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Is my experience just a fluke or it there an unspoken bond that goes along with serving?Military bond with service members you served with - fact or fiction?2015-05-12T12:17:05-04:002015-05-12T12:17:05-04:00MAJ Robert (Bob) Petrarca662165<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>NO, It's not a fluke. There is definitely something there when you "chewed the same dirt". I still experience it when I run into fellow colleagues.Response by MAJ Robert (Bob) Petrarca made May 12 at 2015 12:24 PM2015-05-12T12:24:01-04:002015-05-12T12:24:01-04:00SFC Joseph James662242<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>There is a bond, but it is for only a few guys and gals that i served with. Over 9 years i've met thousands of people, but only a few i keep in touch with. Usually i bled with them, either in basic (lol i know) or during my 4 deployments. We are brothers that need each other to vent or talk about crap we went through. No one else understands, even other service men and women.Response by SFC Joseph James made May 12 at 2015 1:07 PM2015-05-12T13:07:24-04:002015-05-12T13:07:24-04:00SCPO David Lockwood662253<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Because no one other than military personnel has been put in a situation, other than police and firefighters, to depend on your buddy to watch your back. Because of this our bond, no matter the branch of service, remains strong. It doesn't matter if your currently serving or retired or a veteran, that bond is forever.Response by SCPO David Lockwood made May 12 at 2015 1:12 PM2015-05-12T13:12:10-04:002015-05-12T13:12:10-04:00SPC Private RallyPoint Member662257<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>My closest friends are those I served with. There isn't a day I don't talk to at least one of my brothers or sisters. We always talk about buying some land together and making our own subdivision.Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made May 12 at 2015 1:14 PM2015-05-12T13:14:35-04:002015-05-12T13:14:35-04:00SFC Douglas Davis662264<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Two of my closest a friends are people I served with I also maintain contact with several others.Response by SFC Douglas Davis made May 12 at 2015 1:17 PM2015-05-12T13:17:46-04:002015-05-12T13:17:46-04:00Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS662365<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I had a friend who I hadn't seen in probably 4 years. We lost each others phone numbers. After she got back from Oki, she called information, and got the phone number of an "Aaron Kennedy" in Stafford, and called, not sure it was me. Asked to speak to Aaron, and I said "Hi Kim, how's tricks?" <br /><br />I've had a couple other friends who I hadn't seen in 15~ years, and it was like seeing family, because it was seeing family.Response by Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS made May 12 at 2015 2:03 PM2015-05-12T14:03:47-04:002015-05-12T14:03:47-04:001SG Private RallyPoint Member662497<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>To me yes there is a bond but I never really notice it until we go our seperate ways and the communication now just buy phone. I have met a numerous of great people through out my career but only a few do I hold a bond with. It can sometimes be hard in the military to know who your friends are or are not at least for me but a true friend is someone you stay in touch with even when apart.Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made May 12 at 2015 2:59 PM2015-05-12T14:59:15-04:002015-05-12T14:59:15-04:00COL Charles Williams663604<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Fact <a class="dark-link bold-link" role="profile-hover" data-qtip-container="body" data-id="302316" data-source-page-controller="question_response_contents" href="/profiles/302316-75b-personnel-administration-specialist">SPC David S.</a>. Only we get us. When you serve with someone, especially in combat (under fire) you are bonded like no other.Response by COL Charles Williams made May 12 at 2015 11:11 PM2015-05-12T23:11:41-04:002015-05-12T23:11:41-04:00SSgt Jim Gilmore1188981<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>It is a bond that only those who have served can understand.Response by SSgt Jim Gilmore made Dec 20 at 2015 8:52 PM2015-12-20T20:52:23-05:002015-12-20T20:52:23-05:00LCpl Mark Riley1791446<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>There is a bond I met my best friends in the Marines I still in my civilian life have very few friends like thatResponse by LCpl Mark Riley made Aug 9 at 2016 1:27 PM2016-08-09T13:27:32-04:002016-08-09T13:27:32-04:00MSgt Private RallyPoint Member1791682<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>FACT! I tell non-veterans all the time: Its a brotherhood that can only be understood, not explained.Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Aug 9 at 2016 2:36 PM2016-08-09T14:36:45-04:002016-08-09T14:36:45-04:00SGT Philip Roncari3613315<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Although I served fifty years ago and have only seen a few of the guys from my platoon in Vietnam many years ago I still do feel a special bond for my Brothers, something I don’t think can be duplicated in the civilian world.Response by SGT Philip Roncari made May 9 at 2018 1:02 PM2018-05-09T13:02:32-04:002018-05-09T13:02:32-04:00MAJ Ken Landgren3613454<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>You can develop love for your fellow man.Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made May 9 at 2018 1:57 PM2018-05-09T13:57:34-04:002018-05-09T13:57:34-04:00SGT Private RallyPoint Member3613989<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>When I was a Soldier, I complained a lot. After experiencing the civilian world and society, I sort of calibrated my view of the way things were when I was a Soldier. In comparing civilians to some of the Soldiers I used to work with, especially in the two Combat Engineer battalions I was assigned to in Germany and Hawaii, I developed greater appreciation for my fellow Soldiers from that time and I remember that there are new "versions" of us serving now and will be in the future as well. I have greater respect and seriousness toward Soldiering now that I'm done with it than I remember having when I was there. I wish I could have deployed with the units and Soldiers I was with, but I was gone before any of that happened.Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 9 at 2018 5:36 PM2018-05-09T17:36:23-04:002018-05-09T17:36:23-04:00SGM Bill Frazer3614382<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>So true- when we meet- it's like a family reunion!Response by SGM Bill Frazer made May 9 at 2018 8:40 PM2018-05-09T20:40:41-04:002018-05-09T20:40:41-04:00PVT Mark Zehner4428041<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I went in in 1985 and have some of these guys still as friendsResponse by PVT Mark Zehner made Mar 7 at 2019 10:37 AM2019-03-07T10:37:00-05:002019-03-07T10:37:00-05:00SGM Bill Frazer4428201<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Yes, tho it is harder when you go your separate ways- but I still stay in touch via social mediaResponse by SGM Bill Frazer made Mar 7 at 2019 11:30 AM2019-03-07T11:30:11-05:002019-03-07T11:30:11-05:00SGT Private RallyPoint Member4429326<div class="images-v2-count-1"><div class="content-picture image-v2-number-1" id="image-310287"> <div class="social_icons social-buttons-on-image">
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