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Response by Lt Col Charlie Brown made Aug 31 at 2021 1:24 PM

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Taking responsibility for your actions, decisions and choices.

Response by SGT David A. 'Cowboy' Groth made Aug 31 at 2021 1:45 PM

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Honor, respect for the flag and military personnel RallyPoint News

Response by Cpl Vic Burk made Aug 31 at 2021 2:29 PM

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Respect our country, flag, military and your freedom. It came with a very high price tag that is not measurable in dollars.

Response by CPL Ryan Thibault made Aug 31 at 2021 3:21 PM

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Being at the right place at the right time and the power of ones own actions. Teaching he/she/them

Response by A1C Michelle Pagan made Aug 31 at 2021 4:16 PM

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Keeping fit! Stand up straight and tall. Be a straight shooter. Have respect for yourself and others. Always maintain your integrity, dignity and honor. It's okay to be the smartest one in the room, but don't look down on others -- stay humble. Smile and be happy!

Response by SPC Nancy Greene made Aug 31 at 2021 5:38 PM

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Honor, Courage, Commitment
Integrity and determination
Adapt & Overcome
Respect
Stand for the Flag & kneel before God

Response by TSgt George Rodriguez made Aug 31 at 2021 6:58 PM

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Pride in yourselves and accomplishments.

Response by Sgt Earl Neconie made Aug 31 at 2021 9:11 PM

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Integrity, Pride, Taking Care of ALL those Under My Command and under my ROOF, an eye single to God, Always PRAY…Complete the mission and all tasks 24/7…Remember who you are and what you’ve done to get you where you are today…

Response by SSG Carlos Madden made Sep 1 at 2021 11:16 AM

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Being "squared away." Not looking like an unkept mess. Being on time and if not, responsible enough to let people know you will be late as soon as possible. Having the right things ready for the situation. First impressions go a long way and these little things have helped me the most along the way.
In terms of personal traits: personal responsibility, integrity and the ability to listen if they're unable to lead.

Response by PO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 1 at 2021 4:45 PM

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Accountability and attention to detail.

Response by SSG Bill McCoy made Sep 1 at 2021 4:47 PM

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1. God, country, family.
2. NEVER give up.
3. A tough time today, makes you stronger for the next challenge.
4. YOUR actions determine YOUR future.

Response by LCDR Diane Neff made Sep 1 at 2021 4:50 PM

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Respect for self and others; taking responsibility seriously even if others seem to be lacking in this; keeping true to your moral compass; striving to think the best of others when they make mistakes (until they prove that they are harming others deliberately).

Response by PVT Michele Bowman made Sep 1 at 2021 4:54 PM

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Obedience is better than sacrifice. Respect everyone no matter creed, race, color or indifference. Love all people exactly how God loves us!

Response by PO2 Russell "Russ" Lincoln made Sep 1 at 2021 4:56 PM

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Respect, duty and honor.

Response by PFC Steven Kleiner made Sep 1 at 2021 4:57 PM

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Honor & respect for the flag, for service members, and situational awareness. I have been blessed to be able to teach all of these and both my boys still hold fast to these today & even teach others.

Response by SPC Justine Blankenbeckler made Sep 1 at 2021 4:57 PM

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Always have Respect, whether for Someome Speaking, the Flag, and your Peers. Take Responsibility if you do something wrong. We all make mistakes, I did. Be Kind.

Response by SSgt Robert Jorgensen made Sep 1 at 2021 4:57 PM

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Duty, Honor, Respect and Integrity

Response by SGT Al Dec made Sep 1 at 2021 4:57 PM

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Focus & Situational Awareness.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 1 at 2021 4:58 PM

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Respect, humility and humbleness

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 1 at 2021 4:58 PM

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Integrity--doing the right thing even when no one is watching and selfless service. Not that my service was completely selfless--I got paid, promoted, awards, GI Bill etc., but I had a mentor who came very close, and he is the person I have tried to follow.

Response by Jim Warren made Sep 1 at 2021 4:58 PM

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Personal responsibility, self discipline, self confidence.

Response by AA Karen Dietrich made Sep 1 at 2021 4:58 PM

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Look out for the little guy. You don’t know what their home life was like.

Response by Jim Warren made Sep 1 at 2021 4:59 PM

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Personal responsibility, self discipline, self confidence.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 1 at 2021 5:00 PM

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Take responsibility for your actions. If you are a leader take responsibility for your team's actions. Praise in public. Reprimand in private. Learn something from everyone you encounter, even if all you learn is what/who you don't want to be.

Response by TSgt George Austin made Sep 1 at 2021 5:02 PM

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Always tell the truth. Most people lie and if you are honest most people do not know how to respond.

Response by SPC Robert Birk made Sep 1 at 2021 5:03 PM

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I have always told my children & grand children to always try to do the very best they can & respect others. I explained to them about the teamwork & discipline taught by the military which will be very important during their lives, as well as honoring our country, it's laws and our flag.

Response by SFC Stephen King made Sep 1 at 2021 5:03 PM

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It is ok to fail as long as you don't quit.

Response by PO2 Jimmie Shelnutt made Sep 1 at 2021 5:04 PM

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Your word, to a comrade in arms, or any other is your bond. Every promise is no less than an mortal oath. Without that moral mandate our actions are are but puffs of smoke on a windy day.

Response by SPC Allen Werth made Sep 1 at 2021 5:04 PM

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Plan ahead of time. If you need to do something or to go somewhere next week, Plan how you are going to do it today. Don't just expect that someone will come to your rescue on the day that you need something. If you hangout with losers you can expect to be a loser too. Buy the worst house in the best neighborhood you can, and not the other way around. Finally if you fail to plan then you plan to fail.

Response by SSG Leo Mcardle made Sep 1 at 2021 5:05 PM

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Respect for our flag and military. Support the constitution of the United States.

Response by CPT Jay Bank made Sep 1 at 2021 5:07 PM

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Teamwork can get you through anything. As part of a team, regardless of the size (team, squad, platoon, etc), if you work together you can accomplish the goal, task, or objective. Each individual has their own task and/or skills, but together what seems impossible is achievable.

Response by PO3 Kenn Andrus made Sep 1 at 2021 5:07 PM

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Respect for the flag and for others. This trait is sadly lacking in today's society with the attitude of what's in it for me instead of what can I do for others.

Response by SPC Mark Maestas made Sep 1 at 2021 5:08 PM

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Reliability, honor and a sense of self confidence

Response by CPO Eugene Gillam made Sep 1 at 2021 5:09 PM

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While the military teaches cohesiveness and teamwork, both good qualities, I also want them to learn take responsibility for their own actions/life decisions.

Response by CPT Greg Alford, PhD made Sep 1 at 2021 5:10 PM

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“I can’t” is not in our answer set and never leave a man, comrade, friend,… behind!

Response by PFC Andrew "Tommy" M. made Sep 1 at 2021 5:10 PM

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Being on time is late

Response by CPT David Gowel made Sep 1 at 2021 5:11 PM

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I'd say integrity and having an eagerness to shoulder more than my share of the load would be two of the most important traits in my book.

Response by SSG Ronald Wallenberg made Sep 1 at 2021 5:11 PM

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Honor, Ethics, what freedom means and the high cost to achieve. Determination, health- still a six pack at 67. Failure as a father, a spouse, an employee, a citizen, and especially as an 1st Infantry vet, is never a fucking option. Do it die my brothers and sisters. Lastly, mind over body always worked for me!

Response by PV2 Keith Young made Sep 1 at 2021 5:13 PM

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Discipline, honor, honesty and respect.

Response by 1SG Steven Borts made Sep 1 at 2021 5:14 PM

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Timeliness, respect - both self-respect and respect for others, work ethic, work before play, a sense of history, that one person can make a difference, never quit, give it your all - whatever you are doing, compassion, teamwork, honor.

Response by PO3 Delbert Harris made Sep 1 at 2021 5:15 PM

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Be on time. Have a plan be honest

Response by CWO5 Stan Price made Sep 1 at 2021 5:15 PM

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Be on time, "git-er-done", love your country, it's the best in the world....we're spoiled.

Response by PO3 Rick Lewis made Sep 1 at 2021 5:17 PM

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The traits I've tried to instill in my two sons and quite successfully I think are: Honor, Duty, and Country. They both served honorably and proudly exhibited these traits.

Response by SGT Jodi WittBailey made Sep 1 at 2021 5:19 PM

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A couple of traits I would love for my children to learn are teamwork and embrace the suck.

Response by SSG Cheryl Maxwell made Sep 1 at 2021 5:20 PM

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Honor, responsibility, dependability, and hard work!

Response by CPL Raul Perez Jr made Sep 1 at 2021 5:21 PM

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I have already, my son is a West Point Cadet. Duty Honor Country. Go Army!

Response by SP5 Walter Mearkle made Sep 1 at 2021 5:21 PM

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Be a team player and listen to the leader of the team. Be considerate of others that are in the same situation as you are.

Response by Cpl George Matousek made Sep 1 at 2021 5:22 PM

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Work hard and don't give on whatever you attempting.

Response by Maj Dale Smith made Sep 1 at 2021 5:23 PM

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Arriving no less than 5 minutes before you have to be someplace. It gives a whole lot of meaning to "Hurry up and wait", but you will always be on time for meetings and airplanes.

Response by SSgt Jim Gilmore made Sep 1 at 2021 5:24 PM

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Work ethics, if you don't work you don't eat.
Punctuality, if I'm not 15 minutes early, I'm late.
Stand up for what you believe in. It's better to die standing for what you believe than on your knees as a slave.

Response by SP5 Walter Mearkle made Sep 1 at 2021 5:24 PM

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Be aware of the organization you are in and be aware of your place in that organization. Help others that may be struggleing.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 1 at 2021 5:25 PM

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Discipline, confidence, punctuality and respect.

Response by CA Audrey Aguilera made Sep 1 at 2021 5:26 PM

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Discipline is so important. Without it, we are so lost.

Response by TSgt Wehart Hosea made Sep 1 at 2021 5:27 PM

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Being organized and orderly with everything you do. Paying attention to detail when accomplishing your work and think safety when around all machinery,

Response by SPC Robert Hendrickson made Sep 1 at 2021 5:31 PM

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Discipline, responsibilities, loyalty, faith, challenge self, morale-camaraderie, encouragement, sacrifice, be coachable/be teachable, train hard/train fast, look, listen, learn, be the best you can be

Response by SPC Robert Bobo made Sep 1 at 2021 5:33 PM

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1. Discipline
2. Commitment
3. Work Ethic
4. Can do Attitude
5. Team work and core elements of leadership

Response by SN Katheryn Bermann made Sep 1 at 2021 5:33 PM

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Lots of times things in life (orders, why people act the way they do) isn’t going to make sense, and if you wait for an explanation before taking action you’ll be left behind. Just nod and go with it.

Response by CPL Terry Perry made Sep 1 at 2021 5:35 PM

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Respect for others

Response by PFC Jack Evans made Sep 1 at 2021 5:38 PM

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Important Traits I learned from my military experience for Living a full, productive Life:
1. Honor Your word and your actions show who you really are.
2. Loyalty Your Family, Friends, Employers, and Country can count on you.
3. Duty Get your Job done, whatever it may be.
4. Organization Any task, from personal grooming, housekeeping, project, job, or relationship goes
much more smoothly if you get everything thought out and organized before you
start.
5. Learn about the people around you. Especially learn who you can really count on when the chips
are down
And always remember that Success is getting what you want, BUT Happiness is wanting what you get.

Response by SFC Kevin Strakal made Sep 1 at 2021 5:38 PM

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Discipline, Loyalty, Selfless Service and Initiative. These are all qualities I learned in the Army and I would love to instill them into my children. There are other qualities, but these are on my list.

Response by Sgt Ivan Boatwright made Sep 1 at 2021 5:40 PM

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How to survive, how to face fear, how to stand by your friends.

Response by MSgt Neal Schultz made Sep 1 at 2021 5:42 PM

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Do not be late to appointment s. Be there BEFORE your appointment time.

Response by SMSgt Jeff Kyle made Sep 1 at 2021 5:43 PM

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Attention to detail. Adapt, improvise, overcome. Lead, follow or get out of the way. And last, but not least, if they got you surrounded, don’t give up, attack!

Response by SSG Harry Herres made Sep 1 at 2021 5:44 PM

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Truth, honor, and be your own person

Response by CAPT Frank Nice made Sep 1 at 2021 5:44 PM

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Perseverance, perseverance, perseverance!!!

Response by CAPT Frank Nice made Sep 1 at 2021 5:45 PM

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Perseverance, perseverance, perseverance!!!

Response by MAJ Matthew Thomas made Sep 1 at 2021 5:45 PM

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Discipline! This is one of the biggest that I passed on to my children. I also tried to teach them organization.

Response by SGT Andrew Anderson made Sep 1 at 2021 5:49 PM

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Learning to treat people equally regardless where they’re from or look like. Learning how to overcome difficulties and obstacles. Appreciation for what you have and service to your country.

Response by SSG Ted Seal made Sep 1 at 2021 5:51 PM

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I was extremely blessed with outstanding training, and leadership, at the unit, as well as the command level. Due to our mission assignments, we were trained to be a cohesive team, one protecting everyone, as in a family with only the successful completion of the objectives being at the forefront of our concerns. So I've tried to instill a devotion to each other, dead set honesty, integrity, a clear and delineated focus on the task at hand, and completion of the objective with each one responsible to each other, and acknowledgment that it was a shared accomplishment.

Response by SPC Daniel Kennedy made Sep 1 at 2021 5:54 PM

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Discipline,Loyalty,responsibility,and as an older nco said to me when i first went in,nobody owes you anything,but that you should feel it a duty to give back to this country,nuff said.

Response by PO3 Edward Riddle made Sep 1 at 2021 5:56 PM

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Be aware of the people around you and your surroundings.

Response by SFC Carlos Cruz made Sep 1 at 2021 5:57 PM

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Respect, integrity, loyalty, courage, purpose, direction and motivation.

Response by SGT Lance LeBerte made Sep 1 at 2021 5:58 PM

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dedication to duty, and a firm sense of right and wrong

Response by SPC Russell Ghaner made Sep 1 at 2021 5:58 PM

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Loyalty

Response by SPC Roger Opfer made Sep 1 at 2021 6:01 PM

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Stand & Respect The American Flag. Honor those that fought for it. Do your very best at whatever you choose in life. We are only here for a short time.

Response by COL David Turk made Sep 1 at 2021 6:05 PM

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Accountability, being on time, excuses have limited range

Response by MSG John S. Canning made Sep 1 at 2021 6:05 PM

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Leadership, strong attitude, take care

Response by SSG James Knopp made Sep 1 at 2021 6:05 PM

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The main traits I learned from serving my country were honesty and integrity. Be someone people will look up to and if you tell someone you will do something don’t give them som BS reason why you can’t when the time comes.
Also, family matters. They are your rock when times get tough. Don’t forget they have sacrificed during your time served. Duty, serve with pride and dignity. Honor your country and its Constitution and what it stands for.
When my family asks me how something is done, I jokingly say there’s a right way, my way, and the Army way!

Response by MAJ Hugh Blanchard made Sep 1 at 2021 6:07 PM

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Hard work, personal responsibility and not taking government hand-out's.

Response by SPC Wildon Mitter, D Coun made Sep 1 at 2021 6:08 PM

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Never look down on anybody because of his perceived status.

Response by Cpl Tyler Therrien made Sep 1 at 2021 6:13 PM

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I didn't learn from time as a Marine (from my dad) to always be punctual) but I did learn far greater attention to detail and that helped me a great deal as a tile, Marble and remodeling contractor. NEVER GIVE UP! Considering my health issues of the past 2 decades many would simply curl up in a ball and quit. I WON'T QUIT

Response by Maj Marty Hogan made Sep 1 at 2021 6:19 PM

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Organizational skills. Timeliness. Discipline. Respect for my country and dedication to the flag and what it stands for.

Response by Cpl Craig Howard made Sep 1 at 2021 6:20 PM

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Honor and punctuality. It is disrespectful to not be on time.

Response by SFC Lance Wilson made Sep 1 at 2021 6:21 PM

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Always be on time! Its better to be an Hour early, than 5 minutes Late.

Response by Bob Goodworth made Sep 1 at 2021 6:25 PM

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Discipline, integrity , honour, mateship, lasting friendships

Response by PO2 Robert Miller made Sep 1 at 2021 6:26 PM

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The primary traits are attention to detail and a higher sense of awareness in my surroundings. What I try to pass to my children is pride and sense of importance in their ideas and work, as well as helping whomever you are joined with in completing a task or objective, ie teamwork.

Response by CDR William Kempner made Sep 1 at 2021 6:28 PM

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Respect the flag. Show respect to all-above and below. Try to keep your word. (sometimes you won't be able to, but at least they'll know you tried). Do the best you can with what you have.

Response by SPC David Wyckoff made Sep 1 at 2021 6:30 PM

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My Dad said there were three rules to being a good man.
1. Never lie. Your word is your bond.
2. Always take responsibility for your words and actions. Dont point fingers at someone else.
3 Always protect those that cant protect themselves.
He said everything I would encounter in life would fall in there somewhere.
Since our family is a generational military family I'm sure that those were distilled out of several generations of military service.

I have endeavored to pass that on to my kids and grandkids.

Response by Sgt Brian Onley made Sep 1 at 2021 6:33 PM

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After having spent my first 28 years in the service (raised in it, and got it on me), the most important thing I can say to anyone and everyone - love and respect your brothers and sisters, your fathers and mothers, and even your friends - regardless of their ethnic background, regardless of their regional dialect, regardless of what alleged country they came/come from. Because at the end of the day every person in your life is now your responsibility. And only together can we reshape the species. Just saying. :)

Response by Sgt Michael Creason made Sep 1 at 2021 6:33 PM

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Going in the military when I was still 17 years old, I can honestly say I finished growing up in the Air Force. From that, I learned responsibility, because someone was counting on me to do my job, so they could do theirs. I have never lost sight of that and try to instill that thought process, in all my employees. It's tougher these days, to get a listen, but it's still a good lesson and was without a doubt my main takeaway from active duty.

Response by PO1 Howard Barnes made Sep 1 at 2021 6:33 PM

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Respect Authority, Don't Quit, Make the best of your situation. Aspire for greater things because things usually don't get handed to you, you have to go get them.

Response by PO2 Gary Riedl made Sep 1 at 2021 6:33 PM

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Discipline and respect for authority - whether I like the authority or not.

Response by SSG Dale London made Sep 1 at 2021 6:38 PM

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Patriotism, selfless service, personal responsibility and self-reliance.

Response by PO3 Mark Sartor made Sep 1 at 2021 6:48 PM

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The discipline to properly care for myself, including bathing, regular clothes washing, dental health, physical health, eating right, exercise and getting the correct amount of sleep (although that wasn't possible in the military sometimes)

Response by Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen made Sep 1 at 2021 6:50 PM

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I would have to say perseverance. From day one at boot camp, or whatever source you came into the military from, you learn to never give up on anything be that a challenge, people, or task. I graphically saw that the concept that you can do anything if you stick with it doesn't really exist in the civilian workforce/world but is essentially the culture of the military .

Response by Lt Col Warren Domke made Sep 1 at 2021 6:57 PM

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I would say the most important of the several traits military service instilled in me was self-discipline. I didn't always practice it as well as I should have, but I got better over the years. The sense of mission was another important trait, one that goes hand-in-hand with self-discipline. These lead to setting and attaining goals. I am now years retired, but those traits still are a great benefit to me. There are many other traits that matter but these stand out to me. I hope they are influential in the lives of my sons and grandchildren.

Response by SPC Louis Abramowitz made Sep 1 at 2021 6:58 PM

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Respect, Responsibility, Team Player, Commitment and a Sworn Allegiance to our Constitution!

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 1 at 2021 7:02 PM

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Personal discipline and accountability. Since I got out of the Army, I have realized just how rampant the lack of both is, in the civilian world. So I've made it my personal mission to instill them both in my children and my loved ones. I don't want to see them out there making fools of themselves or being seen as unreliable.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 1 at 2021 7:03 PM

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The trait i would pass on is the Warrior Ethos. If they decide not to enlist/commission I am attempting to instill in them to achieve their goals first. I would consider that their mission. I am reminding them that the road will be tough, but that they should never quit on that dream, goal or vision for what they want to become or the career they choose by never quitting. Lastly, I'm encouraging them to never leave a fallen comrade or cast the ones they love to side for pseudo friendships or relationships and to never forget those that supported you in achieving your goals! That's my two cents.

Response by SPC Mary Vaughan made Sep 1 at 2021 7:06 PM

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The military taught me to be neat, clean, orderly. Above all, the military taught me responsibility.

Response by Capt Sylvia DeBorger made Sep 1 at 2021 7:06 PM

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Promptness. Doing your best. Obedience. Importance of education.

Response by SPC Luther Leary made Sep 1 at 2021 7:20 PM

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First and foremost, I would stress that discipline and hard work are essential to achieving success in life. Additionally, do not make judgements against anyone until you walked in his or her shoes.

Response by PO3 Kathy Getchey made Sep 1 at 2021 7:26 PM

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No excuses, live with your choices, be accountable.

Response by SSgt Thomas Korenek made Sep 1 at 2021 7:36 PM

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Be ethical and perform all duties / responsibilities to the best of your ability. Demonstrate respect for "all" military personnel. Be proud of your country and the American Flag. Even though all of my children are over 50 years of age, they often thank me for my efforts to instill positive attributes.

Response by PO3 James Heine made Sep 1 at 2021 7:57 PM

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Be open to other people's ideas and heritage. The Armed Forces are American military forces but it has people from various backgrounds, regions, religions, and of course other races, colors, ethnicities. I knew and was roomed up with people from many racial and ethnic heritages. You may have some presumptions from your upbringing and school years that cloud your perseptions. Don't judge, presume and certainly don't make fun of any category of people. If you're curious about something, ASK POLITELY. Don't be a churlish boor.

For instance I stupidly, carelessly and ignorantly asked an Taiwanese roommate about the complexities of the 'Chinese alphabet'. I learned quickly by my ignorance just how complicated the Chinese language truly is (written and otherwise). I didn't mean to be offensive BUT I DIDN'T KNOW. In our schools when it came to cultural and history classes, it was just names and dates (hardly much else), one of those teachers was a loudmouth lippy shrew in the first place and our books were full of Special High Intensity Training (what is the abbr. for that?). Inquire, learn but don't be dumb.

And the same goes for whatever entity the US may be going to war with. Hate the enemy government, NOT the people or their ethnicity or race. That's stupid. When I was in the Navy, the US went to war with Libya and the next year got involved in the Iraq-Iran war escorting reflagged vessels in the Persian Gulf against Iranian attacks and sea minings. I don't hate Libyans, I don't hate Iranians (Persians or Farsis), I don't hate Arabs or Middle Eastern people, but the Ayatollah regime of Iran is a bunch of fanatical scumbags (I don't hate Islam either, it's a good religion) and Moammar Qaddafy was a childish brat and nobody's friend - he thought by committing 'prankish' terrorist acts thruout his zone of influence that he was being 'cute' and 'funny'. Well 10 years ago that rotten bastard got overthrown and done in by his own Libyan Arabic people (with air and sea support from NATO), didn't he? Not everybody 'from there' is a jerk. There or anywhere. Hate the enemy government, NEVER the people or their ethnicity or race
And it's the same today with Afghans, Iraqis, Syrians, Somalis and others. The Taliban, ISIS, warlords, militias, etc.are all crap, they are SCUM. But there a lot of decent people in those regions and from those places.

Also when I served, there were quite a number of Filipinos in the Navy, at most of my commands. Their dirtbag dictator Ferdinand Marcos was a totally rancid douchebag and they overthrew him in early 1986. Most Filipino people I met and knew were very pleasant, some of the nicest I've ever known.

Whenever you're in a 'strange' place, learn about the people there. Check out some history and culture. You can learn a tremendous lot that way. Experience and witness. These are the things you can LEARN a lot that mere textbooks cannot tell you.

Most of all, be open. Throw whatever presumptions and prejudges you've been told before. It's detrimental to military order and you might even make some good friends with some of these folks. ASK, INQUIRE, LISTEN, LEARN. It's good for you.

Response by Capt Bruce Bitterman made Sep 1 at 2021 7:58 PM

2021-09-01T19:58:36-04:00

Discipline, Patriotism, Teamwork, Can-do Attitude.

Response by PFC Pamala (Hall) Foster made Sep 1 at 2021 8:07 PM

2021-09-01T20:07:21-04:00

Determination, never giving up and respect for all

Response by SGT Michael Padilla made Sep 1 at 2021 8:21 PM

2021-09-01T20:21:48-04:00

Do the job right the first time, and do the job so you would be proud to put your name on it..

Response by SP5 Dale Lanning made Sep 1 at 2021 8:25 PM

2021-09-01T20:25:47-04:00

i think responsability, dedication to complete assigned task , pride ,and mainly grow up to do the best your able to do. How to give and receive orders, and follow up

Response by PO2 Roger Diez made Sep 1 at 2021 8:27 PM

2021-09-01T20:27:41-04:00

A sense of duty to your country.

Response by MSG Charles Kaiser made Sep 1 at 2021 8:38 PM

2021-09-01T20:38:08-04:00

Honesty is always the best policy there are only two kinds of people there’s givers and there’s takers always trustYour gut feeling 90% of the time is right

Response by SPC Robin Price-Dirks made Sep 1 at 2021 8:40 PM

2021-09-01T20:40:36-04:00

Loyalty, love, honor, taking responsibility for your own actions and love of country

Response by SGT Anna Tyler made Sep 1 at 2021 8:41 PM

2021-09-01T20:41:07-04:00

Never let em’ see you sweat!

Response by CPL Joshua Adkins made Sep 1 at 2021 9:00 PM

2021-09-01T21:00:07-04:00

The Army Values, even if the world at large doesn't have them. My children will understand their value

Response by SFC Jeff Orlowski made Sep 1 at 2021 9:04 PM

2021-09-01T21:04:06-04:00

Loyalty and discipline

Response by PO2 Marco Monsalve made Sep 1 at 2021 9:07 PM

2021-09-01T21:07:05-04:00

Teamwork, confidence and respect. No matter where they came from or what they look like the ones next to you are the ones you are fighting with and for.

Response by 1SG Michael Farrell made Sep 1 at 2021 9:15 PM

2021-09-01T21:15:29-04:00

The outgoing Brigade Commander introduced me to his Turtle, telling the FNG that "This is your HHC First Sergeant, trust him with anything, he is the toughest man in the Brigade." I had no idea what the old man was talking about. I think I figured it out: after always being oriented to quit things that did not come easy as a kid, the ARMY didn't care about not letting quit, and the alternative was always worse than the task anyway. So, I wouldn't quit...and I succeeded in hard jobs with tough requirements and exacting bosses. I may not have been the best at things, but I did what needed to be done and got my soldiers ready for whatever happened...because I knew it probably going to happen. Take a deep breath, curse softly under you breath, get up and do again. With, if possible, a smile and a joke.

Response by SPC George Edwards made Sep 1 at 2021 9:21 PM

2021-09-01T21:21:56-04:00

Love of country, honesty, loyalty to friends and doing a good job.

Response by CPT Endre Barath made Sep 1 at 2021 9:24 PM

2021-09-01T21:24:25-04:00

Getting out of my comfort zone and discovering that when I thought I could not do more I learned that I was able to do a great deal more, thanks to Ranger School and Airborne School.

Response by Sgt Paula Bright made Sep 1 at 2021 9:25 PM

2021-09-01T21:25:33-04:00

Two phrases
“If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing your best all the time.”
“If you’re early, you’re on time; if you’re on time, you’re late”

Response by Sgt Paula Bright made Sep 1 at 2021 9:25 PM

2021-09-01T21:25:53-04:00

Two phrases
“If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing your best all the time.”
“If you’re early, you’re on time; if you’re on time, you’re late”

Response by SGT Forrest Stewart made Sep 1 at 2021 9:31 PM

2021-09-01T21:31:42-04:00

Honesty, integrity, and most of all, faith in my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, the Son of Almighty God.

Response by PO3 Lisa Overton made Sep 1 at 2021 9:33 PM

2021-09-01T21:33:05-04:00

The importance of safety. We love to do projects, and even while doing chores, we pay attention to safety. We wear shoes when using the lawn mower. We wear safety goggles when sawing wood. We wear long pants when weed-whacking. Don't climb a ladder in shower shoes, and make sure you have a second person to hold the ladder. I could go on, but you get the idea. Before the Navy, I was careless. The Navy taught me that our lives depend on our attention to safety practices.

Response by SSG Lew Wilson made Sep 1 at 2021 9:53 PM

2021-09-01T21:53:19-04:00

1) take responsibility for your actions weather right or wrong
2) if your 15 minutes early then you are late
3) if not proficient at a task practice it until you are
4) if it is only 1/2 correct then it is totally wrong do it over and do it correctly
5) be motivated disciplined, don't be a slacker or a whiner

Response by MSgt David Guenther made Sep 1 at 2021 9:58 PM

2021-09-01T21:58:34-04:00

Accept responsibility for all that you do. Trust subordinates to do as you task them, when possible allow them to fail as a learning experience.

Response by CMSgt Caryn Chipman made Sep 1 at 2021 10:03 PM

2021-09-01T22:03:21-04:00

Integrity has to be #1. In addition, be aware of what’s going on around you (Keep your SA up!), respect the opinions of others (a “better mousetrap” is always out there), proactive is better than reactive (plan ahead), and flexibility/think on your feet (plans change, don’t let it stop you from mission/task accomplishment).

Response by SPC Michael Terrell made Sep 1 at 2021 10:08 PM

2021-09-01T22:08:05-04:00

Teamwork. Respect for those who deserve it. Taking pride in your work. Helping others.

Response by Sgt David Branham made Sep 1 at 2021 10:08 PM

2021-09-01T22:08:56-04:00

Self discipline and task focus

Response by COL Donald Mondragon made Sep 1 at 2021 10:10 PM

2021-09-01T22:10:27-04:00

The ability to work with and for so many different types of people. I've worked alongside and for some amazing individuals. I've also endured working with and for some individuals who were incompetent, lazy, and or self-centered. Thankfully, the latter were the exception. I want my children to be able to work with and for a variety of people.

Response by SGT Mary Sweezy made Sep 1 at 2021 10:11 PM

2021-09-01T22:11:24-04:00

Being on time, taking responsibility, and being respectful in tough situations.

Response by CDR Theresa Everest made Sep 1 at 2021 10:12 PM

2021-09-01T22:12:18-04:00

Respect for my sailors, responsibility for myself and my actions, courage, commitment to my people and my country.

Response by SPC Robert Caldwell made Sep 1 at 2021 10:20 PM

2021-09-01T22:20:31-04:00

To be a leader, always respect yourself, and never worry what other people say or think, but always show respect for other people and their beliefs.

Response by PFC Jennifer Hendricks made Sep 1 at 2021 10:22 PM

2021-09-01T22:22:27-04:00

Love of God and country! Also a new respect for our flag. It’s sad to see how many disrespect our flag today. Too bad everyone doesn’t have to serve.

Response by CPL James S. made Sep 1 at 2021 10:26 PM

2021-09-01T22:26:54-04:00

I started with LDRSHIP but I'm hoping that the values of Integrity, Personal courage and Honour stick because they are really the most important, IMHO. I also tried to teach them to be independent and understand the responsibilities to the Constitution as well as to the freedoms we enjoy.
Mostly I made sure they understood that you absolutely *can* laugh at anything, especially if it's traumatic because it helps one to process and deal with the stress and insanity around them.

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 1 at 2021 10:53 PM

2021-09-01T22:53:14-04:00

RESPECT for all mankind and patriotism for our country.

Response by CDR Bob Lange made Sep 1 at 2021 11:10 PM

2021-09-01T23:10:53-04:00

Always be flexible! Life is not a straight line.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 1 at 2021 11:13 PM

2021-09-01T23:13:41-04:00

You will learn how to adapt and cooperate with all kinds of people whether you like them or not.

Response by SFC Larry Jones made Sep 1 at 2021 11:16 PM

2021-09-01T23:16:48-04:00

Self reliance, independence, punctuality, orderliness

Response by 1LT Peter Duston made Sep 1 at 2021 11:19 PM

2021-09-01T23:19:47-04:00

Duty- Honor - Country

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 1 at 2021 11:20 PM

2021-09-01T23:20:42-04:00

You are responsible for your actions and consequences. Treat everyone with respect and as an equal.

Response by SSgt Soledad Gonzalezsevilla made Sep 1 at 2021 11:30 PM

2021-09-01T23:30:05-04:00

I have taught my children that every action and decision that is made has an impact (good or bad) in their lives and may possibly impact others. Self respect, self-determination and confidence are some of the traits that can help them grow up to be good and empathic people. The world is to beautiful to be wasting time on what other people think.
My kids are still small (twin girls 5 to and my son 7) but It is never to early to instill good moral values. <3

Response by SFC Linda Clipp made Sep 2 at 2021 12:07 AM

2021-09-02T00:07:14-04:00

It's not hard, and it's well worth the effort to stay fit...you will protect your body from injury, and be able to do things easily, even as you age.

Keep your home and your person tidy. These good habits carry over in your day-to-day life in subtle but beneficial ways.

Be ready, willing and able to lend a helping hand in small tasks and large. You never know who you'll meet, or whose life you might save.

Credit is your enemy. Use it sparingly or it will bury you and turn your life into a hell-hole.

You're an individual human-being on the planet. While you may be part of a team at work or at play, you are still all you. Strive to be an inspiration instead of a dirt-bag.

Stay clean in your mind and body, so you will be aware and ready for anything.

Response by SFC Byron Perry made Sep 2 at 2021 12:09 AM

2021-09-02T00:09:01-04:00

Respect for authority

Response by Sgt Jerry Genesio made Sep 2 at 2021 12:22 AM

2021-09-02T00:22:22-04:00

Self-discipline, self-respect, respect for seniors, pride, clarity and precision in instructions, personal responsibility for preserving and protecting the U.S. Constitution, and a duty to protect the innocent and vulnerable.

Response by Sgt Frank Hupp, DTM made Sep 2 at 2021 12:41 AM

2021-09-02T00:41:35-04:00

My military service taught me so many things. One of the first is to always be a person of my word. Always accept responisbility for my actions. Always give the other person the benefit of the doubt when at all possible. There is always the possibility of extenuating circumstances. Lastly, always believe that God has a plan and His plan is perfect. Sgt. Frank E. Hupp, USAF, Retired

Response by SPC Jim Shelton made Sep 2 at 2021 1:27 AM

2021-09-02T01:27:20-04:00

To be orderly and organized.

Response by SGT Michael Brand made Sep 2 at 2021 1:38 AM

2021-09-02T01:38:16-04:00

The 6 Ps: prior planning prevents piss-poor performance!

Response by SGT Erick Holmes made Sep 2 at 2021 2:12 AM

2021-09-02T02:12:40-04:00

Respect Respect Respect. Work hard!!!! Make the hard right instead of the easy left.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 2 at 2021 2:14 AM

2021-09-02T02:14:53-04:00

Honor, Respect for the flag, the understanding of what the Pledge of Allegiance actually means, taking ownership to the decisions that you make and good decision making Process

Response by SSgt Kathleen Fleitz made Sep 2 at 2021 3:12 AM

2021-09-02T03:12:26-04:00

working hard, learning all you can, love traveling

Response by LCDR Alfred Yudes made Sep 2 at 2021 4:31 AM

2021-09-02T04:31:22-04:00

Self-confidence through training and study.

Response by SFC Robert Falco made Sep 2 at 2021 6:17 AM

2021-09-02T06:17:34-04:00

Think before acting, be responsible for your actions, push through the hard stuff, relax

Response by PO3 Michael Chamness made Sep 2 at 2021 6:30 AM

2021-09-02T06:30:02-04:00

always remember that it is not all about you, look at the big picture, and then act appropriate.

Response by CWO3 Dennis M. made Sep 2 at 2021 7:00 AM

2021-09-02T07:00:08-04:00

I can answer that question with several traits;
1. Respect.
2. Honor.
3. Patriotism.
4. Be the best at what you do.
5. Be squared away.
6. Be honest.
7. Be responsible for your actions.
8. Always strive to be the best.
9. Be honest.
10. Above all be a roll model!

Response by CPL Larry Monkus made Sep 2 at 2021 7:09 AM

2021-09-02T07:09:32-04:00

brotherhood respect

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 2 at 2021 7:52 AM

2021-09-02T07:52:06-04:00

Call it traditionalist, call it "old-timey" call it what you will, I tried hard to install "yes, sir & no, ma'am, please, & thank you " in my 4 kids...it's worked, and it instilled character and honesty and integrity in them. Just my honest opinion. I learned this day 1 in the Army.

Response by CPO Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 2 at 2021 8:01 AM

2021-09-02T08:01:54-04:00

Profession ethics – I teach them like this.
Your First name may represent you as an individual. Your last name tells me what family you’re representing. Where you grew up other group affiliations tell me what people you are representing. So do your work with pride, set standards, and be the one others look to because you are representing more than yourself at all times.
Your team and family are also important members of our community. You need to be inclusive and grow our family to all be on board, well informed on the same page, and align our goals so everyone has the most potential to succeed. Take care of one another.
Orient yourself in a direction to continuously move forward not just at work but growth as a person. Set goals, develop plans, continue to target your objectives, eliminate obstacles, and develop your success story.

Response by SrA Ronald Moore made Sep 2 at 2021 9:03 AM

2021-09-02T09:03:01-04:00

Work , do your jobs, pay your bills, respect man kind as the Authorities teaches thru Your schooling, And Be as such a person your boss can set his watch by you being on time, a mate can Talk about you with honor,And obey the law, and do as they say, there is time enough for what they did wrong in the courts.And Pay your taxes and encourage others into A career in the Military

Response by SP5 Michael Barczykowski made Sep 2 at 2021 9:05 AM

2021-09-02T09:05:03-04:00

First thing I learned in boot was to respect authority and follow orders. I also learned that there are proper channels to challenge abuse of authority.

Response by SPC(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 2 at 2021 9:30 AM

2021-09-02T09:30:49-04:00

Loyalty, Respect, Commitment, Honor. I want my children to know that freedom isn't free, and that every day it has to be fought for, and they too in even the in smallest way can do their part, until when they become old enough do their duty as citizens and vote and/or enlist. I want them to look with pride on this country like I do.

Response by Cpl Judy Hayes made Sep 2 at 2021 10:46 AM

2021-09-02T10:46:11-04:00

You are part of a team, you might think you can do this solo but you have a team to think of. Working together you're stronger. A team works best if they can trust each other, that trust needs to be earned AND maintained, honor, courage, commitment is something to keep in mind with your team members. That translates to families, close families (blood or found) need to trust each other. Build and maintain that to get the most out of your family experiences.

Response by CW3 Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 2 at 2021 10:48 AM

2021-09-02T10:48:38-04:00

Discipline and sacrifice. Those are hard to find in the youth of today. IMHO

Response by TSgt Timothy Backstrom made Sep 2 at 2021 11:22 AM

2021-09-02T11:22:39-04:00

Honesty, personal responsibility, and faith to God and country.

Response by PO2 Paul Dempsey made Sep 2 at 2021 11:28 AM

2021-09-02T11:28:53-04:00

Honor, duty and country is a main stay. ethics and morality inaddition

Response by A1C Frank L. Smith made Sep 2 at 2021 11:29 AM

2021-09-02T11:29:46-04:00

Never be late for anything ! Keep your promises ! Don't lend money !
Be responsible for your decisions ! Obey all traffic laws !
And....don't kid yourself about anything,, you are what you do !

Response by MSgt Giovanny Mesa made Sep 2 at 2021 12:21 PM

2021-09-02T12:21:09-04:00

Traits I learned in the military that I instill in my family is core values: Integrity First, Service (service would be the job they work in) before self and excellence in all we do!

Response by SPC Rashodd Howze made Sep 2 at 2021 1:25 PM

2021-09-02T13:25:48-04:00

The value of discipline. To always strive to maintain good character. To be empathetic an in service to others

Response by SSgt Daniel d'Errico made Sep 2 at 2021 2:16 PM

2021-09-02T14:16:05-04:00

keep your room, work area and self organized. that way you can find what you're working on and make a better impression of yourself.

Response by LCDR Robert S. made Sep 2 at 2021 2:45 PM

2021-09-02T14:45:07-04:00

1. You don't get what you expect, you get what you inspect. Which is another way of saying the Russian proverb that Reagan was fond of, "Trust but verify."
2. A lot of people will claim that something is a regulation without ever having read a regulation that supports their claim. They're often wrong. One of your jobs is to follow regulations, and in order to do that, you need to *read* the regulations, not just rely on others telling you what they *think* the regulations say.
3. Related to #2, most people haven't even read the regulations that pertain to their job, let alone others. So you need to look at the regulations yourself, especially if you want to do anything that's even a tiny bit off the beaten path. As an example, the career counselor on my first ship said that there was no way to apply directly to the Naval Academy or ROTC from within the enlisted ranks. Not surprisingly, my department head who suggested that I do so was right, and the career counselor was wrong. Even after I showed him the regulations, he continued to insist that it couldn't be done.
4. Most people aren't going to go out of their way to give you what you need, even if it's their job to do so. So if you need something to do your job or further your career, it's part of your job to make sure you have it. It's also part of your job to make sure your people have what they need to do their jobs and further their careers.
5. Don't just point out problems - try to present a solution when you present the problem.

Response by Sgt Michael Betts made Sep 2 at 2021 4:30 PM

2021-09-02T16:30:52-04:00

There were two things I learned at Parris Island which have stood me in good stead for the following 57 years of my life: 1.) You are capable of doing more and better than you think you can. 2.) Never, EVER, give up. Perseverance can defeat any adversary, even yourself.

Response by SSgt Michael Bowen made Sep 2 at 2021 4:47 PM

2021-09-02T16:47:15-04:00

You take a job you do the job , and the old but golden rule if it's worth doing it's worth doing right . And if it's not right for you finish your agreement and look for what you like .

Response by Sgt David Scott made Sep 2 at 2021 4:50 PM

2021-09-02T16:50:21-04:00

Pride in being responsible and honest. Daughter married a police officer (one of my rookies) and my middle son works for Government at Ft Meade (so i hear) after servicing 8 years in Corps, rank of Sgt,

Response by PFC William Mower made Sep 2 at 2021 5:22 PM

2021-09-02T17:22:19-04:00

I learned to take responsibility for my actions how to problem solve and, adapt to changes that come with life and the importance of working as a team. And I have done my best to pass these traits down to my son.

Response by SP5 John Walters made Sep 2 at 2021 5:51 PM

2021-09-02T17:51:22-04:00

I served 18 months in the US Army , 1/22 Infantry, in VietNam. The two traits I learned that apply to my five grandchildren, and anyone's children, are patience and perseverance. You can survive and accomplish any thing important with these two mentalities.

Response by SPC Stiv ChenRobbins made Sep 2 at 2021 6:55 PM

2021-09-02T18:55:11-04:00

Being offended or upset by someone else's speech or opinions is a waste of time and energy. Know who you are and don't worry about what other people think they know.

Response by MGySgt Jerome Lee made Sep 2 at 2021 8:01 PM

2021-09-02T20:01:16-04:00

Self reliance, responsibility, integrity, and dependability. Doing the right thing, respecting others and their property. lastly, don't be a "Zebra (a by-stander)."

Response by SPC John Donovan made Sep 2 at 2021 10:26 PM

2021-09-02T22:26:14-04:00

How to keep your area clean, clothes put up where they belong and following orders.

Response by SP5 June Sherwood made Sep 2 at 2021 10:32 PM

2021-09-02T22:32:05-04:00

I learned to actively listen, work hard, and keep my mouth shut.

Response by HA Kathi Pruitt made Sep 3 at 2021 12:38 AM

2021-09-03T00:38:43-04:00

Self discipline, respect, pride.

Response by SFC Jose M. made Sep 3 at 2021 8:54 AM

2021-09-03T08:54:49-04:00

All the traits I learned in the Army are the key to my success but the most important ones I learned that I would instill in my loved ones are; agility, adaptability, flexibility, mental and physical resilience, competence, and most importantly character.

Response by SFC Jose M. made Sep 3 at 2021 8:55 AM

2021-09-03T08:55:22-04:00

Response by Pvt Michael Klama made Sep 3 at 2021 9:41 AM

2021-09-03T09:41:45-04:00

Honor and integrity

Response by SSG Larry Dale McCloud made Sep 3 at 2021 10:07 AM

2021-09-03T10:07:04-04:00

I instilled the attention to details and keeping everything neat and tidy in my children.

Response by CPO Patrick Funk made Sep 3 at 2021 11:24 AM

2021-09-03T11:24:50-04:00

I loved the way that they taught us to put our differences aside and work together towards a common goal. We looked out for and took care of each other. That is sorely needed in society today. Too much of the WIFM (what's init for me) mentality and nothing really ever gets accomplished.

Response by PFC Charles George made Sep 3 at 2021 11:25 AM

2021-09-03T11:25:19-04:00

I want to instill responsibility in them. I want them to understand that you have to step up and grasp every moment.

Response by PO1 Ken Helmick made Sep 3 at 2021 11:26 AM

2021-09-03T11:26:02-04:00

Perhaps the most important thing I learned is "This too shall pass".

Response by SSG Byron Hewett made Sep 3 at 2021 11:26 AM

2021-09-03T11:26:41-04:00

Courage and honor discipline duty leadership

Response by SGT Beth Day made Sep 3 at 2021 11:28 AM

2021-09-03T11:28:44-04:00

The importance of standing up for yourself ... in an appropriate way. I learned that confidence and not backing down solved a lot of problems.

Response by COL Rich McKinney made Sep 3 at 2021 11:28 AM

2021-09-03T11:28:45-04:00

Critical Thinking. The Military Decision Making Process (MDMP) is a wonderful framework in or out of the military.

Response by LT Brad McInnis made Sep 3 at 2021 11:29 AM

2021-09-03T11:29:24-04:00

The ability to get the job done.

Response by SFC Patrick M. made Sep 3 at 2021 11:29 AM

2021-09-03T11:29:43-04:00

Timeliness'

Response by Cpl David E. Jenkins Jr. made Sep 3 at 2021 11:29 AM

2021-09-03T11:29:49-04:00

I am USMC Veteran and the traits that I show my children to carry on in life is to adapt to a situation and then improvise and then overcome with a solution. Semper Fi

Response by TSgt Joe Caccioppo made Sep 3 at 2021 11:31 AM

2021-09-03T11:31:41-04:00

I went into the Air Force without the team idea. I would let them know working as a team makes all the difference. You each have each other's backs.

Response by Cpl Anthony Starcevic made Sep 3 at 2021 11:39 AM

2021-09-03T11:39:59-04:00

RESPECT,DISCIPLIN, and love of country!

Response by SGT James Garza made Sep 3 at 2021 11:43 AM

2021-09-03T11:43:04-04:00

Discipline, teamwork, & leadership.

Response by SPC Douglas Bolton made Sep 3 at 2021 11:44 AM

2021-09-03T11:44:09-04:00

Learning to obey your leaders/elders. Make good decisions. Build confidence.

Response by SSG Tony Vongnaraj made Sep 3 at 2021 11:45 AM

2021-09-03T11:45:46-04:00

One of the traits I've learned from the military was selfless service. I always tell my children to be there for their loved ones including their friends and understand their feelings more than your own. Always take care of others before yourself.

Response by PO2 Dale Brown made Sep 3 at 2021 11:50 AM

2021-09-03T11:50:47-04:00

Question authorities, always!

Response by SGT Chris Stephens made Sep 3 at 2021 11:51 AM

2021-09-03T11:51:57-04:00

Taking pride in your work and doing everything with integrity. Our society is all about do the least amount of work as possible and I want my kids to know how to work hard. Also, integrity is becoming a thing of the past in our society and I want my kids to know that it's important to do everything with integrity no matter the circumstances.

Response by GySgt Dennis Gilbert made Sep 3 at 2021 11:55 AM

2021-09-03T11:55:57-04:00

Taking responsibility for your actions. Being humble. Selflessness.

Response by 1SG James Kelly made Sep 3 at 2021 11:59 AM

2021-09-03T11:59:08-04:00

Don't have any, just me and two dogs.

Response by PVT Mark Whitcomb made Sep 3 at 2021 12:00 PM

2021-09-03T12:00:03-04:00

Make your bed every morning. That way regardless of how your day goes you still have a nice bed to come home to.

Response by A1C Frank L. Smith made Sep 3 at 2021 12:00 PM

2021-09-03T12:00:54-04:00

It's not enough to "talk the talk", you must"walk the walk" !
You have one mouth but two ears. it's for a reason!

Response by Maj Robert Thornton made Sep 3 at 2021 12:03 PM

2021-09-03T12:03:32-04:00

Taking ownership of your decisions.

Response by SFC Jim Ruether made Sep 3 at 2021 12:04 PM

2021-09-03T12:04:17-04:00

Respect for our Flag, the History of our Flag, the Heavy Cost thats been paid by brave men and women for our freedoms!

Response by SFC Terry Fortune made Sep 3 at 2021 12:10 PM

2021-09-03T12:10:14-04:00

Love of country and being able to help other's.

Response by LCpl Troy Gwyn made Sep 3 at 2021 12:10 PM

2021-09-03T12:10:26-04:00

SIR! Shock and Awe, SIR!

Response by PO3 Mark Nicholson made Sep 3 at 2021 12:16 PM

2021-09-03T12:16:02-04:00

Respect the people around you as well as people you work for,Work ethic do whatever you are doing the best of your ability

Response by Cpl Tyler Therrien made Sep 3 at 2021 12:16 PM

2021-09-03T12:16:07-04:00

Hard work pays off

Response by SGT Tim Tobin made Sep 3 at 2021 12:19 PM

2021-09-03T12:19:28-04:00

That is an easy one! Work ethic, loyalty and teamwork. Things that are sorely lacking in a lot of the civilian world!

Response by SGT Ronald Audas made Sep 3 at 2021 12:32 PM

2021-09-03T12:32:28-04:00

To know that all decisions have consequences,good and bad.Try to look at the big picture.

Response by CW2 Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 3 at 2021 12:35 PM

2021-09-03T12:35:00-04:00

Actions or no action has consequences. The choice is yours but the outcome is based upon what is chosen. ( The boy learned that the hard way about no actions.)

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 3 at 2021 12:35 PM

2021-09-03T12:35:24-04:00

There's an adventure out there, don't pass up an opportunity for someone who 'cares' about you, because if they truly cared, they'd support you.

Response by CPL Stephen Zavosky made Sep 3 at 2021 12:52 PM

2021-09-03T12:52:10-04:00

If you always do the right thing, you'll never have to worry about getting caught screwing up

Response by MAJ Ward Odom made Sep 3 at 2021 1:05 PM

2021-09-03T13:05:40-04:00

MOSS MOUSE

Response by MSgt George Murray made Sep 3 at 2021 1:09 PM

2021-09-03T13:09:01-04:00

Listen to your elders and be good.

Response by GySgt Edward Reagle made Sep 3 at 2021 1:19 PM

2021-09-03T13:19:33-04:00

This is an easy one. RESPECT goes all ways my daughter is top at her La-Z-Boy store in Richmond Virginia I am bragging of course but RESPECT has gotten her to that position. One example when she comes back with yes ma'am yes sir she is asked if she has ever served she tells them no but my dad served 20 years in the Marine Corps and dialog instantly opens up. She was is probably asked a lot more questions than anybody else in her store she is the assistant manager. Sometimes they tell her they will be back and most of them come back if she isn't there she has been told by some I need t know when (her name) will be at work next.

Response by SFC Linda Clipp made Sep 3 at 2021 1:29 PM

2021-09-03T13:29:23-04:00

HONESTY!!! Can't stress enough how telling a lie, no matter how small you think it is, can really botch a mission and get people killed.
In your life out here, lying is the sign of a dirt-bag. A lie will always adversely affect your team, crew, business...and great googly moogly the crappy lies you'll have to remember you told when your telling another. HONESTY is the Hallmark of a good guy, a stand up person on whom others can count, a highly respected individual.
Always tell the truth.

Response by 1SG Marion "Ron" C. made Sep 3 at 2021 1:32 PM

2021-09-03T13:32:05-04:00

Honesty, integrity, selflessness, pride in yourself and your work, doing what's right, and helping others when they need it or ask for it.

Response by SFC Kevin Turner made Sep 3 at 2021 1:33 PM

2021-09-03T13:33:00-04:00

Take responsibility for your actions and choices. and be a Man or Woman of your word.

Response by CPO Arthur Weinberger made Sep 3 at 2021 1:34 PM

2021-09-03T13:34:31-04:00

Your mission should have the number one priority in life. Family and co-workers next.

Response by SSG Scott Kelley made Sep 3 at 2021 1:34 PM

2021-09-03T13:34:33-04:00

Having strong situational awareness.

Response by Cpl Gerald Vaughan made Sep 3 at 2021 1:47 PM

2021-09-03T13:47:01-04:00

Discipline and accountability

Response by SGT Jonathan Persons made Sep 3 at 2021 1:49 PM

2021-09-03T13:49:44-04:00

Look after your people.
When I was a young private and I arrived at my first duty station, I had a platoon sgt who told us that our first and most important mission was to look after your people. Me, being a young and stupid private, responded by telling him that I was just a private, and I didn't have any people. I learned very quickly from the front leaning rest position that my people were my family, friends, and people who might need my help.
He also taught me that help comes in various forms, from physical help to just being there when someone needs advice or a place to vent.

Response by MGySgt Ron Soens made Sep 3 at 2021 1:52 PM

2021-09-03T13:52:09-04:00

Work Ethic: One of my sons complains often about the people he works with that have no team mentality and that something is owed to them, not earned. Do a good job because its a reflection of you (AND me!) regardless if it may seem menial.
Loyalty: Most these days seem to just want to chase the dollar instead of finding a place that you feel has your same ethos and as a team build that into something great. The money will follow.
Accountability: Understand that your actions have consequences, and not always bad, but if it doesn't go right, do what you can to make it right.
Never fall in love with your own plan: There must be a contingency plan, and even when that doesn't work, get input immediately from your peers and supervisors about remediation.
I'm sure there are more but my wife says I have to go mow the field...

Response by CPL Elizabeth Gutierrez made Sep 3 at 2021 1:54 PM

2021-09-03T13:54:56-04:00

If you're 5 min early you're on time, if you're in time you're late!! For sure stuck with me and make sure my kids know punctuality is very important.

Response by SCPO Theodore Denning made Sep 3 at 2021 2:04 PM

2021-09-03T14:04:45-04:00

Being responsible for their actions. Being punctual (I am 15 minutes early to all functions). A good work ethic and above all else respectful and honest.

Response by SPC Lyle Montgomery made Sep 3 at 2021 2:11 PM

2021-09-03T14:11:58-04:00

Brotherhood, comradity, dicipline,respect for your fellow man no matter what rank, Love for the flag and country. Respect for the veterans that fought and died for this country and the military presently serving.

Response by SSgt Robert Mesic made Sep 3 at 2021 2:12 PM

2021-09-03T14:12:23-04:00

Do the best with what you have to work with

Response by PV2 Keith Young made Sep 3 at 2021 2:21 PM

2021-09-03T14:21:50-04:00

To be honest and diligent. Treat everyone with respect

Response by SFC Josh Billingsley made Sep 3 at 2021 2:33 PM

2021-09-03T14:33:01-04:00

I've tried to pass on to my children the value of self-development and a love of learning. I learned very quickly in the military that those leaders who did not evolve and self-develop were quickly left behind.

Response by SSgt Daniel d'Errico made Sep 3 at 2021 2:36 PM

2021-09-03T14:36:34-04:00

clean up after yourself. there is no room service when go out into the world.

Response by WO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 3 at 2021 2:37 PM

2021-09-03T14:37:29-04:00

Using the Army values as a good stand point.
Honor - The one good thing you have that no one can take from you is your name, so make sure it is viewed in a positive way.
Respect - Treating others the way you want to be treated.
Selfless service - Be a good human being, and be a person for others (this is also a Catholic value). We are all in this world together, so make it a better one for all people.
Finally, while not an Army value - Learn to adapt and overcome. If you can be comfortable in uncomfortable situations, and have strong resilience and adaptability, you can conquer anything.

Response by SPC Alexa Cave Wingate made Sep 3 at 2021 2:45 PM

2021-09-03T14:45:37-04:00

How to respect and ACCEPT people of different backgrounds. You can miss put on some lifelong friends if you only judge people by outside appearances.

Response by SGT Jeff Nolan made Sep 3 at 2021 2:47 PM

2021-09-03T14:47:17-04:00

Well the Military clock, and getting up early.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 3 at 2021 2:49 PM

2021-09-03T14:49:31-04:00

Respect of others self respect, timeliness, love of country.
Slow down when you eat.

Response by CH (LTC) Jon Tidball made Sep 3 at 2021 2:55 PM

2021-09-03T14:55:29-04:00

Live a life of Fidelity and faithfulness. Have integrity in all your activities and relationships. Don't blindly follow orders. Lead when you must.

Response by LCDR Claire S. made Sep 3 at 2021 3:40 PM

2021-09-03T15:40:46-04:00

The importance of attention to detail and integrity. These two values will set you above your peers in most any setting.

Response by PO1 Tim Lewis made Sep 3 at 2021 4:17 PM

2021-09-03T16:17:11-04:00

Responsibility, Ownership, Respect, and Commitment.

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 3 at 2021 4:49 PM

2021-09-03T16:49:19-04:00

Accountability and consistency.

Response by SPC(P) Donald B. made Sep 3 at 2021 5:19 PM

2021-09-03T17:19:44-04:00

Integrity and communication... backbones for several types of relationships both personal and professional.
Shoot, move, COMMMUNICATE!

Response by SPC Richard Rauenhorst made Sep 3 at 2021 5:33 PM

2021-09-03T17:33:37-04:00

I learned to keep my big mouth shut. The boss is always right even when they are wrong. If you have a good idea make sure that your superiors can take all the credit, it will get done faster. Know that on occasions it is smart to volunteer. If given a request always attempt to exceed expectations. If you are in line to get a promotion and don't get, remember it is not your fault - it is the system.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 3 at 2021 6:17 PM

2021-09-03T18:17:54-04:00

A strong work ethic. Everything you gain in life is a result of a great work ethic. Friends, respect, business partners, admiration from others and more. Work for what you want, you will be happy you did.

Response by Sgt Steven Boone made Sep 3 at 2021 6:32 PM

2021-09-03T18:32:08-04:00

Respect your elders, and your never to old to learn something new! Don't think that you know everything cause there's so much to learn!

Response by MSgt Mike P. made Sep 3 at 2021 7:31 PM

2021-09-03T19:31:21-04:00

Learn your limits, probably higher than you thought, you can handle more than you thought, your buddies are as close as family, protect them both. Aim high or you will not reach your potental abilities.

Response by PO2 Jay Stotler made Sep 3 at 2021 7:46 PM

2021-09-03T19:46:22-04:00

The biggest thing I have taught my kids that I learned was that above all honor is the one thing if you lose it you won’t get it back easily. Trust goes with honor so keep these two at the top of your life and it will be better for you.
Thanks to all of you for your time and kind words.

Response by HN Cristian Guerrero made Sep 3 at 2021 10:02 PM

2021-09-03T22:02:01-04:00

Teamwork, respect for others, discipline, and honor.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 3 at 2021 10:52 PM

2021-09-03T22:52:04-04:00

Mindset is 90% of the battle.

Response by Bob Goodworth made Sep 3 at 2021 11:01 PM

2021-09-03T23:01:06-04:00

Self reliance, discipline, team ethos, time management, leadership

Response by MAJ Dale E. Wilson, Ph.D. made Sep 4 at 2021 6:26 AM

2021-09-04T06:26:48-04:00

Accepting responsibility--the one thing you cannot delegate!--for your actions and decisions as a leader. Always set a good example for subordinates by "leading from the front." Always remember that trust can be lost in a second but is very difficult to regain once lost. Be on time! Your subordinates value their time above all else. Don't waste it!

Response by MSgt George Murray made Sep 4 at 2021 8:10 AM

2021-09-04T08:10:47-04:00

I would like to add to what I had said earlier and that is "The floor doesn't get swept if you lean on the broom."

Response by Sgt Juan Carlos Colon Agosto made Sep 4 at 2021 8:25 AM

2021-09-04T08:25:35-04:00

Alway's be on time. Always be Sharply dressed. Be considerate of others and keep your tools clean.

Response by AA John Willis made Sep 4 at 2021 8:56 AM

2021-09-04T08:56:53-04:00

The value of teamwork and learning to share the load has been invaluable to me as I worked as a civilian. Feeling the loyalty and dedication to the mission, to one another, knowing everyone on my team would hold the line for me, just as I would for them, gave me confidence far above anything I could achieve alone. If my children could learn and utilize that principle of dedication in meaningful service, I would be a complimented mother. Donna Palmer Capt. USAFR (retired)

Response by SFC Robert Walton made Sep 4 at 2021 9:41 AM

2021-09-04T09:41:04-04:00

What have you done for God and Country today is a question i have ask members of family for years. I think it speaks for its self.
Do it if you don't it won't get done.

Response by SSG John M Jacobson Sr made Sep 4 at 2021 10:07 AM

2021-09-04T10:07:05-04:00

Respect for other people and their property, My daughters learned these things very well. But unfortunately my to older sons did not. They respect no one but themselves, and are very self serving. I not sure where I failed with them, but it does hurt to see the way they treat their mother and sisters, and other people who don't agree with them.

Response by SPC David Buttrey made Sep 4 at 2021 10:42 AM

2021-09-04T10:42:18-04:00

Honor and respect for your superiors. Responsibility for your own actions.

Response by SSG(P) D. Wright Downs made Sep 4 at 2021 11:09 AM

2021-09-04T11:09:59-04:00

To own what you do and to own-up when questioned about your actions.
Take care of people is also a big one in my book. There is always someone who needs looking after, taking care of either being taught something, guided, or advised. Being taught how to think things through.

Response by Col Rebecca Lorraine made Sep 4 at 2021 11:55 AM

2021-09-04T11:55:36-04:00

Patience.

Response by CDR Bob Lange made Sep 4 at 2021 3:49 PM

2021-09-04T15:49:22-04:00

Not everything you are told to do makes sense to you. That's not enough reason to not do it.

Response by SSgt Donald Hahn made Sep 4 at 2021 4:14 PM

2021-09-04T16:14:54-04:00

being on time if not abit early for something.

Response by SPC John Donovan made Sep 4 at 2021 4:33 PM

2021-09-04T16:33:19-04:00

Never volunteer for anything.

Response by CPO Jack De Merit made Sep 4 at 2021 4:57 PM

2021-09-04T16:57:39-04:00

The most important traits are Taking Responsibility, Discipline and Respect. They need to learn to be RESPONSIBLE for EVERYTHING they do or say and admit it. They also need to learn DISCIPLINE. When they screw up it will cost them in some way depend ing how bad it is. That means that WE must be fair with our discipline. And finally, RESPECT. They need to know what respect is and when it is required or has been earned. Some people can respect anything which may include things that did not earn or deserve respect. People, laws, businesses, parks, school teachers, some politicians and most important of all, our Country deserves Respect.

Response by Sgt William Brackett made Sep 4 at 2021 4:59 PM

2021-09-04T16:59:41-04:00

Taking responsibility for what you do.
What loyalty is about.
Discipline.
How to think, adapt, overcome!

Response by Ellen Limbach made Sep 4 at 2021 5:04 PM

2021-09-04T17:04:53-04:00

dedication and backing up your fellow service men

Response by CPO James Soper made Sep 4 at 2021 5:09 PM

2021-09-04T17:09:16-04:00

Work hard play hard.

Response by SP5 Michael Barczykowski made Sep 4 at 2021 5:19 PM

2021-09-04T17:19:50-04:00

What’s right is right and what’s wrong will never be right but may be covered up depending on the rank that did the wrong

Response by SGT Lisa Mayne made Sep 4 at 2021 5:24 PM

2021-09-04T17:24:28-04:00

Take care of each other-no matter WHAT.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 4 at 2021 5:29 PM

2021-09-04T17:29:59-04:00

"Haste is waste" is a myth, sometimes it has to be rushed & done well at the same time.

Response by SPC Louis Williams made Sep 4 at 2021 5:35 PM

2021-09-04T17:35:07-04:00

You committed to do something; now, you will stay with it until the end. Take RESPONSIBILITY for your actions!!!

Response by TSgt Ray Lewis made Sep 4 at 2021 5:40 PM

2021-09-04T17:40:46-04:00

I mainly brought them up to respect this country and respect others. My oldest Son spent 4 years army as an MP. My youngest Son went to GT and got a degree in Industrial Engineering Worked in civilian jobs and decided to join the AF. Became a Disaster Bio Officer. Then cross trained in OSI. Joined the Reserves as a Logistic Officer. Went from 1st LT in 2005 to LTC in 2020. I am very proud of him.

Response by PO1 Wayne Sasser made Sep 4 at 2021 5:41 PM

2021-09-04T17:41:57-04:00

Stand tall, look the other man/woman in the eye, speak distinctly, listen carefully, be honest, acknowledge accomplishment, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" Have faith, nobody gets out this life alive. Laugh when feels it right, be a friend.

Response by SPC Anthony Sturgis made Sep 4 at 2021 5:46 PM

2021-09-04T17:46:59-04:00

Flexibility, dependability, discipline, can do attitude, timeliness.

Response by SGT Wayne Grindstaff made Sep 4 at 2021 5:51 PM

2021-09-04T17:51:28-04:00

If no one is shooting at you, other problems mean little and can be over come.

Response by A1C Paula Roblez made Sep 4 at 2021 5:53 PM

2021-09-04T17:53:46-04:00

Respect, Responsibility Honor and to be proud of their accomplishments.

Response by SGT John Overby made Sep 4 at 2021 5:58 PM

2021-09-04T17:58:57-04:00

Everyone does not have to know everything.

Response by PFC David Foster made Sep 4 at 2021 5:59 PM

2021-09-04T17:59:47-04:00

The one thing that stands out in my mind is perseverance. Don't give up on something just because it's difficult, double down, triple down, don't take no for an answer. Persistence.

Response by SGT Ashraf Hosein made Sep 4 at 2021 6:08 PM

2021-09-04T18:08:57-04:00

Very good question, One of the many lessons I learnt while in the military was "Paying attention to the small details" It could save yours or someone else's life. I remember, during training to become a Sargent we were out in the woods and about five of us walked pass a rattler, we were all about to have a sit down and a female soldier was about to sit right next to the snake and our drill Sargent grabbed her by the collar, lift her off the ground and physically threw her about 10 feet. He saved her life that day. The five of us that walked by that snake, all missed it. That stuck with me to this day.

Response by CPO David Sullivan made Sep 4 at 2021 6:13 PM

2021-09-04T18:13:00-04:00

Punctuality, Courtesy,Honesty

Response by SGM Major Stroupe made Sep 4 at 2021 6:18 PM

2021-09-04T18:18:47-04:00

I have read dozens of your comments on this subject and find that all of them are true. I have waited to make a posting because it is hard to pick out just one thing. Each comment is valid and deserves recognition. I would encourage you to read each comment and ponder it. Then my advice would be to listen and pay attention because what you learn and develop as habits and traits become you as a person. What kind of person do you want to be? Think about that and when people who offer advice, listen and weigh it on how that fits in with you life and expectations. No one person has all the answers so sometimes we learn some of our best lessons from the most unexpected sources. Pay attention! In the end we all will stand before our maker and be held accountable.

Response by SPC David Laden made Sep 4 at 2021 6:25 PM

2021-09-04T18:25:50-04:00

Time flies--and it flies a lot faster after you get out...

Response by SGT Larry Styer made Sep 4 at 2021 6:31 PM

2021-09-04T18:31:21-04:00

Just remember that following proper procedure when performing an assigned task and not trying to use "Shortcuts" is the best way to perform your task!

Response by Capt Robert Willis made Sep 4 at 2021 6:38 PM

2021-09-04T18:38:34-04:00

Always being accountable for every decision and action you take. Never place the blame on someone else for your actions or lack of action. Semper Fi

Response by PO1 Rick Serviss made Sep 4 at 2021 7:05 PM

2021-09-04T19:05:52-04:00

Responsibility

Response by SGT Forrest Stewart made Sep 4 at 2021 7:16 PM

2021-09-04T19:16:26-04:00

Don't take any wooden nickels.

Response by PO2 Phillip Scott made Sep 4 at 2021 7:25 PM

2021-09-04T19:25:23-04:00

Love of country, love for your comrades and love of family

Response by SSG Samuel Kermon made Sep 4 at 2021 7:30 PM

2021-09-04T19:30:22-04:00

Lead, follow or get out of the way,

Response by SSG Jerry Mason made Sep 4 at 2021 7:44 PM

2021-09-04T19:44:25-04:00

Loyalty and take responsibility of your actions.

Response by PO2 Edward DeVennish made Sep 4 at 2021 8:05 PM

2021-09-04T20:05:37-04:00

The value of being trustworthy and all that that implies.

Response by CPT Earl George made Sep 4 at 2021 8:08 PM

2021-09-04T20:08:26-04:00

It does not hurt to be early to an appointment.

Look for more than one way to get any particular task accomplished.

you can learn something from the remotest resource(book,person,event etc)

Response by LTC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 4 at 2021 8:08 PM

2021-09-04T20:08:42-04:00

Being able to sleep anywhere-even on a live rifle range.

Response by SGT John Graham made Sep 4 at 2021 8:12 PM

2021-09-04T20:12:51-04:00

Always do the best you can. Stand behind your actions. Keep learning, study beyond the minimum requirements. Always keep an open mind. Think before acting or speaking.

Response by MSG James Reynolds made Sep 4 at 2021 8:28 PM

2021-09-04T20:28:46-04:00

Being part of something so much more than just yourself. Go medical!

Response by SFC Rick Brooks made Sep 4 at 2021 9:19 PM

2021-09-04T21:19:31-04:00

responsibility honesty and respect

Response by Maj Maria Avellaneda made Sep 4 at 2021 9:20 PM

2021-09-04T21:20:05-04:00

Many things are learned! Respect without fear is one! Many people are fearful of those with higher rank and or positions. This is not necessary! Do you job right, be respectful, be proactive! Time management and prioritization go together. You might have to postpone clerical a non mission oriented tasks!

Respect the knowledge of those with experience though they might have less rank! Don’t make changes upon arrival! Take time to know the mission and your people! Don’t fixed what is not damaged! On the other hand just because something has been done the same way for 20 years doesn’t mean is the best and most efficient way. Have an open mind and a critical evaluation. Technology, systems and people change all the time.

Recognize the outstanding, take corrective action early and lightly! Be accessible and ready to listen!

Response by A1C Donald Riddell made Sep 4 at 2021 9:27 PM

2021-09-04T21:27:01-04:00

Finish what u start

Response by 1st Lt Padre Dave Poedel made Sep 4 at 2021 9:36 PM

2021-09-04T21:36:40-04:00

I pray that the young people I influence will inherit my sense of duty, service and commitment to the nation we live in and responsibility to those we are privileged served.

Response by SSgt Michael Anderson made Sep 4 at 2021 9:40 PM

2021-09-04T21:40:08-04:00

Follow your dreams and wishes-- not the dreams and wishes of others --and don't give up until you've completed your goals! If you do what is right for you, you will be always be a success! The military gave me a compass that I will forever be thankful for!!

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 4 at 2021 10:22 PM

2021-09-04T22:22:38-04:00

be there for your brothers and sisters

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 4 at 2021 10:34 PM

2021-09-04T22:34:09-04:00

Being Resilient in difficult times.

Response by SGT Tim Anderson made Sep 4 at 2021 11:58 PM

2021-09-04T23:58:15-04:00

Do or do not, the world is full of flat squirrels who couldn't make a decision...

Response by A1C Michelle Pagan made Sep 5 at 2021 12:26 AM

2021-09-05T00:26:02-04:00

Stand up straight & tall and be counted. Being American is something to be proud of and worth defending! Have respect for the American flag and for the American way of life. Maintain your honor and integrity, especially when faced with adversity.

Response by SFC Linda Clipp made Sep 5 at 2021 12:30 AM

2021-09-05T00:30:20-04:00

Stand-up, own-up. Understand that you, alone, are making the choices and decisions that lead to outcomes...results...good and bad. Work to make GOOD decisions, GOOD choices, that will lead to RIGHTEOUS outcomes or results.

Making GOOD decisions will make your life smoother and make it easier to stand up and own up.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 5 at 2021 1:40 AM

2021-09-05T01:40:09-04:00

1)Rely on yourself, because reinforcements are NOT on their way. 2) Never trust the government to do the right thing. 3) read “ War is a Racket ” by MG Smedly Butler and see how relevant it is to current events before you join the military.

Response by 1SG James Hill, MSL, BSBA made Sep 5 at 2021 3:51 AM

2021-09-05T03:51:26-04:00

Humility and accountability.

Response by CPT Franklin Schall made Sep 5 at 2021 5:38 AM

2021-09-05T05:38:21-04:00

Serving your country and then your community adds a whole different dimension to your life that remains with you forever.

Response by COL Lisandro Murphy made Sep 5 at 2021 5:40 AM

2021-09-05T05:40:28-04:00

Teamwork and to take care of others prior to yourself.

Response by Sgt Christian Mendieta made Sep 5 at 2021 6:01 AM

2021-09-05T06:01:14-04:00

To lead by example, people want to follow someone who sets the right example by leading in the front.

Response by SGT John Goschka made Sep 5 at 2021 6:36 AM

2021-09-05T06:36:58-04:00

Being punctual.

Response by SFC John Chase made Sep 5 at 2021 8:25 AM

2021-09-05T08:25:27-04:00

Responsibility and dedication. Trust that you will do the right thing.

Response by SPC A.j. Roeper made Sep 5 at 2021 9:40 AM

2021-09-05T09:40:35-04:00

I gotta say, the biggest thing I learned was that out of some of the worst of times and jobs comes some of the greatest advancements. This works both for professional and personal.

Response by SGM Chulk Yann made Sep 5 at 2021 10:34 AM

2021-09-05T10:34:11-04:00

When I was a child I always thought participating in activities I could serve were valued and I envisioned service doing meaningful work for a betterment. On my passion for service and my traits on civil rights, humanity, and diverse cultures around the world these opened my eyes to different perspectives, struggles, and triumphs and so forever engraved in my memory. Those memories of serviced activities with all of missions shaped my memories of feeling compassion and self-awareness. I have always mulled on what is a positive role for all of generations, considering how to build traits of empathy and humanity and to help others service-minded. Through my service and from my fellows and family, I’ve learned that motivating to be service-minded needed ceaseless trials regarding practicing and experiencing empathy, gratitude, and self-awareness. And the rewards can be most gratifying for all of us. I think there is a big lessons stuck with me enough to pass on to others for inspiring to become a good-doing person through this participation in service activities.
A sensibility of compassion and empathy encourage to relate to care for others additionally these have extensively lifelong benefits. A compassion enhance health, well-being, relationships and creating connectedness in humanity so a broad world view and connection to humanity leads individuals to feel more strongly connected to others and more tolerant to develop a connection to humanity by learning about diversity existing in humans. Doing the right thing there are many ways to practice reinforcing positive behaviors of showing gratitude, being generous, and caring for others.

Response by PFC Edward Mayer made Sep 5 at 2021 10:54 AM

2021-09-05T10:54:49-04:00

Take action only when you know what you are doing.

Response by CSM Walter Phillips made Sep 5 at 2021 10:56 AM

2021-09-05T10:56:12-04:00

DISCIPLINE

Response by PO2 Mike Shiveley made Sep 5 at 2021 11:54 AM

2021-09-05T11:54:38-04:00

Everything you do is part of your autobiography.

Response by MGySgt Bob Willis made Sep 5 at 2021 2:04 PM

2021-09-05T14:04:45-04:00

Self discipline and personal responsibility.

Response by PO3 Monica Zink Davenport made Sep 5 at 2021 3:30 PM

2021-09-05T15:30:00-04:00

Traits: teamwork, complete what you start and face challenges head on..

Response by SGT Dennis Bolin made Sep 5 at 2021 9:16 PM

2021-09-05T21:16:39-04:00

loyalty,being humble and treat people with respect

Response by SSgt Marian Mitchell made Sep 5 at 2021 10:56 PM

2021-09-05T22:56:00-04:00

Everyone did a great job responding so...
I'm going with 10 minute showers. saves on time, water, electricity. My mom was shocked when I came home on leave and was in & out of the shower so quickly. I got better things to do in my life than stand in the shower for ages.

Response by PO1 Steve Newton made Sep 5 at 2021 11:40 PM

2021-09-05T23:40:20-04:00

God...duty...honor and country

Response by PO1 Michael Frey made Sep 6 at 2021 12:01 AM

2021-09-06T00:01:16-04:00

Responsibility and commitment to your team. Despite the Army’s old slogan, no one is an Army of One. And once they have kids, the kids are the center of the world. It’s no longer about what you want to do. It’s about doing for your kids.

Response by BG Mike Bridges made Sep 6 at 2021 1:14 AM

2021-09-06T01:14:02-04:00

Duty. Honor, Country.

Response by SFC W. Stewart made Sep 6 at 2021 1:25 AM

2021-09-06T01:25:02-04:00

Honor, Respect for your country/flag, Responsibility.

Response by SPC Jeffrey Frusha made Sep 6 at 2021 1:40 AM

2021-09-06T01:40:43-04:00

How to responsibly and safely handle and use firearms.

We have a farm in an area with poisonous snakes, feral dogs, feral hogs, rabid animals, coyote, wolves and black bear, plus drug traffickers, human traffickers, idjits that think they can take what they want, anytime, a nation that is falling apart with people placing treats to come shoot and murder over mere political opinions,...

It's a sad sad place that the world has become.

Response by Cpl Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2021 2:13 AM

2021-09-06T02:13:01-04:00

Knowing how to put the needs of the group ahead of your own comfort. If everyone did that, we wouldn't need militaries.

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2021 2:54 AM

2021-09-06T02:54:29-04:00

Discipline and love for your country!!

Response by SSG Steven Gotz made Sep 6 at 2021 3:04 AM

2021-09-06T03:04:50-04:00

Take care of the little things first. Make the bed, fold and put away your clothes, keep everything clean.

The big things are easier to tackle when the little things are simply a habit.

Response by SFC Linda Clipp made Sep 6 at 2021 3:08 AM

2021-09-06T03:08:42-04:00

Situational awareness. Always look at your surroundings and the people and animals therein. You can protect yourself, your loved ones, and perhaps others. This is a major part of readiness, and a skill most folks don't have. Practice looking, noticing, and listening to the world around you...home this skill so you can act when a situation presents.

Response by PO3 Patricia Miner made Sep 6 at 2021 3:26 AM

2021-09-06T03:26:54-04:00

Patriotism and love of country. The importance of following the news not the opinions of others, voting with full knowledge of the candidates. Keeping government honest and holding it responsible for it's failures. (Yeah I know how dishonest it is right now.)

My daughter is 33 and has learned these lessons well and continues to learn in todays environment. I believe responsible, well informed voting is the most important thing Americans should do. It is our most important right in this country and not only affects our world but the world our children and grandchildren inherit.

Response by PFC Edward Mayer made Sep 6 at 2021 3:39 AM

2021-09-06T03:39:31-04:00

Responsibility

Response by PFC Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2021 4:00 AM

2021-09-06T04:00:54-04:00

Always remember having good core values when faced with challenges.

Response by SP5 Ed McCoy made Sep 6 at 2021 4:41 AM

2021-09-06T04:41:31-04:00

respect, honor n courage. Team work is dream work

Response by Ellen Limbach made Sep 6 at 2021 5:17 AM

2021-09-06T05:17:28-04:00

Take care of one another , always be responsible for your actions

Response by PO3 Steven Asman made Sep 6 at 2021 5:35 AM

2021-09-06T05:35:45-04:00

being prompt and on time for appointments, meetings and every day general activities . Honor and Respect for the flag which you and your brothers and sisters diligently fought for. stand ground for all the positive things you've done but be receptive to negative actions

Response by PO3 Grant Skiles made Sep 6 at 2021 5:44 AM

2021-09-06T05:44:19-04:00

See a person not a color when you are interacting with others. My kids now have kids. One is a College cross country coach in New Mexico and another is a Respiratory Therapist in PA.

Response by SPC Todd Curran made Sep 6 at 2021 5:47 AM

2021-09-06T05:47:50-04:00

take initiative. be 15min early so your never late. take pride in your work. do the right thing even when no one is looking. and don't be a back stabber like i had in some of the chain of command .listen to both side before rushing in a decision . be loyal which my last chain of command wasn't became politically correct .

Response by CPL Robert Headrick made Sep 6 at 2021 5:52 AM

2021-09-06T05:52:13-04:00

Discipline. Responsibility. Being on time. Taking pride in how one looks.

Response by SGT John Goschka made Sep 6 at 2021 6:04 AM

2021-09-06T06:04:18-04:00

Respect team work.

Response by MSgt Bill Shields made Sep 6 at 2021 6:10 AM

2021-09-06T06:10:38-04:00

Knowing how to take care of myself and depend on no one.

Response by CH (CPT) Ephraim Travis made Sep 6 at 2021 6:21 AM

2021-09-06T06:21:31-04:00

Ownership of personal actions, loyalty, respect for self, appreciation/gratitude for and towards service members and Vets, courage, discipline, willingness to be trainable/coachable, selfless service...

Response by SP5 Sam Powell made Sep 6 at 2021 6:48 AM

2021-09-06T06:48:54-04:00

Trust your instincts.

Response by Sgt Michael Daubert made Sep 6 at 2021 7:16 AM

2021-09-06T07:16:02-04:00

Respect dignity and kindness.

Response by LTC Anthony Monroe made Sep 6 at 2021 7:26 AM

2021-09-06T07:26:47-04:00

To respect all people and to treat anyone like a lady or gentleman until they prove to be otherwise!

Response by Cpl Joe Palmeri made Sep 6 at 2021 7:35 AM

2021-09-06T07:35:15-04:00

Honor, courage, and commitment.

Response by Sgt Zulma Rivera made Sep 6 at 2021 7:46 AM

2021-09-06T07:46:08-04:00

I learned that despite a horrific experience I had as a women in the military at the hands of an MP there are still men full of honor, integrity, faithfulness, kindness and love of his of which describes what Real Strength is all about.

Response by PO1 Robbie Bell made Sep 6 at 2021 8:08 AM

2021-09-06T08:08:26-04:00

Do what you’re told when you’re told to do it.

Response by Sgt Juan Carlos Colon Agosto made Sep 6 at 2021 8:20 AM

2021-09-06T08:20:03-04:00

Respect, Honor, and taking my jobs very seriously. Do the job right the first time.

Response by CPO Michael Sordelet made Sep 6 at 2021 8:48 AM

2021-09-06T08:48:14-04:00

Attention to detail, respect for flag and country,

Response by 1SG Danny Ramos made Sep 6 at 2021 9:01 AM

2021-09-06T09:01:40-04:00

Discipline, responsibility and dedication.

Response by SFC William Vernon made Sep 6 at 2021 9:01 AM

2021-09-06T09:01:55-04:00

Common courtesy and treating people with dignity will go a long way in accomplishing a goal

Response by MAJ Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2021 9:05 AM

2021-09-06T09:05:22-04:00

Personal responsibility, dedication as too many give up when something becomes too hard, respect for ones Country/Flag/and the men and women that sacrifice for it.

Response by Sgt Jamie Beaulieu made Sep 6 at 2021 9:13 AM

2021-09-06T09:13:19-04:00

Doing the right thing won't make you popular. It will be the hardest thing you'll ever do. But, if you do the right thing you'll one day find that you haven't fallen for the lies your friends have and you'll have spared yourself considerable hardship as a result.

Response by SrA Manny Diaz made Sep 6 at 2021 9:33 AM

2021-09-06T09:33:55-04:00

Discipline, principles, values, work ethics, and love for country.

Response by SGT Craig Hoffman made Sep 6 at 2021 9:36 AM

2021-09-06T09:36:13-04:00

I believe the problems we currently have in our country now, it is important to explain the importance of our freedom! So many men and women have made the ultimate sacrifice over all the years so we can be free. We can not let it fail on our shift. We must show them the importance of our freedom!

Response by SSgt Ben Phillips made Sep 6 at 2021 9:47 AM

2021-09-06T09:47:08-04:00

Honor and respect for the flag, our country and those who serve.

Response by SFC Ed Hansell made Sep 6 at 2021 9:48 AM

2021-09-06T09:48:35-04:00

responsibility for their actions & choices

Response by Pvt SanJuana Méndez made Sep 6 at 2021 9:53 AM

2021-09-06T09:53:08-04:00

Same way I learned from mistakes my parents my parents made, I've learned from way I wz treated in military life; & that's hw I've tried to bring up my children. I nvr told them they could do as they wish & then manipulate things to my liking.

I'm proud of my son who followed in his father's & my footsteps & enlisted despite my advise. He asked hw I'd feel & I explained I wouldn't like it coz he's my ONLY son & our country, contrary to popular opinion, wz at war only a few months after 9/11. I knew that DoD would feel free to send my son to send to war torn countries if they wished to coz, tho he's MY only son, he wz his father's YOUNGEST of 3 sons.

I know nothing about time my son served. What I do know is that DoD wz prepared to send my son, an Anglo-Hispanic who had forgotten what little Spanish he'd learn as a child, to El Salvador--a country with decades of violent & oppressive notoriety. When my son asked me personal (dates & places of birth) information about his father & me, I became curious & asked him why he wanted this information; THAT'S when he confirmed my suspicions & told me DoD wanted to send him to El Salvador. I have no idea what happened after I finished giving my son information he asked for, after I told him hw I felt about DoD's intention to send him to El Salvador. What I do know is that my son wz inviting me to Thanksgiving dinner closer to home a few months later. A few months (less than a yr) after that dinner, it wz his sister--my daughter--who told me her brother wz no longer serving.

Response by CPL Barrie D Davey made Sep 6 at 2021 9:57 AM

2021-09-06T09:57:13-04:00

Give you allegiance to your "God" "The Queen" and your "Country"

Response by AA Loreen Silvarahawk made Sep 6 at 2021 9:58 AM

2021-09-06T09:58:17-04:00

Duty, honor, perseverance but most of all integrity in all one does even if no-one is looking.

Response by SN Dale "CG" Veach made Sep 6 at 2021 10:06 AM

2021-09-06T10:06:49-04:00

taking full responsibility for your actions, especially your mistakes. Ownership of your decisions ans choices. And being a team.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2021 10:27 AM

2021-09-06T10:27:33-04:00

Work ethic- work hard, play hard.

Response by MSgt Don Dobbs made Sep 6 at 2021 10:39 AM

2021-09-06T10:39:45-04:00

Discipline and promptness as well as accepting criticism and responsibility.

Response by CH (LTC) Jon Tidball made Sep 6 at 2021 10:52 AM

2021-09-06T10:52:18-04:00

Semper Gumby "Always Flexible". Rigidity under the right pressure will break you, so if you want to be able to rebound from crisis you have to be flexible and able to adapt.

Response by LTC Wayne Brandon made Sep 6 at 2021 11:26 AM

2021-09-06T11:26:00-04:00

While these traits were taught at home (my father was a CSM) they were reinforced in the Army. They include but are not limited to:
Personal discipline/self-respect;
Honor;
Keeping mentally, physically, and spiritually fit;
An abhorrence for mediocrity;
Teamwork;
Respect for authority and others;
Taking responsibility;
Being accountable for your actions; and
Striving to better yourself, daily.

These traits I instilled in my children and they have served them well.
My son enlisted in the USMC prior to 9/11 and my daughter enlisted immediately after 9/11.
My son concluded his enlistment with the Corps and re-enlisted in the Army where he is presently stationed in Korea and number 20 on the current promotion list for Master Sergeant.
My daughter spent seven years in the Air Force and left as a Staff Sergeant.
She presently serves as a Training Officer for the Department of Corrections in S.C.
Both of them are great Americans of whom I am exceedingly proud as they are raising their children to embrace the same traits. (With a little help from dad, of course)

Response by MCPO Hilary Kunz made Sep 6 at 2021 11:32 AM

2021-09-06T11:32:47-04:00

At his age, I’m working on appearance, getting dressed properly. The better you look, the better you are accepted by others. Reading is also important, and he’s doing well at that. At 3 there’s not a lot more to teach, I feel like my/our behavior is most important at this time, no PG-13 movies, Mass every week, that sort of thing.

Response by SPC Deon Holmes made Sep 6 at 2021 11:40 AM

2021-09-06T11:40:03-04:00

Get up early before the birds and the sun = get more shit done! Deon Holmes

Response by CW2 Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2021 11:49 AM

2021-09-06T11:49:05-04:00

Prioritize what you need to do. Do the most important things first!!!

Response by CPT Larry Hudson made Sep 6 at 2021 12:05 PM

2021-09-06T12:05:54-04:00

Honesty, truth, pride in country, respect for flag, respect for law enforcement, denense of Constitution, vetting political candidates before voting, family and belief in God.

Response by MSgt Al Beese made Sep 6 at 2021 12:07 PM

2021-09-06T12:07:46-04:00

Responsibility!

Response by SPC Ana Moody-Dash made Sep 6 at 2021 12:14 PM

2021-09-06T12:14:05-04:00

Tolerance1

Response by TSgt Don Dollinger made Sep 6 at 2021 12:40 PM

2021-09-06T12:40:28-04:00

Appreciation for and service to country.

Response by SSG Rick Moncher made Sep 6 at 2021 12:41 PM

2021-09-06T12:41:49-04:00

Love of your country.

Response by SPC James Farrell made Sep 6 at 2021 12:50 PM

2021-09-06T12:50:01-04:00

The military doesn't *have* discipline so much as it teaches you to create discipline within yourself. I've carried that lesson with me the rest of my life.

Response by SPC John Hall made Sep 6 at 2021 1:08 PM

2021-09-06T13:08:14-04:00

Responsibility, honor, and respect

Response by 1st Lt Padre Dave Poedel made Sep 6 at 2021 1:17 PM

2021-09-06T13:17:02-04:00

Seeking after God, respecting others and knowing that as a Christian we are free to love everyone in Jesus’s Name which means we disparage no one for their appearance, cognitive ability, station in life or choice of vocation, a willingness to give back as a thanks for all they receive. I ask them to see Christ in everyone, and if you can’t find Him it is not their problem but yours as a matter of perspective.

Response by MSG Kevin Elliott made Sep 6 at 2021 1:43 PM

2021-09-06T13:43:52-04:00

Honor, dedication, decisiveness, service to country, taking responsibility for your actions and for your decisions.

Response by SGT Tim Tobin made Sep 6 at 2021 2:25 PM

2021-09-06T14:25:56-04:00

personal responsibility and loyalty

Response by PO2 Joan MacNeill made Sep 6 at 2021 2:26 PM

2021-09-06T14:26:44-04:00

I learned to believe in myself; that I can do more than I thought I could. That's something worthy of passing on.

I won't mention those OTHER traits, that should not be passed on. There are always some of those...

Response by Sgt Stephen Brown made Sep 6 at 2021 2:34 PM

2021-09-06T14:34:31-04:00

Do what you say you are going to do.

Response by PO2 David Harlow made Sep 6 at 2021 3:16 PM

2021-09-06T15:16:42-04:00

Responsibility and punctuality. "If you're on time, you're late." I still show up to doctor's appts at least 15 early, sometimes I even get to see them earlier as a "reward".

Response by COL Jim Ainslie made Sep 6 at 2021 3:31 PM

2021-09-06T15:31:37-04:00

Integrity

Response by LTC Ken Pruitt made Sep 6 at 2021 3:38 PM

2021-09-06T15:38:19-04:00

Honor, Integrity, and taking responsibility for your actions!!

Response by SGT Leonard Frank made Sep 6 at 2021 5:16 PM

2021-09-06T17:16:22-04:00

chain of command for one, and not my kids but at work and worst of all my VFW post. Also Communication! (both places again!) tell people what you are going to do, dont leave a poo poo trail for them to follow and hope they can, or worse hold it and leave no trail LOL.

Response by SSG James Lopez made Sep 6 at 2021 5:42 PM

2021-09-06T17:42:52-04:00

Never give up, be responsible for all your actions and always depend on GOD. Love your country and respect others

Response by Sgt Laura Campbell made Sep 6 at 2021 6:16 PM

2021-09-06T18:16:35-04:00

1: Work ethic, work until the job is done,even if it takes more.time than expected, without complaint.
2: Be prepared to wait. You get paid whether you are actively working or just waiting, so wait patiently.
3: It is better to be early & wait than late & unemployed. If you tend toward late, set your clock forward, or schedule as if everything starts 20 minutes before it actually does.

Response by Bob Goodworth made Sep 6 at 2021 6:19 PM

2021-09-06T18:19:52-04:00

Ladies and gentlemen,
Being an Australian Veteran, how would I be able to obtain some US miltiaria namely: cavalry cords, Captain to Colonel metal rank badges, Army Aviator badge(large and small), Warrant Officer badges just a gentle query, TIA , : we few,we happy few, we band of brothers and sisters who stand the vigil over our Nations; we Protectors of Nations and Keepers of the Peace.E du Legio Superba et Stupenda

Response by 1LT Rich Voss made Sep 6 at 2021 7:00 PM

2021-09-06T19:00:03-04:00

Patience. During my years of service, no matter what rank I held, there were a lot of "hurry up and wait" situations. More often than not without any explanation. It reinforced what I first learned in childhood. Oft times things occur on other peoples schedules, not mine.

Response by CPO Michael Todd made Sep 6 at 2021 7:31 PM

2021-09-06T19:31:05-04:00

Patience and punctuality.

Response by SPC Michael Duricko, Ph.D made Sep 6 at 2021 7:46 PM

2021-09-06T19:46:55-04:00

A "FOOL" learns from his own mistakes, but a "WISEMAN" learns from the mistakes of others.

Response by PO1 Randy Morse made Sep 6 at 2021 10:01 PM

2021-09-06T22:01:40-04:00

The biggest thing I have always tried to instill in my daughter is respect along with there are no barriers that you can not overcome!!

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Sep 6 at 2021 11:12 PM

2021-09-06T23:12:08-04:00

Treating others with respect, regardless of their background.

Response by SPC John McCarthy made Sep 7 at 2021 5:01 AM

2021-09-07T05:01:03-04:00

discipline, commitment, being your personal best, candor, integrity, sense of purpose,

Response by CPL Edward Williams made Sep 7 at 2021 6:59 AM

2021-09-07T06:59:00-04:00

I taught my kids to respect our flag, regardless of their political beliefs, and what it stands for. So many have died or suffered in many ways for that flag and what it stands for.

Response by SrA William Hull made Sep 7 at 2021 7:42 AM

2021-09-07T07:42:06-04:00

Integrity and self-discipline.

Response by SPC Karen Coyle made Sep 7 at 2021 8:34 AM

2021-09-07T08:34:16-04:00

You don't need to like or agree with everything going on in this country to still love it. Politics swing like pendulums. Use your power to vote. Be active if you choose but look at all sides and history to make sure you know what you are talking about.

Response by SSG Michael Grant made Sep 7 at 2021 8:47 AM

2021-09-07T08:47:16-04:00

The traits that I learned in service were to respect others even if you don't agree with them, honesty, respect, integrity, selfless service, take care of your soldiers and they will take care of you, also applies to family, present yourself always in a professional manner and above all if you don't know, don't be afraid to ask and a good leader knows how to listen, distribute responsibilities among the soldiers and be able to teach and train your soldiers for advancement in soldiering and MOS. always support the command and senior leaders even when we don't agree with the orders, the mission must be accomplished at all cost. always be prepared to stand up and support your leaders and subordinates.

Response by Capt Al Parker made Sep 7 at 2021 6:33 PM

2021-09-07T18:33:50-04:00

Do what you boss wants you to do. Be kind to all.

Response by SSgt Dexter Dearth made Sep 7 at 2021 7:01 PM

2021-09-07T19:01:51-04:00

If you're 10 minutes early you're 5 minutes late.

Response by PV2 Steven Stockwell made Sep 7 at 2021 7:38 PM

2021-09-07T19:38:09-04:00

To Always Work Together As A Team No Matter How Hard Things Mite Seem

Response by SSG Sidney Galloway made Sep 7 at 2021 8:00 PM

2021-09-07T20:00:56-04:00

My kids turned out fine. I was strict, and ex-wife was more so. My kids were always neat, organized and punctual. They say "Yes, please" and "No thank you." My step-kids? It's too late for the 22 year old. Hoping the 13 year old turns out better.

Response by SFC Kandi Temple made Sep 7 at 2021 8:29 PM

2021-09-07T20:29:58-04:00

Discipline, bearing, leadership, training/building others up, loyalty, respect, promptness, moving with a sense of purpose (I say this all the time,) sacrifice.

Response by Maj Robert Larkowski made Sep 8 at 2021 5:31 AM

2021-09-08T05:31:37-04:00

How about discipline and doing the right thing!

Response by SGT Kelly Murphy made Sep 8 at 2021 9:40 AM

2021-09-08T09:40:31-04:00

I want my family to know that when you are entrusted with a task, get it done! Leadership/Mom and Dad/Bosses typically don't care how it gets done, but that it get done on time and without incident. If I have to hold your hand through every step of a process, I may as well have done it myself. The old saying "Adapt and overcome" should end with...and get it done. Just don't burn down the house while you are doing it.

Response by SP5 John Burleson made Sep 8 at 2021 12:50 PM

2021-09-08T12:50:21-04:00

I learned something that can only be verbalized as "You control me or I control you." It's worked for me for 50 years and I hope it works for the younger generation reading this.

Response by PO1 Don Benson made Sep 8 at 2021 3:13 PM

2021-09-08T15:13:07-04:00

Attention to detail.

Response by PO1 BrendaLee Lennick made Sep 8 at 2021 3:24 PM

2021-09-08T15:24:16-04:00

My children are responsible adults and citizens. Whatever I learned myself while still growing up while serving was apparently picked up by them. And is being instilled in my grandchildren. I'm not sure the military taught me any more than I already personally expected of myself, but I did learn I'm capable of more than I realized. I HOPE this is something they took away also.

Response by SPC Amanda Mitchell made Sep 8 at 2021 3:32 PM

2021-09-08T15:32:02-04:00

Honor our flag, respect for country, and duty to your family and community

Response by Lt Col James Jeffreys made Sep 8 at 2021 3:42 PM

2021-09-08T15:42:11-04:00

Be on time

Response by SGM Willie Sanderson made Sep 8 at 2021 4:30 PM

2021-09-08T16:30:22-04:00

Honesty and integrity are the two things I believe I built my entire career upon. When my Soldiers saw my each day they new exactly what to expect. My Son and Daughter must have listened and learned as well. So far both of them have had great success in their life pursuits.

Response by MAJ John Davis made Sep 8 at 2021 6:14 PM

2021-09-08T18:14:50-04:00

Patience.

Response by MSgt Marvin Kinderknecht made Sep 8 at 2021 8:43 PM

2021-09-08T20:43:55-04:00

The best thing I learned was "be on time or be early" Nobody likes a "late " comer.

Response by SPC Michael Duricko, Ph.D made Sep 8 at 2021 9:28 PM

2021-09-08T21:28:38-04:00

SURVIVAL!

Response by Pvt SanJuana Méndez made Sep 9 at 2021 3:49 AM

2021-09-09T03:49:55-04:00

Trust nothing at face value; demand full disclosure. If told u'r getting ur way, make sure that all details are as u expect. I tried to defer active duty in order to ensure family matters were tended to. Instead of offering hardship discharge, I wz told I wz getting my way but wz given RE4 & honorable discharge based on attitude--no disclosure as to consequence of this type discharged.

If u'r asked if u've read something, expect detailed explanation. At separation hearing, wz asked if I'd read Jeanne Dixon's book "Prophecy." I asked why I wz asked & wz merely told there wz a chapter in it about President Kennedy's trip to Dallas. Wzn't told they wondered if I believed I wz psychic.

My superiors' failure to disclose caused them to discriminate against me in 2 ways: 1) gender--apparently, only men are offered hardship discharge when family crisis arises; culture--not psychic but, coz of Native American heritage, sensitive (latent paranormal ability--extra-sensory perception).

Response by SSG Cam Prince made Sep 9 at 2021 7:40 AM

2021-09-09T07:40:07-04:00

Thanks to my father, I had most of the good traits, the Army was teaching. I did become better at fitness discipline.

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Response by SGT Michael Jordan made Sep 9 at 2021 9:03 PM

2021-09-09T21:03:03-04:00

Perseverance in the face of adversity.

Response by James Rush made Sep 9 at 2021 10:19 PM

2021-09-09T22:19:53-04:00

Doing a good job

Response by A1C Robert Underwood made Sep 10 at 2021 12:39 AM

2021-09-10T00:39:35-04:00

Bringing order to myself, I tried to get my kids to understand that, but my stepson just could not get it. maybe I could have pushed a little harder I still don't think it would have done any good.

Response by LTC Wayne Dandridge made Sep 10 at 2021 10:58 AM

2021-09-10T10:58:33-04:00

My RP Comrades,
You may enjoy this magazine and newspaper article on leadership that was published in four parts recently in the Beaufort, SC ISLAND NEWS newspaper. An older version of the article is in BLADES OF THUNDER (Book One) and has been published in over 20 magazines and newspapers and two books in the USA, Germany, and England. Many readers have called this article the best short course in leadership ever written.

Hopefully all the leaders you have worked with have had a similiar philosophy of leadership.

Best wishes,

Larry
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Military & Civilian Leadership – A guide for military, civil service, political, and industry leaders
(Part 1 of 4)

Part 1 Published on August 18, 2021 in Contributors/Larry Dandridge/Military by newsbyte
https://yourislandnews.com/military-civilian-leadership-a-guide-for-military-civil-service-political-and-industry-leaders/

To date, I have written 20 articles on veterans’ benefits, four articles on end-of-life planning and hospice, and 12 articles on what citizens should know about law enforcement for The Island News. This article is the first of a series of four articles on leadership.

This leadership article is based on an award-winning speech that I gave at the Armed Forces Staff College in 1984. The article describes what is and what is not good leadership. It is based on a lifetime of research and the leadership used by the best leaders and managers the author has observed and worked with in the government and industry.

This series of newspaper and magazine articles on leadership have been updated frequently and published in various other forms in more than 23 magazines and newspapers and three books in the U.S., Germany, Canada, and England over the past 35 years.

Older versions of this leadership information have been used, under various titles, by dozens of government, patriotic, and military organizations and schools, including: The U.S. Military Academy, the Department of Homeland Security, the German War College, the Military Order of World Wars, the National Guard Association, the U.S. Coast Guard Academy, the U.S. Army’s Berlin Brigade, the U.S. Army Europe, the Association of the U.S. Army, and almost every U.S. Army School, including the Engineer, Aviation, Field Artillery, Air Defense Artillery, Military Police, Chemical (NBC), and Adjutant General.

This philosophy of leadership has also been used by many civilian companies and organizations including Blue Cross Blue Shield, Cobro Corporation, QinetiQ North America Inc., Westar Aerospace and Defense Group, McAdams Technologies Inc., CLC Hospice LLC, and TVV Publishing LLC.

Leadership: A Personal Point of View

Treating men and women equally without regard to race, color, creed, religion, age, custom, sexual preference, or political party is leadership. Honoring our country’s military men and women, prisoners of war (POWs) and missing in action (MIAs), veterans, and their families is leadership. Visiting your wounded and sick frequently is leadership.

Knowing and living by the Constitution, the Code of Conduct, the Geneva Convention, the Ten Commandments, the laws of our land, and the basic human rights of all mankind is leadership. Duty, honor, and country is leadership.

Leadership is taking the point position when your flight, unit, or business is expecting contact with the enemy or competition with other businesses. (Don’t interpret this to mean the point or flight lead position is where the military commander should be all of the time.) Leadership is flying a crippled bomber to the ground when one of your wounded crew members cannot bail out.

Leadership is keeping your young soldiers, Marines, airmen, sailors, and coast guardsmen (and employees) alive. Leadership is never leaving your wounded behind. Leadership is writing a dead trooper’s or sailor’s family or employee’s family a personal letter immediately after the battle or accident.

No compromise of the integrity of one’s word, deed, or signature is leadership. Setting high standards and seeing that they are met is leadership. Intelligence, dedication, creativity, and selflessness are leadership. Stamina, vigor, and commitment are leadership.

Spontaneous, contagious enthusiasm is leadership. Initiative, self-improvement, research and professionalism are leadership. Reading and studying the subjects and intelligence important to your job and family are leadership.

Leadership is rewarding a soldier, sailor, airman, Marine, coast guardsman, merchant mariner, or civilian employee with the appropriate recognition immediately after exceptional service. Leadership is commanding, advising, mentoring, and managing. Leadership is establishing and meeting, by priority, specific objectives. Leadership is managing by exception, using job enlargement, and seeking job enrichment.

Leadership knows that leading is more than just “follow me”, but also, and, maybe more importantly, “follow my orders and directions”.

Believing in God, family, and country, in that order is leadership. Being humanistic is leadership.

Trusting well trained Marines, soldiers, sailors, airmen, coast guardsmen and employees’ ideas and decisions is leadership. Knowing what and where the mission is at, when the troops (and civilian workers) and material are to be there, and how many troops and systems are needed to win is leadership. Blocking out periods of private time to accomplish creative work and recharge is leadership.

Compromising for the good of the whole with sister departments and partner leaders on budgeting, planning, organizing, coordinating, directing, and executing is leadership.

Leadership is not glorifying war. Leadership is not doing “anything” just to get promoted or elected. Leadership is not winning the battle at all costs, nor is it losing a war to avoid causalities. Leadership is not found in the security of a well-fortified command bunker, nor is it found in a plush officers’ field mess or golf course.

Leadership is assertive, but not aggressive. Leadership is not ruthless nor mindless discipline, but it is the ability to do the right thing at the right time, by putting the whole before the parts. Leadership is not a good efficiency report or employee appraisal, nor is it paper (false) readiness or value. Leadership is not a court martial for every mistake nor is it leniency for serious violations. Leadership is fair, predictable, and consistent.

(Part 2 of 4)
Published on August 25, 2021 in Contributors/Larry Dandridge/Military by newsbyte
https://yourislandnews.com/military-civilian-leadership-a-guide-for-military-civil-service-political-and-industry-leaders-2/

Giving a superior sound and tactful professional advice, even when you know he or she does not want to hear it is leadership. After you have given your best advice, following all legal, moral, and ethical orders, even when you do not agree with them is leadership.

Leading when you can; following when you should; and getting the hell out of the way, when you have nothing to offer is leadership. Learning the language, culture, and customs of a host or partner country (and customer country and your employees) is leadership.

A general or admiral who knows the friendly and enemy situation, knows the immediate action (unjam and clear) for his or her rifle, and knows his or her enlisted aides’ first names and family situations is leadership.

A private or seaman (or civilian employee) who knows that he or she is in the chain of command and may have to take over when senior in rank is leadership. Knowing that a water truck in the desert is worth more combat power that an extra armored cavalry regiment is leadership.

Leadership is not being right all the time, and it is certainly not being wrong most of the time. Leadership is not reluctant to get dirty, hot, cold, or physically tired with his troops (and employees).

Leadership is not forgetting that the past is our heritage, the present is our challenge, and the future is our responsibility. Leadership knows that combat or tariffs without conscience is not leadership.

Leadership is saying no to drugs, not smoking, and not drinking alcohol in excess. Staying in top physical condition is leadership.
Displaying knowledge, managing resources efficiently, and planning beyond the immediate requirements of assigned duties is leadership.

Creating an organization of mutual respect is leadership. Building an organization and environment where it is not necessary to tell military men and women or employees what to do is leadership.

Leadership fixes problems – not blame. Leadership is delegating authority, commanding confidence and respect, and accepting full responsibility for your actions.

Leadership is ingenuity, sociability, tact, and tenacity. Leadership is cross training. Leadership is adaptability, appearance, cooperation, and decisiveness.

Good leadership is guiding. Leadership is legendary. Leadership is foresight. Leadership is absorbent, abstinent, and, unfortunately, at times it is abominable.

Leadership is baccalaureate, balanced, basic, and too frequently backward and barbaric. Leadership has saved lives, killed, stopped wars, and started wars. Leadership has walked softly and carried a big stick, but it has also been loud and nonviolent.

Good leaders know why concentration of combat power is important. A true leader knows about defense-in-depth and the advantages our forces have at night, and how to use them.
A wise leader knows that young military men and women spend most of their time worrying about and planning tactics, while older more experienced troops and employees spend the majority of their time worrying about and planning logistics.

Leadership can be good or bad, centralized or decentralized, warm or cold, offensive or defensive, macro or micro, or expensive or free.

Leadership can be Catholic or Protestant, Jewish or Muslim, Hindu or Mormon, or Atheist or Agnostic.

Good leaders prevent over mobility of junior leaders and troops, by keeping them in their jobs long enough to learn their jobs and their common and collective tasks, and to work as team members. Establishing and promoting individual skill certification, team certification, and vendor certification programs is leadership.

Leadership provides their troops (and employees/contractors) with plenty of clean water and hot food. Leadership keeps their troops as comfortable and safe as possible. Leadership keeps their troops clean, supplied, informed, and vaccinated against disease. Leadership keeps military and civilian employees from becoming depressed, harassed, and suicidal.

Good military and civilian leaders hope and pray for the best but plan for the worst. Leaders know about the need to wage “total war” to win. Good military and civilian leaders know the special advantage the defender has in cities, mountains, tunnels, and jungles. Good leaders know to not keep Marine and Soldier weapons locked up and away from them, but rather train troops to live with a clean, safe, and serviceable weapon that they are an expert in.

Leadership is embodied in Martin Luther King Jr., Army Colonel Joshua Lawrence Chamberlain, President Abraham Lincoln, Marine Sgt. John Basilone, Pope John Paul II, Marine aviator Gregory “Pappy” Boyington, Jesus, Moses the Prophet, Roy P. Benavidez, Prime Minister Winston Churchill, Navy Seal Michael Mansoor, Mohammed the Prophet, and many other well-known figures. Leaders also know that hundreds of thousands of the unknowns like Bubba Segrest, Dan Hickman, and Sam DeLoach are excellent leaders.

Leadership is not lying to, bullying, or attacking anyone who does not agree with you. Leadership does not abusively and unresponsively use social media to attack, threaten, or insult others. Using a lie or half-truth over and over again is not leadership.

Good leaders know the United States must always have a foreign policy that is constant in purpose and flexible in means. They also know to continue to support its allies, like Canada, Mexico, Great Britain, Australia, Germany, NATO, South Korea, and Israel, but America must end these huge blunders like sending huge armies to Vietnam, Iraq, and Afghanistan, especially when Special Forces, Special Operations, the Central Intelligence Agency (CIA), and State Department efforts are more likely to provide long run favorable results.

Good leaders also know that every hate filled group in the Middle East is seeking to focus their venom on us and the rest of the Western World, but as Rudyard Kipling warned (paraphrasing) – “A tombstone awaits westerners with the epitaph carved on it that says, ‘A fool lies here who tries to hustle the East (and South West Asia)!’”
To be continued next week.

(Part 3 of 4)
Published on September 1, 2021 in Contributors/Larry Dandridge/Military by newsbyte
https://yourislandnews.com/military-civilian-leadership-a-guide-for-military-civil-service-political-and-industry-leaders-3/

Commitment to the team and a participatory form of leading that draws on every military member’s and employee’s knowledge and skills, at every level is leadership. Encouraging and quickly rewarding suggestions and complaints is leadership. Having an “open door” and “open mind” policy is leadership.

Empowering troops, civil service employees, civilian employees, and support contractors with the training, tools, publications, responsibility, authority, and accountability to get the tough jobs done is leadership. Making troops and employees multi-process, multi-weapon, and multi-functional experts is good leadership.

Practicing servant leadership is good leadership. Servant leaders set aside their egos and seek to place the needs of others first, to accomplish the mission, and improve the safety, security, happiness, readiness, competitiveness, opportunities, and growth of the organization and employees.

Leaders know that “the bitterness of low quality remains long after the sweetness of low price.” Leaders allow talented military men and women and civilian employees long leashes for experimenting. Leaders find ways to satisfy the essential need of troops and civilians to be both part of a team and be recognized as individuals.

Good leadership is guiding. Leadership is legendary. Leadership is foresight. Leadership is absorbent, abstinent, and, unfortunately, at times it is abominable. Leadership is balanced, basic, and too frequently backward and barbaric. Leadership has saved lives, killed, and stopped and started wars. Leadership has walked softly and carried a big stick, but it has also been loud and nonviolent.

Saying what you do in clear and concise Standard Operating Procedures (SOPs), Plans, Process Maps, and Orders is leadership – and doing what you say (following the SOP) is leadership. Breaking down communication barriers between staffs, line units, support organizations, political parties, allies, and sister units is leadership.

Leadership is acquiring knowledge and skill in the procurement, maintenance, transportation, distribution, and uninterrupted flow of supplies, facilities, and personnel. Leadership is knowing who, what, when, where, how, and why.

Leadership is listening to the voice of your customers. Leadership is coaching everyone to understand their job is a part of a process. Leadership knows, that people can observe a process, even those who are strangers to the process, with fresh eyes and see things like waste, hazards, places to improve, that closely involved workers may not see.

Leadership (especially for logisticians) is getting a black belt certification in Lean Six Sigma (L6S) techniques and other world class methods like:

• DMAIC (The L6S problem solving methodology known as Defining-Measuring-Analyzing-Improving-Controlling);
• Brain Storming and Affinity or Similarity diagramming (Team problem identification and solving by organizing a large number of ideas into their natural relationships);
• Five-why (Asking deep probing questioning to find root causes and develop counter measures to mistake proof processes);
• Process mapping (Identifying the flow and detailed steps of work processes);
• Cause and Effect (fishbone) and Pareto diagramming (Identifying causes and effects of problems and categorizing those causes into manageable and logical groups and priorities);
• Lean (Removing all waste of time and activity);
• Process mapping (Detailed flow charting, particularly useful in the service industries, where work processes involve unseen steps);
• Kaizen (Rapid improvement process);
• Reducing the eight types of waste (Waiting, overproduction, rework, motion, transportation, processing, inventory, and intellect);
• Balancing and leveling workload (Same level of work over time and same amount of work for each employee);
• Distance to customers and suppliers is evil;
• A place for everything and everything in its place (standardization);
• Five-Ss of layout design (Sorting out what is not needed, storing what is needed, shining/cleaning the area, standardizing the layout, and sustaining the effort);
• SIPOC Mapping (Defining the boundaries of your process by identifying suppliers-inputs-process-outputs-customers);
• Bench marking (Comparing your organization to other internal and external front-runner organizations and adopting those organizations good ideas); and
• Striving for perfection by continuously improving every process and performance.

Leadership is knowing that you can seldom wait until you have all of the answers. Leadership is repeatedly doing simple things that demonstrate sincerity. Leadership is listening to the voice of your internal customers (troops and employees) and external customers (the folks who buy or benefit from your products and services).

Honesty, enthusiasm, loyalty, courage, and wisdom is leadership. Taking care of your Marines, Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen, Coast Guardsmen, employees, and their dependents is leadership. Being a good boss, comrade and friend, father or mother, son or daughter, sister or brother, and husband or wife is leadership. Being a trustworthy ally and predictable trade partner is leadership. Knowing that the profession of arms is much more than just a job is leadership.

Leadership is being an unquestionable friend and protector of the environment. Leadership is basing decisions on facts. Leadership is promoting and rewarding continuous improvement and value. Leadership is being a champion of safety, fire prevention, and quality. Leadership is staying focused on internal customers, external customers, the enemy, and competitors.

Especially for logisticians, performing preventive maintenance, knowing what cellular techniques involve, being skilled in set-up reduction, and understanding rocks-in-the river problem solving and inventory management is leadership. Ensuring that resupply is at worst “in-time,” and is at best “just-in-time” is leadership.
Leadership is preventing harassment and a hostile work environment.

Leadership is enthusiasm, optimism, helping, training, encouraging, understanding, motivating, disciplining, crying, laughing, standing firm, giving way, counseling, correcting, giving a second chance, and trying again and again.

Leaders are tall, short, thin, heavy, male, female, black, brown, white, yellow, old, young, gay, transgender, and naturalized and un-naturalized. Leaders are from the city and from the farm. Leadership is working hard to close the gap between a soldier’s and civilian employee’s potential and their performance.

(Part 4 of 4)
Published on September 8, 2021 in Contributors/Larry Dandridge/Military by newsbyte
https://yourislandnews.com/military-civilian-leadership-a-guide-for-military-civil-service-political-and-industry-leaders-4/

Looking you in the eye, kicking you in the backside, covering your six (flank), and taking your Marine’s or soldier’s (or employee’s) place on the most dangerous mission is leadership. Knowing there is a place for everything and everything in its place is leadership.

Admitting mistakes and learning from them is leadership. Going through the food line last is leadership. Leaving the pickup zone (PZ) last on the last helicopter is leadership.

Going up the hill first and pulling your troops up behind you is leadership. Packing your own roll and digging your own hole is leadership. Making every troop and employee an expert in common tasks is leadership. Making certain every Marine, Soldier, Sailor, Airmen, and Coast Guardsman has the ability and training to, if needed, fight as an Infantryman is leadership.

Leadership is caring, compassion, understanding, and leading by example. Leadership is treating all prisoners and detainees in accordance with the Geneva Convention and other appropriate protections. Leadership knows that legal and ethical treatment of enemy prisoners is absolutely essential to having any kind of chance of getting the same humane treatment, from our enemies, for our military members who become Prisoners of War (POWs). Leadership is command and control and collaboration and creativity.

Simple, easy-to-understand orders come from the best leaders. Leaders make sure the enemy gives his life for his cause. Leadership ensures his or her troops always have the tactical advantage, best training, best equipment, and the highest morale, and plenty of water, rest, and hot food. The tides, the channels, the seasons, the winds, the hazards, the weather, the enemy (or for industry – the competition), the terrain, and the best forecast are all known by good leaders.

Leadership is not promoting or supporting racism, injustice, and extremist groups like Neo Nazis, white supremacists, and anti-Semitics. Leadership is not bragging to and threatening troops and employees. Leadership is not disrespecting our allies and their leaders. Leadership is not catering to and complementing our worst enemies, like Russia and North Korea.

Leadership drives the fear of employees, customers, vendors, and others making complaints and suggestions out of the workplace. Good leaders teach employees to “skip think” by looking past the initial negative feelings about complaints and instead learns to see each complaint as a gold mine of good ideas.

Breaking large problems down into small problems is leadership. Making quality and standards visible is leadership. Designing services and products on the needs and expectations of customers is leadership. Listening to the voice of your customers is leadership. Knowing that people work in the system and the leader’s job is to work on improving the system is leadership.
Leadership is teaching managers and employees team meeting skills including:

• Agreeing in advance on an objective;
• Developing an agenda;
• Setting time limits for discussion and brainstorming;
• Listening more and resolving conflicts politely; and
• Critiquing their meetings.

Leadership knows it is most important for each manager and employee to know what his or her job is, which frequently does not resemble his or her job title. New leaders know that one of the first questions they should ask is, “Where are your process maps for your work processes?” Good leaders know the great value of giving team and individual awards, as soon as possible after exceptional performance.

Leadership comes from experience, but experience comes from making some mistakes. A leader changes the odds and knows the risks. Leaders develop and reward teamwork. Leadership knows that the one most important word is “we” and the least most important word is “I”. Leadership knows there is no end to change, except failure. Leadership knows that if you treat every customer (and trooper) like your last or first, you would never have to worry about repeat business or recruitment.

Leaders often make good grades in school, have numerous years of formal education, and many important degrees. Less often however, they also have been known to fail math, English, Spanish, and other equally important subjects. Leaders work hard at ensuring the workload is distributed equally among all troops and workers.

Leadership comes from family, friends, teachers, coaches, peers, Non-Commissioned Officers (NCOs), warrant officers, commissioned officers, and chaplains. Simple, easy-to-understand orders come from good leaders. Complex tasks are changed into short and accurate plans through leadership.
Leadership can be learned and taught, but it cannot be forgotten nor bought. Leadership can be seen, tasted, smelled, felt, and heard, and it can come from a blind person with no hands who cannot hear, speak, or walk.

Good leaders look at everything (errors, infections, mistakes, accidents, employee turnover, waste, HAZMAT spills, losses, violence, complaints, harassment, fires, floods, crime, illiteracy, etc.) as controllable and preventable. Good leaders see the need for never-ending and continuous improvement.

So, what are you going to do? Lead, follow, or get out of the way!

ABOUT THE AUTHOR. Larry Dandridge is a Vietnam War era wounded warrior, a combat and 100% disabled veteran, an ex-Enlisted Infantryman, an Ex-Warrant Officer Attack Helicopter Pilot, and a retired Lt. Colonel. He is also a certified Lean Six Sigma Black Belt, a certified Business Process Re-engineering Expert, and a CA College Certified Instructor in business, industrial operations, aeronautics, and military science. He has held leadership positions in industry and the government in the aeras of operations, program management, quality, safety, security, proposal writing, procurement, and marketing. The founder of three successful small businesses, he has held leadership positions in industry from Team Leader to CEO. Larry is also a past Veterans Service Officer, and a current volunteer Patient Adviser, CEO Advisory Council Member, and Patient and Family Advisory Committee Member at the RHJ VA Medical Center. He is also the Fisher House Charleston volunteer Good Will Ambassador and the VP for Veteran and Retiree Affairs for the Coastal Carolina Army Association of the US Army (AUSA) Chapter. Larry is the author of the award-winning BLADES OF THUNDER (Book One) and a contributing free-lance writer with the Island News. You can email him at: [login to see] .

Military & Civilian Leadership – A guide for military, civil service, political, and industry...

To date, I have written 20 articles on veterans’ benefits, four articles on end-of-life planning and hospice, and 12 articles on what citizens should know about law enforcement for The Island News.

Response by MAJ Janice Campbell. BSN, RN, CNOR made Sep 10 at 2021 11:23 AM

2021-09-10T11:23:47-04:00

Dedication, commitment, work ethic, discipline, pride

Response by Cpl George Matousek made Sep 10 at 2021 5:29 PM

2021-09-10T17:29:59-04:00

Don't give up on yourself and what you can do, keep trying to be your best

Response by SrA Barbara Johnson made Sep 11 at 2021 3:44 PM

2021-09-11T15:44:24-04:00

Discipline, and that your word really and truly is the best that you can give anyone...if you don't mean it don't say it!

Response by SP5 Christopher Williams made Sep 11 at 2021 6:38 PM

2021-09-11T18:38:31-04:00

Live in the moment.

Response by SFC Edward Sneed made Sep 12 at 2021 11:37 AM

2021-09-12T11:37:51-04:00

Discipline and determination to get things done with all the avenues available to them, in order to accomplish what it is that they want out of life. We are in difficult times and being strong in your approach to different situations will help you do the things you need to do. My son, who us 36 now, knows how I am, and I express my ideas to him constantly. Although, I will not interfere in his final decisions.

Response by CPT Tim Wibking made Sep 12 at 2021 4:57 PM

2021-09-12T16:57:55-04:00

Follow your heart, use your head.

Response by Cpl Brian Ruby made Sep 12 at 2021 4:59 PM

2021-09-12T16:59:24-04:00

Self-discipline and mental toughness. Fortunately I was successful and have two great hardworking young men who take care of business.

Response by Janeen Rosenberg made Sep 12 at 2021 5:23 PM

2021-09-12T17:23:33-04:00

Accepting people from all walks of life

Response by SFC Charles Diers made Sep 12 at 2021 5:28 PM

2021-09-12T17:28:38-04:00

“Courage, Candor, Competence and Commitment”

Response by SGT Charles Bartell made Sep 12 at 2021 8:08 PM

2021-09-12T20:08:38-04:00

The traits that I learned are to keep every thing organized and clean.
I still fold my under where like I did in basic training. I still hang all my shirts and paint's, And suit's like was going to where them.

Response by SGT George Smith made Sep 12 at 2021 9:32 PM

2021-09-12T21:32:04-04:00

Don’t quite…ever.

Response by Capt Stefanie Irwin made Sep 13 at 2021 1:29 PM

2021-09-13T13:29:15-04:00

“Pain is fear leaving the body.” I saw that inscribed on a base gym wall and never and have never forgotten it.

Response by PO1 Ricky Allen made Sep 13 at 2021 2:40 PM

2021-09-13T14:40:33-04:00

Don’t get lost in the world. Your life is your life, it does not belong to them. Don’t give your life up for causes that won’t remember your name in the morning.

Response by PFC John Bruton made Sep 13 at 2021 3:20 PM

2021-09-13T15:20:32-04:00

Brotherhood

Response by MSgt John Parsons made Sep 13 at 2021 4:14 PM

2021-09-13T16:14:40-04:00

What, apparently did pass to my two sons, is personal honor, personal accountability, personal integrity, loyalty to the Constitution and Country, but most importantly, duty, honor and loyalty to one's honor. Burned into my brain was the statement "they can take my fortune, health and position; but only I can give up my honor. What I learned is bravery under fire in Combat is easy - the need to stay alive and keep others alive, but the bravery in garrison, to do the right thing in spite of pressure to conform, is the hardest of all. I thank God for pointing me to the hard road.

Response by PVT Robert Bernhardt made Sep 14 at 2021 10:01 AM

2021-09-14T10:01:11-04:00

Thoroughness and legibility.

Response by SrA Les Dunaway made Sep 16 at 2021 11:33 AM

2021-09-16T11:33:24-04:00

I've done my best to teach my kids and grandkids
1) Show up on time
2) Do what you've agreed to do - and a little more
3) Make sure you could pass inspection - shave, hair, shoes, press, ...

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made Sep 16 at 2021 12:02 PM

2021-09-16T12:02:03-04:00

- Values to guide behavior.
- Mission oriented.
- Don’t quit attitude.
- The utility if an OPORD methodology for complex tasks.
- Painting the picture.
- Be humble and have gratitude.
- Do your best.
- Be team oriented and value every team member.
- Have short and long term goals.
- Be patriotic.
- Learn from mistakes.
- Be physically fit.
- Find passion.
- Keep learning.
- Thank those who help you.
- All work and no play makes Jake a dull boy.

Response by SPC Margaret Higgins made Sep 16 at 2021 8:10 PM

2021-09-16T20:10:46-04:00

RallyPoint News In the Army, learned to be a good Leader: with the traits of- Compassion; Respect; Honor; and, Love.

Response by PO1 James Akins made Sep 17 at 2021 7:50 PM

2021-09-17T19:50:51-04:00

Love, honor and respect your country and the flag its under because there is other place like it on earth, give back to community and leave no one behind.

Response by SSgt Christopher Spaulding made Sep 20 at 2021 9:08 AM

2021-09-20T09:08:18-04:00

Listen,learn,react.

Response by CPT Mary Garrison made Sep 21 at 2021 12:52 PM

2021-09-21T12:52:25-04:00

Duty to God, Country and Community.

Response by A1C Lloyd Box made Sep 24 at 2021 3:59 PM

2021-09-24T15:59:04-04:00

Discipline was the most important thing that I learned. I also became more confident in myself. This confidence brought me to volunteer for Vietnam. I am 70 now and totally disabled, but I would volunteer again.

Response by SPC Halle Henderson made Sep 26 at 2021 1:13 PM

2021-09-26T13:13:33-04:00

Respect ,honor integrity and a since of mind that I will never give up as a soldier ,husband, father, and grandfather my wife and kids keep me going,and my grandchildren make me proud of the things I learned as a soldier.

Response by SGT James Grimball made Sep 28 at 2021 1:00 PM

2021-09-28T13:00:11-04:00

Be on time!

Response by CPT Eireanne Russ made Oct 21 at 2021 7:20 PM

2021-10-21T19:20:11-04:00

The Old Fashioned Truths:
Leaders eat last -- show respect for those who work with you and who work for you. Those above you will take care of themselves

Mission First, People ALWAYS -- you have a job to do, unless you want to do it alone or do it over, take care of your people and they will do amazing things

Leaders are the servants of those they lead -

Loyalty is important, loyalty to those who work for you is invaluable

Don't compare yourself/your organization to others, compare your today against your yesterday. If you do better today than yesterday, and can say that 5 out of 7 times a week, you will soon be better than most of the competition and you will not get stagnant

Set Big Hairy Audacious Goals - it is better to strive for something that is just out of your grasp than it is to achieve a goal that is not challenge and then camp out on that accomplishment

Listen to as many voices as you have time to, if you are short on time, look for the voices that disagree with you

There is a lot more where these came from, but lets keep it to bite-sized pieces

Response by Capt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 9 at 2021 11:09 AM

2021-11-09T11:09:52-05:00

Holding your tongue and researching before speaking.

Response by CPL Ruben Peters made Nov 21 at 2021 3:48 PM

2021-11-21T15:48:53-05:00

Punctuality, honesty, integrity, and always do your very best give it all you got and help your fellow man, because in the end you have to look in the mirror and know either you did right or be ashame and no your wrong.

Response by A1C James Ward made Jul 1 at 2022 10:06 AM

2022-07-01T10:06:24-04:00

respect and honor

Response by PFC Jeremy Shea made Jul 29 at 2022 4:00 PM

2022-07-29T16:00:19-04:00

attention to detail

Response by Michelle Mullaney made Aug 27 at 2022 7:46 PM

2022-08-27T19:46:10-04:00

As a surviving spouse of a Navy Vet and a family history of relatives serving in military from the revolutionary war to now. Traits are Truth, Loyalty, Courage and Service to the greater good.

Response by SFC Joe S. Davis Jr., MSM, DSL made Sep 10 at 2022 5:55 AM

2022-09-10T05:55:02-04:00

thanks for sharing

Response by LCDR Michael Ogden made Dec 25 at 2022 11:59 AM

2022-12-25T11:59:01-05:00

Perseverance, Adaptability, What it means to be a servant leader, and finding their True North

Response by SSG Mario Mendoza made Dec 28 at 2022 7:24 PM

2022-12-28T19:24:49-05:00

Integrity, do the right thing even though no one is looking

Response by PO3 Victor Larios made Dec 28 at 2022 11:17 PM

2022-12-28T23:17:38-05:00

Hard work pays off!

Response by SPC Peter Schlesinger made Dec 29 at 2022 6:24 AM

2022-12-29T06:24:52-05:00

Besides through my own upbringing, the service reinforced the learning of self respect, respect for others, manners, common sense, discipline, hygiene and the desire to continue personal growth and intellectual development. Thanks to all of the support I received from my leadership during military service I was able to eventually acquire an bachelor's degree, do post-graduate work, speak various languages fluently and advance into upper management positions!!!

Response by MSgt George Strothmann made Mar 3 at 2023 8:32 AM

2023-03-03T08:32:56-05:00

Work ethic