Posted on Jul 20, 2023
SFC Senior Human Resources Nco (S1)
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Can a Soldier with an approved retirement order decline a retirement ceremony? Say, for instance, a Soldier who has no derogatory information in their OMPF and is not being separated for legal reasons, Soldier doesn't like the unit or command, they just don't want a ceremony.
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1SG Russell S.
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Yes you can. It is your day. Public, private or none. I have known of two that just told higher to “mail my awards to me; I’m outta here”.
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SGM Bill Frazer
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Its possible, but if the unit orders it you will have to attend.
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Not really
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SFC Casey O'Mally
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Can you decline? Absolutely.

Can the unit order you to attend anyway? Yes, yes they can. As long as you are still in, they can designate retirement ceremony as your appointed place of duty for that period of time.

Which is exactly what happened to me. They tried ordering me to have my wife there, too. She, unfortunately, had a "scheduling conflict" with her civilian employer.
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SCPO Yeoman
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How freakin' sad that a command would not honor a retiree's request regarding having a retirement ceremony or not.
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SFC Casey O'Mally
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SCPO (Join to see) I agree. But I was just a lowly SFC. Those high and mighty CSMs must have had their reasons. And who am I to question the almighty CSM?
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