Amn John Komar 6123604 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>we are in our 80th year and looking to the future. How do I receive a grave marker for my self and my wife ? 2020-07-21T13:01:18-04:00 Amn John Komar 6123604 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>we are in our 80th year and looking to the future. How do I receive a grave marker for my self and my wife ? 2020-07-21T13:01:18-04:00 2020-07-21T13:01:18-04:00 COL John McClellan 6123654 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Contact you local county Veteran Services office and they can get you in touch with the VA folks that handle the cemeteries! Response by COL John McClellan made Jul 21 at 2020 1:13 PM 2020-07-21T13:13:30-04:00 2020-07-21T13:13:30-04:00 SP5 Peter Keane 6124365 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Grave markers from the VA are only given at time of need. You need to get a reliable person a copy of your 214 and let them know your wishes. If you are buried in a National Cemetery, one Gravestone is used for both of you, her on the back. If a plaque is requested for a private cemetery, only you are on it. Response by SP5 Peter Keane made Jul 21 at 2020 3:40 PM 2020-07-21T15:40:19-04:00 2020-07-21T15:40:19-04:00 2020-07-21T13:01:18-04:00