How do you respond when someone says "Thank you for your service"?

2023-11-12T14:36:07-05:00

I've never asked this question, and I've never seen anyone else ask it, but I'm curious. What do you say when someone thanks you for your service?
My Military ID is right next to my driver's license and debit card in my wallet, so it's visible if I have to show my driver's license for something or if I'm taking my debit card out to use. Very often, someone who sees it will ask what branch I was in. Then they will thank me for my service. My usual answer is "Thank you for your support." But I'm curious about how others respond to that.

Response by CW5 Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 12 at 2023 2:46 PM

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"Thank you for thanking me" is my usual response.

Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 12 at 2023 2:54 PM

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MSgt Private RallyPoint Member I say thank you and often times ask if they served. If the person did not serve, they will usually remark that a relative or friend served, which often leads to interesting discussions.

Response by MAJ Ronnie Reams made Nov 12 at 2023 3:14 PM

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I am polite and say you are welcome. I come from the time when almost all served, except those with defense jobs, sick, lame and deviants, so it is not a big deal to me.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 12 at 2023 3:22 PM

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MSgt Private RallyPoint Member "thanks... much appreciated."

Response by LTC Kevin B. made Nov 12 at 2023 4:23 PM

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"Thank you. It was an honor to serve."

Response by SFC Marc W. made Nov 12 at 2023 5:52 PM

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Thanks, I appreciate it.
It always makes me feel momentarily weird. But I do realize some people just want to make sure they say something. While others do it out of some weird feeling of obligation to say something. I just try not to make it even more weird when its the latter.

Response by SGM Bill Frazer made Nov 12 at 2023 6:44 PM

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Thank you, I was my privilege to serve!

Response by CSM William Everroad made Nov 13 at 2023 8:25 AM

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MSgt Private RallyPoint Member Thank you for your support.

Most of us do not serve for the "thank you for your service" aspect.

This country's treatment of veterans (and to some extent service members) has come a long way since WWII and Vietnam. But there will always be a mix of people who see service members as some random selection from the spectrum of "baby killing stooge of the military industrial complex to the unquestionable heroes of the republic. We all know Soldiers and Veterans who run that spectrum and earn the derision or praise.

At the end of the day, we aren't special. Veterans day used to be about remembering why the military exists and what is could prevent in the future and not a way to pat each other on the back. And much like Memorial Day, it has become diluted by commercialization. Discount hounds, "thank me for my service" types, and the civil military gap widening for every WTFArmy or reported sexual assault moment has lowered the perception of professionalism that used to accompany service.

So every time someone thanks me for my service, I thank them for their support, no matter how performative.

Response by CPT Lawrence Cable made Nov 13 at 2023 8:49 AM

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I just say thank you normally. If I know them, I point out that the Army let me play with tanks and assorted other heavy equipment, shoot big guns and blow stuff up. One of the best jobs I ever had.

Response by 1LT Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 13 at 2023 12:50 PM

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After 15 years in, I say something to the effect of "It's my honor to serve," "It's my pleasure," or just a simple thank you. Sometimes, I respond by initiating a conversation and talking about the military. After all, they brought it up.

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A Veteran's Response to: “Thank You For Your Service” | RallyPoint

The first time someone thanked me for my service, I was a little stunned – I had no idea how to respond. My first reaction was to say “Thank you”, but no, that wasn’t right; “It was my pleasure” was not exactly accurate either. “Umm, you’re welcome?” I had been out of the Navy already for probably ten years, and I had not heard this before. When I first got out, “Thank you for your service” was not a thing. It was just not something that...

Response by SFC William Stephens A. Jr., 3 MSM, JSCM made Nov 13 at 2023 7:23 PM

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GREETING THEM WITH A PROFESSIONAL HAND SHAKE OR FIST PUMP.

Response by CPO Nate S. made Nov 13 at 2023 11:10 PM

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Here is an approach:

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Response by CAPT Kevin M. McGuinness made Nov 14 at 2023 1:16 AM

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You’re very welcome. Thanks.

Response by SSgt Christophe Murphy made Nov 14 at 2023 9:35 AM

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I say thank you while shaking their hand. I've heard alot of Vets complain about this but at the end of the day someone went out of their way to be nice. The least I can say is thank you

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 14 at 2023 12:29 PM

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It's been asked on here before...and I've seen it on other outlets. Depends on who you ask but when I've gotten the "thank you for your service" it's always an obligatory one. It's always forced - people think they have to say it. I'd rather just be left alone and this is why I do not wear my uniform off post if I can avoid it. I guess I've said "thanks..." but it's so awkward. Other professions do more and they don't get thanked. I'd rather someone go thank a teacher, go thank a firefighter, hell even a janitor before thanking me.

Response by SGT Mary G. made Nov 14 at 2023 8:40 PM

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"Thank you for your support" is a good answer. Hadn't thought of that response.
"My pleasure" or "it was an honor to serve", sometimes surprises people especially if they are being solicitous and feel obligated to comment.
Have just now read comments. Many I would not feel uncomfortable saying in response.

Response by SFC Thomas Wright made Nov 15 at 2023 8:04 AM

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I say I would do it all again. I responded that way to some folks over the Veterans Day weekend and they told me that was the best response they had heard.

Response by Mary Waleryszak made Nov 16 at 2023 7:06 AM

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Thank you for your support.

Response by SrA Doug Zisa made Nov 17 at 2023 2:26 PM

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Thank you for acknowledging my service..

Response by CDR Harold Long made Dec 20 at 2023 7:22 PM

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I usually say, "It was a pleasure to serve."

Response by GySgt Rodney Haymore made Dec 20 at 2023 8:17 PM

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It was my honor to serve.

Response by SSG Josh Barry made Dec 20 at 2023 8:55 PM

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If I have time, I try to be clever and say something like "thanks for paying your taxes" but mostly people get a "uh, yeah..."

Response by CSM Charles Hayden made Dec 20 at 2023 9:30 PM

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MSgt Private RallyPoint Member My response is usually, “I had a great time”. Given another moment, I say, “I was fortunate”

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made Dec 20 at 2023 9:35 PM

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It was an honor to serve the country.

Response by MSgt Herb Krebs made Dec 20 at 2023 10:21 PM

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i have had all ages tell me that...and i always respond with "thank you for remembering all of us Veterans".......i have many young people tell me that and i was shocked ......most are Males.....15 to 45....females mostly elderly like myself

Response by Col Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 20 at 2023 10:39 PM

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“Thank you for your support!”

Response by SSG Tracy Kinnard made Dec 20 at 2023 10:42 PM

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I simply say Thank you and thank you for your support.

Response by SP5 Jaima Burino made Dec 20 at 2023 10:50 PM

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“It was an honor & my pleasure.”
And it was.

Response by Cpl Carole Grant made Dec 20 at 2023 11:00 PM

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I say, "thanks for your support.

Response by SP6 Bryan Gonterman made Dec 20 at 2023 11:16 PM

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I put the light back on them with respect by saying "We Thank you for your Support".

Response by CPO Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 20 at 2023 11:51 PM

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I always say, thanks for your support.

Response by PO2 Michael Leppelman made Dec 20 at 2023 11:56 PM

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I was in a Costco store several years ago I was wearing a Navy ball cap when this young girl maybe 8 years old walk up to me. She stood there for a few seconds and when I turned towards her, she said "Thank you for your service." It brought a tear to my eye, and I was at a loss for words, but I did say "You are welcome"

Response by 1LT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 21 at 2023 12:07 AM

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"My Pleasure," is normally my response. I volunteered, the camaraderie of my fellow service members, and all the suck we embraced together ... it was a pleasure.

Response by CPL Mary Ross made Dec 21 at 2023 12:30 AM

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I just say "It was my pleasure."

Response by SSgt Christie Martin made Dec 21 at 2023 12:33 AM

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Say-“thank you for being the reason I served”

Response by 1SG Néstor Torres made Dec 21 at 2023 3:10 AM

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“Thanks you for your appreciation”

Response by CWO3 Steve Burnside made Dec 21 at 2023 6:23 AM

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"Thank you, it was my honor to serve."

Response by HN Partrick Davis made Dec 21 at 2023 7:06 AM

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Thank You, my honor and privilege !

Response by MSG Terry Lingle made Dec 21 at 2023 7:28 AM

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I normally respond, “I was honored to serve” or something to that effect. And I truly mean it, because it is an honor and there are many who can’t.

Response by PO2 John Schaeffer made Dec 21 at 2023 7:44 AM

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I am always humbled when I am thanked for my service. I always say "thank you, it was my honor to serve."

Response by Sgt L S made Dec 21 at 2023 7:53 AM

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“You are most welcome”. I used to thank people for thanking me, but I was getting funny looks so now I just say you’re welcome.

Response by CPL Scott Smith made Dec 21 at 2023 8:03 AM

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My Pleasure, Thank You for that

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 21 at 2023 9:19 AM

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I get embarrassed because I didn’t do it for the thanks. in a brief conversation, in response to a “thank you for your service” I told the young lass, I never know how to respond to that. She offered up the suggestion “thank you for your support“… And that’s what I now say.

Response by Lt Col Tery Donelson made Dec 21 at 2023 9:24 AM

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Thanks, you are worth it.

Response by Sgt Jim Phillips made Dec 21 at 2023 9:25 AM

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No thanks required, the adventure was epic.

Response by PO2 Wayne Cooke made Dec 21 at 2023 10:53 AM

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I just say “Thank you, I appreciate that.” Don’t think much more is needed.

Response by SGT Victor M. Rivera made Dec 21 at 2023 11:19 AM

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I am from the previous generation where we were not thanked for our service. When I hear the "Thanks for your service" I just reply "My Pleasure".

Response by PO2 Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 21 at 2023 11:28 AM

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I have a very particular way to answer that appreciation: "Thank you for your service". Long explanation: A veteran's service and sacrifice is their way to guarantee America's way of life and freedom. This freedom includes our ability to choose a career or an occupation that would, directly or indirectly, serve the community/nation at large. In doing so, a veteran's service has been honored and the responsible civilian is serving in his/her capacity. That's all we/veteran's ask for. -OAÁ /R

Response by TSgt Alice Grantham made Dec 21 at 2023 11:47 AM

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Thank You for your support. It was my honor to serve.

Response by SP5 Jim Blakemore made Dec 21 at 2023 12:28 PM

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It was my honor, thank you.

Response by SP6 David Ballard made Dec 21 at 2023 4:50 PM

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Thank you for your support. Covers it best

Response by SPC Matt Ovaska made Dec 22 at 2023 6:32 AM

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I tell them, " Please don't thank me. I was drafted."

Response by PO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 23 at 2023 3:30 AM

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Thank you it was an honor to do so

Response by PO1 Robert Russick made Dec 24 at 2023 8:41 PM

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A simple “Thank you” works for me.

Response by SGT Karen Emanuelson made Dec 27 at 2023 7:55 PM

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I always say, "Thank you, it was an honor to serve our country."

Response by CPT Todd Paynter made Dec 31 at 2023 1:33 AM

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“Thank you. It was my privilege and honor to serve this great Nation and its citizens. Your thanks prove that we continue to be a great Nation today…it was my honor to serve and my honor to have your recognition for that service.”

Response by CPO Jim Brand made Jan 1 at 2024 7:39 PM

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I read about a guy that replied, "you're worth it" whenever someone thanked him for his service. I have done this a few times. What I have trouble with is thanking other veterans for their service but I still do.

Response by SN John Dilley made Jan 1 at 2024 10:41 PM

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I just say Thank you, it was a pleasure." (75 year old, Vietnam Vet.)

Response by SGT Gifford Allaire made Jan 7 at 2024 10:30 PM

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Everyone gets to be stupid once....just took me a long time to figure it out

Response by SGT Larry Arnone made Jan 17 at 2024 10:42 PM

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My usual response is that it “it was an honor to serve my Nation and ready to do so again if needed.

Response by SFC Terrence Griffin made Jan 18 at 2024 5:20 AM

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You welcome

Response by Sharon Danitschek made Jan 18 at 2024 12:21 PM

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I am a civilian and told a Veteran, "Thank you for your service. I hope you hear it often and you never tire of hearing it." His response blew me away.
'Thank you for being worth fighting for."

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 18 at 2024 1:08 PM

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I had a friend say "Thank you for your support." and that stuck with me. That's what I've been saying from then on.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 18 at 2024 3:54 PM

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Considering I did 6 years in the peacetime reserves, I really don’t know how to respond. I usually just say, “You’re welcome.”

Response by Maj James Tippins made Jan 18 at 2024 5:00 PM

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A simple "Thank you." is enough.
I get it a lot. Of course, I don't know exactly why people tell me. [wink, wink]

Response by 1SG Mark Colomb made Jan 18 at 2024 8:33 PM

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Thank You for being the kind of person who made it worth it.

Response by SPC Richard Stevenson (Munden) made Jan 19 at 2024 7:22 AM

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I take on a snotty tone and say "I didn't do it for YOU."
The looks of shock are amazing. I highly suggest it.
(I do tell them I'm kidding after, but it's honestly so trite at this point that it rubs me the wrong way when someone says it.)

Response by SMSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 19 at 2024 9:11 AM

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Thank you for your support!

Response by LTC Bob Pinkerton made Jan 19 at 2024 10:26 AM

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Thank you, it was an honor to have served.

Response by LTC Bob Pinkerton made Jan 19 at 2024 10:27 AM

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Thank you. It was an honor to have served.

Response by SFC Dave Nutter made Jan 19 at 2024 11:17 AM

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You know, I really hate that. Most times I hear it is at a couple of big box stores when I use my military discount, some of those folks are sincere but for most its just a platitude that say because they are required to. But for all instances I usually say thank you and continue to march on with my day.
That said, I just went on a KDVA Return to Korea trip and that had over 50 Korea vets travel to Korea (Cold War and Korean War). I felt quite honored by the way we were treated by all we encountered while we were there. I could not say thank you enough.

Response by TSgt J.L. Brown Jr made Jan 20 at 2024 3:41 AM

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I normally tell them, Your Welcome. I enjoyed every minute of it

Response by SGT John Baker made Jan 20 at 2024 2:50 PM

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I think it would depend on my mood at the time. "Your welcome, glad I could help." & such is my most common reply. I served back in the early 1960s so it was not politically correct to even talk to anyone in uniform much less thank them for serving. Myself, I never much cared about such things; I was following the drum, that was all that mattered.

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 20 at 2024 2:52 PM

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I say- You are welcome. It has been the greatest honor of my life and thanks for acknowledging it.

Response by PO2 David Hendrick made Jan 21 at 2024 1:35 PM

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PO2 (ET-2) Dave Hendrick
"Thank You, I enjoyed my time in the Coast Guard.
I got to spend 18 months in the Mediterranean stationed
on the USCGC Courier, and got to experience another culture
on the Greek Island of Rhodes."

Response by Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen made Jan 21 at 2024 1:39 PM

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Normally just: Thank you, I loved every minute of it.

Response by SSG William Zopff III made Jan 21 at 2024 4:20 PM

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I answer with: your very welcome, it was a honor to serve!

Response by LCDR Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 21 at 2024 4:50 PM

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I usually say, "Thank you for thanking me." The responses from there vary. Depending on the age of the other person this has led to discussions of how this was not always so, especially right at the end of the Viet Nam era. Mostly, however, I find the exchange brief, sort of like, "how's the weather" and the other doesn't really listen to whatever you say.

Response by Sgt Charles Riley made Jan 21 at 2024 9:53 PM

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I thank them for acknowledging my service. I get it quite often where I live in WV. Anytime I wear my Vietnam Vet hat, someone thanks me for my service. WV is a small state but very patriotic and there are many veterans throughout the state. In fact, I read long ago that based on our population, we have one of the highest percentages of veterans in the country.

Response by AA Austin Jackson made Jan 22 at 2024 2:19 AM

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I always say back, "Thank you, I truly appreciate your awareness of me being a veteran, thank you

Response by PV2 Bob Ondown made Jan 22 at 2024 11:20 AM

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"Thank you for my support."
or
"Thank you for my service."
That gets some looks LOL.

Response by LtCol Larry O'Connor made Jan 22 at 2024 1:22 PM

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The response to Thank You is ALWAYS Your Welcome. Not yup, uh huh, no problem, etc. You can then say it was my pleasure.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 22 at 2024 4:13 PM

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My response is “It’s been an honor to wear the flag on my shoulder for this many years. You should really thank a Gold Star Family. They gave everything.“

Response by MSG Lonnie Averkamp made Jan 22 at 2024 7:29 PM

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While it can, sometimes, make me feel a bit uncomfortable, I always try to be polite. They are trying to be nice, and it's a much better reception than many veterans received back in the 1960's.

Response by MSgt Dana McKay made Jan 23 at 2024 10:04 AM

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I usually say, thank you for your support!

Response by SGT Juan Robledo made Jan 23 at 2024 1:48 PM

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You're Welcome

Response by COL Larry Sage made Jan 23 at 2024 6:59 PM

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"And to my family for their sacrafice!"

Response by 1SG Alan Boggs made Jan 23 at 2024 7:15 PM

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I say "it was my privilege to serve, no thanks necessary"
I used to stop at this little diner for breakfast when I was on my way to my ADOS job. A couple times a week someone would want to pay for my breakfast because I was in uniform. I asked the waitress to tell anyone who offered that I would accept a cup of coffee but thats all. I get it. People wanted to do something to show support, but it gets old after the first couple times. One day it happened again so I picked a guy wearing dickies with a factory logo over the pocket and bought his breakfast. The waitress was confused when I said it was because he was in uniform. She said, "but thats what he wears to work". I smiled and grabbed the front of my uniform and said this is what I wear to work.

Response by Ray Barraquias made Jan 28 at 2024 5:13 AM

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!I never welcome I say who denial the service of my father VA Manila' always denied our claim service connected not rate at VA Manila from 1980 up to 1985 he suffering of many illness cerebrovascular Accedent or stroke thrombosis acute, bronchitis in 1983 cerebrovascular Accedent or stroke hypertension or high blood pressure, bronchitis , thrombosis acute the ultimate couse of his life end cerebrovascular Accedent, cardiovascular arrist thrombosis this a presumptive condition related to PACT Act, infact all requirements and regulations from VA I meet them step by step, A) I am legitimate child or biological child of veterans
A) I am 16 Year old in 1980 when the veterans suffering of his many illness
A) I am a member of veterans house hold from 1980 up to his death in 1985 and continue up to the death of my mother in 2002.
A) I am disabled person Lost of hearing from 7 Year old in 1977 up to now I am jobless up to now why the VA always denied our claim the VA Manila' only malaria server in 1952 up to now denied for zero dawn percent at VA rating not compensable how about service connected disability not rate from 1980 up to his death up to now .I apply for Filipino veterans Equity compensation fund at VA Manila before expiration Feb ,26,2010 the VA Manila' only living veterans are to receive at this present Year I re file Filipino veterans Equity compensation fund at VA Manila and VA Janesville WI u.s.a the VA Manila' reply that is already expired what kind of human officer in Manila. Last year I file PACT Act at VA Manila and VA Janesville WI maybe Manila waiting for expiration and Said to me that is already expired this happen during my claim for Filipino veterans Equity compensation.
How I can say to reply thanks for your service maybe I said thank you for denied service of my father.

Response by Ray Barraquias made Jan 28 at 2024 5:32 PM

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I am not response due to the service of my father never to enjoy any benefits from VA Manila'. Always denied,there's benefits

Response by Ray Barraquias made Jan 28 at 2024 5:34 PM

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Their services nothing to Honor due to denied

Response by 1SG John Millan made Jan 28 at 2024 7:52 PM

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I truly appreciate it.

Response by Ray Barraquias made Feb 3 at 2024 8:58 PM

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I never thanks you to any one due to My did receive ay benefits from VA

Response by PO3 Ted G made Feb 18 at 2024 10:39 AM

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I just say thank you.

Response by SGT Louis Perrault made Feb 19 at 2024 4:50 PM

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Thank you, you are worth it.

Response by SSG Norbert Johnson made Feb 20 at 2024 12:36 AM

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Thank you. However, I feel for the most part their statement was hollow as I started during Vietnam and finished with Desert Storm. With hostility was my greetings of the time. Today if I say I served during Vietnam, I am still treated with hostility or disdain in their voice. I had a Statute in my front yard which was upended and thrown to the ground about a year or so. It was a Soldier carrying a wounded soldier. It had a Dog tag around its neck. That was my Brother's Tag. My Brother was Infantry: C company 2nd 502 101st Airmobile Vietnam. I was attached as a Reservist to HHC 6th 502 101st Inf. Reg-Berlin year 1986. However I also served during Vietnam on Active Duty not in country. My last Active Duty MOS during Desert Shield and Desert Storm was Combat Medical Specialist 91A E5 and AD for Desert Storm was 91B E6. I was proud of my brother's service and as he stood in for me during Vietnam, I took a stand for him through his remaining life as his readjustment to America never occurred until a few days before he died in 2015. That is why the statute was placed in honor my Brother. I found his Dog Tag bent over and stomped on where the statue was originally placed in my front yard. And that is why it is hard for me to accept someone saying "Thank you for your service." With respect I will say thanks in return but I feel hollow inside when I say it.

Response by SFC Barbara Layman made Feb 20 at 2024 5:16 AM

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It was an Honor and a Privilege.

Response by SPC Robert Nasiff made Feb 20 at 2024 11:17 AM

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I just say much appreciated and move on!

Response by SSG Mike Busovicki made Feb 20 at 2024 4:51 PM

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"Happy to do my part."

Response by SPC Gerardo Arce made Feb 21 at 2024 8:26 AM

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I just say, you're welcome!

Response by Sgt Lonnie Henegar made Feb 21 at 2024 5:27 PM

2024-02-21T17:27:11-05:00

Thank You for you support.

Response by AN Jerry Criddle made Feb 21 at 2024 5:28 PM

2024-02-21T17:28:53-05:00

I thank him or her for saying that statement.

Response by MCPO Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 21 at 2024 6:10 PM

2024-02-21T18:10:47-05:00

I respond: As a Veteran, I thank you for being someone worth serving for (if they seem worthy of the response). I may then add: and I would gladly serve again, but not under the command of the current President.

Response by SSgt Earle Whitcher made Feb 21 at 2024 6:40 PM

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I puzzled over how I should respond to this for a long time. In my "era" the options were: go to collage - get drafted - enlist - or head to the Great White North. Since Canada was much too cold for me, I had no desire to continue going to school, and I did not want to be drafted - I enlisted. I felt that my service was not an option so I was conflicted about my response. I have since settled on, "Thank you, it was an honor to serve."

Response by Sgt Arthur Korfmann made Feb 21 at 2024 11:58 PM

2024-02-21T23:58:24-05:00

I always reply, "Thank YOU! That's much appreciated".
'64 - '68 USAF, Viet Nam Vet
Art Korfmann
Towanda, Pa.

P.S. Thank you for Your Service ! ;-)

Response by SSG Frank Bova made Feb 22 at 2024 1:32 AM

2024-02-22T01:32:11-05:00

Thanks

Response by Sgt Stephen Chiles made Feb 22 at 2024 3:14 AM

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It was an honor and privilege to serve. Thank you.

Response by CMSgt Paul Palko made Feb 22 at 2024 7:20 AM

2024-02-22T07:20:58-05:00

"Thanks, but i only did it to get that sweet 10% discount at Home Depot"

Response by SGT Steven Warren made Feb 22 at 2024 12:55 PM

2024-02-22T12:55:08-05:00

I respond with your welcome!

Response by PO1 Robert Wikert made Feb 24 at 2024 11:08 AM

2024-02-24T11:08:21-05:00

"Thanks, it was my pleasure for the most part." Which usually brings a chuckle.

Response by SPC Robert Nasiff made Feb 24 at 2024 11:24 AM

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IMO, its difficult to except thanks when you have been demeaned, insulted and attacked in this country as baby killers during and years after Nam! How many thank u's are really sincere and how many are just empty show. You'd have had to serve back in the 60s to really understand this. When people thank me for serving, in some ways it saddens and hurts. I'd almost rather not be thanked then to be reminded of the past. At times when being thanked, I think: "If they only knew what it was really like, returning not just with no honors, but absolute disdain. If you wore a military uniform, you could pretty much count on the coming insults. We should have been proud of wearing our uniforms and serving, but sadly that was not the case. So, for the most part, you can thank me by not thanking me.

That is why, when people thank me for my service, I answer back "appreciated" in an empty sort of way and just quickly move on!

Response by SFC J S made Feb 24 at 2024 11:30 AM

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I respond. “Thank you for your support.”

Response by SFC J S made Feb 24 at 2024 11:35 AM

2024-02-24T11:35:02-05:00

I use, “Thank you for your support.”

Response by CA Michael Lucius made Feb 24 at 2024 11:53 PM

2024-02-24T23:53:51-05:00

i usually say either you are welcome or thank you

Response by PO2 Stephen Cline made Feb 25 at 2024 2:26 AM

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Over the years they have become just words people say. This is no longer the America I honorably served.

Response by CSM Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 26 at 2024 10:20 AM

2024-02-26T10:20:05-05:00

You are welcome, my honor to serve.

Response by SSG Freddie B Graddy made Feb 26 at 2024 11:02 AM

2024-02-26T11:02:41-05:00

Thank You

Response by SPC Bobby Locklear made Feb 26 at 2024 12:02 PM

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Thank you, it was an honor

Response by SSG Steve Knox made Feb 28 at 2024 6:59 PM

2024-02-28T18:59:04-05:00

I agree with MSgt Rivenbark. I feel humbled and all I can say is "Thank you for your support".

Response by SSG Dale London made Feb 28 at 2024 8:09 PM

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I feel grateful that I had the chance to serve and I value the time I spent in uniform so I usually answer: "Thank you for the opportunity."

Response by SGT Ronald Chambell made Feb 29 at 2024 2:25 PM

2024-02-29T14:25:16-05:00

Thank you for your support is my response

Response by SGT Wayne Smith made Mar 1 at 2024 9:49 PM

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My reply is, "Thank you, I appreciate that very much". And I do appreciate hearing it. Being a Vietnam Vet, it was many years before I heard that from anyone after I had served.

Response by 1SG Dean Mcbride (MPER) (CPHR) made Mar 17 at 2024 9:02 PM

2024-03-17T21:02:03-04:00

Standard response: Thank you... And, Thank you for your continued support of our military.

Response by SGT Beth Day made Mar 21 at 2024 1:25 PM

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It makes me uncomfortable so I do the simplest thing possible, "Thank you."

Response by SSgt Byron (Mitchell) Nash made Mar 21 at 2024 6:56 PM

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I usually respond simply with "Thanks". That being said, if it looks as if it could turn into a conversation of value, I like the idea of following it up with "it was an honor" or "it was my privilege to serve" (even though it may not have seemed like much of a pleasure at the time.) That last part I usually keep to myself, unless it's another vet!

Response by Sgt David Johns made Mar 22 at 2024 8:37 AM

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You're welcome

Response by PO2 Jody Martin made Mar 22 at 2024 9:07 AM

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Keep it short is my suggestion… just simply reply back with, thank you for your support. Don’t going into detail about your service. Be humble and keep your service private

Response by SGT Richard Cook made Mar 22 at 2024 11:20 AM

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My responses Is Thankyou. Keep in mind that 50 years ago when I returned State Side we were spat on and call baby killers.

Response by CDR Tom Davy made Mar 23 at 2024 1:41 AM

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Depends on who says it. Most WW II combat vets saw more combat that I did, so I get humble.
Older civilian, I say "you are welcome"
Good looking single lady gets an opportunity to thank me.
For an 18 - 35 y/o male, I offer to take them to the Recruiter. When they say they are too good or important to serve, I bite my lip, chuckle, and walk away.

Response by A1C Medrick "Rick" DeVaney made Mar 23 at 2024 9:54 AM

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To Be PERFECTLY Honest, I LOVED My 4 Year Enlistment In The USAF.
And When Civilians Say "Thanks For Your Service"; I Tilt My Head In Recognition,
While Thinking To Myself: "If They ONLY Knew ~~ They'd Demand A Refund Of My Paychecks"
YES. I Loved It "THAT Much".

Response by LCpl Michael Cappello made Mar 23 at 2024 6:22 PM

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Thank you. It was my honor to serve our country.

Response by SSG Theresa Felix made Mar 23 at 2024 7:05 PM

2024-03-23T19:05:35-04:00

Thank you! I’d do it all over again if my body would let me!!!

Response by SP5 James Mulligan made Mar 23 at 2024 7:40 PM

2024-03-23T19:40:19-04:00

Spec5 Jim Mulligan, thank you it was a privilege, honor and obligation to serve.

Response by CDR John Bartlett made Mar 23 at 2024 7:57 PM

2024-03-23T19:57:48-04:00

"Thank You. It was my honor and privilege to serve. Did anyone in your family serve?"

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made Mar 23 at 2024 9:00 PM

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I was unemployed and needed a job......................... :)

Response by SGT Chuck Freiman made Mar 25 at 2024 10:16 PM

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I always say, "no need to thank me. I got paid". Although I do appreciate the Veteran's Parking Spaces at Harris-Teeter grocery stores.

Response by CPL Robert Meece made Mar 26 at 2024 1:02 PM

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You were worth it

Response by PO3 Michael Smith made Mar 26 at 2024 6:35 PM

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I tell the person you are welcome and you were worth it.

Response by AN Ron Wright made Mar 26 at 2024 7:49 PM

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ALWAYS. I APPRECIATE THAT. THANK YOU

Response by LTC Royce Labor made Apr 2 at 2024 10:16 PM

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I usually say, "Thank you. It was an honor and a privilege. You were worth it." The last part usually brings a smile to the person’s face.

Response by Sgt Richard Green made Apr 3 at 2024 4:58 PM

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My response is “Thank you for the thank you! I’m proud to have served.”

Response by PO3 Jeff Lane made Apr 5 at 2024 8:38 AM

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I always say, " your very welcome and I'd do it again in a heartbeat!

Response by Capt Patricia Castaldi made Apr 14 at 2024 8:55 PM

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I used to say thanks with a smile, but now, since my larygectomy last September, I give a thumbs up and smile :)

Response by MAJ James Oerding made Apr 22 at 2024 10:59 PM

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i JUST SAY THANK YOU!

Response by SGT Jon Hunter made Apr 23 at 2024 6:03 PM

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I say, thank you (or thank you very much) for your support. Then, I try and stay alert for any indication the person wants to engage further. I'm happy to listen to stories of service and sacrifice from folks who value and appreciate sharing those moments. Usually, when someone thanks me for my service, they know how much they want to share and I try and match their desire to share.

Response by CPT Clifford Breeden made Apr 24 at 2024 12:17 AM

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Yes i do. "My Honor" is my reply.

Response by SFC David S made Apr 24 at 2024 2:56 PM

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I was at Walmart, I wear a disabled army veteran hat. An employee, a young man saluted me and thanked me for my service. I simply said you are welcome. sometimes I say it was an honor. these are my two responses. KISS...keep it simple stupid. If someone wants to know more, I'll tell them I served on active duty for over 21 years and was overseas 5 times and I miss being in the army, they were my other family and I miss them dearly. But keep it simple stupid or you might be misinterpreted. Never say anything about loss of life in a war zone. They can't relate.

Response by SFC Dennis Kraft made Apr 25 at 2024 12:14 AM

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All I say is Thank You For Your Support.

Response by Lt Col Richard Neel made Apr 26 at 2024 8:06 AM

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"Thank you. It was my pleasure," is one I use occasionally.

Response by MSgt Hamish Barrett made Apr 26 at 2024 10:38 AM

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I mostly say, "Someone has to be þe warrior." I get odd looks sometimes because many people just say it out of habit or þeir boss told þem to.

Response by SGT Jim Giffin made Apr 26 at 2024 11:23 AM

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Tell them the best way to thank me is to live a life worthy of the sacrifice our Troops made for them

Response by Maj Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 26 at 2024 12:44 PM

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Agreed it always seems awkward when you hear that; however, I used to say "It was my honor - Thank you." Recently have started answering their thank you differently - I now say "You are welcome, you were worth it." I over heard that from another vet, when a person was thanking him for his service. The person's response was "excuse me?" to which the vet replied - "I served because I love my country and all those within nor do I regret my service or all the time that I had to dedicate to complete my time. Which means it was all worth it and in turn means you were worth it." After thinking about it, I was taken with what he said and thought wow I that was really heart felt, I like that sentiment so now that is what I say. So to the unknow vet - thank you sir!

Response by Amn Joseph H. made Apr 27 at 2024 6:43 AM

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Usually remind the kids that like every Irish American generation of Americans in my family did out citizen duty, thanks for the respect. Then they go any further with questions I remind them that only 1 percent of the population actually shows up for duty.

Response by CPO Charles Helms made Apr 27 at 2024 7:43 AM

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I wear my command ball caps every where so when a person say thank you for your service! I thank them right back for their comment, if they are also service connected I return the comment! Living in the Pensacola/Milton Fl. area you receive a lot of thank you for your service comments from civilians and other veterans! The western part of the Florida panhandle is the home to many military installations!

Response by CPT Carl Ford made Apr 27 at 2024 10:02 AM

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When I am wearing my Viet Nam cap People often thank me for my service, I always respond that it was my honor. Depending on the situation I also include that I don't wear it for myself -- I came home safely after two tours -- but for my buddies who didn't make it back or worse are still unaccounted for.

Response by CDR Theresa Everest made Apr 28 at 2024 8:53 PM

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To my family and friends: You were worth it. To strangers: Thank you, it was a privilege to serve.

Response by SFC James (JD) Flemal made Apr 29 at 2024 11:05 AM

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I’ve heard the response “You were worth it” also