Veterans Spotlight: Eliot Sklar

2020-12-11T11:56:21-05:00

At 93 years of age, Eliot Sklar personifies the meaning of true American hero. As we sat back and talked, I was so impressed with his kindness, humility and powerful love of family. Mr. Sklar enjoyed a bit of celebrity at the age of 9 when he saved a young girl from being viciously attacked by a dog at a park in Boston. Somehow, the story caught the attention of actor Cary Grant’s publicist, who notified Grant while he was in Boston to promote his new movie Gunga Din. The young Sklar, received the Cary Grant Medal of Valor from the legendary actor for his bravery.

A graduate of Roxbury Memorial High School he went on to Northeastern University. He enlisted in the Navy after dropping out of N.U. and was sent to basic training in Sampson, NY. He commented that his enlistment was prompted by his anger and hatred of the Nazis and the murder of Jews and other atrocities that were taking place in Germany at the time. He was soon posted on the USS Hambleton. The Navy Destroyer received seven battle stars for WWII service and was one of a few ships selected to lead the Navy in a victory lap in Tokyo Bay following the Japanese surrender in August of 1945.

Seaman 1st Class Sklar was involved in four major invasions; The Normandy Invasion, The Battle of Cherbourg, The Invasion of Southern France and The Battle of Okinawa. When asked about the holidays during the war he quickly replied, “we had no holidays in the Navy during the war….we were always in combat.” This was never more evident than at Okinawa, where Seamen Sklar’s ship was on duty 84 days in succession. “We lived by three words on our ship – sleep, eat, survive” he remembered. Seaman Sklar also shared an unsettling memory; “Our ship was not integrated….we had five African Americans onboard and they were all stewards….that really bothered me…..disgusted me that African American sailors with medals, who had risked their lives for their country had to sit in the back of a bus….it was sickening” he remembered.

Racism was not the only bad memory that Seaman Sklar had from his military service. “I was constantly around death, destruction and unspeakable horror.” he recalled. “I was the youngest on the ship…..watching our guys parachute out of planes only to be gunned down by enemy kamikaze’s, seeing men in water, whose ship had been sunk by torpedo’s drowning and screaming for help……we couldn’t get to them because we were being attacked ourselves…..I can close my eyes even now and still see it.” he said slowly. The memories are still haunting for Seaman Sklar and unfortunately will never go away. I was so hardened by death when I was discharged” he said. “I was not the same kid when I enlisted……we didn’t have any therapy or psychologists…..you came home and went to work” he remembered. He floundered for over a year, then his life changed dramatically when he attended a dance in Quincy, MA. There, he met a beautiful, 16-year-old girl named Claire. They married two years later. “She was the ultimate source of my healing” he said with loving affection.

In 1952, Seamen Sklar began a long and successful career with Cummings Junior Fashions and retired as an executive vice president with the company. Seamen Sklar has numerous awards for his bravery however, there is one that is his most prized. In 2013, he received a letter from the French Ambassador to the United States, notifying him that then-French President Francois Hollande had appointed him as a Chevalier (Knight) of the French Legion of Honor. The award was “a sign of France’s infinite gratitude and appreciation for your personal and precious contribution to the United States’ decisive role in the liberation of our country during World War II.” In typical fashion, Seamen Sklar was “honored and humbled” by this very special honor.

I can confidently state from our time spent together that Seamen Sklar’s most prized possession in life is his family. “My daughter-in-law is like my daughter and calls me frequently, my three sons call on a regular basis and my grandchildren phone often” he boasted with pride. Seamen 1st Class Eliot Sklar, thank you for your service to our great country.

Response by LTC John Griscom made Dec 11 at 2020 12:27 PM

2020-12-11T12:27:27-05:00

Thanks for a great story.

Response by LTC David Brown made Dec 11 at 2020 3:41 PM

2020-12-11T15:41:14-05:00

Wonderful shares!

Response by SGT Lorenzo Nieto made Mar 20 at 2021 5:53 AM

2021-03-20T05:53:35-04:00

What a wonderful story he’s a true heroe, it’s nice to hear about a man like this.