SPC Private RallyPoint Member 5712467 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div> I’m a male soldier and am engaged with a child coming soon. Will I still receive BAH for that child without being married yet? 2020-03-28T16:01:33-04:00 SPC Private RallyPoint Member 5712467 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div> I’m a male soldier and am engaged with a child coming soon. Will I still receive BAH for that child without being married yet? 2020-03-28T16:01:33-04:00 2020-03-28T16:01:33-04:00 SSG Private RallyPoint Member 5712491 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>As long as the child is enrolled in DEERS, yes Response by SSG Private RallyPoint Member made Mar 28 at 2020 4:07 PM 2020-03-28T16:07:02-04:00 2020-03-28T16:07:02-04:00 MAJ Byron Oyler 5712536 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Depends who custody. Sounds like things are good with Mom, so likely you will. If you are engaged and she is pregnant, why are you holding off the wedding? If you already have plans to marry, do it, and get her the DOD your spouse would deserve. Response by MAJ Byron Oyler made Mar 28 at 2020 4:14 PM 2020-03-28T16:14:19-04:00 2020-03-28T16:14:19-04:00 SSG Brian G. 5717908 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>As long as the child is listed as your dependent? Yes, even if you cannot claim him or her on your taxes. Is you provide any kind of support for that child, including court ordered child support, yes you qualify for BAH. Just make sure that you have the child enrolled in DEERS. Response by SSG Brian G. made Mar 30 at 2020 12:07 AM 2020-03-30T00:07:05-04:00 2020-03-30T00:07:05-04:00 SGT Eric Davis 5719048 <div class="images-v2-count-0"></div>Why not just get married and have a wedding later that way she can be receiving the benefits and you can be getting the extra money now!! Response by SGT Eric Davis made Mar 30 at 2020 9:59 AM 2020-03-30T09:59:20-04:00 2020-03-30T09:59:20-04:00 2020-03-28T16:01:33-04:00