SFC Private RallyPoint Member 456454 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>A duty assignment is what you make it. We&#39;ve always lived off base, and I personally love the apartment that we have on base here in Germany. We don&#39;t have to pay rent or utilities, it&#39;s huge, it&#39;s a great community and we enjoy it. But, I&#39;m so sick and tired of hearing the complaints on how they miss their homes and yards, and &quot;I can&#39;t believe that so many Germans don&#39;t speak english.&quot; &quot;I miss Walmart, &quot; blah, blah, blah. What? Really? You are in a foreign country first of all,and many people never get to actually live in it, or even visit. I love it here. This should be a good one. Thoughts?? Why do so many families that live on base feel so self-entitled and ungrateful. 2015-02-05T11:56:13-05:00 SFC Private RallyPoint Member 456454 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>A duty assignment is what you make it. We&#39;ve always lived off base, and I personally love the apartment that we have on base here in Germany. We don&#39;t have to pay rent or utilities, it&#39;s huge, it&#39;s a great community and we enjoy it. But, I&#39;m so sick and tired of hearing the complaints on how they miss their homes and yards, and &quot;I can&#39;t believe that so many Germans don&#39;t speak english.&quot; &quot;I miss Walmart, &quot; blah, blah, blah. What? Really? You are in a foreign country first of all,and many people never get to actually live in it, or even visit. I love it here. This should be a good one. Thoughts?? Why do so many families that live on base feel so self-entitled and ungrateful. 2015-02-05T11:56:13-05:00 2015-02-05T11:56:13-05:00 CSM Michael J. Uhlig 456473 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>While we have a great opportunity serving overseas, we must remain realistic to some of the challenges we ask our families to endure. We have limited employment opportunities for our families while overseas, which can cause financial hardships as well as not getting out of the house and interacting with others. There are also challenges with the availability of goods and services that many have become accustomed to &quot;back home&quot;....and, while we are trying to get adjusted to our new environments, we often reflect on the place we just left - and begin missing all the little things that we really enjoyed. With that being said, we should embrace the change, enjoy our opportunities and make the best of it, like you said many never get this opportunity. Stay positive and you can always be selective of who your friends are....leave Negative Nelly alone. Response by CSM Michael J. Uhlig made Feb 5 at 2015 12:04 PM 2015-02-05T12:04:44-05:00 2015-02-05T12:04:44-05:00 COL Jean (John) F. B. 456634 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div><br />Your first comment says it all... "A duty assignment is what you make it". I have lived in a great many places over my career, some good and some not so. But each (even the bad ones) had good things about them that I was very happy that I got to experience.<br /><br />Even after 28 moves, we were never assigned to a place that my wife wanted to go (even Hawaii, Colorado, Florida, Italy, Germany, etc.), but we were never assigned to a place that she wanted to leave, when it was time to do so. Again, it was home -- it was what you make it and, when it was time to leave, you did not want to, even if you did not want to be there when you first arrived.<br /><br />What used to fry me a little were the retirees in Germany/other foreign countries who used to call my office (we were responsible for Customs Enforcement) and complain that they were not allowed to shop in the PX/commissary, use military medical facilities, or whatever that country's restrictions were on the non-active duty personnel. Many of them would say, for example, "If I was at Ft Bragg, I could shop in the commissary"... I would respond that they are not at Ft Bragg, they are in Germany (or whatever foreign country) and that they and the military must comply with the laws of that country. I reminded them that they made the decision to live there and that they were free to go shopping at Ft Bragg if they wanted to. Many became irate over my "lack of concern".<br /><br />I lived 31 years of my life (14 as a military dependent and 17 on active duty) in overseas locations and I feel very, very fortunate to have done so. However, one thing that living overseas does is make you cherish the United States more, as there is no greater country on earth. Response by COL Jean (John) F. B. made Feb 5 at 2015 1:10 PM 2015-02-05T13:10:05-05:00 2015-02-05T13:10:05-05:00 MSG Private RallyPoint Member 456666 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Some folks just have a hard time adjusting to a new environment or refuse to accept the change. When I was at LRMC, I knew several Soldiers that constantly stated that they hated it there and that Germany was boring and never anything to do. Of course, these people never left the base for whatever reasons known only to them. Me, I had an absolute blast. If I wasn't working, I was off post somewhere else. Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 5 at 2015 1:23 PM 2015-02-05T13:23:04-05:00 2015-02-05T13:23:04-05:00 SSG John Erny 457548 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Any one ever get invited to a PCS party back in the day, clearing base housing is or was a major PITA. The only bright side was the free beer from the PCSing soldier! On Bragg if you had a house cleaned to meet surgical standards I do not think it would pass the first inspection. In my opinion is was Department of the Army civilians playing games with the troops. Response by SSG John Erny made Feb 5 at 2015 6:25 PM 2015-02-05T18:25:42-05:00 2015-02-05T18:25:42-05:00 SFC Private RallyPoint Member 458933 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div><br />If you can please tell any of those that if they miss wal mart and the states so much that I would gladly trade duty assignments with them, I would love to get stationed in Germany before I retire Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 6 at 2015 11:53 AM 2015-02-06T11:53:28-05:00 2015-02-06T11:53:28-05:00 2015-02-05T11:56:13-05:00