How do I receive a grave marker for my self and my wife ? https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/how-do-i-receive-a-grave-marker-for-my-self-and-my-wife <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>we are in our 80th year and looking to the future. Tue, 21 Jul 2020 13:01:18 -0400 How do I receive a grave marker for my self and my wife ? https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/how-do-i-receive-a-grave-marker-for-my-self-and-my-wife <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>we are in our 80th year and looking to the future. Amn John Komar Tue, 21 Jul 2020 13:01:18 -0400 2020-07-21T13:01:18-04:00 Response by COL John McClellan made Jul 21 at 2020 1:13 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/how-do-i-receive-a-grave-marker-for-my-self-and-my-wife?n=6123654&urlhash=6123654 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Contact you local county Veteran Services office and they can get you in touch with the VA folks that handle the cemeteries! COL John McClellan Tue, 21 Jul 2020 13:13:30 -0400 2020-07-21T13:13:30-04:00 Response by SP5 Peter Keane made Jul 21 at 2020 3:40 PM https://www.rallypoint.com/answers/how-do-i-receive-a-grave-marker-for-my-self-and-my-wife?n=6124365&urlhash=6124365 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Grave markers from the VA are only given at time of need. You need to get a reliable person a copy of your 214 and let them know your wishes. If you are buried in a National Cemetery, one Gravestone is used for both of you, her on the back. If a plaque is requested for a private cemetery, only you are on it. SP5 Peter Keane Tue, 21 Jul 2020 15:40:19 -0400 2020-07-21T15:40:19-04:00 2020-07-21T13:01:18-04:00