How do I help with PTSD?

2015-06-18T01:55:36-04:00

I've noticed that there are things that my friends and mentors that have been in active combat avoid talking about. I know that they want to talk about them but how should I aproch that topic. And I really would like to talk to any of you about your active combat situations as well. You served out country so why can't out country serve you too?

Response by SGT Kevin Brown made Jun 18 at 2015 2:01 AM

2015-06-18T02:01:58-04:00

To be honest most combat vets don't want to talk about it. With that said, if you want to help, be blunt, tell them your concerned and want to talk about whats bothering them as of late. Being there is the biggest thing you can do, even if they blow your initial attempt to help off. Let them know you are there for them. My closest veteran buddies are guys I never served with but I know are there when I need them. Thanks for reaching out to your brothers and sisters bro.

Response by PO1 John Miller made Jun 18 at 2015 2:54 AM

2015-06-18T02:54:04-04:00

Combat vets will normally only talk about it with other combat vets. It's best to just say "I've got your back" and leave it at that.

One thing you do NOT want to do is keep pressing it. If they say they don't want to talk, they don't want to talk.

Response by CMSgt Mark Schubert made Jun 18 at 2015 3:07 PM

2015-06-18T15:07:08-04:00

I commend you for reaching out and letting others know you want to help with PTSD. But as several have said, you don't want to "push" it. You cannot help anyone who doesn't want help - and in fact, you could potentially make the situation worse by doing so.

Those who do want help, I hope and pray they get the "right" help because I've seen it many times where those who don't want to live with the effects of PTSD and reach out for help change their life dramatically! I work as a volunteer for Pets for Vets and I have worked with many veterans w/PTSD. Animal therapy may not be right for everyone, but when it works, it works in a BIG way! Dogs can change peoples lives - believe me, I've seen it!

Response by SSG James Arlington made Jun 18 at 2015 7:41 PM

2015-06-18T19:41:26-04:00

Tough question. Everyone deals with it differently. Have to know the person and what works for them.

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 21 at 2015 4:17 PM

2015-11-21T16:17:51-05:00

AN Private RallyPoint Member, Whereas I know you haven't forced the issue, I thank you and commend you for your willingness and desire to be there and provide support. This is what sets you apart from your high school peers and makes you the responsible adult you are. RP is a great forum to come to for advice such as this. Well played!

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 21 at 2015 7:03 PM

2015-11-21T19:03:22-05:00

I suppressed talking or dealing about my PTSD for ten years to disastrous results. If you need to talk please give me a call, their is no shame talking about combat or the crazy things we see. The best things I have found that work are the Armys Inpatient programs both partial and 28 day which deal wit the traumas in a group setting with other vets. Also important is ongoing support from other people struggling with these issues as well, nothing like calling a buddy up at 1am and being able to talk about it and not just stuff it. Service dogs and support groups are very helpful