Posted on Aug 7, 2014
SGT Richard H.
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Since I have been out, there have been many conversations where I am reminded of a story about something I saw or did when I was in the Military, but stopped short of telling it because when I think about it, it's just so surreal sounding that I figure nobody will believe it. Has this happened to you?
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COL Randall C.
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SGT Richard H., happens to me occasionally, but what I find myself frequently doing is trying to explain the background of the story so they could comprehend (last time I looked at the stats, less that 1 in 8 of all Americans have had any military service).

Nothing worse then having to explain the 'why' behind what you are saying.
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SGT Richard H.
SGT Richard H.
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COL Randall C. I completely agree...just like when you have to explain your joke. By the time they get it, it's too late.
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MSG Brad Sand
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That is why we only tell the stories to other Vets...
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SFC Scott Carroll
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SGT Richard Hanner, There are plenty of stories I used to tell but most people look at me like why the heck would anyone do that? Why would you luagh at someone falling on their butt while jumping out a window when y'all were in a fight? I say because it was funny. And they just look at me like I am a idiot.

There is a program, I forget the name of it now, but they have people that will sit with you one on one and never say a word, they just hear you out no judgment, no note taking. Don't know if it works or not. If I feel like I need to talk about it, I go to the VFW get a drink and talk to the last few WWII vets and the Vietnam vets.
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SGT Richard H.
SGT Richard H.
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Yes! That's exactly what I'm talking about! The kind of shit where current of prior service folks would laugh until their sides hurt....but a life-long civilian just looks at you like "huh?"
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SFC Scott Carroll
SFC Scott Carroll
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Sometimes I like to find another vet and tell these stories when civilians are around so we can look at them like what you don't know?
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