PO2 Private RallyPoint Member 2225205 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div> With all the hardships and experiences of a deployment, what do you feel was the hardest part to cope with? 2017-01-07T12:03:58-05:00 PO2 Private RallyPoint Member 2225205 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div> With all the hardships and experiences of a deployment, what do you feel was the hardest part to cope with? 2017-01-07T12:03:58-05:00 2017-01-07T12:03:58-05:00 MSgt Steven Holt, NRP, CCEMT-P 2225265 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Putting up with misguided and outdated rules/regulations that have no place in a modern combat zone.<br /><br />For example... The AF had prohibitions against opposite genders being in each others living areas. My Army counter parts had no such restrictions. They would frequently meet to watch movies, play cards, dominoes, etc. By default the AF troops were excluded because of the opposite gender rule. Made for a VERY long and boring time when everyone else is blowing off steam and stress and you&#39;re relegated to the back corner of the MWR tent reading a book you care nothing about. Response by MSgt Steven Holt, NRP, CCEMT-P made Jan 7 at 2017 12:25 PM 2017-01-07T12:25:52-05:00 2017-01-07T12:25:52-05:00 WO1 Private RallyPoint Member 2225337 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>The coming home and trying to explain to my family why I keep volunteering for every deployment I can especially my mother she is very unsupportive Response by WO1 Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 7 at 2017 12:48 PM 2017-01-07T12:48:44-05:00 2017-01-07T12:48:44-05:00 Capt Seid Waddell 2225374 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Coming home and seeing my fellow Americans in a whole new light. Response by Capt Seid Waddell made Jan 7 at 2017 1:00 PM 2017-01-07T13:00:25-05:00 2017-01-07T13:00:25-05:00 MSgt Mark Bucher 2225619 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Shaving in cold water every morning. Ripped the shit outa my face on more than one morning Response by MSgt Mark Bucher made Jan 7 at 2017 2:40 PM 2017-01-07T14:40:13-05:00 2017-01-07T14:40:13-05:00 Sgt Private RallyPoint Member 2226125 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>being wet, hot, dog tired, pissed off, and all around miserable. The only thing that helped were your fellow brothers. Response by Sgt Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 7 at 2017 6:26 PM 2017-01-07T18:26:18-05:00 2017-01-07T18:26:18-05:00 Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen 2226156 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>This question should really be addressed to the dependents who are left behind. Ya deployments are tough and we put up with a lot at our deployed location but that&#39;s nothing compared to what families back home have to deal with.. Response by Lt Col John (Jack) Christensen made Jan 7 at 2017 6:38 PM 2017-01-07T18:38:26-05:00 2017-01-07T18:38:26-05:00 SFC Dennis A. 2226192 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>For me is was the time I missed watching my kids grow up while gone. When I was in and deployed there was no internet or cell phones. Depending on where you were deployed to it would take two or three weeks to get a letter from home and another two or three to get one back. Once we returned home it was really hard to see how much they had grown and changed while deployed. Response by SFC Dennis A. made Jan 7 at 2017 6:55 PM 2017-01-07T18:55:29-05:00 2017-01-07T18:55:29-05:00 PO1 Brian Austin 2226312 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Missing my kids growing up. Missed a lot of their &quot;milestones&quot;. Thankfully my wife loved taking pictures. But it still wasn&#39;t the same. <br />Returning CONUS and feeling like i was in a foreign country. Response by PO1 Brian Austin made Jan 7 at 2017 7:43 PM 2017-01-07T19:43:11-05:00 2017-01-07T19:43:11-05:00 CSM Michael J. Uhlig 2226494 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>dealing with the anguish of losing some real American Heros, memories of these men will stay with me to my grave Response by CSM Michael J. Uhlig made Jan 7 at 2017 9:08 PM 2017-01-07T21:08:18-05:00 2017-01-07T21:08:18-05:00 MSgt Ediberto Leal 2226991 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Separation from family. Response by MSgt Ediberto Leal made Jan 8 at 2017 12:54 AM 2017-01-08T00:54:07-05:00 2017-01-08T00:54:07-05:00 SGT Philip Roncari 2227781 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>For me it was leaving the people I had trained with and served with during combat operations in Vietnam so long ago. Response by SGT Philip Roncari made Jan 8 at 2017 8:05 AM 2017-01-08T08:05:01-05:00 2017-01-08T08:05:01-05:00 MSG Private RallyPoint Member 2228470 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>not seeing my family on the holidays, missing my daughters graduation from high school, and then coming home 4 months later to attend her funeral, that&#39;s been 8 years ago and it still with me, I cope better now with it, not much but all I have now are pictures Response by MSG Private RallyPoint Member made Jan 8 at 2017 11:40 AM 2017-01-08T11:40:02-05:00 2017-01-08T11:40:02-05:00 PO2 Rev. Frederick C. Mullis, AFI, CFM 2232094 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Coming home from Vietnam was one thing, getting bombed by the hippie freaks as we came under the golden gate bridge with paint bombs, having no one at the pier when we pulled in cause I lived on the east coast. Getting a call from the Red Cross that my Mother had just died and having too go one Emergency leave and getting spit on and called names in the Airports, and then being called baby killer by the people I went to school with and grew up with. so lovely... <br /><br />Even a peacetime Cruise, you do not know who to make friends with and who not to. We had a new Second in Command to sign aboard, The XO was a really friendly guy, made friends easily, went up on his first hop while in the Med. His wingman said they both went into a cloud bank, the wingman popped out on top, our XO could not be found. just lost him on Radar. Not enough fuel to Bingo, no report from the seatpan, no wreckage. We all know death in inevitable, but sometimes it comes too soon. Response by PO2 Rev. Frederick C. Mullis, AFI, CFM made Jan 9 at 2017 1:05 PM 2017-01-09T13:05:35-05:00 2017-01-09T13:05:35-05:00 CPO David Sharp 2238201 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Coming Home. Response by CPO David Sharp made Jan 11 at 2017 9:33 AM 2017-01-11T09:33:55-05:00 2017-01-11T09:33:55-05:00 2017-01-07T12:03:58-05:00