What's Your Best Military To Civilian Transition Advice?

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Response by 1LT Vance Titus made Feb 22 at 2022 4:25 PM

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Enroll in the TAP's Entreprenurial option course.

Response by SSG William Jones made Feb 22 at 2022 4:43 PM

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Sounds like an interesting contest.

Response by SSG William Jones made Feb 22 at 2022 4:45 PM

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Response by SFC Stephen King made Feb 22 at 2022 4:47 PM

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Lose the rank. Be self-aware

Response by PO1 Dilene Smith made Feb 23 at 2022 5:52 PM

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Take your time in your new job and get to learn the climate and politics of the workplace before making any changes. Things operate differently outside the military. It took me a few jobs to figure this out and things went much better for me then!

Response by SGT Adam Lee made Feb 23 at 2022 6:10 PM

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Be yourself. The military taught me how to effectively communicate with people. Of course I had to lower my tone, but other than that, civilian jobs are a cakewalk.

Response by SFC Rita Green made Feb 23 at 2022 6:21 PM

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Have a strong Support System. Transition will be a major change in life. You will miss the military daily family and duties. You will miss the importance of your duties however will realize soon, they aren’t yours anymore. It will get frustrating and lonely. The amazing Support System will be your comfort during times when you’ll need care, outreach, guidance and love.

Response by CPO Maribel Alfaro made Feb 23 at 2022 6:23 PM

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To submit a VA disability claim even if you think you don't have any.

Response by PO1 Cleon Mclish made Feb 23 at 2022 6:23 PM

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While transitioning from the Navy to civilian life, my best advice was to use all your experiences you earned while in the military to use in your resume. That may get you the job you want out in the real world.

Response by PO1 Mark Lansing made Feb 23 at 2022 6:25 PM

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Before you leave the service or retire, make sure that you get certified copies of all your records (service, medical and dental) because you can use these in the future for a variety of things, but medical is the most important because it will help you get disability compensation that you deserve for conditions that happened while on active duty. I never thought about it when I retired in 1993 and could have started drawing payments then, but did not put in until 2018 and I'm very glad I did because right now I'm at 80% and I' working on 100% at this time. If you decide to go back to school they can go through your service record and tell you how many college credits you already have to help you get that degree you want. The last things are start your new life the way you want, stay happy in whatever you do, what you can accomplish and never let anyone ever tell you any different.

Response by PO1 Debbie Keys made Feb 23 at 2022 6:30 PM

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While out in the civilian community share your military experiences freely with those around you. People enjoy the stories and will likely view you in a more positive light

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 23 at 2022 6:33 PM

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Prepare ahead of time. We all hear it but like most of us we don't heed our own advice. Prepare now by outlining the jobs, skills, and positions you have held - this will assist with your resume. Prepare now for the medical process. Ensure you make medical appointments for all those things you have put off for years. Prepare now for the numerous opportunities that you can take advantage of while still on active duty - skillbridge, ACP, Commit, Candor, internships (these require time and you need to ensure it is built into your leave and timeline as well as getting authorization from your chain of command). Prepare now for the financial burden in case you don't find the perfect job. Prepare now - start thinking about what you want to do in your next career field and crosswalk those skills that may be required to land that job. Prepare now - start talking to others going through the process. They are your best networking source. It is daunting task but one that is exciting and should be an incredible journey.

Response by PVT Jennifer Yellets made Feb 23 at 2022 6:34 PM

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Be patient with yourself. Just as the transition from civilian to military lifestyle took getting used to , the reverse is the same. You are not the same person you were when you joined the service, these experiences have shaped us into who we are today. Be proud, know that it's okay to not always feel okay. Communicate- don't bottle it up! And always remember that you are not alone!

Response by SSG Olivia Lott-Reese made Feb 23 at 2022 6:53 PM

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Do act like you still in the military meaning treating civilians like their your soldiers.

Response by PO2 Joe Roslonski made Feb 23 at 2022 6:53 PM

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Absolutely focus on educating yourself either college,night school ,learning a trade,especially trade school because they are lacking people with skills,GOOD LUCK

Response by TSgt Steven Bates made Feb 23 at 2022 7:02 PM

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Don't expect the same level of discipline and camaraderie in your civilian workplace by your co-workers that you experienced while in the service. Loyalty, trust, discipline, and dedication are sometimes foreign phrases to the civilian workforce, but it is your presence and power to remind them of those virtues that can and should exist in any work environment. Don't lose what the military made you to become, but rather, be the example and positive role model for your civilian co-workers. Use what you know to help them grow.

Response by Sgt Francisco Grijalva made Feb 23 at 2022 7:06 PM

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My best advise is to always keep in mind that the VA will always be there to help you, specially when you think that you are at a stand still or nowhere to go. They helped me a lot right after I got out and I am certainly very thankful for that. They helped me with getting my house, getting a job and more.

Response by PO2 Ronald Slusarski made Feb 23 at 2022 7:17 PM

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Do NOT fail to copy every page of your service jacket PRIOR to checking out for the last time. It will be the last time you have easy access to any documents which may be required by the VA if you need to apply for benefits after you are discharged.

Ronald Slusarski/US Navy

Response by SPC Ronald Scheets made Feb 23 at 2022 7:20 PM

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Use your local veterans upward bound. It is an amazing program to help with the transition.

Response by SP5 Don Stanford made Feb 23 at 2022 7:20 PM

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You must respect the uniform, if not the person. You will deal with many people that are not worth the oxygen they breath, but they are your supervisors or managers and you have to follow their orders as long as the orders are not immoral or illegal. Dealing with idiots is a given so the sooner you learn to live with it, the better off you will be.

Response by A1C Donna Mars made Feb 23 at 2022 7:23 PM

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Keep going one day at a timr

Response by Sgt Jesus Colon made Feb 23 at 2022 7:27 PM

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Gather all the documents pertaining your training and your medical records.

Response by SP5 Howard Falcon made Feb 23 at 2022 7:27 PM

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Be prepared. Don't wait until the last minute, as soon as you think what you want to do do the research and start the education process. Find out who the executives and managers are at companies you may want to work for and contact them asking what they look for in employees especially those with your qualifications and desires. You can even ask about mentorship, asking for help to prepare you.

Response by SSgt Thomas Whitman made Feb 23 at 2022 7:28 PM

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Take the advantage of all military training and technical schools available as you will always have a backup education and skill set when things don't always go as you plan please on the job market.

Response by 1SG Carlos E Bonet made Feb 23 at 2022 7:29 PM

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Now this days the military has added some vital steps to the post cleaning/ ets process. VA will help you to go over your records and will get you started on the right track even before your ets date. The military itself, will help you with your resume, job opportunities, school, training..etc etc, while you’re cleaning the post and getting ready to meet your new civilian life. They’re lots of opportunities, is up to the joe the take advantage of them. Stay focus, absorb as much information as you can, and apply for all the opportunities possible before you get out, that way you’ll have the maximum opportunity to succeed.

Response by CPL William Fisher made Feb 23 at 2022 7:45 PM

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All veterans returning from combat should be required to go to counseling before being discharged

Response by MSgt Garret Goorhouse made Feb 23 at 2022 7:54 PM

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Stay busy, find hobbies, and stay away from the types of people that irritated you while in service.

Response by PO2 Kurt Koenen made Feb 23 at 2022 7:57 PM

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Do not expect the to reenter the world unchallenged. The artificial environment of the military ready to wage war doesn't translate well for most civilians. Be patient. Your ability to operate alone or as part of a team will inspire others. As always adapt and overcome.

Response by SSG Christian Harris made Feb 23 at 2022 7:58 PM

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Utilize Your GI Bill. First by using Chapter 30 then Chapter 33, after all that has been exhausted utilize Vocational Rehab Chapter 31. Self employment as well, Veteran owned business receives alot of respect and high regard. Attend all appointments at the VAMC, never miss one appointment. If any reason You should miss an appointment, call and reschedule. Finally, gather and keep ALL YOUR PAPER WORK. Lead The Way.... Hooah

Response by SFC Teresa Mitchell made Feb 23 at 2022 7:59 PM

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Best advice for transitioning from military to civilian life is to start planning 1.5 to 2 years out from your transition date. Also, make a copy of your medical and dental records before transitioning. Oh and don't forget to get a copy of xray films of all body parts and MRI reports. Once you lose contact with these records, you are at a loss. Start your disability claims before departing active duty. This can be done through the VA. Get started early!! Best of luck!

SFC Teresa Mitchell
Nirth Charleston SC

Response by PO2 Dave Reese made Feb 23 at 2022 8:14 PM

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Keep an open mind and open ears. Civilian jobs often times require more from you in many ways. Try not to view things through the lens of military standards. Also, try to blend into the environment with dress/hair styles etc.

Response by TSgt Mark McCormick made Feb 23 at 2022 8:20 PM

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Remember it's a new job, not necessarily a career until you know it's a great fit. Don't be afraid to say I quit and to try something else if you're not happy with your first choice.

Response by PO2 Todd Russell made Feb 23 at 2022 8:30 PM

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When you report to your exit physical make sure you have documented every health issue that you have, every injury that occurred during your service. Years later this may help if you need to file a service-connected disability claim.

Response by SSgt Brian Weston made Feb 23 at 2022 8:32 PM

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Be confident but not over confident. Ask questions, remember you're not alone. Check your baggage at the door, we all have it, if we all brought it with us we'd be drowning in it. Find a way to stay the 20 and retire even if it means changing careers, and leave service with a skill you can make money on in the outside.

Response by 1stSgt Victor Duran made Feb 23 at 2022 8:35 PM

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Just KNOW that you (as a military veteran) have a LOT to offer any employer out there!!! The military discipline (and overall environment of teamwork) stands out "HIGH" above the rest!!!

Response by SSgt Jose Martins made Feb 23 at 2022 8:35 PM

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A civilian career can be rewarding; remain open, positive and flexible. You are one of the few who serviced proudly for our nation. Not all could ever truly appreciate or understand your skill, determination, value and/or the sacrifices you have made. Hold strong to your core values. Remember that the pecking order works a little different now that your in a civilian uniform. Work towards your goals, lean on your brothers and sisters for support and never give up, even when you make mistakes or land in a position that's just not right for the long haul. Yes, it's scary, it's uncomfortable, but you've been here before. Take a deep breathe, smile and carry on.

Response by SSgt Brian Weston made Feb 23 at 2022 8:37 PM

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Be confident but not overconfident and ask questions. Civilian life ain't military life, learn to know the difference. (Try to stay in the service if you can to retire and leave with a skill you can take with you). Network and make connections before ETS to help make a smooth transition. Apply for disability before you leave so you have a rating.

Response by PO3 Cassandra Celaya made Feb 23 at 2022 8:48 PM

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My best advice is GO.AT.YOUR.OWN.PACE! Take your time, take a breath! You just got out and you can do anything you want at this point! Take some time for you to really get your head on straight and figure out what you want to do with the rest of your life. Dont feel rushed to get enrolled in school without having the direction you’re headed in mind. Dont let family, friends, etc. pressure you into doing what you need to do. Only those who have been through the transition from military to civilian can truly relate so give yourself a break. The transition is hard. You will notice things about the transition for an extended period of time, so take time for you!

Also-and this was of critical importance for me-know your support system! I highly recommend getting involved with the VFW, American Legion, and getting enrolled in your VA benefits immediately after getting out! The support, insights, and direction I gained from those 3 organizations were thee glue that held me together those first 2 years.

Response by Sgt David Gutierrez made Feb 23 at 2022 8:51 PM

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Prior to discharge research the companies you are most interested in starting your new career with and insure all of your training and award documentation is well documented in your resume prior to applying to which ever company you want to work for. Learn everything about them so you can show them how much you want to be part of their team, and most important dress for success.

Response by CPL Lee Rappeport made Feb 23 at 2022 8:55 PM

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Have a friend who has transitioned to civilian life give you suggestions.....

Response by SSG Steven Parks made Feb 23 at 2022 8:56 PM

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Simple. Ensure your medical records are up to date and you have a copy. List every issue you have from head to toe when you transition and go straight to the VA and apply. You may not qualify now but later some issues may be back dated to when you applied?

Response by SFC David Robbins made Feb 23 at 2022 8:59 PM

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Make sure all your injuries/illnesses are well documented and in your medical records.
Get your complete medical record which could be on a disc.
Take your medical records straight to your local VA. You might have to print them out for the VA.
Depending on VA ratings, you might qualify for free education benefits. You can get training for different career options.

Response by SGT Jay Johnson made Feb 23 at 2022 8:59 PM

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Be open to any opportunity that comes your way because you don’t know where it may lead or who you may meet. The best tip is thinking about the people you meet and the relationships you build through networking. Most often knowing someone and networking next to having experience can get you to the next step or be what sets you apart in job selection. Of the two, networking to know more people even if you don’t have all the experience needed, can be a key.

Response by SGT Jay Johnson made Feb 23 at 2022 8:59 PM

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Response by MSgt Louis Thomas made Feb 23 at 2022 9:09 PM

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Take all the vast knowledge and experience from your military career and translate late it into civilian terminology when you make up your resume. It will make it easier form the interviewers to understand what all you have to offer their company or business.

Response by SN Aqila Bond made Feb 23 at 2022 9:17 PM

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Researching civilian jobs.

Response by SPC Andrew Clark made Feb 23 at 2022 9:18 PM

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Team Rubicon really did so much for me,. Veteran base disaster response. Use your skills and meet fellow veterans

Response by MSG Ben Lamp made Feb 23 at 2022 9:20 PM

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It is very important to start early. 12-15 months at a minimum to start the process. Employer's are willing to wait for you, enrolling in college or tech programs take time, and mostly, finding what you truly want to do takes time and effort.

Response by PO1 Mark Newfield made Feb 23 at 2022 9:26 PM

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I am a 100% Service connected disabled veteran, permanent and total. I served from 03/1972 to 03/1978 in the Navy. I finished my enlistment as a Aviation Electricians Mate 1st Class E6.
My advice is to do what I did. Request a copy of your entire service and medical records. Each and every page needs to be stamped to be a true and legal copy.
The Signiture should be a legal officer.
Tip #2. Sign up for VA Healthcare as soon as you are separated.

Response by Maj David Daly made Feb 23 at 2022 9:29 PM

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When we served we succeeded because of the strength of the team. When I left the Marine Corps, I thought relying on others was a sign of weakness. That poor decision led me down dark paths including addiction and almost taking my life. Now I know there is no weakness in relying on a team as a civilian. Find your team, cultivate a network of support, and help others along the way.

David D USMC

Response by PO2 Joe Reid made Feb 23 at 2022 9:33 PM

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Keep your military experiences to yourself unless with other veterans of same experiences and they desire to talk!

Response by SGT William Justice made Feb 23 at 2022 9:35 PM

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Take your military experience and use it to help you advance in any field you are wanting to work in.

Response by SGT Ming-Wa Hui made Feb 23 at 2022 9:39 PM

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Take your Army values and apply them to every job you get. Remember basic training and the importance of teamwork. Be that person willing to do what no one else is wanting to do. Lastly embrace the suck and you’ll have a lot more fun.

Response by PO2 Joe Reid made Feb 23 at 2022 9:47 PM

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As a disabled Viet Nam vet, I have found that it is best to keep your experiences to yourself unless with like experienced vet who want to talk! Also be sure to get copies of ALL your medical and other records of your experiences and guard them like gold! You'll need them later and it's very disappointing to see the skimpy records that exist after 50 years! Use all advantages that you learned as job skills !

Response by SGT Karen Lawless made Feb 23 at 2022 9:48 PM

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I went from 95B attached to the CID narcotics division to working as an armed security officer at a secret military site. I later worked as an armed security officer in a different state. I wish my former military status had more pull in the civilian world than what is does.

Response by PFC Dennis Jihnson made Feb 23 at 2022 9:52 PM

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Start hanging out with females as soon as possible.

Response by SP5 Royal Hibbard made Feb 23 at 2022 10:06 PM

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Start planning and researching as far ahead as possible, a year at the very least. Save enough so you can live without a job for a year after you get out ( see what unemployment benefits you are entitled to ) research, research, research. Best of luck.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 23 at 2022 10:18 PM

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This is what I wish someone would have told me.
1. If you can afford it after you fully get out of service, don't rush back to work. Give yourself, especially if you have a family a chance to reacclimate yourselves.
2. Get mental health counseling (sometimes we think we don't need it, but it really helps).
3. Practice self-love and self-care daily.
4. Try to find at least one activity that you enjoy doing and do it regularly to relax.

Response by TSgt Timothy Krambeck made Feb 23 at 2022 10:21 PM

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MAKE A LIST! ANY AND ALL QUESTIONS AAND DON'T BE SHY IN ASKING. THIS SHOULD BE DONE A WEEK OR SO BEFORE YOUR OUTPROCESSING! THINK! WHEN I RETIRED (AT THE TIME MANDATORY FOR AN E-6), THERE WAS NOTHING IN THE OUTBRIEFING ANYWHERE ABOUT JOINING THE NATIONAL GUARD (AIR FORCE), WHERE I COULD HAVE CONTINUED ON... TEST RESULTS CAME OUT FOR E-7 2 WEEKS AFTER DISCHARGE AND I WAS UNABLE TO 'EXTEND' TO SEE IF I MADE IT. I WOULD HAVE STAYED IN. SEVERAL MONTHS LATER THE USAF DROPPED THE MANDATORY OUT AT 20 FOR E-6 AS THEY FINALLY REALIZED THEY WERE LOSING A LOT OF QUALITY PEOPLE. ALSO, MY TEST RESULTS WOULD HAVE CARRIED OVER TO THE GUARD... HAD I BEEN INFORMED. ASK THOSE QUESTIONS. I DID FIND OUT I COULD TRANSFER OVER SEVERAL ITEMS ON MY USAF DRIVERS LICENSE WITH LITTLE PROBLEM (TRACTOR-TRAILER FOR EXAMPLE, VARIOUS) 'BEFORE' DISCHARGE .... ALSO FOUND THIS OUT AFTER THE FACT. (DYESS AFB, TX) I DID INFORM THEM OF THESE PROBLEMS AND THEY ALTERED THEIR OUTBRIEFING ACCORDINGLY AND BROUGHT IN A GUARD REP AND A PERSON FROM THE LOCAL DMV TO INFORM PERSONNEL....

Response by SPC Larry Ramsdell made Feb 23 at 2022 10:22 PM

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First, make a thorough list of all the things you learned or experienced that may be useful in civilian life. That includes not only "hard" skills like electronics but also soft skills like communication, thinking styles, social skills, loyalty, teamwork, etc.

After making your list, start thinking about where you might fit in, not just based on the list, but also based on location, size of the business, the pay (of course), industry and so forth.

Lastly, don't be shy about asking for help. There are numerous programs to benefit veterans, and there are friends, family and certainly the people you served with. Generally, most people want to be able to help a vet. So, let them!

Response by MSgt Bruce Westfahl made Feb 23 at 2022 10:30 PM

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Have your resume professionally done. Don't forget to look for job opportunities on military installations. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Lastly, don't wait until the last minute, plan a few months before separation.

Response by PO2 Douglas Lawrence made Feb 23 at 2022 10:40 PM

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Be patient, use your resources. County VA.

Response by SPC Steven Miller made Feb 23 at 2022 10:47 PM

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Don't be in a hurry. There are more assets available to you than you can imagine. Reach out through veteran friendly partners as to what resources fit what your goals are. There are many more companies than you would believe who actively search for certain military skill sets. Gather information, make a plan, and don't be afraid to ask for help.

Response by PO1 Byron Pertuit made Feb 23 at 2022 10:53 PM

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If you’re within ONE year of your discharge date…convert your SGLI($400,000 life insurance), to VGLI. NO ONE told me about it but when I went back into the National Guard, I found out about it. And, DO NOT forget to sign up for the VA…as a Veteran you have earned the privilege of FREE medical at the VA Hospitals!!!

Response by SSgt Ronald Dunbar made Feb 23 at 2022 10:59 PM

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Act like you earned it, not like you deserve it!

Response by PVT Michael Brouillette made Feb 23 at 2022 11:01 PM

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Take a long Hike along one of the National Scenic Trails with someone close to you. You will have a chance to enjoy Nature and meet and interact with great people and keep you mind and body in great shape..

Response by SGT Roberto Cappa made Feb 23 at 2022 11:08 PM

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Follow up on all leads, welcome others whom wish to assist you on helping achieving your goals for they are better accomplished as a team within all areas, be open to new challenges and many doors will open that can lead to a very unexpected opportunity in the type of employment that military skill and civilian can intertwine to what for fills your employment needs. Teamwork and openness is key.

Response by SFC Dan Kelly made Feb 23 at 2022 11:10 PM

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I would say to try to embark on a civilian career that is similar to the job which you did in the military (for example, if you were an MP look into becoming a police officer).

Response by COL COL Paul Joseph Hettich made Feb 23 at 2022 11:13 PM

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Take advantage of the transition services offered on base. Also, ensure that all of your military training and education is documented in preparation for a civilian position.

Response by Sgt James Houston made Feb 23 at 2022 11:19 PM

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I was trained to work with Munitions used by the Military, which I could have used for a job in the Frankford Arsenal in Philadelphia or at other locations. I was also trained to drive 5 & 10 ton tractor trailers, and other vehicles used to transport munitions, also rough terrain fork lifts, and regular fork lifts, and a 5000 lb. truck mounted crane. I used my military training to get a job as a bus driver with the transit company in Philadelphia. I drove for about two years and then put in a request for an office job. I stayed with the transit company for 30 years, and retired as Chief Schedule maker.

Response by CPT Patrick Lipscomb made Feb 23 at 2022 11:46 PM

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I recommend that you get professional assistance in drafting your resume to have your military skills translated into civilian management & leadership terminology & get interview preparation & question answering skills. Be honest. Be confiden Be yourself. Sell your brand - you. Be assertive & confident & temporarily put aside most humility. You are on stage & need to put in an award winning performance that answers the primary question : why should I hire you over the other candidates? Take a deep breath & watch your breathing & manage your stress level .

Response by SGT Michael Willard made Feb 23 at 2022 11:49 PM

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One thing I would say is a necessity is to be as flexible as you can possibly be with problems and services that you come across. And keep an open mind

Response by SrA Stephen Chiles made Feb 24 at 2022 12:26 AM

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Do your best to prepare to re-enter civilian life. Start job searches as early as possible. And most of all, prepare financially to have as much cash/finances on hand. And then, network the community/communities that you are looking to relocate to.

Response by PO2 Joan MacNeill made Feb 24 at 2022 12:34 AM

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Plan ahead. Look into employment, housing, transportation options, for the place(s) where you intend to live. Check on cost of living, license fees, property taxes, anything that affects your pocket. Look into laws and rules for your lifestyle, such as concealed carry permit. Check on local organizations or activities of interest, such as for veterans or special interests. Order some newspapers from your prospective community. Google it. If you will attend a school, get your registration and course choices done. Set up a counselor appointment, maybe correspond online before separating, to help plan a curriculum. Get started on GI Bill application. If you are interested, for Navy members, you could get a Merchant Marine ticket from the Coast Guard. Look into what the test covers and study some. The differences between Navy and merchant vessels can affect your score. I went in cold and just barely passed. If married, your spouse will need to do some homework as well. Ask your buddies what they know. Expect the civilian universe and its people to be different from your military experience. it is what it is. All that will help you hit the ground running.

Response by SPC John Schulte made Feb 24 at 2022 12:44 AM

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spc john schulte that would be the can opener

Response by Sgt Eury Fernandez made Feb 24 at 2022 1:17 AM

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Filing your claim does not mean you can not serve again active or reserve.

Response by SSG Jerry Seippel made Feb 24 at 2022 2:10 AM

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When responding to Civilians it's best to take 3 Deep Breaths, before you Rip Their Head Off.

Response by SGT Dixie America made Feb 24 at 2022 2:17 AM

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Integrate slowly, maintain healthy lifestyle, and remain connected with the military family.

Response by Capt Reenie Fetters made Feb 24 at 2022 4:13 AM

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Much like investing in a good financial portfolio, you need to invest in yourself. This means diversification. Your work or company cannot be everything you are. You wouldn't put all your money in a bank CD? Work on diversifying your life portfolio by learning new hobbies, volunteering... giving back makes people feel good, just like investing in ethical mutual funds. Make sure you develop connections to groups that will allow for connections to people like joining a religious institution, club, Toastmasters or non-religious institutions. Last, don't forget to pay yourself! Much like earning small dividends or interest income from your investments, you will notice higher "dividends" personally by treating yourself right. This can include: taking up exercize, practicing mindfulness, meditation, floating, getting a massage. Transitions are never easy, however with the right support from yourself, others and groups you will get through this opportunity for change. The smart money's on YOU!

Response by Capt Reenie Fetters made Feb 24 at 2022 4:15 AM

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Response by SPC Parvin Daneshvar made Feb 24 at 2022 4:37 AM

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Have a plan prior to discharge.

Response by FN Dairon Keith made Feb 24 at 2022 4:51 AM

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Transitioning is part of life and part of service. Accept it and allow the process to run its course. Everything prior to the transition is to be included in your new phase of life. It’s your job to figure out the way to express it.

Response by SrA Patrick Riley made Feb 24 at 2022 4:58 AM

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Immediately apply for work at the Post Office. I am old now but I always wished I would have done this. Steady work with decent pay!

Response by PVT Darrell Ballein made Feb 24 at 2022 5:05 AM

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That its no longer about you,its now about them. ill explain.while you served the family supported you in all ways now its time to support them now that your a civilian again.it helps you transition,at least it did me.

Response by Cpl Dale Menninger made Feb 24 at 2022 5:16 AM

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find someone to love, raise a family (loving them unconditionally), believe in your children, believe in your country and add a little sunshine to someone's life everyday.

Response by SFC Benito Silva made Feb 24 at 2022 5:23 AM

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Keep the good habits the military instilled in you. You will be head and shoulders above the rest.

Response by SGT Arnold Bunch made Feb 24 at 2022 5:44 AM

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SGT Arnold Bunch
Going forward, you must always go forward never give up on yourself.

Response by Sgt Michael Jordan made Feb 24 at 2022 6:23 AM

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Don’t lose the good habits that you acquired in the military. Continue them and simply adapt them to civilian life. If you continue your good life habits, they will serve as an advantage for you.
MAKE YOUR BED EVERYDAY!

Response by SPC Robert Serini made Feb 24 at 2022 6:34 AM

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Start early and keep an open mind for opportunities. Some of the best may not appear to be directly related to your service experience.

Response by SSG Wilfredo (Fred) Torres made Feb 24 at 2022 7:00 AM

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Prepare with time; once you decide that you are ending your military career, prepare, prepare, PREPARE. Make sure to screen all your medical records and get all your vaccination shots (update and make current your vaccination record card) ensure that any injuries and/or accidents you had during your career are recorded. Attend ALL your ETS briefings, take ALL the "transition " training offered, make sure your education benefits are up-to-date.
Pray for the patience and strength that you will need when you return to the civilian world. You might not think so, but you have changed for the better, experienced "things" that none of your old friends have experienced and they will not understand you most of the time. Their imagination doesn't get anywhere close to what you have lived, be patient with them and humor them when they try to explain/teach you subjects that they have never lived... more likely they saw it in a movie while you were actually living it.
Did I mention pray?
PRAY!

Response by PO3 Edwin Millán made Feb 24 at 2022 7:04 AM

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Had difficulty getting a job and was somewhat depressed for about the first six months after Desert Storm/Shield. Once I started going to college and started setting specific achievable goals it all changed around. I think the ability to persevere and be patient helps a lot.

Response by SP6 Frederick A James made Feb 24 at 2022 7:27 AM

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Stay Military retire than become a civilian that way you have all the skills you need...3 WAR VETERAN

Response by PO2 Larry Fullhart made Feb 24 at 2022 8:02 AM

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Get a degree.

Response by Capt Helen Kershaw made Feb 24 at 2022 8:15 AM

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Connect with other veterans and connect with military agencies like the DAV or Wounded Warriors. Cherish your experiences while on active duty.

Response by PO2 William Witty made Feb 24 at 2022 8:26 AM

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Start with keeping the good habits the military taught you and discarding the bad. Remember you are your own non/com, division officer etc. in charge of yourself. Be the guy whom you would want to work for you if you were the leader/owner of the company. Be patient, don't expect instant rewards even though you feel you must catch up for lost time. By following the above advice, you will be noticed although you may not realize it. Good Luck!

Response by SGT Arthur Bird made Feb 24 at 2022 8:35 AM

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God did not give man adversity so he could lay down in self pity. He gave man adversity as a gift to obtain strength and wisdom. When it comes to your door step and knocks invite it in and say to yourself thank you Jesus now grant me greater strength and broader wisdom so that you may walk into the light and out from the shadows of others. And always remember the greatest transition will be when you master the art of forgiving and forgetting.

Response by Sgt Lamont Nash made Feb 24 at 2022 8:36 AM

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My best advice for a smooth military to civilian transition would be to do the following prior to exiting active duty:
1. determine the career goal that you want to pursue in your civilian role
2. research companies and individuals in that career field (linkedIN is a great source)
3. reach out to company points of contacts & individuals in the field
4. introduce yourself and attempt to establish a relationship
5. find and attend events that are valid for your career field (i.e. AWS re:Invent Las Vegas and etc.)
6. attend job fairs hosted by specific companies that you are interested in
7. if certifications are offered in the career field obtaining them would be very helpful

Response by SFC Brent Cook made Feb 24 at 2022 8:55 AM

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If you are retiring save up the most leave time you can this is especially important if you don't already have a job lined up or you are retiring from an overseas assignment. I had 92 days saved up and I needed everyone of them to get the job that I wanted. Hope this helps!

Response by PO3 Moses Chattman III made Feb 24 at 2022 8:58 AM

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Re-entry can be difficult for some. Surrounding yourself with positive, like-minded people is a must and a big help at the same time. Only ex - service men and women will understand comming from a structured environment then transitioning to civilian life. I highly recommend a Government job on a base somewhere as many companies invest a great deal of money into their employee transition, ethics, equality and leadership training❣️

Response by SFC Delilah Gonzalez made Feb 24 at 2022 9:04 AM

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The best advice I can give is to start networking with the people around you and reach out to connections you have made during your military career. It's never too early to start networking and letting people know you are getting out of the military and give them your timeframe. Use social media, job websites, USAjobs, LinkedIn to put yourself out there for future employers to find you. Clean up your social media profiles, keep them family-friendly. Apply for jobs you are interested in even if you don't qualify, it might lead you to something else within that company.

Response by CPL Jason Blackwood made Feb 24 at 2022 9:17 AM

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Seek all the help and advice that may come your way. And, take things day by day and do what you can. Don't try to rush your transition. If you have patience, the VA will eventually help and do the right thing.

Response by LCpl Gabriel Griego made Feb 24 at 2022 9:20 AM

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Take your time and enjoy the process. You're not in a rush any longer. YOU get to choose what move you make in your life. For some of you this is the first time you get to make this decision. ENJOY the little things.

Response by AN David Clisby made Feb 24 at 2022 9:28 AM

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Take it one day at a time, be patient with yourself, trust the process

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 24 at 2022 9:31 AM

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Find "your people" and stay connected. Leaving our military family can be isolating so plug into your local VFW, community center, etc to find a community to serve with after the military. You're not alone.

Response by HN Linda Sheffield made Feb 24 at 2022 9:36 AM

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1. Keep copies of all medical/service records before exiting the military. Become familiar with all Veteran Benefits including organizations and resources such as DAV; which will help you determine and will assist you in applying for service-connected disability (which is where keeping copies of your records is handy).
2. Assure you have a counselor (the VA has these free for eligible veterans) on hand to talk to about the emotional impacts of your transition. They not only help your emotional stability/health during this time, but also can provide very valuable resources such as homeless veteran assistance referrals, suicide prevention and PTSD services and much more. Don't wait until you are at a critical point; before having these resources set-up. We lose thousands of our own daily; and that loss can be prevented.

Response by SPC Melissa Furlow made Feb 24 at 2022 9:36 AM

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I can say the biggest change was realizing that all the cussing that goes on isn't an acceptable practice in a lot private sectors of business. (that one took time) :) So, be open to change, you are stepping into a new world, you already know you can adapt and bring your best to any environment, so learn, grow and you can show them all you have to offer in a language they will actually understand. You can only control you, so how you present is up to you and what an awesome opportunity to do or be anything you want! The mindset you choose will determine the mindset of how others see who you are and all you can be.

Response by SSgt Blanche Conley made Feb 24 at 2022 9:38 AM

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Get a complete copy of your medical records before separating/retiring from your branch of service...if you start having health complications, it would be easier to file a VA claim if you need it.

Response by SPC Ronald Vulatic made Feb 24 at 2022 9:42 AM

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PUT YOURSELF INTO A GOVERNMENT JOB THAT YOU QUALIFY FOR AND STAY FOR 30 YEARS AND RETIRE FROM THERE.

Response by CWO2 Harry Craft made Feb 24 at 2022 9:59 AM

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I started looking at USAJOBS for a government job 4 months before I got out of the military and I wished I had started even sooner. You can get a government job, but it takes a while so be prepared for that. I got out in August and did an interview in August, but did not get the job until February, so that is how long it can take. You might want to make sure you have enough savings to carry you for at least 6 months before you retire!

Response by Sgt Deb Cobb made Feb 24 at 2022 10:30 AM

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I went through some transitional training classes before discharge. We wer told in the classes to market ourselved based on being military: leadership skills, etc. They made it sound like if we just said we were from the military it would be an instant hire. Haha. When I mentioned I was a veteran nobody cared. So I quite mentioning military service altogether. My resume consisted of my military service, that's all I had for experience. But I let it speak for itself and didn't talk about it in the interviews, instead focussing on my skills that related to the job I was applying for and also just letting my personality speak for me. When I quit trying so hard to impress I got a job, ironically based on my military experience working in a warehouse, which they noticed from my resume without me saying anything about it.

Response by MSgt Reynaldo De los Santos made Feb 24 at 2022 10:39 AM

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Use the GI bill. Be real about your objectives and use the best path to get there. Have a plan implement adjust as needed and complete. Sound easy but it is not and be ready for the ups and downs. No easy ride no matter what route you take.

Response by CW2 Gale Dorman made Feb 24 at 2022 11:18 AM

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Unbelievably always tell the truth, be it on your resume, at your interview. Have solid references. Have in your pocket of tools, a list of leadership training, countries you have been to, training experiences. If you have any college or special training think about and write down why you took that training! Write down why decided to leave the military service and also what your projected goals are for today, tomorrow and your future. When you go to your interview. If asked give the reasons you like the company and want to be part of it and how you believe you will make a positive impact. One thing if you are disabled or require visits for medical issues that you have had. Be prepared to positive answers! When ever you have a medial appointment do not wait for the last minute to inform your employer. Listen! Learn from others! do not repeat your mistakes! One last thing before you pay any headhunter company to look for a job for you, CHECK THEM OUT WITH THE BBB and any other sources. Their are many scams like asking you to pay upfront $500 and after you pay they do nothing for you except take your money! Be careful with giving out your Personal Information and what type of information! Be willing to take a drug test, dress the part and be professional in all your mannerisms, Sound easy it is but that first call, first interview, first one on one can make the difference between you getting the job of your dreams! Last thing while you are looking work on any certifications you may need! VA and other government organizations offer free training! When you have that you may have one more item in your pocket that makes the real difference! Good Luck! Wear a mask to your interview, on arrival once you introduce your self before you remove your mask do so only if those who you are communicating with have taken their mask off and after you ask what is the companies policy on Vaccinations and masking. You control your future no one else does!

Response by SCPO Bruce Watt made Feb 24 at 2022 11:38 AM

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The best transition advice I got was to take advantage of the GI Bill and go to a vocational Community College and get an AA degree. It helped me get get on with a Major Manufacturer testing their product and made me comfortable being around younger people in a social setting.

Response by CDR Michelle Webber made Feb 24 at 2022 11:39 AM

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Give yourself time to figure out your identity outside the military. Explore your hobbies more in depth and so you can make new friends.

Response by CDR Michelle Webber made Feb 24 at 2022 11:39 AM

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Give yourself time to figure out your identity outside the military. Explore your hobbies more in depth and so you can make new friends.

Response by PV2 Vincent Baker made Feb 24 at 2022 11:53 AM

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It helped me to go to college and learn something new. It was hard for me to find a job that I was doing in the military, the VA helped me to get through college without worrying too much about my financial status.

Response by PV2 Vincent Baker made Feb 24 at 2022 12:04 PM

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I had a hard time trying to find a job like I was doing in the military. I had to do other jobs that others were more qualified so that left me on the bottom most of the time. But with the help of the VA I was able to go to college and attain my degree. And this has helped me tremendously!

Response by SFC Irene Guerra made Feb 24 at 2022 12:29 PM

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Ty to remember that as you transition from the military to civilian life that all the years of feeling you cannot fail due to the mentality the military instills of "failure is not an option", "burning the midnight oil", or "doing the walk of shame" do not have the same impact in the civilian life. We are so hard on ourselves due to how we felt we needed to perform at all times: 110%. I went through 4 years of college after a 30 year retirement from the military still always in fear of failing an exam or overthinking what the instructors intent for their course was. I made it harder so afraid that I lost sleep over it during my time in college. I not only accomplished receiving my BS in sociology with a specialty in criminal justice as well a better relationship and respect for my instructors. They took the time to let me know exactly what was expected, were there the entire way, and never gave up on me.

Response by CPL Gwendolyn McChristian made Feb 24 at 2022 12:32 PM

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Stay connected to other comrades! The VA community is an excellent place to start and stay connected for resources and available programs for veterans.

Response by Sgt John Hotaling made Feb 24 at 2022 12:39 PM

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Go to College/Tech school

Response by Sgt John Hotaling made Feb 24 at 2022 12:40 PM

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Go to College/Tech School

Response by Sgt Matthew Stacy made Feb 24 at 2022 12:46 PM

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It's ok to not find what you want to do right away. Keep trying things until you find something that you really enjoy. For some people that may take a couple years and others a couple of months.

Response by PO2 Khuzema Savai made Feb 24 at 2022 12:52 PM

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Hello Readers of Rally Point,
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Response by PO1 Charles Klumpp made Feb 24 at 2022 1:24 PM

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Financial prudence is your best friend and know the VA opportunities offered.

Response by SPC Donald Rongholt made Feb 24 at 2022 1:32 PM

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when planning to leave active duty, start job searching right away maybe a yr out so you can lock in a offer before hand,not to mention you can always do a zoom interview or a phone interview.

Response by SGT Manuel Martinez Jr. made Feb 24 at 2022 1:48 PM

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Find a Veteran Service Organization that has many avenues to assist you with your transition back to civilian life. Ask for HELP!!

Response by SGT Michael Brand made Feb 24 at 2022 2:51 PM

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Get out as soon as possible, but make sure that you have an education and/or employment plan first.

Response by Capt Brian Hinman made Feb 24 at 2022 3:19 PM

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I transitioned to the private sector in 1992 after an Air Force career as an aviator. This was a very difficult time since I was ill prepared at the time for this sudden adjustment. I wish I had the foresight to be able to predict how my life and the lives of my family would be affected. My best Military To Civilian Transition Advice for those experiencing this pending adjustment would first of all to spend time well in advance of the separation date in planning next steps. Determine the type of position/role that not only interests you, but also aligns with aspects of your military career/position and any schooling you have received. Try and envision the strengths, capabilities, and skill-sets that you have which can best be put to use in a private sector position. Then brainstorm what kinds of private sector positions best align with this list. Next, spend some time researching companies that focus on areas that best align with this line of work, and offer products and solutions that require a skillset that matches what you can offer them. Make a shortlist of the more reputable firms/companies and which rank higher on the rankings of companies that employees have the most job satisfaction. Also, narrow your scope to the geography that is best suited for this next phase in your professional career. Pick a city/state that you and your family want to relocate to, and determine which companies from your list might have locations in these areas. You may have to be somewhat flexible in the regions you choose to relocate, based on where hot job prospects might reside, and pick an area of the country that might have multiple companies in/around the area such that you might transition one day to a different company if desired. Finally, and most importantly, spend quality time polishing up your resume/CV including a listing of each position you've held both in the military and outside the military, if applicable. Include a cover letter customized to each position you apply for. You may need outside help in doing the above tasks, but I guarantee it is time well spent since this may very well determine your career path and ultimately land you in that dream job for life! Good luck in your job search and most importantly, your transition to the private sector.

Response by SSG Jairo Romero made Feb 24 at 2022 4:19 PM

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Eliminate anything extra in your life then bring it back in slowly.

Response by SGT Lisa Wu made Feb 24 at 2022 4:26 PM

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Use all VA services! Especially career advising (help with resume and cover letters as well as landing a job)

Response by PO3 Jimmy Austin made Feb 24 at 2022 4:30 PM

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Several months before discharge, sit down and itemize, in writing, your trained skills, leadership skills, hands on experience or any skill regardless of how insignificant it may seem. Point out ability to follow instructions and a team player. Assemble a resume targeting a specific field of interest. Modify as needed to available skill offered. Seek resume writing skills through community colleges or state employment offices if not a personnel forte. Practice self confidence in the mirror if feeling insecure knowing you bring much to the table. Research company's hiring in the targeted field and submit at least 10 resumes a week keeping a written record of dates resume mailed and to which company. If appropriate, make follow up calls to their Human Resources Departments to verify reception of your resume and record name/date person spoken with. Follow up with calls asking for person previously spoken with in HR. Make your name known. Tenacity pays off. Once offered a position, get to understand people on the team and slowly make change suggestions as needed. Make communications with management and persons your responsible for, a two way street up and down pay grades as appropriate depending on responsibilities. Keep reminding self you bring much to the table! Practice that TEAM PLAY! Good luck.

Response by SPC George Poli made Feb 24 at 2022 5:10 PM

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Don,t expect the world you left to be the one you go back to. The friends and family you left behind have spent the years you,ve been away growing and changing as you have grown and changed.

Response by SGT Greg G Gagner made Feb 24 at 2022 5:32 PM

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Make sure you have your finances in order. Make a budget and stick to it. I retired in 94 and I am just now getting my financial situation caught up.

Response by HN Thomas Roundtree made Feb 24 at 2022 7:20 PM

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File a VA claim asap being education benefits are not a permanent answer to a reliable income stream. Work with a VSO to make sure your filing your claim correctly.

Response by SPC Rick Price made Feb 24 at 2022 8:03 PM

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Response by SSgt Frank Lohman made Feb 24 at 2022 11:55 PM

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Don't shortchange yourself when transitioning to a civilian job. Your leadership and experience in working with people, various challenges, and mission requirements makes you much more valuable than you think. You've got years of experience, get what you've earned for the years you spent getting the job done in the military.

Response by SPC Joseph Nastasi made Feb 25 at 2022 12:31 AM

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now-a-days; "just blend", you'll do just fine, you got the country's respect on your side ,,,
Back in 75... I'd a told ya to be upwind if in uniform !!!.... cause w/ a strong enough breeze; the spit may not reach ya,,, i remember BTDT
joseph nastasi Sp-4
crewchief engineer AH-1 Cobra attack helicopter
C trp 7/17th air cav combat brigade
6th Cav Brigade 1974-77 Hon / DAV

Response by PFC Linda Dougherty Minton made Feb 25 at 2022 1:07 AM

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Keep on serving, caring and sharing! Continue to be a part of connection to everyone! We all really are in this together! Be a blessing wherever you go!

Response by SSgt Antoine Skrine made Feb 25 at 2022 8:04 AM

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Create your vision and goals for your post-military life now (prior to getting out). Include specific details regarding your career, your health, your relationships, and your finances. Write down this vision and take action daily to make it your reality.

Response by Sgt David Stinson made Feb 25 at 2022 8:43 AM

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Search out a good faith based, house of worship, you’re comfortable with. It might take several places to find your fit. It doesn’t matter if you are single, married or married with children, you’ll make acquaintances and friends you need in life.

Response by SCPO Jack Carlsen made Feb 25 at 2022 9:06 AM

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I am a 24 year retired Navy Vet and for the past ten years I have interviewed veteran candidates on a regular basis for a large top tier Automotive manufacturing company. First and foremost, don't wait until you have separated to start looking for a job. Start getting a resume together and exploring the job market at least a year out...seriously! By far the biggest killer of resumes and interviews is using military language and jargon in both. First, learn what your military skills called are in the civilian world and translate to that language. Do not turn in a general resume that simply lists your duty stations and job titles. Give a brief description of what you did at each position. Most interviewers don't understand what an MOS or NEC is and they don't have the time to look it up so don't assume they will. Research the company or job you are applying for and focus your resume to that company or job and use their language as best as you can. Keep your resume to one page if possible two at the most. Honestly, most HR people and interviewers will spend less than 30 seconds on the resume you spend hours making so, please be specific and to the point. Numbers, facts, and bullet points are your friend. Long wordy descriptions get ignored. At the interview, do not talk military language / jargon they don't know what your saying and will tire of asking you to explain. Again, know your audience by researching the company and position you are applying for. Dress for the job and leave your military pride ball cap in the car. Your going to be nervous, everyone is at an interview. Practice helps so, do mock interview with family and friends (not kidding, do this). Take your resume and notes with you to the interview. Notes should include items to jog your memory when you are trying to give an example to a question you were asked. Be confident, if you don't look or act confident, it will show. Last be prepared to not get the position. You can try to ask why you were not selected but honestly, you probably wont get a specific answer so, pull your boot straps up and move on. Good Luck!

Response by SFC Carl Blount made Feb 25 at 2022 10:04 AM

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SFC Carl L Blount Jr
You have a great deal of experience learned from your time in the military. When looking for a job after leaving the military don't overlook anything or sell yourself short on being qualified for almost any position. that you seek. You are better qualified that most applicants in the civilian market. Remember you can't fail if you don't try. My g-mother used to tell me that "nothing beats a failure but a trial". Think about it.
TRY ANYTHING!

Response by PO3 Rita Buchanan made Feb 25 at 2022 10:51 AM

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Make sure you’ve got your own copies of your complete Service & Medical records!
If you have any ongoing medical ailments treated or caused by your time in service then submit your medical file to the VA as soon as possible.
Register your DD-214, by filing it with your local court house and your local VA office so you’ll always have access to it, if needed.

Response by Cpl Miguel Lopez made Feb 25 at 2022 11:18 AM

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Don't yell at your children like they are a service member that needs to be reprimanded! Don't assume that your wife has it all together, and don't yell at your wife like she is a service member that needs to be reprimanded! learn how to handle conflict resolution without yelling and or getting angry about it! learn how to receive and process constructive criticism. know that not everyone you talk to is going to have their words work correctly, for them. And finally Don't be an asshole!

Response by SFC Charles Ellis made Feb 25 at 2022 11:29 AM

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Don't turn to recreational drugs to cope with flashbacks, tramas, ptsd, or pain. Talk to someone like a friend or get counseling. It is much harder to climb up out of the hole you dug for yourself by using drugs. Never miss an opportunity to miss an opportunity.

Response by Sgt Charles Phaneuf made Feb 25 at 2022 1:10 PM

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Use your military experience to start a new career with in a field that you learned in the service, if so you will enjoy going to work. I ended up with the local Telephone company and after about 34 years was offered early retirement with many needed benefits and lifetime monthly pension.

Response by SSgt Megan Shelby made Feb 25 at 2022 1:24 PM

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Get into some counseling so that you can best transition from being on high alert all the time to being able to calmly live your life again, like a civilian. It can take up to a year for any new change you observe in your life to take effect. Be good to yourself and don't take too many challenges on right at first. Give yourself time to adjust. :)

Response by PO1 Melissa Chamberlain made Feb 25 at 2022 3:04 PM

2022-02-25T15:04:13-05:00

Believe in yourself! You are a warrior and have trained for all battles! It’s okay to fail and not have everything/anything go according to plan! Find a hobbie, stay active and rest when needed. Self care is key to survival. Do not forget to take care of yourself mentally, physically, and emotionally. Others depend on you, even if they are not in your life currently. Civilian life can seem scarier than the military. Work on changing your outlook. Focus on the situation and rename the transition. It doesn’t matter what the word TRANSITION is defined as to others; What do you want it to mean to you? It will be ok. I speak from experience.

Response by CPL Charles HeiligI II made Feb 25 at 2022 9:10 PM

2022-02-25T21:10:27-05:00

Best advice: 2 months terminal leave or 1 month and a month of full pay w/6os of job/educational searching w/ interviews preset and a home served upon...and contact your local VA service car w city of all military/medical records!!!

Response by PVT Todd Edwards made Feb 26 at 2022 4:03 AM

2022-02-26T04:03:40-05:00

Contact your local VA. They are a great source of information on opportunities from on education, job leads, military skill to civilian skill translation, job fairs, starting a business help, support groups and much more. They are a valuable resource that I have found many veterans do not use.
Once in a job understand that civilian leadership is different than military leadership. In the civilian world the politics are different. Take time to understand how the game is played. As former military our ability to adapt, adjust and overcome adversity quickly gives us an advantage.

Response by SSgt Charles Reiss made Feb 26 at 2022 8:06 AM

2022-02-26T08:06:35-05:00

The best advice I have is to be open minded, build your network and remember that you are not in the military any more. Be humble. Take a step back and observe things before you say or do something. Don't be in a hurry. You will be an asset in the civilian community without even trying, because the way you carry yourself will be noticed.

Response by CMSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 26 at 2022 9:08 AM

2022-02-26T09:08:37-05:00

Learn how to translate what you did in the military into civilian terms. Keep the discipline and work ethic you learned from the military, but don’t expect or try to force your civilian co-workers to be like you.

Response by Maj Gloria Downey made Feb 26 at 2022 9:39 AM

2022-02-26T09:39:21-05:00

Acceptance of what is different about you is the key to moving into the new you.

Response by LT Al Laicer made Feb 28 at 2022 9:31 AM

2022-02-28T09:31:49-05:00

Wait for the "right" opportunity--don't accept an offer that doesn't fully utilize your talents and experience. If you do, it may take you a long time to get to the position you deserve. Headhunters and recruiters focus on the last position you held and, in many cases, don't take the time to look at you holistically. Learn what different job titles mean (manager vs. supervisor) and where they fit in an organization. Get a mentor who has been down this path and can provide you guidance--you are not alone.

Response by Maj Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 28 at 2022 4:33 PM

2022-02-28T16:33:33-05:00

Just do it! So many people are hesitant to make the leap. But be mindful of what you need to do for the transition and start preparing early. Get helpful hints on resumes (TAP class is great, but talk to people in the specific field you want to transition to as well). Scrub all your social media to include LinkediN. Future employers don't want to see how many beers you drank at the last 4th of July get together and don't give them any reason to judge your views on politics/culture/favorite color. There are tons of good reasons to hire you, don't give them one to not!

Response by CPL Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 28 at 2022 5:31 PM

2022-02-28T17:31:41-05:00

The best advice would be to know that there are resources out there for you! There are programs for almost every career and there are many veterans that will be willing to help you and share their knowledge.
As an active member of the veteran community at Texas State University, I learned that not many veterans utilize their resources and it's mostly because they didn't know about them.
Do your research and see what you can get involved in. There are also many small veteran-owned businesses that could use some help or that will help you find a good first job. Rember that as a veteran you are part of a big network and that will open many doors.

As a college student now I can say that the transition wasn't easy and that the age gap does make you stand out a bit but what changed was the way I approached it. I started focusing on myself a lot more to be a leader and being around these young adults has given me a different experience than that of the military.

Even if you decide to work a 9-5, there are opportunities to grow, socialize, and network with other veterans anywhere you go. Simply apply yourself and keep your head up.

Response by SGT William O'Guynn made Mar 2 at 2022 9:29 PM

2022-03-02T21:29:26-05:00

Before you leave service, prepare for being a transition. Have a plan; decide what you want to do, where you want to live, how you to achieve your goals. Attend all seminars and conferences the military offers transitioning service members. By the time your last day arrives, be ready!

Response by SPC Victoria Coe made Mar 3 at 2022 10:14 AM

2022-03-03T10:14:24-05:00

Ask for help, which can be done through finding veteran services around you. Contacting a Social Woker at the VA can begin to help with the transition.

It is critical to find a support network that supports you. I had people around me tell me I was fine and pushed me to get a job, when in reality, I was not fine. Those people spent so much time comparing themselves to me when they have no basis to. Find other veterans to talk to. The Vet Center has much to provide and proved immensely helpful.

Response by SMSgt Gloria O made Mar 4 at 2022 1:52 AM

2022-03-04T01:52:56-05:00

Start planning your civilian transition BEFORE your military retirement. I started filling college applications about 7 months out, and was accepted right before I retired. A week later, I am sitting in a class room finally being able to go to school full time. Now I have a dream job in my chosen field. I would recommend others start exploring what they'd like to do even earlier, and start taking the baby steps to get there, and do not feel afraid to reach out to people already there.

Response by PFC Donna Chaney made Mar 5 at 2022 8:06 AM

2022-03-05T08:06:59-05:00

Take the civil service test! You will be placed on a list for the best jobs in the U.S. You are placed according to how well you do on the test. I was hired as a fulltime rural mail carrier from the list while people working for the post office as subs were competing for the job. Your veteran's status gives you an added advantage.

Response by SMSgt John Hurley made Mar 5 at 2022 6:54 PM

2022-03-05T18:54:14-05:00

Be prepared to be stereotyped when doing civilian job interviews. They will assume you are a TI/DI from basic training, who handles discipline by yelling and spitting two inches from your subordinates face. Also that your only financial management experience is from a nonprofit perspective, which is true but extra effort will be required to convince them you can easily make the for profit transition.

Response by PO2 Jonathan Moen made Mar 6 at 2022 5:12 PM

2022-03-06T17:12:28-05:00

Keep in mind that if you decide you were happier in the military, work as hard and as honestly as you can with the civilian shock and know, that as long as you don't wait too long you can always go back in.

Response by Capt Helen Kershaw made Mar 7 at 2022 1:31 AM

2022-03-07T01:31:12-05:00

Decide where you want to live based on your best opportunity for employment and then plan ahead investigating housing availability, cost of living and how near you want to be to your family and /or to the town you grew up in. If you're married with children consider their input and needs. Follow God's plan for your transition.

Response by SGM Ruben Sanchez Burgos made Mar 7 at 2022 5:13 AM

2022-03-07T05:13:11-05:00

Be honest with yourself, accept the transition, not fight with it. Integrate your military knowledge into your new job and be a mentor for your co-workers.

Response by 1SG James Kelly made Mar 26 at 2022 5:11 PM

2022-03-26T17:11:26-04:00

Do not expect anything; you will not be disappointed.

Response by MAJ Karen Wall made Mar 28 at 2022 11:42 AM

2022-03-28T11:42:55-04:00

Something I had to work on, and still work on, is remembering that I am not a Major in the Army anymore, and the people who work with me are not in the military under my command. Go to your new job knowing that you have the training and experience of leadership, organization, BE-KNOW-DO, work ethic, and other attributes that are sought out by employers. Continue to use those skills to succeed, only remember (with fondness, of course) the people and places are different and in many cases not familiar with how "we do things".

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2022-04-04T10:54:08-04:00

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