Posted on Nov 14, 2013
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Many have argued that "bad things happen" in the military environment. For example, I recently read and opinion that stated when men and women are together in stressful combat environments it is almost inevitable for them to fraternize (whether they are allowed to by regulation or not). What it sounds like to me is that we're allowing circumstances under which lapses and breeches of good order and discipline are OK and even expected. This makes me wonder. How do leaders shape the "military environment?" What role does popular culture play? What role does the military culture play and where does the military culture come from? Are we just victims of circumstances or can we actually steer the ship so to speak?
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This is a broad question, but the short answer is:

1. Lead by example

2. Take and provide  mentoring from seniors, peers and subordinates. There is a lot of good and bad advice out there, with time you lean to keep the good and get rid of the bad.

3. A wise General once told me that to be a successful Leader, one must have a well grounded and balanced tripod (1. God 2. Family 3. Country).  If one is missing love or fulfillment from one area you will seek love and fulfillment from other possible negative places.  Best advice a got.


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Good clear and concise answer.  We lead by example ... and must make sure we're setting the right example!  If you follow the other two recommendations by CPT Montanez, your chances of setting the right example will improve.
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Sir, what if the Soldier doesn't have a relationship with God, doesn't have a family support system, and doesn't feel about his or her country the way we think he or she should. What if the military is "just another job" to them?
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So I recognize and appreciate a couple of key points here. First, all of the respondents are senior personnel. That's great in that there is a lot of wisdom and experience talking here. The bias, though, is that we were at least all influenced by the same kinds of values and beliefs. The difference I see is that Joe doesn't feel the same way. He doesn't think of right vs wrong or appropriate vs inappropriate the same way. We probably don't feel like the standard changes just because we take the uniform off, for example. Joe often does. So, how do we help our Soldiers (Sailors, Airmen, Marines, and Coastguardsmen) come to that reality?
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are you suggesting that we modify our expectations based on the current trends of the younger generations?  We likely didn't have the same values and beliefs when we were new to the service as we do now.  Our leaders molded us into the people we are today and that's part of our role with our junior servicemen and women.  If they have a different understanding of right and wrong or what is appropriate behavior then we can coach and mentor them to be in line with the values of our military.
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SFC Tyler, you make an excellent point about our (senior leaders) perspective, and clearly what are generational differences in culture. Those realities confront each generation as society evolves, and we are not exempt. The solution may lie in our capacity to determine what are the significant issues for which nothing less than strict adherence is required and what are those things which are not our preference, but do not impact unit performance.   

 

My observation about recent additions to our work force is the lack of a sound and firmly fixed set of personal core values. This absences translates directly to breaches in behavioral standards, and is frequently the root of our most significant problems.    

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(heavy fingers on the keyboard) If we live the example that we should, and work to establish positive relationships with our junior people, I think that gives us a solid place from which to begin transforming the workforce. There is a very pronounced "what's in it for me" attitude in the workforce today, and as mentors we must use that to our advantage to demonstrate that adherence to organizational standards and core values coupled with hard work does actually benefit the service member by increasing opportunities for personal success.

 

We must also recognize that we may be required to sort the wheat from the chaff. As a newly minted chief, I had a supervisor tell me, "There are times when you will need to identify those people you can save from those you can't. Spend your time with those who going places and realize that there's nothing you can do those people who aren't." In the coming times of fiscal austerity, sorting the wheat from the chaff is going to be a necessity. We can't afford to have members who don't have that military mindset 24/7.

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An excellent question for us all to consider, SFC Tyler.  There are two pieces to this issue, I think: 1) those things we can control and 2) those that are beyond our control.

As for (1) we owe it to ourselves, our organizations, and our military in general to enforce the standards and behave as the professionals we are.  If we all do this we'll have less of the "bad things" you allude to.  If we are willing to hold our buddies accountable, face them when they've screwed up, and accept their feedback when we have, then we'll have less of the "bad things."  We can care about our subordinates without being their buddy.  We can develop their trust without going out drinking with them.

As for (2) if we all do as my 1SG regularly reminded me and "focus on our bubble - make our bubble as good as possible" then this one will begin to take care of itself.

As leaders in the best military on the planet, we are absolutely not victims of circumstance.  We are as good as we are because of strong, competent, and dedicated leaders of days gone by.  We will stay that good if we do the same.
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