Posted on Nov 19, 2013
SGT Nathaniel Hiller
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to joining the American Legion and the VFW, which I did. What I did not expect
to find is how closed minded and out of touch these organizations are with this
current generation of soldiers. I would like to know if others feel the same
way and how they might suggest a way for these Organizations to 'get in
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SSG V. Michelle Woods
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If we want the VFW and American Legion to adapt to the times, we have to get more involved and actually help the older generations of veterans with things like fundraising, organizing parades, deployment care packages etc.<div><br><div>FYI, these groups also fight, FIERCELY, for our benefits and well-being.&nbsp;</div></div>
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SPC John Vaudo
SPC John Vaudo
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SSG Jeffrey Spencer - keep bringing them up but bring a plausible solution as well
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CPL Richard Flagg
CPL Richard Flagg
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I have to agree with SSG V that probably the greatest obstacle in Veterans Organizations is participation of the members. I have been a 20 year member of the American Legion, and Life Member of both the DAV and VFW. Over the years I have witnessed fund raising only being contacted by a select few members.

Now I realize that perhaps scheduling, physical limitations can affect members wanting to actually help these organizations. At my old VFW Post only 2 or 3 of us could be counted to man the Raffle Booths and or Recruiting Table. This was really a sad testament about the membership on a whole; sure only some of us could be relied upon.

I wish I could offer a magic bullet to end this problem; but as a former Post Adjutant, Post Commander, and at my current VFW Post former Junior Vice-Commander I see the problem lies in the culture of the Posts. I'm not promoting the offering bribes and such; just making the working at events something that is recognized for for the benefit and helping of the Posts.

Come on my brothers and sisters we volunteered to serve this great nation before; what's the big deal helping our Veterans Organization Posts out.
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COL John McClellan
COL John McClellan
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Here, here!! Thanks for your post!
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Sgt Vance Bonds
Sgt Vance Bonds
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Exactly!!!
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SSG V. Michelle Woods
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My experiences with the VFW have been very positive. I assumed I would have the worst backlash because, well lets face it, Im a girl and many older veterans aren't comfortable with that. Or so I thought. I've been to three VFWs, two in Missouri and one in Kansas. It was shocking and humbling that these decorated WWII, Korea, Vietnam and Desert Storm vets were honored to have ME as their guest.&nbsp;
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PO1 Disaster Survivor Assistance Specialist
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SSG Jeffrey Spencer I'm assuming you filed for VA compensation in the past. While I'm not an expert, I can honestly tell you that if you have an issue that is service related, it's on you to prove the issue many times. If you would like to revisit the issue, I'll be glad to offer help and/or support.

As for BSA - been a supporter for decades. Earned my Eagle, member of the Tatanka Lodge/Order of the Arrow. Welcome.
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SSG Jeffrey Spencer
SSG Jeffrey Spencer
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I have a C&P rating of 10%. I severely deteriorated my knees running in the Army and they rejected that. I have appealed and am waiting on a hearing for 3 years since I wrote my final appeal. I supported this with statements from 2 doctors, one a retired military ortho doc. There's just been no action at all.

My other is with the GI Bill. I enlisted to gain college benefits. I gave 8 years and they barely gave me 2 for college before Congress let the law sunset with no provision for extensions. I feel totally screwed on that one.
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LCDR Judge Advocate General's Corps Officer
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I recently affiliated with the VFW in my hometown, and like you, got a refreshingly warm welcome reception at my joining. (I'm my Post's first female!) If we want them to enter the 21st-century, then we as OIF/OEF vets have the responsibility to not only join, but be ACTIVE participants and become the change that we want to see in the organization.
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SFC Quinn Chastant
SFC Quinn Chastant
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Ladies, in many instances, you bring valuable input to the VFWs and AL Posts. Female membership really didn't begin until the establishment of the All Volunteer Force after Vietnam and even then, there was pushback from the older population of the time. Most VFW and AL Posts have younger members that know what changes occurred to allow Women to Serve in the same capacity as men. And we are more aware of the struggle women service members face. But unless you step forward and be assertive, chances are rather good still you may not get full recognition for what you bring to the table. But you and your services are valued Please encourage your sisters in service to consider looking into the Veterans organizations, be it the DAV, SVA, IAVA, VVA as well as the VFW and AL.
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SFC Motor Transport Operator
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Yeah I noticed that too. I think we need to place some recent Vets in charge of those posts and they need to get with the program.
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MSgt Joseph Haynes
MSgt Joseph Haynes
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MSG Patricia B, I retired from ADAF in Apr 2012 and relocated from NW Florida to Central PA.  What benefit do I have (non financial) of joining the VFW or Legion etc...?

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PO1 Disaster Survivor Assistance Specialist
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Wow.... MSgt Joseph Haynes excellent question! Why should one join anything? I asked the same question. If you're eligible, then do some looking around, talk to people in the organzation(s) - not just the lumps sitting at the bar.

For instance - the VFW is specifically enjoined to help our veterans, both AD and those who have served. Yes, there are VFW's out there that are outdated - nothing more than bars. But that fact does NOT have to be the end-all. If you find you and men/women like yourself in an area with a Service Organization (that's technically what VFW/DAV/etc are) has become nothing more than a bar and a bunch of old, tired, do-nothings, may I suggest you gather a bunch of individuals like youself, join said organization and run the show. Adjust, Adapt, Overcome. Many of these individuals in the organization are exhausted - to say nothing of being old (average age in my VFW is 74).

What do you gain from joining? Being among individuals like yourself that have "been there, done that" for one. Can't tell you how tired I get trying to explain the unexplainable to an ignorant public. Then there's the old saw of giving back to one's community. Reminding those who do NOT know the facts of service to one's country of the price paid on their behalf. Keeping faith with those who have served - for instance; at each meeting of the VFW there is a question: "Is there a comrade or the family of a comrade who is in distress?" This question is asked 3 times to allow anyone who is in need to speak up and ask for help. It also allows a member to inform the group of a veteran or an active duty servicemember who has unmet needs in the community. Sometimes it's a simple thing like helping the wife of an active duty SM overseas with several children get to and from a doctor's appointment while their only car is being repaired. Or driving a homeless veteran to a VA Clinic for help or health care. Or getting trained in order to become a Service Officer so you can legally and legitimately help a veteran, like yourself, manage a claim with the morass called the Veterans Administration. The list is entirely too long for me to go into in this forum.

Personally, it doesn't matter what organization you join - if you don't like what you see move on, find one that meets your needs. Better yet, use those skills you learned and earned in service to our country and be a leader and catalyst of change.

We have a huge challenge coming quicker than anyone is ready for. Hundreds of thousands may be looking for a place to sit and chat and get help or help others.......our Veteran Service Organizations are the best answer.
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TSgt Scott Hurley
TSgt Scott Hurley
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SFC (Join to see) You are right. And some of them are not put up for those positions for like a few years because of the old guard not wanting to change. It will take some time but I am sure the more young pups get put into positions, then the times will start changing. Oh, by the way, since your from CT, like myself, do you know what the Cromwell post commander did? I heard he made the post non smoking and thier membership jumped along with members actually coming to the post for functions and the like. He even added a few things to the post too. Now I have not been there, but if it worked for them, it can work anywhere.
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Lt Col Deh3407 .
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PO1 (Join to see) - PO1.....Welcome to the new generation. I really enjoyed reading your words. They are right on target! So many of our younger generation these days ask the same thing: What benefit do I get from joining organizations like the VFW, American Legion, Disabled American Veterans? What's in it for ME?....instead of: What can I do for you? I am 59 years old, from the older generations that believe in these long standing institutions and military organization....that's why I joined....to be a part of and in the lives of our own kind.....veterans....and to help one another....helping our veterans anyway I can. Like President Kennedy stated: Ask NOT what your Country can do for YOU.....Ask....What YOU can do for your Country. No wonder these institutions are declining in attendance. We live in a "Gimmie...Gimmie" generation. What's in it for ME.
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