How do I reconcile getting a medical retirement and having the feeling of being a failure?

You earned your "EGA" and left honorably...as I understand it, that makes you a Marine, then and into eternity. You signed on the line, and did your best...that's more than many ever do. I understand losing the connection...there's not a day goes by that I don't miss aspects of my own service. However, I'd advise focusing on the community you've joined, rather than the one you've moved on from. As a veteran, you're in a position to do as much (in many ways, more) for your Brothers than ever before. Get involved in Veterans' groups, programs and outreach...make where you live your new posting; the people you share your life with, your new "unit". There's plenty of work needs done out here. As to the benefits, you'll always find those who'd rather throw stones than build with them. Use the opportunity to do something truly great for yourself, and for others. Welcome to a new and elite brotherhood, Brandon...where we go by first names, greet with a handshake, and have the rest of our lives to both enjoy and defend what we served to protect.

LCpl Brandon Joseph You were medically retired. This was not done as a gift. You were medically retired because you became unable to continue due to medical issues beyond your control and you service had been honorable.

While you may not be able to do what you had wanted, there is no avoidable failure on your part.

Enjoy the benefits you have earned.

I understand your feelings. Trust me, I do. But, the way I look at it, you served, whether it is for a day after basic or 20 years. It is a lot more than many others, so hold your head high! You were awarded your EGA at the end of basic, because you passed. That made you a Marine. What happens after, through no fault of your own, is nothing to worry about. You served!