Posted on Sep 17, 2015
In our society, do we still put females on a pedestal?
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With the idea of women potentially joining and participating in combat units and their missions, how will we react to a female in trouble. Historically, we, as a society, have protected our females because they represent our mothers, sisters and daughters. Most of the population (I like to assume) reacts very aggressively when we see a man abusing a female and will stop the action from happening. Many may even do more than stop the abuse by physical means.
Will you react differently watching a female battle buddy be abused by a combatant rather than a male?
Will you react differently watching a female battle buddy be abused by a combatant rather than a male?
Posted 9 y ago
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I definitely put mine on one. Might be why I have been married for over 25 years. She is my Queen. Happy wife = Happy life!
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There is no question that I have placed my wife on a pedestal and to a degree, I suppose, I tend to put most women on one (though lower) until they fall off. That being said, I am old enough to well remember the "double standard". Different behavior was expected of women and it was painfully unfair. Sadly, instead of expecting men to elevate their behavior to match that of women, we seem to have lowered our expectations of women (and I'm not just speaking of sexual behavior). One day while helping coach my daughter's soccer team I watched as a gang of girls got into a brawl with one another nearby. I was amazed at the ferocity of their attacks and even more by their language. I've heard farmers plowing a rocky field with a mule who might have blushed had they heard them. Sad... Bottom line: I most likely would respond differently in combat (if I were still young and virile enough to participate) to protect a female comrade than a male one. Indeed, I can well imagine how I might place myself and my comrades in danger because of my response. Then again, I'm old. Maybe you younger service members have a different attitude. Do you?
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MCPO Roger Collins
Personally, I don't think its a matter of age, CPT, but of societal changes. Your post is exactly how we were taught about respecting females. Women can have it both ways.
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Part of today's hubris involves PC, to the point gender neutrality, gender bending and whatever PC says is appropriate with most of this done on the fly. Or more likely than even that, is the color of the day.
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