Veterans Experience Live (VetXL): Survivors Together - Memorial Day Q&A with Community Partners answering questions about benefits

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The Department of Veterans Affairs and our community partners TAPS, American Gold Star Mothers, AAFMAA, Wounded Warrior Project, Travis Manion Foundation, American Red Cross, and Gold Star Wives of America will be here on May 20th at 3PM EST to answer questions.
You can ask questions to the following people:
RDML Ann Duff- Director of the Office of Survivors Assistance
SSgt Danny Devine - Executive Director of Engagement and Memorial Innovations, NCA
Maj Bonnie Carroll - President and Founder, TAPS
Mona Gunn - National President, American Gold Star Mothers
BG Michael Meese - President, AAFMAA
LTG Michael Linnington - CEO, Wounded Warrior Project
Amy Looney - Vice President, Travis Manion Foundation
Melissa Comeau - Director, American Red Cross Military and Veteran Caregiver Network
Nancy Menagh - President of Gold Star Wives of America

VA Office of Survivor Assistance-

The Office of Survivors Assistance serves as an expert resource regarding all benefits and services furnished by the VA to Survivors and Dependents of deceased Veterans and members of the Armed Forces. We can help you navigate the myriad of benefits and services available, and direct you to your best options. Additionally, we work closely with veteran service organizations, other departments, state and local veteran groups and community leaders to educate everyone about available services and benefits.

National Cemetery Administration-

NCA will commemorate Memorial Day this year with solemn wreath-laying ceremonies. All VA national cemeteries will be open Memorial Day weekend from dawn to dusk for public visitation.
Starting May 14, Veterans Legacy Memorial will permit online visitors to leave a “tribute” text at http://www.va.gov/remember

Effective, Wednesday, April 15, 2020, to ensure social distancing at the cemetery, witnessing family members have been asked to view the interment from their cars or the road very near their cars. Families may visit the gravesite in the days following the interment consistent with CDC guidelines and local travel restrictions. Click here to learn more about burial benefits and the Veterans Legacy Memorial: https://www.cem.va.gov/

TAPS-

The Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors (TAPS) provides compassionate care and survivor support services for the families of America’s fallen military heroes. Since 1994, TAPS has offered support to more than 95,000 survivors of fallen military in the form of peer-based emotional support, grief and trauma resources, grief seminars and retreats for adults, Good Grief Camps for children, casework assistance, connections to community-based care, online and in-person support groups and a 24/7 resource and information helpline for all who have been profoundly affected by a death of a military loved one. For more information go to taps.org or call the TAPS National Military Survivor Helpline at 800.959.TAPS (8277).

American Gold Star Mothers-

American Gold Star Mothers, Inc was founded and incorporated in Washington, D.C. 92 years ago. We are a nonprofit membership organization of mothers whose children died while on active duty, died as a result of their service, or are missing in action. We have members in chapters around the country who keep alive the memory of their sons and daughters by helping veterans, active-duty military, and their families. As a service organization, we continue the service of our sons and daughters, who would have been veterans, by volunteering at VA Medical Centers in our local communities.

AAFMAA-

Established in 1879, the American Armed Forces Mutual Aid Association (AAFMAA) is the longest-standing, not-for-profit financial solutions provider supporting military and veteran families. At the heart of AAFMAA is a unique and unsurpassed level of care for our Members’ survivors. When a Member dies, an AAFMAA Survivor Assistance Services counselor assists the surviving spouse and family to get all of the benefits earned through military service and continues to assist them for the rest of their lives. Just since 9/11, AAFMAA has provided over $900 million to military families—not as a charity, but as a mutual Association—with Members helping other Members at the passing of a loved one.

Wounded Warrior Project-

Wounded Warrior Project is transforming the way America’s injured veterans are empowered, employed, and engaged in our communities. Since 2003, we’ve been tireless advocates for our nation’s finest, improving the lives of millions of warriors and their families. Warriors never pay a penny for our programs – because they paid their dues on the battlefield. Our free services in mental health, career counseling, and long-term rehabilitative care change lives. We’re committed to helping injured veterans achieve their highest ambitions. When they’re ready to start their next mission, we stand ready to serve.

Travis Manion Foundation-

Travis Manion Foundation strives to unite and strengthen communities by training, developing, and highlighting the role models that lead them. We develop programs, training opportunities, and events designed to empower veterans and families of the fallen, and then inspire them to pass on their values to the next generation and the community at large.

American Red Cross Military and Veteran Caregiver Network-

The Military and Veteran Caregiver Network (MVCN) offers peer-based support and services to connect those providing care to service members and veterans living with wounds, illnesses, injuries and/or aging. The mission of the MVCN is to provide our nation’s military and veteran caregivers of all eras with peer support to reduce isolation and increase connection, engagement, knowledge, skills and hope.

The MVCN helps caregivers of all eras and at all stages of caregiving by providing access to three peer support programs:
· Online Peer Support Community
· Peer Mentor Support Program
· Peer Support Groups (Online & Community-Based)
New Integrated Condolence Care Program - https://www.redcross.org/about-us/news-and-events/press-release/2020/red-cross-offers-virtual-care-for-families-who-have-lost-loved-o.html

Gold Star Wives of America, Inc. is a Congressionally Chartered non-profit service organization made up of Gold Star spouses of both men and women.
Formed in 1945, our membership spans all eras from WWII to current. Our spouses died while serving on active duty in the Armed Forces or from their service connected disability as a result of that service, including PTSD/suicide. Our mission is to preserve and enhance benefits for surviving US Military spouses and children;
to help or members and their children face the future with courage and determination; and to honor the memory of our military spouses who made the ultimate sacrifice.

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Response by PO1 H Gene Lawrence made May 6 at 2020 11:53 AM

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A great message.

Response by Wayne Soares made May 6 at 2020 7:00 PM

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Wonderful!

Response by CPT David Gowel made May 6 at 2020 8:08 PM

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This is an incredible group of leaders to have join us on RallyPoint for a Q&A. Thanks so much for giving us your time. I have a question relevant to all of your organizations as we approach Memorial Day: what is the most important benefit that you provide to the survivors of those service members and Veterans we've lost?

Response by Capt Brandon Charters made May 6 at 2020 8:20 PM

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Great to have these organizations on. I’d like to know from each, what is the greatest challenge you see veterans & survivors facing today and what is your organization currently doing to help?

Also, I’d like to know how you’ve changed your operations with COVID-19 in mind.

Response by LTC Jason Strickland made May 6 at 2020 8:37 PM

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Great to have these tremendous organizations all in one forum. I remember meeting Bonnie Carroll, TAPS President, at a co-beneficiary golf fundraiser in Colorado in 2014, when I was with Project Sanctuary.
Sometimes nonprofits with good intentions end up "competing" to serve their beneficiaries, thereby reducing funding and making it difficult for beneficiaries to choose. My question for the group, as a former member of the nonprofit community, is how are each of you working together to meet the needs of survivors?

Response by Susan Wingate made May 6 at 2020 8:59 PM

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I would like to know where I can get a book telling me all survivor benefits for Indiana

Response by CW5 Jack Cardwell made May 7 at 2020 8:27 AM

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Thanks for the post.

Response by Peigi Fabian made May 7 at 2020 10:22 AM

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Thank you for all you do to support our heroes and those of us who love them. I loved staying on base with my LTC hubbie who passed last March. As a survivor with current DOD mil ID card, do I have access to those bookings without Ed?

Response by PVT Mark Zehner made May 7 at 2020 1:27 PM

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Thank you!

Response by CPT Bob McDonald made May 8 at 2020 8:19 AM

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It is wonderful to see this tremendous group of leaders and dear friends coming together to discuss this important topic. Can you share with us some key elements of the customer service experience that a survivor can expect when they engage with your organization? Thank you for your leadership in all that you do for our Veteran community.

Response by GEN George Casey made May 8 at 2020 10:17 AM

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Our survivors are a population that we must never forget – thank you for the important work you are doing. I have found that our servicemen and women and their families are best supported through public-private partnerships. In 2008, the Army started Survivor Outreach Services to provide long-term care to our survivors. What resources and programs do you have available that can augment what the Army is doing for their survivors?

Response by ADM John Harvey made May 8 at 2020 10:34 AM

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In the Navy, Sailors execute our missions around the globe with greater confidence knowing that organizations like yours are standing by to care for our survivors if we are required to make the ultimate sacrifice. Having served for nearly 40 years, I extend my gratitude to you for being there for our military families when they are most vulnerable. What thematic challenges do you sense survivors still face that are not yet solved and for which we should all be working on a solution?

Response by Deborah James made May 9 at 2020 8:46 AM

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Thank you for doing this event. It’s very important. In view of the various government and non profit resources and benefits available to survivors, where are the ongoing unmet needs or biggest holes in coverage?

Response by Gen Norton Schwartz made May 9 at 2020 9:21 PM

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Having had the privilege to serve for many years in our Air Force and support veteran and military family causes in retirement, I can assure you that the work you are performing for our veterans and survivors is greatly appreciated. Thank you for providing this important set of services to a population that is front of mind for every military leader – currently serving and veterans alike. Given any changes to your operating cadence that have occurred recently due to the pandemic, what should survivors know before they engage with your programs at this time?

Response by Lt Col Brian Ranaudo made May 11 at 2020 12:23 PM

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Glad to see such an impressive group together to take care of our fallen and their loved ones.

Response by CPT Aaron Kletzing made May 11 at 2020 11:27 PM

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RallyPoint has tons of Veteran/Retiree members that utilize the VA for medical care. What are the most important things for them to know with regard to how the VA is operating in this new COVID world?

Response by SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth made May 13 at 2020 8:54 AM

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Thank you for the great share.

Response by SrA Private RallyPoint Member made May 13 at 2020 10:27 AM

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LTG Michael Linnington Sir, how has technology allowed your team to better communicate and serve the WWP community? Do you see VR and other related technologies as a viable option for PTSD/TBI treatment?

Response by Jennifer Ranaudo made May 13 at 2020 12:40 PM

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Thank you all for doing this event. Do you see any knowledge gaps common to many survivor families? Meaning, are there any trends or common issues getting benefits that you see from multiple survivor families? If so, how do you address the shortfalls?

Response by Debbie Pomeroy Cloud made May 14 at 2020 7:40 AM

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Response by Cpl Tim Callahan made May 14 at 2020 10:43 AM

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Do you think there should be a special dispensation for boy scouts putting flags on our fallen heroes graves?

Response by Kathy Roth-Douquet made May 14 at 2020 12:39 PM

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Thanks to all the wonderful panelists and the VA officials giving their time.
From the perspective of military family member, I think it’s often hard for us to think about survivor’s benefits or to make other plans related to the passing of a loved one. For those military families who have a Veteran in failing health, do you have any recommendations for those families on actions they should initiate with your organizations to honor the wishes of that Veteran before they pass away?

Response by SPC Chris Bayner-Cwik made May 17 at 2020 5:17 PM

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Is this ET, CT, PT??

Response by PV2 Private RallyPoint Member made May 18 at 2020 5:40 PM

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I was hurt in a accident in Fort Bliss Texas. We rolled out APC and I was trapped under neth it not sure how long. Was air lifted to the bass hospital at Fort Bliss and treated for bleading in my stomach . The keep me in the hospital for two months and finally sent me back to my unit.then had me see a PHS doctor and they decided to discharge me. But never would talk to me about any compensation the accident I did nothing wrong I was in the gun tournament I was throwing around and then pinned underneath the APC. I tried numerous times to contact them nobody would ever respond to me. After a while I gave up and to this day nobody has ever listened to a word I've had to say about it. Thank you John W Hughbanks

Response by A1C Ernest Lane made May 18 at 2020 5:44 PM

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For the last ten years, I have conducted many veterans' benefits claims. And I have many questions but one particular. Widow Survivor benefits award during the life of a disabled veteran with less than 100 % rating. His wife received a small allowance. Once he passed, the survivor spouse loses the allowance. The widow made be entitled to DIC / Widow Pension depending on the veteran rating and household income. If those guidelines are not met the allowance is lost. WHY!

Response by SGT Hans Schoenborn made May 18 at 2020 5:44 PM

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IS MY SON AND DAUGHTER ELIGIBLE FOR BENEFITS

Response by MSG John Walker made May 18 at 2020 5:46 PM

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My question is this. I am a veteran and receiving 100% disability. When something happens to me, what benefits would my wife receive? I did not have option for Survivor benefits when I cam in Army back in July of 1979. I sthere an Insurance I can start on for my spouse?

Response by PV2 Private RallyPoint Member made May 18 at 2020 5:49 PM

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May be it would have been better if I had just fu*ken died that day. Then I would have never been done anything wrong with the rest of my life.

Response by PO3 Ron Pariseau made May 18 at 2020 5:57 PM

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My wife applied for CHAMPVA, I am a 100% Disabled Vietnam Veteran, it has been seceral months sin e applying, no word yet either approved or denied! How long should it take?

Response by TSgt LaDeane Palmar made May 18 at 2020 6:02 PM

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As both a partially disabled veteran and a surviving spouse of an active duty member that died. I have a dependent daughter (also his daughter). I have found the VA, DFAS and Social Security monthly payments and medical benefits to be my biggest benefit. I honestly don't know what I would do financially without these benefits. What is your organizations doing to make sure these benefits never go away? I also really appreciated TAPS shortly after his death. Having an organization that was there to support the grief my daughter and I were experiencing was huge. There truly should be one place a survivor can go to to learn about ALL benefits as it is really hard when faced with this huge change to have to research many different places.

Response by PO1 David Coombs made May 18 at 2020 6:13 PM

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How do I arrange for cremation and buriall?

Response by PO2 Arlene Doyle made May 18 at 2020 6:35 PM

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is there a plaque for headstones for my deceased brother who also served in the us navy?

Response by CPT William Harris made May 18 at 2020 7:18 PM

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Does my wife receive my disability benefits after my death. I'm a 75 year old 100% disabled combat veteran from Vietnam. VA has continued to fight me since 2005 every step of the way regarding disability benefits awarded for combat related conditions caused by Agent Orange. I live in Arizona which is ground zero for the problems VA was revealed to have starting in 2014. I just want to confirm if VA is going to be so hard to work with in the future as in the past.

Response by Kathy Neal made May 18 at 2020 7:27 PM

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why does it take so long to get survivors benefits? my husband passed away in dec 2019 and he was in the army. I'm still waiting.

Response by PO3 Bill. Wattie Watkins made May 18 at 2020 7:32 PM

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thank you for being there

Response by CSM Frank Supinski made May 18 at 2020 8:59 PM

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Thank you for sharing this forum for all survivors to ask questions and for Veterans to ask questions on behalf of their families.

Response by LCpl Kenneth E. (Gene) Satterfield made May 18 at 2020 11:58 PM

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My husband had Parkinson’s with Dementia, and it was due to Agent Orange, in which the VA, had moved on his case. But, he died as this process was going on. Do I have a right to continue this since we were married for 50 yrs.

Response by Maj Alea Nadeem made May 19 at 2020 12:53 AM

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How can DoD better educate military members and spouses on these benefits while they are in service, so that if a tragic event happens, it will not be the first time they have heard or been exposed to these wonderful programs you have?

Response by Col Lisa Witt made May 19 at 2020 5:06 PM

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Thank you for holding this forum. This is the first I've seen of such an effort, so it is much appreciated. One question that has always stumped me: Surviving spouses are eligible to retain SBP if they remarry after age 55 and DIC if they remarry after age 57. Why are these ages not standardized?

Response by Linda Samanns made May 19 at 2020 6:41 PM

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Hi I am not quite sure who to ask, my husband died in October 2016 from agent orange related lung cancer. My I guess it’s called your DOD card expires in July. If I live in Pottstown Pennsylvania do I have to go to Allentown to renew it

Response by Shannon Stinson made May 19 at 2020 6:48 PM

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As the legal guardian of a dependent of a medically retired, wounded service member, how can I determine what benefits (outside of TRICARE) she is eligible for? I can’t find these answers with ease, especially having sole legal and physical custody of her, without involvement of the service member. I have heard she is eligible for paid college tuition given his service connected disability rating, but need to speak to someone official to confirm this information. Thank you!

Response by Sgt Stephen Matern made May 19 at 2020 6:55 PM

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I have purchased a home with a VA home loan. My question: when l die can my son assume the loan? Will VA provide some guidance. Thank you.

Response by Maureen Clemendor made May 19 at 2020 6:55 PM

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Who does a bermudian spouse of a deceased US military veteran speak to about applying for survivor benefits? Thank you for your response.

Response by CWO4 Erik Duane made May 19 at 2020 7:00 PM

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Thanks for putting on such a valuable event! QUESTION: If a veteran in receipt of VA Compensation (disability) dies, does his surviving spouse get any portion of his/her VA compensation, either lump sum or in perpetuity?

Response by CPL Us Army Brown made May 19 at 2020 7:01 PM

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just want to is it true that the veterans will rec' a stimus check?

Response by Sandy Linden made May 19 at 2020 7:09 PM

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Who’s there to help widows of PRE 9/11 Veterans who have died to wounds or ills service connected?

Response by Sgt Tim Hudak made May 19 at 2020 7:30 PM

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What happens if my wife passes away before me and we want to be buried in a VA National Cemetery?

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made May 19 at 2020 7:39 PM

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My name is Laura Jane Byrne- widow and "Wife" of "Captain"...I requested his DD-214 and never received it so I csn file for benefits

Response by Mcrey Barraquias made May 19 at 2020 7:41 PM

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I asked to all about survivor dependent son at va what va benefits for dependent son especially my father Veterans of wwII who never to enjoy any benefits from va of America since he claims 1954 up to his death in 1985? And I am serving my father at hospital in 1980 when I am age of 16 years old up to his death in 1985 I am unemployed before 18 years old in 1983 due to non formal education untill now I am unemployed 2020 I am unmerried before 18 years old up to 2012,and now I am 55years old and I cannot see clearly on my left eye or temporary blind. I am asking you what va benefits we received in behalf of my situation? I am becoming homeless Veterans child. My parents both claimant both denied both deceased both never to receive any benefits from va of America during their lifetime since ended of America n war against Japan when Philippines one Territory of America under treaty of Paris on December 10 1898.

Response by Sgt Jim Byers made May 19 at 2020 7:46 PM

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I'm a 100% disabled vet. When I die will my wife continue to receive my disability benefits? Is there a means test. I worry about what will happen to her if I pass on.

Response by PVT Kenneth Autrey made May 19 at 2020 8:18 PM

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I would like to know why a disabled vet can't get a ramp so I can get out of the house.

Response by PVT Mark Brown made May 19 at 2020 8:19 PM

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I am confused about the answers I am able to find on the VA benefits webpage. My query: When I leave this planet (in the far distant future, hopefully) will my wife of 47 years continue to receive any money, all or a portion of my current C&P award? It is currently <100%

Response by Rose Kirst made May 19 at 2020 8:34 PM

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I have been waiting close to a year for my survivors benefit claim to be processed. I understand you may be short staffed but it would be helpful to get periodic notices that my case is being actively reviewed. Thank you.

Response by PO3 David Grierson made May 19 at 2020 8:57 PM

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I signed up for Pre-Need over 1.5 years ago and never have heard another word what should I expect

Response by Col Casey "Radio" G. made May 19 at 2020 9:21 PM

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I spend a lot of time pushing the DoD to innovate and solve some of our biggest challenges across the Services and Agencies. However, I've never really thought about innovating around one of life’s biggest milestones: how we die and improving that awful experience for those who care for us. What do your organizations do to innovate around this event that 100% of us will experience?

Response by Mcrey Barraquias made May 19 at 2020 9:22 PM

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I asked to this group including va why until now the va not to pay your oblegation to Filipino Services of Armed force of Philippines Commanwealh of America under tydying McDuffie law as act of United States Congress in 1934 when Philippines one Territory of America under treaty of Paris on December 10 1898 infact wwII is Americans war against Japan we involved to that's war to Philippines one territory of America most Filipino Veterans die early never to receive any benefits from va during their lifetime most received denied infact that's Americans oblegation to pay due to wwII is Americans not for Philippines? Like my father claim in 1954 until he die in 1985 Neve r nor to enjoyed any benefits from va only Denied I am also denied from va due to imagenation decision did not no real fact of child of Veterans? When Veterans was hospitalized in 1980 up to his death in 1985 I am serving to them at hospital I am 16 years old in 1980 I am unemployed before 18 years old in 1983 up now2020 due to non formal education,
I am Unmerrid from before 18 years old up to 2012 why va and board always denied it like discrimination to Filipino Veterans child ? Until now the va and usgovt cannot paid their oblegation to Filipino Veterans?

Response by M. Sanchez made May 19 at 2020 9:28 PM

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My mother is a surviving spouse of a WWII veteran who submitted her application for Aid and Attendance Benefits in mid-March 2020. When can she expect to get a response from the VA? Thank you very much. and above all, for your service!
R. Sanchez
Daughter

Response by Pvt John F Doles made May 19 at 2020 10:05 PM

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I am a 100% disabled vet. When I died will my wife be eligible for part of my benefits check monthly

Response by Capt Wayne Tully made May 19 at 2020 10:12 PM

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Memorial Day events at Arlington National Cemetery

Response by Donna Auld made May 19 at 2020 10:58 PM

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I’m the widow of a retired and 100% permanently disabled Navy Veteran. He was 3 miles offshore in Vietnam and we had always questioned about the agent Orange he was subjected to. The answers started with a NO, not unless he was IN brown water. Then the answers went to, well we can put it in your records but you’re already at 100% and it won’t make any difference. Now that he’s gone I’m hearing that they are FINALLY awarding to the Navy Vets that were in blue water. My husband told me of it blowing over the ships and the water they drank and showered with was filtered with that junk in it. So my question is, since when he passed away they took ALL of his income away, is he/me eligible for this award? I’ve been left with DIC @ $1600pm when we were bringing in $7000. So to say my life has changed is putting it mildly. I was his unpaid caregivers for 20 years and am now disabled. So yes, I’m asking if this is something that I could benefit from. Thanks. Donna A

Response by MSgt Albert De La Cruz made May 19 at 2020 11:24 PM

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When is the next open season to add spouse in the Survivor's Benefit for retirees who didn't elect a spouse beneficiary before? Last open season was back in 2004.

Response by AN James Hay made May 19 at 2020 11:28 PM

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It would be nice if I could get my son declared as a survivor

Response by Cpl Allen Brooks made May 20 at 2020 1:53 AM

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I am a 100% service connected disabled veteran. My disabilities are permanent and total. I receive disability compensation from the VA and have been told that my wife would have survivor benefits if I die before her. We have no children together and my children from a previous marriage are all grown and gone. Can you tell me for certain that my wife will be allowed survivor benefits and how much she will receive?

Response by A1C Charles Adams made May 20 at 2020 4:03 AM

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I don't know if I have survivor's benefits. Can you tell me that? If I don't, can I still apply for that?

Response by Lt Col Jerry Snyder made May 20 at 2020 5:07 AM

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Does my filipina wife-w/2 kids of mine) get half my military or VA benefits?

Response by Pvt Jerry Gutierrez made May 20 at 2020 7:26 AM

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Trying to get my 100percent service connected ,why is it to hard to get it.

Response by Kathy Burris made May 20 at 2020 7:37 AM

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Have talked with several helpful intake workers over last 8 months after spouses passing. Appreciate all the help I have had negotiating the complicated VA process with my spouses claim since his passing 8/19. The intake office has been a kind of anchor of hope through the devastating loss of my husband.

Response by Linda Clark made May 20 at 2020 8:00 AM

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wHY DO MY MONTHLY BENEFITS AS A WIDOW OF A KOREAN VETERAN STOP 9-1-20? mY SPOUSE DIED 8-25-19. Charles E Clark AF16397418

Response by PO1 Roger Longley made May 20 at 2020 9:57 AM

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What rights does my present wife have in prior to death and upon death?

Response by LT Robert J Stanlick Jr made May 20 at 2020 11:11 AM

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If my husband dies first, what benefits will I be entitled to? He a 100% service connected disabled veteran. We are trying to sort our wills and such, but do not know where we stand at the VA. We have been married 37yrs and I am his only care giver.

Response by CPL Patrick Morgan made May 20 at 2020 11:17 AM

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I am a 90% disabled Veteran If I die of a disability is my wife entitled to any benefits

Response by LCpl Danny Stratton made May 20 at 2020 11:19 AM

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Vietnam Veterans wife is ready to ask questions.

Response by LCpl Michael Yust made May 20 at 2020 12:05 PM

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I am a United States Marine I am a Vietnam veteran I am 100% disabled

Response by CDR David Kennett made May 20 at 2020 12:07 PM

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This is Dave Kennett. I am a Transition Assistance Advisor (TAA) out of the FL NG JFHQ in St. Augustine, FL. I serve transitioning and transitioned Warriors, Veterans, Spouses, and Families from all Guard & Reserve components. I would like to participate in this afternoon's teleconference and/or webinar. How do I register, and what is the dial-in / connection information? Thanks so much! V/r & Best Regards, Dave

Response by Harold Dunbar made May 20 at 2020 12:27 PM

2020-05-20T12:27:16-04:00

My husband died of cancer from Vietnam.....I’m I entitled to benefit

Response by TSgt Private RallyPoint Member made May 20 at 2020 1:27 PM

2020-05-20T13:27:11-04:00

What are the requirements for. a survivor to get disability compensation payments after the veteran dies?
100% disabled?
Passing of a service connected disability?
Both?

Response by Kathy Prout made May 20 at 2020 1:56 PM

2020-05-20T13:56:48-04:00

When you click join us, there is no category for military surviving spouses. Are we considered civilians?

Response by PO1 Jeson Hall made May 20 at 2020 2:22 PM

2020-05-20T14:22:36-04:00

Awesome!

Response by LtCol Edith Smith made May 20 at 2020 2:36 PM

2020-05-20T14:36:14-04:00

There does not seem to be a survivor category to register for this forum. I had to register giving my husband's military information with my name...in order to be accepted. Please help us to correct the information so survivors will be properly identified. Thank you for having this program..

Response by SGT Roy Jarmon made May 20 at 2020 2:48 PM

2020-05-20T14:48:00-04:00

I am a 100% disabled veteran due to PTSD. What must I do to be qualified for military burial and plots? Do my spouse qualify for benefits after I die? Does she qualify for military funeral services for me and for her?

Response by Kathy Prout made May 20 at 2020 2:51 PM

2020-05-20T14:51:34-04:00

When will the VA post information about the phase out of the SBP-DIC Offset? The VA pays DIC in full but also requires that the survivor agree to the dollar for dollar reduction of DIC to SBP. In 2021, the phase out starts and surviving spouses should be told that the offset will be repealed by 2023.

Response by PFC Carol Cleaver-Hesser made May 20 at 2020 3:09 PM

2020-05-20T15:09:44-04:00

How do I obtain a VA obtain to refinance my home? I'm a veteran and my late husband a vet. He was in longer than me so i have been told to use his VA loan.

Response by Chris Volberding made May 20 at 2020 3:14 PM

2020-05-20T15:14:56-04:00

I am a caregiver for my Husband Larry Volberding.
Do we caregivers receive and benefits as caregivers?

Being a caregiver for Larry is allot of work.

Response by SSG(P) Private RallyPoint Member made May 20 at 2020 3:25 PM

2020-05-20T15:25:43-04:00

Are there housing benefits/resources for survivor spouses if they were to lose their home?

Response by SFC Martha Elena Zapata Paredes made May 20 at 2020 3:26 PM

2020-05-20T15:26:40-04:00

Buenas tardes, deseo saber si ustedes me ayudan a localizar a mi esposo desde febrero no se nada de él, no se si le pasó algo o me abandono aquí en Colombia, agradezco su colaboración o informándome a que área me debo comunicar para que me brinden apoyo. Gracias

Response by LTG Michael Linnington made May 20 at 2020 3:59 PM

2020-05-20T15:59:04-04:00

Thank you to everyone participating in today's virtual forum, especially the Department of Veterans Affairs and RallyPoint for co-hosting this event in recognition of upcoming Memorial Day activities nationwide. For anyone with questions that were not answered, please visit our web page, and/or our Resource Center (9 am to 9 pm daily, EST) at: https://www.woundedwarriorproject.org/programs/wwp-resource-center

Wounded Warrior Resource Center for Veterans | WWP

When you need help and someone to listen, we are just a phone call away. Contact our Resource Center to receive financial, medical, and emotional help.

Response by SSgt Danny Devine made May 20 at 2020 4:00 PM

2020-05-20T16:00:51-04:00

RallyPoint; Partners -- Veterans and Survivors … thanks for this opportunity and sharing information about VA … and enabling NCA to share info on this unusual Memorial Day.

Response by Amy Looney made May 20 at 2020 4:02 PM

2020-05-20T16:02:32-04:00

Thank you for taking the time to participate in today's Survivors Together: Department of Veteran Affairs Memorial Day w/ Community Partners. We are honored to take part, alongside many other great advocates and organizations. If you have further questions on Travis Manion Foundation and our support to our survivors, veterans, and military community members, please visit our website: https://www.travismanion.org/

Thank you!

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Travis Manion Foundation (TMF) empowers veterans and the families of fallen heroes to develop character in future generations. In 2007, 1st Lt Travis Manion.

Response by Melissa Comeau made May 20 at 2020 4:02 PM

2020-05-20T16:02:51-04:00

I am deeply honored to be able to contribute to Surviving Together. Thank you to all the service members, veterans, families, caregivers and survivors for participating today. It is my hope that this Memorial Day will be observed in a way that is meaningful to each of you.

Response by BG Michael Meese made May 20 at 2020 4:07 PM

2020-05-20T16:07:03-04:00

It was a great opportunity to participate in this forum. We will keep an eye on this site and continue to answer questions.

If anyone wants additional information concerning AAFMAA and what we do to assist with the financial independence and security of the American military community, please check us out at http://www.aafmaa.com

www.aafmaa.com

Response by Maj Bonnie Carroll made May 20 at 2020 4:15 PM

2020-05-20T16:15:33-04:00

We are so grateful to RallyPoint, the VA, and all organizations representing the care and programs for all military survivors. Please know TAPS is here 24/7 to provide comfort, care, and resources to all those grieving the death of a military loved one. We honor our military service members by caring for all those they loved and left behind. Your TAPS family is here for you at 800.959.TAPS(8277) or TAPS.org. With gratitude and hope, Bonnie Carroll
https://www.taps.org/

Response by Andi Martinez made May 20 at 2020 4:16 PM

2020-05-20T16:16:10-04:00

Thank you for joining us today! If you have additional questions about VA health and benefits, please call the White House VA Hotline and talk to a live agent [login to see] . We will be checking this page until May 26th to respond to any other questions. Thank you so much.

Response by Andi Martinez made May 20 at 2020 4:19 PM

2020-05-20T16:19:30-04:00

If you are in crisis and need to speak to someone immediately, please call the VA's Veterans Crisis Line [login to see] (Press 1) or send text to 838255

Response by Andi Martinez made May 20 at 2020 4:21 PM

2020-05-20T16:21:15-04:00

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Response by Andi Martinez made May 20 at 2020 4:35 PM

2020-05-20T16:35:29-04:00

Download the VA's Quick Start Guide to Survivor Benefits found at http://www.va.gov/welcome-kit/

Print out your VA Welcome Kit | Veterans Affairs

Whether you’re just getting out of the service or you’ve been a civilian for years now, the VA Welcome Kit can help guide you to the benefits and services you’ve earned.

Response by RDML Ann Duff made May 20 at 2020 4:59 PM

2020-05-20T16:59:30-04:00

Thank you so much for inviting us to participate in this event -- it was a fabulous opportunity to share information and get the word out to the many veterans and survivors who do not know about all of the great services, benefits and opportunities that are available. On this upcoming Memorial Day, please remember those who gave their lives while in service to this great nation of ours -- it is for them the day is dedicated because it is to them we owe everything.

Response by SSG Mary McIntosh-McClinnahan made May 20 at 2020 6:00 PM

2020-05-20T18:00:12-04:00

HELLO WHILE I WAS IN THE ARMY RESERVE MY HUSBAND DIED AND KNOW ONE TOLD ME HOW TO GET THE INSURANCE, IS IT TO LATE TO GET IT NOW THAT I AM RETIRED OUT? AND I WAS THE MILITARY PERSON!

Response by LCpl Michael Yust made May 20 at 2020 6:02 PM

2020-05-20T18:02:01-04:00

I am plagued by agent orange

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made May 20 at 2020 7:38 PM

2020-05-20T19:38:19-04:00

I’m a retired and 100% disable, my wife is my care giver. My question is if I pass would she receive any of the VA benefits that I was receiving? And if yes how does she apply and what those benefits would be?... thank you for your response.

Response by Audrey Krones made May 20 at 2020 11:36 PM

2020-05-20T23:36:45-04:00

I contacted the office. I sent in all paperwork required. I was told they had a year to review and make a decision. I was also told not to expect a benefit as my husband passed from Alzheimer's a non service related ilness. He was WWII, DAV, rated 90% and paid at 100%.

Response by LCpl Stoney Mary Ann Burke made May 21 at 2020 8:13 AM

2020-05-21T08:13:32-04:00

im a 100% disabled and married when I die what will my wife get

Response by SGT Eunice Cherry made May 21 at 2020 8:29 AM

2020-05-21T08:29:39-04:00

Thanks, God Blessings

Response by SPC Justine Richards made May 22 at 2020 5:35 PM

2020-05-22T17:35:58-04:00

I would like to know why I was turned down for my husband's benefits?! He passed away 1 February 2018

Response by SPC Perry Gresham made May 22 at 2020 6:40 PM

2020-05-22T18:40:07-04:00

My Grandfather. I miss him much.

Response by PFC Samuel Bruce made May 23 at 2020 1:10 PM

2020-05-23T13:10:41-04:00

My question is why was my stimulus payment taken for child support and they are taking money from my retirement benefits

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made May 25 at 2020 5:48 AM

2020-05-25T05:48:20-04:00

My husband died 4 years ago do I receive any kind of benefits. He was a navy veteran and served during the Vietnam war but didn't step in country