Today's Respect in the military for seniors

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 25 Sep 2015 15:54:13 -0400

As a senior in the Military I have gone through the phases of promotion and understand rank structure. My issue is why do Soldiers now a days think they can talk to or speak to senior non-commissioned officers like we are their friends. How do you all deal with these situations in today's Army? I just want to smoke them like the old days but can't do things like that anymore just have to write a counseling now because that will teach them their lesson.

Response by Capt Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 25 at 2015 4:11 PM

Capt Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 25 Sep 2015 16:11:42 -0400

The world has changed in the civilian world also. I don't see it changing back in my lifetime. Some of change is good some not so good.

Response by Cpl James Waycasie made Sep 25 at 2015 4:27 PM

Cpl James Waycasie — Fri, 25 Sep 2015 16:27:17 -0400

Perhaps you should check out the moral values the general populace of the USA has today. We live in a "oh well anything goes" society and it's probably bleeding over into the military ranks as well.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 25 at 2015 4:29 PM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 25 Sep 2015 16:29:37 -0400

SFC Boatwright, you just literally answered your own question with the last sentence of your post. Most Senior NCO's (and even some junior NCO's) are scared to do any correction because anything they do may be taken in a negative way and any complaint to highers can possibly result in QMP and their careers are done, and the Junior Enlisted are keying in on this like lawyers to a car accident. Self preservation.

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made Sep 25 at 2015 4:40 PM

MAJ Ken Landgren — Fri, 25 Sep 2015 16:40:45 -0400

I think in a distorted way, they think they earned that right and view the military as an egalitarian organization. That is the world they created for themselves.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 6 at 2015 5:11 PM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Fri, 06 Nov 2015 17:11:36 -0500

I remember I got a little to "buddy buddy" with my platoon sergeant once. We spent a lot of time working together after 9/11, long hours, small office, we got to know each other pretty well. With the hours we were working, I'd let him shower and crash in my barracks room, he'd bring snacks and meals for me. As a young PFC, hell, as a young person, I mistook the camaraderie, mentorship and working relationship as friendship. I don't remember what I said or did, but I crossed the line one day, with witnesses. They looked at me, then at him. He pulled me aside and explained "life" to me. At the end he said to me, "we can be friendly, but we aren't friends. Maybe later in your career that can change."
It was a very important lesson that served me well.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Dec 15 at 2015 12:14 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 15 Dec 2015 12:14:24 -0500

I had one E2 talk to me disprectfully in my first assignment, I had another tell me, 'do you know what he said?, look at your rank man.' I then went back and he said 'I thought I told you..' I said,'uh, check your rank and mine, son' Then went to his superior. That was all there was to it. Today though? I would play it the same. If I got written up? Well that's another post.