How can I verify if someone actually served in the military or if they are practicing stolen valor?

Unless they're a very educated liar, ask simple questions that only a Veteran would know. Ask about their deployments or duty stations. Purposely speak about a false situation/location and wait for agreement or correction.

One point is that there are other things that can be provided instead of DD214/discharge papers. The VA can provide letters with veteran status, percent disabled, and other info; they can also provide a ID card verifying that the holder is indeed a veteran. Also, I have heard that veterans can file a copy of their DD214 at the county courthouse. I don't know how to do this, nor if the county would provide a letter verifying veteran status.

I would be careful anymore about filing a copy at the county office a person resides in. That makes the DD214 and ALL the veteran's personal information Public Information.

I agree. A person SayinG they're a veteran is one thing - asking for a veteran or military discount at a retailer... that's another story. Anymore, many stores & restaurants are asking for a document stating the individual is a veteran. And of course, to obtain employment preference as a veteran of the military, employers Do know to ask for a DD 214.

OR STAY IN YOUR LANE....I BET THIS PERSON WHO POSTED THIS QUESTION ABOVE NEVER GETS SLEEP. THE MILITARY IS NOT YOUR LIFE OR FOREVER...

SFC William Stephens A. Jr., 3 MSM, JSCM - Even if you feel like you are, even after leaving active service, let it go. If you are on active duty, let it go. It just isn't worth your time. However, as one person was saying, it causes harm . . .
We had a group of "panhandlers" who were slowing traffic down. The local TV news covered their story and one guy who was wearing a BDU shirt said that VA would not help. I emailed the TV station and told them what had to be done to get VA help at the local clinic. They went back and told the panhandlers and offered to carry them down the street. Turned out they were all lying. Funny how they all disappeared and have never returned.

Yep! There are TON of services offered to true veterans anymore. Back in the 70's & 80's, and somewhat in the 90's I don't know that a "military discount" was available anywhere. Those of us who served during Vietnam... well how do you believe We were treated. A soldier did not have to had been IN Vietnam to be treated as if they were by the general public who had strong opinions of the US being there.

Give us the deeets!!!!