Posted on Aug 24, 2015
Someone told me that he/she was afraid of me because I am (100% s/c) mentally ill. Are you afraid of mentally ill people?
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LTC Stephen Ford, MAJ David Vermillion, SGT Keith Bodine
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CPO Joseph Grant
Just remember, your brothers and sisters in arms are here for you and anyone else who needs to talk.
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SPC Margaret Higgins
That is TREMENDOUS news to me; CPO Joseph Grant! I was hesitant to broach the subject.
You, have a blessed day!
You, have a blessed day!
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SFC (Join to see)
I'm not afraid of anyone.. None of us are 100% perfect, we all have our flaws. Those that choose to be close to us understand our flaws and our sanity issues.. those that distance themselves didn't really belong in ourlives anyway.
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SPC Margaret Higgins
Yes, my friend-who happened to have been a veterinarian-said to me: "Everybody is crazy." ;)
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Don't take this as a flip answer because it's not. If you hear voices telling you to kill people then, yes, you'd worry me. If it's depression, PTSD, Bi-Polar or what have you then no I wouldn't. Me, I'm 100% for PTSD. I stopped telling people why I'm disabled because most expected me to climb a bell tower and start shooting. Is that what you're dealing with?
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SPC Margaret Higgins
No, CPO Joseph Grant. I get depressed, get anxious, obsessive (at times); things like that. I am never a danger to others....only to myself. I am on a number of psychotropic medications; that-for the most part-keep me feeling fine.
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CPO Joseph Grant
Good. Mental illnesses carry a stigma. Me, if I'm in the mood to mess with idiots, tell them "not yet' if they ask if I'm thinking of killing someone.
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SPC Margaret Higgins
LOL, CPO Joseph Grant. Mental illness does carry a stigma; however, I'll tell someone I am mentally ill- and that person doesn't believe me.
Or if I don't tell people, they think I am just a 'normal' person: a leader, a foster mother, an honorable person, a hero, an 'Angel', etc. :)
Or if I don't tell people, they think I am just a 'normal' person: a leader, a foster mother, an honorable person, a hero, an 'Angel', etc. :)
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I would by extremely cautious with using terms like "mentally ill." I wouldn't consider conditions like PTS or some other conditions that are by products of services to be anything in this category. I could see why one would say they are afraid of person that claims they are mentally ill. I have dealt with those that are mentally ill when I was a cop. They are incapable of leading a normal life and can be potential dangerous. One of the worst cases I seen was a Vietnam Vet. He pulled a knife and was trying to fight people. He thought he was in Vietnam still. I got to sit with him until he was evaluated due to his capacity for violence. There was no reasoning with him. He was too far gone. A person like him I could see why one would be afraid. But to claim such a mental illness in open conversation can be damaging to the veteran community. I have dealt with my issues. Few even know what I have dealt with and what my issues have developed into. It is not for trying to hide it but I have no need to inform everyone that I have suffered from such challenges. As I said I would be very cautious. If I were a police officer still and someone told me they are mentally ill I am going to assume the worst.
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