What defines you as a service member?

SFC Mark Merino — Mon, 08 Sep 2014 12:59:52 -0400

We all joined the military for different reasons. Every person is as unique as their fingerprint. Do you see yourself as a________ first, and a service member second?

Response by 1SG Chris Brown made Sep 8 at 2014 3:51 PM

1SG Chris Brown — Mon, 08 Sep 2014 15:51:40 -0400

I think this changes with time. Over the years, at times, I've considered myself a Soldier first. Today, I'd have to say I'm a father first. Kids change a person in ways that you can't predict when you're single and care free without kids. I think my best accomplishments in life are the kids that I've raised, far exceeding (and outlasting) anything I'll ever accomplish in the Army.

Response by MAJ Robert (Bob) Petrarca made Sep 8 at 2014 8:22 PM

MAJ Robert (Bob) Petrarca — Mon, 08 Sep 2014 20:22:46 -0400

Great question, Mark! Somehow I feel I was destined to be a SM and having been one serving 20 I feel I fall into the once a SM always a SM. Its such a big part of who I am. Like 1SG Chris Brown though, being a husband and father - there's no words to describe it, even on the toughest days. IMHO, you're nurturing your replacement(s) to take over for you. Through all the trials and tribulations you always remember they are part of you, born out of love.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 8 at 2014 8:25 PM

PO1 Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 08 Sep 2014 20:25:44 -0400

Devotion to duty and fair recognition (as compared to civilian positions)

Response by LTC Hillary Luton made Sep 8 at 2014 9:05 PM

LTC Hillary Luton — Mon, 08 Sep 2014 21:05:14 -0400

OK, that's deep. I know when I started out, I was a student first and a Soldier second, but as time went on (and really not that much time) I became a Soldier first and always; even as a Reserve Soldier. But like 1SG Chris Brown stated, this changes with time. I realized a few years ago I had spent my life putting the Army before anything else in my life. I had to reassess my priorities and finally put my family first. Maybe it means no more promotions, but I'm good with that, because for me, there are more important things than rank.

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 9 at 2014 12:42 AM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 09 Sep 2014 00:42:42 -0400

I knew all along military life would be my life. I really wish I could start over again. I retired in 04 and miss it every day. My only regret was not staying active duty instead of going reserves. Truthfully I can't say what I am first. I feel like a part of me is missing.