Is there help when the Veteran is the care giver for his wife?

Yes there is. Contact your Veterans Primary Care Doctor at the VA Medical Center to connect with them. Based on the severity of his condition there are hours of home care they can sponsor and respite care for personal time away for the care giver to get refreshed. My thoughts and prayers are with you. It is harder on the care giver then the Veteran as the Veterans health deteriorates.

PFC William Murphree thanks for the share.