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Posted on Jan 30, 2015
A Female Captain is Humiliated for 'Stolen Valor.' After Numerous Ugly Insults, the Truth Comes Out
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I came across this article in another forum and wanted to share. The article seems to bring together two current/relevant social issues in the military today, stolen valor, and sexism. While many reading the article may assume this is reality, I was surprised by the message. I even wonder if some of the negative comments were from true military members, or (more likely) someone looking for cheap drama.
During my military career, I can say with conviction that I have found the men in the military to generally be more inclusive, respectful and collaborative than men in the general population.
I specifically wanted to share with the Rally Point community, because I have seen this professionalism proven time and again in the various discussions and threads. So while these comments in the article may have truely been posted, I don't for a minute think they are representative of our great force.
Thanks to you all!
During my military career, I can say with conviction that I have found the men in the military to generally be more inclusive, respectful and collaborative than men in the general population.
I specifically wanted to share with the Rally Point community, because I have seen this professionalism proven time and again in the various discussions and threads. So while these comments in the article may have truely been posted, I don't for a minute think they are representative of our great force.
Thanks to you all!
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Whenever I'm asked if I miss "it" (the service), I always say I miss the people. The community, the Esprit de Corps, whatever you want to call it.
Having been out over a decade now, and living just outside a military base, it's not too bad, because the Veteran, Retiree, and Dependent population ratio is so high you almost forget that you're not still "in" sometimes. Not really in, but "Window shopping" in.
But sometimes, you step just far enough outside and you end up in a toxic place.
I don't get it. I don't think I'll ever understand it.
There are places like that on facebook and other social media, where the benefits of "perceived anonymity" (as opposed to real anonymity) come up.
People who shouldn't be trusted with a fork without a cork on it, have the full ability to question anyone's credentials, regardless of cause.
Having been out over a decade now, and living just outside a military base, it's not too bad, because the Veteran, Retiree, and Dependent population ratio is so high you almost forget that you're not still "in" sometimes. Not really in, but "Window shopping" in.
But sometimes, you step just far enough outside and you end up in a toxic place.
I don't get it. I don't think I'll ever understand it.
There are places like that on facebook and other social media, where the benefits of "perceived anonymity" (as opposed to real anonymity) come up.
People who shouldn't be trusted with a fork without a cork on it, have the full ability to question anyone's credentials, regardless of cause.
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Thank you for sharing the article. I don't think the actions of those people really come as any kind of shock to any female veteran or to those still serving. It's a shame that still happens in this day and age.
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Yes, amazing. I bet half those complaining didn't even serve in military
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