Cpl Jerry Millar536599<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I am Interested to hear so thoughts and/or experiences with this. It has never occurred to me to lurk networking sites in search of a date, but apparently I may be in the minority on this one. A dear friend recently resorted to broadcasting a post on LinkedIn that read, "[D]ear LinkedIn Creepers, this is a business networking site... not a 'hey, she has a sweet job so I am going to try and hook up with her' website. Be professional or go back to Tinder!"<br /><br />I asked her privately what prompted the post and it was unbelievable the amount of private messages, connection requests, and borderline stalking she has encountered! Yes she has a "sweet job" as a Rocket Scientist... I mean Rocket Propulsion Engineer, and yes her photo, although professional looking, does reveal the fact that she is also attractive... still no excuse in my book though! <br /><br />Thoughts?<br /><br /><br />Invite others to respond by typing @nameProfessional Networking sites and "dating"; your thoughts?2015-03-18T12:50:24-04:00Cpl Jerry Millar536599<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I am Interested to hear so thoughts and/or experiences with this. It has never occurred to me to lurk networking sites in search of a date, but apparently I may be in the minority on this one. A dear friend recently resorted to broadcasting a post on LinkedIn that read, "[D]ear LinkedIn Creepers, this is a business networking site... not a 'hey, she has a sweet job so I am going to try and hook up with her' website. Be professional or go back to Tinder!"<br /><br />I asked her privately what prompted the post and it was unbelievable the amount of private messages, connection requests, and borderline stalking she has encountered! Yes she has a "sweet job" as a Rocket Scientist... I mean Rocket Propulsion Engineer, and yes her photo, although professional looking, does reveal the fact that she is also attractive... still no excuse in my book though! <br /><br />Thoughts?<br /><br /><br />Invite others to respond by typing @nameProfessional Networking sites and "dating"; your thoughts?2015-03-18T12:50:24-04:002015-03-18T12:50:24-04:00SSG Private RallyPoint Member536617<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Professional Networking and dating don't mix.Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 18 at 2015 12:54 PM2015-03-18T12:54:41-04:002015-03-18T12:54:41-04:00PO1 Private RallyPoint Member536710<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>That definitely will not earn the person any "cool" points....or potential dates.....Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 18 at 2015 1:21 PM2015-03-18T13:21:20-04:002015-03-18T13:21:20-04:00SSG Steven Borders536722<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Unfortunately it will never go away with todays day and age. We are in a society where everyone is plugged in. I don't know if there are settings on LinkedIn or not. It shouldn't happen but it does. There will always be creepers on forum based sites. <br /><br />That doesn't make it right however.Response by SSG Steven Borders made Mar 18 at 2015 1:23 PM2015-03-18T13:23:05-04:002015-03-18T13:23:05-04:00SFC Mark Merino536772<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>There are profiles on THIS site that creep me out as well. Hundreds of contacts....99% very attractive female service members. Looks like someone is putting together an internet harem. Disturbing.Response by SFC Mark Merino made Mar 18 at 2015 1:36 PM2015-03-18T13:36:39-04:002015-03-18T13:36:39-04:00SFC Charles S.536785<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Stay Away... Professional means Professional... Want to date there are hundreds of sites dedicated to that.Response by SFC Charles S. made Mar 18 at 2015 1:42 PM2015-03-18T13:42:17-04:002015-03-18T13:42:17-04:00CPT Zachary Brooks536792<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>She has huge...salary bonuses...<br /><br />Those...contracts...go on for miles.<br /><br />Man, what I wouldn't give to make...sales with that!<br /><br />Whoa man, check out that...benefits package!Response by CPT Zachary Brooks made Mar 18 at 2015 1:45 PM2015-03-18T13:45:39-04:002015-03-18T13:45:39-04:00CSM Michael Lynch536807<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>They do not mix. ThanksResponse by CSM Michael Lynch made Mar 18 at 2015 1:51 PM2015-03-18T13:51:06-04:002015-03-18T13:51:06-04:00SPC Private RallyPoint Member537275<div class="images-v2-count-1"><div class="content-picture image-v2-number-1" id="image-29956"> <div class="social_icons social-buttons-on-image">
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<a class="fancybox" rel="a8482873a16f7693f8d52fe380ebb95e" href="https://d1ndsj6b8hkqu9.cloudfront.net/pictures/images/000/029/956/for_gallery_v2/image.jpg"><img src="https://d1ndsj6b8hkqu9.cloudfront.net/pictures/images/000/029/956/large_v3/image.jpg" alt="Image" /></a></div></div>Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 18 at 2015 3:59 PM2015-03-18T15:59:26-04:002015-03-18T15:59:26-04:00CDR Kelly Hudson550628<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Creepers should be banned from professional sites. I'm not looking for a soul mate on LinkedIn.Response by CDR Kelly Hudson made Mar 25 at 2015 12:07 PM2015-03-25T12:07:55-04:002015-03-25T12:07:55-04:001SG Private RallyPoint Member550670<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>That is one of the reasons I don't do LinkedIn. I feel it is loosing it's professionalism and becoming a social site. I hope RP does not go down that path. Besides, I think <a class="dark-link bold-link" role="profile-hover" data-qtip-container="body" data-id="313343" data-source-page-controller="question_response_contents" href="/profiles/313343-sfc-mark-merino">SFC Mark Merino</a> is already takenResponse by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 25 at 2015 12:22 PM2015-03-25T12:22:31-04:002015-03-25T12:22:31-04:00SFC Sidney Karneke565409<div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I agree with keeping the professional websites "professional" and conduct your social issues to the "social" websites. Linked-In and this site should be used for business and professional forums. I am sorry that your friend had to endure this situation. Maybe there is something that the professional site can do about this?Response by SFC Sidney Karneke made Apr 1 at 2015 12:26 PM2015-04-01T12:26:31-04:002015-04-01T12:26:31-04:002015-03-18T12:50:24-04:00