What does a successful transition out of the military look like?

SGT Jamell Culbreath — Mon, 01 Jun 2015 09:54:22 -0400

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 1 at 2015 10:07 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 01 Jun 2015 10:07:53 -0400

being able to support yourself and family and doing something you enjoy

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 1 at 2015 10:30 AM

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 01 Jun 2015 10:30:49 -0400

Securing a Career that not only makes you happy, but supports where you want to be. Finding time to do the things that make you happy and time to spend with loved one. This is one that thing that I have peronally struggled with. In the Military you work hard when your on the clock, but when your off your typically off and you have time to get other things done. I just seemed like there where more hours in the day back then. Do you guys understand what I'm saying!

Other point of advice... If you can find a Guard or Reserve unit to continue your time... Please don't throw away your time if you aren't retiring! Have an Awesome week and try to find time to smile and Kick some butt!

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 1 at 2015 10:54 AM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 01 Jun 2015 10:54:59 -0400

This is a GREAT question, and will likely result in many different answers, as success is defined by the transitioning SM. To some, it may be clearing CIF without owing any money, and going back home to "figure it out". To others, it may be having a job waiting for them on the outside.

For me, a successful transition will be providing for my family without losing the social-economic stage we have become accustom to. I want to work in the business operations side of baseball, but if I don't walk into a job in that sector, it doesn't mean my transition is not successful. I may need to go into an MBA program, or gain relevant industry experience. If I don't end up being able to work in that industry I won't consider my transition a failure. As an analogy, in my career I've had one opportunity to go to Ranger school, but left prior to earning my tab. It is something I wish I didn't leave incomplete, but it doesn't mean I have not had a successful career.

Response by PO1 John Miller made Jun 1 at 2015 1:46 PM

PO1 John Miller — Mon, 01 Jun 2015 13:46:33 -0400

Finding a job that you love and being able to support your family, or having a plan to get a job that you love.

Response by SGT Michelle Saunders made Jun 1 at 2015 3:07 PM

SGT Michelle Saunders — Mon, 01 Jun 2015 15:07:54 -0400

A successful transition is, first and foremost, one that provides a sense of purposes and validation. For many of us wounded in combat (physically or psychologically), the challenge is embracing our 'new normal' and knowing that the challenge could be a daily one. Being able to talk about demons, with trusted/safe people, is a huge step in the right direction. Regardless if you were fortunate enough to land a great job with great pay and growth opportunities, our demons will always surface. Be sure to practice gut checks and buddy checks for those of us who continue to struggle. Lastly, for me personally, a part of my successful transition is not forgetting those who fought beside us and/or follow behind us. Even though we no longer wear the uniform, we still have a responsibility to help and advocate for our fellow veterans.

Response by SGM Matthew Quick made Jun 1 at 2015 6:21 PM

SGM Matthew Quick — Mon, 01 Jun 2015 18:21:47 -0400

Not having to rely on unemployment or other assistance to survive.