Posted on Apr 28, 2015
CH (MAJ) William Beaver
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Help a Chaplain out! What are your TOP THREE tips for successful military marriages? What can I share with couples coming to me to get married?
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CSM Brigade Operations (S3) Sergeant Major
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Drink heavily
Say "you're right" a lot
Drink heavily

Did I mention drink heavily?
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SFC Chemical Biological Radiological and Nuclear Operations Specialist
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Don't forget to drink. And I mean drink heavily.

Alcohol helps too.
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LCDR Vice President
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Now that is a happily married man
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SPC Richard Stengline
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Fighting isn't worth it, drink heavily, do your job and be ready to walk away even though it may hurt, don't look back.
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MSG Intermediate Care Technician
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1) When you get home, the uniform comes off.

2) When you get home, she is in charge.

3) See 1 and 2
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MSG Intermediate Care Technician
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carefully, with a handful of their favorite flowers and/or beer
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SFC Management
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SPC Baraa Abbas . There is so much information out there ie: FRG handbooks etc that helps immensely.

When I put in my retirement paperwork there is a very good handbook for information. I printed it off and gave to my wife and told her read thru it (if she wanted too...of course..lol) and asked her to highlight and write down any questions or something she didn't understand. She took about a week or so and we sat down and went over everything she had highlighted/wrote down.
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PO1 Master-at-Arms
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With regards to #1, what if the kids see you like that :-O
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MSG Intermediate Care Technician
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SPC Baraa Abbas, my wife certainly knows (and I will freely admit) that my wife is Household 6.
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SFC Chemical Biological Radiological and Nuclear Operations Specialist
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1) Honest Communication

2) Treat your spouse like a teammate

3) Do everything you can to leave work at work
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