Dealing with a wife that doesn't understand PTSD. Any others with marriage problems?

I had the same mindset initially (me having to deal with the wife that didn't understand)....some of that misunderstanding belonged to me. I know I have changed after every deployment.

My wife and I had some issues when I came home. On occasion we still do. But we find a way to sit down and talk it out before it gets blown out of control.

You two need family counseling as well as solo counseling for her.