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Can u imagine being Honorable Served Army Infantry 66-68 Vietnam injured no support received your separated from wife son all go homeless?
Your Son 18 Varsity HS Athlete enlist Navy Meritorious e1 e2 Bootcamp Graduate soon victim Operational Crew stressors Assault MST Death Threats on Combat Ship Test saving $ operating below minimum manning Honorably Served soon jobless homeless himself soon tormented by VA Disability Benefits jobless homeless chronic, and as Vietnam Combat father still unable to protect your own son?
Your Son 18 Varsity HS Athlete enlist Navy Meritorious e1 e2 Bootcamp Graduate soon victim Operational Crew stressors Assault MST Death Threats on Combat Ship Test saving $ operating below minimum manning Honorably Served soon jobless homeless himself soon tormented by VA Disability Benefits jobless homeless chronic, and as Vietnam Combat father still unable to protect your own son?
Posted 7 y ago
Responses: 4
PO3 Aaron Hassay Aaron, I hope you are in therapy and if you are not, please seek it whether it be the VA or privately. From this post and others I have read it seems to me you have some issues going on that should be addressed by a professional. I wish you nothing but success in overcoming these temporary issues and they are indeed temporary.
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PO3 Aaron Hassay
I don't drive. I barely can make it to the regional fort miley SF Hospital. They stuck me in all these really intense group classes and when I got personal therapy with 1 or 2 doctors they instantly tried those o so fun anti psychotic mule tranquilizer pills in various forms. I wondered out loud what hell was really. I am tired. My funny thing is I wonder how many other parents are actually injured ill vets who never received VA support as their family suffered the consequence in extreme forms. Yes I believe in honor. My resume of life is built on honor. I know what I was taught in bootcamp. In-fact all those leadership manuals basically say the same thing time and time again honor dignity courage commitment team etc etc etc etc etc etc. Now I just judge the system on the same things I was taught as important and valuable at 18.
I ask is what I have experienced as a young kid child dependent of a Vietnam Combat Vet honorable and what happened to me alone in my own military service not even in contact with my father honorable.
I will call Palo Alto tomorow.
Thank You for being there. I hate to be such a guy in a place that gets such response as a broken wierdo. But my mind is just not clicking like I thought it would when I was 18 getting out of High School a Varsity Athlete.
I keep on repeating but did you know I was awarded Meritorious Achievement e1 e2 Advancement and Bootcamp Graduation Award.
From that place I ended up homeless confused a mess with an honorable discharge I did not even look at by 26.
I did not even know I got an honorable discharge. I only looked at it when I got a hold of records some 10 years after discharge.
That oddity should not make such a weird mark.
I found out my dad never even told my mom he was a in the Army at all when they married and had me.
He was that quite about such.
I ask is what I have experienced as a young kid child dependent of a Vietnam Combat Vet honorable and what happened to me alone in my own military service not even in contact with my father honorable.
I will call Palo Alto tomorow.
Thank You for being there. I hate to be such a guy in a place that gets such response as a broken wierdo. But my mind is just not clicking like I thought it would when I was 18 getting out of High School a Varsity Athlete.
I keep on repeating but did you know I was awarded Meritorious Achievement e1 e2 Advancement and Bootcamp Graduation Award.
From that place I ended up homeless confused a mess with an honorable discharge I did not even look at by 26.
I did not even know I got an honorable discharge. I only looked at it when I got a hold of records some 10 years after discharge.
That oddity should not make such a weird mark.
I found out my dad never even told my mom he was a in the Army at all when they married and had me.
He was that quite about such.
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PO3 Aaron Hassay
SFC William Farrell - I found out if I appeal that then that certifies that they restart my affective date to the 0% erasing the affective date 4 years ago when I first applied. It is basically surmised it was a purposeful 0% to get out of 4 years of affective date. Again how does this help a guy with an anxiety issue that has kept him from employment for over a decade already on SSDI only income $900 for the same Psych issue. The largest piece of evidence on file that is overlooked as the elephant in the room is not desired to be looked at is this. In a daring attempt to save my own life and future 22 yo, succoming to illness already, I through a hail marry pass contacted an Army Recruiter who processed a branch Transfer approved by my Navy Ship Command. Medical Transfer Review failed the transfer for muliple medical illness known to be caused by my Navy Duty Assignment. The records were databased in a DOD database but never transfered for review and entered into my Navy Medical Records for clearance for continued duty. Nope, I was just sent back and continued duty same assignement same crew as if nothing happnened. I was failed for 1 thing a mental health exam rendered 1998 in transfer physical.
I was in some kind of state of shock literally from all the stressors happening at the same time. But no medical care would find me.
I was basically loosing my future. My fiance would leave me months after that. A Navy Medical MD at MTF 1 yr later on Duty would diagnose me with Major Depression vrs Bipolar medicate me with lithium note my fiance had left me and I was having diffiiculty with sleep and concentration and lack of interest in things...
And the Navy Doctor never did folllow up...
Would you be kind enough to review some docuements that certify what I have said. I have put them on 1 google drive.
I can send them to your email.
I do need support.
I need to know what it like to be cared for once in my life.
I was in some kind of state of shock literally from all the stressors happening at the same time. But no medical care would find me.
I was basically loosing my future. My fiance would leave me months after that. A Navy Medical MD at MTF 1 yr later on Duty would diagnose me with Major Depression vrs Bipolar medicate me with lithium note my fiance had left me and I was having diffiiculty with sleep and concentration and lack of interest in things...
And the Navy Doctor never did folllow up...
Would you be kind enough to review some docuements that certify what I have said. I have put them on 1 google drive.
I can send them to your email.
I do need support.
I need to know what it like to be cared for once in my life.
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SFC William Farrell
PO3 Aaron Hassay - Aaron, I do not believe that is true about your effective date changing. I think someone gave you some bogus information but I will have to double check that. You can email me at [login to see]
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PO3 Aaron Hassay
SFC William Farrell - SFC I finally got the link sent. Now we have email contact I believe through that link to the file. Thank You in Advance
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Just so you know. I am the son in this. this is a real story. I was reunited with my dad found out he was a Vietnam Combat Vet for the frist time, after my own Navy Service, which finally put my childhood in understanding from the confusion it once was. I am truly not doing well compared my initial dreams of success when I enlisted 18 Navy ready for the best.
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PO3 Aaron Hassay
Col Dona Marie Iversen - Thanks. I have no idea what the exact help can be. I try to rely on the VA. I think what has taken the biggest hit is taking my financial income making ability away from me unable to maintain employment therefore my dignity therefore my love life, and the downhill spiral goes down ...
As I make enemies it seems at the Local Regional VA Disability Window I seem my case was service connected for PSYCH at 0% which means open this big bag of empty nothing..ending the letter with "THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE" and "YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO APPEAL THIS DECISION"
I am already on SSDI below the poverty line for PSYCH. But the VA can not seem to notice that I have been unemployed for over a decade. They think I am hiding a big bag of money a career a farrari and a house on the hill all in my cute little torn up backpack..
Then I talk about my childhood and my dad being discovered a Vietnam Combat Vet...and the fact I was homeless in women shelters by the age of 8 with a struggling loving mom looking for food..without a single VA tootbrush in support received ever..as a dependent
and then they sort of like shut up..and dont really know what to say..and neither do I...
I suppose reality is just to real...
they only can look at there computers and talk to me like I am just
As I make enemies it seems at the Local Regional VA Disability Window I seem my case was service connected for PSYCH at 0% which means open this big bag of empty nothing..ending the letter with "THANK YOU FOR YOUR SERVICE" and "YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO APPEAL THIS DECISION"
I am already on SSDI below the poverty line for PSYCH. But the VA can not seem to notice that I have been unemployed for over a decade. They think I am hiding a big bag of money a career a farrari and a house on the hill all in my cute little torn up backpack..
Then I talk about my childhood and my dad being discovered a Vietnam Combat Vet...and the fact I was homeless in women shelters by the age of 8 with a struggling loving mom looking for food..without a single VA tootbrush in support received ever..as a dependent
and then they sort of like shut up..and dont really know what to say..and neither do I...
I suppose reality is just to real...
they only can look at there computers and talk to me like I am just
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Col Dona Marie Iversen
PO3 Aaron Hassay - I would request to speak to a division lead @ the VA. Which VA are you assigned to? Contact your local politicians, priest (or faith based leader).
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Col Dona Marie Iversen
PO3 Aaron Hassay - Check out this site: https://www.swords-to-plowshares.org
Hoping they can help you or at least direct you to the resources you require and deserve.
Hoping they can help you or at least direct you to the resources you require and deserve.
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PO3 Aaron Hassay
Col Dona Marie Iversen - Thank You. I have been in there. Infact I believe I have a probono lawyer who is supporting getting compensation rating for service connected illness. The probono support was signed off I think 4 months or so approximately. God Bless her soul I konw it takes time to do things correctly. Hell it took my dad 40 years nearly from Vietnam Combat 66-68 to get 1 penny of VA support service after he had already lost his dreams and future and family due the results of his untreated recently service connected injury. My VA case has taken literally 4 years to get out of local jurisdiction Oakland where I am getting run over by people who do not like my mere presence because there ego and self importance is beyond, to get to Washington DC and approved by a Judge. I have a unique case that has been remarked by DOD IG and ARMY IG. While in Navy 22 yo in attempt to save myself from things in my command I coordinated last ditch effort Army Transfer Approved but medically Disqualified in what I have discoverd is a Permanent Profile Databased for multiple illness known to be caused by my Navy Assignment, and sent back to same Navy Ship without a medical records transferred and cleared for further Duty. I did continue Navy Duty just more confused and basically in a state of shock from all things like the world was on my whole existence. I was having out of body experiences. I had no dad to rely on for support. The e9 and others of my ship had there way with me. I still feel like this is all a dream. I am not stupid. But I am not invisible. I wonder if you will allow me to send you a a link to a personal email my Google Drive link with all documents in a timeline that you might find interesting in a weird way that I could really use support understanding.
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Is there a specific question that you're wanting to ask? I can't tell from your title and your supporting narrative.
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PO3 Aaron Hassay
A bit embarrassed insecure unsure and not sure how to state my question correctly concisely, but still willing to see if I am alone or there are others. I am just attempting to find out who has feedback on this situation that I did and others may have lived (1) Father ill from Military Service no VA Support Received while family fragments into homelessness (2) ill father now missing can not protect his own son who enlists 18 and basically suffers same fate getting ill from military service no VA support received and no family to rely on
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LTC Kevin B.
PO3 Aaron Hassay - This particular question has been changed to an update. How about asking a new question something like:
"How should the VA address homeless veterans, especially when the lack of VA support impacts subsequent generations in the same family?"
"How should the VA address homeless veterans, especially when the lack of VA support impacts subsequent generations in the same family?"
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