Is it appropriate for a young soldier to attend a children's school for Veteran’s Day?

2017-11-05T12:57:36-05:00

I’ve literally don’t nothing, I’ve been in for about a year, haven’t deployed, and I really don’t want to seem like I’m a poser and I most definitely don’t want to take away any lime light for service members who actually deserve the recongnition. However, it means a lot to my brother and sister that I attend. Is this okay? Maybe I’m overthinking it.

Response by CPT Jack Durish made Nov 5 at 2017 1:01 PM

2017-11-05T13:01:23-05:00

Go. Enjoy. They need to meet you, to be inspired by you. You signed the same blank check as the rest of us. Yours simply hasn't been tendered for payment yet. So what?

Response by SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL made Nov 5 at 2017 1:03 PM

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PV2 Private RallyPoint Member thanks for sharing, I think its ok, your still a Veteran also. So why not-to your family. It is Veterans month. Thank you for your service.

SFC William Farrell PO1 William "Chip" Nagel LTC Stephen F.] SGT Robert George SMSgt Minister Gerald A. "Doc" Thomas Maj Marty Hogan MSG Andrew White SGT Private RallyPoint Member SGT Philip Roncari SPC Margaret Higgins SrA Christopher Wright SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth SSG Derrick L. Lewis MBA, C-HRM SP5 Michael Rathbun SGT Michael Thorin SFC Shirley Whitfield SSG Diane R. COL Mikel J. Burroughs SFC George Smith

Response by SFC Thomas Nichols made Nov 5 at 2017 1:10 PM

2017-11-05T13:10:07-05:00

You should go. You made the commitment and your family is proud of you.

Response by SFC Christopher Taggart made Nov 5 at 2017 1:16 PM

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I say, go for it! You are already starting off as a positive role model. When you introduce yourself, don't down play it, but just let them know how long you've been in, your current job, and you're looking forward to more exciting things that can come out of the military. Just answer their questions the best your can. Thank you for your service.

Response by Capt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 5 at 2017 1:17 PM

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If you are doing the job you have been assigned too and have not dodged deployments you are part of the force. Do not think less of your self because your number has not yet been called. Be proud of serving.

Response by LTC Stephen F. made Nov 5 at 2017 1:17 PM

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It is wonderful that your little brother and sister want you to come to Veteran’s Day at their school PV2 Private RallyPoint Member. They must be proud of you.
The fact that you are serving in the uniformed Armed Forces qualifies you as a service member and indeed as a veteran.
We generally are not responsible for where we serve or deploy to or don't deploy. We serve as best we can wherever we are assigned.
Thanks for mentioning me SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL
FYI COL Mikel J. Burroughs LTC Stephen C. LTC Ivan Raiklin, Esq. Capt Seid Waddell Capt Tom Brown SFC William Farrell SSgt Robert Marx SSgt Private RallyPoint Member TSgt Joe C. SGT John " Mac " McConnell SP5 Mark Kuzinski SPC Private RallyPoint Member SrA Christopher Wright PO1 William "Chip" Nagel SP5 Robert Ruck SCPO Morris Ramsey SGT Michael Thorin SPC Margaret Higgins

Response by SFC Joseph McCausland made Nov 5 at 2017 1:46 PM

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Pvt... no one who has earned the right to wear the uniform of the United States Military is a poser. You have a "fresh" perspective of what it is like being a solider. Accept their invitation and wear your uniform with "Pride"..... "Thank You For Your Service".

Response by SGT Cynthia Barnard made Nov 5 at 2017 1:55 PM

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Go get put the uniform on just like everybody else does your overthinking it if you took the oath then you’re a veteran and you’re allowed to do it and you should be proud of taking that step

Response by SSG Trevor S. made Nov 5 at 2017 1:56 PM

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Go have fun.

Response by SSgt Robert Marx made Nov 5 at 2017 2:05 PM

2017-11-05T14:05:11-05:00

PV2 Private RallyPoint Member you should definitely go to your little brother & sister's school and stand like a true American soldier for that is what you are. I suppose you are through your MOS school of NBC and know many things. I suppose you are in fact selling yourself short. Every service member has been what you are now at one point. Stand tall!

Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 5 at 2017 2:23 PM

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PV2 Private RallyPoint Member Attend and have fun!

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 5 at 2017 3:07 PM

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Not everyone puts their hand up, takes an oath to defend our Country and successfully gets through basic and AIT. Be honest, show respect, stay above the political BS, and everything will be OK. Enjoy yourself, be proud of what you have done.

Response by COL Vincent Stoneking made Nov 5 at 2017 3:55 PM

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Go. It will mean a lot to them and you might be the first service member that some of the kids have ever met.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 5 at 2017 5:25 PM

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You have nothing to prove to civilians and don’t have to trade war stories. Just be honest tell them about your MOS and why it is essential to the Army. They will be impressed regardless of time in or lack there of. Go for it!

Response by Maj William W. 'Bill' Price made Nov 5 at 2017 5:52 PM

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PV2 Private RallyPoint Member what a wonderful opportunity. I think you should go, and use the opportunity to share why you enlisted, and who some of the Veterans that are role models for you. Tell them about your training so far,as and what you are looking forward to. You may never have a chance like this again. I suggest you embrace it.

Response by SP5 Mark Kuzinski made Nov 5 at 2017 5:56 PM

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Just do it - they are so proud of you!

Response by SGM Bill Frazer made Nov 5 at 2017 5:59 PM

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1, DO IT 2. Get use to it, you are now your family's link to the Military as well as your community. 3. The minute you swore your enlistment oath, you became a spokesperson for the Army. We are a minority in this country, this is you chance to explain what you have seen and experienced in the Army.

Response by SN Greg Wright made Nov 5 at 2017 6:00 PM

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Don't denigrate your service. You've written the same blank check as the guys and gals over in the middle east. NOt your fault you haven't been sent anywhere yet. You WOULD go, right? So yeah. Go make your siblings happy, and be proud of yourself.

Response by Maj Marty Hogan made Nov 5 at 2017 6:25 PM

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Go. You signed your name on the line and are part of an elite club- as long as you are wearing it correctly you will be fine. Period.

Response by SPC Diana D. made Nov 5 at 2017 6:37 PM

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PV2 Private RallyPoint Member Just because you haven't deployed yet you are still a veteran. Your brother and sister are proud of you. There is no reason why you shouldn't go. Just remember you also deserve recognition!!!

Response by SFC Dave Beran made Nov 5 at 2017 7:22 PM

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You are over thinking it. We have had numerous young military members recognized at different events. You volunteered to serve. You are not a poster.

Response by LCDR Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 5 at 2017 7:50 PM

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Go! Wear your uniform with pride. It's a big deal for younger siblings to "show off" their heroes.

Response by SPC Douglas Bolton made Nov 5 at 2017 8:12 PM

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PV2 Private RallyPoint Member Go. My son came to my school to talk to the kids, back in 2000. He was treated like a hero, and I was proud to stand with him. You have that same right.

Response by PO2 Loren Gilmore made Nov 5 at 2017 8:25 PM

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For your brother and sisters sake, please feel free to go and have a great time. You raised your hand and took an oath, that makes you a veteran no matter where you served Eden. It will be good PR for the kids to see you in your uniform standing tall before them and lets them know by you that they can also join and serve their country in a noble spirit. Have fun and consider yourself in great company of those that stood before you. Thank you for your service Eden. Doc Gilly.

Response by MSG Frederick Otero made Nov 5 at 2017 8:40 PM

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Overthinking. Nuff said.

Response by WO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 5 at 2017 8:42 PM

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It’s okay to attend, but what will you talk about like you said?

Response by SFC Michael Hasbun made Nov 5 at 2017 10:02 PM

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You absolutely should do it, and be proud that your family is proud of you!

NOTE: For everyone yelling that putting on a uniform makes you a veteran, please bear in mind that "veteran" is defined as follows:
"Title 38 of the Code of Federal Regulations defines a veteran as “a person who served in the active military, naval, or air service and who was discharged or released under conditions other than dishonorable.” This definition explains that any individual that completed a service for any branch of armed forces classifies as a veteran as long as they were not dishonorably discharged."

So no, currently serving service members are not veterans. They are Service members. You aren't a veteran until you leave the service. Not a big deal, just wanted to clarify the nomenclature confusion...

Response by SPC Robert Coventry made Nov 6 at 2017 4:15 AM

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You have every right to go to a school and represent, its not combat veterans day. Go and serve your community like you serve your country

Response by SPC Brett Curry made Nov 6 at 2017 7:27 AM

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Why do you think that just because you haven't deployed you don't deserve to go? Ur part of the first 1%er group. U are a military soldier. You go and show these little kids that women Can do anything. Your family must be proud of you or they wldnt want you to go...your still a Veteran. The LTC bellow is right. We don't get to choose our duty station. So if they ask why your not in war explain everything to them. The soldiers cldnt fight without people who have their back's here at home. There's a lot of jobs in the military, and not all of them are combat jobs.

Response by SGT Dave Tracy made Nov 6 at 2017 8:51 AM

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Just go.

Response by Lt Col Jim Coe made Nov 6 at 2017 9:51 AM

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Absolutely okay! With appropriate permission from your supervisor, you should attend. Wear the prescribed uniform--if in doubt wear Blues. Be proud of what you've accomplished and your Guard Unit.

Response by PO1 Don Gulizia made Nov 6 at 2017 10:38 AM

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If it weren't for young service members, such as yourself, us graybeards would still be standing watch. Go! By signing your name on the dotted line and raising your right hand, you've earned it. Your siblings are proud of you. The only thing I would suggest (and I would tell any of my young sailors) is to make sure your uniform is squared away. You are representing more than yourself. (your family, your community, your service, and your country) I'm sure it will be great. (Just look at the smiles on your siblings faces when you are there.)

Response by Lt Col Scott Shuttleworth made Nov 6 at 2017 11:35 AM

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GO...You are far from a poser. You signed the line saying that you are willing to go and die if needed. You are just as much a part of the veteran club as anyone else wearing the uniform...PERIOD. Go let those kids strut you around like a Tom Turkey. They are proud of you as they should be.

Response by CSM Richard StCyr made Nov 6 at 2017 12:16 PM

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Yes young Jedi you are over thinking it. If you were invited; go. Wear your uniform in accordance with the reg, and visit with the folks and allow your brother and sister to show you off to their friends. I put my uniform on and go when my Grand kids ask, it makes their day to have Grandpa sit with the veterans.

Response by Cpl Justin Goolsby made Nov 6 at 2017 7:05 PM

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I'm more curious to know what schools are open for Veteran's Day. I thought it was a nationwide holiday. Personally, I'd say it's fine. Your brother and sister want to support you, so let them. I remember when my little brother's Sunday school class all wrote me a card thanking me for my service. Take the positive support when you can get it, because next week, the public could be calling you a baby killer and spitting on you.

Response by LTC Jason Mackay made Nov 6 at 2017 8:44 PM

2017-11-06T20:44:03-05:00

PV2 Private RallyPoint Member if we don't tell our story, others will fill the void with their own narrative. Stick to what you know and what you do. You will not be a poser unless you start making stuff up. Put on your our ASUs, look sharp, and go represent. Besides kids will relate better to you than a dinosaur like me.

You may also help the other vets going to the event. May be they don't have that agility of a paratrooper any more. I used to go to the same schools each Veterans Day in NJ. I met some great vets. You could really help in small group discussions with older vets by bridging the generation gap when the older vets tell their stories. I used to do that as a way to keep them in the lime light as they may not be with us too much longer.

Met a great WWII infantryman. His big story was running into LTG Jumpin' Jim Gavin in the dark and ended up driving him around for a few days. Youngest GO in the Army, was an orphan. Very famous during and immediately after the war. Made several combat jumps as a flag officer. For him, Gavin was a rock star. The high school we were at was GEN Odierno's alma matter, so,it was a bridging point to the kids there as they had no idea who Jim Gavin was. They knew who Ray Odierno was so it worked. So for a second that guy felt like somebody as the facial expressions of the kids changed in the classroom.

Response by LtCol Robert Quinter made Nov 6 at 2017 8:57 PM

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You've already given this more thought than you should. Your brother and sister probably worship the ground you walk on and want to share their pride in you with all their friends. Any vets there will respect you also; I know I always do when I'm invited to such celebrations. You've finished recruit training and made that grade; you've gone through your specialty training; those two accomplishments mean as much to school kids as anything. Wear your uniform with pride and enjoy the respect you've earned and will be afforded to you. You'd be surprised at the number of vets that have little more to talk about than you.

Response by LTC John Shaw made Nov 6 at 2017 10:44 PM

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As I retired just two months ago, I am so proud and depend on this new generation of soldiers coming in and filling our boots. Thank you!

It is appropriate for you to attend a Veteran Day event and I thank you for your service. While I could pull out more than a few statutes and argue who is and who is not a veteran, these are unimportant to your brother and sister and their schoolmates.

I trust that your intent is to one day serve your country long enough in one of those categories and to be honorably discharged.

Blessings to you, your family and your school.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 6 at 2017 11:03 PM

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You are not a poser and have every right to attend as an active serving member of the military service. Who better to give an observation of how they like and are treated within the service. As everyone has mentioned you signed on the dotted line to serve your country. You are now part of the brotherhood/sisterhood and nobody should question your status as a serving member. You deserve recognition just as well as anyone even those who have deployed. You do not make the decisions where you go. Only 0.4 percent of the American population is active military personnel today in America. That makes you pretty special that you chose to wear the uniform. Good luck and enjoy your day!

Response by Maj Bill Smith, Ph.D. made Nov 6 at 2017 11:21 PM

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You are and have served. Relax, Enjoy the school visit.

Response by PFC Robert Rice made Nov 7 at 2017 1:49 AM

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First of all thank you for carrying on the tradition of serving this great nation and thank for your service. I feel that you should be proud to attend when a loved one asks of you.
Be proud of your uniform and be proud of your service.

Response by Capt Seid Waddell made Nov 7 at 2017 2:23 AM

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Go for it and make your brother and sister proud.

Response by SFC Everett Oliver made Nov 8 at 2017 1:12 PM

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You wear the uniform you've earned the title....

Response by SFC Jim Ruether made Nov 8 at 2017 1:35 PM

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PV2 Diller,
You young lady raised your right hand, took the Oath of Enlistment and swore to defend the United States against all enemies both foreign and domestic. You have joined the elite 7% of our population in these United States that wears the Uniform. I would go and go proudly. God Bless you and go proudly and enjoy this time with your brother and sister. Thanks for Serving our Country too by the way!

Response by SSG (ret) William Martin made Nov 8 at 2017 1:42 PM

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I think you should go in APFU and don't forget the safety reflective belt. Just joking, go ahead and represent your community, your family, the Army, the military as a whole and our country.

Response by GySgt Charles O'Connell made Nov 8 at 2017 2:39 PM

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Go for it!

Response by MAJ Sheldon Smith made Nov 10 at 2017 8:26 AM

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You have made a decision on what to do with your life. You have quite a bit you can share. You are a Soldier, and you have a story to tell young people about the road that led you to this point. Relate to them and you may help someone with no direction find their destiny. I am proud of you. Hooah!

Response by LCpl James Robertson made Jan 13 at 2018 5:49 PM

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That doesn't make you less of a soldier its up to your Command to send you where you are needed, to wear that uniform and have done what all your Unit have ask of you deserves enough recognition, I would definitely go.

Response by Sgt William Croghan made Jan 14 at 2018 3:22 AM

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Absolutely. Tell it like it is and maybe some will realize that those of us who haven't been in a war zone have still served.

Response by CPO Walter Kay made Jan 14 at 2018 6:50 PM

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When you joined you have signed a blank check to the government. The payment could be your life. So be proud.

Response by Kathlean Keesler made Jan 15 at 2018 11:20 AM

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If this makes any difference in this topic I’ve asked an 83 yr old widow (she’s a life long democrat, 4 children, several grand children) she said YES our vets and active duty ought to visit schools NOT for a promotion into military service, but to be respected for their discipline. AMEN

Response by Steve Nelson made Jan 24 at 2018 1:17 AM

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Yes it is ok. Be a positive impact on those who look up to you. You're going to be a veteran, regardless. You might be able to even work that into your message to the children that are seeing you in that light.
The insecure, "You're not as good as me" cocksuckers will hate you for something they lack in themselves.
Represent the military in the right way, not like the self righteous cowards who look to snipe at others.

Response by Lt Col Bill Fletcher made Jan 27 at 2018 8:17 AM

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I am late to this party, but attend. It is nice your brother and sister are proud of your service to our Country and it is appropriate to show your service on Veteran's Day. It might even encourage some children to sign up when they are older.

Response by SPC Richard Bankus made Jan 27 at 2018 10:21 AM

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You are over thinking it .... Be proud and represent your branch with pride and dignity! It’s completely appropriate.

Response by SPC William Weedman made Jan 28 at 2018 3:45 PM

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When I was in AIT, I was granted Christmas leave. On Christmas Eve, my mother insisted I wear my Class A uniform to midnight Mass. I had exactly my name tag and the US discs on my collar, no stripes, no ribbons, not even my Corps pin. I wore it, after Mass a Air Force LTC comes up to me wishes me a Merry Christmas and says “My Mom made me wear my uniform too”. When he said that I was no longer embarrassed about my lack of “ornaments” on my uniform and was proud I was serving. Be proud you are serving, we are proud you joined the profession of arms.

Response by PO1 Chad Alcock made Jan 29 at 2018 11:57 AM

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I look at it this way, as long as your command and the school have no problem with it, go for it. Just be yourself and you'll have no problems.

Response by MGySgt Billy Dial made Jan 29 at 2018 8:33 PM

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PV2, take a breath...You are not a poser. You wear the uniform, you serve your country. Be proud of that, and attend these events when you can. Let your siblings reflect their pride in you as well.
Semper Fi

Response by SPC Paul Vatter made Feb 2 at 2018 1:09 PM

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Yes all the schools should be happy to have a member of the military be there

Response by SFC Kevin Turner made Feb 2 at 2018 1:40 PM

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It is always a good thing for the younger generation to see you at an event such as this because it shows them the pride you have in our great country and our armed forces. This is something that needs to taught to our children considering they are our future.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 5 at 2018 8:05 AM

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"Maybe I’m overthinking it."

Yep. Go. Enjoy. Share your pride in our country and your uniform. Maybe your doing so will result in some of your bother's and sister's classmates recognizing taking note of some of their serving or prior-service relatives ... or perhaps serving themselves in the future.

Response by PO2 David Allender made Feb 5 at 2018 10:49 AM

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A person in uniform should have pride in themselves and the service they serve for the Country they serve, and should not be a shame to go where and when needed. The more Americans see a military person, the more pride an America will have in their armed forces. It is such a shame that you only hear of the bad things that some people in service do, but never the good things that they do. It seems to me that the journalist are prejudice about the armed forces. We have good people in service, and they should be seen and heard from in all the good things they do for their country, both in country and overseas. It was never given in the news, but while I was ion Nam, in many places where needed the military men would get out and build schools, and orphanages. It wasn't a given by our government, but if the need arose, then men would volunteer to do want was need for the people. I hope that it is still being done today.

Response by LCpl Troy Gwyn made Feb 9 at 2018 3:41 AM

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You are over thinking it. Go. Represent your service branch proudly.

Response by SrA James Cannon made Feb 9 at 2018 9:37 AM

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Heck yeah you should go. It's a Veterans Day program, not a War Heroes program. You are indeed a veteran, so yes you should go.

Response by SrA James Cannon made Feb 9 at 2018 9:37 AM

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Heck yeah you should go. It's a Veterans Day program, not a War Heroes program. You are indeed a veteran, so yes you should go.

Response by Col John Gray made Feb 17 at 2018 12:18 AM

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You're serving, and for that, you deserve to be proud and share your feelings with others! If your young siblings want you there, it means that they are proud of you! You'll probably be able to answer a lot of questions in those youngsters minds! Colonel John C. Gray, USAF (Ret)

Response by PO3 Manuel Serrano made Feb 18 at 2018 11:28 PM

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As a combat vet, Vietnam, then as a teacher, all grade levels, I didn't talk much about Veteran's Day (though I should have-at least about other vets). I concentrated on Memorial Day. We did plays, sang, did special events in the playground (on the Friday before). It's how I could do it.

Response by SFC Greg Bruorton made Feb 19 at 2018 10:23 AM

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I echo the sentiments of the majority on this thread. Go and present yourself as a proud Soldier for your siblings and for the school. Despite the fact you haven't shipped overseas (yet) there is always the chance it will happen before you ETS. Your brother and sister are proud of you now; give them another reason to keep their pride and love in you. I recommend going in your Class As with shined brass and shoes and not in camouflage.

Response by SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth made Feb 19 at 2018 12:50 PM

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Keep the siblings happy, they look up to you.

Response by PO3 J.W. Nelson made Feb 19 at 2018 12:55 PM

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Our community invites all veterans that are willing to do so, to attend Veteran's Day celebrations at all of our local grammar schools. It's been very successful and very rewarding for both students and veterans. Nothing like seeing what you fought to defend !!!

Response by SPC Byron Skinner made Feb 23 at 2018 9:33 PM

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Sp4 Byron Skinner. This is a tricky question. Two major issues to be aware of. First Army Regulations and what the local base commander thinks of what you want to do. Assume nothing and if possible get the approval in writing. Secondly what does the school think of the idea. Veteran Day is to honor all of those serving not just Veterans of past conflicts, the wounded or any particular type os military service. Many schools would rather not have a sister in uniform attend the Veterans Day assembly for a number of reasons some good and acceptable and other that I'm sure most of us would take exception to. If there is any objection for the school don't. Instead after school wear you uniform and take the family to one of the many restaurants where wearing the uniform is encouraged.

Response by PFC Dwayne Dittoe made Feb 26 at 2018 4:37 PM

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go and be proud that your siblings are proud of service members

Response by PFC Mandy Parczak made Mar 2 at 2018 9:56 AM

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I used to go to my old grade school before I had my daughter when I was in. the kids got a blast with seeing a soldier there. I even joined in the activities for gym classes and encouraged the kids to do their best. The way they lit up made me smile.

Response by SPC Chet Jr. made Mar 3 at 2018 7:38 PM

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Yes! Make your siblings proud. Head up, chest out.

Response by SSG Norbert Johnson made Mar 6 at 2018 12:48 PM

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Are you the Soldier, and do you have siblings or cousins attending the School? If so, then it is entirely appropriate regardless if you had not served in the theater of war. Be proud that YOU are in the top 1% of Americans that serve in the Military to protect the Constitution for the United States, the Document that protects everyone's rights.

Response by SFC Wayne Theilen made Mar 8 at 2018 11:07 AM

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Some old crusty guys, myself included. Will debate your not a veteran until you engage in the two way gunnery. But you wear the uniform too. Hopefully properly. Go make us proud and represent us. You only have one family, and support them. Have fun with it

Response by MSG Mark Million made Mar 9 at 2018 3:48 PM

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I believe it is a great idea, it's not about self recognition it's about giving the public an opportunity to recognize soldiers and veterans alike, whom through your current service you represent.

Response by SPC Russell Andrews made Mar 10 at 2018 7:43 AM

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The fact that you raised your right hand and swore by the oath to protect and defend the Constitution gives you the right and the privilege to wear with pride the uniform of the United States Military ,all branches included. Thank you for your service!

Response by SFC Freddie Porter made Mar 12 at 2018 12:12 AM

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Absolutely: in blues with whatever awards and decorations you are entitled to wear (fill sized medals more ten than not; even if you only have the NDSM; you have earned it and should be proud of your service). Expect blow back from educators though. After all, they won’t serve cops coffee in Oakland, CA.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 17 at 2018 1:42 PM

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PV2 Diller, absolutely you should go attend. You’re still trained in your WTT’s just like the rest of us, and it’s not shameful that you haven’t been called up to use them yet. Keep in mind when going to these events, you’re not only representing yourself, but the Army as a whole. Drive on and take pride in what you’ve accomplished and what you represent.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 17 at 2018 5:08 PM

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What do you mean you’ve done nothing. You signed up and that really is something. Not everyone does or can. Thank you for your service. Good luck.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 17 at 2018 6:12 PM

2018-03-17T18:12:38-04:00

Yes, and we do it here on Guam. Many school staff and teachers have family that served or in the service, as well as the children.
These aren't the Vietnam days, today people respect the military, not all but most.

Response by SSG Donald H "Don" Bates made Mar 17 at 2018 6:15 PM

2018-03-17T18:15:07-04:00

YES!!!! Attend and your little brother and sister will be so proud of you.

Response by Capt Tom Brown made Mar 17 at 2018 6:44 PM

2018-03-17T18:44:20-04:00

You got a lot of positive feedback on this and hope you availed yrself of the opportunity to visit them often.

Response by Sgt Wayne Wood made Mar 17 at 2018 8:11 PM

2018-03-17T20:11:18-04:00

The kids need to see we are humans... not superheroes, not unapproachable, not objects of fear or distrust.

Go have fun... but remember you represent the rest of us, and those who’ve gone before.

Response by MSG John Duchesneau made Mar 17 at 2018 10:10 PM

2018-03-17T22:10:19-04:00

Yes, you are over thinking it. You have already done something - you joined the military and that's more than most people do. You bother and sister are proud of you and you should honor them with your attendance.

Response by MSgt Newton Talley made Mar 21 at 2018 8:43 PM

2018-03-21T20:43:14-04:00

Go with the attitude that you stand ready to defend our country...

Response by TSgt Duke Clements made Mar 27 at 2018 2:07 PM

2018-03-27T14:07:09-04:00

You wear the uniform, and your experience so far should be celebrated. Your mission so far has been to train...and defend. That is more then most of this generation of milk drinkers are doing!

Response by CMSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 5 at 2018 1:22 AM

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You are a representative of the United States Department of Defense. Be proud of who you represent, for you are part of the force and remember this always. You will be ask in future engagements/deployments and such to represent and just remember those impressions you leave behind of our younger generation.

Response by Cpl Geoff Smith made Apr 7 at 2018 1:45 PM

2018-04-07T13:45:54-04:00

Really overthinking it, they're proud of you. Go in service uniform, and talk about your experiences. You don't have to be a "hero", to be a positive role model.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 23 at 2018 2:30 PM

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Absolutely. As had been well said above you signed the same black check, swore the same oath. Go, be a great example to the kids.

Response by PO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 23 at 2018 4:37 PM

2018-04-23T16:37:04-04:00

Yes, you are overthinking. Be proud that he is...

Response by CPL Bill Spence made Apr 25 at 2018 11:26 AM

2018-04-25T11:26:17-04:00

You wear the uniform. You are taking the same chances that soldiers that deployed. You are not a poser. Your experiences, so far, are unique to civilians. You'd be surprised what you know that they don't. I'd say give it a try.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2018 8:22 AM

2018-04-27T08:22:31-04:00

I'm sure I'm not the first to say this, but you first need to learn how to write and grammar... wow. Second, if you haven't deployed, you are not a Vet of any war. So no, you should not and I would be pissed if you did to be honest. It's good to ask, but most likely you'll make the wrong decision anyways.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 27 at 2018 8:41 AM

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If you siblings want you to go then by all means go. They obviously are extremely proud of you and want to share your story with the other children at their school. Just relax and tell your story, why you joined, what motivated you, what service means to you. You'll do fine.

Response by SPC Margaret Higgins made Apr 27 at 2018 3:01 PM

2018-04-27T15:01:22-04:00

In my opinion, your brother and sister would feel Honored to have you show up at their school; as a young Soldier. PV2 Private RallyPoint Member

Response by Lt Col Charlie Brown made Apr 27 at 2018 3:29 PM

2018-04-27T15:29:01-04:00

Absolutely. I bet some of them can relate to you. Talk about basic traing and you military job.

Response by MSG Louis Alexander made Apr 27 at 2018 3:54 PM

2018-04-27T15:54:08-04:00

Never be afraid to reflect patriots pride, for in you lives the spirit of Freedom and comradery. You awaken in the morning, you dress in uniform. You turn in at night, you’re in uniform. Any way you look at it you are an American Soldier, a modern-day Minuteman serving his/her nation, community and family. Be proud of who you are and do it for them!

Response by SSG William Jones made Apr 27 at 2018 5:35 PM

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Response by PO3 Manuel Serrano made Apr 27 at 2018 8:00 PM

2018-04-27T20:00:56-04:00

Yes, and if you choose to wear your uniform, do it. You serve. Semper Fi!

Response by MSG Bonnie Casler made Apr 28 at 2018 1:15 PM

2018-04-28T13:15:06-04:00

Of course you can attend. Good public awareness as well as letting your family share in your pride as a soldier.

You must follow your command policies as far as time off, proper uniform and proper conduct on your part. You should be proud that your family wants your there.

Response by SPC Herb Jorgensen made Apr 29 at 2018 8:49 PM

2018-04-29T20:49:38-04:00

PV2 Eden,PLEASE DON'T EVER SAY ..I've literally done nothing.You have enter a group of less than 1.2% or the American population that signed a contract.Yes your short in grade time but Tempus Fugit.The days will accrue.By ALL means attend,if allowable wear your A's and stand proud as the few who attend the reason of enlistment.Stand for those who can't,for those who won't,and above all.......Never Never Never Give Up ...Winston Churchill.Make your brothers and sisters proud=be there.Your here now...Soldier On

Response by SSG(P) Dan Keene made May 6 at 2018 4:30 AM

2018-05-06T04:30:15-04:00

Dress to the 9s, stand tall and confident, and make an impression. It doesn't really matter where you have been, just sell what you do. The rest will appreciate you.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 7 at 2018 2:39 AM

2018-05-07T02:39:42-04:00

If the young soldier is actually a veteran and has approval from his or her public affairs office then yes.

Response by SPC James Shumate made May 8 at 2018 11:07 AM

2018-05-08T11:07:01-04:00

Dude, just go. If anyone says anything just keep your mouth shut and ignore them. They're just being crusty.

Response by SPC Ramon Urias made May 8 at 2018 6:28 PM

2018-05-08T18:28:09-04:00

You, along with the many others who have replied are exactly the types of service members needed to be a representative of the great community that are the keepers of freedom. The fact that you are humble and respectful says a lot. Go enjoy yourself and thank you for your service.

Response by SGT Sean Moore made May 12 at 2018 11:13 PM

2018-05-12T23:13:56-04:00

Totally appropriate. Barely 1% of US citizens ever serve in the military. Be proud to be one of the few and being a role model for youngsters.

Response by Lt Col Private RallyPoint Member made May 13 at 2018 9:44 AM

2018-05-13T09:44:03-04:00

As already mentioned, you are a veteran. You have done more than most Americans have to serve their country. You stepped up, took an oath, and some day you might be tested. Be proud of your service and go to your brother and sister's school.

Response by SSgt Christopher McKenna made May 16 at 2018 6:16 AM

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Just as an aside, Title 38 of the Code of Federal Regulations defines a veteran as “a person who served in the active military, naval, or air service and who was discharged or released under conditions other than dishonorable.”

Response by TSgt David Desmarais made May 16 at 2018 9:44 AM

2018-05-16T09:44:55-04:00

Just because you haven't deployed doesn't make you any less of a soldier. You committed like all others and "wrote the blank check" to defend, protect and serve. You would be standing in for others who cant, a very honorable demonstration of your commitment. Go for it!

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made May 26 at 2018 9:15 AM

2018-05-26T09:15:25-04:00

Yes, I used to work in an office where we did a whole but, visit class rooms, lunch with the kids...

Response by SPC Richard Tarlton made May 27 at 2018 3:44 PM

2018-05-27T15:44:19-04:00

You are serving your Country. Whether you've deployed or not , You have made that commitment to serve. Your brother and sister are Proud of you, as they should be. It will give other kids an opportunity as well to see you, ask questions of you. To better know what veteran's day is all about; The men and women who serve this Country, Who have served this Country, Who have sacrificed for this Country, And for those who have Died for this Country, so that people here may be free. I say go. I also Thank you for your service.

Response by SGT Robert Martin made May 27 at 2018 11:57 PM

2018-05-27T23:57:37-04:00

I think it's great that the Pvt has a family that takes pride in the fact one of its members is serving this great nation (even if he's a REMF). Even better is the privets understanding, and concern that he might unintentionally mislead the children he would be speaking to. Because of his concern I think it's safe to say he's going todo an outstanding job representing the army, and presenting just the right attitude twords what in my humble opinion is one of the most important Holliday's we have. I think as a nation it's important to educate our children about the importance of service, and the fact that protecting our way of life is more important than any individuals wants or needs.

Response by SCPO Larry Knight Sr. made Jun 2 at 2018 8:37 AM

2018-06-02T08:37:19-04:00

Definitely 100% ...

Response by MGySgt Jerry Suarez made Jun 3 at 2018 11:29 PM

2018-06-03T23:29:16-04:00

Dont overthink it, you still signed on the dotted line, you went to basic then to your school and I'm sure you have some experiences you can share with the young ones. You're a veteran so be proud!! The one thing I do caution you is answer the questions you are asked with honesty and dont add tall tales. Remember you are still representing your service so act accordingly and with pride!

Semper Fi

Response by SGT Randall Smith made Jun 9 at 2018 5:20 PM

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You are a soldier. Does not matter if reserves, National Guard or Active duty, you put the uniform on and are prepared to stand up for your country. It is important that these kids see this. It is also important that your brother and sister are proud of you.
In 1968, I was home on leave from Germany on my way to Viet Nam. My youngest brother was in 5th grade and wanted me to wear my uniform and come to his " show and tell" class. I was bombarded by the questions you would expect from 5th graders. " Do you have a tank?, Are you a General? Have you got a gun? " It was really pretty neat being the center of their attention. Some of the class wrote me in Nam for several months.

Response by Cpl David Amos made Jun 14 at 2018 10:03 PM

2018-06-14T22:03:03-04:00

Just because you haven't been deployed doesn't make you any less significant or less of a member of DOD. Remember you raised your right hand and swore to protect the constitution od the U.S. from enemies foreign and domestic like the rest of us. There was more to the swearing in but you get the point. Take part in it. I got the idea off joining because of a young LCpl who came to our school on recruiters assistance. You might the inspiration to some young person. Semper fi

Response by LCpl Matt P. made Jun 17 at 2018 11:05 AM

2018-06-17T11:05:08-04:00

You've been in for a year and done nothing? If you do what your told, do the job you are assigned/trained to do then you are fulfilling your contractual agreement with the armed forces.
Where your uniform with pride, do nothing to bring dishonor to yourself or the military, do your job to the best of your ability and hold your head up...just live up to the pride your siblings already have for you and your service.

Response by COL John Power made Jun 17 at 2018 4:08 PM

2018-06-17T16:08:26-04:00

Absolutely go. You have nothing to apologize for. You are serving your country and do us all proud. The kids will love it and so will you. Stand tall!

Response by LT Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 20 at 2018 8:24 PM

2018-06-20T20:24:27-04:00

PV2, you swore an oath to defend our Constitution and Country, to and including forfeiture of your life... That is more than 80% of our country does. Serve with honor, serve with integrity. You should feel honored with your siblings for wanting you to be there.

Response by SGT Louise Hawthorne made Jun 22 at 2018 12:05 AM

2018-06-22T00:05:41-04:00

Veteran's day honors ALL Veterans, Memorial day honors those that gave the ultimate sacrifice in Service. If called to represent, you should be honored to do so. Act accordingly.

Response by CW3 Kevin Storm made Jun 22 at 2018 2:36 PM

2018-06-22T14:36:45-04:00

IMHO, by all means, I think you should go. I think it is something that as a new soldier you can pass on insight to these younger kids about what it was like for you. Sure having Captain America in there would be cool, but he isn't real, You are. You can also show a lot of the younger women that their are roles for them beyond the traditional female career paths.

Response by SN James MacKay made Jun 23 at 2018 8:33 PM

2018-06-23T20:33:13-04:00

Oh, Hell yes. As much press as service member get thee days, you'll be a hit. My older son served in the Army, and went on a camping trip with his little brother's Scout Troop. It made their week end.

Response by LT Terry Lober made Jun 25 at 2018 3:14 AM

2018-06-25T03:14:44-04:00

After 180 days of service, provided you ultimately get an Honorable discharge, you are a veteran. Just putting that uniform on can make you a target. You are a veteran shipmate.

Response by Sheryl Foland made Jun 29 at 2018 10:12 AM

2018-06-29T10:12:01-04:00

Absolutely! Positively! You should go. As an advocate for all veterans (active duty, retired, or terms ended), it is essential that you support your family who supports you! I am constantly having to explain to those who served in the Coast Guard and National Guard that they too are VETERANS.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 30 at 2018 10:05 PM

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Once you signed you became an “ambassador” for the army. Go, enjoy yourself, and show the next generation what it is and means to be a soldier. You might feel insignificant but you have a story and that story may be the reason someone joins in the future. One of your roles as a soldier that you might not realize is to lead and develop future leaders, something that school will be filled with.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 1 at 2018 2:32 PM

2018-07-01T14:32:03-04:00

I've been in 15 years I have attended veterans day activities at my child's school and of my neices and close family friends. The way I see it is if you still in good duty status, or successfully completed a full contract and weren't separated for disciplinary reasons it's all good.

Response by Sgt Ronald Harris made Jul 1 at 2018 9:55 PM

2018-07-01T21:55:01-04:00

By all means GO! At present, you are a member of the armed forces, whether you deployed or not. You are evidently held in high respect by your siblings. I would check the school for permission 1st, and go if approved.

Response by Cpl Jeff Ruffing made Jul 1 at 2018 10:43 PM

2018-07-01T22:43:00-04:00

You ARE overthinking this. Go proudly to this event. Children need to see that being in the military isn’t about killing people or being shot at. The military is more than that. What about the cooks? Yeah, those guys that got up at 2 in the morning to cook for battalions. Always had hot coffee, hot soup or a melted cheese sandwich. Nothing puts a smile on your face in the shittiest situation then those hero’s. Or how about the pay clerks? They got me paid every two weeks. Think that’s an easy job? How about supply? Making sure you get your beans, bullets and bandages. How about fuelers, water techs? Why is it people do the most awesome jobs in the military and aren’t nearly as recognized? What about your Drill instructor or Drill Sergeant? Look at the hours thes bastards put in. Holy hell! A lot of jobs can be listed but I don’t have the crayons or the patience to explain. Be friggin proud you wear the uniform and have a job, MOS. Talk about that. Tell the kids that. I’m sure they are just as excited to hear about a tank mechanic fixing tanks and driving tanks and test firing tanks. Just cause you don’t have a combat patch don’t mean your duty is less. I pray for you son, pray that you don’t have to go thru that hell. I would give my patch away if it would erase some memories. When people ask me about my time, I talk about everything else. Some kids ask if I was ever in combat, I say no so I don’t hear the questions I don’t want to talk about or remember. Make your sister and brother proud. Go in as you, with your MOS and tell the kids your experiences in your MOS.

Response by Sgt Frank Staples made Jul 20 at 2018 12:53 AM

2018-07-20T00:53:50-04:00

It's absolutely okay! I wish that more schools would invite more service members to attend their special days. It's totally a win-win situation!

Response by Sgt Jmeans M made Jul 30 at 2018 2:09 AM

2018-07-30T02:09:32-04:00

When you raised your right hand and said " I .. your name... do solemnly swear that I will support and defend the Constitution of the United States......: Then you are not a poser.
Just do not ever lie about your service. Those who do, may talk about their time, most posers are loudmouth braggarts.

Response by SSG Stephen Hill made Aug 3 at 2018 6:48 PM

2018-08-03T18:48:05-04:00

Yes, it is okay by this Veteran that you go to the school and represent those who cannot go. Stand tall.

Response by MSG Michael McEleney made Aug 5 at 2018 2:32 PM

2018-08-05T14:32:41-04:00

Most people who attend a Veterans Day presentation at school are Vietnam or Gulf War vets. Basically some grandfather giving a history lesson. Being in your late teens or early twenties you’re someone they know and can relate to. Besides which they’re showing that they’re proud of you and wish to share that pride with their classmates.

Response by Amn Michele Garza-Mathis made Aug 8 at 2018 10:26 PM

2018-08-08T22:26:28-04:00

That shouldn’t even be a question!? You are a US servicemen, why would that be inappropriate? You represent all of us veterans when we served. It would be an honor to have you at there Veterans Day celebration. You should always be proud to represent our military. We have all been where you are at. Thank you for your service! I am damn proud of mine and everyone else that takes that oath!

Response by CPT Don Martin made Aug 10 at 2018 11:43 AM

2018-08-10T11:43:06-04:00

You signed on the line. You are wearing the uniform. You may not have served in a conflict yet, but you are still an excellent example of service to our nation and should be honored to attend with your siblings. You can defer to those with greater experience, but never put yourself down for stepping up and taking the oath to serve your nation!

Response by CPT Tom Rethard made Aug 13 at 2018 11:17 AM

2018-08-13T11:17:33-04:00

To me, this is a very simple question, but you can answer it for yourself by answering a couple of other simple questions:

(1) Did you take the oath of office? If so, then you signed that same blank check the rest of us here did to guarantee the continuation of our way of life under the Constitution: “Payable to the People of the United States, for any amount, up to and including my life.”

(2) Have you followed the lawful orders of your superiors to the best of your ability?

I’m sure your answer to those questions is in the affirmative, so you are just as honorable a soldier as any Medal of Honor recipient, just not as decorated.

I belong to a Vietnam veterans’ group that has an interesting motto: “You were ...you did.” That’s short for “ “You were there and you did your job.” The group includes almost every specialty, and we don’t care if you were being fired at every day or never heard a hostile round. The same applies to you. You wear the uniform and you do your job, whatever it is.

I think you should go to school to show them that every citizen can (should) take up the responsibility of protecting this country. Remember that many members of the Colonial Militias had never actually fought until it was necessary. You are the modern Militia. We pray you will never have to fight, but we also thank our Creator for those who prepare to fight if necessary.

“Si vis pacem, para bellum.” Or “who would have peace must prepare for war.”

Go. And Inspire!

Response by GySgt Gary Koss made Aug 13 at 2018 2:33 PM

2018-08-13T14:33:33-04:00

I took the trouble to look up what the definition of what it takes to be consider a US veteran, was very surprised to what the answer was. My feeling is if he is on active duty I would welcome him as a brother anytime, anywhere. know what I mean and by the way "Go Navy Beat Army".

Response by CSM Charley Heimerdinger made Aug 20 at 2018 8:17 PM

2018-08-20T20:17:05-04:00

Putting on the uniform is an honor that each of us has earned, we are all veterans as we all have written the blank check made payable to our country up to and including our lives. I have had the honor of service during peace and in war. During peace is when as a soldier we prepare for war and that is what you are doing as a young soldier now.
We as soldiers are the last one to ever want to go to war since we truly bear the horrors of that action, however we must be ready to defend our country so as to keep the horrors of war off our soil.
Go to the school and be proud of being a soldier because of what you stand for is to give our next generation a better country.

CMS Heimerdinger USA (ret)

Response by PO2 David Allender made Aug 21 at 2018 3:30 PM

2018-08-21T15:30:44-04:00

I feel that every father/mother, in service, should attend the school that his/her children attend.

Response by PO2 Steven Michaeli made Aug 23 at 2018 5:45 AM

2018-08-23T05:45:39-04:00

Like it or not, being in uniform makes you an ambassador for your unit, your branch, and quite often your country. You are a mentor when in the presence of the impressionable. Embrace it with pride or get drunk, get in fights, take a knee, get rude tattoos on your neck and act like you’re in the NFL. Represent when you can.

Response by MAJ Bruce Davie made Aug 25 at 2018 12:26 PM

2018-08-25T12:26:15-04:00

You should absolutely go & IN Uniform! I was invited by my niece & my grandson. They loved it & are very proud of their uncle & grandpa. I also enjoyed the experience. The vets greeted each other as brothers & sisters in arms!

Response by Sgt John Koliha made Sep 1 at 2018 8:39 PM

2018-09-01T20:39:33-04:00

How could you NOT do this. The pride your sibs have shown for you must be making your heart swell to break out of your chest. Shine your shoes, comb you hair and DO US PROUD. God speed.

Response by A1C Charles Fletcher made Sep 3 at 2018 12:47 PM

2018-09-03T12:47:12-04:00

You are definitely over thinking here. If you can attend with your siblings, do it. After all, they are the reason for serving in the first place.

Response by 1SG Jeffrey Nickerson made Sep 3 at 2018 3:19 PM

2018-09-03T15:19:54-04:00

Soldier your presence is actually required there you being part of our elite club, you are not a poser you took the same oath that has been said for many of years by all of us on this thread and the military as a whole your family will expect you there go be proud , show your stuff!!!

Response by PO1 Robert George made Sep 3 at 2018 6:20 PM

2018-09-03T18:20:37-04:00

couple things...
read your oath of enlistment. you earned the right when you signed on the dotted line. you volunteered to give up certain things(including your life) when agreed to help protect this country and what it stands for.
current make-up of congress is about 18-20% that have any real exposure to military life. if that's going to change got to get the kids attention early and show them the positive side. the media sure isn't going to do it it and social media is even more negative.
contrary to what you read/see/hear the military is an honorable profession. show them how great it is and how proud you are to be a part of it.
so yeah, it's appropriate...go get 'em, soldier!

Response by Sgt Carlos Barrera made Sep 6 at 2018 11:26 AM

2018-09-06T11:26:49-04:00

Absolutely, but please do not wear BDU's wear dress uniform it will be more impressive!!!!

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2018 11:30 AM

2018-09-06T11:30:39-04:00

There's absolutely nothing wrong with you going to a Veterans' Day program. How are you a poser? You're in the military right? It doesn't matter AD, NG, Reserve - you wear the uniform. I'd be glad if I had younger siblings in school and they wanted me to come.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2018 5:47 PM

2018-09-06T17:47:16-04:00

Overthinking it. The public needs to hear about why you made the choice you did.

Response by SSG John Lasseigne made Sep 11 at 2018 10:51 AM

2018-09-11T10:51:08-04:00

Go, just be honest about your position and service.

Response by SMSgt Sheila Berg made Sep 13 at 2018 2:41 PM

2018-09-13T14:41:58-04:00

You shoot attend. You are part of the Military. There is no shame in not being deployed. The public needs to know all aspects of service. I served in a support position and proud. Every one has a job to support the mission.

Response by CDR Jeff Nolan made Sep 14 at 2018 7:51 PM

2018-09-14T19:51:27-04:00

Damn straight you go. Don't over think it. I echo all the positive feedback. Wear it proudly and go represent all of us who have served as the next generation of "warfighters"!

Response by PV2 Glen Lewis made Sep 17 at 2018 2:28 PM

2018-09-17T14:28:59-04:00

Yes, your'e overthinking it. There's no limelight to take away from being a soldier. Why don't deserve the recognition as a soldier? Beats me; for that matter it beats me why you'd even think to think or ask this question.

Response by PO1 Ron Clark made Sep 21 at 2018 12:33 PM

2018-09-21T12:33:37-04:00

I feel it is very appropriate, even if they havent deployed yet! They still signed on that dotted line that risks everything not excluding their life if they are deployed. As long as they put a positive face on the military and the branch they are serving, it will serve as an inspiration to some of the children at the school.

Response by SSG Benjamin Collins made Sep 26 at 2018 12:39 PM

2018-09-26T12:39:46-04:00

Yes you should go you have done more than most Americans and the current President has done. You have signed up to defend this great Country of ours which gives you the right to go to your siblings school with honor.

Response by TSgt Alan Stancombe, J.D. made Oct 3 at 2018 7:45 PM

2018-10-03T19:45:40-04:00

just go bro.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 5 at 2018 10:52 PM

2018-10-05T22:52:26-04:00

Don't see amy reason why not. Just be squared away, respectful, and humble. Not too many combat vets would give you crap about going to a kid's school ceremony in your uniform. If you try to go to a bar in uniform however, totally different issue. Lol. Make us proud.

Response by SGT Frank Pritchett made Oct 7 at 2018 12:33 PM

2018-10-07T12:33:12-04:00

I don't see a problem since it is Civil Service duty and with an accumulation of hours their is an award for this so long as you go through your Chain of command and document it correctly. The kids get a kick out of it and is great for morel of both the school and yourself, Cutos for doing this.

Response by SPC Dwight Turner made Oct 7 at 2018 3:30 PM

2018-10-07T15:30:55-04:00

uh I think its alright I mean if having a child in school it gives them a chance knowing what you do !!
growing up when in school we wasn't lucky having family coming to school I feel no matter you should be proud !!

Response by PO2 Amanda Morgan made Oct 16 at 2018 9:19 AM

2018-10-16T09:19:05-04:00

Take part in the event... you never know what events you will miss because of your military obligations... if someone asks just tell them the truth about the lenth of time you’ve been in... there’s no shame in that... check with your chain of command to see if you can wear your uniform since your still AD...

Response by PO3 J.W. Nelson made Oct 19 at 2018 6:37 PM

2018-10-19T18:37:01-04:00

Absolutely it's appropriate !! Nothing stands out at these events like an active duty military person in full uniform, showing off their national pride !! I use to go all the time while active !! Now I can't fit in my uniform but I still go !!!

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 19 at 2018 7:00 PM

2018-10-19T19:00:08-04:00

You are definitely over thinking to much. First, you have done something, you enlisted! that's the first step and regardless if you have deployed or not you still went through the training to become who you are today.
Do not start labeling yourself or thinking you are less than any other service member because you did not deploy yet. I am sure you will have your time in a far off land somewhere like the rest of us have. Your little brother and sister look up to you, they are proud of you and they want to brag about their sister the Soldier. You would not be taken anything away from Veterans or anyone else if you pay your siblings school a visit during this day. Wear your dress uniform with pride and watch the faces of those kids when you walk in, they do not know the difference between a Private or a General they just see a Solider in front of them, they will ask all kinds of crazy questions, best thing to do is have fun, and be accurate with your answers. Best of all, this will be something your younger siblings will remember for ever.

Thank you for your service!!

Response by MSgt Jerry Waters made Oct 21 at 2018 9:39 PM

2018-10-21T21:39:57-04:00

Why not and who is telling you can't?

Response by LTC James McElreath made Oct 28 at 2018 11:22 PM

2018-10-28T23:22:36-04:00

PV2 Eden D,
There is nothing wrong with your going to your local schools and as a matter of fact the local recruiters should welcome you doing so! At one time the Army had a program that a young soldier came back and was an recruiter assistant, so to speak. Eden the best thing that could happen to you is that you never deploy!! You are still a soldier and have a right to represent the Army.

Response by LTC James McElreath made Oct 29 at 2018 12:27 AM

2018-10-29T00:27:37-04:00

PV2 Eden D,
The schools should be honored to have you there! The recruiters should be there with you. You would be a great recruiting tool They used to have a program Called: Home Town Recruit, and you were there for 6 months. Make the Army proud and do your thing. I would caution you though, wear the uniform with pride, hair cut to reg. and last but not least don't embellish on things you know nothing about.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 29 at 2018 6:09 AM

2018-10-29T06:09:13-04:00

Of course! Yes you are overthinking it. I don't care if you have deployed. Your willingness to do so (i.e. raising you right hand), is all I require.

Response by SPC Wanda Vergara-Yates made Nov 2 at 2018 9:59 AM

2018-11-02T09:59:47-04:00

The fact that you signed up, served honorably to date, and still wear the uniform says something. In your case, you have a personal connection to the school through your siblings. Therefore, it is totally appropriate to attend any event where they wish to honor veterans, especially since a lot of these events honor not just those who "have served in the past," but also those who currently serve. Be ready to answer questions about what experience you do have. Also try to have a short speech prepared just in case you are asked to say something. This event will be the time to take pride in the uniform you wear and do everything you can to live up to what it means to wear it. Good luck and thank you for continuing to serve.

Response by SP5 Michael Evans Sr. made Nov 14 at 2018 11:51 AM

2018-11-14T11:51:07-05:00

You wear the uniform and have taken the oath?? YOU ARE OUR Brother/Sister... NEVER let anyone take that away from you. You have the RIGHT to show your face ANYWHERE you want and to do so with PRIDE.. Let your siblings enjoy their family member's service. SHOW UP and MAKE THEM PROUD

Response by SGT George Edward Brown made Nov 25 at 2018 7:23 PM

2018-11-25T19:23:48-05:00

ABSOLUTELY !!!

Response by PO1 Rick Serviss made Nov 26 at 2018 5:33 PM

2018-11-26T17:33:12-05:00

Did you do it? I hope so.

Response by SFC Regina Boyd made Nov 30 at 2018 6:49 PM

2018-11-30T18:49:31-05:00

Why not? You're a soldier. That's all there is to it!

Response by SGM James Pepple made Dec 2 at 2018 10:02 PM

2018-12-02T22:02:30-05:00

You're definitely over thinking it. If your brother and sister would like you to attend the Veterans function then you should.

Response by SSG Shawn Mcfadden made Dec 3 at 2018 6:36 AM

2018-12-03T06:36:46-05:00

As long as you stay true to yourself. Okay, at the current stage, Eden hasn't done much compared to those who have deployed, this that and the other. However Others will see her as a person who made a choice to serve the Country, putting others before self, being a positive role model to those younger than her, things like that.

Response by CWO3 Mark Davies made Dec 7 at 2018 12:29 PM

2018-12-07T12:29:25-05:00

You are still serving our country, so yes you so have the right to be proud and show up at your child's school.

Response by SFC Robert Walton made Dec 16 at 2018 12:12 PM

2018-12-16T12:12:03-05:00

I have read alot of this Thread. I DO NOT care what anyone says you done the right thing almost everyone likes to see a bonified Soldier in Uniform and talk to them. You did not pose or claim anything except what you are a Soldier, Thank you for your Service and thank you for supporting the US MILITARY And representing the U.S. ARMY keep up the good work and always be true to your self.

Response by SrA David Heineken made Jan 3 at 2019 8:19 PM

2019-01-03T20:19:47-05:00

Your over thinking. We all serve!

Response by SPC Jerry Jones made Feb 14 at 2019 6:55 AM

2019-02-14T06:55:01-05:00

Yes, attend. It will inspire them and get them on the right track to thinking of Soldiers as something good, instead of being brainwashed by civilian military-haters to think we are bad, scary, whatever.
In my city, we (The American Legion members and Veterans) are invited to the school to attend, speak, etc. on Veterans Day. If they have nothing like this at their school, suggest to them that they invite members of the VFW and American Legion, and soldiers from a local military base to speak. Hearing stories about military service from Veterans and Active Duty soldiers is inspiring to a lot of kids. Some kids only see soldiers in video games and movies. Meeting them in person will get them to support the military and possibly even sign up.
Actually, at our events, it is often the soldier who just signed up is the one they want to speak to the most because it's closer to their age/timeline in things they might want to do, and they want to know feelings, thoughts, how hard it was in basic training, etc.
...and remember, don't sell yourself short. Anyone who bravely enlists in the military is deserving of some sort of recognition.

Response by 1SG Steven Imerman made Oct 2 at 2019 2:08 AM

2019-10-02T02:08:19-04:00

Go! Rambo started as a private, too. Your siblings will never forget it.

Response by SPC Terry Williamson made Dec 5 at 2019 3:08 PM

2019-12-05T15:08:16-05:00

They're proud of you ,we are proud of you , stand tall and attend . Treat the vets in attendance with respect and deference and you may take away some valuable insight that will make you an even better soldier .

Response by 1st Lt Padre Dave Poedel made Sep 3 at 2020 12:45 AM

2020-09-03T00:45:23-04:00

Let this ber your first public apprearance, and what a great audience! You go!

Response by SGT Jim Humphrey made Oct 22 at 2020 2:35 PM

2020-10-22T14:35:43-04:00

Yes, Go be proud of what you have done and what you will do...

Response by SPC David Roberts made Aug 23 at 2021 10:56 AM

2021-08-23T10:56:28-04:00

I was only in only three years, fortunately during peacetime, so I was never shot at. But my kids were so proud I served and always urged me to walk with other veterans during Veteran's Day parades and stand up when veterans were honored. I was glad to do so, especially if I was the only vet there. Like others wrote, I signed the check when I enlisted, even though the Army never cashed it.

At my last job, I was the only vet among 40 employees, so I definitely felt I needed to stand up and be recognized representing all who sacrificed or who were willing to if called.

As soon as you put on that uniform, you represent our nation's armed forces and all who served or are serving.