It Isn’t For Recognition, It’s Just For Me

2017-06-30T12:12:18-04:00

Within our community, the community of service members and veterans, we often hear people complain or perhaps make fun of those who decide to wear their “- - - War Veteran” hats or some piece of flair from their old uniform. Many people attempt to call out that wearing these things is an attention-seeking tactic; a passive-aggressive way of poking each person that you encounter in public and whispering in their ears, “Hey, I’m a veteran. You’re supposed to thank me for my service now.” But I want to contest this opinion, and offer you a different theory.

If you have not already figured, I happen to be one of those veterans that often wears a pin, or badge, or hat that signifies that I am, in fact, a veteran. Many a time, you will be hard pressed to find me not wearing something that is easily recognizable as something attributed to the military. I have a dog tag that hangs from the short chain on a zipper that is on my leather jacket. On another one of my leather jackets, I often have a “combat cavalry badge” (which I know is not a real award) pinned just above the left breast pocket. I also have my good ol’ DV hat that is laden with little pins.

Yes, I like to have a little something on me, but it is definitely not to call attention to my prior service. Frankly, I could not care any less if I ever get thanked. In fact, I am, more often than not, very uncomfortable when someone walks up to me and says, “Thank you for your service.” Like most other vets, I really don’t know how to properly respond. So, why would I walk around rocking a dog tag or badge on my jacket, or a pin on my vet hat? Let me tell you why...

Many of us have a difficult time when we leave the military. It is a stressful time. The life that you have known for many years is over. If you are anything like me, someone who enlisted directly out of high school and spent my entire adult life in the military (at that time), it is a horrible shock to the system when you are thrown back out into the real world. For a while, like many, I dove into a bottle and swam around inside of it for quite some time. I eventually climbed out of that bottle and began working to get my life back on track, but it wasn’t easy. What made me want to get back up and try to succeed was the memory of what I once was.

You see, I believed when I left the military that I lost a part of myself; like my identity had been stripped from me, like I was a shell of my former self. I no longer wore my sergeant chevrons, or my beret, or any of the uniform for that matter, so obviously I was no longer a soldier. However, after months of self-reflection, I came to the realization that just because my time in the military was over didn’t mean that I was entirely stripped of the title I had earned. I was still a soldier, I had earned that title years ago when I stood up at my OSUT graduation at Fort Knox, Kentucky. That couldn’t be taken from me. It just took me a long time to see this fact.
Even though I had come to this realization that I could still hold onto my identity, time passed and I got further and further from the last time I polished my shoes and made sure that those ribbons were exactly 1/8 inch above the breast pocket. It became easy to slip back into forgetting who I was. That’s why I wear something, anything, always on my person. It isn’t for the looks, it isn’t to ensure that I get my 10% military discount at Applebee’s, and it certainly isn’t for strangers to come and thank me. It’s a reminder to myself of what I have done, where I have been, and who I am. It is a subtle reminder that I am no longer in uniform, but I am still strong, still intelligent, and still destined for greatness.

So perhaps the next time you see someone, man or woman, young or old, regardless of their branch of service or the conflict they served in, and they are wearing something that you recognize, don’t automatically think that they are looking for attention. Maybe approach them and talk to them. Ask them what they did, where they served, when they did it. Maybe that conversation will go a long way and help remind them of who they are. I guarantee that it will make their days just a little bit better, and you might benefit as well from the conversation.

Just remember that you don’t know what is going on in that other veteran’s head. Perhaps the last thing they need is a brother or sister in arms looking down on them for simply being proud of who they are. Sometimes, we all just need a little reminder of who we are, and who we used to be.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 30 at 2017 12:16 PM

2017-06-30T12:16:06-04:00

SGT Joseph Gunderson Hot Damn, sir. That was it, in a nutshell. I, like you, wear my old PT shirt because I want to remember what I was a part of. I don't do it so that everyone knows I served. I actually feel awkward when people thank me because I don't feel like I did anything during my brief stint. That's part of my drive to get back in, too.

Response by PO3 Sandra Gomke made Jun 30 at 2017 12:31 PM

2017-06-30T12:31:31-04:00

Very well said!! Thanks.

Response by PFC Roger Goff made Jun 30 at 2017 12:32 PM

2017-06-30T12:32:11-04:00

SGT Joseph Gunderson I could not agree more with your reasoning behind showing your personal pride in who you are, what you have done, and where you have been. Myself I wear the Corps of Engineers Regimental Crest on my hat, and I always wear my hat. The hat is from The National Eagle Center where I work. It's in a camo pattern with a partial American flag on the bill. I could give two shits about being recognized and thanked for my service. It's about pride in what I do now, and what I did back in the day while serving my country.

So I'm with ya brother. Don't let anyone tell you you are wrong. They just don't understand where we are coming from. Drive on!

Response by SGM Mikel Dawson made Jun 30 at 2017 12:45 PM

2017-06-30T12:45:02-04:00

I do the same thing. I am proud of my service and normally have something which says so. Nothing wrong with being proud of what you have done.

Response by MSG David Johnson made Jun 30 at 2017 12:51 PM

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I do the same, whether it's a hat, or something else. I used to be uncomfortable when people would thank me. I finally got to the point of saying "You are very welcome". And if asked why I stayed as long as I did, or why I volunteered for my last 2 deployments, I would simply say "So that others didn't have to go".
If an older Vet thanks me, I return the favor.
I was in line at a grocery store when this older couple got in line behind me. The lady pulls a card out of her wallet and hands it to me and thanks me for my service. Her husband is wearing a WWII/Korea Veteran hat, but he remains quiet.
The card said "Thank you for your service, from a Veterans wife, and a Gold Star mother".
Wow! That meant a lot to me, even though the Old Vet hadn't said anything, I stepped around his wife and said "Thank you for your service, and your sacrifice". He reacted like he didn't get many of the younger generation who actually thanked him.

I don't think I'm bragging when I wear my I ED Hunter, or SAPPER tabs, I'm proud of what I accomplished in my 25 years, but I didn't do it alone.

Response by SFC Everett Oliver made Jun 30 at 2017 12:58 PM

2017-06-30T12:58:24-04:00

I wear a Ball cap when I'm out and about running errands or whatnot. It proudly proclaims that I am retired Army. When working around the yard you'll find me wearing my old bush hat. And if I have occasion to dress in a suit there is my retired rank Chevron and on the pocket of my sports coat is an American Legion patch.
What do I do when I see another veteran displaying their pride? I shack their hands, give them a hug and call them brother or sister...

Response by CWO3 Dennis M. made Jun 30 at 2017 1:15 PM

2017-06-30T13:15:26-04:00

I could not have said this any better! Agree 100%!

Response by MSgt George Cater made Jun 30 at 2017 1:21 PM

2017-06-30T13:21:48-04:00

Outstanding, well articulated post. I'm sure it resonates with many here who'd never take the time to put it into words. For me, and those who feel the same who may never be on RP, thanks for saying it.

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 30 at 2017 1:57 PM

2017-06-30T13:57:29-04:00

"Just remember that you don’t know what is going on in that other veteran’s head."

If we could all just apply this to everyone we came in contact with, the rest of what you said (which was great) wouldn't need to be said at all.

Response by MSG Bob Proctor made Jun 30 at 2017 2:00 PM

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SGT Gunderson, you keep doing what your doing brother. And, I always also say thanks for your support. We are a very small percentage that serve. If someone can brag for being an athlete, or a business owner, or whatever, we can be proud for what we've accomplished in service to our Country as well! And by the way, great blog!

Response by PO1 Brian Austin made Jun 30 at 2017 2:04 PM

2017-06-30T14:04:05-04:00

Nothing wrong with showing service pride. I have a few ship's ball caps that i wear regularly, a lot of times in conjunction with my "Proud Marine Dad" t-shirts. Can be a good conversation starter.

Response by CPO Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 30 at 2017 2:53 PM

2017-06-30T14:53:19-04:00

Very well said and thank you!!

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 30 at 2017 3:48 PM

2017-06-30T15:48:05-04:00

I wear a baseball cap with this patch. Love the looks I get.

Response by SMSgt Lawrence McCarter made Jun 30 at 2017 4:07 PM

2017-06-30T16:07:20-04:00

My bother gave Me a Viet Nam veteran's hat, it had it for 6 years before I wore it. That was the first time in 35 years I had worn anything that identified Me as a Veteran in civilian clothes. I now wear that hat all the time now. I was always proud of My military service and also my time in Viet Nam but din't feel like dealing with anti Military A-- Holes like those that were waiting for us on return to the US. The civilian attitude has changed and also it easier to spot Your fellow Veterans and say hello to them. I'm not looking for attention except maybe from My fellow Veterans and the bond that exist with the Men and Women that served.

Response by Cpl Justin Goolsby made Jun 30 at 2017 4:44 PM

2017-06-30T16:44:02-04:00

I fully agree. I've been out for 2 years, but despite having the same license plate for years, this year I decided to get a Veterans plate. It wasn't because I was looking for an Attaboy or something. I missed that attachment. I missed feeling like I belonged to something. I missed the uniform.

Every couple months, I might even get a military haircut, not because I'm trying to look the part, but I'm trying to bring back the memories of sitting in that barber's chair.

I could go on and on, but you really hit the nail on the head. Thank you for writing this.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 30 at 2017 6:42 PM

2017-06-30T18:42:51-04:00

Millions of people wear hats of their favorite sports team, fishing gear, cars, etc; why should we worry about wearing a hat representing our service to this country? We shouldn't. If that gives people something to complain about, then so be it. I have no shame rocking an operator hat with a GWOT patch.

Response by Maj John Bell made Jun 30 at 2017 6:59 PM

2017-06-30T18:59:35-04:00

After getting out, I didn't wear anything that indicated my service....Except for my OD green wool socks. The last time I could put together a pair (not a serviceable pair, but none-the-less, a pair) was about 2004 (Left active duty in 93). They were so thin, I probably could have used them to make mantles for a camp lantern.

When my wife retired the pair, against my wishes, it was a sad day. As a compromise she had that last pair framed and presented them to me on the anniversary of my separation. She called me "dumbass" when she gave them to me and I felt for a minute like I belonged again.

Response by CW4 Angel C. made Jun 30 at 2017 8:06 PM

2017-06-30T20:06:49-04:00

It's representing and being proud of your service. Absolutely acceptable! I'm guilty of the hats, pins, tshirts, car stickers, tattoo, Biker vest patches, etc... etc...

Response by SGT Philip Roncari made Jun 30 at 2017 8:46 PM

2017-06-30T20:46:17-04:00

SGT Joseph Gunderson- Thank You!

Response by SA McGarry Ocheltree made Jun 30 at 2017 9:36 PM

2017-06-30T21:36:49-04:00

I would say you are very spot on with this, Thank You for putting this up here as it helped me grasp why I find it comforting to wear my PT sweater or a Navy Vet cap. Having been in for a short period of time comparatively will likely always be a sore spot for me especially so when someone is thanking me for my service, I didn't want to leave and to be honest a part of me never did and never will. I am a Sailor and always shall be.

Response by SPC Jeremy Gardner made Jul 1 at 2017 11:51 PM

2017-07-01T23:51:17-04:00

I wear a lot of my old gear, shirts and such that still fit my fat ass. I have a veteran hat that a fellow service member friend bought me for my birthday. I do not wear this apparel for cognition either, I wear it because it is comfortable, and I miss the friends I made and the companionship. If people don't like my hat, I don't care it was a gift and I wear it proudly.

Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 2 at 2017 12:22 AM

2017-07-02T00:22:40-04:00

SGT Joseph Gunderson Great post! I was at my Brother-in-Law's funeral on Thursday. I received a sun burn on the top of my head. That is one reason that I wear a cap when I am out. I served from June 1968 to June 1972. I flew military standby, so I was required to wear my uniform. I received flack on more than one occasion, especially when I came back from Vietnam. In college, some of the students did not like the military or veterans. I started wearing Marine Corps caps to aggravate some of these folks. I also wear them to start up discussions with other Veterans. A love of country and the Marine Corps is another reason I wear a cap. It has only been since 9/11 that folks have thanked me for my service. It makes me a little uncomfortable, but I appreciate the thank you, and let them know it.

Response by PO1 William "Chip" Nagel made Jul 2 at 2017 2:23 AM

2017-07-02T02:23:23-04:00

I'm an Obnoxious SOB A Liberal Asshole. But I Will Never Fault Another Veteran for Letting the World Know that We Chose To Take Up the Call! We Are Volunteers!

Response by CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 2 at 2017 7:35 AM

2017-07-02T07:35:12-04:00

Nothing wrong with being proud and showing it. No issues with boundaries until you start wearing a string of enemy ears or shrunken heads. Even then you might be considered as making a fashion statement, depending on where you are. Lady Gaga wore a meat suit so almost everything is fair game.

Response by GySgt Kenneth Pepper made Jul 2 at 2017 11:05 AM

2017-07-02T11:05:51-04:00

I'm with you 100%. Other than being a father, husband and son, serving and retiring after 21 years as a Marine is the greatest accomplishment of my life. I am justifiably proud and if anyone takes issue with it they can kiss my arse.
It's not that I wear the hat or have the stickers on my Jeep for recognition. But when you get that wave or head nod from another vet, it's a special feeling. I don't think anyone (except maybe first responders) could understand that. We are a brotherhood of men and women who volunteered to accept the risk of military service and all that goes with it. Hold your head high brothers and sisters. Rock that veteran ball cap. You earned.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 2 at 2017 8:12 PM

2017-07-02T20:12:09-04:00

This was a great post. I work with the public and see Veterans alot. Most wearing some form of insignia that shows they have served in the military. When possible I make it a point to ask about their service because it definitely does brighten their day. I Thank them for their service just to show appreciation for their sacrifice.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 3 at 2017 7:23 AM

2017-07-03T07:23:46-04:00

I am very proud of my service. So much that I made this shirt.

Response by SGT Eric Knutson made Jul 3 at 2017 8:51 PM

2017-07-03T20:51:33-04:00

Well said SGT Gunderson, I could not have said it any better, and I have been trying to think up my answer to that as well from someone I interact with regularly in town. You have summed up my feelings exactly. wearing my jump and AASLT wings on my hat or smock at work reminds me every day to just do the best job I can at what ever I am doing because I AM going to be one of the best at what ever it is I am doing. and also in part to honor those who went before and did not come home again, so for me, it is 2 fold reason. But again, well said and thank you for your service. (and when I have people thanking me for my service, I turn it around and thank THEM for providing me the equipment to perform my tasks with) try that one out sometime, share the feel good with them as well.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 3 at 2017 9:29 PM

2017-07-03T21:29:20-04:00

I totally get it and was one of those guys until I served at NTC and was part of the OC team. I met people there that changed my view of the military and as a whole how everyone was. The reason I bring that up because up until then I had no reason to wear the army swag... up until then. I'm proud to wear it now and can only assume that once I DD214 up Ill not forget where I was for 20 years and how much I owe to the deployments I was a part of and those who did not come back from them.

Response by PO1 Jeffrey R Brantley made Jul 4 at 2017 4:07 PM

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Thank you Brother for explaining that little known fact to our brothers and sisters who like to be little those of us who like to wear our hats, shirts and etc! I served this great nation for nearly 28 yrs total combined service of both Active and Reserve Duties with a trip to Iraq in 2007 as a task force member and then to Afghanistan in 2012-2013 shutting down bases.

Response by LCDR Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 4 at 2017 5:21 PM

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Well said SGT Gunderson! When I left active duty after 24 years, I had mixed emotions about it. However, with a son beginning college, and his sister to follow in two years, I figured we had experienced enough separations of the family. At any rate, I do wear a hat 32 years after my retirement, which identifies me as "Retired Navy". I am still proud of my service and prefer to encourage youngsters to investigate the potential for a quick 'hitch' or career.

Response by MSgt Raymond Stettner made Jul 4 at 2017 5:34 PM

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I have connected with many Veteran's because of a hat or badge. I even found an old friend at a Burger King because he had on an old squadron pin. So heres to you all crazy vets like me who are proud to have served!

Response by SSG Steven Mangus made Jul 4 at 2017 6:45 PM

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I am a big fan of my infidel patch on my hat and on my flight suit for work..the veterans I work with fully understand and the civilians, well that's another story. BLUF..unless you have walked the many miles in "our" boots, you can't truly understand why "we" do it..

Response by MAJ Deanna Sinclair-Parker made Jul 5 at 2017 5:14 PM

2017-07-05T17:14:51-04:00

It took me from 1976 until 2016 to feel comfortable to place my lightening bolts held in eagle talons, one of the patches for the US Army Security Agency. I'm proud I served in the now defunct elite branch. The motto was "vigilance always".

Response by PO1 Patrick Mann made Jul 5 at 2017 6:57 PM

2017-07-05T18:57:46-04:00

I concur with your description 100% . I never thought about why I wear my military items till I read your article . It puts some things into place for me. I do also wear it to have that conversation with other veterans. I look back on those times and think " I really did all that, Wow. " no way would I have gone as far in life without my service. Thanks for putting into words what I always thought but couldn't explain.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 5 at 2017 7:29 PM

2017-07-05T19:29:51-04:00

Excellent post. One of the most thoughtful I've seen on RP in a long time. Thanks for taking the time to write that up.

Response by MSgt John McGowan made Jul 5 at 2017 8:08 PM

2017-07-05T20:08:13-04:00

Well said SGT. I have always been proud of my military service. Yes I have a retired Military tag from Ga, free drivers permit and all the good stuff. I also have a cap with USAF on it and a little pin of my rank. I wear it with pride, not for thanks from people. I have a military ID for 61 years so that tells you something. Am I pro military? Yes.

Response by SSG Curtis Dietrich made Jul 5 at 2017 8:18 PM

2017-07-05T20:18:30-04:00

Very nice, thanks SGT G.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 5 at 2017 9:38 PM

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Thank you SGT Joseph Gunderson for sharing this. There was a time I put everything away and gave away lots of my memorabilia over the years. I was proud to be home and proud of my accomplishment. But not many in my small town were. I eventually wanted to hide everything I had left. I even dressed in my BDUs for Halloween last year and ran into another Vet in his ACUs. As we chatted a little an older woman walked up to the other vet and thanked him for his service. Then turned and walked away. We both kind of looked at each other in disbelief that she would recognize only a man in uniform. It really made me want to run and hide after that!
Even last night at the fire works I got mean mugged by people just for wearing this one. And this ones just a support the troops hat!

I'm just convinced those who mean mug others for their accomplishments are just sour because their lives didn't turn out the way they wanted. And we who were the few to test all odds and fight for our future and there's isn't anything to be ashamed of or hide.

So if anyone who's a civilian actually tells me thank you. I simply reply with "Thank you for your support."

Response by LTC Dan Haveman made Jul 6 at 2017 12:29 PM

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My wife bought me one of these...

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 6 at 2017 6:38 PM

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If you want to wear it, wear it. Please. Our society needs to see it. The informal, unwritten, universal standards in our society have fallen of late. Those who served honorably do a further service when they set the example. Veterans are a minority among the population.

I have met several 20-somethings whose only perception of the military comes from action movies and video games. Those mediums tend to present members of the armed forces as folks who would have done well in the NFL draft or Olympic trials. Not being of the material that typically succeeds in a casting call for the next summer blockbuster, the aforementioned 20-somethings assume that this exempts them and their like from military service. They do not understand that the only difference between them and the vast, overwhelming majority of those who served, is that those who served raised their right hand, and these 20-somethings never did.

I also know 30 and 40-somethings that scoff at veterans, including myself (a service veteran, but not a combat veteran). They will express their doubts about the service of others or express theatrical shock and incredulity at the dissimilarity between the real-deal and what they see at the theaters. Those people (30-somethings and especially 40-somethings, my fellow Gen-Xers) who act that like are, I suspect, trying to compensate for their own inadequacies. (I can think of one guy - while on the subject of people wearing swag - who walks around in exaggerated tough-guy posture with an almost comic-bookish flat-top and drives a cop-car-lookalike. It's pathetic.)

I'm just a service veteran. Never got to go to war, but by the time 9/11 happened, my eyesight was on the fritz anyway. The hardest physical work I ever did was in the Army. My most important work-related responsibilities were in the Army. Now, years later, I can make a mistake and cost a company a lot of money, but back then I could have gotten somebody killed by making a mistake, even during peacetime (I've witnessed deadly effects of mistakes during live-fires at Pohakuloa and during rotations in the maneuver "box" at Hohenfels). Veterans who went to war, (I did not), held truly awesome responsibility - far more than most of the highest paid corporate executives of the business world ever have or ever will. Most of those veterans did it when they young. If civilians can wear their alma mater's swag and their sports team's swag, then as far as I'm concerned can any veteran.

Response by MSG Lance Kelly made Jul 6 at 2017 9:15 PM

2017-07-06T21:15:51-04:00

Great post, thank you. I just retired after 28 years and proudly wear my "U.S. Army Retired" shirts and hats and carry my "Retired" key chain proudly. I'm not asking for attention. I volunteered to serve all of those years, no one made me do it. I tell people, "You can take me out of the Army, but you can't take the Army out of me". I've spent over half of my life serving this nation and I am honored to have served. I have met and worked with many wonderful people. I have gained numerous skills and have been educated. I have received various awards for my performance of duty.
I have traveled the world and been able to do most of it with my family. I had a great retirement ceremony where I was thanked by each of my co-workers, wow, did I feel honored that day. But I didn't do it for those people. I did it for myself and my family. I chose this lifestyle and I am proud to boldly wear items that represent my service. Why do people where clothing of a sports team? You are proud of your team, it makes you feel good to put on that jersey or shirt. I am not looking for attention, I'm not begging someone to ask me to tell them a war story, I am just proud of what I have done. If you ask me about my service I will tell you and I will enjoy sharing it with you because I am proud of the service I provided to our nation and what I got back from it...a career, education, housing, food, friendship, and travel just to name a few.
It feels odd to not put on my uniform so wearing a "Retired" shirt or hat makes me feel connected to something I dedicated so many years to. I'm not bragging, I'm not trying to say I'm a hero, I'm just saying that I am proud to have served my country and our people.

Response by SGT Kevin Berman made Jul 7 at 2017 2:44 PM

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I would agree Joseph. I see is similar to why I wear Michigan material - I am proud to have been part of that organization. I wear Army material all the time - because I am proud to have been part of the U.S. Army.

Response by SFC Charles McVey Sr. made Jul 8 at 2017 4:49 AM

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I put on my full dress Blue Uniform of 2003, Medals and all for every National Holiday and it is not to call attention to myself but rather to honor those who served with me in Nam and did not come home, and for those like me came home with wounds of the mind, PTSD. The many veterans who also came home missing parts of their body, as well as still carrying pieces of metal in their bodies that were never removed. To all of my fellow veterans regardless of the war you served in, wear your uniform or even a part of it with pride, stand tall and stand proud. I SALUTE YOU ONE AND ALL.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 8 at 2017 9:30 AM

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I'm not ashamed when parents tell their kids to say to me "Thank you for your service" and nice to see in both the USA and Canada. I wear my uniform when I go to the USA for drill. I live in Canada. Canadian and soldiers are no longer allowed to wear their uniform off base due to being killed.

Response by SSG Michael West made Jul 8 at 2017 9:23 PM

2017-07-08T21:23:37-04:00

I feel the same and also it great to reach out to brothers in arms. For me i switch different ball caps for the 2 different branches serve in. Where I work out of 256 people there only 4 that has served.

Response by Maj Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 9 at 2017 5:20 PM

2017-07-09T17:20:13-04:00

Great way to explain the way we feel when stepping away from a life we've lived since high school! I also thought I'd pack all my USMC items away and not talk or think about the military after leaving but as I transition this year while on terminal leave, I now have an USMC ring and a friend bought me a necklace with the USMC logo. It's not about showing off...it's a part of me and I like the reminder...almost like a tattoo. BTW, that's on the list for this year, too. Looking for ideas:)

Response by SGT Robert Blair made Jul 9 at 2017 10:07 PM

2017-07-09T22:07:37-04:00

I co-sign on this with you, we earned everything we received during our time in service, so wearing a hat,medals,unit crest or division patch is our right! I do it just like I get my veterans discount from stores that offer it.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 10 at 2017 12:46 PM

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Some are looking for attention, some aren't. I don't care. I'm not going to have anything veteran on my car or person when I retire. That's my choice. Others choose to have veteran items that's theirs. To each his or her own.

Response by SGT James Wisejr made Jul 10 at 2017 2:28 PM

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Amen Brother, you are spot on !

Response by SGT Patrick Reno made Jul 10 at 2017 2:42 PM

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I still wear one of my dog tags. It helps to keep me attached to what was the most important part of my life. It does not matter if other people know, it's just for me.

Response by PO1 T.M. Ritchie made Jul 10 at 2017 5:43 PM

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The only item I publically display that alludes to my military service is an embroidered tape with SEABEES in blue and gold affixed to my key ring. I served many times overseas where it was not safe to display your U.S. military affiliation andit it has become a habit after all these years not to do so.

Response by SSgt Nicholas Merchant made Jul 11 at 2017 3:15 AM

2017-07-11T03:15:01-04:00

You ever look at your civis and think, what I wouldnt give to have my uniform on again? I do, I wear these things for 3 reasons, 1 its part of me like my uniform it feels wrong not wearing something military, 2 Im proud to have belonged to such a proud tradition and fsmily, 3 so i feel safe and comfortable its weird to some but wearing my military stuff is exactly that, like you ssid its for me. Whenever i get thanked i also uncomfortably mutter something like yup for sure or no problem if its another vet i say thank you. I dont think being active duty ever leaves us its who we are wearing these things for me is the closest ill ever get to wearing my uniform again

Response by PO2 Jason Youngberg made Jul 11 at 2017 1:13 PM

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I don't generally wear anything that identifies me as a veteran because I get extremely uncomfortable and dont know how to respond when someone thanks me for my service. Coming from a long line of military service, I didn't realize how few people have actually served until I was out of the military, so joining seemed more like a right of passage into manhood, than an honorable endeavor.

Response by SPC Keith Armon made Jul 12 at 2017 11:33 AM

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Sarge I totally agree with You. I wear my Tags outside my clothing for that reason. Also The POLICE recognize VETERANS. I DO APPRECIATE HEARING THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE. IWIL DEFEND THIS...

Response by Sgt Martin Querin made Jul 12 at 2017 2:32 PM

2017-07-12T14:32:34-04:00

An outstanding, well written, intelligent post. If you did it well, you should be proud you did it, period. From the moment we take the oath we represent our Country, armed services, branch and brothers in arms. Our actions either honor that commitment to duty, honor and Country, or dishonor it. If we do it right and honor it, then we remain ambassadors of that commitment for life...wear it.

Response by SSgt Holden M. made Jul 12 at 2017 2:57 PM

2017-07-12T14:57:52-04:00

I totally needed to hear that today. For about the last month or so. I think since memorial day since now being "on the outside" I sometimes feel lost and I feel like I just don't belong. I think I'm also starting to open up a can of worms about my identity now because like you I joined right out of high school so I was a student in school then I was an airman in the Air Force and now it will be almost 6 months since my DOS and still trying to figure out this civilian thing. When I see somebody wearing any kind of stuff that shows that they are a vet I feel a little bit more comfortable. It's like subconsciously I can let my guard down a little bit. I think I might have to look into when the local American Legion meetings are.

Response by SSG John Clemons made Jul 13 at 2017 11:23 AM

2017-07-13T11:23:58-04:00

I carry my dog tags from USMC on key chain. Wear service hats on occasion MIA para cord bracelet Vietnam para cord bracelet and USMC Zippo old school

Response by ENS Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 15 at 2017 5:24 PM

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I like it when I get approached by other vets. And we can strike up a conversation about a common experience. We're all 1%-ers.

Response by Nicole Thomas made Jul 16 at 2017 8:11 AM

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Sometimes, well most of the time this world is an awfully scary place. So I wear my daddy's old beret. His lucky beret. The one he wore in Viet Nam, where he was never woundered by enemy fire. And I feel better. Im not so much afraid.

Response by LTC Bill Koski made Jul 16 at 2017 9:05 AM

2017-07-16T09:05:07-04:00

I feel the same way. It's for me. After 27 years, working hard, working through ups and downs, never thinking it was an 8 hour work day. I am just too attached, too proud of my hard work. I am humble but my service is what I always wanted to do, was fortunate enough to be able to. I am just too attached to walk away from something that was so much a part of my life.

Response by SFC Donald LeBlanc made Jul 17 at 2017 1:43 PM

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If you served, regardless of how long, you should be proud! Let people express themselves any way they can. Show your pride in the service you sacrificed - display your patriotism and allow your freedom of expression to come forth. If people will hate - let them! I'm always happy to see brothers and sisters in arms who are now civilians displaying their pride through clothing, pins, bags etc. I always try to speak with them and find out what they did! Camaraderie always brings up those happy times serving.

Response by MSgt Jerry Linscott made Jul 17 at 2017 8:46 PM

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Well said!

Response by SGT Hans Mahler made Jul 17 at 2017 9:37 PM

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Love this you know you are one of my battle buddies and would walk through hell again with you with out question

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 17 at 2017 9:44 PM

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Having talked to a lot of veterans it is about the pride they have for having done something with their life and joining something bigger than themselves. I know it sounds like a cheesy line from a war movie but it's true. A lot of former military vets will wear something small because it's important to them.

Response by SSG David Palomarez made Jul 17 at 2017 10:09 PM

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Nothing wrong with being proud of where you came from or what you have done in life. I will never forget those I have lost and as well those that are still around. I wear my history on my skin and no one will take anything away or make me change my ways. Be proud of what you done and going to do

Response by TSgt Melissa Post made Jul 19 at 2017 7:34 AM

2017-07-19T07:34:06-04:00

Thank you for that perspective. Although I am still in this has been something I know I will struggle with once my time comes to part ways with the military.

Response by SGT Steve Hines-Saich B.S. M.S. Cybersecurity made Jul 19 at 2017 8:59 AM

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When we enter the military we sacrifice many things. When we leave service we are changed and see things in a different light, most especially if we have experienced combat. I'm all for anything that helps us remember who we are and where we come from. I appreciate my fellow veterans.

Response by CH (LTC) Robert Leroe made Jul 19 at 2017 9:20 AM

2017-07-19T09:20:44-04:00

This could be viewed as self-promotion, but most vets I know see it as espirit de corps. Many of us are defined by our military service and we have a hard time parting from it altogether. Can't we hold onto some of it?

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 19 at 2017 2:13 PM

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I also wear something to remind myself,that I was a soldier once ,I served my country for 20 years and it was honor to have served in the company of heroes,I had some great times and some tough times, when I was serving ,but I would not change a thing and would do it again if I could.

I read a saying sometime after I had retired from the Army,it said " I was a soldier,I am a soldier,I will always be a soldier"

That for me sums it up in a nutshell.

Response by SSG Robert Perrotto made Jul 19 at 2017 2:30 PM

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I , like you, have my "I served" stickers for me, I hang my Blue Cord on my rearview, for me, they motivate me, they give me a sense of accomplishment, not trying to sob story this, but I was medically retired, I had a lumbar fusion from the S-1 to the L-3, I have arthritis in every joint, and a host of other things, I walk with a stoop and require a cane, some days my arthritis flare ups are worse than passing a kidney stone, but I look at my old unit T-shirts, I look at my other accomplishments, I look at some of the places I have been where it really sucked, and it motivates me, if I could do that, then by God I can get my ass out and walk.

Response by PO3 Mitchell Haynie made Jul 20 at 2017 1:51 PM

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I am almost never without some form of remembrance or Honor to others on my attire. I do it for a few reasons, none of which are for self promotion or seeking of recognition and acknowledgement from others. First, it is because I earned it, and it was the basis for pretty much everything I have accomplished in civilian life since from work ethic to personal discipline. Next because we live in a world that seems to forget sometimes that freedom isn't free at all, real men and women defend and protect it and we are visible reminders of that! Today because of those still standing a post, they are still in harms way or supporting those who are, and we definitely owe it to them to keep the faces, identities, and reminders out there for America! Finally, and most significant to me, as a way of Honoring most of all, those who never made it home!

Response by Cpl Lloyd Martin made Jul 20 at 2017 3:15 PM

2017-07-20T15:15:31-04:00

Couldn't have said it any better. Like you said lots of times I'm unsure what to say when someone stops me and says "Thank you for your service " I taken to just saying "Thank You,was my honor".

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 21 at 2017 7:52 PM

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The entire time I was out from July of 2011 to even just this last May, I worse something with USMC on it. It was NEVER because I wanted a "Thank you" from anyone. I did it as a way to let others know, no matter what branch they served in, that they have a brother here and a source of pride knowing that I served and earned my place as a Marine. Even to this day after getting back in (The Army this time) I still carry around my Eagle, Globe and Anchor.

Response by SP5 James Stockton made Jul 22 at 2017 10:53 PM

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When I got out of the army - I was cussed at and worse when anyone found out I had served in the Vietnam War. It took me a long time to come to terms with my service. I do wear my veteran's hat now...when someone says "Thank you." it still makes me uncomfortable but I mumble, "You're Welcome" and my mind wants to scream "It would have been nicer about 45 years ago!" Being able to talk to other veterans who served when I did has been priceless. My advice is never lose contact with those you serve with. No body understands you better than your brothers and sisters you gain in the military.

Response by SMSgt William Hatfield made Jul 24 at 2017 9:32 AM

2017-07-24T09:32:11-04:00

You will never see me outside without my USAF ball cap. I wear it because 1. I am very proud to have been a member of the USAF for 21 years, 2. I get to pin on my worked for stripes and 1st Sgt Diamond (you would be surprised how many younger vets have made comments about their experiences with their 1st Sgt's) and 3. I am very very thin on top and get sunburned easily. Every veteran should be proud of their service and the hardships they AND their families have gone through. Thank you Sgt Gunderson for your comments.

Response by MSgt Stephen Council made Jul 24 at 2017 3:51 PM

2017-07-24T15:51:57-04:00

SGT Joseph Gunderson I occasionally wear a hat the says: Dysfunction Veteran. Leave Me Alone! I catch crap for it on occasion, but it is simply a joke.

Response by PFC Jonathan Albano made Jul 25 at 2017 1:14 AM

2017-07-25T01:14:28-04:00

Great post. I don't wear anything that ID's me as a vet, however, I don't harp on people who do. It's a personal decision that only the individual knows their own motivations for doing.

Response by SGT Lin Evans made Jul 25 at 2017 10:35 PM

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It's a tough decision for me. I've never worn anything to signify my service in Vietnam but since my state (Colorado) gives me a free license and registration as a Purple Heart recipient, I have the plates on my truck. A few days ago someone sent me a Purple Heart / Vietnam Veteran baseball hat which is sitting in my office. I haven't decided whether to wear it or not. I do like talking to other Vets from any conflict and any branch. I was Army Airborne having served with both the 82nd and 101st (101st in Vietnam). There are so many people who really didn't serve in Vietnam wearing military gear - easy to tell after talking with them for a few minutes - that it makes me uneasy .... Such is life...

Response by SMSgt Thor Merich made Jul 25 at 2017 10:44 PM

2017-07-25T22:44:49-04:00

To me, its a matter of pride. I am proud that I have served (continue to serve) in the military. There is no reason to hide. I don't wear it everyday, but I have a few T-shirts and a couple of ball caps with military affiliation on them. I wear them proudly, 99% of the time no one seems to notice.

Response by SPC Kevin Ford made Jul 27 at 2017 6:46 AM

2017-07-27T06:46:37-04:00

I see old vets (I guess these days I should probably say older vets) that wear hats all the time with service information. I don't think they are attention seekers, I just figure they are proud of what they did.

Response by PO1 T.M. Ritchie made Jul 27 at 2017 3:00 PM

2017-07-27T15:00:18-04:00

I rarely have met a retired military person wearing anything that shows his service status or even their branch of service. It appears to me it is something that those who served and chose to return to being a civilian or are still on active status only do. But, I do have a name tape attached to my key chain with my service branch and SEABEE on it but that is so I can locate my keys! Other than that I prefer to be just identified as a civilian who once lived an amazing life among other brave young Americans..Our country's finest.

Response by CW2 Fred Baker made Jul 30 at 2017 11:58 AM

2017-07-30T11:58:28-04:00

I served from 6/67 'til 8/71. I am proud of my service and it was the most formulative part of my life. I am who/what I am because of my service. I wear my Stetson often and don't give a rat's a** what anyone else says. Proud soldier!

Response by TSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 30 at 2017 10:20 PM

2017-07-30T22:20:19-04:00

Hey, you've risked your life serving in a war zone and this is a free country. You can wear whatever you want for whatever reason you want. If people have an issue with that, they can move to a country where that freedom doesn't exist since they apparently don't like that freedom.

Response by SFC Michael Hasbun made Jul 30 at 2017 11:41 PM

2017-07-30T23:41:55-04:00

So you're saying they may not be seeking attention, but just in case, please give them attention? This message feels muddy...

Response by SPC Tom DeSmet made Aug 6 at 2017 12:40 PM

2017-08-06T12:40:03-04:00

Wow, you wrote down everything I feel. I also wear "vet stuff" as it makes me feel good. I know in my heart that my life now will never provide what I felt inside when I was active. But putting on vet stuff brings those good feelings to the surface making my day, and the days of others around me, a little better than it might otherwise have been.

Response by MSG Bob Metz made Aug 10 at 2017 10:02 PM

2017-08-10T22:02:08-04:00

Well put Brother...well put...

Response by SGT David Petree made Aug 11 at 2017 5:26 PM

2017-08-11T17:26:25-04:00

Ya read my hat.

Response by Jessica Luebke made Aug 17 at 2017 7:16 PM

2017-08-17T19:16:55-04:00

I buy my husband so much veteran swag. Especially now that companies like Grunt Style, Oscar Mike, Ranger Up, and my newest favorite - OAF Nation, are making vet apparel fun and on trend. I love when people wear their hats, shirts, etc. with pride. Just like I would wear my university alumni hoodie, but really think the vet status symbol is far more exciting and more worth discussing when I spot someone wearing it!

Response by SSgt Christopher Mortell made Aug 30 at 2017 11:42 PM

2017-08-30T23:42:32-04:00

I completely understand. I've faced similar struggles. Ultimately, my veteran status is something I earned and I am proud of it. Wearing the swag identifies me as part of brotherhood (sisters too). I don't need thanks. I don't wear it everyday or everywhere, but sometimes it's appropriate to wear my "colors." Sometimes I wear a Cubs hat, too. That also identifies me as part of a group. Now if I wore a shirt that said "Love your freedom? Thank me. I'm a Veteran." That would be different.

Response by COL Vincent Stoneking made Sep 15 at 2017 11:13 AM

2017-09-15T11:13:32-04:00

I don't wear any Army bling of any sort, and really can't see myself doing so in the future. The closest I come to ANY bling is race & BJJ t-shirts and a scuba-themed jacket, and a few similar bumper strikers - and those only in the last few years. That's really a feature of my personality. Not only do I not want to call attention to myself in public, I actively want to do the opposite. Therefore, I tend to minimize things - of any sort - that might make me stick out in a crowd.

That said, I generally assume that if someone wears bling of any sort, it is because it either has a personal meaning to them, or they are really proud of it. Both of which are great reasons to wear it. If that sparks conversations with others, well then that is probably great.

One thing I've noticed, as I have gotten in better shape over the last year, when I wear the BJJ shirts, I tend to get into a fair number of conversations about the sport with random people (same thing years ago, when I was in shape and doing striking arts). Which I would normally avoid (conversations with random people - I've already got a thing I'm doing, wherever I am!!), but it is on a topic I find interesting, helps me be more approachable, and I think makes me friendlier overall.

Response by PV2 Duane Schlender made Sep 16 at 2017 4:05 AM

2017-09-16T04:05:37-04:00

I wear my circa 2000 bdu's on veterans day. I also wear military gear and still shine combat boots and wear them. I have an alice pack with frame and i have my old unit crest attached.
The military is the only thing that ever gave me purpose. Shining my boots, helping veterans, and all i do helps me feel important and gives me the only purpose i know how to work with.

Ive been out of service 17 years.
Ive been incercerated due to problems from denial of v.a. care.
I have never held a job since being active duty.
I would give anything to work on tanks again. My life seems very empty.

Response by SFC Orville Harless made Sep 19 at 2017 10:06 PM

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Hello all!

Your post was a super read SGT Gunderson. I believe that everyone who served should be proud of their service, and they should never feel like a need to hide that fact from anyone. I retired from the US Army at Fort Bragg at the end of 1996. I felt lost at first and wasn't sure I should wear anything indicating my service as I moved into civilian sector employment. I even refused to consider any jobs with the government for many years.

It turned out to be the wrong train of thought, and after a few years, I felt the pull to find a way to serve our country again, so I went into contracting. I loved the interaction with the younger military members, and quickly learned they were desperately wanting to learn from my experiences in the military. I spent the last 11 years training soldiers at Fort Bragg on the use of computerized combat systems, but also took time to impart some old skills during the training that I feel they also need to learn, but are no longer being taught. I took a position working at a Marine Corps Air Station in Iwakuni, Japan earlier this year to stay working around the military, and for my wife and I to be closer to our youngest son who is stationed in Okinawa with US Army SATCOM.

All that being said, I wear some type of military clothing on a daily basis; most with a US Army theme. I'm not looking for recognition of my service either; just letting others know that I am proud to have devoted most of my life to helping in one way or another with keeping our country and its allies safe. Plus, wearing what I do seems to be a great conversation starter since I'm one of only five or so Army retirees working here. The young Marines and Sailors constantly ask about my Army days and why I am here working with them. The MPs on the gate seem to take extra pleasure in loudly addressing me by my full rank as I come on base each day, and also making sure any new Marines on the gate know to address me as such. I take great care to address them back by their proper rank also. A few of them even give me a "HOOAH!" every so often. And I acknowledge them back with "HOORAH!", and tell them to be proud of their service and sacrifice.

All of you reading this need to be proud also! Not everyone has felt the call of military service in their lives!

Response by Sally Altrogge-Fraker made Sep 27 at 2017 9:50 PM

2017-09-27T21:50:41-04:00

90% of the time my husband usually has some type of Marine Corps shirt on. He also does not wear for the recognition but to remember that life he misses. I have also noticed that it helps him when we are out and another Marine says Semper Fi in passing. It's the Commeraderie like none other.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 2 at 2017 2:49 PM

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A guy I worked with once made a snarky comment about a moto shirt I was wearing. Without a hint of irony I pointed out that he wore a Cal Berkeley T shirt often, had a UCB sticker on his computer, and a UCB license plate protector.

We advertise the accomplishments we are proud of.

Response by Sgt Kelli Mays made Oct 4 at 2017 7:09 PM

2017-10-04T19:09:49-04:00

SGT Joseph Gunderson BOLOGNA! People who wear these things do it out of PRIDE....for themselves...their fellow Veterans Dead and alive...for their country. People who say these things are jealous....and they would certainly never have served their country...at least not own their own...maybe if they were drafted...

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 5 at 2017 6:36 AM

2017-10-05T06:36:09-04:00

If anyone makes fun of a veteran for wearing something indicative of their prior service such as a hat, a t-shirt, or a small pin or badge or whatever... I'd chalk that up to bad character on their part.

I joined the Army in May 2002 at the age of 17. Through a series of wild circumstances, here I am at the 15 year 4 month mark and facing down the next PCS being my last... I have to admit I'm a bit terrified of the thought of not being in the Army anymore. I'll probably have a pin or something on my bag, my jacket, a suit, etc.

Excellent article, though it's a bit pathetic that this had to be a topic because some people are jackasses.

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Oct 18 at 2017 10:36 PM

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As for me, I wear these items from time-to-time because I have earned the right to do so. If you have served on any of the collective services and do so, please continue on doing so. It is pride in what you have accomplished in life by serving. If while doing so a person comes up to you and thanks you for your service, reply to the that you thank you for supporting those that do. Though most that do so probably do it because they miss that time in their life and do to connect with others in their same position. No better conversation starter than wearing your unit or service identifier and finding a brother that you would not have otherwise. I have been in places where my meal was bought for me and others because we were identifiable. To those that bought the meal, they did so out of honoring those that pay a price that those who haven't will never understand. Those are called, Proud Americans. I am very thankful that those who served in Vietnam wear some form of identifier. It is because they do that I am able to say to them words they did not here a lot. The words, Welcome Home and I thank you for your service. Without them carrying the torch of their era, we would not be able to serve this era and there would be nothing to carry on. I do so every time I see that Vietnam Veteran. I teach those around me to tell those veterans thank you and welcome home too. I was having dinner with my wife outside a military base and in uniform. I observed a Vietnam Veteran come in to have dinner with his family. My wife and I approached him and told him thanks, welcome home and that his meal with his family was on me. I did so quietly because sometimes it can be a pride thing for some. I left him with his family to enjoy their time. When I requested my check, I learned that my wife's and my meal had been paid for by an anonymous patron. That was pretty cool sign of paying it forward. Now for the few, I did not attempt to or care to verify the mans service. You see, I performed my act of kindness because I felt in my heart it was the thing to do. From time to time we have some imposters out there and posing. You all are aware of that. I say that to say this. People do these types of act because they truly feel that the US Veteran I special. If from time-to- time a poser is awarded a purchased meal and/or thanked. that poser will never know or have the since of pride of we veterans and military service members experience. It is a feeling that your sacrifices are known to many and because you and I have and continue to do so America is still a proud and grateful nation. Wear you service/unit identifier with pride and when doing so, let your actions show that you are an ambassador to the entire military population among us. BE, KNOW, and DO!

Response by SPC David Willis made Nov 15 at 2017 12:48 PM

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I think it all depends on the individuals experience. My first two years in was great, my last two were awful. I ended up with garbage NCOs and a garbage green to gold PL. To give an example of what I mean I was a gunner on a truck and my SI was the 240 and the optics for that weapon, that was it. Some dude lost the retinal scanner ID thing (cant remember the name of it) but he was up for promotion and the TC was as well. They were both buds with our SFC so he put it on me. Several other instances like this occurred over the last two years, not just to me, but many other guys who had all deployed previously like myself but didn't find themselves on the "in". Another instance involved a squad leader leaving his rifle in his room while out on a mission taking only his sidearm, because "he wasn't getting out of the truck." This is an infantry line unit mind you... So when I got out I didn't want to associate myself with people like that and kind of removing myself from the military mindset was the one way to do it. Its not fair that I associated people wearing military Identifiers with the garbage people I had served with, but I did it anyway. I ended up joining the guard for the last couple years of my IRR and got fortunate to get squared away dudes to snap my head back around to the fact that most guys are good dudes. But never underestimate what toxic leadership can do, particularly while deployed, to peoples view of fellow soldiers even when its not warranted.

Response by SSgt Boyd Herrst made Mar 2 at 2018 10:58 AM

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I half agree with SG Joe G. It’s afor me and t let some peeps know I’m proud of my Miitary Service. I agree with him about the comment about thanking him for ser... I usually reply thank you, please think about those that didn’t make it back.. I get people asking me what I did.. and I tell them I served as Cook/Baker Supervisor .. planning meals, preparing sustenance for the Airmen and other Service branches that partake of what is provided.. training .. ect.,.. “did you kill anybody?” They May ask.. “I served my time on the perimeter, may have plinksd a few hundred rounds out toward the enemy’s way.. I look at my watch and say “If you’ll excuse me... and make my exit.. Not going to get any Special forces ops. . Or what’s related to that from me.. i’ve Had them (spec ops)go through the line enough times...
I go places.. a mall, walk In town... hav had cildrren thank me.. I can usually tell the genuine from the forced ones.. .. one woman must of been a child’s grandparent.., she grabbed him and told him to get away from that monster ... he might be a child molester.. yeah sure, I’m gonna grab your child... right in front of e’body.. I don’t stay long.. depends how the pain med works..

Response by SGM Bill Frazer made Mar 2 at 2018 12:14 PM

2018-03-02T12:14:17-05:00

Amen Preach on Joe!

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 17 at 2018 12:33 AM

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I see it no different than wearing a hat of your fav football team. You are representing. You are telling the community- I support this team or I was part of this team. I wasn’t Air Force or Army or whatever else. I was or am part of this on my hat. Be proud- I really get annoyed with the thanks for your service when they just yell it at the walk away like an afterthought. If you don’t mean it don’t say it. And if your going to say it then stretch that hand out and shake my hand. It’s job and if I didn’t get paid I would be doing another job. But hey- I really enjoy being part of the team!

Response by SSG K Johnson made Dec 3 at 2018 4:21 PM

2018-12-03T16:21:47-05:00

Awesome post brother. You put into words what I've been trying to figure out how to tell my family for years. Thank you.

Response by MSG Jeffrey Kramer made Dec 5 at 2018 5:04 PM

2018-12-05T17:04:36-05:00

Great post. I also wear some Army "bling," simply because of the pride that I have in being a (very) former member of such a great organization. I had the good fortune to have a decent corporate job to round out my working years. However, the pride and sense of accomplishment never, ever got close that of my Army career.
Now retired from both, I enjoy wearing my Army swag. The corporate stuff? Meh.

Response by SMSgt Bob Wilson made Aug 2 at 2021 10:39 PM

2021-08-02T22:39:01-04:00

I agree with you; however, we need to wear our BDUs, ACUs, etc with out beards to give everyone something to write about on RP.