Fraternization
Fraternization
Posted on Mar 30, 2024
Can someone currently in the Army get information on a soldier who has been out for a little over a year?
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A female CPT keeps calling my husband to talk. She said she wants to hang out and drink with us but hasn’t made any effort to be my friend. Shes also currently having a sexual relationship with a E6 who’s been in a relationship for over 4 years. Shes constantly calling him to the point where we were arguing. After arguing he blocked her number because he doesn’t want to get a divorce because of her. Well a few weeks after blocking her number she shows up on our door step to “surprise” us because she was “in the area.” She drills 45 mins away from where we live. I told her she wants welcome and I didn’t know how she got our address. She made an excuse and said she got it from one of the 4th of July parties (we’ve never had a 4th of July party at our house). I was wondering if it was possible for her to get it by looking me or my husband’s information up or get it from S1. My husband has been out for a little over a year and I’ve been out for 2. Also is there anything I can do about this?
S1 Personnel NCO
Officers
Fraternization
Relationships
Posted 30 d ago
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SSG (Join to see) While anything is possible, the more likely solution is, the offending person just searched your name or number.
In 30 seconds I found your address, husband's name, social media user names, 8 phone numbers, relatives, neighbors, 11 email addresses and more. Same kind of info for your Husband.
Contact the Servicemembers unit commander, and suggest they can deal with the issue, or the next senior commander and the State Guard IG can. Include in the written letter of concern the names and contact info for both of the senior folks.
Send it registered mail, and request a written response from the unit commander. Give a reasonable timeline for the commander to look into the issue and respond. Be polite and professional, remember, the commander is not currently the issue.
In 30 seconds I found your address, husband's name, social media user names, 8 phone numbers, relatives, neighbors, 11 email addresses and more. Same kind of info for your Husband.
Contact the Servicemembers unit commander, and suggest they can deal with the issue, or the next senior commander and the State Guard IG can. Include in the written letter of concern the names and contact info for both of the senior folks.
Send it registered mail, and request a written response from the unit commander. Give a reasonable timeline for the commander to look into the issue and respond. Be polite and professional, remember, the commander is not currently the issue.
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SSG Carlos Madden
This is true. If you know more than 2 pieces of information about someone, you can basically find anything with Google and a few minutes of time.
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There are numerous databases that any individual can access that with a name, they will provide addresses, phone numbers, Email accounts, etc... One of them is White Pages. If they want to go further, most counties have searchable databases of property owners. If they know the county you live in, they can just do a search for your name in the property index.
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You could stomp a mud hole in her ass; my wife would, and in an efficient, orderly military fashion.
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