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"The Psychology of Regret." — Sunday (TONIGHT) Warriors for Life (WFL) Virtual Group Support!

https://www.victoryforveterans.org/post/the-psychology-of-regret-sunday-warriors-for-life-wfl-virtual-group-support

TONIGHT join Veteran, Mental Health Counselor, and Jungian Psychotherapist PO3 Christopher St. John for Warriors for Life (WFL) Group Support.

Chris will NOT BE HOSTING on January 5th and 12th, so mark your calendars.

TONIGHT's Topic: "The Psychology of Regret."

What is Regret?

Regret is a negative cognitive or emotional state that involves blaming ourselves for a bad outcome, feeling a sense of loss or sorrow at what might have been, or wishing we could undo a previous choice that we made.

For young people in particular, regret, although painful to experience, can be a helpful emotion. The pain of regret can result in refocusing and taking corrective action or pursuing a new path. However, the less opportunity one has to change the situation, the more likely it is that regret can turn into rumination and trigger chronic stress that damages mind and body.

Can Regret Have Long-Term Effects on Well-Being?

Regret can have damaging effects on mind and body when it turns into fruitless rumination and self-blame that keeps people from re-engaging with life. This pattern of repetitive, negative, self-focused ruminative thinking is characteristic of depression—and may be a cause of this mental health problem as well.

NEW TIMES

Warriors for Life Group Support Community Service - Sunday (Tonight), 29 December 2019 at 4:30 PM PT, 5:30 PM MT, 6:30 PM CT, and 7:30 PM ET

Dial in 5-10 minutes early to test your communications!

Veteran, Mental Health Counselor, and Jungian Psychotherapist PO3 Christopher St. John will be your host tonight and is inviting you to a RingCentral meeting.

Join from PC, Mac, iOS or Android: https://meetings.ringcentral.com/j/ [login to see]

Or iPhone one-tap (US Toll):
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Or Telephone: Dial:
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Meeting ID: [login to see]

Thanks,

PO3 Christopher St. John
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CPT Jack Durish
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I now regret only the time and emotional energy wasted on regret. Learn the lesson and move on...
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SPC Michael Oles SR
SPC Michael Oles SR
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Thanks Good Advice
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Ha! Love the picture.
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SPC Nancy Greene
SPC Nancy Greene
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Definitely Agree Sir!
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SPC Nancy Greene
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Excellent Topic!
Definitely plan to ‘dial in’ !
2020 Plan of Action includes learning how to Face time and Skype!
( have to resolve internet issues first...LOL)
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SGT Steve McFarland
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Regret has been a tough nut to crack for me, because I am all too aware of the carnage my actions in the past have left in their wake. "Cats in the cradle" is a chilling reminder of how I wasn't always there for my wife and kids.
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SSgt Marian Mitchell
SSgt Marian Mitchell
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SGT Steve McFarland - I do understand that and somehow have to accept it and live with it if it cannot be changed. I do try to have hope...
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SPC Nancy Greene
SPC Nancy Greene
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Amen Brother.SGT Kevin Hughes
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SPC Nancy Greene
SPC Nancy Greene
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They brought up honest and heart felt words. Very Strong men with the Courage to discuss ‘feelings’ even if it includes ‘monkeys’ and ‘gorillas’ . At least They have the Courage to discuss this topic.SSgt Marian Mitchell
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SPC Nancy Greene
SPC Nancy Greene
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So Sorry You feel this way STEVE, but definitely trying to understand how difficult your situation is and what needs to be done to provide assistance when needed...SGT Steve McFarland
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