How do I receive a grave marker for my self and my wife ? https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/how-do-i-receive-a-grave-marker-for-my-self-and-my-wife <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>we are in our 80th year and looking to the future. Tue, 21 Jul 2020 13:01:18 -0400 How do I receive a grave marker for my self and my wife ? https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/how-do-i-receive-a-grave-marker-for-my-self-and-my-wife <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>we are in our 80th year and looking to the future. Amn John Komar Tue, 21 Jul 2020 13:01:18 -0400 2020-07-21T13:01:18-04:00 Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 21 at 2020 1:13 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/how-do-i-receive-a-grave-marker-for-my-self-and-my-wife?n=6123654&urlhash=6123654 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Contact you local county Veteran Services office and they can get you in touch with the VA folks that handle the cemeteries! COL Private RallyPoint Member Tue, 21 Jul 2020 13:13:30 -0400 2020-07-21T13:13:30-04:00 Response by SP5 Peter Keane made Jul 21 at 2020 3:40 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/how-do-i-receive-a-grave-marker-for-my-self-and-my-wife?n=6124365&urlhash=6124365 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Grave markers from the VA are only given at time of need. You need to get a reliable person a copy of your 214 and let them know your wishes. If you are buried in a National Cemetery, one Gravestone is used for both of you, her on the back. If a plaque is requested for a private cemetery, only you are on it. SP5 Peter Keane Tue, 21 Jul 2020 15:40:19 -0400 2020-07-21T15:40:19-04:00 2020-07-21T13:01:18-04:00