How would you react if you were on a flight where a family was boo'd for being allowed off the plane first to receive their soldier's body?

ENS Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 19 Nov 2016 14:19:43 -0500

What would you do, if a passenger in first class "boo'd" a Gold Star family for being allowed to leave the aircraft first to receive their fallen son/daughter in the military?

Response by LTC Stephen C. made Nov 19 at 2016 2:24 PM

LTC Stephen C. — Sat, 19 Nov 2016 14:24:15 -0500

I can't even imagine such a thing would happen, ENS Private RallyPoint Member, but apparently it did. I like to think that I'd make some comment, but I'm not even sure as to what I'd actually say.

Response by SFC Pete Kain made Nov 19 at 2016 2:55 PM

SFC Pete Kain — Sat, 19 Nov 2016 14:55:42 -0500

If I knew they were gold star, I would have given them my seat in first class and saluted as they passed. Maybe that's just me. Booing shows no class.

Response by MSgt Steven Holt, NRP, CCEMT-P made Nov 19 at 2016 2:57 PM

MSgt Steven Holt, NRP, CCEMT-P — Sat, 19 Nov 2016 14:57:51 -0500

I'm not sure. I would imagine I'd administer some much needed chastisement to whatever asshat is in desperate need in an education on manners and common courtesy. As I don't look good in prison orange or horizontal stripes, I would have to come up with some witty comments vs the physical beat down they deserve.

Response by SPC Erich Guenther made Nov 19 at 2016 2:58 PM

SPC Erich Guenther — Sat, 19 Nov 2016 14:58:15 -0500

Blanket Party time and there are plenty of blankets on an aircraft.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 19 at 2016 4:46 PM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 19 Nov 2016 16:46:44 -0500

I would worn them, and if they persisted, chokehold and except the consequences.

Response by GySgt David Weihausen made Nov 19 at 2016 5:27 PM

GySgt David Weihausen — Sat, 19 Nov 2016 17:27:06 -0500

I would calmly and quietly administer a wall-to-wall counseling to the individual and then stand and salute as the family passed by. Semper Fidelis.

Response by SFC Joseph Weber made Nov 19 at 2016 5:53 PM

SFC Joseph Weber — Sat, 19 Nov 2016 17:53:05 -0500

Probably something simple like "hey, assholes. Shut the fuck up"! Pointless to make any attempt to lecture.

Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 19 at 2016 6:24 PM

Sgt Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 19 Nov 2016 18:24:01 -0500

I would have a discussion with the guilty parties. Unfortunately, there are plenty of scumbags.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/gold-star-family-of-slain-calif-soldier-booed-on-flight/ar-AAkvERn

Gold Star family of slain Calif. soldier booed on flight

The father of a soldier who was killed last weekend in Afghanistan was disappointed and hurt after airline passengers booed him and his family as they flew to meet his son's remains.

Response by LCpl Ben Spalding made Nov 19 at 2016 6:54 PM

LCpl Ben Spalding — Sat, 19 Nov 2016 18:54:11 -0500

Beat the fucking shit out of who ever boo'd then drag their ass outside and present it to my brother. Then I would collect their baggage and say fair well.

Response by LCpl Michael Marrero made Nov 19 at 2016 7:40 PM

LCpl Michael Marrero — Sat, 19 Nov 2016 19:40:16 -0500

As a Marine, I would have squared that civilian away after paying my respect to the family.

Response by SPC Carlos R. made Nov 19 at 2016 9:17 PM

SPC Carlos R. — Sat, 19 Nov 2016 21:17:36 -0500

I would have given them my first class seat. I don't know what I would say to the person being disrespectful but it would not be pretty.

Response by SN Greg Wright made Nov 20 at 2016 12:04 AM

SN Greg Wright — Sun, 20 Nov 2016 00:04:00 -0500

I would calmly explain to them exactly what they're booing. Maybe they didn't know. If that didn't work, I would explain that I was a veteran, that that was my brother or sister in the hold, and that if they didn't sit down and be quiet, I would be perfectly willing to accept the consequences for what happens next. And, I would.

Response by CPL Anthony Slaughter made Nov 20 at 2016 12:15 AM

CPL Anthony Slaughter — Sun, 20 Nov 2016 00:15:26 -0500

Throat punch... gets'em every time.

Response by 1LT Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 20 at 2016 12:49 AM

1LT Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 20 Nov 2016 00:49:06 -0500

ENS Private RallyPoint Member - I would take names and do my best to have the boo'ing first class passengers added to the no fly list for failing to honor the flight crew's directions. There is no reason these a**holes should ever be allowed to fly on an american airline again. Warmest Regards, Sandy :)

Response by 1stSgt Eugene Harless made Nov 20 at 2016 1:00 AM

1stSgt Eugene Harless — Sun, 20 Nov 2016 01:00:01 -0500

I personally think a lot of this was because it wasn't made clear to the passengers exactly why this was a "special military family". I imagine the irate travelers would be horrified if they knew exactly what had happened to the family that they were booing.
When I was 15 years old I lost my older brother in an accident. I missed several days of school to travel and attend his funeral.
The first day back in one of my classes I had a classmate ( actually a friend) go on and on rather loudly about me being a slacker and goofing off and missing school. My teacher quietly came up and told him I had lost my brother.
I will never forget the look of absolute shame on his face when he realized what had happened. I quickly made it a point to talk to him and tell him that I knew he meant nothing by it.

Response by Capt Michael Greene made Nov 20 at 2016 1:17 AM

Capt Michael Greene — Sun, 20 Nov 2016 01:17:40 -0500

All the news stories are a little ambiguous. It's not clear if the other passengers understood that the Perry family was collecting remains of their fallen son. Dad says the pilot simply told the pax that they needed to wait for a "special military family." A few of the pax in first class, after being delayed 45 minutes, booed and hissed.

Anyway, very disturbing. Booing and hissing should be reserved for Vice President.

Response by CW4 Angel C. made Nov 20 at 2016 1:31 AM

CW4 Angel C. — Sun, 20 Nov 2016 01:31:07 -0500

Tell them to cut the sh!t and ensure they know that they also disrespecting me! Nevertheless, I guess that's their right to express themselves.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 20 at 2016 2:01 AM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 20 Nov 2016 02:01:39 -0500

I would say" I risked my life and so did others for you to have the right to show others you are an asshole.Have some respect for the fallen!" I travel in uniform to and from Canada to the USA and back monthly.

Response by Capt Seid Waddell made Nov 20 at 2016 2:41 AM

Capt Seid Waddell — Sun, 20 Nov 2016 02:41:47 -0500

I would be disgusted. It reminds me of our return from Viet Nam.

Response by Cpl Justin Goolsby made Nov 21 at 2016 7:17 AM

Cpl Justin Goolsby — Mon, 21 Nov 2016 07:17:58 -0500

I might be thrown off the plane for punching the person, but more importantly, I would try to be there for the family. They are in emotional distress at the moment and being heckled could be the last step that puts them over the edge. So I would try to be there for them to comfort them. Suicide is a problem in our community. I couldn't risk family members following their deceased into the grave because of a couple disrespectful shits.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 21 at 2016 8:00 AM

PO1 Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 21 Nov 2016 08:00:01 -0500

"You keep on booing; because that sailor/soldier/marine/coastguardsman died for you to continue to voice your opinion. But I'm alive and he did the same for me, able to talk to you and to tell you to shut your mouth and give the man some respect."

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 21 at 2016 9:25 AM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 21 Nov 2016 09:25:07 -0500

Hi, PO2 Martin.

I saw this story yesterday, and was incensed. I would do whatever I could to ensure the Gold Star family was treated with respect the entire time I could. Then I would insist some first class passengers were abruptly removed from the plane, from a height and for distance.

Response by SGT Robert K. made Nov 21 at 2016 2:22 PM

SGT Robert K. — Mon, 21 Nov 2016 14:22:12 -0500

I'm sorry sir, it appears your baggage was misdirected.....

Response by SPC(P) Carlos Santini made Nov 21 at 2016 4:27 PM

SPC(P) Carlos Santini — Mon, 21 Nov 2016 16:27:25 -0500

I would start world war III on the aircraft. Fuck these spoiled fucking brats here in the US. They have no clue what kind of man or woman it takes to run toward gun fire, God Bless our Nation and the men/women who fight for it.

Response by SSG Larry R Jones made Nov 21 at 2016 5:16 PM

SSG Larry R Jones — Mon, 21 Nov 2016 17:16:23 -0500

Being a Gold Star Family Member, I am appalled that an American would boo a Gold Star Family. But if I would have been there. There would have been a lot of cheering going on as myself and a lot more veterans would take turns making sure that they understood what respect ment.

Response by SPC Lorrita Morgan made Nov 21 at 2016 7:14 PM

SPC Lorrita Morgan — Mon, 21 Nov 2016 19:14:57 -0500

You can't fix stupid. Fortunately, it seems to be largely self-correcting. Unfortunately, the correction doesn't always occur before they breed.

I like the idea of adding names to the no-fly list. Since these idiots were traveling first class, they might suffer from affluenza. A dose of something that throwing piles of money at can't instantly fix might (probably won't) teach them a bit of patience and respect.

Response by SFC Marcus Belt made Nov 22 at 2016 8:39 AM

SFC Marcus Belt — Tue, 22 Nov 2016 08:39:17 -0500

Go with my strengths: ridicule, belittle and dismiss.

Problem solved, problem staying solved.

Response by CPL Eric Escasio made Nov 22 at 2016 11:19 AM

CPL Eric Escasio — Tue, 22 Nov 2016 11:19:35 -0500

first Ill explain to them why they are getting off the plane first..... if they still continue to push their agenda. Thats the time Ill call each and everyone of them " Oxygen thief"

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 22 at 2016 3:27 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 22 Nov 2016 15:27:56 -0500

Honest to God I'd probobly yell at them. Then hit them. I'd get charged but my Co my BC would be proud and they deserved a lesson

Response by LCpl Addison Reader made Nov 22 at 2016 4:55 PM

LCpl Addison Reader — Tue, 22 Nov 2016 16:55:26 -0500

I looked into this because it was very disrespectful but upon further review the pilot never informed anyone that it was a gold star family. they just said a military family was going to exit first. the people who booed were in first class, who are normally let off first. The pilot should have made a better announcement and maybe this would have been a nonfactor.

Response by PO3 Christopher Jonah Nelson made Nov 22 at 2016 5:30 PM

PO3 Christopher Jonah Nelson — Tue, 22 Nov 2016 17:30:30 -0500

Understanding, of course, that the people who are doing the 'boo'ing are not going to stop, there are really only three options, some of which are less desireable than others. The first, and least desireable, would be to remain silent. The second would be to attempt to console the family in an attempt to distract them from the crowd. The third would be to make a scene by yelling at people to shut the fuck up or something similar, which would invariably draw attention to you, thereby shifting it off of the family.

Response by SFC Dennis A. made Nov 23 at 2016 9:35 AM

SFC Dennis A. — Wed, 23 Nov 2016 09:35:06 -0500

First I'd feel deeply saddened then there would be some disrespectful comments and language directed towards the booing individuals.

Response by PO3 Lewis Don Whitsitt made Nov 23 at 2016 7:36 PM

PO3 Lewis Don Whitsitt — Wed, 23 Nov 2016 19:36:10 -0500

I would have a few choice words for them after I gave my respects to the fallen hero.

Response by Cpl Brian Johnston made Nov 25 at 2016 2:09 AM

Cpl Brian Johnston — Fri, 25 Nov 2016 02:09:53 -0500

I would tell them to STFU, and dare any of them to make a move on me!

Response by SSgt Nancy Holly made Nov 28 at 2016 8:53 AM

SSgt Nancy Holly — Mon, 28 Nov 2016 08:53:24 -0500

I would defend the family wholeheartedly. I hope the pilot and stewardesses on the plane did this?

Response by SCPO Jason McLaughlin made Nov 28 at 2016 9:09 AM

SCPO Jason McLaughlin — Mon, 28 Nov 2016 09:09:41 -0500

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 29 at 2016 11:40 AM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 29 Nov 2016 11:40:29 -0500

I read this original story on the news and it is disgraceful. This conduct is reminiscent of the welcome Vietnam vets received when they returned home which shows that we are no longer moving forward but backwards. Unfortunately, since most of these morons suffer from the Dunning–Kruger effect chastising them would be pointless. I would have asked that the offending members be escorted off the plane for causing a disturbance. Maybe a few hours in an interrogation room would give them enough time to reflect on the freedoms that veterans sacrifice for.... especially those who gave it all.

Response by MSG Matthew Smith made Nov 30 at 2016 7:21 PM

MSG Matthew Smith — Wed, 30 Nov 2016 19:21:58 -0500

I would be very upset about the sitituation and the people who did that

Response by PFC John McKenzie made Dec 23 at 2016 3:15 AM

PFC John McKenzie — Fri, 23 Dec 2016 03:15:48 -0500

The Flight Attendants on the aircraft have a way of expressing to the passengers what is taking place. I think most passengers understand the need for this to be done as a courtesy to the family of the fallen military person.

Response by Sgt Bob Leonard made Dec 23 at 2016 10:15 PM

Sgt Bob Leonard — Fri, 23 Dec 2016 22:15:35 -0500

I saw this story a couple of weeks ago, and couldn't believe it - so I didn't. I chased down the details of it and got an entirely different picture.

The Perry family was flying from Sacramento, CA to Phoenix, AZ, ultimately traveling to Dover to meet their Fallen Warrior. For totally unrelated reasons, the 1hr 45min flight was 45min late taking off.

First piece of missing key info: Everyone on board was already a little bit tense because they were late and might miss connecting flights, et al.

When the aircraft landed in Phoenix, the Captain asked that everyone remain seated while a "special Military Family" exited the aircraft (he didn't identify them as a Gold Star Family).

Second key piece of missing info: The Perrys were not identified as a Gold Star Family.

My conclusion, the passenger(s) being vilified here were...

1: Unaware the Perrys were a Gold Star Family and therefore can't be criticized for being disrespectful to them or their loss.

2: In light of the fact that the flight was already 45 min. late, it's understandable people might be a little tense and given to some kind of exasperated utterance when asked to wait even a couple of minutes longer.

I'm confident that if the other passengers had known they were being asked to wait another moment or two for a Gold Star Family to deplane, they would have respectfully waited.

What grieves me is that this not-completely-accurate aspect of the situation is being posted and repeated, while American Airlines and its employees are not given credit for what they did to ensure this Family arrived at their destination ASAP. Not only did AA get them to their destination as quickly as possible, the Captain of their connecting flight leaving from Phoenix delayed his departure 40 min. for them. That's the real story!

Response by PO1 Tony Holland made Dec 25 at 2016 12:32 PM

PO1 Tony Holland — Sun, 25 Dec 2016 12:32:10 -0500

Entitled anal by-products such as these know little of shame or responsibility - they are blind to the idea of sacrifice and duty. In an emergency, I would gladly hand them a fake parachute.

Response by SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth made Dec 25 at 2016 4:57 PM

SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth — Sun, 25 Dec 2016 16:57:14 -0500

Ask the people what they would do if it was their relative, son or daughter and people did the same to them?

Response by PO2 Samantha Day made Dec 27 at 2016 6:54 AM

PO2 Samantha Day — Tue, 27 Dec 2016 06:54:28 -0500

I read the whole story on a couple other sites and several comments stated that the (first class) passengers may not have realized the family was a gold star family, and enroute to receive the son's remains. My thoughts.... 1. In my experience first class passengers tend to be a bit pompous and do not want anyone getting on or off the plane before them, regardless of reason. 2. It is possible the passengers in question did not understand why the family was getting preferential treatment. 3. It is also highly possible that even if the term "Gold Star Family" had been used... those passengers, who boo'ed, would not have a clue what it meant. 4. Numbers 2 and 3 may be made irrelevant by number 1.

Bottom line for me is that a vast majority of the country has forgotten (or was never taught) common decency, being respectful, basic courtesy and common sense. The captain of the aircraft is responsible for everyone on board and everything that occurs. Instead of acting like disrespectfull assholes, it should have been no stretch of thought to realize he had a very good reason for making the announcement.

Response by SrA Sheri Wooldridge made Dec 29 at 2016 7:00 AM

SrA Sheri Wooldridge — Thu, 29 Dec 2016 07:00:06 -0500

I would take my time punching each person in the throat.

Response by SGT Robert Scott made Dec 29 at 2016 8:40 AM

SGT Robert Scott — Thu, 29 Dec 2016 08:40:57 -0500

I would tell him/her to shut up..nicely! I might get kicked off the flight, but tuff shit! Some snowflake/buttercup needs to learn some manners and respect. And if the situation was to escalate I will "take no prisoners"! I work in Iraq with the Marines and some Army folks, they are "my boys", all of them, outstanding servicemen and women. I want nothing more that to see each and every one go home to their families. I am an old Deplorable, but I took an oath many years ago, with no expiration date and I will defend my country, my fellow service men and women and their remains, if needed....no questions asked.

Response by MSgt Bill Rentz made Dec 29 at 2016 12:55 PM

MSgt Bill Rentz — Thu, 29 Dec 2016 12:55:10 -0500

As I have done previously on a flight, either sit quietly or stand (out of the aisle) with my head bowed as they passed. If people booed they would get my MSgt Look and if they kept it up I would be in their face...but I have never heard this happening. In this particular case the captain of the aircraft said he did not recall if he when he made the announcement he said this was a Gold Star family or not. If he didn't it would go a long way to explain why they were getting special treatment.

Response by SrA Jack Faus made Dec 29 at 2016 8:03 PM

SrA Jack Faus — Thu, 29 Dec 2016 20:03:25 -0500

I would lay into the boxer. I don't care if he/she was pot US. That is disrespectful to any family that has lost a loved one in the military or not. Period.

Response by SPC Charles Isaac made Dec 30 at 2016 10:28 AM

SPC Charles Isaac — Fri, 30 Dec 2016 10:28:30 -0500

I am sort an ass in these situations. I have an awesome booming voice when I need it. I would say something like. May I have your attention. Please stfu and honor the family of my brother. You are shameful.

Response by Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 10 at 2017 5:22 PM

Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 10 Jan 2017 17:22:12 -0500

I would rise and call the 'booing' passengers TRAITORS & make them shut-up !!!

Response by TSgt Rick Mahaney made Jan 11 at 2017 9:27 AM

TSgt Rick Mahaney — Wed, 11 Jan 2017 09:27:44 -0500

I agree on the proper education as to what a Gold Star Family means! I was in the Air Force for 21 years and had never heard the term "Gold Star Family" until well after I retired! So it is very possible that the individual was ignorant as to why they were allowed to leave first! After proper education & they still booed ...now that's a different story! Perhaps more physical education in needed to sway the individuals ignorance!

Response by SGT Ronald Audas made Jan 11 at 2017 12:18 PM

SGT Ronald Audas — Wed, 11 Jan 2017 12:18:14 -0500

Darn good chance I would try my best to make sure that passenger was the last off the plane.

Response by LCpl Steve Smith made Jan 18 at 2017 8:38 PM

LCpl Steve Smith — Wed, 18 Jan 2017 20:38:34 -0500

I would Politely sound off in true Marine Corps Style "shut your fucking pie holes you worthless pieces of shit".

Response by GySgt Melissa Gravila made Jan 18 at 2017 9:14 PM

GySgt Melissa Gravila — Wed, 18 Jan 2017 21:14:05 -0500

I would offer my condolences to the family and then proceed to embarrass the HELL out of the assets who did the booing.

Response by SCPO Lonny Randolph made Jan 19 at 2017 2:53 PM

SCPO Lonny Randolph — Thu, 19 Jan 2017 14:53:19 -0500

I would have spoken to the offending shit bag in a clear and penetrating tone and requested that they display the courtesy and honor that the family of the deceased serviceman has earned and reminded them that this person deserved the respect he/she has earned with the ultimate sacrifice. If they did not then knock off their crap I would follow them to a secluded area of the facility and completed their training in a more physical manner. Nothing but love tho...

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 24 at 2017 10:13 AM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 24 Jan 2017 10:13:08 -0500

Knock the SOB out and respect the family of the soldier on thier way out .. I'll take the assault charge I'm sure my NCO would understand...

Response by SPC Randy Torgerson made Jan 24 at 2017 1:48 PM

SPC Randy Torgerson — Tue, 24 Jan 2017 13:48:00 -0500

I would do my best to whisper in their ear "shut the &$# up". OMG the disrespect...... I don't know if I have any good words.... My apologies to all, this may be my worst post yet....

Response by SGT Jeremy Boyd made Jan 24 at 2017 9:09 PM

SGT Jeremy Boyd — Tue, 24 Jan 2017 21:09:53 -0500

Like a maniac

Response by SPC Kelly Grindstaff made Jan 25 at 2017 4:56 AM

SPC Kelly Grindstaff — Wed, 25 Jan 2017 04:56:41 -0500

Make a note of the Clowns until off the plane then begin the discussion into their education. Their are many ways to get people like that to completely lose their cool. IE talking to them as if they were illiterate and keep digging in from there. Then when they get angry :D keep smiling works wonders.

Response by Sgt Joseph Salnicky made Jan 25 at 2017 10:46 AM

Sgt Joseph Salnicky — Wed, 25 Jan 2017 10:46:00 -0500

Seem the flight crew would notified the passengers that there is a Gold Star service member who lost his life in combat and that he would be departing the plane first and everyone else be seated until he is departed the plane with his family.

Response by PFC John McKenzie made Jan 26 at 2017 12:25 PM

PFC John McKenzie — Thu, 26 Jan 2017 12:25:08 -0500

The pilot should have explained to ALL passengers that there was a family on board the flight accompnying their "Fallen Warrior" home and would everyone remain seated until they were disembarked from the aircraft? I think the flight crew handled it rather poorly.

Response by A1C Todd Hannah made Jan 29 at 2017 10:01 AM

A1C Todd Hannah — Sun, 29 Jan 2017 10:01:25 -0500

I would definitely stand and tell the booing people about respect!!!!

Response by LCpl Daniel Mcenespy made Feb 3 at 2017 12:26 AM

LCpl Daniel Mcenespy — Fri, 03 Feb 2017 00:26:55 -0500

Calmly let them know this is a gold star moment. Show some respect for the Marine that made the ultimate sacrifice and that the family deserves the same.

Response by Cpl Myron Cotton made Feb 3 at 2017 1:59 PM

Cpl Myron Cotton — Fri, 03 Feb 2017 13:59:25 -0500

Tell people to about the fuck up if you can't respect them

Response by Sgt Jeff Hylton made Feb 3 at 2017 6:08 PM

Sgt Jeff Hylton — Fri, 03 Feb 2017 18:08:03 -0500

I would stand up and address the plane passengers to shut the hell up!

Response by FN John Lewis made Feb 4 at 2017 1:16 PM

FN John Lewis — Sat, 04 Feb 2017 13:16:29 -0500

Somebody would get a punch in the face .

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 4 at 2017 1:58 PM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 04 Feb 2017 13:58:24 -0500

THROAT PUNCH!!!

Response by SGT Gary DeFelippo made Feb 5 at 2017 8:03 PM

SGT Gary DeFelippo — Sun, 05 Feb 2017 20:03:21 -0500

just take it in stride, don't add fuel to a negative fire. Console the family

Response by Sgt Bob Leonard made Feb 6 at 2017 2:03 AM

Sgt Bob Leonard — Mon, 06 Feb 2017 02:03:55 -0500

"I saw this story a couple of weeks ago, and couldn't believe it - so I didn't. I chased down the details of it and got an entirely different picture.

The Perry family was flying from Sacramento, CA to Phoenix, AZ, ultimately traveling to Dover to meet their Fallen Warrior. For totally unrelated reasons, the 1hr 45min flight was 45min late taking off.

First piece of missing key info: Everyone on board was already a little bit tense because they were late and might miss connecting flights, et al.

(Interrupt: Actually, the FIRST piece of missing key information is that the casket containing the remains of their (our) Fallen Warrior was NOT on this aircraft. It was somewhere over the Atlantic, enroute from the Middle East to Dover.)

When the aircraft landed in Phoenix, the Captain asked that everyone remain seated while a "special Military Family" exited the aircraft (he didn't identify them as a Gold Star Family).

Second key piece of missing info: The Perrys were not identified as a Gold Star Family.

My conclusion, the passenger(s) being vilified here were...

1: Unaware the Perrys were a Gold Star Family and therefore can't be criticized for being disrespectful to them or their loss.

2: In light of the fact that the flight was already 45 min. late, it's understandable people might be a little tense and given to some kind of exasperated utterance when asked to wait even a couple of minutes longer.

I'm confident that if the other passengers had known they were being asked to wait another moment or two for a Gold Star Family to deplane, they would have respectfully waited.

What grieves me is that this not-completely-accurate report of the situation is being posted and repeated, while American Airlines and its employees are not given credit for what they did to ensure this Family arrived at their destination ASAP. Not only did AA get them to their destination as quickly as possible, the Captain of their connecting flight leaving from Phoenix delayed his departure 40 min. for them. That's the real story!"

Response by SFC Michael Peterson made Feb 8 at 2017 10:14 AM

SFC Michael Peterson — Wed, 08 Feb 2017 10:14:48 -0500

Standing and yelling "shut the fuck up" sounds warranted in this situation. Then I would hope they tried to assault me in baggage claim.

Response by Richard Parcher made Feb 8 at 2017 11:52 AM

Richard Parcher — Wed, 08 Feb 2017 11:52:15 -0500

Slap them upside the head, tell them shut the fuck up and wait to be escorted to jail!

Response by SSgt Warren Harris made Feb 8 at 2017 4:44 PM

SSgt Warren Harris — Wed, 08 Feb 2017 16:44:03 -0500

Would tell them that they are a sick bunch of no good pieces of crap, for me this is too polite .

Response by SSG Robert Martin made Feb 8 at 2017 9:23 PM

SSG Robert Martin — Wed, 08 Feb 2017 21:23:47 -0500

Honestly? I would most likely be unprofessional, and tell them STFU! I would likely be reprimanded for my short comings. There are some things that are too much.

Response by David Berger made Feb 9 at 2017 1:46 PM

David Berger — Thu, 09 Feb 2017 13:46:23 -0500

Who ever booed would be the last person off the plane I would make sure of it

Response by Bryan Gould made Feb 10 at 2017 10:28 PM

Bryan Gould — Fri, 10 Feb 2017 22:28:39 -0500

They should be punished. Guess they forget the price freedom An because of the Military is why they live the way they do

Response by PFC Timothy Ahern made Feb 14 at 2017 12:20 PM

PFC Timothy Ahern — Tue, 14 Feb 2017 12:20:24 -0500

Let the throat punching begin

Response by SP5 Robert Ruck made Feb 23 at 2017 8:38 AM

SP5 Robert Ruck — Thu, 23 Feb 2017 08:38:28 -0500

I would probably do nothing trusting that karma would surely bite the offenders in the butt. It is their right to be an asshat.

Response by PFC Aaron Cox made Feb 23 at 2017 5:10 PM

PFC Aaron Cox — Thu, 23 Feb 2017 17:10:08 -0500

I might get arrested for whipping someone's ass. Even though I am Disabled, I would gladly insist that they go before me. Then I would follow them out and Solute the fallen Comrade. Lead by example.

Response by Lt Col Jim Coe made Feb 23 at 2017 5:14 PM

Lt Col Jim Coe — Thu, 23 Feb 2017 17:14:37 -0500

Not really much I could do from my normal lowly place in coach. The First Class passengers are likely to be off and gone before I ever get to the door. However, if I saw the family, I would go way out of my way to tell them I respected their loved one's sacrifice. Possibly ask if there was anything I could do to help them. Then go home, hug my wife, and pray for the idiot who disgraced themselves by disrespecting a fallen hero.

Response by SPC Jason Bourassa made Feb 25 at 2017 8:59 PM

SPC Jason Bourassa — Sat, 25 Feb 2017 20:59:48 -0500

I would grab that individual and escorts them to the restroom on the plane and give them a short training session on close quarters combat!

Response by CPT Ronald Scherick made Feb 28 at 2017 6:24 PM

CPT Ronald Scherick — Tue, 28 Feb 2017 18:24:13 -0500

I would like to believe the cabin crew did not explain the reason for asking that the gold star family be let off first. I know we are a divided country but I can not see how any American no mater which team they root for would be so insensitive.
I did fly home from VA. in uniform during the Vietnam conflict and in the airport in New York I was called baby killer and worse . I had to laugh because the only thing i fought was tooth decay.

Response by MSgt Mike Finn made Feb 28 at 2017 10:22 PM

MSgt Mike Finn — Tue, 28 Feb 2017 22:22:31 -0500

I might be arrested for disoederly conduct. After the passenger who booed and I had a conversation.

Response by SPC Byron Skinner made Feb 28 at 2017 10:42 PM

SPC Byron Skinner — Tue, 28 Feb 2017 22:42:12 -0500

Sp4 Byron Skinner. Be quiet and respectful and due honor to the military that the deceased any you both served in. To many of us whom served in Vietnam crowd disrespect is nothing new. If you are the one that makes a fuss the law will single you out as the cause. Since I doubt that few of you have ever found yourself in this kind of a situation, my experience was 50 years ago so take for what you like, my advice is to be quiet and get out of the area. The military WILL NOT stand behind you, if you want to end a career be my guest.

Response by SA Keith Lofton made Feb 28 at 2017 11:28 PM

SA Keith Lofton — Tue, 28 Feb 2017 23:28:05 -0500

I would tell the person/persons too shut there mouths up and give respect!

Response by TSgt Sam Smargissi made Mar 1 at 2017 3:55 AM

TSgt Sam Smargissi — Wed, 01 Mar 2017 03:55:33 -0500

They would not like the words that would come from my mouth.

Response by PO3 Steve Scripture made Mar 3 at 2017 1:55 AM

PO3 Steve Scripture — Fri, 03 Mar 2017 01:55:27 -0500

Respectfully ask the displeased party to show respect.

Response by PO2 Peter Dahlgren made Mar 6 at 2017 5:38 PM

PO2 Peter Dahlgren — Mon, 06 Mar 2017 17:38:20 -0500

Hand salute middle finger deployed service with a mile

Response by CPT Doug Adams made Mar 7 at 2017 8:13 AM

CPT Doug Adams — Tue, 07 Mar 2017 08:13:14 -0500

Throat punch

Response by SP5 Matthew Moppins made Mar 7 at 2017 3:46 PM

SP5 Matthew Moppins — Tue, 07 Mar 2017 15:46:19 -0500

Do my best to remain calm and ask the offender to show some respect.

Response by Kythe Baldwin made Mar 8 at 2017 10:55 AM

Kythe Baldwin — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 10:55:58 -0500

Being Canadian we have a section of our largest highway (401 from Trenton to 404 coroner) named the highway of heroes. We repatriate every son or daughter of this nation that has fallen. I cannot believe this would ever happen - or the fight that would ensue afterwards.

Response by SSG Mark Clark made Mar 8 at 2017 11:50 PM

SSG Mark Clark — Wed, 08 Mar 2017 23:50:47 -0500

Stand up & salute them until they have departed the aircraft...then return the salute slowly & deliberately.

Response by COL Charles Williams made Mar 9 at 2017 12:13 AM

COL Charles Williams — Thu, 09 Mar 2017 00:13:15 -0500

I would make a scene... ENS Private RallyPoint Member

Response by LCpl Deb Olson made Mar 22 at 2017 12:58 AM

LCpl Deb Olson — Wed, 22 Mar 2017 00:58:07 -0400

Ask if they'd like to take the soldiers place. Because it could be arranged

Response by CPL Tim Blackburn made Mar 28 at 2017 5:05 PM

CPL Tim Blackburn — Tue, 28 Mar 2017 17:05:44 -0400

I WOULD GO TO JAIL !!!!

Response by AB Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 29 at 2017 3:49 AM

AB Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 29 Mar 2017 03:49:37 -0400

Would stand and personally escort the family off, Not allowing any other passenger off and salute the fallen. Offering my deepest condolences and thanks to the family

Response by PO1 Samuel Cook made Mar 29 at 2017 8:48 AM

PO1 Samuel Cook — Wed, 29 Mar 2017 08:48:49 -0400

I'd ask / tell/ make them STFU & show some respect for the dead and try to be a decent human being.

Response by CPO Charles Patterson made Apr 19 at 2017 6:12 AM

CPO Charles Patterson — Wed, 19 Apr 2017 06:12:56 -0400

Start singing God Bless America in support of the Gold Star family to drown out the disrespect.

Response by Craig Clark made Apr 20 at 2017 9:41 AM

Craig Clark — Thu, 20 Apr 2017 09:41:36 -0400

Also saw the email from Mick. Lots of flexibility. I think we should go

Response by Marlene Hessler made Apr 20 at 2017 8:01 PM

Marlene Hessler — Thu, 20 Apr 2017 20:01:32 -0400

I cannot think of a response sufficient to deal with such disrespect of the people that fought and gave their all that a moron gets to live FREE and make such a fool of themself.

Response by SSG Paul Carrier made Apr 25 at 2017 9:37 AM

SSG Paul Carrier — Tue, 25 Apr 2017 09:37:14 -0400

Stand at attention and salute the family.

Response by MSgt Doug Nicholson made Apr 25 at 2017 12:57 PM

MSgt Doug Nicholson — Tue, 25 Apr 2017 12:57:43 -0400

I'd make sure they knew I was a veteran. I'd make certain they heard my views.

Response by PO2 Rev. Frederick C. Mullis, AFI, CFM made Apr 26 at 2017 1:40 PM

PO2 Rev. Frederick C. Mullis, AFI, CFM — Wed, 26 Apr 2017 13:40:41 -0400

I would punch the Booer dead in the mouth.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2017 11:49 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 27 Apr 2017 23:49:55 -0400

There might be more bodies coming off the plane afterwards ...

Response by CPL Beth Allsop made Apr 28 at 2017 12:12 AM

CPL Beth Allsop — Fri, 28 Apr 2017 00:12:23 -0400

I'm not certain what I would do, but I know if I had the opportunity I would stand up and acknowledge the family, then perhaps attempt to make a louder announcement of God Bless our fallen heros!
I can't imagine how they felt being treated in such a disgusting manner while being home their greatest loss.
God Bless our Trooops! Past, Present and Future

Response by PO2 Willis Linn made Apr 28 at 2017 10:07 AM

PO2 Willis Linn — Fri, 28 Apr 2017 10:07:54 -0400

I would do what I could to Honor the fallen and remember we in the military gave them the freedom to boo-But later I'd drink a beer to Honor and Duty and try to forget the fools!

Response by SGT David Lacks made May 5 at 2017 7:45 PM

SGT David Lacks — Fri, 05 May 2017 19:45:03 -0400

We'll, as a veteran, and an airline General Manager, I could guarantee those people would spend eternity in TSA Hell every single time they tried to fly after being so disrespectful.

Response by Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen made May 5 at 2017 8:00 PM

Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen — Fri, 05 May 2017 20:00:04 -0400

More than likely my wife would be bailing me out of jail for assault and battery on an airline passenger or two.

Response by Shannon Bishop made May 8 at 2017 6:19 PM

Shannon Bishop — Mon, 08 May 2017 18:19:47 -0400

I would pray to God to give that family strength and courage! I have a son overseas right now that if I were in that situation I wouldn't care what any one said as long as they didn't get in my way to get to my son !!!

Response by A1C Jason Jones made May 8 at 2017 9:31 PM

A1C Jason Jones — Mon, 08 May 2017 21:31:06 -0400

Without any hesitation I would end that person's existence.

Response by SSG Dave Mathews made May 11 at 2017 8:46 PM

SSG Dave Mathews — Thu, 11 May 2017 20:46:36 -0400

I would have quietly walked up to them and told them the solider in that coffin died so you could boo , what have you done lately ???

Response by Pvt Frank Marshall made May 17 at 2017 1:32 AM

Pvt Frank Marshall — Wed, 17 May 2017 01:32:20 -0400

That kind of action identifies an individual with complete lack of self respect not to mention disrespect to the family of the fallen service member. I would be tempted to give that individual a serious talking to.

Response by SPC Timothy Lickiss made May 18 at 2017 4:31 PM

SPC Timothy Lickiss — Thu, 18 May 2017 16:31:42 -0400

Probably punch that person!

Response by SPC Don Wynn made May 19 at 2017 1:41 PM

SPC Don Wynn — Fri, 19 May 2017 13:41:28 -0400

Give them a very serious talking to about honor, sacrifice, American ideals. Then likely a throat punch.

Response by PO2 Robert Lee made May 19 at 2017 6:33 PM

PO2 Robert Lee — Fri, 19 May 2017 18:33:26 -0400

I would probably go to jail telling the rest of the plane to f*** off and send their relative to defend the constitution. Just so they had the freedom to be so inconsiderate of a family who gave so much for the freedom to say what they believe.

Response by SFC William Stephens A. Jr., 3 MSM, JSCM made May 22 at 2017 11:00 AM

SFC William Stephens A. Jr., 3 MSM, JSCM — Mon, 22 May 2017 11:00:38 -0400

Right now the AIRLINES has how many ASSAULT CHARGES on its aircrafts? add one 1 more. END OF STORY! GBA

Response by Cpl Aaron Golbeck made May 22 at 2017 5:19 PM

Cpl Aaron Golbeck — Mon, 22 May 2017 17:19:58 -0400

locate, close with and destroy the enemy by fire and maneuver, or repel the enemy assault by fire and close combat!

Response by CPO Robert (Mac) McGovern made May 22 at 2017 7:36 PM

CPO Robert (Mac) McGovern — Mon, 22 May 2017 19:36:11 -0400

Wait for him to start deboarding then accidentally assault him. Instead of going to his destination...the hospital instead.

Response by SSgt Rae Ann Panther made May 24 at 2017 2:19 PM

SSgt Rae Ann Panther — Wed, 24 May 2017 14:19:57 -0400

Start to sing "God Bless America".

Response by PO3 Vince Gibson made May 25 at 2017 8:39 AM

PO3 Vince Gibson — Thu, 25 May 2017 08:39:21 -0400

I'd probably throat punch the piece of shit. That would put and end to his ability to boo.

Response by MSG Biran Colwell made Jun 1 at 2017 1:17 AM

MSG Biran Colwell — Thu, 01 Jun 2017 01:17:47 -0400

Being in first class does not give you any special rights, but Gold Star Families deserve that right to to be with there service member for they paid the price to include the family. Maybe the airlines should have let the passengers know what was going to take place, and the passengers should have been more understanding. And yes a SALUTE, Always and an explanation to the passengers of what takes place.

Response by PO3 Vince Gibson made Jun 1 at 2017 8:49 AM

PO3 Vince Gibson — Thu, 01 Jun 2017 08:49:51 -0400

A smack upside their head.

Response by LCpl Stephen Sharp made Jun 1 at 2017 11:37 PM

LCpl Stephen Sharp — Thu, 01 Jun 2017 23:37:41 -0400

I agree with LT McInnis -- However there would be NO doubt in my mind, I would defiantly be standing tall in front of a Federal Judge and proudly say GUILTY SIR.

Response by PVT Raymond Lopez made Jun 2 at 2017 9:02 AM

PVT Raymond Lopez — Fri, 02 Jun 2017 09:02:03 -0400

VERY BADLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Response by TSgt Tommy Amparano made Jun 2 at 2017 5:35 PM

TSgt Tommy Amparano — Fri, 02 Jun 2017 17:35:40 -0400

I would have called them out for being a flaming shithead. That is all.

Response by SPC Franklin McKown made Jun 4 at 2017 3:04 AM

SPC Franklin McKown — Sun, 04 Jun 2017 03:04:31 -0400

I would use my command voice to silence them.
Utilizing various swear words(Cause they deserve it and it's fun)Iknow what should be said.

Response by CSM Debra Kubiet made Jun 4 at 2017 8:10 AM

CSM Debra Kubiet — Sun, 04 Jun 2017 08:10:26 -0400

I would say: "In your haste to exit please be sure to thank the fallen soldier's family for the member's sacrifice to allow you freedom of speech and freedom to act anyway you deem beneficial to yourselves".

Response by 1SG James Matthews made Jun 4 at 2017 9:17 PM

1SG James Matthews — Sun, 04 Jun 2017 21:17:47 -0400

I would probably get in a whole lot of trouble.

Response by LCDR Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 7 at 2017 12:21 AM

LCDR Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 07 Jun 2017 00:21:20 -0400

Just stand up and salute. No words required.

Response by Capt Dwayne Conyers made Jun 7 at 2017 2:17 AM

Capt Dwayne Conyers — Wed, 07 Jun 2017 02:17:31 -0400

Treat them like United passengers

Response by 1SG Thomas Griffiths made Jun 7 at 2017 3:12 PM

1SG Thomas Griffiths — Wed, 07 Jun 2017 15:12:24 -0400

Total disrespect. I would go off on their ass!

Response by TSgt Sam Smargissi made Jun 8 at 2017 2:58 PM

TSgt Sam Smargissi — Thu, 08 Jun 2017 14:58:10 -0400

I would stand and say the pledge of alligence to our flag.

Response by PVT Jason Kratzer made Jun 11 at 2017 8:01 PM

PVT Jason Kratzer — Sun, 11 Jun 2017 20:01:08 -0400

I'd go back jerk the people or if there chairs and drag them off United style. After the Gold Star Family got off the plane of course. I would expedite their departure off the plane no problem!

Response by LTC Patrick Turner made Jun 11 at 2017 8:45 PM

LTC Patrick Turner — Sun, 11 Jun 2017 20:45:55 -0400

Like all things in life where something is taken negatively, I am OPTIMISTIC that the announcement was mishandled. You have to be pretty dense in our society to ignore to "BOO" something as sacred as this. Exceptions would be the Westboro Church who makes a habit of disrespecting fallen heroes.

Response by SMSgt Clayton Cortinas made Jun 12 at 2017 9:18 PM

SMSgt Clayton Cortinas — Mon, 12 Jun 2017 21:18:10 -0400

SFC Weber covered it perfectly, "SHUT THE FUCK UP!!". Show some respect dipshits!

Response by Miranda Golter made Jun 12 at 2017 11:43 PM

Miranda Golter — Mon, 12 Jun 2017 23:43:55 -0400

Knock them out. Then probably go to jail.

Response by SPC Douglas Yorke made Jun 13 at 2017 11:25 AM

SPC Douglas Yorke — Tue, 13 Jun 2017 11:25:31 -0400

Kick someone's ass!!!!

Response by SSG Robert Pratt made Jun 15 at 2017 7:37 AM

SSG Robert Pratt — Thu, 15 Jun 2017 07:37:06 -0400

An elbow to the face due to an uncontrolled muscle spasm on my way past.

Response by SGT Harmeson Richard made Jun 15 at 2017 3:59 PM

SGT Harmeson Richard — Thu, 15 Jun 2017 15:59:59 -0400

Get Arrested...

Response by CWO4 Josh Henley made Jun 15 at 2017 4:38 PM

CWO4 Josh Henley — Thu, 15 Jun 2017 16:38:15 -0400

I would stand up, face the family, salute and say "Thank you for raising a hero to this, our nation."

Response by Heidi Sharpe made Jun 20 at 2017 12:39 PM

Heidi Sharpe — Tue, 20 Jun 2017 12:39:13 -0400

I cannot imagine anyone who knows the situation would react that way. To know better is to do better!

Response by SPC Franklin McKown made Jun 23 at 2017 2:58 AM

SPC Franklin McKown — Fri, 23 Jun 2017 02:58:48 -0400

Usually a good EYE fucking shuts down snowflakes,I must confess to DELIBERATELY changing my appearance to that resembling a biker,it really keeps the jerks off my back and, with moments as described, it has value. If not we have this thing called the Brachial stun...

Response by CW3 Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 27 at 2017 9:32 AM

CW3 Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 27 Jun 2017 09:32:01 -0400

I would be very unpleasant. Very, very unpleasant.

Response by MSgt Mike (Lobo VNV Original) Morrow made Jun 28 at 2017 2:45 PM

MSgt Mike (Lobo VNV Original) Morrow — Wed, 28 Jun 2017 14:45:22 -0400

I would be right with you.

Response by Mary Ann Harris made Jun 29 at 2017 5:43 PM

Mary Ann Harris — Thu, 29 Jun 2017 17:43:14 -0400

As a seasoned teacher, I would give them the mother of all death stares that God only bestows on kick-ass teachers ... and DIs! :-)

Response by SPC Charles Palmer made Jun 29 at 2017 6:34 PM

SPC Charles Palmer — Thu, 29 Jun 2017 18:34:37 -0400

First, one needs to insure the rest of the passengers understand the 'why'. Although one would think they would know, you can't assume they do. It is the pilot's responsibility to somehow get the information out to the others. If they decide to boo after knowing this, there isn't much that one can be done.

Response by PO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 29 at 2017 8:28 PM

PO3 Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 29 Jun 2017 20:28:59 -0400

Words can't explain how furious I would be. There's no point in a intellectual conversation with them because they are obvious ignorant fucks.

Response by SSG Alfonso Pagan made Jun 30 at 2017 10:10 AM

SSG Alfonso Pagan — Fri, 30 Jun 2017 10:10:12 -0400

That is the America that we have allowed becoming, where little by little we have erased the values and reasons this country was founded upon. Where a returning servicemember from overseas get spat in the face, where a fallen servicemember gets a protest in his funeral and where the inconvenience of a fallen servicemember in their plane is the worst thing ever that can happen to them.

Response by CPT Larry Hudson made Jul 1 at 2017 5:35 PM

CPT Larry Hudson — Sat, 01 Jul 2017 17:35:27 -0400

I would give them a come to Jesus moment, and attempt to make them think a maggot had a higher respect than they. Then, a resounding "God Bless America" would follow in song and with anyone who would join in.

Response by MSgt John McGowan made Jul 1 at 2017 5:36 PM

MSgt John McGowan — Sat, 01 Jul 2017 17:36:35 -0400

Probably get in trouble.

Response by SGT Glenn E Moody made Jul 1 at 2017 9:35 PM

SGT Glenn E Moody — Sat, 01 Jul 2017 21:35:59 -0400

I would probably get arrested for punching him in the mouth. you just don't do that disrespect our fallen coming home to be laid to rest the family comes first

Response by LCpl Aaron Freeman made Jul 2 at 2017 12:33 AM

LCpl Aaron Freeman — Sun, 02 Jul 2017 00:33:33 -0400

I'd be pissed... plain and simple! That kid, made the ultimate sacrifice, so a little respect for a fallen warrior, is in order!!!

Response by Kevin Wilson made Jul 2 at 2017 2:47 AM

Kevin Wilson — Sun, 02 Jul 2017 02:47:22 -0400

Personally, I'd have punched them in their fucking face, man or woman, saluted the family as they passed by, asked the name of their loved one to add to my personal list of heroes and accepted any of the consequences. I can give up money and time, that hero gave up their life.

Response by CW4 Abdulaziz Bulling made Jul 2 at 2017 8:21 AM

CW4 Abdulaziz Bulling — Sun, 02 Jul 2017 08:21:38 -0400

I am afraid that I would go off on their a** and remind them who is protecting their ability to do the things they enjoy doing and living in a free world where they can do those things.

Response by SFC Hal Jeauxdevine, BSM w/"V", MSM, PH, Arcom w/“V” made Jul 3 at 2017 2:37 PM

SFC Hal Jeauxdevine, BSM w/"V", MSM, PH, Arcom w/“V” — Mon, 03 Jul 2017 14:37:25 -0400

I would stand up and identify myself as a combat veteran and literally yell out "...SHUT THE FUCK UP" !!

Response by CPO William Pentheny made Jul 3 at 2017 9:07 PM

CPO William Pentheny — Mon, 03 Jul 2017 21:07:16 -0400

Stand at parade rest in front of the offender until all other passengers were off.

Response by 1LT William Clardy made Jul 3 at 2017 9:19 PM

1LT William Clardy — Mon, 03 Jul 2017 21:19:19 -0400

Purely hypothetically, I might be tempted to move forward to the first-class section where I would take up a protective position to ensure nobody attempted to harm those wonderful people for practicing their free-speech skills. I would then advise the booers that it would be best for their personal security that they stay seated until everybody had exited the aircraft, to avoid any untoward confrontations in the aisle. And if they expressed any displeasure with my active concern for their safety, I would advise them that any threat to force their way past me would constitute misdemeanor assault, and any actual attempt to lay hands on me would constitute battery which I would feel obliged to defend myself against.
But that's all purely hypothetical speculation as to what I might do, so no reader of this response should take this as any indicator of premeditation or prior intent regarding my actions should such a a hypothetical situation confront me.
Addendum: The same hypothetical reasoning would apply regardless of whether the deceased had been in the military. Common courtesy still has a place in society.

Response by Sgt Jay Grigsby made Jul 3 at 2017 9:26 PM

Sgt Jay Grigsby — Mon, 03 Jul 2017 21:26:26 -0400

Be really pissed off and say something to anyone who didn't respect the fallen hero

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 3 at 2017 9:47 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 03 Jul 2017 21:47:39 -0400

No reason to react and get yourself upset over something that you can't control. Understand that everyone isn't on the same level as we are and may not even underrstand the situation. Let it go and go on with your day.

Response by SPC Robert McKay made Jul 5 at 2017 12:08 PM

SPC Robert McKay — Wed, 05 Jul 2017 12:08:57 -0400

Emotional situations are difficult to predict, especially such disrespectful behavior. I would maintain my professional military courtesy and explain the situation, stand up and salute the Family as they disembarked the flight. And I would also question the Flight Crew as to why they did not announce that there was a Gold Star Family on board this flight and that ALL PASSENGERS will remain seated as they disembark the aircraft first to receive their fallen son/daughter.

Response by MAJ Raymond Haynes made Jul 5 at 2017 6:39 PM

MAJ Raymond Haynes — Wed, 05 Jul 2017 18:39:18 -0400

I have had the unfortunate duty of making that speech to my passengers too many times. Normally, everyone is very respectful, and if there is a asshole in the group, the other passengers around him are self policing. Sometimes not turning the seat belt sign off helps. There was one particular time where some snow flake pencil neck said that the Captain had no authority to make such a request. I told him that I would be happy to explain my actions after I return from saluting the returning fallen Marine that was in our cargo hold for the last 3 and a half hours. When I returned the Flight Attendant told me that the other passengers "Handled the problem". What a prick.

Response by PO1 Wesley Jolly made Jul 6 at 2017 12:21 AM

PO1 Wesley Jolly — Thu, 06 Jul 2017 00:21:58 -0400

I am not sure, and hope I never find out, but I suspect that at best I would be banned from travel on that airline for a VERY long time,

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 6 at 2017 12:37 AM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 06 Jul 2017 00:37:11 -0400

That's a tough one. I want to say I'd keep my composure and and carry on, but I reality, I would most likely put hands on that person.

Response by Cpl Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 7 at 2017 12:36 AM

Cpl Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 07 Jul 2017 00:36:42 -0400

I imagine my reaction would be a felony. Multiple counts.

Response by PO2 Dave Johnson made Jul 9 at 2017 8:16 AM

PO2 Dave Johnson — Sun, 09 Jul 2017 08:16:20 -0400

It had to be in New York. Last year I was working at hobby air port in Houston and I saw a few gold star flights arrive. The first one I saw I thought a plane was coming in with a problem fire trucks and police cars lined the run way the fire trucks were shooting their water cannons in a arch over the plane all of the southwest mechanics and most of the office staff were out side the hanger watching I asked a mechanic what was going on he told me a fallen solider was on board the air craft it was emotional and very respectful.

Response by SN Glen Hapeman made Jul 10 at 2017 12:34 PM

SN Glen Hapeman — Mon, 10 Jul 2017 12:34:19 -0400

Continue to pay my respects to Our Hero... otherwise I'm leaving in cuffs and the one that booed on a stretcher...

Response by SPC Daphne Eisiminger made Jul 12 at 2017 6:18 AM

SPC Daphne Eisiminger — Wed, 12 Jul 2017 06:18:01 -0400

Well, for starters, if I'm on the plane my kids are probably with me and I would probably use this as a lesson to show them what I mean by standing up for others and then possibly throat punch the person booing!

Response by CMDCM Terry Skelator Walker made Jul 13 at 2017 11:06 AM

CMDCM Terry Skelator Walker — Thu, 13 Jul 2017 11:06:36 -0400

Throat chop the biggest and move as escort.

Response by SPC Stephanie Arballo-Allen made Jul 14 at 2017 11:23 PM

SPC Stephanie Arballo-Allen — Fri, 14 Jul 2017 23:23:13 -0400

I would say to who boo'd that you have no right to boo a family who has lost someone serving their country and all service members deserve the highest respect. But I am a Veteran so that's an automatic response.

Response by PVT Mark Brown made Jul 16 at 2017 4:19 PM

PVT Mark Brown — Sun, 16 Jul 2017 16:19:03 -0400

I would most likely get toosed off the plane and maybe even barred from flying. It would be very difficult to not respond. I have attended enough Patriot Guard Riders events wherein we greeted an aircraft arriving with a decease service person accompanied by grieving family members. It's quite difficult for the family under ordinary circumstance but when add in some self-righteous asshole that thinks he(she) is too good to wait then my blood boils as I watch the emotions skyrocket. I know we have far too many people in this country that exercise a right that the deceased service member has paid to ultimate price to insure those rights are protected. I have never witnessed anything like the situation suggested in this question although I have had a couple run-in with the Westboro fools.

Response by CPL Tammy Roberts made Jul 16 at 2017 5:44 PM

CPL Tammy Roberts — Sun, 16 Jul 2017 17:44:35 -0400

Since I have been told numerous of times that I am my fathers daughter, I would say something very harsh to that person. I would ask the flight staff to make sure that person was the one off the plane as well. It's not only disrespectful to this soldiers family but to the soldier himself.

Response by MSgt Darda McConnell made Jul 17 at 2017 3:58 PM

MSgt Darda McConnell — Mon, 17 Jul 2017 15:58:16 -0400

It would be time for a "come to Jesus" meeting with the a-hole in first class. Regardless of how you feel about war, no one should ever disrespect a fallen soldier or his family!

Response by SSG Robert Perrotto made Jul 18 at 2017 12:41 PM

SSG Robert Perrotto — Tue, 18 Jul 2017 12:41:37 -0400

there are going to be idiots - and I know it is extremely hard to see fellow citizens treating service members, and our fallen comrades with disdain and contempt, but we are professionals, and engaging them is exactly what they want, so I deny them the opportunity to further insult, degrade, or denigrate me or my fellow service members by ignoring them. When you engage these people, you are bringing yourself down to their level and giving them exactly what they want, a confrontation.

Response by PO2 Steve Gray made Jul 19 at 2017 12:25 AM

PO2 Steve Gray — Wed, 19 Jul 2017 00:25:11 -0400

I refuse to answer on the grounds I might incriminate myself

Response by MSG David King made Jul 20 at 2017 8:28 AM

MSG David King — Thu, 20 Jul 2017 08:28:15 -0400

There would be many teary eyes and one black eye.

Response by MSG David King made Jul 20 at 2017 8:29 AM

MSG David King — Thu, 20 Jul 2017 08:29:11 -0400

There would be many teary eyes and one black eye.

Response by PO1 Edward Pate made Jul 23 at 2017 7:32 AM

PO1 Edward Pate — Sun, 23 Jul 2017 07:32:52 -0400

Well a well placed "accidental" elbow shot to the nose would do the trick!

Response by Capt Bud Adams made Jul 26 at 2017 12:49 PM

Capt Bud Adams — Wed, 26 Jul 2017 12:49:55 -0400

I would ask them why are they booing. Based on the answer I would respond. If they are war protestors and being him because he was in the military, I would say, you have a right to boo, but remember, he or she died for you to keep that right. If they don't understand what a Gold Star family was, then I would explain it to them and ask that they respect that family.

Response by SGT Lin Evans made Jul 30 at 2017 10:36 AM

SGT Lin Evans — Sun, 30 Jul 2017 10:36:14 -0400

Look at them, shake my head and realize that they are not worth the effort to respond otherwise. Because of our piss poor educational system and the useless Department of Education we have raised a couple generations of ignorant people. They are "trained," but not educated.

Response by SPC William Szkromiuk made Jul 30 at 2017 12:09 PM

SPC William Szkromiuk — Sun, 30 Jul 2017 12:09:48 -0400

I can not imagine anyone doing this. No matter their political affiliation. If this has truly happened, I am saddened to no end.
I can also imagine me spending the night in jail for pummeling anyone that dared to boo.

Duty, Honor, Country.

Response by TSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 30 at 2017 2:05 PM

TSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 30 Jul 2017 14:05:00 -0400

I would probably be arrested for breaking a twinkletoed burttercup's face

Response by SGT Peter Hayes made Jul 30 at 2017 2:33 PM

SGT Peter Hayes — Sun, 30 Jul 2017 14:33:28 -0400

I would explain the gravity of the situation and meet that person at the end of the ramp and knock them out. Then explain the situation one more Time. And see if that changed way of thinking.

Response by PO1 Steven Siepp made Jul 31 at 2017 3:33 PM

PO1 Steven Siepp — Mon, 31 Jul 2017 15:33:21 -0400

Are there really people out there that would do this. I would hope all personnel besides the family would have to remain seated till the service member was disembarked. this would also give me time to calm down before pulling his asshole out of his throat.

Response by SSG Trevor S. made Aug 3 at 2017 5:23 PM

SSG Trevor S. — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 17:23:46 -0400

YouTube shaming seems appropriate.

Response by SFC William Allen made Aug 3 at 2017 8:47 PM

SFC William Allen — Thu, 03 Aug 2017 20:47:44 -0400

To shame the person boo'ing I would stand at attention and render a perfect salute. If the boo'er would be stupid enough to make more sarcastic comments I would then offer to allow the person to join the deceased.....if you know what I mean! If they threw mw off the plane for that I would go with my head held high.

Response by CW2 Fred Baker made Aug 6 at 2017 11:45 PM

CW2 Fred Baker — Sun, 06 Aug 2017 23:45:15 -0400

As soon as the family had left earshot, I would give the disrespectful, Joseph N. Welch's words to Senator Joe McCarthy at the Army-McCarthy congressional hearing, "Have you no sense of decency?" Then shake my head and turn away.

Response by MSgt Brian Williams made Aug 10 at 2017 10:34 PM

MSgt Brian Williams — Thu, 10 Aug 2017 22:34:34 -0400

Sit in silence until the fallen soldier's family was off the plane and if I was close, I'd call them an ungrateful asshole.

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 12 at 2017 8:10 AM

PFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 12 Aug 2017 08:10:46 -0400

I'd give up my seat and thank the family.

Response by A1C James Notestine made Aug 13 at 2017 6:29 AM

A1C James Notestine — Sun, 13 Aug 2017 06:29:48 -0400

I would LOUDLY demand silence and respect, and if they were not given, I'd probably react confrontationally, and quite possibly VIOLENTLY.

Response by SMSgt Sheila Berg made Aug 13 at 2017 11:03 AM

SMSgt Sheila Berg — Sun, 13 Aug 2017 11:03:24 -0400

Ungrateful!! Nor worth having a battle of wits with an unarmed person.

Response by SGT Kelly Conley made Aug 14 at 2017 10:42 AM

SGT Kelly Conley — Mon, 14 Aug 2017 10:42:19 -0400

attempt to drown out the Boos in some fashion

Response by MSgt Ronnie Kelly made Aug 14 at 2017 12:07 PM

MSgt Ronnie Kelly — Mon, 14 Aug 2017 12:07:50 -0400

I would stand a block the isle so none of the self important assets could pass until all ceremonies were complete including my salute, also would figure at least one more vet would stand with me

Response by Chris Shafer made Aug 14 at 2017 4:57 PM

Chris Shafer — Mon, 14 Aug 2017 16:57:29 -0400

This is kind of a BS question for this website I would think all the people that are in this website support the military

Response by SFC Jim Ruether made Aug 14 at 2017 6:40 PM

SFC Jim Ruether — Mon, 14 Aug 2017 18:40:00 -0400

I would stand up and ask that person why he disrespects the families of our fallen soldiers, sailors and airmen. I would then approach this individual and stand by him blocking any exit he may try. Then I would direct the flight attendants to allow everyone else to leave except the first class passenger whom I would stand next to and make him apologize to every passenger as they passed him by for his rude behavior. To steal a line from Woodrow Call in the movie "Lonesome Dove" I don't tolerate rude behavior in a man

Response by PO2 Steve Gray made Aug 18 at 2017 12:08 AM

PO2 Steve Gray — Fri, 18 Aug 2017 00:08:09 -0400

I would let those people off the plane first, 10 minutes before landing.

Response by SFC Michael Hasbun made Aug 18 at 2017 12:21 AM

SFC Michael Hasbun — Fri, 18 Aug 2017 00:21:31 -0400

*Insert hundreds of internet tough guy answers*

Response by CPO James Page made Aug 18 at 2017 5:51 PM

CPO James Page — Fri, 18 Aug 2017 17:51:13 -0400

The best way to deal with people like that is ignore them. You only admit their existence and you reinforce the behavior.

Response by Col James Howe made Aug 25 at 2017 11:09 PM

Col James Howe — Fri, 25 Aug 2017 23:09:33 -0400

I would chew some ass on that jet. They would know I was a colonel and I don't like thier selfish reaction.

Response by SPC Johnny Velazquez, PhD made Aug 27 at 2017 3:09 PM

SPC Johnny Velazquez, PhD — Sun, 27 Aug 2017 15:09:48 -0400

I would render the proper salute, then would stand in front of the morons who booed, glare at them, and then give them a smirk. Wouldn't waste my breath on such scumbags. Hooah!

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 27 at 2017 6:41 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 27 Aug 2017 18:41:05 -0400

Punch that person square in the throat and dare him/her to do it again........

Response by SP5 Norman McGill made Aug 27 at 2017 9:42 PM

SP5 Norman McGill — Sun, 27 Aug 2017 21:42:41 -0400

I would have looked the guy in the eye for several long seconds and then turned away without a word and left the idiot. A good silent start scares the hell out of people especially if your bigger than they are.

Response by 1SG Harold Piet made Aug 28 at 2017 3:31 AM

1SG Harold Piet — Mon, 28 Aug 2017 03:31:25 -0400

maybe slap an A- hole for being so disrespectful and ignorant

Response by Maj John Bell made Aug 28 at 2017 1:12 PM

Maj John Bell — Mon, 28 Aug 2017 13:12:53 -0400

I'd either do something classy and meaningful, or my mean streak would come out and I'd end up on the no fly list. Smart money is on the no fly list.

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 29 at 2017 9:55 AM

PFC Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 29 Aug 2017 09:55:14 -0400

They may not of seen being loaded. Who is it going to hurt them going first & having a few minutes with their love one who gave his/her all.

Response by Sgt Todd Gantter made Aug 29 at 2017 10:36 AM

Sgt Todd Gantter — Tue, 29 Aug 2017 10:36:15 -0400

I would most likely loose my shit!

Response by SP5 Rich Levesque made Aug 31 at 2017 10:55 AM

SP5 Rich Levesque — Thu, 31 Aug 2017 10:55:43 -0400

I would be extremely displeased. I would make my feelings known by appropriate or inappropriate means.

Response by MSG Keith Folger made Aug 31 at 2017 4:20 PM

MSG Keith Folger — Thu, 31 Aug 2017 16:20:53 -0400

Did this actually happen or are you trying to start something?

Response by Karen Harlow made Aug 31 at 2017 7:11 PM

Karen Harlow — Thu, 31 Aug 2017 19:11:06 -0400

I would stand up and tell them to grow some manners. Ask them what they would do if that was their father, husband, son, brother? I would walk up and offer them my codolences and my thanks for their loved one's service.

Response by LTC Seymour Vladimer made Sep 2 at 2017 12:36 PM

LTC Seymour Vladimer — Sat, 02 Sep 2017 12:36:41 -0400

Sorry but would be so peed off that would tell him tomshut his trap

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 4 at 2017 12:01 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 04 Sep 2017 12:01:03 -0400

I would apologize for the ugly behavior of those rude, insensitive passengers and pray for the family and their loss.

Response by PO1 Merrill Fritz made Sep 4 at 2017 1:41 PM

PO1 Merrill Fritz — Mon, 04 Sep 2017 13:41:32 -0400

I don't know if they were ignorant of the situation, or if they were a bunch of liberal snowflakes trying to make a disruptive comment of disrespect because they hate what American Military is truly about! (Respect , Honor , Duty)

Response by SSG Nathan Bryant made Sep 4 at 2017 5:41 PM

SSG Nathan Bryant — Mon, 04 Sep 2017 17:41:40 -0400

Wow. I personally hope that I would never encounter anyone who would show any negativity toward a Gold Star Family and/or Escort of a fallen service member's body as he/she is brought home to rest in peace. I've asked God for A LOT. I guess I'll add this to that list - Father God, I come to you in prayer. PLEASE do not allow me to encounter this situation. Amen.

Response by SSG Brian Dean made Sep 7 at 2017 1:07 AM

SSG Brian Dean — Thu, 07 Sep 2017 01:07:58 -0400

Ignore the booing There are more important things going on. Some will figure it out, some won't.

Response by SGT Scott Morris made Sep 9 at 2017 10:15 AM

SGT Scott Morris — Sat, 09 Sep 2017 10:15:47 -0400

If someone disrespects a Gold Star family on a plane we respond with outrage on the internets.

If someone disrespects a Gold Star family in a campaign speech and says they don't like soldiers who were captured, we stand in line to vote them into public office.

Response by SSG Steven Mangus made Sep 10 at 2017 4:34 AM

SSG Steven Mangus — Sun, 10 Sep 2017 04:34:44 -0400

I would quietly bring the pain on any asshole that disrespects our brother, sister or their family; when the gave their life for this nation..

Response by SP5 Jeannie Carle made Sep 10 at 2017 6:09 PM

SP5 Jeannie Carle — Sun, 10 Sep 2017 18:09:33 -0400

I swear before God, I would stand and start singing the Anthem just as loud as I can, and EXPECT louder people to join me. And I would NOT have a smile on my face, trust me on that!

Response by PVT Mark Zehner made Sep 10 at 2017 6:12 PM

PVT Mark Zehner — Sun, 10 Sep 2017 18:12:56 -0400

I'd calmly stand up and asked to show respect for the fallen soldier and if they couldn't do that show respect for The Grieving family!

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 10 at 2017 6:41 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 10 Sep 2017 18:41:50 -0400

I'd probably just tell them to shut the fuck up while they wait!!

Response by CPO Nate S. made Sep 10 at 2017 9:19 PM

CPO Nate S. — Sun, 10 Sep 2017 21:19:25 -0400

Booing, as some have commented shows - NO CLASS!!! 1000% spot on!!!

Let the family exit the plane. Then according to your needs administer the proper instruction as you deem appropriate. But, remember, we don't honor the fallen when we stoop the level of ignorant fools and idiots! We are men and women of honor and allowing such people any level of voice in the conversation only gives them reason to make further inappropriate comments by voice or gesture.

Disarm them with kindness and surprise them by standing and saluting, even in the midst of their ignorance. In this way others will see how we honor the fallen and deny to the ignorant the platform they so desperately need because they are too stupid to understand otherwise!

Response by SSgt Boyd Herrst made Sep 11 at 2017 4:37 PM

SSgt Boyd Herrst — Mon, 11 Sep 2017 16:37:42 -0400

I'd really want to say s'thing.. I would hold back and see what the aircrew does in response. .. to the sitrep.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 20 at 2017 10:20 AM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 20 Sep 2017 10:20:14 -0400

American society at large has developed a sense on entitlement at all levels, and misplaced their priorities. That's why these as****les boo. Much like SFC Weber, I would have reminded them who pay for their freedom to boo and to shut the **** up.

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 20 at 2017 11:57 AM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 20 Sep 2017 11:57:32 -0400

Were the other passages made aware of the reason for them being allowed to deplane before everyone else?

Response by Sgt Bob Leonard made Sep 20 at 2017 7:41 PM

Sgt Bob Leonard — Wed, 20 Sep 2017 19:41:07 -0400

It should be noted loud, long, and often that the picture accompanying this post has NOTHING to do with the story it references. The family this post refers to was on their way from California to Dover, Delaware. The casket containing their son's body was somewhere over the Pacific Ocean, en route from the ME to Dover.

Response by SP5 Joel McDargh made Sep 20 at 2017 8:03 PM

SP5 Joel McDargh — Wed, 20 Sep 2017 20:03:03 -0400

I am an old guy, but one who is easily pissed off. Honestly, I would throat punch the SOB. No respect when I came home, and I will be damned if I will stand by and see any of our troops or their families dishonored.

Response by PO3 Grant Skiles made Sep 20 at 2017 11:19 PM

PO3 Grant Skiles — Wed, 20 Sep 2017 23:19:31 -0400

I would probable say to them. Follow me out asshole and see why we are being let off first. When the casket comes out with the flag and would turn and ask them if it is alright that we were allowed to leave first. This man/woman died so that you can act like an ass.

Response by PFC Robert Brooks made Sep 21 at 2017 4:14 PM

PFC Robert Brooks — Thu, 21 Sep 2017 16:14:54 -0400

I would probably Snap on the POS's Booing and then Show my Respect to my fallen Brother and Family!

Response by CW3 Kevin Storm made Sep 21 at 2017 4:27 PM

CW3 Kevin Storm — Thu, 21 Sep 2017 16:27:57 -0400

Make like Popeye and whip out a can of spinach and go all Brutus on them.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 21 at 2017 5:04 PM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 21 Sep 2017 17:04:01 -0400

I would do everything I could to show respect amd assist the gold star family.

Response by PO1 Cliff Heath made Sep 24 at 2017 5:09 PM

PO1 Cliff Heath — Sun, 24 Sep 2017 17:09:17 -0400

PROBABLY GET IN A FIGHT AFTER THE FAMILY DEPLANED

Response by SGT Kyle Bickley made Sep 28 at 2017 8:16 PM

SGT Kyle Bickley — Thu, 28 Sep 2017 20:16:16 -0400

Guess I'm goin to jail! I'm kicking some ass! You boo a fallin trooper I got a problem with you! Haven't seen it yet, and I better not!

Response by SPC Tom DeSmet made Sep 30 at 2017 11:48 PM

SPC Tom DeSmet — Sat, 30 Sep 2017 23:48:32 -0400

I'm afraid I would not allow this to go unanswered and I would likely end up being lead away by security if I witnessed that. I find it hard to believe this would ever happen, but people are a little too focussed on themselves these days.

Response by SPC Kristina Robinson made Oct 2 at 2017 8:47 PM

SPC Kristina Robinson — Mon, 02 Oct 2017 20:47:32 -0400

I would have a hard time staying in my seat and not getting arrested for beating the hell outta whom ever was booing

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 2 at 2017 11:40 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 02 Oct 2017 23:40:37 -0400

I am a VERY reserved person and it took me about a decade to control my tongue... Cuz scripture says it's the hardest thing to tame.

But in this case... I would allow my professional aggressive personality to surface... While remembering that MY FATHER left me with a Gold Star.

Yes... The 1st amendment allows freedom of speech. But with great freedom comes GREAT responsibility.

If it was a group of people... I would take ANY STEPS required to protect the family while the grieved their loved one.

If it was one or a few individuals... I would personally visit them and inform them that they have obtained my attention. And that I would make it my personal goal to educate them... Even after they returned home from their flight.

And if it happened within certain states... I would complete an affidavit of who I witnessed boo'ing (disrupting memorial services) and have them charged with a crime. (depending on the state)

Response by PO3 Scott Mahan made Oct 4 at 2017 7:23 AM

PO3 Scott Mahan — Wed, 04 Oct 2017 07:23:56 -0400

I would have to comment how much of an Asshole they are, and that that soldier being carried off in a casket gave their life for all of us. then as we were allowed to leave the plane, I'd follow the dumb shit to the men's room where im sure he was have an accident in one of the stalls........just saying most times the floors are wet...... then i'd go to my next connecting flight with a big smile but a heavy heart........

Response by PO2 Jerry Wells made Oct 5 at 2017 9:36 AM

PO2 Jerry Wells — Thu, 05 Oct 2017 09:36:18 -0400

I’d threaten to beat the first persons butt that tried to stop them from getting off first.

Response by CW2 Rob Janke made Oct 5 at 2017 11:00 AM

CW2 Rob Janke — Thu, 05 Oct 2017 11:00:39 -0400

I do believe I may just have to bitch-slap that MF!

Response by MCPO Ed Armstrong made Oct 8 at 2017 7:27 PM

MCPO Ed Armstrong — Sun, 08 Oct 2017 19:27:31 -0400

It is a free country, and it should be up to the airlines to make sure this person never flies again.

Response by PO1 David M Burns made Oct 8 at 2017 8:09 PM

PO1 David M Burns — Sun, 08 Oct 2017 20:09:16 -0400

I would punch the closet rat bastard in the mouth! it is the culture now a days of scum bags not having to "serve" only demonstrate and take dope!

Response by CPO Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 8 at 2017 10:36 PM

CPO Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 08 Oct 2017 22:36:19 -0400

There aren't words to express how angry that would make. I'd probably tell the booing passenger to shut his cock holster before I punch him in his fucking throat.

Response by MSgt Mayo Sifford made Oct 9 at 2017 4:32 AM

MSgt Mayo Sifford — Mon, 09 Oct 2017 04:32:23 -0400

Probably be a foreign carrier or an unimaginally crass bunch of passengers. Unles someone started to take physical action against the GS mother it'd probably be best to just go back to your magazine. You ain't gonna change the minds of assholes like that and you would probably further embarass the Mom.

Response by TSgt Johnnie Keller made Oct 9 at 2017 6:57 AM

TSgt Johnnie Keller — Mon, 09 Oct 2017 06:57:29 -0400

I would demonstrate what a pissed off, former Airborne Infantryman does to idiots. I would show those idiots, what smart bumps look like when they are installed upon an their disrespectful head(s).

Response by CPT Ray Doeksen made Oct 9 at 2017 1:39 PM

CPT Ray Doeksen — Mon, 09 Oct 2017 13:39:15 -0400

You don't need to punch anyone or yell at anyone ... or pretend that you would have or should have if you were there.

Let's assume you think this is bad behavior and you would like it to stop. Telling people to just 'shut the fuck up' or socking someone turns the civilization level down a couple of notches and now it's worse and now the blame is on you. You made more mess than there was.

Second, you are the passenger; it was the flight crew's job to deal with the first class ass. It was the captain's description which was enough to annoy someone (some impatient, entitled, selfish MF) but not specific enough to make the FCA (first-class ass) shut up; the flight crew had the job to explain to the first class cabin what was about to go down AND to stifle anyone that was rude or disruptive.

It's unfortunate that us coach-class slobs (I certainly don't fly 1st or business class) can't all file past the FCA and tell them they should be ashamed of themselves, but they're probably long gone by the time we deplane.

The captain's message was vague enough to get kickback, I wasn't there so I can't say that it could have been said better, but I suspect that the flight attendants and captain could have coordinated better. I don't think this is a regular occurrence and I don't think we need to get too riled up about it.

Response by PO3 Michael James made Oct 9 at 2017 8:26 PM

PO3 Michael James — Mon, 09 Oct 2017 20:26:27 -0400

In civilian clothing ?? Slap the Snot out of the First-class ASS...

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 9 at 2017 11:44 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 09 Oct 2017 23:44:35 -0400

i believe it is a total disrespect not only for the fallen soldier but for his/her family.

Response by 1SG James A. "Bud" Parker made Oct 10 at 2017 6:32 PM

1SG James A. "Bud" Parker — Tue, 10 Oct 2017 18:32:23 -0400

I would go to that passenger and look down at him or her and explain they have been honored to accompany a "Fallen Soldier" home today and proper decorum requires that they maintain polite silence until the family has been joined with their dead member. If that didn't work the old First Sergeant in me would materialize and I would tighten their ass up about 4 notches.

Response by SSG Donald "Don" Lloyd made Oct 14 at 2017 5:42 PM

SSG Donald "Don" Lloyd — Sat, 14 Oct 2017 17:42:53 -0400

Probably hit the MFs in the mouth.

Response by LTC Ray Rhodes made Oct 14 at 2017 11:34 PM

LTC Ray Rhodes — Sat, 14 Oct 2017 23:34:16 -0400

I hope this is only a hypothetical question and not related to a real life event. If I was a passenger on that flight, the individual would most likely have to be removed from the aircraft by stretcher. If my son, a captain for a major airline, was the PIC, I know there would be blood.

Response by SPC Christopher Jackson made Oct 15 at 2017 4:26 AM

SPC Christopher Jackson — Sun, 15 Oct 2017 04:26:59 -0400

George, our vets from Vietnam got spit on and such. People are sick anymore. I would be livid within myself though.

Response by SP5 Michael Motl made Oct 15 at 2017 2:56 PM

SP5 Michael Motl — Sun, 15 Oct 2017 14:56:45 -0400

Response by LT Michaline Schalton made Oct 15 at 2017 5:06 PM

LT Michaline Schalton — Sun, 15 Oct 2017 17:06:20 -0400

That this question is being asked proves you can make people say anything you want by giving them limited facts on which to express opinion. No one on any flight anywhere in the USA would knowingly boo a Gold Star family. The true facts behind this story are revealed with just a little digging. Time to respond is better spent researching the real event and ignoring this question.

Response by CW4 Roger Sequeira made Oct 15 at 2017 10:35 PM

CW4 Roger Sequeira — Sun, 15 Oct 2017 22:35:57 -0400

I would very possibly end up going to jail...for assault and battery...they assaulted by booing....and I battered them!!!

Response by SGT William H. made Oct 19 at 2017 2:42 AM

SGT William H. — Thu, 19 Oct 2017 02:42:30 -0400

Shout "AAAAATENNNSUUUCH" turn to face family and snap a salute and hold it until they deboarded.

Response by Sharon Lee made Oct 19 at 2017 5:54 AM

Sharon Lee — Thu, 19 Oct 2017 05:54:51 -0400

Pray that I don't end up in jail!! That is so disrespectful!!

Response by CPL Timothy Coffey made Oct 23 at 2017 10:38 AM

CPL Timothy Coffey — Mon, 23 Oct 2017 10:38:59 -0400

Stand up an explain the situation, like the stewardess or Pilot should have done in the first place, If they still boo'd I would be more aggressive with my challenge to the bad behavior. But you can't change Butt head if they were raised to be Butt heads.

Response by Sharon Hornby made Oct 23 at 2017 12:27 PM

Sharon Hornby — Mon, 23 Oct 2017 12:27:35 -0400

Tell him or her to shut up or they may get their disrespectful “boo” yelling teeth knocked out their A-hole. Disrespecting my military men & women will get you into nothing but hot water. Military spouse & military mum proud.

Response by MAJ Mike Reisman made Oct 24 at 2017 4:27 PM

MAJ Mike Reisman — Tue, 24 Oct 2017 16:27:33 -0400

Tell them to shut the F up!

Response by Cpl Robert Crockett made Oct 24 at 2017 7:55 PM

Cpl Robert Crockett — Tue, 24 Oct 2017 19:55:52 -0400

I would object. Our best people deserve better than that.

Response by Sgt David G Duchesneau made Oct 29 at 2017 11:22 AM

Sgt David G Duchesneau — Sun, 29 Oct 2017 11:22:51 -0400

I don't care what the excuses or circumstances were. That is totally disrespectful and damn right un-excusable. It would definitely be "throat punch" time! Bastards!

Response by 1SG James Kelly made Oct 29 at 2017 4:04 PM

1SG James Kelly — Sun, 29 Oct 2017 16:04:55 -0400

Stand. salute, offer my sympathy, cripple the first son of a bitch with in range who is being a jerk, male or female - equal opportunity.

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 29 at 2017 5:59 PM

PFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 29 Oct 2017 17:59:13 -0400

I would most likely tell them to sit down and show the family and their fallen soldier respect. If they continued then I would get a little more aggressive in my statement of showing respect.

It makes me sick how those type of people are so self centered that they are just adding more hurt to the family.

I would hope someone was close enough to the disrespectful person and “accidentally “ throw an elbow to the throat.

Response by MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan made Oct 30 at 2017 10:40 PM

MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan — Mon, 30 Oct 2017 22:40:50 -0400

Kindly explain to the individual that if it weren't for this family and their sacrifice then he might not have the job he does that allows him to fly first class while this probable blue collar family is forced in their grief to fly in coach when they should be in his seat; that without their sacrifice we could easily be living under the dictatorship that he must mistakenly think we are now in; that if he really had any balls he would have been in the person's place that they have come to usher on his way to a final resting place instead of taking it for granted that someone else would keep him free; that they are not here to disagree with his politics but to celebrate our freedom. Then I would offer him the opportunity to not only apologize to the family but to sincerely offer his deepest condolences.

Response by SSgt Donald Griffith made Oct 31 at 2017 8:29 AM

SSgt Donald Griffith — Tue, 31 Oct 2017 08:29:42 -0400

I would probably still be in jail........

Response by SFC William D. Heaster made Nov 3 at 2017 11:14 AM

SFC William D. Heaster — Fri, 03 Nov 2017 11:14:16 -0400

If prior Military, stand at attention with hand over heart or respect of salute? with head still eyes follow in recognition to the sacrifices of both and the deceased and Family. Us War veterans would automatically salute the fallen.

As a non- Military citizen, stand semi-ridged with right hand over the heart and poised in recognition of the deceased and family. Any sense of recognition would surely be appreciated by all in the area.

Response by CWO2 James Mathews made Nov 3 at 2017 11:51 PM

CWO2 James Mathews — Fri, 03 Nov 2017 23:51:13 -0400

I believe that I would to make a very strong demand for the command pilot of the aircraft to use his loudspeaker to silence all passengers with the threat of police action of not obeyed si!ence al l passengers to silince

Response by MSgt Roger Lalik made Nov 4 at 2017 8:57 AM

MSgt Roger Lalik — Sat, 04 Nov 2017 08:57:06 -0400

I believe the best I could think to do at the spur of the moment would be to redirect the anger and hostility away from the family and to me. Once the Gold Star family had exited. It's time for a Master Sergeant counseling session. I'm an old Corps Marine. I don't believe in this touchy-feelly crap. I believe in getting it done. So the quick talk will be blunt and to the point. It would be a talk they won't soon forget.

Response by PO1 Scott Kahler made Nov 4 at 2017 9:39 PM

PO1 Scott Kahler — Sat, 04 Nov 2017 21:39:22 -0400

I’m curious why the question only pertains to “first class” passengers. I’m sure it’s possible this could happen. But, it seems just as likely to come from coach.

Response by SMSgt Sheila Berg made Nov 5 at 2017 8:36 PM

SMSgt Sheila Berg — Sun, 05 Nov 2017 20:36:03 -0500

Use my phone to video and post on Facebook.

Response by CPL Glynnda White made Nov 6 at 2017 1:19 PM

CPL Glynnda White — Mon, 06 Nov 2017 13:19:03 -0500

I would stand in the aisle to make sure none of the boo-ers could get out before they did

Response by SGT Rudy Gibson made Nov 7 at 2017 3:16 PM

SGT Rudy Gibson — Tue, 07 Nov 2017 15:16:40 -0500

I would try really hard to maintain my military bearing. With that being said I can usually provide a look that says, "zip it or prepare for the consequences"!

Response by SSgt Erin Mcauliffe Brown made Nov 7 at 2017 10:21 PM

SSgt Erin Mcauliffe Brown — Tue, 07 Nov 2017 22:21:34 -0500

This Flight Attendant, former AF SP K9, married to Retired Army E8 would have a few things to say on the Interphone for sure.Most of our pilots are Vets, they would also address the asshats on the flight.

Response by SN Earl Robinson made Nov 9 at 2017 10:25 AM

SN Earl Robinson — Thu, 09 Nov 2017 10:25:00 -0500

I’d stand up and ask them nicely to please show respect for someone who gave their life for your freedoms!

Response by SSgt Warren Henthorn made Nov 9 at 2017 4:17 PM

SSgt Warren Henthorn — Thu, 09 Nov 2017 16:17:13 -0500

Get some honor.

Response by CPL Michael Headrick made Nov 11 at 2017 11:16 AM

CPL Michael Headrick — Sat, 11 Nov 2017 11:16:13 -0500

Offer to personally escort offended parties off the aircraft.

Response by SPC Jeremy Gwilliam made Nov 12 at 2017 10:55 AM

SPC Jeremy Gwilliam — Sun, 12 Nov 2017 10:55:55 -0500

I would probably be arrested as I would get very ANGRY to anybody who disrespected a family of a fallen Warrior.

Response by Sgt Albert Castro made Nov 12 at 2017 10:28 PM

Sgt Albert Castro — Sun, 12 Nov 2017 22:28:51 -0500

I would stand and clap loud as I could and tell them I am sorry for their loss. I may be off base but I could not sit there and do nothing.

Response by SN Glen Hapeman made Nov 13 at 2017 7:17 AM

SN Glen Hapeman — Mon, 13 Nov 2017 07:17:14 -0500

I really can't say what I would do, would not just sit there though... most likely get into trouble though

Response by SPC Link Land made Nov 13 at 2017 9:48 AM

SPC Link Land — Mon, 13 Nov 2017 09:48:01 -0500

I would be angry. Likely tears would come to my eyes. Really I find it hard to imagine that this would happen so if it did, I'm not sure what my reaction would be, but I hope that I wouldn't do anything to shame the deceased service-member or their family.

Response by SPC David Cooper made Nov 16 at 2017 11:37 AM

SPC David Cooper — Thu, 16 Nov 2017 11:37:08 -0500

I would apologize for their inconvenience, and then apologize that my fellow soldier fired his weapon one last time so that you guys could boo me without being persecuted .

Response by PO2 Fredric Belfus made Nov 16 at 2017 9:27 PM

PO2 Fredric Belfus — Thu, 16 Nov 2017 21:27:40 -0500

I would read him the riot act.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 16 at 2017 10:03 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 16 Nov 2017 22:03:56 -0500

Might say something like "Shut the hell up you ungrateful fucks!"
I'm kind of an asshole though so...

Response by SSgt Harvey "Skip" Porter made Nov 16 at 2017 11:17 PM

SSgt Harvey "Skip" Porter — Thu, 16 Nov 2017 23:17:11 -0500

That shows how low and disrespectful humans can be. That's totally uncalled for.

Response by SGT Arno Paul Schumann made Nov 17 at 2017 9:17 AM

SGT Arno Paul Schumann — Fri, 17 Nov 2017 09:17:13 -0500

I would wind up in jail after I assaulted the people booing closest to me.

Response by SGT Frank Chaney made Nov 18 at 2017 9:03 PM

SGT Frank Chaney — Sat, 18 Nov 2017 21:03:08 -0500

I would end up in jail

Response by SR Eddie Reyes made Nov 19 at 2017 6:32 PM

SR Eddie Reyes — Sun, 19 Nov 2017 18:32:37 -0500

I would ask if they or their family has ever had to go through what this family is going thru. Having a lost a family member in a war is hard enough but having to fly their body home is even harder.

Response by MAJ Raúl Rovira made Nov 19 at 2017 9:07 PM

MAJ Raúl Rovira — Sun, 19 Nov 2017 21:07:27 -0500

I'd stand and salute.

Response by SrA J King made Nov 20 at 2017 4:36 AM

SrA J King — Mon, 20 Nov 2017 04:36:15 -0500

That would cause my to open up a can of wipe ass and deal with the selfish morons on their stupit hating level

Response by SGT Frank Pritchett made Nov 20 at 2017 6:17 AM

SGT Frank Pritchett — Mon, 20 Nov 2017 06:17:12 -0500

I don't care for airports, 1974 while waiting for my plane at LAX to Maryland I had a teenager walk up and spit in my face. I was 17 fresh out of Basic and never been to Vietnam being stunned and not knowing what to do it was a Marine Sergeant that told about the USO. It is people like this that we defend that demand that we respect their rights. Just one step to the left and your in a new world.

Response by SSG Shawn Mcfadden made Nov 21 at 2017 10:01 PM

SSG Shawn Mcfadden — Tue, 21 Nov 2017 22:01:43 -0500

I'd say, that person served in the MILITARY!!! SHOW SOME RESPECT!!!

Response by PO3 Don Goracke made Nov 22 at 2017 8:24 PM

PO3 Don Goracke — Wed, 22 Nov 2017 20:24:12 -0500

I would put on a burka and shout Islam phobia at these lefties

Response by PO3 Don Goracke made Nov 22 at 2017 8:26 PM

PO3 Don Goracke — Wed, 22 Nov 2017 20:26:09 -0500

I would go to my safe space with my coloring book and cocoa and dream of President Hillary

Response by SPC Daniel Rankin made Nov 24 at 2017 10:41 PM

SPC Daniel Rankin — Fri, 24 Nov 2017 22:41:03 -0500

I myself would ask the steward or stewardess to explain that the family members made a huge sacrifice to make sure their son or daughter's body got home safely to be laid to rest. So please show respect to them. They made the ultimate sacrifice so you could ride in safety up in first class. Being in first class does not necessarily mean a person has class.

Response by LTC Mark Sereduck made Nov 26 at 2017 12:35 AM

LTC Mark Sereduck — Sun, 26 Nov 2017 00:35:51 -0500

I would say that they have loss serving for our nation. Their family has given the highest loss for our country!
LTC Army Retired.

Response by SSG Stephen Hughs made Nov 26 at 2017 7:38 AM

SSG Stephen Hughs — Sun, 26 Nov 2017 07:38:28 -0500

I would stand up and salute the family and loudly start singing the Star Spangled Banner.

Response by Sgt Jake Middlebrook made Nov 30 at 2017 7:33 PM

Sgt Jake Middlebrook — Thu, 30 Nov 2017 19:33:06 -0500

I would stand remove my hat and hold it over my heart until the family deplaned.

Response by SGT Jody Beach made Dec 1 at 2017 7:40 AM

SGT Jody Beach — Fri, 01 Dec 2017 07:40:54 -0500

The same way I reacted right before I decided not to fight to stay in the service.
I came home for a few days because I had to go to court. Let alone with all the other BS going on in my life at that time I had this happen. I took my grandmothers car to the gas station with the 20 she gave me to fill her tank. With nothing more then my dog tags and clothes on. These outstanding citizens had their car hood up and trying to jump a car. I am not a racist. One man asked if I could help jump them. Sure I said. Hell I am a 63W it was what I did. Rescue broke vehicles from the field. After I determined it would not start he asked if he could get a ride up the road. No problem I said. After all I thought everyone thought as I did and there was no evil people here in the good ole USA. So it didnt click to me until we got up the road and I was led just a little further. At that point is when the gun was pulled on me. After a few minutes I told him he either needed to shoot me or get the hell out of the car. "I wouldnt say that today" + "Today I always have a gun ready"
After that day and a one sided review board set out to make themselves look good during Bill Clintons RIF I asked myself why in the fucking world would I risk my life for the likes of these fucking people.
So I will always be loyal to country, loyal to friends & family.
What I am saying is I would not even pay one mind to those fools. Because as you, the family of the fallen, are escorting the body of your soldier walk past them be proud. Proud that among the fools of this country, the court jesters, the pheasants your escorting a person who has given their life for the freedom we all enjoy.

Response by Cpl Mitchell Williams made Dec 1 at 2017 8:04 AM

Cpl Mitchell Williams — Fri, 01 Dec 2017 08:04:04 -0500

I would pray for them that they would never have to experience the pain associated with the death of someone close to them who they loved and respected as much as the fallen veteran. There are a lot of people out there who have no passion or belief in something they would law down their life for and I feel sorry for them because they will never know what it really means to be alive. Jesus said in John 15:13 "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." Semper Fi

Response by LTJG Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 1 at 2017 8:17 AM

LTJG Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 01 Dec 2017 08:17:35 -0500

Personally, I would turn around and ask if any of them have served or lost a loved one. If they did then they should understand that THIS FAMILY JUST LOST A SON/DAUGHTER/ETC. If they have not had it happen to them, then they can kindly shut their traps and get over it.

Response by SFC Joseph McCausland made Dec 1 at 2017 8:34 AM

SFC Joseph McCausland — Fri, 01 Dec 2017 08:34:32 -0500

First off every one on the aircraft should have stood out of respect..but that aside, I would have been embarrassed but at the same time "really pissed off". I would have let my fellow passenger "in first-class" know what an incentive "ass-hole" they are.; to bad a fellow first-class passenger didn't have the guts to capture it on their cell phone and blast the "shit-heads" picture all over social media.
My prayers are with this family as they grieve for their fallen hero.

Response by Maj Frank Minogue made Dec 2 at 2017 10:47 AM

Maj Frank Minogue — Sat, 02 Dec 2017 10:47:58 -0500

Stand up and salute the family as they got off.

Response by SR Eddie Reyes made Dec 4 at 2017 2:49 AM

SR Eddie Reyes — Mon, 04 Dec 2017 02:49:06 -0500

I would tell them”your lack of compassion for someone who fought and died in battle to protect the freedoms you enjoy today is disrespectful. Not everyone can serve but at least show respect for those that do”.

Response by SN Glen Hapeman made Dec 6 at 2017 6:14 AM

SN Glen Hapeman — Wed, 06 Dec 2017 06:14:08 -0500

My actions at first would be a civil conversation they didn't act right after that well who knows let's hope I never am confronted with they issue

Response by CPL Jerald Svoboda made Dec 8 at 2017 7:29 AM

CPL Jerald Svoboda — Fri, 08 Dec 2017 07:29:35 -0500

Just say "You're welcome you ----heads that service member died for your freedom to express yourself, as opposed to being executed on the spot for what you just did"

Response by SSgt Walter Lonsdale made Dec 8 at 2017 9:19 AM

SSgt Walter Lonsdale — Fri, 08 Dec 2017 09:19:39 -0500

I can't imagine anyone booing if they understand the situation. If they did,id follow the booers off the aircraft and give them hell all the way to the luggage area.

Response by CPT Derwin Howell made Dec 8 at 2017 12:59 PM

CPT Derwin Howell — Fri, 08 Dec 2017 12:59:34 -0500

Express my right to Donkey Punch the snowflakes until they learned respect or were compelled to keep their traps shut since their parents didn't teach them respect.

Response by SPC Bobby Morton made Dec 11 at 2017 8:50 AM

SPC Bobby Morton — Mon, 11 Dec 2017 08:50:28 -0500

Not sure... Something along the lines of "HOW DARE YOU DISRESPECT THE FALLEN FOR THIS COUNTRY!" &/or, "SHUT THE FUCK UP OR I'LL SHUT YOU THE FUCK UP!" maybe both...

Response by LCpl Emanuel W. made Dec 11 at 2017 9:20 AM

LCpl Emanuel W. — Mon, 11 Dec 2017 09:20:42 -0500

Something along the line of: "SHUT THE HELL UP YOU ENTITLED F@%^TARD AND SHOW SOME RESPECT!" then perhaps resort to gagging them with their own clothes. I'd probably be escorted off the plane by law enforcement.

Response by COL John McClellan made Dec 11 at 2017 9:26 AM

COL John McClellan — Mon, 11 Dec 2017 09:26:59 -0500

Was there an announcement - did they know that's what this Family was doing?

Response by PO2 Ric Beard made Dec 19 at 2017 4:02 PM

PO2 Ric Beard — Tue, 19 Dec 2017 16:02:00 -0500

I would be added to the no fly list when I was done with them.

Response by AN Donald Miller made Dec 19 at 2017 9:46 PM

AN Donald Miller — Tue, 19 Dec 2017 21:46:33 -0500

Depends on my audience.

Response by CPO Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 20 at 2017 2:37 AM

CPO Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 20 Dec 2017 02:37:45 -0500

I would stand up and honor the family of the fallen son/daughter, offer my deepest condolences, and apologize for the insensitive idiot in first class. Maybe I'm naïve, but I can't imagine that anyone that actually knew this was a Gold Star family would boo. If my action of respect didn't get their attention, I'm not sure any amount of verbal correction on my part would make a difference.

Response by 1LT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 21 at 2017 7:00 PM

1LT Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 21 Dec 2017 19:00:58 -0500

I am thinking it was a case of 'instant a$$H0|3 just add alcohol.' However, having said that, if I witness that, please note my mugshot will be on most news networks because I am beating the snot otta him. If it's a woman, a simple slap. (She must not be a lady because one would never do that!)

Response by COL Charles Cook made Dec 22 at 2017 7:27 PM

COL Charles Cook — Fri, 22 Dec 2017 19:27:24 -0500

Stand and salute as they passed by, although I do like the 1st answer, "Hey, A******, shut the F*** up"

Response by SPC Leslie Weber made Dec 24 at 2017 4:16 PM

SPC Leslie Weber — Sun, 24 Dec 2017 16:16:49 -0500

Wow!! I would have lost my shit

Response by PO2 Hank Kaczmarek made Dec 24 at 2017 9:50 PM

PO2 Hank Kaczmarek — Sun, 24 Dec 2017 21:50:24 -0500

In my Deepest Bellow----"ANYONE ON THIS FLIGHT THAT HAS AN ISSUE, BRING THAT SHIT TO ME IMMEDIATELY! I'll Be happy to release you from your burden".

Response by PO2 Neil Morrison made Dec 27 at 2017 9:20 AM

PO2 Neil Morrison — Wed, 27 Dec 2017 09:20:41 -0500

Kick their ass, and tell them to shut the fuck up!

Response by PV2 Terry Hughes made Dec 27 at 2017 10:20 PM

PV2 Terry Hughes — Wed, 27 Dec 2017 22:20:44 -0500

I'd ask them to leave America and tell them another country is more deserving of their disrespect.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 29 at 2017 1:01 PM

COL Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 29 Dec 2017 13:01:04 -0500

First off....this is a shit stirrer question....when we talk about the Civ-Mil Divide and constantly look at the civilians as the cause of that divide we forget that we are partially responsible for it too; and your post epitomizes our contribution. In 17 years of this fight, I have not heard of that happening, not even once. You know why it hasn't; because the American people, while not completely invested in the GWOT for the last 17 years understand the sacrifice. I personally think this posting demonstrates a lack of understanding of who we are and how we should respect the civilians that provide our paycheck, our housing, our benefits....maybe we should be a little more grateful to be one of the best paid Armies in the world....The Aussie's have us beat. I am booing you for even thinking of posting this...how old were you in 2001. You have no idea what it was like to serve anonymously before this all began....now you expect everyone to kiss our feet, provide us a discount, and step aside when we are in line for something. Shame on you.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 29 at 2017 1:06 PM

COL Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 29 Dec 2017 13:06:04 -0500

Response by CPO Robert (Mac) McGovern made Dec 29 at 2017 1:46 PM

CPO Robert (Mac) McGovern — Fri, 29 Dec 2017 13:46:07 -0500

Reconfigure their face...then claim temporary insanity.

Response by SSG Robert Cash made Dec 29 at 2017 6:30 PM

SSG Robert Cash — Fri, 29 Dec 2017 18:30:47 -0500

First, I would be sure they were properly escorted off the plane with dignity while noting the objecting individuals. I would make it my mission after deplaning to make sure the proper corrective training was visited onto the objecting individuals.

Response by SSgt Thomas Hirschey made Dec 30 at 2017 4:36 PM

SSgt Thomas Hirschey — Sat, 30 Dec 2017 16:36:30 -0500

Have a backbone, stand up and say something.

Response by Col Michael Torres made Dec 31 at 2017 6:51 PM

Col Michael Torres — Sun, 31 Dec 2017 18:51:55 -0500

I’m grateful all of my military brothers and sisters are so clear on what those who booed are “entitled” to - an instant education on respecting Gold Star families. As a Gold Star father, and a former enlisted Marine who then went to medical school and joined the Air Force as a medical officer -retired O-6 - I was my son’s escort to his final resting place in 2004. Rest assured, had that happened to me, I too would have dressed the asshats down, immediately and clearly! Semper Fi & Aim High!

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 2 at 2018 9:39 AM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 02 Jan 2018 09:39:35 -0500

I would promptly kick their ass!

Response by SGT Paul Casteel made Jan 2 at 2018 2:17 PM

SGT Paul Casteel — Tue, 02 Jan 2018 14:17:36 -0500

I'm afraid I'd embrace my inner Ninja before I could even stop myself. Some forms of disrespect I am just incapable of tolerating.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 5 at 2018 10:13 AM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 05 Jan 2018 10:13:04 -0500

End up in jail for assault. It would be worth it.

Response by CPO Dave Mcneeley made Jan 5 at 2018 12:03 PM

CPO Dave Mcneeley — Fri, 05 Jan 2018 12:03:51 -0500

I would have cleared everyone out of the families way stood tall and saluted. That was so disgusting thing for the people of that flight.

Response by Navarro Leandro made Jan 7 at 2018 4:32 PM

Navarro Leandro — Sun, 07 Jan 2018 16:32:01 -0500

Throw that person out the window

Response by MSgt Ronnie Kelly made Jan 7 at 2018 7:42 PM

MSgt Ronnie Kelly — Sun, 07 Jan 2018 19:42:09 -0500

I am pretty laid back kinda guy, but this is a trigger point for me through out my career I had the honor of bringing many of my brothers home on their final flight home. To have some self obsorbed snow flake disrespect one my brothers or sisters you might see me on the evening news for going balistic on a flight from or to some where.

Response by SGT J M Porters made Jan 8 at 2018 8:43 AM

SGT J M Porters — Mon, 08 Jan 2018 08:43:07 -0500

I am going to say this I find it hard to believe that a plane full of US citizen would Boo a greaving family for getting off first. We as a society still respect the dead. For some of you, it may be hard to entertain but this is one of the greatest county to service.

Response by Lt Col Charlie Brown made Jan 8 at 2018 3:32 PM

Lt Col Charlie Brown — Mon, 08 Jan 2018 15:32:06 -0500

Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen i think we would have adjoining cells. My husband would have to bail me out.

Response by SGT Mark Sullivan made Jan 10 at 2018 1:01 AM

SGT Mark Sullivan — Wed, 10 Jan 2018 01:01:04 -0500

You have no idea the levels I would go to to defend a Gold Star family if I ever witnessed that.

Response by Capt Gene Leone made Jan 11 at 2018 2:40 PM

Capt Gene Leone — Thu, 11 Jan 2018 14:40:19 -0500

I would do what any Vet' and/or Combat Vet' would do: Smack the dumb son of a bitch in the mouth; literally!
Phu Bai, 1969-70

Response by CMSgt Ernest Walker made Jan 12 at 2018 5:01 PM

CMSgt Ernest Walker — Fri, 12 Jan 2018 17:01:55 -0500

I’d kick his ass!!

Response by LTC Seymour Vladimer made Jan 13 at 2018 1:57 PM

LTC Seymour Vladimer — Sat, 13 Jan 2018 13:57:45 -0500

Doubt if the person or persons knew the reason for the “special” departure. Cannot fathom a normal person doing this.

Response by SSG Keith Amacher made Jan 14 at 2018 8:31 PM

SSG Keith Amacher — Sun, 14 Jan 2018 20:31:15 -0500

I'm sorry but I have no tolerance for any disrespect of our fallen guys and their families. I was the end of the Vietnam era and we were spit on and disrespected. No more... Not sure how I would react to this but you can bet your butt I would say something...

Response by Sgt William Coffee made Jan 18 at 2018 11:00 AM

Sgt William Coffee — Thu, 18 Jan 2018 11:00:37 -0500

Probably begin with bitch slapping each and every one. Ungrateful bastards.

Response by SSgt Rick Scharnberg made Jan 19 at 2018 5:25 PM

SSgt Rick Scharnberg — Fri, 19 Jan 2018 17:25:56 -0500

Anyone arou d me better not boo. I'm a nice guy, but things like that would set me off.

Response by PO3 Michael James made Jan 19 at 2018 7:57 PM

PO3 Michael James — Fri, 19 Jan 2018 19:57:23 -0500

Should be a LAW.. All Airlines operating in the U.S. should recognize a "Gold Star" family, therefore Showing Respect for the fallen, allow the family to disembark the aircraft first... With ALL the goofy things we do.. why is it so hard for us to recognize our Military... WHY ??

Response by Mary Fowler made Jan 20 at 2018 12:54 PM

Mary Fowler — Sat, 20 Jan 2018 12:54:22 -0500

Tell the inconsiderate, ignorant jerks to shut their pie holes, stand and quietly, respectfully salute!

Response by Donna Barrett-Elliott made Jan 20 at 2018 4:14 PM

Donna Barrett-Elliott — Sat, 20 Jan 2018 16:14:33 -0500

As a Gold Star Mother that would have shook what was left of my world to the core. Oh my God to be so disrespectful!!!

Response by CPL Mike Ortiz made Jan 25 at 2018 12:02 PM

CPL Mike Ortiz — Thu, 25 Jan 2018 12:02:39 -0500

Stand vigil at the exit to make sure that it goes no further.

Response by PO1 Gery Bastiani made Jan 26 at 2018 2:04 PM

PO1 Gery Bastiani — Fri, 26 Jan 2018 14:04:03 -0500

I'd like to tell them to shut the f**k up then if they didn't then I'd smack the sh^t out of them. they were probably draft dodgers like their president clinton

Response by SGM Major Stroupe made Jan 27 at 2018 8:09 AM

SGM Major Stroupe — Sat, 27 Jan 2018 08:09:25 -0500

Very simple; please show some respect!

Response by PO3 Bob Littlehawk made Jan 28 at 2018 9:53 PM

PO3 Bob Littlehawk — Sun, 28 Jan 2018 21:53:04 -0500

I'd ind up in jail for sure

Response by MAJ John Douglas made Jan 30 at 2018 8:36 AM

MAJ John Douglas — Tue, 30 Jan 2018 08:36:30 -0500

I can't image that would happen but if so, I would stand up and tell them to have some compassion and consideration, and then to shut the hell up!

Response by SFC Jimmy Sellers made Jan 30 at 2018 1:19 PM

SFC Jimmy Sellers — Tue, 30 Jan 2018 13:19:26 -0500

I don’t think this would ever happen. American people are very respectful of the military today. In national polls the military always is chosen as the most respected profession in the country.

Response by SSG Ryan Molton made Jan 30 at 2018 5:13 PM

SSG Ryan Molton — Tue, 30 Jan 2018 17:13:06 -0500

I would be shocked ! And the inner NCO would come out ! Would never allow any disrespect to a fallen comrade

Response by LCDR Lorenzo Rodriguez made Feb 1 at 2018 6:22 PM

LCDR Lorenzo Rodriguez — Thu, 01 Feb 2018 18:22:05 -0500

This is some First-Class “shit-stirring”. May as well ask, “How would your Father feel if you were arrested for beating your Mother?”
Yeah, that DIDN’T HAPPEN either!
Unsubscribe me from THIS B.S.!

Response by Marjorie Bellows made Feb 1 at 2018 6:56 PM

Marjorie Bellows — Thu, 01 Feb 2018 18:56:42 -0500

At fist I would say oh helk no you're not! I would have to control my temper of course as it would benefit the family to have a shouting match. Then I probably cry and give the family a hug and let them know that they'll always be in my prayers.

Response by Jose Cornejo made Feb 2 at 2018 6:46 AM

Jose Cornejo — Fri, 02 Feb 2018 06:46:35 -0500

I probably would say like: "Shut the fuck up and show some respect, he sacrificed his life to for all of us, assholes!" and join them to recieve him. If i were the pilot, i would say the same thing and force those booing bitches to show their respect for the fallen hero.

Response by SMSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 4 at 2018 11:57 AM

SMSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 04 Feb 2018 11:57:33 -0500

I would ask them if they ever served or if any of their family members ever sacrificed for our Nation! Also to disrespect another American and their family when they've given the ultimate gift from our Creator their Life is pretty low. No problem they have 1st Amendment Rights but so do I and I'll use them to explain their disgraceful actions!

Response by SSgt Dan Deal made Feb 6 at 2018 6:20 PM

SSgt Dan Deal — Tue, 06 Feb 2018 18:20:07 -0500

I'd be in jail.

Response by SPC David Riley made Feb 10 at 2018 1:29 PM

SPC David Riley — Sat, 10 Feb 2018 13:29:05 -0500

Has this happened? I don't know what I would do, but it wouldn't be pretty, I can tell you that.

Response by SP5 Larry Morris made Feb 10 at 2018 1:38 PM

SP5 Larry Morris — Sat, 10 Feb 2018 13:38:22 -0500

It shows what low life people live in this world hate them all

Response by PO2 Patrick Dwyer made Feb 10 at 2018 2:36 PM

PO2 Patrick Dwyer — Sat, 10 Feb 2018 14:36:06 -0500

Can not see it happening if it is known what is occurring. If it did I'd scream/yell Shut up and emphasis "They are getting a KIA family member. "

Response by SCPO Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 11 at 2018 9:31 PM

SCPO Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 11 Feb 2018 21:31:20 -0500

My scowl and eyes would Gardner attention

Response by PO1 Ted Gaston made Feb 12 at 2018 4:18 PM

PO1 Ted Gaston — Mon, 12 Feb 2018 16:18:10 -0500

Lets just say it would not be a pleasant experience for the BOO'rs and leave it at that. For future evidentiary purposes of course.

Response by MAJ Doug Mattox made Feb 14 at 2018 8:55 AM

MAJ Doug Mattox — Wed, 14 Feb 2018 08:55:05 -0500

First thing I think I would do is call a bail bondsman because I would probably need one very soon.

Response by SSG Ron Tamoschat made Feb 18 at 2018 9:50 PM

SSG Ron Tamoschat — Sun, 18 Feb 2018 21:50:11 -0500

Simply tell them they are being disrespectful , and to put themselves in the shoes of the Gold Star family. No sense in getting into a shouting match and further degrade the situation

Response by SPC Tr Hendricks made Feb 23 at 2018 4:31 PM

SPC Tr Hendricks — Fri, 23 Feb 2018 16:31:34 -0500

If I had the strength, and were able to serve out the long sentence I would most certainly draw from the judge, I would go "United Airlines" on the person who did the booing.... but that would also dishonor that family... so probably would ignore said "scheissekopf", and salute the fallen.

Response by Sgt Robert Norman made Feb 24 at 2018 6:16 PM

Sgt Robert Norman — Sat, 24 Feb 2018 18:16:57 -0500

I would simply stand and salute the family. I would stay that way until they disembarked. No words would be needed.

Response by Denise Rhodes made Mar 5 at 2018 12:41 PM

Denise Rhodes — Mon, 05 Mar 2018 12:41:02 -0500

Probably smack the person who booed, tell them to shut up and to keep your disrespectful mouth shut.

Response by SFC Corey Chipman made Mar 6 at 2018 9:45 AM

SFC Corey Chipman — Tue, 06 Mar 2018 09:45:17 -0500

There are many great response here so there is no need. I feel my response would be confrontational but professional. Great Topic!

Response by PO2 Richard Kroll made Mar 10 at 2018 2:42 PM

PO2 Richard Kroll — Sat, 10 Mar 2018 14:42:54 -0500

I hope they like having their faces permanently planted to the windows of that plane. We all have that fight or flight syndrome when shit goes down. I'm sorry. I believe that violence solves all issues; Id take everyone that boo's, by their hair, drag them out of the plane like caveman style, and beat them like I was paid to do it while listening to the Star Spangled Banner.

Response by Sgt Mike Jacobi made Mar 11 at 2018 12:03 PM

Sgt Mike Jacobi — Sun, 11 Mar 2018 12:03:29 -0400

i would pick out the biggest male booer and tell him to stfu. i would then call “attention” because there were bound to be other vets on the plane. “Hand Salute” while the family passed.

Response by PO3 Grant Skiles made Mar 11 at 2018 12:24 PM

PO3 Grant Skiles — Sun, 11 Mar 2018 12:24:56 -0400

I would not be very nice and tell them to shut the F*** Up. The first one who says something back I know that I will be up in their face asking them what have they done of the United States. I probably would hope that they took a swing at me so that I could beat the crap out of them. Sorry if this offends anyone due to violence but I am tired of the disrespect that America has towards military, police, firemen and teachers. I have been in the military and taught in an inter city school. i am now retired due to being sent to the hospital 2X by students punching me. The first I do not remember going down. It is time to fight back by all of us and volunteer for candidates who will defend the Constitution and President Trump. I will totally support and prior military member who runs and is a Conservative Republican. I want testing out of our schools, bring back a moment of silence and allow student to say a short prayer, make everyone recite the pledge of allegiance each day. We need to teach our children about laws and respect. Until this is done we will continue to have planes full of ignorant individuals who only care about themselves.

Response by SSgt Daniel d'Errico made Mar 11 at 2018 1:21 PM

SSgt Daniel d'Errico — Sun, 11 Mar 2018 13:21:41 -0400

I would clap as loud and long for that family. Then start yelling at the top of my lings that the rest of the passengers should be ashamed of themselves for the entire walk to the baggage pick up point. Their right to "Freedom of Speech" was gaurnteed by that family's loss. Some sympathy and respect must be shown for that family, not the behavior of that church in Kansas.

Response by MAJ Raúl Rovira made Mar 11 at 2018 9:39 PM

MAJ Raúl Rovira — Sun, 11 Mar 2018 21:39:43 -0400

I would stand and salute.

Response by CPL Michael Pyle made Mar 28 at 2018 3:30 PM

CPL Michael Pyle — Wed, 28 Mar 2018 15:30:36 -0400

Verbally inform them they were being self centered and disrespectful

Response by PO1 Michael Brouty made Apr 1 at 2018 7:26 PM

PO1 Michael Brouty — Sun, 01 Apr 2018 19:26:57 -0400

I would stand up and glare at those booing until the family of the deceased had left the plane. Then words would be said.

Response by SPC Byron Skinner made Apr 7 at 2018 3:46 PM

SPC Byron Skinner — Sat, 07 Apr 2018 15:46:17 -0400

Sp4 Byron Skinner If in uniform politely stand, as best as In could at my seat and render a hand salute as the family is leaving and the casket is being removed. When the process is over, politely sit back down and wait your turn to leave the aircraft. Saying anything demeans your uniform and your service. If not in uniform stand and remain silent until the event is over then sit back down. Again nothing verbal.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 15 at 2018 4:13 PM

COL Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 15 Apr 2018 16:13:11 -0400

I too think the word asshole would come out. Maybe not from me but surely from the CAPT. She’s from Boston and can be wicked vocal!

Response by SSG Robert Schlotter made Apr 15 at 2018 6:34 PM

SSG Robert Schlotter — Sun, 15 Apr 2018 18:34:57 -0400

I would bust them in the mouth.

Response by CH (CPT)(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 16 at 2018 9:26 AM

CH (CPT)(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 16 Apr 2018 09:26:54 -0400

I would hope that doesn't happen, but if it did, I would probably try to identify the person booing and shame them a bit.

Response by Cpl Gary Cantrell made Apr 21 at 2018 11:24 AM

Cpl Gary Cantrell — Sat, 21 Apr 2018 11:24:04 -0400

That passenger would be the next body removed from the plane...

Response by Cpl William Novak made Apr 22 at 2018 9:33 AM

Cpl William Novak — Sun, 22 Apr 2018 09:33:49 -0400

CALL THEM ASS HOLES.

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 22 at 2018 12:25 PM

1SG Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 22 Apr 2018 12:25:28 -0400

Maintain you respect and focus on the task at hand. Many have zero empathy or understanding.

Response by PO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 24 at 2018 11:29 AM

PO3 Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 24 Apr 2018 11:29:26 -0400

I keep hearing the words CHICKEN CHOKE A FUCKER in my head....

Response by SFC Wilson Hain made Apr 24 at 2018 3:29 PM

SFC Wilson Hain — Tue, 24 Apr 2018 15:29:43 -0400

Don't believe this happened...soooo this is a stupid unnecessary question!!!

Response by 1SG Patrick Sims made Apr 26 at 2018 2:18 AM

1SG Patrick Sims — Thu, 26 Apr 2018 02:18:59 -0400

You can't win an argument with an idiot. there's no point in arguing with someone who has decided they hate everyone in uniform.

Response by SPC Jay Peltier made Apr 26 at 2018 5:22 PM

SPC Jay Peltier — Thu, 26 Apr 2018 17:22:09 -0400

Its a false narrative, has never and will never happen.

Did u get this on the sean hannity show or the onion??

Response by CW5 Robert Arms made May 2 at 2018 9:14 PM

CW5 Robert Arms — Wed, 02 May 2018 21:14:39 -0400

I would immediately use the PA system for the cabin (yes, I know how) and announce, "Ladies and Gentlemen, I'd like you to know that you are booing the family of a service member who has given his life for our country. If you think that your schedule is more important than this family's loss of a loved one for the sake of our freedom, please continue to boo. Otherwise, sit down and show some class."

Response by SSgt Liam Babington made May 6 at 2018 7:17 AM

SSgt Liam Babington — Sun, 06 May 2018 07:17:14 -0400

Tell the person that while they are doing their idiot “remark” that I contacted the airport police to meet the evil doer at the gate!

Response by SPC Rick Boudreau made May 6 at 2018 4:09 PM

SPC Rick Boudreau — Sun, 06 May 2018 16:09:43 -0400

Stand tall. Not everyone has the capacity to do what you do. Be sad for them and proud for you.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 6 at 2018 5:46 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 06 May 2018 17:46:57 -0400

I would lose the quiet dignity that is my normal demeanor.

Response by SGT Rick Myers made May 7 at 2018 11:40 AM

SGT Rick Myers — Mon, 07 May 2018 11:40:03 -0400

I’d probably be in jail for throat punching the closest one to me as I started a free for all to kick their puke arses!

Response by Lee Beswick made May 8 at 2018 7:03 AM

Lee Beswick — Tue, 08 May 2018 07:03:23 -0400

That person should be smacked repeatedly in the back of the head until realization of the sacrifice that soldier made for our freedoms is realized. This process can be administered continuously until the lesson sticks.

Response by PO3 J.W. Nelson made May 8 at 2018 3:20 PM

PO3 J.W. Nelson — Tue, 08 May 2018 15:20:23 -0400

Probably not very well....would probably have to catch myself to keep from punchin' somebody out....especially if it was a man !!!

Response by PO3 Ian Favata made May 9 at 2018 10:37 AM

PO3 Ian Favata — Wed, 09 May 2018 10:37:32 -0400

There would be an expletive laced tirade from my mouth toward any scumbag that would boo this followed by a threat of bodily harm if they don’t cease.

Response by SGT Brad Watts made May 17 at 2018 9:29 PM

SGT Brad Watts — Thu, 17 May 2018 21:29:58 -0400

I would have stood up and told everybody to shut F(;$& up. That soldier out there gave their live for all you and me. The family members gave their lives one to you and me for the same reason! So go to hell! I would stand in the isles blocking anyone that try deplane before the family!

Response by 1SG Walter Frazee made May 20 at 2018 9:27 AM

1SG Walter Frazee — Sun, 20 May 2018 09:27:26 -0400

I would probably be arrested for assault and battery!

Response by SPC David Dupey made May 23 at 2018 9:51 PM

SPC David Dupey — Wed, 23 May 2018 21:51:50 -0400

I would walk up to the individual and ask would you like that deceased family member to be yours ? Then please show them what you would want in that situation . that is my brother show some respect to him amd his family

Response by LCDR William Higgins [LION1000+] made May 27 at 2018 8:51 AM

LCDR William Higgins [LION1000+] — Sun, 27 May 2018 08:51:21 -0400

hAVE THE PILOT ENSURE THAT PASSENGER WAS LAST OFF THE PLANE

Response by SPC Louis Gillespie made May 27 at 2018 12:28 PM

SPC Louis Gillespie — Sun, 27 May 2018 12:28:09 -0400

Whether I stood alone or with others it would be Extremely Difficult for me to silence my tongue and remain civil. Very Carefully and with a distinct tone in my voice to get their attention I would remind them of the RESPECT that is MANDATORY for this Fallen Solider and that their actions are a Complete Disgrace and it must cease and that any further outburst towards the this Soldiers Family will be dealt with in any manner deemed appropriate .

Response by Sgt John Koliha made May 27 at 2018 11:27 PM

Sgt John Koliha — Sun, 27 May 2018 23:27:18 -0400

Can’t say for sure, but it would involve anger, disgust and a volume of language of a type that could best be described as scatalogical.

Response by SSG Harry Herres made May 28 at 2018 11:03 AM

SSG Harry Herres — Mon, 28 May 2018 11:03:36 -0400

Stand toe to toe and look into their eyes. No words need to be said, the either shut up and wither away or the will be sat down.

Response by Pvt Mike Corbett made Jun 2 at 2018 6:52 PM

Pvt Mike Corbett — Sat, 02 Jun 2018 18:52:11 -0400

Square awat the closest POS and anyone and the next MF that dare ever look out of order !
Semper Fi !

Response by CW4 Robert C. made Jun 4 at 2018 7:27 AM

CW4 Robert C. — Mon, 04 Jun 2018 07:27:51 -0400

I don't know what I would do, but I think that when the airlines are moving people off of the plane for other stupid shit and having those people arrested, maybe we should do the same thing to those people that boo our gold star families because they didn't get to disembark first. "oh boo hoo" Those people should be arrested and removed from the plane hog tied and dripping snot after a good pepper spray to the face. You want to boo, then I challenge you to quit your current job go and sign up in the military and see if you got what it takes to the job that they did so that you can boo when you don't get off the plane first. Of course we could also just make them sit in their seat until all passengers have left the plane and then let them off. Okay I am done, because I have a real disdain for those that disrespect my fallen brothers and sisters and would like nothing more than to torture the crap out of them.

Response by Marlene Hessler made Jun 8 at 2018 10:35 PM

Marlene Hessler — Fri, 08 Jun 2018 22:35:55 -0400

I'd do what I could to block their exit and maybe start singing OUR NATIONAL ANTHEM TO SHOW RESPECT FOR THE ONES THAT GAVE SO MUCH THAT THE A-HOLES HAVE THEIR FREEDOM.

Response by SGT Amy Tribou made Jun 11 at 2018 11:17 AM

SGT Amy Tribou — Mon, 11 Jun 2018 11:17:05 -0400

I think I would lose my bearings. And say to those booing I hope when their family members die, I hope they are given the same respect and condolences that they themselves are giving here today.

Response by MSgt Edward Hayes made Jun 12 at 2018 11:31 PM

MSgt Edward Hayes — Tue, 12 Jun 2018 23:31:33 -0400

I would hope as the plane neared the gate a deplaning plan would be announced with very breed explanation. If that did not happen I would contact the local news and the Airline Hq in that order. While on the plane respect for the family demand civility but a few choice words to selected passengers at the baggage claim might be in order.

Response by PO1 Mark Nielson made Jun 14 at 2018 4:39 PM

PO1 Mark Nielson — Thu, 14 Jun 2018 16:39:57 -0400

Go slap him on the back of the head and tell him that if he want's to boo someone let it be me. I can defend myself.

Response by Cpl Thomas Massie made Jun 15 at 2018 3:31 AM

Cpl Thomas Massie — Fri, 15 Jun 2018 03:31:12 -0400

I would try to be an ambassador for the family, and ask for patience and respect

Response by TSgt Sam Smargissi made Jun 18 at 2018 6:09 AM

TSgt Sam Smargissi — Mon, 18 Jun 2018 06:09:42 -0400

I would stand at attention, and render a salute.

Response by SPC Nathian Myers made Jun 18 at 2018 5:39 PM

SPC Nathian Myers — Mon, 18 Jun 2018 17:39:44 -0400

Probably punch them in the mouth and end up in jail for standing up to these people that have no respect or understand anything about their country.....

Response by SSG Jeremy Sharp made Jun 18 at 2018 9:21 PM

SSG Jeremy Sharp — Mon, 18 Jun 2018 21:21:20 -0400

I am afraid I would lose my military bearing and any civility that might be contained in my vocabulary in dressing down any piece of shit that might be so low ont the stairway of humanity that they would chide a Goldstar family let alone boo them. And I would follow them through the airport after they deplaned decrying their actions for all to hear.

Response by MAJ Bob Mayer made Jun 21 at 2018 7:25 AM

MAJ Bob Mayer — Thu, 21 Jun 2018 07:25:56 -0400

This story was reported inaccurately. The passengers were not aware of what was actually going on.
Frankly, I'm much more appalled at our "commander-in-chief" attacking a Gold Star family; although he might possibly be excused because when he did, because he didn't even know what a Gold Star family was. He still doesn't really care; he's never met a single flight returning to Andrews with bodies on board, but he'll gladly take pictures with a friend who smeared himself with shit to avoid the draft, inside the White House. In between passing classified information to the Russians. And speaking daily on an unsecure personal cell phone. You know, shit that gets American soldiers killed.

Response by SGT Andrew Brooks made Jun 22 at 2018 11:41 PM

SGT Andrew Brooks — Fri, 22 Jun 2018 23:41:10 -0400

first, I'd have to know, was there some sort of announcement about this? I would think so, or why would they boo? if so I'd step right in front (like drill seatbelt close) and quietly say, boo politicians later if you want, but this is a funeral procession, so act like first class and respect that.

Response by LTC Gene Moser made Jun 24 at 2018 10:36 PM

LTC Gene Moser — Sun, 24 Jun 2018 22:36:00 -0400

I thought it was normal for the captain to announce the fact that there was a Gold Star family on board who would greet their child's casket.

Response by CW3 Dan Mackey made Jun 24 at 2018 11:11 PM

CW3 Dan Mackey — Sun, 24 Jun 2018 23:11:50 -0400

I would force my way to the front and keep them waiting until the police forced me to let them off...

Response by LTC Paul Yingling made Jul 2 at 2018 5:22 PM

LTC Paul Yingling — Mon, 02 Jul 2018 17:22:24 -0400

Did this actually happen? If so, when and where?

If not, what is the point of asking the question?

Response by Cpl John Gunning made Jul 10 at 2018 3:27 PM

Cpl John Gunning — Tue, 10 Jul 2018 15:27:47 -0400

All I say it wouldn’t be good for that jerk (man or woman).......!

Response by Amn Jack Mazzuchelli made Jul 11 at 2018 7:26 PM

Amn Jack Mazzuchelli — Wed, 11 Jul 2018 19:26:18 -0400

I also would stand guard until the family cleared the door, THEN everyone, would get shplained to about what the family was there for anyway they would understand and get the fn point, then they would get a free first class ticket on the port or starboard wing of their choice. I would surrender to the police peacefully to the police with the biggest grin ever seen

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 16 at 2018 8:33 PM

PO1 Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 16 Jul 2018 20:33:50 -0400

You can't reason with stupidity but you can sure punch it in the face.

Response by Jessie R. Smith Jr. made Jul 25 at 2018 10:37 PM

Jessie R. Smith Jr. — Wed, 25 Jul 2018 22:37:34 -0400

You people must be a bunch terrorists! So shut up!

Response by SSgt Dwight Deatherage made Jul 27 at 2018 8:49 AM

SSgt Dwight Deatherage — Fri, 27 Jul 2018 08:49:28 -0400

I am afraid I might get in trouble.

Response by Sgt Douglas Hadley made Jul 28 at 2018 10:08 AM

Sgt Douglas Hadley — Sat, 28 Jul 2018 10:08:43 -0400

I would grab that passenger by the scruff of the neck and drag that person outside to view the event. I would not say a word and not allow the passenger to speak either. When the event is over, I would drag that passenger back onto the plane, sit that person firmly back in their seat and instruct the flight crew to make sure that person is the LAST one off the plane. Words cannot change the actions of individuals, but sometimes, a change of perspective, can. Inside the plane, a person can look away and ignore what's happening around them. Outside, on the ground, as a witness, that person cannot look away...cannot ignore what's happening. If I am arrested for what I had done, I would proudly own my actions and accept the consequences of my actions.

Response by CPO Michael Callegri made Jul 31 at 2018 3:48 PM

CPO Michael Callegri — Tue, 31 Jul 2018 15:48:06 -0400

We perish for lack of understanding. A little education goes a long way.

Response by SGT Andrew Anderson made Aug 2 at 2018 4:07 PM

SGT Andrew Anderson — Thu, 02 Aug 2018 16:07:25 -0400

Although there is a great deal of support for the military and military families, there are also many who feel that those in the military should receive no special recognition or perks. They have always been amongst us and unfortunately, there is little anyone can do to change their minds. Hopefully, there is a special place in hell for people who would think or say or do something that would offend anyone who's lost a loved one serving their country.

Response by PO2 David Allender made Aug 3 at 2018 1:47 PM

PO2 David Allender — Fri, 03 Aug 2018 13:47:14 -0400

I wopuld show respect for family and the fallen soldier, and in doing so, askt he people on the plane to show respect, if not for the family at least for soldier that has given his life for our freedoms.

Response by SGT Joe Arteritano made Aug 6 at 2018 4:51 PM

SGT Joe Arteritano — Mon, 06 Aug 2018 16:51:10 -0400

I have been on two flights that transported a soldier's remains and everyone exhibited the utmost respect to everyone involved.

Response by SGT Rafael Morales made Aug 6 at 2018 5:01 PM

SGT Rafael Morales — Mon, 06 Aug 2018 17:01:16 -0400

I am a Vietnam Veteran and I can assure that I will be arrested for punching the lights out of whoever said it.

Response by SSgt Daniel d'Errico made Aug 11 at 2018 2:36 AM

SSgt Daniel d'Errico — Sat, 11 Aug 2018 02:36:42 -0400

After I respected their leaving the plane in quiet respect, I'd turn to that scum sucking low life and asked what he did in the service. If his/her answer was "I didnot serve", I would tell him/her that that family's love one did serve. Their loved one fought for his/her freedom to voice an opinion openly. The departed service member did so without reservations. That the scum sucking weak kneed coward aught to deplane and kiss the entire family's asses in gratitude of their loved ones sacrifice. Then I'd place a call for the air port police to come to the scene of an assault by me on this scum sucking low life. And maybe I'd be happy to repeat the assault in front of the police, so their report was accurately filed.

Response by SFC Mike Thompson made Aug 13 at 2018 4:28 PM

SFC Mike Thompson — Mon, 13 Aug 2018 16:28:49 -0400

Tell them to Shut the Hell Up!

Response by SSgt Patrick Duncan made Aug 13 at 2018 10:36 PM

SSgt Patrick Duncan — Mon, 13 Aug 2018 22:36:50 -0400

I would say loud and clear You are giant bag of assholes....I served Vietnam and worked for an Airline for 15yrs this was shitty.

Response by PO3 Michael Townsend made Aug 17 at 2018 7:34 AM

PO3 Michael Townsend — Fri, 17 Aug 2018 07:34:12 -0400

Did this actually happen?

Response by SGT Roger Bunton made Aug 17 at 2018 11:50 PM

SGT Roger Bunton — Fri, 17 Aug 2018 23:50:35 -0400

Remind them of who gave their life so you could travel freely and unrestricted. Then tell them to knock it off.

Response by PO2 Sam Vanderburg made Aug 22 at 2018 10:24 AM

PO2 Sam Vanderburg — Wed, 22 Aug 2018 10:24:03 -0400

I am afraid I would lose it and might end up in jail.

Response by SrA John Monette made Aug 22 at 2018 8:48 PM

SrA John Monette — Wed, 22 Aug 2018 20:48:44 -0400

someone is going to get their feelings hurt if I witnessed this

Response by 1st Lt Joe Egolf made Aug 24 at 2018 12:43 PM

1st Lt Joe Egolf — Fri, 24 Aug 2018 12:43:49 -0400

It would NOT BE PRETTY

Response by SSgt Walter Lonsdale made Aug 24 at 2018 8:30 PM

SSgt Walter Lonsdale — Fri, 24 Aug 2018 20:30:32 -0400

I don't think I'd have to do much. I think people on the plane not booing can handle it

Response by Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 25 at 2018 12:06 AM

Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 25 Aug 2018 00:06:39 -0400

I just can’t believe someone would be stupid enough to boo a Gold Star family! I really hope this is a “what if” question. Ignorance doesn’t deserve a response! It’s not worth my time or attention - I wish to take the higher ground but cannot promise that I wouldn’t have an out of body experience and smack the individual!

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 12 at 2018 1:08 PM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 12 Sep 2018 13:08:18 -0400

Educate them on what the term "Ultimate Sacrifice" means, and call them a dick after.

Response by MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan made Sep 17 at 2018 12:11 AM

MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan — Mon, 17 Sep 2018 00:11:54 -0400

Stand at attention and STARE!!! at the closest ignorant person.

Response by SSgt Lanny Fisher made Sep 23 at 2018 5:59 PM

SSgt Lanny Fisher — Sun, 23 Sep 2018 17:59:12 -0400

Hopefully I won't live to see that happen, and that's a good thing, since I would probably be arrested for assault or worse !!

Response by MSG Anthony Makar made Sep 24 at 2018 10:31 PM

MSG Anthony Makar — Mon, 24 Sep 2018 22:31:52 -0400

1st of all please someone say that this did not actually happen.. If I were to witness that I would probably loose my ever filipin mind.. I do not even want to think or say what I would do but probably it would not be pleasant.

Response by SPC Phillip Anderson made Sep 28 at 2018 10:46 AM

SPC Phillip Anderson — Fri, 28 Sep 2018 10:46:07 -0400

I hope I wouldn't do something that would get me on the No Fly list, but it would be close.

Response by SGT Christopher Combs made Sep 30 at 2018 2:06 AM

SGT Christopher Combs — Sun, 30 Sep 2018 02:06:02 -0400

Honestly I don't know how I would react. But if I was the family then I'm not going to say how I would react because I already know. The person that disrespected that family is sick..

Response by GySgt Mike Swisher made Sep 30 at 2018 4:09 AM

GySgt Mike Swisher — Sun, 30 Sep 2018 04:09:13 -0400

Accept the fact that some people are just too self centered, ignorant, and totally lacking in any concept of the sacrifice that this family has made in defense of OUR freedom. Trying to reason with or explain to people like that is almost always an exercise in futility. But, as with many others that think as we do, I would extend the honor, dignity, and respect that our fallen brother/sister and their family has earned.

Response by SN Jay Perry made Oct 3 at 2018 11:46 AM

SN Jay Perry — Wed, 03 Oct 2018 11:46:29 -0400

First of all I would find the largest of them and he and I would have a conversation in the corner someplace quietly and politely! Second, if that didn't work I would find the cabin crew in every other passenger who even look like he's ever been in uniform and have a less polite conversation with these individuals!

Response by CPT Edwina McCall made Oct 7 at 2018 4:43 PM

CPT Edwina McCall — Sun, 07 Oct 2018 16:43:20 -0400

I would stand up and shame them then most likely if someone got smart I would slap the shit out of them. Most likely I would end up causing a full fledged brawl and it would feel so good to finally get some people's mouths shut.

Response by Bruce Binder made Oct 7 at 2018 8:42 PM

Bruce Binder — Sun, 07 Oct 2018 20:42:23 -0400

Mad and saddened.

Response by SP5 Norman McGill made Oct 12 at 2018 9:59 AM

SP5 Norman McGill — Fri, 12 Oct 2018 09:59:54 -0400

Hopefully I would be in full dress uniform and I'd stand up,walk to the front of the plane,turn around and walk back looking everyone right in the eye and not say a word. It would become very quiet fast. If your dressed in civies do the same thing especially if your over six feet tall and 180 pounds. If your kinda short get up and ask if there are any vets on the plane and for them to stand up. You'll get at least two or three if not a lot more and then you can say "Please be quiet. That could be any one of us out there." Then sit down and it will be perfectly quiet. Be worth a shot in my opinion.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 12 at 2018 11:49 AM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 12 Oct 2018 11:49:28 -0400

Persons have a right to do as they please. Act professionally and move on with my business. Are you now going to stoop to their level and act unprofessionally and maybe escalate the issue? I think not.

Response by Marcia Culhane made Oct 12 at 2018 10:37 PM

Marcia Culhane — Fri, 12 Oct 2018 22:37:24 -0400

I'd be added to the no flight list and be calling mom for my one time bail after the family left. But for the Grace of God go I.

Response by Lt Col Jim Bemis made Oct 15 at 2018 6:55 AM

Lt Col Jim Bemis — Mon, 15 Oct 2018 06:55:35 -0400

I'd be inclined to work with the aircrew to hold the booing passenger onboard until ALL of the other passengers were off the plane.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 15 at 2018 8:04 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 15 Oct 2018 20:04:20 -0400

How would I react?

Poorly.

Response by SPC Ramon Urias made Oct 20 at 2018 12:03 AM

SPC Ramon Urias — Sat, 20 Oct 2018 00:03:41 -0400

Ideally, a blanket party would be in order but given the fact they these assholes have a monopoly on classlessness, I would embarrass the shit out of them by educating them in front of the other passengers after the family respectfully disembarks the plane. Make them feel an inch tall.

Response by PO2 Linda Howell made Oct 20 at 2018 4:51 PM

PO2 Linda Howell — Sat, 20 Oct 2018 16:51:42 -0400

Say something like my son made it possible for you to live and work in a free country. So you can afford first class.

Response by SFC Robert Walton made Oct 21 at 2018 8:19 AM

SFC Robert Walton — Sun, 21 Oct 2018 08:19:08 -0400

I think I would be getting a two week leave after letting said individual feel the pain of the whole family. ( some where private like escort him to the bath room so he does not get his sickness all over the Plane).

Response by SGT Wesley Ward made Oct 21 at 2018 5:40 PM

SGT Wesley Ward — Sun, 21 Oct 2018 17:40:26 -0400

No point in saying anything! Show respect with a salute and catch the boo’er in the latrine after we get off the plane.

Response by LCpl Clarence Baggett made Oct 22 at 2018 11:22 AM

LCpl Clarence Baggett — Mon, 22 Oct 2018 11:22:04 -0400

Be Pissed at the assholes

Response by MSG Biran Colwell made Oct 22 at 2018 12:25 PM

MSG Biran Colwell — Mon, 22 Oct 2018 12:25:26 -0400

First thing, to Show the Family Respect and let them Debark the aircraft. Then to explain to those who may not understand what is taking place and ask them to be respectful to the Family for there loss and respect the Service Member who lost there life.

Response by Cpl Barry Evans Sr made Oct 26 at 2018 1:34 AM

Cpl Barry Evans Sr — Fri, 26 Oct 2018 01:34:14 -0400

I will be sure the booer(s) are last off the plane.

Response by MAJ Alex Hernandez made Oct 27 at 2018 11:56 PM

MAJ Alex Hernandez — Sat, 27 Oct 2018 23:56:18 -0400

It is pointless to tell an arrogant fool they need to respect the families loss. Then calmly shove an elbow into there mouth.

Response by SGT Fredrick Ramm made Oct 28 at 2018 8:10 PM

SGT Fredrick Ramm — Sun, 28 Oct 2018 20:10:35 -0400

In One Word: "Ballistic!" I was a Vietnam Era Veteran; when it wasn't popular.

Response by SFC Casey O'Mally made Oct 31 at 2018 9:13 PM

SFC Casey O'Mally — Wed, 31 Oct 2018 21:13:46 -0400

Honestly? Probably nothing. I would be too shocked to do or say anything coherent.
In addition to that, while I feel that booing is completely classless and disrespectful, I do strongly support free speech, even speech with which I disagree. If I could get over my shock, I would tell them they were classless, disrespectful, and were a disgrace to their family and the whole human race, but leave it at that.

Response by TSgt Hal Bennett made Nov 4 at 2018 3:35 PM

TSgt Hal Bennett — Sun, 04 Nov 2018 15:35:44 -0500

Loudly explain that they are an asshole; especially if they are obviously American, very loudly inform them that soldiers died for the right to be an asshole! AND to shut their shit hole! I would then salute the family, offer my condolences, and let them know that not all people are jerks.

Response by TSgt David Hatcher made Nov 11 at 2018 9:52 AM

TSgt David Hatcher — Sun, 11 Nov 2018 09:52:52 -0500

It would be useless to say anything to them, because today people think they can do whatever they want.

Response by PO2 Louis Fattrusso made Nov 15 at 2018 5:41 PM

PO2 Louis Fattrusso — Thu, 15 Nov 2018 17:41:09 -0500

I would be so angry. I would stand and apologize for being in such a rude and hateful group.

Response by SCPO Stephen Alexander made Nov 15 at 2018 8:27 PM

SCPO Stephen Alexander — Thu, 15 Nov 2018 20:27:21 -0500

Did someone actually experience or observe this incident, or is it one of those unlikely hypotheticals that elicit over the top answers? I don't even like the question. I come from the Vietnam era, and it was more likely back then. Today, people are almost always respectful of service members.

Response by MAJ Alan Montgomery made Nov 18 at 2018 7:43 PM

MAJ Alan Montgomery — Sun, 18 Nov 2018 19:43:27 -0500

The very thought of someone booing a Gold Star family for being allowed to leave the aircraft first to receive their fallen son/daughters body is so repugnant I can't comment, but I will go this far, it's another reason it's a good thing they don't allow guns on airplanes. I realize our national moral code has crashed and burned since I served, and since I had to escort the body of a fallen comrade in arms, but NO ONE disrespects the sacrifice while still have a say! Cowards die many times, the brave only once, but for the life of me, I can not see the brave among us today laying down their lives for the cowards impeaching all that made America great and protecting their "junk".

Response by Brad Powers made Nov 18 at 2018 10:37 PM

Brad Powers — Sun, 18 Nov 2018 22:37:03 -0500

First i would draw there beligerancy away from the greiving family member directly towards myself by giving the subject 7 Seconds to apologize with sincerity and at the same mentally rehearse kicking there ass. Obviously if they are that dumb and offensive they would take the bait.

Response by Brad Powers made Nov 18 at 2018 10:41 PM

Brad Powers — Sun, 18 Nov 2018 22:41:06 -0500

I'll end up in a cockpit before il end up in first class flight seating in life.

Response by SSgt James Stanley made Nov 23 at 2018 10:01 PM

SSgt James Stanley — Fri, 23 Nov 2018 22:01:30 -0500

I would definitely chew some a$$ so this POS would, hopefully, think twice before he shows his disrespect If he is ever on another flight with a Military Hero's remains on board, and his family is also on board the flight.

Response by TSgt Mike Rumage made Nov 29 at 2018 1:44 PM

TSgt Mike Rumage — Thu, 29 Nov 2018 13:44:20 -0500

Looked up the story that probably prompted this question. For sure it was some FIRST CLASS passengers. So, next time someone says the top 1% gives a shit about you, think about this. Kudos to the flight crew for telling people what was going on. Too bad the family didn't have time to say something back.

Response by PO2 Michael Lee made Dec 1 at 2018 3:03 PM

PO2 Michael Lee — Sat, 01 Dec 2018 15:03:46 -0500

I would get up face the casket and salute as a veteran should and announce his presence to all

Response by SPC Trina Cox made Dec 2 at 2018 12:43 PM

SPC Trina Cox — Sun, 02 Dec 2018 12:43:14 -0500

I would tell that person to have some respect for that family bc their loved o e fought for your freedom and I would let them get off last for being so disrespectful to a hero. Everyone should be giving that family their prayers and thanks for their child sacrifice! People just have no respect these days for the uniform or the sacrifices that go along with it. RIP thank you!

Response by LTC Gary Earls made Dec 2 at 2018 10:02 PM

LTC Gary Earls — Sun, 02 Dec 2018 22:02:24 -0500

That individual needs a "counselling session" on the proper manners at all times. :-) Obliviously his parents failed to teach him respect.

Response by SGT Richard Lovell made Dec 3 at 2018 2:51 PM

SGT Richard Lovell — Mon, 03 Dec 2018 14:51:46 -0500

Shake my head in disgust and help the family. I would even go as far to express my dissatisfaction to the freeloaders booing. Respectfully, of course.

Response by Frank Leverett made Dec 4 at 2018 5:32 PM

Frank Leverett — Tue, 04 Dec 2018 17:32:10 -0500

As someone who has a Great Uncle who wasn't brought home after he fell on 8 JUN 44, I'd not be happy with the idiots doing that, not at all.

Response by Frank Leverett made Dec 4 at 2018 5:32 PM

Frank Leverett — Tue, 04 Dec 2018 17:32:43 -0500

As someone who has a Great Uncle who wasn't brought home after he fell on 8 JUN 44, I'd not be happy with the idiots doing that, not at all.

Response by Rebecca Morley made Dec 5 at 2018 3:20 PM

Rebecca Morley — Wed, 05 Dec 2018 15:20:38 -0500

I cannot fathom the mind set it takes to:
1. Not have any sympathy for the family and their loss.
2. Not have any appreciation for the solider that lost his/her life to protect us.
3. To be so void of class, consideration or even patience to actually boo a grieving family.
Personally I would have got up slapped the person across the face then kicked them in the nuts and as they bent over in pain, ram my knee cap into their nose causing it to cave into their head, but thats just me.

Response by SrA Steve Frey made Dec 6 at 2018 6:22 PM

SrA Steve Frey — Thu, 06 Dec 2018 18:22:41 -0500

Fight on!!

Response by CPL Deanna Green (Parkinson) made Dec 6 at 2018 8:43 PM

CPL Deanna Green (Parkinson) — Thu, 06 Dec 2018 20:43:03 -0500

I have been known to use my wide-load ass to block an aisle in my travels....

Response by SPC George Keller made Dec 7 at 2018 11:00 AM

SPC George Keller — Fri, 07 Dec 2018 11:00:19 -0500

They would be met with a sucker punch with everything I have in me, and then informed that if they didn't shut up, their parents would be getting off of the plane first to receive their body

Response by SSgt Michael Bowen made Dec 8 at 2018 7:15 PM

SSgt Michael Bowen — Sat, 08 Dec 2018 19:15:43 -0500

I can't say for sure but I think the need for bail money would be part of it .

Response by SSgt Michael Bowen made Dec 8 at 2018 7:16 PM

SSgt Michael Bowen — Sat, 08 Dec 2018 19:16:35 -0500

I Can't say for sure but I think the need for bail money would be a part of it .

Response by SPC Margaret Higgins made Dec 8 at 2018 7:26 PM

SPC Margaret Higgins — Sat, 08 Dec 2018 19:26:53 -0500

I would attempt to hug the members. I would have saluted the survivors. I would have whispered in the family member's ears: just how very sorry I was; and that the family member's had my deepest condolences and all of my Love.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 8 at 2018 11:43 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 08 Dec 2018 23:43:17 -0500

If the flight’s passengers were simply told that a “special military family” was being allowed to exit before everyone else from a flight that had already been delayed, it’s misleading to suggest that they knowingly “booed a Gold Star family." If my reference is wrong, more information should have been given by PO1 Martin. Please the read the story:
https://www.snopes.com/news/2016/11/20/gold-star-family-booed-on-flight/

gold-star-family-booed-on-flight

Response by CPO John Williams made Dec 14 at 2018 12:50 PM

CPO John Williams — Fri, 14 Dec 2018 12:50:32 -0500

I would stand at attention and salute them. Hopefully, other veterans or service members would join me.

Response by SPC Martin Meyer made Dec 14 at 2018 6:34 PM

SPC Martin Meyer — Fri, 14 Dec 2018 18:34:56 -0500

I would find this a very difficult situation to be in. I can remember (I am a Viet Nam Era Vet), when our Viet Nam veterans were trashed in Airports coming home. Even I got trashed and I never served in Viet Nam. Civilians only respect us when they need us, otherwise we are just uneducated trash to them; no matter how well educated we are.
Some people are just trash and all you can do is try to quiet them down and offer your support to the family.
We are the "Break Glass in Case of Emergency" men and women in uniform.

Response by CDR Tom Davy made Dec 16 at 2018 1:12 PM

CDR Tom Davy — Sun, 16 Dec 2018 13:12:10 -0500

Please tell me this is an academic question and not a personal experience.

Response by SSG Chad Simmons made Dec 18 at 2018 6:11 PM

SSG Chad Simmons — Tue, 18 Dec 2018 18:11:12 -0500

look to make sure everything was safe- wouldn't want an accident to happen to the asshole

Response by CPO David Sharp made Dec 20 at 2018 8:07 PM

CPO David Sharp — Thu, 20 Dec 2018 20:07:21 -0500

Move forward for the respect you are there to attend and let those who don't know and never will be at peace with ignorance . Sometimes you have to choose the fight worth the dignity of your attention and walk on from the rest.

Response by Sgt Steve Williams made Dec 23 at 2018 8:18 PM

Sgt Steve Williams — Sun, 23 Dec 2018 20:18:18 -0500

The honest answer most of us would give is to beat their ass.

Response by Sgt Mike Jacobi made Dec 24 at 2018 2:33 AM

Sgt Mike Jacobi — Mon, 24 Dec 2018 02:33:43 -0500

So as not to increase the Gold Star families stress, I would simply stand and render hand salute as they got off. After they left the plane I would be sure someone never ever ever forgot that they had fucked up by the numbers. There’d be plenty of time for them to reconsider their actions. Bones can take a good while to heal.

Response by SFC Larry Triplett made Jan 1 at 2019 6:58 AM

SFC Larry Triplett — Tue, 01 Jan 2019 06:58:19 -0500

I would Jack Slap The Ass Hole

Response by PO2 Debbie Mann made Jan 3 at 2019 1:41 PM

PO2 Debbie Mann — Thu, 03 Jan 2019 13:41:31 -0500

With utmost respect. The family of the soldier deserves respect and honor. I would stand in respect of the fallen soldier. I am former military, grew up in the military, had a son serve as well as my ex husband.

Response by 1SG James Kelly made Jan 5 at 2019 8:37 AM

1SG James Kelly — Sat, 05 Jan 2019 08:37:23 -0500

Stand up salute and offer to kill the son of a bitch.

Response by SSgt Daniel d'Errico made Jan 6 at 2019 5:49 PM

SSgt Daniel d'Errico — Sun, 06 Jan 2019 17:49:02 -0500

There would be two choices in my book. One, take the hardest sitcase or carry on I had and smack the heads real hard of every person booing that "Gold Star" family. Two would be more becoming of the better man and telling that plane of losers, to be thankful it wasn't their child being off loaded in a coffin. I would continue saying "That soldier being off loaded died defending you and this country, not at your request. But at their willingness to protect your right to freedom and to voice your like/dislike of the military. You sit there booing a family in grief ans mourning their child's death. May all of you be so proud of yourselfs the rest of your lives for your stupid act today. I would hope your children would grow up better than you, but I doubt it will happen, due to the way you teach them like this." As a veteran myself, I would ask the grieving family if I could stand in honor of saluting their son.

Response by PO1 Donald Boynton made Jan 9 at 2019 5:04 PM

PO1 Donald Boynton — Wed, 09 Jan 2019 17:04:33 -0500

I would come to attention and salute the Gold Star family as they exited the aircraft.

Response by TSgt Pat Burke made Jan 9 at 2019 7:10 PM

TSgt Pat Burke — Wed, 09 Jan 2019 19:10:23 -0500

I probably stand up and explain a few things to the idiots who were Booing.

Response by MSG Everett Cole made Jan 9 at 2019 8:19 PM

MSG Everett Cole — Wed, 09 Jan 2019 20:19:34 -0500

I am afraid that I would lay out the first offender I could reach with a huge from the floor to the ceiling sucker punch. But then again I have anger issues.

Response by CH (MAJ) Thomas Conner made Jan 9 at 2019 10:48 PM

CH (MAJ) Thomas Conner — Wed, 09 Jan 2019 22:48:00 -0500

Although I would want to crack a few heads, I would say, "Ladies & gentlemen, please respect one of our nation's fallen heroes and their family." We live in a world where the only one some people care for is themselves! I'd still want to crack a few heads, but at least I'd know I did the "right" thing!

Response by LTC Betty Holm made Jan 11 at 2019 1:39 AM

LTC Betty Holm — Fri, 11 Jan 2019 01:39:07 -0500

I would stand up and salute them and then slowly very slowly make my way off the plane.

Response by SPC Steven Depuy made Jan 11 at 2019 2:14 PM

SPC Steven Depuy — Fri, 11 Jan 2019 14:14:54 -0500

I suspect I would be banned from flying that airline, after I lectured the 99% who never leave the safety of their country about their self centered asshole conduct.

Response by SPC Al Lohn made Jan 11 at 2019 2:27 PM

SPC Al Lohn — Fri, 11 Jan 2019 14:27:40 -0500

I would be furies. Al Lohn

Response by SSG Ronald Colwell made Jan 11 at 2019 8:50 PM

SSG Ronald Colwell — Fri, 11 Jan 2019 20:50:49 -0500

OMG!! I would probably go upto the first boo-er and ouch him/her in the throat as an example to others. In this case, it’s worth being arrested for assault, even on a female. Total disrespect and disregard for human life and the ultimate sacrifice for which allows them to be able to sit on a plane.

Response by SGT Daniel Myers made Jan 12 at 2019 8:11 AM

SGT Daniel Myers — Sat, 12 Jan 2019 08:11:30 -0500

I would be in that persons face right quick and damn the consequences!

Response by PV2 Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 12 at 2019 11:10 AM

PV2 Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 12 Jan 2019 11:10:17 -0500

This sounds like something the US would do, just like my serving two years for this country then being told that it didn't matter. I could no longer be surprised by any hate crimes this country would produce twords another even twords someone who served.

Response by Sgt Frank Staples made Jan 14 at 2019 12:48 AM

Sgt Frank Staples — Mon, 14 Jan 2019 00:48:45 -0500

I hate to say it but I'd probably show my ass and get in trouble. I have already had one instance of a memorial being almost interrupted ( they weren't allowed close to the memorial and I purposely didn't give any pictures to the media. ) by that group of asshole so called Baptists that shall remain unnamed.

Response by LTC James McElreath made Jan 14 at 2019 1:42 AM

LTC James McElreath — Mon, 14 Jan 2019 01:42:20 -0500

I would be fired up mad to say the least. The airlines could had put the family up front as well, making it easier for them to leave the AC. I have had the somber occasion to be on a domestic flight, where the piolet advised everyone that there was a VIP on board with their escort and asked everyone to stay seated until the remains were removed from the storage hold and escort left the plane.

Response by PO1 Steve Newton made Jan 14 at 2019 4:52 AM

PO1 Steve Newton — Mon, 14 Jan 2019 04:52:43 -0500

There would be nothing to say. You cannot educate or teach respect or honor. I would just sit and pray for our nation and our future. There are 3 service banners......The blue for in service---the silver for wounded---and the gold for our honored dead.

Response by PO2 Robin Tellez/Walters made Jan 14 at 2019 8:27 AM

PO2 Robin Tellez/Walters — Mon, 14 Jan 2019 08:27:29 -0500

I have no idea, being prior service I will never understand a reaction like this ever. Unless you have served I feel you have no idea what being in the Military means, I know because I served for 7 years in the worlds finest Navy. Just respect what we all do and keep your boos to yourself, until you lose a loved one in the Military, you have no say in ANYTHING, period.

Response by MAJ Charles Cozzens made Jan 14 at 2019 8:40 PM

MAJ Charles Cozzens — Mon, 14 Jan 2019 20:40:27 -0500

Use booming voice method and yell "At ease!" Eyes right(or left) attention to the colors! The vocal intonation of the command voice would cause a pause even to a liberal democrat. Stand at attention and remain until the flag covered coffin has passed. Accuse the disrespecting onlookers of not loving Jesus and voting for Bill Clinton. Further, I would question their salvation experience and report them to their last known Sunday school teacher. Parents would recieve a spot report with a recommendation that rations would be cut until further notice.

Response by Sgt Al Thompson made Jan 15 at 2019 12:52 AM

Sgt Al Thompson — Tue, 15 Jan 2019 00:52:15 -0500

The problem is the dirtball does it to get attention. My wife and kids tells me I have a Marine Corps look that scares hell out of them. So, the dirtball gets that look (glare) while I stand at attention and salute.

Response by SSgt Larry Melby made Jan 15 at 2019 4:38 PM

SSgt Larry Melby — Tue, 15 Jan 2019 16:38:02 -0500

I would have a serious heart to heart conversation with the individual suffering a severe case of inappropriate public behavior.

Response by PO2 John King made Jan 16 at 2019 8:35 AM

PO2 John King — Wed, 16 Jan 2019 08:35:14 -0500

I would be Okay with this. Being a former military member I would understand, and if the rest of the passenger's didn't like it I would say to them, what if this was one of your loved ones, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL ?

Response by PO2 John King made Jan 16 at 2019 8:39 AM

PO2 John King — Wed, 16 Jan 2019 08:39:44 -0500

I would ask the people on the plain, how would you feel if this were your brother , sister ,mother, father. Would you act the same way. should someone say yes they would, I would say them, your nothing more then a shitbag, and knock them the fuck out.

Response by Chuck Brown made Jan 16 at 2019 8:51 AM

Chuck Brown — Wed, 16 Jan 2019 08:51:24 -0500

If this happened in my presence, I would get out my cell phone and record every person I could. Then post it on every social media there is. I would do my best to shame them to the point they never set foot outside again.

Response by SGT John Robinson made Jan 16 at 2019 11:32 AM

SGT John Robinson — Wed, 16 Jan 2019 11:32:55 -0500

tell them to shut the f*** up and what a mistake of the human race they are! It is pointless to argue with them....

Response by SPC Jake Orfanos made Jan 17 at 2019 1:21 PM

SPC Jake Orfanos — Thu, 17 Jan 2019 13:21:38 -0500

Take him out side and beat his ass...

Response by SPC Jake Orfanos made Jan 17 at 2019 1:22 PM

SPC Jake Orfanos — Thu, 17 Jan 2019 13:22:08 -0500

Take him off the plane after the family gets off and beat his ass...

Response by Cpl Allen Lamica made Jan 18 at 2019 11:55 AM

Cpl Allen Lamica — Fri, 18 Jan 2019 11:55:10 -0500

Please tell me that this hasn't actually happened!

Response by SSgt Patrick Duncan made Jan 18 at 2019 11:55 AM

SSgt Patrick Duncan — Fri, 18 Jan 2019 11:55:35 -0500

I would scream what a bunch of dumb assholes. Like Vietnam if you haven't been there shut the fuk up

Response by SPC Chris Ison made Jan 19 at 2019 7:41 PM

SPC Chris Ison — Sat, 19 Jan 2019 19:41:13 -0500

How do i know that is what is happening?

Does the use of anger to try and quell a vocal protest, take away from the soldiers sacrifice?

With the exception of those damn westboro baptist people, i do not think shit like this happens.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 20 at 2019 8:29 AM

COL Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 20 Jan 2019 08:29:37 -0500

In today's climate of such civil discourse I would probably be arrested/detained for my actions.

Response by SSgt Gary Lacefield made Jan 20 at 2019 3:20 PM

SSgt Gary Lacefield — Sun, 20 Jan 2019 15:20:44 -0500

I would call out the passengers by name and let them be shamed by the entire flight. Then allow the gold star family to pass ahead of them.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 20 at 2019 6:20 PM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 20 Jan 2019 18:20:28 -0500

A "shut the f$ck up!" would probably be in order

Response by PO2 Roger LaFarlette made Jan 21 at 2019 7:53 AM

PO2 Roger LaFarlette — Mon, 21 Jan 2019 07:53:16 -0500

I would stand and ask the group to please show some respect for the grieving family and their fallen heroe.

Response by SFC William Allen made Jan 21 at 2019 8:05 PM

SFC William Allen — Mon, 21 Jan 2019 20:05:19 -0500

Personally I would not say a thing. AS the family is leaving and walking past me I would do my best to stand at attention and salute.

Response by LTC Jack Regan made Jan 21 at 2019 9:31 PM

LTC Jack Regan — Mon, 21 Jan 2019 21:31:50 -0500

I won't go into detail, but I'd probably end up in jail.

Response by TSgt George Rodriguez made Jan 22 at 2019 2:07 PM

TSgt George Rodriguez — Tue, 22 Jan 2019 14:07:59 -0500

My response would be a violent yawn and stretching accidently punching him in the mouth then saying I'm sorry I didn't see you there.

Response by LCpl Kevin O'Maley made Jan 22 at 2019 9:34 PM

LCpl Kevin O'Maley — Tue, 22 Jan 2019 21:34:10 -0500

I would kick their asses, Semper Fi 68’

Response by LCpl Kevin O'Maley made Jan 22 at 2019 10:03 PM

LCpl Kevin O'Maley — Tue, 22 Jan 2019 22:03:55 -0500

I would have invited all of them to a hand to hand demonstration.. i’m 70 years old but it would not have been a problem with these civilian ingrates!!! Still available,!

Response by Frank Leverett made Jan 27 at 2019 10:56 PM

Frank Leverett — Sun, 27 Jan 2019 22:56:26 -0500

I can't put into words what I'd do, but after that, I'd likely be arrested.

Response by Sgt John Mizell made Feb 9 at 2019 3:36 PM

Sgt John Mizell — Sat, 09 Feb 2019 15:36:15 -0500

Please record with your cell phone next time, assholes, do not like to be on Facebook live, for the world to see.

Response by SPC Dennis Super made Feb 10 at 2019 8:21 PM

SPC Dennis Super — Sun, 10 Feb 2019 20:21:13 -0500

I would tell whoever was complaining to shut the hell up and show some respect for a family that has made the ultimate sacrifice. I do not have patience for anyone that would complain about having to wait for such an event.

Response by CWO3 Charles Vaughan made Feb 12 at 2019 8:47 AM

CWO3 Charles Vaughan — Tue, 12 Feb 2019 08:47:38 -0500

I’d smack the shit out of them !

Response by Cpl Ray Frigerio made Feb 14 at 2019 9:01 AM

Cpl Ray Frigerio — Thu, 14 Feb 2019 09:01:30 -0500

I would shout them down for their complete and total lack of decorum . ( I have a very loud, well projected voice too ). I'd be willing to bet some of the flight crew might even take note of the hecklers and disembark them last . I know I would , lol.

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 14 at 2019 10:43 AM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 14 Feb 2019 10:43:49 -0500

In my NCO voice, "REALLY! What, exactly, are you booing? Think about that."

Response by 1SG James Matthews made Feb 16 at 2019 1:31 PM

1SG James Matthews — Sat, 16 Feb 2019 13:31:43 -0500

Probably be banned from flying on that airline cause I would stand and chew out all the passengers for their dis-respect and attitude.

Response by SGT Forrest Fitzrandolph made Feb 16 at 2019 8:18 PM

SGT Forrest Fitzrandolph — Sat, 16 Feb 2019 20:18:11 -0500

I would suggest those who are ignorant enough to not understand this is a true hero and family getting together for the last time to “make way, or I will”

Response by SFC Scott Parkhurst made Feb 17 at 2019 12:39 AM

SFC Scott Parkhurst — Sun, 17 Feb 2019 00:39:15 -0500

I never want to embarrass the Army by being a jerk no matter how pissed off I get over a situation. What I do and say reflects on all Military personnel. I would either give a look and or have a nice chat....But maintain my professionalism as it also reflects on the family who lost their love one(s)....I would not want to make a scene and further upset them....think about it.

Response by PO2 Clotilde Szelkowski made Feb 17 at 2019 4:01 PM

PO2 Clotilde Szelkowski — Sun, 17 Feb 2019 16:01:56 -0500

I am HM2 USN 1973-1977. I would probably say something to the effect of "that fallen soldier is one who WILLINGLY sacrificed their life to give you the right to feel the way you do and you should really be on your feet showing this family your gratitude"n. Then I would 'face' the family, 'snap to' and call 'HAND SALUTE' and retain that salute until I was sure they had retrieved the remains!

Response by LTC George Morgan made Feb 17 at 2019 6:14 PM

LTC George Morgan — Sun, 17 Feb 2019 18:14:18 -0500

Probably revert to my Military Days on a Parade Square, but with a little more vigilance!

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 18 at 2019 5:48 AM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 18 Feb 2019 05:48:13 -0500

I often have to ask myself how would I feel if I was in that situation. I have lost a lot of important people to me, and I understand the feeling of loss. I would be angry if I was that family and so many people knew my business. I shouldn't have to lose someone important to receive a kind or courteous gesture, and if the only reason I'm receiving a kind or courteous gesture is because I lost someone then I don't want it. Someone gets off or on an airplane first for any reason doesnt make a difference. We are all getting on or off that airplane and it doesn't matter if it is one or two mins different. If being impatient and self centered is your general attitude let it shine brightly and stay away from me.

Response by LCDR Bruce Cooley made Feb 18 at 2019 9:16 PM

LCDR Bruce Cooley — Mon, 18 Feb 2019 21:16:58 -0500

I would probably stand up and stare at the persons doing it..... Usually, they don't or can't stand to be singled out and identified.....so I would.

Response by LTC James McElreath made Feb 19 at 2019 2:28 AM

LTC James McElreath — Tue, 19 Feb 2019 02:28:07 -0500

I would imagine the Stewardess would alert the passengers of the presence of the family of one of our returning fallen hero's. If they were close enough to not make matters worse by making a scene, have them shut their mouth!

Response by PFC Jim Sears made Feb 19 at 2019 7:35 AM

PFC Jim Sears — Tue, 19 Feb 2019 07:35:55 -0500

Punch him in the mouth.

Response by SSG Paul Ellis made Feb 19 at 2019 1:52 PM

SSG Paul Ellis — Tue, 19 Feb 2019 13:52:16 -0500

As the kids say these days, one of my "triggers" is disrespect. While I'd like to say I'd make reasoned arguments to show them the error of their ways, I'd probably flash back to old school NCO and call the disrespectful, entitled bastards everything except a child of God. Nobody can effectively cuss people out like an NCO. I'd piss them off, shut them up and maybe bring 1 or 2 women (or testosterone-light men) to tears.

Response by SPC Casey Ashfield made Feb 19 at 2019 4:04 PM

SPC Casey Ashfield — Tue, 19 Feb 2019 16:04:26 -0500

Likely do something that would get me put on the No Fly list. Or several of them.

Response by SFC Robert D. made Feb 19 at 2019 4:28 PM

SFC Robert D. — Tue, 19 Feb 2019 16:28:33 -0500

Simple after the family left the plane, I go over to the disrespecting people whisper in their ear. I have 28 confirmed kills, if you do not shut your mouth, I will do it for you.

Response by TSgt Tim (lj) Littlejohn made Feb 19 at 2019 6:09 PM

TSgt Tim (lj) Littlejohn — Tue, 19 Feb 2019 18:09:38 -0500

After closing their mouth for them, inform them just how much of a low life they are!!

Response by SPC Michael O'Connell made Feb 19 at 2019 11:15 PM

SPC Michael O'Connell — Tue, 19 Feb 2019 23:15:05 -0500

I would have asked if they had a family member die in the service of our country and waited for an answer. That may have done the trick.

Response by SFC Charles McVey Sr. made Feb 21 at 2019 11:07 AM

SFC Charles McVey Sr. — Thu, 21 Feb 2019 11:07:18 -0500

I would not be very well liked as I would revert to Field First Status and in a very loud and Parade Ground Voice tell them all to shut the hell up.

Response by PO2 Stephen Cipolla made Feb 21 at 2019 12:27 PM

PO2 Stephen Cipolla — Thu, 21 Feb 2019 12:27:36 -0500

yup, pretty sure that STFD and STFU would be the nicest things to be said at that point.

Response by Roger Walker made Feb 22 at 2019 9:40 AM

Roger Walker — Fri, 22 Feb 2019 09:40:45 -0500

Pretty much call my bailbondsman and tell them where I will be after I bitch slap this turd into next Thursday...

Response by PO1 Cliff Heath made Feb 22 at 2019 4:07 PM

PO1 Cliff Heath — Fri, 22 Feb 2019 16:07:04 -0500

I would be arrested no doubt about it.

Response by CPL Christopher Trafnik made Feb 22 at 2019 4:28 PM

CPL Christopher Trafnik — Fri, 22 Feb 2019 16:28:19 -0500

I would demand those doing so have respect and common decency.

Response by CPT Keith Whitter made Feb 23 at 2019 10:35 PM

CPT Keith Whitter — Sat, 23 Feb 2019 22:35:59 -0500

Wow! It is hard to fathom this actually happening, but in today's polarized society it is believable. My reaction would have been somewhere between outrage and stony silence as I contemplated various way to rip the offending parties to shreds. For a guy who once took a fallen soldier home from El Salvador I cannot even imagine how horrific it must have been!

Response by SSG Dave Johnston made Feb 24 at 2019 12:52 AM

SSG Dave Johnston — Sun, 24 Feb 2019 00:52:25 -0500

Don't go there, please. Was on emergency leave in '78, Death of Spouse, from Germany to CONUS. In the belly of FRED was the casket of a fallen one. I paid my respects as I climbed the ladder to the passenger compartment and wondered what was instore for the loved ones once the left the confines of Dover AFB. I can only hope that their experiences were not as traumatic as the ones I experienced in '74. I've friends and loved ones that are "Gold Star" families and have shared their angst at having to explain to the uninformed the significance of a "Gold Star".

Response by PFC Eric Perry made Feb 28 at 2019 11:10 AM

PFC Eric Perry — Thu, 28 Feb 2019 11:10:24 -0500

I would tell them in a loud clear voice that it was this family's soldier who allowed them to live in a free country. So shut the F*ck up

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 28 at 2019 1:14 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 28 Feb 2019 13:14:09 -0500

Did you actually witness this? Or are you just drumming up a hypothetical situation, trying to stir the pot?

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 1 at 2019 2:56 PM

COL Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 01 Mar 2019 14:56:13 -0500

This week I was on a flight from Honolulu to Atlanta with the recently recovered remains of a Naval Aviator who died while serving in the Vietnam War. All of the passengers were respectful and patient while the hero's military escort deplaned prior to all others. For me, I felt blessed that I happened to be on that flight. I know not his name-may he rest and peace and may his family find comfort. I later found out that the remains were those of Lt. Richard 'Tito' Lannom of Union City, TN. See comment below.

Response by SFC Patrick Machayo made Mar 3 at 2019 8:25 PM

SFC Patrick Machayo — Sun, 03 Mar 2019 20:25:27 -0500

I would simply, and calmly, remind them that the service member died for their right to boo.

Response by SGT Philip Klein made Mar 6 at 2019 9:31 AM

SGT Philip Klein — Wed, 06 Mar 2019 09:31:39 -0500

I would probably get in a disagreement

Response by Sgt Mark Tarte made Mar 7 at 2019 2:55 PM

Sgt Mark Tarte — Thu, 07 Mar 2019 14:55:03 -0500

I'd probably stand up, turn around, look at the offending party and let them know they have no class nor right to do what they just did. If that didn't work to shut them up, then I would say something much more simple, "Hey fuck stick, shut the fuck up."

Response by SGT Milton Pridemore made Mar 11 at 2019 9:27 AM

SGT Milton Pridemore — Mon, 11 Mar 2019 09:27:54 -0400

I'd need help off the plane after I buried my foot up someones ass...

Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 11 at 2019 6:30 PM

Sgt Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 11 Mar 2019 18:30:20 -0400

There is no excuse for this behavior!!! I would stand, face those booing, point to each one and lambaste them for acting in Un-American, pointing out that there is a deceased military hero, who is on his way home! He/She needs to be honored for his/her sacrifices for all of us...

I remember the movie about "Taking Chance", the story of Lance Corporal Chance Phelps, killed in the line of duty... If you haven't seen it, you should...

Response by CPO David Marlowe made Mar 14 at 2019 8:26 PM

CPO David Marlowe — Thu, 14 Mar 2019 20:26:24 -0400

I would respond the same way I did when I came home on leave after my first deployment during Vietnam (1972) where I was called a vile baby killer and spot on. I just considered the source, laughed and moved on. Over a 21 year career I pulled into many ports of call. The only plot of call I ever pulled into where we were not welcome was right here in the good ole US of A (1986). Your always going to find those who don't care or respect what sacrifices military personnel make for the country. Nothing new!

Response by Sgt Heriberto Salinas made Mar 15 at 2019 8:29 PM

Sgt Heriberto Salinas — Fri, 15 Mar 2019 20:29:40 -0400

By the way, the body is not going anywhere. When they get there to receive the body, I think everyone should pay their last respects.

Response by SSgt Larry Melby made Mar 26 at 2019 5:33 PM

SSgt Larry Melby — Tue, 26 Mar 2019 17:33:37 -0400

I might have to spend some quality time with that individual to help them understand the nature of their social faux pax

Response by Joseph Cribben made Apr 5 at 2019 6:32 AM

Joseph Cribben — Fri, 05 Apr 2019 06:32:55 -0400

As the father of one of those families that have gotten off early, I would have to say Not Well. But I will say that we did not have that problem going to Dover nor in Denver. DOL.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 5 at 2019 8:10 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 05 Apr 2019 08:10:44 -0400

Probably sit there respectively until I knew all the facts. In this case I would have to leave the plane without knowing all the facts. What I don't like about this question is that it implies all the people knew all the facts; they didn't... so my opinion is this question is a bit like muck racking journalism.

Response by SGT William D. Mitchell made Apr 7 at 2019 12:42 PM

SGT William D. Mitchell — Sun, 07 Apr 2019 12:42:43 -0400

My response would be immediate and visceral.

Response by CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 9 at 2019 11:50 AM

CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 09 Apr 2019 11:50:16 -0400

I'd hope it never happens to me, but if so it would be really hard to just bite my lip and remain silent. Anything said or done on an airplane can lead to big trouble, but anyone that self-centered needs to be made aware of it at a bare minimum.

Response by CPT Melissa Scheller made Apr 16 at 2019 2:31 PM

CPT Melissa Scheller — Tue, 16 Apr 2019 14:31:52 -0400

I’d tell them that if they’d like to get off first they could have their family member below them in a casket!

Response by Sgt Dan Catlin made Apr 27 at 2019 2:24 PM

Sgt Dan Catlin — Sat, 27 Apr 2019 14:24:12 -0400

If it was just one passenger, I'd confront them quietly as possible so as not to disrespect the family by making a scene; but definitely with whatever level of aggression was necessary to stop their behavior. All else fails, I still got enough moxy left in this old bod to take out an enemy (I did swear to defend from both foreign and domestic types, right?)

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2019 3:26 PM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 29 Apr 2019 15:26:15 -0400

It would not end well.

Response by SFC Ralph Dunlap made May 12 at 2019 10:32 PM

SFC Ralph Dunlap — Sun, 12 May 2019 22:32:00 -0400

I flew from Germany to Kansas City the casket had a military escort, the escort left the plain first to escort the casket? We all had to wait in Kansas City for the casket to b handed over to the family before the luggage was unloaded. One lady gotten upset I pulled her to the side and gave her a lesson about the military plus a little respect would not hurt.

Response by SFC Ralph Dunlap made May 12 at 2019 10:35 PM

SFC Ralph Dunlap — Sun, 12 May 2019 22:35:08 -0400

Were was the military escort? I flew with a fallen soldier from Germany to Kansas city, the escort always left the plain first to be with the casket until it was handed over to the family in KC.

Response by TSgt Jonathan Taylor made May 12 at 2019 10:48 PM

TSgt Jonathan Taylor — Sun, 12 May 2019 22:48:44 -0400

I would be standing at attention in the isle and saluting the casket.

Response by SFC Tracy Scott made May 26 at 2019 9:14 AM

SFC Tracy Scott — Sun, 26 May 2019 09:14:11 -0400

I would stand up, would stick my hand out, followed by a hand salute

Response by A1C Daniel Drake made May 26 at 2019 5:13 PM

A1C Daniel Drake — Sun, 26 May 2019 17:13:37 -0400

Stand up. Pull out my nunchucks.
"Cowabunga it is."

Response by CPO Robert Turner made Jun 4 at 2019 8:38 AM

CPO Robert Turner — Tue, 04 Jun 2019 08:38:50 -0400

Did this situation really happen, or is this just on "off the cuff" comment to stir up the readership? Why don't we discuss something like what the President of the United States stated when he said this outrageous comment, "I don't like POWs, I only like the ones that weren't captured". Both are absurd, but only one really happened.
"For those that fought for it, Freedom has a certain flavor the sheltered shall never know".

Response by Col Jeffrey Swegel made Jun 6 at 2019 10:27 PM

Col Jeffrey Swegel — Thu, 06 Jun 2019 22:27:45 -0400

Kick’em Right in the jimmies

Response by SFC Steven Schafer made Jun 6 at 2019 10:57 PM

SFC Steven Schafer — Thu, 06 Jun 2019 22:57:30 -0400

As a member of the Gold Star family from D-Day having lost an uncle, I would do my best to restrain my disgust for the taunting passenger. I would have stood,faced the other passengers on board and ask for a moment of silence to honor the family for their loss and to honor the ultimate sacrifice of the fallen warrior.

Response by PO3 James Bobiney made Jun 20 at 2019 10:59 AM

PO3 James Bobiney — Thu, 20 Jun 2019 10:59:12 -0400

I would feel angry and defensive. The people who boo obviously haven't a clue the debt they owe for their freedom to be able to boo w/o being thrown in jail or executed.

Response by TSgt Pat Burke made Jun 21 at 2019 8:19 PM

TSgt Pat Burke — Fri, 21 Jun 2019 20:19:26 -0400

Get in their face. Plain and simple

Response by TSgt Pat Burke made Jun 21 at 2019 8:20 PM

TSgt Pat Burke — Fri, 21 Jun 2019 20:20:36 -0400

Get in their face. Plain and simple. Explain to them the issue with real close eye contact.

Response by A1C George Lyda made Jun 28 at 2019 9:28 AM

A1C George Lyda — Fri, 28 Jun 2019 09:28:13 -0400

Shut some people up

Response by 1LT Bob Bonnell made Jun 30 at 2019 11:16 PM

1LT Bob Bonnell — Sun, 30 Jun 2019 23:16:07 -0400

I would ask for all veterans on the flight to stand up. I would then tell the unintelligent idiot: "These people standing risked their lives for your freedom. This fallen soldier gave his life for your freedom. His parents have lost their son in defending your freedom. When you leave this aircraft, you will resume your life; these parents will never be able to resume the life they had before their son was killed.
"Please sit down and I ask the veterans standing here to let you leave the aircraft and depart the terminal without reacting in any way for your lack of understanding and compassion."

Response by SSgt Daniel d'Errico made Jul 1 at 2019 2:25 PM

SSgt Daniel d'Errico — Mon, 01 Jul 2019 14:25:23 -0400

My first reaction sould be anger. A puke head who can afford first class tickets, can afford behavior better than booing a family of a fallen soldier. I'd have to give the speech along an ass kicking. Disrespect like that deserves both. A family losted a loved one, who served this country, so this ass could afford to fly first class and go on living free. Patriotic I am, defend this country I did and will keep on doing. Any one who can't show respect to fallen veterans best leave the US now. They're not fit to be an American. If you never served, have no family member who served, show more sense and respect to those who do/did and their family. They would not like it if that family of the fallen soldier came to the fueneral of one of their family and booed him/her.

Response by LTC Donell Kelly made Jul 7 at 2019 1:09 PM

LTC Donell Kelly — Sun, 07 Jul 2019 13:09:01 -0400

I’d stand up & loudly announce that if any of you a** holes booing have lost a family member in service to their country, you get to say what you want. The rest of you can sit down & shut the hell up! That level of insensitivity cannot be tolerated!!

Response by CW2 Michael Bodnar made Jul 10 at 2019 12:17 PM

CW2 Michael Bodnar — Wed, 10 Jul 2019 12:17:51 -0400

ENS Private RallyPoint Member I would quietly stand and render a salute as the family passed by. I would then turn to the rest of the plane and tell those who felt the urge to boo and booing a family who just lost a loved one defending their right to boo them. I would further remind those people that how would you feel attending a funeral for one of your loved ones and someone doing the same thing to you. Yes, you're inconvenienced but so are they. Sit down in your sit, pull out your lollipops and show some human decency regardless of which way you lean politically.

Response by SPC James J. Johnson Jr. made Jul 10 at 2019 12:44 PM

SPC James J. Johnson Jr. — Wed, 10 Jul 2019 12:44:45 -0400

I am a veteran, and even if I wasn't, the family of the fallen soldier would surely take precedence.

Response by PFC Bobby Lingle made Jul 10 at 2019 1:36 PM

PFC Bobby Lingle — Wed, 10 Jul 2019 13:36:02 -0400

Stand and salute in respect. Never argue with a fool or fools you can't win with stupid people, show your respect to the family of the fallen and see the fools for what they are you can't beat up everyone.

Response by SFC Richard Baerlocher made Jul 14 at 2019 5:15 AM

SFC Richard Baerlocher — Sun, 14 Jul 2019 05:15:35 -0400

If I knew they were a gold star family, I would not say anything, I would stand up at attention and salute as the walked off the plane. Allow the crew of the plane to handle the SOB!

Response by SPC Deb Root-White made Jul 20 at 2019 8:11 PM

SPC Deb Root-White — Sat, 20 Jul 2019 20:11:37 -0400

I would have asked those being obnoxious if they would like it if their family member was treated so disgracefully. I would then render a salute to the family as a show of respect while assisting in making sure the family was able to leave the plane before anyone else.

Response by LTC Ken Connolly made Jul 22 at 2019 2:42 PM

LTC Ken Connolly — Mon, 22 Jul 2019 14:42:50 -0400

Sign of the times. Civility is gone the way of Chivalry. Reminds me of time when I was in a bar where several of us soldiers were at a table having a few drinks and just shooting the breeze, when a group approached one of the guys at the table and asked him why was he sitting with those guys. The soldier, who was asked the question, told the group to buzz off. The group then asked you and who else is going to make us. At that time everyone else in the bar stood up. It must have been a 100 or so fellow soldiers in that bar standing up. The unruly group immediately beat feet for the door. Perhaps in the airplane, maybe every military active or veteran stand up and fill the aisle and salute the passengers as they depart.

Response by Maj Kim Patterson made Jul 29 at 2019 10:43 AM

Maj Kim Patterson — Mon, 29 Jul 2019 10:43:45 -0400

Walk quickly to the front and use the flight attendant mike to explain what is happening.

Response by PO3 Robert Laity made Aug 17 at 2019 5:51 AM

PO3 Robert Laity — Sat, 17 Aug 2019 05:51:10 -0400

I certainly would educate him on the supreme sacrifice that the deceased had made in order to protect his/her right to express that "Boo". I would then tell them how extremely callous it was to do so and ask him/her how they would feel if it happened to be them in that situation. The family deserves respect and the person's abject failure to show respect is shameful.

Response by CPT Brad Wilson made Aug 18 at 2019 11:36 PM

CPT Brad Wilson — Sun, 18 Aug 2019 23:36:18 -0400

Tell everyone to shut up and get out of the families way

Response by Sgt Aaron Cook made Aug 22 at 2019 8:19 AM

Sgt Aaron Cook — Thu, 22 Aug 2019 08:19:31 -0400

"If you don't want to be stuck on this plane for HOURS while they call the cops to handle the incident I'm about to cause, shut your mouths and show some damn respect."

Response by SPC Steven Nihipali made Aug 26 at 2019 1:48 PM

SPC Steven Nihipali — Mon, 26 Aug 2019 13:48:38 -0400

I was in uniform, had no idea we had a fallen on the plane. One of the flight attendants quietly asked me if I had known and asked if I'd talk with the pilot (who was AirNG), we talked about details and that he was the in Afghanistan coming home to a single mom who was waiting at the small airport in WI. I agreed to do everything that needed to happen in order for the mom to receive her son. I asked where the escort went and was told he was too drunk to perform the duties. Yes, passengers gasped when the pilot got on the intercom and made the announcement, but honestly, there's no reason to even engage with that fucktard.. maybe a nice throat punch as you walk by though.

Response by SGT Juan Robledo made Sep 1 at 2019 10:31 PM

SGT Juan Robledo — Sun, 01 Sep 2019 22:31:04 -0400

Stand and salute, give the family time to leave the aircraft, then put the assholes on the spot, there will be no disrespect, period, either stand and give the family your attention, or sit and shut your nasty mouth

Response by LTJG Sandra Smith made Sep 1 at 2019 11:32 PM

LTJG Sandra Smith — Sun, 01 Sep 2019 23:32:31 -0400

"I see you're ready to sign up to take that young man's place; the recruiter will meet you in the jetway..."

Response by PO1 Richard Norton made Sep 2 at 2019 12:05 AM

PO1 Richard Norton — Mon, 02 Sep 2019 00:05:00 -0400

I would be a very unhappy camper. The we the American people owe the gold star families everything.

Response by Lt Col Paul Maxwell made Sep 8 at 2019 7:22 PM

Lt Col Paul Maxwell — Sun, 08 Sep 2019 19:22:18 -0400

Give the opportunity... I would silently step in front of said individual...either face to face, or with my back to them, to provide buffer for the escort and family members. If they were in the aisle, I would “assist” then in finding their seat again.

Response by A1C Dennis Partain made Sep 8 at 2019 9:05 PM

A1C Dennis Partain — Sun, 08 Sep 2019 21:05:53 -0400

Depending on circumstances I might just call them out for being a disgusting, disrespectful, pos. Then again if it were a male and he caught me on the wrong day, I might have jerked him to his feet and told him face to face of my displeasure at his disrespectful attitude...

Response by CPT Tommy Curtis made Sep 8 at 2019 11:07 PM

CPT Tommy Curtis — Sun, 08 Sep 2019 23:07:44 -0400

Shut him the f up.

Response by SPC Daniel Rankin made Sep 8 at 2019 11:26 PM

SPC Daniel Rankin — Sun, 08 Sep 2019 23:26:08 -0400

Maybe it is because of all the hatred he spread in the 8 years he was in office and all the difficulty I had to get the help I needed when I needed it. So yes. You do not like my answer then do not read or like it. I had to many of my friends that are still waiting for help because of the rules he put into place for medical help. I was one of the lucky ones. It only took me 14 months and some are still waiting after 5 and 6 years.

Response by GySgt Arthur Bauman made Sep 9 at 2019 10:19 AM

GySgt Arthur Bauman — Mon, 09 Sep 2019 10:19:32 -0400

Just ignore them , it sounds like its their personal problem , its enough emotion with out causing a scene with them , they are embarrassing them selves , not you .

Response by CPL John Fournier made Sep 14 at 2019 6:03 PM

CPL John Fournier — Sat, 14 Sep 2019 18:03:31 -0400

How does it feel that you could lay your head on your pillow every night and be safe it’s for soldiers and Marines and sailors that allow you to do that

Response by PO2 Michael Henry made Oct 11 at 2019 3:57 PM

PO2 Michael Henry — Fri, 11 Oct 2019 15:57:22 -0400

"Thank you, their son/daughter died for your right to free speech. The least you could do is be thoughtful on when you use it. What have you done for your county lately?"

Response by SSgt Russell Stevens made Oct 13 at 2019 3:30 PM

SSgt Russell Stevens — Sun, 13 Oct 2019 15:30:16 -0400

I think I was respond with something like "Hey, asshole. They're here for their fallen soldier. Now show a lot of respect since that soldier died for your right to speak your mind."

Response by SPC Michael Pellegrino made Oct 16 at 2019 8:55 PM

SPC Michael Pellegrino — Wed, 16 Oct 2019 20:55:42 -0400

Furious!!!!!

Response by SrA James Cannon made Oct 17 at 2019 2:44 PM

SrA James Cannon — Thu, 17 Oct 2019 14:44:48 -0400

Tell them "Shut the F up you loser!"

Response by MAJ Hugh Blanchard made Oct 17 at 2019 9:52 PM

MAJ Hugh Blanchard — Thu, 17 Oct 2019 21:52:59 -0400

I might be taken off the flight for nailing the arrogant jerk in 1st Class if anyone did that around me. I am unpleasantly astonished at how many American citizens are so falsely arrogant, spoiled and ungrateful. The armed services consist of less than 2% of our population, yet we do 100% of defending them all. I grew up mostly in small towns and rural areas (Oregon, California, Idaho, Nebraska, South Carolina, Texas) because my father was a Civil Engineer and we moved from job to job, mostly building hydro-electric dams. The country people with whom I grew up had almost all served in the military, even if only for a short time, and they considered it their duty to serve their country. The big cities seem to be mostly populated with arrogant and egocentric people who think the country exists to serve them and give them free stuff. Wrong!
"Ask not what your country can do for you. Instead ask what you can do for your country."
John F. Kennedy

Response by MGySgt Joseph Magyar made Oct 29 at 2019 10:41 PM

MGySgt Joseph Magyar — Tue, 29 Oct 2019 22:41:47 -0400

I suppose I may have stood up and wished everyone who booed that one of their loved ones dies before you get home and has the same reaction from complete strangers

Response by MAJ Dan Rachal made Oct 30 at 2019 11:12 PM

MAJ Dan Rachal — Wed, 30 Oct 2019 23:12:21 -0400

I would find his name and let the passsenger know what is happening an who this asshole was that boo'd.

Response by SGT James Hamill made Oct 31 at 2019 6:04 PM

SGT James Hamill — Thu, 31 Oct 2019 18:04:29 -0400

Catch him off the plane..tap him on the shoulder..and tell him "he is a despicable human being".

Response by SFC Charles Diers made Oct 31 at 2019 8:25 PM

SFC Charles Diers — Thu, 31 Oct 2019 20:25:06 -0400

Maintain a professional presence and Firmly, but calmly say “Settle down and be mindful and respectful of the circumstances involved here”.

Response by SFC Bob Johnson made Nov 3 at 2019 9:58 AM

SFC Bob Johnson — Sun, 03 Nov 2019 09:58:34 -0500

My first reaction would be the desire to pound the living dog snot out of that individual; however, then the professional side of me would kick in and I would then stand up and start clapping and yelling thank you to the gold star family and that I appreciate the sacrifice that their family just experienced so that the boo'ing individual can do such things. If I were close enough, I would go up to that family and thank them for their sacrifice. Usually, those who are disrespectful as this individual was, will shrink into nothingless when confronted with positivity.

Response by Sgt Michael Clifford made Nov 15 at 2019 4:46 PM

Sgt Michael Clifford — Fri, 15 Nov 2019 16:46:13 -0500

I'm afraid that anyone who was that low class and ungrateful is way beyond anything that I could say or do in the time allotted and the restrictions of civil law. However if possible I would step in front of them and render a silent salute while blocking their exit. When the family had left the scene I might mention my feelings to the fool who had shown such a lack of courtesy to a brother/sister. Of course if they felt the need to push or in some way handle me while I was rendering honors I would be forced to be defensive.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 16 at 2019 9:54 PM

PO1 Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 16 Nov 2019 21:54:38 -0500

I'd punch someone in the face for sure. But I've never known as a tactful person. Please do the opposite of what I say at all times.

Response by SFC Michael Krogmann made Nov 17 at 2019 5:30 PM

SFC Michael Krogmann — Sun, 17 Nov 2019 17:30:49 -0500

I would probably tear them a new one!

Response by SFC Michael Krogmann made Nov 17 at 2019 5:31 PM

SFC Michael Krogmann — Sun, 17 Nov 2019 17:31:27 -0500

Maybe a throat punch too

Response by PO1 Sharon Anderson made Nov 20 at 2019 6:09 AM

PO1 Sharon Anderson — Wed, 20 Nov 2019 06:09:05 -0500

I would say, excuse me, when you lose someone you love and they are going to the cemetery to be buried...how would you like to be booed? If you cannot show respect, just be quiet. You need to learn manners.

Response by SSG Bob Teachout made Nov 23 at 2019 8:27 PM

SSG Bob Teachout — Sat, 23 Nov 2019 20:27:51 -0500

I would come to the Position of Attention and Salute the family - and after they leave - I would give that "NCO" look at anyone who had booed. and who knows, I might end up giving a mini speech!

Response by Cpl Gabriel F. made Nov 24 at 2019 11:52 PM

Cpl Gabriel F. — Sun, 24 Nov 2019 23:52:39 -0500

Give the opportunity to "boo" me. Close and personal. Disrespect of one of our fallen will not be tolerated.

Response by Cpl Vic Burk made Dec 1 at 2019 7:47 PM

Cpl Vic Burk — Sun, 01 Dec 2019 19:47:16 -0500

I think I would have to tell those who boo'd that is the total disrespect to the fallen military member, the family, and our country. It would probably go something like, "If that was you, and it was your family member that lost their life I would think you would expect a little respect. Waiting to get off this plane isn't the end of the world. Be glad it isn't your son/daughter." Cussing at someone who acted this way isn't going to accomplish anything and will make you look more like a fool than them.

Response by PO1 John Hudson made Dec 8 at 2019 8:27 PM

PO1 John Hudson — Sun, 08 Dec 2019 20:27:59 -0500

I would move through the line calmly, then grab the jackass by the collar and remind him of what this country costs. Then have him arrested for any trumped up charge I could make stick. Disrespect like that will never shows its ugly face when I’m around.

Response by PO3 Jake Lucid made Dec 8 at 2019 11:06 PM

PO3 Jake Lucid — Sun, 08 Dec 2019 23:06:51 -0500

It'd be an interesting night....and I'd need bail money.

Response by SGT Lester Cohen made Dec 9 at 2019 8:57 PM

SGT Lester Cohen — Mon, 09 Dec 2019 20:57:11 -0500

I would let those people that booed know what I thought of them in plain straight forward English.

Response by Cpl Pablo Cardone made Dec 12 at 2019 11:38 PM

Cpl Pablo Cardone — Thu, 12 Dec 2019 23:38:39 -0500

Treat them look recruits and start yelling at them a boot camp then stop and say then you join the military.

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 13 at 2019 12:44 AM

PFC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 13 Dec 2019 00:44:03 -0500

I throat punch a mother fucker for the disrespect

Response by Sgt Marcus Boone made Dec 13 at 2019 10:43 AM

Sgt Marcus Boone — Fri, 13 Dec 2019 10:43:39 -0500

A simple "WHAT IF WERE YOUR SON OR DAUGHTER; wouldn't you appreciate this gesture of appreciation?" Should suffice.
Even if the rude person didn't "get it", everyone else would and karma has a way of settling the matter in the end.

Response by Col John Madison made Dec 13 at 2019 2:19 PM

Col John Madison — Fri, 13 Dec 2019 14:19:36 -0500

If I was on that Patriotic detail, I would sternly address the miscreant in matter of fact terms, and if that didn't correct his attitude, I would personally adjust it.

Response by Cpl Al Zazueta made Dec 13 at 2019 2:42 PM

Cpl Al Zazueta — Fri, 13 Dec 2019 14:42:11 -0500

I Would have stood up & Embraced the Family & Harshly Scolded These Fools For their Ungrateful Behavior!!!

Response by Cpl Bryan Clark made Dec 13 at 2019 3:56 PM

Cpl Bryan Clark — Fri, 13 Dec 2019 15:56:13 -0500

Go Stand directly in front of said passenger and probably do something I might regret later to that said passenger

Response by SPC Chelsea Fernandez made Dec 13 at 2019 9:18 PM

SPC Chelsea Fernandez — Fri, 13 Dec 2019 21:18:34 -0500

I would honestly cry because it's sad that a soldier cannot get the proper respect for even giving them the chance to have the freedom they have.

Response by SP5 Ward Posey made Dec 14 at 2019 9:51 AM

SP5 Ward Posey — Sat, 14 Dec 2019 09:51:51 -0500

My PTSD would definitely come to the front and I would probably be arrested for trashing the first little booing twerp I could reach.

Response by SFC Keith Bailey made Dec 14 at 2019 7:54 PM

SFC Keith Bailey — Sat, 14 Dec 2019 19:54:29 -0500

I would be extremely angry ..

Response by SGT Brenden Lee made Dec 14 at 2019 10:36 PM

SGT Brenden Lee — Sat, 14 Dec 2019 22:36:27 -0500

"Please, sir, a service member died protecting your freedoms. Have some respect while this grieving family receives this soldier's body." "Your understanding is appreciated." Sometimes tact is the way to deal with people. If that fails, be an ass back.

Response by SSG Ted Seal made Dec 14 at 2019 10:57 PM

SSG Ted Seal — Sat, 14 Dec 2019 22:57:51 -0500

I'm sorry, but having seen my friends, and fellow comrades-in-arms lay down their lives for our country, and Brother's, I have developed zero tolerance for those who lack proper decorum, and respect. I would confront them, and cut into them like a DI cuts into those who do totally dumbass things. Then I would come to attention, salute, and give 100% of my attention to the family, and our fallen comrade.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 15 at 2019 1:26 AM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 15 Dec 2019 01:26:39 -0500

It upsets me that the full, REAL story isn’t being posted and that click bait titles are being used to get responses.... even here on Rally Point. Had fellow Americans known their flight was slightly delayed so the family could travel to meet up with their Faller Solider, I’m CERTAIN every person on that flight would gladly stand aside patiently so the family could reunite with their Soldier upon landing. This moves me and it infuriates me equally.

Response by CPO Heidi Cermak made Dec 15 at 2019 9:25 AM

CPO Heidi Cermak — Sun, 15 Dec 2019 09:25:17 -0500

the other passengers were engaging in behavior that is disrespectful to the fallen and his family. the family is in grief and they should refrain from saying anything. I would say respect the family as nicely as i could.

Response by SFC Louis Willhauck, MSM, JSCM, and ARCOM made Dec 15 at 2019 9:48 AM

SFC Louis Willhauck, MSM, JSCM, and ARCOM — Sun, 15 Dec 2019 09:48:09 -0500

While there are generally few military types with the excess funds to pay first class fares, this is disgusting behavior. It is for that scumbag's ability to buy a first class ticket that that soldier died. If there is a God in heaven, someone is there when this sort of idiocy occurs.

Response by TSgt Robert E. Bonney made Dec 15 at 2019 11:55 AM

TSgt Robert E. Bonney — Sun, 15 Dec 2019 11:55:44 -0500

There are numerous ways to respond if one feels compelled to. Anything from silence to saying this, "My son/daughter/father/mother fought for your Constitutional right to be able to boo us, so if it makes you feel better about yourself boo us. We do not care." I, myself, would respond with that. I feel it would have more meaning than anything else we could respond with.

Response by SPC Robert Bobo made Dec 15 at 2019 12:48 PM

SPC Robert Bobo — Sun, 15 Dec 2019 12:48:39 -0500

This isn't behavior exhibited by a normal American, terrible and it's only an entitled POS would react this way, I suspect he/she was shut down quickly

Response by PO3 J.W. Nelson made Dec 15 at 2019 2:15 PM

PO3 J.W. Nelson — Sun, 15 Dec 2019 14:15:52 -0500

Airline should be required to advise all passengers that there is a Gold Star Family onboard and give them the option of securing another flight or to shut the hell up and honor this family.....and if they choose to stay on the flight.....they damn well better behave themselves !!!

Response by PFC Rick Schuetz made Dec 15 at 2019 2:21 PM

PFC Rick Schuetz — Sun, 15 Dec 2019 14:21:21 -0500

I would let my disgust know in no uncertain terms! I then would assume a defensive and protective position to render aid and comfort to the family of my fallen brother as best I could.

Response by LtCol Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 15 at 2019 2:24 PM

LtCol Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 15 Dec 2019 14:24:27 -0500

I suspect my reaction would depend on whether I was on my meds at the time.

Response by SPC Dwight Turner made Dec 16 at 2019 1:03 AM

SPC Dwight Turner — Mon, 16 Dec 2019 01:03:35 -0500

i'd stand up confront them they might not have any idea at least should have respect !!!!
too much hate in world right now !!!! theres no room any place wether on plane or land even by ship

Response by SCPO Edward Westerdahl made Dec 16 at 2019 2:25 AM

SCPO Edward Westerdahl — Mon, 16 Dec 2019 02:25:31 -0500

I like the action indicated, but after the family has left the plane.

Response by PFC Keith Williamson made Dec 16 at 2019 7:09 AM

PFC Keith Williamson — Mon, 16 Dec 2019 07:09:48 -0500

come to the family's aid to the best of my ability.

Response by AN Wilfred Davis made Dec 16 at 2019 9:02 AM

AN Wilfred Davis — Mon, 16 Dec 2019 09:02:01 -0500

Stare that person down and ask him/her if they ever served and tell them,very bluntly, that the GI may have died so they could have the Opportunity, to be disrespectful.
People like that that make me sick.

Response by Cpl Tyler Therrien made Dec 16 at 2019 10:32 AM

Cpl Tyler Therrien — Mon, 16 Dec 2019 10:32:38 -0500

probably get arrested for breaking someones jaw

Response by HN Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 16 at 2019 12:14 PM

HN Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 16 Dec 2019 12:14:26 -0500

Probably just tell, "shut the fu*# up, they just lost their father/brother/sister/mother or child, what the fu@$ is wrong with any of you?" Then probably be romoved because I'd be the "problem"

Response by SFC Larry Jacobs made Dec 16 at 2019 2:54 PM

SFC Larry Jacobs — Mon, 16 Dec 2019 14:54:35 -0500

This type of behavior should not be tolerated by anyone. No family deserve to be treated like that regardless of the circumstances, but for a fallen soldier's family to be treated like that is sad. Just how low does one have be to disrespect a defender of this nation, one who has given his or her life in defense of this country, one who swore an oath to protect and defend the Constitution of the United States of America. To die in the service of his or her country. Those who have not served will never understand what that means to a soldier, life for country, life for our way of life, life for democracy and one gone who shall never return. Patriotism and honor is all a soldier has to be proud of the country and the people he or she serve. Fallen in to preserve that which he or she hold so dear leaving his love ones to answer the call which few often do. Shame on those who disrespect the honor of the soldier and his family who are trying to hold on to that small glimmer of family pride.

Response by SA Michael Moore made Dec 16 at 2019 4:54 PM

SA Michael Moore — Mon, 16 Dec 2019 16:54:55 -0500

I would be so ashamed for them. Much more than that and I think you create an incident which might make it worse. If I was close enough to first class , I might explain to them how disrespectful they are being. I would also think of when I was flying coast to coast, DC to SJC, the businessman I often saw who would always catch a soldier coming back and have the fa exchange his first class ticket so the soldier got his first class seat all the way home.

Response by SA Michael Moore made Dec 16 at 2019 5:03 PM

SA Michael Moore — Mon, 16 Dec 2019 17:03:58 -0500

I think there's a misunderstanding, I went back and read all the press on this.

"Mr. Perry says the captain announced that the family of “military personnel” need to leave first, adding that he believed that some passengers were already told that there were family members of a fallen soldier were onboard.
That’s when the grieving father claims that passengers in first class began jeering and hissing, apparently indignant that they’d paid for first class for a reason, and it wasn’t to let other people off first."

It sounds to me like the flight from Sacramento to Phoenix was delayed. The father says at some point the captain asked that "military personnel be allowed to leave first". He doesn't say that that privilege to leave first announcement was made concurrent with "Gold Star family trying to meet their son".
The hissers and boomers were jerks, too jerky for me to believe even. I think there was room for misunderstanding from what I have read .

Response by SFC David Dean made Dec 16 at 2019 7:47 PM

SFC David Dean — Mon, 16 Dec 2019 19:47:10 -0500

My reaction to this conduct by stupid civilians is not printable.

Response by SFC David Dean made Dec 16 at 2019 11:27 PM

SFC David Dean — Mon, 16 Dec 2019 23:27:27 -0500

SFC David Dean 1 m
It truly is irrelevant as to what "class" of passengers booed. It is a classless act regardless. Far too often we see a "priveleged" person or group exhibit unacceptable behavior and then the far too predictable response "I have the right." I also have the right to tell you I and my brothers and sisters who have given their life and limb for you to exercise the right we sacrificed to afford you. In turn you "owe" to those who have sacrificed thusly to extend them respect. In this case these morons demonstrated no respect for either the sacrifice nor the right they have given. These morons that we are compelled to call respectful citizens have done nothing to deserve the rights others have given them. Perhaps it would do them well to lose something like our brothers and sisters have in order to fully understand and appreciate exactly what those rights are worth. Don't anyone hold your breath for that to happen though.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 17 at 2019 1:13 AM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 17 Dec 2019 01:13:02 -0500

I'd tell the ppl boo'ing to shut the fuck up, their family member fought for them so they need to pay some damn respect or go be bullet shields for those still fighting.

Response by PO1 Todd McMillin made Dec 17 at 2019 7:57 AM

PO1 Todd McMillin — Tue, 17 Dec 2019 07:57:34 -0500

Depends on the deceased is... If they're a war criminal or other individual who had a criminal history then I'd be cheering along side them like if it was Edward Gallagher; even as a fellow Navy Enlisted I can't respect someone who kills innocent civilians for sadistic pleasure.

Now if it was Senator John McCain or another honored individual; I'd have politely asked them to be quiet and respect the grieving family members. Even though McCain never met a war he didn't want the US involved in; he still served and was a POW. I may personally disagree with his political actions but will give the man his due as a service member.

Again, you have to play it by ear in some cases and while giving the families some decency of respect there in the dealing with the death of a family member. But in most cases it would have to be an exceptionally good reason to allow people to behave like this.

Response by FN Charlie Spivey made Dec 17 at 2019 8:57 AM

FN Charlie Spivey — Tue, 17 Dec 2019 08:57:37 -0500

Been reading through some of the responses to this. If it was a Veteran / Retired Veteran, there wouldn't be any special accomodations made. Most likely be treated like any other being transported for burial. A Fallen Veteran, KIA is a different thing all together. That is an Honorarium that is rendered and rightly so. It would probably be incumbant upon the Airline, if they have a fallen member of the military aboard, that they notify the passegers beforehand and what is expected of them. If they can't accept it, then give them and chance to get off ( doesn't neccessarily have to be all that subtle ).

Response by SSG John Lehmer made Dec 17 at 2019 11:35 AM

SSG John Lehmer — Tue, 17 Dec 2019 11:35:19 -0500

I'd stand and applaud the family.

Response by GySgt Tony Alley made Dec 17 at 2019 1:27 PM

GySgt Tony Alley — Tue, 17 Dec 2019 13:27:13 -0500

I'd freak the F#@K out... Enough said.

Response by Capt Dennis Tague made Dec 17 at 2019 3:30 PM

Capt Dennis Tague — Tue, 17 Dec 2019 15:30:33 -0500

As a retiree and not being constrained by military protocol, I don't know precisely what I'd say, but it wouldn't be nice.

Response by SPC Bill Ratajczak made Dec 17 at 2019 5:54 PM

SPC Bill Ratajczak — Tue, 17 Dec 2019 17:54:07 -0500

I'd like to think I would say something to stir up their patriotism, love of country, and honor for the fallen. Unlikely I know. It's an old fashioned ideal. Google can't help you show class and respect.

Response by A1C Jeremy Ely made Dec 17 at 2019 8:06 PM

A1C Jeremy Ely — Tue, 17 Dec 2019 20:06:42 -0500

In all honesty I don't know what I would do other than salute the Gold Star Family, shake their hands, give them my condolences, thank them for their ultimate sacrifice, and offer any help they needed. There is no point in acknowledging ignorance or trying to educate someone like that.

Response by CPT Wayne Price made Dec 17 at 2019 9:59 PM

CPT Wayne Price — Tue, 17 Dec 2019 21:59:42 -0500

I would have words, not pleasant, about respecting those who gave all, and the loss to the family. I went through verbal abuse a an Army officer during the Vietnam war, we were instructed not to respond. we did what we were ordered but the trauma exists to this day. The first class passenger was a self centered, probably affluent who avoided the draft, and if not would have. I wish I had been there to help his attitude adjustment. . But once a self centered jerk always a jerk.(lanhuage cleaned up).

Response by MSgt Bradford Phillips made Dec 17 at 2019 11:27 PM

MSgt Bradford Phillips — Tue, 17 Dec 2019 23:27:44 -0500

Hopefully, I would be close enough to tell them to show respect and compassion for the family. Having said that, my gut response would be to punch the dipshit in the mouth.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 18 at 2019 6:36 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 18 Dec 2019 18:36:51 -0500

The result would be Air Marshals removing me from the plane in handcuffs.

Response by SFC Stillman G. made Dec 19 at 2019 12:30 AM

SFC Stillman G. — Thu, 19 Dec 2019 00:30:38 -0500

I would probably walk up to First Class and "politely" inform the person 1) of what was going on, 2) apparently they have never served 3) if they are classy enough to fly 1st Class then try to also have a 1st Class attitude, and last but not least walk off the plane with the person to help them understand the importance of all of our service. Freaking POS !!

Response by COL Thomas Wagner made Dec 19 at 2019 7:38 AM

COL Thomas Wagner — Thu, 19 Dec 2019 07:38:00 -0500

It would be rare for this type of behavior to occur today as families of a fallen soldier are typically announced before de-planing. However, should it occur, I would merely ask the person(s) to show some respect.

Response by 1stSgt Tom Johnston made Dec 19 at 2019 11:33 AM

1stSgt Tom Johnston — Thu, 19 Dec 2019 11:33:04 -0500

Grab them around the throat and shake some sense into tham and tell them to STFU.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 19 at 2019 2:50 PM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 19 Dec 2019 14:50:30 -0500

Stand up and salute. Silently.

Response by Bob Conant made Dec 20 at 2019 4:17 AM

Bob Conant — Fri, 20 Dec 2019 04:17:05 -0500

My kneejerk reaction would be to slap their face, but I would more than likely tell the person he may sit in first class, but he sure as hell is not first class.

Response by SCPO Chuck Vroman Sr. made Dec 20 at 2019 7:08 PM

SCPO Chuck Vroman Sr. — Fri, 20 Dec 2019 19:08:57 -0500

I would raise my voice as loud as necessary to get everyone's attention. (I DO retain that ability, having been medically retired from Submarines as a Senior Chief after 22+ years.) I would then request that all previous or current servicemembers identify themselves. When no hands are raised, I would proceed to loudly inform the entire plane that the deceased servicemember and their family DESERVED their respect and silence for the sacrifices they have made, which none of the others on the plane could find the courage to do. If anyone identified themselves as a current or previous servicemember, I would proceed to chastise them to the point the would feel small enough to play Seahunt in an ant's toilet!!

Response by CPL Mark Garrigus made Dec 21 at 2019 12:09 AM

CPL Mark Garrigus — Sat, 21 Dec 2019 00:09:36 -0500

The same way I would react to anyone, even a president that disrespected a Gold Star Family or a POW or anyone who has served honorably.

Response by CSM Frank Graham made Dec 21 at 2019 3:58 AM

CSM Frank Graham — Sat, 21 Dec 2019 03:58:05 -0500

I would stand up and explain why this action needs to happen. Maybe the crew did not inform the passengers. If they were informed then I would have a few not so good words for those who chose to go further with it.

Response by Sgt Cheryl Wilker-Stich made Dec 21 at 2019 1:56 PM

Sgt Cheryl Wilker-Stich — Sat, 21 Dec 2019 13:56:35 -0500

But I would not cuss at them. Because if you do cuss then you're a bigger a** then them.

Response by Sgt Michael Betts made Dec 21 at 2019 9:42 PM

Sgt Michael Betts — Sat, 21 Dec 2019 21:42:33 -0500

I'd say "These people are debarking first to receive the mortal remains of a service member who died in the service of our country. If anyone has a problem with that, come see me."

Response by CPL Gail White made Dec 21 at 2019 9:44 PM

CPL Gail White — Sat, 21 Dec 2019 21:44:49 -0500

I would stand up and tell them to show some respect.

Response by CPL Joseph Elinger made Dec 21 at 2019 9:53 PM

CPL Joseph Elinger — Sat, 21 Dec 2019 21:53:10 -0500

Though I don't fly to California, I'd offer to "school" that passenger.

Response by Lt Col Doug Webster made Dec 21 at 2019 10:12 PM

Lt Col Doug Webster — Sat, 21 Dec 2019 22:12:20 -0500

Meaningful answers need a meaningful question to respond to. There was no offered evidence from this report (now more than 3 years old) that the passengers were told that the individuals were being let off ahead of everyone else on the plane were (1) a Gold Star family, or (2) that they were on their way to meet remains of a fallen hero. The airplane's captain only made reference to "special military personnel". If that was indeed all the passengers were told, I can understand why many might be less than happy. Had a more complete announcement been made, I suspect there would have been no boos at all.

Response by TSgt Paul Fields made Dec 22 at 2019 6:25 AM

TSgt Paul Fields — Sun, 22 Dec 2019 06:25:55 -0500

To put it civilly, I would definitely find out what his major malfunction was. Those of you in the armed forces know what I mean by that.

Response by SSgt Larry Melby made Dec 22 at 2019 10:19 AM

SSgt Larry Melby — Sun, 22 Dec 2019 10:19:51 -0500

I would probably be all in the face of whoever was the largest complaining passenger doing my best USAF version of Gunny Ermey

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made Dec 22 at 2019 12:24 PM

MAJ Ken Landgren — Sun, 22 Dec 2019 12:24:27 -0500

I would probably become enraged and say what the fuck is your problem!

Response by Sgt Ivan Boatwright made Dec 22 at 2019 4:42 PM

Sgt Ivan Boatwright — Sun, 22 Dec 2019 16:42:26 -0500

I would do as I did in South Alabama college when I stood faced the teacher and called her out for wearing the black arm bAND TO CLASS TO PROTEST THE Vietnam war. Protesting is fine but not in the class I am paying for. I walked out.

Response by SPC Stephen Walsh made Dec 22 at 2019 6:02 PM

SPC Stephen Walsh — Sun, 22 Dec 2019 18:02:28 -0500

I would read the morons the riot act. Then I would pray at the top of my lung for the deceased service member.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 23 at 2019 1:47 AM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 23 Dec 2019 01:47:03 -0500

I would speak out in a clear command voice announcing that the family was going to claim the body of a fallen soldier and that such disrespect shows that the people booing are very anti-American and need to cease the noise.
If they are in such a hurry to deplane I would be happy to accommodate them and help them out of the rear exit of the plane, without any stairs.

Response by SPC Janet Roush made Dec 25 at 2019 12:46 AM

SPC Janet Roush — Wed, 25 Dec 2019 00:46:05 -0500

Well, it would make very angry! I'm sure I would have to bite my tongue to keep from really laying into them!
I would tell them they were being very disrespectful to the family and should be ashamed of themselves....not that it would do any good. People now days have no empathy for anyone
Gonna quit writing now or this will turn into a long rant.

Response by PO3 Elizabeth Campbell made Dec 26 at 2019 4:53 PM

PO3 Elizabeth Campbell — Thu, 26 Dec 2019 16:53:43 -0500

First, I would think the pilot would announce that. Then I would stand and Salute. I would find it hard to believe anyone would boo.

Response by MSgt George Fillgrove made Dec 29 at 2019 5:06 AM

MSgt George Fillgrove — Sun, 29 Dec 2019 05:06:51 -0500

Did this really happen or are we just speculating here?

This one really hurts. Talk about a complete lack of class or respect. But it's almost no different than when I was heading overseas back in the 70s as a young dumb airman, dressed in Class As, and confronted by war protesters. In that instance, I just kept my mouth shut and kept walking -- very quickly.

Remember, however, that on a civilian flight it is the captain who is in charge and the stewardess enforces the rules. If the airline, aircraft or crew ever participated in the Civilian Air Reserve Fleet (CRAF), I would suspect the crew would have a totally different perspective and that behavior would simply not be tolerated. I would hope the proper authorities are quickly notified and the disruptive ones "shown the door" or barred from future flights. Free speech or not.

For our part as veterans, military families, or service members, its our role in such situations to protect and show support, so I guess I would simply stand silently, lend sympathy or encouragement if possible, and may even salute the family as they passed.

Response by MSgt George Fillgrove made Dec 29 at 2019 5:23 AM

MSgt George Fillgrove — Sun, 29 Dec 2019 05:23:54 -0500

Are we just speculating here or did this really happen? This one hurts. Talk about a complete lack of class or disrespect. It brings back memories of the early 70s when I was a young dumb airman, heading overseas in Class As, and confronted by war protesters. I just kept my mouth shut that day and kept walking very quickly.

Remember that on a civilian airliner it is the captain who sets the rules and the protocol, and it is the stewardess or flight attendants that enforce those rules. If that crew participated in a CRAF (Civilian Air Reserve Fleet) assignment, they've been where we've been and their perspective would be entirely different. Free speech or not. So, I would hope the appropriate authorities were quickly notified and the disruptive ones "shown the door" and possibly barred from future flights on that airline.

For our part as veterans or military members, its important to extend our support to the family of the brother or sister whose casket is being moved on the tarmac or apron. Therefore, the focus should be on the family, not the jerks.

We are part of a bigger family and it is important to show they are not alone. So, I would offer personal encouragement or support, stand silently and I may even render a salute as they passed. That is the forever memory I would hope the family would take with them.

Response by SSG Franklin Briant made Dec 29 at 2019 4:35 PM

SSG Franklin Briant — Sun, 29 Dec 2019 16:35:29 -0500

People are idiots and usually have no idea what the situation is. That being said I would have words that I cannot post here for anyone disrespecting a Gold Star family and/or a fallen troop. People in First class believe life revolves around them or at some do.

Response by SGT Juan Robledo made Jan 2 at 2020 9:59 PM

SGT Juan Robledo — Thu, 02 Jan 2020 21:59:49 -0500

I say 'show respect' otherwise keep your mouth shut

Response by CPT Anthony Meli made Jan 12 at 2020 2:07 PM

CPT Anthony Meli — Sun, 12 Jan 2020 14:07:41 -0500

I would stand and invite all to sing with me Amazing Grace

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 15 at 2020 5:06 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 15 Jan 2020 17:06:18 -0500

After I got bailed out of jail for beating the little crap out of someone who did it, I might feel a little bad.

Response by Sgt Ari Maayan made Jan 17 at 2020 8:24 PM

Sgt Ari Maayan — Fri, 17 Jan 2020 20:24:47 -0500

My response would probably land me in jail.
Sgt. USMC 0326

Response by SGT Chester Sprankle made Jan 19 at 2020 4:40 PM

SGT Chester Sprankle — Sun, 19 Jan 2020 16:40:58 -0500

They idiots booing that family and the public would see a side of me that no one has seen for more than ten plus years.

Response by Ken Brown made Jan 23 at 2020 11:46 PM

Ken Brown — Thu, 23 Jan 2020 23:46:44 -0500

I would like to know the source of this anecdote. During the Vietnam war there were stories planted about returning service men being spat upon. It was fabricated to get the public to be hostile to the anti-war movement.

Response by Ken Brown made Jan 23 at 2020 11:51 PM

Ken Brown — Thu, 23 Jan 2020 23:51:59 -0500

I would like to know the source for this anecdote. During the Vietnam war there were stories made up about civilians spitting on returning soldiers. This was done to discredit the anti-war movement. This sounds similar to me.

Response by PO3 Al Fan made Jan 25 at 2020 12:07 PM

PO3 Al Fan — Sat, 25 Jan 2020 12:07:48 -0500

I think I'd tell them they were a disrespectful AHole and didn't deserve to fly with the honored guest. I would consider it a lot worse than kneeling on the football field during the Star Spangled Banner.

Response by PO3 Al Fan made Jan 25 at 2020 12:27 PM

PO3 Al Fan — Sat, 25 Jan 2020 12:27:44 -0500

1st I would go forward and address them with some unkind words and ask the flight crew to detain them until everyone deboarded the plane after the family. 2nd, I'd request the stewardesses to report the names and request ALL airlines carrying fallen military not permit these disrespectful Aholes from flying on that plane and possibly not allow them to fly first class on any flight beacuse they don't have any class to begin with.

Response by Sgt Don Whiteley made Jan 26 at 2020 9:43 AM

Sgt Don Whiteley — Sun, 26 Jan 2020 09:43:04 -0500

I may be 70, but I'd be right up in their face. No excuse for that kind of behavior: disrespectful, confrontational, and shameful.

Response by PO2 John Kilcoyne made Jan 28 at 2020 11:50 PM

PO2 John Kilcoyne — Tue, 28 Jan 2020 23:50:14 -0500

I’d find some way to stand with that family, does the plane know why they’re off first? I’ve waited for active duty and people that need to catch a connection, never heard booing.

Response by PO3 Paul Lowrey made Jan 30 at 2020 8:55 AM

PO3 Paul Lowrey — Thu, 30 Jan 2020 08:55:15 -0500

I really don't know what I would of said or done but I can't help but wonder because of the ethos of the times would it have made any difference?

Response by SFC Tom Jones made Jan 31 at 2020 1:08 PM

SFC Tom Jones — Fri, 31 Jan 2020 13:08:55 -0500

I would just ask them if it was your son or daughter would you not want to be there when the casket comes off the plane. Than like SFC Weber said would be my next words

Response by SGM Gregory Tarancon IV made Feb 3 at 2020 9:47 PM

SGM Gregory Tarancon IV — Mon, 03 Feb 2020 21:47:24 -0500

Lets hope that never happens when I'm on a plane!

Response by SSG Michael Doolittle made Feb 10 at 2020 12:50 AM

SSG Michael Doolittle — Mon, 10 Feb 2020 00:50:10 -0500

I would applaud very loudly and make sure that they know honor their loss...

Response by LCpl Michael Cappello made Feb 10 at 2020 12:51 AM

LCpl Michael Cappello — Mon, 10 Feb 2020 00:51:16 -0500

I know what I would LOVE to do. In reality though, I would stand tall and render courtesy to the family. Tell them thank you and your family for your sacrifice. And then proceed to tell the rest of the plane to go F&*K themselves. Taking a moment of two to explain to them what grabastic pieces of excrement they were. I have zero problem getting arrested for defending that family. We as warriors should NEVER have an issue with defending anyone. It is what we signed up for. I would be honored to render ANY assistance possible. Woe unto those who proffer ANY disrespect to a Gold Star Family in my presence.

Response by Cpl Willard Roy made Feb 13 at 2020 3:41 PM

Cpl Willard Roy — Thu, 13 Feb 2020 15:41:59 -0500

I would go Marine all over his ass.

Response by SFC Les Branscum made Feb 13 at 2020 9:36 PM

SFC Les Branscum — Thu, 13 Feb 2020 21:36:39 -0500

I would correct those idiots on the spot! There is NO room for such behavior in this country.

Response by SSgt Paul Beck made Feb 20 at 2020 7:54 PM

SSgt Paul Beck — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 19:54:20 -0500

I would stand and face the Flag draped coffin and remove any cover (if I'm wearing one) and while placing my right hand over my heart (in a civilian salute), also I would probably shed tears of pain with the Gold Star Family!

Response by SSgt Paul Beck made Feb 20 at 2020 7:58 PM

SSgt Paul Beck — Thu, 20 Feb 2020 19:58:13 -0500

Because anything else would be wasted in a verbal response to a "Richard Skull" idiot.

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Response by Sgt Dan Catlin made Feb 21 at 2020 11:46 AM

Sgt Dan Catlin — Fri, 21 Feb 2020 11:46:12 -0500

If only one person, I'd get in his face and in hushed tones so as not to disrespect the family administer a good, old fashioned military style ass-chewing. If a group, i'd do the same, but loud enough to hold their attention until the family was gone. Usually, and hopefully, once one person takes a stand, others will stand up as well. If enough do, then again, more quietly back the disrespectful jerks down, out of respect for the family. They are grieving. They don't need this drama and attention. Later, well, as a friend of mine used to say, "I may be old and broke down, but I got one good fight left in me. They ( the loud mouthed jerks) can have it!"

Response by SFC Tracy Scott made Feb 22 at 2020 5:52 PM

SFC Tracy Scott — Sat, 22 Feb 2020 17:52:48 -0500

I'd be pissed, knowing me an my attitude, I'd pay for there seat to be upgraded to first class, if they had not all ready, I know I could not change the minds or attitudes of those flying but I would definitely insure that thanked them and went and stood at the window while their loved one was given honors.

Response by PO3 Bernadette Hitch made Feb 22 at 2020 10:22 PM

PO3 Bernadette Hitch — Sat, 22 Feb 2020 22:22:47 -0500

Please tell me this did not happen.

Response by SPC David Mangum made Feb 24 at 2020 8:33 PM

SPC David Mangum — Mon, 24 Feb 2020 20:33:33 -0500

A Broken Nose does wonders when assholes open their mouths.

Response by CPO Jack De Merit made Mar 6 at 2020 7:41 PM

CPO Jack De Merit — Fri, 06 Mar 2020 19:41:03 -0500

I would yell out loud enough for everyone to hear me and tell the people booing exactly where to go and offer to help them get there.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 7 at 2020 1:02 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 07 Mar 2020 13:02:13 -0500

Boots to asses...

Response by LCpl Sandy Moran made Mar 8 at 2020 2:25 PM

LCpl Sandy Moran — Sun, 08 Mar 2020 14:25:28 -0400

Say something like I hope you never have to go though that. And He' a hero then say shut the F*** Up

Response by SPC Michael Terrell made Mar 8 at 2020 11:02 PM

SPC Michael Terrell — Sun, 08 Mar 2020 23:02:28 -0400

I would tell them that I would have prefered that one of their family to be in the casket, than one of our military who gave all.

Response by SGT Richard Mitchell made Mar 22 at 2020 6:35 PM

SGT Richard Mitchell — Sun, 22 Mar 2020 18:35:24 -0400

I would get up and face the booers and yell out "Stop it... have some respect!" I can't think of a more despicable thing to do. That family is just beginning to go through years and years of sadness and grief.

I substitute in schools and have classes where some students do not stand up for the Pledge of Allegiance. I always give then the reminder in my most military voice: "All rise!" That gets most of the slackers on their feet. If someone still did not rise I tell them afterward: "You have probably never seen anyone receive a folded flag!" I have seen widows and families of WWI, WWII, Korean War, and Vietnam War veterans presented a folded flag. It is a scene that you literally never forget. So, at the very least, standing for the Pledge, or the passing of the Colors, is really the very least we can do. Serve two, three, four years or more in any branch of the Armed Services, and the meaning of that flag, folded or not, really takes on a whole different meaning.

Response by SrA Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 25 at 2020 4:42 PM

SrA Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 25 Mar 2020 16:42:05 -0400

Are you really that stupid or do you just act that way? Usually works wonders.

Response by Susan Beal made Mar 26 at 2020 12:12 AM

Susan Beal — Thu, 26 Mar 2020 00:12:26 -0400

I would tell the passenger that booing is disrespectful. They may not agree with the missions our military engage in, but booing a family who is flying to receive the body of their deceased son, daughter, wife, husband, brother, sister, or another relative is the height of rudeness and disrespect. This is not the way we behave toward a grieving family.

Response by SN Thomas Pekol made Apr 10 at 2020 11:49 AM

SN Thomas Pekol — Fri, 10 Apr 2020 11:49:43 -0400

People like that have no respect for anything or anybody and need to be treated accordingly.

Response by C Marrone made Apr 10 at 2020 8:22 PM

C Marrone — Fri, 10 Apr 2020 20:22:28 -0400

I would stand up to block the person that was being disrespectful and report them to the stewards

Response by SSG John J Accornero made Apr 12 at 2020 6:56 PM

SSG John J Accornero — Sun, 12 Apr 2020 18:56:01 -0400

I'd stand in the aisle with hand symbols- follow them to the bags, just when they get there's- grab it, maybe-

Response by SSG Eric Blue made Apr 25 at 2020 5:33 PM

SSG Eric Blue — Sat, 25 Apr 2020 17:33:46 -0400

Knowing me, I would have very bluntly said, "WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU BOOING FOR?!? SHUT THE FUCK UP AND HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR THE FALLEN! YOU MAY NOT EVEN KNOW OR CARE ABOUT THE HELL THIS FAMILY IS GOING THROUGH RIGHT NOW AND I'M CERTAIN THAT IF IT WERE YOUR TROOPER, YOU'D WANT SOME RESPECT SHOWN!" But that's me. Someone else may not be as blunt about it.

Response by PO2 Paul Dempsey made Apr 28 at 2020 11:25 AM

PO2 Paul Dempsey — Tue, 28 Apr 2020 11:25:07 -0400

I would stand up and tell those who boo' d to show some respect for the fallen and their family and that I was ashamed to be on that flight with them.

Response by SPC Cory Thomson made May 1 at 2020 10:28 PM

SPC Cory Thomson — Fri, 01 May 2020 22:28:37 -0400

I’d yell that “it’s lucky I don’t have my knife but I’ll stab you all in the neck and rip out your lungs if you don’t shut the fuck up. That person died defending what you take for granted. Show some respect or shut the fuck up. You got a problem with that ‘cash me outside how bout that?’”

Response by SPC Cory Thomson made May 1 at 2020 10:34 PM

SPC Cory Thomson — Fri, 01 May 2020 22:34:42 -0400

Reading more about this, I change my mind, I wouldn’t warn them, I’d high step it over the seats like hurdles, and I’d put my thumb behind their larynx, make them apologize and then say sorry to everyone as they leave before them and then get their home address and promise a follow up class later.

Response by SGT Rick McBride made May 8 at 2020 4:04 PM

SGT Rick McBride — Fri, 08 May 2020 16:04:10 -0400

Give a verbal sss whooping and if that doesn’t work bitch slap the ignorant piece of sxxt . If it’s a female sick my wife on her if she didn’t already kick some butt

Response by MSgt John Taylor made May 9 at 2020 11:28 PM

MSgt John Taylor — Sat, 09 May 2020 23:28:29 -0400

Nothing, I served to protect their freedoms whether I agreed or not.

Response by MSgt Currie C. made May 10 at 2020 1:42 AM

MSgt Currie C. — Sun, 10 May 2020 01:42:53 -0400

Oh, I'd probably wind up in jail because of me going "110% asshole".

Response by PO1 Mike Wallace made May 10 at 2020 10:38 AM

PO1 Mike Wallace — Sun, 10 May 2020 10:38:35 -0400

If I were close I would stand right in front of them and provide the 'don't screw with me eyeball'. We live in the USA and among our rights is the right to be an idiot. But equally we have the right to be an as****e, I would exercise that right.

Response by SGT(P) Vincent Kuhlman made May 11 at 2020 4:05 PM

SGT(P) Vincent Kuhlman — Mon, 11 May 2020 16:05:32 -0400

Id mearly point out, "That could your family member in that box, wouldn;'t you want us to wait for you.?" Idiots speak w/o thinkiing, but usually when I point out how Thoughtless they are.... thye usually back down and go away...

Response by SFC Thomas Butler made May 11 at 2020 5:14 PM

SFC Thomas Butler — Mon, 11 May 2020 17:14:30 -0400

Are there instances where this was known to have occurred?

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 15 at 2020 4:00 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 15 May 2020 16:00:49 -0400

I would loose it. Big time and I would use words to address the booers that might just make them cry.

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made May 20 at 2020 5:33 PM

1SG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 20 May 2020 17:33:49 -0400

Are making this up? Or did it actually happen? Of course I’d be pissed and have words with the person booing.

Response by SSG Willie Means made Jun 29 at 2020 9:50 AM

SSG Willie Means — Mon, 29 Jun 2020 09:50:31 -0400

A Friend of mine said He was on a 'HOP' coming from Germany to the States. He said the question was asked: Anybody object to flying with 'The Funeral Remains' of a Soldier? He said several raised their hands and He said He sat quietly and couldn't believe somebody would object. He then said He found Himself smiling as those who raised their hands were escorted off the plane as other passengers cheered and clapped. These days a little bit more of America is lost every time we give in to those who are suppose to be coming to America for a chance at better living but soon as they get here they want to change something pertaining to Our Christian Faith. I find it really sad that Our Military would be disrespectful in any way. GOD BLESS!!!

Response by Capt Wayne Burden made Jun 29 at 2020 10:42 AM

Capt Wayne Burden — Mon, 29 Jun 2020 10:42:38 -0400

I think I would probably be charged with assaulting a first class passenger... that type of disrespect and hard heartedness can’t go unchallenged, from anyone.

Response by 1SG Patrick Sims made Jul 12 at 2020 10:15 AM

1SG Patrick Sims — Sun, 12 Jul 2020 10:15:04 -0400

He died for you ---you ungrateful bastards-----but delivered with a bit more color.

Response by 1LT Peter Duston made Jul 12 at 2020 9:30 PM

1LT Peter Duston — Sun, 12 Jul 2020 21:30:26 -0400

I doubt that this would actually happen! I have done many, many funerals and memorial event and have never experienced disrespect. I'm guessing that someone is just trying to stir up trouble!!

Response by SPC Susan Weatherspoon El-Amin made Jul 14 at 2020 10:46 PM

SPC Susan Weatherspoon El-Amin — Tue, 14 Jul 2020 22:46:45 -0400

I would stand and ask is there any Veterans in the plane? Because they have brought our brother home wrapped in the flag, As for everybody booing, let me see you do better. Motherfuckers****

Response by MAJ John Douglas made Jul 17 at 2020 10:24 AM

MAJ John Douglas — Fri, 17 Jul 2020 10:24:39 -0400

Shut the hell up. Talk to me if you don't like waiting an extra minute to get off the plane.

Response by CDR Tom Davy made Jul 19 at 2020 5:45 PM

CDR Tom Davy — Sun, 19 Jul 2020 17:45:54 -0400

Shut their liberal ass up. Anyone who would do that would not understand patriotism.

Response by SP5 Steve Powell made Jul 24 at 2020 3:03 PM

SP5 Steve Powell — Fri, 24 Jul 2020 15:03:51 -0400

I would stand at attention, salute, and start singing "God Bless America"!

Response by 1LT Howard Foss made Jul 28 at 2020 1:35 PM

1LT Howard Foss — Tue, 28 Jul 2020 13:35:45 -0400

based on my training both in the military and civilian life, I would look around and if the coast is clear I would administer a quick throat check.

Response by TSgt Don Dollinger made Jul 28 at 2020 2:21 PM

TSgt Don Dollinger — Tue, 28 Jul 2020 14:21:22 -0400

I had this happen on a flight I was on a couple of years ago

Response by TSgt Don Dollinger made Jul 28 at 2020 2:42 PM

TSgt Don Dollinger — Tue, 28 Jul 2020 14:42:40 -0400

Had this happen a few years ago. I immediately stepped into the aisle and met the family coming forward. I took the mothers hand and softly told her that I for one was honored to share my flight with their hero and to please exit with their heads held high. I then let them pass and fell in behind them and followed them to the front of the plane where I turned and faced the 3 rows of boo'ers and loudly said that they disgust me and it was my sincere hope that they never have to endure the grief of mourning a loved one who died protecting the freedoms they take for granted everyday. I then returned to my seat. Slowly, afterwards a couple people started clapping, then a few more and more until nearly the whole plane was applauding. The only people who exited that plane with their heads hanging were the boo'ers. Had never done anything like that before but I was so abhorred that I just did what I thought needed to be done and would do it again without hesitation.

Response by SGT Doug Blanchard made Aug 11 at 2020 12:37 PM

SGT Doug Blanchard — Tue, 11 Aug 2020 12:37:33 -0400

Granted the pilot may have not mentioned that they are a "Gold Star" family, but what he did announce should have been more than adequate if the people doing the booing had even a half a brain between all of them, should have realized why they were being allowed to deplane first. But I digress, as apparently these idiots did not even have that much between them.
I for one would have stood and offered my condolences to the family as they passed by to deplane. But alas in today's culture, common sense has flown the coup and may never return.

Response by SPC Rob Hunker made Aug 14 at 2020 8:34 PM

SPC Rob Hunker — Fri, 14 Aug 2020 20:34:27 -0400

I would stand up and yell, "At Ease" as loud as I could, then I would yell, "Have some respect for a fallen soldier and their family".

Response by SGT Justin Anderson made Aug 14 at 2020 10:48 PM

SGT Justin Anderson — Fri, 14 Aug 2020 22:48:46 -0400

After explaining the general importance of showing respect for your fellow humans and deceased, I'd join the "No fly list".

Response by SPC Clayton Ellzey made Aug 27 at 2020 11:39 AM

SPC Clayton Ellzey — Thu, 27 Aug 2020 11:39:38 -0400

Maybe a right cross to the mouth of the first ass wipe following up with shut the fuck up.

Response by SPC Donn Sinclair made Aug 29 at 2020 7:51 AM

SPC Donn Sinclair — Sat, 29 Aug 2020 07:51:10 -0400

I don't fly, so it's something I'll never be confronted with. If, in the unlikely event I found myself on an aircraft and something like this happened, there would be a misunderstanding. How big a one? That would depend on the antagonist.

Response by SGT Jon Hunter made Aug 29 at 2020 12:18 PM

SGT Jon Hunter — Sat, 29 Aug 2020 12:18:58 -0400

I would stand and salute them. Then I would make eye contact with those booing. I would want them to know that I'm available to see them after deplaning. I think it could be handled without a bunch of swearing on the flight. How it progressed after the flight is entirely on the disrespectful shits booing. I'll go wherever it goes.

Response by Maj Robert Larkowski made Aug 30 at 2020 1:32 PM

Maj Robert Larkowski — Sun, 30 Aug 2020 13:32:46 -0400

Excuse me but please show some respect!

Response by Sgt Dan Catlin made Sep 6 at 2020 3:00 PM

Sgt Dan Catlin — Sun, 06 Sep 2020 15:00:35 -0400

How would I react?

Badly!

Response by SSG Paul Headlee made Sep 6 at 2020 6:35 PM

SSG Paul Headlee — Sun, 06 Sep 2020 18:35:42 -0400

I don't think I could contain myself. You'd think I would have learned when I didn't make SFC all those times, lol.

Response by SGT Greg Gold made Sep 6 at 2020 8:43 PM

SGT Greg Gold — Sun, 06 Sep 2020 20:43:30 -0400

Being retired and pretty much out of range of UCMJ action I would loudly loose my @$%! on anyone directing grief at a gold star family or military escort performing their duty. Grumpy passingers on a delayed flight is a different matter. Discression is still the better part of valor.

Response by PV2 Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 8 at 2020 6:45 PM

PV2 Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 08 Sep 2020 18:45:59 -0400

A punch to the throat might shut them up.

Response by PFC Flor Gomez made Sep 9 at 2020 5:05 PM

PFC Flor Gomez — Wed, 09 Sep 2020 17:05:00 -0400

Definitely say something like, "God sees All!... including your disrespectful manner!!!"

And maybe quote them some scripture so I don't get angry if I hate anything more than war is rude people.

Response by SSG Thomas Barry made Sep 12 at 2020 5:45 PM

SSG Thomas Barry — Sat, 12 Sep 2020 17:45:32 -0400

I hope I never am around to be put in that situation

Response by SSgt Daniel d'Errico made Sep 16 at 2020 9:39 PM

SSgt Daniel d'Errico — Wed, 16 Sep 2020 21:39:42 -0400

I'd be passed enough to to cuss all those tight asked bitches. I'd remind them that the body being carried off the plane belongs to the family they're disrespecting. They losted a father/son/daughter so that the pigs with money could fly first class in safety.

Response by PFC David Scoby made Sep 17 at 2020 12:16 PM

PFC David Scoby — Thu, 17 Sep 2020 12:16:50 -0400

I would ask the family if I could assist them in any way,offer to assist in the unloading,and stand in respect as it was done and tell the rude passergers to shut up and get a life.

Response by SGT Juan Robledo made Sep 18 at 2020 7:45 PM

SGT Juan Robledo — Fri, 18 Sep 2020 19:45:51 -0400

You got realize that many civilian folks have no idea what our military soldiers do or sacrifice for our country or for our allies, if the pilot or stewardess announce it prior to landing it may help those other passengers understand why, just my thoughts

Response by LTC Donell Kelly made Sep 23 at 2020 3:11 AM

LTC Donell Kelly — Wed, 23 Sep 2020 03:11:51 -0400

I’d probably be arrested after the family left for getting in the face of any a**hole that boo’d.

Response by LT John Stevens made Sep 23 at 2020 12:38 PM

LT John Stevens — Wed, 23 Sep 2020 12:38:39 -0400

I was a Sailor. What do you think I'd say?

Response by COL Carl Jensen made Sep 23 at 2020 1:20 PM

COL Carl Jensen — Wed, 23 Sep 2020 13:20:41 -0400

I would think I was on a plane full of POSs, the same type of persons that spit on our uniforms in 67-71.

Response by CW3 Kevin Storm made Sep 23 at 2020 2:30 PM

CW3 Kevin Storm — Wed, 23 Sep 2020 14:30:49 -0400

I think my inner Charlie Manson would be hearing the Beattles right about then. I may get escorted by Air Marshals after what I had to say to the passengers on the load speaker.

Response by SMSgt Bob Wilson made Sep 24 at 2020 1:11 AM

SMSgt Bob Wilson — Thu, 24 Sep 2020 01:11:19 -0400

Two things: [1] The aircrew should have made an announcement as to what was happening. [2] The passengers can be courteous or not. Can the airport hold all flights an extra 10 minutes to all everyone time enough to make the next flight? If First Class is open, they should have been seated there; if not, the first row of coach. This could have been done in advance.

Response by CPT Lawrence Cichelli made Sep 29 at 2020 10:46 AM

CPT Lawrence Cichelli — Tue, 29 Sep 2020 10:46:11 -0400

I've taken too many Soldiers off the plane from the Cargo hold, so I would definitely correct these people and explain in detail what was happening and the family was going to the Cargo area to receive the casket. Also asking would anyone here want to be in that position? Of course hold the profanities because there are probably children on board and I don't want to set a bad example. But all the same, people do need to understand respect for our fallen comrades.

Response by PO2 Cyrus Barberia made Oct 11 at 2020 11:42 AM

PO2 Cyrus Barberia — Sun, 11 Oct 2020 11:42:53 -0400

I would have told him to shut up and let the family get off first it's only respect for a former military brother
That's sort of respect wasn't given to the Vietnam veterans and they the new veterans deserve it

Response by SPC Chris Ison made Oct 11 at 2020 9:11 PM

SPC Chris Ison — Sun, 11 Oct 2020 21:11:24 -0400

I do not believe this has ever happened. I have heard of it once before in TEXAS, and i called bullshit then too.

However to answer the question:

You keep you military bearing and stay quiet, especially if you are in uniform.

If you are retired or otherwise no longer serving just shut the hell up too.

Two wrong don't make a right.

The measure of a patriot is not how much he agrees with you; The measure of a patriot is how well one can control oneself, when faced with someone one disagrees with.

Response by 1SG Joseph Dartey made Oct 11 at 2020 10:01 PM

1SG Joseph Dartey — Sun, 11 Oct 2020 22:01:24 -0400

Well, I just saw this post and have to add my two cents. I would do three things.
1. Stand at attention and salute the family as they passed by.
2. Turn to the disrespectful passenger and tell him, "Give your soul to God, cause I'm getting ready to plant your ass."
3. Find the airport police, point the individual out and tell them that he has some contraband concealed somewhere on his body. Know what that means CAVITY CHECK!!

Response by SSG James Stodola made Oct 12 at 2020 10:05 AM

SSG James Stodola — Mon, 12 Oct 2020 10:05:54 -0400

Not really a good person to ask about this. I would not be able to restrain myself from issuing a few "readjustments" to this pretentious over blown ass hole.

Response by CPT Derek Wren made Oct 12 at 2020 12:59 PM

CPT Derek Wren — Mon, 12 Oct 2020 12:59:56 -0400

I would stand up, ask a simple question what if that was your family member. I’d next state that that Service member is in a casket, and regardless of how they passed they did so IOT protect your right to sit here and act like jackasses. I would then do an about-face towards the front of the aircraft, stand at the position of attention and render a salute Until Syd number has been removed from the aircraft.

It would serve no purpose to become argumentative with these people, as that too would be disrespectful to this fallen hero, because clearly these people that are willing to boo a dead service member have no issue arguing with you about it. I would hope that my other brothers and sisters in arms across all branches past and present that may be on the aircraft would do the same. I know inside my blood would be boiling, but that servicemember deserves the utmost respect that I/we can possibly render to them, for they have made the ultimate sacrifice.

Response by Sgt Susan Mcneely made Oct 14 at 2020 9:21 PM

Sgt Susan Mcneely — Wed, 14 Oct 2020 21:21:57 -0400

Ask that he be put on the do not fly list for disruptive behavior, then put his face all over Facebook, Twitter etc.

Response by SP5 Joan Marcus made Oct 20 at 2020 6:14 PM

SP5 Joan Marcus — Tue, 20 Oct 2020 18:14:08 -0400

This is not only sad and disrespectful, but that behavior would warrant a very stern reprimanding of the individual.....

Response by SPC Scott Domogalla made Oct 21 at 2020 9:42 AM

SPC Scott Domogalla — Wed, 21 Oct 2020 09:42:59 -0400

Raised voice, cussing, or telling them does not change minds. I would stand at ease and in a normal voice, tell them that this family has a dead son or daughter, brother or sister. You cannot let them off first in their grief? You are that important, you can not should compassion for this family? Put yourself in their place, in their grief.

Response by SN William Golden made Oct 21 at 2020 12:26 PM

SN William Golden — Wed, 21 Oct 2020 12:26:23 -0400

I would ashamed of those who boo'd. And YES I would speak up and I might say that no true American should ever behave in that way toward a family that lost a member while serving for the freedom of the ignorant asses that boo'd them..... Very Sad the state of this country today.

Response by MSG Allan Davis made Oct 21 at 2020 4:26 PM

MSG Allan Davis — Wed, 21 Oct 2020 16:26:47 -0400

I’d take the charges but I’d make it worth it

Response by SGT Bob Knox made Oct 22 at 2020 9:20 AM

SGT Bob Knox — Thu, 22 Oct 2020 09:20:32 -0400

I would go to jail because I would kick their asses

Response by Justin Regnier, P.E. made Oct 22 at 2020 1:30 PM

Justin Regnier, P.E. — Thu, 22 Oct 2020 13:30:57 -0400

Are you trolling, or did you experience this?

Response by PO3 Richard Jones made Oct 23 at 2020 1:06 AM

PO3 Richard Jones — Fri, 23 Oct 2020 01:06:26 -0400

If possible I would go to the family and thank them for there family members ultimate sacrifice. Then search out the iconsiderate people who are disrespecting the ceremony and let them know that this could very well be one of there own family members in the casket. And the disrespect the show is uncalled for.

Response by SPC Christopher Murano made Oct 23 at 2020 9:07 PM

SPC Christopher Murano — Fri, 23 Oct 2020 21:07:22 -0400

You can't reason with mindless animals, so "Why don't you all STFU and let that family grieve in peace.".

Response by SFC David Drury made Oct 24 at 2020 2:56 AM

SFC David Drury — Sat, 24 Oct 2020 02:56:49 -0400

In my experience aa a CAO without the fallen on board and Escort with the fallen on board ( before they changed from commercial to private jet) and the way the captain of the aircraft explains the situation, everyone is pretty much all choked up. Even with all the animosity today, thats one thing that brings us all together. That being said... and knowing my duty is for the fallen and the family.... I would stand in the aisle at his seat face him at parade rest , slowly kneel until we are face to face... hawk a loogie in his pie hole... stand up... left face, or right... forward march

Response by MSG Clyde Mills made Oct 24 at 2020 10:41 AM

MSG Clyde Mills — Sat, 24 Oct 2020 10:41:51 -0400

Reply about the same and tell them that their family member gave the ultimate sacrifice of dying for our Country. So the Family sure as heck deserves to be the first ones off the plane to receive their body / remains before anyone else debarks the plane.

Response by 1st Lt Mark Marshall made Oct 24 at 2020 10:42 AM

1st Lt Mark Marshall — Sat, 24 Oct 2020 10:42:41 -0400

NOT ON MY WATCH!!!!

Response by SPC Kerry Good made Oct 24 at 2020 12:26 PM

SPC Kerry Good — Sat, 24 Oct 2020 12:26:27 -0400

I think every other word to them would curse words. Damn. I didn't even use them words.

Response by SFC Tim OReilly made Oct 24 at 2020 7:58 PM

SFC Tim OReilly — Sat, 24 Oct 2020 19:58:16 -0400

Perhaps standing at attention and saluting them as they go ... I might be alone, or I might start a small movement.

Response by SSG Tom Montgomery made Oct 25 at 2020 4:47 AM

SSG Tom Montgomery — Sun, 25 Oct 2020 04:47:51 -0400

I can't predict exactly how I would react. The one guarantee I can offer. It would not be nice. No physical contact, intimidation, or violence but everybody would know I was pissed. Then I would contact the airline directly and see if there is something they can do for the family.

Response by SPC Franklin McKown made Oct 25 at 2020 1:06 PM

SPC Franklin McKown — Sun, 25 Oct 2020 13:06:02 -0400

It's expected ...
ANYTHING to offend or outrage anyone who is NOT a Prog.
They think they can brow beat America, pathetic really, do it to you then blame you,,often for what THEY have just done, They learned it from Goering
,ignore them and be there for the family

Response by SSG Watis Ekthuvapranee made Oct 25 at 2020 2:14 PM

SSG Watis Ekthuvapranee — Sun, 25 Oct 2020 14:14:07 -0400

Shame on them! The monkeys in the cage know when they are being treated unfairly. It's nature. If the flight attendant did not state the reason, then I don't blame them. However, if all the passengers were told of the reason and still boo'd, then they deserve deportation to the region where the service member was killed. Even though, the act of letting the family off the plane first does nothing for the family or the dead; it is the act of doing so that convey their condolences to the family.

I would have gotten on the mic and tell them my thought, "Aey, you bunch of monkeys, it may seem unfair to you, but the reason that some bad guys don't go kill your loved one like 9/11 is that their son or daughter was out there taking bullets for yours. And if you think the reason why WWII and 9/11 happened, it is because we were not out there and be the world police, because we were trying to mind our own affairs. Think about it, WWII, we did nothing to stop the Japanese from invading China. We did nothing to stop them from occupying Indochina. The only thing we did was embargoing the exportation of oil to Japan. That is a half-ass action only to anger Japan and thinking that we do not have the guts to fight. We cut down and retreated from the world affair after the Berlin Wall and the USSR are gone. The terrorists bombed our embassies, we shot 8 missiles (I may be wrong on the number). They bombed the World Trade Center, and we did nothing; then 9/11 happened. We are out there taking bullets so you don't have to. A little privilege is given to their family is the least you can do."

After that, I would probably wheeze a lot due to a lack of exercise.

Response by LT Christopher Miller made Oct 25 at 2020 2:25 PM

LT Christopher Miller — Sun, 25 Oct 2020 14:25:35 -0400

I would start singing the Star-Spangled Banner as loud as possible to drown out the boos. I guarantee you that others would join in.

Response by MGySgt Rick Tyrrell made Oct 25 at 2020 3:00 PM

MGySgt Rick Tyrrell — Sun, 25 Oct 2020 15:00:39 -0400

Let it go! All this is going to do is create an argument with a substandard human being

Response by LTJG Sandra Smith made Oct 25 at 2020 4:23 PM

LTJG Sandra Smith — Sun, 25 Oct 2020 16:23:46 -0400

As both a veteran, & the daughter of a commercial airline pilot raised to respect such things, I would, frankly, be furious with the spoiled, entitled brat who so behaved; I fear I would present that person a suitable chunk of my mind!

Response by SSgt Russell Stevens made Oct 25 at 2020 8:23 PM

SSgt Russell Stevens — Sun, 25 Oct 2020 20:23:24 -0400

I would have to take off my shirt. The tattoos are one skull for every team member I ever lost in combat, a number I hope will never grow again. While the shirt is off, I'm dressed for a lot of wall-to-wall counselling while the grieving family is escorted to the flight line. The message being, "Do not disrespect a dead soldier, the soldier is longer able to stand up for himself."

Response by MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan made Oct 26 at 2020 12:49 AM

MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan — Mon, 26 Oct 2020 00:49:27 -0400

"Gently" but firmly inform them that they have the right to use their guaranteed right to freedom of speech to show their disrespect because the child that family is picking up died for that right.

Response by SP5 Richard Welch made Oct 26 at 2020 12:59 PM

SP5 Richard Welch — Mon, 26 Oct 2020 12:59:45 -0400

I would stand up and tell everyone to shut their god-damned mouth's. I would look at each and every one and call them selfish and undeserving of the rights and privelegdes aff9rded them by the service of the individual that died for them. I would point out, soldiers, sailors', airmen and Marines do not like wars any more than they do. I would say if you don't want to give them the respect they deserve after their loved one paid the ultimate price, then they should be forced to go into military combat arms and serve on front lines.

Response by SGM Edward Sullivan made Oct 26 at 2020 7:35 PM

SGM Edward Sullivan — Mon, 26 Oct 2020 19:35:47 -0400

I would immediately confront that POS and remind that SOB that the ONLY REASON HE/SHE HAS FREEDOM TO DO ANYTHING....is that Service Member giving their life for US. I did not serve for 26 years to allow disrespect to be shown for any fallen member.

Response by SGT Charles Clemons made Oct 26 at 2020 7:39 PM

SGT Charles Clemons — Mon, 26 Oct 2020 19:39:32 -0400

I believe I would stand up and do my best to shame the Booers. Hopefully one would swing at me. 100% disabled..but trained in Golden Gloves ;)

Response by MSgt George Fillgrove made Oct 27 at 2020 9:05 AM

MSgt George Fillgrove — Tue, 27 Oct 2020 09:05:08 -0400

Do my very best to insult him!

Response by SPC Rafael Marrero made Oct 28 at 2020 10:31 AM

SPC Rafael Marrero — Wed, 28 Oct 2020 10:31:48 -0400

I would stand as best I could, put my head down and my hand over my heart, showing the family the respect and honor they deserve for their sacrifice. There is no use in engaging stupidity and arrogance from the Liberal leftist in our country, but it is good to show family members that those arrogant maggots do not represent the majority. Also lead by example and show people how to show respect for those that have made the ultimate family sacrifice for our beloved country

Response by SCPO Kenneth Shaw made Oct 28 at 2020 7:29 PM

SCPO Kenneth Shaw — Wed, 28 Oct 2020 19:29:57 -0400

I have been on flights were the airline announced that a gold star family member was on board and asked the passengers to respect their loss and to stay seated until they disembarked. To the airline, why weren't the gold star family members given a free first class seat?
As for the individual that booed , ignorance and disrespect is not acceptable as a first response. What has happened to the mortalities and common decency of the American citizen?

Response by SGT Monaca Gilmore made Nov 1 at 2020 5:58 PM

SGT Monaca Gilmore — Sun, 01 Nov 2020 17:58:30 -0500

I would definitely ask them kindly and the plane staffing to silence them and the whole plane in regards to this situation. This is the United States and We Respect Fallen Soldiers and Their Families!

Response by SGM Ed Saxon made Nov 2 at 2020 2:04 PM

SGM Ed Saxon — Mon, 02 Nov 2020 14:04:55 -0500

I'd like to use that quote. Great thought.

Response by COL John Washington made Dec 4 at 2020 4:35 PM

COL John Washington — Fri, 04 Dec 2020 16:35:19 -0500

Asked the flight crew to announce "Ladies and gentlemen please pause for a minute and help us honor a family who have lost a love one giving who has made the ultimate sacrifice in protecting the right we all continue to enjoy to this day." Thank you!

Response by CPT Jay Ward made Dec 14 at 2020 7:58 AM

CPT Jay Ward — Mon, 14 Dec 2020 07:58:11 -0500

Loudly ask the booers "What if that were your kid?" orask flight attendant or captain to explain the reason and take their time about doing it>

Response by MAJ Jim Woods made Dec 14 at 2020 11:56 AM

MAJ Jim Woods — Mon, 14 Dec 2020 11:56:22 -0500

I would be mad & tell the Crew to Calm the Passengers down and respect the Family!

Response by CW3 John Himes made Dec 15 at 2020 5:40 AM

CW3 John Himes — Tue, 15 Dec 2020 05:40:09 -0500

I'm afraid I would be very kind, I would speak up and shout "Shut the F*** U* you sorry a**holes.

Response by Cpl Brad MarkW made Dec 16 at 2020 3:52 AM

Cpl Brad MarkW — Wed, 16 Dec 2020 03:52:41 -0500

People in general, are awful. There are anecdotal exceptions but one thing Trump did exceptionally well, was that he really brought out the worst in people, on both sides, but for me, mainly the left. The left has essentially regressed back to the Vietnam era days in how they treat veterans. And worse, they are encouraged to do so on social media. Want to be a hero to the socialist/communist/liberal crowd? Disrespect a soldier, police officer, or their families. Class and consideration are at an all-time low, at least at an all-time low in my lifetime. Never underestimate how low they will go, because they will always find a way to exceed that.

What would I do? Nothing. Because these kind of people are beyond lecturing, confronting or otherwise correcting. They are lost because they've never suffered in life, never felt real pain or hardship. Most of their problems are made-up First World problems. They've never been really inconvenienced and most hate America because it's fashionable these days to do so in liberal circles. Rest assured, a reckoning of some sort is coming, but more on that later.

I am not going to waste my time on a public confrontation as it will accomplish nothing, and possibly escalate the situation to the point where Law Enforcement needs to respond. That won't help me, the family, or the other passengers not involved. I will however, try to pay my respects to the family and ask if they need anything. Maybe if I am up in First Class (hey, it could happen, I've been lucky and upgraded before) I might blurt out a "Shut the F up!" out of reflex, but being back in the cheap seats, I can only make sure they get past my row quickly and offer my condolences.

I am a big fan of Karma - and as I age, and have more patience, I've seen karma realized more and more in my life. Kidd Rock said it best, "You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve." They do indeed.

Response by 1SG James Kelly made Dec 16 at 2020 8:22 PM

1SG James Kelly — Wed, 16 Dec 2020 20:22:05 -0500

Would not be pretty.

Response by PO3 Robert Contreras made Dec 18 at 2020 12:36 PM

PO3 Robert Contreras — Fri, 18 Dec 2020 12:36:13 -0500

I'd be embarrassed if I heard someone boo a family & probably would be in their face over it. Being a USN/FMF Retired Vietnam Veteran. The family has my utmost respect & condolences with a salute to boot.

Response by SN Robert Englebright made Dec 22 at 2020 2:17 PM

SN Robert Englebright — Tue, 22 Dec 2020 14:17:19 -0500

Follow them to airport parking and mug them: joking, joking. We fight for the right of free speech even unsavory speech.

Response by PVT Roy Broom made Dec 30 at 2020 1:51 PM

PVT Roy Broom — Wed, 30 Dec 2020 13:51:45 -0500

Probably go to jail for feeding the POS a Knuckle Sandwich

Response by SFC Melvin Brandenburg made Jan 22 at 2021 2:58 PM

SFC Melvin Brandenburg — Fri, 22 Jan 2021 14:58:27 -0500

I'd be a total ass once the family were outside.

Response by LTC Steve Herda made Jan 24 at 2021 6:45 AM

LTC Steve Herda — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 06:45:12 -0500

I forget which airport I was in but I saw a contingent of Red Jackets heading in the same direction I was. They stopped a few doors down from my gate and were waiting with several gate agents, security and what I assumed were family members. Of course, the plane was late, but it finally arrived. I don't know what went on inside the plane, but I watched a whole lot of people inside the terminal start standing up and going to the position of attention. I don't know who that Marine was, or the circumstances of their death, but those things don't matter. I saw a lot of fellow service members paying their respect. Quite moving. Being boo'd off a plane - that I would place squarely at the foot of the airline (if they did not get on the intercom and let people know what was going one) and if the airline did that, well, you just can't deal with stupid.

Response by CW2 Donald Loughrey made Jan 24 at 2021 3:36 PM

CW2 Donald Loughrey — Sun, 24 Jan 2021 15:36:09 -0500

Odd question. I hope I never have to find out.

Response by SGT Ronald Audas made Feb 1 at 2021 3:34 PM

SGT Ronald Audas — Mon, 01 Feb 2021 15:34:30 -0500

I would immediately stand up and salute the family.Any person or persons that could be that callous have honed their opinions over a long period of time.A confrontation would serve no purpose.Unfortunately ,they would be offloaded before me since they are in first class,Otherwise a well directed elbow to the back of the head on my way by,followed by an excuse me,would get the point across.

Response by 1SG Terry Folsom made Feb 11 at 2021 7:13 PM

1SG Terry Folsom — Thu, 11 Feb 2021 19:13:58 -0500

Ask how many of them had lost a family member in the service of their country. Yes, shame them , because they should be ashamed.

Response by PV2 Michael Straub made Feb 15 at 2021 5:47 AM

PV2 Michael Straub — Mon, 15 Feb 2021 05:47:33 -0500

Having had the terrible experience more than 20 times of bringing a soldiers body home to his loved ones, I would be charged with starting a riot, as I would have gone nuts on the ones that booed!

Response by SPC W. Neil Cantor made Feb 18 at 2021 7:00 AM

SPC W. Neil Cantor — Thu, 18 Feb 2021 07:00:36 -0500

That's very disrespectful!

Response by PV2 Timothy Crater made Feb 19 at 2021 1:38 PM

PV2 Timothy Crater — Fri, 19 Feb 2021 13:38:44 -0500

yeah well I think it is disrespectful for them to do that, You know what the old saying is there a As###### every where and no way of getting away from them, Bet they scream the loudest wheb they are in trouble too!

Response by SPC Mike Polston made Feb 22 at 2021 2:04 AM

SPC Mike Polston — Mon, 22 Feb 2021 02:04:48 -0500

I would do one of two things, I would tell them off in front of everyone, or I would accidentally trip and my elbow would catch them square on the bridge of the nose.

Response by SSG James Stodola made Feb 22 at 2021 12:37 PM

SSG James Stodola — Mon, 22 Feb 2021 12:37:40 -0500

I can't really say what I would do. First of all If I don't have a compelling reason to fly, I will not, I would rather take the extra time and drive, obviously stateside of course. But anymore I feel like air travel is nothing more than cattle car with the addition of draconian and ridiculous rules. I rather like to stay away from those kind of environments. I would not like to get into any debates or conversations with any of those ass holes as that would then require me to endure the rather of the airport police, another group I like to avoid as that experience would be just as annoying as the first. So in answer to your question, probably just give then the old standard finger salute and move on my way.

Response by CWO3 Robert Fong made Mar 6 at 2021 5:15 PM

CWO3 Robert Fong — Sat, 06 Mar 2021 17:15:53 -0500

Well, they would get a person-to-person experience of Gunny Ermy going off in their face. I'd probably get hauled away by the police. But I'd sure get their attention and refocus their inconsiderate selfish brains.

Response by Maj Don Harmon made Mar 6 at 2021 5:37 PM

Maj Don Harmon — Sat, 06 Mar 2021 17:37:33 -0500

Did the booing passengers know those tragic circumstances? Or in the absence of any information, did it just appear that the Gold Star family were rudely jumping to the head of the line?

Response by MSgt J D McKee made Mar 7 at 2021 11:38 PM

MSgt J D McKee — Sun, 07 Mar 2021 23:38:23 -0500

Violence.

Response by SPC Steve dePinet made Mar 12 at 2021 5:35 PM

SPC Steve dePinet — Fri, 12 Mar 2021 17:35:03 -0500

Ask them how they'd feel if they were there to receive the remains of a loved one (who died for their freedom to boo) and got booed... Probably would be some choice adjectives in there, too.

Response by SPC Dawn Adams made Mar 17 at 2021 11:40 AM

SPC Dawn Adams — Wed, 17 Mar 2021 11:40:45 -0400

I would be so upset. Maybe they didn't know. Maybe they're just used to getting their way

Response by SMSgt Bob Wilson made Mar 29 at 2021 1:45 PM

SMSgt Bob Wilson — Mon, 29 Mar 2021 13:45:53 -0400

A few observations: [1] I would feel the airline would have the family seated in First Class. [2] The family should be escorted to the front door by the steward. [3] The ground agent should receive the family at the front door and continue to escort the family to the tarmac. Procedures like this should resolve this situation.

Response by MSG Jamie Coleman made Apr 4 at 2021 11:45 AM

MSG Jamie Coleman — Sun, 04 Apr 2021 11:45:11 -0400

The airline should have provided them a Up grade to first class, then this would not have been an issue.

Response by SMSgt Michael Gleason made Apr 9 at 2021 7:14 PM

SMSgt Michael Gleason — Fri, 09 Apr 2021 19:14:34 -0400

Never been in that situation, but I'd probably get up and LOUDLY reiterate WHY they're allowed to leave the aircraft first!

Response by SPC Paul LaBelle made Apr 11 at 2021 4:35 PM

SPC Paul LaBelle — Sun, 11 Apr 2021 16:35:55 -0400

I would consider if they’re flying first class in a pandemic and it’s not for business they’re selfish assholes.

Response by MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan made Apr 13 at 2021 4:06 PM

MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan — Tue, 13 Apr 2021 16:06:46 -0400

Pick one of the "booers" out and stare (what my daughter would call a "death stare"). Staring can make someone real self-conscious about something they are doing that is repulsive.

Response by AN Ron Wright made May 7 at 2021 1:39 AM

AN Ron Wright — Fri, 07 May 2021 01:39:53 -0400

no way could i sit there and not say anything

Honor is demanded

Response by Amn Gloria Gray made May 8 at 2021 7:22 AM

Amn Gloria Gray — Sat, 08 May 2021 07:22:09 -0400

I would be very upset !!Not sure what I would say or do but people like that are being more than rude they are disrespecting not only the soldier, the family, but also our country!!

Response by CAPT Edward Schmitt made Jun 3 at 2021 1:13 PM

CAPT Edward Schmitt — Thu, 03 Jun 2021 13:13:13 -0400

I would be angry ad would use my attention getting, parade ground voice to say something along the lines of respect for sacrifice. No profanity but people would know I was deeply disappointed for their disrespect

Response by 1SG James Kelly made Jun 17 at 2021 8:32 AM

1SG James Kelly — Thu, 17 Jun 2021 08:32:16 -0400

One at a time , or all at once.

Response by Sgt John Mizell made Jun 17 at 2021 2:48 PM

Sgt John Mizell — Thu, 17 Jun 2021 14:48:00 -0400

I would get up and use some good Marine Core Language, if that was not enought, this old man can still dance

Response by CPL Sally Wittbrod made Jun 28 at 2021 5:03 PM

CPL Sally Wittbrod — Mon, 28 Jun 2021 17:03:00 -0400

Very sad conduct. In contrast, when my husband returned for Vietnam, his flight into LAX was delayed an hour. By the time he landed, everyone knew my situation and made sure I was closest to the jetway. The flight attendants allowed he to exit the plane first (probably 1st class). Nobody stopped us from running to meet in the jetway.

Response by CPT Mike Theimer made Jul 2 at 2021 1:16 PM

CPT Mike Theimer — Fri, 02 Jul 2021 13:16:03 -0400

I would drag his ass down the stairs and make him face the fallen soldier's family and apologize. Of course he would obviously press charges for assault in which case I would make it a much more obvious assault charge...!

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 17 at 2021 7:56 PM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 17 Jul 2021 19:56:50 -0400

I have a difficult time believing this actually happened.

Response by CWO2 Donald McClane made Jul 17 at 2021 8:44 PM

CWO2 Donald McClane — Sat, 17 Jul 2021 20:44:48 -0400

I think passive aggression is best. As I passed their seats, I might ( accidentally) fall into them and fuck them up as much as possible. Tray tables, drinks Etc. Then appoligise and hope they would take a swing at me.

Response by MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan made Jul 18 at 2021 8:25 PM

MSgt James "Buck" Buchanan — Sun, 18 Jul 2021 20:25:17 -0400

Keep it single...stand at attention, face the noisemakers and STARE!!!!

Response by SFC Terry Bryant made Jul 25 at 2021 12:46 PM

SFC Terry Bryant — Sun, 25 Jul 2021 12:46:02 -0400

You can't shame the shameless and you certainly can't teach morons respect and dignity. Why? Because they either have never had any themselves or they chose to be the way they are...honorless. Those people to me are nothing more than foot pads to make my walking a little more comfortable.

Response by SSG Brian Carpenter made Jul 25 at 2021 1:06 PM

SSG Brian Carpenter — Sun, 25 Jul 2021 13:06:03 -0400

I can garuntee I would be tempted to get physical but instead I would garuntee them the shaming of a lifetime where not only would they never forget it but so would anyone else within earshot of an old school NCO

Response by SSG Brian Carpenter made Jul 25 at 2021 1:10 PM

SSG Brian Carpenter — Sun, 25 Jul 2021 13:10:34 -0400

Response by SGT Lenise Hamilton made Jul 29 at 2021 1:53 PM

SGT Lenise Hamilton — Thu, 29 Jul 2021 13:53:58 -0400

As a retired military veteran, I would make an all out announcement to all on the plan through the intercom system, for, all to give respect so deserving of the soldier that gave without hesitation, the ultimate sacrifice, "his/her life" protecting the freedom that's enjoyed by each and everyone of your all aboard this plane. Please reframe from disrespecting the fallen, to include their family as well.

Response by SSG Robert Velasco made Jul 31 at 2021 6:36 PM

SSG Robert Velasco — Sat, 31 Jul 2021 18:36:11 -0400

Stand fast and show military style reverence. Don't escalate the situation unless you absolutely must to protect the integrity of the family. A solid glare or a " AS YOU WERE!" might suffice. Me, I might stand right in front of and facing the heckler at parade rest to shield the family. Know that this is now my family to watch over and keep safe!

Response by SN John Dilley made Aug 4 at 2021 3:30 AM

SN John Dilley — Wed, 04 Aug 2021 03:30:05 -0400

Most likely by ending up in jail.

Response by SPC Clayton Ellzey made Aug 16 at 2021 6:47 PM

SPC Clayton Ellzey — Mon, 16 Aug 2021 18:47:21 -0400

Throat punch a #$@%$#-

Response by SP5 Walter Anderson made Aug 20 at 2021 3:53 PM

SP5 Walter Anderson — Fri, 20 Aug 2021 15:53:33 -0400

I could hurt someone. For sure I would stand and yell for everyone to shut up and show respect.

Response by PFC Robert Avants made Aug 22 at 2021 7:38 PM

PFC Robert Avants — Sun, 22 Aug 2021 19:38:44 -0400

Not politely, that's paramount to spitting in my face, to boo one of my brothers or sisters in arms, who gave their life, so you could be a ass-wipe degenerate piece of Trash.

Response by PO3 Grant Skiles made Sep 4 at 2021 7:23 PM

PO3 Grant Skiles — Sat, 04 Sep 2021 19:23:25 -0400

I would be calling them some ignorant assholes. They should have placed themselves or a family member in danger for the welfare and safety of the people and interest of the United States. There would probably be a few more things comming out of my mouth is some jerk mouths off back at me.

Response by SGT John Overby made Sep 6 at 2021 10:39 AM

SGT John Overby — Mon, 06 Sep 2021 10:39:58 -0400

After collecting my senses I would probably shout out: "Do you not understand that is a family of a soldier that died protecting your liberties!"

Response by PO3 Steven Taylor made Sep 12 at 2021 11:14 PM

PO3 Steven Taylor — Sun, 12 Sep 2021 23:14:43 -0400

Shut the fuck up cocksucker, or something along those lines.

Response by MAJ Janice Campbell. BSN, RN, CNOR made Sep 13 at 2021 12:45 AM

MAJ Janice Campbell. BSN, RN, CNOR — Mon, 13 Sep 2021 00:45:59 -0400

I would stand up proudly, look squarely in the closet face booing, and just stand there. "If" they continued, I would engage them asking just what to them is more important than honoring the person who gave :is/her life for them. Rhetorical. If some lame comment came from their mouth at that point; I cannot write my comment here.

Response by PO2 Paul Dempsey made Sep 14 at 2021 1:10 PM

PO2 Paul Dempsey — Tue, 14 Sep 2021 13:10:34 -0400

Tell the passenger he/she is a fucking asshole . I'd tell them to Show respect to the family and the dead service person. I I will kick your ass. I would risk arrest to make them think twice before being so inconsiderate again. Fear and pain are great teachers and behavior modifiers.

Response by PFC Robert Avants made Sep 25 at 2021 2:06 PM

PFC Robert Avants — Sat, 25 Sep 2021 14:06:17 -0400

slap him so hard google couldn't find him! Hooah, won't tolerate rude behavior towards my brothers/ sisters in arms!

Response by SGT Erick Holmes made Sep 29 at 2021 7:13 AM

SGT Erick Holmes — Wed, 29 Sep 2021 07:13:44 -0400

Well, there are two ways that everyone can go about this. 1 way is to go off the deep end and just let the ignorant person have it. Although that is the way that I would choose those 2nd thoughts would probably come into play and then you to think and all of that "hard right" speech I usually give I would actually have to use it. WTF!!!! On the other hand Option 2 which would normally be option and should be the #1 only option is to educate and simply explain to the person that where ever they are going to go that place or person is already there and what is a is few extra minutes really going to do. It is common sense to take the few mins (that's all everyone is asking) to pay a little respect even if you don't agree with it to the family that will have to endure the loss and the pain of their family member that has passed to help keep America and all of it's foreign countries safe so that YOU can ride first class and bitch moan and complain that you can't be first to get off the plane because you paid and extra amount of dollars to sit in the nice comfy chair with leg room and the king size candy bars and actually glass of alcohol vs the nips that the average person can afford. If that doesn't work then a good ol prayer for that person will just fine and shake your head.

Response by CPL Jack Rand made Oct 27 at 2021 9:02 AM

CPL Jack Rand — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 09:02:43 -0400

I would definitely get up and have some very strong comments for those assholes on the plane

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 27 at 2021 12:08 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 12:08:07 -0400

I would probably get arrested for beating someone's ass for being so disrespectful and ignorant. I would put my military bearing aside for this. People have no respect for the ultimate sacrifice that Soldier made so they can run their stupid mouths.

Response by TSgt James Lacey made Oct 27 at 2021 12:57 PM

TSgt James Lacey — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 12:57:03 -0400

I think I would be very subtle but sarcastic towards the idiots who boo'ed. No need for that, there is enough division in the world as it is.

Response by Bruce Binder made Oct 27 at 2021 2:31 PM

Bruce Binder — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 14:31:59 -0400

I would be upset and vocal. That level of disrespect should not be tolerated. Actually, unfortunately, over the past 20 years I have been on several fights with both family in the cabin and fallen soldier below. Rather than any negative reaction by the rest of the passengers, people were respectful. One one flight, people refused to get off the plane until the fallen was in the local transport. My experience is, while we may disagree on the war, most of us respect those who go to war in our name. This is a lesson we had to learn, the hard way in Viet Nam.

Response by 1stSgt Rick Ensenbach made Oct 27 at 2021 2:47 PM

1stSgt Rick Ensenbach — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 14:47:29 -0400

We won’t go there because I would likely be arrested or barred from flying on that airline.

Response by PO3 Bradley Pick made Oct 27 at 2021 3:30 PM

PO3 Bradley Pick — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 15:30:40 -0400

I would have given up my First Class seat and Saluted them as they past. I would have suggested to the “booers” to consider their ability to complain was given to them buy the person in the casket.
USCG
Semper Paratus

Response by SN Marvin S. Robinson II made Oct 27 at 2021 4:25 PM

SN Marvin S. Robinson II — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 16:25:50 -0400

This scenario, QUESTION ought to be better worded: I had to read it several times to process / comprehend the SITUATION... oN oNe, hand it reflects how VETERANS are perceived/ treated in many examples of "STRUCTURAL- SYSTEMIC Violence; yet oN the other HAND, those booed- have probably little knowledge or experience of what ACTIVE DUTY Personnel go, through and the PUBLIC SCHOOL SYSTEMS nor news media organization don't do near enough making the general public aware of the SERVICE, DUTY, RISK nor COMMITMENTS to GOD and COUNTRY-
Therefore, I'd be confused if I were moRe embarrassed or frustrated with the passengers and their disdain / disrespect and absence of HUMANITARIAN Sophistication for a FALLEN SOLDIER and their LOV.ED oNes- imagine, if the USA didn't have a MILITARY to defend and serve so the PUBLIC can just move about on the ground, air, seas/ oceans or ELECTRONICALLY
Marvin S. Robinson II
QUINDARO RUINS/ Underground Railroad- Exercise 202

Response by SSG Rene Uhler made Oct 27 at 2021 6:54 PM

SSG Rene Uhler — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 18:54:17 -0400

OK I would tell them that I'm ashamed of them specially if they're American we had enough booing after the Vietnam soldiers came home my dad was one of them he got urinated on when he landed in Washington state it's sorry to see people act like that so family members deserve the right to step off first to get their family members and it makes me feel bad to even have that question presented to me I'm a proud German American I immigrated made my citizenship and served my country for 22 years and I'm not ashamed not one day let them try to be in those families boots for one minute.

Response by SP5 David Barber made Oct 27 at 2021 7:27 PM

SP5 David Barber — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 19:27:04 -0400

Think that I was in the US.

Response by A1C Donald Hanes made Oct 27 at 2021 7:50 PM

A1C Donald Hanes — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 19:50:29 -0400

Who and why would any thinking person even consider doing something so disrespectful?

Response by Sgt Robert Hellyer made Oct 27 at 2021 10:21 PM

Sgt Robert Hellyer — Wed, 27 Oct 2021 22:21:23 -0400

My brother was killed in Viet Nam. When he was sent back there was no family on the plane with his body, but I would have a few choice words for the traitor that booed any family in that situation.

Response by SSgt Ajhadriel Galbreath made Oct 28 at 2021 12:33 AM

SSgt Ajhadriel Galbreath — Thu, 28 Oct 2021 00:33:52 -0400

I respond to the Pilot. It’s important to exit the aircraft safely, to prevent blockages for those that need to transfer to another flight, quickly. The dead body is not going anywhere, however the live people do have someplace to go. The Pilot needs to follow the normal practice of deboarding the passengers from the aircraft. I wouldn’t want passengers who are alive to miss their connections over a dead body. The electromagnetic Energy - Frequency that we are, has exited the “dead body” any way, and that energy is neither lost nor destroyed. Yes, I don’t worship the shedded dead body. Pilots are being thoughtful to one family, by making others miss their flights? No, just start with the front row and get out!

Response by SPC Charles McFate made Oct 28 at 2021 12:38 AM

SPC Charles McFate — Thu, 28 Oct 2021 00:38:17 -0400

THEY ARE NOT AMERICANS!!!! I would use "Command" voice and call on any other veterans/enlisted/Patriots or friends/family members of the same to stand and do Honor Guard for this family. If anyone took offense to this, god help them...

Response by MSgt Brian Williams made Oct 29 at 2021 12:53 PM

MSgt Brian Williams — Fri, 29 Oct 2021 12:53:28 -0400

Normally I would mind my business because ignorance of that magnitude cannot be corrected. If I were close enough I'd probably yell show some respect after the family left the aircraft.

Response by SSG(P) Danielle Birtha made Oct 29 at 2021 4:26 PM

SSG(P) Danielle Birtha — Fri, 29 Oct 2021 16:26:09 -0400

My response? "Seriously? That Soldier gave their life for your freedom of speech... AND YOU CHOOSE HATE OVER THANKS AND RESPECT? HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF THAT WERE YOU BEING BOO'D? What Country are you from that you hate the family of a U.S. Hero, for being related to that Hero?"

Our Soldiers are True Superheroes. Human flesh and blood, with no tights and cape, no super powers. Just the desire to fight for the freedom of you and yours. And to bravely go into battle, KNOWING THEY MAY DIE FOR OUR FREEDOM, while the cowards hate them, because the cowards prefer to be on their knees to enemies, than to allow anyone to fight for freedom. >(

THE LAND OF THE BRAVE, AND HOME OF THE FREE... IS FREE BECAUSE OF THE BRAVE.
RESPECT THAT >(

And PLEASE... GET OFF YOUR KNEES... PUT DOWN YOUR HANDS... STOP SURRENDURING TO YOUR GOVERNMENT EMPLOYEES!!!
WE THE PEOPLE ARE THE EMPLOYERS... THE BOSSES... THE MASTERS OF THIS NATION...
NOT OUR SERVANT EMPLOYEES WHO ARE DISOBEYING EVERY PART OF OUR LAW... THE CONSTITUTION OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA...
TO KILL U.S. WITH STROKES OF THEIR TREASONOUS PENS.
--> SAYING THEIR LAWS OVERRULE OUR LAW >(

Our Constitution has not been amended to allow our Servants to do what they are doing.

OUR LIVES BELONG TO... WE THE PEOPLE.
OUR GOVERNMENT HAS NO POWER TO TAKE OUR LIVELIHOODS FROM U.S. AS THEY DICTATE... AND GIVE THEM TO INVADERS AND OUR ENEMIES.
OUR JOBS... ARE OUR LIVES!
WITHOUT JOBS... WE DIE IN THE STREETS...
Because our Government said so????
Which Country do you think we are in? China? Russia? North Korea? Cuba?
THAT IS LEGISLATED WAR AGAINST WE THE PEOPLE!
AS THEY GIVE AID AND COMFORT TO OUR ENEMIES... WITHIN THE U.S. ... AND EVERYWHERE ELSE!

--> BY TAKING FROM WE THE PEOPLE... AND GIVING ONLY POVERTY BACK >(

THEY ARE COMMANDED TO PROTECT U.S. FROM CHINA... INVADERS... AND OUR ENEMIES, INCLUDING CHINA... WHO NOW THREATENS U.S. WITH A HYPERSONIC WEAPON THEY CAN DROP ON OUR HEADS WITH JUST 8 SECONDS WARNING >(
--> NOT GIVE OUR PROSPEROUS BLESSINGS OF LIBERTY TO THEM WITH A STROKE OF THEIR PENS ... KILLING U.S. BY LAW >(
Supply Chain Issues? Ummm...duh... CHINA IS THE ENEMY... THEY HAVE OUR PRODUCTS BY LAW... WHAT DO YOU EXPECT?
They can withhold our products. Nothing we can do about that?

Then Government OF the People... BY the People... and FOR the People... HAS TRUELY PERSIHED >(

ARTICLE THREE AND TITLE 18 U.S. LAW CALLS THAT TREASON OF THE KIND WHERE THEY SHALL SUFFER DEATH >(

LOOK IT UP.
WE SWORE TO PROTECT THIS NATION FROM ALL ENEMIES... FOREIGN... AND DOMESTIC.
EVEN OUR HIGHEST GENERALS ARE NOW WORKING FOR OUR ENEMIES!!!

When do we decide enough Treason IS TOO MUCH?

Fourteenth Amendment: "No person shall be a Senator or Representative in Congress, or elector of President and Vice-President, or hold any office, civil or military, under the United States, or under any State, who, having previously taken an oath, as a member of Congress, or as an officer of the United States, or as a member of any State legislature, or as an executive or judicial officer of any State, to support the Constitution of the United States, shall have engaged in insurrection or rebellion against the same, or given aid or comfort to the enemies thereof. But Congress may by a vote of two-thirds of each House, remove such disability."
Article One Section 6:1 "The Senators and Representatives shall receive a Compensation for their Services, to be ascertained by Law, and paid out of the Treasury of the United States. They shall in all Cases, EXCEPT TREASON, FELONY AND BREACH OF PEACE, be privileged from Arrest during their Attendance at the Session of their respective Houses, and in going to and returning from the same; and for any Speech or Debate in either House, they shall not be questioned in any other Place."

Article Two, Section 4: "The President, Vice President and all civil Officers of the United States, shall be removed from Office on Impeachment for, and Conviction of, Treason, Bribery, or other high Crimes and Misdemeanors."

The Supreme Ruled during Trump's Bill of Attainder using Ex Post Facto Law Impeachment that "high Crimes and Misdemeanors." means Federal level crimes ... Class A, B, C Felonies
Bill of Attainder: Singling out an individual for crimes not crimes when committed.
Ex Post Facto Law: After the fact... or as done to Trump: Federal Rules of Evidence put aside to use Hearsay, Opinion, and above all FEAR he MIGHT commit a crime if allowed to continue as President.

--> the crime feared... that he would lock up the traitors and prosecute them as defined in Title 18.
--> that he would do his job as commanded by we the people who voted for him... as defined in the Constitution... not by Democratic National Socialists.
We have THREE Parties now...
Democrats, who believe in the free and liberal use of Democracy to conserve the Strength and Unity of the Republic... super minority... do we even have one left?
Republicans, who believe in Conserving the Strength and Unity of this Republic with the Free and Liberal use of Democracy... super minority... do we even have one left?
And The Democratic National Socialist Party (look it up - Hitler's Party), who believes in the liberal destruction of our Nation for the Communist Dictators of the World... the SUPER MAJORITY... which seems to have infected our entire Government at the Legislative, Executive, and Justice Department Level.

The EVIDENCE of the TREASON is their pens who wrote the Law of Treason that give our lives away... and their SIGNATURES... SIGNED CONFESSIONS!!!!

Please open your eyes.
The Second Amendment was written for a reason.
The Declaration of Independence shows the way.
The Grievances against King George... ARE VALID AGAIN TODAY!!!
--> AS INFLICTED BY OUR GOVERNMENT!

Shall we Stand in Freedom as the Owners and Rulers of this Nation?
Or grovel to our SERVANT EMPLOYEES, on our knees, as they Dictate?
King Biden? Queen Pelosi? ... or King Harry, and Princess Lilibet?
I'm too old to fight except with the facts of this Nation's History and Laws.
You the people who can fight... need to choose NOW.
U.S. ... OR THEM?

Response by SPC Dwight Turner made Nov 7 at 2021 11:53 AM

SPC Dwight Turner — Sun, 07 Nov 2021 11:53:49 -0500

as a soldier when he's taken off plane coffin draped with the flag at least have common sense to honor him!!! stop and remove your hat i mean those might not think it's right it is what if that was your brother or sister ? afterall militarys biggest family you or i have those whom cant respect a service family i pity you
sorry just my feelings

Response by SFC Dwight Beaver made Nov 22 at 2021 5:23 PM

SFC Dwight Beaver — Mon, 22 Nov 2021 17:23:27 -0500

As a O.R.F let's hope I never have to face that situation. I'm boiling just thinking of this happening..

Response by LCpl Robert Michaud made Dec 8 at 2021 9:08 AM

LCpl Robert Michaud — Wed, 08 Dec 2021 09:08:38 -0500

I would stand and salute the family and give condolences in honor of their hero! And tell the rest that booed that they need to stop being ignert, get educated, and grow up. I know it would do no good but I would feel better.

Response by MSgt Paul Beede made Dec 15 at 2021 11:37 PM

MSgt Paul Beede — Wed, 15 Dec 2021 23:37:14 -0500

Tell them shut up these people son lost his life serving our country the least you can do is respect them you blithering idiots

Response by CPT David Medley made Dec 16 at 2021 5:19 PM

CPT David Medley — Thu, 16 Dec 2021 17:19:02 -0500

I would not be NICE !

Response by CPT David Medley made Dec 16 at 2021 5:19 PM

CPT David Medley — Thu, 16 Dec 2021 17:19:41 -0500

I done think I could be nice !

Response by CPT Matt Peretin made Dec 20 at 2021 4:03 PM

CPT Matt Peretin — Mon, 20 Dec 2021 16:03:08 -0500

i mentioned my first reaction (involving profanity) to my son. He suggested instead "point a camera at them." I agree.

Response by John Bobbitt made Dec 20 at 2021 8:49 PM

John Bobbitt — Mon, 20 Dec 2021 20:49:18 -0500

only the certainty of making a scene such as would more greatly disrespect the sacrifice given by the soldier and his family would contain my fury. Did this ACTUALLY happen? Usually the captain will announce something like that beforehand also that the passengers are prepared and everyone knows what’s going on. Otherwise someone’s gonna get “offended” cuz the the folks of a different skin tone are going first- blah blah blah.

I’d like to think we’re better than that, though. And in my experience we have been. What’s the one time in american history that racism, sexism, and all the ism’s vanished for several months? we were a united country all of a sudden for a brief time. do you recall? the days immediately after 9-11. Nobody was… whatever subdivision they claimed… they were american.

Response by TSgt Douglas Greenwood made Jan 6 at 2022 5:53 PM

TSgt Douglas Greenwood — Thu, 06 Jan 2022 17:53:51 -0500

No service connection, no respect. Shame him or wall to wall his ass. Neither would change him, he never served, so, he’s ignorant of protocol. You can’t fix stupid. He is 35 and just got a pass from his mothers basement.

Response by SPC Kenneth Bowles made Jan 20 at 2022 1:09 AM

SPC Kenneth Bowles — Thu, 20 Jan 2022 01:09:06 -0500

I'd stand up and tell them all to knock it off.

Response by SGT Bill Braniff made Jan 21 at 2022 5:47 PM

SGT Bill Braniff — Fri, 21 Jan 2022 17:47:53 -0500

That question is just oo nasty to qualify an answer. One of my last duties in 1969, before getting out fo the Army was as a body Escort. No one booed me, but there were a few glares when they saw my uniform and black band on my arm.

Response by CPT Shonna Ingram made Jan 30 at 2022 2:14 AM

CPT Shonna Ingram — Sun, 30 Jan 2022 02:14:49 -0500

I would stand ip and say something.

Response by PO3 Steven Taylor made Feb 17 at 2022 9:14 PM

PO3 Steven Taylor — Thu, 17 Feb 2022 21:14:30 -0500

Tell them to shut they're motherfucking mouths and show some respect.

Response by SSG Stewart Ritchey made Feb 19 at 2022 8:24 PM

SSG Stewart Ritchey — Sat, 19 Feb 2022 20:24:59 -0500

Our God will receive the soldier, and his family in time. Nothing else matters. Those in the crowd are condemned to be themselves, and that is the worst possible punishment. Forgive them, "for they know not what they do."

Response by SSG Shawn Mcfadden made Feb 20 at 2022 12:26 AM

SSG Shawn Mcfadden — Sun, 20 Feb 2022 00:26:44 -0500

I would tell those Ignorant SCUM STFU and show some respect for the Soldier who served his country.

Response by PO1 George White made Feb 20 at 2022 10:13 PM

PO1 George White — Sun, 20 Feb 2022 22:13:27 -0500

In the realm of words, it would not go well for the one who boo'd.

Response by PO1 Frank Reiffenstein made Feb 20 at 2022 10:18 PM

PO1 Frank Reiffenstein — Sun, 20 Feb 2022 22:18:10 -0500

No need to try to talk to these morons, no matter how big the hammer you can't fix stupid. But to tell you the truth I don't think I would be able to restrain myself.

Response by SGT Leonard Frank made Feb 21 at 2022 8:18 AM

SGT Leonard Frank — Mon, 21 Feb 2022 08:18:17 -0500

I would try to rally the unspoken by saying, those of you that condemn this direspect please come to attention and hand salute out the terminal side of this plane.

Response by SSG Franklin Briant made Feb 21 at 2022 7:52 PM

SSG Franklin Briant — Mon, 21 Feb 2022 19:52:16 -0500

It would be very hard to maintain my military bearing in that situation.

Response by SPC Walt Madore made Feb 23 at 2022 5:33 PM

SPC Walt Madore — Wed, 23 Feb 2022 17:33:32 -0500

Some people simply have no class. We went to the airport when my brother's body was flown home. There were countless flight delays and issues that made the flight arrive late. The airline actually made special arrangements to have another plane meet his plane at their previous stop, as that first plane had a mechanical issue. Otherwise, we were told that the passengers would have been put up in hotels overnight. They only made these changes because they were bringing a Marine home. Our family was staging in baggage claim, waiting to be escorted onto the field. The passengers had already arrived there also. They made a brief announcement, that bags would be delayed while a Gold Star family received the body of their Marine, who had been on their flight. Most had no issue with this. Two assholes decided to comment that they'd waited long enough already, and this was bullshit. One of my other brothers and I heard this, and were not exactly happy. Fortunately, one of the Marines from the family detail also heard them. He immediately proceeded to explain that the only reason they had gotten this far, and weren't stuck in some shitbag hotel somewhere was due to the Marine in the belly of the plane. He then offered that if they had further comments to make, he'd be happy to escorted them outside to discuss their complaints with his family. They declined.

Response by SN Dr. Cathleen Miller made Feb 24 at 2022 9:40 AM

SN Dr. Cathleen Miller — Thu, 24 Feb 2022 09:40:17 -0500

How incredibly disrespectful for the family of the fallen. I'd rise from my seat, stand at attention, place my hand over my heart and remain silent. Lead by example.

Response by SFC Terry Bryant made Feb 24 at 2022 11:43 AM

SFC Terry Bryant — Thu, 24 Feb 2022 11:43:09 -0500

While it would be very disappointing to see people such as these imbeciles it is not uncommon. Look at the welcome many of our Vietnam Soldiers were welcomed too. Spit on, called baby killers, and much worse. There will always be horrible people in the world. That is to be considered the norm I'm afraid. However those people's actions and decisions should never be justification to make good people act like them. Another good example is road rage. I have had people get 6 inches from my bumper swerving, honking, cursing and flipping me the bird. Why? Because I was driving the speed limit. I mean the audacity of someone like me to do something as mundane as driving the speed limit LOL. I could have slammed on my brakes, caused a fender bender, cursed and raged back but I chose to let the other person be the idiot by not reacting in typical human fashion. So let those airplane idiots who believe they have a right to be first be who they are and you be who you are. Not one of them.

Response by Sgt Frank Staples made Feb 24 at 2022 1:23 PM

Sgt Frank Staples — Thu, 24 Feb 2022 13:23:59 -0500

I'm old and short and now I'm physically impaired...but I got a big mouth and as a veteran and fireman I'm not afraid to speak my piece. I would embarrass somebody...maybe me!

Response by SSG James Knopp made Feb 24 at 2022 8:36 PM

SSG James Knopp — Thu, 24 Feb 2022 20:36:25 -0500

The problem with this country is we have allowed society to become complacent, uncaring and ignorant acting. My first reaction would be to get up and slap them into their senses. Let them know what paying respect is about and not them. These soldiers paid the ultimate price for their freedom.
Then again, I would probably be escorted off the plane and be brought up in charges for my distain and intolerance towards ignorant people.

Response by SPC Martin Meyer made Feb 25 at 2022 3:06 AM

SPC Martin Meyer — Fri, 25 Feb 2022 03:06:35 -0500

Hopefully this will never happen to me. I am not sure how I would respond but I am sure it would not be favorably for those on board.

Response by SSG Conrad Sylvestrelamb made Feb 25 at 2022 11:01 AM

SSG Conrad Sylvestrelamb — Fri, 25 Feb 2022 11:01:25 -0500

You disrespectful POS you will be last MF disinbarking from the aircraft . Ungrateful!!

Response by Frank Leverett made Feb 25 at 2022 12:36 PM

Frank Leverett — Fri, 25 Feb 2022 12:36:34 -0500

Well, I'd likely be banned from that airline for the "use of colorful language" or I might be going to jail for a weekend or more for "physical education methods to ensure said miscreants no longer boo Americans who are bringing home a fallen soldier."

Response by George Katsinis made Mar 15 at 2022 4:01 PM

George Katsinis — Tue, 15 Mar 2022 16:01:35 -0400

My family member died in part to protect your right to be a dick head. Good day!

Response by SGT Carlos Fernández made Mar 19 at 2022 3:38 PM

SGT Carlos Fernández — Sat, 19 Mar 2022 15:38:44 -0400

Absolutely DISRESPECTFUL

Response by CPO Joseph Matthews made Mar 19 at 2022 6:41 PM

CPO Joseph Matthews — Sat, 19 Mar 2022 18:41:57 -0400

CPO USN RET. I would time for a verbal beat down. That's why we call civilians "SAND CRABS" Maybe a little help for the flight attendants over the loud speaker might help them.

Response by Dawn Taylor made Mar 20 at 2022 11:35 AM

Dawn Taylor — Sun, 20 Mar 2022 11:35:20 -0400

I would let them know that they were a shame full human and to shut up and count their blessings.

Response by SGM Major Stroupe made Mar 20 at 2022 3:35 PM

SGM Major Stroupe — Sun, 20 Mar 2022 15:35:20 -0400

Probably make a louder than necessary comment like "Have some respect. That could be your son or daughter."

Response by CSM Tony Blair made Mar 21 at 2022 2:10 PM

CSM Tony Blair — Mon, 21 Mar 2022 14:10:11 -0400

Unfortunately,
I was on the detail a few times that actually had to receive the remains of the soldiers returned to the states, I would have given the order parade rest, then walk over to them and had security remove them from the area, stupidity in the face of stupidity this not the answer.
Now if I was not in uniform, I would quickly and quietly give them good tongue lashing they would never forget.

Either way a soldier took care of the issue I’m good with, it can’t be over looked!!

Airborne All the way!!!

Response by SPC Richard Rauenhorst made Mar 22 at 2022 10:35 AM

SPC Richard Rauenhorst — Tue, 22 Mar 2022 10:35:12 -0400

My first thought was to shout shut up and sit down in my drill sargent voice. But after giving it more thought I would say. You can be glad that it is not one of your relatives or friends if you have any.

Response by PO1 Robert Gasser made Mar 22 at 2022 3:39 PM

PO1 Robert Gasser — Tue, 22 Mar 2022 15:39:07 -0400

It would not be pretty! Let’s just leave it right there!

Response by SCPO Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 23 at 2022 9:42 AM

SCPO Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 23 Mar 2022 09:42:24 -0400

I have to do 2 of these and today I will be doing a third. That should answer as to how I feel.

Response by SSG Omar Ruiz-Canales made Mar 23 at 2022 11:26 AM

SSG Omar Ruiz-Canales — Wed, 23 Mar 2022 11:26:30 -0400

I find it unbelievably hard to believe that this type of thing could actually happen..

Response by SFC Leo McIntyre made Mar 23 at 2022 6:31 PM

SFC Leo McIntyre — Wed, 23 Mar 2022 18:31:02 -0400

I would ask the flight attendant to let me have the mic for a moment and put those folks in their place very quickly! I'd start by saying "this family has lost a family member so YOU could have the rights and freedom's of free speech, be able to travel without having to 'show your papers' every time you come across a new location and they have the right to tend to their loved one!" Lastly, I'd say, "what if that was YOUR son or daughter, would you react the same?"

Response by SFC Leo McIntyre made Mar 23 at 2022 6:35 PM

SFC Leo McIntyre — Wed, 23 Mar 2022 18:35:55 -0400

Quite frankly, THAT individual is someone who deserves to be put on the TSA "No Fly List"!!! Just saying. If they show their 'unpatriotic' behavior like this in public, who knows what they are planning behind the scenes.

Response by Pvt Wesley Moody made Mar 23 at 2022 11:42 PM

Pvt Wesley Moody — Wed, 23 Mar 2022 23:42:04 -0400

I would Lose My Mind if some did that we who have served deserve respect that's the problem in this country we as a people need to know there place .

Response by SSG James N. made Mar 24 at 2022 8:34 AM

SSG James N. — Thu, 24 Mar 2022 08:34:31 -0400

You all remember the lecture in Boondock Saints? Something like that, but every one of them would feel it harder. Sorry, my Fallen are far more valuable than your dead ass granny. 3% o US serve, our fallen, disabled vets with PTSD/TBI are even less. They deserve better. Our Gold Star families, they deserve the most

Response by SGT John Prolo made Mar 24 at 2022 12:06 PM

SGT John Prolo — Thu, 24 Mar 2022 12:06:10 -0400

Tell them to GFY!

Response by SGT Beth Day made Mar 24 at 2022 12:31 PM

SGT Beth Day — Thu, 24 Mar 2022 12:31:03 -0400

Frankly, this is a story of a story of a story. And I've yet to see any evidence it actually ever happened.

Response by SSG Carlos Garcia made Mar 24 at 2022 2:19 PM

SSG Carlos Garcia — Thu, 24 Mar 2022 14:19:42 -0400

First of all, disgusted, secondly, I will stand up and confront the people hacking and booing and asked them if that soldier was one in your family, would you be booing him/her and their family member(s). Placing myself at their level will further the disgrace of the memory of the fallen soldier and family.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 24 at 2022 3:53 PM

PO1 Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 24 Mar 2022 15:53:21 -0400

I’d remind them that persons and family’s sacrifice has allowed them to right to boo and probably not say it in a polite manner.

Response by SPC Charles McFate made Mar 24 at 2022 4:14 PM

SPC Charles McFate — Thu, 24 Mar 2022 16:14:12 -0400

I would stand up, call attention (in command voice) and salute.
Good help those that would boo as I hope there would be more vets and/or enlisted on board including staff!!!

Response by PO1 John Richards made Mar 24 at 2022 11:25 PM

PO1 John Richards — Thu, 24 Mar 2022 23:25:40 -0400

I would remind them that the solider died for their freedom and to be respectful. And if that did not work most likely tell them to shut the hell up.

Response by A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney made Mar 25 at 2022 5:35 AM

A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 05:35:40 -0400

I'd Be SO Pissed At Those Whom Disrespected The Soldier And His Family, I'd Probably Go Ballistic On Them. ...NO Excuse At All, NONE, Regardless Of What Excuse They May THINK They Have....
I Certainly Hope It Didn't Happen.... If SO, However, The Senior Individual In Charge Should Have Taken Immediate Control And Taken As Many Names Of The Offenders As Could Be Positively Identified .

Response by SrA Dan Frady made Mar 25 at 2022 8:54 AM

SrA Dan Frady — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 08:54:22 -0400

Someone would be spitting chillers out their being mouths.

Response by CPT Deirdre Stokelin made Mar 25 at 2022 11:16 AM

CPT Deirdre Stokelin — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 11:16:09 -0400

After biting my tongue several times, I would compose myself with the greatest Military bearing and salute the family! US Army Chaplain Captain Dr. Deirdre M. Stokelin, Retired.

Response by SGT Rich Levesque made Mar 25 at 2022 11:26 AM

SGT Rich Levesque — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 11:26:59 -0400

I'd be really pissed off, and after a brief conversation, salute the family.

Response by SPC John Bryson made Mar 25 at 2022 11:47 AM

SPC John Bryson — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 11:47:22 -0400

I would calmly inform the person that they have the right to voice their opinion... then get closer and in my NCO low growl tell them if they continue I'll beat the crap out of them

Response by SGT Charles Graham made Mar 25 at 2022 12:39 PM

SGT Charles Graham — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 12:39:34 -0400

I KNOW WHAT I WOULD LIKE TO DO BUT,I WOULD TELL THEM THAT HE DIED FOR HIS COUNTRY AND TO PROTECT YOUR FREEDOM. IF THAT WASN'T SATISFIABLE,THEN I WOULD TELL THEM ANOTHER WAY HMM.

Response by SGT Doug Blanchard made Mar 25 at 2022 4:49 PM

SGT Doug Blanchard — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 16:49:08 -0400

I had this happen on a flight. I was coming home on my 1st leave after BCT/AIT. There were two arsewads in the 1st class section of the flight I was on. They decided to show their stupidity. I and another Army PFC were sitting in the front section of the business passenger section of the flight. The flight attendant had been on the PA system and had asked everyone to stay seated while the family decorated first.
Long story short, the other PFC and I went up to the first class section and told the idiots that if they did not shut the hell up and show some respect to the grieving family, they did not want to know what was in store for them. They shut up and behaved then. The flight crew, pilot, copilot, and engineer had all been in Vietnam as pilots. Between them, the other PFC and myself, we escorted the family to receive their family members remains. This happened in March 1976. It was still a time of turbulence in this country with jerks dissing the military. Turns out the fallen service member had been in the Marines in Vietnam and been being treated in a VA hospital for the previous 18mo for ongoing issues from injuries sustained in Vietnam. He was 6yrs older than I at the time. He was 25 and I was 19.

Response by SGT Doug Blanchard made Mar 25 at 2022 5:01 PM

SGT Doug Blanchard — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 17:01:41 -0400

This crap reminds me of the shit commie Joe pulled when the remains of the last 13 troops were killed in Afghanistan due to his botched retreat from there last year. He may be the CiC, but he is no commander.

Response by SSG Bill McCoy made Mar 25 at 2022 5:15 PM

SSG Bill McCoy — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 17:15:44 -0400

Though this was a 2016 post, it deserves a comment. In my case, I'd be afraid of how I'd react ... it wouldn't be pretty. That has to be/had to be a totally despicable event!

Response by LTC Curtis Madsen made Mar 25 at 2022 7:25 PM

LTC Curtis Madsen — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 19:25:26 -0400

I guess I'd be wondering why the airline didn't put the family in First Class to begin with, I'd be complaining to them after the fact. I really don't want to go into the how I'd handle the passenger boo'ing the family. Guess I would approach in the sense that, how would you like to be treated if that were your family member.

Response by SGT Reginald Tyler made Mar 26 at 2022 9:56 AM

SGT Reginald Tyler — Sat, 26 Mar 2022 09:56:18 -0400

Just read som of the comments, bottom line. “MILITARY FAMILY “. Respect those that put themselves, their family and all involved over a little delay in your life because if not for sacrifices made by the military you just may not have been here today. “ SALUTE “

Response by SPC Ludwig Stines made Mar 26 at 2022 1:24 PM

SPC Ludwig Stines — Sat, 26 Mar 2022 13:24:10 -0400

I would do my best to stand in the close qtrs of the aircraft and Salute the parents as they walked by.

Response by 1SG James Kelly made Mar 26 at 2022 5:17 PM

1SG James Kelly — Sat, 26 Mar 2022 17:17:18 -0400

Make it very hard for that person to BOO for a long time.

Response by PO1 Raymond Spingler made Mar 26 at 2022 6:05 PM

PO1 Raymond Spingler — Sat, 26 Mar 2022 18:05:52 -0400

I would revert to my NAVY days and tell them to shut the f..k ip.

Response by SPC Brian Pritchard/Hall made Mar 27 at 2022 1:15 PM

SPC Brian Pritchard/Hall — Sun, 27 Mar 2022 13:15:25 -0400

Would be super difficult to take the high road. Maybe clap for them then tell the ones booing to f#%k off.

Response by SP5 Harry Logan made Mar 28 at 2022 9:50 AM

SP5 Harry Logan — Mon, 28 Mar 2022 09:50:04 -0400

Probably knock her or him on thier pathetic can.

Response by Sgt Don Griffin made Mar 29 at 2022 8:31 AM

Sgt Don Griffin — Tue, 29 Mar 2022 08:31:04 -0400

Video for sure. probably a few choice words

Response by SFC William Linnell made Mar 29 at 2022 1:35 PM

SFC William Linnell — Tue, 29 Mar 2022 13:35:04 -0400

I know how I would feel and how I want to address that individual/s that booed the family. Which would've been with a knife hand cocked, standing in a position of authority making it so those individual/s couldn't stand up, and commence to give them an ass chewing at an octave just loud enough in a 6 foot radius, sounding like I was going to rip their heads off. Then ask permission if I could stand with the family as their loved one exited the plane and placed for the next ride in their journey.

Now the professional SFC, senior NCO would maintain his military bearing. remain calm, go up to the individual reaching out to shake his hand, grasping it like i was going for crushing every single bone, introduce myself, then clearly state What a disappointment he must be to his mother. I bet she's real proud of your ignorant demonstration to the family of a Soldier killed in combat. Then give him a nice nudge back to his seat. Walk to the airline attendant to see if I could go down to honor the fallen Soldier.

But who knows until the situation presents itself.

Response by SSG Douglas Shaffer made Mar 29 at 2022 2:24 PM

SSG Douglas Shaffer — Tue, 29 Mar 2022 14:24:15 -0400

I would address them with my knife and tell them in my best of command voice "You sit down and Shut the Fuck Up!"

Response by SPC James Drury made Mar 30 at 2022 1:11 PM

SPC James Drury — Wed, 30 Mar 2022 13:11:21 -0400

I'd say, "Sir, please be respectful and quiet while the grieving parents pass by." If he answers in any negative way or tone or continues booing I'd say, "Sir, I'll see you outside!

If the booing passenger is a female, I'd say, "Ma'am, you are being disrespectful, please show some dignity for a few moments." If she continued, I'd sit back down in disgust.

Response by SPC Brian Pritchard/Hall made Mar 31 at 2022 9:21 AM

SPC Brian Pritchard/Hall — Thu, 31 Mar 2022 09:21:32 -0400

Biggest problem we have today is the media and not getting the whole story and if it’s even true in the first place. That being said if it the truth let’s say I’m glade I was not there as I’m sure I would have offended and traumatized Several people.

Response by CPL Linda B. made Mar 31 at 2022 10:03 AM

CPL Linda B. — Thu, 31 Mar 2022 10:03:00 -0400

I'm sure I would get in trouble for whatever I said because I certainly wouldn't agree with that kind of action... So disturbing the disrespect that soldiers and veterans get.. How would it be for all those who disrespect us to take all their freedoms away and send them to another country...

Response by SPC Robert Bobo made Mar 31 at 2022 10:49 PM

SPC Robert Bobo — Thu, 31 Mar 2022 22:49:28 -0400

Interesting, I wonder what announcement was made by Flight Crew, I flew for 12 years every week, majority of Americans are always respectful of military and gold star families

Response by Sgt Tom Gainer made Apr 1 at 2022 11:18 AM

Sgt Tom Gainer — Fri, 01 Apr 2022 11:18:22 -0400

Say it ain’t so……….how could anyone be such an ass wipe ? To be honest, I don’t know what I might do, but I certainly would not stand by and let a turd disrespect a fallen service member and the family.

Response by SGT Traudel Haney made Apr 5 at 2022 4:24 PM

SGT Traudel Haney — Tue, 05 Apr 2022 16:24:29 -0400

'That casket contains your right to state your opinion, Let me shake your hand for doing so' or simply walk off the plane knowing that this country is in worst shape; kind of reminds me of how my father was received after Vietnam.

Response by Pvt Wesley Moody made Apr 24 at 2022 3:18 PM

Pvt Wesley Moody — Sun, 24 Apr 2022 15:18:01 -0400

Brother and sisters just a few words I would loss my M/F Mind and say just 3 words Respect Ass Hole .

Response by SMSgt Bob Wilson made Apr 25 at 2022 12:30 AM

SMSgt Bob Wilson — Mon, 25 Apr 2022 00:30:34 -0400

Other than respect, today, does it matter when the family gets off the aircraft? It takes 30-45 minutes to UNLOAD the belly of an airplane. Getting a coffin unsecured, the transport vehicle in place and the military detail in place is 45 minutes minimum. My recommendation is have the immediate family in first class complements of the Airline and take them to a holding area until everything is in place. Now, let us be real, how many families can afford to accompany the body of a fallen family member from Dover, DE to their home of record or burial site?

Response by Janet Nickoless made May 11 at 2022 10:23 PM

Janet Nickoless — Wed, 11 May 2022 22:23:52 -0400

People have no respect for the sacrifice the troops make & their families.

Response by Sgt Greg Puckett made May 15 at 2022 6:31 PM

Sgt Greg Puckett — Sun, 15 May 2022 18:31:51 -0400

It wouldn't be pretty. Probably yell at the people booing with a knife hand, " you F*ckers booing don't deserve to be Americans" Then beat the shit out of the biggest fucker there and gleefully wait for the M.P.s to come get me. Now that's me. Nobody boo's a family with their loved one in the cargo hold.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made May 18 at 2022 8:49 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 18 May 2022 20:49:42 -0400

Does said person in first class have to live in this situation? ? ?

Response by AA Loreen Silvarahawk made May 22 at 2022 5:04 PM

AA Loreen Silvarahawk — Sun, 22 May 2022 17:04:26 -0400

I would tell them to shut their bloody mouths and ask everyone else to stand up in honor of the Gold Star Family.

Response by LCpl Troy Leonard made May 25 at 2022 9:42 AM

LCpl Troy Leonard — Wed, 25 May 2022 09:42:55 -0400

I would pull my in flight snack of crayons out of my pocket, and take a bite. Then I'd start cracking heads while screaming Semper Fi! Oh wait I was an airwing pog. Nothing I would probably do nothing.

Response by Lt Col PAul Maxwell made May 26 at 2022 12:44 PM

Lt Col PAul Maxwell — Thu, 26 May 2022 12:44:46 -0400

If possible , I would probably stand and step between family And the loudest bozo, and silently stare at them.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 2 at 2022 6:42 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 02 Jun 2022 18:42:15 -0400

After the family left the aircraft I would identify the biggest perpetrator and knock their teeth out. I’ve lost soldiers in combat so this would be personal. I’ve never been in trouble with the law so when the judge asked why I did it I would respond with It needed to be done.

Response by SFC Wade Adams made Jun 2 at 2022 11:43 PM

SFC Wade Adams — Thu, 02 Jun 2022 23:43:34 -0400

I’d be pissed off. I would tell people to have some respect. Then I would lecture, I think would be useless, but I still would do it

Response by SP5 James Elmore made Jun 3 at 2022 12:49 AM

SP5 James Elmore — Fri, 03 Jun 2022 00:49:14 -0400

It shouldn't happen. If the Captain or flight stewards make an announcement, I doubt anyone would boo.

Response by CAPT Edward Schmitt made Jun 3 at 2022 5:11 PM

CAPT Edward Schmitt — Fri, 03 Jun 2022 17:11:47 -0400

I would be pissed and angry but would hope to respond with dignity. 1) If at all possible I would have risen and stood at attention for the family. 2) I have a booming voice (should have been a drill instructor) and would turn to the idiots and say “Respect those who have died.”
I hate the thought of this ever happening.

Response by PO2 Tom Kalbacher made Jun 3 at 2022 8:06 PM

PO2 Tom Kalbacher — Fri, 03 Jun 2022 20:06:46 -0400

Probably tell the stewardess I overheard the ass was talking about bombs

Response by Cpl Christopher Bishop made Jun 3 at 2022 9:11 PM

Cpl Christopher Bishop — Fri, 03 Jun 2022 21:11:08 -0400

What I might think, and what I might do or say, are very different.

The situation is all too predictable. I wouldn’t make a scene just to aviod potential issues with Airport Security or anyone else really, just to ensure I get to my own destination without delays.

Little point is saying anything to sheep about serving anyone but themselves. Most of then weren’t even worth serving. We do it for the few who were.

Response by LCpl Kenneth Heath made Jun 3 at 2022 11:09 PM

LCpl Kenneth Heath — Fri, 03 Jun 2022 23:09:14 -0400

"I hope you fuckers never have to ride in coach while your loved one travels freight... SHUT THE FUCK UP AND SIT DOWN!

Response by SFC Edwin Foster made Jun 5 at 2022 2:38 PM

SFC Edwin Foster — Sun, 05 Jun 2022 14:38:38 -0400

No point in lecturing the uneducated mass, but personally I would be extremely angry and ashamed at the disrespect being shown.

Response by SGT Kerry Sommers made Jun 5 at 2022 6:52 PM

SGT Kerry Sommers — Sun, 05 Jun 2022 18:52:10 -0400

I would be very angry with the complainers. Only 1 or 2 % of Americans serve our country. They should ALWAYS be honored.

Response by Sgt Frank Staples made Jun 5 at 2022 11:09 PM

Sgt Frank Staples — Sun, 05 Jun 2022 23:09:26 -0400

As a thirty one year fireman I have developed a thick skin...I would definitely make them think about their freedoms and who paid for them and I would try to do it with diplomacy...try, I said.

Response by PFC James Edward VERNON jr made Jun 6 at 2022 9:34 AM

PFC James Edward VERNON jr — Mon, 06 Jun 2022 09:34:55 -0400

IT TAKES ALL"KINDS" TO MAKE THE WORLD. ASK ANY VIET NAM VET WHO CAME THROUGH HAWAII ON THE WAY BACK TO THE STATES.

Response by PFC Eric Stosius made Jun 6 at 2022 9:35 AM

PFC Eric Stosius — Mon, 06 Jun 2022 09:35:07 -0400

People are just ignorant today.

Response by PFC James Edward VERNON jr made Jun 6 at 2022 9:37 AM

PFC James Edward VERNON jr — Mon, 06 Jun 2022 09:37:37 -0400

WE NEED TO PRAY FOR THOSE WHO "THINK" THE ARE "IN THE KNOW", BUT ARE NOT.

Response by SFC Mario Rodriquez made Jun 7 at 2022 7:17 AM

SFC Mario Rodriquez — Tue, 07 Jun 2022 07:17:38 -0400

You can't fix stupid, so why try? Some people do things for impact, to get a response, or to by funny. No one can understand the position of a Gold Star family and unfortunately the world is full of dumbasses who fail to realize their stupidity is paid for by those who served and those who died defending it.

Response by SPC Linda Chandler made Jun 7 at 2022 1:30 PM

SPC Linda Chandler — Tue, 07 Jun 2022 13:30:30 -0400

Tell the person in 1st class to get over their selves, and applaud the family and give them my sympathy and the loss of their child or loved one

Response by TSgt George Rodriguez made Jun 7 at 2022 5:57 PM

TSgt George Rodriguez — Tue, 07 Jun 2022 17:57:21 -0400

I would stand and shout USA to drown out the individual.

Response by SFC Carlos Cruz made Jun 7 at 2022 7:39 PM

SFC Carlos Cruz — Tue, 07 Jun 2022 19:39:07 -0400

I agree with SFC Joseph Weber or better yet tell them sit your ass down before you get your ass kick.

Response by SPC Timothy Long made Jun 8 at 2022 12:04 AM

SPC Timothy Long — Wed, 08 Jun 2022 00:04:45 -0400

probably nothing you could say would register.Guess in honor of the deceased,we would not want any trouble especially at this solemn time.Dont forget,their family or relative would be there? Do our job with respect and dignity and move on.

Response by MSG Antwine Marshall made Jun 8 at 2022 3:11 AM

MSG Antwine Marshall — Wed, 08 Jun 2022 03:11:17 -0400

I would focus on consoling the family of the deceased servicemember. I wouldn't waste my time, or breath, addressing the cretins that booed as it wouldn't change their minds or attitudes. They've already shown that they have no shame by booing a hero.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 8 at 2022 8:43 AM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 08 Jun 2022 08:43:27 -0400

It wasn't made know why they were a "special military family," and most likely out of respect. If it were me I wouldn't want to hear about my loved ones death over an intercom. Additionally, a lot of people don't understand/know what a Gold Star Family is. Even before finding out about the additional information about the situation, my answer would be the same. I would allow someone's lack of knowledge/understanding hold power over me to lose control of my emotions. Would I be upset? H*ll. F*cking. Yeah. However, before walking off, I would have simply said, in a calm matter-of-fact tone, " I will pray for your souls." I would never want to paint a negative picture or reinforce any negative views about military folks. I hold myself to a higher standard, as most of us do.

Response by PO3 John Fahrer made Jun 8 at 2022 12:22 PM

PO3 John Fahrer — Wed, 08 Jun 2022 12:22:31 -0400

We live in a time when so many think they are much better than everyone else. Many lack respect or empathy the elderly, disabled, or in this case the grieving family of a soldier. The missing ingredient of kindness, and being treating others as you want to be treated, is no longer even considered. The "GOLDEN RULE" has been lost lost and no longer taught. For some of us who are in our seventies we remember a time when it was not this way. Our future does not look as bright as it once did.

Response by Capt Carmine Vilardi made Jun 8 at 2022 3:27 PM

Capt Carmine Vilardi — Wed, 08 Jun 2022 15:27:37 -0400

I was in uniform in the 1970s and 80s when those in uniform dealt with disrespect often. Even the Patriot Guard (motorcycle group) formed partially to protect those suffering loss from those that choose to disrespect them. The temptation is to offer 'wall to wall counseling' or 'combat boot correction', but I have found that does little to put them in their place (though admittedly it feels good). I also agree its pointless to lecture ... but actions speak loudly. I suggest publicly (and out loud) offering condolences to the grieving family and an apology to them, both for their loss and the insensitivity of others that don't speak for the majority. Then offer a salute as you let them by.

Response by SGT Lance LeBerte made Jun 8 at 2022 8:42 PM

SGT Lance LeBerte — Wed, 08 Jun 2022 20:42:14 -0400

honestly, I don't know what I would do, I would be so filled with rage, it would be a conscious effort not to respond

Response by SFC Steven Schafer made Jun 8 at 2022 9:45 PM

SFC Steven Schafer — Wed, 08 Jun 2022 21:45:42 -0400

How nice you are to disrespect a family of a fallen military member who gave their all in defense of their country. Who gave you the right to sit in judgement of their final act on this mortal coil. How dare you.

Response by LTC Betty Holm made Jun 8 at 2022 10:20 PM

LTC Betty Holm — Wed, 08 Jun 2022 22:20:26 -0400

I would standup salute the family and shame all of those who showed disrespect and remind them fallen Soldiers are why they have the right to boo.

Response by MSG Walter Reel made Jun 9 at 2022 6:59 AM

MSG Walter Reel — Thu, 09 Jun 2022 06:59:18 -0400

I would look them in the face and call them a traitor to this country. Then I would follow them through the Airport yelling at the top of my lungs what they had just done so everyone could look and know they were worthless scum. Just like their ex president who stood on Arlington Cemetery and called our fallen comrades losers and suckers.

Response by SR Johnathan Lawson made Jun 9 at 2022 7:50 AM

SR Johnathan Lawson — Thu, 09 Jun 2022 07:50:09 -0400

I would have probably been booted from the plane and/or arrested....

Response by PO3 James Hemming made Jun 9 at 2022 10:44 AM

PO3 James Hemming — Thu, 09 Jun 2022 10:44:51 -0400

I would definately say something to the disrespectful peice of garbage that had the audacity to show so much disrepect in public. Unfortunality, this country is too afraid to do the right thing and put these cowards in their place. Not me, they're going to know exactly whats on my mind!

Response by SSgt James Mathews made Jun 9 at 2022 1:30 PM

SSgt James Mathews — Thu, 09 Jun 2022 13:30:26 -0400

Yet the people that were doing the booing would be the first ones to expect someone to protect them in case of an invasion from a foreign country. They also forget they live in a country where they can do that, at least for now. I hope that when one of them loses someone close they get the same treatment. Makes everyone not want to defend the country with people like that in it. What they don't think about is that the way it is going and with help from these idiots they will lose the right even to exist. They think they have found their voice but just wait.

Response by Sgt David Tearce made Jun 12 at 2022 11:09 AM

Sgt David Tearce — Sun, 12 Jun 2022 11:09:41 -0400

I would ask everyone on the plane, "Which one of you has the guts to stand up to pledge your life as this soldier did so that you can have the privilege to boo him for doing that. Stand up, Shut up and pay respect for this brave soul.

Response by PO1 Sanford Snyder made Jun 12 at 2022 3:36 PM

PO1 Sanford Snyder — Sun, 12 Jun 2022 15:36:33 -0400

I would loudly question the intelligence, or lack there of, of everyone booing.

Response by MGySgt Rick Tyrrell made Jun 20 at 2022 9:16 PM

MGySgt Rick Tyrrell — Mon, 20 Jun 2022 21:16:47 -0400

There are many things I would love to say. However, no good would come of saying anything since they are incapable of the meaning and understanding. I would walk away after honoring the fallen comrade most likely with a slow salute .

Response by SFC Robert D. made Jun 20 at 2022 10:13 PM

SFC Robert D. — Mon, 20 Jun 2022 22:13:47 -0400

I would remind them that He or She died so they could enjoy he freedom of being an asshole

Response by SGT Greg G Gagner made Jul 3 at 2022 5:11 PM

SGT Greg G Gagner — Sun, 03 Jul 2022 17:11:11 -0400

Put yourself in their place, Would you like to be off first to receive the body of your fallen son or daughter???

Response by SPC Stephen Lynch made Jul 3 at 2022 6:40 PM

SPC Stephen Lynch — Sun, 03 Jul 2022 18:40:36 -0400

Tell them to shut the fi*k up sit down and show some respect !

Response by SGT Kerry Sommers made Jul 3 at 2022 8:10 PM

SGT Kerry Sommers — Sun, 03 Jul 2022 20:10:37 -0400

Most people do NOT serve. Heads are still in their butts.

Response by SPC George Edwards made Jul 3 at 2022 9:18 PM

SPC George Edwards — Sun, 03 Jul 2022 21:18:16 -0400

I wouldn't react at all. Sometimes it's just better to be above that.

Response by AN Tony Leding made Jul 6 at 2022 2:43 PM

AN Tony Leding — Wed, 06 Jul 2022 14:43:44 -0400

This one's easy for me. After all of the family was off the plane, I would ask the flight crew if I could make a short announcement preferably over the PA. Either way, I would then thank the entire passenger cabin for their heartfelt support of our service-members and the respect just shown for their sacrifice. I would then also thank the passengers for their sacrifice of 1-2 mins and hope they are able to somehow heal as they go about their day - or something along those lines.

Response by SSgt Roger Kriner made Jul 6 at 2022 7:08 PM

SSgt Roger Kriner — Wed, 06 Jul 2022 19:08:54 -0400

I would be between the Gold Star family and those that "Boo" ... making sure they get to the front of the plane without incident. Screw the first class divas.

Response by CPL Linda B. made Jul 6 at 2022 9:47 PM

CPL Linda B. — Wed, 06 Jul 2022 21:47:38 -0400

I pray look at them and say really and I even stand up and say cut it out.. It's a what if that was somebody you loved.. I can tell you I would be Irritated...

Response by A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney made Jul 7 at 2022 5:34 AM

A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney — Thu, 07 Jul 2022 05:34:44 -0400

This Post Is Now 6 Years Of Age, But Still Would Apply Today (07/07/2022).

Should Something Such As This Occur, And Upon The Family's Exiting The Craft,
I Fear I'd Become A Serious Problem To Rude Individual,
And Try Removing His Lungs Out Through His Ass...

I'm Not Normally A Violent Person,
But As Others Here, I DO Have My Limits;
And This Would Be At The Top Of The List...

Response by PO2 Chris Sabo made Jul 7 at 2022 10:04 AM

PO2 Chris Sabo — Thu, 07 Jul 2022 10:04:06 -0400

WTF?!
I have heard of this happening on at least 2 occasions. My thoughts involve shouting and violence. I am going to go drink coffee and forget about these heartless, souless, entitled, trolls. Fuck them!

Response by Sgt Dennis Peskey made Jul 7 at 2022 11:35 AM

Sgt Dennis Peskey — Thu, 07 Jul 2022 11:35:55 -0400

You can't cure stupidity - it's best to just ignor the idiots.

Response by SSgt Rick Anderau made Jul 7 at 2022 2:22 PM

SSgt Rick Anderau — Thu, 07 Jul 2022 14:22:11 -0400

I'm pretty sure I'd slap them silly!

Response by Sgt Trevor Sellers made Jul 7 at 2022 4:35 PM

Sgt Trevor Sellers — Thu, 07 Jul 2022 16:35:04 -0400

It's hard to believe someone could be so disrespectful. It would be the patriotic duty of all other passengers to voice their outrage to this person.

Response by MSgt Currie C. made Jul 7 at 2022 11:17 PM

MSgt Currie C. — Thu, 07 Jul 2022 23:17:15 -0400

Oh, by the time it was over (my reaction), I'd be in handcuffs.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 8 at 2022 8:39 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 08 Jul 2022 08:39:40 -0400

id slip the shit out of them all

Response by SN Michael Motta made Jul 8 at 2022 12:22 PM

SN Michael Motta — Fri, 08 Jul 2022 12:22:13 -0400

I hope someone took picture of these pieces of garbage that booed

Response by SGT David Kazmierski made Jul 8 at 2022 2:44 PM

SGT David Kazmierski — Fri, 08 Jul 2022 14:44:01 -0400

I'd stand up and in my best drill sergeant imitation look at the crowd and give them an "AT EASE" command. They WOULD stfu!!!

Response by Sgt Tom Gainer made Jul 9 at 2022 8:58 PM

Sgt Tom Gainer — Sat, 09 Jul 2022 20:58:12 -0400

Don’t know……….the Marine in me would want to grab them by the stacking swivel and junk a knot up their ass, the calmer side of me would pity their ignorance at what is taking place. I have lost many a brother in combat in Vietnam and for me to sit by and watch what would be going on, most likely the calmer person would not prevail.

Response by SMSgt Bob Wilson made Jul 10 at 2022 10:37 PM

SMSgt Bob Wilson — Sun, 10 Jul 2022 22:37:32 -0400

Be respectful of the family. Bottom Line: Just sit in your seat.

Response by Pvt Robert L. Lamoreaux made Jul 11 at 2022 1:26 AM

Pvt Robert L. Lamoreaux — Mon, 11 Jul 2022 01:26:03 -0400

I'm an old man (very rapidly approaching 79 years old this year). I served in the Marine Corps but did not complete boot camp.
People nowadays don't "get" polite subtlety. The pilot's announcement that it was a "special military family" probably went over the heads of many of the passengers. I'm not even sure that many "civilians" even know what a Gold Star family is! Further, and this is no excuse, but it could very well be that the S--- For Brains passenger(s) had a little too much liquid refreshment. I'd still be tempted to educate him or them, but nowadays "rights" - such as freedom of speech - seem to exist without responsibility or expectation of consequences.

Response by Sgt Dennis Doty made Jul 26 at 2022 12:37 AM

Sgt Dennis Doty — Tue, 26 Jul 2022 00:37:38 -0400

I figure I'd probably end up in jail for putting an asshole in the hospital. And it would be worth it.

Response by Cpl Craig Howard made Jul 26 at 2022 1:24 AM

Cpl Craig Howard — Tue, 26 Jul 2022 01:24:07 -0400

I would quietly ask if my services could help this family in their time of need.

Response by SGT McTony King made Jul 30 at 2022 1:26 AM

SGT McTony King — Sat, 30 Jul 2022 01:26:38 -0400

I believe the very response to this question is to reflect over to the honor guards at Arlington, just one “out of line” noise or comment and that soldier is up in your face putting your ass in place where it should be, and if that isn’t enough then that soldier is authorized to do ‘what it takes’. My lord, many soldiers today are like Gumby, flaylling their arms around asking is it ok to go pee and have someone hold it for him. I remember the days when a whimp tried his damndest to be like sgt York but today many want to be like ms. Gillian and hide out on an island to avoid a bee sting. Pack up, Ruck up, and move out.

Response by Mcrey Barraquias made Aug 4 at 2022 12:39 AM

Mcrey Barraquias — Thu, 04 Aug 2022 00:39:07 -0400

I accept and I stand for salute as family passed.

Response by SGT Doug Blanchard made Aug 4 at 2022 5:53 PM

SGT Doug Blanchard — Thu, 04 Aug 2022 17:53:57 -0400

Chances are very good that a large can of whoop ass would have been opened up by me on those showing disrespect and I would be sitting in the local jail before it was over.
I live in a city that thankfully is very thankful for our military and veterans alike. Our city govt stands with us and not against us.
But I digress, there is no question about it, things would have become physical on my part very fast with idiots that want to disrespect a gold star family. I would also have some very choice words for the pilot and assistant pilot for not making an announcement over the p.a. system in the aircraft as to what and why is going on concerning this family.

Response by PO2 Dean Wilder made Aug 4 at 2022 5:59 PM

PO2 Dean Wilder — Thu, 04 Aug 2022 17:59:17 -0400

WELL, IN DAYS GONE BY ............................ KICK HIS PUNK ASS
SADLY NOW, "SIT DOWN AND SHUT YOUR FUCKING CAKE-HOLE MAGGOT!!!"

Response by Sgt Laurie Walker made Aug 5 at 2022 12:24 AM

Sgt Laurie Walker — Fri, 05 Aug 2022 00:24:51 -0400

I would be very pissed, but out of respect for the Fallen One and their family, I would hold my tongue !

Response by SP5 James Furey made Aug 5 at 2022 8:42 AM

SP5 James Furey — Fri, 05 Aug 2022 08:42:40 -0400

I too would stand and salute. I would then ask the person booing to let us know what nationality he/she was. Other passengers might take it up from there.

Response by SPC Franklin McKown made Aug 5 at 2022 3:13 PM

SPC Franklin McKown — Fri, 05 Aug 2022 15:13:30 -0400

I doubt I'd be the only one to stand up and eye fuck them.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 5 at 2022 4:56 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 05 Aug 2022 16:56:35 -0400

Trip and flail my elbow?

Response by PFC Craig Karshner made Aug 7 at 2022 9:33 AM

PFC Craig Karshner — Sun, 07 Aug 2022 09:33:11 -0400

I would stand and salute the family making sure all those who booed seen me and my eyes. Thank them for their soldier and give my condolences.

Response by SSG Todd Gregg made Aug 7 at 2022 2:37 PM

SSG Todd Gregg — Sun, 07 Aug 2022 14:37:58 -0400

This sounds like a trolling post to stir a reaction. I don’t really believe that there is someone stupid enough to do what you are suggesting.

Response by Sgt James Gross made Aug 7 at 2022 6:32 PM

Sgt James Gross — Sun, 07 Aug 2022 18:32:27 -0400

It boils down to complete lack of respect. Any reply would be futile since it would incur more disrespect directed towards you. From a personal point of view, I would like to put them on the front lines of any fighting and watch the outcome.

Response by PO2 Lawrence Moody made Aug 7 at 2022 7:11 PM

PO2 Lawrence Moody — Sun, 07 Aug 2022 19:11:06 -0400

Well, I am old with mobile issues and cannot defend myself well, never mind others. but I would not be surprised in today's America. Most certainly I would wish worse on those that would boo.
I am glad I no longer can be asked to sacrifice for these bastards.
Today it is," Know the real enemy, for they walk amongst you "

Response by CPL Brian Baumgartner made Aug 7 at 2022 8:07 PM

CPL Brian Baumgartner — Sun, 07 Aug 2022 20:07:28 -0400

Professionalism. Stand to attention, salute the casket if visible. Sinking lower by throwing your own tantrum and slinging insults and profanities at hecklers reflects less honorably on the uniform and principles than the hecklers themselves. Be a man, not an emo teenager. We are supposed to be better than that- experts and professionals at all times. Playing the pathetic tribalism game helps VALIDATE and LEGITIMIZE the disrespect that started the situation. In fact, trying to provoke and film such a display may have even been the motivation.

Response by SPC Rick Price made Aug 8 at 2022 10:47 AM

SPC Rick Price — Mon, 08 Aug 2022 10:47:36 -0400

I would feel sick and realize how non-empathetic ppl can be

Response by SGT Katherine Iwatiw Menges made Aug 8 at 2022 2:28 PM

SGT Katherine Iwatiw Menges — Mon, 08 Aug 2022 14:28:49 -0400

Would it have made a difference if the passenger had sat in the cheap seats with you? But since you asked, once booed is freedom of expression, twice booed is stupidity.

Response by CPT Jose A “Tony” Fernandez made Aug 9 at 2022 11:41 AM

CPT Jose A “Tony” Fernandez — Tue, 09 Aug 2022 11:41:33 -0400

First of all, my deepest heart-felt condolences go out to the service member’s Family, his/ her military team, friends and you, for your loss! Thank you for your service and sacrifice! Families Sacrifice, too!
As difficult AND as painful and repulsive as your narrative is, we cannot engage with-ignorant people … it really isn’t the Way-of-the Warrior we just lost. Ignore the ignorant!
Fortunately, you can control YOU and your actions alone! Keep your Military Bearings intact; although, it is not easy. Remain professional, this way you show your strength, intellect, and maturity. That is the Warrior’s Way! This way you bring Honor to Yourself and our fallen heroes! RIP

Response by PO2 Mike Keyes made Aug 10 at 2022 8:56 AM

PO2 Mike Keyes — Wed, 10 Aug 2022 08:56:48 -0400

I'm responsible for my behavior, not theirs. Lead by example; stand and/or show the appropriate respect and let their ignorant, boorish behavior reflect on them in contrast.

Response by MSG Ronnie Snider made Aug 10 at 2022 10:06 AM

MSG Ronnie Snider — Wed, 10 Aug 2022 10:06:28 -0400

Keep those people on the plane and send them to China or Russia with a never return the the USA ticket.

Response by SPC Bill Skowronski made Aug 10 at 2022 11:57 AM

SPC Bill Skowronski — Wed, 10 Aug 2022 11:57:35 -0400

I WOULD LIKE TO SAY , YES I WAS ON A PLANE AS A BODY ESCORT WHEN MY COUSINE WAS KILLED IN VIET NAM 1968. DID I CARE WHAT PEOPLE THOUGTH , HELL NO , I WAS DOING WHAT MY AUNT & UNCLE WANTED ME TO DO . A FUNERAL CAR WAS WAITING FOR US , OFF DIRECTLY TO THE FUNERAL HONE . DID I CARE ? NO , NO , HELL NO.

Response by LtCol Julio Villalba made Aug 10 at 2022 4:06 PM

LtCol Julio Villalba — Wed, 10 Aug 2022 16:06:02 -0400

I don't think I have ever heard of something like that happening. But if it did, I think that there would be a lot of pissed of people including me. My reaction would extremely emotional, immediate and probably land me in jail. But it would be worth it.

Response by SSG Matt Wilson made Aug 10 at 2022 6:20 PM

SSG Matt Wilson — Wed, 10 Aug 2022 18:20:35 -0400

That’s a hypothetical question….

Response by SPC Adon Garza made Aug 13 at 2022 10:26 AM

SPC Adon Garza — Sat, 13 Aug 2022 10:26:50 -0400

Reading the comments and getting a basic understanding of what happened, I have a few things to say:
1. I understand why AA used the therm “special” instead of “Gold Star”, due privacy issues.
2. You can’t be that smart if you didn’t put that statement together and figure out the situation.
3. It goes to show that this country is missing education and common decency. 4. Everyone is for backing the military until it conflicts with their own agenda (look at the Senate GOP related to the PACT act).

Unfortunately, I’m not surprised that such an incident happened, I’m just really disappointed that what I thought was possible as a new low for our country actually did happen.

Response by COL Victor Hagan made Aug 13 at 2022 8:38 PM

COL Victor Hagan — Sat, 13 Aug 2022 20:38:36 -0400

I'm not going to do anything on the plane or airport because I'm not going on the "No Fly List" now I'm retired and enjoy traveling. But I would take a photos/video of them doing it so I could upload it on social media for their family, co-workers, church members and neigbors felt about their behavior.

Response by SSgt Michael Bowen made Aug 18 at 2022 4:45 PM

SSgt Michael Bowen — Thu, 18 Aug 2022 16:45:20 -0400

Well i don't know for sure what i would do or say but i know i would say or do something and most likely not be able to fly on that airline again .

Response by Cpl George Matousek made Sep 3 at 2022 4:59 PM

Cpl George Matousek — Sat, 03 Sep 2022 16:59:20 -0400

I would tell to shut his mouth before something got in it he did not want thre

Response by 2LT Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 20 at 2022 10:39 AM

2LT Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 20 Sep 2022 10:39:42 -0400

I could not even imagine how pissed I would be.

Response by CPO Kurt Baschab made Oct 2 at 2022 1:54 AM

CPO Kurt Baschab — Sun, 02 Oct 2022 01:54:52 -0400

That is A Tough One,
I say this because I have never heard of anyone disrespecting a family member who has lost a loved one, not saying it has not happen , just saying I never seen, Heard of , or experienced anyone being so hateful, if I was in Uniform I most likely would ignore them, seeing how I am representing all service members, I would not want to bring disgrace upon the fallen service member , the uniform or Military service.
that being said, if I was in Civilian attire, I would lite them up, by telling them to Shut the F UP, to show some RESPECT for the family Members, who lost a loved one, if that didn't work, I then would ask how they would feel if this was there Love one, then if that didn't work, I would only point out that they are a bunch of ungrateful, Disrespectful , ASSHOLES , then leave it at that. while quietly Praying one of them would put there hands on me, so I could have them arrested then escorted off the plane, to county jail for assault and battery , I would not even lay a hand on them .

Response by CPL Linda B. made Oct 2 at 2022 2:22 PM

CPL Linda B. — Sun, 02 Oct 2022 14:22:36 -0400

I dare say that such actions may bring on unexpected Repercussions that may be a learning lesson for those that are booing....

Response by Capt Loren Morgan made Oct 14 at 2022 9:00 PM

Capt Loren Morgan — Fri, 14 Oct 2022 21:00:19 -0400

Get everyone to get pictures of the a holes and post them on you tube or somewhere Very public and humiliate the heck out of them

Response by SSgt Russell Stevens made Oct 15 at 2022 7:22 PM

SSgt Russell Stevens — Sat, 15 Oct 2022 19:22:46 -0400

After being quite offended at the display of the general passengers, I would demand a moment of silence for the deceased.

Response by SSG Douglas Shaffer made Oct 18 at 2022 6:30 PM

SSG Douglas Shaffer — Tue, 18 Oct 2022 18:30:27 -0400

Can't boo much if you're too busy spitting teeth. Sure, I may not be able to fly again but is would be worth it. I'm sure the police would treat me well during the process of arresting me.

Response by SrA Lawrence Baiocco made Oct 23 at 2022 12:41 PM

SrA Lawrence Baiocco — Sun, 23 Oct 2022 12:41:16 -0400

Sargent Weber, you’re to kind.

Response by SFC Harry Jacobs made Oct 29 at 2022 5:30 PM

SFC Harry Jacobs — Sat, 29 Oct 2022 17:30:15 -0400

I have a voice that can be here'd across the entire parade field so I am confident it would be here'd across the entire planes passengers and flight crew. I would ask all of the veterans on board and all those who would like to honor the soldier who gave his life for his country to stand up and render a hand salute to the soldiers coffin being unloaded from the belly of this plane.

Response by PO2 Rick Creed made Nov 28 at 2022 12:01 PM

PO2 Rick Creed — Mon, 28 Nov 2022 12:01:25 -0500

As a Gold Star Dad, I would start singing the Star Spangled Banner!

Response by SGT Trish Woodbury made Jan 13 at 2023 1:41 AM

SGT Trish Woodbury — Fri, 13 Jan 2023 01:41:07 -0500

Who in their right mind would do that? Is this question based on something that actually happened? If so there is no understanding this kind of self entitled rudeness. Maybe I would ask a flight attendant to allow everyone off before the booer. They would probably smile and say I wish I could.

Response by CW3 Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 13 at 2023 12:04 PM

CW3 Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 13 Jan 2023 12:04:13 -0500

Unless someone tries to physically prevent them from exiting the plane, don't react at all.
Most folks who behave that way are doing so for attention and nothing more.
Don't give it to them.

Response by CW2 Matt Baum made Jan 13 at 2023 3:28 PM

CW2 Matt Baum — Fri, 13 Jan 2023 15:28:12 -0500

I pray to never find myself in that situation. I honestly don't know how I would react.

Response by LCpl Damien Fawbush made Jan 13 at 2023 4:39 PM

LCpl Damien Fawbush — Fri, 13 Jan 2023 16:39:30 -0500

I honestly would probably do a whole lot more than tell them to shut up and it would more than likely land me in jail truth be told…..

Response by Lt Col Kathy Klein made Jan 14 at 2023 9:31 AM

Lt Col Kathy Klein — Sat, 14 Jan 2023 09:31:14 -0500

It is hard to believe that people have sunken so low. I would have asked them what the Hell was wrong with them and remind them they were there because someone gave their life so they could.

Response by SPC Steven Nihipali made Jan 14 at 2023 10:45 AM

SPC Steven Nihipali — Sat, 14 Jan 2023 10:45:01 -0500

There's not a chance I'm not knocking teeth out...I had my own horror story when I got home from Iraq... I'm rocking someone to sleep on the plane

Response by Sgt Peter McLaughlin made Jan 14 at 2023 12:04 PM

Sgt Peter McLaughlin — Sat, 14 Jan 2023 12:04:43 -0500

The person/people that boo'd the family should be told that they're not allowed to fly with them any more because of their disrespectful conduct.

Response by SGT John Shatesky made Jan 15 at 2023 9:33 AM

SGT John Shatesky — Sun, 15 Jan 2023 09:33:22 -0500

I would be honored to be part of a brothers homecoming. I would salute him and his family.,

Response by Sgt Lester Mount made Jan 15 at 2023 10:25 AM

Sgt Lester Mount — Sun, 15 Jan 2023 10:25:19 -0500

Shut up, this family's sacrifice is why you are free to speak like this and be rude, but there will be consequences when I get off the plane

Response by SGT Richard Hanson SSP/CGS made Jan 15 at 2023 11:26 AM

SGT Richard Hanson SSP/CGS — Sun, 15 Jan 2023 11:26:02 -0500

By responding either verbally or physically you only escalate the situation. The boorish bastard wants attention, don't give him what he wants. If you get within 10 feet of the clown he will probably start screaming that he has been assaulted in that case if you have the name, play the game and make sure you do a good job. I would also try to contact the family and offer them an apology for the idiot's behavior. Write them a note, give it to an airline employee and ask that it be delivered to the family.

Response by SSG Jim Husselman made Jan 15 at 2023 2:26 PM

SSG Jim Husselman — Sun, 15 Jan 2023 14:26:40 -0500

I as a professional Noncommisioned Officer would be something like" ladies and gentlemen please can we have a moment of silence for the family and a fellow service members remains to be received by the family just as we would if you had returned with your deceased loved one and for a moment show some respect and reverence for one of America's fallen Hero's please " and do so in a command tone and I would then stand and block the way of anyone but the family and flight crew.

Response by CPT Richard VanOrsdale made Jan 15 at 2023 6:29 PM

CPT Richard VanOrsdale — Sun, 15 Jan 2023 18:29:40 -0500

I would tell them to shut the f##k up and if they voiced objection, I would get up and stand right next to them giving them the best military glare I could muster.

Response by MSG David Surprenant made Jan 17 at 2023 6:10 PM

MSG David Surprenant — Tue, 17 Jan 2023 18:10:50 -0500

I might be tempted to call all other veteran and serving Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen and Marines that were aboard the plane to attention and present arms as the family deplaned. Those who've never served might think twice when they found out just how many of their fellow passengers have served or are serving to give them the freedom to be selfish assholes.

...and then, after order arms, I might make an aside to the first turd I found and tell them "there's an awful lot of "kick yer ass" hangin' around, you might want to stf up'.

Response by SSG David Nelson made Jan 19 at 2023 8:43 AM

SSG David Nelson — Thu, 19 Jan 2023 08:43:53 -0500

I would be perfectly fine with that and as I leave the plane I would pay my respect as well

Response by SPC Richard Rauenhorst made Jan 19 at 2023 12:02 PM

SPC Richard Rauenhorst — Thu, 19 Jan 2023 12:02:43 -0500

My thought would be to ask all passengers To Vote as to weather they agree or disagree with the asshole.

Response by PO2 Kenneth Correa made Jan 19 at 2023 6:33 PM

PO2 Kenneth Correa — Thu, 19 Jan 2023 18:33:42 -0500

I would enlighten them as to the proper etiquette to be observed for this situation. Oh yeah, I would also threaten them with great bodily harm.

Response by SSgt Jordan Brown made Jan 21 at 2023 12:21 PM

SSgt Jordan Brown — Sat, 21 Jan 2023 12:21:54 -0500

I would have to agree with the comments about responding in a less than friendly manner with the possibility of being sent to jail. I am Vietnam Vet and there are some things that JUST have to be respected. It has nothing to do with when or where or why. They gave their life for their country and earned and deserve the respect of everyone.
Jordan Brown - USAF - SSgt - Viet Nam

Response by Wayne Waters made Jan 22 at 2023 12:33 AM

Wayne Waters — Sun, 22 Jan 2023 00:33:27 -0500

Probably shouldn’t say what my reaction would be. It would be in support of the family and all of those who have served!

Response by LCDR Rex Schildhouse made Jan 22 at 2023 12:41 PM

LCDR Rex Schildhouse — Sun, 22 Jan 2023 12:41:27 -0500

As a pilot I have flown fallen Sailors and Marines on their journey home. We, as a crew, always instructed the passengers to remain seated until the family or escort was off the plane and the cockpit crew followed them. The cabin crew had to remain in place. We helped form the reception line. Often passengers would show their respect.
You cannot order common sense or respect. Occasionally a "disrespectful" passenger was "addressed" by other passengers.

Response by SSG Bill McCoy made Jan 22 at 2023 1:30 PM

SSG Bill McCoy — Sun, 22 Jan 2023 13:30:23 -0500

I'd request, strongly, that they not allow such an ignorant SOB to board the plane, suggesting that did that as the family boarded, they'd probably cause a disturbance one on board!

Response by 1SG James Kelly made Jan 22 at 2023 8:49 PM

1SG James Kelly — Sun, 22 Jan 2023 20:49:07 -0500

It would not br pretty.

Response by SGT William Comeau made Jan 24 at 2023 8:18 AM

SGT William Comeau — Tue, 24 Jan 2023 08:18:06 -0500

I would stand and salute them (and I am sure others would follow my lead). Then after they leave I may say a few words to the ingrates that booed them.

Response by CPL Pamela Dickerson made Jan 25 at 2023 12:33 PM

CPL Pamela Dickerson — Wed, 25 Jan 2023 12:33:12 -0500

As calmly as possible under the circumstances, remind the jackasses that are booing that the soldier being received by the family, made the ultimate sacrifice to ensure that their overly entitled, manners lacking, waste of skin a$$es could fly 1st class or any class for that matter, and show a total lack of respect and gratitude freely.

Response by SCPO Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 12 at 2023 2:26 PM

SCPO Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 12 Apr 2023 14:26:46 -0400

I'm afraid all the sensitivity courses forced on me during my 25 years would fail me. Female passengers booing would simply get a "Shut the Fuck Up." Male passengers would qualify for more physical correction.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 12 at 2023 9:26 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 12 Apr 2023 21:26:45 -0400

I would be detained by airport security for channeling my Drill Sergeant on a bad day.

Response by PO3 James Polichak made Apr 13 at 2023 1:02 AM

PO3 James Polichak — Thu, 13 Apr 2023 01:02:29 -0400

I would take that person aside and politely point out to them that they misread the situation completely. The family is there to honor and bring home their fallen hero. I would warn him, almost certainly a male who is not a vet, that had he tried that when the fallen hero's mates were present he, too, might need to be carried of the plane.

Response by PO3 James Polichak made Apr 13 at 2023 1:03 AM

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Response by A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney made Apr 13 at 2023 9:03 AM

A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney — Thu, 13 Apr 2023 09:03:12 -0400

WELL, Firsts Of All.
I Doubt This Ever Occurred.
Simply Because: "I Don't Believe A Plane Full Of People
Military OR Civilian, Would Even ALLOWED This To Have Happened".
~~~ Sorry Folks, I Just Don't Buy The Story.~~~

Response by SGT Juan Robledo made Apr 18 at 2023 8:29 PM

SGT Juan Robledo — Tue, 18 Apr 2023 20:29:22 -0400

Don’t get me started, I would tell whomever to be REPECTFUL or to STFU, either way works for me

Response by CPO Mark Westfall made Apr 19 at 2023 10:42 AM

CPO Mark Westfall — Wed, 19 Apr 2023 10:42:19 -0400

Something like "Thank you for booing my deceased son who died protecting your right to be wealthy"

Response by 2d Lt Thomas O'Reilly made Apr 20 at 2023 2:24 AM

2d Lt Thomas O'Reilly — Thu, 20 Apr 2023 02:24:41 -0400

I'd stand and applaud them, and confront those booing.
"God forbid you ever find yourselves in there shoes! They're grieving. Give them the respect & dignity they deserve. Freedom isn't free!"

Response by Sgt Gary Thompson made Apr 20 at 2023 6:09 AM

Sgt Gary Thompson — Thu, 20 Apr 2023 06:09:40 -0400

I know what I would like to do, but we are still allowed to be a A HOLE in this country in accordance with the 1st amendment. Maybe the baggage handlers could somehow lose this aholes baggage.

Response by SGT Mark Kotajarvi made Apr 20 at 2023 5:25 PM

SGT Mark Kotajarvi — Thu, 20 Apr 2023 17:25:30 -0400

I would probably go with Hey, Assholes; shut the fuck up dickheads. I have ZERO tolerance for kneelers and all that suck at being Americans. More so for those that never served in the military.

Response by SP6 Richard Kellar made Apr 21 at 2023 10:32 AM

SP6 Richard Kellar — Fri, 21 Apr 2023 10:32:40 -0400

Maybe slap the shit out of a few of them. But I was accused of a lot worse coming off the plane of my own accord from NAM. Only a protected coward would conduct themselves like that. Worse still, protected by the very military they disrespect. Same insurrectionist punks in the streets burning our nation

Response by Cpl David Clark made Apr 22 at 2023 5:43 AM

Cpl David Clark — Sat, 22 Apr 2023 05:43:17 -0400

Provide some remedial education and hope to not go to jail

Response by SSG Thomas Fuller made Apr 22 at 2023 8:44 PM

SSG Thomas Fuller — Sat, 22 Apr 2023 20:44:24 -0400

Happened on a Delta flight I was on, several young white girls started boing and the were joined by some young white males. An older Black woman stood up and told them to shut their mouths. All but one girl shut up with the remaining girl getting shriller by the moment, when the black woman jumped after her the shrill white girl she cowered in her seat and started screaming. Another black woman told her to shut up or she would give her something to scream about. She shut up.

Response by PFC Vernita Bennett made Apr 23 at 2023 9:33 PM

PFC Vernita Bennett — Sun, 23 Apr 2023 21:33:16 -0400

Explain to that person what's going on and then tell him how high speed he .

Response by Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen made Apr 23 at 2023 9:34 PM

Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen — Sun, 23 Apr 2023 21:34:03 -0400

Not well I suspect, but I would at least try to explain to the idiots why they were given priority.

Response by SGT Carl Mervyn made Apr 23 at 2023 10:01 PM

SGT Carl Mervyn — Sun, 23 Apr 2023 22:01:18 -0400

Freedom is not free. It came because of the sacrifices of these Gold Star families losses people are able to move around this country. The people who boo should not be allowed to fly at all. They definitely are not first class citizens. I’m willing to bet they are not Veterans.

Response by SGT Jason Yago made May 8 at 2023 2:18 PM

SGT Jason Yago — Mon, 08 May 2023 14:18:29 -0400

Knock his teeth out (by accident) like I tripped and he hit me with his teeth

Response by SPC Steven Nihipali made May 22 at 2023 11:59 PM

SPC Steven Nihipali — Mon, 22 May 2023 23:59:09 -0400

My flight home to Portland was adventurous. The Sgt who was supposed to stay with the casket didn't make the fight for some reason, so the pilot who was USAF NG recognized my uniform and asked why the other guy didn't make the flight... turns out, he was drunk and TSA retained him. Anyway, because I was in unified, I was allowed to take first classes if I wanted it which i didn't cause I was fine with my window seat. They have me all I wanted to eat and drink which was cool... but going to Portland, s y'all might understand, a liberal shithole...I was spit on and yelled at when we landed and I had to get off the plane first... not a very comfortable thing to do. Wasn't in the right uniform, didn't know who it was I was supposed to be looking for. Some people were crying, some shouting and cursing at us for taking so long.

If anyone has ever done a return flight as a last flight... it's not very pleasant. Honor guard recieved the casket, I had to wait until the next flight came in with that Sgt on it..a few hours in between. Anyway, some people can see it and know, others don't give a fuck about anyone who dies during service whether it be police, fire or military.

Response by SGT Erick Holmes made Jun 1 at 2023 3:31 PM

SGT Erick Holmes — Thu, 01 Jun 2023 15:31:24 -0400

Knowing me I would tell the other people shut the f up. Point blank. Who the F do people think they are for booing at a Soldier who is coming home who unfortunately paid with his life to have this MF boo at him/her's family getting off first to see their Soldier. F-ing people like WTF

Response by MSG Michael Gay made Jun 11 at 2023 11:15 AM

MSG Michael Gay — Sun, 11 Jun 2023 11:15:28 -0400

In a bold voice I would express my feelings in support of the family. I would also chastise those that had booed.

Response by SGT(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 16 at 2023 12:56 AM

SGT(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 16 Jun 2023 00:56:34 -0400

Tell them to be quiet & show some respect for a family who is grieving.

Response by CPL Larry Frias Jr made Jun 19 at 2023 12:36 PM

CPL Larry Frias Jr — Mon, 19 Jun 2023 12:36:23 -0400

Well….maybe they were politicians and don’t understand the consequences of Duty , Service and Sacrifice ….I feel so sorry for politicians…..

Response by CPL Larry Frias Jr made Jun 19 at 2023 8:21 PM

CPL Larry Frias Jr — Mon, 19 Jun 2023 20:21:15 -0400

LGBTQ = Let’s Get Biden To Quit !!!

Response by Cpl Rosemarie SantaAnna made Jul 3 at 2023 6:33 PM

Cpl Rosemarie SantaAnna — Mon, 03 Jul 2023 18:33:12 -0400

walk up to them and explain as Marine veteran this action is totally Wrong...
These Parents can never see, hold, talk or see his/her future bloom...
Not 1 thing they would do is more Important then this Family in mourning!

Response by SPC David May made Jul 8 at 2023 5:44 AM

SPC David May — Sat, 08 Jul 2023 05:44:33 -0400

I would be livid, not sure what I would do but most like the people around me would know how I felt.

Response by PO3 Troy DeGreeff made Jul 11 at 2023 6:32 AM

PO3 Troy DeGreeff — Tue, 11 Jul 2023 06:32:55 -0400

I'd be pissed! They need to put themselves in their shoes and see how it feels! Respect the veterans and current military. If it weren't for us we wouldn't be free today! Maybe this First Ckass passenger should be booted off the plane for good!

Response by PO1 Mike Meehan made Jul 12 at 2023 9:32 AM

PO1 Mike Meehan — Wed, 12 Jul 2023 09:32:16 -0400

I would point out to the errant first class passenger, that no matter what they thought of the situation, that family just lost their son/daughter and is grieving and to express their own emotional reaction to the situation is just narcissistic to the Nth degree. Remind them that we are all human beings and deserving of compassion at a time like that.

Response by Sgt Robert Altic made Jul 12 at 2023 6:21 PM

Sgt Robert Altic — Wed, 12 Jul 2023 18:21:50 -0400

I would politely tell them to respect the family of the fallen military person,

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 12 at 2023 11:06 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 12 Jul 2023 23:06:53 -0400

The Captain of the flight could have easily prevented that for the most part by making an announcement. Having been on multiple funeral details as a Drill Sergeant and witnessing for myself what people are capable of. I could not in good conscience be quiet, stand by and let someone belittle a family who is in deep grieving. My reaction would be not to yell but to directly confront those that were disrespecting the family and to reiterate to the "Booers" about the Golden Rule. It is an unspoken rule that a crowd no matter where they are be silent and respectful when a grieving family is among them making their way off of a plane or through a church, building, or cemetery.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 12 at 2023 11:07 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 12 Jul 2023 23:07:32 -0400

Response by CW3 Dan Mackey made Jul 13 at 2023 11:19 AM

CW3 Dan Mackey — Thu, 13 Jul 2023 11:19:29 -0400

I would stand up and in a loud and clear voice say," God Bless You in this time of Great loss!!!" I may even sing God Bless America. When they were clear of the plane I would help the people that Boo birded understand the pain that family was feeling OG Army way!

Response by A1C Bob Gallo made Jul 13 at 2023 12:02 PM

A1C Bob Gallo — Thu, 13 Jul 2023 12:02:10 -0400

I would be very upset almost to the point of violence against those jack assess.

Response by PFC James Correa made Jul 13 at 2023 1:36 PM

PFC James Correa — Thu, 13 Jul 2023 13:36:35 -0400

Such disrespect, obviously, they’ve never had someone that has fought for our country and given their life for the freedoms that we have.

Response by Cpl Andy Parsons made Jul 13 at 2023 2:31 PM

Cpl Andy Parsons — Thu, 13 Jul 2023 14:31:17 -0400

I would do my best to explain because of his/her sacrifice is the reason you have a right to boo. I don't agree with the booing, but you can't fix stupid. People want all of the freedoms of our Republic without seeing what it takes to keep us free. Semper Fi

Response by SPC Paul Eiden made Jul 13 at 2023 3:13 PM

SPC Paul Eiden — Thu, 13 Jul 2023 15:13:22 -0400

I would take it very personally and probably would start something without a good finish.!!!!

Response by SN Michael Tallent made Jul 13 at 2023 4:33 PM

SN Michael Tallent — Thu, 13 Jul 2023 16:33:59 -0400

Sad that the Family should go through such disrespect for the fallen. Probably never lost someone. The whole lot of them should be gravely ashamed.

Response by Sgt Trevor Sellers made Jul 13 at 2023 5:18 PM

Sgt Trevor Sellers — Thu, 13 Jul 2023 17:18:54 -0400

Even now I find it hard to believe that in America passengers would conduct themselves in such a manner. In such a scenario it would be the duty of every citizen to speak up and condemn such behavior.

Response by SFC Michael Krogmann made Jul 13 at 2023 10:35 PM

SFC Michael Krogmann — Thu, 13 Jul 2023 22:35:11 -0400

Tell them to shut their pie holes

Response by SFC Michael Krogmann made Jul 13 at 2023 11:10 PM

SFC Michael Krogmann — Thu, 13 Jul 2023 23:10:44 -0400

Tell them to go eff themselves. This soldier went above and beyond and did something selfless and outside of themselves. They weren't a self centered pretentious liberal twat

Response by Maj Kim Patterson made Jul 14 at 2023 12:52 PM

Maj Kim Patterson — Fri, 14 Jul 2023 12:52:32 -0400

Suggest they watch out the window for the flag draped casket and family to pass by, ENS Private RallyPoint Member

Response by CPO Kurt Baschab made Jul 14 at 2023 9:07 PM

CPO Kurt Baschab — Fri, 14 Jul 2023 21:07:11 -0400

I am not sure, I have never been in that situation, nor have I ever seen it happen , I most Likely Would Tell ask him to Please show some Respect, for the fallen Hero, sadly & most likely this type of human being just does not listen, so if my request for him to show some respect to the family of the fallen hero did not work, I would a very politely effort to request him to please shut up and sit down before something really bad happens, mostly I just pray I am no where near him , I no longer have much tolerance for Rudeness, for if he is within arms length of me, I would show him what true Disrespect looks like, and would have to call a friend for bail money.

Response by SCPO John Fening made Jul 15 at 2023 5:44 AM

SCPO John Fening — Sat, 15 Jul 2023 05:44:36 -0400

Being a rather rough and gruff E-8 MMCS/ss with a voice that can sing out over the noise of running diesels, flank bell in the Engineering Space. Well I'd get block the aisle and calmly inform the "peanut gallery to SHUT-UP until the family gets off the plane. And only then will this disabled 350 lb man move out of the aisle. Anyone trying to charge past me had better bring friends cause they ain't going anywhere quickly. And YES I have had run-ins with Airport Security/Police Force. May all families of fallen HERO's never be put in this position or be forced to endure any sort of whatever not while I still draw a breath. All gave some, Some gave all!

Response by LCpl Robert Michaud made Jul 16 at 2023 8:55 AM

LCpl Robert Michaud — Sun, 16 Jul 2023 08:55:20 -0400

People are ignorant! These people just lost a love one and they do this. How would they feel if it was them. I would loudly explain this salute the family and go at the passengers again. They would be more angry if they know the casket comes off first then their bags. Honor our fallen first! Semper Fi.

Response by SPC Phil Ramos made Jul 16 at 2023 10:41 AM

SPC Phil Ramos — Sun, 16 Jul 2023 10:41:53 -0400

As mush as I would like to make a scene, its worthless to argue with absolute ignorance and I would get nowhere except to escalate the situation. If others would first rise up and shout the asshole down, I would join.

Response by PO1 William Wilson made Jul 16 at 2023 2:59 PM

PO1 William Wilson — Sun, 16 Jul 2023 14:59:36 -0400

I find it hard to believe that anyone could be that crass and so disrespectful. They deserve to be sat on and kept quiet by all the other passengers until the family has deplaned. Then they should be the very last one to deplane and given an offer to truly receive their just dues so they will never boo a fallen comrade's family or to show any disrespect for anyone in the armed forces.

Response by CPO David Ransom made Jul 17 at 2023 12:47 AM

CPO David Ransom — Mon, 17 Jul 2023 00:47:16 -0400

It seems like every time I get cocky, life slaps me upside the head. Take a good look and burn them into your memory. You never know if they might need something from you in the future. Turn and walk away.

Response by CPL T.A. Nelson made Jul 17 at 2023 9:48 AM

CPL T.A. Nelson — Mon, 17 Jul 2023 09:48:44 -0400

If it is known that the family is receiving a fallen soldier, I believe my training would kick in. I would use my command voice to convey, the fact that a soldier and their family will get the respect they deserve for their sacrifice. If anyone wanted to question that basic idea, they could find me after everyone had gotten off the plane...

Response by SGM Larry Jones made Jul 17 at 2023 10:30 AM

SGM Larry Jones — Mon, 17 Jul 2023 10:30:27 -0400

Our society is becoming non complacent with the one who gave all for all.

Response by LCpl Michael Cappello made Jul 17 at 2023 4:52 PM

LCpl Michael Cappello — Mon, 17 Jul 2023 16:52:52 -0400

I would love to call for volunteers. Volunteers to receive a sharp and rapid THROAT PUNCH. All they should have had to hear was MILITARY. These are the same pieces of excrement that will "Thank You for Your Service" while they are voting for Biden or Sanders.

Response by PFC Stanley Klatka made Jul 18 at 2023 12:00 PM

PFC Stanley Klatka — Tue, 18 Jul 2023 12:00:07 -0400

I would have to kick everyone's ass.

Response by SSG Steve Knox made Jul 29 at 2023 10:04 PM

SSG Steve Knox — Sat, 29 Jul 2023 22:04:06 -0400

I would stand up and salute, Thanking the family members for their fallen warrior's service.

Response by SPC Jonathan Lee made Aug 2 at 2023 10:46 AM

SPC Jonathan Lee — Wed, 02 Aug 2023 10:46:03 -0400

I will shout in standing at attention.
"Ten-Hut!!
We have a hero among with us, and also have an asshole with us!
Show your respect to our fallen to not be forgotten hero!"

Response by TSgt Ken Richter made Aug 17 at 2023 3:03 AM

TSgt Ken Richter — Thu, 17 Aug 2023 03:03:51 -0400

I'd yell at them an ear full and add that my brave child in the casket had done more for this country than that faggy ass worthless snowflake and his lazy family had ever done in their lives. I'd add that that if he's going to be so disrespectful, he should either move to North Korea where he will get the regime he desires or just do us all a favor and kill himself.

Response by Cpl George Matousek made Aug 27 at 2023 4:21 PM

Cpl George Matousek — Sun, 27 Aug 2023 16:21:17 -0400

I would probably something like what the SFC said below, only really loud. Semper Fi

Response by SPC Paul Eiden made Sep 1 at 2023 11:18 PM

SPC Paul Eiden — Fri, 01 Sep 2023 23:18:20 -0400

I would have to get in the face of anyone that booed!!! I probably would be in trouble after.....

Response by SGT John Shatesky made Sep 2 at 2023 12:08 PM

SGT John Shatesky — Sat, 02 Sep 2023 12:08:56 -0400

Honored to allow. Would salute the family and their loved one. I’m a Viet vet.

Response by SSG Jeffrey Leake made Sep 22 at 2023 1:15 PM

SSG Jeffrey Leake — Fri, 22 Sep 2023 13:15:01 -0400

Punch them dead in the face. I may go to jail for assault, but it'd be worth it.

Response by Sgt Laurie Walker made Sep 23 at 2023 6:18 PM

Sgt Laurie Walker — Sat, 23 Sep 2023 18:18:40 -0400

It would be very hard to not get pissed but I would try to explain to the person or persons exactly what was going on. Maybe they honestly don't know what is going on. But if they were just being complete assholes, yes I would go off on them.

Response by SSG Michael Fabian made Sep 25 at 2023 2:53 AM

SSG Michael Fabian — Mon, 25 Sep 2023 02:53:33 -0400

I would ask the person making the disrespectful remarks to please be quiet and think about what they are saying. What if they were in this situation. How rude you are to act like you have no morals!

Response by MAJ Ron Peery made Sep 25 at 2023 11:17 AM

MAJ Ron Peery — Mon, 25 Sep 2023 11:17:22 -0400

I seldom fly, and when I do I sit in the cheap seats. I'd probably never see or even hear the whining clown who booed. But if I happened to be within arms reach, I'd likely twist his or her nose.

Response by LT William Pellegrini made Sep 25 at 2023 3:54 PM

LT William Pellegrini — Mon, 25 Sep 2023 15:54:39 -0400

Something I'm sure. Like getting up and pointing out that these people were there to take possession of their sons/daughters body. A person who died serving this country. A person who gave her/his all so that you could boo their parents for getting a little bit of priority on leaving the plane. Might start it off with "I want to Thank You All!" Hopefully that gets their attention so that I can make them feel like the fools they are for booing someone who is their to receive the body of a loved one.

Response by SFC Kevin Childers made Sep 30 at 2023 11:35 PM

SFC Kevin Childers — Sat, 30 Sep 2023 23:35:39 -0400

Come to attention salute.

After the family has gotten off express your disdain for those who booed as you see fit.

Response by SSG Shawn Mcfadden made Oct 7 at 2023 8:11 PM

SSG Shawn Mcfadden — Sat, 07 Oct 2023 20:11:55 -0400

I would be appalled and angry.

Response by SN Shirley Symon made Oct 21 at 2023 10:24 AM

SN Shirley Symon — Sat, 21 Oct 2023 10:24:18 -0400

I would tell how ashamed I am of them and that is the reason the world is the way it because of selfish people but only AFTER the family has been given the honor their loved one earned.

Response by LT William Pellegrini made Oct 21 at 2023 4:01 PM

LT William Pellegrini — Sat, 21 Oct 2023 16:01:59 -0400

Well, I might get a bit emotional and stand up, yell "Attention" in a very loud voice, and then go into a brief description of why they should allow the parents of a dead military man/woman who gave their life so that all the people in this airplane could fly anywhere they wanted, knowing it is safe to do. All because these parents of a man or woman gave their lives to insure your freedom. It might be a good act to show some respect for the sacrifice of a loved one. NO?
I realize I might bet stoned or even shot, but most people in this country don't truly understand what it is that the relatives of people in the military experience. Especially when the loved one is in a war zone. Sometimes one needs a slap in the face to get the picture.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 21 at 2023 11:00 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 21 Oct 2023 23:00:52 -0400

I have doubts that your comment ever occurred. If I am wrong please provide dates and location, other than facebook.

Response by PO3 Carol Coring made Oct 22 at 2023 12:24 AM

PO3 Carol Coring — Sun, 22 Oct 2023 00:24:20 -0400

I'm afraid they would receive a lecture on respect while awaiting their departure.

Response by HA Ronna Crowder made Nov 2 at 2023 12:40 PM

HA Ronna Crowder — Thu, 02 Nov 2023 12:40:30 -0400

I would stand and salute the family. They lost enough i their lives without being shown disrespect from a bunch of yahoos.

Response by SSG Eric Blue made Nov 27 at 2023 7:15 PM

SSG Eric Blue — Mon, 27 Nov 2023 19:15:04 -0500

I'd try to be courteous and respectful in voicing my disapproval for their disrespect. And if THAT didn't work, I'd yell at them to "STFU!!! There's a g--damn fallen hero here! Show some respect!" Then, I'd render the salute.

Response by PFC Edward Krinsky made Dec 24 at 2023 10:57 AM

PFC Edward Krinsky — Sun, 24 Dec 2023 10:57:55 -0500

I would accost him and ask him to explain his actions. His response would dictate further action.....

Response by Cpl Craig Howard made Dec 27 at 2023 5:41 PM

Cpl Craig Howard — Wed, 27 Dec 2023 17:41:20 -0500

I would silently join the family to pay respects to their loved one, as well as some extra security in case the disrespect grows more bold. I am not a tiny person and as a Marine I found that I could often defuse situations by saying nothing.

Response by SGT Mark Rhodes made Dec 31 at 2023 3:30 PM

SGT Mark Rhodes — Sun, 31 Dec 2023 15:30:28 -0500

I know how I would react. I would show my respect to the family of the fallen warrior.

Response by CMDCM Gene Treants made Jan 1 at 2024 1:09 AM

CMDCM Gene Treants — Mon, 01 Jan 2024 01:09:06 -0500

I would ask the person to meet me outside as soon as we are allowed to deplane so I could explain, as a CHIEF, exactly why s/he is wrong in expressing his childlike attitude.

Response by SPC Matt Ovaska made Jan 1 at 2024 8:05 AM

SPC Matt Ovaska — Mon, 01 Jan 2024 08:05:53 -0500

I would assume the flight had landed in the East or West coast. The detail was there to keep them from spitting on the casket.

Response by Sgt Tom Gainer made Jan 1 at 2024 11:18 AM

Sgt Tom Gainer — Mon, 01 Jan 2024 11:18:31 -0500

You can’t fix stupid ! Unfortunately in this Country there seems to be a lot of it today.

Response by SPC John Frisosky made Jan 2 at 2024 6:19 AM

SPC John Frisosky — Tue, 02 Jan 2024 06:19:21 -0500

I would stand in silence out if respect for my fallen brother or sister as well for the family or escort detail. If confronted if would say that the person in that casket sacrifice

Response by SPC John Frisosky made Jan 2 at 2024 6:20 AM

SPC John Frisosky — Tue, 02 Jan 2024 06:20:20 -0500

Sacrificed their life for me I can sacrifice a few extra minutes on this aircraft.

Response by SPC John Frisosky made Jan 2 at 2024 6:30 AM

SPC John Frisosky — Tue, 02 Jan 2024 06:30:51 -0500

I would stand in silence for the family or escort detail and ifg questioned I would say that brother or sister gave it all for me, I can give a few extra minutes of my freedom for them.

Response by SSgt Bob Mobbs made Jan 5 at 2024 7:53 AM

SSgt Bob Mobbs — Fri, 05 Jan 2024 07:53:01 -0500

While the family was leaving I would ignore the ignorant morons who were booing and say a prayer for the soul of my fallen comrade and for the comfort of the family. After they were off the plane I would would make my distaste for their actions known to the morons.

Response by SSG Manuela Loth made Jan 5 at 2024 9:26 AM

SSG Manuela Loth — Fri, 05 Jan 2024 09:26:17 -0500

I would ignore those creatures. Just like you cannot teach a worm to read, it's impossible for them to understand the significance of their cruelty and ignorance. Instead, I will salute the families, thank them for their bravery, and remember that there are many of us despite the few who are noticed due to their obnoxious behavior.

Response by 1stSgt Daryl Allen made Jan 25 at 2024 9:46 PM

1stSgt Daryl Allen — Thu, 25 Jan 2024 21:46:38 -0500

It would take all my control not to punch them in the mouth. My immediate family, from my father (30 year career total), my 20, and my youngest son with his soon to be 20 years will have served 70 years for our Country. I don't tolerate disrespect very well.

Response by 1SG John Millan made Jan 27 at 2024 1:46 PM

1SG John Millan — Sat, 27 Jan 2024 13:46:03 -0500

I'd get a court date for dimple assault

Response by MSgt Harry Campbell made Feb 5 at 2024 7:54 PM

MSgt Harry Campbell — Mon, 05 Feb 2024 19:54:41 -0500

I would not do anything. All that matters is the Gold Star family is getting off the plane first. All Americans do not respect what military members and their families go through in service of this country. I can speak for myself as for my action. I would try to get off the plane and stand a respectful distance away and salute the military member for his or her duty and service to this country and the family for their lost. Lives are being turned upside down and a person can sit and Boo a Gold Star family...that's a freedom that is available only in America.

Response by SGT Glenn E Moody made Feb 21 at 2024 12:08 AM

SGT Glenn E Moody — Wed, 21 Feb 2024 00:08:28 -0500

i would be very angery and say shut the fck up and if they didn't shut up I would be going to jail for smacking them in the mouth disrespect total disrespect I am A VETERAN SGT AT ARMS & HONOR GUARD I wouldn't stand for that kind of disrespect period

Response by SPC Adrian LaPene made Feb 22 at 2024 12:24 PM

SPC Adrian LaPene — Thu, 22 Feb 2024 12:24:18 -0500

Nothing. If you need it explained to you, you have more wrong than I have time to fix

Response by SGT Michael Koukaras made Feb 22 at 2024 10:23 PM

SGT Michael Koukaras — Thu, 22 Feb 2024 22:23:48 -0500

I wouldn't react very well, I can tell you that for free.

Response by SSG James Nelson made Feb 24 at 2024 12:24 PM

SSG James Nelson — Sat, 24 Feb 2024 12:24:55 -0500

Id Go Rage Crazy

Response by MAJ Luis Hernandez made Feb 26 at 2024 12:26 AM

MAJ Luis Hernandez — Mon, 26 Feb 2024 00:26:36 -0500

I would walk up to that individual and slap them in the face or spit in their face. I would have no qualms about doing that at all.

Response by MGySgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 27 at 2024 2:09 PM

MGySgt Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 27 Feb 2024 14:09:59 -0500

As f*ck'd up as so many people are nowadays, I seriously doubt that would ever happen. Don't try to convince me otherwise.

Response by PO1 David Kingsley made Mar 5 at 2024 2:54 AM

PO1 David Kingsley — Tue, 05 Mar 2024 02:54:23 -0500

simply state "when you're picking up you Dead Family Members body, then you can get priority debarkation too"