Why don't more Veterans wear the medals they have earned during appropriate times on civilian attire?

2020-11-27T17:42:54-05:00

Military veterans can wear their medals during appropriate times on civilian attire, but many are uncomfortable doing so. It demonstrates pride of service and can possibly assist in bridging the military-civilian divide. Is there reluctance because those who do so might be considered "posers"? Here is an article to stimulate discussion on this topic: https://havokjournal.com/culture/veterans-wont-wear-earned/

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Response by LTC Stephen C. made Nov 27 at 2020 5:48 PM

2020-11-27T17:48:19-05:00

I go to a military ball once annually, LTC Martin Metz. Those wearing tuxedos almost always wear their awards.

Response by CWO3 Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 27 at 2020 6:06 PM

2020-11-27T18:06:20-05:00

Retirees always wore tuxedos and miniature medals at any such formal occasion that dictated. Some wear hats and other pride in public. Most Veterans can spot a poser really quick. I'm not big on regalia, but respect everyone's service. Sometimes it's just a wink and nod when two pass alongside, but know the face, or stare.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 27 at 2020 6:12 PM

2020-11-27T18:12:10-05:00

They are expensive and a pain to set up properly. I'm proud of my service, but it's just not worth the headache.

Response by SGT Joseph Gunderson made Nov 27 at 2020 6:18 PM

2020-11-27T18:18:34-05:00

I wear my medals on certain holidays and events directly related to the military. I have, however, had a number of fellow vets voice that they feel wearing medals and such with civilian attire is, in a way, braggadocious. I, obviously, don't share the sentiment.

Response by MAJ Ken Landgren made Nov 27 at 2020 6:22 PM

2020-11-27T18:22:54-05:00

Sometimes assholes and bitches turn good things into bad.

Response by SGT Jim Arnold made Nov 27 at 2020 6:27 PM

2020-11-27T18:27:45-05:00

seems pointless in my case. I don't wear suits or ties. I keep mine in a displayed box.

Response by Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen made Nov 27 at 2020 6:41 PM

2020-11-27T18:41:57-05:00

I'm one of those who only wore them when I had to in the military. Sure I'm proud of them but I retired from that life and see no need to attach them to civilian formal wear, no matter the occasion.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 27 at 2020 8:13 PM

2020-11-27T20:13:42-05:00

I wear a ball cap with one of my old units on it. I don't wear medals or the uniform regardless of the occasion. While it is legal, it feels kind of pretentious to me. As for others who want to wear the uniform or medals, more power to them

Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 27 at 2020 9:07 PM

2020-11-27T21:07:54-05:00

LTC Martin Metz I often wear my Marine Corps/Vietnam cap. I have my ribbons and medals along with my Fathers wings and dog tags in a shadow box. I have never considered wearing them with civilian attire.

Response by LTC John Griscom made Nov 27 at 2020 9:30 PM

2020-11-27T21:30:42-05:00

I usually have my Vietnam Vet cap with some pins on it when I go out.

Response by CPT Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 27 at 2020 9:36 PM

2020-11-27T21:36:28-05:00

There is a line where it becomes tacky.

I wear the tiny lapel pin in the place for it on a suit for my highest award, but I'm not inclined to wear a rack of mini medals.

Response by LTC Jason Mackay made Nov 27 at 2020 9:52 PM

2020-11-27T21:52:52-05:00

I think it’s more of an issue of having the right occasion. Veterans Day is once a year. Besides then, when would you? Unless there was a specific occasion, I don’t.

I don’t on Veterans’s Day because I teach and we don’t get it off. I teach manufacturing and metal shop, so it’s not really a good accessory that day.

Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 27 at 2020 11:20 PM

2020-11-27T23:20:50-05:00

For me, I don't have appropriate formal attire to wear them on. Also, I don't feel the need to advertise/pull attention to me for my service. Those that know me, know I've served. If folks want to know about my decorations, I'll tell them. Otherwise, I personally don't see the need to bling it out on my civilian attire.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 27 at 2020 11:23 PM

2020-11-27T23:23:58-05:00

When a civilian asks how they got their bronze star, not many people want to explain they handed out 2500lbs of mail or filed paperwork.

Response by Sgt Wayne Wood made Nov 27 at 2020 11:48 PM

2020-11-27T23:48:29-05:00

Too many Vietnam vets... it was always best to keep a low profile when you returned to the world

Response by Lt Col Jim Coe made Nov 28 at 2020 10:56 AM

2020-11-28T10:56:27-05:00

Before COVID forced us all indoors at home I wore various military things on my suit or sport coat at Veterans Day, Memorial Day, and Independence Day. Sometimes my Retired Air Force pin, or Miniature Command Pilot Wings, or the lapel ribbon for my highest award. Went to one Army Ball as a DAC wore my tux with small pilot wings. I tend toward the understated approach because of my experience as a Cold Warrior during and after the Vietnam Era when the military was not widely appreciated.

Response by SGT Philip Roncari made Nov 28 at 2020 11:35 AM

2020-11-28T11:35:16-05:00

I really have no events or occasions where wearing of medals would be appropriate,I have my awards and badges in a home made shadow box hanging on the wall of my storage area with some other memorabilia from my retirement in civilian life,I’m sure Service members would understand

Response by SGM Bill Frazer made Nov 28 at 2020 11:47 AM

2020-11-28T11:47:18-05:00

Medals are a pain to wear. Too often I fell like a Mexican General. Those are not really my medals but were awarded due to the efforts of my troops.

Response by SGT Chris Padgett made Nov 28 at 2020 7:43 PM

2020-11-28T19:43:59-05:00

I wore the tie-tac that came with an AAM once, only because I lost the one my then G/F had given me.
That's as close as I've ever come to wearing a medal as a civilian.
Only one person noticed what it actually was, and he chuckled and admitted he didn't realize that was what the tiny medal was for.
Once you get out, no one gives a crap about what you did in the military.

Response by MCPO Private RallyPoint Member made Nov 30 at 2020 12:38 AM

2020-11-30T00:38:43-05:00

I'm going to catch hell for this one, but...

The only reason to wear medals as a civilian is to show that you served and to prompt folks to thank you for your service. Some of us don't need the strokes to our egos, some of us are less than happy to have served, some of us just don't give a damn, some of us have started new chapters in our lives. It's kind of like your grandparents sporting a "My grandchild is a student of the month at Smith Grade School" now that you are in your 30s. Why?

There's a whole list of reasons why some may not wear their awards.

Response by SGT Jim Ramge, MBA made Dec 9 at 2020 11:24 PM

2020-12-09T23:24:47-05:00

Because personally, I have all of my certificates in a 3-ring binder in a safe, with my DD214, VGLI, 401’s & pre-burial VA permission slip. As far as wearing, I don’t do funerals, and I am happy to send money to weddings! Although I have closed that chapter of my life, the events for which worn is generally a sausage festival full of pumped-up chests, where competitively speaking, folks are then looking at chests, vice the individual in front of them - Not my thing!
I want to have a conversation with the person and get to know them for whom they are. I am happy to say thank you for your service. I don’t care of s/he’s rank or merit anymore, as Brother or Sister will do fine if I’m not calling you Sir out of common courtesy taught as a young man! Just one man’s opinion following the generations before me, dependency, my own service for this country! All the best...

Response by SP5 Charles Willoughby made Dec 23 at 2020 10:51 PM

2020-12-23T22:51:27-05:00

How would I wear a Presidential Unit Citation (MACV SOG)?

Response by SSG James Stodola made Dec 26 at 2020 11:13 AM

2020-12-26T11:13:06-05:00

A lot of good and honest answers here. I too only wear them when in uniform and at an appropriate function, which is rare these days as I have been retired for 16 years now after serving 34. I am proud of my accomplishments and the awards that recognize them. But when I was in my mindset was I just want to do my job, I appreciated the recognition as most do, but sometime after being in a while some of the things you do are simply your job and you don't feel on some level that you really need to be given an award for that, so I think that many vets think that way also. Where I live it is a strong republican environment but there is also a growing democratic vibe and it is making things difficult sometimes for vets who are proud of their service to show it without getting accosted by a bunch of entitlement brats. I apologize for bringing politics into this but it the only way to describe it without being really harsh, as I sometimes am, hell most of the time actually. But most as I said are more concerned with doing a good job without the thought of will I get an award for this. If your are doing good you will know it and that will be enough for most. The only place these days I will be happy to don the uniform and all the salad is for my brothers and sisters funerals.

Response by SSG Harry Herres made Dec 27 at 2020 9:50 PM

2020-12-27T21:50:07-05:00

Most feel it is a personal thing, Vietnam vets will only among themselves. We were attacked coming home. We respect each other but too many have and still talk the talk but never walked the walk. To be challenged again is not worth the pain! My kids and grandkids know the truth. My vet friends know, thats all that counts! I'm 71 and alive, many I served with are not! Never forgotten!

Response by CPT Dennis Stevenson made Dec 31 at 2020 9:15 AM

2020-12-31T09:15:53-05:00

I wear a CIB lapel pin. Not to impress civilians. But to have the occasional person come up and say, "Hey, I've got one of those." Don't much care if civilians recognize what the badge means but it's nice to talk to someone in the brotherhood.

Response by SPC Joseph Kenny made Jan 3 at 2021 8:37 PM

2021-01-03T20:37:21-05:00

My few ribbons are in a closet on a uniform that shrunk over the years. The only thing I wear are my jump wings (subdued) on my mc riding jacket.

Response by 1SG Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 4 at 2021 8:10 AM

2021-01-04T08:10:13-05:00

I've never considered wearing any military award out of uniform. Really, I don't see how to do it in a way that isn't distracting. Also, I kind of transitioned from Soldier to spouse, so I've had a unit pin that I'm expected to wear at formal events.
I will also say this...simply the way I've been conditioned my entire military career, I would expect someone to question me for what I'm wearing before it bridged any divide. I'm not saying everyone I've encountered is aggressive, but negative interactions are not uncommon when females use Vet Only parking spaces, wearing military attire, etc.

Response by COL Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 4 at 2021 2:49 PM

2021-01-04T14:49:07-05:00

What is: "I don't want to look like a "Hero of the Soviet Union?" I think generally, there's a time and place for that, in civilian attire isn't one of them. I don't know anyone who would wear medals in civilian attire. A simple pin (whether it be a service pin or a miniature staff badge lapel pin) would be the extent of it...

Response by WO1 Mike Dwyer made Jan 4 at 2021 6:47 PM

2021-01-04T18:47:43-05:00

I have my three meager medals mounted and I do wear them occasionally. Mostly to church when we have a veterans service. I think I've worn then twice.

Response by SPC Randall Wirth made Jan 5 at 2021 2:21 PM

2021-01-05T14:21:09-05:00

The closest I get to wearing any medals is an Iraq campaign ribbon patch on my hat. Other than that, the only time I've worn my medals in civilian attire is when I got married and wore them on my tux. My wife is also a veteran (4 years USCG) and we had people in the wedding party that were close to me during my time in service so it went with the overall meaning of the day. I do have multiple shadow boxes at home though with my medals displayed as well as hers and members of my family that served before me. They're more appreciated on display in the home than just being on display like a peacock spreading his feathers for the world to see. There's enough cocky "thank me for my service" veterans out there and I'm not one of them.

Response by SP5 Wilbert Jennings made Jan 5 at 2021 5:25 PM

2021-01-05T17:25:01-05:00

Many never earned medals or were simply deprived of any due to their race . I never earned any real medals for my service ,simply did my job and was given the basic training medals ,90 day service, and Vietnam in country. I was wounded in Jungle war fare training and still went to Nam and eventually medevacked to Japan then to Walter Reed and upon recovery to Ft. Belvoir to finish my term of enlistment .I tuned 21 in Vietnam , had no idea why I was in Nam . It wasn't until after I was out of the service that I caught wind of the Domino Theory and how we fought in other countries so we wouldn't have to here. It appears now we may have to fight a domestic enemy desiring to remove our Republic that is a a democracy . I was drafted when I was almost 19, married and my wife pregnant with our1st born . I enlisted for another year for airborne and other specialty training. Figured I would be a snipper, I was a damn good shooter., earned an expert marksman badge . Whoa, this is turning into a autobiography. Later

Response by SPC Doug Hagen made Jan 6 at 2021 1:48 AM

2021-01-06T01:48:24-05:00

I feel no need to wear or display my medals. Couldn't anyways as I tossed them soon as I got out. I kept the paperwork though. If people are truly interested I'll pull out my "I-Love-Me" binder and show them. That time has come and gone. DD-214 is all one needs.

Response by MSG Gerry Barker made Jan 6 at 2021 7:21 PM

2021-01-06T19:21:28-05:00

I don't want the nonsense. No one understands anyway.

Response by MSG Gerry Barker made Jan 6 at 2021 7:22 PM

2021-01-06T19:22:19-05:00

I don't want the nonsense. No one understands anyway.

Response by MSgt Mason Manner made Jan 7 at 2021 12:14 AM

2021-01-07T00:14:11-05:00

I used to wear my ribbon rack for Veterans day,MEMORIAL day w/my VFW POST and got ragged on because being AF you seem to get a ribbon for almost everything(as a reservist only 2 of my 17 ribbons were reserve)but the only thing I'm proud of is my Master Civil Engineer badge all of my medals sit in my book case and I DON'T even bother w/my ribbon rack because NO ONE GIVES A RATS ASS

Response by Capt Edward Egan made Jan 7 at 2021 10:12 PM

2021-01-07T22:12:21-05:00

Mine are in a shadow box. Many years ago my ex-wife told me to either hang them up or throw them out. My 55-year-old dress blues still fit, so the medals and ribbons go on the few occasions I might wear them (always the Birthday Ball). I've never worn any with civilian attire, although when wearing a suit I have miniature wings on the lapel.

Response by 1SG Mitchell Smith made Jan 8 at 2021 8:00 AM

2021-01-08T08:00:46-05:00

It just feels good to look at others with the awards on there attire and reflect on where and maybe when you obtained that same award. However for me, I'd rather reflect on the good times.......and also, when you start forgetting to put on your underwear - awards are just not that important as they use to be.

Response by PO2 Donald Nathan made Jan 8 at 2021 11:58 AM

2021-01-08T11:58:48-05:00

I've shown my medals to my military brothers and sisters, other than that no one sees them. I still have my dress uniforms in pristine condition. I would only wear my mini medals if I attended a military ball in uniform or some special military related event.

Response by SPC Joseph Zingales made Jan 8 at 2021 12:01 PM

2021-01-08T12:01:32-05:00

I am never afraid to encounter and discuss my Vietnam service but wearing medals on civies always seemed to me to be "grandstanding". I guess on ceremonial occasions it would seem more appropriate to me. I'll consider it.

Response by CPL Mark Garrigus made Jan 8 at 2021 12:17 PM

2021-01-08T12:17:53-05:00

Any awards or medals I earned were not earned for the sake of pride! Or to show off to anyone. They were earned because I cared about doing a good job for brothers in arms! I wear a US Army Cap with 2 unit insignias twice a year. Memorial Day and Veterans Day. The rest of the year my service is a source of silent inconspicuous pride for myself and my family!

Response by SGT Donovan Leeds made Jan 9 at 2021 8:13 PM

2021-01-09T20:13:52-05:00

Just for the sake of curiosity, what would be considered an appropriate time to wear medals with civilian attire? All of mine are still attached to my Class A uniform that's hanging in a garment bag in my closet. My grandfather retired as an Army LTC and I don't ever remember seeing his medals; my father had a Bronze Star from Vietnam (he told me he didn't earn/deserve it). Maybe because I've never attended (or even desired to attend) a function with formal attire after leaving the military, I've never even thought about them. For that matter, the only times I can recall someone wearing their medals was in uniform - although I strongly suspect some of those were individuals that never actually served.

Response by FN Colin Boyle made Jan 9 at 2021 10:48 PM

2021-01-09T22:48:26-05:00

well, when your highest award is a couple of Naval Sea Service ribbons.... :-)

Response by SGT Rafael Morales made Jan 11 at 2021 12:36 PM

2021-01-11T12:36:14-05:00

I wear my miniature medals when I wear a tuxedo. My wife´s family avoided service in Vietnam and showed cowardice, I love to rub it in.

Response by MGySgt Rick Tyrrell made Jan 11 at 2021 9:26 PM

2021-01-11T21:26:53-05:00

Medals are an important factor while your in. Once your out what purpose do they serve? None unless you have a legion of merit or above. They are actually more of a problem you attempt to answer the question to people that have never worn the uniform.

Response by SP5 Richard Welch made Jan 11 at 2021 9:37 PM

2021-01-11T21:37:22-05:00

I don't feel the need to wear them. I earned them during my military service, and don't understand the need of law enforcement to have military awards on their police uniform. To me it smacks of calling police quasi military force. It also intimidates some citizen's. It's a personal choice, and they only appear on my dress greens, which I still have.

Response by 1SG David Freed made Jan 11 at 2021 10:16 PM

2021-01-11T22:16:27-05:00

Reply:
1. Military medals have no real "value" to most civilians. Civilians neither respect nor understand the
concept of prestige or sacrifice that went into earning medals while in the military.
2. The military itself does not promote or encourage wearing of medals on other than the dress uniform. Within the Army, "service" medals have little value other than maybe a few promotion points here and there.
3. Most formerly enlisted service members do not have, nor have they ever received any medals
of any particular distinction. Enlisted members generally received "service awards" such as Good Conduct, or Theater or Campaign awards, except maybe for the occassional Bronze Star or Purple Heart for recent wars. "Real" medals only go to officers. Take a hard look at an officers medals (ribbons) and then take a long look at an enlisted persons ribbons , and you can readily see the difference which becomes immediate. So, enlisteds generally get low-level "awards" while officers receive high-level "decorations". Big, big difference in both mindset and perception. "Service awards" are the lower end of the medals spectrum and nearly everybody has essentially the same thing, so there is nothing "special" about them, and thus no reason to wear them, except maybe to try and impress someone who has never served. As a side note, officers, especially senior officers, rarely have to "earn" their medals; all they have to do is show up someplace and they come almost automatically. Senior officers receive medals (and ribbons) that enlisted folks can only dream of. I know, I've process enough of them over the years.
Most of us are not out to impress nor do we seek to draw attention to ourselves in the civilian
community.

In my own case, I do not wear any medals on my civilian attire for the reasons mentioned above. The highest award I have is the MSM and 5 ARCOMs which don't amount to a hill of beans compared to what an officer has on his uniform. So, why bother? During the Vietnam War, I was recommended for a Bronze Star. But, the chain of command downgraded it to an ARCOM, so I got cheated out of that pretigious medal. In the same campaign and fire fight, a Major received a Bronze Star with V device and did nothing except hide in a bunker during the 3 hour ordeal. So, medals distribution are not equal, and most of us know that. It is why we put little value on them.

What I do do is that I have and wear a "patch" jacket during the cold months. This is essentially a flight jacket (I am also a pilot). It has several Army patches on it, an old style gold and black US Army tape, my 1SG rank pin (gold), a Signal Corps officers brass "crossed flags" and both hash marks and combat stripes on both sleeves. Works. Subtle and people really like it. I have even had offers from people to buy the jacket off of me, but sorry. I have no intention to sell it.

My truck also has some military (Army) markings on it: a US Army window decal, and a miniature 1SG stripe decal. My vehicles also have a SC "Disabled Veteran" license plate which is enough for those who might want to know.

In summary, unlike the UK where medals are very important, there is NO incentive by either the VA or the military to wear our medals or ribbons or any other military items on civilian clothing. While the idea is a noble one, it has neither teeth nor merit for most of us. So, why "should" we wear them?

Around here, most veterans sometimes wear "veterans" ball caps which are often for sale at our local VA clinic by vendors.

Response by LCDR Robert S. made Jan 11 at 2021 10:41 PM

2021-01-11T22:41:58-05:00

As a retiree, I plan to wear the medals any time I go to an event where my dress uniform and medals would be appropriate (which hasn't happened yet in the five years since I retired). I've worn dinner dress with mini medals twice - the first time when a non-military formal event my wife and I were going to happened to take place on Veterans Day, and the other my nephew's wedding. Other than that, I'll wear the lapel pin for my highest award when I'm in a suit, which is a couple times a year at most.

Response by CDR Tom Davy made Jan 12 at 2021 6:39 AM

2021-01-12T06:39:04-05:00

If you wear formal wear, tux, etc., your miniature medals are perfect. I usually just wear my top row, my Admiral sea daddy wears EVERYTHING in his civilian tux

Response by CPT Dennis Stevenson made Jan 12 at 2021 8:43 AM

2021-01-12T08:43:44-05:00

I have only 2 "awards" that I actually won: CIB and jump wings. I only wear a lapel pin CIB. On the other hand, I went to Australia for the 50th anniversary of the AATTV; everyone wore every medal/award. My invitation said to be sure I wore my medals. Haven't used that setup since. I conclude that it's a tradition thing and in the U.S. we don't have a tradition of wearing military awards while in civilian clothes.

Response by SPC Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 12 at 2021 12:44 PM

2021-01-12T12:44:23-05:00

That's the absolute truth. You said it well, Sir!

Response by SSG Dave Demorrow made Jan 13 at 2021 6:24 PM

2021-01-13T18:24:18-05:00

we here in the US dont have a history doing things like that, in the UK and other areas like that it is common to wear the medals there. also overseas it is ok for your desendents to wear medals on one side and the person who earned them on the other... so you could wear awards given to great great grand parents.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 13 at 2021 6:59 PM

2021-01-13T18:59:31-05:00

I never cared for the I love me wall thing and very award I got is sitting in a drawer somewhere in the house.

Response by MSgt Neil Greenfield made Jan 13 at 2021 11:32 PM

2021-01-13T23:32:14-05:00

Depending on the event, I've worn my miniature ribbons which consist of my Army and Air Force (ANG) service. I wore them on my suit jacket at both my father's funeral and my father-in-law's funeral as they were both veterans. It was my way of honoring them both. I've had veterans ask me how they can miniatures after they've seen mine. A lot of veterans don't realize they can wear their awards.

For what ever reason, Americans in general don't like to bring attention to themselves. And that includes awards they've been given. Maybe it's because the Bible has verses about the "sin of bragging". Acknowledging your awards, at least to me, is not the same thing as bragging. If you've earned something, you have every right to display it.

Response by CWO3 Robert Fong made Jan 16 at 2021 12:17 PM

2021-01-16T12:17:13-05:00

Col: I would suspect that the frequency of formal occasions is exceedingly rare in our society. However, that is not the case in British and European societies where formal occasions for civilians is much more frequent. Further, I believe that veterans hold a high place in their societies than in ours. That is not to say our society does not value the vet, but all one must do is watch a veteran's day event in England and one can see the number of vets wearing their medals. For some reason we believe that one who wears their medals to an event is somewhat of a braggard. This is sadly wrong. A veteran is only saying I did something more than take smoke breaks and drink beer in the service. Our nation awarded us for our devotion to duty. . . nothing to be ashamed about showing. Perhaps we have something to learn from our English and European allies. However, let us wear our decorations appropriately and proudly especially at veteran's events. Semper Par!

Response by SFC David Pope, MBA made Jan 31 at 2021 9:04 PM

2021-01-31T21:04:29-05:00

I have some of my certificates framed in my office. I don’t think I can even find the medals. Frankly nobody cares but me. I only wore some of them when I was in uniform, unless it was for a board.

Response by 1SG Michael Bowman made Feb 8 at 2021 6:32 PM

2021-02-08T18:32:45-05:00

Agree on the questioning but I don't like people thanking me for my service either, other than my initial entrance (draftee) I did it because I enjoyed it (for the most part).

Response by Justin Underwood made Feb 8 at 2021 6:34 PM

2021-02-08T18:34:25-05:00

I like to still show unit pride, even branch pride. The big medels I have recived from deployments are kept in my garage. I have a hard enough time explaining my unit or branch stuff. Could you imagine trying to explain some of the other stuff? Civilians dont really get alot and there for ask alot of questions. When i got vack from my first deployment the dreaded "did you have to" question vame up to many times. I am not going to explain why or how i got the medals.

Response by SSgt Michael Dale made Feb 9 at 2021 2:53 AM

2021-02-09T02:53:05-05:00

I don’t wear mine with appropriate civilian attire because no one I know cares. They all know what I did in the USAF and that’s enough.

Response by SPC Larry Weigel Jr. made Feb 10 at 2021 7:39 AM

2021-02-10T07:39:52-05:00

I wear mine as part of a special uniform that I put together over several years. My awards are mixed in with many other pins and patches so they don’t stand out as something special. I don’t wear that uniform without just cause, usually Memorial Day and military funerals. Otherwise, I don’t feel the need to show off. All that matters is I show is pride that I served - enough said.

Response by MAJ Ron Peery made Feb 10 at 2021 10:39 AM

2021-02-10T10:39:58-05:00

I have ONE black suit, which I wear to funerals and weddings....both of which I try to avoid. I don't go to formal events, mainly because all the formal events I get invited to are on the east coast, an I am not.

Response by CW3 Kevin Storm made Feb 10 at 2021 11:07 AM

2021-02-10T11:07:43-05:00

Aside from a crossed cannons ball cap I have, that I Had the 36th Inf div patch sewn on it. I don't think about it, It was then, and this is now. I think of the people, more than I do the awards.

Response by 1LT Peter Duston made Feb 10 at 2021 1:00 PM

2021-02-10T13:00:47-05:00

I was in Dieppe, France commemorating the Liberation and remembering the 1942 failed Dieppe Raid that ended disastrously for the Canadians and was invited to represent the US in the program. I was embarrassed that I was the only one of many veterans without any medals on my civilian jacket. Here is the French veteran, me, British veteran and Belgium veteran. I am under dressed and under medaled. We should take the kind of pride I observed from our European comrades.

Response by 1LT Peter Duston made Feb 10 at 2021 2:50 PM

2021-02-10T14:50:55-05:00

I find it interesting that in any other country I have ever visited and even some I haven't, veterans dress up and wear their medals. I can assure you that it's not about showing off. They are proud of their service whether in garrison on in perilous danger in a far off battlefield. I find it sad that we don't have enough self-confidence to stand up with our buddies and show that we're proud to be Americans and proud to have raised our hands and served with honor. We're fearful of being a poser (according to the article)? My God! How pathetic! We are so fearful of what someone might think or say?? I call it indifference and lack of respect for our country. It's reflected in the indifference during holidays when we commemorate Memorial Day, Flag Day, POW/MIA Day, 4th of July, Pearl Harbor Day and Veterans Day plus 9/11 Memorial Day and Wreaths Across America Day among others. Most of you are not there. You at the beach, having a cookout and just glad that it's a dy off from work. As Adjutant of my Legion Post, if I didn't actively recruit my scouts, we wouldn't have a color guard. It's the kids here that sometime shame my fellow veterans to get out for these events. If they don't happen to have a veterans hat, you'd never know that they served. I can understand about shyness and modesty but come-on. The majority of our veterans are AWOL from memberships in veterans organizations and AWOL from our many memorial events. The last couple of years, I was in Normandy for the D-Day Memorials, there were thousands there, French, British, allied and thousands of re-enactors but few Americans. The US Honor Platoon was tasked to participate, I doubt that they were volunteers. As Adjutant though, it is the old guys and their families that get nostalgic and come to me for help recouping their medals and maybe even a uniform (like the old guy last month) because he wants to be buried in it. They have lost their DD214's which when we get them are inaccurate so we're searching for orders and records to reconstruct a record and get them their medals and ribbons. It is heart warming to especially see the pride in the eyes of their children and grandchildren when they find what grandpa and maybe even grandma did in the war. So! if you guys don't give a shit, your children and grandchildren might be interested in your service. Last year (2019), I was guest speaker at a middle school for Veterans Day. There were 1,500 kids there split into two groups. I had asked the teachers to help their students identify the veterans in their families with branch. By the end of each speech, I had just about every single kid standing up and cheering for the veterans in their families. Believe me, the kids want to know. Wear those medals with pride.

Response by SSG Bill McCoy made Feb 11 at 2021 12:34 AM

2021-02-11T00:34:03-05:00

The ONLY time I ever wore any of mine were when it was for a "full dress" inspection. On duty as an MP, (see photo) I never wore them - just more for some jerk to grab at. I didn't feel that my patrol (men/women) needed to see them for respect - the stripes did that in my opinion. On Class A's, I did have my service stripes and combat bars.

Response by SSgt Ricardo Lugo made Feb 11 at 2021 10:59 AM

2021-02-11T10:59:33-05:00

We the responsible warrior of are nation; are committed to a culture of communication knowledge security. The training and carrier operations we went thru is a need to know concept. We maintain a discipline civilian life to honor are covenant to national security and global reach. The medals and badges received during are military carrier reveals are levels of military knowledge. So use them with a security mind. So God help us.

Response by MG Hugh Van Roosen made Feb 11 at 2021 11:27 AM

2021-02-11T11:27:09-05:00

I am about to join the retired ranks. I think I will wear the small medal pin for just my highest award on a suit jacket, mostly because it will be a conversation starter. The French wear a small red thread stitch in their coat lapel for the same reason.

Response by MAJ Anne McGee made Feb 11 at 2021 12:11 PM

2021-02-11T12:11:07-05:00

I never thought about wearing my medals in public, to be honest; I don't even know where they are. I have thought about making a shadow box with my berets from different units because those were the best and most challenging times, but that's just for me. I don't mind seeing other people wear them or the ball caps with unit affiliation - I think that is a fitting remembrance. We all know what we did, for better or for worse but always in service of a our country. I'm not sure how wearing medals would help bridge a divide between Civilians and Military - is there really a divide to bridge?

Response by PO2 Tom Hauser made Feb 11 at 2021 12:28 PM

2021-02-11T12:28:52-05:00

I will be 75 this year and served in the Navy 1966-1970 - 2 tours in Vietnam 1967-1969 - one blue water tour and one brown water tour - very proud of my CAR, Vietnam Service with 4 bronze stars, Vietnamese Cross of Gallantry with Palm Leaf, Navy Unit Citation and Meritorious Unit Citation, Expert Pistol and Expert Rifle qualifications etc. Have all of those medals and ribbons in a shadow box on a wall. Outside my house I fly the U.S. flag, the U.S. Support the Blue flag, the Texas Support the Blue flag - and the one flag I revere and look at each day is my black POW/MIA flag. If my neighbors don't know my politics they can look at those (2) support the blue flags and figure that out real quick, if they don't understand my commitment to my Brothers and Sisters that went in harms way - all they need to do is to look at that black POW/MIA flag flying below our nation's flag that some "cancel culture" Democrats are now calling "racist". I'm well armed, well trained, and waiting for the first shit bird from ANTIFA or BLM to attempt to take down my flags or some asshole Democrat in Congress that tries to take away my arms or ammunition. Why don't I wear my medals on my civilian clothes? Because I feel I would be out of uniform - that is unless I was at the VFW and decided to wear them on my cap which I don't or I got back in my old uniform and wore them for an appropriate occasion or ceremony as approved by DOD and in my case both DOD and TXMF because after I left federal service I joined TXMF and served 9 years there. I honor the service all the Veterans and respect their right to wear those medals and ribbons any time they want to because they earned them. However, I just don't feel comfortable putting them on my Texas license plate or wearing them out in public in civilian clothes - but I would proudly wear them while in uniform as the circumstance dictates (funerals, weddings, ceremonies, etc.)

Response by LTC David Howard made Feb 11 at 2021 2:41 PM

2021-02-11T14:41:10-05:00

Mine are in a box somewhere, along with the matching ribbons. It never occurred to me in the 30 years since I retired from active service to wear those medals on civilian attire. In part it is because I know how little relevance most of the medals have to how I performed my duties. As an officer, getting orders for a change of station triggered an almost automatic response of being put in for some service medal, unless your boss really, really disliked you or the way you did your job. To some degree the medals served as a sign of how well you did in the popularity game with your superiors, and little more since so many of them truly had no rational way of evaluating your contributions or lack thereof. Medals for valor, however, are in a different category than service awards, but those that were truly earned are generally not something the individual wishes to broadcast to the world, especially after leaving active service.

Response by SP5 Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 11 at 2021 6:21 PM

2021-02-11T18:21:22-05:00

I do not wear mine on civies, never felt like I needed to. As for helping to bridge the gap between those who have served and those who have not, maybe, just maybe. For me it is a private and personal thing. Memories that are mine that I do not wish to share, they are just for me. I can see where this attitude would appear selfish, but I do not look at it that way.

Response by SSG Paul Headlee made Feb 12 at 2021 1:32 PM

2021-02-12T13:32:30-05:00

I'm simply not hoping for anyone's approval. Its a fool's errand and I'm above that. I also don't put decals on my truck. I'm nondescript.

Response by SGT Ranae Mayle made Feb 12 at 2021 10:23 PM

2021-02-12T22:23:08-05:00

I keep mine in a display box. It's never really crossed my mind to actually wear them once I left the military. Maybe if I joined the VFW and was part of a ceremony or something but other than that, I don't see a reason to wear them. The only thing that really points to me being a veteran are bumper stickers. I don't like the attention.

Response by LTC John Griscom made Feb 12 at 2021 11:17 PM

2021-02-12T23:17:01-05:00

I wear my Vietnam vet cap with my EFMB and a ribbon most of the time. Often get thanks for my service.

Response by SSgt Russell Stevens made Feb 13 at 2021 11:27 AM

2021-02-13T11:27:00-05:00

It's not that I don't want to be identified as a veteran. With the treatment I received from the U.S. Government as represented by the Department of Veterans Affairs I have come to view my military service as the ultimate badge of shame. That being said I prefer to disregard the medals and show high school and college students the paperwork denying my claims for the first 17 years after service. If the VA can deny me, they can deny anyone. Furthermore, if it takes hurting recruiters quotas to get the benefits I should have had since my medical record put me out, then those quotas are going to get hurt.

Response by CSM Bob Stanek made Feb 14 at 2021 1:06 PM

2021-02-14T13:06:58-05:00

LTC Martin Metz, I'm of the group that likes to only celebrate my military career with those who understand my military service. Many with no knowledge of a military background, don't understand why we serve. So I keep my career to myself except with subdue messages (like wearing an Army Polo shirt), or an Army Jacket. IF they are interested in asking the question, then I will answer. But I don't push that on to others. Just my humble opinion.

Response by GySgt Private RallyPoint Member made Feb 15 at 2021 7:54 AM

2021-02-15T07:54:51-05:00

Honestly I loved my time in the Corps. I’m one of those who would do it again, but am not one to say, at going on 59 years old, that I’d go back now. My body would kill me for it.

My point is that similar to life in general, you do something and then move on. I wear Marine Corps stuff occasionally like people wear their favorite sports paraphernalia. I have the retired plates. I’ll go to the Marine Corps Ball. But wearing medals feels like it would scream “look at me.” I have mine and some great grandkids or descendent will take pride in having a veteran ancestor. But my time for wearing my medals has come and gone. Let the young guys and gals in uniform have that glory.

Response by Cpl Steven Horsley made Feb 15 at 2021 4:47 PM

2021-02-15T16:47:23-05:00

It would "allow" civilians to think they can do it.

Response by SGT Greg Gold made Feb 20 at 2021 10:00 AM

2021-02-20T10:00:21-05:00

I have a hat with my ribbons on it. I wear it on veterans day and to any veterans related gathering, which are few and far in between. I don't have a reason to wear mini's on my civilian attire because my lifestyle doesn't have me attending anything where i need to dress for. The biggest reason I don't wear my medals is I a non combat veteran, and I get tired of letting people down when they find out I was not in Iraq or Afghanistan.

Response by TSgt Henry Alau made Feb 20 at 2021 3:27 PM

2021-02-20T15:27:28-05:00

I've worn mine once...at my parents funeral. Dad was a retired Air Force major and entitled to full military honors. I am a retired Air Force tech sergeant and wore my medals out of respect to my father and our shared service. Other than that, one set of medals is in a drawer, the other is in my retirement shadow box. Probably like most folks, I don't see a need to wear them all over the place. I served, I retired, I earned what I earned, and the people who need to know already do.

Response by CPT Paul Chandler made Mar 2 at 2021 9:12 AM

2021-03-02T09:12:08-05:00

I am Vietnam era as well and retired in 96 as Capt after having been a SFC and CW2. For a long time in didn't wear my medals. Now however i wear my dress Blues every memorial day and Veterans day. Wear the uniform not so much for myself but to show respect and honor for my bothers and sisters that never returned.

Response by SFC Julius Lewis made Mar 17 at 2021 4:49 PM

2021-03-17T16:49:03-04:00

I was a steward in that profession. It is a part of my life that I enjoyed but it doesn't define who I am now. I tried to just leave it behind when I retired. Those fancy medals are for you guys that are currently serving in my opinion.

Response by SGM Hugh Blake made Mar 18 at 2021 9:30 AM

2021-03-18T09:30:28-04:00

Too many fake military disrespects those that actually served, they wear fake medals to impress others. Veterans wear hats, or facemask now to show we are proud of our service to this great country. We do not need to show medals to prove whom we are. we are the 1% that actually served our country. War is a dangerous thing, those that have been there, do not show our medals because we know those that did not return. somethings don't need to be reminded

Response by CPT Kevin Cromwell made Mar 18 at 2021 12:55 PM

2021-03-18T12:55:30-04:00

I think it is a good idea. It show more people those who were in the service.

Response by 1SG John Martin made Mar 18 at 2021 1:54 PM

2021-03-18T13:54:22-04:00

I have worn my miniature medal rack at ceremonies at the NH State House for bill signing, for parades on patriotic holidays, and formal occasions locally and on formal nights on cruises. Sometimes I get cold stares because of it and sometimes I'll have other veterans say they wished they had worn theirs. I just wish there was more in the way of guidance on the subject. I noticed a Canadian LTC on one trans Atlantic cruise wearing his in a single row, British style, while mine were stacked like the US custom.

Response by SP5 David Connolly made Mar 18 at 2021 5:48 PM

2021-03-18T17:48:36-04:00

I wear a small CIB over a small Purple Heart when dressed in public, which is all I care to share with civilians. Most of them have no idea what they are. Brothers and Sisters who notice them, and they always do, give me a fist bump, a handshake or a hug. Not looking for anything more than that from anyone other than my own.

Response by Sgt Daniel Martin made Mar 18 at 2021 7:32 PM

2021-03-18T19:32:12-04:00

I wear a ball cap that says veteran. That is all I need. I have ribbons that I have worn on VFW shirts but no where else.

Response by CW5 Mark Smith made Mar 18 at 2021 8:20 PM

2021-03-18T20:20:00-04:00

Local culture is a factor. We've seen many gatherings of Brits, Russians, etc. wearing their medals on civilian clothing. I like it.

Response by SSG Dave McPeak made Mar 18 at 2021 10:52 PM

2021-03-18T22:52:10-04:00

Ball caps with units, my CVMA vest, and in dress occasions I alternate between a Miniature CIB or EIB

Response by CPL James S. made Mar 20 at 2021 12:07 AM

2021-03-20T00:07:21-04:00

I don't wear mine because they're a reminder of things I would really prefer to not dwell on and absolutely won't discuss with anyone unless they've either stomped the same snakes or worked the same profession, and I've been known to be a bit rude to anyone claiming they understand how I feel.

There is also a stigma in our area: there are a LOT of idiots who claim a lot (Sniper, Special Forces, SEAL, etc) that are obvious liars and fakes. I don't want to be associated with those idiots.

I DO wear a hat that says "Dysfunctional Veteran - Leave Me Alone", and I really like to wear a shirt that says "Fuck Off Somewhere Else" when I go out in public (where people are), which is rarely. Sometimes, when I hunt, I wear my field jacket which still has my rank, branch and patches. But I'm usually never seen by anyone when I hunt. I'm way too far in the middle of nowhere for that.

Response by SFC Melvin Brandenburg made Mar 20 at 2021 12:17 AM

2021-03-20T00:17:18-04:00

My medals are very personal to me. I have them on display at home above our fireplace. I only wear my ASUs to veteran funerals and only then I just wear the ribbon rack.

Response by SFC Casey O'Mally made Mar 20 at 2021 12:54 PM

2021-03-20T12:54:46-04:00

I didn't serve for recognition. I am proud of my service, and discuss it freely with anyone who asks. I make no SECRET of my service. But I also feel no need to shout it from the rooftops.

98% of the time*, when a veteran is in attire with which wearing of medals would be appropriate, the veteran is NOT the focus of attention - or at least they should not be. Why wear something to deliberately remove focus from whoever SHOULD be focused on? To me it is similar to anyone other than the bride wearing a white dress to a wedding. Sure you can do it. There might even be times when it is appropriate (like at bride's request). But most of the time, there is no need, and would only serve to draw attention.

*Statistic entirely made up on the spot, based purely off personal experience. I have no data to support this number.

Response by PO2 John Driskill made Mar 20 at 2021 12:58 PM

2021-03-20T12:58:30-04:00

I see no point in wearing medals on my civilian clothing. What I got was being there medals, nothing special. So I got the Vietnam Service Medal for my time on the USS Saratoga CV60's Vietnam cruise. It's cute but so what? I spent 10 years in the Navy and most of it I would rather forget. I prefer to remember the pictures I took during my time on the 3 ships I served on.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 20 at 2021 1:48 PM

2021-03-20T13:48:27-04:00

Because you'd look like a dork.

Response by SSgt Robert Van Buhler III made Mar 21 at 2021 12:33 PM

2021-03-21T12:33:51-04:00

I have a nice set of miniature medals as well as the original rack I had in uniform. I think they would look great on my tux, but I have never had occasion to attend any function where I thought them appropriate. The 8 ribbons are quite colorful, but I don't feel like I need to explain each one and what they mean and how I got them. I did that once for my wife and that is enough. And I agree on the thank you for your service stuff. Just say you are a vet and the response is automatic. And two guys thanking each other reflexively seems kind of like a meaningless religious motion to go through. If I went to my Legion post and thanked all my associates on Veterans day, they would be tired of my company quickly.

Response by COL Ramon Nadal made Mar 21 at 2021 1:11 PM

2021-03-21T13:11:12-04:00

I am proud of my service and wear selected items, such as small combat units insignia, some miniature medals, CIB. etc at what I consider appropriate occasions, such as veteran get-togethers, Memorial day events, etc.

Response by 1LT Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 21 at 2021 5:03 PM

2021-03-21T17:03:37-04:00

I often wondered how the now retired Colonel ( living in Annapolis) felt wearing the 3 Air Medals and Army Aviation badge I earned on his uniform for the last 12 years of his career? He plagiarized my flight log and was in charge of awards and decorations. Probably didn’t give it a second thought!

Response by PO1 Todd B. made Mar 21 at 2021 5:55 PM

2021-03-21T17:55:10-04:00

Only time I wear anything is for a Veteran's funeral or some other official function that is military based or has anything to do with.. But just to civilian functions, nah.. no need to do that. When I see those that do, I think of two things.. posers or russia, who seem big on doing that.

Response by CPT Mike Sims made Mar 21 at 2021 9:44 PM

2021-03-21T21:44:25-04:00

If in in formal setting, let's say a Military ball or American Legion or VFW formal dinner (coat & tie), or at a corporate level formal engagement (coat & tie)... or may be even at a father / daughter formal (coat & tie) event... 1.) As means to identify with fellow Veterans; 2.) As a means to signify one's service to signify to others that patriotism in our country is still important - and hopefully inspire young people to want to serve too; 3.) To signal in the corporate world (if that is where you currently work or have an affiliation with), that there are things more important than money and that you sacrificed part of your life in defense of our nation... and while some young inexperienced corporate VP may have standing with the company, you have standing as a gentlemen of honor who served our nation with distinction.

This is not to reap some special bragging right or to upstand your boss at the company who may not have served, but it is to remind people that we exist as a free nation and businesses exist because of the brave and loyal service of our troops and Veterans + their families.

It should also inspire business owners and leaders to continue their support for our military - especially for their own employees who may be currently serving in the Reserves or National Guard - as there may come a time that they are called upon whether in crisis or combat, we want to ensure business owners and leaders are reminded that the loyal and faithful service of our troops are what ensure the survivability of our country, and therefore by extension - their businesses and corporation who benefit from the service and sacrifice of our troops.

Having said all of that, I would only wear one row of mini-medals and a mini-badge (Aviator or Crew Service wings / Infantry Badge / Combat Service Badge / Expert Medical Badge, Airborne or Air Assault Wings, Navy SEAL Trident, or Branch Insignia, or Special Agent mini badge on the right lapel if a Veteran Army CID or CI Agent, or Air Force OSI Agent, or Coast Guard CGIS or CGCIS Agent or Marine CID or CI Agent... I left out NCIS because there are no uniformed military NCIS Agents - even though they may be Veteran, they did not serve as Special Agents while in the military).

Response by LTC Christopher Hills made Mar 21 at 2021 10:29 PM

2021-03-21T22:29:05-04:00

About 10 years ago, congress congress encouraged both veterans saluting during the national anthem (without uniforms) and wearing medals/badges during appropriate events. In other countries, it is fairly normal. I wear them occasionally for weddings or funerals that are military. Not much else.

Response by SGT Gary Tob made Mar 21 at 2021 10:53 PM

2021-03-21T22:53:03-04:00

I'll wear on my uniform, and only on Special Occasions. I don't consider myself as a "European" who do wear on civilian clothing.

Response by MSgt Harold Harris made Mar 21 at 2021 11:00 PM

2021-03-21T23:00:04-04:00

Yes, I was proud to wear my uniform and medals while serving, however, upon retirement I abandoned all of my military uniform. I proudly wear a USAF cap these days, and I shall until it wear out or I pass away. I was proud of my service and I have a decal on my car windshield representing my pride in serving.

Response by LTC John Wilson made Mar 22 at 2021 9:36 AM

2021-03-22T09:36:06-04:00

Why don't more Veterans wear the medals they have earned during appropriate times on civilian attire?

Humility -- for the most part. While we are proud of our service and our achievements (and rightfully so), our medals do not define who we are in the final analysis. We are American Citizens.

When we threw off British rule, we eschewed titles of nobility. Perhaps our decision not to wear medals in civilian attire is part of that. I believe that when we leave service and enter the civilian world, we put ALL of the uniform away (even if we check our gig lines, tie a proper four-in-hand-tie, and keep a clean haircut). It just isn't done. We become "Mr." or "Ms." -- no longer MAJ, COL, CPO, TSgt or Gunny.

If not humility, then a sense of decorum motivates us not to wear medals. Either because we have this engrained inability to mix uniform items with civilian attire or we sense that wearing a chest full in the board room will make us look like a Soviet Great Patriotic War Veteran straight out of central casting -- an unfashionable fool.

Perhaps this should change, but a fatwa from the VA will not suffice. Rather, it will require companies and other, traditionally private, civil institutions to encourage their veteran members and patrons to wear them -- private companies, churches, synagogues, etc.

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 23 at 2021 8:07 AM

2021-03-23T08:07:13-04:00

I do wear mine but that is only to formal military functions I am invited to. I’m proud of my service yet, I’m not one to gloat in my accomplishments. For me and I know for many I served with, it was never about glory, medals, or accolades. It was not about us but rather the person next to us. My brothers and sisters in uniform while training or in a firefight, or at home next to those I love most.

Response by CPT Keith Celebrezze made Mar 23 at 2021 12:22 PM

2021-03-23T12:22:32-04:00

When I wear a suit, unless in going to a Mary Kay potluck, I tend to wear a mini unit pin. I do it in the hopes of finding a comrade in the room. Screaming eagle is a great conversation starter.

It's not wrong if you earned it.

Good luck sir.

Response by Sgt Jesse Brown made Mar 23 at 2021 7:13 PM

2021-03-23T19:13:00-04:00

On special events such as Memorial Day, Veterans Day or Marine Corps Birthday, why not? Especially if they’re Valor Awards.

There seems to be this cult of false modesty about valor awards. For one moment in time, in dire circumstances you were a hero. Why must you hide that fact? No need to shove it in everyone’s face all the time; but on those special occasions why not?

Response by CW3 Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 24 at 2021 1:59 PM

2021-03-24T13:59:11-04:00

I am proud of my service but I equate it more to something i did as a career not something that defines who I am. It’s not an opening line for me during introductions I don’t wear veteran hats or 9 line t-shirts. Ironically had a conversation with my sisters close friend where I recalled her kidnapping my dog while I was overseas. She assumed I was on an extended vacation and asked where I was. When I said Afghanistan I could tell she was shocked and didn’t know how to react.

Response by SP5 Derick Johnsohne made Mar 24 at 2021 2:47 PM

2021-03-24T14:47:23-04:00

a lot of civilians stare at the medals and their face look like it is done for showing off .

Response by SPC Edward Abney made Mar 25 at 2021 12:10 AM

2021-03-25T00:10:09-04:00

I believe it would be appropriate to wear your medals to a Military function, (Veterans funerals, patriotic parades, etc.). I have worn mine at Veteran funerals.

Response by CPL R S made Mar 25 at 2021 5:55 PM

2021-03-25T17:55:26-04:00

Because medals have lost value due to being given out for absolutely everything. Seriously my father fought for 26 years in special forces combat in Africa. 2 medals. My brother fought in combat for 7 years special forces and only received the "I was in the army medal" 2 years after he died, he had 54 confirmed kill notches on his K-bar.
I served in the US Army without going to war and I have a chest full of trinkets. Inflation always leads to devaluation even in medals.

Response by Cpl Bernard Bates made Mar 26 at 2021 12:51 AM

2021-03-26T00:51:55-04:00

I wouldn't because 4 of the medals I am authorized to wear everybody who was a vietnam veteran got them. The only 2 medals I earned myself are a Marine Corp Good Conduct and an Army Good conduct medal. Semper Fi.

Response by CPL Chris Palmberg made Mar 28 at 2021 9:09 AM

2021-03-28T09:09:39-04:00

There is a reason that the "rack" has, since time immemorial, been referred to as "fruit salad." To those unfamiliar with military ribbons and medals, the rack is little more than colorful bits of fabric arranged in a cacophony of organized chaos.
Military decorations, therefore, IMHO, are best reserved for situations where most participants are peers. I affixed a set of miniatures to my VFW garrison cap when serving with their color guard. I'll break out my Stetson as farm formal attire when attending events hosted by Farmer Veteran Coalition. On the off chance I participate in a Memorial Day ceremony or something similar, I'll really gussy up and pin my minis to the pocket of a suit jacket and wear the Stetson as well.
But if the people around you don't have the knowledge base to appreciate the significance of the decor, who are you really wearing it for?

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 9 at 2021 11:19 PM

2021-04-09T23:19:21-04:00

Because I known what I've done and my men I've served known what I have done. I dont need to brag to anyone else. I'm a medic and have been doing this for 24 years between civilian and army life.

Doc

Response by PO3 Robert `Fall made Apr 10 at 2021 5:53 PM

2021-04-10T17:53:49-04:00

I see this as a difference between British Commonwealth veterans and American. I see British vets in mufti wearing their ribbons at the appropriate times.

Response by Sgt Peter Schlesiona made Apr 12 at 2021 8:57 AM

2021-04-12T08:57:50-04:00

I wear mine when I dress in a tuxedo. Otherwise, I don’t feel comfortable doing it because I think it comes across as “Hey, look at me”. I don’t have that same feeling when I’m in formal wear.

Response by CPO Melvin Miller made Apr 14 at 2021 5:14 PM

2021-04-14T17:14:31-04:00

When I left the military I put my ribbons and medals in a shadow box which is for me. I do wear a veterans cap as I am proud to wear that but the rest is put away. i really do not talk to anyone about my service. Occasionally with someone who has been there but not often. I am proud of my service and those I served with. I have my memories and now a different life

Response by SSG Jeffrey Monk made Apr 16 at 2021 6:31 PM

2021-04-16T18:31:23-04:00

I haven't worn my Blues sense my Sisters wedding, and that was because in was a military wedding. Her being active Air Force and my brother in law active Army. I was also the one who walked her down the aisle so it was appropriate. I do wear a purple heard tie tack while in a nice clothes but that's about it. I live in Okaloosa County Fl so with three major bases here chances are good that the guy in front of you in line is a vet and the woman behind is active duty. Its just a given.

Response by MCPO Mark Burns made Apr 18 at 2021 8:11 AM

2021-04-18T08:11:33-04:00

Different generations of people/veterans and times.

Response by 1SG Charles Simpson made Apr 18 at 2021 9:21 AM

2021-04-18T09:21:18-04:00

I spent 28 years and 11 days in the army and was awarded 10 medals for service and/or valor. I never asked for any of those medals but someone in my chain of command did and made the requests. I was honored that my service to my country and to my brothers and sisters in uniform merited the award of those medals and I was proud to add them to my uniform for my fellow soldiers to see because those medals belonged to them as much as they did to me. They were my resume because my soldiers could see them and they could know that I was what I claimed to be. a soldier.

Response by AB B Fish made Apr 18 at 2021 11:06 PM

2021-04-18T23:06:57-04:00

When is the appropriate time to wear military medals on civilian attire? I don't know what that would be?

Response by GySgt Marc Dickerson made Apr 19 at 2021 8:56 AM

2021-04-19T08:56:02-04:00

I have a small gold Marine Corps emblem I sometimes wear as a lapel pin or tie keeper when I wear my suit. And that's it. Most of the time I wear a small US flag instead. I'm retired. It's in my past. The other side of the coin are those guys that wear massive amounts of junk they never earned. They look like communist generals with all those trinkets plastered across their chest. I know what I did, and that's enough.

Response by CWO4 Miles Weaver made Apr 19 at 2021 11:37 AM

2021-04-19T11:37:37-04:00

I feel like I would be boasting and I've never been one to blow my own horn. It's very common in Europe but not something that's likely to catch on here.

Response by CPT Tim Homolak made Apr 19 at 2021 2:13 PM

2021-04-19T14:13:00-04:00

Why?? I for one think my military life is my business. Awards, medals or citations on civilian attire are, to my thinking, inappropriate. My civilian life is my public image and I do show affiliation with the Vet Veterans and Marine league but the what and where of my service is a personal thing and scared to my own persona. I have encountered several instances of "stolen valor" and this would only encourage it.

Response by SSG Bradley Williams made Apr 20 at 2021 4:55 PM

2021-04-20T16:55:59-04:00

I wear my Bronze Star ball caps I have four different color scheme and I’m thanked for my service on many occasions also if there is a military discount they are quick to ask. Where as you might pay and no be offered I’ve experienced that even though Veteran is on my Drivers License! I am 100% disabled so I have a dependent type ID the brown one which reads indefinite and the Veterans I D Card as well! But people are proud to shake your hand even when I wear a Desert Storm hat or just ARMY Which I also have various colors and other vets stop to talk as well. I rally like to talk to the older Veterans it really boost them up like a big family out there! Even Wives of deceased Veterans stop me to talk! It’s a Honor to let the community share there experience and knowledge of relatives who served as well wear it as often as you can and feel Honored!

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 21 at 2021 11:26 AM

2021-04-21T11:26:34-04:00

There's probably a few reasons why veterans don't wear their medals.
1) They don't think that their service was particularly cool or gives them any stories to tell.
2) They had bad experiences they don't want to talk about.
3) They don't think their service measures up to the "real" heroes that they look up to.

The problem with this attitude is that there are a couple of things they don't realize.

1) To someone who's never served, almost any stories they have will seem very cool.
2) Most veterans will respect that you served even if you weren't in combat.
3) Everyone has heroes that they look up to. Even if we think they did some spectacular or amazing stuff, many highly decorated combat veterans will downplay the stuff they did or say things like, "The real heroes were the ones who didn't make it back. Not me."
4) Even if you haven't been in combat, you've probably dealt with some very important responsibilities in which, directly or indirectly, you helped save lives or maintain your country's security. That's a responsibility most people will never have, and it's a bigger deal than many veterans realize.

But one of the hard lessons we need to learn is that it's a good thing to wear our medals periodically, even if it's just to church on Veteran's Day weekend. Because there's a rising generation of kids who can benefit greatly from seeing people they know who served. It helps them understand what makes their country a place worth living in. It helps them have a real, tangible link to the events that have shaped the world.

My grandparents were kids in Holland during World War II. Both their fathers were slaves in the Nazi concentration camps. They went through terrible things that shaped the world into what it is today. But they never talked about the war. For them, it was a terrible time they lived through that they just wanted to forget about. I wish I'd had a chance to hear about their experiences and to see their perspective on life and how those dark days changed them. Things like that can be of real positive value to kids. I've been able to help a couple of troubled teenagers at church because they found out I'm in and they valued my perspective immediately because of that.

So for me, even if I had some bad experiences, and even if I don't think my sacrifice measures up to that of some of the people I look up to, it may very well still make a difference in the life of some young kid that asks me about it. It's a way to continue to be of positive benefit to the world even if my body is starting to break down and I'm about to retire.

Response by Lt Col Timothy Cassidy-Curtis made Apr 21 at 2021 1:09 PM

2021-04-21T13:09:27-04:00

Most of us wear our decorations because they convey meaning. However, out in the civilian world, there are not a lot of civilians (who are not veterans/retirees) who understand what the decorations mean. To them, it's a bit of ... well ... decoration; a splash of color and nothing more.

I suspect the reluctance is to seem too flashy, that is, anything that is beyond "stylish."

Response by PO2 Alexander Gonzalez made Apr 21 at 2021 1:32 PM

2021-04-21T13:32:53-04:00

I have a KLM and a SWA (the little hat medals) pinned on cool Navy Corpsman cap my sister bought me for my birthday. It looks pretty cool. That's as far as it goes for me. If other vets wana wear their chest candy I say they earned it just wear it well.

Response by PO2 Paul Dempsey made Apr 21 at 2021 7:34 PM

2021-04-21T19:34:23-04:00

In the 70s and 80s we where looked down on so I didn't March or mention my service. I was proud to have served but my country didn't share that feeling. 911 changed that for service in the military and restored thanks to those who served. Old wounds still hurt at times.

Response by CAPT Patrick Mulcahy made Apr 21 at 2021 9:02 PM

2021-04-21T21:02:27-04:00

The British and Austrailian veterans do wear their service medals on military ceremonial days like ANZAC Day, etc. In fact, while they wear their own medals on the left breast, they also wear their family members medals on their right breast. I think it is a neat tradition.

Response by SSG Edward Tilton made Apr 21 at 2021 9:12 PM

2021-04-21T21:12:17-04:00

There are too many wearing them who never earned them. For me to wear mine would make me one of them

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 21 at 2021 10:54 PM

2021-04-21T22:54:01-04:00

Wearing those medals on civilian attire is nothing more then an extension of the I love me wall which I was never into. People in the military get medals for doing their job instead of getting medals for going above and beyond what is normally expected. That simply cheapens the award process.

Response by LTC(P) Christina Moore made Apr 22 at 2021 12:19 AM

2021-04-22T00:19:02-04:00

I am proud of my service but it is not the"Be all and End all " of me. Many civilians especially in the higher managment ranks have preconcieved ideas about what military service is and may be put off by that. (ie; its not all marching around and private Benjamin antics or sniper killing) There is also a peception that prior military people are so institutionally imprinted that they are incapable of change and growth in another direction. Multiply those by the human factors; jealousy, intimidation, insecurity, professionalism gaps. Nah, I just assume stay incognito and let my work speak for itself then if it comes up later, wont they be suprised....

Response by SPC Henry Francis made Apr 22 at 2021 6:51 AM

2021-04-22T06:51:01-04:00

Because we’re not Russians.

Response by MAJ Ron Peery made Apr 22 at 2021 7:21 PM

2021-04-22T19:21:04-04:00

My medals are hanging on the wall in my living room so I can look at them and remember good times, good friends, and adventures. They are not there for show, as I very seldom invite people into my house. I don't go to formal affairs, and I only wear my black suit for weddings and funerals, events where I am not supposed to be the center of attention.

Response by SSG Don Maggart made Apr 23 at 2021 12:57 AM

2021-04-23T00:57:54-04:00

That Cap is Retired afted Veterans Day

Response by MSG Tim Waychoff made Apr 23 at 2021 3:39 AM

2021-04-23T03:39:30-04:00

I'd never condemn, nor throw a sideways look at any of my brothers and sisters in arms, who would or do choose to wear them.

I don't.

Not because of any kind of fear; 27+ years, Radio Operator, Air Traffic Controller, Recruiter, Instructor, etc... I'll talk to people, and confidently, all day long if they want to ask.

Fact of the matter is that I just don't have much reason to wear them. If my boys asked me to wear them, I would. They're young. They remember that I was in the Army, but never really knew much about it due to my duties when and since they were born. It is a major part of who I am, and of my life in general, but it isn't actively a part of my life today so it doesn't cross my mind to do so, I guess.

Response by CPL Joe Hall made Apr 23 at 2021 9:38 PM

2021-04-23T21:38:25-04:00

I don't wear mine, I do on some occasions wear my units crest on my suit. Other than that like most just want to avoid the attention.

Response by GySgt Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 23 at 2021 10:36 PM

2021-04-23T22:36:07-04:00

Mostly because it’s a giant pain in the ass to buy the mini medals and get them mounted properly. Plus I don’t attend enough formal events to justify it.

Plus I retired and am over it all.

Response by SFC Michael Hasbun made Apr 25 at 2021 9:01 AM

2021-04-25T09:01:34-04:00

Pride is internal. Vanity is displayed.

Response by SPC Kyle Masters made Apr 26 at 2021 1:34 AM

2021-04-26T01:34:14-04:00

I echo the comments above. I’m a civilian now. My military deployments and commendations are for me, and my circle of family and friends that know my story. I still wear a deployment or PT shirt when I’m doing yard work or running to the store on a lazy Sunday, but beyond that, it’s for me and by circle to know.

Response by PO1 Erinn Hines made Apr 26 at 2021 2:35 AM

2021-04-26T02:35:12-04:00

I don't, not because I am not proud for of my service but the reason is I am not the person that enjoys being the center of attention. I rather that the subject of why I am there is the focus.

Response by SGT Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 26 at 2021 7:59 AM

2021-04-26T07:59:52-04:00

The way I see it, I know what I did in service, and my buddies and family know what I fid in service. I don't need the validation from complete strangers. The people that do this stuff also come across as the "thank me for my service" type.

Response by CW3 Ed Neely made Apr 26 at 2021 7:21 PM

2021-04-26T19:21:06-04:00

After 26 years in uniform I choose to wear nothing affiliated with my time in the service. Part of this is because I still live in a military community and I want to leave the recognition to those that are still on active duty. I don’t have anything Army related on my vehicles either.

Response by SSgt William (Bill) Pangrass made Apr 27 at 2021 10:32 AM

2021-04-27T10:32:32-04:00

To me that seems to be more a European & Eastern European thing , more than American.

Response by CPT(P) Private RallyPoint Member made Apr 29 at 2021 4:02 AM

2021-04-29T04:02:50-04:00

Go to Parades and Ceremonies, wear your medals and demonstrate your Honor in serving this nation! Do not let anyone tell you otherwise. One may retire but your service and commitment stay with you for life.

Response by PFC Cameron May made Apr 29 at 2021 10:28 AM

2021-04-29T10:28:58-04:00

I know what I did. No need to peacock.

Response by COL John Power made Apr 29 at 2021 1:45 PM

2021-04-29T13:45:35-04:00

While I understand the perspective of those who wish not to wear their medals, I believe you are doing yourself and your comrade veterans and those currently serving a disservice. The number of citizens in the US that have served is shrinking rapidly. There is a huge divide between those that have served and those know nothing about the dedication and sacrifice it entails. I don't drag them out randomly, but on Veterans Day or Memorial Day at a ceremony, even as a spectator, I'll wear them. In a civilian tux (my dress uniforms no longer fit) at a military or veteran oriented function I will always wear them. Folks that know know. Those that don't can learn. But they never will if they don't have it brought to their attention. I recall being in DC on Capitol Hill doing some advocacy and, since it was military and veteran related, I had a lapel pin of the highest award I had received. Several VFW folks were working the Hill at the time and the nods I got as I went around the hallways and sidewalks told me that those that knew were real. Some others asked. So they learned. Foe me it isn't a matter of personal pride or braggadocio. Rather it is about enlightening the general public as to our presence.

Response by SMSgt Michael Gleason made May 1 at 2021 5:31 PM

2021-05-01T17:31:08-04:00

Personally, I look with envy at Canadian and British veterans who are frequently seen in news reports, proudly wearing their medals on civilian attire (or "when in 'mufti'", as the Brits say). I just don't know if I could bring myself to follow suit (no pun intended). That said, I have worn my (very expensive) Mess Dress on some occasions, such as formal weddings (...and it still fits!).

Response by SSG Eric Blue made May 2 at 2021 2:22 PM

2021-05-02T14:22:05-04:00

In my case, it doesn't really matter. I've earned everything I've ever received, but I still received everything I've ever earned. So for me, it would be a sore spot wearing my military medals, awards, or whatever on my civilian attire.

Response by 1SG Patrick Sims made May 4 at 2021 8:37 AM

2021-05-04T08:37:23-04:00

I'm proud of the awards I received from over 900 days in the Mekong Delta. However, they bring back unpleasant memories I would rather forget. I keep them in a footlocker in storage,

Response by SGT George G. made May 16 at 2021 2:15 PM

2021-05-16T14:15:42-04:00

I wear my ribbon rack whenever I am pinning a Vietnam Vet with his Vietnam War 50th Commemorative lapel pin and I wear my rack on all military holidays,especially March 29th, Veterans Day and Memorial day plus any VFW or American legion event to include the wearing of my First Cavalry Stetson. I took me a few years to get there but now I'm there and proud to be a part of a group called Veteran. Thank you all for your service.

Response by COL Larry Sage made May 18 at 2021 1:14 PM

2021-05-18T13:14:05-04:00

I always wear them! Being involuntarily inducted (drafted), I wear them to show that when I was a civilian law school student and my Country thought I should be an infantryman, I answered my Nation's call!

Response by SN Trevor Sanchez made Jun 9 at 2021 9:48 AM

2021-06-09T09:48:25-04:00

Some of us didn't get awarded any medals because we were stateside shore duty our whole enlistment. It's the main thing that angered me about my enlistment. I never got to go anywhere except multiple bases in San Diego. That was not what I signed up for. I wanted to travel, live aboard ship, see the world like my Dad and brothers before me had. I saw San Diego and had most of the crows or above pissed off at me because I was taking a spot someone who had seen sea duty should have had. I had zero choice in where I was assigned to. I wanted to travel. So as a consequence to that, I only received the National Defense Medal and the Cold War Certificate where the medal is not authorized unless you are Coast Guard. To say I was disappointed is an understatement. I put in for transfer nearly every week to no avail.

Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 9 at 2021 11:19 AM

2021-06-09T11:19:34-04:00

Unless you're in dinner dress, there's no reason to wear your medals. Unless you're trying to show off....

Response by COL John Hudson made Jun 13 at 2021 8:05 AM

2021-06-13T08:05:28-04:00

MY CHOICE - an open and honest answer: I enlisted in 1966. Went from Helicopter Mechanic to Flight School, then straight to Vietnam; later to Balkan Conflict (one tour) and Iraq (almost 4 years). I flew 1,955 combat hours in Vietnam (Huey's and some guns). Over the course of a 30 year career, I picked up a great deal of high accolade from combat tours (came in as E-1, out the door as O-6). That said, the adverse events that occurred when we came back from Vietnam left a very bad and lasting impression on me continuing to this very day (which I suffered in silence). I chose to never wear any medals unless the Command I was serving under required such at functions...but was uncomfortable with staring by others and constant questions about how I earned such recognition. At retirement, I severed my "military" attitude, choosing to move on and say little about what had come before. I choose to downplay that career by not calling attention to myself when wearing a suit festooned with a rainbow exhibition to dinners or similar functions. I did not wish to be buttonholed by curious individuals while enjoying dinner with my family (or at church, etc). Bottom line = the wear of military accolade on civilian attire is a personal choice for as many reasons as there are individuals who earned it.

Response by LTC Jason Carter made Jun 14 at 2021 12:35 PM

2021-06-14T12:35:00-04:00

I wear a very tiny medal on my business suits. I don't see anything wrong with it

Response by SSG Jeffrey Brady made Jun 14 at 2021 6:05 PM

2021-06-14T18:05:30-04:00

The only thing I go out of my way to wear is a Airborne wings tie tack. Not enough to be flashy but every now and then someone will point it out

Response by SFC Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 14 at 2021 8:24 PM

2021-06-14T20:24:30-04:00

Article 15 Ribbon with 5 OLC with V device

Response by PO1 Edward Pate made Jun 15 at 2021 9:30 AM

2021-06-15T09:30:04-04:00

I have never felt any need to do that. Makes me thing of photos and films from the Soviet union from the 70's and 80's of WW2 veterans in suits festooned with medals.

Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Jun 16 at 2021 12:57 PM

2021-06-16T12:57:51-04:00

What are the appropriate occasions and rules on wearing of such awards?

Response by MSgt Thomas O'Rourke made Jun 16 at 2021 2:58 PM

2021-06-16T14:58:15-04:00

I believe that medals and ribbons go solely with the uniform. I am happy to wear org patches and hats that signify my deployments. I can appreciate others who believe differently, as long as whatever is worn is done with respect.

Response by Lt Col Warren Domke made Jun 18 at 2021 8:23 PM

2021-06-18T20:23:42-04:00

While I take pride in my service and did earn some medals, none were of a stature that to me would justify wearing them in civilian attire. If I had received a Medal of Honor, Air Force Cross or similar high award that would be different. I very rarely even wear my rank insignia and then only in the company of others with the military background to appreciate it. I think a senior NCO or officer might be justified in making his or her rank and decorations a matter of public display. But my pride is based on knowing what I did and achieved and that's more private to me than public. I have a fellow resident in my senior community who proudly displays his (Army) warrant officer rank along with his wings--his service in Vietnam as a helicopter pilot earned him all the justification he needs for that. God bless him and his service!

Response by SFC Donald Shilo made Jun 18 at 2021 9:12 PM

2021-06-18T21:12:24-04:00

My Father served in the Seabees during WW2. Eniwetok, Philippines, and many other islands throughout the Pacific. During this time my Father also had a hobby of photography, developing pictures, as a hobby. My Brothers and I would always pull these photos from various boxes, to view them. The brutal ones he kept separate until we reached an age of understanding. As My Father got older the family said he should go through them and annotate them as to where and when. While sitting with my Father poking thru the boxes of these photos. I found a yellow paper folded up roughly a few inches about the size of a small photo. I unfolded this paper, incredibly it was an award of a Purple Heart. I looked at my Father none of my family knew of this! I looked at my Father, and asked him. Dad you have a Purple Heart? Who never told us this. My Father replied that he had some Japanese shrapnel in his chest, the Navy Doctor, and his current heart doctor had noticed the this. My Fsther at the time was 79 years old. Alexander passed at the age of 81. My Father was 1st generation American. All the male members of both sides of my family served. My Uncle James survived 50 missions with the 99th Bomb Group, Diamondbacks, the B17F Yankee Doodle. James was the last of my Mother’s family in 2020 at the age of 97. None of them cared about the medals, it was something to be done for your community, your country. For my 20 years of service, I never cared for dress uniforms, especially when politicians hang medals on themselves in stolen valor.
This cheapens those souls that earned them, medals don’t make the man. But medals are an attestment of what they faced. It is their right to display or not, for that is their truth. I guess it is just a family trait, my Brother and I grew up with one photo hung in our bedroom to remind us; it wasn’t about just us.

Response by SGT Felicia King made Jun 21 at 2021 10:13 PM

2021-06-21T22:13:11-04:00

I don’t feel the need to wear my medals or advertise that I served in the military. But it’d actually be nice to wear my Class A’s, just because I can fit them (though at the moment, I cannot).

Response by SFC Tim OReilly made Jun 25 at 2021 8:56 AM

2021-06-25T08:56:42-04:00

Always thought it more of a European thing, don't wear a tux per se, and when I did wear a suit it was for my wedding (1st time) or work.

Response by SPC Bill Howell made Jun 28 at 2021 12:25 PM

2021-06-28T12:25:46-04:00

At what time do you suggest that the medals can be worn? Veterans Day and ?

Response by LTJG Sandra Smith made Jul 3 at 2021 10:06 PM

2021-07-03T22:06:31-04:00

I never felt the need to wear them with civilian attire. It just sees, as others are suggesting as well, pretentious somehow.

Response by Sgt Jake Middlebrook made Jul 5 at 2021 1:21 PM

2021-07-05T13:21:14-04:00

For at least a decade after Viet Nam to wear any indication of military service was to invite ridicule to the point it could be thought necessary to defend your honor. In my memory Viet Vet hats didn't become popular til about 20 years after the war was over. I am a Southeast Asian Vet but I never set foot in Viet Nam so to wear a Viet Vet hat would be stolen valor. My medals went in the trash with my uniforms on 10 March 75. My service consisted of making sure I repaired the equipment I was assigned carefully and properly, and taking care of those who were assigned with me. The last time I checked there is not medal for doing your duty and taking care of the people from your shop. If there was I would proudly wear that one.

Response by MAJ Dean Thompson made Jul 9 at 2021 3:43 PM

2021-07-09T15:43:57-04:00

I agree, while I am proud of my service to my country, and proud that my over and above efforts were rewarded with some awards, those are for my memories, not for people who have no idea what it took to be awarded them!

Response by LT Alex Corsi made Jul 9 at 2021 7:14 PM

2021-07-09T19:14:57-04:00

Because it's stupid, pretentious, involkes military worship and smacks of Euro-elitism.

Response by SSG Rick Miller made Jul 10 at 2021 2:37 PM

2021-07-10T14:37:13-04:00

When I was still in uniform, I wore my medals/ribbons with pride. Now that I'm retired, I don't wear them anymore. Not from shame, not from apathy, but because out here in civilian land, those medals and 5 bucks gets you a cup of shitty coffee. Outside of military/veteran functions, it's pretentious in my opinion, and something being done to attract attention. You want to wear them, go for it.

Response by CPO Kurt Baschab made Jul 11 at 2021 7:38 PM

2021-07-11T19:38:43-04:00

To be Honest, I never thought about it, I wore them while on Active Duty, now that I am Retired, I see no need to wear them, Do not Misunderstand , I am proud of my service, and of My Awards, but my time has passed, I am the Old Guard, I am Retired, and the American Tax Payers say thank you to me on the 1st of every Mo, So I see no need to wear my Ribbons and Medals to get Respect from those who never served, those who know me, and my fellow service members who served with me have given me all the Love and Respect I need, it time to Show Honor And Respect to those who are Currently serving. I do not Need to wear my service medals for that.

Response by PO1 Todd McMillin made Jul 12 at 2021 3:17 PM

2021-07-12T15:17:04-04:00

The majority of veterans I see wearing them is during special events or group outings such as VFW gatherings or Veteran's Day or Funerals of fellow Veterans. I have a set of minis I keep for those occasions but rarely wear them (again I've broken them out for 3 funerals in total).

Until Congress, The Presidency and Supreme Court gets serious about "STOLEN VALOR" abuses including those who engage in using it for business contracts with the Pentagon or Government in general then we're going to not likely see much of those displays going on.

The best example is Senator Tammy Duckworth (D-IL) vs Braulio Castillo case during and Oversight Committee that is a perfect example of the VA needing to reform it when you have Military Prep School people abuse it for business deals. Also those who falsely claim they earn "X,Y,Z" awards because of it.

However, I was an Enlisted Drone Tech and Driver for VC-6 (Firebees) and believe that we should be able to wear the Enlisted Drone Pilot Wings that the Marines are using now, retroactively. But I will wait until Congress signs off on it before buying them for my shadow box.

https://www.msnbc.com/the-last-word/tammy-duckworth-rips-irs-contractor-seeki-msna64626

Tammy Duckworth rips IRS contractor for seeking disabled status

Iraq War veteran and double-amputee Rep.

Response by PO2 S.J. Carroll made Jul 12 at 2021 3:57 PM

2021-07-12T15:57:28-04:00

I am proud of the time O served, and the medals I earned. Those are the operative words. I EARNED THEM! If I don't feel the need to brag about them, why should I? I am more proud to have served my country, the medals just show I did my job to the satisfaction of my peers and superiors.

Response by SGT David Schrader made Jul 12 at 2021 11:00 PM

2021-07-12T23:00:00-04:00

I am proud of my service in the Army and the medals and awards that were awarded to me. They were displayed on my Class A Uniform during my time in the Army.
I personally do not feel the need to display any of them on civilian attire.
If some Veterans choose to wear their awards on certain occasions, that is their choice and to do so and there is nothing wrong with doing that. They earned them and should be respected for that. Lord knows how shameful and disrespectful that our Vietnam Veterans were treated.
If you wish to display your awards, go for it. Be proud and don’t let anyone discourage you from doing so.
God bless you all.

Response by SPC Steven Nihipali made Jul 17 at 2021 2:00 PM

2021-07-17T14:00:37-04:00

Because I live in Texas, now veterans per capita in 78218/210 that I know of than any other place. We're all military and real doesn't mean shit in the civilian side

Response by CW3 Private RallyPoint Member made Jul 23 at 2021 10:14 AM

2021-07-23T10:14:26-04:00

On veterans day...maybe when I'm older. Like those guys who wear WWII hats or USS ***hats. Maybe. I've always thought medals were kind of 'hey, look at me' devices. But in certain situations, I can see it.

Response by 1SG James Kelly made Jul 24 at 2021 9:29 PM

2021-07-24T21:29:31-04:00

Ain't got no big ones.

Response by CPT Robert Hampton made Jul 25 at 2021 11:32 AM

2021-07-25T11:32:28-04:00

I do wear mine at every opportunity. Why? The US has been the target of the longest running, most successful psyops initiative in history. Communists have infiltrated our media, schools, and government to demoralize and divide us.

Want to know what military intel has known all along? Read Paul Kengor’s excellent book, DUPES. Using KGB records we obtained when the Soviet Union collapsed, he documents the infiltration, goals, and accomplishments of communists since Lenin.

So, wearing my medals on special occasions is a conversation starter on at least two points:
1. America is not a imperial country. We have sent our sons and daughters to fight for liberty in many countries. If we were imperialists we would be paying much less for gas!
2. America may not be perfect yet we have made greater strides toward human rights than any other nation, past or present.
3. The military ensures peace and safety for our citizens. Service is an expression of care for our citizens.

Stand for liberty. The fight continues whether we are active duty, veterans, or retirees.

Robert C. Hampton
CPT, USAR, Signal Corps
Retired Department of Army Civilian

Response by Maj John Bell made Jul 25 at 2021 8:17 PM

2021-07-25T20:17:38-04:00

Lions do not need to roar.

Response by SFC James Corona made Jul 26 at 2021 10:27 AM

2021-07-26T10:27:30-04:00

To me it's psychological .
To some civilians it might send a message of "weight" throw and
"I served, you didn't" while in other cases it might lead to ignorant questions like; "did you kill anyone".

Response by SSG Michael Baney made Jul 26 at 2021 2:28 PM

2021-07-26T14:28:42-04:00

I retired in 2006 after 22 years. I don’t wear them because they mean nothing to me now. The command had an unwritten policy to not give Legions of Merit to anyone below O6 and E9. Every platoon Sergeant and above got Bronze Stars foe a certain command’s first Iraqi deployment. I also know that 2 enlisted aides of a 1-star got Army Commendation Medals and all they did was take care of his needs in addition to driving him around. Certain commands cheapen what these medals are meant to mean.

Response by PO2 Lawrence Janiec made Aug 4 at 2021 2:08 AM

2021-08-04T02:08:22-04:00

First off, it's Veteran last I checked. I mean, most active duty personnel don't like being called marine or soldier or sailor (or airman, but I'm not sure what the proper term for AF people is, sorry!), right? Same thing.

I'm a Veteran. When I was living in the US (and when I go back), I will wear something showing I served on Veteran's Day, in part for the free meals all over. Usually it's just a field jacket or some other outerwear, because let's face it, even if I had saved my uniforms from over 20 years ago, there's about no way they'd fit any more.

However, I don't feel the need to announce it on other days of the year. I don't like how people are being forced to wear labels on themselves online or otherwise. LGBTQ uses bullying tactics to force celebrities to put (he/him) or (she/her) after their names. I equate that to when Hitler forced the Jews to wear their religious symbol on their clothing. It's an identifying mark or symbol used by a group that is part of THEIR agenda and forcing it on others to further their agenda. There are places where it is nice to know what someone prefers to be called, but I can support an organization without adopting their practices.

The same is for showing that I am a Veteran. If people ask, or it comes up in conversation, I will say that I am. I will sometimes answer questions about what I did on active duty. However, I don't feel the need to announce it at the top of my lungs to complete strangers.

Before 9/11, no one, and I mean NO ONE ever said, "Thank you for your service." It started after our country came together against the multitude of terrorists who were attacking our country whenever and wherever they could. US citizens started seeing that our great military was necessary and suddenly felt thankful, and in some cases the ones who used to spit on service members or call them "baby killers" hopefully felt remorse at how they had acted in the past. So when people realized that they were a necessary part of our society, they felt thankful and they started saying, "Thank you for your service." But then, it became expected. People said it the same way that people will say, "Have a nice day!" and not really mean it. It's just a few words and people say it because they feel obligated to, not because they mean it any more. At least, that's how I see things. So showing off something that says, "HEY, I'M A VETERAN!" is sort of like making all those people suddenly feeling obligated to thank me. I don't like making people feel uncomfortable, so I don't announce it. In part because I don't want to be fishing for people to thank me.

However, when I see that a business offers a military/Veteran discount, you're gosh darn right I'll claim it! I keep proof in my wallet (VA ID card showing I'm a disabled Veteran) partially for that purpose.

That's just me, though, and I'm sure not the only reason why people don't wear their awards publicly as a Veteran.

Response by PO3 Kenneth Suvanto made Aug 31 at 2021 4:34 PM

2021-08-31T16:34:10-04:00

I don't even think Most civilians would even know what they mean. Plus, what AD military personnel or Veterans would know how the Medals were won/earned if not during their time period (outside of the famous ones, like the Purple Heart and such)? To me, they would only show that you deserve a Hand Salute lol. Plus, I wouldn't want people to think I was beating my chest civilian or military. It's prolly a Private matter is my gueestimation...Sincerely, Ken

Response by CPT Larry Hudson made Sep 1 at 2021 4:52 PM

2021-09-01T16:52:06-04:00

Generally, those awards are earned in difficult combat situations. Most combat veterans dont talk or wear reminders of those circumstances

Response by SGT James Bradley made Sep 19 at 2021 10:42 PM

2021-09-19T22:42:43-04:00

Am a civilian now and forever.

Response by SPC Tarrence Molendyk made Sep 23 at 2021 9:22 AM

2021-09-23T09:22:09-04:00

I served and I wear my veteran hat from Operation Iraqi Freedom. Not a popular war as was Vietnam War. I don't want people looking at me and saying he's trying to get attention. I'm proud of my service however my medals won't change anything. I'm a veteran of a war and I survived when others paid the price. I don't need to wear medals to show it.

Response by CPT William Pearson made Sep 27 at 2021 12:00 AM

2021-09-27T00:00:31-04:00

Most civilians have no idea what the medals mean. I have the Soldiers Medal and friends ask me what soldier gave you their medal? You can also buy medals, but on mine it has my name engraved on the back.