Posted on Nov 26, 2014
SGT Philip Popa
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I have seen leaders come and go. I have seen poor leadership. But when will they actually do something about the toxic leaders? I am not talking about people we don't care for or don't like how they do things. I am talking about commanders who stand in front of their company and tell them they aren't there for them, they are only there for themselves. The ones that ignore soldiers profiles and tell them they have to break the profile because they told them to do it. I have seen a lot of talk but in 11 years haven't seen anyone removed, at any rank, due to this issue. I do however see a lot of covering up and excuses from all the way up to post CSM. How is this being dealt with?
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SGT Philip Popa, I have not seen what you describe. If I did, and if there was nothing done about it, I guess two viable options would be the chain of command (above the toxic commander) and the IG. There may be other ways to address the situation as well.
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SGT Philip Popa
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Thanks. If interested in meeting one I will be glad to tell you. He is commander of my wife's unit. I know that sounds bad but sometimes she hates me LOL. This unit contains what happens internally. I know that is the place to start, but they are still fighting with a SSG. to keep her from taking complaints from the E5 and below to their battalion commander. Just wondering if there was anything I could do to help. They have new soldiers that have been there less than a month that want out. And senior NCOs that can't wait to get out instead of staying in.
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I'm sorry to hear that. Sound like a toxic situation all the way around.
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SPC Angel Guma
SPC Angel Guma
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Sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, this is just how it is. The unit will have to keep withering and decaying, until there is a monumental screw up that exposes the toxic leader.
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LTC Martin Metz
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We all run into toxic leadership at some point in our careers. This kind of leadership creates a self-perpetuating cycle that has harmful and long-lasting effects on morale, productivity, and retention of quality personnel. It can also affect readiness if a unit comes apart at the seams which affects careers. I have seen battalions that took two command tenures to fix the harm. How you approach this depends on the level of unit you're at (platoon, company, battalion, etc.). This eventually can't help but be detected by the next higher levels of command. Sometimes that is enough. Bringing this up with a neutral agent such as the Chaplain might help start turning things around. Sometimes discreet use of the chain of command is needed. You have to avoid as much harm as possible to yourself and your soldiers. Unfortunately, it sometimes means waiting out the bad apple until he / she is replaced. I had a Battalion Commander who was an alcoholic and expected his officers to drink heavily with him. Those of us who didn't had to deal with his ire. His dad had been a 4-star general and he was a decorated Viet Nam veteran. There was nothing else to do, but stay out of his sights and remember the leadership style as something NEVER to emulate.
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SGT Philip Popa
SGT Philip Popa
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Thank you sir. As far as time this commander was just put in command. So that is going to be some time. As far as the company goes one soldier that is getting out says it has been like this for the 4 years he has been there. So I have to wonder how long or how far this goes. Will try and talk to the chaplain. I currently hold some letters that need to go to battalion, but the immediate chain of command is trying to stop anything to keep it from going there. Besides the fact that all of the soldiers are afraid of what outcome this will provide for them. Most won't say what has gone on for fear it will come back on them. They are just waiting till they can get out. A few has gone as far as to do drugs to test hot so they can get out.
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LTC Martin Metz
LTC Martin Metz
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I hate hearing things like this! If it's to the point that folks are trying to ruin their future life by testing hot, the conditions need to be reported somehow. No one should feel so desperate that they have to something like that (or worse). That's why I recommended the Chaplain or other safe contact. I don't know of any completely safe and sure way, but there are always other options. If the Bn XO is trustworthy, you might try him or her as well. The XO is not officially in the chain of command, but is obviously engaged, influential, and on talking terms with the Bn Cdr and CSM. Quite likely he is already aware of situations and personalities. Be respectful and factual. When I was a company commander, the Bn XO was involved with helping to break up a usury scheme that came to light after several enlisted folks had had enough. You want to work within the system if at all possible. You can also request to see the IG. You don't have to say why. However, the IG will ask what was done within normal channels and may defer until that has happened. This also reveals you to the company commander who is the problem. Informally, NCOs may want to work offline with the 1SG on this as well. Does anyone else on Rally Point have any suggestions on how NCOs can circle the wagons and effectively deal with this?
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SSG Greg Miech
SSG Greg Miech
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Battalion came back from the Sinai in 82. 150 field grade Art 15 that week. They were lined up outside the Battalion Headquarters. One Army Achievement medal for an enlisted in the battalion. No schools for enlisted other than Air Assault. When the unit was cleared out of for a COHORT over 300 soldiers were lined up before midnight to sign out of the battalion to get out for PCS leave. I left a light on once and had 45 days "Volunteer for the First Sergeant Duty". Boots not like glass? Very large trash bag given to you to fill with aluminum cans before the next day. Scrap metal went to the company MWR fund which was over $20K. Intimidation leadership from top had an influence on this.
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Toxic leaders breed toxic leaders.
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