 AM

SFC Brian Westmoreland — Fri, 09 Jul 2021 11:42:18 -0400

I served from 1983 to 2004. No one should ever feel guilty for serving their country. Even during time of peace, you are serving as a deterrent from other people attacking us. During the 80’s, I served 3 tours in Panama. Twice to protect American citizens from Panamanian aggression under Noriega and the third time for Operation Just Cause.

Response by 1SG Arthur Detmers made Jul 9 at 2021 4:44 PM

1SG Arthur Detmers — Fri, 09 Jul 2021 16:44:03 -0400

I had my 19th birthday half way through my tour in Vietnam. No I don’t feel guilty.

Response by 1stSgt Leroy Slater made Jul 9 at 2021 7:51 PM

1stSgt Leroy Slater — Fri, 09 Jul 2021 19:51:51 -0400

I spend 4 1/2 years getting bombs dropped on downtown Hanio on Russian Sam sites, and I flew on 'looking glass', twice a week where the 23 battle in the rear of the aircraft playing nuclear retailiiation with the Russians. I learned a lot of electronics for it was my job to keep the electronics working. I didn't have any problems with the people that I met, I had PTSD and finally put all the blame on thew rich and the politicans that wanted power and money not caring about the masses. I did a lot of drugs to keep from thinking about what I was involved with. I am thankful that the only time that I fired a gun was on the range. I have no problem with any of the workrs in Russia, or Viet Nam, it is only the power demanding politicians, and money seaking rich people that I have problems with.

Response by 1stSgt Leroy Slater made Jul 9 at 2021 8:11 PM

1stSgt Leroy Slater — Fri, 09 Jul 2021 20:11:02 -0400

I spent 4 1/2 years getting bombs dropped on the Russian Sam sites in downtown Hanio 185 combat missions. I flew on "Looking Glass" twice a week, with the 23 battle staff in the rear of the plane playing nuclear retailiation with the Russians. I have PTSD, but I did a lot of drugs to clear my mind, now I put all the blame n the rich and the politicans that waned power and money, never caring about the masses. I have no problem with the civilians in Russia or Viet Nam, and now China. I was 50 miles inland over red China when the 2 F-4s blow out of the sky the 2 Mig's that came up to look us. I learned a lot of electronics keeping all the systems working for that was my job. I am happy that I did a big part in the effort of the free world. I never had any problem with any one, I am proud of my part, that I played.

Response by 1stSgt Leroy Slater made Jul 9 at 2021 8:31 PM

1stSgt Leroy Slater — Fri, 09 Jul 2021 20:31:41 -0400

I spent 4 1/2 years getting bombs dropped on downtown Hanio, 185 combat missions. I flew on 'Looking Glass twqice a week afterwards while the 23 battle staff in the rear of the plane played nuclear retailiation with the Russians. I learned a lot of elecronics for that was my job. I have PTSD, but I did a lot of drugs t clear mt mind. Now I blame the rich and the politicans that wanted their poiwer and money. I never had any problems with any one, I have no problem with the masses in Russia, Viet Nam and now China, it is just those that want power and money that are the problem. A big problem now is in our home land with the extroverts and macho, probally from small towns that have the same nick names and beliefs as in high school. They seem not to like what is not in their small number of friends. The America Indian had this country free, but we all came over here, and we are from all over the world, our differences make us better and stronger than others with narrow ideas. Schools should work to stamp out an ideas of one kind of people (except thier beliefs) are in any way better than another kind of people. I don't like disco, basketball, or groups that don't do good, like creationist and politicans. And I like to do 90 on the big road. Praise the Lord.

Response by SP5 William Johnson made Jul 9 at 2021 10:22 PM

SP5 William Johnson — Fri, 09 Jul 2021 22:22:27 -0400

I think its's Ok, I'm just sorry that it took 3 decades for people to do it.

Response by 1SG Arthur Detmers made Jul 10 at 2021 8:47 AM

1SG Arthur Detmers — Sat, 10 Jul 2021 08:47:21 -0400

I celebrated my 19th birthday 5 months into my Tour in Vietnam. What would I have to feel guilty about?

Response by 1SG James Matthews made Jul 10 at 2021 11:17 AM

1SG James Matthews — Sat, 10 Jul 2021 11:17:24 -0400

When I came back from my last tour in Nahm 5 of us paratroopers came together in Frisco and dared anyone to get in our face--I have no regrets about my service and am proud to have served every day of my 20. HOOAH!

Response by SSgt Richard Peterson made Jul 10 at 2021 3:13 PM

SSgt Richard Peterson — Sat, 10 Jul 2021 15:13:34 -0400

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 10 at 2021 10:08 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 10 Jul 2021 22:08:40 -0400

You served: that is all that matters. No thunder is being stolen from us GWOT veterans. You didn't steal any thunder from WWII or Korean vets either. The Military was in a major transition in the late 70s because of how draining the Vietnam War was on the American Psyche and the Military itself, and the threat of nuclear annihilation was present during your time in. You should be proud of being a part of that transition.

Response by SSgt Richard Peterson made Jul 11 at 2021 11:08 AM

SSgt Richard Peterson — Sun, 11 Jul 2021 11:08:09 -0400

Yeah. I didn't hear it until after more than 15 years had passed since my discharge. I was so surprised by it that I had to have the person repeat themselves because I wasn't sure that I had heard them correctly. Just sad, man.

Response by 1SG James Kelly made Jul 11 at 2021 10:23 PM

1SG James Kelly — Sun, 11 Jul 2021 22:23:47 -0400

No, I just ask them where they were in 1965 to 1980.

Response by SrA William Hallman made Jul 11 at 2021 11:25 PM

SrA William Hallman — Sun, 11 Jul 2021 23:25:05 -0400

I enlisted 03.06.67. Got out 08.31.70. Duration of enlistment tour Viet Nam.
North Vietnamese Linguist. (203MD) Top Secret Crypto. Access to Special Intelligence Endorsement.
Combat Air Crew Badge. 9 Air Medals. Honorable Discharge.
Got back to the world in San Fran. Walked out of the terminal, got spit on, hit the fu.. in the mouth. Next thing Im face first on the wall getting cuffed by a local cop. 2 other cops grabbed the first one, took off my cuffs, told me to get the F out of here. After that only jobs I could get were busboy, janitor, trashman, etc. At job interviews I was asked, "where ya been the last 4 years"? If you mentioned military service/Viet Nam the job interview was over. They said, you guys are all druggies, trouble makers, crazy people, cant work with people, and ya da ya da.... Girls I "dated" in high school now hated my guts. I couldnt relate to any draft dodgers. So I started to drink a lot. Smoked my share of grass and hash. Learned to hide my military service. After 40 years I had enough. Now I wear my Viet Vet hat every day. Got decals on all my vehicles.
Tired of hiding my service. After 40 years of eating shit now I hear "Thank You For Your Service" Ive had older women stop and tell me they are ashamed for how they treated service members in the Viet Nam era and ask my forgiveness!! Ive had Iraq Vets thank me...said as they mustered out they were told, "you see a Viet Vet, you thank them!! They are the reason you guys are treated well now" is it true?? Dont know. But I do know when I hear Thank You For Your Service i think of all my bros in arms that didnt come back. It is in their honor I tell those people, simply, Thank You.

Response by SFC Donald Souza made Jul 14 at 2021 6:55 AM

SFC Donald Souza — Wed, 14 Jul 2021 06:55:43 -0400

I served from 1979 to 2019 Active duty , Army Reserve and Army National guard two combat deployments as a combat engineer. I try my best to conceal it because l feel uncomfortable when someone thanks me for my service. I feel more comfortable around other vets they don't thank you for shit

Response by PO1 Micheal Howard made Jul 14 at 2021 9:24 PM

PO1 Micheal Howard — Wed, 14 Jul 2021 21:24:44 -0400

I don’t feel guilty at all. I was there, period. there was always that chance we could have been engaged. I usually say “thank you for your support”
I do remember doing circles in the North Arabian Sea when they were bombing the oil tankers as a show of force.

Response by CWO4 John Powe made Jul 17 at 2021 6:39 PM

CWO4 John Powe — Sat, 17 Jul 2021 18:39:39 -0400

Why would anyone who served from the 60's to the 80's feel guilty?
The U S had personnel in Viet Nam from 1954 thru 1975, which covers the entire decade of the 60's. The vast majority of the Army, Navy, Marines and Air Force cycled through some kind of duty that was directly influenced by the Viet Nam war. A lot, about 2,700,000 American men and women, served in Vietnam.
Regardless, no one who serves/served honorably in any branch of the military at any time has any reason to feel guilty about their service, having someone say thanks is little enough for that service.

Response by 1SG Steven Malkowski made Jul 18 at 2021 11:08 AM

1SG Steven Malkowski — Sun, 18 Jul 2021 11:08:07 -0400

Over the course of the Cold War (1948-1991, give or take), even though no one was shooting (not including Korea and Vietnam), Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen and Marines died every year. They died training to maintain the force, the deterrance to another World War. They maintained the tip of the spear to spare us from a horrible possibility. In the event that the worst happened, they were ready to make that sacrifice. They were a very small fraction of the population who can claim "It's not that I can and you can't, it's that I did and you didn't". That in my book deserves respect.

Response by AA Charles Hadden made Jul 18 at 2021 1:32 PM

AA Charles Hadden — Sun, 18 Jul 2021 13:32:17 -0400

I only feel 'Too Little TOO Late!', especially while the HAUTE is not only continuing but accelerating. The ones saying it either have some attachment to the military or are just trying to appease their fellows. Possibly 10% actually mean it.

Response by LTC Ken Connolly made Jul 18 at 2021 5:47 PM

LTC Ken Connolly — Sun, 18 Jul 2021 17:47:56 -0400

Why are some folks always looking for honors above others that served just as honorably. Some of the Soldiers serving during that timeframe were in hostile territory too.

Response by SN Jeffrey White made Jul 25 at 2021 8:57 PM

SN Jeffrey White — Sun, 25 Jul 2021 20:57:21 -0400

I'm proud to have served. I was on duty and willing to do what was needed. There is no shame. In any military only a small percentage see combat. Even in world war 2 some 80 percent were support staff. Should they feel like they are not as good? No.

Response by PO2 Ronnie Chandler made Jul 31 at 2021 8:49 PM

PO2 Ronnie Chandler — Sat, 31 Jul 2021 20:49:09 -0400

You know I used to think like that and an officer in the VA Hospital explained it to me. Something like this a Veteran is a person who signed a check up to and including their life no matter what was going on you were there to take it on and had signed that check. So you are deserving of any acknowledgement.

Response by PO1 David M Burns made Aug 2 at 2021 9:29 PM

PO1 David M Burns — Mon, 02 Aug 2021 21:29:45 -0400

I actually don't feel anything, they are waaay! to late for the P.C> bull shit!

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 4 at 2021 9:21 PM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 04 Aug 2021 21:21:08 -0400

Service is service. If someone thanks you, say you’re welcome. You earned it

Response by SSgt Charles Franklin made Aug 5 at 2021 10:38 PM

SSgt Charles Franklin — Thu, 05 Aug 2021 22:38:01 -0400

No, where Uncle sent me was a crap shoot and I am very proud for taking my oath of enlistment.
USAF Feb 1968 through December 1978

Response by PO3 Andrew Kelly made Aug 7 at 2021 12:14 AM

PO3 Andrew Kelly — Sat, 07 Aug 2021 00:14:07 -0400

for close to 4 years I was deployed to a command where we knew no one would ever know what we did and if we did make the news it would be because something had gone very very wrong. We sent birds on mission with crews that knew if bullets started flying their lifespan would be figured in minutes and that they were a prime target. Yet day in and day out they climbed in their birds did their jobs and didn't complain, at least not about the mission.
So no, I do not feel ashamed of my service ever. I did my job and made our country safer in doing it. If no one knows the details and it never made the news then we did our job right and those who matter know that. Tucked away in my drawer are NUCs, MUCs PUCs,s and 4 Battle E commendations that say someone noticed.

Response by SMSgt Bob Wilson made Aug 8 at 2021 1:07 AM

SMSgt Bob Wilson — Sun, 08 Aug 2021 01:07:59 -0400

No, I don't feel guilty; I feel pissed off. Zacke said it best.

Response by CPL David Strong made Aug 8 at 2021 6:59 AM

CPL David Strong — Sun, 08 Aug 2021 06:59:51 -0400

I love it coming from someone who knows what it means. I feel many say it and have no idea what it means.

Response by CPT Barbara Smith made Aug 8 at 2021 8:25 AM

CPT Barbara Smith — Sun, 08 Aug 2021 08:25:23 -0400

I don't feel guilty, but I question sincerity at times. I always make a point to thank my fellow veterans who served in combat as observed by their little hats at the VA. I served on AD from 1984-1987. If there would have been a war, I would have worked in ICU in Germany. Instead, I cared for the critically ill - especially, the Rangers sent to Augusta, GA from Fort Benning. What an honor it was to be responsible for them and work with the best Intensivist in my 39 year career. #USArmyNurseCorpsVeteran

Response by CMSgt Rodney Lee made Aug 8 at 2021 8:31 AM

CMSgt Rodney Lee — Sun, 08 Aug 2021 08:31:06 -0400

I have heard "Thank You For Your Service" numerous times and I felt it was Americans saying we are not turning our backs on services members again like what was done to earlier service members serving during the Vietnam era. Desert Storm and the Iraqi wars maybe questioned as being political than an actual threat but American service members answered the call and we are all thankful for their service and sacrifices. My sacrifices I consider are minimal to those who lost their lives and suffer life long physical disabilities. I thank them.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 8 at 2021 1:37 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 08 Aug 2021 13:37:12 -0400

Fulda Gap and Warsaw Pac is all I need to say.

Response by SPC Terry Page made Aug 8 at 2021 3:26 PM

SPC Terry Page — Sun, 08 Aug 2021 15:26:27 -0400

I usually smile and and acknowledge their TY with an appropriate response like... "It was my honor to serve."

Response by SPC Terry Page made Aug 8 at 2021 3:33 PM

SPC Terry Page — Sun, 08 Aug 2021 15:33:13 -0400

You can usually tell the sencerity of the thank you by the delivery of the person offering it. Just be yourself in replying and it will be fine. Basically take it as genuine, and be gracious.

Response by MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan made Aug 9 at 2021 12:48 AM

MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan — Mon, 09 Aug 2021 00:48:56 -0400

Not at all; we all served a mission regardless of when we were in and did our part to ensure our continued freedom and security. There are times when I particularly want to tell younger guys, who mention a word of thanks, that they could have easily done the same thing. There are lots of folks who I thank for doing services for me when I have no clue as to how to fix a problem...same thing, at least in principle.

Response by PO3 Rick Lewis made Aug 12 at 2021 11:14 AM

PO3 Rick Lewis — Thu, 12 Aug 2021 11:14:36 -0400

I served from1966 to 1968 and I feel like they're saying thanks not only to me but to all those I served with especially those who didn't come home.

Response by SGT Paul Clayton made Aug 17 at 2021 4:32 PM

SGT Paul Clayton — Tue, 17 Aug 2021 16:32:17 -0400

I joined the Army in 1989 went to Panama served in the Airborne BN down there.Served until 99. I have much respect for Vietnam veterans and all that came before me I thank them all the time. The VA told me that my service was served in a "grey area" what ever that means. When Im thanked for my service I do feel uncomfortable.I thank them and say it was no big deal. I had a lot of fun and got payed to do some really cool stuff BEST JOB I EVER HAD BEST PEOPLE I EVER MET.

Response by PO3 Dale Olson made Aug 17 at 2021 11:06 PM

PO3 Dale Olson — Tue, 17 Aug 2021 23:06:13 -0400

He'll no. I was sitting in Yokosuka harbor on the USS John A McCain DL-3 in Aug of 63 when this BS started. This was my 3rd West Pack tour after participating in the atomic tests at Johnston Island.
Now add in my National Guard, Navy, and Marine Corps Reserve time, no I do not feel guilty and I would do again if asked.

Response by LCDR Joshua Gillespie made Aug 18 at 2021 10:39 AM

LCDR Joshua Gillespie — Wed, 18 Aug 2021 10:39:53 -0400

I served throughout the 2000s... and I often feel "uncomfortable" when people say TYFYS. I don't think it has anything to do with when one served, or what was/was not going on at the time. The truth is, very, very few of us ever see anything remotely resembling "hardship" or "imminent danger"... at least not above and beyond what is common to a number of other professions no one bothers to recognize with free dinner sides or 10% discounts. One could be injured or killed during training, or while painting a fence... all in the line of duty. Some people try to mince words and make comparisons... but honestly, anyone who's ever been in the presence of someone who has actually been wounded in combat knows there are none. More to the point, of the handful of actual combat veterans I know personally... none seem any more eager to be given a ham-fisted "thank you" for something they may be trying to forget, move past, or make peace with. My personal view is this: if you served, you served... be proud of it and carry on. They're not really thanking "you" anyway... they're kinda saying it to everyone.

Response by SSgt Rebekah Adams made Aug 18 at 2021 10:44 AM

SSgt Rebekah Adams — Wed, 18 Aug 2021 10:44:53 -0400

As a woman, it’s almost always a bit interesting when my veteran status is discovered. I believe the fact that you were willing and serving when many did not, you provided a line that none dared cross in those years. You were there to serve.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 18 at 2021 1:18 PM

COL Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 18 Aug 2021 13:18:13 -0400

I served from 1986 to 2017....multiple combat tours. I'm embarrassed every time some was says it to me. My typical response to them is "no problem, it's what I wanted to do since I was a little kid. I loved serving and I love my country, no thanks required." I kind of wish they wouldn't say it, but I understand why they say it....it's to atone for the treatment received by the generation that came before...the Vietnam Vets....because they did not get treated well for their service. I think the American public has learned now to seperate the Service Member from the Politicians...that we follow the orders of a Politician.....and as we have seen lately, Politicians don't make the best decisions, especially those with no time in the Services. That's my take on it.

Response by GySgt Marc Dickerson made Aug 18 at 2021 5:28 PM

GySgt Marc Dickerson — Wed, 18 Aug 2021 17:28:23 -0400

Why in the hell would anyone feel guilty about their service? What an ignorant thing to ask.

Response by SGT Jimmy Russo made Aug 18 at 2021 5:28 PM

SGT Jimmy Russo — Wed, 18 Aug 2021 17:28:37 -0400

Honestly I really don't like this "
Thank You For Your Service " as it used so often it true purpose has been lost an it's no more than a hollow expression as no civilian can understand what was required of us , I served right at the end of Vietnam till 82 , I did my job an I trained my Troops how to do theirs an hopefully survive as we were told we were no more than a speed bump for the Soviets if The Red Balloon ever went up , it was thought out survival would only be in hours an any remaining troops would be forced into the Atlantic before reinforcement could arrive from Stateside . I cannot even count the number of Alerts I attended an never knowing if this one was for real , My Wife was in Germany as well an She was responsible for gathering other dependents an evac them to their staging area as She was one of the few Dependents that had a International drivers license an a car . There was no cell phones back then so when I got the call at 04:00AM I had to di di mau to the Kaserne to get my Squad loaded out an to the rally point , I spent more time in the field on FTX than I did at garrison or Home . So in short I served my Country as it needed at the time an I'm proud of my time in uniform. An the knowledge an experience I gained I adapted to Civilian Life an it allowed me to stand head an shoulders above those that had no Military Training as not only did I usually earn more than my Non Veteran counterparts I usually always ended up as a Supervisor or Manager position . Salute

Response by CPL Larry Bezemer made Aug 18 at 2021 6:47 PM

CPL Larry Bezemer — Wed, 18 Aug 2021 18:47:19 -0400

I respond it was my pleasure...and mean it.

Response by SrA Gina Hotard made Aug 18 at 2021 8:07 PM

SrA Gina Hotard — Wed, 18 Aug 2021 20:07:20 -0400

I’m uncomfortable with thank you for your service. To me, it was a privilege, and one I would gladly do again. Give thanks to my Vietnam brother and sister, and ones post 9/11 for mine. I’m not discounting Desert Storm, just thank the ones before me, and ones after

Response by PO2 Edward Blumberg made Aug 18 at 2021 9:26 PM

PO2 Edward Blumberg — Wed, 18 Aug 2021 21:26:49 -0400

I enlisted to serve my country as my country saw fit! I served during a terrible time in our countries history. Regardless of the atmosphere back home with the protesters despising the government and it’s decision to do what they thought was right, I exercised MY RIGHT to serve. I do not regret doing what I did. I lost a lot of friends and family members in country, and also lost shipmates on the Forrestal in the Fire that the coward McCain initiated. I’m 74 years old and just last month a brother veteran welcomed me home! THAT was the first time I heard that. EVER! I am thanked for my service all the time and it is very much appreciated. Besides that…I earned the thanks ans so does every service member!

Response by PO2 Edward Blumberg made Aug 18 at 2021 11:14 PM

PO2 Edward Blumberg — Wed, 18 Aug 2021 23:14:00 -0400

You know, I felt really bad too. I’m actually 100% S/C disabled. I lost my hearing TOTALLY! I’m done! Went to the VA for years for hearing aids till they no longer worked. I qualified and was approved for cochlear implants. Inwent through psych evals to see if I was wearing accept the new way of hearing. During these evals I met guys that were missing limbs and I felt terrible! Here I was a guy that only lost his ability to hear and these guys had no arms or legs or both! I didn’t think it was fair for me to get anything. My disability was nothing compared to theirs. It took me months of counseling to make me realize that we were the same. The doc told me that I did what I needed to do during my time in service and they did theirs. Just different outcomes. I never pass up then opportunity to thank a vet with a disability when I see one. I was blessed to have the ability to “hear” again!

Response by CPL Terry Boyce made Aug 18 at 2021 11:58 PM

CPL Terry Boyce — Wed, 18 Aug 2021 23:58:07 -0400

I served from 1979-85. I do not feel guilty. Because I did serve country. It was not my fault that I was born too late for Nam or too early for Iraq!! But, I did SERVE my country and yes I would do it again!!

Response by A1C Isa Kocher made Aug 19 at 2021 4:37 AM

A1C Isa Kocher — Thu, 19 Aug 2021 04:37:38 -0400

i enlisted during the cuba crisis. was discharged after an accident caused by a very inappropriate trench on the side of the road on base, with no warning barrier. reconstructive sugery of my face. out early in 1965. [100% disability now]

the usaf was surreal. it made Waiting for Godot look like sunday school. theatre of the absurd. nothing logical, rational, nor reasonable. at any level. Chief of Staff was LeMay. the guy who fire bombed Desden.

injustice at the very heart of military service, exploitation. I saw my parish priest one day at Chanute. ...and ran over to say hello father, amazed he'd enlisted [as a captain] and he looked over my head, said where's your salute, and walked on. other things I don't want to mention.

Best thing about my military service: Got to know jazz very well. There was an all black hotel in town with an after hours Moose club, where i saw every major jazz artist play in person, a huge important education. my airbase was huge and about 99.99% civilian. the entire military was in two barracks with a small mess between them. next to the base exchange. weather communications pharmacy clinic admin. my BFF was com, top HS quarterback in Alabama in 1960, i think. Officers quaters somewhere else. god knows how many civilians came to work.

For me personally, when someone says "thank you for your service" it's just a bit more of theatre of the absurd. cuz ...Everyone else in my family all were draft dodgers. My olderr brother's National Guard got called up for the Cuba thing in 62, and got a discharge on the spot. He was a lawyer at richard Nixon's law firm. one of my brothers got braces, free from his dentist - i don't recall what scam the others pulled. one of the brothers is MAGA - does not dare wear the hat tho. another owns a sanitation management company, multi-state..[like the sopranos' company.]

but my stint as a weather technician left me a life long dyed in the wool leftist opposed to the class exploitation in military. an anti-war activist in the 60s, right out of the service, starting a cooperative/commune with my compensation award for my automobile accident and helping support a famous rock group in the commune, before they got famous.

I have every respect for the people who enlist and serve. one of my best friends just got back from syria and is getting a degree in anthropology. even before enlisting in the USAF before college, I worked as a stable hand, and in college in a steel fabrication plant. yes, thank you for your service. worked on a ranch in oklahoma driving a wheat truck.

but for me personally, there are people who really do deserve it. I cried at the wall. never thought I would but it just tore me apart.

Response by PO1 Rosalind Poole made Aug 19 at 2021 6:41 AM

PO1 Rosalind Poole — Thu, 19 Aug 2021 06:41:49 -0400

No I feel like saying Thanks you have no f @@#$$ clue and I still serving mentally. Then I wonder if they really mean it or just going through the motion and saying what sounds respectful

Response by MSgt Frank Askins made Aug 19 at 2021 10:51 AM

MSgt Frank Askins — Thu, 19 Aug 2021 10:51:00 -0400

I am also a Vietnam veteran and have heard the baby killer remarks, especially in the airport in SF when I returned. Of course those were the hippie days and everyone was a "make love not war" child. I alone knew the truth about my service and what they thought didn't matter because I knew they had not served and actually had no clue what they were talking about.

When someone today thanks me for my service, I simply say "thank you. It was my honor". I applaud their courage to approach a stranger and say something that the "woke" crowd would think is PC incorrect. There are still people who love this country and although they may not be able to serve, they recognize and appreciate the sacrifices made by those who do serve.

Do not feel as if you are stealing the thunder from those who are currently serving. You did your service and now others are doing theirs. No matter what job you hold/held or what branch of service you were in, you, like everyone else, are a cog in the wheel that makes it all happen. For those who served during times when we were not involved in a war......YOU are part of the reason we were not at war! After ranting on far too much, I will confess that when I encounter a WWII or Korean vet, I am very humbled by their presence.

Response by SPC James Fitzpatrick made Aug 19 at 2021 3:56 PM

SPC James Fitzpatrick — Thu, 19 Aug 2021 15:56:27 -0400

I served from '71 through '74. "Guilty" isn't how I'd describe it. It makes me feel a little uncomfortable. All physically capable men were subject to military service, so I see no reason to be thanked. If you volunteered,fine. If you were drafted, it was the luck of the draw. Same thing if you weren't. So a , "thank you" becomes redundant as far as I'm concerned.

Response by SFC Edward Sneed made Aug 19 at 2021 7:02 PM

SFC Edward Sneed — Thu, 19 Aug 2021 19:02:28 -0400

I served from 72 to 92, and don't have an issue with anyone saying it to me. Just being a member of our military forces deserve this recognition from anyone, even each other. I believe it's a form of respect, which this country is in dire need of! Thank ALL of you for your service!

Response by SrA Anthony Payne made Aug 19 at 2021 9:08 PM

SrA Anthony Payne — Thu, 19 Aug 2021 21:08:48 -0400

Boom Operator in SAC from 1980 to 1990. Spent five years (off and on) pulling nuclear alert living/sleeping not too far away from B-52's loaded with nukes. Flew a few sorties out of Guam back in '81 (TDY there from Griffiss AFB, NY - home of the ALCM (air-launched cruise missle)) where multiple tankers flew with multiple bombers on missions and the Base Chaplin would come in at the end of the briefing to bless us and pray for a safe return. Believe me, the Cold War was VERY serious. Back in '83, while pulling an alert tour (one week on, sometimes two a month depending on where your crews rotation fell on the schedule) we almost launched because of a "computer glitch." Thank God that the guys in the silos didn't turn their keys. Personally, I kinda feel funny when someone does thank me, but like I tell them - I volunteered no thanks needed.

Response by Sgt Jimmy Dee made Aug 19 at 2021 10:29 PM

Sgt Jimmy Dee — Thu, 19 Aug 2021 22:29:10 -0400

I don't remember when I first heard that; it was quite a long time after my six years in the Marine Corps. I hear it regularly now and wonder if those saying thank-you aren't being a bit careless: I knew many shit-birds in the service who didn't do anything to earn anyone's gratitude. I'm suspicious when someone at group events suggest that "we all thank our veterans" and ask us to stand and be recognized. I don't do it and prefer to stay off the skyline.

Response by PO1 Michael Logan made Aug 19 at 2021 10:37 PM

PO1 Michael Logan — Thu, 19 Aug 2021 22:37:26 -0400

Zacke you’re full of shit. Nobody spit at you or called you baby killer if you served from 78 to 81. Maybe from 68 to 71. You’re full of shit.

Response by PO1 Michael Logan made Aug 19 at 2021 10:42 PM

PO1 Michael Logan — Thu, 19 Aug 2021 22:42:40 -0400

SPC Richard Zacke You’re full of shit. Nobody got called “baby killer” or got “spit at” in the years you mentioned. 68 - 71 yeah but not 78 -81. That’s bullshit.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 20 at 2021 8:00 AM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 20 Aug 2021 08:00:57 -0400

I served from 1983 to 2019. To me, anyone who served deserves the gratitude of the nation regardless of when or how long you served. In 1991 or 1992 I drove home in uniform and needed gas. Some moron in the gas station called me a "baby killer." To his credit, he expressed his opinion to my face, but to my credit, I told him, "have a nice day." I hadn't deployed up to that point and was a typical cold warrior. Just remember, everyone has the right to express themselves, but it is especially welcome when it's positive!

Response by SPC Michael Tierney made Aug 20 at 2021 2:31 PM

SPC Michael Tierney — Fri, 20 Aug 2021 14:31:02 -0400

Absolutely not. But I am pretty sure they have no idea what it is they are really thanking me for. So many people are such phony patriots. Because it is the nice thing to do to recognize military (okay to board flights first) and police, I think much of it is fake.
They really don't care. Just as when someone asks about Vietnam but, before you can answer, they are off on a different topic. They don't really care about your war experience. Or they say "you don't talk about the war" as if I have some reticence about doing so.
I put a Purple Heart license plate on my Aston Martin. The car gets a lot more comments and questions than the license plate.

Response by PFC David Gettman made Aug 20 at 2021 2:32 PM

PFC David Gettman — Fri, 20 Aug 2021 14:32:40 -0400

Hell no I don't feel guilty. I survived this massive explosion and saved the life of a fellow soldier in the process by extinguishing his flames with my body. And this was in the land of bier and Frauleins.

Response by CW3 Art Farash made Aug 20 at 2021 4:09 PM

CW3 Art Farash — Fri, 20 Aug 2021 16:09:03 -0400

Are you forgetting that the 60's and 70's were at the peak of the Vietnam War. Those o us that were RA all got to serve at least one deployment to Nam during thet period, I deployed from German where I had 4 tours and returned drirectly back to Germany.

Response by SSgt Stephen Bramham made Aug 20 at 2021 7:40 PM

SSgt Stephen Bramham — Fri, 20 Aug 2021 19:40:53 -0400

I am a 100% disabled Vietnam Veteran. Let me say "Thank You for Your Service and Welcome Home"

Response by Sgt Maria Gauthier-Love made Aug 21 at 2021 12:24 PM

Sgt Maria Gauthier-Love — Sat, 21 Aug 2021 12:24:21 -0400

1978-1982... I often feel that my service was a free ride. I served in recreation and then in headquarters as CG driver and in office carving award plaques...not the hard core on the ground service typical of a Marine. This said, I would deploy NOW if my country opened the door for kick-ass no nonsense service... BUT once a Marine always a Marine until my last day of breath.

Response by Sgt Maria Gauthier-Love made Aug 21 at 2021 12:25 PM

Sgt Maria Gauthier-Love — Sat, 21 Aug 2021 12:25:19 -0400

Once a Marine ALWAYS a Marine

Response by SP5 Franklin Littell made Aug 30 at 2021 3:16 PM

SP5 Franklin Littell — Mon, 30 Aug 2021 15:16:01 -0400

I keep having to check myself. Most know nothing about public treatment of military during and after VN. They are genuine in their words and thoughts.

Response by SPC Mario Moreno made Aug 31 at 2021 10:56 PM

SPC Mario Moreno — Tue, 31 Aug 2021 22:56:56 -0400

I really don’t know how to respond to you feeling that way because I have vietnam friends that accept me as their brother and some who turn their nose up because I didn’t go to Vietnam. I just know I served almost four years active and joined the reserves for one year(1967-1979 (1981).

Response by CPO Jack De Merit made Sep 3 at 2021 6:10 PM

CPO Jack De Merit — Fri, 03 Sep 2021 18:10:09 -0400

I served in Vietnam working directly for an Admiral, from 1964 to 1966. Since everything I did was undercover, none of it can be verified because all the records regarding it were destroyed when the Admiral passed away 25 years ago. Hence, my Agent Orange claim may never go through. BUT, when someone says, "Thank you for your service," I thank them profusely. They know I served but they don't know how or where because it is not important. What is important is: YOU SERVED!

Response by SGT Tomas "Huey" Husted made Sep 6 at 2021 3:09 PM

SGT Tomas "Huey" Husted — Mon, 06 Sep 2021 15:09:13 -0400

In some ways I do kind of feel guilty, mainly due to off duty activities. But mostly it was hump, hump and hump some more. If it wasn't Border Patrols it was Border Duty. Actually being barracked on either OP Romeo or OP India. 12 hour on 12 hour off shifts non-stop until relieved. Beyond that I was named NCOIC of OP Security. I led foot patrols at the OPs when our rotation came up. In between foot patrols was Tower Duty. Making spot reports ensuring GSR was on line and functional and making nightly FM radio checks as well as AM. At one point we got snowed in at Romeo and had to spend 2 extra weeks there. My only problem with Border Duty was the foot patrols. You had 18 and 19 year old kids,
Nutless kids, walking in your footprints behind you. All locked and loaded. I always played hell keeping them on line, parallel with each other. If I had spent my enlistment in the States I probably would have guilt, but I worked my ass off as a 19d. I did my job and it was very detailed and I took it very seriously. So I feel no guilt. Just sign me Cold War Sargent.

Response by SGT Tom Pettinato made Sep 13 at 2021 10:00 PM

SGT Tom Pettinato — Mon, 13 Sep 2021 22:00:27 -0400

They always said "There is no such thing as a Stupid Question " Well this question is the exception!

Response by SGT Cynthia Rouse made Sep 21 at 2021 12:15 PM

SGT Cynthia Rouse — Tue, 21 Sep 2021 12:15:26 -0400

I don't feel guilty, but I often wonder if it's sincere. Being in M.I., I served during the Vietnam War and in Berlin during the Cold War. They were two different wars, but the Cold War was the more frightening because of the risk with nukes. I was approached by a Soviet "guide" who carefully suggested that they could provide a great life for me and I've also heard the gun fire when the Soviets and East Germans were gunning down people trying to escape the tyranny of Soviet control. Before I retired five years ago, a 20 something with a brand new masters degree told me that she had read a couple of paragraphs in a history book about the Vietnam War and had no idea about the Cold War. To me that was more frightening than the Cold War itself because if we forget our history, we are doomed to repeat it.

Response by CPL Chris Schaefer made Sep 21 at 2021 5:50 PM

CPL Chris Schaefer — Tue, 21 Sep 2021 17:50:36 -0400

served 83 to 87 i tell them "thank some one who is older they are the ones that really did some thing

Response by SSgt Kenneth Watterson made Sep 21 at 2021 6:45 PM

SSgt Kenneth Watterson — Tue, 21 Sep 2021 18:45:07 -0400

I am an Air Force Vietnam veteran, having served in Thailand from Sept. 71 - Sept. 72 as a crew chief on jet fighters. I don't feel guilty when someone thanks me for my service although after hearing it many times, especially from men my own age who never served, it began to sound a bit hollow. But what else can they say? It's the thought that counts. And I am thankful that I got to serve.

Response by Sgt Terry Rizzuti made Sep 21 at 2021 8:38 PM

Sgt Terry Rizzuti — Tue, 21 Sep 2021 20:38:51 -0400

I was spit on at the Port Authority in NYC in 1968 shortly after returning from Vietnam by a woman who was probably about 40 yrs old. I was in Uniform and she actually spit on my ribbons and called me a baby killer. My buddy wanted to kill her, but I pulled him away and we left in anger. When someone today thanks me for my service, I thank them back for their’s. That usually confuses them, so I explain that most people serve in some way, either their families, or community or some organization. I like seeing their confusion.

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 21 at 2021 11:21 PM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 21 Sep 2021 23:21:00 -0400

I do not! I usually say "I was proud to serve." I was told that I was a murder when I visited a Baptist church in 1968 after my 1st tour in RVN so I got up and left. I was always proud of what I had accomplished.
The troops serving now have their own right to be proud and should!

Response by CPT Chuck Flint made Sep 22 at 2021 10:41 AM

CPT Chuck Flint — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 10:41:00 -0400

Why should they?

Response by CPL Chandler Delametter made Sep 22 at 2021 11:31 AM

CPL Chandler Delametter — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 11:31:24 -0400

Less we forget during the cold war era there were thousands of men who served in Korea up on the DMZ. In the 60's men who weren't going to Vietnam were in many cases serving in/on the DMZ in Korea. Many of them saw action, some even died for there county there. Look up the Ax murder incident in 1976, just one of many deadly actions caused by the North Korean regime. Army brothers with me saw action there in the early 80's. The only thing that was cold(war) was the weather, so Hell no I don't feel guilty when someone says "Thanks ..." to me. Even though you might not of served on the DMZ in Korea you were always there to protect America what or when ever situations should arise. Also, with Vietnam Vet's, instead of saying "Thanks..." to them I always say "Welcome Home" first then through our conversation I usually say "Thank you for serving". For all the men who served on the DMZ during the "Cold War" stand tall, be proud.

Response by PO3 David Keck made Sep 22 at 2021 1:23 PM

PO3 David Keck — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 13:23:48 -0400

If you raised your hand for the oath, you wrote a blank check to Uncle Sam for everything up to and including your life. A great many men and women have lost their lives in places most people have never heard of or care about. Unless you knew them personally then their death went unnoticed. Their service mattered just as much.

Response by PO2 Paul Dragos made Sep 22 at 2021 4:21 PM

PO2 Paul Dragos — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 16:21:25 -0400

Guilty? No! I just wish we’d of heard that back in 1969 instead of being called a baby killer and having a soft drink thrown at me while walking through LAX. Now it feels too late when it’s said by someone my age. By younger people it feels great!

Response by CPL Jerry Masters made Sep 22 at 2021 4:43 PM

CPL Jerry Masters — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 16:43:12 -0400

Absolutely NOT! I served from 1957-1960! That was not a “hot war” at the time, but I was keeping track of all Chinese Forces in the field. All of a sudden, all Chinese Forces started moving to try and invade Taiwan, we the NSA, The Army Security Agency, on Okinawa, picked up on it, immediately informed POTUS, he made one call to Chang Kai Shek,(so?) President of the Chinese Democratic Republic, and within hours, all the Chinese forces started retreating back into the field! I’m proud to have Served my Country, ANYTIME in our history!!

Response by MSgt Robert Bell made Sep 22 at 2021 5:19 PM

MSgt Robert Bell — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 17:19:45 -0400

I didn't sign up for the Corps until 85' so I'm a little outside your target range but been having a similar, what ill call an identity crisis. I've never felt guilty when someone has thanked me for my service, but lately because of all the BS going on in our country and the lack of respect for our freedoms, the constitution, and the absolute mockery of our government. I do question what was it all for and its starting to feel like I wasted my entire adult life for a belief that's being flushed down the toilet by a bunch of a$$hats that have never left the comfort of there basement.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 22 at 2021 5:28 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 17:28:09 -0400

Don't necessarily feel guilty, but I joined in '85, and a lot of people looked down on you or commented negatively to you for joining. After DS/DS, the looks and derision went away, but nothing truly positive. Right after 9/11 I was in public for some reason while in uniform and someone said "Thank you for your service." I was caught flat-footed and didn't know how to respond. At first I was thinking, "where were you 20 years ago," lol.

Response by Capt Joe Somerville made Sep 22 at 2021 7:23 PM

Capt Joe Somerville — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 19:23:01 -0400

I just tell them it was my pleasure to serve.

Response by PO2 Linn Lockwood made Sep 22 at 2021 7:26 PM

PO2 Linn Lockwood — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 19:26:57 -0400

I feel the same when I cam home in 69 too was spit on and called a baby killer while it may be well intentioned its 50 years to late for me.

Response by MCPO Bev Brennan made Sep 22 at 2021 10:44 PM

MCPO Bev Brennan — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 22:44:03 -0400

I have no reason to feel guilty. I served proudly from 1970 to 2000. When I graduated from boot camp, I was sent to HM 'A' school. When I asked why I didn't even get a look at any of my requested ratings, I was told they needed us to go to HM school because the Navy was losing so many corpsmen in country. Basically, "Free a Man to Fight". So I asked to be sent to Vietnam after school. They said they couldn't ... because I was a woman. I brought up Army & Navy Nurses over there, and now it was because I wasn't 21. Nope - not guilty. When August 2, 1990 became Day 1 of Desert Shield, I was CMC of a PSA staff. The call came in for PN/DK support and I immediately put myself in the mix. My CO & XO initially turned me down, but I prevailed reminding them of what I was trained to do and the need to do it. Spent the next 2 days getting wills, all my shots, desert uniforms and plane tickets. Then the XO called me in and told me that the Marine Major in charge of getting the ground guys together called and turned me down ... because I was a woman. Stiill not feeling guilty.
You must remember that women weren't allowed on sea duty until late 1990. 1st tour CMC billets were required to be designated sea duty billets. As a female CMC, who screened for command in 1987, it was a long wait until I was allowed to go to sea. When our Force CMC stepped in and recommended me for a VP billet, I finally felt like I was doing what I had trained to do. I deployed 4 times in my last 8 years in VP squadrons. While I may not have been "boots on the ground", our deployments to various areas in 5th and 7th fleets were just as essential as ships at sea.
My message is DON'T FEEL GUILTY. "Thank you for your service" That's the nice thing about that phrase - It doesn't matter whether you served for 2 years or 20 years. If it makes someone feel better saying that to you, accept it with gratitude and understand it's their way of recognizing and appreciating those who defended our country.
Thanks to all of you for your service!

Response by Capt Bruce Bitterman made Sep 22 at 2021 10:45 PM

Capt Bruce Bitterman — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 22:45:52 -0400

WHAT ????? Civilians should thank our military for our service in every generation !!!!!

Response by SPC Paul Gooch made Sep 23 at 2021 12:30 AM

SPC Paul Gooch — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 00:30:33 -0400

Nothing to feel guilty about here. Enlisted in 86, went to Europe, helped bring that wall down bashing heads, been still servicing ever since in one way, shape, or form, or the other and not always getting paid doing it either

Response by LTC Kenenth Westcott made Sep 23 at 2021 10:42 AM

LTC Kenenth Westcott — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 10:42:45 -0400

Feel guilty heck no first time was 65-71 , second time 74 - 81 then 81-91 . I signed a lifetime contract betting I would survive and I did. I do find it interesting the difference in how we were and now are treated. There never was a time when I was ashamed to wear the Uniform . I think it is great how the troops are treated now. Makes me feel good for them to be treated decently.

Response by SFC Robert Walton made Sep 23 at 2021 12:37 PM

SFC Robert Walton — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 12:37:16 -0400

Why did anyone down Vote SPC Richard Zacke He told the truth any one from the early 70' through the early 80's was in the same boat. You were closer to hated than you were liked it was a very hard struggle. In closing if your going to down vote be respectful enough to explain why. SGT James Murphy , SSG Thomas Barry , PO1 Steve Ditto. JMTC

Response by SPC Chris Ison made Sep 23 at 2021 1:13 PM

SPC Chris Ison — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 13:13:49 -0400

I just don't buy it. Who called you "baby killer" in 1978? No one. Vietnam was over in 1972, with the last troops being pulled out in 1975.

By 1978 there was no more anti-war sentiment for two reasons:

1. The war was over.
2. The draft no longer existed.

I am sick of people acting like this shit was so prevalent that every vet has a story. I lived in San Bernardino, Ca and Norton Air Force base was the largest Air Mobile base in the Air Force during Vietnam, there was a shit ton of cargo shipped through this base. And I was old enough to know, and aware of, how uniformed personnel were treated between the Civil Air Patrol Uniform and the jROTC uniform i wore, I never once had anyone act miffed about me being in uniform, no one tried to dissuade me from joining, no one had any negative shit to say about our troops.

All of the movies made in the late 70's and 80's were all "pro" military. Starting in 1978 with the Deer Hunter.

Response by Maj Ross Webster made Sep 23 at 2021 1:25 PM

Maj Ross Webster — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 13:25:42 -0400

GUILTY - NO, 1966 - 1992.

Response by MSgt John Randall made Sep 23 at 2021 1:36 PM

MSgt John Randall — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 13:36:49 -0400

No I still served and devoted 4 years of my life in the USAF, the fact that we where not in a a war but confidential encounters in VN is immaterial.

Response by CPT Jerry Lucas made Sep 23 at 2021 1:52 PM

CPT Jerry Lucas — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 13:52:05 -0400

I don't remember anyone thanking me for my service before Operations Desert Shield/Storm. After returning from DS/S the entire stateside command structure seemed to be using the phrase. It almost seemed like someone sent out a memo to be sure to thank all of us returning from the sandbox for our service. The Army commanders didn't want us to be treated like many of the returning Vietnam veterans had been treated. Now, it seems everyone is still doing it and it has been so commonplace, when some say it, it doesn't sound genuine.

Response by CPL Jerry Masters made Sep 23 at 2021 2:05 PM

CPL Jerry Masters — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 14:05:17 -0400

Absolutely NOT!! I simply obeyed orders!

Response by SGT James Murphy made Sep 23 at 2021 3:21 PM

SGT James Murphy — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 15:21:48 -0400

I remember being called baby killer or being spit at as well but I'm also very happy to hear someone else supports my time in the service of our country.

Response by SPC Gerald Freed made Sep 23 at 2021 4:26 PM

SPC Gerald Freed — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 16:26:46 -0400

In 1973 I was spit on at an Airport by protesters (Christmas).
and my Son-N-Law asked if I was a baby killer in 2000.
I followed US policy... I did not make US policy

Response by SPC John Donovan made Sep 23 at 2021 6:43 PM

SPC John Donovan — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 18:43:22 -0400

No, I do not feel guilty. I served from July, 1960 to June 1963. The Army could have kept me in or called me back in if they wanted to but never did. I was there, ready and able.

Response by AN Ronald Norris made Sep 23 at 2021 8:35 PM

AN Ronald Norris — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 20:35:29 -0400

NO I DON'T FEEL GUILTY BECAUSE NO ONE BACK HOME REALLY GAVE A DAMN ABOUT US BUT OUR LOVED ONES AND NOT A SOUL SAID WELCOME HOME SO I WELCOME HOME TO EVERY NAM VET I SEE AND MAY GOD BLESS US ALL.

Response by PO2 Joan MacNeill made Sep 23 at 2021 11:13 PM

PO2 Joan MacNeill — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 23:13:40 -0400

Since that includes Vietnam (I was there), there was some serious business going on, and many deserve those thank yous, other issues aside.
When I get a thank you, I get a rush of modesty, and although I appreciate the comment, I don't know what to say. So usually I just smile, maybe nod. They don't seem to expect speeches or any more than that.

Response by Sgt Jake Middlebrook made Sep 23 at 2021 11:30 PM

Sgt Jake Middlebrook — Thu, 23 Sep 2021 23:30:29 -0400

No. Thanks are like blessings. I accept them gratefully. I did show up in my boots for roughly 1000 days and did what I was told be it electronic work, KP or cleaning whatever needed cleaning. I think that is worth a simple thankyou. In fact I could accept a steak dinner and a glass of good whisky with a clear conscience. Beyond that, well I was an electronic troop and my boots were contaminated with silicon oil so they only had to be black not polished. I wouldn't want to misrepresent myself as an outstanding member of the military or anything. But yea regularly peddling down the flight line during the first energy crisis in 1973 with a transmitter that weighed 100 pounds more than I did on the back of a Ho Che Men bicycle is worth someone saying thanks.

Response by CPL David Widding made Sep 24 at 2021 8:40 AM

CPL David Widding — Fri, 24 Sep 2021 08:40:08 -0400

Many of the people that "Thank me for my service" do not remember the 80's or earlier because they were not born. I left the Army in March of 1989. In December my former unit was involved in "Operation Just Cause" While it is disappointing most people have no ideal we fought a war in Panama.
When you enlist you sign up for the unknown. I remember before "Desert Storm" some soldiers complained they joined for the college money not to fight a war.
While it may be late be thankful people acknowledge your service to Our Country and know that very few if anyone ever thanks a Congressman or Senator for their service.

Response by SFC Kathy Pepper made Sep 24 at 2021 3:57 PM

SFC Kathy Pepper — Fri, 24 Sep 2021 15:57:36 -0400

I was in-and-out of the Army since 1981, and was serving during Desert Shield/Desert Storm in 1990-1991. Third Armored Cavalry Regiment (3ACR) was the second unit to ship out to Saudi Arabia (and the first into Iraq) and, due to our mission (we were assigned to cut off the Iraqi Army’s supply line), we expected to have an 80% casualty rate, with a 20% casualty rate. However, the greatest fear for my friends and me was that we would return to be spat upon like Vietnam Veterans had been. Definitely not the case: the Ft Bliss Army band was playing at the foot of the airplane stairs when we returned, but the crowd was cheering so loudly that we could not hear the band.

We were thanked by civilians everywhere we turned, until it became embarrassing. I talked to a Vietnam Veteran friend and apologized for getting the accolades he should have gotten. He told me that it was because of Vietnam Veterans that we did get the positive reception; they were determined that we would not get the treatment they had gotten. To me, that was the greatest honor of all (to all the Vietnam Veterans reading this, thank YOU).

Although I appreciate the public’s appreciation, I started replying that police and firefighters deserve the thanks: police run towards gunfire and firefighters run into burning buildings. After school shootings became more prevalent, I added schoolteachers to the list. Since the pandemic, I added medical professionals, store clerks, bus drivers, etc. Mostly, I just smile and nod; I would hate the public to go back to the days of contempt for us.

Response by SGT Doug Dabney made Sep 25 at 2021 6:01 AM

SGT Doug Dabney — Sat, 25 Sep 2021 06:01:52 -0400

I served from 1972-1993. The Thank-You thing started back before the 1st Gulf War and I found it insulting to me. I realize that America had discovered their mistake by the way that Veterans returning from Vietnam were treated, and they were trying in their own way to make amends for that. IMO, it was to late to make good on correcting that grievous mistake and not amount of Thank You's would ever make it right.
When I have someone tell me thank you, I tell the ,Don't thank me...I didn't join for Glory or to get thanks for a choice I had made.. I joined to learn stuff about myself and to learn a trade.
I always tell them to take their thanks and use it towards a better good that a homeless person in America needs, be them a vet or just a person down on their luck... go play their fortune forward by buying them a meal or volunteer at a shelter once or twice a year.
That to me, is how to thank a veteran for the service they had made to this country.

Response by SP5 John Brown made Sep 25 at 2021 11:05 AM

SP5 John Brown — Sat, 25 Sep 2021 11:05:31 -0400

I was ARMY; 1967-1970 . I have recently found myself in a conversation with Health Care workers, regarding the Vaccinations. ( covid). They Say HOW DARE our government "mandate" that we must be immunized, or lose our jobs.! I ( finally prompted), with,.. Ya Know,..55+ years ago i was drafted into the ARMY , or go to "Jail" , by my Government. My Father lined up my Siblings, ( i was the oldest), and said " Say goodbye to your Brother, YOU MAY NEVER SEE HIM AGAIN.!" I ended up in SOUTHEST ASIA ,as a "troop transport/ Med-evac" Helicopter Crew-chief. I did the very Best i could, and was promoted accordingly. We flew back to the U.S. and processed out in OAKLAND CALIF. We stripped from our ( stinky) uniforms, threw them on the Pile, and changed into CIVIES. We grabbd our " DUFFLES" , and waited on line for Back PAY. We knew what " mental state" our country was in by virtue of the STARS & STRIPES, etc. BUT,..entering the " WORLD " , and travelling by "Trolley and Bus" from West coast, to the East Coast, WAS HORIFFIC.! Everyone Knew,..that you were Military.! The cursing, the insults , and the SPITTING etc, across the Country,....WAS REAL!! SO ; ( as i Bore You with my " BIO " and all of the Related DEMONS i still carry) When someone Says " Thank You for Your Service" , I respond ( with a tear in my eye), Thank You for saying that, it means an Awful Lot.

Response by SPC John Tsutsui made Sep 25 at 2021 11:10 AM

SPC John Tsutsui — Sat, 25 Sep 2021 11:10:57 -0400

I served at the tail end of the Vietnam War serving stateside and in West Germany. Proud of my service. No Veteran should ever feel guilty for when and where they served. We do not set the circumstances. We do what we are called upon to do regardless of the mission like those before and after us. Like my father before me, ARMY PROUD!

Response by SSG Eugene Brown made Sep 25 at 2021 7:31 PM

SSG Eugene Brown — Sat, 25 Sep 2021 19:31:57 -0400

Say your welcome and I'd do it again

Response by SPC Brian Pritchard/Hall made Sep 25 at 2021 8:07 PM

SPC Brian Pritchard/Hall — Sat, 25 Sep 2021 20:07:52 -0400

Why the hell would I feel guilty?

Response by CPL Michael Moore made Sep 25 at 2021 11:28 PM

CPL Michael Moore — Sat, 25 Sep 2021 23:28:35 -0400

This question occasionally shows up. If people would only learn history it would easy to determine there was no such thing as a “ Peacetime Army” please do a little research because I’m tired of listing the number of times we have engaged in combat from 1954 to present. I didn’t enlist for random thanks or collage benefits. I was raised knowing it was a sacred duty and a debt I owed for living in the precious freedom paid for in blood , sweat and tears of those who came before me. I would no more question the thanks they are deserving of anymore than you should ours.

Response by AN Ron Wright made Sep 25 at 2021 11:29 PM

AN Ron Wright — Sat, 25 Sep 2021 23:29:19 -0400

I get it all the time Since I served and did my time defending America I am ok with that
though certainly not as bad a time as some. All my bretheren who went before me I always tell them THANK YOU FOR LEAVING THE FOOTPRINTS TO FOLLOW
TO ACCEPT TODAYS words YES i say thank you, I appreciate that

Response by MAJ John Davis made Sep 26 at 2021 7:25 AM

MAJ John Davis — Sun, 26 Sep 2021 07:25:32 -0400

All honorable service is commendable. I think the Duke of Wellington said, "He also serves who stands and waits."

Response by Lt Col Bill Fletcher made Sep 26 at 2021 8:54 AM

Lt Col Bill Fletcher — Sun, 26 Sep 2021 08:54:30 -0400

Just say “it was a privilege and honor to serve our Country”. It was and you did. Those who heard the klaxon sound and had to run to their jets or assemble to move to the Border ensured America prevailed in the Cold War.

Response by Lt Col Bill Fletcher made Sep 26 at 2021 8:56 AM

Lt Col Bill Fletcher — Sun, 26 Sep 2021 08:56:48 -0400

Respond “it was an honor and my privilege to serve”. It was and you did. Those who heard the klaxon sound and scrambled to their jets, or duty stations or assembled to head to the Border ensured America prevailed in the Cold War. No small accomplishment.

Response by SFC Ronald Widiger made Sep 26 at 2021 3:53 PM

SFC Ronald Widiger — Sun, 26 Sep 2021 15:53:53 -0400

I served during the Cold War (USAF) and then joined the ARNG later, served as a weekend warrior for 10 years then entered an Active Guard Reserve (AGR) position and served 17 years there. I was sent out to outlying units for leadership requirements (platoon sgt) and 6 months into that position my unit was activated for GWOT. Time was tight as we were to move to FT Carson in 5 days for mob training. The night before we were to depart, at 2330 hours a knock at the door, was my CoC and 1SG standing at the door and said "we gotta talk to you". In short, they told me I won't be going at all. WTH? Don't ask questions and I wanted answers! Oh, NO counseling statements were ever issued by either one. About 6 months later, I got a photocopy of a counseling statement that said basically nothing. Since that time, I have felt guilt because I did not lead the people I helped train and ready for that mission. Soldiers that I knew well asked me when they got back 18 months later what happened to me.....I still don't know and its been 19 years......Rumor has it that they had to promote someone and fast......? So yes, for a senior NCO (SFC) retired, I will always carry this with me.

Response by SGT Fred Flick made Sep 26 at 2021 8:41 PM

SGT Fred Flick — Sun, 26 Sep 2021 20:41:45 -0400

I stood and looked upon Soviet faces no it was as real. How ever I give those who served in combat praises as does patriots around the country. From Vietnam to iraq and Afghanistan. Feel my heart out to them all.

Response by SGT John Beahm made Sep 26 at 2021 9:28 PM

SGT John Beahm — Sun, 26 Sep 2021 21:28:41 -0400

I don't brag about my service, but I am proud of it. 1975 to 1979, 3 years in Germany, in the 1970's you were considered crazy in joining up. I had many friends and a ton of memories. We just did our job. If someone thanks me for my service, it's great. Better than some of the receptions I had in airports when I was in.

Response by SSG Chris Gursky made Sep 26 at 2021 11:39 PM

SSG Chris Gursky — Sun, 26 Sep 2021 23:39:40 -0400

No, I say thank yoi for being a person worth defending.

Response by PFC Kimberly LaVoie made Sep 27 at 2021 5:57 AM

PFC Kimberly LaVoie — Mon, 27 Sep 2021 05:57:45 -0400

I hear the words, but they're meaningless to me. I feel absolutely no guilt for serving in Vietnam, but any thank you's are 50 years too late.

Response by CPO Scott Langhoff made Sep 29 at 2021 4:30 PM

CPO Scott Langhoff — Wed, 29 Sep 2021 16:30:05 -0400

If you’re alive to ask this stupid question, then obviously we didn’t get nuked by the Russians, or the Chinese during that period.

I’d call that a win.

Response by SPC Jim Johnson made Sep 29 at 2021 5:44 PM

SPC Jim Johnson — Wed, 29 Sep 2021 17:44:35 -0400

I feel you earned by serving in any type of military service.

Response by Capt Tom Orlando, MSOM, PMP made Oct 4 at 2021 7:10 PM

Capt Tom Orlando, MSOM, PMP — Mon, 04 Oct 2021 19:10:35 -0400

I just tell them it was a privilege.

Response by CAPT Frank Nice made Oct 26 at 2021 12:35 PM

CAPT Frank Nice — Tue, 26 Oct 2021 12:35:24 -0400

It is never too late to show one's gratitude in both directions.!

Response by CAPT Frank Nice made Oct 26 at 2021 12:37 PM

CAPT Frank Nice — Tue, 26 Oct 2021 12:37:25 -0400

It is never too late to show one's gratitude in both directions.

Response by PO1 Kaytee S made Oct 27 at 2021 1:54 PM

PO1 Kaytee S — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 13:54:55 -0400

On Active Duty 1977-83, Navy Corpsman. Got a few "dirty looks" walking around Berkeley/SF in uniform back in the day, but no problems. The only "uh, oh, what do we do now", shocked looks came from a group of NROTC cadets I came across at UC Berkeley when I attended a class without having had time to change after work. No "thank yous" back then, of course. Now it seems to be a fashionable thing to say "thank you for your service", and I don't feel guilty, more like, "Huh? Uh... you're welcome".

Response by SPC(P) Tara Martin made Oct 29 at 2021 2:59 PM

SPC(P) Tara Martin — Fri, 29 Oct 2021 14:59:20 -0400

Nope! Army 1977-1981. Cold War and the threat of nuclear war was real. The Ayatollahs’s goons took over our embassy in Tehran. We would load up ready to go deploy, only to be cancelled. Pres. Carter couldn’t decide what to do, I guess. I was at Ft. Bragg as radio support for the 82nd Airborne. We went with the 82nd, but landed in an aircraft, not by parachute! We were ready. I’m proud to have served. I’m an Army civilian employee now and still proud to serve. Now my quality of service is brought into question since I served active duty not during a campaign. I no longer have veteran’s preference because I didn’t serve during a conflict. We were ready! We would have gone if ordered!

Response by SSgt Shaun Egan made Oct 29 at 2021 5:17 PM

SSgt Shaun Egan — Fri, 29 Oct 2021 17:17:28 -0400

I would never feel guilty. I DO feel appreciative that they would thank me but also pissed because they did NOT say thanks for -- let alone acknowledge -- my service record. I got out. That was it.

Response by SSgt Shaun Egan made Oct 29 at 2021 5:26 PM

SSgt Shaun Egan — Fri, 29 Oct 2021 17:26:22 -0400

No. Never guilt. I have gratitude and appreciation. I came out of the service in 1980 and nothing was ever said or done to thank me OR to curse me. It was as if it never made a difference. I'd have walked with pride if I'd even been given a modicum of respect, thanks or appreciation for my service. But there were none. Nowadays, I feel it's more of an automated response than actual thanks, like people are handing out thanks like they got them at a garage sale.

Response by PO3 Steven Taylor made Nov 1 at 2021 6:54 PM

PO3 Steven Taylor — Mon, 01 Nov 2021 18:54:37 -0400

I volunteered to serve and I specifically asked for a Boiler Tech. billet. I did the job assigned to me, as did we all at a time when it seemed like the Navy hated us for even being there. We served through the Carter years of no spares or barely money for fuel oil and we kept the Soviets in their place. I don't need thanks for a job I loved to do, and still do to this day but I appreciate the sentiment and leave it at that.

Response by SSgt Dave Sesher made Nov 13 at 2021 12:44 AM

SSgt Dave Sesher — Sat, 13 Nov 2021 00:44:10 -0500

My brother served from '69-'77. He was probably the major reason I joined. I served from '82-'87. He never left the States during Viet Namm or after. The first thing out of tech school, I go to Germany for three years. At first, I couldn't figure that out. While I was there, he visited while there on business. He was so proud of what I was doing. It didn't matter there was no "war" going on. That was when I got it. It doesn't matter what you do or when you do it. We all raised our right hands and recited the same oath. We are all brothers and sisters. We are all Veterans.

Response by Sgt Tony Anderson made Nov 17 at 2021 8:27 PM

Sgt Tony Anderson — Wed, 17 Nov 2021 20:27:45 -0500

I served 82-86. Half of that was spent at an air superiority base 5 minutes from Soviet air space. The other half was at a training base where we trained pilots who were the leadership during subsequent conflicts. I did what my country asked of me when it was my turn. I guilt, no shame. I wrote the blank check. I was blessed to never be fired upon in anger, but stood ready to do whatever needed to be done.

Response by Cpl Eugene McManus made Nov 25 at 2021 2:18 PM

Cpl Eugene McManus — Thu, 25 Nov 2021 14:18:21 -0500

I served in the Marine Corps from 1975-79, immediately after Vietnam. I was never spit on or called a baby killer. The most common negative comments I received were more like, “how could you be so stupid to enlist in the military “, or, “why would anyone join the Marines “? I recall more a sense of disregard for my service at the time, with absolutely no respect or appreciation of my service. When my fellow citizens decided 30 years later to acknowledge my service and began to thank me, it all seemed slightly disingenuous and a little forced.
Having said that, I didn’t join the Marines for the acknowledgment or appreciation of my fellow citizens. I joined out of a sense of duty inherited from my family, to challenge myself, and to experience something different.
No regrets brothers, no regrets.

Response by SPC Robert Tanksley made Nov 26 at 2021 2:08 AM

SPC Robert Tanksley — Fri, 26 Nov 2021 02:08:56 -0500

No I have nothingb toffee guilty about. I was drafted and as an AA I went to Viet Nam and served my country unlike 45 and other wealthy draft doggers. However, I do feel that "thank you for your service" is a meaningless, insincere phrase that is thoughtlessly spit out far too often.

Response by SP5 Chet Scheel made Dec 8 at 2021 5:28 PM

SP5 Chet Scheel — Wed, 08 Dec 2021 17:28:14 -0500

Was TX Natl Guard from 70-76. Never activated. Have aloways felt that my service wasn't worthy of the respect that Vietnam Vets were owed. So when it very occasionally happens, Yes; I do feel guilty.

Response by SGT Kenneth Duncan made Dec 8 at 2021 10:49 PM

SGT Kenneth Duncan — Wed, 08 Dec 2021 22:49:43 -0500

We volunteered when our country needed us. Nothing to feel Quilty about. Be proud, not many have served our country. And not many will. We are a rare breed. Good luck Brother.

Response by PFC James Edward VERNON jr made Dec 9 at 2021 8:05 AM

PFC James Edward VERNON jr — Thu, 09 Dec 2021 08:05:28 -0500

WHY SHOULD WE FEEL "GUILTY" ? WHAT "CRIME" I S BEING COMMITTED ?

Response by Sgt John Schnader made Dec 9 at 2021 8:43 AM

Sgt John Schnader — Thu, 09 Dec 2021 08:43:58 -0500

Served 72-78. Experienced hostility stateside during 'Nam. Never any appreciation except for family, and Vets. Now when someone says "thanks 4 your service", I just smile and say "sure thing!". But inside I'm conflicted.

Response by SCPO Bryan Jackson made Dec 9 at 2021 2:32 PM

SCPO Bryan Jackson — Thu, 09 Dec 2021 14:32:47 -0500

Never guilty, just uncomfortable. I normally do not talk about my service. When it comes up, I tell people that if they truly appreciate my service that they should leverage it for a better country. I tell them to vote responsibly. Not everyone can be a hero, but if they want to be a hero, start a business and provide some jobs.

My job was a nuclear weapons missile tech. I feel I was successful at our jobs because we never fired a nuclear weapon in anger, nor was one fired at us. It does not bother me that most do not understand that we worked as if every day was our last; that each day might end with our home and loved ones would be wiped away, in an exchange. Like most challenges, it cannot be fully understood unless you have been there and done that.

My hope is that every American looks at the world and sees the probable future of dictators, warlords, and corruption. I would hope they would see it is a strong military that protects their rights from forgien intervention. So for those on the battle field, yes they tend to give it all. Let us not forget, they do not go alone. From the logistics that support them to the contract partners that provide the tools applied on the battefield, there is an army behind the army.

The submarine moto is Pride and Professionalism. Like so many military creeds, I do not if that can be appriciated fully, unless it is lived up to. Guilty, no. Proud and humble, yes.

Response by CPO Michael Callegri made Dec 9 at 2021 3:56 PM

CPO Michael Callegri — Thu, 09 Dec 2021 15:56:00 -0500

I don't feel any guilt at all. We may not receive enough credit. Even though there was not conflict, we still stood watches, while and so those at home could sleep safely. We were still sent to places others would not have wanted to go. I still dedicated 24 years, so others could live a good life. No, I don't feel any guilt, that was our lot in life and what we were called to do. There were still things going on. The held hostage's in Iran, The Achille Lauro, where terrorist killed Americans. There may not have been any major conflict, but those time were filled with incidents I will remember the rest of my life.

Response by COL Alan Napier made Dec 9 at 2021 5:00 PM

COL Alan Napier — Thu, 09 Dec 2021 17:00:11 -0500

Someone spit on you for serving? Tell us more about that.

Response by PFC Craig Karshner made Dec 10 at 2021 6:09 PM

PFC Craig Karshner — Fri, 10 Dec 2021 18:09:52 -0500

I truly believe the warriors who served during these years are why we honor veterans. I joined 82 but I had a choice. The warriors during the Vietnam Era had no choice. They should be honored thanked whatever else I can say. You deserve this country's total respect you definitely have ours..Rangers lead the way

Response by PO3 Lily Robertson made Dec 11 at 2021 12:59 PM

PO3 Lily Robertson — Sat, 11 Dec 2021 12:59:00 -0500

I served in Naval Intel during the cold war. In an odd sort of way, we were fighting a war. We were keeping everyone safe through grueling hours of work. Many of us have lost part or all of our hearing. No, i don't feel guilty just because i didn't serve on a live fire front line. I served on another sort of front line. And frankly, i'm equally proud of everyone who served during peace time, because if a war had broken out, they would have been the first shipped into harm's way. They signed up, crossing their fingers, but without any guarantee of safety.

Response by COL Carl Jensen made Dec 12 at 2021 11:06 AM

COL Carl Jensen — Sun, 12 Dec 2021 11:06:47 -0500

Service is service whether or not you were in engaged in combat. if not you, who? Its not the most popular thing many want to jump into. I would say the majority would rather stay clear of it. In my home town growing up, the word for soldier was schmuck. We all did what we could to avoid it. I became a teacher, but I wasn't tenured, so JFK said he needed me to stop the Russian tanks coming through the Fulda Gap. I was serving with good company, a bunch of college guys earning our 71 dollars a day once a month. Yeah we were Remington Raiders, but we were there doing what the Army wanted us to do. (At 3 cents an hour.) If you can get someone to work at that wage in lieu of you being there, with the prospect of being one of the guys stopping the tanks at Fulda, I think it was worth a "Thank You for your service". In our current world I'd recommend mandatory service for all, then you can thank everyone. Oh, and I thank you for paying your taxes.

Response by SPC John Williams made Dec 13 at 2021 3:27 PM

SPC John Williams — Mon, 13 Dec 2021 15:27:57 -0500

I'm glad people have started saying it again. I don't feel like I'm stealing anyone's thunder. Sometimes I tell people that my time in the service was made much better by the people that served before me. I was in from 87 to 91 and was stateside for almost the entire time.

Response by SPC Lyle Montgomery made Dec 14 at 2021 3:13 PM

SPC Lyle Montgomery — Tue, 14 Dec 2021 15:13:56 -0500

I don't feel guilty when someone says "Thank you for your service". I appreciate it. It's a hell of a lot better than when we got back home in 1970. We were spit at and called all sorts of vile names such as baby killers. Those lousy anti war college brats fron the 60's and 70's are the liberal parents of the liberal woke generation today, whereas the soldiers of then are the productive people of today with some exceptions, of course

Response by PO2 Elizabeth Vertin made Dec 15 at 2021 10:30 AM

PO2 Elizabeth Vertin — Wed, 15 Dec 2021 10:30:46 -0500

Unfortunately the public opinion, which was manipulated and greatly swayed by the media, simply did not know or understand the sacrifices of those who served during the Vietnam War. You should not feel guilty for being proud of your service to this Country. What you need to understand is you are being thanked because you were not treated as you should have been then. These folks are trying to right the wrong others done to you back then. Every veteran has earned a "thank you" regardless of when they served or what conflict they were a part of. The "thank you for your service" did not come about just for one Era of veterans, but simply shift in societie's thinking on how we show our gratitude for veterans as a whole.

Response by Sgt Bob Leonard made Dec 15 at 2021 1:50 PM

Sgt Bob Leonard — Wed, 15 Dec 2021 13:50:52 -0500

I was USAF, 1970-1974. I was stationed at UTapao, Thailand, working on B52s and KC135s, Jan, 1973 to Jan, 1974. Our involvement in VietNam officially ended with the signing of the 1973 Paris Peace Accords on 27 Jan, 1973. You would think that, since the war was over, we had nothing to do. That would be wrong, of course. Our missions just changed from dropping bombs on VietNam to dropping bombs on Cambodia. But that's another topic.

Nobody has ever called me a baby killer or disrespected my service. Aside from one of my four children (all of them now grown) and the occasional store clerk when I show my Veteran's ID for a discount, nobody says, "Thank you for your service." to me. I neither expect it nor particularly want it. Aside from my one kid, I consider the "TYFYS." response to be a reflex, now. Not something the clerk necessarily means or has thought about. S/he is required by management to say it.

I think the American public is being so visibly grateful to the military now because of guilt. Trying to make up for the way VietNam Vets were treated in the 1960/70s. Being mistreated by so-called war protesters and peaceniks was irritating. A momentary inconvenience, but that's all.

What was deeply offensive and painful was the treatment VietNam Vets received from Veterans of earlier wars. They were the ones who called us losers long before anyone heard about DT's bone spurs. They were the ones who initially refused us membership in the VFW and American Legion. They have since changed their attitude and membership requirements. Good for them. But that doesn't heal the scars of their initial thoughtless and self-centered, self absorbed, rejection.

Another reason I don't readily receive a TYFYS is because I don't feel I've earned it. I was a REMF. I didn't bear any of the burden of battle. Those who did deserve so much more from their Country and its' citizens than a simple "Thank you for your service." A couple of apologies would be a good start. An apology for being neglected/ignored/mistreated for so long. And an apology for sending them/us to fight in a war that was "the wrong war in the wrong place at the wrong time and for the wrong reasons".

PS
I mentioned that I have four kids, but only one of them thanks me for my service. The other three...? Two of them are Veterans of the sandbox wars. What we say among ourselves is, "I'm glad you made it back." (That's what I also say to any Veteran I happen to meet.) The third one also says that us. The one who says, "TYFYS." is slowly coming around.

Response by SFC Antonio Baird made Dec 16 at 2021 10:54 AM

SFC Antonio Baird — Thu, 16 Dec 2021 10:54:45 -0500

You should NEVER EVER feel ashamed for having served your country. Regardless of your Job Skill, assignments, or anything else, hold your head high that you're among the 4% of Americans that served. Thank you for your service!!!

Response by A1C Donald Hanes made Dec 16 at 2021 11:24 AM

A1C Donald Hanes — Thu, 16 Dec 2021 11:24:51 -0500

Serving your country no matter the time or what duties you preformed deserves the thank you!
From me to you and all the others that have served our country "THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE"

Response by Maj Gail Lofdahl made Jan 2 at 2022 5:30 AM

Maj Gail Lofdahl — Sun, 02 Jan 2022 05:30:24 -0500

I just say, "It was my honor. Please keep my pension coming."

Response by SGT James Bradley made Jan 2 at 2022 11:24 AM

SGT James Bradley — Sun, 02 Jan 2022 11:24:20 -0500

You served your country. You deserve to be thanked for your service regardless of any wartime service. I salute you!!!

Response by SSgt Kathleen Fleitz made Jan 7 at 2022 9:09 AM

SSgt Kathleen Fleitz — Fri, 07 Jan 2022 09:09:51 -0500

I never had anyone thank me for my service until I started going to the VA Hospital here. It felt strange because although I served during the Vietnam Era, I never went to a war zone. Recently I was waiting to see a doctor at the VA eye clinic when an older gentleman thanked me for serving during a time when there was a lot of discrimination against women. His words made me feel good because it wasn't always easy being a woman in a man's AF.

Response by MAJ James Fitzgerald made Jan 13 at 2022 4:32 PM

MAJ James Fitzgerald — Thu, 13 Jan 2022 16:32:04 -0500

There are many who have provided good feedback to your concern. I have the utmost respect for anyone who served in combat, which I did not. I consider their sacrifices something that only those who have lived it can understand completely. I communicated with a commander in Iraq many years ago, and he and I discussed this very issue. He told me it's just how things worked out. He told me he never pictured being in a combat zone flying choppers when he signed up. When you serve there may or may not be conflict. I can't explain why I wasn't challenged to lead in a combat environment, other than it wasn't meant to be I suppose. I cannot change my character of service.

Response by PO2 Ed Leidy made Jan 14 at 2022 8:50 PM

PO2 Ed Leidy — Fri, 14 Jan 2022 20:50:50 -0500

I was a Combat Medical Corpsman with the 1st. Marine Division in VietNam ('70-'71). All told I served from 1969 - 1973. Got smacked around in a couple "Peace Protests" (I remained standing). When folks say "Thanks for your service" I just smile and say "Thanks" - What I REALLY feel like saying is "You're about 50 years too late!" Thinking of those who could not handle the stigma afforded returning Viet Nam Vets and took the way out. I AM VERY happy that our citizens now treat our Troops with respect (finally). "In time of trouble and time of war, God and the Soldier all adore. But with peace restored and wrongs are righted, God is forgot and the Soldier slighted" - (Anon)

Response by 1stSgt John Running made Jan 16 at 2022 2:01 PM

1stSgt John Running — Sun, 16 Jan 2022 14:01:09 -0500

Served 21 years stateside, Okinawa, Korea, Saudi Arabia. I personally don’t really like it. I remember the phrase “thank you for your service” as a brush-off being said to veterans that bitched about everything that was “wrong” or “crappy treatment” with their assignment/station. I recall CMSAF Airey (retired) saying it to a troop that he was meeting before a dining out. Later he explained that there were far too many good people to appreciate than concentrate on dissenters. Today’s use seems sort of hollow, or “obligatory”. Anyway, it’s just my opinion & experience.

Response by SFC Mark Klaers made Jan 21 at 2022 8:31 AM

SFC Mark Klaers — Fri, 21 Jan 2022 08:31:07 -0500

All military service has value!

Response by 1SG James Kelly made Jan 23 at 2022 3:15 PM

1SG James Kelly — Sun, 23 Jan 2022 15:15:58 -0500

No.

Response by TSgt Don Dollinger made Jan 27 at 2022 8:09 PM

TSgt Don Dollinger — Thu, 27 Jan 2022 20:09:42 -0500

Your a vet, even during wartime, not everyone is deployed to the AOR. Can't remember the exact number but it's only about 2% of the population serves in our military. Our country requires safeguarding during peacetime as well. I give them a head nod and tell them I appreciate it. Makes them feel good, makes me feel good, win win...

Response by TSgt Eddie Andujar made Jan 30 at 2022 5:13 PM

TSgt Eddie Andujar — Sun, 30 Jan 2022 17:13:38 -0500

Why should I feel guilty. Absolutely not.

Response by PO1 Todd B. made Jan 31 at 2022 6:11 PM

PO1 Todd B. — Mon, 31 Jan 2022 18:11:24 -0500

Why? You served. You put on the uniform. You were honorably discharged. You are a Veteran and one that signed his life away if need be. It does not matter WHEN or WHERE you served. It does not matter if you saw combat or sat a desk.

Take pride in knowing you are one of the very few that stood up, put on the uniform and did something 99% of the population can't even imagine.

Response by SP6 James Lopez made Jan 31 at 2022 9:00 PM

SP6 James Lopez — Mon, 31 Jan 2022 21:00:18 -0500

I had a job to do and would do it again

Response by SSG Jack Scott made Jan 31 at 2022 11:52 PM

SSG Jack Scott — Mon, 31 Jan 2022 23:52:15 -0500

WTF kind of question is that guilty of what? I served in the Marine Corps from 81 - 91. Then the Army from 07 -15 now ask me which time period was the most feared and dangerous after two tours in Afghanistan. The worst was the damn Cold War both sides almost launched Nukes at each other over Computer errors. My biggest fear of all my time in the Military was being deployed during the Cold War. Being Buzzed by Russian MiGs and Back Fire Bombers in the Pacific with a war starting away from home. If there was going to be Nuke War I wanted to home with my Family 5mins from MacDill AFB in Tampa a Primary target. The Cold War wasn’t a Joke I watched. Navy A7 Corsair buzz a Russian Patrol vessel in the pacific so low I thought it would hit the Russians Bridge. The Patrol Boat attempted to Breach our Formation of ships with 2000 Marines. I still have the photos. The two Navy’s were ramming and brushing ships back during that time. I watched the TV Movie the “Day After” back then before going to Boot Camp it made you think.

Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 8 at 2022 11:03 AM

Sgt Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 08 Feb 2022 11:03:53 -0500

I don't feel guilty at all. But I also don't like people thanking me. I didn't do it for you.

Response by TSgt Michael Sharp made Feb 8 at 2022 5:28 PM

TSgt Michael Sharp — Tue, 08 Feb 2022 17:28:36 -0500

Not at all. I saved lives and put my life in danger many times. Just because I never saw combat doesn’t mean I didn’t deploy to places where there was a terrorist threat. Doesn’t mean that I didn’t sit alert waiting to go over a border, into hostile territory to potentially save a life. Hell, I was shot at in the USA by a crazy American. I am not trying to boast. Many of my brothers and sisters did the same thing. Even if all someone did was flip burgers in the chow hall for 4 years, they served honorably and ensured other were fed. Thanks to all my brothers and sisters, even if you didn’t join the best of the military. Go Air Force!

Response by TSgt Chuck Mankin made Feb 9 at 2022 7:57 AM

TSgt Chuck Mankin — Wed, 09 Feb 2022 07:57:33 -0500

I was Active 86 to 90 at Elmendorf AFB in AK. While nobody was shooting at us we were front and center in the cold war. I saw first hand that there were things going on that didn't make the nightly news. Then I joined the Air Guard after being out a few years and ended up in Afghanistan. We all served in one way or another, there are many who have been in during the latest war and others during Vietnam who never served in country. To me that doesn't make them less of a vet or their service anything less to be thankful for. I am a comms guy so is my service less than say Marcus Luttrell or Robert O'Neil? I don't think so and I'm sure if you asked either of them they'd agree.

Response by SPC Ralph Ware made Feb 9 at 2022 2:23 PM

SPC Ralph Ware — Wed, 09 Feb 2022 14:23:58 -0500

RVN....68-70, 82nd and 25th. A lot of years went by with more ignoring or not caring from the country than just outright hostility. Although in the early days wore beat up jungle jacket to give anyone the chance! Now after so many years it just feels odd to hear it. If anything I am glad the new generations are being told "Thank You". At least the country finally woke up. Now I worry about the direction my Army and the other services are headed with the destructive and divisive mind games being forced on our troops. These fools better remember that these are VOLUNTEER enlistments. These young people are not going to accept having bizarre and un American ideas and actions forced on them. Things are shaky enough with just the problems with the VA!

Response by PFC Doyle Hayes made Feb 9 at 2022 11:30 PM

PFC Doyle Hayes — Wed, 09 Feb 2022 23:30:29 -0500

I feel guilty all the time, some of the things the government did to others and veterans makes me ashamed. Plus the way they treat disabled veterans like me having to fight for my benefits is shameful. I am so physically broken I wish I would have never served

Response by SA Charles Scarbrough made Feb 11 at 2022 9:58 AM

SA Charles Scarbrough — Fri, 11 Feb 2022 09:58:18 -0500

Why in the world would I feel guilty? Why would this not be the same for those who served from 1930 to 1944?

The fact is I signed my name on the bottom line of a check that paid out an amount up to and including my life.

If it would have been required, I would have made it good. To suggest otherwise is to Simply cast aspersion on a Brotherhood that exceeds the test of time, and shows very little consideration for those in the family.

Response by Sgt Frank Shelton made Feb 11 at 2022 5:19 PM

Sgt Frank Shelton — Fri, 11 Feb 2022 17:19:46 -0500

NO, I do NOT feel guilty! I served in Viet Nam in 67-68 as a combat Marine. I do wonder if the people Thanking Me, really realize what they are Thanking Me for. I do not think they realize or care about what went on when we came back. I think their "Thanks" are just a 'blanket "Thank You!" , to maybe cover up for their attitude about how they treated service people in the 60"s and 70's, if they are even from that era. I do believe people that say,'Thank You for YOUR service', do mean what they say! I usually just reply, 'You're Welcome!, and carry on with what ever I was doing.

Thank You for asking this question and allowing MY input!

Response by CPT Rick Cooper made Feb 14 at 2022 6:57 PM

CPT Rick Cooper — Mon, 14 Feb 2022 18:57:25 -0500

Simply put, I served many didn't.

When someone thanks mme for my service, I take it As an acknowledgement on their part of my performance
Of an act to uphold and firther the preservation of the country.

Response by SN Walt Boyer made Feb 15 at 2022 10:42 AM

SN Walt Boyer — Tue, 15 Feb 2022 10:42:39 -0500

What would anyone that served in that time frame need to feel guilty for? I would ask those that did not serve if they feel guilty for not serving.

Response by CPT Eric Matheu made Feb 15 at 2022 6:11 PM

CPT Eric Matheu — Tue, 15 Feb 2022 18:11:12 -0500

I served 81 - 91, active, National Guard and Reserves...and I do feel guilty about it. The kids who have been in the last 20+ years really deserve the thanks...they were in the shite.

Response by PO2 Richard Maller made Feb 15 at 2022 10:49 PM

PO2 Richard Maller — Tue, 15 Feb 2022 22:49:14 -0500

I don't feel any guilt when someone thanks me, 80% of them were not even born then. And if I remember correctly we (military personal) were not as popular then as now.

Response by 1SG Roberto Peralta-Vazquez made Feb 16 at 2022 9:35 AM

1SG Roberto Peralta-Vazquez — Wed, 16 Feb 2022 09:35:10 -0500

Negative you shouldn’t feel guilty at all. I served from 1978 till 1998, and participated in Desert Storm. When anyone says to me thank you for your service, I respond with thank you for your support.

Response by SPC Anthony Conte made Feb 16 at 2022 2:43 PM

SPC Anthony Conte — Wed, 16 Feb 2022 14:43:56 -0500

Why would I feel guilty ? I served 74-76, keyword is served. I performed a service for my country, voluntarily, so I take it as "Thanks for serving our country.". I also thank other vets I see, along with police officers and First Responders. I don't look for the thanks, but I'm very gracious when someone says it to me.

Response by AN Jeffrey Backus made Feb 17 at 2022 10:43 PM

AN Jeffrey Backus — Thu, 17 Feb 2022 22:43:34 -0500

No, because I served in the military.

Response by CW2 Richard Hawkshead made Feb 19 at 2022 9:30 AM

CW2 Richard Hawkshead — Sat, 19 Feb 2022 09:30:32 -0500

As a Vietnam veteran, I served my country with pride and respect for what our country stood for. Although most Vietnam veterans were disrespected upon our return, I would do it again as it was something my country asked me to do. We, as Americans, must stand up to bullies (now China and Russia) when the downtrodden are violated and mistreated otherwise it will just escalate until we are the ones being attacked because we refuse to stand up and fight for freedom and democracy.
So no, I do not feel guilty for my service in the greatest country in the world.

Response by PO1 Edward Pate made Feb 19 at 2022 12:02 PM

PO1 Edward Pate — Sat, 19 Feb 2022 12:02:41 -0500

Not a bit. As a Navy veteran who spent many many long months haze grey and underway on a destroyer at the height of the Cold War, I knew I and my fellow service members were all doing our jobs.

Response by SGT Mark Rhodes made Feb 19 at 2022 12:55 PM

SGT Mark Rhodes — Sat, 19 Feb 2022 12:55:56 -0500

I served through the 80-2001. But your question includes the 60s which Vietnam War was going on. These veterans caught hell when they came home. So they always get my heart felt Thank you for leading the way. Also during the this timeframe we ended the Cold War. So there is nothing to be ashamed of when someone thanks you for your service I’m proud to have served our great Nation I seen battle but even had I not seen it I would still be just as proud

Response by MSgt Michael Cronin made Feb 24 at 2022 2:50 AM

MSgt Michael Cronin — Thu, 24 Feb 2022 02:50:20 -0500

Response by PO2 S.J. Carroll made Feb 25 at 2022 10:00 PM

PO2 S.J. Carroll — Fri, 25 Feb 2022 22:00:01 -0500

Inasmuchas I am one of those veterans, I do not feel I any guilt. It has been pounded into our heads that for every one person in combat, there are nine supporting that combatant. The cook feeds the combatant, the storekeeper gives him/her what is needed, the medic helps keep their health up, admin takes care of the paperwork, pay, and so on and so on.
We are a team effort, we all do our work. It's kind of like the plate on my car plate that says "Retired Navy, I served with pride," and everyone thanks my husband for his service, which he never did. But his support and assistance and support made my job easier.

Response by SGM Eric Lobsinger made Feb 28 at 2022 5:11 PM

SGM Eric Lobsinger — Mon, 28 Feb 2022 17:11:22 -0500

The time period for this question is interesting. Our combat in the Vietnam War ran through the fall of Saigon on 30 April 1975. Are the contributions of the 2.7 million Americans of value? It seems to me they should all be thanked for their service. Afterward, numerous military members were stationed overseas to combat the spread of communism, culminating in the eventual Fall of the Berlin Wall. They too should be thanked for their service. In the 1980s, we also had Grenada, Panama, unaccompanied tours to South Korea, and other various challenges, tours, exercises,
etc. They too deserve to be thanked for their service. And. Perhaps equally important, what about all of the support personnel and training cadres who trained and supported out troops worldwide: CONUS and abroad? They should be thanked for their service as well. When you join, you join to serve the nation. Not all personnel have served during combat operations, but they served as called upon by the nation. Some have chosen to stay and make the military a career, others did their tour of duty and returned to their civilian lives ... and all have served. Thank You For Your Service!

Response by SPC Rob Bohringer made Feb 28 at 2022 6:44 PM

SPC Rob Bohringer — Mon, 28 Feb 2022 18:44:55 -0500

Guilty? No...I am proud of the time I served... uncomfortable yes. I just did my job to the best of my ability...they way I was taught by my father and my DI.

Response by SSG Michael Doolittle made Feb 28 at 2022 7:43 PM

SSG Michael Doolittle — Mon, 28 Feb 2022 19:43:12 -0500

1978 troops left Vietnam in April 1973.... I do not remember anyone saying "Thank You" until after the First Gulf War, so 20 years after the last to leave Vietnam.... That does not make up for the 20 plus years after, and for me 25 years my 18 months as an infantry platoon Sgt... !962 - 1970

Response by SSG Michael Doolittle made Feb 28 at 2022 7:49 PM

SSG Michael Doolittle — Mon, 28 Feb 2022 19:49:55 -0500

original AP wire photo

Response by SGT Robert Andrews made Mar 2 at 2022 8:35 AM

SGT Robert Andrews — Wed, 02 Mar 2022 08:35:16 -0500

My mom still calls me baby killer Joined in 1987 out in 2009

Response by SMSgt Anil Heendeniya made Mar 2 at 2022 11:18 AM

SMSgt Anil Heendeniya — Wed, 02 Mar 2022 11:18:48 -0500

That's a loaded, assumptive question directed at a specific group.

Response by SSG Kenneth Davenport made Mar 3 at 2022 2:08 AM

SSG Kenneth Davenport — Thu, 03 Mar 2022 02:08:58 -0500

I'm with you. I served in the Marines from 1985-90, I also just retired from the Army National Guard in 2018. It feels weird for me to hear someone thank me for my service now. There was no such fanfare for me after my Marine Corps service.

Response by SSG Kenneth Davenport made Mar 3 at 2022 2:10 AM

SSG Kenneth Davenport — Thu, 03 Mar 2022 02:10:31 -0500

Response by COL Victor Hagan made Mar 12 at 2022 12:09 AM

COL Victor Hagan — Sat, 12 Mar 2022 00:09:56 -0500

Never feel ashamed of your service to the nation. I've served in all three Army components. And I'm just as proud of my 2 years in the Kentucky National Guard and 1 year in the Reserves as the 28 years I served on active duty.

Response by PO1 Mike Wallace made Mar 12 at 2022 3:59 PM

PO1 Mike Wallace — Sat, 12 Mar 2022 15:59:48 -0500

Guilty? No but I've told people that if they see someone with a Vietnam Veterans hat on the best comment is a 'welcome home. That means much more to me at least because we were often criticized if not condemned for serving our country and doing what it asked of us.

Response by SPC Edward Logan made Mar 13 at 2022 1:31 AM

SPC Edward Logan — Sun, 13 Mar 2022 01:31:42 -0500

Absolutely, Army, 1981-1984, I definitely recall being called "warmonger, baby killer" the very few times I wore my uniform in public. I was not in Grenada, nor was I in Beirut. I know people mean well, but I never heard a shot in anger, there was some a sh+*t talk about going into El Salvador but that never happened. I do recall guys who were in in in April of 1975 and got the Vietnam service ribbon even if they never left the US. all this Rah, Rah thank you for your service stuff came after Kuwait in 1990-1991. When it was said to me I say thank you because I know they mean well. The odd thing was the first time it hit me was when my son's recruiter said it in 2015

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 13 at 2022 10:15 AM

1SG Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 13 Mar 2022 10:15:22 -0400

Response by SSgt Larry Lovelett made Mar 14 at 2022 8:15 PM

SSgt Larry Lovelett — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 20:15:56 -0400

There were several deployments futing that time. Granada, Panama, Beruit, just because it didn't last for years didn't mean someone wasn't ready to do harm.

Response by SSgt Jamie Godfrey made Mar 18 at 2022 6:03 PM

SSgt Jamie Godfrey — Fri, 18 Mar 2022 18:03:53 -0400

I served '82-'91 and no I don't feel guilty about my service time frame. Regardless of time served, the potential for conflict is always there.

Response by PO1 Wayne Sasser made Mar 19 at 2022 4:17 PM

PO1 Wayne Sasser — Sat, 19 Mar 2022 16:17:03 -0400

No, I don't feel guilty. I joined the USN fully aware the War was raging. I did my best to perform my duties as a Hospital Corpsman serving with the 3rd Marine Division. I came home feeling I did what I was to do and never regretted my decisions. I have no guilt associated with my experiences. I mourn the loss of my buddies, but I don't feel guilt.

Response by SPC Margaret Lome made Mar 19 at 2022 10:51 PM

SPC Margaret Lome — Sat, 19 Mar 2022 22:51:55 -0400

No, I do not feel guilty. I did serve my country, and I served myself as well. Joining the WAC was one of the best decisions of my life. If there's any guilt, it's because my orders for Vietnam and my discharge orders due to marriage crossed. The latter took precedence.

Response by CPL Stephen Hemmert made Mar 20 at 2022 10:38 AM

CPL Stephen Hemmert — Sun, 20 Mar 2022 10:38:03 -0400

I served in Nam (11B20) in 1970 and was WIA, medevaced. I seem to get "Thank you for your service" from younger people. Rarely do I get that from people my age (74) who are not wearing a baseball cap with their Nam unit on it. I live near Lewis-McChord and never get an acknowledgement from those currently serving. They look right past me. I cannot figure it out. My wife is a Vietnam Era servicewoman (1969-1971). She was in the Women's Army Corp. Even when she is standing right next to me and wearing a WAC baseball cap or a Women's Army veteran's cap plus a Women's Army Corp tee shirt, they only see me, not her at all. I always have to tell the person that my wife (hugging her) is also a veteran. Then they say "Oh!" I wear my baseball cap in some way acknowledge and draw in other Vietnam War veterans into a brief conversation. To me "Thank You for Your Service" has a hallow ring. It does not make up for the decades of no acknowledgement. I remember the caustic words from WW2 veterans when my father-in-law took my down to his VFW hall. Once I even was called at "Mother Fucking Draft Dodger" by a VFW guy sellinng red poppies. He assumed I never served and just laid it out there. Frankly, it's all rubbish to me. Yes, I am somewhat bitter about it.

Response by LTC Ray Buenteo made Mar 20 at 2022 12:33 PM

LTC Ray Buenteo — Sun, 20 Mar 2022 12:33:10 -0400

The thank you is not for you. It is to make the person giving the thanks feel better.

Response by SPC William Garvin made Mar 21 at 2022 1:25 PM

SPC William Garvin — Mon, 21 Mar 2022 13:25:57 -0400

Thanks so much for this post and to everyone who has commented. I have felt the same way and it was to the point where I did not care to acknowledge my own service because I did not see any real combat. This community and brotherhood is amazing. Thank you all for your service and I am proud to have served!

Response by SPC Richard Levine made Mar 21 at 2022 4:36 PM

SPC Richard Levine — Mon, 21 Mar 2022 16:36:02 -0400

Ditto. I served from 1969-1973. People threw garbage at us & called us baby killers. I was a medic & never shot anyone, except with a Hypodermic. We ALL got blamed for Lt. Calley's crimes. Off post, I put on civvies & a Yankee cap, so my Class A didn't show. Felt like a criminal in MY OWN Country! I still FREAK out when someone Thanks me for my service. I say thank you.

Response by SPC John Dodge made Mar 21 at 2022 6:23 PM

SPC John Dodge — Mon, 21 Mar 2022 18:23:48 -0400

When I'm told "Thank You for your service." I tend to reply "You're Welcome, Now just don't vote for any damned socialists."

Response by PO3 Kathy Getchey made Mar 21 at 2022 7:15 PM

PO3 Kathy Getchey — Mon, 21 Mar 2022 19:15:16 -0400

Yes, it makes me cringe.

Response by SPC Bill Bailey made Mar 22 at 2022 1:33 AM

SPC Bill Bailey — Tue, 22 Mar 2022 01:33:21 -0400

I have to agree with Lt. Col. Canfield, we Cold Warriors manned the line and kept the Peace. I served from 1966-69, 1 year in CONUS & 2 years in Germany. When hit with TYFYS I just reply, "It was an Honor to serve", and let it go at that. Much better than "Baby Killer" that I got coming home from Germany !

Response by PO2 Nathaniel Miller made Mar 22 at 2022 12:39 PM

PO2 Nathaniel Miller — Tue, 22 Mar 2022 12:39:36 -0400

Honestly, I spent two years boots on the ground in Afghanistan and I feel guilty/unworthy when someone says thank you. I was a Navy reservist and got called up, one thing lead to another and I spent just shy of 18 months down range with only a two week hiatus back home, no four day R&R passes. About a year and a half after redeploying, I went back over as a civilian contractor for six months. I was a fobbit the whole time. I tell people it was like having an office job in a really bad neighborhood. After what happened last August I started wearing the classic veteran's black ball cap with the EOF campaign ribbon. I want people to be reminded that we spent 20 years there, and that service members touched by that conflict our in their community. That really hasn't help with the whole feeling guilty thing.

I never saw combat. I never fired my weapon, accept on the range. I couldn't even begin to estimate how many rockets I've seen whizz by, but who hasn't? I remember one night at FOB Salerno looking down into the valley and seeing tracers back and forth. It was like watching a sci-fi movie, but I was so detached, so far away I couldn't hear any of it. I remember the guys in my barracks going out to search for Private Bergdahl, and coming back weeks later. The whole time I was pretty cozy in my barracks, doing my job.

I never did anything that someone would think of when you say you "went to war" or "spent time in a war zone." I came home without a scratch on me. So many others did so much more. It's hard for me to feel like anything I did was really worthy of any thanks. As I write this, I just feel like a fraud, like I want to have been the person people think I am when they say thank you, but I know I never will be.

Response by SPC Marie Brown made Mar 22 at 2022 5:05 PM

SPC Marie Brown — Tue, 22 Mar 2022 17:05:47 -0400

I had similar experience when I was on active duty 1976 to 1980. Someone thanked me for the first time a few years ago and I was shocked. It was definitely a first. Sometimes I feel like a fraud too. Then I remind myself of the people who died in accidents on active duty, the friends who have committed suicide because they just couldn’t put the trauma of sexual abuse so many of us suffered, the knowledge that we enlisted when the service was desperate for bodies and we answered the call. We served honorably, we put our lives on the line, we answered when others wouldn’t. We earned respect.

Response by SFC Daniel Macedo made Mar 22 at 2022 7:50 PM

SFC Daniel Macedo — Tue, 22 Mar 2022 19:50:49 -0400

I served from 1972 to 2014. I don't feel guilty when someone thanks me for my service. Any active duty serving or veterans regardless of when or where their service occurred should be thanked and recognized for their service. We all served whether or not we volunteered or were drafted. Whether or not we served in a combat or combat support role. We all served our country which put all of us potentially into harms way.

Response by SSG David Breslin made Mar 22 at 2022 8:24 PM

SSG David Breslin — Tue, 22 Mar 2022 20:24:31 -0400

Service for our country is always honorable. We always need people to hold the line of freedom!! Thank you for your service!!
SSG David A. Breslin U.S. Army retired

Response by MSgt Willie County Jr made Mar 22 at 2022 8:49 PM

MSgt Willie County Jr — Tue, 22 Mar 2022 20:49:30 -0400

Not at all!!!! I served 1975-1994. I allowed them to sleep at night and have freedoms that lots of other countries don't allow. I can't help when I was born and I chose to serve our country. The way I look at it, I had a choice and I chose to serve and for one reason or another they did not and if they choose to thank me, I'm good with it.

Response by SP5 Dwaine Taylor made Mar 23 at 2022 5:28 PM

SP5 Dwaine Taylor — Wed, 23 Mar 2022 17:28:19 -0400

I have mixed feelings when anyone thanks me for my service. On the one hand, I was in a war situation in a war zone. I was drafted first, but enlisted in response to the draft to have some assurance I might be assigned a decent non-combat MOS. That worked. I did my job, got awarded some medals, got promoted and decided not to re-enlist after three years. My point is that I did my job the best I could. Awards and promotions meant nothing to me except for the additional money. At first being thanked starting in the late 90’s felt pretty good after having experienced post-war negativity.. Hearing it over and over is like being forced to eat too much cake at a birthday party. Nevertheless, and for the most part, I’m thankful that people are respectful of me having had my part in preserving liberty. That goes regardless of the political impetus and dividing factions behind the Vietnam war.

Response by MSgt Paul Beede made Mar 24 at 2022 2:00 AM

MSgt Paul Beede — Thu, 24 Mar 2022 02:00:12 -0400

in 1969 when I left Vietnam I was discharged at el Toro marine air base I remember getting spit on and being called a baby killer by hippy assholes that didn't know me hitting a few of them and m p s pulling me back through the gate to safety so I had a horrible experience later in life I was still in the military I retired with 38 years so when I was thanked in the late 80s and 90s for my service I was bitter until I finally realized they actually meant it when they said thank you for your service

Response by SSgt Brian Jones made Mar 24 at 2022 10:40 PM

SSgt Brian Jones — Thu, 24 Mar 2022 22:40:19 -0400

Server '67-71. Not until 2001 did anyone thank me. More prevalent after 2010 and more so recently. I am not ashamed and always return the thank you. I also never miss a chance to thank anyone in any uniform be it civilian or armed forces with a handshake if possible.
And thank all reading this.

Response by COL Carl Jensen made Mar 25 at 2022 1:10 AM

COL Carl Jensen — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 01:10:35 -0400

Not feeling guilty, just pissed off that I had a bad profile. Then again the Army always puts you where you are needed most. I was a chair-borne ranger, not a real ranger, just a desk soldier. Bad eye and bad ear, kept me from the branches I volunteered for. In spite of it all I still enjoyed the 30+years. Want to thank me for my service? No, I thank you for paying for my retirement.

Response by SP5 Margaret Streavel made Mar 25 at 2022 1:29 PM

SP5 Margaret Streavel — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 13:29:40 -0400

Served US Army 1977-1981. Was a 26DB4 Radar and air traffic control tower maintenance. Enjoyed the military. Sent a year in Korea.

Response by Maj Ronald Cassoni made Mar 25 at 2022 3:33 PM

Maj Ronald Cassoni — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 15:33:20 -0400

From 1975- 2008 and I hate it! So I always say back “and thank you for paying your taxes as I spent a shit lot of it!” That always gets a grin or a laugh!

Response by SPC Norm Gallaher made Mar 27 at 2022 11:53 AM

SPC Norm Gallaher — Sun, 27 Mar 2022 11:53:28 -0400

I enlisted and served from 73 to 76. When this topic does come up. I make sure I include that I never served overseas, that I did enlist and I have great respect for those who did serve overseas.

Response by SMSgt Anil Heendeniya made Mar 30 at 2022 1:03 PM

SMSgt Anil Heendeniya — Wed, 30 Mar 2022 13:03:16 -0400

I entered in '76 and served 20 years in 9 locations (TX (x2), CA, Spain, MS, OK, Okinawa, NE, and VA). A product of the times more than anything else, CA in '77-'79 was not so much anti-military as anti-establishment, which we represented. I was spat at and on a few times and called a plethora of names, got into a fight with some bikers, etc., but took it in stride. I think things are far more calm than they were in the past. But I'd rather live in a free country with all that than one that's chained and monitored like so many others.

Response by CW2 William Melton made Apr 13 at 2022 10:50 PM

CW2 William Melton — Wed, 13 Apr 2022 22:50:33 -0400

Absolutely not, i was proud to serve my country and still am. i have never had anything to be ashamed of during my time of service. 1962-1982 . i tell them thank you and i tell vets i meet and see the same welcome home and thank you for your service . young or old what pisses me off is when we came back from Nam being spit on and called baby killers by cowards who would rather protest or run to Canada. would love to have been able to legally react but we couldn't. Kent state didn't bother me a bit as far as the Guard shooting some of the protesters. Oh well War is Hell. but i wan to thank all the vets who have put their life on the line for this country. God bless all of you

Response by LtCol Paul Bowen made Apr 16 at 2022 1:07 AM

LtCol Paul Bowen — Sat, 16 Apr 2022 01:07:50 -0400

Never…I served 20 ACTIVE DUTY YEARS out of 32 years (1976 to 2008); participated in Desert Storm, Enduring Freedom and Iraqi Freedom; also flew jets from 1981 to 1992.

I always say, Thank you, it was a privilege to serve.”

Response by SMSgt Michael Gleason made Apr 17 at 2022 3:06 PM

SMSgt Michael Gleason — Sun, 17 Apr 2022 15:06:46 -0400

NOT AT ALL!! ...though I'm still "blown away" every time someone says it to me! (Why should I feel "guilty" for having served in a different era?!)

Response by LTC Ray Buenteo made Apr 19 at 2022 8:46 AM

LTC Ray Buenteo — Tue, 19 Apr 2022 08:46:48 -0400

You served

Response by AA Richard Tallini made Apr 22 at 2022 1:49 PM

AA Richard Tallini — Fri, 22 Apr 2022 13:49:24 -0400

It does feel weird, but I enlisted whereas many others did not. So I say thank you and leave it at that.

Response by 1SG Rick Seekman made Apr 24 at 2022 4:36 PM

1SG Rick Seekman — Sun, 24 Apr 2022 16:36:43 -0400

Vietnam was never declared to be in the cold War Era.
SMDH!

Response by SSgt Raniero Ferrante made Apr 27 at 2022 10:25 AM

SSgt Raniero Ferrante — Wed, 27 Apr 2022 10:25:13 -0400

I served between 1978-1984, and again from 1988-1990. Being in the service during those early years was not particularly popular, as is it today. Nevertheless, I am proud to have been able to serve and I know that those of us that served during those Cold War years contributed to a very important part of the deterrence doctrine of that era. We lived in the constant shadow of a potentially world-ending nuclear war, should the war turn hot. So in answer to the question as to whether I feel any guilt when someone says, “Thank you for your service”, the answer is heck no. We as soldiers, sailors, airmen and Marines, don’t get to choose when wars go hot. We can only train and prepare ourselves for that potentiality. We trained and were prepared to go to war, thankfully it never triggered or we would not all be here to talk about it. Anyone who took that oath to protect and defend the constitution against all enemies, foreign or domestic, in service to their country, deserves the respect and honor of those few words; “Thank you for your service”.

Response by MSgt George Fillgrove made May 12 at 2022 9:58 AM

MSgt George Fillgrove — Thu, 12 May 2022 09:58:04 -0400

Why should I feel guilty? I entered the Air Force in December of 1977 and my first assignment after two tech schools -- one on an Army base -- and combat training at an Army camp in Texas -- was to Alaska, which during the heighth of the Cold War was the very front lines -- with an operations tempo that rivaled any armed conflict. Going overseas, you were still confronted by people calling you a baby killer because of Vietnam. What torques me still, is when you come home, and you're told your not a veteran because you didn't serve during a war. People never had a clue what was happening during the Cold War...

Response by SSgt Tina GAllagher made May 17 at 2022 3:30 PM

SSgt Tina GAllagher — Tue, 17 May 2022 15:30:17 -0400

No I don't feel guilty at all. Peacetime is hardly "peaceful." I served from 79 to 87- a lot happened during that time. After leaving the AF, applying for gov't jobs let me know that my peacetime service was worth "nothing" in their point system, civilians were less than friendly about my service. I learned to keep my service a secret. Now I live in a time in which people seem grateful or at least say thank you, (I always answer with the truth- it was my honor to serve), and if they don't, I don't ask them to. I've been called all kinds of rude, profane and obscene names for being a veteran- i always reply the folks saying it don't know what they're talking about.

Response by SPC George Edwards made May 17 at 2022 9:47 PM

SPC George Edwards — Tue, 17 May 2022 21:47:24 -0400

I joined the Army Reserve while I was still a sophomore in high school in 1957. Did the summer camp thing at Ft Knox, Ky for two years and then six months at Knox training as an armor crewman on M-47s & M-48s. In 1961, the Cuban Missile Crisis came about and I joined the regular army and trained as a missile equipment specialist at Ft Belvoir and Ft Bliss, TX. We were sent to Germany for two years and President Kennedy was assassinated. 7th Army went on alert and we ended up on a hilltop up around the Fulda Gap for a week or so while Russian planes tested our defenses. No, I don't feel guilty. I just did my job. But, again, I really don't care.

Response by Cpl Brian Ruby made May 18 at 2022 12:11 AM

Cpl Brian Ruby — Wed, 18 May 2022 00:11:10 -0400

What I remember is the disrespect. Even after Vietnam was over, well into the 2nd half of the 70s, I was still confronted in airports and on the street for being a "babykiller" or worse. I don't know why I would feel "guilty" about people thanking me, but it does make me uncomfortable. I often wonder if they have thought about what they are thanking me for.

Response by SSgt Mitchell Zachs made May 18 at 2022 2:13 AM

SSgt Mitchell Zachs — Wed, 18 May 2022 02:13:18 -0400

I do not feel awkward at all because during my service I know I accomplished things and worked my ass off to help the safety of the United States of America through my photography assignments. I served 81-87 or 88. Thanks so much for your service and you should be proud of what ever you did as should everyone who served in their own ways

Response by COL Larry Crockett made May 18 at 2022 10:27 AM

COL Larry Crockett — Wed, 18 May 2022 10:27:35 -0400

I drafted in 1969 within two weeks after graduating from college. I fell in love with the military - I found a home. Served 30 years and had a very successful career. I did what my country asked of me - why would I ever feel guilty. When people thank me I tell them to keep paying their income tax - that's my pension.

Response by COL Larry Crockett made May 18 at 2022 10:27 AM

COL Larry Crockett — Wed, 18 May 2022 10:27:46 -0400

Response by COL Larry Crockett made May 18 at 2022 10:27 AM

COL Larry Crockett — Wed, 18 May 2022 10:27:50 -0400

Response by SSG Mark Lawless made May 18 at 2022 10:59 AM

SSG Mark Lawless — Wed, 18 May 2022 10:59:00 -0400

As long as you served with distinction be proud of your service. It takes everyone in the service to make it work. It does not matter if you were in supply, orderly room, mass hall, or a ground pounder. It takes everyone to get the job done.

Response by CPT Chuck Flint made May 18 at 2022 12:04 PM

CPT Chuck Flint — Wed, 18 May 2022 12:04:26 -0400

Veterans of that era should absolutely not feel ashamed to be thanked for their service. They aren’t stealing anyone’s thunder. Those of us that served are all Veterans.

Response by LTC Pete Moore made May 18 at 2022 7:15 PM

LTC Pete Moore — Wed, 18 May 2022 19:15:02 -0400

Thank you for your service means just that, NOT thank you for your combat service. I served from 1979 - 2009 in uniform, in combat (9 tours of combat) and in peace. Service is service. I served as a professor in a military school after retiring from uniformed service, in fact I am still serving as a contractor mentoring units preparing to deploy.... that is still service. IF someone says thank you for your service (you served) just say "your welcome!" YOU SERVED YOUR COUNTRY!!!!!

Response by Thomas Jones made May 18 at 2022 8:39 PM

Thomas Jones — Wed, 18 May 2022 20:39:12 -0400

I don't even understand that question. Why would anyone feel that way. In times of peace, it's only there because of our Service Members. Plus, you included the 60s and 70s, those years were not conflict free! Yes we lost in Vietnam but that doesn't demean the sacrifice of the people in the service. It's like saying that the people in Afghanistan and Iraq should not be proud of their service.
I am proud of all of you, past and present! If you are concerned about someone NOT shooting at you, maybe you need to think a little harder about it. The idea of a powerful military is so that no one does shoot at you! If you are not being shot at it's because you are doing it right!
I think you are just looking at this the wrong way. Please accept my thanks for your service it might not get you into the VFW, but I will buy you a beer at any regular bar.
The point is that you joined and served, and I will always be thankful for your decision to lay it on the line. And I am actually so glad that you didn't have to get shot at or almost worse, having to actually shoot someone else. I have more friends that are really damaged because they had to shoot someone than people who got shot.
Hope that helps a little. You deserve the thanks as much as anyone else.
So, Thank you for your service!

Response by SSG Fernando Suarez made May 18 at 2022 11:34 PM

SSG Fernando Suarez — Wed, 18 May 2022 23:34:17 -0400

I served from 77 to 98 and I do remember getting talked down at the airports and called names. I do feel guilty when I heard those words. Even though I was in active duty during Granda, Panama and Desert Storm, I don't feel like I earned it.

Response by Cpl George Matousek made May 19 at 2022 11:17 AM

Cpl George Matousek — Thu, 19 May 2022 11:17:07 -0400

No, served in Vietnam 1969

Response by PV2 Regina Waddell made May 19 at 2022 12:20 PM

PV2 Regina Waddell — Thu, 19 May 2022 12:20:15 -0400

I was in 79 - 80 and when someone says thank you for your service I do feel guilty and uncomfortable because I was stateside and it was considered a period of peacetime although I do remember the hijackings and we were instructed not to wear our Class A's

Response by Capt Robert Vincelette made May 19 at 2022 12:38 PM

Capt Robert Vincelette — Thu, 19 May 2022 12:38:20 -0400

After the turn of the century I was in the last stages of earning my PhD. Across the street was a Gulf War veteran who was the first to say "Thank you for your service to your country." I later learned that he was unjustly eliminated from his PhD program and he put a bullet through his brain. By luck of others fighting the politics of graduate school I made it through, but at both universities where I worked since then I was horrified at what universities do to maximize profits: student loan debt that puts a lean on their parents' social security, recruiting students they know are not ready for college work, and finally having to quit because wage theft was costing me too much of my salary.
I do not regret my service in Vietnam and I do not regret the dignity that came with earning a PhD.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made May 19 at 2022 6:20 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 19 May 2022 18:20:46 -0400

By 78, I don’t think they we’re still spitting and calling servicemen baby killers. I served 81-87 in the peacetime reserves driving forklifts one weekend a month and 2 weeks in the summer. No one ever shot at me not I at anyone.

Response by SCPO Stephen Alexander made May 19 at 2022 9:37 PM

SCPO Stephen Alexander — Thu, 19 May 2022 21:37:59 -0400

I served in the Navy from 1961 to 1981. I remember the anti-war protests, restrictions about leaving the base in uniform. I am not the least bit ashamed of serving, but it is a bit awkward when people say 'Thank you for your service', because I'm not sure how to respond. I'm glad they care now.

Response by LTC Donald Donahue made May 20 at 2022 9:39 AM

LTC Donald Donahue — Fri, 20 May 2022 09:39:26 -0400

When he was in first grade, my son was attending his third school in two states. I remember casualties from Beirut and Panama. Cold days in the field staring across the DMZ or inter-German border, wondering if you would be vaporized in the morning. Watching friends buy homes while you packed for yet another PCS, which would invariably add to the huge collection of curtains (because windows were never the same shape or size). Living on an installation where our water was opaque yellow and smelled like rotten onions. Seeing the senior NCOs in a base-wide meeting, all with white hair and realizing they were perhaps 35 or 40 years old. All served in some capacity. No, I do not feel guilty.

Response by LTC Donald Donahue made May 20 at 2022 9:39 AM

LTC Donald Donahue — Fri, 20 May 2022 09:39:39 -0400

Response by PO3 Paul Roth made May 20 at 2022 10:40 AM

PO3 Paul Roth — Fri, 20 May 2022 10:40:28 -0400

You served and could have been called to action at anytime. I am a combat Veteran of Iraq and Afghanistan but joined before 9-11 to go to school and get out of trouble in my home town combat was the farthest thing from my mind. But I was called just the same as you could have been

Response by SrA Michele Burgman made May 20 at 2022 1:19 PM

SrA Michele Burgman — Fri, 20 May 2022 13:19:28 -0400

Your service should not be diminished based on when you served. I'm sorry that Vietnam era Veterans were treated so harshly.

Response by SSG Loren Thompson made May 20 at 2022 2:15 PM

SSG Loren Thompson — Fri, 20 May 2022 14:15:12 -0400

Background: In 1954 - 17 rears old I joined the active USAR (SN ER nnnnnnnn;) Weekly meetings and next two years went to summer camp. After two years college accepted 6 months training (BT, Combat Engineers ) returned to active USAR (SN BR nnnnnnnn;) and college. Later, with 1 year grad school and 11 months of my 8 year obligation my unit was called to active duty in 1961 (Berlin Wall.) As a SSGT-E6 I was NCOIC of a small Blood Bank that never made it to Europe. I was discharged in 1962; my unit was disbanded and my guys sent home two weeks later. I served under Eisenhower and Kennedy.

I don't wear the ball cap, so I don't often get the thanks. When I do I respond by saying:

"Thank you -I was proud to serve. I learned how to duck and how to shoot but never had to do either."

Response by SGT Scott Adie made May 20 at 2022 3:10 PM

SGT Scott Adie — Fri, 20 May 2022 15:10:48 -0400

I served in Vietnam with the 1st Cav Air Mobile 68-69 Infantry Machine Gunner. I appreciate it when someone recognizes my service but I don't always know how to respond. I usually just say thanks.

Response by Sgt Robert Beverly made May 21 at 2022 1:03 AM

Sgt Robert Beverly — Sat, 21 May 2022 01:03:16 -0400

Vietnam 66/67. I don't feel guilty but I sure don't like it.

Response by MSgt George Murray made May 21 at 2022 6:36 AM

MSgt George Murray — Sat, 21 May 2022 06:36:48 -0400

I get thank you's a lot. At first, I didn't know what to think, but then I told myself, "Sarge, isn't it nice that someone says thank you for something you enjoyed doing."

Response by SP5 James Stockton made May 21 at 2022 7:43 AM

SP5 James Stockton — Sat, 21 May 2022 07:43:43 -0400

It would have been nice to hear it back then. But the way we treated and shunned caused a national reevaluation of how veterans are treated. If the way we were treated insures no future veteran is outcast because they served, then it is worth it. I politely say "thanks", but in the back of my mind sometimes a little voice says, "Where were you 50 years ago?"

Response by SGT Edward Valiket made May 21 at 2022 8:47 AM

SGT Edward Valiket — Sat, 21 May 2022 08:47:34 -0400

I agree with SPC Zacke, we were spit at and called baby killers for 30 years then around 2002 or so people started thanking us for our service. Having served 69-71 it leaves a bitter taste in my mouth when they say it,I get why they do it I just think it is too little too late for me.
Just my 2 cents worth

Response by CW2 Tilo Stanley made May 21 at 2022 1:42 PM

CW2 Tilo Stanley — Sat, 21 May 2022 13:42:35 -0400

No one needs to thank me. I served for the Country and not anybody else. A welcome Home would have been appreciated ,especially after my first Tour in Vietnam. But I am no longer loosing any Sleep over it. I have moved on.

Response by SPC Charles McGorray made May 21 at 2022 4:29 PM

SPC Charles McGorray — Sat, 21 May 2022 16:29:02 -0400

Not at all. No one said thank you when I got out in 1972. I was Infantry, diverted from my assignment to Viet Nam to Ft. Wainwright, AK. in late winter 1971. I still got spit on and screamed at as a baby killer when I walked through SeaTac.

Response by 1st Lt Richard Gauthier made May 21 at 2022 9:55 PM

1st Lt Richard Gauthier — Sat, 21 May 2022 21:55:34 -0400

I never served in the front lines. Always stateside in Air Training Command. I can relate to fellow veterans regardless of any branch, Regular, Retired, Reserve or National Guard but I do feel a bit of guilt since I never saw any direct conflict. I have flown in civilian life with a number of them and they are all great individuals of strong character. I have great respect for those who have seen conflict. I am now an instructor and Check Airman in my new position. The students I come across with military backgrounds regardless whether it is as an aviator or not are extremely disciplined and superior students.

Response by SP5 Virginia Jorden Wackens made May 22 at 2022 5:09 AM

SP5 Virginia Jorden Wackens — Sun, 22 May 2022 05:09:18 -0400

I served my country and that is why they are saying that. They have no idea what it was like. I became an MST PTSD and HIV and a few more acronyms I can think of. So do I feel guilty when people say that NO because I wore the uniform. I did not fight in battle but every day now is a battle to maintain my sobriety and my dignity. Sorry instructors, sorry first sergeant who took advantage of a young naive very young lady. 20 years old. So NO I have my battle scars.

Response by Sgt Joe Savino made May 22 at 2022 6:06 AM

Sgt Joe Savino — Sun, 22 May 2022 06:06:03 -0400

Served 84- 88 very much so although my small team was assigned to a command group outside my branch and we were deployed to several hot spots (which since have been redacted) Now i tell people i was in the desert before the desert was cool . Its all i can say i signed the papers to never discuss where ive been. Makes it harder to accept it.

Response by SSgt James Harvey made May 22 at 2022 6:27 PM

SSgt James Harvey — Sun, 22 May 2022 18:27:28 -0400

I served from '78-'88, 9 of my 10 years was with Strategic Air Command, my final year was with the Ground Launched Cruise Missile unit in Comiso Sicily. Every morning Ivan woke up and asked was today the day he could get away with an attack, my brothers and sisters made sure that answer was always NO. While we weren't in actual eye to eye combat, we were ready to incinerate our targets at a moments notice. Thank God we were never called to preform our primary mission. Our older brothers and sisters from the Viet Nam era and even to some extent Korea, never received the recognition they rightfully deserved, and in some cases were treated like trash. That's the fault of an ungrateful public, NOT the service member. We don't have the option of where our "leaders" send us, popular or not, we're called, we go and do our mission to the utmost of our ability. Whether that is a peacetime or a wartime mission. NO service member should EVER feel ashamed of their service, as we the real 1%, went where few dare to tread. While I was never in a wartime setting, I look at my "I Love Me Wall" and am damn proud of my time in service.

Response by LTC Stephen Oliva made May 22 at 2022 8:43 PM

LTC Stephen Oliva — Sun, 22 May 2022 20:43:11 -0400

No...I served 18 months in Vietnam with the 1st Infantry Division and certainly don't feel "guilty" about serving.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made May 23 at 2022 5:43 AM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 23 May 2022 05:43:29 -0400

I am going to say this. My dad served in Korea and Vietnam and came out alive. And I grew up in a lifer military family. I was in grade school and small for my age. If I would have known what many people were doing to our soldiers coming back from Nam not one of them would have anything left at crotch level.
I know what it was like being a military family member and remember what happened when people found out my dad's job. I have been in way to many fights with people I never talked to or about because of my dads job. Not everyone was like that but way to many were.

Now I have served in the 80s. How do I feel when people say Thank You for ur service? Over half of the time I feel its fake. Like the people are saying it to make brownie points with the other people in the area that hear them say it. I served from 80-84 and we had an almost, being put on alert to provid support for 82nd Airborne.
I wish the only people that would say Thank You For UR Service were people that really meant it. I really hate brown nosers and those that will say one thing to ur face and say something different behind ur back.

Another couple things I will say is:
We need to get back to our word is our bond. Use to be that u made a verbal agreement and shook hands on it and that was more solid than a lawyer drawing up paperwork for the same thing. Reason being, U knew and the other person knew that if u did not keep ur word the word went out about u and no one would trust u and that made life a lot harder for u and ANY family u had in the area. And if family came to visit and they talked with people to find out where u lived they got a cold shoulder or the directions and a sour look.

And the other thing is. If ur going to say something good or not so good about someone to another person, no matter what u said, u BETTER be willing to say it to that persons face or do not say it. U either MAN UP or keep ur TRAP SHUT.

Response by SMSgt Richard Horton made May 23 at 2022 7:50 AM

SMSgt Richard Horton — Mon, 23 May 2022 07:50:26 -0400

I don't feel guilty (I think that is a poor term but not sure what other could be used), I feel there are others out there that deserve it more than me. I didn't serve for peoples thanks, I served my country, no thanks needed.

Response by SSgt Michael Dale made May 23 at 2022 12:52 PM

SSgt Michael Dale — Mon, 23 May 2022 12:52:03 -0400

Everyone who joins the military does so knowing that they could be called to war. So few of our citizens accept that challenge. Whether you served in combat or not, you were willing to put your butt on the line. Accept the compliment, you earned it.

Response by PO1 Frank Downs made May 23 at 2022 1:31 PM

PO1 Frank Downs — Mon, 23 May 2022 13:31:43 -0400

I served 1976-1993, and never got a thank you from the public nor did I expect one because I always felt it was my honor to serve.
I do have to say I am very disappointed with people today when they say thank you, I spent 20 years trying to keep Communism away only to retire and find 42% of Americans think communism is the way to go. I spent my time trying to keep bad people out of America only to see a wide open southern border and nobody cares.

Response by SrA Jan Hernandez made May 23 at 2022 6:04 PM

SrA Jan Hernandez — Mon, 23 May 2022 18:04:19 -0400

No. But according to my 45 year old daughter married to a combat Army Officer vet, “you weren’t really in the military anyway,” so… after she finished insulting me, she proceeded to call my service branch (USAF) military Fedex while laughing… at which point I came unhinged. My ptsd counselor had some work to do after that confrontation.

Response by SGT Tim Tobin made May 24 at 2022 11:20 AM

SGT Tim Tobin — Tue, 24 May 2022 11:20:08 -0400

As others have said, I was always felt my service wasn't as important because of all the hatred I felt from others. When I first went to the VA I felt like I didn't deserve to be there,because I had all my limbs and my only problem was a hearing problem. I was finally convinced that I wasn't taking away from any other troop and my service was just as important. But there is always that embarrassment and a little guilt. But as I get older I know I served honorably and my service was for my country, not for personal accolades

Response by LTC Brett Weeks made May 24 at 2022 1:56 PM

LTC Brett Weeks — Tue, 24 May 2022 13:56:15 -0400

I don’t feel guilty. I understand what people are trying to say, and why they are saying it. However, it is awkward for me, because l was raised to consider military service as a civic obligation, not a favor, to the country. I never expected or needed thanks for doing my duty. My father’s generation defended this country so my generation could be born and have a good life. My generation defended his generation when they were no longer able- we repaid the debt….

Response by SSG George Duncan made May 24 at 2022 4:43 PM

SSG George Duncan — Tue, 24 May 2022 16:43:53 -0400

it's a normal react when people who weren't there?

Response by MSG Thomas Currie made Jun 1 at 2022 4:36 PM

MSG Thomas Currie — Wed, 01 Jun 2022 16:36:45 -0400

OK, so you managed to miss the the shooting -- but that was entirely a matter of luck combined with perhaps a bit of historic myopia, quite a few of us came closer than we would care to think (you will never know how close we came to a major war while you were on summer vacation from high school in August 1976) and quite a few soldiers, sailors, marines, and airmen lost their lives in places that didn't make the 6 O'Clock News and often didn't rate a service medal or membership in the VFW.

When you signed that enlistment contract, you were writing a blank check to put your life on the line for your country. You have nothing to be ashamed about just because that blank check wasn't cashed. If you served honorably and did what the nation asked, that is all that matters.

Response by Pvt Joe Mcsherdon made Jun 1 at 2022 7:57 PM

Pvt Joe Mcsherdon — Wed, 01 Jun 2022 19:57:08 -0400

Not really I've been a complete failure since I was in Vietnam 65and 66 first experience ptsd I was still in 67 drifted all over the country hundreds of different jobs.

Response by Pvt Joe Mcsherdon made Jun 1 at 2022 7:59 PM

Pvt Joe Mcsherdon — Wed, 01 Jun 2022 19:59:20 -0400

I wouldn't even let anyone know I had ever served a day for years.

Response by PO3 Eugene Hildebrand made Jun 2 at 2022 4:29 PM

PO3 Eugene Hildebrand — Thu, 02 Jun 2022 16:29:17 -0400

I went just after the Vietnam war, I volunteered to serve MY country. I had people call me baby killer and was spat upon. Told I was no good, and when I was discharged after having been injured bad enough I was NOT allowed to stay in, I had a bad time trying to get work as I was ex-military. (No such thing by the way.) If you look at the history you will find the cold war was anything but cold. I do NOT feel guilty, but I am always surprised by it and a bit more humble having it said to me.

Response by PO2 Edward DeVennish made Jun 6 at 2022 6:41 AM

PO2 Edward DeVennish — Mon, 06 Jun 2022 06:41:02 -0400

It was an honor and a privilege and thank for being worth defending.

Response by MAJ Lyle F. Padilla made Jun 6 at 2022 5:02 PM

MAJ Lyle F. Padilla — Mon, 06 Jun 2022 17:02:49 -0400

No.

I was still an ROTC cadet when Vietnam ended.

I did spend one year in what was TECHNICALLY a Combat Zone (Korea 1980-81) but nothing significant happened with regard to North Korea that year and the only hostile fire I got was from my own chain of command. (Long ugly story!)

My Guard tank battalion was alerted for the First Gulf War; it was part of III Corps which was made up of three Regular Army armored divisions and two Guard armored divisions plus a Regular Army armored cavalry regiment. The Regular divisions and ACR were among the first elements deployed in Desert Shield. I actually submitted papers for a request to go on Active Duty, and they were kicked back because our division was so close to getting called up that they wanted it at full strength. After the "100 hour war" ended, we were told by the Division Commander that if it had lasted another day, we would've been called up.

I was waiting for the phone to ring after 9/11/01 and instead hit mandatory retirement six months after Operation Iraqi Freedom kicked off.

I offer no apologies for the way the dice rolled.

Response by PO2 Ronnie Chandler made Jun 9 at 2022 4:44 PM

PO2 Ronnie Chandler — Thu, 09 Jun 2022 16:44:24 -0400

No we held our own when the Russians and others were trying to start something. We all signed the same check we just never had ours cashed. We could have been in a nasty fight in a minute if things had been different

Response by PV2 Glen Lewis made Jun 14 at 2022 11:29 AM

PV2 Glen Lewis — Tue, 14 Jun 2022 11:29:07 -0400

No.

Response by 1LT Neal Schwartz made Jun 18 at 2022 3:40 PM

1LT Neal Schwartz — Sat, 18 Jun 2022 15:40:32 -0400

Personally I appreciate the "Thank you for your service", especially from the younger children.. It shows me their parents are teaching them to properly respect the military. I get more out of the "thank you" than I did from civilians after losing a lot of my friends over there in '68-'69. I also appreciate the 10% discounts and occasional free meals, picked up by other service members and the general public. Ironically, in the last week I got a free personal breakfast from a Coasty, and later in the week myself, my wife, and my daughter, got a free meal from a civilian in a restaurant. That's not why I wear the cap however, I wear it to say that I'm proud of what I did and I'd do it all over again.

Response by CPT Weaver Gaines made Jun 19 at 2022 8:38 AM

CPT Weaver Gaines — Sun, 19 Jun 2022 08:38:41 -0400

I don’t feel guilty about this; but I do feel awkward sometimes. The best response I’ve heard so far: “Thank you for your support.”

Response by CPT John Bower made Jun 30 at 2022 2:18 PM

CPT John Bower — Thu, 30 Jun 2022 14:18:43 -0400

I don't feel guilty at all. I was in a combat unit that was sent to Viet Nam 1 month after I got out. I did not run from the risk.

Response by CPO James McGachey made Jul 27 at 2022 7:43 AM

CPO James McGachey — Wed, 27 Jul 2022 07:43:22 -0400

After serving 25 years day-for-day active (73-98) I don't feel guilty about much. I've never felt comfortable hearing "Thank you for your service" - I served for my country, my family and myself. The op tempo in the 70s (at least in the South China Sea) was brutal - we spent over 75% of our time underway or away from homeport. The 80's were rebuilding. The 90s were the start of the GWOT. Looking back, everyone did their part during my time in.

Response by MSgt Carl Longenecker made Jul 27 at 2022 9:39 AM

MSgt Carl Longenecker — Wed, 27 Jul 2022 09:39:36 -0400

I consider my Cold War service from 1975-1983 just as important as my GWOT service and combat deployments from 2004-2017. And yes, I had a 20 year 10 month and 3 week break in service.

Response by MSgt Robert E. M. made Jul 27 at 2022 12:57 PM

MSgt Robert E. M. — Wed, 27 Jul 2022 12:57:11 -0400

It's understanding, there is nothing wrong with feeling that way, you served your God, country, and many others, in many ways! I pray that you remember our brothers and sisters too who we can't say thank you because they are no longer in our ranks living but called by St. Matthew 5:9. All I do know is our time is not up until our service is done here on earth. Bro. R.Z. from the bottom of my heart: Thank you for sharing your feeling with your brothers and sisters like me! Many of us don't like telling how we feel, but you just broke the ice!

Response by SP6 Richard Kellar made Jul 27 at 2022 2:03 PM

SP6 Richard Kellar — Wed, 27 Jul 2022 14:03:20 -0400

1978-81? By then the fan had blown most of the spit and shit out. They waited for us to deplane, bandaged, bruised, abused with many on stretchers and wheelchairs. Many of us while in uniform couldn't go into a bank, grocery store, movie theater or just a McDonalds without being hated. TRhe Army insisted we not be seen off base in uniform. Many were scared to admit having served. THose were men who had been in combat sometimes hand to hand. Even the VFW etc. clubs would not allow Vietnam vets. The real men said we were not in a war, just an undeclared skirmish which may be correct had not 60,000 died at the time which is now over 100k. Try getting a bank loan, forget it baby killer. I had to attend college sometimes in uniform, That was awesome for self defense practice.

Response by PO3 David Smith made Jul 27 at 2022 2:52 PM

PO3 David Smith — Wed, 27 Jul 2022 14:52:36 -0400

No one who served should feel guilty about not seeing action. I served in 68-72. Did not go to Nam, BUT I COULD JUST AS EASILY HAVE. Those of you who served after Nam could just as easily have seen action if some nut-job started something. Be proud that you made yourself available in case anything did happen.

Response by PO1 Sam Deel made Jul 27 at 2022 3:47 PM

PO1 Sam Deel — Wed, 27 Jul 2022 15:47:25 -0400

You are speaking of two wholly separate groups. The ones who treated you and your Brothers with such disdain, are the low-life dregs of Leftist society. I would consider their utter contempt as Badge of Honor. Remember, they are always GUILTY of what they blame us (Proud Americans) for.

You might not remember, but there were those of us whom thanked you for your Service back then... and we still do.! We were just drowned out by the vile propagandists. I never witnessed these attacks firsthand. However, even as a child, I would have tore those propagandist a new one.

Response by LCpl Sandy Moran made Jul 27 at 2022 4:26 PM

LCpl Sandy Moran — Wed, 27 Jul 2022 16:26:19 -0400

I agree. Its nice that they say Thank You for your service. But I feel it's a little late for me but not for them. A friend, or thought he was spat in my face. I when I went for him My other friends stopped me. And they said LET IT GO. that hurt. So I'm glad the younger service men and women getting the respect they earn. P.S. Off topic. for those that helped me understand things. my son is out of the Army, he no longer wanted that career.

Response by SSgt James Howerton made Jul 27 at 2022 7:04 PM

SSgt James Howerton — Wed, 27 Jul 2022 19:04:46 -0400

People say it to me and, at first, I was speechless. But I adjusted to it and now I say, cool as a cucumber, "It was my pleasure."
And it was!!!

Response by PO2 Mike Nichols made Jul 27 at 2022 10:21 PM

PO2 Mike Nichols — Wed, 27 Jul 2022 22:21:40 -0400

I felt like my war was more of a limited conflict, and "not Much" compared to the previous conflicts.
When I mentioned it to a group of old vets & retirees, Col. Ellis, who fought in WWII, Korea, and Viet-Nam corrected my thinking: I had said that I didn't feel like a part of their brotherhood.
His words helped me a lot.
He said "We did what we had to do, you volunteered."

Response by MSgt Joseph Haynes made Jul 28 at 2022 7:20 AM

MSgt Joseph Haynes — Thu, 28 Jul 2022 07:20:42 -0400

You stood up and put yourself on the line. This is something only less than 1% of the total population will ever do. Cold War, deployed, or not, you did something. Those that call us "baby killer" never stepped up and they never will.

Response by WO1 Mike Dwyer made Jul 28 at 2022 10:52 AM

WO1 Mike Dwyer — Thu, 28 Jul 2022 10:52:59 -0400

I used to feel uncomfortable back in the day when people thanked me for my service, but as I got older I realized I volunteered. I could have gone stayed in my civilian job that I loved for 6 years, but my Dad served, and my older brother served. So I quit a great job, enlisted, and served. I didn't have to do any of that. So, now if someone thanks me for my service I say, "You're very welcome!"

Response by SSG Richard Bladl made Jul 28 at 2022 4:06 PM

SSG Richard Bladl — Thu, 28 Jul 2022 16:06:33 -0400

Why do you feel guilty? You served in a branch of the armed forces to protect our country, you do not have to be a war veteran to be thanked.

Response by SSG Dave Johnston made Jul 28 at 2022 11:42 PM

SSG Dave Johnston — Thu, 28 Jul 2022 23:42:00 -0400

I served on active duty from 01/76 to 09/92, then reserve component until retirement... Spending 5 years with 56 BDE FA PERSHING; yes, I'll accept the thanks

Response by Maj Stanley S. Ross made Jul 29 at 2022 2:48 AM

Maj Stanley S. Ross — Fri, 29 Jul 2022 02:48:02 -0400

Entered Mar 4, 1964, retired 1 Jul 94, E1-E5 USAF (AFSC 203,204,206). Jumped ship to USA E-5 (11F), E6 to OCS (O1E, O2E, O3E, O4). They gave me a BS (Asian studies in Poli-Sci) and MA (Asian Studies) and a world tour. I called it raping the Government while getting paid. Retired and went back to work under an International Treaty to destroy WMD, paid for by US Army, administrated by TSA, controlled by FEMA. Retired again and bought a bragging hat with scrambled eggs on the brim.
I wear the hat as a statement "of once upon a time" I served. I think it is noticed by men who have or have not served. What I am amazed about is the number of women who say, "Thank You for Your Service". My normal reply is, "Thank You, I appreciate that." and I add "Once upon a time". But I wonder, are they thanking me for what I did or didn't do. Or am I being thanked because their husband/son/daughter didn't have to/want to serve. I appreciate the opportunity to vent, and maybe I'll come back. I have two gold stars in my window, one son, one daughter, thank you for your service.

Response by 1SG Timothy Trewin made Jul 29 at 2022 9:08 AM

1SG Timothy Trewin — Fri, 29 Jul 2022 09:08:29 -0400

As someone who served for 20 years during the OIF and OEF window and has three Iraq and one Afghanistan deployment (and Liberia) I feel that you deserve as much thanks as my generation. You served and served honorably and that’s what mattered. You have zero control over what was going on in the world when you served. Just because you might not have fought in a war does not diminish your service.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 29 at 2022 2:41 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 29 Jul 2022 14:41:54 -0400

I know this is an old post, but for whatever it is worth, there is no reason for anyone in any service to feel bad or guilty for either not deploying or the general political situation at the time of their service. What is going on in the world or the decisions by the service on who deploys and who doesn't is largely not up to the service member. Only folks that purposely and for the sole reason to shirk their responsibility found a way to squirrel out of their deployment should feel some remorse. If you were there and ready to go, but never got orders, well you lucked out, no reason to feel guilty about that. If called upon, you were there for your country and fellow soldiers. That is something to be proud of.

Response by SPC Carlton Phelps made Jul 29 at 2022 8:54 PM

SPC Carlton Phelps — Fri, 29 Jul 2022 20:54:22 -0400

Not at all.

Response by SSG Jack Scott made Jul 30 at 2022 11:10 PM

SSG Jack Scott — Sat, 30 Jul 2022 23:10:14 -0400

This has to be the stupidest question I have ever seen in my life. They say there are no stupid questions but who ever said that didn’t see this question!

Response by CPO Kurt Baschab made Aug 1 at 2022 1:27 PM

CPO Kurt Baschab — Mon, 01 Aug 2022 13:27:56 -0400

Why would I feel Guilty? I like many others who served, in the military, is proud of my service, we the few step up and we were ready to answer the call if needed, I severed 2 years in the Army National Guard , from Mar 1982-1984 , then went full time active duty when I join the United States Coast Guard in Aug 1984 retired in Sept 01 2014 , why would anyone feel Guilty for serving your Country? I served with some of the best and brightest American citizens.

you should be proud of your service, Especially when only 3% to 7% of the American Population has very step up at any time to serve and protect the American citizens from any type of threat, weather it be a natural Natural Disaster, man made Disaster, such as a Terrorist Attack or a WAR. the United States Military is there to serve and protect the American people.

the more serious question is why is todays Military wasting it time with pronouns? why are we wasting time and energy with teaching are service members on how to be woke with using the correct Pronouns ? do you really believe america enemies care about that? no they are training to kill us and destroy us .
but I guess we have CHNA Quaking in there Boots when we ask them there prefer pronoun.

what is this administration thinking? do not answer if it gets you in trouble, I remember there being very little to no hatred in the military towards my fellow service members, unless you just happen to have a personality conflict, with one member, but it has nothing to do with race. when I served everyone had everyones back, even if we had a personality conflict with a member , we still protected them. it the only way you survive. so why is the Biden administration teaching CRT? CRT is nothing more then hatred and racism towards your fellow service member.

Response by CPO Kurt Baschab made Aug 1 at 2022 1:29 PM

CPO Kurt Baschab — Mon, 01 Aug 2022 13:29:51 -0400

one more thing, when a citizen says thank you for your service.
just reply, you and every other citizen were Worth it.

Response by SPC Carol Mulkey made Aug 1 at 2022 3:54 PM

SPC Carol Mulkey — Mon, 01 Aug 2022 15:54:01 -0400

I do feel guilty and unworthy because I served safely in a hospital stateside and never saw combat like the Vietnam vets who were serving at the same time. I even have that guilt when I am getting medical care at VA. On the one hand if they had asked me to go to Vietnam I would have certainly gone. But they didn't, so I had what most would consider a comfortable enlistment. I try to balance the fact that I volunteered to do whatever they asked, even if they didn't ask that much of me.

Response by SGT David Schrader made Aug 2 at 2022 12:49 AM

SGT David Schrader — Tue, 02 Aug 2022 00:49:59 -0400

I’m thankful whenever someone recognizes my service or anyone else’s service.
I have a tendency to thank my fellow veterans for their service.
Don’t ever feel like you are stealing someone else’s thunder when someone thanks you for your service. It doesn’t matter where or when you served. You earned it.

Response by SSG Rick Reeder made Aug 2 at 2022 12:45 PM

SSG Rick Reeder — Tue, 02 Aug 2022 12:45:35 -0400

As a retired soldier of 25 years, it made me kind of uncomfortable for someone thanking me for doing my duty to my country. I always thought that was what you were supposed to do. Now as a retired soldier, I will say to all my Brothers and Sisters in Arms, never feel guilty. You are the ones that keep this country safe. The Vietnam vets were treated absolutely horridly. I was ashamed to be be an American then. Then later on I joined because I wanted to feel the honor of being part of that group. To this day, I love and respect all out military form the jobs that they do, from the little private all the way up. You give the country a sense of pride. Never feel guilty for that. Those old vets from Viertnam taught my more about being a soldier than any school or book ever could. They are a bounty of great information. No soldier should ever bow down, nor feel guilty for the job they did or do. Without them, this country would have never started in the first place. You will always have my deepest respect.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 2 at 2022 3:09 PM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 02 Aug 2022 15:09:07 -0400

CLARIFICATION: 1960-1980 VIETNAM - COLD WAR - NATO- USAFE (CONUS)
it is not about YOU.
It is ALL about veterans who died lonely in battle fields of Normany, UK, France.
So if someone praises you - IT IS ABOUT THEM (I Lost a friend when a nuke Vaporized him in a Missle Silo) It is NOT ABOUT YOU.

Response by PO2 Lawrence Moody made Aug 2 at 2022 9:02 PM

PO2 Lawrence Moody — Tue, 02 Aug 2022 21:02:48 -0400

No you should not.. You did your time. Your time was just your time..
We all go to the same Veterans Clubs and VA Hospitals and fight the same issues.

Response by PO2 Joe Duerr made Aug 12 at 2022 1:59 PM

PO2 Joe Duerr — Fri, 12 Aug 2022 13:59:44 -0400

I am a combat decorated Vietnam vet and NO ONE who served in the military should feel guilty when someone says "Thank you for your service" because they were willing and could have been asked to put their life on the line at any time of their service.

Response by SPC Bill Bailey made Aug 15 at 2022 5:10 PM

SPC Bill Bailey — Mon, 15 Aug 2022 17:10:41 -0400

I served from 11-66 to 11-69 (CONUS & Germany) and get the "TYFYS" once in a while. For a long time I didn't know what to say, now I just say "You're welcome, it was an honor to serve my Country". A couple years ago I had a little girl about 5 come up to and say it and really mean it. That one really got me. I bent down and said "I did it just for You". I thought her Mom was going to start crying right there, I thought I was too, so I beat a hasty retreat.

Response by PO3 Edward Riddle made Aug 16 at 2022 10:34 PM

PO3 Edward Riddle — Tue, 16 Aug 2022 22:34:16 -0400

Hell No, I Earned It. I answer, "Just doing my job." I joined during Viet Nam when the cowards were running to Canada. I couldn't live with myself if I had done that

Response by COL Carl Jensen made Aug 29 at 2022 11:03 AM

COL Carl Jensen — Mon, 29 Aug 2022 11:03:54 -0400

I was a cold war vet, called in for Berlin thru Cuba and Nam. 62 t0 64. It could have been a choice of jungle vs 55K tanks. Neither occurred while I swerved comfortably at Ft Dix. If you were in the service for 2 yrs plus you were a veteran. If you served actively for 180+ days you were consider a veteran of the active service. (Not as a Reservist or National Guard which was considered active duty for training.) US or RA you were a Vet no matter where you served or what your job was. You were in uniform and you were sent where you were needed and best used. Us Remfs and Garratroopers were only doing that which we were slotted for. We were part of the whole machine, which would not work had we been missing. So if you wore the uniform and served your time, UR a Vet..

Response by SP5 Joseph Coble made Aug 30 at 2022 12:39 PM

SP5 Joseph Coble — Tue, 30 Aug 2022 12:39:56 -0400

I mainly just say thanks. I served 1970-73. Upon returning from overseas, thank you was not something we heard. We were reviled. I didn’t realize how it had affected me until I was at the airport seeing my son off when he was returning to Ft. Benning in uniform and someone thanked him for his service. Feelings flooded me.

Response by SSgt Hal Kiah made Sep 9 at 2022 7:57 PM

SSgt Hal Kiah — Fri, 09 Sep 2022 19:57:03 -0400

More than anything, I feel humbled and honored when someone is thankful. Myself, being a Nam Era veteran, I say "thank you, and thank you for supporting our veterans, and for honoring our military personnel deployed today. Please Keep supporting them."
As for the first few times someone said thank you, it was very humbling, especially given what we faced in the mid 70's, as so many were so disrespected then.

Response by TSgt Douglas Greenwood made Sep 10 at 2022 8:38 AM

TSgt Douglas Greenwood — Sat, 10 Sep 2022 08:38:27 -0400

I remember those days. Made you feel that your service to this country wasn’t appreciated. They’ve tried to thank us, but, going through those years and the way we were treated will never be okay or forgotten. We didn’t go to war by choice and to be treated with such disrespect will always hurt.

Response by AA Loreen Silvarahawk made Sep 10 at 2022 8:42 AM

AA Loreen Silvarahawk — Sat, 10 Sep 2022 08:42:17 -0400

I do not regret serving but I do wish the women of today would acknowledge, in some way, the sacrifices we made for them to have the rights and privileges we never had.

Response by CSM Darieus ZaGara made Sep 10 at 2022 9:16 AM

CSM Darieus ZaGara — Sat, 10 Sep 2022 09:16:18 -0400

I am not sure I already answered this post or not. Bottom line is your service was and is as crucial to our national security as anyone else’s whether you had boots in the ground in a fight, or were on guard in Germany is no difference. Many who served in these two wars never saw combat, never left the base, sone didn’t even get into the country’s in conflict, they remained at HQ in Kuwait, Dubai or elsewhere.

You are a Soldier and deserve the praise for serving your country in time of war and other. As for those of your era, they did not have the media exposure we do today. The citizens of the US certainly came together when our lands were invaded by plain stiles and bombings. A message went out immediately knowing we were headed to war, kill Usama and keep the war off our shores. Social media and the news outlets released the same message.

THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE.

Response by PO3 JamiSue Moore made Sep 10 at 2022 9:33 AM

PO3 JamiSue Moore — Sat, 10 Sep 2022 09:33:05 -0400

Absolutely not.
Is it being called a Cold War today?
They use the words Cold and War and try to act as if the world was at peace and it is total bullshit.
WWII never ended.
The Soviet Union may have disbanded, the wall may have come down, but Mother Russia remained in existence and has always been a threat and up to shenanigans.
I'll say this much, it's October of 86 all over again.

Response by SGT Jerry Palmer made Sep 10 at 2022 10:46 AM

SGT Jerry Palmer — Sat, 10 Sep 2022 10:46:58 -0400

I usually tell them that your welcome, and leave it at that.

Response by SP5 Bernard Cook made Sep 10 at 2022 2:55 PM

SP5 Bernard Cook — Sat, 10 Sep 2022 14:55:53 -0400

Yeah, kinda, because I know I didn't really do that much, I served 3 years and one summer camp but did not go to Nam and was never in combat. My brother went and was in combat and so I compare myself to that I suppose.

Response by 1stSgt Daryl Allen made Sep 10 at 2022 6:48 PM

1stSgt Daryl Allen — Sat, 10 Sep 2022 18:48:33 -0400

It doesn't bother me in the least. As Lt Col Robert Canfield stated in his response to this question it was partially in the Cold War Era. Up until 1975 were we still in Vietnam. Yes we were the deterrence for the nuclear war. We served with honor. We had many small skirmishes during that time frame. We also had numerous other historical situations going on such as the exiled Shah of Iran here in the States for a ten day time frame. So if you feel offended I am sorry.

Response by SGT Earl Curtis made Sep 10 at 2022 8:13 PM

SGT Earl Curtis — Sat, 10 Sep 2022 20:13:35 -0400

You served. I am grateful.

Response by SGT Wayne Grindstaff made Sep 11 at 2022 2:44 PM

SGT Wayne Grindstaff — Sun, 11 Sep 2022 14:44:31 -0400

It is rather refreshing to hear that, compared to being called names and being spit on in Oakland Ca. in 1969. I notice that it is mostly ladies over 30 that thank me, very few younger than that and very few men of any age.

Response by SPC David Abbott made Sep 11 at 2022 4:02 PM

SPC David Abbott — Sun, 11 Sep 2022 16:02:19 -0400

No matter what date or era you served in. You Served. Cold War,Korean DMZ,Vietnam...We all served!

Response by 1LT Mike Schelp made Sep 11 at 2022 8:43 PM

1LT Mike Schelp — Sun, 11 Sep 2022 20:43:18 -0400

Why would they feel guilty? I raised my hand, took the oath, and did what my nation asked.

Response by MSgt Hamish Barrett made Sep 11 at 2022 11:24 PM

MSgt Hamish Barrett — Sun, 11 Sep 2022 23:24:13 -0400

I do not feel guilty but, I am tired of being told "þank you for yor service." First it was not service, it was my life & profession. Someone has to be a warrior so þe republic can function. I tell most people þis & it is a wonder at how long þey have to þink about it before þey seem to get what I mean.

Response by PVT Shawn McDonnell made Sep 12 at 2022 5:49 PM

PVT Shawn McDonnell — Mon, 12 Sep 2022 17:49:52 -0400

I hold the utmost respect for our combat forces. Having served in a “peacetime” military in the early ‘80s, yes, the recognition causes a twinge within me. I prefer to remain back, and acknowledge those who have sacrificed so much more, thank you.

Response by CMDCM John F. "Doc" Bradshaw made Sep 12 at 2022 7:23 PM

CMDCM John F. "Doc" Bradshaw — Mon, 12 Sep 2022 19:23:03 -0400

Jan 1969-Feb 2002. Is it necessary or required for a Veteran to serve during a War or Political Action or Conflict to Be A Proud Veteran Serving Their Country in Order To Keep America Safe, Secure, and Free??? It used to Be considered to Be An Honor To Serve Our Country. During and after Nam, would you prefer to be spit on, cursed, called baby killers and other outrageous actions or Thanked for the Sacrifices A Veteran or Service Member Makes to Serve at any Time and Place when called, chosen, or sent??? Over the Weekend, I had three children with their parents to stop me to Thank Me for My Service because they saw the Navy Veteran Cover I was wearing. These young children were sincere and made their parents proud for thei actions. They appreciate ALL Veterans and Service Members. I knelt down before each Child and shook their Hands and Sincerely Thanked Each of Them! I’ll never forget their Smiles!!! Shouldn’t it Bless Your Heart that People across our Country Are Proud of The Sacrifices All of Out Veterans and Service Members Make Each Day, not seeing their Families in Months and sometimes years. Missing Important events in Our Live To Proudly Serve. I’m not ashamed of my Service and would do it again if I could! And it makes Me Proud and Humbled to know there are those Americans Appreciate US Enough To Thank Us! I Always Remember, Many May Be Called but Few Are Chosen!!! May God Bless All Veterans and Service Members and Bring Them Home Safely from these treacherous Times! Just My Humble Opinion!!! Semper Fi!!! Doc

Response by LCDR Phillip Branan made Sep 13 at 2022 5:28 PM

LCDR Phillip Branan — Tue, 13 Sep 2022 17:28:26 -0400

I served from 60 to 80 with two tours in Vietnam - afloat tours with 4 stars on my Vietnam Service Medal. I don't feel guilt per se but I don't feel I'm in the same league with .y brothers and sisters who were in country on the ground and in the Riverine Force. Compared to them I had it easy.

Response by PO1 Joseph Glennon made Sep 13 at 2022 9:42 PM

PO1 Joseph Glennon — Tue, 13 Sep 2022 21:42:58 -0400

No.
I had planned on joining the Navy as far back as I can remember - my family has a tradition of serving in the nation's military, and most have chosen the Navy.
I'm the first in my particular branch to have made it a career. Served from 1982 to '89, then from '91 to 2004.

Like most of my peers, I signed up during the Cold War, knowing that it *could* become a hot war. It was my family's legacy to step up and be willing to die for my country if required, rather than to shirk that obligation and just take advantage of the security that someone else would provide.

Why on Earth would I feel guilty?

Response by PFC Lisa McDonald made Sep 14 at 2022 5:25 AM

PFC Lisa McDonald — Wed, 14 Sep 2022 05:25:12 -0400

I think late 70's and 80's vets get a raw deal because no war was declared even though it was a fairly active time period. It's peacetime because there was no declared war but that doesn't mean there wasn't Presidential actions and other things going on under the radar. The terrorist risk was as high as anytime or more just no large impact targets. I am Army of Occupation (Berlin Germany), I believe was in line to go to Grenada if it hadn't went so quickly, served through Lebanon, and knew people who got seriously messed up in service and sadly some that died in service. There were some combat deaths and a crazy amount of training deaths in that time period. Some people may find this hard to believe but more people died in training accidents year for year in the 80's then combat deaths and training deaths combined then any year from the Iraq war through the war on terror. Suicides were also pretty high. I'd like to think the early eighties was the beginning of the end for the cold war. President Reagan was playing a masterful game of carrot and stick with the Soviet Union. The military was doing the best job it could to help persuade the Soviet Union to take the carrot rather than face the stick! Sadly I think with Russia being the way it is, China and North Korea younger generations are going to have to prepare for large scale conventional war and attrition rates not seen since WW2. Also to live in a world of mutually assured destruction.

Response by LTC Ralph Racioppi made Sep 14 at 2022 10:59 AM

LTC Ralph Racioppi — Wed, 14 Sep 2022 10:59:19 -0400

I was on the Korean DMZ NOV 67-JAN 68. We were the "speed bump" in case the NK decided to invade south. Found out later that the Chinese were pressuring NK to increase DMZ activities to force the ROK to withdraw their forces in Vietnam. I was also spat upon and called a baby killer when I got home after my tour. I feel like I served my country honorably and put myself in a position of being in harms way at any time. I appreciate any recognition of that service as I respect all those who served at any time in the military.

Response by LtCol Robert Quinter made Sep 14 at 2022 12:06 PM

LtCol Robert Quinter — Wed, 14 Sep 2022 12:06:22 -0400

Anyone who signs can be sitting in the club one night and facing people who want to kill him in a matter of hours. We all took the chance. Be proud and acknowledge their well wishes.

Response by SFC David S made Sep 14 at 2022 2:17 PM

SFC David S — Wed, 14 Sep 2022 14:17:07 -0400

there is nothing to feel guilty about if you served your country honorably. I served from 85 to 06 and it was no joke. training for war is a hard job. My unit flew to a POMCUS site, drew equipment and rolled out, it was REFORGER 87. spent over three months show of force in Europe. Then on 9 Nov. 89 we were on guard, terrorism was on the table, and the wall came down. We had 15 minutes to get to, and guard a site that scared the living shit out of me. and that was just the cold war. before I retired (thought I made it) I was stop loss for OIF. I decided to stay in after that deployment and went to OEF. after that I had to retire, I have DDD in my lower back and was not going to stay in and cause harm because I was no longer serviceable. The average citizen has no idea what a soldier goes through.

So I say this to you; THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE!

Response by MSgt Eric Roseberry made Sep 15 at 2022 8:15 AM

MSgt Eric Roseberry — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 08:15:21 -0400

I joined with the expectation that I would fight WWIII. I served in Iceland, jets scrambling every day against Russian bombers. I served in Germany, more ready materials than can be believed. In Arizona I remember protests. "Get off Military welfare"
When I here thank you, I say you're welcome.

Response by TSgt James Herslebs made Sep 15 at 2022 9:28 AM

TSgt James Herslebs — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 09:28:20 -0400

I served from 1979-1985 and at first the phenomenon of offering former military thanks did not exist. It wasn't even thought about by most people. Until Sept 11 2001 occurred we as a group were generally forgotten. I'm pleased that the civilian public acknowledges us today. Because I never saw hostile action I did carry a degree of guilt for many years. Eventually a friend of mine who had experienced the horror associated with war dispelled the notion of feeling guilty. He simply told me " You raised your right hand and agreed to go where they sent you, enough said" Since then I'm enrolled in VA healthcare which I had delayed due to feeling guilty and a Member of my American Legion Post.

Response by 1LT Greg Bailey made Sep 15 at 2022 10:27 AM

1LT Greg Bailey — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 10:27:29 -0400

I served 87-91 a year at Camp Greaves ROK, 2+ at Ft Campbell with 7 months in Saudi Arabia and Iraq (An Nasiryah) during DS (11A). I thank them for thinking about me and explain that I had a blast and my combat experience was minimal (my people were all safe).

Response by PO3 Bobby Quisenberry made Sep 15 at 2022 10:48 AM

PO3 Bobby Quisenberry — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 10:48:27 -0400

I was a SEABEE during latter part of the Vietnam War, serving out of Davisville, Rhode Island from 1971 to 1973. I remember when I was home ported in Davisville, that when leaving the base, many of us would wear wigs, not because we were ashamed of who we were, but because at that time, half the country was against the War in Vietnam and there were a lot of ill feelings towards us who were serving. We didn't want people to know who we were and agitate the situation and draw fire on ourselves. The war had gone on for over ten years by that time, and death had touched about every family either directly or indirectly by someone they knew. Because of Sgt. William Calley, LT. Medina and Me Lai, that atrocity was still fresh in everyone's mind. After getting out of the service, I can remember that when the war was over that there were no war toys in the stores. Everyone wanted to forget! No plastic army men, no plastic helmets or toy military guns or weapons we had played with while we were children. It seemed the public wanted you to feel like vermin at that time. Then suddenly there was a shift in view with Rambo. War started to be glorified and we became a novelty to the public but not in a good sense because we didn't see the war in the manor they saw it. We were lost! Movies snowballed and the war became largely what it wasn't! We were really kind of messed up and I later went back to work for the government under the Veteran's Readjustment Act. We veterans were not ashamed of our service but didn't flaunt it either, we were sort of repressed. It was not until the Iraqi War, that those returning servicemen were treated as heroes and kings when they returned while we had been stiffed for all those years between, though not that we were looking for any kind of exaltation that we started being recognized. It just seemed very strange at first we felt slighted, but were glad at the same time that the public saw and treated those veterans differently than we had been treated. Maybe there was a little jealousy at first that we had not been treated in the same way as the new vets and anger at the public for our previous treatment! We never felt guilty but we now had a new pride we were denied for so long until when we started being accepted into the fold of the modern vet by the public view. Now when someone says thank you for your service it seems a little gratifying but awkward at the same time. We still feel a little confused that years can not erase!

Response by CAPT Frank Dunn made Sep 15 at 2022 6:45 PM

CAPT Frank Dunn — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 18:45:37 -0400

I served from 1966 to 1994. When I’m thanked for my service, I respond that I appreciate their support and serving was a privilege. Much of my sea duty was spent on 4 submarines conducting “operations of great importance to the Nation” in denied areas including Vietnam or strategic deterrence patrols in the North Atlantic. Three times, my boats experienced situations that, but for their exceptionally trained crews, would have resulted in the loss of the boat and all aboard. So, no, I don’t feel “guilty” about accepting appreciation - my Shipmates and I served where and when the Nation needed us in the circumstances of the time.

Response by CPO Jack De Merit made Sep 15 at 2022 6:53 PM

CPO Jack De Merit — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 18:53:00 -0400

I did 4 tours in Vietnam in 1964 working for the Admiral on my ship. I had to sign a 50 YEAR NON-DISCLOSURE AGREEMENT before I was transferred from the ship. I was told by the Admiral that what I did in Vietnam would not be available in my records until the Agreement expired. In 2014 when the Agreement expired I checked my records for an Agent Orange Claim. There was nothing in my records. So, I always THANK people who THANK ME for my service. I earned it!

Response by CPL Larry Frias Jr made Sep 15 at 2022 10:13 PM

CPL Larry Frias Jr — Thu, 15 Sep 2022 22:13:21 -0400

Yes …bc people don’t understand the sacrifice …

Response by Cpl James Pedersen made Sep 17 at 2022 8:17 AM

Cpl James Pedersen — Sat, 17 Sep 2022 08:17:58 -0400

Feel Guilty for serving?!?!?! That's just ignorant to post.

Response by SP5 Larry (Lawrence) Pitman made Sep 17 at 2022 3:35 PM

SP5 Larry (Lawrence) Pitman — Sat, 17 Sep 2022 15:35:28 -0400

Two points in your comment require a reply. (1) I returned from Vietnam (Long Binh) in 1970 after 18 months "on the ground". I returned to college at a time when college protests were most active, and I never had anyone spit on me or call me a "baby killer". Those words never came up in conversation until Sly Stallone said them in the final minutes of the movie "Rambo". Spitting on someone in protest is an entirely European thing. Americans just don't do that. (2) On the first day of military service, we acknowledge that we are embarking on a dangerous journey....and it makes no difference if it's a time of hostilities or not. The deck of an aircraft carrier is ALWAYS dangerous. Choppers are precarious platforms anytime they leave the ground. Most Americans chose not to enter the military because they fear the "dangerous journey" or simply, for whatever reason, chose not to contribute time to the nation's defense...and a "Thank you for your service" is how they pay penance. I, for one, prefer a "Welcome home"

Response by SGT William OBrien made Sep 17 at 2022 5:25 PM

SGT William OBrien — Sat, 17 Sep 2022 17:25:52 -0400

My father just passed in April and was/is a drafted Vietnam vet who earned two purple hearts. He served 1967-70. He did not start getting thanked untill I joined in 1996. At my graduation from AIT the DS's all thanked and showed him honor. (I specifically told them about him) Then civilians started. He was rather humble at first but then got used to it as time went on.

The time it took for this after what he went through long overdue and they way he and other vets from that era was treated is unacceptable!!! If you served, you earned it, especially if you're from 60-late 70s

Response by SPC Paul Sherwood made Sep 18 at 2022 9:04 AM

SPC Paul Sherwood — Sun, 18 Sep 2022 09:04:16 -0400

I served from '75 to '83, had two three year tours in Germany. The first tour was with the 317th CBT Eng Bn, 130th Bgde, If something had gone bad we went into the Fulda Gap and our unit effectiveness would last maybe 3 days. My second tour was with A Btry 1st 41st Fld Arty Bn, 56th Bgde, This was a Pershing Missile unit. When I am thanked for my service I say "thank you, it was my pleasure" as I take it not only for me but my brothers and sisters who served, my dad who served in Korea during the hostilities, my step-dad who was career Army and served in both Korea and Vietnam, my Uncles that served in WWII. Even though I was never in or near combat I still signed the check.

Response by CPO Larry Stidd made Sep 21 at 2022 2:07 PM

CPO Larry Stidd — Wed, 21 Sep 2022 14:07:26 -0400

Served from 84-98 (medical retirement)— I have always been of the mindset that anyone who raised their right hand and swore to “support, defend...” doesn’t need to ever be concerned about any feelings of “less than” or “didn’t see combat”. — saw lots of guys (and gals) injured in training, equipment failure, bad judgement,etc—- we all walked the same walk, took same risks and were willing to write the blank check —“up to And including our lives”.

Only the ones who never served don’t understand that—

MMC (SW) ret

Response by Sgt Stephen Chiles made Sep 23 at 2022 1:43 AM

Sgt Stephen Chiles — Fri, 23 Sep 2022 01:43:50 -0400

No. I do not feel guilty (1979-1983). I served while so many did not. During the Cold War we may not have served in combat but we were there if it became a reality. We served when nuclear tensions were at their highest and yet, we still served. I simply reply that is was my honor and privelege to serve.

If someone confuses me with a real hero I correct them on the spot and let them know who the heros are or were. I make it a point to remind them of who were injured, taken prisoner and more importantly...who were killed in the line of duty, protecting our citizens and freedom. The only time that I feel guilty is knowing that I could be there for any of my brothers or sisters when they needed one of us.

Response by SSG Jack Scott made Sep 25 at 2022 8:41 PM

SSG Jack Scott — Sun, 25 Sep 2022 20:41:40 -0400

Why would you ask this STUPID question really!

Response by CPL Sheila Lewis made Sep 29 at 2022 2:59 PM

CPL Sheila Lewis — Thu, 29 Sep 2022 14:59:48 -0400

nope.

Response by Cpl Craig Howard made Oct 3 at 2022 11:21 PM

Cpl Craig Howard — Mon, 03 Oct 2022 23:21:59 -0400

Even at times of active warfare, there are those who never go. Everyone who wears or wore the uniform with Honor deserve a Thank you. You joined, served, and got out. Be proud. If it helps, do some good for those who did what you feel you are stealing from. I saw combat, but I do not diminish what anyone else did.

Response by LCpl Gerald C made Oct 4 at 2022 6:25 AM

LCpl Gerald C — Tue, 04 Oct 2022 06:25:34 -0400

Marine Corps veteran, '79-'83. I do not at all feel guilty. If anything, I feel we were not given enough credit in terms of the cold war and our part in the downfall of the Soviet Union. It was a very busy time to be in the military. January, !980, Reagan comes into office and immediately starts pumping money into the military. The Reagan build up begins. Bringing the USS Missouri and others out of mothballs and back into service. We were on one deployment after another. Constantly training, constantly staying at a high state of readiness. Numerous inspections by Marine Corps Generals to gauge our readiness. This all put pressure on the Soviet Military to keep up. They tried to keep up but the Soviet civilians suffered hardships which laid the groundwork for uprisings.
I remember as a boy in school, we would have nuclear fallout drills. Growing up with the threat of nuclear war was a very troubling thought to have to live with. With the fall of the Soviet Union this threat was greatly diminished. No longer did children have to live with thoughts of nuclear annihilation. No, you should be proud of your service. We made the whole world a safer place. All without firing a shot. That's a pretty big accomplishment.

Response by SSG Willie Means made Oct 5 at 2022 6:07 PM

SSG Willie Means — Wed, 05 Oct 2022 18:07:42 -0400

I always think of being on the "Live Fire Range" and coming to the position filled with mud and my Drill Sergeant standing there with a cigar in his mouth and starring at me. I did not hesitate but dove into the mud and focused down range. The Drill Sergeant stated: Way to go Squad Leader. Then took my weapon and fired rounds down range as I went through the scenario to throw a hand grenade. It was already wet and cold but I passed the position along with my team member. So, I really don't give a SHIT what you or anybody who did not do Military Base Training and Served The Country come up with, they better be damn glad those of Us who did better Thank Us every time they approach Us because they could just as easily be working in Siberia Russia, China, or North Korea. I may sound a bit hard or (can't think of a good strong word for all those enjoying social times while we trained and feared the possibility of the "Ball" beginning! I recall my first job we were told that Our life expectancy was six (6) minutes and hopefully before that six minutes was up we had taken thousands with us just from performing the Mission We had Trained For! Take care, GOD BLESS and still love this of World because GOD knows we have the capability to set the world on fire and probably destroy it by the time the fighting is over!!! (as they say, Run And Tell That!)

Response by PO1 David Bertram made Oct 21 at 2022 10:13 PM

PO1 David Bertram — Fri, 21 Oct 2022 22:13:15 -0400

I served from 1979-1989 in one aspect or another. From 79-89 I felt abused. What started off as being proud to serve turned in to shame afraid to let myself be seen in a uniform. Even congress abused us providing a sub par educational benefit that was never upgraded to better benefits that others enjoyed later. Yes we were the first volunteers service that stood arm and arm to defend the country during the Cold War post Vietnam. I think even to this day we are mostly forgotten. Though we never fought in any direct battles, we deployed, stood on shores of former enemies and friends, and showed up when we were challenged. Anyone who served during this time period should accept any thank you they are given with the gratitude you deserve.

Response by MAJ Carolyn Pruitt made Oct 30 at 2022 11:46 PM

MAJ Carolyn Pruitt — Sun, 30 Oct 2022 23:46:44 -0400

Retired Army reserve Major here, female, served active 1971-1976, reserves ‘76-‘95. I, too, never heard any thanks while I was on AD but if someone says it now I reply, “My pleasure for my country”. Better late than never.

Response by Cpl George Matousek made Oct 31 at 2022 11:10 AM

Cpl George Matousek — Mon, 31 Oct 2022 11:10:10 -0400

I served in the Marines, 1968-74, and in Vietnam, thanking us for our service is much better than what was down when we came home from the war. So I feel it is nice to hear.

Response by PO2 David Dunigan made Oct 31 at 2022 6:01 PM

PO2 David Dunigan — Mon, 31 Oct 2022 18:01:10 -0400

Although I appreciate someone thanking me for my service I do feel a little phony. It's not because I didn't have enough hardships, there was plenty of them, but because I really didn't serve for them. I served from 85 to 91 and went in because I wanted to better myself and saw some opportunities in the military. I did my best while I was in, and got back as much as I gave, so no need for thanks.

Response by PO1 John Cisneros made Nov 1 at 2022 1:22 AM

PO1 John Cisneros — Tue, 01 Nov 2022 01:22:37 -0400

I tell them "Thank you for recognizing us".

Response by SSgt Paul Mulwitz made Nov 1 at 2022 10:10 AM

SSgt Paul Mulwitz — Tue, 01 Nov 2022 10:10:30 -0400

I served in the regular Air Force in the 1970's. This included Vietnam era service and two pcs assignments directly in the Cold War. When someone thanks me for my service I don't take it personally. Rather, I consider it a statement of approval for all military service. This is different from the public reaction to military service around the Vietnam war (which was a proxy for the Cold War). I appreciate this improvement in the image of military members.

Response by SGT Eric Littlejohn made Nov 1 at 2022 12:58 PM

SGT Eric Littlejohn — Tue, 01 Nov 2022 12:58:36 -0400

I do not feel any guilt. After coming home from Nam in 1070, I was called "baby killer" by a long hair unwashed type in the airport in Seattle, Wa. Just stopped and stared at him for a few moments then he ducked his shaggy head and slunk off. Nowadays, when someone thanks me for my service, just graciously say thank you for offering your sentiment of appreciation.

Response by SSG James Knopp made Nov 1 at 2022 1:34 PM

SSG James Knopp — Tue, 01 Nov 2022 13:34:43 -0400

Why would “anyone” who served during that period feel guilty. I served part of my military career during that period and finished up in the Army Guard to complete my 26 years of service to my country. If you served “honorably”, why would or should you feel guilty? You sacrificed your time where others when didn’t serve. They should be the ones who feel the guilt.
As for those who served in a combat zone or deployed OCONUS, they should not judge either. We were all bound to our nation for our period of service.
That being said, there is a “brotherhood “ of those whom “actually participated” in combat who I and anyone else cannot relate with, and not the people who just deployed .

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 2 at 2022 2:24 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 02 Nov 2022 14:24:12 -0400

I served 6 years in the peacetime reserves. No one shot at me nor I at anyone else. In fact all we did was party from the time we got to the Center until the time we left it to go home. I served before piss tests. But we did accomplish a lot too. I was 76V20. Even to this day I could run a warehouse very efficiently. We actually had fun driving around Army Depots on forklifts and picking stock etc…

Response by MAJ Joseph James made Nov 2 at 2022 4:10 PM

MAJ Joseph James — Wed, 02 Nov 2022 16:10:58 -0400

It boils down to this, we signed a blank check to the United States of America, for some of us, that check was not cashed, for others it was. Either way, we served and were prepared to lay it all down. No guilt here.

Response by PO2 Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 2 at 2022 6:24 PM

PO2 Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 02 Nov 2022 18:24:37 -0400

I served from 1975-1981active duty Navy and for another 9 years Army National Guard. I do not feel guilty, but I think it has become just lip service when someone says that to me.

Response by SGT Rickey Dolph made Nov 3 at 2022 10:10 AM

SGT Rickey Dolph — Thu, 03 Nov 2022 10:10:30 -0400

sometimes yes sometimes no, served 75-86 all peace time. I have been thanked for my service more in the last 4 years than ever before

Response by PO1 Don Mac Intyre made Nov 3 at 2022 4:45 PM

PO1 Don Mac Intyre — Thu, 03 Nov 2022 16:45:20 -0400

Feel quilty? Why would someone who volunteered to serve feel quilty?
Smile and say your welcome, or it was a pleasure to serve.

Response by PFC Jeffrey Villarreal made Nov 4 at 2022 3:22 PM

PFC Jeffrey Villarreal — Fri, 04 Nov 2022 15:22:17 -0400

yes every time i ets 10 days prior war i went to sign back up but life got in the way
god bless and hold all our troops freedom comes with a high price and those soldiers sacrifice for us ...respect that cherish that and keep telling them THANK YOU

Response by SN Willaim Gale made Nov 4 at 2022 10:00 PM

SN Willaim Gale — Fri, 04 Nov 2022 22:00:46 -0400

no I do not I served

Response by TSgt Robert Holmes made Nov 5 at 2022 11:45 AM

TSgt Robert Holmes — Sat, 05 Nov 2022 11:45:17 -0400

I do not feel guilty when I hear the phrase. However, I do challenge the sincerity of the person who uttered it. Since the 1970's we have been an all-volunteer force, meaning the number who served is a very small proportion of the population. The phrase is a preemptive strike to avoid the other side of the coin "Why didn't you service"? Down here in Texas we also have the phrase "Well, bless your heart"!

Response by CPL Joe Brown made Nov 6 at 2022 9:28 AM

CPL Joe Brown — Sun, 06 Nov 2022 09:28:26 -0500

Never again will a generation of veterans be abandoned. Us old Vietnam vets remember this well when we were crapped on by WWII vets and most of us vowed to not let that happen again. Not to mention ungrateful Americans such as the Berkeley types who stereotyped all Vietnam vets.

Response by PFC Gerald Bailey made Nov 6 at 2022 5:48 PM

PFC Gerald Bailey — Sun, 06 Nov 2022 17:48:12 -0500

Even though I never saw combat, I do not feel guilty. I served, when many were afraid to.

Response by SP5 Howard Thomas made Nov 6 at 2022 5:48 PM

SP5 Howard Thomas — Sun, 06 Nov 2022 17:48:47 -0500

No, I do not feel guilty for having been in the service. I feel good when someone recognizes and thanks me. Additionally, whenever I see someone who was in the service I do the same and thank them. The expression in the eyes of an older veteran, perhaps from WWII or a Korean Veteran says it all.

However, while I do not feel guilty about my service, 1963 - 1967, I have come to wonder about my time in Vietnam and whether it was a just war or not. But that is my dilemma to deal with.

Response by SSG(P) Danielle Birtha made Nov 6 at 2022 8:42 PM

SSG(P) Danielle Birtha — Sun, 06 Nov 2022 20:42:23 -0500

I served 73-89... I was thanked for my service during vietnam by being spit on and called names. Now when I hear "Thank you for your service", I feel the spit, as those who thank me also don't have a clue that their country is being traded away to the enemy, by laws of treason. Veteran's Day approaches...

Thank me for my service by READING the Constitution, and the Bill of INALIENABLE Rights of we the people, called the 1st 10 Amendments... and ask yourself... does a Governor have the right to take my right of free choice from me? NO.

Does my Senator or Representative have the CONSTITUTIONAL Right to take my livelihood... job... and trade it to China, while screaming at me that China is the Enemy, and you are sworn to protect U.S. from all enemies, foreign, AND DOMESTIC?
Not according to the Preamble... which commands our SERVANTS, whom we EMPLOY to Secure our blessings of Liberty, to OURSELVES, and our generations of children... and Article 3 that says taxing U.S. for our lives, to aid an enemy... IS TREASON?

Ask yourselves... who does this Nation belong to? We the People? Or our Employees who volunteer to serve U.S. to protect U.S. from all enemies... especially China and Russia?

... And... While you read it... pay particular attention to Article 2, Section 1... How we elect the POTUS... is defined in OUR Law, and OUR Law is SUPREME. We elect via the represented legislative districts of our U.S. House of Representatives, as Represented by the Electors, who are supposed to faithfully cast their votes for the candidate who wins the popular vote... OF THEIR VOTING DISTRICTS... not the popular vote of the State.
The Vote WAS miscounted... by taking the represented votes of we the people away from U.S. and declaring that the population of a big city outvotes the represented votes of we the people... giving those votes to Biden... by STATE Law

Also notice that ONLY the POTUS has the Power to make Treaties. Only the head of a Nation may make, change or break a treaty... and they need permission from the Senate... and the House, if what they ask for comes from we the people... Like $1 Billion... THE V.POTUS! Only has power to control the Parliamentary proceedings of the Senate, and cast a vote to untie a tied vote.
V.P. Joe... confessed to the world that he corrupted the Ukraine Treaty and used POTUS power to try to hide he was interfering with a U.S. treaty... treason.
He's not our POTUS... he's our DOTUS.
Sit on your hands and watch the communist takeover of this Nation...
but don't thank me for my 50 years of service to this Nation, both in and out of uniform...
BY SPITTING ON THAT LAW WHILE YOU GET ON YOUR KNEES TO YOUR ENEMY PUBLIC SERVANT EMPLOYEES AND LET THEM STEAL YOUR LIVES FOR YOUR ENEMIES!

I have what they call the Widow Maker... Doc says my time is almost up... so this will likely be my last post.
Don't do it for me.
DO IT FOR YOUR CHILDREN!
READ and try to understand the law that says our servants will obey we the people... not we the people will obey our servants.

Response by PO1 Don Rowan made Nov 7 at 2022 8:41 AM

PO1 Don Rowan — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 08:41:30 -0500

Nope...I didn't get to select where I served which was on the Rock and Albany. It sufficed that I actually did serve like 3 of my older brothers.

Response by SGT Eugene Jacobson made Nov 10 at 2022 11:36 AM

SGT Eugene Jacobson — Thu, 10 Nov 2022 11:36:11 -0500

Not in the slightest. I am proud of my service, I always have been, why on earth would I EVER feel guilty about having taken that oath? I suggest reading Robert A. Heinlein's Starship Troopers (NEVER bother with the movie!) for a fuller explanation of what it means. As a beginning idea, in that book, only veterans vote because they have demonstrated by taking that oath that they place their nation's welfare above their own lives and are willing to sacrifice themselves for the good of the many, as so many have. I'll never feel guilty about that. 1968-1970, last year in Vietnam.

Response by 1SG Frank Peck made Nov 10 at 2022 12:28 PM

1SG Frank Peck — Thu, 10 Nov 2022 12:28:14 -0500

I served 77-81, MARINE CORPS came in ARMY GUARD in 85 retired in 2014, did multiple deployments in both, couldn't help where UNCLE SAM sent me, I could off been passing out valley balls on a beach my whole tour, don't matter we still served honorably and PROUD of it.

Response by SP5 Kathleen Barton made Nov 10 at 2022 7:25 PM

SP5 Kathleen Barton — Thu, 10 Nov 2022 19:25:11 -0500

SPC Zacke, I salute you and I truly thank you from the bottom of my heart. You are a fellow brother, you served your country, and you deserve gratitude.

No, I do not feel guilty. I served my beloved country, and I served her to the best of my ability. I called Humana yesterday for assistance, and the agent told me that I was his "hero." Can you imagine that? That was the first time in my life that anyone told me that I was a hero for defending our country. You, SPC Zacke, are a Hero. Savor it, appreciate it, and continue to take pride in your tour of duty and your service.

Response by CPT John Bower made Nov 11 at 2022 12:59 PM

CPT John Bower — Fri, 11 Nov 2022 12:59:03 -0500

I served during that time and volunteered twice for southeast Asia, MAGV. Was in a combat unit on active duty and in the reserves. I guess the Good Lord didn't want me there. At times, I do have survivors remorse. Several of my buddies names are on the wall.

Response by MSgt Earl King made Nov 15 at 2022 10:29 AM

MSgt Earl King — Tue, 15 Nov 2022 10:29:17 -0500

No, when I ask for a discount, the response is, Thank you for your service!!

Response by SSG Mark Lawless made Nov 18 at 2022 2:30 PM

SSG Mark Lawless — Fri, 18 Nov 2022 14:30:03 -0500

It does not matter what your MOS was. It takes every MOS to get the job done. Truck drivers, mess hall cooks, supply clerks, orderly room clerks, it took them all and most would never fire a weapon unless they were at the firing range. Don't feel like you don't deserve to be thanked. You were part of the whole. Thank you for your service!

Response by CPL Ludwig Stines made Nov 18 at 2022 4:56 PM

CPL Ludwig Stines — Fri, 18 Nov 2022 16:56:15 -0500

Never have ---not once--- I served 1972-1975 With the 82nd Airborne Division.
ans to tell you the truth---i kind of like the thanks now compared to then, which then was Jack diddily squat!!! But I never embelish, just say "no problem,thankyou" and nod my head.If I can tell they served I Thank them also.

Response by GySgt Jack Wallace made Nov 18 at 2022 5:04 PM

GySgt Jack Wallace — Fri, 18 Nov 2022 17:04:28 -0500

Hell no*And your right about being spit on and asked why are you joining, what to kill women and children? No one spit on me, thank God, I would have been arrested. After being in Okinawa for 3.4 yrs all that was going state -side got to wear civvies home, just to avoid that from happening.

Response by LCpl Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 18 at 2022 7:55 PM

LCpl Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 18 Nov 2022 19:55:41 -0500

Why those two decades?
there is a lot of Vets. before me, and long after. I can honestly say that the military is
the only place I have herd that. Returning to the land of the big PX. VIE Ship
(USS Breckenridge) spelling . Docked at Treasure Island, went to Frisco., and Oakland
for the 4th of July. In Uniform. People were cordial, and polite in both cities.
As for the other. "Thank you for your service" the only time I feel good about it is when
it comes from 1. Family, 2. Friends and Veterans.

Response by Sgt Travis Adams made Nov 19 at 2022 12:52 PM

Sgt Travis Adams — Sat, 19 Nov 2022 12:52:03 -0500

I just reply, "thanks for paying your taxes. Its afforded military members to visit exotic places, taste different foods, new experiences and on occasion go Pew Pew Pew." The look on their faces! LOL

Response by SFC Sfc Darwin Maring, USA Ret made Nov 19 at 2022 7:34 PM

SFC Sfc Darwin Maring, USA Ret — Sat, 19 Nov 2022 19:34:59 -0500

What a stupid question. That was the time of DomRep, VietNam so thanking a vet for their service is always acceptable.

Response by PO2 Jaime Lazarus made Nov 20 at 2022 11:29 AM

PO2 Jaime Lazarus — Sun, 20 Nov 2022 11:29:10 -0500

I served in the US Navy for 4 years after enlisting before Saigon fell. I got out in '79. I say to folks who ask that I had some of the BEST times of my life while in the Navy, and some of the worst. These days when someone says "Thank you for your service" I reply respectfully, knowing they usually mean well then inform them that saying doesn't sit well with me.

You see, I don't qualify for VA medical benefits ( "Son, you're a 9 on a scale of one to eight"), I couldn't use the VA Benefits when I went to buy my house (it's 100 yards from an asphalt paved road, and the VA doesn't loan on homes on dirt roads), etc., etc., etc. In other words, "Thanks for your service" doesn't get me the benefits I was promised when I joined.

Response by SP6 Peter Kreutzfeldt made Dec 25 at 2022 12:50 PM

SP6 Peter Kreutzfeldt — Sun, 25 Dec 2022 12:50:40 -0500

My standard answer is always, "thanks, it got me out of the house for a bit"

Response by SSG Michael Schneider made Dec 25 at 2022 1:53 PM

SSG Michael Schneider — Sun, 25 Dec 2022 13:53:07 -0500

The first time it happened I was somewhat angry, thinking: Too little, too late. Afterward my reactions changed since it always seemed to be younger people say it, they were not those that treated us as outcast killers or, showed us indifference. Since then I have thanked the individuals that thank me. Guilt? No, I have never felt anything but pride in my service! The only guilt I have is what the VA calls 'survivor guilt'.

Response by PO2 Tom Hauser made Dec 25 at 2022 8:08 PM

PO2 Tom Hauser — Sun, 25 Dec 2022 20:08:11 -0500

Let's see now I served from 1966-1970 on active duty and spent 67-69 in Vietnam - Hue/Phu Bai 68-69. No body thanked me for shit, it was just the opposite. I remember the hate, the verbal abuse, and knocking the shit out of one asshole in the San Francisco Airport who came after a few of us in uniform coming back from Vietnam. We had just flown into Travis AFB from Danang and then took a bus from Travis AFB to SF International where we were met by the Hare Krishnas and protesters. The PTSD starting to set in and we were in no fucking mood to take shit from anyone. Thanking someone for their service didn't happen until Reagan came along and the Iraq War. After that there was a change in the attitude of America towards those men and women who served in the military and put their lives on the line for their country and each other. The only exception to this was the disrespect and indifference and loathing that came from liberal Democrats who never changed their stripes and that is especially true of shit birds like Clinton, Obama, and Biden. Fuck the Democrat Party and their hate America, hate the Constitution and Bill of Rights, hate the Rule of Law agendas designed to destroy this country. Instead of Anti-War protesters today we have a radical insurgency by anarchists and Democrat proxy domestic terrorist groups like ANTIFA and BLM. The next war we will be killing these assholes on our own soil!

Response by SP5 Deborah Magish made Dec 29 at 2022 1:10 PM

SP5 Deborah Magish — Thu, 29 Dec 2022 13:10:31 -0500

No. I think it's about time. I didn't go to VietNam (wasn't a nurse and was my first enlistment) but half of my Met training group did. Because of how we were treated, I didn't like traveling in uniform and would not tell anyone I was a disabled Vet. I'm from a military family and I still feel unhappy about how things went. My dad traveled, in uniform, from El Paso to Dallas to swear me in. I hope he felt proud as he was retiring the next month with 28 in and had served in Nam. IT IS ABOUT TIME THAT MY GENERATION GETS RECOGNIZED. It's too bad that many vets have already died or are still "hiding" so I wear my Army disable vet hat with pride.

Response by TSgt Ralph Schloss made Dec 31 at 2022 4:06 PM

TSgt Ralph Schloss — Sat, 31 Dec 2022 16:06:24 -0500

F*ck no! In my first NATO exercise in Alaska in a ten-week period we lost 17 men from my battalion. The Cold War was no joke!

Response by SPC Woody Bullard made Jan 22 at 2023 4:37 PM

SPC Woody Bullard — Sun, 22 Jan 2023 16:37:41 -0500

I was stationed overseas in West Germany for thirty months 1969-1971 at a NATO special weapons
site in the 558th MP company. The 558th was physical security duty for nuclear weapons at the NATO site along with ground vehicle escorts and air helicopter escort missions with the weapons when they were transported to other areas in the FRG. The Soviet/Russian military was across the border in East Germany with their weapons pointed at us in the west. There was much mental stress understanding the death and destruction that would take place had war began in Germany. I remember "MAD" for "Mutual Assured Destruction" being used during the Cold War years with the Soviet Union. Most civilians back in the states never knew how close the world came to nuclear war which was good for them because if they did know they would not have slept well at night.

Response by SP5 Howard Falcon made Jan 26 at 2023 12:14 PM

SP5 Howard Falcon — Thu, 26 Jan 2023 12:14:21 -0500

Served from 66 - 69, was called a Baby killer and spit on when going home from the city of brotherly love. Feel honored to have served and don't mind people that say thank you for your service. What I disdain is ignorance and the way we vets that were not in Nam are treated as inferior soldiers. I served in Germany supporting our nuclear deterrent, Pershing Missile. Benefits promised when enlisted are non existent, big difference between what we in Europe get verses those either in support or in the fight in a conflict zone. All those that served under fire deserve the best we can give, but those that served in other ways deserve the best care as well.

Response by Cpl David Chouinard made Jan 28 at 2023 10:31 AM

Cpl David Chouinard — Sat, 28 Jan 2023 10:31:54 -0500

I served from 1980 - 1984. When someone says "Thank you for your service" I tell them I didn't do anythiing.

Response by CPO Michael Hatten made Jan 28 at 2023 1:37 PM

CPO Michael Hatten — Sat, 28 Jan 2023 13:37:33 -0500

I was in the submarine service. I never feel guilty for that. But I also think the guys who went to the jungle gave more and I respect them for it. I just remember the saying from WWII, "All gave some, some gave all.". I'm proud of my contribution.

Response by SFC Fernando Campos made Jan 29 at 2023 12:36 PM

SFC Fernando Campos — Sun, 29 Jan 2023 12:36:17 -0500

If you served, you served. There is no shame in that. I know LRRPs who were in Germany during the Cold War and routinely crossed into East Germany, they did their job and not get caught, they served. Anyone disagrees with that, they have a right to disagree, but it will never change the truth.

Response by CPL Dante Kimble made Jan 29 at 2023 4:26 PM

CPL Dante Kimble — Sun, 29 Jan 2023 16:26:15 -0500

If we were REALLY thanked for our SERVICES, WE wouldn't HAVE to jump through SO MANY HOOPS to get what we DESERVE! YES some people really MEAN it, but MAJORIRY including POLITICIANS just go through the motion of SAYING IT!!

Response by PFC Edward Krinsky made Jan 29 at 2023 8:53 PM

PFC Edward Krinsky — Sun, 29 Jan 2023 20:53:54 -0500

It doesn’t matter in what capacity you served, you were in the armed forces and was available should a conflict arisen. You did not run to Canada, hide in your mothers basement or displayed any other “woke” behavior, you paid your dues, by being available…hold your head high, and be proud………

Response by SPC Bill Bailey made Jan 29 at 2023 11:16 PM

SPC Bill Bailey — Sun, 29 Jan 2023 23:16:24 -0500

As a Vietnam era Vet I just reply with "It was an Honor to serve my country" and let it go. I straighten them right out if they confuse me with someone who served "In Country".

Response by 1SG Dean Mcbride (MPER) (CPHR) made Jan 30 at 2023 12:19 AM

1SG Dean Mcbride (MPER) (CPHR) — Mon, 30 Jan 2023 00:19:14 -0500

I served from 1960 to retirement in 1982. Three tours in Vietnam, a tour with Project 404 in Laos, and assignments in Panama, Germany, and Okinawa. Nobody thanked me in the 60s through 80s and I don't recall a thank you in the 90s. Bear in mind, during my military career, I served with pride and never expected a thank you.
The thank you I receive now appears in the most part to be for post 9/11 military service or just a generic requirement from someone's employer. It doesn't bother me for someone to say thank you - even if it is 50 years late! I always respond in a positive manner - however, even though it may appear to be a little bit of a jaundiced attitude, at times I wonder if the person knows what they are thanking me for...
Bottom line: Keep the thank you messages coming - I truly appreciate your doing so. I do the same thing to other service members and veterans.

Response by PFC Stephen Morton made Jan 30 at 2023 2:58 AM

PFC Stephen Morton — Mon, 30 Jan 2023 02:58:49 -0500

I am both proud and honored that I did my military duty, regardless of whether I went to war or not. The fact that I dedicated time to serve my country and that I was prepared and willing to fight for my country is what we always make me proud and honored when someone thanks me for my service.

Response by PO2 Jimmie Shelnutt made Jan 30 at 2023 6:08 PM

PO2 Jimmie Shelnutt — Mon, 30 Jan 2023 18:08:07 -0500

I served from 1965 until 1970. Must have missed the welcome home parade. Like others here, I was spit on and cursed while wearing the uniform. But, I now have a license plate on my truck that states "Vietnam War" and "Navy Corpsman". I'm sometimes thanked for my service by kind civilians. And by my brother Marines more often. I'm grateful for the one and heart filled by the other. Funny what fifty or so years will do to those around us.

Response by PO3 Paul Lowrey made Jan 31 at 2023 6:47 AM

PO3 Paul Lowrey — Tue, 31 Jan 2023 06:47:06 -0500

When someone thanks you for your service I don't think they're talking about any particular war in general but just the fact that you joined up and served your country with honor.

Response by Sgt Ray Massey made Jan 31 at 2023 11:27 AM

Sgt Ray Massey — Tue, 31 Jan 2023 11:27:31 -0500

Simply put, no, I do not have any guilt and am proud to serve my nation!

Response by PO3 Douglas Hughes made Jan 31 at 2023 12:33 PM

PO3 Douglas Hughes — Tue, 31 Jan 2023 12:33:18 -0500

Served 1959 - 1965 Had a difficult time going to college in California after separation because of Vietnam. The very 1st time I was asked and thanked for my service I didn't know if I was being set up so my anxiety was raging. I was in Tennessee at the time and the waitress that asked took 10% off my breakfast bill and thanked me again. I always hid my militaria service up until then.

Response by CW2 Ernest Krutzsch made Jan 31 at 2023 4:12 PM

CW2 Ernest Krutzsch — Tue, 31 Jan 2023 16:12:21 -0500

Why?

Response by CW2 Ernest Krutzsch made Jan 31 at 2023 4:15 PM

CW2 Ernest Krutzsch — Tue, 31 Jan 2023 16:15:39 -0500

I served from 1971 to 1997, I woke up every morning to go wherever they sent me to do whatever they needed me to do. I simply say it was my pleasure to see e.....and it was

Response by CPT Bruce Fleming made Jan 31 at 2023 11:01 PM

CPT Bruce Fleming — Tue, 31 Jan 2023 23:01:17 -0500

There were more service members killed in the 1980s per year than during the various middle eastern wars, so no.

Response by CPL Tom Walker made Feb 1 at 2023 10:40 AM

CPL Tom Walker — Wed, 01 Feb 2023 10:40:02 -0500

Sorry SPC Zacke - you seem to have an overly well developed sense of self-worthlessness, or maybe you're just starved for attention. I served from 1972 - 1975 and was never vilified at all, yet my years of service spanned the end years of our Vietnam debacle. By 1978 we were long out of Vietnam and you would be the only veteran of that era (1978 - 1981) I've heard of who was spit on or termed a "baby killer" following your discharge. What conflict would people associate with your service years? Or do you imagine a durable public antipathy toward veterans? If so, those indignities were entirely spared me for some reason. Might your post be a cry for attention?

No, I don't feel guilty, nor do I think, should others. If you do I'd recommend you find a good therapist or find a more hospitable venue for posting your "poor, poor me" nonsense.

Response by SSG John C Quigley II made Feb 1 at 2023 12:42 PM

SSG John C Quigley II — Wed, 01 Feb 2023 12:42:36 -0500

I served from 1962 to 1965, I thank those who say thanks for your service, and I do not feel bad about having served. I lost some friends in Vietnam and my brother who was changed from 4F to 4A and drafted died a few years ago from Agent Orange poisoning after spending 1 year in Vietnam. He too served honorably and deserved every accolade he received. If you signed on the dotted line and put on the uniform and served honorably you deserve every one of those thank you's.

Response by MAJ Joseph James made Feb 1 at 2023 6:41 PM

MAJ Joseph James — Wed, 01 Feb 2023 18:41:21 -0500

I served from 84-98, I was not deployed for Desert Storm, I was at flight school and was preparing to deploy if needed, but it didn't last long enough. I don't feel guilty for no going down range. I like other veterans during the cold war still signed that blank check to defend the Constitution. We trained and were prepared if the call came.

Response by SSgt William Gaskins made Feb 1 at 2023 8:40 PM

SSgt William Gaskins — Wed, 01 Feb 2023 20:40:56 -0500

I have, to a degree, some surviver's guilt. I know the real heroes of the Vietnam war either came home badly wounded or dead. For that reason I feel some discomfort when I here that well intentioned...."Thank you for your service".

Response by CPL Daniel Porras made Feb 1 at 2023 9:01 PM

CPL Daniel Porras — Wed, 01 Feb 2023 21:01:20 -0500

I hate it and tell them I got my thank you in1973.
It's a big issue with me, name calling trash tossed at me , saying that my family would of been happy if I was dead!

Response by SP5 Texi Ngiraingas made Feb 2 at 2023 2:38 AM

SP5 Texi Ngiraingas — Thu, 02 Feb 2023 02:38:33 -0500

There is a lot dumb silly ass questions ask on this site, so I just delete and don't bother even opening the email. Waste of time

Response by Sgt Ivan Boatwright made Feb 2 at 2023 7:19 AM

Sgt Ivan Boatwright — Thu, 02 Feb 2023 07:19:58 -0500

I do not like being thanked for my service. I complained for a while but eventually realized most people were just following the crowd. No one really understands what they are saying. When someone thanks me, I remember the people I have killed and wonder why I did it after we lost and left behind so many dead and lives destroyed. They thank me, and I sink into despair.

Response by SPC Rodger Bell made Feb 2 at 2023 7:29 AM

SPC Rodger Bell — Thu, 02 Feb 2023 07:29:28 -0500

No I don't and why should i

Response by SGM Tere Moore made Feb 2 at 2023 1:50 PM

SGM Tere Moore — Thu, 02 Feb 2023 13:50:06 -0500

I used to... But now I Do say Thank You with pride. Here's the deal: Anyone in the military is either fighting or training to fight: on land, by sea or in the air. So as a female obviously I wasn't fighting yet doing something equally important: training & preparing soldiers to fight and ensuring their families were supported during their deployment. Whether a service member was a Supply/Logistics specialist, HR specialist, Finance Specialist, IT specialist, or serving in Any field: we are training and/or otherwise preparing fellow service members for the fight. Especially as an E7 or above our jobs are jobs are to train & prepare subordinate soldiers prior to & during their times of deployment. So no: I don't feel bad about not physically serving in Vietnam nor any other military campaign since I was a vital part of providing the Army with well-trained soldiers.

Response by PO3 Aileen Dodge made Feb 3 at 2023 1:02 AM

PO3 Aileen Dodge — Fri, 03 Feb 2023 01:02:30 -0500

when someone from the Veterans Administration says to me "Thank you for your service! That si not what I hear. What I hear is "FU very much for your service. PEACETIME Veteran!!!" The reason I hear that is prior to this country making new veterans in these last few wars. The VA continually denied a large majority of Peacetime Veterans any services. They were the basis of the descriptive VA Motto "Deny until they die." Attitudes of what the hell is a Disabled Peacetime Veteran and how is it possible you were injured while on active duty during Peacetime? And still to this day I know people think that VA has gotten better but it hasn't. Veterans are still treated like 3rd class citizens by the Government. The lack of equal medical care throughout this county is maddening. We are sent pamphlets every year telling Veterans exactly what their benefits are through the VA. Yet a majority of disabled veterans still must fight with the VA just to receive even the most basic healthcare services or other Guaranteed VA Benefits!!!! SO that is what I hear when someone from the Veterans Administration says so off handedly "Thank you for your service"

Response by MSgt Allen Chandler made Feb 5 at 2023 10:36 AM

MSgt Allen Chandler — Sun, 05 Feb 2023 10:36:34 -0500

I served from 1962 to 1983 so that pretty much covers all the area that you're talking about. When I wear my Vet hat, the people that see me on the street do not know what I did or didn't do during that time. They don't know if I sat in an office worked on paper or I got the congressional medal three times. If they want to say to me thank you. I think it's very nice. And it's one of the nicest things we can do for each other. It's called being polite. They can tell that I was in military and they assume that I did it honorable tour and they thanked me for it. It's more than thank you for holding the door open for me and is the certainly a lot less the nominating me for the Nobel peace prize. And in my humble opinion too many people over think these things. I'm very proud of my service, I know what I did and what I accomplished, and I am not ashamed or embarrass when someone says thank you even though they don't know the details.

Response by SCPO William Maloney made Feb 9 at 2023 7:35 PM

SCPO William Maloney — Thu, 09 Feb 2023 19:35:22 -0500

Why would anyone? I served from 79-99, and I can assure you that the vast majority of military members never have to worry about being actively or passively involved in combat, regardless of the nature of the conflict. The young AB hooking up a Hornet on Cat1 on a sunny day off the coast of Florida tomorrow is in exponentially more danger than a Dental Tech stationed at Great Lakes during the Battle of the Bulge. IYAOYAS!

Response by SGT Bill Braniff made Feb 11 at 2023 8:56 AM

SGT Bill Braniff — Sat, 11 Feb 2023 08:56:03 -0500

I am a Vietnam Combat Veteran, Tet 1968. Do I feel guilty ?? Most ridiculous question I have ever heard. The one who says that to a Vietnam Veteran is the one who should feel guilty! VN Veterans are the least respected of all US Veterans. The VN Vets are the ones who got the least, waited the longest for medical problems from AO. and many other things.
I honestly feel that America as a whole should be ashamed of their treatment of Vietnam Vets.

I will say that the Vets talking about being spit on and having to toss their uniforms because of hatred is over exaggerated..VN Vets and Korean Vets were the least respected of all US Veterans, and we probably did more than most Veterans from other wars.

Response by LTC Anthony Monroe made Feb 16 at 2023 7:58 AM

LTC Anthony Monroe — Thu, 16 Feb 2023 07:58:36 -0500

no I am proud of my service!

Response by PO2 Gregory Rolland made Feb 24 at 2023 6:18 PM

PO2 Gregory Rolland — Fri, 24 Feb 2023 18:18:00 -0500

No.

Response by LCDR Ed Etzkorn made Feb 25 at 2023 11:53 AM

LCDR Ed Etzkorn — Sat, 25 Feb 2023 11:53:51 -0500

I served from 1966-1987 first as enlisted then officer. Spent 22 months in country Vietnam and was treated like shit by many, including some who I was close friends with before I entered service. I vividly remember a day more than 20 years ago when I was at the University of Tampa and a group of students thanked me for my service. Frankly it made me feel good.

Response by Sgt Robert Elliott made Feb 26 at 2023 11:12 AM

Sgt Robert Elliott — Sun, 26 Feb 2023 11:12:58 -0500

Guilty? No, never. However, if I never heard "thank you for your service" again, it would suit me fine. I just feel that people say that in the same way you hear, "thoughts and prayers are with you", "sorry for your loss", etc. Just words that, in most instances, I feel like no thought is put into it. Just words that we've been conditioned to spout out!

I served 3 years in the Marines with the last year in Vietnam. I would never feel guilty, ashamed or any other negative way about my service. In fact, I'm quite proud of it. I just don't need to hear thanks from people that know nothing about it. And the VA is the worst. If you think that every person at the VA hospital is giving you a heartfelt "thank you", then why is it said by every single person that works there, without fail? They don't all happen to feel that way. No, they're trained to say it. They have to be.

Maybe it's due to the fact that I am rated 100% disabled and am at my primary care or at the VA hospital a couple or more times a month that gives me the feeling that I have. They say it to every vet, every time. That can add up to 10, sometimes 20 times in one day. Sorry, but to this jarhead, it no longer has any real meaning to it. But I'm no better. I automatically say, "Thank you" after each greeting. What else can you do? I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings or make them feel bad about something that they might actually mean. And, remember, these are just MY feelings. Thought I'd share them.

Response by 1SG James Kelly made Feb 27 at 2023 8:43 AM

1SG James Kelly — Mon, 27 Feb 2023 08:43:43 -0500

No.

Response by SrA Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 5 at 2023 3:24 PM

SrA Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 05 Mar 2023 15:24:59 -0500

I served (USAF) 1960-64 and I have no problem excepting someones "thank you for your service". I was not in Nam, the closest I came to any conflict was 2 TDY's (deployments) in support of the Cuban Missile Crises and was ready to do what ever it took. We all signed that paper and agreed to put our lives on the line if needed. No I am not ashamed to take the "thank you's".

Response by Cpl Dennis F. made Mar 14 at 2023 10:37 PM

Cpl Dennis F. — Tue, 14 Mar 2023 22:37:37 -0400

No. I just tell them that I dont work the drive-through window at McDonalds.
This usually confuses them enough so that I know the statement was just a BS response that means as much to me, 50 years after the fact, as "Have a nice day" Or "Bless your heart" AKA, FU.

Response by PO1 Charles Clayborn made Mar 15 at 2023 8:44 PM

PO1 Charles Clayborn — Wed, 15 Mar 2023 20:44:27 -0400

I did what was asked of me by my Country. The people deserving of recognition have their names on the Vietnam Wall, along with those that came home broken.

Response by SFC Howard Holmes made Mar 31 at 2023 3:54 AM

SFC Howard Holmes — Fri, 31 Mar 2023 03:54:55 -0400

Though there was no physical war, the services we provided was a deterrent to prevent Russia from crossing the boarder. There were many times in Germany that full alerts were called and we had to gear up and be ready. The Russians would move their tanks right up to the boarder at times, and we thought for certain they were ready to start WW3. Don't forget the Iranian Embassy attack in Iran and we were in a bad situation with Iran. I remember the rescue operation when many service members died as the mission was about to be executed, because under Jimmy Carter our military was in a shambles. The 2/75th Rangers were continually training for the hostage rescue operation. Fortunately, the morning of Ronald Reagan's inauguration, the hostages were released, but the Cold War raged on for several more years. Remember, deterrence is just as important, if not more so, than actual engagement. If the force isn't big enough, strong enough, trained enough, all hell can break out in a very short period of time.

Response by TSgt Robert Wayne made Mar 31 at 2023 5:46 PM

TSgt Robert Wayne — Fri, 31 Mar 2023 17:46:16 -0400

It's a stupid question. From 1960- 1980 we still had people in Vietnam and the cold War as well as the drug war. Whether you were actually in during a war or not you put on the uniform everyday ready to go to war if necessary. There is not one military member that should feel ashamed when someone says "Thank you for your service" we all were brave enough to wear the uniform. Be proud!

Response by PO2 Joan MacNeill made Apr 1 at 2023 12:00 AM

PO2 Joan MacNeill — Sat, 01 Apr 2023 00:00:45 -0400

I used to feel awkward, not know how to respond. Sure, what we did was important, contributed to the mission and all, but at the time it just seemed like part of the job. We were all doing much the same things, maybe exceptional to civilians, but commonplace to us. But now I'm sure those that thank me feel it's something they need to do, and I don't want to belittle or spoil that by some lame response. So now i stand a little taller and say "It was my privilege."

Response by Sgt Greg Nowark made Apr 1 at 2023 5:21 AM

Sgt Greg Nowark — Sat, 01 Apr 2023 05:21:53 -0400

No, I ALWAYS say "Thank YOU for YOUR service," because outside of Armistice Day (and Memorial Day, even though I'm still alive) I KNOW the only recognition to a hat I'm wearing will be from vets or their family members all of whom contributed "time from their lives," and our service was where it was needed/ wanted/ useful by USofA, and that is how it is ("take it where you can get it, bitchin' bout it only SEEMS mandatory").

Response by SSG James Harlow made Apr 1 at 2023 2:57 PM

SSG James Harlow — Sat, 01 Apr 2023 14:57:30 -0400

Well some of the people that experienced the war did from the confines of large bases and never left the wire. The closest they got to the war was pulling Haji guard. I was a contractor there and left the base more than the Soldiers did. The actual number of personnel that experienced combat is probably a quarter of the people that were in Iraq. Even though every one will boast that they were in combat. Thank everybody on here for your service.

Response by LCDR Mike Scott Singh made Apr 1 at 2023 3:36 PM

LCDR Mike Scott Singh — Sat, 01 Apr 2023 15:36:54 -0400

I don't know who started it 20 yrs ago or so but it's nice but 45 years ago when I was risking my life I got no thanks and actually was discriminated against for work.. I still get no preferred treatment from veteran owned businesses or banks. Most of which are scams. Golden Coral, Lowe's, Home Depot, Veterans Day discounts are mainly an advertising or marketing strategy. When I got out of the service the jobs when to female minorities. Our leaders are now greedy female minorities.

Response by LCDR Mike Scott Singh made Apr 1 at 2023 3:41 PM

LCDR Mike Scott Singh — Sat, 01 Apr 2023 15:41:55 -0400

I got out in 1978. I was an Airborne Ranger Instructor at the SF school. Went into Military Police and later I was a State Trooper. Tactical Medic 43 years. The Police Chiefs responsible for the chaos are African American, most are petite in size and most are women who get no respect from their officers like the Memphis scorpion team that killed a young black man. In schools the democratic machine begs for violence because it promotes gun free no gun zones even toward Police off duty.

Response by SSG Harry Herres made Apr 1 at 2023 5:12 PM

SSG Harry Herres — Sat, 01 Apr 2023 17:12:47 -0400

I hate the saying. No one said thank you then, I am the same but older guy now. Why now? Drives me nuts at the VA everyone says it as an afterthought. One time 7 different people! Stop already!

Response by CPO Manny Perez made Apr 1 at 2023 9:43 PM

CPO Manny Perez — Sat, 01 Apr 2023 21:43:13 -0400

When do you think Viet Nam was? DUH!

Response by CPT Melissa Scheller made Apr 2 at 2023 11:40 AM

CPT Melissa Scheller — Sun, 02 Apr 2023 11:40:20 -0400

Why would you feel guilty for signing up to defend your Country! Veterans are a small percentage of the population and we all have one thing in common, we were willing to give our lives if that’s what it took!

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 2 at 2023 3:59 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 02 Apr 2023 15:59:38 -0400

No one should ever feel shame for not serving during a period of active hostilities. People with any common sense realize that a conflict or a war can break out at any time. The second they take the oath, their lives are pledged in the defense of the US.

Response by LTC David Howard made Apr 2 at 2023 5:02 PM

LTC David Howard — Sun, 02 Apr 2023 17:02:04 -0400

I served from 1966 to 1990. I appreciate being thanked for my service, but certainly don't expect it. And I can't imagine why any veteran would feel guilty for whatever time they spent in service to their nation. The military is like a complex machine, and many of those parts, if not functioning, become a "war stopper". Those who served in support functions performed duties that if not done and done well, the combat fighters would not have been able to perform their role either. So whether you were an infantryman with a rifle engaged in direct combat with an enemy, or a personnel clerk, a cook or a medic, guilt is not even part of the equation.

Response by Sgt Clarence Couch made Apr 3 at 2023 1:10 AM

Sgt Clarence Couch — Mon, 03 Apr 2023 01:10:18 -0400

No, of course not. why should i feel guilty for my military service??
I have service connected health problems, so I'm in constant communications with the VA, by phne for appts or follow ups or in person at the hospital. Every form of contact includes, "Thank you for your service." I feel a sense of pride and gratitude and espirit de Corps and joy and good will and anything but guilt.

Response by CPO Steven Tewkesbury made Apr 3 at 2023 1:11 AM

CPO Steven Tewkesbury — Mon, 03 Apr 2023 01:11:20 -0400

No. I served where I was assigned and tried to do my job at the highest level possible. Some had tougher duty than others, just like any other occupation. I just respond with "You're welcome."

Response by SGT Jeff Everhart made Apr 3 at 2023 1:48 AM

SGT Jeff Everhart — Mon, 03 Apr 2023 01:48:22 -0400

No one should feel guilty about putting on the uniform of the United States Military. Are perfect no, but at least we served to make the world a better place. Unfortunately, today the military has become just another institution in search of a mission, no Ukraine isn't it!

Response by SFC Joseph Behmke made Apr 3 at 2023 3:29 AM

SFC Joseph Behmke — Mon, 03 Apr 2023 03:29:41 -0400

I served from ‘75 to 2002. No because some of those were very nerve racking years. We did what we had to do to make it through the day.

Response by SPC Julio R. made Apr 3 at 2023 11:14 AM

SPC Julio R. — Mon, 03 Apr 2023 11:14:36 -0400

NEVER you should NEVER feel guilty. Why is my question you did what only 1% of us do that is raising your right hand and signing the dotted line.

Never feel bad for not deploying never feel bad for not going outside the wire amd never feel bad for not deploying.

You served out nation its not oerfect but its ours amd you signed up to defend it while so many don't.

As long as you weren't or aren't like these d bag Veteran blue falcons or the thank me for my service d riders.

Hold you4 h3ad high soldier amd carry on....

Response by CPT Karen Nichols McAbee made Apr 11 at 2023 5:33 PM

CPT Karen Nichols McAbee — Tue, 11 Apr 2023 17:33:49 -0400

No, I don't feel guilty at all - I've very proud of my service. I volunteered to do what most of my peers did not. I served from 1981 - 1989, in West Germany from 1988 - 1989. The "Cold War" was anything but... especially in Europe - granted, I never was engaged in actual combat, but the powder keg we lived in could have blown at any moment. I got back to the States less than 3 months before the Berlin Wall came down - the Cold War wasn't cold from our perspective.

Response by PO3 Eugene Hildebrand made Apr 25 at 2023 4:34 PM

PO3 Eugene Hildebrand — Tue, 25 Apr 2023 16:34:17 -0400

Ahhh, the good old days. I got called those names even though I went in in 79 to 88.
For many many years I never mentioned being in the military. It wasn't until 9/11 really that it was cool to be military or ex-military. (Though who is truly ex-military) I performed my duties to the best of my ability and wound up broken and of no further use to the military so I was told get out. It feels strange to hear "Thank you for your service.". At least now I can acknowledge the fact I served and I served with honor. All who served weather it was in a time of war or a time of maintaining the peace should always be recognized for stepping up to the plate for their country.
Thank you ladies and gentlemen for you service.

Response by Col Dan Ketter made Apr 30 at 2023 10:55 PM

Col Dan Ketter — Sun, 30 Apr 2023 22:55:17 -0400

WHY??? I did what was asked . Remember Vietnam had more volunteers than WW2

Response by PO2 Cyrus Barberia made May 3 at 2023 10:58 PM

PO2 Cyrus Barberia — Wed, 03 May 2023 22:58:20 -0400

I was walking through Chicago O'Hare airport in my dress white uniform when all of a sudden this girl was walking by that she threw orange soda all over my uniform had called me a baby killer this was in 1970 I was fresh out of boot camp and haven't wasn't even in the war at that time now they say thank you for your service where was everybody back then I have a lot of people say it to me if I wear a hat that says maybe on it it's a little awkward but I say thank you

Response by Cpl George Matousek made May 12 at 2023 2:02 PM

Cpl George Matousek — Fri, 12 May 2023 14:02:27 -0400

Not at all. I served in MC 68-74, Vietnam 69, I just wish they said it back then. Semper Fi

Response by SP5 Hank Vandenburgh PhD made May 12 at 2023 10:39 PM

SP5 Hank Vandenburgh PhD — Fri, 12 May 2023 22:39:58 -0400

No, I like it. Did Korea and Germany 62-68. There was always some danger there.

Response by Sgt Stu Kopelman made May 13 at 2023 5:46 PM

Sgt Stu Kopelman — Sat, 13 May 2023 17:46:31 -0400

I used to feel that way. Many soldiers start off in their military lives having what seems to be "everything against them." Some start off serving on the "golf course." It doesn't matter. What we learn is how we end up. Some start off in life poorly but end up well; some start off well but end up poorly. It is not our circumstances we face that makes a man, but our response to them.

Response by PO1 Mike Wallace made May 14 at 2023 12:20 PM

PO1 Mike Wallace — Sun, 14 May 2023 12:20:23 -0400

Guilty? No but while I'm not going to say no thanks I sometimes can't help but wonder if it isn't a product of their guilt feelings. Often such folks have told me, after thanking me, that they themselves didn't serve but boy they wish they would have!
I've done interviews and told people if the see someone who is wearing a Vietnam Veteran cap or you know they served in Vietnam, give them a WELCOME HOME! As noted by others that's something we never got.
But it is good to see so many people appreciate the service of younger generations. But it's to bad people don't actually mean it often. Thank you for your service has become as meaningless as 'have a nice day'!
Also I'm married to an ex Navy lady and even when she has on a navy cap, a top that says female veteran on it or other attire that shows she served, people will speak to me and ignore her service. We don't have female veterans just fellow veterans.

Response by LCpl Sam Epaloose jr made May 25 at 2023 6:09 PM

LCpl Sam Epaloose jr — Thu, 25 May 2023 18:09:46 -0400

I don't feel guilty just feel left out! Served from 78-81. The Veterans office here will include me but don't go out their way.

Response by MCPO Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 11 at 2023 12:33 PM

MCPO Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 11 Jun 2023 12:33:25 -0400

Trust me. There WERE combat situations happening. Always. That will never change. Will it or will it not be reported makes no difference.

Response by PO1 Arthur Neel made Jun 18 at 2023 3:27 PM

PO1 Arthur Neel — Sun, 18 Jun 2023 15:27:37 -0400

I joined the US Navy in 1960 and served until retirement in 1981. No, I do not feel guilty when someone says, "Thank you for your service". Everyone who served (either joined or were drafted) deserve respect and honor

"A veteran is someone who, at one point in their life wrote a blank check made payable to “The United States of America,” for an amount up to and including their life.”.

SPC Richard Zacke, The Vietnam War was over in 1975 and since you served from 1978 to 1981 you were not in Nam, so I doubt you were called a Baby Killer or were spit upon., due to that war.
Not trying to disrespect you in any way, just want to get the facts straight

Response by SGT Dwayne McTaw Sr made Jun 19 at 2023 12:42 PM

SGT Dwayne McTaw Sr — Mon, 19 Jun 2023 12:42:55 -0400

NO way! I took the oath, to serve my country from enemies, foreign and domestic. It's not our fault, that no one wanted to do or start anything stupid. We were on call, Ready, Willing and Able to protect and defend our country. I served from 1978 to 1984, proudly. When (9/11) happened, I went to reenlist, but was told, I was too old. Yes, I was 40yrs, but was as healthy and well able to perform any duty that was assigned to me, mentally and physically. I honor those who served and sacrificed, during the conflicts after. It's not my fault, that I wasn't given another chance to serve. And, I'm proud to be an US Army Veteran and proud of ALL who, signed on and stood watch over Our country. May God bless all American Military Branches, Airmen, Soldiers, Marines, and Sailors across the world!
E-5/ Sgt Dwayne L McTaw, UH-1 Crewchief

Response by SN Don Soileau made Jun 21 at 2023 9:41 AM

SN Don Soileau — Wed, 21 Jun 2023 09:41:06 -0400

I served from 2 January 1975 - 28 November 1978 and accept all thanks from any one. No guilt here.

Response by Sgt John Schnader made Jun 26 at 2023 1:33 PM

Sgt John Schnader — Mon, 26 Jun 2023 13:33:27 -0400

I volunteered into the USAF during 'Nam. I went where my orders told me to go. I did my job to the best of my ability and to the expectations of my command. As Veterans, we did our duty during active service, and our collective efforts saved lives during armed conflicts, and wreaked havoc on our enemies!! Bless our fallen warriors in arms! To hell with the critics! No guilt....Ever!!

Response by SCPO Lonny Randolph made Jun 28 at 2023 2:23 PM

SCPO Lonny Randolph — Wed, 28 Jun 2023 14:23:23 -0400

I served my nation from 1973 through 1993. I remember a former friend from my high school spitting on my shoe and calling me a baby killer when I went back home on boot leave (that didn't end well for him). I also remember one day during Desert Storm 1 when I went ashore to pick up parts an American Citizen saw me through the windshield, stopped in the cross walk and popped me a hand salute. My ship was in dry dock so I missed all the "fun" but I was taken aback by the sudden change in people's attitudes.
Ever since then little girls at cash registers and total strangers have been thanking me for my service. I can't imagine feeling guilty and I don't begrudge the current watch standers their thanks either. Before Desert Storm I, I was proud of my service as well, I just didn't have people thanking me. You served during whatever period, it's a uniquely patriotic thing to volunteer for a job where you may get killed for your country; feel free to be proud but never feel guilty. You earned it!

Response by PO2 Stephen Brownell made Jun 28 at 2023 3:25 PM

PO2 Stephen Brownell — Wed, 28 Jun 2023 15:25:26 -0400

Look it all the brothers and sisters who never made it back from the conflicts all over the world. We keep their spirits alive when someone says Thank you for your Service, all you have to say is thank you.

Response by TSgt James Bucknell made Jun 30 at 2023 4:58 PM

TSgt James Bucknell — Fri, 30 Jun 2023 16:58:39 -0400

I look at this way not everybody should join it is not for everyone when I joined back in 1984 I WAS GOING 20 years I did just that. I was on KC-10’s for the Gulf War one. Same was said baby killer I’m not going to apologize, sorry if it happened. People die everyday. I’m very honored when someone thanks me for my service. I look back when I went to North Korea and returned 9 Korean War missing in action I personally placed them on the C-130. BE PROUD OF YOUR SERVICE ALWAYS!!!!!!

Response by SP5 Skip Saurman made Jul 2 at 2023 11:05 AM

SP5 Skip Saurman — Sun, 02 Jul 2023 11:05:32 -0400

After receiving NONE (Thank you's) upon returning from Vietnam in 1971 . . . I'll take all the "Thank You's" I can get, now! NO, I do NOT feel guilty! Never will!

Response by PO3 Ted G made Jul 6 at 2023 8:45 AM

PO3 Ted G — Thu, 06 Jul 2023 08:45:11 -0400

I served in the mid 90's, honestly I get kind of annoyed with the "Thank you for your service" thing. It feels more like something that people say to make themselves feel better about not serving. To me it sounds like "Thanks for doing that thing that needed to be done but I was unwilling to do, oh and you got hurt, that makes me even more glad I stayed home and hid from danger". I was in at a time when a lot of senior people had gone on government sponsored trips to Southeast Asia and no one had thanked them, quite the opposite. No one serves to be thanked for their service, they serve to thank the Nation for keeping them safe by serving and keeping the Nation safe for others.

Response by SGT David Fuzie made Jul 10 at 2023 3:39 PM

SGT David Fuzie — Mon, 10 Jul 2023 15:39:28 -0400

I grew up in Fayetteville /Fort Bragg in the 1960s and 1970s and served in the Army from 1985 to 1994. I have always appreciated the service of our veterans and have let them know it, and I am not afraid to say that I am in awe of our Vietnam vets who really put up with a lot of crap, not just from their tour(s) in Vietnam but in the US after they returned. While I don’t put myself in the same category with them, I still served and was willing to put my life on the line in defense of this great country if it became necessary to do so. I appreciate being thanked for my service, as long as it is sincerely given, and I take it not as a thanks to me personally but to all that served before and with me. Not sure that will make sense to many, but I also know a lot of the people I served with will understand.

Response by PO2 Lorraine Corso made Jul 19 at 2023 6:27 AM

PO2 Lorraine Corso — Wed, 19 Jul 2023 06:27:17 -0400

I served from 1982-2005 and personally, I hate anyone who says that bs. It is nothing but condescending to say that catchphrase and an insult to me and everyone who served.

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 23 at 2023 12:47 PM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 23 Jul 2023 12:47:09 -0400

When you put your uniform on, you are signaling that you are willing to defend your country from foreign and domestic enemies and, you would die for that cause if required.

You also put a target on your back for enemies of the US. Man, that's saying a lot.

Thank you for your service.

Response by CPL John McCulley made Aug 7 at 2023 10:49 AM

CPL John McCulley — Mon, 07 Aug 2023 10:49:43 -0400

I served from '84-'92. I'm 1 of the founding members of 3d Ranger Bn, then the Medical Corps in my second enlistment. When I first enlisted there was still alot of anti military sentiment & was more likely to get a dirty look than a thank you.
The 1st time anybody thanked me was when I was stationed in Hawaii in the late 80's. A tenn approached me in downtown Honolulu & asked if I was in the Military? I immediately braced for something bad, but when I said yes, he stuck out his hand to shake mine & said thank you. He said he was there for a Christian youth conference & appreciated the military for protecting those freedoms.To my eternal embarrasment, I then waited for him to ask for a donation, but he just walked away.
Attitude really changed with the first Gulf War. People started putting out yellow ribbons, but it was still unusual for a stranger to walk up & say thanks.
9/11 changed all that. For several years afterward I'd get thanked all the time, now its getting more rare...again.
As far as an answer directly to your question (sorry kind of went of on a tangent there), I'm appreciative, but, honestly, also a little embarrassed & deep down a little confused. My 5x Great Grandfather was a CPL in the Attleburough Militia & responded to the call out at Lexington& Concord (the shot heard 'round the world). He served for a couple more years, but then died of natural causes in his 30's.
My Great Grandfather enlisted in the 57th Pennsylvania Volunteer Infantry Rgt for 1 year in 1861 & reenlisted every year, until the Rgt mustered out in 1865.
My father joined the Army Air Forces Aviation Cadet program in 1941, just before the attack on Pearl Harbor. He was first an instructor pilot in B-25's. He then flew B-29's as a Lead Crew Aircraft Commander against Japan until the end of the war.
I was raised that military service is a duty & responsibility. I never wanted to do anything but serve in the military (although I planned on flying planes in the Air Force, not jump out of them in the Army). I honestly feel embarrassed to be thanked for doing something that I was destined to do & was my responsibility to do!

Response by SSG David Gallagher made Aug 7 at 2023 10:26 PM

SSG David Gallagher — Mon, 07 Aug 2023 22:26:26 -0400

Why would, or should for that matter, any service member feel bad for being thanked for their military service?? Drafted or enlisted, you served! For that, you should be proud! There is NOTHING to feel bad about for serving your country no matter what years you served during.

Response by SFC Floyd Ancheta made Aug 8 at 2023 7:54 PM

SFC Floyd Ancheta — Tue, 08 Aug 2023 19:54:58 -0400

To Serve is an honor. It doesn't matter what time frame or year.

Response by PO3 Robert Smith made Aug 8 at 2023 8:17 PM

PO3 Robert Smith — Tue, 08 Aug 2023 20:17:03 -0400

Its a saying that was used by the party of traitors to make them look more patriotic than others. Its not necessary. I served for various being patriotic at 17 when I entered boot camp wasn't at the top of the list. It was something I did feel good about.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 8 at 2023 8:27 PM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 08 Aug 2023 20:27:48 -0400

I think Honorable Military Service to our nation is worthy of both recognition and appreciation regardless of the period in which you served. Those persons who have closed with our enemies' face to face are special. They likely have physical and mental scars as a result. Of course, they deserve special recognition, mounds of appreciation, and all the support our country can provide. We know them as combat veterans.
I feel many people's recollection concerning the serious nature of The Cold War and the importance deterrence through strength played in bringing the conflict to an end are either forgotten or misunderstood. I wasn't shot at, however; I went overseas and was prepared to face a Soviet Enemy who I knew was training to kill me. I was a medic in an infantry battalion. I was prepared to defend my patient, myself, and my buddies. I cherish that period of my military career. Many times, a knock on my barracks door came with a shout of "Alert in Advance" and I responded immediately not knowing whether the balloon had gone up or not. We did our duty and that is what was asked of us. Few of our countrymen have volunteered to do that, so when someone says they appreciate your service I recommend accepting the complement.

Response by 1SG Harold Piet made Aug 8 at 2023 9:34 PM

1SG Harold Piet — Tue, 08 Aug 2023 21:34:35 -0400

No, I served from 75 to 95, I am proud of my service and thankful when others recognize that we sacrificed a bunch to do it. so I am appreciative when they say thanks for your service.

Response by MSgt Karl Hawes made Aug 8 at 2023 10:46 PM

MSgt Karl Hawes — Tue, 08 Aug 2023 22:46:46 -0400

I've never felt guilty because I served. I am proud of my service. When people say that to me, I reply "It was a honor to serve our country."

Response by SN J W made Aug 9 at 2023 12:46 AM

SN J W — Wed, 09 Aug 2023 00:46:01 -0400

I have people recognize the unit ball cap or shirts that I wear representing the Coast Guard cutters I served upon in the early 1970's, when they thanks me for my service. I never have a feeling of guilt or embarrassment. In fact I swell with pride! And my response to them is always, "It was my honor to serve."

Response by SFC Barbara Layman made Aug 9 at 2023 9:55 AM

SFC Barbara Layman — Wed, 09 Aug 2023 09:55:46 -0400

I don't feel guilty.
I do believe it has become more of a cliche than an honest sentiment so I'm not always confident in the sincerity of the speaker.

Response by SN Randy Toth made Aug 10 at 2023 8:39 AM

SN Randy Toth — Thu, 10 Aug 2023 08:39:53 -0400

I can't see where anyone would feel guilty. It took a different generation to realize they are thankful for all those who have served their nation, whether enlisting or getting drafted. When someone thanks me for my service, which are a lot of people working in stores or restaurants, I in return thank them for there service also.

Response by SP5 Bob Rudolph made Aug 10 at 2023 10:45 AM

SP5 Bob Rudolph — Thu, 10 Aug 2023 10:45:22 -0400

Once I figured out that the general public does not understand the difference someone who served in the Military, a Soldier, and someone who actually fought, a Combat Soldier, it stopped bothering me. I receive their “Thank Yous” in appreciation of all those that were awarded a CIB or CMB, all those who ate dust in a faraway place, all those that didn’t make it back. I politely acknowledge them. I was a draftee, 71H, E-5 stateside clerk, that’s all Uncle Sugar asked me to do and I did it.

Response by Cpl Lorne Moon made Aug 10 at 2023 12:03 PM

Cpl Lorne Moon — Thu, 10 Aug 2023 12:03:19 -0400

You shouldn’t feel guilty. You, like myself voluntarily enlisted when it was unpopular to do so unlike today. We volunteered to protect our great country from an apocalyptic disaster had anyone pushed “the button”.

Response by SGT Stephen Tuckier made Aug 10 at 2023 1:44 PM

SGT Stephen Tuckier — Thu, 10 Aug 2023 13:44:34 -0400

Not in any way. They say, "Thank you for your service", and I always respond, "It was my honor to serve". They did not say thank you for your combat service, or wartime service, just thank you for your service. I did not get to choose if/when war broke out, or if I would be mobilized to a combat zone, but I did voluntarily choose to serve knowing that was always a potential. There is no less honor in serving in the military without serving in combat or a war zone, but there is also a special distinction and honor that is reserved for those who have. This is not a concept that is lost on any veteran I have ever met or spoken to. I served, I would serve again, and I am forever changed and shaped by my time in the Army, and I am extremely proud of my service, my unit, and my friends and other veterans. It was my honor.

Response by MSgt Allen Chandler made Aug 10 at 2023 4:19 PM

MSgt Allen Chandler — Thu, 10 Aug 2023 16:19:06 -0400

Please, everybody, except that people were trying to be nice, and except that they are trying to be sincere. I served in the United States Air Force for 21 years. I served in Vietnam twice. As a crewmember on a C1 19 Gunship I survive a crash. On the other hand, I was never in army grunt so I’ve never been through the jungle week same thing for a marine did just want marines do in general. Anybody that was rude to me in 1970 Has to be somewhere in there 70s by now, so I assume that anybody under 70 says something nice to me just trying to be polite and appreciate the fact that I served.
If you served I say thank you for your service that’s no disrespect to those that got the congressional medal of honor or did something else that was just unbelievably heroic. America could use a little bit more politeness right now until someone says thank you for your service. I say thank you back are you welcome take care.

Response by SPC Stephen Hall made Aug 11 at 2023 1:50 AM

SPC Stephen Hall — Fri, 11 Aug 2023 01:50:03 -0400

1969, 1st Cav Airmobile. Many men didn't want to come home because we didn't feel welcomed. No one said welcome home or thanks. I was called a baby killer and chased around the Oakland Airport by a bunch of religious fanantics in orange jump suits! I've been trying to forget that ever since!!!

Response by Klieta Bagwell made Aug 11 at 2023 5:05 PM

Klieta Bagwell — Fri, 11 Aug 2023 17:05:16 -0400

My husband, who has passed on now, did a couple of tours in Vietnam. Even though that war was not popular with the general public, Frank was very proud of his service. His face would always light up when something "Thanked" him, though, he never brought it up and didn't wear the cap.

Response by Cpl Franz Buhlmann made Aug 11 at 2023 11:26 PM

Cpl Franz Buhlmann — Fri, 11 Aug 2023 23:26:33 -0400

What is there to feel guilty about?

Have you forgotten that the United States is the Peace Keeper of the World?

For the United States not to be involved in an Open Armed Conflict simply means that in some small part, We, who served were successful in doing our Primary Misson of Peace Keepers, in keeping global peace, at least to the point of not open armed conflict.

Maybe, instead of asking those who served in the 60s to the 80s, if we feel guilty. Perhaps, it would be more prudent to ask those that served at other times, if they feel guilty of not being able to follow in our footsteps.

Have you ever asked yourselves, what you may have been lacking that may have hindered you in Keeping the Peace in a truly peaceful manner? Was it bad leadership or bad training? Or, perhaps there may have been another deficiency that prevented you from being peaceful!

We must never forget the fact that it is very easy to fight, after all, it comes naturally to all of us. It is the act of avoiding fighting that is extremely difficult because we must be able to subdue the beast in each one of us first before we can do it in others!

Response by Maj William Dozier made Aug 11 at 2023 11:30 PM

Maj William Dozier — Fri, 11 Aug 2023 23:30:10 -0400

Served 72-92. I tell them serving was a privilege and thank you.

Response by SSgt Edmond Gaudelli made Aug 12 at 2023 2:19 PM

SSgt Edmond Gaudelli — Sat, 12 Aug 2023 14:19:57 -0400

No. I served from 1985 to 1993 in the Reserves. I was deployed in theater for Operations Desert Shield and Storm, however. Even if I had not deployed though, I still wear a "Cold War Veteran" t-shirt to remind me what was happening then and how we acted as a deterrent.

Response by SPC Matt Ovaska made Aug 13 at 2023 6:39 AM

SPC Matt Ovaska — Sun, 13 Aug 2023 06:39:41 -0400

Six of us, Vietnam vets, were enrolled at Palm Beach Jr. College on the GI Bill. About the 3rd week, we were called to the the office. The lady said, "The VA is no longer paying for your education. Get the hell off my campus!"
I went to the court house in Malone, NY, to the VA office . I needed the forms to fill out for a property tax break for vets that served in combat. The Army E-6 asked me where I had served. I replied, "Vietnam" He said. "Get the hell out of here. You don't deserve a tax break."
I went to the employment office and was helped by Army vet. I asked him not to mention my Vietnam service. He said, "No. If I did, you wouldn't get hired."
Now the same liberal folks are thanking me for being a baby killer. It's just politically correct.
As we Vietnam vets used to say the phrase, "It don't mean nothin" and go about our business.
P.S. We never killed any babies...

Response by Maj Wanda Whitney made Aug 13 at 2023 9:08 PM

Maj Wanda Whitney — Sun, 13 Aug 2023 21:08:53 -0400

No, I don't feel guilty because they are saying thanks for being in the military. It's not just if you had fought. You were part of the whole, doing what you were told to do and going where you were told to go. If you weren't doing your job, they couldn't do theirs.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 14 at 2023 7:04 AM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 14 Aug 2023 07:04:51 -0400

Your service prevented the triumph of International Communism. In the long run that is probably more important than "trigger pulling".

Response by SGT Greg G Gagner made Aug 24 at 2023 4:31 PM

SGT Greg G Gagner — Thu, 24 Aug 2023 16:31:23 -0400

Serving from 1976-1994 in the U.S. Army, and I am proud of my service. When someone says thank you for your service, I usually say no problem.

Response by PO1 Terry Scott made Aug 24 at 2023 11:01 PM

PO1 Terry Scott — Thu, 24 Aug 2023 23:01:50 -0400

I say thanks, have you paid attention to how your elected representatives have been voting? Who can screw with your life more? Your favorite sports team or you government officials? How about paying a little attention. If I get one out of a hundred we’re ahead. I also tell them jr. enlisted qualify for food stamps. Then their eyes lite up.

Response by LCpl Jody Blaha made Aug 25 at 2023 12:20 AM

LCpl Jody Blaha — Fri, 25 Aug 2023 00:20:16 -0400

Yes sir, I feel like that should be reserved for our brothers and sisters in Arlington or other national cemeteries.

Response by SPC Jerry Marrs made Aug 25 at 2023 12:42 AM

SPC Jerry Marrs — Fri, 25 Aug 2023 00:42:48 -0400

I served around that time 79-82. There wasn't a war at that time so the retards that called you that was probably Liberals

Response by PO3 Thomas Keeley made Aug 25 at 2023 12:16 PM

PO3 Thomas Keeley — Fri, 25 Aug 2023 12:16:02 -0400

Great responses, I served ‘77 to ‘81. We were told that we could not display the National Defense Ribbon for reasons I really don’t remember. I’m planning a shadow box for my grandkids. Would it be wrong to display a NDR there?

Response by SFC Edward Bell made Sep 10 at 2023 10:47 PM

SFC Edward Bell — Sun, 10 Sep 2023 22:47:42 -0400

I was in from ‘65-‘85 and I never heard it and would prefer not to….

Response by PO3 Michael MacKay made Sep 11 at 2023 1:14 PM

PO3 Michael MacKay — Mon, 11 Sep 2023 13:14:30 -0400

Not at all. I thank them for giving me a reason to serve...there is no Sheepdog life without someone to protect.

Response by MAJ Louis Giamo made Sep 17 at 2023 11:18 AM

MAJ Louis Giamo — Sun, 17 Sep 2023 11:18:46 -0400

This is probably on of the most stupid questions I have seen here. I served from 1977-97. 2nd ID Korea, 82d Abn, SF, 28th Inf Div. PA Nat'l Guard. When on AD I was stationed on the DMZ twice and we ran combat patrols. When in SF we did training missions with allied partners and some other stuff.
Everything we did contributed to the safety and stability of the US. Just because there was no major conflict during those years (well, Grenada, Panama, Kuwait), doesn't mean our service was any the less. It's because of our service that others were deterred from starting a major conflict. So when someone says thank you for your service to me, I acknowledge it and say thank you back.

Response by SrA Lawrence Baiocco made Sep 21 at 2023 11:05 PM

SrA Lawrence Baiocco — Thu, 21 Sep 2023 23:05:13 -0400

I served 4 years. 68-71. No combat. I feel I’m being thanked for my time spent in the military, not for what I did or where I was. ANYONE who served should feel the same way.

Response by MAJ Jay Callahalm made Sep 25 at 2023 6:06 AM

MAJ Jay Callahalm — Mon, 25 Sep 2023 06:06:02 -0400

I served from '71-96. I also remember being spat at while wearing the uniform during the '70s. The vast majority of my time was in the National Guard and Reserves. I served "during" the Vietnam War, but never deployed. I was there, ready, willing, able. I was in a combat branch (Armor/CAV) by choice. When Desert Shield/Storm went down - I couldn't have been further away from it - on the staff of the Army Command and General Staff College at Leavenworth. So - - mostly a "cold warrior" - - and mostly a "citizen soldier" - - "part-timer" - - "weekend warrior" at that.

Yes, I do feel like I was "less" of a soldier than those who actually saw combat, but I still signed that blank check - "up to and including my life" to the nation, so I feel like I've earned the title "veteran," though I'm always a bit sheepish about it. I accept it gracefully when someone thanks me for my service, because I DID SERVE! I don't feel guilty about picking up a free meal on Veteran's Day, or getting a jump on airplane boarding when they let active military and veterans board early. I proudly wear my American Legion cap.

NOW - where SHOULD the line be drawn? I have friends who are combat vets of Vietnam, Panama, Grenada, Desert Sheld/Storm, OIF, OEF, Kosovo, and in various places in Africa that we'd know nothing about if not for "Blackhawk Down." They certainly earned the title "veteran." I have a good friend who served during the same era as I, full-time Regular Army, Air Defense Artillery, retired as a full Colonel. HE spent most of that time stateside and in Europe (where he earned four advanced degrees paid for by Uncle Sam). He never saw combat, never deployed to a war zone, but was there, ready, willing, able. He double - dipped at the Pentagon as a civilian specialist after his Army retirement. He's comfortable. He's also a veteran!

I had another friend, who passed away couple of years ago, who DID go to Vietnam. Served "in country" and was Infantry Branch. Thing is, when he got off of the plane at the Replacement Depot in Vietnam, someone found out that he could type - - - so they grabbed him and he spent his entire tour of duty in a clerical job at Vung Tao! (THE biggest R&R center in 'Nam. It and China Beach were the two places in Vietnam where the troops WANTED to be). As a Spec 4, he had a maid! He had a wonderful time "in theater" and only heard shots fired one time when a VC snuck through the wire and stole an M-60 machine gun from a watch post that some knuckleheads had left unoccupied while going to the latrine - - - and got away with it! He was Infantry, but not considered as "in combat" so did not receive a CIB, but he was in theater during a guerilla war where there was no "front" to consider. Nine million of us served during the Vietnam era. Only about two million served "in country," and only a fraction of them actually saw combat. So, where do we draw the line? Yeah, like SPC Zacke, I feel like I'm less of a veteran than thos who served under fire, but, we're still veterans.

Response by PO1 A Mitchell made Oct 7 at 2023 9:08 PM

PO1 A Mitchell — Sat, 07 Oct 2023 21:08:47 -0400

I say “It was my honor and I would do it again. Thank you.”

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 9 at 2023 12:00 PM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 09 Oct 2023 12:00:30 -0400

I served’65-‘85. I don’t feel guilty at all. I answer ‘ I was proud to serve!’

Response by CWO4 Tim Hecht made Oct 14 at 2023 5:05 PM

CWO4 Tim Hecht — Sat, 14 Oct 2023 17:05:31 -0400

I enlisted in the Navy in 1970; released from active duty in 1974; then joined the Coast Guard in 1975 retiring in 2001.

Why would I feel guilty about being thanked for my service? Of all the “questions” asked here on Rallypoint I think that is one of the dumbest questions asked.

I served, did my job, and made personal sacrifices like many others did. The closest I came to actual combat was when there was a credible threat to an aircraft carrier that the NVA were sending a squadron of MiGs out to sink it. We were that carrier; and the safeguards in place kept the enemy planes away from us.

When someone says “Thank you for your service” they don’t qualify it by asking when or where I served. I either say thank you or you’re welcome.

Response by MAJ Steve Daugherty made Oct 21 at 2023 11:27 PM

MAJ Steve Daugherty — Sat, 21 Oct 2023 23:27:29 -0400

I don’t feel bad at all. I got to be called “baby killer and get spit on when I enlisted in 1971. Everyone was still pretty much going to Vietnam at the time I entered, my family divided my stuff up as I guess they didn’t figure I would be coming back. The draft was still going on but they started the all volunteer army shortly after I enlisted. I was a good soldier and got tagged for leadership schools and special training so I made rank fairly quickly, which isn’t unusual for wartime. By the time I finished NCO school at FLW they were starting the Vietnamization program and only 2 of my class went to Vietnam and the rest of us got sent to Germany. We still were our country’s line of defense and when tensions flared in the world such as the 1973 Arab-Israel war we were alerted packed up, equipment ready to be loaded on planes. When the Meinhof gang of terrorists were plaguing Germany,we guarded the ammo dump with the guards having 3 rounds of ammo wrapped in plastic as Sgt of the guard I had a .45, but really? Against terrorists with sub machine guns? We would have been better off in SE Asia where at least they trusted you with a loaded weapon to protect yourself. Our morale wasn’t the greatest and a lot of guys just got into dope and loud music. But we did serve and those who have served their country in our population are in the minority. When we meet another veteran, we usually automatically have a connection, no matter the era they served. I have no regrets and am proud of my service but also grateful if the blessings the experience was to me as the Army allowed me to further my education through the GI bill and then theHPSP program that allowed me to earn my doctorate. Which this High School dropout would probably have not accomplished without my Uncle Sam. Stand up be proud but appreciative and say thanks when they thank you for your service as the citizens of our country should be thankful for those who selflessly stand as a wall between them and those who would do them harm.

Response by PVT Ron Tebo made Oct 23 at 2023 10:21 AM

PVT Ron Tebo — Mon, 23 Oct 2023 10:21:10 -0400

You took an oath and wore dog tags--you earned the phrase.

Response by SP5 Michael Lewis made Oct 23 at 2023 12:12 PM

SP5 Michael Lewis — Mon, 23 Oct 2023 12:12:52 -0400

I don't feel guilty. I just think that it is their way of thanking me for keeping AMERICA safe. I just say your welcome! People are putting too much into it. Over thinking! By them thanking you for your service is exactly what it means. It does not take anything from our combat comrades. I know a lot of them were called many things upon returning from certain wars. Who knows, this may be their way of apologizing for the unkind words. It is just like someone thanking you for helping them with anything they need, or maybe opening a door for them. Picking something up for them. etc. etc.

Response by SPC Juanita Anderson made Oct 24 at 2023 8:26 PM

SPC Juanita Anderson — Tue, 24 Oct 2023 20:26:41 -0400

Look just stop and think. Just because you think you were not important because you did not make it to war you’re wrong. I remember the Berlin Wall coming down Jimmy carter screw up. Or how about the North Korean General who snuck across the DMZ in the dark. And use that were station at Korea we’re standing in ditches waiting for the possibility of that war starting up. We during that was holding the gap protecting the American people.

SO thank you for your service

Response by SPC Thomas Kosakowskii made Oct 25 at 2023 6:08 AM

SPC Thomas Kosakowskii — Wed, 25 Oct 2023 06:08:19 -0400

i served 74-77, i always feel a little uncomfortable when some one says that. i was not a combat veteran, and i would never take away any respect for those who did.

Response by SP5 David Moss made Oct 25 at 2023 12:19 PM

SP5 David Moss — Wed, 25 Oct 2023 12:19:10 -0400

I think there was a severe guilt factor (especially amongst liberal "anti-war" types) that somehow changed their hateful views on us who served. Most, I think, mean what they say as being respectful to those of us who have served. My only reaction is to say, "it was my honor" and leave it at that.

Response by SFC Terry Bryant made Oct 26 at 2023 11:39 AM

SFC Terry Bryant — Thu, 26 Oct 2023 11:39:05 -0400

How long do you have to serve in order to give your life for what you love. 90 days? 30 years? Every day of your service whether it be a few years or a few decades has the overwhelming chance of seeing you deployed to war. No matter the theater of operations. So when someone says to you, “thank you for your service” it is because you earned that thank you.

Response by PO2 Richard Hibben made Oct 26 at 2023 8:26 PM

PO2 Richard Hibben — Thu, 26 Oct 2023 20:26:29 -0400

I do feel guilty. I served 1982-1987. Most of my friends are wartime vets that served in Korea, Viet Nam, Iraq, Afghanistan. God bless my buddies/brothers and sisters.

Response by CN Carl Baumann made Oct 27 at 2023 11:57 AM

CN Carl Baumann — Fri, 27 Oct 2023 11:57:59 -0400

I do, yes. As a cold warrior, I feel like I didn't do much. I think those who gave their lives and/or were wounded deserve our thanks, not me.

Response by Brig Gen Joe Callahan made Oct 27 at 2023 4:19 PM

Brig Gen Joe Callahan — Fri, 27 Oct 2023 16:19:53 -0400

Never. You either served or you didn’t. I don’t care what you did or how long you were in, you are a vet. You did your years. You deserve to be thanked.

Response by SPC William Szkromiuk made Oct 28 at 2023 12:48 AM

SPC William Szkromiuk — Sat, 28 Oct 2023 00:48:26 -0400

The only reason a Veteran gets "thank you for your Service". Is because you are broadcasting it in some manner. T-shirt, cap, license plate, etc. And that is fine I do it fairly often. I don't understand why some Vets feel embarrassed or even angry. The intent of the individual thanking you is honest and respectful in most cases. If you don't care for it. That's fine. Don't advertise it. Simple.
I reply with " thank you, I appreciate it"

Response by SN Shirley Symon made Oct 28 at 2023 10:52 AM

SN Shirley Symon — Sat, 28 Oct 2023 10:52:43 -0400

Here's my feelings. I am both a veteran and a former EMT and until 9/11 we didn't receive recognition for either. Even Desert Storm (my brother) didn't seem to get the recognition/dinners/discounts etc that 9/11 veterans are getting. And don't even go there with the comparisons between Vietnam and the 9/11 conflicts because that is a different post but it is out there in my circles.

Response by SGM Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 28 at 2023 11:52 AM

SGM Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 28 Oct 2023 11:52:59 -0400

I assume they are actually thanking those who aren't alive today to hear those words. My response:

On behalf of those who gave more than I did, you're welcome.

Response by SGT Rick Bell made Oct 28 at 2023 12:48 PM

SGT Rick Bell — Sat, 28 Oct 2023 12:48:56 -0400

Some people forget we had the Iran hostage rescue in 79, Grenada, Panama, terrorists in Europe trying to kill us in Germany and I'm sure several other encounters during this time only select people know about. I signed the line, severed the time honorably, served in the guard and reserves in case my Country needed me. I wish I had done more. I am in awe of those who served in tougher times. Especially when our Country treated them so badly. I entered in 77 and people was still bothering anyone in uniform. All Veterans deserve better, maybe someday everyone will get the thanks everyone who served deserves.

Response by CPL Michael Stone made Oct 28 at 2023 2:30 PM

CPL Michael Stone — Sat, 28 Oct 2023 14:30:30 -0400

That statement makes zero sense unless you've forgotten about a conflict America had during that time period.

Response by SSG Frank Bova made Oct 29 at 2023 1:17 AM

SSG Frank Bova — Sun, 29 Oct 2023 01:17:34 -0400

I feel proud that I served. The politicians should feel guilty

Response by 1SG James Kelly made Oct 29 at 2023 2:02 PM

1SG James Kelly — Sun, 29 Oct 2023 14:02:17 -0400

65 - 88
No.
No one should.

Response by PO3 James Polichak made Oct 29 at 2023 8:56 PM

PO3 James Polichak — Sun, 29 Oct 2023 20:56:03 -0400

I served a bit before you - the Ford years. I was never called "baby killer" or anything similar. I was on campus from 1968 through 1971. The real anger wasn't at the war.
It was at the draft! Almost any young man could be plucked out of his life and dropped into the jungle to fight.
I was a very active Republican who supported Nixon in large part because he promised to end the draft. He, also, had a plan to end the war which Congress wouldn't allow him to enact. The plan was to arm villagers all over South Vietnam and tell them to defend themselves against the Viet Cong, the PAVN, the ARVN, or anyone else who tried to attack or conquer them.
I watched the helicopters evacuating Saigon in my office at the NTC/RTC/ORL/FLA on a small portable TV on my Chief's desk.
Decades later after my back went out and I could work or drive anymore I spent most of a year at The Veterans Place in Yaphank, NY. There were were very glad for all the people and organizations who thanked us for our service,

Response by LTC George Morgan made Oct 29 at 2023 10:28 PM

LTC George Morgan — Sun, 29 Oct 2023 22:28:08 -0400

Not in the least, when people say that to me I simply say "Thank you," and wonder if they are part of the 96% of people who have never served, and whether or not they are saying it out of guilt. This being said, there are many people who say it with sincerity.

When my wife and I went to Normandy. and visited the US Graves, at one I saw a single Rose that had fallen over, so I put it back straight. An elderly French lady asked me if it was a relative, "No Madam, I simply wanted to put it straight," she replied, "I lived in Bayuex during the landings, and I return every year to say thank you for releasing us from the grip of the Germans." The lady was 83, and now lived in Paris." Sadly, she is one of the few who show such respect in France.

Response by CSM William Payne made Oct 29 at 2023 10:40 PM

CSM William Payne — Sun, 29 Oct 2023 22:40:36 -0400

I served from 1973 - 2014. I witnessed how people’s opinion of the military had changed considerably over the years. Definitely better now than during the 70s. When somebody tells me thank you for your service, I simply say it was an honor and a privilege to serve. Wish I still serving today.

Response by MSgt Harry Campbell made Oct 30 at 2023 12:24 PM

MSgt Harry Campbell — Mon, 30 Oct 2023 12:24:44 -0400

Currently when I hear thank you for your service and as a patriot I respond...honored. I know there were some wrong things done over there in Vietnam. I was not part of it. I did my job and served served honorbably. When I returned from Vietnam I was confused and I wanted I wanted someone to say Thank you for your service...It was needed then.

Response by LCpl Craig A. Charbonneau made Nov 20 at 2023 1:13 PM

LCpl Craig A. Charbonneau — Mon, 20 Nov 2023 13:13:58 -0500

I served during the Cold War Period. Because of OPSEC I cannot say what I was involved in. I will say this, “ everything was clandestine “ !! When someone says thank you for your service, I reply, “ it was my honor to serve “, and go about my day.

Response by SSG Donald Kuhns made Nov 22 at 2023 10:38 AM

SSG Donald Kuhns — Wed, 22 Nov 2023 10:38:16 -0500

I served from 1978 through 2001, it's not comfortable. I tend to just say thank you but it was just a job, some had to do it.

Response by Sgt Ken Crouse made Dec 9 at 2023 9:32 AM

Sgt Ken Crouse — Sat, 09 Dec 2023 09:32:41 -0500

Why would I feel guilty? Not at all, even though the first time I heard someone say that was a couple of decades after I left active duty. It's not something I seek out (I don't wear a USMC ball cap or other USMC logo'd clothing unless hanging out with other Marines). I'm humbled when the person saying it has a Vietnamese heritage and then I ask how they came to America - often hearing stories of their family's escape during Operation Frequent Wind.

Response by Sgt Paul Rehman made Dec 9 at 2023 5:30 PM

Sgt Paul Rehman — Sat, 09 Dec 2023 17:30:01 -0500

I don’t feel guilty, we all contributed our time and talents and stood ready to respond whenever called upon. However those of us who sacrificed more deserve a greater share of the thanks…

Response by CPO Kurt Baschab made Dec 9 at 2023 10:23 PM

CPO Kurt Baschab — Sat, 09 Dec 2023 22:23:16 -0500

Why should you feel guilty for your time in service?
you do Realize after WWII ,
less than 7% of American population at any one time has stood up to protect and serve this great nation.
Anyone who served should be proud of your time in service ,
especially those who served during and after the Vietnam war, & though the 1970-1982

this was one of the united states Military service member low point,
we had elected leaders like Ford, Jimmy Carter, Ted Kenny , Sen Kerry , etc going out of there way to defund & destroying the Miliary service .

service member morale were very low.

this was due to the piss poor leadership of the united states gov,

the elected leaders refused to allow the Gen to win the Vietnam war,
due to pollical pressure from the news media and democratic supporters,
if Nixon had continue his bombing campaign of north Vietnam, the north would have surrendered,

we lost so many service member lives, not to mention the 8 service members that jimmy carter killed when he sent the military service member out to rescue the 52 American hostages, all because Jimmy carter and the Dem party supported the Islamic Terrorist take over of Iran, instead of supporting the Monarchy of Iran, that was Allied with America, thanks to carter we been at war with Islamic Terrorist for over 50 plus years. think about that,

after Jimmy Carter, Dem Party & the American news media supported & cheered on the Islamic Terrorist taking over Iran, they were shocked and surprise the terrorist turn on America and seized 52 American hostages.

Jimmy carter and the Dem party supported the Iran terrorist, Jimmy carter not only failed to prevent the take over of Iran by Islamic Terrorist, he encouraged and supported the removal of the Iranian Monarchy,

think about this, if not for he failed policy's of carter and every single elected dem, we would most likely would not be at war with Islamic Terrorist, Jimmy Carter & the pollical policy's of the Dem party is most likely why we are at war today, with Islamic Terrorist.

I also blame Regan,
he sunk and destroyed the Iran navy and air force, he should have not stopped the attack, till the Islamic leadership was destroyed.
I also blame GW Bush Senior, for not taking the leading state sponsor of terrorisms out during the 1st, & 2nd gulf war.

I also blame BUSH Jr , Obama & Trump, each had a chance to destroy the leading state sponsor of terrorism , yet they all refused ,
the question is WHY?

back to the 1970-1980 Jimmy carter and the Dem party refusal to support and fund the US Military, This Lack of Funding and support for the us miliary, lead to the failure of the attempted rescue mission of the American Hostages.

the rescue mission failed, due to the lack of funds the US Military needed to be able to keep up on Maintenance & Training of service members

this is why we lost 8 or more good service members , it was all due to jimmy carter & the Dem party refusal to pass a proper budget for the defense of this country and her citizens, sadly nothing has changed for the Dem party, they still support & Funds IRAN TERRORISM , THE leading nation of state sponsored TERRORISM!
it is not the service member fault ,
IT IS BECAUSE OF the piss poor leadership, that the Americana people elect.

SADLY FOR THE VERY FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE, I DO NOT BELIVE THE AMERICAN PEOPLE ELECTED LYING BIDEN !

Response by LTC David Stark made Dec 10 at 2023 9:37 AM

LTC David Stark — Sun, 10 Dec 2023 09:37:05 -0500

Why should I feel guilty about being thanked for my service (Active Duty 1975 - 1985, Reserves 1985 - 2003) when there are so many who did NOT serve in any way?

Response by Sgt David Branham made Dec 10 at 2023 1:16 PM

Sgt David Branham — Sun, 10 Dec 2023 13:16:50 -0500

I served my country as it deemed appropriate

Response by SP6 Roger Zabkie made Dec 10 at 2023 3:29 PM

SP6 Roger Zabkie — Sun, 10 Dec 2023 15:29:16 -0500

My reaction is "I didn't do it for you," but my wife says that's rude. Nevertheless it seems patronizing to me.

Response by SSG Steven Gotz made Dec 10 at 2023 6:55 PM

SSG Steven Gotz — Sun, 10 Dec 2023 18:55:04 -0500

It bothered me when it first started, but I got used to it. I served from 1978 to 1985 and never went anywhere near a war zone. I might have if the Iran Hostage crisis had started a real war but Reagan getting elected took care of that.

It felt odd. Sure. But I signed the same paper that the grunts in Vietnam and the Middle East did. It wasn't like I would not have gone if sent over there. I just wasn't needed. So if they want to say thanks, so be it. I am gracious about it.

Response by SP5 Bill Merritt made Dec 10 at 2023 9:59 PM

SP5 Bill Merritt — Sun, 10 Dec 2023 21:59:22 -0500

Makes me feel a bit silly being thanked by somebody who wasn't there and doesn't really know what they're thanking me for. I try to take it in context and respond appropriately, usually with: "and thank YOU for your discount."

Response by Sgt Ricardo Galindo made Dec 11 at 2023 1:50 AM

Sgt Ricardo Galindo — Mon, 11 Dec 2023 01:50:39 -0500

I served from 1963 to 1969, 2 campaigns in Vietnam + Okinawa+TDY Taiwan, Thailand and Philippines in getting supplies and equip to troops in support of Vietnam War. Long day's and nights 7-days a week including out in Monsoons, Humidity and WET as a fish... People of yesterday ignored the Uniform; People of Today show gratitude .. I respond with a 'Thank you as well' ... No guilt here . . I earned the recognition. Left photo DaNang AB C-47's Puff Magic Dragons in background . photos on right loading up for flight to CamRanh Bay

Response by LTC Patrick Turner made Dec 11 at 2023 9:02 AM

LTC Patrick Turner — Mon, 11 Dec 2023 09:02:51 -0500

Never think that. Please! This is a different country in many respects. I always answer: “I’m reliably informed that you were worth the service”. That always brings a smile of reciprocation.

Response by CDR Carl Sullivan made Dec 11 at 2023 9:05 AM

CDR Carl Sullivan — Mon, 11 Dec 2023 09:05:12 -0500

I served from 1982 to 2013, so did several "eras" there. Why anyone who raised their hand willingly to defend America with their life feels guilty about their service is beyond me. Whether you did 6 months, 6 years or 31 years, be proud of the offering that you made to this country, whatever that was. There will forever be someone seemingly more of a hero than you (good luck matching the heroes who stormed Pickett's Charge, Normandy or Iwo Jima from anyone in modern times); accept your offering, be proud of yourself, and most importantly continue to honor your pledge to defend our country to the end--she will need you again.

Response by Sgt Robert H Renteria made Dec 11 at 2023 9:56 AM

Sgt Robert H Renteria — Mon, 11 Dec 2023 09:56:50 -0500

I feel every one that served should be proud of having served.
I think because our nation has stood strong at all times is why we had no war.
Since we served during this time, we were part of the reason we had a peaceful coexistence.
I myself served in Air Force 1962-1966
I was stationed in Kunsan, Korea at the end of of the Armistice with North Korea and were out out on alert because we didn’t know how peace would be affected with North Korea. Forces were built up, even Marines were brought in and stationed around our base dut this time
Also at the time President Kennedy was assassinated, we were out in full alert again
I never saw any action but I’m proud to say I was ready to serve and defend our country
Salute to those if you that saw action and a slow salute to all our fallen troops
I’m proud to call you all, Brothers and Sisters in arms

Response by CPO Scott Langhoff made Dec 11 at 2023 5:52 PM

CPO Scott Langhoff — Mon, 11 Dec 2023 17:52:00 -0500

No, if it wasn’t for us, you wouldn’t be here…

Response by PO1 Robbie Bell made Dec 11 at 2023 9:43 PM

PO1 Robbie Bell — Mon, 11 Dec 2023 21:43:31 -0500

Why would ANY veteran from ANY era feel guilty about being thanked for putting our butts on the line? Anyone in the military has the chance, on any given day to lose their life in service to their country. I can only assume this stupid question in a.troll attempt and ask the administrator to remove your dumb enverified veteran ass from the system.

Response by SPC Randy Torgerson made Dec 12 at 2023 11:31 AM

SPC Randy Torgerson — Tue, 12 Dec 2023 11:31:43 -0500

I served in the 1980's, and no I don't feel guilty. Why would I? Nobody should feel guilty if you served.

Response by CPO George Disbrow made Dec 13 at 2023 11:29 AM

CPO George Disbrow — Wed, 13 Dec 2023 11:29:49 -0500

No . Have also been asked 2 serious questions after that. 1} Do you miss the service life, 2} Would you go back to it if offered the chance . My replies are automatic 1} Everyday 2} In a heartbeat ..

Response by SPC Jeremy A made Dec 15 at 2023 6:38 PM

SPC Jeremy A — Fri, 15 Dec 2023 18:38:34 -0500

I wrote a blank check to the United States of America payable up to and including my very life. I consider myself fortunate to have never been called to serve in a live fire environment but that fact DOES NOT mean I wasn't willing to. We went through basic training, AIT, permanent party and separated with honorable discharges. I say 'Thank You, pass it along to one of these younger guys as they could use the encouragement.' and get on with my day.

Response by MSgt Joe Marcom made Dec 19 at 2023 7:34 PM

MSgt Joe Marcom — Tue, 19 Dec 2023 19:34:40 -0500

" They also serve who stand around and wait". I console myself with that reminder . I was Army 56-58, 62, then AFRES 64-94, with 4 years active duty 73-77. I volunteered for active duty during Desert Storm, but wasn't chosen. Six months after my mandatory retirement, my squadron was called up for service to support Operation Deny Flight. I did what I could for as long as I could.

Response by SGT Bill Braniff made Dec 24 at 2023 11:45 AM

SGT Bill Braniff — Sun, 24 Dec 2023 11:45:49 -0500

I got to Vietnam 9 days before Tet68 to the 25 th ID as a grunt.
Today when folks thank me for my service, I bite my tongue and say thank you. Inside I detest America for our treatment. I wasn’t spit on etc, as a lot of that is BS but America overall detested us. I will not forgive them. I came back on a hospital plane and wasn’t met at the airport occupied by VN protesters. America of that era you should be ashamed.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 27 at 2023 3:24 AM

COL Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 27 Dec 2023 03:24:01 -0500

I don't. I have found most often it makes me tear up a bit. I stop what I am doing, face them and give just give them a smile as best I can. Most don't know what a generalized "thank you" such as that means. I'm glad they don't know, and I pray to God they never do.

Army 1975-2020
E1-E6, O1-O6

Response by PO2 Mike Keyes made Dec 29 at 2023 10:39 AM

PO2 Mike Keyes — Fri, 29 Dec 2023 10:39:16 -0500

Why would I feel guilty? I spent over a year of my life underwater and away from family and friends. I spent more time training for that. I spent countless hours standing on a steel deck in the Georgia, South Carolina and Cuban sun guarding nuclear weapons, days in full NBC gear, stood watch in all weather and at all hours. I should feel guilty for doing my job and it worked?

Response by SPC Edward Logan made Dec 29 at 2023 10:36 PM

SPC Edward Logan — Fri, 29 Dec 2023 22:36:42 -0500

I always say I never left the US and I never heard a shit fired in anger, but thank you. I recall the scorn and disrespect you got in Class A, dress uniform. I am so happy the guys from the 9/11 service are getting their due

Response by SSG Roger Ayscue made Dec 31 at 2023 1:44 AM

SSG Roger Ayscue — Sun, 31 Dec 2023 01:44:01 -0500

You are part of the less than 1% of the American population that enlisted. You raised your hand, went where you were told to go, served with honor and got discharged. God smiled upon you and the nation and you did not have to see active combat.
No do not feel that way. You are a veteran and you should just smile back and say thank you, it is good work if you can get it.

Response by CPO James Barnhart made Dec 31 at 2023 3:33 PM

CPO James Barnhart — Sun, 31 Dec 2023 15:33:48 -0500

No, I feel proud to have served our country.

Response by SGT Danny Halverson made Dec 31 at 2023 5:35 PM

SGT Danny Halverson — Sun, 31 Dec 2023 17:35:06 -0500

Thank you for your service. I served from 1970 - 1978 and from 1981 - 1984. I volunteered to go to Viet Nam three times and was turned down three times. I did not serve in any war. When someone tells me, Thank You For Your Service, I say "thank you it was my pleasure." I was mocked and scolded, called baby killers, scum and other vial things in airports and other areas in the early 70's. That's just the way some people thought back then. It's different now. Most people understand what we soldiers, airmen, and navy personnel do for this great country and they appreciate what we did and do today.

Response by SPC Stuart Bispo made Dec 31 at 2023 10:07 PM

SPC Stuart Bispo — Sun, 31 Dec 2023 22:07:00 -0500

Better late then never...
The answer is no, accept the Thank You for all those who can't. If deployed when you were active, you would have went and served your country with honor. You were ready, you were blessed not to have been deployed. Ask anyone who has.

Response by SGT John Overby made Jan 10 at 2024 12:27 PM

SGT John Overby — Wed, 10 Jan 2024 12:27:35 -0500

Why feel guilty when you never know what can happen in this crazy world at any time and any where. You were in the service to respond as needed. You served your country. You do not have to be a combat vet to have served your country.

Response by PVT Mark Campbell made Jan 21 at 2024 7:16 AM

PVT Mark Campbell — Sun, 21 Jan 2024 07:16:08 -0500

I graduated high school in June 1975, got married, and entered the Marines at MCRD San Diego on August 29, 1975. I was in for 3 months and 4 days, then kicked out on a medical. I have epilepsy. My recruiter knew about it, but we gave it a shot. I even had orders for radio school at Twentynine Palms. Breaks my heart to this day.
I went home, built a life, retired at the end of 2017, lake place all paid for & such. Then one day a new friend and his wife were over. He is a Viet Nam vet, USAF RED HORSE. So I showed him my discharge papers, DD-214 & so forth. I told him I wanted someone from this area to lay eyes on it, so somebody here knows that when I talk about what I call my "illustrious military career" actually happened. My credibility is very important to me, and there are people who say they were in the military when they were not. My friend looked at the papers and said "I need to get you in touch with my VA lady." I replied that they told me in 1975 that I had to have at least 6 months service to get any benefits. He said that he thought they had changed that. Fast forward a few weeks, boy was he right!!!! I got a call one day from a nice lady who said her name is Ebony, and she was calling from the Department of Veteran's Affairs. Then she paused, and then said "I'm calling to inform you", then she paused again. At this point I'm thinking OMG I'm being drafted!!! Then she continued "that you are eligible for VA Healthcare." All I could say was "Oh my God!!!" That was about 2 years ago. Fast forward to last month. After many tests & such, I had a laminectomy, where they took bone out of my back to relieve pressure on the nerves. I rec'd yet another Explanation of Benefits the other day, one of many. This one is for the largest amount I have seen yet, over $50G. But they all end the same way. "Veteran Responsibility 0.00". And every time I read that it brings tears to my eyes, and I hope it always will. I have quit bitching about taxes.
I come from a military family. My Dad & 2 Uncles fought in Korea. Dad was a forward observer. One day a buddy came up and asked him if he had a brother named Forrie. Turns out my Uncle Forrie, who I grew up working for in his excavating outfit, had picked up with the artillery unit. Dad would go find the bad guys & call his brother to tell him where to shoot. My Uncle Dar was in mop-up operations. They SERVED. Most of you out there SERVED. My father-in-law was a tail gunner in a B-17, flew 31 missions over Europe because they needed men. Then he wanted to go to the Pacific to fly a B-29 because they were heated and pressurized. The major told him he had done enough. I guess so. I flew out to San Diego, lost 30 pounds, gained a LOT of experience, got paid for my time & flew home. Now folks thank me & call me vet and the VA takes care of my healthcare and pay me 20% disability for hearing loss and tinnitis. 20% disability includes veterans who were POW's or awarded the Purple Heart. And me.
I have been told, so far, by every single veteran I have told my story to that I need to realize that I enlisted. I signed my name on the line, as my friend who got me hooked up with the VA said. Then he added "And the Marines, what the hell were you thinking!!!!!" And I still wish they'd have kept me, go figure. I do like to think that the Marines realized that they should have kept me and are trying to make it up to me through the VA. Okay, probably not, but it's a nice thought.
That's my story. It doesn't compare to those of others, but it's all I got!!!!
Semper Fi, Mark Campbell

Response by PO3 Michael Smith made Jan 21 at 2024 12:59 PM

PO3 Michael Smith — Sun, 21 Jan 2024 12:59:09 -0500

You are not stealing anyone's thunder, we all served the people of this great nation and we were volunteers not inducted into military service. I served from 75-80 during a very volatile time as you did, the cold war and what was worse was our commander in chief. I tell people when they thank me for my service you are welcome and you were worth it. Try it some time.

Response by 1SG Brian Adams made Jan 21 at 2024 8:54 PM

1SG Brian Adams — Sun, 21 Jan 2024 20:54:10 -0500

Never, neither should you ...!!

Response by MGySgt Samuel Steen made Jan 21 at 2024 9:02 PM

MGySgt Samuel Steen — Sun, 21 Jan 2024 21:02:12 -0500

No, I would never feel guilty for my service and neither should anyone else that has served. I served from 1978-2010 and I have nothing but great respect for all my brothers and sisters that severed before or with me. I’m not really sure why anyone that has served would feel guilty about their contribution in the defense of our country because everyones service is equally as important. I think thats an assumption question and if that question is assuming that a person without any combat service is less of a Soldier, Sailor, Airman or Marine than those of us who have had combat tours is just disrespectful to them and its also wrong. I think if that is the assumption behind that question, then it is wrong to discredits the service of all those without combat service. It’s not only wrong it’s also unprofessional. I remember when I arrived to my first duty station and I seen all those veterans from Vietnam, I looked up to them not because of the combat experience, I looked up to them for their leadership and mentorship. I remember being in formations and looking to see who was wearing a patch on their right arm and also for those who were wearing a CIB. I didn’t feel less of a solider because of their experience because. I knew my time would be coming very soon. I remember there were some people that felt if you weren’t wearing a combat patch or CIB, you weren’t worthy and they would call you a newbie, I thought that was disrespectful and I really learned to hate that word. As time went by I quickly realized a combat patch did not make you any better than the next person. I realized a good mentor or leader would never look at you as a lesser person just because of your lack of experience, it was their job to train and mentor me to ensure when my time came to engage the enemy I was better trained and prepared than they were and that’s what made them a great leader.

Response by SFC Jerry Ludwig made Jan 22 at 2024 8:05 AM

SFC Jerry Ludwig — Mon, 22 Jan 2024 08:05:22 -0500

"Respond it was my honor." Remember we freed 100''s of millions from Communist regimes by standing up with strength.

Response by SPC Michael Terrell made Jan 22 at 2024 9:24 AM

SPC Michael Terrell — Mon, 22 Jan 2024 09:24:18 -0500

Why should you feel guilty? Without support, those in a war zone would all die.

Response by CDR Bob Lange made Jan 22 at 2024 11:48 AM

CDR Bob Lange — Mon, 22 Jan 2024 11:48:00 -0500

I served on a Destroyer, 2 deployments to WESTPAC for 18 months during 2 years, '67-'69. Reserves '69-'77, then back on active duty '77-2000. When someone thanks me for my service I tell them, "Thanks for your tax dollars, you're still paying me. "

Response by SSgt Michael Grafmuller made Jan 23 at 2024 4:58 AM

SSgt Michael Grafmuller — Tue, 23 Jan 2024 04:58:48 -0500

As a wartime Veteran who actually saw combat, my feeling is you served as needed honorably and the fact that you were not required to see combat personally does not change the fact that you volunteered to serve. Many many of those who served during Middle East conflicts never saw combat and never even left the United States during their service and that is okay too. Those who served, served and followed orders. In the early 2000s so many manipulated the system to avoid deployment, that is who should be uncomfortable being told thank you for their service, but in reality all of us who served with pure patriotism are a little uncomfortable being thanked for our service because Serving is about exactly that and not about being thanked or rewarded. The current military policies allow many to join and never actually serve, because they are not deployable most or all of their military career, a factor that was once a career ender. You voluntarily joined and did as you were lawfully ordered, that is what you are being thanked for, not for how many fellow service members you saved, or for how many combatants you killed. None of us who have seen actual combat would fault you for not having the opportunity to engage in combat, your training and presence deterred loss of life and that is commendable. During your service our military was respected by possible advocacies and most of the world, today that is not the case and we are no longer feared or respected outside the United States. That alone says you earned thanks

Response by PO3 Ron Fitzgarrald made Jan 23 at 2024 1:54 PM

PO3 Ron Fitzgarrald — Tue, 23 Jan 2024 13:54:23 -0500

I don’t like the phrase. It’s gotten to be so blasé. I would prefer people to say “Welcome home” instead. I had a 10yr old come up to me and asked to shake my hand. I obliged and he told me, “welcome home & thanks for what you did!”
So, I say “Welcome home my brothers and sisters & Thanks for what you did!”

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 23 at 2024 2:55 PM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 23 Jan 2024 14:55:53 -0500

I originally served from 1973-1984.
I never heard anyone during that time, thank me for my service, I also never experienced anyone calling me names, spitting at me, or disrespecting me for my service.

I served again from 1998 to 2013, I saw citizens in airports clapping and cheering as we walked to our flights. Citizens who offered to change seats with me for their first-class seats (I respectfully declined, asking that they offer it to one of the lower ranked military personnel).

Military personnel who did not serve in a war time have nothing to be ashamed of and should simply say "thank you". The citizen generally isn't thanking you for going to war, but instead is thanking you for your willingness to serve when so many others will not/would not.

Response by CW3 Ray. Mead made Jan 23 at 2024 11:12 PM

CW3 Ray. Mead — Tue, 23 Jan 2024 23:12:21 -0500

I don't feel guilty about anything. The vets during the the period of the 60s through the 80s had our own wars. Of course they have almost been forgotten. I was one of thousands of young men who was drafted for Vietnam. It would have been nice to have been thanked for my service in 1967. I returned to active duty in 1971, and spent the remainder of the 70s and all of the 80s in the Army. I assure you that no one who served during those years has any reason feel guilty. There were all manner of bushfire conflicts going on during that period. And we didn't do it for anyone's thanks. Which is good, because if you expect nothing, you won't be disappointed!

Response by Maj David BenJames made Jan 24 at 2024 11:50 AM

Maj David BenJames — Wed, 24 Jan 2024 11:50:10 -0500

I did three tours into Nam. I choose to go, I volunteered.
Six + years. Feel "Guilty" - Hell No.
I wish I could have saved more lives. Not enough supplies.
When a veteran comes up to me and says, "Thank you for you service", I almost want to cry. I NEVER heard that when I came home. NO Thank you. No welcome home. Nothing.
I fully respect and honor the veterans of today. I thank them for their service, as my time is short and I want them to always know they are appreciated.

Response by PVT Zehner Living made Jan 24 at 2024 1:52 PM

PVT Zehner Living — Wed, 24 Jan 2024 13:52:16 -0500

I had to younger veterans at the VA taking shots at me because I served in the 80's. This World War II Veteran walks over to them and he asks " do either of you speak Russian?". When they said no he told them to thank me cause the cold war veterans did our job. Impressed the Hell out of me and never forgot it!

Response by SPC Linda Chandler made Jan 24 at 2024 4:44 PM

SPC Linda Chandler — Wed, 24 Jan 2024 16:44:42 -0500

Yes I do remember and even now when someone says that I always say “Thank you for your support”

Response by SPC Linda Chandler made Jan 24 at 2024 4:55 PM

SPC Linda Chandler — Wed, 24 Jan 2024 16:55:04 -0500

I remember my brother coming home from Nam so messed up that he left and I didn’t see him until 25 years later. He finally kick his heroin addiction, but never kicked the alcohol. He died during the beginning to the middle of Covid. I wasn’t able to go to his funeral and really miss being able to say goodbye. I feel him dying was the only way he actually came back from Nam. Sometimes you don’t see what’s really happening until you get older and you understand it more. It just really sucks that he suffered more after coming home than when he was over there. I think a lot of the men and women did and still do. I work for the army now in a military hospital and I’ve seen and still see what Vietnam did to our Women and Men and they really got no recognition. It just really hurts to imagine that they were ridiculed and spit on if they came home in their uniform. I do my best to make them feel appreciated but sometimes it’s hard because they don’t believe any of us us because they’ve been treated so horribly for so long.

Response by Amn Joseph H. made Jan 24 at 2024 4:56 PM

Amn Joseph H. — Wed, 24 Jan 2024 16:56:08 -0500

The idea any of us that served being even thanked never entered my mind. As what we did was our citizen duty. A duty 99.7% of the male american population were too chickshit to do, fact. Those who romanticize war stand ignorant of the American 24-7-365 nuclear triad military force, land-based intercontinental ballistic missiles (ICBMs), submarine-launched ballistic missiles (SLBMs), and SAC -TAC strategic bombers with nuclear bombs and minuteman missiles. We were always on alert, using our history to keep the bear and the dragon in fear of getting there own Hiroshima! Like what happened on 6 and 9 August 1945, when the United States detonated two atomic bombs over the Japanese cities of Hiroshima and Nagasaki respectively. The bombings killed between 129,000 and 226,000 people, most of whom were civilians, and remain the only use of nuclear weapons in an armed conflict, american history class failed you, if you were born here--

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 24 at 2024 8:27 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 24 Jan 2024 20:27:16 -0500

I have served in Iraq and Afghanistan, and although I can see how you could feel this way, as I remember being around the combat veterans and being the uninitiated. However, you are a veteran and you were there training for war, serving, and living the Soldier life just as all of us have, and you have every right to be thanked for your service.

Response by PVT Mammie Douglas made Jan 25 at 2024 12:49 AM

PVT Mammie Douglas — Thu, 25 Jan 2024 00:49:37 -0500

Right. I served 1987-89. So yes, I wasn't in war either.

Response by 1stSgt Daryl Allen made Jan 25 at 2024 9:41 PM

1stSgt Daryl Allen — Thu, 25 Jan 2024 21:41:12 -0500

I will remember my father telling me once he got back stateside from Vietnam they had to put on civilian clothes to keep from being spit on or getting injured. Here was a man who served in WWII, Korea and Vietnam and had to endure that for serving his Country. In 1972 on his last overseas tour, Korea, I enlisted but did get my draft notice while in Basic. I did my 20 and retired in 1992. Do I get upset for the thank you for your service comment? No, like someone else wrote we were the Cold War Era. I would enlist again but health and age prevents that. Be thankful!

Response by PO2 John Lutz made Jan 26 at 2024 10:49 AM

PO2 John Lutz — Fri, 26 Jan 2024 10:49:45 -0500

I served from '72-'78, so saw the end of the Vietnam war. When someone says "Thank you for your service" I either just nod or simply thank them back for acknowledging my service. I caught the end of the war and saw no combat, so like others here I also feel a bit like I'm stealing the thunder of those who were actually in battle. I was only 17 when I joined, and the war was still raging at the time. I knew there were no guarantees. It's like the saying goes: "All gave some, some gave all."

Response by Lt Col Jim Stark made Jan 26 at 2024 10:50 AM

Lt Col Jim Stark — Fri, 26 Jan 2024 10:50:07 -0500

It would never have occurred to me to feel 'guilty' when someone thanks me for my service. In fact, I am always humbled and grateful for the acknowledgement! Those 'thanks' are some measure of recompense for the miserable reception we received when we returned from SEA! Particularly gratifying is when the 'thank you' is from a young person, sometimes pre-teen, who wasn't even born when I served.

Response by SFC Michael Lindenbusch made Jan 26 at 2024 2:31 PM

SFC Michael Lindenbusch — Fri, 26 Jan 2024 14:31:42 -0500

I signed up in 1983 and pulled the plug in 2005. To me, the thanks are actually annoying because I personally feel it stems from the PR push around the GWOT and because nobody really seemed to care that much prior to 9/11.

Response by SPC C O made Jan 27 at 2024 12:17 AM

SPC C O — Sat, 27 Jan 2024 00:17:28 -0500

I don't feel guilty at all. I find it strange that people just say it like a robot and don't really mean it. And, after I had been out for about 25 years, all of the sudden people say it to you, it's just strange.

Response by SN Jennifer Buchanan made Jan 27 at 2024 6:24 AM

SN Jennifer Buchanan — Sat, 27 Jan 2024 06:24:16 -0500

I don't feel guilty, just a bit uncomfortable when I'm thanked. That's only because I'm part of a unit, being the Armed Services as a whole. I took the Oath because I felt called to do so. I wouldn't trade that for anything. So when I'm thanked for my service, I simply respond with ⚓️ I'm honored to have served.

Response by 1SG John Millan made Jan 27 at 2024 1:24 PM

1SG John Millan — Sat, 27 Jan 2024 13:24:49 -0500

No. I served USMC stateside Cold War and 2 wars in the Guard. Both are vital. Both are laudable.

Response by SSG Loren Thompson made Jan 27 at 2024 9:53 PM

SSG Loren Thompson — Sat, 27 Jan 2024 21:53:36 -0500

1957 - 1961 after BIT and Combat Engineer Training I served willingly in Active Army Reserves with the last 11 months on Active Duty, having been called for the Berlin Crisis (Building the Wall.) I don't wear the base ball cap. I have not been told, "Thank your for your service" more than several times. I say, "I learned how to shoot and learned how to duck - and never had to do either." If it is a fellow vet I explain that I was too young for the Korea War, and too old for the Vietnam War.

Response by SPC Kynthia Rosgeal made Jan 28 at 2024 6:35 PM

SPC Kynthia Rosgeal — Sun, 28 Jan 2024 18:35:37 -0500

I have nothing to be guilty about. My discharges were honorable. My service was honorable. If anything, it was my privilege to serve. Thanking me for my privilege doesn't feel right.

Having said that, when a MAGA says it, I am deeply offended. They vote for people who want to gut social security, gut the VA, destroy the constitution and have shown a willingness to partake in insurrection because they worship a politician who calls D Day veterans "Losers and suckers"all the while spitting on the very document I swore to uphold. With my life, if necessary.

Keep your thanks and study how our republic works.

That would be more thanks than I could dream possible.

Response by MSgt William Fuller made Feb 4 at 2024 3:30 PM

MSgt William Fuller — Sun, 04 Feb 2024 15:30:58 -0500

Suck it up butter cup, if you live long enough they will be spitting on us again. Tell them you are welcome and go on down the road. I thank the active duty I run into and tell them I did mine now it's your turn, make your mom proud.
I served from from 65 to 86 both fixed and mobile then a bit over 24 years playing contractor it was fun or I'd not have done it. I tell the young people to find out what they like to do then learn how to get paid for it, that's what my granny told me.

Response by LTC David Howard made Feb 4 at 2024 4:34 PM

LTC David Howard — Sun, 04 Feb 2024 16:34:22 -0500

In case you have forgotten, the period of the 1960's to the 1980's includes the entire Vietnam War. Why would you think that someone who served in Vietnam would feel guilty if thanked for their service, or even just had their service acknowledged? I served from 1966 to 1990, including a tour in Vietnam. I have never once felt guilty about my service nor guilty when thnaked for my service.

Response by SPC William Szkromiuk made Feb 7 at 2024 1:06 PM

SPC William Szkromiuk — Wed, 07 Feb 2024 13:06:51 -0500

This question sounds like something an AI would create just to say something. Sorry. Why would someone who served in Vietnam feel guilty? Or any other period 1775 to 2024.
US Army 65-68

Response by LTC Myron Opfermann made Feb 11 at 2024 1:19 PM

LTC Myron Opfermann — Sun, 11 Feb 2024 13:19:07 -0500

As you all know since 1973 all members of the armed forces have volunteered to serve in defense of the United States. The so-called "Cold War" was not always so cold, a number of our aircraft were shot down by Russian, North Korean, and Chinese forces. There were frequent incidents along the DMZ in Korea that resulted in deaths. There were training accidents, line-of-duty deaths, Grenada, and off-post deaths of service members. Anyone who puts on a uniform (Regular, NG, or Reserve) and serves in the armed forces of this country is entitled to a 'Thank You' for that service. Those who served in a combat zone deserve an extra 'Thanks'.

Response by PO2 Howard Carrell made Feb 20 at 2024 4:07 PM

PO2 Howard Carrell — Tue, 20 Feb 2024 16:07:52 -0500

I served 8-8-69 thru 9-14-73 active duty US Navy. When I came home I was treated like shit. I deserve the respect of my service time.

Response by SGT Kenneth Stelly made Feb 22 at 2024 11:43 AM

SGT Kenneth Stelly — Thu, 22 Feb 2024 11:43:28 -0500

What kind of question is that? From an unverified at well. With a question like that, verify yourself. I still can't believe I'm reading a question like that. I'm not even answering it. Doesn't deserve an answer.

Response by Sgt Don Park made Feb 23 at 2024 12:28 PM

Sgt Don Park — Fri, 23 Feb 2024 12:28:38 -0500

No, was a part of Desert Shield/Storm.
Although no combat was seen. Still proud to have served. My usual response is “I appreciate that” or “ I appreciate your support, I just hope you support veterans that really need it”

Response by PO3 Dale Olson made Feb 23 at 2024 3:10 PM

PO3 Dale Olson — Fri, 23 Feb 2024 15:10:56 -0500

I served from 60 to 64. I made 2 Westpac deployments. 1 with Taiwan Straight patrol. #2 up the Sea of Japan monitoring Russian shore installations and being flown over by Russian bombers with the bombay doors open. Lastly 6 months at the Atomic tests at Johnston Island for 7 A bombs.
Plus we were secondary recovery for NASA Gemini mission. Bottom line we all contributed even though it was "combat" related.

Response by LCDR Bruce Cooley made Feb 23 at 2024 9:38 PM

LCDR Bruce Cooley — Fri, 23 Feb 2024 21:38:30 -0500

I do, a little, because I spent a majority of my time as a "Drilling Reservist".....albeit in an active duty command. I don't however because it was a privilege and an honor to serve, and when someone says "Thank you for your service", I answer them with exactly that..."It was my privilege and honor to serve"! Hope that doesn't sound too pompous!

Response by CPT David Tanner made Feb 24 at 2024 2:58 PM

CPT David Tanner — Sat, 24 Feb 2024 14:58:53 -0500

I served from 1985-2015 and served in Desert Storm in 1990-1991. We need to remember when we all raised our right hand and said we would support and defend our country and our constitution, whether we went to war or not, we were always willing to do so and to die defending our country, our brothers and sisters, and to help defend others that were not able to defend themselves. Every Airman, Soldier, Marine, Seaman, Air National Guard, Army National Guard, Space Force, or Coast Guard member that ever served or currently serves is a hero to me and deserves to hear "Thank you for your service", especially Viet Nam vets that were treated so badly when they came home. I also thank police officers, fire fighters, and first responders for their service. It is a dangerous world right now and they are all in danger and targets for evil. God bless you all and thank you all for your service. You are all my heroes.

Response by SP5 Philip McClure made Feb 25 at 2024 8:27 PM

SP5 Philip McClure — Sun, 25 Feb 2024 20:27:29 -0500

I served in US Army Armor from 1977 to 1984. 3 of those years were spent in W Germany near the Fulda Gap with Soviet nuclear weapons, artillery, airpower, chemical weapons, biological weapons, massed armor and Infantry always on standby to attack us at a moments notice. We went on high alert several times where we were actually close enough to the border to see our Soviet counterparts in their firing positions aiming at us. And they outnumbered us way more than we would have liked to have seen. Thankfully things de-escalated and both side drew back and the world lived to see another day. No, I don't feel guilty at all. We had a job to do and we did it well.

Response by 1st Lt James Lipski made Feb 26 at 2024 10:35 AM

1st Lt James Lipski — Mon, 26 Feb 2024 10:35:03 -0500

While i was in the Air Force ROTC at Michigan State I remember wearing my uniform as a Freshman in 1981-82 and being called "Baby killer". I was told by upper classmen to just ignore it. The Vietnam War was still fresh in peoples minds. But by the time my Senior year came about I was being waved at and students smiled at me. I'll never forget hearing "Baby killer' again and this time a student came to my defense. Told that student that he should be thankful for those in uniform because without us the protester would not even have the "right" to say those words. I credit President Reagan for this turnaround in attitude. Today I wear my veterans hat all the time and get thanked every week. I carried the M-16 and a .38 pistol for my country so I was proud that I helped keep the peace. So I do not feel any guilt when someone comes up to me, shakes my hand and thanks me for my service. I smile and say, "You're welcome".

Response by MSG Ron Radar made Feb 26 at 2024 4:02 PM

MSG Ron Radar — Mon, 26 Feb 2024 16:02:26 -0500

No , everyone who served knew that they could be thrust into battle at any time and prepared for it . I was in for 14 years before I saw anything (Panama then Desert Storm) then nothing until I retired . Less than 1 year total out of 21 . Those troops who were in or joined after 9/11 saw more in one tour then I saw in 21 ! And most never went over there . Still I helped train some of the Officers and NCO's who had that task after I was out ...We all serve our Country and do so with pride and honer weather at war or peace . Look at 1919 to 1941 for another peaceful period and except for the Indian wars the same for the late 1800's (we had two short wars at the end and very beginning of 1800-1900's ,Mexico and Spain) so the period between Vietnam and Panama was not really an exception . Just my thoughts on this ....

Response by SPC Sam Williamson made Feb 26 at 2024 8:52 PM

SPC Sam Williamson — Mon, 26 Feb 2024 20:52:02 -0500

I also feel more than a bit undeserving when someone says that to me. Still not too proud to ask for the veteran's discount though.

Response by MAJ Anne McGee made Feb 28 at 2024 12:23 AM

MAJ Anne McGee — Wed, 28 Feb 2024 00:23:10 -0500

Feel guilty for serving? Why?

Response by SrA Bruce Banner made Feb 28 at 2024 2:02 AM

SrA Bruce Banner — Wed, 28 Feb 2024 02:02:45 -0500

You’re not stealing any thunder from anyone, sir. As long as you served honorably then you served our great country proud. This coming from an Afghanistan veteran.

Response by Cpl Dennis F. made Feb 28 at 2024 3:04 AM

Cpl Dennis F. — Wed, 28 Feb 2024 03:04:12 -0500

No, I get pissed off and then tell em I dont work at the Wendys drive-thru!

Response by MSgt George Fillgrove made Feb 28 at 2024 12:56 PM

MSgt George Fillgrove — Wed, 28 Feb 2024 12:56:06 -0500

It's not that I feel guilty; every time it occurs I question the motive of the individual saying it to me. My Air Force service was a very personal choice. I am that "forever an airman," and that service pride runs very deep. I had answered a call to duty greater than myself because I felt a deep obligation to this country. I still believe that very strongly and never have expected anything in return. There were adventures, great times, truly scary times, incredible opportunities, achievements, great adversity, and lots of challenges along the way that tested me, and I am truly a better person because of it. I don't wear my veterans status on my sleeve but I carry the scars from those years with me every day as a disabled veteran. Yet, I never seek special attention because of that status. If anything, I learned grit, committment and determination, and are more determined about my health and passionate about my love for this country and my parent service. Although now retired, I'm still on mission. That is why words like "Thank you for your service," are appreciated but seem very hollow at times. Sincere actions mean so much more.

Response by SGT Craig Johnston made Feb 29 at 2024 12:00 PM

SGT Craig Johnston — Thu, 29 Feb 2024 12:00:13 -0500

For those of us who raised our hand, gave the oath, wore the uniform, represented our Country and did our duty as Americans should, in whatever capacity we were ordered to do so. No, no guilt. There are countless others who did not, or would not. Stand and Walk with Pride.

Response by SrA Don Oberlies made Mar 1 at 2024 8:24 AM

SrA Don Oberlies — Fri, 01 Mar 2024 08:24:49 -0500

I served from 81-85 and I am proud of my time served. I was in the second RDF fighter wing and we did our fair share of deployments. And I believe that anyone who took the oath should be proud to be recognized as a veteran of this great country!

Response by Lt Col Warren Domke made Mar 2 at 2024 2:04 AM

Lt Col Warren Domke — Sat, 02 Mar 2024 02:04:30 -0500

I served in several capacities from 1960 until 1993, including three years in the Air National Guard, ten in the active Air Force, and another 18 as an active Air Force Reservist. My active duty years included a tour in Vietnam plus four other assignments that directly or indirectly supported that war effort, plus service defending our country in other ways. I will always wish that I could have done more and given more than I did, but I am honored to have had the opportunity to give the service that I did and I am not embarrassed, nor do I feel guilty about being thanked for serving. I have had the honor of serving with several ex-POWs and with veterans of other wars back to World War II, and I have had the additional honor of knowing the younger veterans who have served since my time. Many did much more than I did, but I did much more than quite a few others and we were all in it together and we all served. I will happily accept thanks for having served, and I will thank other veterans when I meet or see them. I always felt in serving that our first duty was to those who served with us and shared whatever dangers or discomforts we might have endured. All honor and respect to the Constitution and to the flag, but the greater honor is to respect each other as much as we are able. And to the SPC who posted this--thank you for YOUR service!

Response by MSgt Mike Ash made Mar 4 at 2024 8:38 PM

MSgt Mike Ash — Mon, 04 Mar 2024 20:38:34 -0500

You know - we all signed up to serve and serve we did. I volunteered for Vietnam in 1972 and was sent to San Antonio. As it is in the military, you serve where you're told to serve and we all wrote that same blank check for an amount "Up to and including my life". So Thank You for Your Service - damn right, I served (72-93) with some of the finest individuals, all willing to serve wherever we were assigned, usually NOT of our choice.

Response by SrA Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 8 at 2024 3:05 PM

SrA Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 08 Mar 2024 15:05:39 -0500

I served (USAF) from 1960 to 1964 and I feel no guilt when someone says "Thank you for you service". I was never in a "war zone" but I had a part in the Congo Airlift, Cuban Missile Crisis and a couple of other minor incidences which were scary enough for me. I signed that proverbial "blank check", have absolutely no regrets.

Response by TSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 12 at 2024 5:08 AM

TSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 12 Mar 2024 05:08:09 -0400

I do not feel guilty. However, I always remember to tell the folks of the USO and AAFES
Thank You for your service. It is very sad they are never included.
Donut Dollies popping up in the craziest of locations at the worse of times. and the AAFES folks with their little trailers and stores in the rear were amazing.

Response by PO2 Howard Carrell made Mar 20 at 2024 2:53 PM

PO2 Howard Carrell — Wed, 20 Mar 2024 14:53:01 -0400

I served honorable for 49+ months. I am 100% disabled. When I came home the unions refused my entrance, I was treated like shit by the general scumbags who avoided service. That peanut farmer allowed the draft dodgers a free walk and welcome back for free. No, Hell No, I do not feel guilty, and yes it is about time that Veterans are treated with respect. Seems like a question that should not be asked.

Response by PO3 Juan Santell made Mar 26 at 2024 7:47 AM

PO3 Juan Santell — Tue, 26 Mar 2024 07:47:20 -0400

You didn't choose when you were born. You served like everyone else. So there wasn't a major war during your time in service, but, if something happened, you were there and ready to do your job. While your friends at home were going to college or work and chasing girls, you were away from home doing an important job. And, when you left the service you were years behind your friends as far as a career. You deserve to be treated with respect just as the wartime heroes. Just my opinion.

Response by LCpl Michael Cappello made Apr 5 at 2024 5:51 PM

LCpl Michael Cappello — Fri, 05 Apr 2024 17:51:17 -0400

Guilty? NO. I usually feel irritated. That is because, nowadays there are so many Socialists / Liberals who disgrace and disrespect our country, all the while mouthing "Thank you for your service". Imho They do this because it is the popular and Politically Correct thing to do. As far as I am concerned, if you do not really mean it, then do not say it. I have NO liking for them, and little patience. You know the kind I am talking about. The ones who will bus illegal migrants to a fancy hotel and step over the HOMELESS VETERANS sleeping on the sidewalk as they get off the bus. We have one sitting in the Oval Office.

Response by LCpl Kenneth Heath made Apr 8 at 2024 2:54 AM

LCpl Kenneth Heath — Mon, 08 Apr 2024 02:54:47 -0400

Since US involvement in the Vietnam Conflict started in 1957 and ended in 1975, the original dates specified are erroneous. From 1976 through 1989 we were not involved in any long-running conflicts, this was the end of the Cold War.
I served 1982 to 1985 and when thanked, I take it how it is offered, (some are sincere, others a by-rote platitude similar to "have a nice day"). If asked, I explain it this way;
We were ready and willing to go if called. We could be likened to a race car that was built but never run. I feel no guilt or shame for doing the job I was given according to the existing parameters of society at that time.

Response by CPT Clifford Breeden made Apr 24 at 2024 12:16 AM

CPT Clifford Breeden — Wed, 24 Apr 2024 00:16:17 -0400

NOPE!

Response by SPC George Edwards made Apr 24 at 2024 8:59 PM

SPC George Edwards — Wed, 24 Apr 2024 20:59:52 -0400

I really have no feelings about it. Remember, most of those who say it are trained by their employers to say it (Lowes, restaurants on Veterans Day, etc. I served from 1956-64 and remember some scary times....The Cuban Missile Crisis, Berlin Wall, Kennedy's assassination, etc. The so called Cold War. But, I always went where I was sent and did my job the best that I could. I can still remember at 83 years of age the pledge I made........."I am an American fighting man. I serve in the forces which defend my country and protect our way of life. I am prepared to give my life in its' defense. So, no. I have no feelings about it.

Response by SGT Perley Davenport made Apr 26 at 2024 11:04 AM

SGT Perley Davenport — Fri, 26 Apr 2024 11:04:32 -0400

No, I like it, especially when children say it.

Response by SrA Cecelia Eareckson made Apr 26 at 2024 2:38 PM

SrA Cecelia Eareckson — Fri, 26 Apr 2024 14:38:23 -0400

That doesn't deserve a civil answer. However, I will focus on my service, two years in RoK. 1977 + 1978. I got my orders shortly after the axe murders at the DMZ. Had to qualify on the M-16, and requalify when I extended. Was issued a mobility bag with helmet, flak jacket, canteen and injectible ? Our unelected president, Gerald Ford stupidly refused to authorize the use of nukes. What followed was two years of North Korean testing the combined RoK and US forces, plus terrorizing innocent civilians. They slaughtered defenseless farm families, and none of it made news in the States.
We had one Blue Barque in two years, nothing like Vietnam, but that man was just as dead.

Response by LTC Richard McClure made Apr 26 at 2024 11:04 PM

LTC Richard McClure — Fri, 26 Apr 2024 23:04:14 -0400

No, I do not. I served, and that is what matters. I served from 1973 until I retired at the end of 2008. Even if I had only served from 1973 - 1976, I would be proud of serving.