Who is the EMFP contact for Torii Station? Does anyone have experience with EFMP codes for mental health?

My husband has orders for Torii Station, and the EMFP office at Womack wants to enroll me as EFMP for mental illness because I received more than 6 months of talk therapy (in 2020!). I find talk therapy helpful to manage stress, and I have an excellent therapist who is also a milspouse. Both my therapist and PCP have told the EFMP office in writing that I'm not mentally ill. 1SGT went to the EFMP office with my husband, but wasn’t able to get them to budge. We are running out of time to get to Torii Station before my husband’s report date, and I am considering enrolling in EFMP despite my better judgement. I was told that my two choices are 1) enroll, which will allow my therapist to choose a diagnostic code and add notes saying that I'm healthy and no further treatment is required 2) Have my husband fill out a form that acknowledges that I refused to enroll for mental illness and I refuse to release my medical records (which is not true, and the Womack EFMP office even spoke to my therapist on the phone). Does anyone know which diagnostic code is considered the least serious by EFMP offices? Does anyone know who handles EFMP for Torii station? Because of how EFMP tracks mental health, my "history of mental illness" will count against us for a minimum of five years and be visible in the system for seven.
Here are the arguments I made against enrollment, which failed to convince EFMP (but got command on our side – which was appreciated):
2) I was told that if I really wasn’t mentally ill, my therapist could have used a V Code like Grief Counseling or Stress Management, rather than Adjustment Disorder. This is factually accurate, but has no relevance for the military population. Tricare requires a diagnosis for reimbursement, and Adjustment Disorder is the least “serious” diagnosis accepted by Tricare. Grief Counseling (I have had two loved ones die in the last 9 months) or Stress Management (2020!) may have been more accurate, but Tricare would have refused payment. Adjustment Disorder is not listed anywhere in Womack’s EFMP handouts – for good reason. Because of the realities of Tricare billing, Womack EFMP should not automatically equate Adjustment Disorder with mental illness.
3) Grief or stress response is not considered an Adjustment Disorder until after the source of the stress has passed. I have been personally impacted - and the people I care about have been imperiled - by the pandemic, recession, civil unrest, and natural disasters (i.e. my brother’s house burned down in the forest fires, my major client lost their Boeing funding). In 2020, rigidly espousing the idea that six months of talk therapy equals mental illness is out of step with reality. In contrast, Tricare Select has waived all deductibles for online counseling and is encouraging everyone to get extra support.