CW5 Jim Steddum 669919 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I am attending the funeral of by brother-in-law today. He was in the Air Force during vietnam. He was very elusive about what her experience while serving. My sister said he was a Captain that flew KC135 refueling missions there. He was discharged with 100% disability due to the trauma he experienced. The VA has been treating ever since. However, he was discharged as a Airman First Class. How could that even happen? I have a feeling that we will never know what the truth really is. He was deeply troubled as long as I have known him. He killed himself while my sister was out of the house for just a short time. I hope he rests in peace. Vietnam Veteran Discharge and Benefits Advice 2015-05-15T09:32:49-04:00 CW5 Jim Steddum 669919 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I am attending the funeral of by brother-in-law today. He was in the Air Force during vietnam. He was very elusive about what her experience while serving. My sister said he was a Captain that flew KC135 refueling missions there. He was discharged with 100% disability due to the trauma he experienced. The VA has been treating ever since. However, he was discharged as a Airman First Class. How could that even happen? I have a feeling that we will never know what the truth really is. He was deeply troubled as long as I have known him. He killed himself while my sister was out of the house for just a short time. I hope he rests in peace. Vietnam Veteran Discharge and Benefits Advice 2015-05-15T09:32:49-04:00 2015-05-15T09:32:49-04:00 SGM Private RallyPoint Member 670031 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>One thing people may not realize for disabled vets, an autopsy should be conducted to ensure service connection. If so, widow may qualify for pension. Response by SGM Private RallyPoint Member made May 15 at 2015 10:04 AM 2015-05-15T10:04:56-04:00 2015-05-15T10:04:56-04:00 1LT Gerald O'Hare 670075 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>He made up stories. I'm a Vietnam Vet and so was my brother in law who just died. His official Marine photo showed his ribbons but no Purple Heart. In the casket he had two Purple Heart medals. He was member of the shore police. He never told me about being hit either. Later in life he drank heavy and told war stories to other people. Very sad. Response by 1LT Gerald O'Hare made May 15 at 2015 10:19 AM 2015-05-15T10:19:28-04:00 2015-05-15T10:19:28-04:00 SPC Jan Allbright, M.Sc., R.S. 670157 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>There should be a DD214 in his records. If not a copy can be had in about 10 days from the NPRC.<br /><a target="_blank" href="http://www.archives.gov/veterans/military-service-records/">http://www.archives.gov/veterans/military-service-records/</a> <div class="pta-link-card answers-template-image type-default"> <div class="pta-link-card-picture"> <img src="https://d26horl2n8pviu.cloudfront.net/link_data_pictures/images/000/013/969/qrc/phone-red.gif?1443041943"> </div> <div class="pta-link-card-content"> <p class="pta-link-card-title"> <a target="blank" href="http://www.archives.gov/veterans/military-service-records/">Start Your Military Service Record (DD Form 214) Request</a> </p> <p class="pta-link-card-description">How to Request Military Service Records, Military Personnel Files, Veterans Records, Discharge Papers, Separation Documents, DD214, or Prove Military Service</p> </div> <div class="clearfix"></div> </div> Response by SPC Jan Allbright, M.Sc., R.S. made May 15 at 2015 10:40 AM 2015-05-15T10:40:53-04:00 2015-05-15T10:40:53-04:00 Sgt David G Duchesneau 726870 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Remember one thing, there is a very small percent of Vietnam Veterans who were ever actually involved in combat. Response by Sgt David G Duchesneau made Jun 5 at 2015 7:16 PM 2015-06-05T19:16:00-04:00 2015-06-05T19:16:00-04:00 2015-05-15T09:32:49-04:00