Have you ever thought about how invasive the question "why?" can be?

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 09 Jul 2017 23:14:01 -0400

Sometimes we ignore the "why" and simply accept the "what". Bits of it can be included in the "how", "when", and "where", but an in-depth "why [something]?" can easily spark the nerve.

How does emotional intelligence play into this?

Response by CW3 Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 9 at 2017 11:15 PM

CW3 Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 09 Jul 2017 23:15:32 -0400

Wow. This question reminds me of the current generation. A lot more young adults today are quick to ask "why." This seems to be a problem with some new Soldiers as well, asking "why" when told to do something instead of just doing it.

Response by 1SG(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 10 at 2017 8:31 AM

1SG(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 10 Jul 2017 08:31:19 -0400

"Why" That can be a very offensive word depending on how it is used or it can be a tool to get more information for better understanding. I seen this last night but wanted to wait to respond and gather my thoughts. I have never had a problem with Soldiers asking my "Why" after I told them to do something. I guest I am lucky. When I get my marching orders, I usually explain to my Soldiers what has to happen and how what they are going to be making a difference in what they are doing. I understand that every MOS cant afford for a Soldier to get a full explanation at the moment when they are supposed to be executing or even an opportunity to ask "Why".