LTC Private RallyPoint Member 1399571 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I am specifically seeking feedback from senior officers and NCOs; What makes an S3 or XO &quot;good&quot;, and what are some &quot;traps&quot; to avoid? How should the &quot;Big 5&quot; in the battalion work, and how did it REALLY work when you were there? How do you create/maintain a work-life balance? What is the best way to prepare for a battalion S3 or XO job? 2016-03-23T18:53:21-04:00 LTC Private RallyPoint Member 1399571 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I am specifically seeking feedback from senior officers and NCOs; What makes an S3 or XO &quot;good&quot;, and what are some &quot;traps&quot; to avoid? How should the &quot;Big 5&quot; in the battalion work, and how did it REALLY work when you were there? How do you create/maintain a work-life balance? What is the best way to prepare for a battalion S3 or XO job? 2016-03-23T18:53:21-04:00 2016-03-23T18:53:21-04:00 SSG Private RallyPoint Member 1399706 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I don't work in BN anymore sir, but I'll give the advice a newly promoted O-5 told me. Always pick the brains of the company commanders and see what they're real intent is going to be and try to stay mad all the time. I not trying to say this as a joke, but once you establish that level of professionalism and work ethic, you get the best work out of your staff and company commanders Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 23 at 2016 7:46 PM 2016-03-23T19:46:16-04:00 2016-03-23T19:46:16-04:00 CSM Eric Olsen 1399959 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Sir, a few pointers (not at all in order):<br />1) Meet the range control bosses and ask them to give you an executive tour of all ranges an training facilities. This will also create alliances that will prove critical when the sky falls. <br />2) Get enrolled in the installation BN XO/S3/OPS SGM course. This is not always available.<br />3) Learn the bosses and systems at the installation Mission Command Training Center. These guys can do so much: train your war fighting functions, facilitate CPXs, teach CPOF/JCR/FBCB2/TOC OPS, etc.<br />4) Effectively use your OPS SGM, starting with counseling him on your intent. Most combat arms SGMs fresh from the Academy are not too experienced on staff operations. Make sure the use of the following areas are covered in depth: task tracker and orders, troops to task matrix, mgmt of all BN schools, DTS, DTMS, GOVCC, BN add duties, etc.<br />5) You should own the BN Calendar, be creative with its use BUT don&#39;t add complexity. My BN recently cracked the code on the use of Google calendar so all of the Soldiers can use with their smart phones. Seriously, it&#39;s quite a hit.<br />6) Learn your BN CDR and remain closest to the others in the &quot;Big 5.&quot;<br />7) Other important relationships are with the other BN S3s/XO and cmd grps, the BDE S3/XO, all BDE staffies...and continuously build relationships with the DIVs staff/command for more than the obvious reasons. Response by CSM Eric Olsen made Mar 23 at 2016 9:23 PM 2016-03-23T21:23:54-04:00 2016-03-23T21:23:54-04:00 1SG Private RallyPoint Member 1399963 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Don't micromanage your NCO. Provide them with your and the CO's intent as far as training and planning goes then let them do their jobs. AS mentioned already, the S-shops are teams Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 23 at 2016 9:24 PM 2016-03-23T21:24:21-04:00 2016-03-23T21:24:21-04:00 SSG Private RallyPoint Member 1400137 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Speak softly but carry a big stick, identify the strengths and weaknesses of your Soldiers/subordinates. Utilize the strengths and develop the weaknesses. The ultimate goal is to accomplish the units goals, and execute the CDR's intent. Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 23 at 2016 10:49 PM 2016-03-23T22:49:49-04:00 2016-03-23T22:49:49-04:00 COL Charles Williams 1400146 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div><a class="dark-link bold-link" role="profile-hover" data-qtip-container="body" data-id="750" data-source-page-controller="question_response_contents" href="/profiles/750-14a-air-defense-artillery-officer">LTC Private RallyPoint Member</a> - CGSC 98<br /><br />1. Be in the best shape ever.... or get back in shape. Enjoy your time at Leavenworth, but be ready to hit it hard. <br /><br />2. Know your MDMP, and all the other systems process that make the Army run; they are tried and true and they work. You have to know them, live them, use them, and now you need to teach and train them.<br /><br />3. Be prepared to work harder than you ever have. I have never worked harder than I did as a Battalion S3 and XO. <br /><br />4. Make a difference every day, lead by example, and give a shit. Remember it is never about you.<br /><br />5. Know and live your Commander's Intent 24/7. Make sure everyone else does too.<br /><br />6. Remember, you have been away from your specialty for awhile, and you may be out of the loop. So, ask lots of questions, and learn all you can. <br /><br />7. Remember why you exist as an S3 and XO... Remember who you serve. <br /><br />8. Be out and about often, and be accessible. <br /><br />9. Spend time getting to know your CSM and S3 SGM. Remember, as an XO, the Command Team is only the BC and CSM... it does not include you... Remember... these are both staff officer positions. You are the support guy.<br /><br />10. Balance is something you need to model. If you don't, who will? You need to make it a priority.<br /><br />My goals in command at Battalion and Brigade level were pretty simple:<br /><br />1. Leave the organization better than I found it.<br /><br />2. Make a difference every day.<br /><br />3. Model a balanced lifestyle. <br /><br />Good Luck, and thank you for your service! Response by COL Charles Williams made Mar 23 at 2016 10:56 PM 2016-03-23T22:56:04-04:00 2016-03-23T22:56:04-04:00 1SG Private RallyPoint Member 1401133 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Two things - <br />First, get no-crap grounded in current doctrine and implement it in what you do. You will spend a lot of time in either job training company-grade officers on their first staff assignment what right look like. You are the lone or maybe one of two Majors there. Be the example.<br />Second, spend some effort learning and improving the current "system" for developing operations, staff function, and orders formulation and execution. Trying to reinvent the wheel will crush you in time management and de-synchronization of effort. If things need improving, build and evolve it steadily over time, and get buy-in from the Primary Staff Officers that need to execute on it.<br /><br />One more thing. It is the commander's unit. He/she will have well-established ideas for how his/her unit should run. Make sure you are on the same page for style. Disagreements are private, support and enthusiastic implementation is public, every time. Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 24 at 2016 12:24 PM 2016-03-24T12:24:24-04:00 2016-03-24T12:24:24-04:00 COL Vincent Stoneking 1402395 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Make sure that you understand the BC's intent. <br />Make sure that you understand the BC's command/leadership philosophy. <br />Make your decisions in light of the above two. Do NOT do things because the CDR "should" when you know that they "wouldn't".<br />Know how your BC wants information and how he/she goes about making decisions. Feed them info in the way that they work with. (This has to do with delivery. The content is whatever the content is.)<br />Ensure that those who work for "you" (which really means for the boss) are competent, give them their left and right limits and spot-check their work often enough that they know you are paying attention, but no more often than that. <br /><br />When you disagree with the boss, and you will, know when and how to do so. In private, respectfully, in terminology that will resonate with them. Clearly and forcefully right up until the point that you are told that the decision is closed. Then execute enthusiastically. NOBODY, other than the boss, should know if or when the two of you disagree. Response by COL Vincent Stoneking made Mar 24 at 2016 7:38 PM 2016-03-24T19:38:56-04:00 2016-03-24T19:38:56-04:00 COL Ardis Ferguson 1407125 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Read doctrine, learn to listen; the Commander may ramble sometimes, but their intent is stated somewhere in the monologue. Ask specific questions to ensure you get his/her intent. Answer the mail, S: dates are important. Slidology is important, help the Commander develop a good set of metric oriented slides that are easy for you to maintain. Learn to write in the active voice, spelling and grammar are important. Learn your Commanders sense of humor, learn what ticks them off, if the Commander's Command Philosophy is missing key points or needs grammar, spelling checks, help them out. By making a Commander look good, it shows a team spirit and that effort rarely goes unoticed. S3 is a great job, XO is one better. Commanding is the best job, smart Commanders develop and mentor the S3 and XO to prepare them to take command. Above all, enjoy the job, the long hours and constant optempo can be tough, but rewarding. Ensure you make spouse and family time and keep the faith Response by COL Ardis Ferguson made Mar 26 at 2016 10:09 PM 2016-03-26T22:09:00-04:00 2016-03-26T22:09:00-04:00 CPT James Hubbard 1411733 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>As a staff officer, your job, YOUR ONLY JOB, is to support the troops who obey the COMMANDER, not you. In my career, I knew too many staff officers who believed they spoke for the commander and were fond of giving orders in his name without checking with him. Staff officers don't fight the battle. They support those who do. They do so in terms of reasonable executable battle plans, logistical support, the best available intelligence, and proper infusion of new troops to replace casualties. Response by CPT James Hubbard made Mar 29 at 2016 8:23 AM 2016-03-29T08:23:53-04:00 2016-03-29T08:23:53-04:00 LTC Mike Prevou 1412203 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>There used to be a great Army Professional Forum online called S3-XO.NET (now on MilSuite) that connected S3 and XO practitioners to share knowledge and experience. I would start there.<br />I will share my top 5:<br />Good characteristics for both are 1. to be systems thinker and see how things work together. 2. To understand the Operations process and how to produce a standard OPORD quickly and effectively. No bigger waste of time in a battalion or brigade is a screwed up orders process. #3 would be problem solving ability 4. Both need an ability to communicate effectively and 5 is a high degree of emotional intelligence. Things like tactics, training management and maintenance management can be learned quicker than the other 5.<br />Mike Response by LTC Mike Prevou made Mar 29 at 2016 10:53 AM 2016-03-29T10:53:12-04:00 2016-03-29T10:53:12-04:00 Maj Private RallyPoint Member 1412296 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>- Maintain professional relationships with Division and Brigade G-3s and G-5s. You'll be doing the same job as current ops, future ops, and future plans, but at a smaller scale. As a Group S-3, I visited the MEF G-3 once a week and knew all G primaries and key officers. <br /><br />- Review all contingencies plans for your unit and ensure your TPFDDs are current. If you don't know what a TPFDD is, then you need to jump on that ASAP. <br /><br />- Demand that your unit's company commanders are prompt in providing you required information. <br /><br />- Do not over-inflate your Status of Resources and Training Systems (SORTS) report. I've seen battalion commanders, S-3 and S-4 officers being relieved for cause for providing false SORTS reports.<br /><br />- No one is above the law, if personnel are required to qualify on pistol and rifles, then ensure they do. Same is true for your semi-annual physical fitness test and annual NBC qualifications. No excuse for not having 100% qualification for semi-annual/annual training requirements. Don't wait until the last month to start physical fitness testing.<br /><br />- Take the harassment out of NBC training. The purpose is to have Marines and soldiers feel confident with the equipment we provide them. You don't need Marines and soldiers doing push-ups without their gasmask in a CS tent. If you can remove your gas mask, put it back on, and clear it without breathing in CS gas, the you have accomplished your mission. You need to get involved and set your guidance.<br /><br />- Maintain a solid command inspection program. It is better that you identify unit problems and fix them before Brigade or Division inspectors come to your unit and find them. <br /><br />- Delegate your responsibilities. My marksmanship program was run and managed by a Sgt. My unit won the Far East Match pistol competition with my Sgt. running the whole thing. I had 1 team, the 3rd MarDiv had over 35 teams, yet we were the victors, with only one infantryman on the team. <br /><br />Most of all have fun. Besides being a company commander, being a S-3 or G-3 action officer has been the most rewarding billets. Response by Maj Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 29 at 2016 11:16 AM 2016-03-29T11:16:38-04:00 2016-03-29T11:16:38-04:00 LTC Ron Haynes 1414067 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Be good at your job, don't forget you are still a leader, stay in shape, take care of your subordinates and peers, and stay in sync with you boss. Same advice for every job you'll have in the military. Response by LTC Ron Haynes made Mar 29 at 2016 8:49 PM 2016-03-29T20:49:30-04:00 2016-03-29T20:49:30-04:00 Maj Chris Clark 1414167 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Send as much time in the companies as possible. Learn your craft and get as professionally close with the Senior SNCOs as possible. I spent 3 yers in a letter company as XO then CO before I went to be the S-3. By that time, I was a regular in the SgtMaj's office as well as the Ops Chief. Officers can learn a great deal from these SNCOs and I took every opportunity to do so. Response by Maj Chris Clark made Mar 29 at 2016 9:20 PM 2016-03-29T21:20:07-04:00 2016-03-29T21:20:07-04:00 LTC Roderic Hewlett 1414865 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>A great deal of good advice already offered,but here are a few additions - be skilled in the following:,problem solving, decision making, judgment, communications, know yourself and key team members inside and out, build trust, hone your ability to learn on the fly and use what works. Response by LTC Roderic Hewlett made Mar 30 at 2016 7:01 AM 2016-03-30T07:01:55-04:00 2016-03-30T07:01:55-04:00 LTC Tom Jones 1415098 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Don't know about how it works today but, in my time, the best way to prepare for either of these jobs would be to ship the wife and kids back to grandma's. Response by LTC Tom Jones made Mar 30 at 2016 8:46 AM 2016-03-30T08:46:41-04:00 2016-03-30T08:46:41-04:00 COL George Fasching 1415669 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>As the " best man" to the bride groom your job is to help him or her be the best commander possible. Your relationship is as close and as dependent upon trust and loyalty as your marriage.Be the kindof XO or S3 that you would hope you will have when you become the 6. It is your opportunity to prepare for your own Command learn from and help your CO to successfully Command the troops and to complete the mission of the Command. Response by COL George Fasching made Mar 30 at 2016 11:32 AM 2016-03-30T11:32:30-04:00 2016-03-30T11:32:30-04:00 LTC John Regan 1415712 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>For the S3 stuff, MAJ Patrick, learn planning - MDMP especially, but planning for below battalion level as well. Know how to write orders! Learn the training requirements for individual and crew served weapons. For both positions, however, I recommend first to understand by doctrine what every position and function in the unit you are headed to is supposed to do. Once you get there, or before if you can, get familiar with unit SOPS. Be ready to compare the gaps and fill them in. Above all be familiar with unit war plans. The XO should be a maintenance expert, of course, but as XO you are the Chief of Staff. How you execute this is an understanding between you and the commander. Everything you need is out there. As my DIVARTY Commander once told me, "Every problem you've ever had someone else has had before - and probably wrote a book about it." Response by LTC John Regan made Mar 30 at 2016 11:41 AM 2016-03-30T11:41:12-04:00 2016-03-30T11:41:12-04:00 LTC John Wilson 1416389 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>I read some great advice here that I will implement when my turn comes around.<br /><br />One more thing I would add: Remember, the Company Commanders and their Soldiers that have to execute the stuff you put out are people, too. Within the parameters the Bn Cdr provides, do your best to (1) let those Company Commanders have some latitude in how they execute the tasks assigned and (2) always look for resources you can push down to them to help them. Leave them some "white space" on the calendar.<br /><br />As for leaving things better than you left them...MENTOR! Every CPT or LT in your sphere of influence needs your time and wisdom. Don't take a one-size-fits-all approach, either. Tailor your approach to their style -- and yours will be a name they always remember. As they each grow, they will aid you in YOUR accomplishing your goals. <br /><br />And in your constant aim for excellence, remember that "perfect" is the enemy of "good enough." Know when to say "when" -- especially if your the XO.<br /><br />At least once or twice a week....GO HOME! The suck ups that are hanging around in the office waiting for you to leave will appreciate you for it! :-) Response by LTC John Wilson made Mar 30 at 2016 3:07 PM 2016-03-30T15:07:29-04:00 2016-03-30T15:07:29-04:00 LCDR Private RallyPoint Member 1416683 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>A lot of good stuff already said here. Having just finished a shipboard XO tour, a bit of technical advice that helped enormously: Have an e-folder somewhere with every pub and reference you'll need. As XO you are the head staff officer for your unit, and the person people will go to for 'the book' answer many times. I didn't always know everything, but having all the major (and many of the minor) references I would need available, and organized, made life much easier coming out the gate. My folder now has over 160 pubs and directives, many of them e-marked-up with personalized tabs and notes. It's not very glamorous, but being organized makes it easier to take care of the paperwork and more time out and about with your folks. Response by LCDR Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 30 at 2016 4:44 PM 2016-03-30T16:44:51-04:00 2016-03-30T16:44:51-04:00 CPT Chris Newport 1416801 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Understand Tactical ops for your level and that above. Response by CPT Chris Newport made Mar 30 at 2016 5:44 PM 2016-03-30T17:44:56-04:00 2016-03-30T17:44:56-04:00 MAJ Todd Lamb 1423789 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Your single largest requirement as an S-3 is to get the Commander to make a decision. I always had two COAs for my bosses. As an XO, my job was to give my Commander room to breathe. None of them appreciated it until I left the job and got the medal, it's part of the turf. You WILL learn from all that you see, and it's tool time. Response by MAJ Todd Lamb made Apr 2 at 2016 1:48 PM 2016-04-02T13:48:02-04:00 2016-04-02T13:48:02-04:00 SFC Nate Robertson 3340342 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Be an outstanding s4 s2 those jobs should start to prep you alot Response by SFC Nate Robertson made Feb 10 at 2018 2:30 AM 2018-02-10T02:30:16-05:00 2018-02-10T02:30:16-05:00 2016-03-23T18:53:21-04:00