If you had one piece of advice to a brand new Private, what would you say?

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:25:36 -0500

Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 21 at 2018 2:27 PM

Sgt Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:27:37 -0500

SPC Private RallyPoint Member You will make mistakes, so learn from them, and do not make the same mistake twice.

Response by Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS made Feb 21 at 2018 2:31 PM

Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:31:30 -0500

Everyone you meet will be a leadership example. Some will be a positive example (what to do) and some will be a negative example (what not to do). Learn who to emulate and who not to.

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made Feb 21 at 2018 2:33 PM

MAJ Ken Landgren — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:33:34 -0500

Do your best in all aspects of your life and career.

Response by MSG Charles Turner made Feb 21 at 2018 2:34 PM

MSG Charles Turner — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:34:18 -0500

Soldier,

Keep your Eyes OPEN, your lips closed and your attention on all that is around you. You are about to experience what should be the most life changing and life saving experiences you may ever encounter.

Learn to listen (and hear), Observe (and acknowledge), Make Mental Notes of all (if you cant make mental notes carry a pencil and paper and write them down) and Follow Instructions dont try to be a Hero.

Once you have some time under your belt, then question ... Until then reserve question to that of clarity.

Response by SPC Margaret Higgins made Feb 21 at 2018 2:34 PM

SPC Margaret Higgins — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:34:21 -0500

SPC Private RallyPoint Member: Keep moving. Keep your eyes open; and, your ears alert. You can learn from Privates on up; and, from Generals on down. Private: you are a professional; and, as such, are a part of one of the greatest teams in the world!
Most Lovingly, Margaret C. Higgins U.S. Army Retired

Response by SSG(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 21 at 2018 2:34 PM

SSG(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:34:38 -0500

Decide if the Army is a career or a launchpad for you. I always recommend to PCS and serve at 2 Duty stations before making that decision. For the first couple years in the Army, be a sponge and learn to adapt quickly to change. Do everything you can to become the most efficient and professional Soldier at your job and don’t take any task given lightly. Always plan to be at least one pay grade ahead of your peers. Stand out because if you’re hanging out in the shadows, you’re probably doing something wrong. Kind of a loaded question brother but find yourself a mentor that you envision yourself being and follow them throughout your career and go to them at every opportunity for advice. Good luck in your Army Career brother!

Response by Capt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 21 at 2018 2:35 PM

Capt Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:35:21 -0500

You have two ears and one mouth for a reason. Listen more and talk less.

Response by SGT Dave Matteson made Feb 21 at 2018 2:36 PM

SGT Dave Matteson — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:36:35 -0500

listen...Listen...LISTEN! Learn, understand and know your job. Be aware of your surroundings whether in a war zone or in a training environment.

EDIT: Do not fall into the clique rut. Be yourself. Observe your NCOs and officers because there will come a time when YOU will have to fill their shoes.

Response by Maj John Bell made Feb 21 at 2018 2:36 PM

Maj John Bell — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:36:36 -0500

Can't do it in one... How about three?
1) Mouth shut... Eyes and ears open...
2) Immediate intelligent obedience.
3) If you understand what and how, but do not understand why, save your questions until after you have completed the task at hand.

Response by SFC Stephen Atchley made Feb 21 at 2018 2:39 PM

SFC Stephen Atchley — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:39:09 -0500

Be where you are supposed to be, in the right uniform, with the right equipment. Do what you are supposed to do, when you are supposed to do it. Once you have some experience; begin demonstrating initiative. Listen and watch. Always.

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 21 at 2018 2:39 PM

MAJ Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:39:44 -0500

I'd say the same thing I tell every new soldier. If you can consistently be in the right place, at the right time, and in the right uniform you will have a long and successful career. 99% of the negative attention in the Army is focused on those that can't do those 3 things. And even if you're falling short in other areas, if you can do those three things, people will work with you because they know they can count on you.

Response by SGM Bill Frazer made Feb 21 at 2018 2:41 PM

SGM Bill Frazer — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:41:26 -0500

Keep your mouth shut, your ears open

Response by Lt Col Diana Echols made Feb 21 at 2018 2:44 PM

Lt Col Diana Echols — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:44:33 -0500

There is excellent advice in this thread - I found something useful in almost all of them. Lesson there - in the military you will be surrounded by mentors. Find a good one.

Response by LT Charles Baird made Feb 21 at 2018 2:44 PM

LT Charles Baird — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:44:48 -0500

A lot of young enlisted get into financial trouble so I would say;

1. Learn to live within your financial means; budget and save 20% of your money especially if you are new and have no bills like a car payment or mortgage, etc.. The nice vehicles and house will come in due time

2. Set your goals for your career whether you plan on doing 4 or 20+ and work to achieve those goals

3. Glean the knowledge of those that have it but test your sources for integrity; just because someone has more rank does not mean they should be followed

4. Do right to your comrades always and don't be afraid to call out those that are doing wrong as your integrity is more important than your career - careers will come and go but your integrity follows you throughout your life.

5. As you travel to different countries take time to get to know the people and culture - don't let the media or your peers over influence your perspective - I found throughout my 32 years that 90% of what I learned in school or saw in the media about other cultures was total B.S. and only represented about 10% or less of the people/culture I encountered in said countries.

6. Have fun; travel to new places to expand your horizons; make friends; love, laugh and live.

Response by SPC David Willis made Feb 21 at 2018 2:47 PM

SPC David Willis — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:47:08 -0500

Right time, right place, right uniform. That's a solid 75% of your job right there.

Response by CSM Darieus ZaGara made Feb 21 at 2018 2:47 PM

CSM Darieus ZaGara — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:47:10 -0500

Follow the rules of your organization, keep grooming standards at a very high state giving no one reason to question you, quit smoking, drink Responsibly if at all. Listen to your leadership, learn all that you can and take on extra, speak when spoken to and stay away from those who try to tell you how to “just get by”. Thank you for your service.

Response by SGT Joseph Gunderson made Feb 21 at 2018 2:49 PM

SGT Joseph Gunderson — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:49:51 -0500

It's just a job, treat it as such; it isn't everything that you are or will ever be. What I mean by this is do not sacrifice everything else in your life for the job. Being a hard charger is fine, working late, taking care of the men, performing the mission, these are all necessary. But do not work late every single night when you have a family at home that you are neglecting. Do not volunteer time after time for things that cause you to stay away when you know that relationships are falling apart. Make time for what you love outside the military; have a hobby, spend time with friends, have fun. When it is all said and done, whether you do your four and get out or retire with 20+ years, you will be out and it will be over. Make sure that you have something when you don't have the military anymore. This will also make getting out a whole lot easier because you will have those parts of your life that were not associated with the military, things that you can look back on and look forward to, that will still be there for you (family, friends, hobbies, etc).

Response by SFC Greg Bruorton made Feb 21 at 2018 2:51 PM

SFC Greg Bruorton — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:51:28 -0500

Endure to the end--in all things.

Response by MSG Dan Castaneda made Feb 21 at 2018 2:51 PM

MSG Dan Castaneda — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:51:43 -0500

You do not need to understand everything you are told to do. You do not have to like everything you are told to do. You do not have to like your leaders. They are not your friend. You do not deserve anything unless you work for it. Get in the best shape you possibly can, and go do good things for God and Country.

Response by LCDR Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 21 at 2018 2:52 PM

LCDR Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:52:16 -0500

Disclaimer: Female specific.
Do NOT try to be 'one of the guys'. You are not one of the guys. Hang out with them, be cool with them, but don't try to be one of them. Approach them as if they are your brothers and you are their sister.
Do not fall for the first one that says he 'loves' you. Unless things have changed since I was a junior enlisted female (many, many, many years ago) some-- not all, but some-- of the guys place bets on who will be the first to 'score' with the 'fresh meat'. And they do keep score. Set a time-- give it 6 months-- that you are not going to date anyone you work with and STICK WITH IT. If someone really likes you that much-- he'll wait. (Dates are okay, but nothing physical.)
If a supervisor is acting a little too friendly, that is NOT OKAY!!! What IS okay is telling said supervisor that you are not comfortable with his level of 'friendliness'. (After all, it could be misinterpreted overzealous mentoring.) If he doesn't respond appropriately-- as in, either explains that he didn't mean for you to interpret it 'that way' or stop the behavior-- bring it to the attention of another NCO. The vast majority of guys out there are your allies and will help you.
Never, never, NEVER turn your back on a drink unless you left it in the hands of someone you know and trust with your life. Don't let someone bring you an open drink unless you had eyes on it from the time it was opened/poured until it got to your hands. Always have a 'battle buddy' (male or female-- but again, someone you trust with your life) if you are going to be drinking to the point of intoxication, and DO NOT suffer in silence if you think you got drugged. Get loud, get help, and get out of the situation FAST. (Good advice for anyone-- not just women.)

None of this is meant to make the guys look bad or to make you think you are unsafe. The vast majority of guys I have worked with over the past 20 years have been fantastic and supportive. Some have not, and it only takes one to be a creep. I met my husband at work-- a LOT of military women meet their eventual significant others through the military. I'm just cautioning you to be very careful while you are very young and still a little starry-eyed and naïve.

And no-- I'm not making any judgments about you or your character. I'm giving you the advice I wish I would have been given when I was in your shoes. It would have saved me a lot of regrets.

Response by PFC Jim Wheeler made Feb 21 at 2018 2:52 PM

PFC Jim Wheeler — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:52:46 -0500

"It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to open one's mouth and remove all doubt."

Response by TSgt David Holman made Feb 21 at 2018 2:56 PM

TSgt David Holman — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 14:56:33 -0500

Listen.... listen.... listen. Don't be "afraid" of those in charge, but show them respect. Remember that you are now part of something bigger than self, and that you have to give the same level of dedication to your fellow soldier that you would expect from them. Take responsibility for your failures, and learn to give credit for success to those who helped you achieve.

Response by LCDR Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 21 at 2018 3:07 PM

LCDR Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 15:07:12 -0500

Potential is interesting...performance counts.

Response by SGT Eric Davis made Feb 21 at 2018 3:08 PM

SGT Eric Davis — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 15:08:49 -0500

Do the best you can and try you hardest to advance your career. I understand you are young and want to hang out with your friends but remember this is your career and your future so try to make the best of it.

Response by SSG Will Phillips made Feb 21 at 2018 3:21 PM

SSG Will Phillips — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 15:21:12 -0500

Shut up, listen and learn.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 21 at 2018 3:48 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 15:48:20 -0500

Welcome to Easy, you'll be told everything you need to know. Just follow directions and you'll be just fine.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 21 at 2018 3:55 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 15:55:14 -0500

Be at the right place, at the right time, in the right uniform.

Response by Jordan Gaudard made Feb 21 at 2018 4:09 PM

Jordan Gaudard — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 16:09:08 -0500

Don't date, marry or have relationships with anyone in your company. It always ends up bad. Only 1% of the population is able to serve, that means you have a lot of people to choose from.

Response by PO2 Patrick Seibert made Feb 21 at 2018 4:09 PM

PO2 Patrick Seibert — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 16:09:39 -0500

Keep your head down, never speak up unless you know what you're talking about, or have a real question. Work your ass off to get somewhere, and never accept half measures.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 21 at 2018 4:23 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 16:23:10 -0500

I would say pay attention to your Squad Leader, Section SGT and learn from your fellow peers who are squared away as a Soldier. Pattern your future leadership philosophy off of a leader who exemplifies the values of leadership.

Response by PV2 Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 21 at 2018 4:42 PM

PV2 Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 16:42:59 -0500

Right place at the right time in the right uniform

Response by Lt Col Bill Fletcher made Feb 21 at 2018 7:18 PM

Lt Col Bill Fletcher — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 19:18:06 -0500

Show up on time in the correct uniform

Response by CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 21 at 2018 7:52 PM

CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 19:52:51 -0500

Always give your best effort, whether anyone is watching or not. It will become a habit and pay dividends over time. That's the one-liner answer. More in depth is what I used often:

1. Do your job. (harder than it sounds because part of your job is training yourself to be able to serve at least one paygrade higher without the unit losing any forward progress)

2. Look out for the guys on your flanks. (self-explanatory)

3. Keep your leaders informed. (bad news doesn't get better with age, it's best to own up early to your mistakes and learn from them, you'll also build credibility with your leaders and that's hard to come by, once lost you rarely earn it back)

Response by SPC Joseph Wojcik made Feb 21 at 2018 9:02 PM

SPC Joseph Wojcik — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 21:02:17 -0500

Try not to get burned out and make the most of your off time.
Take some college courses. Get a hobby. It's nice to hangout with your battle buddies, but try to make some civilian friends.

Response by LTJG Richard Bruce made Feb 21 at 2018 9:06 PM

LTJG Richard Bruce — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 21:06:06 -0500

Keep quiet, do what you are told, show up on time, learn, learn, learn.
Aboard ship; if you don't know what something does - don't touch it, if something is moving - secure it, if something is secured - paint it.

Response by SGT Ty Henderson made Feb 21 at 2018 10:19 PM

SGT Ty Henderson — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 22:19:25 -0500

Volunteer for everything!!

Response by SGT Christopher Hayden made Feb 21 at 2018 11:00 PM

SGT Christopher Hayden — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 23:00:55 -0500

Don't let the "Negative Nancies" bring down your morale. Just because they are hating life in the Army, doesn't mean you have to.

Response by SPC(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 21 at 2018 11:23 PM

SPC(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 23:23:37 -0500

Don't fuck up.... try your best to excel at everything you can strive for 300 AFPT. But always pass AFPT. Listen and do as your told don't ask why or ask other questions. Learn from your squad leader and the other higher ranking soldiers In your unit with your rank that means everyone. Always be someone that gets stuff done. If they ask for volunteers then volunteer as much as possible it looks good in eyes of leadership

Response by SGT Aaron Atwood made Feb 22 at 2018 12:00 AM

SGT Aaron Atwood — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 00:00:09 -0500

Ask questions, and keep asking them. Best way to learn, and it'll show your leadership you're ready and willing. Heck depending on the question it might keep them on their toes too.

Response by PV2 Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 22 at 2018 12:20 AM

PV2 Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 00:20:29 -0500

Pt is free

Response by MSgt John McGowan made Feb 22 at 2018 7:43 AM

MSgt John McGowan — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 07:43:26 -0500

PV2 My one piece advise would be" Make yourself proud" Do your best and be successiful. Don't let you as a woman slow you down. Luck to you and pleae advise how yo are doing.

Response by Sgt Peter Hill made Feb 22 at 2018 7:48 AM

Sgt Peter Hill — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 07:48:02 -0500

Enjoy every minute! It's the best experience of your life.

Response by MSgt John McGowan made Feb 22 at 2018 8:04 AM

MSgt John McGowan — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 08:04:03 -0500

PV2 Mary cartwright-- You have been given some of the best advise You can get. Now it your turn.

Response by SSgt Jim Gilmore made Feb 22 at 2018 8:22 AM

SSgt Jim Gilmore — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 08:22:59 -0500

Keep your pie hole closed, your ears open, forget everything you have heard about the military and make your brain a sponge. Take in ALL you are told and you should make a fine soldier.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 22 at 2018 8:31 AM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 08:31:17 -0500

Just shut up. Don't speak. Don't believe a word from anyone who does not have a picture on your company chain of command board. Privates are liars and PNN will always get you scuffed up. I learned all this the hard way.

Response by SSG Jose M. Hernandezsanchez made Feb 22 at 2018 9:12 AM

SSG Jose M. Hernandezsanchez — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 09:12:34 -0500

You are in command of your own career. Only you make the determination how far you want to go regardless of the leadership above you.

Response by SGT Josheua Cooke made Feb 22 at 2018 11:34 AM

SGT Josheua Cooke — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 11:34:04 -0500

Response by TSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 22 at 2018 3:39 PM

TSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 15:39:33 -0500

Dont suck.
Rule 1 . always look cool.

Response by Sgt Robert Bynum made Feb 22 at 2018 4:12 PM

Sgt Robert Bynum — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 16:12:59 -0500

Keep your mouth shut and you’re eyes and ears open.

Response by SPC Elijah J. Henry, MBA made Feb 22 at 2018 5:30 PM

SPC Elijah J. Henry, MBA — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 17:30:23 -0500

Do what makes sense until told otherwise.

Response by SPC Steven Glass made Feb 22 at 2018 6:06 PM

SPC Steven Glass — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 18:06:26 -0500

In all sincere honesty, anyone who is going into the military now, I make it a point to sit them down and tell them that if they are making this choice to just get away from home, rethink your options. I always tell them to push themselves to learn as much as they can and if you can do 4 years, then 8 is a breeze, then 12 comes in the blink of an eye, and before you know it you will be staring a 20 year retirement in the face.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 22 at 2018 9:20 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 21:20:59 -0500

Don't be a blue falcon! Don't fuck your buddies .

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 22 at 2018 10:29 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 22:29:56 -0500

Start studying for the board, and be a high-speed soldier. So you can get promoted faster, don't wait until last minute and never doubt to ask questions.

Response by CSM Elmer Feick Jr. made Feb 22 at 2018 11:10 PM

CSM Elmer Feick Jr. — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 23:10:34 -0500

Live the Army Values and Warrior Ethos everyday of your life and in everything you do....that simple....the rest will take care of itself

P.S. Stay away from the shitheads who don't....they will only bring you down

Response by MSG John Duchesneau made Feb 22 at 2018 11:58 PM

MSG John Duchesneau — Thu, 22 Feb 2018 23:58:36 -0500

Say as little as possible and learn as much as possible. Try to find a good friend who is a little more older, experienced and wiser than you and learn from him. Good luck! (Remember that every old sergeant was once a young private.)

Response by SPC James Jones made Feb 23 at 2018 5:52 AM

SPC James Jones — Fri, 23 Feb 2018 05:52:15 -0500

Show leadership every change you get, the quicker you'll move up in rank.

Response by SGT Jody Beach made Feb 23 at 2018 2:18 PM

SGT Jody Beach — Fri, 23 Feb 2018 14:18:30 -0500

RUN, ...lol no.... j/k correspondence courses, night college, volunteer for stuff ie parades, post repairs, driver. etc./.... I was a mechanic but I ran a snow plow team, security, mobile maintenance team, renovated day rooms and other offices, processed in Humvee when they came out, TDY orders to ride a ship with the vehicles to Korea.
You military career is more than just standing in formation and following orders. "Be all you can be". Take advantage of where you are. You are young and have the world in front of you.
Look for extra assignments. I am not talking about CQ or mess hall duty.
You never know you might find yourself flying around in a helicopter just for fun.
Seriously ,,, get college, become an officer.... the pay is better and 20 years go fast. You will have forgotten 90% of the people your with right now. They will always be your family but you will forget about them... Well until your 50 and start looking back....
Good Luck

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2018 9:10 AM

PFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 24 Feb 2018 09:10:41 -0500

Learn Quick , don’t lose TA-50

Response by SFC Thomas Nichols made Feb 24 at 2018 9:33 AM

SFC Thomas Nichols — Sat, 24 Feb 2018 09:33:59 -0500

You know, my wife and I attended "high school night" (our daughter starts ninth grade next year) and at the end they had a panel of high school students so the parents and students could ask questions. A young lady asked the panel what should she do to prepare for high school. One of the gals on the panel answered by saying, "you shouldn't do anything, everything you are doing now is preparing you. Don't be afraid, be excited, you will be ready and you should look forward to the changes and learning that will come." (I'm paraphrasing, but it's pretty close). I would say the same to someone going to basic training. You should be working out, pushups/situps/run, but other than that just be excited and look forward to the changes. Good luck!

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2018 11:16 AM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 24 Feb 2018 11:16:02 -0500

Thank you to everyone who has responded to this question. Now it comes down to what we do with wise words that counts to making a good future.

Response by SGT Thomas Mitchell made Feb 24 at 2018 11:41 AM

SGT Thomas Mitchell — Sat, 24 Feb 2018 11:41:25 -0500

You will be seldom in a situation where you are unnoticed. Conduct yourself appropriately at all times while learning to be a competent service member. "Letting your hair down" will catch up to you sooner or later.

Response by CW3 Kevin Storm made Feb 24 at 2018 1:15 PM

CW3 Kevin Storm — Sat, 24 Feb 2018 13:15:19 -0500

Education, education, education, both military and civilian. Avoid the payday beer truck chase if at all possible. Invest as much as you can possibly can into two things: Your education and your TSP. Work to max out your PT, go to those boards everyone hates, they are a faster track to moving up. Don't be a smart ass, and do what your told to the best of your abilities. Take constructive criticism and work to continually improve. That -10 manual on your vehicle, track, or whatever, learn back wards forwards, and sideways.

Response by PV2 Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2018 5:01 PM

PV2 Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 24 Feb 2018 17:01:01 -0500

Shitbag in a smart way.

Response by PV2 Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2018 6:38 PM

PV2 Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 24 Feb 2018 18:38:17 -0500

Get a back azimuth do an about face and get the hell out of here XD JK

Response by AN Charles Medes made Feb 24 at 2018 8:11 PM

AN Charles Medes — Sat, 24 Feb 2018 20:11:40 -0500

Keep your head on a swivel, your eyes and ears open and your mouth closed. The process goes much easier if you retain everything coming your way!

Response by SGT Timothy Stuart made Feb 24 at 2018 8:28 PM

SGT Timothy Stuart — Sat, 24 Feb 2018 20:28:11 -0500

As said by others:
1. Keep your mouth shut, eyes and ears open.
2. Be in the right place, at the right time (earlier than the actual time given to you to be there because early is never late), and in the proper uniform.
3. AFTER and ONLY AFTER completing a task given to you in a lawful order ask any questions you may have. (Remember just because you don't like an order doesn't make it unlawful. It must be illegal, immoral, or unethical.).
4. Prior to asking your questions ask them to yourself OUT LOUD. (You don't have to yell, but saying something out loud will make you complete the sentence/thought. It will also engage the thinking portion of your brain, which could cause you to get to the answer yourself. This will just allow you to verify why you were given the task.).

Response by LCpl Cody Collins made Feb 25 at 2018 9:22 AM

LCpl Cody Collins — Sun, 25 Feb 2018 09:22:46 -0500

Volunteer for everything related to your MOS. The more your educated in your field, the better your chances for advancement. And less likely you will get into trouble screwing around, because you have nothing to do.

Response by Sgt Greg Puckett made Feb 25 at 2018 7:48 PM

Sgt Greg Puckett — Sun, 25 Feb 2018 19:48:14 -0500

Same advise I gave my daughters and son when they enlisted. It's better to be thought a fool than to open your mouth and prove them right. Your going to meet a lot of people. Most Sgt's and officers are good people that will help guide you through your career. Emulate them. Steer clear of the Enlisted and Officers with the God complex. They are out for themselves and will stomp all over you.

Response by CPT Jacob Swartout made Feb 26 at 2018 12:52 AM

CPT Jacob Swartout — Mon, 26 Feb 2018 00:52:30 -0500

Listen well and learn daily from those who have the knowledge and experience and become a great future leader in the Army.

Response by CPL Luis Whetstine made Feb 26 at 2018 1:08 AM

CPL Luis Whetstine — Mon, 26 Feb 2018 01:08:07 -0500

The only advice I can give; is to be the very best version of you. Your expectations of yourself will far outweigh any expection of any of your seniors. Stand tall, stand proud and remember to always continue to move forward.

Response by PV2 Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 26 at 2018 11:00 AM

PV2 Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 26 Feb 2018 11:00:04 -0500

Everything is a learning experience, try to absorb as much information and knowledge as you can. Stay motivated, put forth effort to improve. And if you make a mistake, don’t make the same mistake again.

Response by PV2 Jason Mashburn made Feb 26 at 2018 7:30 PM

PV2 Jason Mashburn — Mon, 26 Feb 2018 19:30:53 -0500

Don't give up, keep your head, your ears sharp, and your eyes open.

Response by SP5 Joel O'Brien made Feb 26 at 2018 7:40 PM

SP5 Joel O'Brien — Mon, 26 Feb 2018 19:40:40 -0500

It gets better after basic.

Response by Cpl Sean Willadsen made Feb 26 at 2018 7:53 PM

Cpl Sean Willadsen — Mon, 26 Feb 2018 19:53:50 -0500

Keep your mouth shut and your eyes & ears open.

Response by LCpl Patrick Velasquez made Feb 28 at 2018 9:25 PM

LCpl Patrick Velasquez — Wed, 28 Feb 2018 21:25:17 -0500

If you want to enjoy your time do everything they say. On liberty do everything in moderation, if you have to second guess if it is the right thing to do, don't fucking do it! Be careful of people that just want to have fun, those are the ones that will get you in trouble. Visit and go sight seeing at every port. Most important be careful with the opposite sex, or same sex, or what ever you like, don't get charges on you because you missed read someones intentions. Be safe and may God Bless you!

Response by PV2 Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 1 at 2018 5:26 PM

PV2 Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 01 Mar 2018 17:26:56 -0500

Embrace the suck

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 1 at 2018 8:19 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 01 Mar 2018 20:19:32 -0500

Right time right place right uniform.

Response by PO2 David Allender made Mar 4 at 2018 6:44 PM

PO2 David Allender — Sun, 04 Mar 2018 18:44:13 -0500

Forget self. Be a "PROUD TEAM MEMBER!"

Response by SSG Trevor S. made Mar 4 at 2018 6:47 PM

SSG Trevor S. — Sun, 04 Mar 2018 18:47:18 -0500

Keep asking for advise and mentor-ship. Never stop learning from others.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 4 at 2018 8:17 PM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 04 Mar 2018 20:17:56 -0500

Keep all your paperwork. Before you make major decisions, talk to senior Soldiers and friends that have been in to make sure your admin isn't going to mess you over.

Response by PV2 Timothy Anderson made Mar 6 at 2018 12:08 AM

PV2 Timothy Anderson — Tue, 06 Mar 2018 00:08:53 -0500

Stay as quiet, only respond when u talk to others

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 9 at 2018 11:05 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 09 Mar 2018 11:05:41 -0500

Learn and follow doctrine as it is the roadmap to your development, follow your instincts of what right and wrong.

Response by Cpl Raymond Hottinger made Mar 11 at 2018 7:06 PM

Cpl Raymond Hottinger — Sun, 11 Mar 2018 19:06:18 -0400

ok this may be taken wrong by some of my brothers and sisters but here is the advice i was given by an old Marine vet just before i shipped out to boot camp.
1. the corps (military in general) is a game by Milton Bradley.
2. they can not eat you.
you will have good days and bad, good leaders and bad BUT learn everything you can from both. if you do your best to learn from everything and everyone, you will have the chance to be a better leader. you have to apply what you have learned also. Of course my knowledge of matters concerning the military is now 20 years out of date so things may have changed.
Semper Fi and good luck with your carrier. :)

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 14 at 2018 5:33 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 14 Mar 2018 05:33:46 -0400

The best piece of advice to give to a private E1-E2 sometimes E3 is DO NOT LISTEN to them or the PNN always take commands from the tower

Response by SP5 Michael Chambers made Mar 19 at 2018 7:15 PM

SP5 Michael Chambers — Mon, 19 Mar 2018 19:15:59 -0400

Be at the right place, at the right time, and in the right uniform.
Do what you are told.
Learn from your seniors.
Help every junior person that you can.
Do your best and work to make that better than yesterday.
It's that simple.
Good luck.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 19 at 2018 8:58 PM

COL Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 19 Mar 2018 20:58:28 -0400

Max your APFT. You can be as dumb as a Sailor but if you can max your APFT and follow orders you will be successful.

I mess with my Navy buddies.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 19 at 2018 9:19 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 19 Mar 2018 21:19:43 -0400

Thank you volunteering, you made the right choice to enhance your life. Anything you need let your NCO know, anything you don't know, let your NCO know. There are no stupid questions, and welcome to Easy.

Response by PV2 Paula Alber made Mar 21 at 2018 4:16 AM

PV2 Paula Alber — Wed, 21 Mar 2018 04:16:56 -0400

Go hard or go home. No matter what your position is .. it’s important. Your brothers/sisters in arms will not only be your unit but your family. You don’t always have to like someone to work with, protect or defend them. Your worst day was yesterday, make today your best day.

Response by SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth made Mar 21 at 2018 5:21 AM

SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth — Wed, 21 Mar 2018 05:21:48 -0400

Do your job to the best of your ability, keep good records, and always have good equipment accountability.

Response by SPC Makissa Lewis made Mar 21 at 2018 6:04 AM

SPC Makissa Lewis — Wed, 21 Mar 2018 06:04:01 -0400

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 21 at 2018 7:24 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Mar 2018 07:24:26 -0400

Sign up for the Thrift Savings Plan and put 10% of your pay away until you either ETS or retire and don't touch a penny of it until then.

Response by SPC Margaret Higgins made Mar 21 at 2018 9:41 AM

SPC Margaret Higgins — Wed, 21 Mar 2018 09:41:48 -0400

SPC Private RallyPoint Member: As far as Basic Training goes, a General once said: "You're glad you went through it; But, you would never go through it again." CHIN UP, PRIVATE; AND, ENJOY YOUR TIME IN THE ARMY!

Response by SPC Brian Mason made Mar 21 at 2018 9:47 AM

SPC Brian Mason — Wed, 21 Mar 2018 09:47:55 -0400

Be where you need to be at least 15 minutes early than what you're told. Even then you're late.

Response by SGT Mark Halmrast made Mar 21 at 2018 10:46 AM

SGT Mark Halmrast — Wed, 21 Mar 2018 10:46:56 -0400

On duty, prompt obedience w/attention to detail.

Off duty, play hard but don't be stupid; don't make your NCO have to bail you out of jail

Response by MSG Charles Turner made Mar 21 at 2018 12:17 PM

MSG Charles Turner — Wed, 21 Mar 2018 12:17:49 -0400

PV2 Cartwright,
Being a soldier is like being a good man or a good woman. Each and Every day one has to arise with the thought and intent of improving on the previous day. This starts with Learning from all that one has experience before and all that will happen in the future. So Soldiers must keep their eyes open, mouths closed unless needed to passing information, body conditioned, minds clear and attention at the "Now". Soldiering is similar to civilian life, BUT has one Major difference, the LIVES OF MANY may rest on the actions of the few or one soldier. You NO longer represent just you or your family. Now you Represent (and assist in the Protection of) the People of the United States of America.

Bit wordy, but after he / she digest this... it will be time for more.

~ole Sarge~

Response by SSG (ret) William Martin made Mar 21 at 2018 1:35 PM

SSG (ret) William Martin — Wed, 21 Mar 2018 13:35:24 -0400

Finish SSD1, check your MEDPROS every pay day, check for mandatory training on ALMS monthly because I'm tired of hearing the 1SG talk about that once a week. Other than that, stay motivated and drink water.

Response by Abe Dean made Mar 21 at 2018 2:35 PM

Abe Dean — Wed, 21 Mar 2018 14:35:17 -0400

"Randy, glad to see you made it back from boot-camp in one good chunk. One piece of advice though; you don't actually have to stand at parade rest while we're in line for The Family Values Tour tickets or waiting to pay for gas. Whatever's more comfy for you, just letting you know your options there, buddy." (ACTUAL QUOTE from 1997 sometime after graduation around here)

Response by CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 21 at 2018 3:11 PM

CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Mar 2018 15:11:20 -0400

Do your job. Look at for those on your flanks. Keep your leaders informed.

Response by CPT Scott Sharon made Mar 21 at 2018 7:30 PM

CPT Scott Sharon — Wed, 21 Mar 2018 19:30:15 -0400

A tour of duty in the military is a great learning experience. It's a great time to explore things you may want to do in like later so use it that way.

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 21 at 2018 9:16 PM

PFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 21 Mar 2018 21:16:46 -0400

Be quick to listen and slow to speak don’t wear your emotions on your sleeve be five minutes early to the 10 minute early that’s early for a private yes Sarnt no sarnt and parade rest and attention when appropriate don’t get comfy with these laxed ncos be professional always unless instructed to relax and do what you are told if it is lawful and you will be fine

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 22 at 2018 12:24 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 22 Mar 2018 00:24:23 -0400

While it's a leader's responsibility to adapt to you in order to motivate you to accomplish the tasks assigned, it is your responsibility to adapt to your leader in order to make your life a little more bearable.

Response by SPC Ike Urbaniak made Mar 22 at 2018 2:15 AM

SPC Ike Urbaniak — Thu, 22 Mar 2018 02:15:09 -0400

Shut up and listen!

Response by SGT Zak Baker made Mar 22 at 2018 12:54 PM

SGT Zak Baker — Thu, 22 Mar 2018 12:54:45 -0400

Keep your head down, ears up and never be too proud to push a broom in the absence of instructions. Remember, the approval of your superiors is important, but just as important is the respect of your peers. Work hard, listen to what your Specialists have to say and eventually you'll be the one teaching the new guy.

- Also, there are two things you never commit to within 50 miles of a military base, women/men and cars.

Response by SFC Keith Frain made Mar 22 at 2018 5:27 PM

SFC Keith Frain — Thu, 22 Mar 2018 17:27:52 -0400

"Do you remember when you raised you hand and took your oath?" It was at that very moment all individuality ceased to exist. You, along with the rest of these Privates belong to a team. Every team member will have a specific role to play; it may not be your strong point, but you will make it your strongest attribute. Lastly, just because your given a task or a job within a "team", always try to learn your teammates job to the left and right of you. Push yourself mentally, physically, & dare I say....Spiritually.

Response by SPC(P) Mark Newman made Mar 24 at 2018 10:57 AM

SPC(P) Mark Newman — Sat, 24 Mar 2018 10:57:25 -0400

Bullcrap: When the cynical "old guys" tell you to "never volunteer?" Ignore them. Yes, you should find out what a school or TDY entails fìrst. But many opportunities in the military require you to raise your hand. If you're stateside and someone is putting together a team to remove those new radios and antenna -- in the Philippine Islands? GO! Spec Ops guys need practice on training troops and want to teach you how to use an AK-47 while you're off duty? Put down the comic book and put up your hand.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 24 at 2018 1:26 PM

COL Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 24 Mar 2018 13:26:06 -0400

If you are in combat arms MOS you will be measured by your PT score. Service support will be more on your competence, then PT score.

Response by CH (CPT) Heather Davis made Mar 25 at 2018 10:30 PM

CH (CPT) Heather Davis — Sun, 25 Mar 2018 22:30:44 -0400

Know your job. Do your job. Grow where your planted.

Response by SSG Omar Ruiz-Canales made Apr 1 at 2018 9:51 PM

SSG Omar Ruiz-Canales — Sun, 01 Apr 2018 21:51:07 -0400

Do not date a woman with kids your age as a 1st dating experience in the military..

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 2 at 2018 9:18 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 02 Apr 2018 09:18:59 -0400

Just listen to directions and try your very best.

Response by PV2 Daniel Hart made Apr 4 at 2018 4:09 AM

PV2 Daniel Hart — Wed, 04 Apr 2018 04:09:53 -0400

Eyes and ears open, mouth shut, nobody there wants your opinion on anything, if they do they will give it to you.

Response by 1LT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 4 at 2018 1:46 PM

1LT Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 04 Apr 2018 13:46:46 -0400

I would tell them to stay focused on their dreams, goals, and ambitions. Many soldiers get in the Service and forget why they joined. They see subpar leadership and selfish supervisors and get sucked into their negativity. Remember why you joined and always maintain your integrity! ALWAYS!

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 4 at 2018 4:34 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 04 Apr 2018 16:34:18 -0400

Be on time, in the right uniform, and do what you're told.

Response by SN Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 5 at 2018 3:39 PM

SN Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 05 Apr 2018 15:39:27 -0400

Know when to listen and learn. Don’t complain, follow orders and show respect especially if you don’t like them. Be the better person.

Response by PO3 John Faria made Apr 9 at 2018 12:31 PM

PO3 John Faria — Mon, 09 Apr 2018 12:31:10 -0400

Apply yourself, study for promotion. You went on the Service for your personal reasons. It takes work. Even take USAFI courses. ,

Response by SSG Guy Gould made Apr 14 at 2018 11:01 AM

SSG Guy Gould — Sat, 14 Apr 2018 11:01:56 -0400

Be at the right place, at the right time, in the right uniform doing the right thing.

Response by MSG Frederick Otero made Apr 14 at 2018 12:02 PM

MSG Frederick Otero — Sat, 14 Apr 2018 12:02:29 -0400

I have read as many of the post as possible and there is great advice to be gleaned, so i will only add the following. The profession of combat arms is hard dangerous work and one needs to apply themselves to it by much of the advice given to you by so many RP members. I would only add that you should read, study and contemplate this profession; the successes as well as the failures. The lessons are there you only have to seek them out. Good Luck. VIRIS ET HONOS

Response by LTC Ronald Stephens made Apr 15 at 2018 4:51 PM

LTC Ronald Stephens — Sun, 15 Apr 2018 16:51:08 -0400

The same advice I gave my son when he enlisted in the Air Force: "Keep your eyes and ears open and your mouth shut."

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 16 at 2018 6:02 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 16 Apr 2018 18:02:59 -0400

There will be times where you don't agree with your leaders until ten years down the road. If/when you do, man up and make amends even though they aren't in your CoC anymore, apologizes for your stupidity as a private, it speaks volumes to your character!

Response by SPC Brian Stephens made Apr 18 at 2018 3:05 PM

SPC Brian Stephens — Wed, 18 Apr 2018 15:05:04 -0400

To obey is better than sacrifice.

Response by SSG Michael Langley made Apr 19 at 2018 3:53 PM

SSG Michael Langley — Thu, 19 Apr 2018 15:53:37 -0400

Assume two paths, career service and each is your last enlistment. Look at every opportunity to advance your service skills while also using educational opportunities to prepare for transition to civilian life at the end of each enlistment. Every moment is an opportunity to learn.

Response by SSgt Warren Henthorn made Apr 23 at 2018 3:03 PM

SSgt Warren Henthorn — Mon, 23 Apr 2018 15:03:32 -0400

Shut up and hump.

Response by CPO Mike Castro made Apr 24 at 2018 12:59 AM

CPO Mike Castro — Tue, 24 Apr 2018 00:59:25 -0400

Instead of asking why ask yourself: why not

Response by PO2 Louis Fattrusso made Apr 27 at 2018 6:05 PM

PO2 Louis Fattrusso — Fri, 27 Apr 2018 18:05:16 -0400

Obey your superiors and work hard on your advancement opportunities

Response by Pvt Robert L. Lamoreaux made May 5 at 2018 10:52 AM

Pvt Robert L. Lamoreaux — Sat, 05 May 2018 10:52:50 -0400

This is simply an observation gained as an Instructor in a Young Marines chapter in which the "basic training" was as close to the "spirit" of MCRD-PISC as possible, while being age-appropriate: Stop thinking, especially of yourself as an individual. There is no longer a "you", there is only "us"and that "us" is stronger, meaner, better that each individual "you" even when together.

Response by SPC Joseph Durham made May 5 at 2018 1:42 PM

SPC Joseph Durham — Sat, 05 May 2018 13:42:15 -0400

Read your -10.

Response by PFC Eric Parrish made May 5 at 2018 1:58 PM

PFC Eric Parrish — Sat, 05 May 2018 13:58:22 -0400

Do the right thing, for the right reasons, and do it all the time.

Response by SGT Kyle Bickley made May 6 at 2018 9:46 PM

SGT Kyle Bickley — Sun, 06 May 2018 21:46:31 -0400

Pay attention to detail! Though sometimes it doesn't make any sense as to what they are yelling about and seem to be no big deal, it is. Paying attention to the smallest detail can or will one day save your life. I personally never really understood it or why it was so important in garrison until the day it got real. You get into the mix you'll understand real quick! Getting into an ambush is no joke! Things were outta place, we saw it. Detail was wrong, they hit us hard! Hell of a way to learn the real reason of paying attention to detail. That one above all got us home again in one piece. Understand it's purpose! Best of luck to you young trooper.

Response by SSG Rick Miller made May 26 at 2018 3:36 PM

SSG Rick Miller — Sat, 26 May 2018 15:36:05 -0400

Ask questions. Learn from your mistakes. DO NOT ASK WHY?

Response by SP5 Geoffrey Vannerson made May 29 at 2018 11:11 AM

SP5 Geoffrey Vannerson — Tue, 29 May 2018 11:11:59 -0400

Hone your 3 learning skills, (audibly, visually, and hands on.) Pay attention to every detail no matter how small or trivial it may seem. The little things we miss can turn out to be the biggest mistakes we make. Never skip a step.

Response by SGT L Brooke Sahm made May 31 at 2018 12:41 AM

SGT L Brooke Sahm — Thu, 31 May 2018 00:41:03 -0400

In a word; FIDO. 'Fuck It, Drive on!'
Basic is not necessarily about being the strongest or fastest; it’s about learning to follow and to work as a team. I saw many a PT King get recycled or sent home because they much of their time focused on, “they can’t do that”, “He can’t talk to me like that”, or “She can’t make me do that.”
They can. He did. She will.
Let’s say your Drill Sergeants get everyone out of their racks at 0200 hrs. They are yelling and screaming for the platoon to run laps around the barracks. Don't fight it, or allow yourself to focus on how you the drill Sergeants should have allowed you to sleep.
Instead you need to embrace the suck and, FIDO!

Response by MSgt Sean Risner made Jun 1 at 2018 12:19 PM

MSgt Sean Risner — Fri, 01 Jun 2018 12:19:43 -0400

Join the Air Force, sorry had to do it.

Response by MSG Lonnie Averkamp made Jun 13 at 2018 10:57 PM

MSG Lonnie Averkamp — Wed, 13 Jun 2018 22:57:49 -0400

This is a bit of Long-Term Personal Development Advice, rather than Short-Term Survival Advice.

Watch your NCO's. See who have admirable traits in Teaching, Leadership, & Personal Skills, and learn how to emulate them. Also, watch those who are absolutely crappy, note why they are poor leaders, and learn just as much from them (how to never be like them). Whether you remain in the military or return quickly to civilian life, you will have, first-hand, been exposed to more leadership in practical application than 95% of the people of this nation.

Response by SSgt Russell Stevens made Jun 13 at 2018 11:32 PM

SSgt Russell Stevens — Wed, 13 Jun 2018 23:32:52 -0400

Get out before you're damaged by the system.

Response by SGT Beth Day made Jun 19 at 2018 4:20 PM

SGT Beth Day — Tue, 19 Jun 2018 16:20:36 -0400

You were granted 2 ears and one mouth for a reason.

Response by SGT Alfred Cox made Jun 20 at 2018 11:16 AM

SGT Alfred Cox — Wed, 20 Jun 2018 11:16:06 -0400

trust in your leadership, and when you get to your duty station. start working on promotion points to start moving up the chain.

Response by TSgt Donald Conroy made Jun 22 at 2018 9:53 PM

TSgt Donald Conroy — Fri, 22 Jun 2018 21:53:04 -0400

Go to the Dr for every injury no matter how insignificant you think it may be, ok not the little boo boos, and make sure they are documented. Keep a copy of that documentation in a safe place throughout your career. Any and all claims you fill with the VA have to be proven with documentation dated during you time of service. Good Luck, Serve proud

Response by LCDR Ernest Heassler made Jun 23 at 2018 12:09 PM

LCDR Ernest Heassler — Sat, 23 Jun 2018 12:09:23 -0400

Spend your time and energy on what you control and don't sweat the rest.

Response by Sgt Douglas Berger made Jun 25 at 2018 12:02 AM

Sgt Douglas Berger — Mon, 25 Jun 2018 00:02:34 -0400

Keep an open mind. You are clay and you will be molded into a fighting machine. Understand there will be many things to learn keep "focused" on the lessons at hand.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 25 at 2018 7:22 PM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 25 Jun 2018 19:22:07 -0400

Roll with the punches. dont ask why. at the end of the day you will have done your job.

Response by PV2 Deserie Sanders made Jun 28 at 2018 8:14 PM

PV2 Deserie Sanders — Thu, 28 Jun 2018 20:14:45 -0400

Drop the attitude and expectations at the door...take it for the new experience it is. Be open to finding limitations you didn't even know you had and pushing past them (within reason of course). Don't try to be a show off. Don't think you are entitled to anything you didn't earn/work for.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 28 at 2018 8:36 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 28 Jun 2018 20:36:30 -0400

Learn everything you can to expand your skill tool box. this will give variety in career progression

Response by LTC Denis Sullivan made Jul 2 at 2018 11:24 AM

LTC Denis Sullivan — Mon, 02 Jul 2018 11:24:59 -0400

Somewhere in your unit is a faction of low-performing, disgruntled, substandard soldiers who are just dying to add you to their little group. Avoid them at all costs.

PS- put as much money into your TSP as you possibly can. It will pay off big time later in life.

Response by SFC David Xanten made Jul 7 at 2018 5:19 PM

SFC David Xanten — Sat, 07 Jul 2018 17:19:49 -0400

Learn your job better then anyone else and you should move up in rank and skills. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes and gets the facts to a problem and then make a decision. Go to every School you can to broaden your knowledge.

Response by Ralph Howard made Jul 9 at 2018 9:56 AM

Ralph Howard — Mon, 09 Jul 2018 09:56:23 -0400

Call on your inner, unused strength & character to overcome your homesickness.Make a friend.Know that the machismo is pretend.Resolve in your heart & mind to take in every moment.Give yourself to your training, it is precious in many ways...join proudly those who toughed it out.If ever in your life to actually BE where you are...this is it.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 13 at 2018 4:11 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 13 Jul 2018 16:11:34 -0400

Shut up, no one is interested in your half-assed opinions. Or words to that effect.

Response by SSgt Mike Finch made Jul 15 at 2018 3:11 PM

SSgt Mike Finch — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 15:11:51 -0400

If it moves, salute it. If it doesn't move, paint it.

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 15 at 2018 7:50 PM

PFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 15 Jul 2018 19:50:33 -0400

If you fail don't let it get to you. The army can suck if you just let it happen. Use everything to your advantage and you will see progress

Response by Kurtis Roers made Jul 16 at 2018 4:40 AM

Kurtis Roers — Mon, 16 Jul 2018 04:40:40 -0400

When you make a mistake -- and you absolutely will -- admit it. Remember, "The effective range of an excuse is zero meters."

Response by SFC Ralph E Kelley made Jul 16 at 2018 9:14 AM

SFC Ralph E Kelley — Mon, 16 Jul 2018 09:14:43 -0400

Don't quit - Keep your sense of humor.

Response by SSG Eddye Royal made Jul 28 at 2018 10:11 PM

SSG Eddye Royal — Sat, 28 Jul 2018 22:11:37 -0400

PFC Cartwright,
1 - I would say, keep being squared away.
2 - No back talk, to your leaders
3 -Try to make all your formations, if not call your leaders and explain why, thats been my experience and will keep the soldier most of the time off report.
4 - Keep your personal area squared for any inspection.
5 - Lastly, stay on top of your education or craft.

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made Jul 28 at 2018 10:43 PM

MAJ Ken Landgren — Sat, 28 Jul 2018 22:43:36 -0400

All work and no play makes jack a dull boy.

Response by PO2 Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 29 at 2018 5:07 PM

PO2 Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 29 Jul 2018 17:07:32 -0400

In this order...
1. Show up on time.
2. Listen more than you speak.
3. Don't take things personally - this is business (and lives could be on the line).
4. Always do your best work, even when no one is watching (someone is ALWAYS watching!)
5. Don't ask why (because it usually doesn't matter, it WILL be done anyway so skip complaining).

Response by SFC Mamerto Perez made Jul 31 at 2018 7:40 AM

SFC Mamerto Perez — Tue, 31 Jul 2018 07:40:40 -0400

Do as you are told and when their is a chance read the regulation of pertains to the your MOS

Response by Pvt Rip Masters made Aug 6 at 2018 7:27 AM

Pvt Rip Masters — Mon, 06 Aug 2018 07:27:12 -0400

"walk your post from flank to flank & take no shit from any rank " better to rec. NJP then to not follow General/Specific Orders ! SF

Response by 1SG Charles Simpson made Aug 12 at 2018 5:04 AM

1SG Charles Simpson — Sun, 12 Aug 2018 05:04:25 -0400

PFC Cartwright, Understand what the military standards from official, printed documents because those standards are your guidelines. Do not be afraid to seek guidance from qualified counselors. Never commence a task unless you are 100% sure you thoroughly understand what the task is, what role you will be playing and what the expected outcome is. Finally, and most importantly, always be certain you want to become what you will become. The army is not a fraternity, nor is it a social experiment. The mission of the army is to destroy our enemies in order to preserve our freedom and our democratic society. Good luck, God bless you and thank you for your service.

Response by SGT Tim Evans made Aug 13 at 2018 6:57 PM

SGT Tim Evans — Mon, 13 Aug 2018 18:57:50 -0400

The Good Lord gave ya two ears and one piehole, what does the tell you ?!?

Response by CWO2 Frank Slaby made Aug 18 at 2018 9:57 AM

CWO2 Frank Slaby — Sat, 18 Aug 2018 09:57:03 -0400

When it comes time to reenlist; join the Navy.

Response by MAJ Hugh Blanchard made Aug 19 at 2018 10:51 PM

MAJ Hugh Blanchard — Sun, 19 Aug 2018 22:51:00 -0400

I was once a PV1 and 23 years later I retired as a Major.
"Listen, Learn, and Do Your Best! If you don't understand something then ask."

Response by PV2 Wally Cline made Aug 20 at 2018 10:33 AM

PV2 Wally Cline — Mon, 20 Aug 2018 10:33:37 -0400

Listen,absorb,listen repeat keep your mouth shut unless you are spoken too. If you become noticed by your instructor for the wrong reasons your training will be hell. ALWAYS BE SQUARED AWAY.

Response by SSG Shawn Mcfadden made Sep 1 at 2018 7:55 AM

SSG Shawn Mcfadden — Sat, 01 Sep 2018 07:55:48 -0400

LEARN!!!!

Response by SGT Mark Seymour made Sep 4 at 2018 6:52 PM

SGT Mark Seymour — Tue, 04 Sep 2018 18:52:54 -0400

Plan for retirement early; set attainable goals and always work towards them.

Response by PO2 Louis Fattrusso made Sep 16 at 2018 5:50 PM

PO2 Louis Fattrusso — Sun, 16 Sep 2018 17:50:49 -0400

Listen carefully to every thing you are told

Response by SMSgt Tim Burkett CSM, PM, BA, CSCP made Sep 18 at 2018 11:43 PM

SMSgt Tim Burkett CSM, PM, BA, CSCP — Tue, 18 Sep 2018 23:43:21 -0400

Be Sharp-Be Smart-Listen Sharp-And Learn-Lead By Example

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 22 at 2018 5:52 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 22 Sep 2018 17:52:34 -0400

Too you? Always look at the big picture to help your unit, even with maintenance and safety. Help your leadership, and they'll save you when you need it. Your first line is your big brother/sister, and go out of your way to help them but also hold them accountable.

Be realistic, understand that not all leadership has the welfare of soldiers in their interest. Be fearless, and hold them accountable to the standard. Read all the command policies from your Corps down.

The best thing you can do is arm yourself with knowledge, so when you learn something fact check the regs.

When submitting forms, always use a DA form 200, so you will have a paper trail.

Just some things

Response by SFC Rick Sloan made Sep 26 at 2018 10:57 AM

SFC Rick Sloan — Wed, 26 Sep 2018 10:57:08 -0400

@Major John Bell, can't improve upon what you posted.

Response by PFC Michael Willard made Sep 26 at 2018 8:08 PM

PFC Michael Willard — Wed, 26 Sep 2018 20:08:58 -0400

You have just completed BASIC TRAINING... NOW THE REAL TRAINING BEGINS. You don't know everything. Let the combat vets teach you how to survive the battlefield.

Response by SrA John Monette made Sep 26 at 2018 8:24 PM

SrA John Monette — Wed, 26 Sep 2018 20:24:01 -0400

don't be afraid to volunteer for opportunities that will further your career and make you a better soldier

Response by SrA John Monette made Sep 26 at 2018 8:27 PM

SrA John Monette — Wed, 26 Sep 2018 20:27:26 -0400

listen to and learn from your NCOs. They've been where you are right now.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 27 at 2018 6:37 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Thu, 27 Sep 2018 18:37:02 -0400

Make the most of your time in the Army - whether it turns out to be a career or just a few years. Take advantage of every opportunity presented. Go for rank (I never did), go to schools (both military and civilian), and if it is practical and safe given where they send you, explore the surroundings of the places to which they send you. After the Army, things are likely to be a little ordinary.

Response by LTC Philip DeCara made Sep 29 at 2018 10:18 AM

LTC Philip DeCara — Sat, 29 Sep 2018 10:18:51 -0400

Keep your ears and eyes open, your mind sharp and your mouth shut.

Response by PO1 Todd B. made Oct 1 at 2018 10:44 PM

PO1 Todd B. — Mon, 01 Oct 2018 22:44:57 -0400

1) Listen to to all the advice you can but make your OWN decisions.
2) Follow orders but ALWAYS remember your oath to the US Constitution.
3) Don't take shit personally as a rule. Learn how to tell the difference between a personal problem and someone just giving out shit as that is part of being a team.
4) Treat all with respect and honor for the uniform they wear. You are a team and in the end, THAT is the most important aspect.
5) Early in your career, MOST of it is a MIND game.. Laugh and let it wash.
6) ENJOY YOUR TIME in the service.. Pay attention to those little things, the places you go, the friends you make. Before you know it, it will be the past and only a memory.
7) If the 'job' you are in sucks, then buck up and make a change. EARN it, work for it and better yourself. If you hate being the shoe bottom, then it is up to YOU to step up and make something more of yourself. Don't blame everyone else or bitch about how it sucks or how hard it is.. Go back to school, work hard and earn it.

In the end, YOU will determine if it will be the best time of your life, something you will cherish and be proud as hell for until the day you die... or something you will hate and want out of early on.

EDIT: One last thing. If you see wrong being done, report it. If wrong is done to you and it is outside the boundaries of dealing with it personally, report it. Don't let 'peer pressure' sway you. Being military is an honor and NO ONE has a right to abuse, harm, degrade or attack someone else, physically or emotionally.

There IS a line between the team and unit vs someone outside honorable boundaries and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. IF something bothers you, go to your IMMEDIATE supervisor. Don't jump the chain. But talk to them, explain to them the issue and they will get involved (at least a good supervisor will). If the problem is with the supervisor, go to the next step up the chain of command. Don't be afraid to do the right thing because of how it might look to others. This is not the boy scouts or high school 'cool kid groups'. This is the United States Military and for me, that means respect, honor, duty and team. And if someone is fucking that up, I personally will and would never put up with it.

With that being said, don't jump the gun either.. Learn to bend, learn to be one of the team. Figure out boundaries with your team and let them know.. Whether it be lewd jokes or pictures, jaw jacking or whatever, find what you can accept from your team mates and what line you won't cross.. There is a difference. People will joke around, make all sorts of jokes and shit.. If you can let it roll because it is all in fun, the better it will be. BUT also take a stand when it crosses that line I mentioned and let your team mates clearly know what your line is.. Don't assume they know.

Response by SGT Larry Braswell made Oct 9 at 2018 2:00 PM

SGT Larry Braswell — Tue, 09 Oct 2018 14:00:56 -0400

Get in, Stay in, do your best, advance in rank as quickly as possible, make use of OCS if you are qualified and make a life of it. you will never experience the same camaraderie and brotherhood out in the real world as you do while in...that's important stuff.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 20 at 2018 1:41 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 20 Oct 2018 13:41:40 -0400

One piece? Nope but I will say this:
1: Don't lose your military bearing
2: If you don't know why you are doing something, do it first then tactfully ask why and include because you want to learn why. Don't ever just say why, you will prob get smoked.
3: Right place, Right time (always be at least 10min early to a formation.), Right uniform.

Response by SGT Gregory Tibbs made Oct 22 at 2018 9:28 PM

SGT Gregory Tibbs — Mon, 22 Oct 2018 21:28:42 -0400

Remember that you decided to enlist into the military for whatever your reason/reasons are for making that decision. Nothing is going to be easy and you will have good days as well as bad ones. Simply follow instructions, don't do anything stupid because repercussions will follow, enjoy seeing the world, and if you're going to complain and cry save the drama for your momma. Grow up and be a responsible adult.

Response by CH (LTC) Robert Leroe made Oct 28 at 2018 6:59 PM

CH (LTC) Robert Leroe — Sun, 28 Oct 2018 18:59:50 -0400

If your name's on it, keep a copy. I learned that in Officer's Basic and I'm glad I kept everything to document my military career. Down the line you may need documentation for various things. I was told of the MILPERCEN fire in St Louis. I've heard of vets who lack documentation and can't prove they served, can't get any benefits, and can't even join the American Legion.

Response by SCPO Burt Crapo made Nov 3 at 2018 10:55 PM

SCPO Burt Crapo — Sat, 03 Nov 2018 22:55:37 -0400

I told all my first-termers the same three things when they checked in with me.
1. Be on time
2. Wear the uniform properly to include haircuts and mustache trims (males only).
3. Do your best everyday understanding that your best is going to vary from day-to-day. Nobody can give me 110% every day. But everyone can give me their best effort every day.

Response by Jerry Rivas made Nov 4 at 2018 8:52 PM

Jerry Rivas — Sun, 04 Nov 2018 20:52:09 -0500

It is a scientific fact that your ears do not work the same time your mouth does. Shut up and LISTEN.

Response by SPC Heather H. made Nov 9 at 2018 1:33 PM

SPC Heather H. — Fri, 09 Nov 2018 13:33:22 -0500

Keep copies of EVERYTHING!!!

Response by PO1 Mike Meehan made Nov 9 at 2018 9:27 PM

PO1 Mike Meehan — Fri, 09 Nov 2018 21:27:36 -0500

You've got two ears and one mouth. You should be listening at least twice as much as you talk. Never miss a good opportunity to shut up. When you find yourself in a hole the first thing to do is stop digging.

Response by SFC Scott Parkhurst made Nov 9 at 2018 10:21 PM

SFC Scott Parkhurst — Fri, 09 Nov 2018 22:21:46 -0500

I have two, "Shut your mouth, and think it through before you act on it"....

Response by 1LT Luke Flowers made Nov 14 at 2018 7:06 PM

1LT Luke Flowers — Wed, 14 Nov 2018 19:06:42 -0500

Be in the right place at the right time in the right uniform with the right attitude and get to work.

Remember this is a short time in your career if you are squared away. For now life should be too easy when you are not going to have to worry about everything and only your little part of all of this. So just do your work and make your NCO’s and Officer’s less work.

Don’t be a shit bag and make more work by showing up late out of uniform with a shitbag attitude.

Work hard. Play hard. Get out and enjoy whatever area you are stationed in and stfu more than you speak.

Listen to your NCO’s and the squared away Specialists about to be NCO’s; don’t listen to the shitbags not going anywhere in life or in the military.

Don’t be a loser. Don’t make excuses. Don’t be afraid. Don’t be lazy.

Do work and get shit done. It starts with being in the right place, at the right time, in the right uniform with the right attitude ready to work. Training is work. Train. Do work. Don’t be a shitbag. Roger?

Response by PV2 Stephen Walker made Nov 21 at 2018 10:36 PM

PV2 Stephen Walker — Wed, 21 Nov 2018 22:36:32 -0500

Never let them learn your name. Move with a purpose at all times.

Response by LTC Ted Blasche made Nov 23 at 2018 9:46 PM

LTC Ted Blasche — Fri, 23 Nov 2018 21:46:50 -0500

Treat every lesson, no matter how apparently silly or mundane, as something that you'll need to know in order to save your life sometime in the future.

Response by SFC Timothy Dutcher made Nov 24 at 2018 7:51 PM

SFC Timothy Dutcher — Sat, 24 Nov 2018 19:51:22 -0500

Have fun. Of all the reasons you joined, adventure was somewhere on the list. Forget that it isn't always on your terms and enjoy the moment.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 26 at 2018 10:41 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 26 Nov 2018 22:41:27 -0500

Check out this thread and my blog within it.
https://www.rallypoint.com/shared-links/attn-private

ATTN: Private | RallyPoint

Digging deeper.

Response by SPC Ryan Vanlaanengregory made Dec 6 at 2018 12:28 PM

SPC Ryan Vanlaanengregory — Thu, 06 Dec 2018 12:28:47 -0500

- You are living in the peak of Toxic Leadership, the ARMY knows it's a problem but it's growing faster than they can fix it.
- Make sure you figure out how to do your own administrative paperwork, figure out how to submit awards, know a sworn statement inside and out, keep digital copies, ask for or make digital copies of everything.
- Do not expect your leadership to do it for you, in fact drop expectations of leadership all together, what you get in Basic/AIT is night and day different than your actual unit.
- It's not a weak move to go to the medic or the TMC, if your stuff hurts it's not supposed to, if it's broken get an LOD and don't quit fighting till you get one. All those tough guys around you who call you a sick call ranger will be calling you in 10 years to get sworn statements for that time they twisted the crap out of their ankle at PT that one winter because they now have arthritis.
- Seek good leaders, if your NCO or LT aren't making leaders, go find ones that are.
- Three up one down: know how to do the three jobs above you, and the one below you at all times. Most of the time everything is at an 8th grade education level so it's not that hard.
-Take a correspondence course every month, minimum, they are easy, and the POS ass backwards dirt-bag in the unit is doing it, he'll get promoted before you.
- Exit strategy: The military is as hard on the body as it is on the mind. you should be trying out as many jobs and roes as you can so you can figure out what you do and don't like to do, start figuring out what you want to do in the civilian world and then find external online training for that, go for industry certifications if you're getting close to ETS. Post 9/11 isn't going to last forever, so don't think you're gonna get out and slack off in school while you're becoming a functioning member of society.
- Don't marry that stripper/bartender/waitress/tag chaser, The extra couple hundred a month you get when deployed isn't worth the cost of a divorce later down the road. Date a lot, have fun, wrap your tool
- Don't Add to or subtract from the population unless you have to.
- Making it to 20 years with two wars (depending on your MOS) isn't easy, so get that Thrift Savings plan going ASAP and put away at least 5% of each paycheck a month into it. If deployed drop as much as you can into it, you're not gonna spend it anyway. You still gotta have Net worth when you wanna use that VA loan so build up a savings, and don't blow it on a 2 door coup.
- Take someone who has a car loan under 3% for 60 months with you to buy a POV and not to a dealer anywhere near post.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 27 at 2019 8:03 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 27 Feb 2019 08:03:38 -0500

670-1 standards, always be early to formations, meetings, appointments, keep your chain of command informed and ask for advise before doing anything cause someone out there been there and done that. Lastly always stay motivated train your mind to stay positive and don't be afraid to fail.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 7 at 2019 12:08 PM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 07 Jun 2019 12:08:12 -0400

If someone asks you for a bucket of prop wash, chem light batteries, keys to the drop zone, etc...it's a trap. However, if someone asks you for a box of grid squares, those do actually exist. Surprise them by bringing back a box of these...

Response by PV2 Connie Pyburn made Jun 26 at 2019 12:10 PM

PV2 Connie Pyburn — Wed, 26 Jun 2019 12:10:59 -0400

Look at it as a game..
Control your emotions and
Know..it will be over soon..
It helped me with 15 mi. Road marches, kp, etc.

Response by SSG Jeffrey Leake made Aug 15 at 2019 5:41 PM

SSG Jeffrey Leake — Thu, 15 Aug 2019 17:41:59 -0400

Listen to your NCO's. Always have more then one pen and keep a notepad in your cargo pocket. Don't take shortcuts. Always show up early for formation. If you don't know, ask someone. Do correspondence courses.

Response by SGT Donald Croswhite made Aug 15 at 2019 7:11 PM

SGT Donald Croswhite — Thu, 15 Aug 2019 19:11:40 -0400

Keep your mouth shut, and assume you know nothing.

Response by SPC Lissa Wick made Sep 29 at 2019 5:27 PM

SPC Lissa Wick — Sun, 29 Sep 2019 17:27:25 -0400

Private, you are part of the military family now. Your fellow soldiers are relying on you to keep high standards and exercise fortitude in every endeavor. And, carry on soldier.

Response by SPC(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 20 at 2019 5:02 PM

SPC(P) Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 20 Oct 2019 17:02:52 -0400

Don't

Response by PV2 Wayne Grinnell made Dec 2 at 2019 9:03 AM

PV2 Wayne Grinnell — Mon, 02 Dec 2019 09:03:37 -0500

Look, listen, do as your told.... don’t loose sight of your goals.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 26 at 2020 5:23 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 26 Jun 2020 17:23:02 -0400

Exceed the Standard, Maintain discipline, and professionalism. That's all you need.

Response by SPC Steven Glass made Dec 20 at 2020 9:11 PM

SPC Steven Glass — Sun, 20 Dec 2020 21:11:08 -0500

Wow, I never got the notification that this was asked.

But I will offer one piece of advice to anyone entering the military for the first time: DO NOT enlist for “ the educational benefits” or just to get “experience” for later in life. If you are going to enlist, do it with the intention of making it a career. No other “job” in the world will allow you to work for 20 years and retire, most of the time at less than 40 years old still able to pursue another career!
If you can do 5, you can do 10, if you can do 10, you can do 20!

Response by SFC Melvin Brandenburg made Feb 10 at 2021 11:23 AM

SFC Melvin Brandenburg — Wed, 10 Feb 2021 11:23:08 -0500

Nobody is going to manage your feelings for you. Never, ever, complain about anything. Always do your best, even tasks you dislike. Hold yourself and others accountable for meeting the responsibilities assigned to you, and for heaven's sake, don't go asking barracks lawyers on social media on how to get around your CoC.

Response by SPC David S. made Feb 10 at 2021 11:37 AM

SPC David S. — Wed, 10 Feb 2021 11:37:31 -0500

Not entirely related to military but things that tend to cause problems.
1) Don't marry the first guy or gal you meet.
2) Save your money.
I feel these two could have lingering affects well past your time in uniform.

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 4 at 2021 10:58 AM

PFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 04 Apr 2021 10:58:24 -0400

Stay away from the unmotivated troublemakers

Response by MSG Pat SingR made Nov 16 at 2023 12:19 PM

MSG Pat SingR — Thu, 16 Nov 2023 12:19:49 -0500

Have a mind set of "Can do attitude". The rest of the team will back you up. --been there done that.

Response by SSG Donald Bramley made Nov 16 at 2023 1:43 PM

SSG Donald Bramley — Thu, 16 Nov 2023 13:43:34 -0500

Accept, quickly, the way you are adressed; The yelling, Orders, and disciplind demanded of you. Show your strenght with positive responce.

Response by SGT Frank Vega made Jan 27 at 2024 9:34 AM

SGT Frank Vega — Sat, 27 Jan 2024 09:34:19 -0500

Follow orders, keep your trap shut