Where do you want your final resting place to be?

LTC Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 18:33:51 -0400

I had a recent conversation with a co-worker about why people wanted to be buried at Arlington Cemetery. I think it would be an honor to share the resting place with so many heroes in the most famous cemetery in the US. Where do you want to be your final resting place?

Response by SGM Billy Herrington made Mar 29 at 2015 6:39 PM

SGM Billy Herrington — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 18:39:06 -0400

Biloxi National Cemetary. My dad and three friends I lost in Iraq are all buried there.

Response by SFC Collin McMillion made Mar 29 at 2015 6:49 PM

SFC Collin McMillion — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 18:49:44 -0400

Sir, I'm not a hero or a coward, so whatever the ones I leave behind decide to do with me is OK. They can over cook me put me in a jar, throw me in a hole, whatever will be their dicision. I really don't think I will have much say in the matter whatever they decide anyway.

Response by CSM Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 29 at 2015 7:54 PM

CSM Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 19:54:45 -0400

Whatever makes my wife happy. At that point I won't be concerned with the matter

Response by SPC Donald Tribble made Mar 29 at 2015 7:56 PM

SPC Donald Tribble — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 19:56:35 -0400

We have a family plot and that is where I will be buried. There will be three of us there with military headstones.

Response by Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS made Mar 29 at 2015 8:00 PM

Sgt Aaron Kennedy, MS — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 20:00:38 -0400

Funeral Pyre, with a hell of a party.

We're all Atoms, billions of years old, and I'd like mine returned to the Earth itself. Hopefully with winds will take me all over the globe to the places I never got to see while I lived. I don't need a stone on the ground. I (hopefully) left my mark with my family, friends, and those who knew me.

Maybe someday, when we reach the stars, a few of those Atoms will make their way with the first or any waves.

Response by MSgt Bj Jones made Mar 29 at 2015 8:15 PM

MSgt Bj Jones — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 20:15:59 -0400

I want to have some part of my body buried on every continent and tossed into every ocean in the world. If my husband dies before me, he wants me to create an International Incident by scattering his ashes in the Indian Ocean. Otherwise, Arlington is fine for us.

Response by SSgt June Worden made Mar 29 at 2015 8:16 PM

SSgt June Worden — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 20:16:33 -0400

I'd like to see my ashes used to grow an oak tree or two...

Response by PO1 Jeffrey Stoddard made Mar 29 at 2015 8:41 PM

PO1 Jeffrey Stoddard — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 20:41:19 -0400

Creamation then CG mock Viking funeral

Response by PO1 Jeffrey Stoddard made Mar 29 at 2015 8:45 PM

PO1 Jeffrey Stoddard — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 20:45:31 -0400

Has anybody seen those body pods under trees?

Response by MSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 29 at 2015 8:51 PM

MSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 20:51:58 -0400

Cremated ashes spread over the cascades

Response by COL Vincent Stoneking made Mar 29 at 2015 9:00 PM

COL Vincent Stoneking — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 21:00:03 -0400

Well, I've done some research on this lately, and it really depends on the wife. I would personally prefer to have my ashes spread at sea.

I think my wife (and her family) are a little scandalized by the idea, so a federal or state military cemetery will be listed as acceptable. After all, I'll be dead, memorials are for the living, so I'm cool with whatever.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 29 at 2015 9:00 PM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 21:00:50 -0400

Some place that has quiet neighbors

Response by CPO Jon Campbell made Mar 29 at 2015 9:01 PM

CPO Jon Campbell — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 21:01:13 -0400

I would like to be buried at sea, but my family is against it. I think burial invites desecration at some point.

Response by SPC David Shaffer made Mar 29 at 2015 9:01 PM

SPC David Shaffer — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 21:01:23 -0400

I do not care what is done with my body once I am deceased. At that point I am already dead, and all that matters is what helps my wife and children cope.

Response by LT Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 29 at 2015 9:04 PM

LT Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 21:04:30 -0400

I told my wife that if I'm ever eligible to send my ashes to Arlington. If not there's a veteran's cemetery in my hometown that'll work. I've always preferred to be around my brothers and sisters in arms.

Response by 1LT David Moeglein made Mar 29 at 2015 9:06 PM

1LT David Moeglein — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 21:06:01 -0400

With my brothers and sisters in arms!

Response by SGT John Wesley made Mar 29 at 2015 9:25 PM

SGT John Wesley — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 21:25:33 -0400

I recently went to a service at Bushnell Military Cemetary near Ocala, Florida. After the service I walked a bit and after seeing the internment area for cremations, I decided that, this was where I wanted to be placed.

Response by TSgt Tim (lj) Littlejohn made Mar 29 at 2015 9:27 PM

TSgt Tim (lj) Littlejohn — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 21:27:38 -0400

My wife and I are both to be cremated as our daughter was. We'll both be buried next to her. Already payed for and all the arrangements taken care of.

Response by CMSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 29 at 2015 9:31 PM

CMSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 21:31:50 -0400

As far as a view goes Point Loma Natl Cemetery is the best, my pops is there too. However, whatever my family wants to do is cool with me. Although there's a company that makes diamonds out of your remains, that would be cool too.

Response by SGM Mikel Dawson made Mar 29 at 2015 9:58 PM

SGM Mikel Dawson — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 21:58:27 -0400

Idaho's got a military cemetery, will do just fine for me.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 29 at 2015 11:09 PM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 23:09:29 -0400

I hold a couple of things very true in my life and they are Skydiving and Surfing.

Therefore, with that said I would like my ashes after Doctors have salvaged any usable parts to be spread through the sky over the ocean or two ceremonies with one in each place.

There is no need for my useless body to take up real estate.

Response by Maj Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 29 at 2015 11:14 PM

Maj Private RallyPoint Member — Sun, 29 Mar 2015 23:14:56 -0400

http://www.beatree.com

"Be a Tree; the Natural Burial Guide for Turning Yourself into a Forest"

An online book excerpt about the natural burial movement, including a Q&A section with the author, Cynthia Beal

Response by SSgt Joe V. made Mar 30 at 2015 10:48 AM

SSgt Joe V. — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 10:48:07 -0400

As long as it doesn't interfere with the delivery system, I would like to be cremated and then evenly split between four Mk-84's (GBU-32's...whatever) under an A-10's wings delivering meeting notices to bad people to let them know that their Creator is waiting for them...

Response by Lt Col Jim Coe made Mar 30 at 2015 10:57 AM

Lt Col Jim Coe — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 10:57:14 -0400

National cemetery. Right now Jefferson Barracks is the preferred location.

Response by PO2 Neal Harris made Mar 30 at 2015 10:57 AM

PO2 Neal Harris — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 10:57:56 -0400

I don't care chuck me into the river or chuck me into a wood chipper!!! I don't care I'm ready to go now!!!!!!!

Response by SP5 Joel O'Brien made Mar 30 at 2015 12:36 PM

SP5 Joel O'Brien — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 12:36:37 -0400

It's already arranged for my wife and I. We have space for 'two with a view' at the Vermont State Veterans Cemetery.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 30 at 2015 12:46 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 12:46:21 -0400

Wherever or whatever is financially expedient or emotionally preferred by my loved ones after I am gone. I don't subscribe to the whole sanctified treatment of the dead, so my loved ones can do whatever the heck they want. After all, funerals are for the living.

Response by SFC Charles S. made Mar 30 at 2015 12:46 PM

SFC Charles S. — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 12:46:24 -0400

My current plans in my will are cremation with interment in a State Veterans Cemetery. I wish to have a Military Ceremony but with the least cost to my surviving family members. I think they will have enough on their plate without me being around to have to figure out how to pay for something. My simple request DON'T waste money on me I'm gone I won't be around to see it.

I highly suggest that if you have not made a will with your wishes clearly and plainly stated that you do so today. You never know when you will leave this earth and without instructions your family will have that burden placed on them. There are many websites that have free will forms and you just have to fill it out and print it, let a loved one know where you put it. If you want to be more legal you can have it witnessed and notarized, this helps if it might be contested but not required.

Response by SPC David S. made Mar 30 at 2015 12:51 PM

SPC David S. — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 12:51:48 -0400

With my short military career and not having deployed I don't feel I've earned a spot for internment at a state or federal cemetery so I'm going with private.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 30 at 2015 1:01 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 13:01:08 -0400

Currently Bushnell National Cemetery, But if i move out of Fl before passing ill chose another National Cemetery.

Response by SSG Gerhard S. made Mar 30 at 2015 1:08 PM

SSG Gerhard S. — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 13:08:52 -0400

I wish to be Buried at Arlington National Cemetery. Last Summer we laid my wife's Step-Father to rest at Arlington with full honors. He, a LTC Retired from the Air Force after serving as a Door gunner during WWII in the Army Air Corps, during Korea as an officer, and during Vietnam as a Electronic Systems Officer on B-52's during the Linebacker missions.

The ceremony, and the setting, and the history are awe inspiring, at Arlington and being laid to rest among so many hero's is a genuine honor.

Response by TSgt Kevin Buccola made Mar 30 at 2015 1:14 PM

TSgt Kevin Buccola — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 13:14:10 -0400

Originally Arlington - now who knows - probably end up cremated and placed in a zip lock bag.

Response by SSgt Randy Waters made Mar 30 at 2015 1:18 PM

SSgt Randy Waters — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 13:18:38 -0400

Texas State Vets Cemetery Abilene Texas.

Response by SSgt Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 30 at 2015 1:26 PM

SSgt Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 13:26:25 -0400

I would like to be buried in my home town cemetery; the same cemetery as my grandfather, the Marine and WWII veteran.

Response by SPC Edward Tapper made Mar 30 at 2015 2:05 PM

SPC Edward Tapper — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 14:05:04 -0400

Sir, where my mortal body rests matters not, to me. It's just an empty shell that has no knowledge nor emotions. I, Sir, want to rest with those same heroes that you spoke of, with our Lord God, Jehovah, and Savior, Jesus Christ, in Heaven. That's the only real rest we will ever have. If my body makes it to a national or state cemetery, that's cool with me, but I won't be there, I'll be with the Father.

Great question for a poll! It made me think about my mortal and spiritual priorities. Be blessed in all you do, Sir.

Response by LTC Paul Labrador made Mar 30 at 2015 3:32 PM

LTC Paul Labrador — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 15:32:12 -0400

My preference would be Arlington.

Response by CPL Charles Sears made Mar 30 at 2015 4:45 PM

CPL Charles Sears — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 16:45:39 -0400

ashes shot into space. Returned to that from which we came; THE STARS.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 30 at 2015 4:57 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 16:57:36 -0400

I would want to be close enough for my family to visit. I mean, I feel like I don't even deserve to be on that sacred land.

Response by SCPO Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 30 at 2015 5:18 PM

SCPO Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 17:18:22 -0400

Both my father and I have at this point picked Saratoga National Cemetery as our final resting place. Like any cemetery it is full of honor and full of hero's of all shape and size and service. One point that I find it an honor to have my final resting place to be the site of the turning point of the American War for Independence (the Revolution), aka The Battles of Saratoga.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 30 at 2015 5:25 PM

SGT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 17:25:55 -0400

No funeral for me.

I want my friends and family to cremate me, have the most ridiculous party ever.

Take my ashes and divide them. Sprinkle them someplace cool...followed by a shot.

*Grabs ashes*

"Beautiful sunset. Pass the Jack."

Response by CW5 Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 30 at 2015 5:30 PM

CW5 Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 17:30:09 -0400

Arlington would be neat, and I could probably get in with cremation, but I want to be buried in the cemetery in my small upstate NY hometown, where my father and my daughter already "rest."

Response by PO2 Alana Nielson made Mar 30 at 2015 5:59 PM

PO2 Alana Nielson — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 17:59:29 -0400

I want to have my cremated remains turned into a diamond. I sparkled in life; I should sparkle in death, too ;)

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 30 at 2015 6:36 PM

CPT Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 18:36:54 -0400

Won't matter to me, whatever my family decides. The only thing I want is a big ass party.

Response by SSG (ret) William Martin made Mar 30 at 2015 9:23 PM

SSG (ret) William Martin — Mon, 30 Mar 2015 21:23:24 -0400

Launch my ashes to Mars.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 31 at 2015 12:01 AM

SSG Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 31 Mar 2015 00:01:05 -0400

I don't really care as I may not know anything about it.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 31 at 2015 12:27 AM

SPC Private RallyPoint Member — Tue, 31 Mar 2015 00:27:55 -0400

I don't want to take up space when I'm gone So I'd like to be cremated and have a little of my ashes put into artillery shells and sent down range.

Response by COL Charles Williams made Mar 31 at 2015 12:28 AM

COL Charles Williams — Tue, 31 Mar 2015 00:28:21 -0400

Arlington.

Response by CPT Zachary Brooks made Mar 31 at 2015 9:51 AM

CPT Zachary Brooks — Tue, 31 Mar 2015 09:51:56 -0400

I hear Rallypoint headquarters is nice.

I would like to be cremated and have a tree planted in a local park in my place. Not sure yet where I would like the ashes spread, I can leave that up to my family to decide when it happens.

Response by SPC Patrick Gearardo made Mar 31 at 2015 10:16 AM

SPC Patrick Gearardo — Tue, 31 Mar 2015 10:16:14 -0400

I want a Viking funeral. Put my body on a small boat...push me out and then have an archer hit me with a flaming arrow. Give my body to the fishes.

Response by SrA Matthew Knight made Mar 31 at 2015 11:32 AM

SrA Matthew Knight — Tue, 31 Mar 2015 11:32:49 -0400

I have thought about Arlington but I personally would want to be buried where I call home back in ND. That is where my blood family currently live and have lived for generations.

Response by PO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 1 at 2015 12:51 AM

PO1 Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 01 Apr 2015 00:51:09 -0400

Donate my sorry ol' carcass to the lab to further medical study and research.
Do you think I'd give a [insert your choice of raunchy 'comment'] when my time here's done?
How about helping others live a more quality life after my passing? But that's just me.

And after that's done, play the following tune...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RuKuHHNjFc4

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 1 at 2015 9:46 AM

MSG Private RallyPoint Member — Wed, 01 Apr 2015 09:46:26 -0400

If I cant be buried somewhere with quiet neighbors, then bury me at Fiddlers Green with a bunch of other Combat Engineers. At least that way, the block parties would be quite festive

Response by MAJ Robert (Bob) Petrarca made Apr 1 at 2015 8:43 PM

MAJ Robert (Bob) Petrarca — Wed, 01 Apr 2015 20:43:25 -0400

Buried face down on the Mall near the Capitol so every congressman can kiss my A$$!!

Response by CPO Jeff Burns made Apr 2 at 2015 2:09 AM

CPO Jeff Burns — Thu, 02 Apr 2015 02:09:47 -0400

I'm a sailor. I want my ashes spread at sea.

Response by LTC Stephen F. made Apr 2 at 2015 11:17 AM

LTC Stephen F. — Thu, 02 Apr 2015 11:17:46 -0400

Definitely prefer to be interred in a federal cemetery with a space for my wife. Over the years there have been issues with state run cemeteries especially when they become or are forecasted to become cash-strapped. My personal preference is to be interred in 1st choice West Point, NY Cemetery; 2nd choice Arlington, VA Cemetery; 3rd choice a federal cemetery near Gettysburg or Valley Forge, PA.

Response by SPC Elijah J. Henry, MBA made Apr 14 at 2015 5:05 PM

SPC Elijah J. Henry, MBA — Tue, 14 Apr 2015 17:05:52 -0400

I've always wanted to be buried in Arlington, but if my civilian wife couldn't be buried beside me, I don't think she'd be happy. I'm not sure what the rules are for civilian spouses in Arlington.

Response by MSgt Keith Hebert made Apr 14 at 2015 5:12 PM

MSgt Keith Hebert — Tue, 14 Apr 2015 17:12:12 -0400

Myself and the wife have decided cremation

Response by LTC J. Lee Mudd made Apr 14 at 2015 5:12 PM

LTC J. Lee Mudd — Tue, 14 Apr 2015 17:12:28 -0400

Buried with a sapling planted over me. A great oak or ash would be good...

Response by PO1 Robert Clark made Apr 14 at 2015 5:13 PM

PO1 Robert Clark — Tue, 14 Apr 2015 17:13:35 -0400

Mountains of Colorado, it's home

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 24 at 2017 7:41 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Mon, 24 Jul 2017 19:41:51 -0400

Arlington National Cemetery with my brother and sisters

Response by SSG Robert Perrotto made Jul 24 at 2017 7:46 PM

SSG Robert Perrotto — Mon, 24 Jul 2017 19:46:21 -0400

to be honest - I do not care - I am dead - whatever is easy and cheap for my spouse so she does not have to spend a ton of money on stupid funeral expenses

Response by SFC Christopher Taggart made Jul 29 at 2017 9:24 PM

SFC Christopher Taggart — Sat, 29 Jul 2017 21:24:48 -0400

Probably at the cemetery that's in my hometown, so my living family can come and visit me.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 29 at 2017 9:32 PM

SFC Private RallyPoint Member — Sat, 29 Jul 2017 21:32:52 -0400

I honestly don't care. Whatever is easiest for my family. It's not going to matter to me I'll be dead. It matters most to those who are still living.

Response by SSG Dennis R. made Mar 21 at 2023 5:50 AM

SSG Dennis R. — Tue, 21 Mar 2023 05:50:55 -0400

My corpse will go to a medical school. I've signed all the paperwork, and carry a card in my wallet. When they are done with it, the remains will be cremated. I have asked that the ashes be sent to a VA cemetery.

Response by Lt Col Scott Shuttleworth made Mar 21 at 2023 9:07 AM

Lt Col Scott Shuttleworth — Tue, 21 Mar 2023 09:07:55 -0400

Don't really care...I would have left this life for my Heavenly home...where my earthly body or shell is placed doesn't matter to me I guess.

Response by LTC Stephen F. made Mar 21 at 2023 11:03 AM

LTC Stephen F. — Tue, 21 Mar 2023 11:03:50 -0400

Arlington Cemetery first choice; USMA, West Point Cemetery second choice LTC Private RallyPoint Member
FYI COL Kelly Zachgo LTC Kenneth Konstanzer COL George Woods MAJ Richard Simis LTC Charles Snyder LTC Phillip May COL Steven Mains LTC Doug Lobdell COL Mike Helmick, P.E. LTC William Conrad CPT Daniel Cox MSG Greg Kelly SFC William Farrell Maj Bill Smith, Ph.D.CSM Charles Hayden LTC Stephen C. SSG Gerhard S. SPC David S. Lt Col Jim Coe

Response by SMSgt Lawrence McCarter made Mar 21 at 2023 11:13 AM

SMSgt Lawrence McCarter — Tue, 21 Mar 2023 11:13:26 -0400

Just bury the ashes next to other family members some who are also Veterans. I don't seen a lot of money spent on Me after I'm deceased, it could be better used by those Who survive Me instead of making some undertaker rich.

Response by Lt Col Jim Coe made Mar 21 at 2023 11:29 AM

Lt Col Jim Coe — Tue, 21 Mar 2023 11:29:54 -0400

In general, a federal military cemetery. Jefferson Barracks is closest so it will do fine. They have space available.

Response by Maj John Bell made Mar 21 at 2023 3:27 PM

Maj John Bell — Tue, 21 Mar 2023 15:27:03 -0400

Soylent Green

Response by CSM Darieus ZaGara made Mar 22 at 2023 8:03 AM

CSM Darieus ZaGara — Wed, 22 Mar 2023 08:03:27 -0400

Arlington Cemetary, cremated with my wife interned together.