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LTC Stephen F.
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Black humor or dark humor in these more politically correct days tends to appeal to many service members and veterans, especially those who served in direct action capacities Sam Pressler.
Humor requires intelligence to both provide and enjoy. The best humor is not insulting to anybody else - Rodney Dangerfield was a master at self deprecating humor.
Many of us have known too many who dies violently - generally in combat but sometime sin training and worse by their own hand.
1. How would you counsel those experiencing recent deaths using the lessons you learned after your own uncles suicide?
2. What comedic venues would be best for the grieving to become involved with if they want to try comedy as a palliative for emotional pain?
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Sam Pressler
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Hi Stephen,

These are really good questions. However, out of respect for mental health professionals and my own personal limitations, I must acknowledge that I am not qualified to make these types of recommendations.

If you are interested, their is a strong literature base on humor and how it relates to coping, grieving, and resilience. The leading researchers on this have been Rod Martin and Nicholas Kuiper. Also, On Being has a new podcast called C.O.O.L. (Creating Our Own Lives), which explores the intersection of humor and meaning. I really like it: https://onbeing.org/cool/

I am sorry I could not fully answer this question, but I hope this helps!

Best,
Sam
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SGT Joseph Gunderson
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Actually, I did stand up twice here in Kansas at the Looney Bin in Wichita. Didn't do too bad either...
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SGT Joseph Gunderson
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Sam Pressler
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Thanks for sharing, Joseph! Have you ever participated in a stand-up comedy class? If you want to continue to hone your skills, stand-up comedy classes are often a good resource. Steve Martin teaches a master class online, and Judy Carter wrote a book called "The Comedy Bible."

https://www.masterclass.com/classes/steve-martin-teaches-comedy

https://www.amazon.com/Comedy-Bible-Stand-up-Sitcom-Ultimate/dp/ [login to see]
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SGT Joseph Gunderson
SGT Joseph Gunderson
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Sam Pressler - Nah, it is kind of just a hobby.
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Sam Pressler
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SGT Joseph Gunderson - Awesome. Best of luck and let us know if we can be of support from afar!
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PO3 Steven Sherrill
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Sam Pressler Dark humor has always been a staple in the military. Sometimes it is less appropriate for polite audiences than others. This looks like a great program. Thank you for your efforts.
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Sam Pressler
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Thank you for the kind words. Yes, we have found that dark humor often makes its way into our comics' sets. A really unique element of our program is that we take that dark humor, and then turn it into jokes that can be accessible to an audience of civilians. By making the humor accessible, our comics can discuss taboo topics in a way that is engaging and educational. Audience members often remark that they learn about the veteran/military experience just by watching the shows.
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PO3 Steven Sherrill
PO3 Steven Sherrill
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Sam Pressler - That is great. Tearing down the disconnect between service folk and civilians is important work. If it helps veterans to heal the unseen injuries, even better.
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